KCC_KC Magazine February 2026

Deserves Expert Planning

Planning a honeymoon should feel exciting — not overwhelming. With endless destinations, resorts, and opinions online, many couples aren’t sure where to begin. That’s where we come in.

At Geneva Travel & Cruise, we specialize in designing deluxe and luxury honeymoons tailored to you. Whether you already have a destination in mind or need guidance in discovering the perfect fit, our experienced advisors simplify the process and handle every detail with care.

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Time-saving planning so you can focus on your wedding, not logistics

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A trusted advocate before and during your trip if plans change or issues arise

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From the moment you begin dreaming to the day you return home, we’re by your side, ensuring your honeymoon unfolds exactly as planned.

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Let’s talk about your vision — even if you’re not sure where you want to go yet. When it’s time to celebrate your first milestone, or an anniversary, we’ll be there to help you discover the destination that feels just right and create a seamless, unforgettable trip.

Editorʼs NOTE

Here at Kane County Magazine, we celebrate love and romance in the month of February!

From the little moments that mean everything, to grand gestures and occasions to remember, this month is the perfect time to settle in with that special someone.

As you read on, you’ll find love expressed in many forms throughout Kane County. Whether it’s in the opportunity to make something unique for your loved one (page 26) or you are planning a wedding at a gorgeous and unforgettable venue (pages 10 & 14), love abounds in a variety of ways.

Are you perfecting your look for a big date? Look to local experts like One Salon & Bridal Co. (page 13) or the multitude of shops and boutiques around town who can help polish your outfit and accessories (page 18). Looking for a gift that will shine beyond their wildest imaginings? We’ve got you covered with even more options – and chocolatiers! –on page 18 as well.

Maybe love looks less “new” to you and more like enduring adoration for the legacy you've already created? Invest more in the ones you support, like your pets (page 24 and page 32) or plan for retirement with your partner (page 42).

And of course, where would the month of romance be without plenty of exciting activities to enjoy? Check out page 22 for Valentine’s Day-themed festivities, or plan for a night in with some breathtaking entertainment (page 36).

It is also important to note that February is Black History Month, a time where we take the opportunity to learn more about the under-represented, deeply profound, rich culture and history of African Americans in the United States. Look to local libraries for a variety of celebrations and programs, and take the opportunity to support and educate yourself more about our beloved fellow Americans.

As always, thank you for reading, and we’ll see you next month for our Homes issue of Kane County Magazine!

Kelley White, Editor

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Let love in and make it last with the help from a local institution. Find out more on page 14!

by Nancy Shares for The Herrington In & Spa

Next month: Refresh your home as spring arrives! The March issue of Kane County Magazine highlights home improvement.

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CORRESPONDENTS

Yanira Garcia Andel, Jonathan Bilyk, Erika Combs, Vicki Martinka Petersen, Melissa Rubalcaba Riske, Grace Rosati, Diane Krieger Spivak, and Chris Walker

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INSIDE

LOVE & WEDDINGS

7 5 DATE NIGHT TO REMEMBER

Plan to replace dinner and a movie with these fun alternatives

10 HOTEL BAKER

Inside the romance of a local legend

12 BACK TO THE BASICS

Megan Wessel builds connections the old-fashioned way

13 BEYOND BEAUTY

One Salon & Bridal Co. makes brides feel like family

14 FOREVER MEMORIES

Let love blossom at the Herrington Inn & Spa

16 A MODERN LOVE STORY

Dating in the age of AI

17 A SIGNATURE EXPERIENCE

Inluro invites you to immerse yourself in scent creation

18 THE ENGINEERS OF ROMANCE

Count on local shops, boutiques and more to make your love shine

22 VALENTINE’S DAY

Check out these events and activities to help celebrate with your special someone

24 PUPPY LOVE

Discover emotional fulfillment and open your heart to animals

FAMILY & LIFESTYLE

26 CRAFTED FROM THE HEART

Express yourself with a personal touch

28 LOVE, STARTING WITH YOUR BEAUTY ROUTINE

Yanira Andel advocates the benefits of authenticity in self-care

30 FITNESS THAT FITS

Stay active at any age with the St. Charles Park District

32 LOVE & DENTAL CARE

Dr. Aaron M. Jackson highlights the importance of oral exams for your pets

34 GROWING UP & GROWING OLDER

Suburban Superdad takes on nostalgia ENTERTAINMENT

36 PLOTS & KISSES

Romance on the screen and page

38 ARTIST OF THE MONTH

Kayla Coulter captures her vision with detail and grace

40 GRAB A BOOKMARK

Check out these titles in the month of February

41 CALENDAR OF EVENTS

Don’t miss these fun festivities and outings

BUSINESS & CIVIC

42 PREPARING FOR RETIREMENT

My Advisor & Planner features important savings changes for those 50+

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If dinner and a movie feel a little too predictable, there are plenty of options close to home to shake up your date night routine. From game nights and roller derby to a speakeasystyle restaurant and a show, here are fresh ways to make your next date night unique and fun.

DATE 1

Go gaming

If you’re looking for a place to be entertained while waiting for your meal, then check out Rec Haus. This latest addition to the downtown St. Charles entertainment scene features 8,500-square-feet of date night fun.

“Rec Haus was designed to be an elevated date-night experience — a place where great food, thoughtfully crafted cocktails and a refined atmosphere come together with just the right amount of play,” says owner Erik Gilly.

When you arrive, order an appetizer to share or choose from their handheld sandwiches and flatbread selections. While waiting for your food, sip on one of the signature cocktails or try a local craft beer while strolling through the gaming floor.

Date Night Ideas

to replace dinner & a movie

Challenge your date to a friendly game of bocce, shuffleboard, pool, darts, skeeball or basketball. Rec Haus also offers classic games like pinball, checkers and arcade games.

End your date night with Rec Haus’ free weekly events including trivia nights and bingo bonanzas. Visit www.rec-haus.com for the latest schedule of weekly events.

DATE 2

Take in a show

There are plenty of venues to catch a show close to home, including The Venue in downtown Aurora. This intimate space is the setting for live performances from local and regional music groups playing blues, big band, rock and Americana music.

Upcoming shows at The Venue include Haiku Milieu on Feb. 7, Dan Navarro with special guest Jessica Willis Fisher on Feb. 13-14, and Great Moments in Vinyl goes Motown on Feb. 15. Visit www.themusicvenue.org for more details.

Take a step back into the Vaudeville-era inside The Arcada Theatre in St. Charles. This premier live music spot also includes Club Arcada, a

speakeasy-style restaurant where the spirit of the Roaring 20s lives on. Enjoy one of the exquisite entrees paired with a handcrafted cocktail while taking in a show.

“Both The Arcada Theatre and Club Arcada speakeasy are cozy, intimate and classic venues – perfect for that memorable 1920s experience,” says Ron Onesti, president & CEO of Onesti Entertainment, which operates the theater.

Visit www.arcadalive.com for upcoming events and other dining options at the Arcada.

DATE 3

Tour a local museum

Art and motorcycle enthusiasts alike will find something to enjoy at the St. Charles Motorcycle Museum & Art Gallery. The museum features restored vintage motorcycles and celebrates the history of motorcycles. It’s also home to a curated selection of artwork of rotating exhibitions, showcasing local and national artists with a focus on the artistry surrounding motorcycles. From paintings to sculptures, each piece tells a story and adds to the vibrant atmosphere of the museum.

After touring the museum, stop by the bar for a glass of house-branded wine or a beer. In addition, the museum often hosts live music performances, artist showcases and cultural exhibitions. Visit www.stcmotorcyclemuseum. org to learn more.

DATE 4

Check out a roller derby

For a retro date night, stop by the Aurora Skate Center and cheer on the Aurora 88s. If you’re not familiar with this sport, roller derby is a fastpaced, full-contact roller skating sport played on quad roller skates along an oval track. Two teams of five skaters score points by having their designated scorer lap opposing blockers. “What’s nice about roller derby is the environment is fun and entertaining but not overwhelmingly loud so you can still have a conversation with your date,” says Bridget Colado, Aurora 88s volunteer.

Make a date during an upcoming spectator event on Saturday, March 21, and Saturday, April 4. Visit www.aurora88s.com for the complete schedule.

DATE 5

Get creative

Learn how to create your own charcuterie board during a workshop at Chi-cuterie in Geneva. Choose from a selection of local cheeses, meats and accoutrements as well as perfect pairing selections for wine, cocktails and beer. They even offer tips on how to take Instagram-worthy pics of your creations. Check out the schedule for upcoming workshops at www.chi-cuterie.com.

For a fun group date, book a party at Magnolia Soap and Bath Co. in St. Charles. By appointment only, attendees can make their own soap, candles, bath bombs or shower steamer. Elevate the outing by bringing your charcuterie board and wine. To book a private event, visit www. mymagnoliasoap.com/stcharles.

