San Diego Family November Issue 2025

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Things to Do: Seasonal Happenings

• Charitable Ways to “Give Back” Halloween Candy

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to Do: Donations, Volunteers

• 41 Random Acts of Kindness: How to Make the World a Better Place

• Doing Good Deeds: 21 Ways Kids Can Help the Community

• Unique Ways to Volunteer with Kids: Help Feed Your Neighbors

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Beginning Nov. 21, Knott’s Berry Farm transforms into a holiday haven with nightly snowfalls, Snoopy’s dazzling ice show, handcrafted gifts and Santa’s Cabin filled with festive treats. As your family wanders through the twinkling streets of Calico, you’ll hear the sounds of the season from spirited carolers, discover treasures at the Christmas Crafts Village and soak in holiday cheer. Enjoy all the thrills of Knott’s signature rides, now surrounded by the sights and sounds of the holidays.

Enter for a chance to win a 4-pack of tickets to Knott’s Merry Farm Contest ends Nov. 24, 2025.

Make this holiday season unforgettable with a magical cruise from The Gondola Company. Set off on a 50-minute Holiday Gondola Cruise through the sparkling canals of Coronado Cays, where festive lights, holiday music and seasonal décor create a joyful experience for all. Cruises run December 3 through December 23.

Enter for a chance to win a Holiday Gondola Cruise for four people ($205 value) and enjoy a festive family escape that shines as bright as the season itself. Contest ends Nov. 20, 2025.

Gather the family and savor the flavors of handmade Italian dishes at North Italia.

With two San Diego locations in Mission Valley and Del Mar, it’s the perfect spot to enjoy fresh pastas, signature pizzas and the chef’s daily creations. This season, discover new favorites like the Sunday Night Lasagna and crave-worthy White Truffle Garlic Bread. End the meal on a sweet note with a Brookie Sundae, a rich creamy dessert sure to make everyone smile. Enter to win a $100 gift card to North Italia. Contest ends Nov. 24, 2025.

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Flu Shots

If you haven’t gotten a flu shot yet, talk to your doctor about doing so. Free shots (for people who have insurance) are offered at medical offices, health centers and local pharmacies. If you do not have healthcare, call 2-1-1 for assistance. Scan the QR code for vaccination information from the San Diego County Health & Human Services Agency.

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Teens: Attend a Free Skilled Trades Fair

Kiwanis Club of Los Rancheros is hosting a Skilled Trades Fair for local high school students and parents to learn about skilled trade careers. Obtain information about union trades, apprenticeship programs, training, pay, healthcare and more. Admission is free and open to the public. Saturday, Nov. 15, 1-4 pm. San Diego Oasis, 17170 Bernardo Center Dr.

Deaflympics in Tokyo

Cheer on two local athletes competing in the Deaflympics in Tokyo from Nov. 15–26: Zain Shahid (21) of Rancho Peñasquitos is on the USA Deaf Men’s Volleyball team and Quinn Cannon (13) of Solana Beach is the youngest member of the USA Deaf Swimming team. Interested in watching? The International Committee of Sports for the Deaf (ICSD) will stream many Deaflympics events on their YouTube channel @deaflympics_icsd. Learn more at https://deaflympics2025-games.jp/en.

Editor’s Picks

Corduroy Gives

Thanks, based on the beloved character created by Don Freeman, is a sweet board book highlighting what Corduroy is grateful for this Thanksgiving. Illustrated by John Joseph.

How to Say Thank

You, by bestselling author/illustrator team Jean Reagan and Lee Wildish, gets kids thinking about the value of special moments (even small and unexpected ones) and how to express gratitude for them.

Consider getting a copy of All the Stars in the Sky by Art Coulson in honor of Native American Heritage Month. In this heartfelt story, featuring beadwork illustrations by Winona Nelson, a Cherokee grandmother helps her grandson see that no one person is more important than another; working together makes the community stronger.

Helps Families Give Back

It’s the season of giving—and the perfect time to express gratitude by paying it forward to someone else. It’s also busy season and not everyone has time to volunteer. Good news: There’s a Giving Machine coming to San Diego’s Old Town! The unique concept is a vending-style machine that allows families to support their choice of local and international charitable causes such as purchasing clothing or baby gear for little ones, helping a child participate in a sports program, gifting a cooking class to an adult with disabilities, or providing livestock to a family overseas.

“The Giving Machine makes it easy for families to make a meaningful difference in their community during the busy holiday season,” says Kristin Samuelian, area director of Southern California Giving Machines. “At the San Diego location, visitors can donate items ranging from $5–$150, making

it easy for everyone to participate at some level.”