If you’re looking for something different to do on a night in, pick up a Date Night Blend DIY candle-making kit from Inluro in Geneva. With the kit, you can create your own signature scent with blends of champagne, coconut, oatmilk and honey to create your own romantic candle for dinners at home. Visit www.inluro.com to get your kit.

Inside the romance of HOTEL BAKER

By Melissa Rubalcaba Riske | Photos by Shane Cleminson and Rachael Watson Photography

rom proposals in the rose garden to waltzing across the lights on the dance floor in the Rainbow Ballroom, for more than 90 years couples have chosen the charm and romance of the Hotel Baker in downtown St. Charles as their wedding destination, returning for anniversaries and special occasions.

FIt’s that same charm that captured the heart of local businessman Joe Salas when he and his wife joined friends inside the hotel’s lounge for a post-dinner drink in 2001. It was love at first visit, said his wife, Rowena Salas.

It’s been more than 20 years since Rowena and Joe Salas said “I do” to ownership of the historic hotel. What may have started as a love for the historic location, and an investment opportunity has become a story of their love for the hotel’s history.

“We have so much passion for it,” said Rowena Salas, general manager for Hotel Baker.

Weekends are spent welcoming wedding couples and their guests to the historic hotel, where they become part of the hotel’s story. The Hotel Baker was built in 1928, a vision of Col. Edward J. Baker. The hotel was designed with Spanish Moroccan architecture and innovative features for its time, including its own hydroelectric facility and a parking garage. It also included a dance floor illuminated by more than 2,700 colored lights in a circular ballroom.

Maintaining an aging building isn’t easy, and there is never a shortage of items on the to-do list, said Rowena Salas. She never imagined she’d be at the helm of a historic hotel. Born in the Philippines, her family migrated to the United States when she was a girl for access to a better education. She earned her bachelor’s degree from North Central College in Naperville and her nursing degree from Rush University. In the later years of her nursing career, she worked in human resources and marketing. These skills would all prove helpful when her husband invited her to step into the management role at Hotel Baker.

“I can do just about everything, but I don’t cook,” she added. “We have an excellent culinary team.”

The hotel has long been a destination for weddings. The Waterfront Patio accommodates about 80 guests, and the Rainbow Ballroom accommodates 180 guests. The rooms each open to the outside, creating more space for guests to mingle. There is also a Boathouse, which is often used for on-site wedding ceremonies. During the week, the hotel hosts on-site meetings and company events. With its location in the heart of downtown St. Charles, guests can easily enjoy shopping, dining and nearby parks. The hotel staff has crafted partnerships for guests who want to add special touches to their visit, including group cycling outings along the trails, visits to local breweries or a cruise on the Fox River aboard the St. Charles Park District’s paddlewheel riverboats.

"My focus right now is customer service and customer experience,” Rowena Salas said. “We want customers to have an unforgettable, memorable visit and return in the near future.”

Caring for staff is equally important, and Rowena said she is honored to have many longtime employees at the hotel, several who started in 2003.

“Our staff is family,” she added.

Hotel Baker was once considered a resort-like escape and earned the nickname the “Honeymoon Hotel,” both as a wedding destination and for the many couples who chose the hotel for their honeymoon getaway. Salas said she loves it when guests stop in to visit, sharing stories of how the hotel is part of their own history and taking photos on the property.

“Having an opportunity to engage with the guests is truly enjoyable,” Rowena Salas said.

The Salases also have a vision to connect guests to another favorite destination off the coast of Florida.

In 2025, the Salases were part of a group purchase of a second historic property, the Collier Inn, located on Useppa Island off Florida’s Intracoastal Waterway. Rowena Salas said the 100-acre island has been their second home for 30 years. She and Joe hope to create opportunities for Hotel Baker guests and wedding couples to experience a stay on the island, accessible only by boat or seaplane.

BACK to the

BASICS

Megan Wessels' Throwback Dating helps adults build connections face-to-face instead of through a screen

By Melissa Rubalcaba Riske

Photos provided by Megan Wessels

For those who have uttered the wish for a return to the dating scene in simpler times — before everyone had a cellphone, social media pages and relied on maps to navigate directions — one local woman has crafted a solution: Throwback Dating.

Meeting fellow singles in person in an easygoing atmosphere is at the core of Throwback Dating, created by Megan Wessels, from the Chicago suburbs, who designed a dating community for those age 45 and older.

Wessels isn’t a matchmaker. She’s someone who saw an opportunity to create something to help others. Drawing on years of experience as a corporate event planner, she has honed her talents into a business venture that makes dating fun once again.

“I created a way for people who can come together,” Wessels said.

The Throwback Dating community includes professional adults, including those who have grown children or no children. The focus is on finding meaningful connections, companionship and, if it blossoms, love, too.

“Dating over 50 is a unique demographic and they have very different needs then when they were in their 20s and 30s,” Wessels said. “They may not necessarily be in the market to get married. They aren’t looking to have kids. They are taking their time.”

Launched in October 2024, Wessels saw the need for providing a dating alternative to apps. She spent the first year planning events and fine-tuning the vision for Throwback Dating, while responding to feedback from the community. Each member is vetted through an application process that Wessels and her team review to ensure applicants are a good fit based on age and interests.

“I’m very protective of the community and I want the right people in it,” Wessels said.

She crafts events and experiences that have included dining outings, activities designed for meeting and mingling, and in December, the group helped wrap presents for children. Her goal is to create upscale experiences.

“I don’t want this to be a Meetup group,” Wessels explained. “This is meant to be a unique experience.”

It’s also about creating opportunities for natural conversation, so it doesn’t feel like a middle school dance.

“We went to the Balloon Museum, and it was very interactive, so it was easy to mingle and talk and it doesn’t create a lot of pressure,” she said.

In creating a dating-centered business, Wessels sought to build something that countered dating apps and websites. She’s heard repeatedly that apps didn’t feel like a fit, connections felt forced and profiles often didn’t quite match the person.

Wessels said she’s excited to know there have been matches made within the community, including a couple in their 70s who began dating after meeting through the group. Others have shared how meaningful it is to connect with fellow single adults and build friendships as well.

While events are the main focus, Wessels said she hopes to expand programming in 2026 by bringing in experts to help shed light on how to build relationships.

“Sometimes people don’t know how to really open up,” Wessels said.

For the 2026 calendar, Wessels has a day trip in the works, along with an event aboard one of the community member’s yachts to watch fireworks on Lake Michigan. While locally based, Wessels also envisions expanding Throwback Dating into a national platform.

“I tell people that dating is such a great way to learn more about yourself,” Wessels said.

By Vicki Martinka Petersen

Beyond Beauty

When planning a wedding, there are many details for the happy couple to consider. At One Salon & Bridal Co. in St. Charles, bridal offerings go beyond helping brides select their hairstyle and makeup. The salon also provides a relaxing environment to help brides feel truly like themselves on their special day.

“Everyone says our salon feels like a very comfy and homey environment,” says founder Ami Christianson.

For more than 20 years, Christianson and her team have been driven to deliver exceptional beauty services. In 2008, when the salon industry experienced a downturn, Christianson added bridal services to the salon’s offerings. Since then, the salon has received numerous awards, including The Knot Best of Weddings Hall of Fame and Best of Zola 2024 and 2025.

Working with a dedicated bridal coordinator, the process includes a phone consultation and scheduling a bridal preview of hair and makeup for the big day.

“Open communication is key. The bridal preview is an opportunity to share with the makeup artist what you like and what you don’t like,” explains Christianson.

For a bridal preview, Christianson suggests wearing an outfit that’s the tone of your gown.

“It makes a difference with lighting and photos the day of the wedding, and helps set realistic expectations,” she adds.

Christianson also recommends coming to the bridal preview with a clean palate, including clean, dry hair and skin that’s been washed and moisturized.

“Above all else, relax and enjoy the process,” Christianson says.

Bridal sessions are booked one hour per service. If a bridal party needs one hour for hair and one hour for makeup, that formula is used to determine how many artists are needed per event. With more than 20 hair and makeup artists available, brides can rest assured the process will go smoothly on the wedding day.

“We’ve had other brides call us that their makeup artists didn’t show up and see if we can help. We have backup teams, so our clients don’t need to worry about accountability on our end,” says Christianson.

Most of the time, artists will go on-site to the wedding to work with brides and the bridal party, although clients can choose to visit the salon that day. One Salon & Bridal Co. covers locations throughout the Chicagoland area. The team also has helped with weddings in other states and will travel to Jamaica this year for a wedding.

In addition to bridal services, One Salon & Bridal Co. stays true to its roots as a full-service salon, offering haircuts, color, extensions, styling, waxing, scalp facials and spray tanning.

F.A.C.E. (Facts Action Compassion Empowerment)

Beauty Labs, which offers customized facials, airbrush makeup and private makeup classes, works with the salon. F.A.C.E. Beauty Labs also produces cosmetics, including its popular custom lip products and custom blend airbrush makeup for brides.

“The brides love they can make their own blended custom lip color,” says Christianson. “We’re passionate about clean, cruelty-free products.”

Brides looking for an award-winning bridal beauty team can visit www.onesalonandbridal.com.

Forever Memories

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Begin at the Herrington Inn & Spa

Signature drinks, floral designs and custom menus are just some of the special touches that Deanne Mitchell and her team provide for weddings and special events at The Herrington Inn & Spa in downtown Geneva. As director of catering, Mitchell works directly with couples as they plan their wedding from start to finish. She includes an overnight room, white glove parade style service and day-of coordination.

“It’s very magical here; it’s just a special place,” Mitchell said.

The relationships she builds with clients over the course of planning their event don’t end when the clock strikes midnight. Mitchell, who has been with The Herrington Inn & Spa for 25 years,

loves when clients return for their first anniversary and the years beyond.

“I love learning about the next chapter in their lives,” Mitchell said, adding that she has helped clients return to plan baby showers and anniversaries and in 2025 had the experience of planning a wedding for the second generation of a family.

With more than 35 years in event planning, Mitchell said each event is an opportunity to help clients bring their vision to life. She loves helping couples design a custom menu or signature drink to reflect their personalities. One couple served fresh-made doughnuts and hot chocolate, Mitchell said.

The Herrington Ballroom, with large windowed doors leading out to the Plaza Patio and the Fox River, accommodates

up to 170 guests. The Plaza is a perfect setting for cocktails, photos, a fire pit or live entertainment for dancing under the stars.

“I have an incredible team that ensures every detail is thoughtfully considered, they make me shine every weekend and our executive chef, Kevin Gillespie, works diligently so every plate is picture perfect," Mitchell said.

The care and attention to detail extend to all guests at The Herrington Inn & Spa, from those celebrating a girls’ weekend of shopping and spa treatments to couples enjoying a romantic getaway.

The Inn’s guestrooms offer a gas fireplace, four-poster bed, balcony or patio and a whirlpool tub, perfect for a luxury bath.

At the hotel’s day spa, guests will find a wide menu of services, including massages, facials and body treatments. Guests can also request the spa team draw a bath, with the bath basket offering an added touch of luxury.

Atwater’s offers an intimate fine-dining experience with panoramic views of the courtyard and the Fox River serving breakfast, lunch and dinner. The Private Gazebo offers river front dining for up to 8 people. Guests can enjoy craft cocktails in Atwater’s bar or a bottle of wine from their extensive list which won the Award of Excellence from Wine Spectator.

n The Herrington Inn & Spa 15 S. River Lane, Geneva 630-208-7433 www.herringtoninn.com

A Modern Dating in the age of AI

SINGLES CAN BREAK THE ICE

By Grace Rosati

TLove Story

he concept of “the matchmaker” has been around for centuries. But with the introduction of home internet in the early 1990s, a new idea emerged: What if we could write an algorithm that could scientifically find your perfect match?

As this idea took hold, apps like Tinder, Hinge and Bumble became a key part of modern dating. But with the recent introduction of AI, or artificial intelligence, how can we know what’s real?

To help answer that question, I sat down with Dr. David Roaché, an Aurora native who now works as an assistant professor at Christopher Newport University in Virginia. Through his studies in relationships and communication, Roaché is an expert in online dating. And with the emergence of AI, he says it’s become a whole new ballgame.

“From a relationship science perspective, there's been an explosion of research on AI in

the last year or two,” says Roaché. “We're still understanding the relational implications of artificial intelligence because it’s still early on.”

When trying to determine whether a message is AI-generated, Roaché recommends watching for overly polite language and odd grammar choices, such as the em dash — like this one. That said, AI does have its benefits. If you are using it to write a message, he suggests carefully editing its suggestion to add a more personal touch.

One of the many differences between online dating and meeting in person is how communication changes.

“When matching with someone online, you have infinite control over the messages you send. Because of this, we see people develop strong feelings very quickly,” explains Roaché. “The challenge is when you get to that first face-toface date, and some of those expectations go unmet, so this date is really important for the continuation of any romantic partnership.”

Online dating isn’t for everyone, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find your perfect match elsewhere. With social mixer companies like Break the Ice, singles can meet in person to see if there’s truly a spark. Owner Jay Kucera first launched the business after noticing a demand for in-person meetups on Facebook. Since then, he and his team have hosted a variety of events across the Chicagoland and Milwaukee areas, including Kane County’s Alley 64 in St. Charles.

At his events, Kucera emphasizes a fun, relaxed atmosphere and recommends coming in with no expectations.

“Most of the people I talk to are pretty tired of online dating,” says Kucera. “Our mixers are a great way to meet people because you can't fake chemistry, and it's very hard to tell that on the apps. So come, enjoy yourself, and meet new people, because you never know who you're going to run into.”

To attend one of Break the Ice’s upcoming events, visit its page on Eventbrite for more information. Finding your soulmate may sound daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Your match is out there, so don’t be afraid to take that leap.

211 W. State St. Geneva (630) 730-9302

www.inluro.com

A SIGNATURE EXPERIENCE

Getting married but trying to think outside the bachelorette party box?

Inluro can do that.

The candle and home fragrance store in Geneva offers a fun, hands-on setting where bridal party members can combine their choice of more than 100 scents to create custom options including candles, room sprays, lotions and more.

Scent consultants are on hand to help blend fragrance oils into a signature recipe. Inluro will keep recipes on file for wholesale orders or at an individual customer's request.

While Inluro also hosts bachelor parties, bridal showers and has even been the venue for a few proposals, gatherings don’t have to be nuptial-related. The shop is also a destination for birthday parties, baby showers and nearly any celebration imaginable.

“On a Saturday we could have a bachelorette party creating at the bar, and at the same time at the other side of the bar we could have a birthday party with a 10-year-old and all her friends,” says Susi Brucato, who co-owns Inluro with her husband, Rob.

“It’s for all ages. Families come in together; they really enjoy the process. They get to make something that’s theirs, both men and women,” says Rob.

The couple, who spent years working in banking and finance, opened their shop nearly eight years ago after tiring of corporate travel.

“We truly wanted it to be a unique experience, not just a retail candle store,” says Rob.

Customers can turn their signature scents into reed diffusers, wax melts, disinfectant spray, lotions, sugar scrubs, bath and body salts, hand soaps, shower gels, roll-on fragrances, car diffusers and diffuser bracelets.

“Those are all available in the shop,” says Rob. “You can come in off the street and go through the experience or call and make a reservation or make a reservation online on our website.”

Inluro also hosts group outings and events, and the shop is BYOB, allowing beer and wine. The business extends beyond retail, as Rob manages the wholesale side of operations.

Immerse in scent creation at Inluro

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“We work with a lot of businesses and local companies to create a signature scent for their brand,” he says. “We put their logo and branding on it. Scent is the strongest of the five senses, so it’s an impactful way for clients to remember.”

Inluro also works with large national accounts.

“Incorporating scent is a unique approach to marketing and branding,” adds Rob, who notes that Inluro also partners with organizations for fundraisers.

The Brucatos say they are grateful for how deeply connected they have become to the community through customers, fellow business owners and chambers of commerce.

“The in-store experience to me is extremely gratifying, just seeing people’s passion about the process, seeing them enjoy themselves and the opportunity for us to get to know people — interacting, talking to them, helping them,” says Rob.

Adds Susi, “Working with retailers and surrounding chambers we’ve gotten to know a lot of people who are good friends now.”

THE ENGINEERS OF

Romance

By

Martinka

When love is in the air, you can count on local boutiques, jewelers, chocolatiers and florists to help turn any moment into a memorable one. From standout outfits and custom rings to decadent sweets and show-stopping blooms, these local favorites have everything you need to celebrate in style.

BOUTIQUES

When getting ready for a date night or a special occasion, the first thing that often comes to mind is “What will I wear?” JAYNE boutique, which recently opened a location in Geneva, offers fashion trends that strike a balance between statement-making and effortlessly chic.

“Dramatic silhouettes are in style, and you’ll see that in micro mini skirts that are paired with tall boots or with flowy, floor-length dresses with high slits that grab attention,” says Katie Cummings, company president and buyer.

JAYNE’s also offers a variety of accessories to elevate your look including chunky necklaces, cuff bracelets, pendants and standout handbags.

House of 423 in Geneva features a dress for every occasion, from a sweater dress for a first date to maxi dresses for more formal affairs. They also offer a variety of tops, sweaters and pants.

For a more personalized shopping experience, consider booking a personal styling session. Prior to your appointment, a stylist will ask questions about your body type, wardrobe goals and personal style. Then enjoy a private one-hour shopping session to go through hand-selected looks customized for you.

JEWELERS

The only thing more fun than shopping for jewelry is shopping for jewelry with a glass of wine. That’s the

experience you’ll be treated to at K. Hollis Jewelers, Boutique & Wine Bar in Batavia.

The expert jewelers at K. Hollis will help you create an engagement ring or wedding ring that’s personal to your love story. They also offer custom touches like engraving or incorporating heirloom stones.