Visitors to the Giving Machine in Old Town have the opportunity to support dozens of nonprofits, including these San Diego organizations: Gently Hugged, Corazón de Vida, Catholic Charities Diocese of San Diego, Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater San Diego, Mountain Shadows Support Group, Historic Old Town Community Foundation, Rady Children’s Hospital Foundation and Scripps Health.

It works just like it sounds: Approach the “vending” machine with your family, browse the charitable causes and decide who you want to support. Consider giving kids a spending limit and letting them choose a cause that they’re passionate about. Simply pay at the machine.

There are many benefits for families to give and engage in service to

Scan the QR code to learn more.

Join us at the San Diego Giving Machine at 5 p.m. on Giving Tuesday (Dec. 2) for a special event with Eric Weddle, former San Diego Chargers player and current high school football coach at Rancho Bernardo High School.

others. “Service teaches kids to think outside of themselves,” says Jamie Pyatt of San Marcos.

Nonprofits receive 100 percent of each donation, which are tax deductible. Operational costs (including any credit card transaction fees) are covered by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

San Diego’s Giving Machine

Where: Old Town San Diego

When: From Nov. 27 (Thanksgiving) to Jan. 3, 2026

Friends and families in other parts of Southern California can find Giving Machines during the same timeframe at The Grove in Los Angeles, the Galleria at Tyler in Riverside, Huntington Beach Pier, and the Outlets at San Clemente.

Nov. 13 is World Kindness Day, a global event encouraging acts of kindness, big and small.

The how and why of

Raising Kind Kids

I recently asked my boys what kindness means. My 6-year-old said, “We need to be kind so people will be nice to us and we can have friends.” My 5-yearold said, “I don’t hit or push my friends because I want to turn kindergarten into “kinder” garten.” Later that day, I got a call from the school office because he had pushed someone on the playground. I decided to talk to some real experts on the topic.

“Kindness is different from niceness,” says Christina P. Kantzavelos, a local Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), life coach and writer. “Niceness is often about pleasing others or avoiding conflict, while kindness is rooted in compassion, genuine care and a willingness to act for another person’s well-being.”

Kindness is not just about politeness or surface-level gestures. It’s a deliberate practice, and one of the most powerful tools we can give kids.

Why Being Kind Matters More Than Ever

Kids are growing up in a world where differences are not being honored and celebrated.

“We’re living in a particularly challenging and divisive time, and we are not privy to seeing kindness modeled at the highest levels,” says Deborah J. Cohan, Ph.D. “It’s up to parents, teachers and other mentors to show children the ripple effect of one kind gesture or comment.”

When kids participate in acts of generosity and helpfulness, they build skills to form strong friendships, navigate conflict and contribute positively to their communities.

“Children raised in environments where kindness is valued often develop stronger social skills, resilience and empathy,” says Jill McManigal, cofounder and executive director of local organization Kids for Peace. “They tend

to form positive relationships, show emotional intelligence, and grow into leaders who inspire cooperation and understanding.”

Five Ways to Teach Kids Kindness

Understanding the importance of kindness is one thing. But how do we actually teach it? Children don’t need lectures; they need examples, encouragement and opportunities to practice kindness every day.

Start early and model it. Parents are a child’s first teachers. Modeling kindness lays an important foundation. We recently were at Disneyland after the half-marathon. We encouraged our boys to say “Congrats!” to anyone they passed wearing a race bib and medal. At first, they were hesitant; but after seeing how happy it made race participants, the boys loved it!

Soon, they were spotting finishers and offering congratulations on their own. That simple act demonstrated how little gestures brighten someone’s day.

“Children learn by observing the adults around them,” McManigal says. “Small actions—saying thank you, offering compliments, helping a neighbor or staying patient during stressful moments—leave a lasting impression.”

Parents and teachers can encourage activities like taking turns, working together, treating others the way you want to be treated, and role-playing how to respond when someone feels sad or needs help.

Help kids connect actions to feelings. Modeling is powerful, but kids also need help understanding how their behavior affects those around them.

“It’s important to teach kids about feelings and how what we do affects others,” says Jami Kirkbride, a licensed professional counselor and parenting coach. “Teaching emotional vocabulary helps kids understand their own emotions and those of others. That’s how they learn to respond kindly—in how they speak, act and react.”

Talk to kids about what they observe when they’re kind to others or how it makes them feel when they experience a kind gesture. This helps them connect behavior to feelings.