For over 70 years, State Street Jewelers in Geneva has been there for the celebrations in their customers’ lives, including engagements and weddings. When customers come in to purchase an engagement ring, staff lets them look at the options and narrow down what they like to three rings. Then they’ll discuss what couples like about each of these rings, and sometimes they’ll be able to incorporate those aspects from each ring into a custom creation.

CHOCOLATIERS

For the past three decades, Graham’s Fine Chocolates & Ice Cream in Geneva has been the place to go for homemade chocolaty goodness. Treat your Valentine to chocolate covered strawberries, drizzled heart pops or chocolate covered Valentine’s Day teddy bears.

If you’re planning a wedding, Graham’s offers a wide selection of wedding favors including a wedding truffle tree and bride and groom Oreos. You even can add some fun to the seating arrangements with chocolate placec ards hand-piped with your guests’ names.

If your sweetheart enjoys savory sweets, Ms. Jana’s Candy in Aurora delivers with peanut brittle, butter toffee and creamy caramels. Just in time for Valentine’s Day, try their new offering, white chocolate praline. For a variety of sweets, pick up a sampler box ranging from half a pound to five pounds of delectable treats.

FLORISTS

St. Charles Florist & Boutique in Wasco is known for its unique designs with flowers and plants. Just tell them what colors and flowers your Valentine likes, and they’ll create a customized piece. Or choose from a variety of classic bouquets of roses, which come in lavender, pink and red. You can even personalize your arrangements with add-ons like small gifts or keepsakes.

OUTDOOR COATS INDOORS?

From romantic roses to modern masterpieces, The Flower Basket in Aurora has the perfect bouquet to express your emotions both on Valentine’s Day and year-round. The cupid’s heart arrangement features red roses, white lilies, red carnations and white daisy mums accented with white limonium. Or select a romantic Valentine's Day gift basket, which features red and pink blooms carefully designed for your significant other.

WEDDING PLANNERS

Camellia Co. in St. Charles offers as little or as much help as you need to plan your special day. The full-service planning package covers everything from design and planning to all the details in between. Need help just on your wedding day? With the month-of coordination package, Camellia Co. will make sure all the details you planned fall into place so you can enjoy the big day.

In addition to wedding planning, Camellia Co. also helps with private event planning. The team can help plan beautifully styled bridal showers from creative themes to thoughtful details. They also can help with anniversary parties whether you want a lively party or an intimate gathering.

With scenic riverfront views of the Fox River in downtown Aurora, the Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom and Grand Gallery feature stunning architecture and inclusive offerings to fit every wedding vision and budget. The special events team will be there every step of the way from setting up the venue to day-of event coordination. The team also will work with you to select a caterer and entertainment that service the Paramount venues.

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Valentine’s Day around Kane County

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Now that you’ve got a date, how do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? Here are some great local options for when you’re out and about.

IT’S A (SKATE) DATE!

After making reservations by Feb. 4, head to Funway Ultimate Entertainment Center, 1335 S. River St., Batavia, on Feb. 10 from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. for Funway’s Valentine Skate Party. Enjoy dinner, roller skating and rentals, bowling and arcade specials, a prize for best formal attire and more.

www.funway.com

RUNNING FOR LOVE

It’s love at first stride at Waubonsie Lake Park, 998 Kautz Road, Aurora, on Sunday, Feb. 15, at 9 a.m. with the annual Couple Shuffle. This heart-pumping, Valentine-themed race is ideal for couples, as well as friends and families. Choose from 2-mile, 5K and 10K distances, or participate in the Kids Dash for children ages 10 and younger.

www.runsignup.com

NAUGHTY YET NICE

Stop into Lover’s Lane, 491 S. Randall Road, North Aurora, and meet with a romance specialist. Explore an unmatched selection of lingerie, adult toys and gifts, and spice up Valentine’s Day by discovering what excites you and your partner. www.loverslane.com

CUTE COOKIES FOR COUPLES

Cute and snuggly, sweet and yummy lovebird cookies are just some of the offerings from The Crafty Piper, a local cottage bakery in Sugar Grove that creates custom-decorated cookies. www.thecraftypiper.com

HEART-SHAPED PIES TO TRY

How about a pie in the shape of a pizza with all the toppings you love? Many franchise pizzerias offer heart-shaped pizzas for Valentine’s Day, including Lou Malnati’s, Giordano’s, Pizza Hut and Papa Johns. Local favorites, including Paisano’s in Elburn and Sugar Grove and Salerno’s on the Fox in St. Charles, also make pies shaped like the main organ of your cardiovascular system.

www.paisanospizzagrill.com

www.salernosonthefox.com

SLIDE(R) IN CLOSER

Onions often call for breath mints, but at White Castle, they’re the aphrodisiac during a hot date. For the 35th year, couples can dine over the deliciousness of rehydrated, dehydrated onions cooked with little beef patties to perfection on a griddle. The White Castle at 1219 Lake St., Aurora, becomes a Love Castle on Feb. 14. Enjoy hostess seating, tableside service, festive décor and an unforgettable memory. Reserve your spot before they sell out.

www.whitecastle.com

BURN UP THE DANCE FLOOR

The couple that plays together stays together, and there’s nothing more fun than dancing with the one you love. Learn partnership dances at Fred Astaire, from the waltz, tango, cha-cha and salsa to country-western, swing and club dancing. If you want to learn to dance with a partner, you can be ready in time for Valentine’s Day. www.fredastaire.com

WITH YOUR LITTLE LOVE

Blackberry Farm, 100 S. Barnes Road, Aurora, is hosting a Princess Tea Party on Feb. 7 with two sessions at 9 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. Guests will sing, dance and craft with special princess visitors at this royal Valentine’s celebration, which includes lunch, tea and entertainment. All children must be accompanied by an adult, and registration is required for all attendees. www.foxvalleyparkdistrict.org

GIGGLES AND GUFFAWS

Couples looking to laugh out loud can head to the Comedy Vault in Batavia on Valentine’s Day weekend to see the dry, dark stand-up of Francis Ellis. There’s a good chance you’ve seen him on Netflix’s Tires, Barstool Sports or Don’t Tell Comedy. Ellis performs Friday and Saturday with shows at 7 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. www.comedyvaultbatavia.com

A MASSAGE OF LOVE

Find unity, connection and collective calm at Sage Healing Collective with a couples massage in a private spa room at 525 S. Tyler Road, Suite S, St. Charles. Enjoy side-by-side massages designed for relaxation and reconnection. www.sagehealingcollective.com

THE KEY TO A MAN’S HEART IS THROUGH HIS STOMACH

Many upscale restaurants in Kane County will be open and offering special menus throughout Valentine’s Day weekend. Check individual restaurant websites for details and reservations.

PUT YOUR HEART ON QUALITY PAPER

In a world of constant screens, consider giving your partner a handwritten love letter in a beautiful card or on fine stationery. You’ll find plenty of options at local shops, including Hallmark Gold Crown in North Aurora and Little Green Apple in Geneva. www.hallmark.com www.littlegreenapple.com

Discover emotional fulfillment by opening your heart to animals

Puppy Love

Love

It’s said one never forgets their first love. For Suzanne Derrick, it was Finley, her first foster dog. The little white fluff ball came into her life, and although she knew it was only supposed to be temporary, she said it still broke her heart when she brought Finley to his forever home.

Eight years later, Derrick is caring for her 76th foster dog for Genevabased Starfish Animal Rescue, which relies on foster homes to care for adoptable dogs and cats.

For those like Derrick, who have love to give and a willingness to take on the unknown, fostering helps save animals that might otherwise have their lives cut short in shelters.

Love isn’t always candy hearts and roses. Sometimes, it’s opening one’s home and sharing that love with a four-legged companion in need of care, compassion and probably a little obedience training, too.

But volunteer work is about more than caring for animals. Volunteers like Derrick say connecting with others who share a passion for animal care can be just as rewarding.

“It’s amazing the community I’ve met,” Derrick said.

Derrick isn’t just a foster parent to dogs. She’s part of a team of foster buddies who support first- and second-time foster families as they navigate behavior or health concerns, or even help care for a pregnant dog.

Jill Fortin was a first-time foster parent when she realized her 12-pound terrier mix with kennel cough was also about to become a momma dog.

“I was freaking out,” Fortin admits.

Derrick served as Fortin’s foster mentor and was the person she called when her dog began delivering three puppies in her dining room. It was a wild ride, but in the end, Fortin helped the momma dog and one of her pups get adopted. She remained active

with the organization and eventually joined the event planning team with Starfish Animal Rescue.

“We kept in touch with the adopting families,” Fortin said. “It’s so rewarding to see the love that dog brings to the family.”

Starfish Animal Rescue has developed a robust foster program, providing food, basic necessities and veterinary care. The organization also connects foster and adoptive families with dog-training programs that address basic obedience and behavior concerns. A multistep adoption application process helps ensure the best possible match for families and animals.

“You want the adoption to be positive and successful,” Fortin said.

Beyond fostering, animal rescue groups are always in need of volunteers to help with paperwork, sorting donations and walking dogs after transport arrivals. Additional support is also needed at weekly adoption events.

At Project Hope Animal Rescue in Gilberts, founder and president Stacy Pyrek said she can always use extra volunteers at the adoption center and as fosters. Since launching in 2019, the organization has expanded its facilities and helped find homes for numerous dogs and cats, puppies and kittens.

Volunteers with Project Hope Animal Rescue partner with Blain’s Farm & Fleet in Elgin to showcase adoptable animals on the first Saturday of each month. Pyrek said regular shoppers love to stop and visit, sometimes bringing donations as well. The agency has also partnered with Goat Yoga Chicago at the Arboretum of South Barrington for Puppy Yoga, where Pyrek and other volunteers bring young pups to socialize with yoga participants.

“There’s never a frown in the house at puppy yoga,” Pyrek said.

“We’ve had a couple of adoptions from the event. For us, it helps socialize the puppies and help them get used to other people and get our name out too,” she continued.

Pyrek added that more help is needed for puppy yoga events, as each pup receives a bath and nail trim before their yoga debut.

At Elgin-based Hoof, Woof & Meow, all rescued dogs and cats are placed in foster homes while they await adoption, explained board president Lori Schutt. Some foster families prefer older dogs, others enjoy puppies, and some focus on cats and kittens.

Hoof, Woof & Meow rescues animals from shelters in southern Illinois, Kentucky and Tennessee. Without animal rescue groups, limited shelter space could mean animals are euthanized.

“We always need more fosters because then we can rescue more dogs,” Schutt said.

For those not ready to become full-time fosters, organizations like Starfish Animal Rescue also need volunteers for vacation fostering, Derrick explained. It’s a great way to offer short-term support—much like training wheels.

“It’s like dog sitting and it gives the foster families a little break,” Derrick said.

CRAFTED HEART

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Express love with a personal touch through guided painting and pottery programs

By Grace Rosati • Photos provided by Pinot's Palette

The season of love is upon us, and what better way to show you care than with a personalized, handmade gift made just for them? Whether you’re coupled up this Valentine’s Day or flying solo, these crafty hot spots are the perfect places to tap into your creative side.

What pairs best with a night on the town and a delicious glass of wine? Painting. At Pinot’s Palette in St. Charles, guests can register for one of its specialty paint-and-sip programs and create a dazzling piece inspired by the signature hearts and warm color palette of Valentine’s Day.

Owner Amy Kumler did not start out as a professional painter. In fact, she began her journey into paint-and-sip eight years ago, when a friend brought her to Pinot’s Palette’s Project Pet, a workshop where guests submit a photo of their furry friend to paint. After completing the class, she fell in love with the world of painting.

“It's just a really fun experience,” says Kumler. “You laugh, you have a good time, and you don't think about anything else while you're there. You physically cannot do art and worry about other things. So, it lets you have a great time and just connect with the person you're with.”

As someone newer to the painting world,

Kumler says Pinot’s Palette caters to all skill levels and allows for plenty of creativity. “It is totally up to you,” she explains. “We have people who want a slightly different color palette, or we even have people who will put the Loch Ness Monster in the water of their painting.” For those looking for an easier class or planning to bring kids, Kumler recommends searching for the studio’s “Family Fun” paintings on its website.

This year, Pinot’s Palette offers a wide variety of works to choose from, including its Date Night diptychs—two separate paintings that create a full picture when displayed together. If you’re feeling spooky, check out the newly debuting Til Death Do Us Part, a gothic take on traditional Valentine’s Day themes. Beyond the canvas, the studio also hosts chunky knit blanket classes, or guests can add a createyour-own candle to any painting class.

And don’t forget to stop by the bar for a cocktail. Kumler’s favorite? Dirty Paint Water. “It's spiced rum, pineapple juice, Blue Carousel, and a little grenadine. It's this real dirty teal color, but it tastes kind of like a pina colada. We just have fun with stuff like that.” Visit Pinot’s Palette in St. Charles for the perfect date night or Galentine’s Day celebration.

For anyone who has seen the movie “Ghost” and has been dying to try the iconic pottery

wheel scene, Dirty Clay Co. in Batavia has you covered. Located inside Thrown Threads, the pottery studio offers a variety of classes to help guests master the art of throwing, from date nights and one-day workshops to a four-week course.

Owner Megan Wilson first started making pottery in 2019 at Kane County’s Water Street Studios. “I just needed a hobby,” explains Wilson. “I needed an escape mentally from corporate life and I wasn't doing a lot for myself at the time. And after taking classes with Jeremy Foy at Water Street, I fell in love with the craft. I've always had a passion for teaching and community, so it just kind of grew from there.”

Wilson brings that passion into every class she teaches. “In our wheel throwing classes, we're really just teaching you the basics and helping you make what you want to make. Wheel throwing can be challenging, so we like to start with more basic forms like bowls and plates.” Dirty Clay Co. also hosts sculpture-making classes, where guests can personalize the featured project with their own creative details.

This Valentine’s Day weekend, Wilson and her team are offering classes for every group dynamic. “As a single lady who loves Valentine's Day, I try to make sure that we have options and workshops for every type of dynamic,” says Wilson. Alongside Date Night Wheel Throwing Workshops on Friday and Saturday, the studio is also hosting a Pottery Playdate session, ideal for kids and families. For a night out with friends, guests can try Mishima Surface Design or Matchbox Handbuilding workshops to learn a new ceramic skill.

Dirty Clay Co. is a go-to destination this Feb. 14, so plan ahead and secure your spot by registering on its website. No matter how you celebrate Valentine’s Day, getting creative is a meaningful way to connect with the people you love. Register today and try your hand at one of Kane County’s fantastic art studios.

Love,

STARTING WITH YOUR BEAUTY ROUTINE

By Yanira Garcia Andel

Love doesn’t always show up as grand gestures or dramatic moments. More often, it’s found in the everyday rituals we return to — especially the ones we choose for ourselves.

In beauty, those rituals live in our morning skincare, the swipe of lipstick before heading out the door, the fresh manicure that makes even the smallest tasks feel intentional. Romance may inspire beauty trends, but selflove is what sustains them.

Skincare is often the first place self-love becomes tangible. Cleansing at the end of the day isn’t just about removing makeup; it’s about resetting. It’s a pause. Choosing products that nourish rather than strip, that support your skin rather than fight it, changes the tone of the routine entirely. Hydrating serums, barrierrepair creams, and facial oils aren’t indulgences

— they’re investments in comfort and longevity. When your skin feels good, everything else falls into place more easily.

Makeup, too, has shifted away from transformation and toward enhancement. The focus is no longer on hiding but on highlighting — glowing skin, softly defined eyes, a lip color that feels like confidence in a tube. A well-curated makeup bag isn’t about owning everything; it’s about owning what works for you. The products you reach for again and again are the ones that align with how you want to feel: polished, effortless, expressive, or simply put together.

Hair and nails often get overlooked in conversations about self-care, yet they’re some of the most visible reminders of attention and upkeep. A fresh trim, a gloss treatment, or even embracing your natural texture can change how you carry yourself. Hair doesn’t need to be perfect to feel intentional — it just needs

to feel like yours. The same goes for nails. Whether you love a barely-there neutral or a bold seasonal shade, a manicure is a small but powerful form of self-respect.

There’s also something deeply affirming about consistency. Showing up for these routines even when no one else sees them reinforces the idea that beauty isn’t reserved for special occasions. It’s allowed to exist on a random Tuesday. It’s allowed to be just for you.

At its core, beauty rooted in self-love is about choice. Choosing what makes you feel comfortable, confident, and cared for. Trends will come and go, but the most compelling beauty looks are always the ones grounded in ease and authenticity. When your beauty routine reflects self-respect rather than obligation, it stops feeling like maintenance and starts feeling like love — and that’s a standard worth keeping.

FITNESS THAT FITS

Staying active doesn’t have to involve contracts, commitments, or complicated sign-up processes. Across St. Charles Park District facilities, drop-in fitness programs are removing barriers and making movement accessible for everyone—no registration required and at rates designed to fit real life. From toddlers to teens to adults, there’s a place to move, play, and connect at any stage of life.

“Our goal is to make fitness welcoming and accessible for everyone, no matter their age or experience level,” said Melissa Caine, Assistant Superintendent of Recreation. “Drop-in programs give residents the freedom to try new

activities, stay active on their own schedule, and feel comfortable just showing up.”

Adults looking for an easy, energizing way to begin the day can lace up their shoes for Indoor Walking at Sportsplex. Offered Monday through Friday from 8:30 to 9:30 a.m., this welcoming program provides a comfortable indoor environment to stay active year-round. Whether participants are building a daily routine or just squeezing in steps, it’s a simple way to start the morning with movement and a smile. The program is free for residents and just $5 per visit for nonresidents.