Reframe mistakes as learning opportunities. Even the kindest kids mess up. They’ll push a friend, say something hurtful or forget to share. But these moments are full of potential.

“Kindness is not automatic; it is an active, intentional choice,” McManigal says. “By noticing someone who’s struggling, offering a helping hand or forgiving a mistake, parents show that kindness requires thought, selfdiscipline and moral strength.”

Instead of scolding, pause and talk it through. Ask kids, “How do you think your friend felt? What could you do differently next time?” Practicing responses, such as offering a toy or saying “I’m sorry,” helps kids build real life skills.

When we treat mistakes as learning opportunities, kids see that kindness isn’t about being perfect. It’s about trying again and making better choices. Teach them to be kind to themselves. Kindness isn’t just about how kids treat others.

“True kindness includes being kind to yourself—recognizing your needs, setting healthy boundaries and respectfully saying no when necessary,” McManigal says.

Discuss real-life examples and roleplay to help kids see that standing up for themselves isn’t mean, it’s part of treating everyone with respect, including themselves.

Make kindness a daily habit. Kindness becomes second nature when it’s part of daily life. Hold open the door for people. Say thank you. Lend a hand. Point out opportunities to be kind throughout the day.

Kids for Peace offers resources and projects like the Great Kindness Challenge: www.kidsforpeaceglobal.org.

Whether it’s reading relevant bedtime stories or participating in spontaneous acts of generosity, these moments add up. Over time, kindness becomes a way of life. Teaching it requires consistency and patience, but the payoff is big. Kids grow into more empathetic, confident and resilient adults.

Find simple acts of generosity in the article “41 Random Acts of Kindness: How to Make the World a Better Place” at www.sandiegofamily.com.

If you want kind kids, start early, model it often and show yourself kindness along the way. The more compassion we show in our own lives, the more our kids will carry it into theirs—and into the world. v

Maile Timon is a copywriter and content strategist. She lives in Poway with her husband and sons. When she’s not writing, she enjoys CrossFit training, hiking and spending time with family.

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The Spirit of Giving Begins at Home

Encouraging kids to help

We live in an age of selfies, where not-so-subtle societal messages define worth by material possessions and approval from social media “friends,” some of whom we barely know. In such a hands-off environment, it is easy to retreat from others or to believe that we are the center of our own worlds.

Ironically, experts say that the acceptance and achievement people crave often come from focusing on others. Since empathy is a strong predictor of future success, children (and adults) have much to gain by cultivating a giving spirit instead of chasing recognition or seeking “likes” on social media.

Teaching children to identify with causes larger than themselves isn’t difficult. Even better, serving others as a family creates meaningful togetherness.

Children Are Born to Care

Children are hard-wired with a spirit of giving. That’s apparent in the toddler who cries at the sight of an upset playmate, the preschooler who offers his teddy bear to a sick sibling or the child who grabs a sponge when mom is washing the car. As they

others

grow, children learn from society that sometimes it’s unsafe or unwise to care. So, what to do?

Families have the power to foster empathy. Research indicates that parents who openly express warmth and compassion tend to raise more kind-hearted children. This process begins at birth and is intuitive. Routinely responding to an infant’s cries or a toddler’s skinned knee communicates that helping others is important. When children feel secure that the world is a safe and loving place, it’s easier to develop empathy.

The first opportunity for children to help others is at home; consider assigning tasks that benefit the family. “Children need jobs,” says Dr. William Sears, pediatrician and book author. “Once a child learns a sense of responsibility for the household, a sense of responsibility to society will come naturally in the next stage of development.”

Kids Who Help Others Help Themselves

Children who support others often gain more than they give. They experience a boost in well-being, self-worth and

optimism. Helping others becomes a shield against temptation and stress. When kids know it feels good to do the right thing, it’s easier to say no to the wrong things.

Volunteering as a family creates quality time together. Away from screens and other distractions, families discover new ways to connect and appreciate one another. Research shows that children who volunteer with their families are twice as likely to continue volunteering as adults, who then pass the tradition on to their own children. Helping others becomes a family legacy and makes a generational impact!

Even Busy Families Can Participate in Giving

Fostering a giving spirit doesn’t require huge amounts of time or money. Jenny Friedman, an authority on family philanthropy and founder of the Doing Good Together blog, says that finding time to help others is easier than most people think. She says the key is to consider current activities and hobbies and find ways to incorporate volunteering into those events.