For those ages 10 and up, Drop-In Rowing at the Row Zone inside

Every Age and Every Schedule

By Erika Combs

Sportsplex delivers a full-body workout that builds strength, endurance, and focus. Available Monday through Friday from 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m., rowing offers a powerful yet approachable fitness option—one push, one pull, one round at a time.

Teens and adults ages 12 and older can explore a wide range of workouts through Group Fitness Classes at Norris Recreation Center. With options that include cycling and other high-energy formats, participants can choose what fits their interests and fitness goals. Classes are free for members, while nonmembers can drop in for $12 per class. Schedules are updated regularly at norrisrec.org/calendar, and space is limited making it a first-come, first-

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Friday, Feb. 14

10:30–11:30 a.m.

Snow Play at Pottawatomie Park Free

Bundle up and head outdoors for a playful winter morning at the park. Families are invited to enjoy snow-themed activities designed for children ages 7 and under. No registration required—just show up and enjoy some seasonal family fun.

served experience that keeps workouts personal and engaging.

Fitness opportunities begin early with Toddler Time Open Play, offered Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays from 11:45 a.m. to 1 p.m. Designed for children ages 5 and under, this program transforms play into movement with scooters, balls, sit n’ rides, adjustable hoops, and more. Folding chairs are provided for caregivers, and parent supervision is required. The program is free for residents and $5 for nonresidents, creating an affordable way for young children to build motor skills while families connect.

Middle and high school students have their own space to stay active

and social with Drop-In Basketball on Sundays from 12:30 to 2 p.m. This open gym time encourages teamwork, confidence, and healthy competition in a relaxed environment. A separate Drop-In Basketball session follows from 2 to 3:30 p.m. for families, offering a fun way to be active together. Both sessions are free for residents and $5 for nonresidents.

With flexible schedules, welcoming environments, and programs designed for every age, drop-in fitness makes it easy to move more—on your own terms. Whether it’s walking, rowing, playing, or shooting hoops, the community offers countless ways to stay active, stay connected, and simply show up.

FACILITY AMENITIES

• 6,300 sq. ft. Fitness Center with Cardio Equipment, Adjustable Weight Stations & Free Weights

• Minigym with Basketball Hoop

• Cycling Studio with TRX® Equipment

• Group Fitness Studio

• Private Health & Wellness Consultation Area

• Private Massage Room

• 4 Regulation-Size Hard Tennis Courts

• 4 Regulation-Size Hard Pickleball Courts

• 50-meter Indoor Pool

• Child Care Center

• Locker Rooms with Sauna

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• Complimentary Health & Wellness Consultation

• Group Fitness Classes • Lap/Open Swim

• Program & Tennis Court Fee Discounts & more! For packages & pricing options: norrisrec.org

Love DENTAL CARE

National Pet Dental Health Month is the perfect chance to schedule an oral exam for your animals &

In the eyes of most people, February often brings thoughts of Valentine’s Day, romance and love — Valentines’ hearts in store windows, cards in the mail and reminders to slow down and appreciate the ones who matter most to us. For pet owners and veterinarians, February also carries another important reminder. It is National Pet Dental Health Month.

As a board-certified veterinary surgeon, one of my mentors was double boardcertified in surgery and veterinary dentistry. Learning under him was valuable to my surgery training since it exposed me to a variety of dental procedures and diseases that I would see throughout my career.

Dental disease is one of the more

common conditions we see in dogs and cats, yet often it is one of the most overlooked. Because it develops slowly and often very quietly, it can be easy to miss until it has already caused discomfort, infection, bad breath, or more serious disease.

Over the years, I have seen older cats with severe dental disease affecting the mandibular bone, resulting in poor bone quality and chronic oral inflammation that will weaken the jaw, ultimately leading to fractures and or tooth loss. While this may sound dramatic, these cases are not rare. They are often the long-term consequences of dental disease that went unnoticed or untreated for too long. I encourage all pet owners to think

about dental health as part of loving their pet, not just another task on an already long list of things to get done. To me, February feels like an appropriate time to reflect on that idea. Love is not only about affection, treats and toys. It is also about preventive care and planning for your pet’s long-term comfort and well-being.

This month is a great time to plan a dental examination for your pet with your primary care veterinarian, but that does not mean the appointment has to be in February. Schedules are busy, life happens, and veterinary appointments fill quickly. What is most important is planning the appointment. Once an appointment is scheduled, we are far more likely to follow through.

Planning is often the hardest step. Years ago, when I first tried to take up running, I signed up for 5K races with friends, often months in advance. The simple act of registering and committing to a date made it far more likely that I would train and run the race. The same concept applies to veterinary care. When we commit to an appointment, we make it real. Without that commitment, dental cleanings can easily fall lower and lower on the priority list as work schedules, family obligations, school events, vacations and routine medical appointments take over our lives.

Dental cleanings and examinations allow veterinarians to remove plaque and tartar that cannot be addressed

with brushing alone. And realistically, how many of us brush our pet’s teeth consistently? More importantly, dental cleanings allow for a thorough examination of the entire mouth of the pet. Veterinarians can identify fractured teeth, infections, gum disease, oral masses and other issues that may not be visible during a routine awake examination.

Over my many years of practice, I cannot count how many times my anesthesia team and I have intubated a patient for anesthesia for what was expected to be a routine surgical procedure on a limb, only to discover a mass or another serious issue once a full examination was possible of the mouth. In many cases, though not all, a routine dental evaluation earlier in the pet’s life may have identified the problem before it progressed.

Poor dental health does not only affect the mouth. Chronic inflammation and infection in the gums allow bacteria to enter the bloodstream. Over time, this can affect organs such as the heart, liver and kidneys. Addressing dental disease is not just cosmetic care. It is an important part of preventive medicine.

There is also the very real issue of pain. Dental disease is uncomfortable. Imagine having a constant toothache and being unable to tell anyone where it hurts. Pets often continue eating and behaving normally, even when they are in pain. Their ability to adapt does not mean they are not uncomfortable. Addressing dental health can dramatically improve a pet’s comfort, energy level and sometimes even behavior.

And then there is the everyday side of dental health that pet owners know well. There is nothing quite like having

your favorite dog or cat lean in for a kiss. That moment is far more enjoyable when their mouth is healthy.

As pet owners, we all show love in different ways. Some of us buy toys. Some of us cook special meals. Some of us spend extra time walking, training, or simply sitting quietly together. Taking care of dental health is another way we show that love, even if it is not always the most exciting or visible one.

February is the month that reminds us that love includes responsibility. February is the month of making appointments, asking questions, and sometimes doing things that are inconvenient in the short term but beneficial in the long term. Scheduling a dental exam is one of those acts of care that can have lasting benefits for your pet.

If you are unsure whether your pet needs a dental cleaning, start with a conversation with your family veterinarian. Ask about brushing at home, dental diets and other preventive measures that may be appropriate. Every pet is different, and dental care should be tailored to the individual animal.

As we move through February and think about love, consider adding your pet’s dental health to that reflection. It does not matter when the appointment happens. What matters is deciding that it will happen. That decision is a commitment to your pet’s comfort, health and happiness.

Our pets give us unconditional love every day. They greet us at the door, sit quietly beside us and share in our routines without asking for much in return. Taking care of their health, including their dental health, is one of the ways we return that love.

Dr. Aaron M. Jackson is a board-certified veterinary surgeon with over 20 years of experience in advanced surgical care for pets. He earned his Doctorate in Veterinary Medicine from the University of Illinois in 1998, followed by specialized training in small animal surgery. In 2006, he achieved board certification in the specialty of Small Animal Surgery. Jackson has held leadership roles at Chicago’s largest veterinary specialty center, including chief surgeon and medical director. His expertise, skill and compassion provide pet owners with confidence in their pets’ surgical care. Submit suggestions and questions for future article topics via email at info@mvss.vet.

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& Growing Growing Up Older

Nostalgia descends as families & households evolve

Perhaps your results may vary. But in my house, the never-ending onrush of aging – both in us and the kids – in the past few years has brought with it some unexpected challenges.

No doubt some of you more seasoned parents may be scoffing, as if to say, "You expected something different?"

Generally speaking? No. Of course, my wife and I knew that the onset of the teenage years, coupled with our own deeper immersion into middle age, would seismically shift our home and our lifestyles.

Teenage driving, interpersonal relationship drama and post-graduation planning with the older kid, coupled simultaneously with the end of childhood and beginning of middle school in the other, and the need to navigate shifting tastes, schedule demands, and intellectual and emotional unrest from lost innocence and rapidly expiring naivete - you name it, we're dealing with it.

And we expected to.

But as we begin 2026, there are a couple of associated elements we're being forced to grapple with.

On one hand, those aforementioned new schedule demands and shifting tastes have left this dad increasingly wrestling with paroxysms of nostalgia. The internal debate only intensifies when presented with old photos and videos from the past, and particularly those depicting past outings or important moments at home.

For instance: When searching for old photos for a different reason, my phone shoved into my face some photos of much younger versions of my kids apparently rapturously enjoying some day trips to two of our region's most iconic education-disguised-as-family-fun destinations, the Field Museum and Brookfield Zoo.

Brookfield Zoo's "Tropical Forests," formerly known as "Tropic World," my wife only shrugged at my inquiry. "Maybe it's just not important enough to make time for anymore?" she said, unhelpfully scoring a point for nostalgia.

Those, in turn, triggered some conversations: First, with Google, to learn about some of the changes at those destinations in the intervening years; and then, with my wife, who was asked how it is we hadn't been to either of those places in so long, when the kids loved it so much before?

While Google helpfully filled me in on new and coming exhibits at the Field, and on the expansion of

At the same time, the photo app also sent me some other images of past family glory and glee: The days surrounding the arrival of our then-new puppy, 13 years ago.

Any visitors to our home will quickly see that dog is still with us, and still very much alive and kicking.

The "kicking" part, however, has become increasingly

more difficult for our old buddy, with the passage of time evidenced as clearly in his walk, appearance and mannerisms, as it is mirrored in my own

And that has also triggered some difficult conversations, again with

With the rapidly growing awareness of the pooch's soon arriving appointment with eternity, Google helped me to answer some unsettling questions I had never pondered before about handling the aftermath of a pet's sudden passing. Now, mind you, dealing with pet mortality is nothing new for us. Every time we bring a pet home for the first time, we know that the giggles and squeals that begin the story of our journey together will almost assuredly end with tears on the other side of the Circle of Life.

To this point, however, none of our pets have died at home.

But as this one remains in otherwise good health, neither is he getting any younger. So, the knowledge of the increasing chances of a sudden departure has marched forward from the back of the mind, demanding the acquisition of information concerning – shall we say – proper procedures.

At the same time, the likelihood of our old friend's passing, perhaps as soon as this year, has led to more than a fleeting, hypothetical conversation

centered on the question that goes something like: "When will we get another one?" Or perhaps more to the point, "Should we?"

That conversation is only complicated by the realities of our current family situation.

While both kids have registered votes firmly in favor of quickly replacing the pup, the passage of each new day only decreases the weight of their ballots.

Consider: The older one, in particular, is already plotting an exit from the house in short order, perhaps even as soon as later this year.

And the younger one? Her time in the house could extend only about halfway, or less, through the lifespan of any new dog (or cat, I suppose, through gritted teeth.)

These realities would leave us with the sole care of an animal that would undoubtedly have emotionally imprinted on the children, saddling us with unknown concerns just as we enter the empty nest phase of our lives.

Of course, on the other hand, having an animal to connect us back to the good ol' days could be just what we need in such a time of potentially difficult transition.

But those are just some of the difficult questions we'll be answering in the coming months.

Hopefully, though, the old dog can stay with us through 2026, allowing us to put them off after we've made some more happy family memories, perhaps including a couple more days at the zoo.

n Jonathan Bilyk writes about the triumphs and travails of being a modern-day dad who legitimately enjoys time with his family, while tolerating a dog that seems to adore him. He also doesn’t really like the moniker “Superdad” because it makes it sound like he wants to wear his undergarments on the outside of his pants. (Also, the cape remains on back order.)

Romance on the screen and page

By Chris Walker

Whether you’re looking for a rom-com or romance novel, you’ll find some fine title suggestions here in time for Valentine’s Day.

Such as Ashley Poston’s “The Dead Romantics,” about a ghostwriter who ironically writes romance novels.

“She is going to miss her deadline because she no longer believes in love after a bad breakup,” says Michelle Worthington, adult and teen services librarian for the Geneva Public Library. “She also has a new, attractive, but unforgiving editor. On top of all that her father dies, and she must return to her hometown to bury him. Her family runs a funeral home and with a bit of magic realism tossed in, Florence can see ghosts, just as her father did. A ghost she recognizes knocks on the door one night and Florence must help him with his unfinished business, which may or may not include her. It is a story that reminds us that even when all may seem lost, there is hope and love on the horizon. It’s a perfect love story for a Valentine’s Day read.”

Sarah Blomquist, who offers couples therapy at Bloom Counseling and Therapy in St. Charles, asks her clients to take the Love Language Quiz, which is explained in Gary Chapman’s “The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts.”

“In knowing our personal love language, we are better equipped to introduce others to what we are needing to feel appreciated, valued and connected within a romantic relationship,” Blomquist says. “When I am working with couples, I tell them that we are not allowed to say what the other person is ‘doing wrong.’

Instead, we each get to identify what we are needing to add to the relationship that until now has been missing. This reframes how my clients are feeling: they have to take accountability for their part in the relational dissonance. If both parties are motivated for change, they begin working together instead of competing for who is right or wrong.”

Blomquist also recommends two films, “Somewhere inn Time” and “Love Actually.”

“‘Somewhere in Time’ is a movie about time travel that depicts a connection that a man feels with a woman born in a different generation,” Blomquist says. “Much can be learned through eye contact, body language and the simplicity of patience versus impulsiveness, as we often see in today's world.

“Another one of my favorites is ‘Love Actually,’” she says. “Beyond the first scene, which is unexpected and jarring, the movie overall is a theme of love and the search for what causes one to be attracted or ‘feel’ for another person throughout our lifetimes. It is a culmination of connection, feelings, family, heartbreak and clarity. We will never know how to create or bottle love or attraction, but this movie gives us hope that there is someone for everyone by offering a peek into love from multiple perspectives.”

Worthington recommends “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days.”

“This movie is enjoyable for both men and women,” she says. “It is a romantic comedy about Andie, a magazine columnist, who is writing an article on how to drive away a man in 10 days. On the flip side Ben is an ad executive who makes a bet with a co-worker that he can make a woman fall in love with him in 10 days. Of course they chose each other for these goals. It’s funny and romantic. Kate Hudson and Matthew

McConaughey have great chemistry and comedic timing.”

Tawnee Spencley-Campos, an adult and teen services library associate for the Geneva Public Library, suggests suggests “Crazy, Stupid Love.”

“Full of heartbreak, emotional dialogue, and laugh out loud moments, this is the perfect rom com to watch with a partner,” she says. “Following 40-something Cal Weaver, we see he seems to be living the dream: good job, nice house, great kids and marriage to his high school sweetheart. But, when Cal learns that she has cheated on him and wants a divorce, his ‘perfect’ life quickly unravels. Cal, who clearly hasn’t dated in decades, stands out as the epitome of un-smooth, so handsome player Jacob Palmer takes him on as wingman and protege. Hijinks ensue, but so does love.”

Christian Hubbard, audience services manager for the Paramount Theatre, says “Mamma Mia” was its top selling Movie Monday romantic film title in 2025.

”But my personal favorite is ‘Pride and Prejudice,’ the 2005 version starring Keira Knightley,” Hubbard says. “And we're screening it at Paramount on Monday, March 23 at 7 p.m. for just $1.”

At Classic Cinemas Charlestowne 18 XQ in St. Charles, Wuthering Heights is destined to draw lovers to the big screen.

“Classic Cinemas is lining up one of the strongest ‘date movie’ slates in recent memory, led by a sultry new adaptation of Wuthering Heights starring Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi,” says Mike Schindler, film programmer at Classic Cinemas. “Stepping into the iconic roles of forbidden lovers Cathy and Heathcliff, the pair bring an electric chemistry that saturates the screen in what appears to be a bold, cinematic reimagining of Emily Brontë’s timeless novel…Anchored by an intoxicatingly seductive soundtrack curated by Charli XCX, ‘Wuthering Heights’ may be the strongest contender yet in 2026 to meet the lofty expectations of a Valentine’s Day release.”

OF THE MONTH

Artist Kayla Coulter

The Tri-Cities are booming with arts and artists — perhaps nowhere more vibrantly than Batavia’s Water Street Studios, which hosts events, galleries and up to 25 artists in residence. Each month, Kane County Magazine and Water Street Studios are partnering to highlight artists and their work.

Visual artist Kayla Coulter’s main mission is “to make art approachable and empowering” by creating spaces for people to reexamine and explore their own creative abilities. Growing up, art was always an integral part of her life. She carried supplies with her wherever she went.

“Although I’ve always loved every part of the process, I did not always have the discipline to pursue art at its fullest potential,” she says.

Now, Coulter has returned to school to pursue her artistry, and the change has brought her a special kind of peace and direction. “Once I placed art at the center of my life, everything changed,” she says. “I feel at home in this work, and I know I have only scratched the surface of where it’s going.”

As of June 2025, Coulter became an instructor at Water Street Studios. Her medium is focused on hyperrealism utilizing acrylics, graphite, charcoal and – more recently – gouache, a kind of opaque watercolor.

“Hyperrealism has been the most challenging direction I have ever taken,” she says. “It requires long periods of stillness and careful attention. When I first attempted it, I underestimated the intensity of the work. Over time, I found a steadier rhythm that helped me approach each piece with more focus and calm.”