For example, families who craft together can make get-well cards

6 Charitable Ideas for Busy Families

Support hospitalized children, families in need, deployed military service members and more. Here are ideas to get started.

1. Make a hospitalized child smile. Cards for Hospitalized Kids accepts handmade cards for distribution to kids in the hospital. Over 500,000 children have received cards from all over the world. Families can use their own creativity or visit the website for helpful suggestions:  www.cardsforhospitalizedkids.com.

2. Provide comfort to children facing challenges. Project Linus accepts handmade blankets for children who are ill, traumatized or who need the security of a comfort item. No-sew patterns (and many others) are available on their site: www.projectlinus.org.

3. Offer encouragement to military and first responders. Operation Gratitude needs families to send cards, drawings and letters, which are put into care

4. Visit the Giving Machine in Old Town San Diego. The vending-style machine allows families to easily support a variety of local and international charitable causes such as purchasing a jacket for a toddler or providing clean water or medical supplies for communities in need. Visit the Giving Machine in Old Town San Diego between Thanksgiving (Nov. 27) and January 3, 2026. Learn more on page 13.

5. Adopt a family. The Box Project matches sponsors to families in need. Sponsors regularly mail household and school supplies, clothing or other needed items. Visit www.boxproject.org for more information.

6. Foster a pet. Organizations like Pact for Animals (www.pactforanimals.org) and Dogs on Deployment

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Meet the CNH KIWIN’S Emerald Division A San Diego

As Thanksgiving approaches, many of us are looking forward to turkey and mashed potatoes, the gathering of family and friends, and, of course, football games and the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. With all this abundance, it’s an excellent time to express gratitude by helping others in the community.

CNH KIWIN’S Emerald Division, a volunteer group made up of students from four local high schools, welcomes new members throughout the year and is always looking for ways to lend a helping hand. Here’s a little about who they are, what they do, and how students can get involved.

Who Are the CNH KIWIN’S?

CNH (California–Nevada–Hawaii)

KIWIN’S is a student-led service and leadership organization, part of Kiwanis International. The Emerald Division consists of students from

youth leadership group

Chula Vista, Olympian, Otay Ranch and Rancho Bernardo High Schools, but dozens of schools have KIWIN’S and Key Clubs across the CNH region.

“Our mission is to build student leaders through service,” says Anna Wu, district administrator. “We empower high school students to discover their leadership potential, develop lifelong friendships and make a positive difference in their schools and communities.”

*Note: The apostrophe “s” in KIWIN’S is part of their official name.

What Do KIWIN’S Do?

KIWIN’S members organize and participate in a variety of service projects that range from community clean-ups and clothing drives to tutoring and local nonprofit support. They also raise funds for causes like pediatric health, hunger relief and disaster aid.

Beyond volunteering and fundraising, students attend leadership training conferences, plan large-scale service events and learn valuable professional and personal skills that will benefit them well beyond high school.

“One of my favorite experiences is watching hundreds of students come together each year at our District Convention,” Wu says. “Seeing their passion for service, their growth as leaders and the friendships they form is incredibly moving. It’s a reminder that these young people aren’t just the leaders of tomorrow—they’re making an impact right now.”

Aya Bacsal, an Olympian High School student and KIWIN’S President, loves being surrounded by smiling faces while volunteering. “It’s amazing to witness the impact we make while cleaning the community alongside other students like me,” Bacsal says. “KIWIN’S is not just a group of students who volunteer together, but a family.”

More Local Youth Leadership and Service Groups

Kiwanis K-Kids is a service leadership program for elementary school kids ages 6–11. www.kiwaniskids.org

Best Buddies helps end social isolation of local students with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) by partnering them with fellow elementary, middle and high school students who don’t have IDD. Ask your child’s school if they participate. www.bestbuddies.org/ california/friendship

California FFA is a youth leadership organization offering career development through agricultural education. The Southern Region has local high school chapters in Escondido, Fallbrook, Lakeside, Poway, Ramona, San Marcos and Valley Center. www.calaged.org/ffa-leadership

Girl Scouts San Diego, which serves girls ages 5–18 throughout San Diego County, helps develop future leaders by providing a variety of programs and service opportunities. www.sdgirlscouts.org

Kiwanis Builders Club offers leadership skills and character-building opportunities for middle school students ages 12–14. www.buildersclub.org

Mitchell Thorp Foundation Youth Leadership Council provides community service opportunities and leadership development for local students in grades 9–12. www.mitchellthorp.org/youth-leadershipcouncil.html

Rotary Interact Clubs, such as Rotary Club of Downtown San Diego Interact Club and Rotary Club of Carlsbad Interact Club, provide opportunities for service and international understanding for kids ages 12–18. www.rotary.org/en/get-involved/interact-clubs

Scouting America (formerly Boy Scouts), which serves boys and girls ages 5–20, fosters leadership and personal growth while making an impact on the local community. www.sdicscouting.org

How Students Get Involved

New club members to the Emerald Division are always welcome. To join, look for fall recruitment meetings or sign-up tables at events throughout the year (at the schools listed above). KIWIN’S can also be contacted through Instagram @emeraldkiwins.