Coulter credits the style with evolving her artistic process and informing the way she moves through life: with more intention. “Balancing school, running a business, and building a studio practice has been difficult at times, but finishing these works reminds me why I returned to art and what it means to stay

committed from beginning to end,” she says.

The project “Holy Darkness” was the beginning of her foray into hyperrealism and created a space for Coulter to explore more detail in her work. “It required patience, honesty, and a willingness to keep going even when the process felt overwhelming,” she says. “‘UNDERFACE’ has also been a piece that resonates strongly with viewers. Almost everyone points to a face and says, ‘that one’s me.’ Watching people recognize

themselves in that drawing has been one of the most meaningful parts of sharing my work.”

Coulter’s newest work is a piece titled “Anxiety,” her most substantial project so far, in size and level of detail. “Building it layer by layer has shown me how far I have come and where this series is leading me next,” she says.

Looking ahead, Coulter hopes to expand her gallery experience while continuing to learn more about the curatorial end of things as understanding multiple facets of the exhibition process is important to her. “In 2026 I will enter my final year as a full-time student before transferring,” she says. “This will be a period of intense art making and portfolio building. I hope to push myself not only as an artist but also as a teacher, student, partner, daughter, sister, and entrepreneur. Each role influences the work I create and the direction I take.”

In addition, the talented artist plans to dive even deeper into her hyperrealism series while perfecting her routine and continuing her commissioned work.

“Art strengthens a community in heart and mind,” she says. “It gives people a way to express themselves, to be seen, and to connect with others. When art is accessible, it becomes a shared language that brings people together, reduces stress, and encourages curiosity. Art is not a luxury. It is a vital part of a healthy society. It supports emotional well-being, sparks imagination, and inspires growth. When a community invests in art, it invests in its people, its future, and its sense of identity.”

About the artist

Kayla Coulter is a visual artist and the founder of The Artistic Edge, a mobile art education initiative based in Illinois. She works in graphite, charcoal, acrylics, and most recently gouache. Her current focus is hyperrealism with surreal elements, where precision and imagination meet. Much of her work explores mental health, resilience, and the internal stories people carry. Through careful detail and thoughtful observation, she aims to create images that invite reflection and connection.

For more information on the artist of the month, head to waterstreet studios.org or the studio’s social media pages.

Grab a

FOR MIDDLE SCHOOLERS AND OLDER:

Embrace

your

love of books with these two recommendations for your February reading list, courtesy of the librarians at Geneva Public Library.

“Whale Eyes: A Memoir About Seeing and Being Seen” by James Robinson Filmmaker James Robinson was born with strabismus, an eye misalignment that resulted in difficulty with sports, reading and other vision-related activities, plus a visible difference on his face. Through innovative storytelling and illustration, readers experience a small sample of what the world is like for Robinson. Optical illusions mimic his vison. Text placement replicates what a page in a book looks like to him. Robinson tells a story of being in school and pretending to read for several minutes, then being informed that his book has been upside down the whole time. The reader can share in a bit of that awkwardness when the text of the book is inverted and they are instructed to read it—apparently upside-down, to outside observers—in a public location. “Whale Eyes” cleverly achieves its goal of building the reader’s empathy for Robinson and, by extension, for other people with disabilities. At the same time, Robinson explores the feeling of discomfort one may feel when witnessing the unfamiliar, such as a visible disability, and how readers can respond to this feeling in a way that makes people feel seen and respected. This glimpse into Robinson’s personal experience offers a larger perspective on the importance of being seen and how everyone can learn to see others clearly.

– Kylie Peters, Adult & Teen Services Librarian

FOR ADULTS:

“Ella: A Novel” by Diane Richards

In 1934, Ella Fitzgerald, the first lady of jazz, was discovered in a talent contest at Harlem’s Apollo Theatre. By 1948, she would make her first of many appearances on the Ed Sullivan show. When she reached 1967, she was named the first woman recipient of the Bing Crosby Lifetime Achievement Award. “Ella: A Novel” is a narrative nonfiction book detailing the remarkable four years it took for Ella Fitzgerald to become the American icon we know her as today. Starting the day Fitzgerald’s destitute but idyllic childhood is upended by the sudden death of her mother, author Diana Richards guides us through her journey in the darkest parts of 1930s America. Abuse, racism and violence test her spirit, but Richards brings Fitzgerald’s great strength and passion to life as she sees her dreams through. Although this book is written like a fiction novel, Richards uses extensive research to create a rich depiction of historical Harlem’s culture, language, politics and more. The gripping tale of historical urban America makes “Ella: A Novel” a perfect read for fans of “The Devil in the White City,” and its deep dive into the complexities of discrimination makes it a fantastic piece to read along with “James.” Fitzgerald’s nail-biting journey is inspiring enough to make any reader dance!

– Shannon Thommes, Adult & Teen Services Librarian

FEBRUARY 2026

Trivia Night at the Comedy Vault in Batavia, starting at 7 p.m. 3 2 1

Groundhog Day: let's hope there's no shadow in sight!

Bluegrass Sundays at Sidecar Supper Club & Beer Garden in Batavia, starts at 4 p.m.

33rd Annual Chicagoland Chapter Buick-Olds-PontiacCadillac Swap meet at Kane County Fairgrounds, event is ticketed.

Will it Waffle? at the Geneva Public Library at 2 p.m. Food "experiment" is for grades 6-12

Happy Mardi Gras for those who celebrate!

Open Mic at The House Pub in St. Charles, starts at 8 p.m.

Echoes of Africa at the St. Charles Public Library. Program starts at 7 p.m.

Catch a showing of "Dear Evan Hansen" at Paramount Theatre in Aurora

Live Band Karaoke! at EvenFlow Music & Spirits, starts at 7 p.m.

Galentine's Day Painting & Prosecco at The Growing Place in Aurora, starting at 5 p.m.

Femmes of Rock - Violin Rock!! at Arcada Theatre in St. Charles starting at 8 p.m.

Yarn Social Circle at Creek Bend Nature Center in St. Charles, starts at 4 p.m.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Check out events & activities on page 22

"Unsung Broadway" presented by ECC Spring Musical Theatre at ECC in Elgin. Show is at 7:30 p.m. SUN MON TUE WED THU FRI SAT 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 4

Open Mic Mondays at Preservation in Geneva, starts at 6 p.m.

Ukulele Strum 7 Sing at the St. Charles Public Library at 1 p.m.

Daddy & daughter Dances at the St. Charles Park District.

*Advance registration required

Preparing for retirement

Important Retirement Savings Changes for Those 50+

As of Jan. 1, the SECURE Act 2.0 requires changes to how you can save for your retirement. These changes impact those saving in 401(k), 403(b), as well as 457(b) plans. Let’s explore who is affected and how.

WHO?

If you are 50 years of age or older in 2026 and are considered a highly paid individual (HPI), there are new rules for you this year. HPIs are defined as an employee whose FICA wages (box 3 of Form W-2) from 2025 exceeded $150,000.

WHAT’s CHANGED?

For the sake of brevity, this article will focus on 401(k) plans. Changes for 2026 include the amount you can defer from your wages into a qualified retirement plan as well as how those deferrals need to be characterized. For details, you are encouraged to visit www.irs.gov/retirement-plans. In the interim, here are highlights of key changes for this year.

n All wage-earners in 2026 are allowed to defer up to $24,500. This is up from the base deferral maximum of $23,500 allowed in 2025. These deferrals can be made either in a Traditional 401(k) account (pre-tax) or in a Roth (after-tax).

n During this year, if you are age 50 years or greater, you are eligible to save even more in your 401(k) by taking advantage of a Catch-Up provision. The Catch-Up amount increased from $7,500 in 2025 to $8,000 in 2026. There is a new condition, however. Catch-Up deferrals in 2026 must be in the form of a Roth, which means they are after-tax contributions to your plan.

n But wait, there’s more! There is a quirky, narrow Super Catch-Up for those who are ages 60 to 63 years old in 2026. If you are lucky enough to fall into this category, in 2026 you are allowed to defer up $11,250 in addition to your base deferral. The Super Catch-Up deferral portion of your retirement savings in 2026 does need to be in a Roth.

BE STRATEGIC.

Now that you are aware of the new ground rules for 2026, the next recommended step is to meet with your wealth manager and your tax consultant to customize your action plan. For Illinois residents, the fact that distributions out of retirement plans have special state tax treatment should be factored into your approach. If your current advisors are not attuned to this, or if you are seeking another opinion, give our team a call – we’d be happy to help.

This material is intended for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal or tax advice and is not intended to replace the advice of a qualified attorney, tax advisor, or plan provider. The information has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee that the foregoing material is accurate or complete. Any opinions are those of Tom McCartney and not necessarily those of Raymond James. Expressions of opinion are as of this date and are subject to change without notice. Raymond James is not responsible for the content of any website or the collection or use of information regarding any website's users and/or members.

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