“We are always looking to grow and to give more students the opportunity to serve their home, school and community,” says Wu.

If your school does not host a KIWIN’S club on campus, consider starting one. Learn how at www.kiwins.org/faq.

How to Support KIWIN’S or Utilize Their Services

Community members and organizations are encouraged to invite KIWIN’S clubs to assist with service projects. Contact DA@kiwins.org to be connected to the appropriate club. Sponsorship and adult mentorship opportunities are also available.

The KIWIN’S Emerald Division has helped out at multiple events hosted by San Diego Family Magazine and the Special Needs Resource Foundation of San Diego. We’re happy to vouch for these generous, giving kids!

Wu wants the community to know that being involved in CNH KIWIN’S is more than just volunteering. “It’s about developing compassionate, resilient leaders,” she says. “Many of our alumni go on to lead in their colleges, careers and communities, carrying forward the values they learned through KIWIN’S.” To get involved, visit www.kiwins.org. v

Lisa Pawlak is an award-winning contributing writer who resides in Encinitas with her family.

Find a full list of opportunities in our article “San Diego Youth Leadership Programs” at www.sandiegofamily.com/ parenting/big-kid/youth-leadershipprograms.

Meaningful Thanksgiving Traditions 9 ways

Many people say Thanksgiving is their favorite winter holiday because it focuses on family and gratitude. Taking part in yearly traditions gives families (children especially) a sense of stability, identity and connection. It also provides an opportunity to demonstrate what makes them unique, which contributes to the well-being of the entire family.

A study by the Society for Research in Child Development concluded that parents who had pleasant memories of family traditions reported more positive interactions with their own children, who might one day continue the cycle. Now that we’ve established the importance of Thanksgiving traditions, here are nine meaningful ways to facilitate family connection.

Share Foods that Celebrate Family Identity.

It’s perfectly acceptable to serve turkey and traditional sides at Thanksgiving (particularly if that’s your tradition!), but there is also value in sharing dishes that are personally meaningful. Consider including heritage recipes that are connected to special relatives or

to facilitate family

connection

family experiences. Embrace ethnic or regional dishes that reflect the identity or personal preferences of your dinner guests. Consider cooking special recipes with children so they learn to pass them down to their own families. The “perfect” Thanksgiving menu varies from family to family.

Use the “Good China.” Many hosts serve Thanksgiving dinner on the “good china” so that the meal feels extra special. Some families use family heirlooms, while others embrace mismatched vintage-looking pieces. If you don’t have dinnerware you love, scour auction sites, garage sales and thrift stores to creatively complement pieces you already have. It’s fun to add to the collection as your family grows. Consider thoughtfully lending pieces to whoever hosts Thanksgiving.

Remember Absent Family Members. It’s therapeutic and respectful to remember loved ones who aren’t able to join the Thanksgiving meal or those who have passed away. Honor absent relatives by lighting a candle, sharing photos, leaving an empty place setting on the table,

serving a favorite dish or saying a special blessing. Experts stress that it’s important to use discretion if grief is fresh, but talking about a missed family member helps facilitate love and affection, and sharing memories keeps them close.

Tell Stories. An easy way to bring meaning to dinner conversation is to ask loved ones to share heartfelt or funny stories. Doing so ensures that mealtime topics remain positive and that family members gain new insights about one another.

Adults can ask open-ended questions like, “What was your favorite birthday?” Or, “What personal attribute is most important to you?” The answers may provide a peek inside everyone’s personality, values and experiences. See “Helpful Hints” for more ideas.

Play Games After the Meal. Have a selection of cards or board games available for after the Thanksgiving meal. Some of our favorite are Skyjo, Five Crowns, Taboo, Yahtzee and Blank Slate. Flip to page 25 to discover great new family games. Alternatively, plan hilarious Minute-to-Win-It games for

everyone (these might be better before the meal!) or start a family tournament (Scrabble, ping pong, corn hole, etc.).

Remain Flexible. As valuable as traditions are, change is inevitable. Unforeseen events or a shift in circumstances may mean that the food, people or activities are different this year. Don’t let it ruin your day. An open mind and a spirit of acceptance ensure that the focus remains on the holiday’s purpose and enjoyment.

Turn off Electronics. It’s no secret that phones divert attention away from faceto-face exchanges and make connecting with others difficult. To avoid distractions, establish a technology-free table this year and watch the verbal conversations flow.

Express Gratitude. Many families have an annual tradition of sharing one thing that each person is thankful for. While some share verbally, others create a thankful tree, a gratitude chain or a tablecloth of thanks that is added to every year. It’s heartwarming to watch these heirlooms grow and change over time. Find a tutorial for making a gratitude chain that everyone contributes to at www.kiwico.com/ diy/Holidays-and-Events/2/project/ Gratitude-Chain-/2704.

Start a family thankful jar by festively decorating a jar and offering various ways for everyone to add to it. Consider passing it around at Thanksgiving and reading a few. Find instructions and inspiration at www.sandiegofamily.com/for-the-kids/ crafts-for-kids/thankful-jars.

Have thank-you cards and stamps available for people to fill out and mail as an impromptu way to express gratitude to someone far away.

Offer Activities for Kids. Even the most engaged and well-behaved children enjoy entertainment or activities meant just for them.

Find instructions for fun crafts like the ones below at www.sandiegofamily.com/ for-the-kids/crafts-for-kids.

• Thankful Turkey Table Décor

• DIY Air-Dry Ornaments

• Crayon Holder Craft

• Art with Alyssa: Fall Leaves

Or, purchase craft kits at your local craft store, which include pre-cut materials that make several finished crafts. Be sure to make one in advance as a sample. Provide glue, scissors or other necessary tools.

Handmade Christmas ornaments or holiday decorations can be sent home with guests since many people decorate the day after Thanksgiving.

Experts agree that encouraging family relationships—and remembering that we are part of something bigger—is worth the effort. Give thanks, establish family traditions and encourage familial connections that endure for generations. v

Shannon Dean is the mother of two sons. She enjoys writing about family health and well-being.

Helpful Hints

Find the Missing Piece

If you have a set of heirloom dishes or vintage glassware that is missing a piece, Replacements Ltd. is a good place to look. The site helps identify dinnerware, silverware, glassware and collectibles. Search for pieces by name or photo. www.replacements.com

Get the Conversation Started

• Story Corps offers great conversation starters in categories like family heritage, growing up and raising children. www.storycorps.org/participate/ great-questions

• Table Topics (especially the “Family” and “Family Gathering” versions) facilitates fun and meaningful family discussions. www.tabletopics.com

Jennifer Garcia

Are We There Yet?

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10 ways to holiday travel with toddlers

While many (myself included) eagerly anticipate the months ending in “ber,” holidays can be chaotic, especially when they involve travel. If congested roadways and weather delays aren’t enough to make you rethink your plans, the notion of toting along little ones might. Don’t axe your itinerary just yet. While nothing guarantees perfect travel conditions with young children, the tips below have proven successful for my family and may restore your family’s comfort and joy as well.

Everything done with a toddler in tow requires a bit of self-grace, and travel is no exception. Some flights with my kiddo are a breeze; others leave me swearing off travel for the next decade. Here are some lessons we’ve learned along the way.

Keep calm and ride on. Our son loves his hardshell ride-on suitcase! We still bring a stroller for when he’s tired or when we’re not at the airport.

Avoid sugar. On one memorable flight, my toddler was crying loudly before takeoff when a lovely, wellmeaning flight attendant appeared with snack-sized servings of OREOs. Against my better judgement, I let him chow down. While the treat stopped his tears, the rest of the flight was spent trying to quell a sugared-up, overly tired 2-yearold. Never again.

Bring healthy snacks. Pack an array of (non-sugary) snacks your toddler

enjoys and put them in a container that allows him to see the entire assortment. Providing toddlers with choices is a great way to give them a sense of autonomy and control, and it reduces power struggles. Chewing helps with ear discomfort during airplane ascent and decent. Gummy snacks work well.

Keep shoes on. As of July 2025, TSA no longer requires shoes to be removed in security lanes.

Pack surprises. I like to have a few new toys or activities handy, but it doesn’t have to cost a fortune. Some of our favorites include Water WOW! and Sticker WOW! on-the-go activity books, suction cup spinners, playdough, mini magnetic tiles and toy airplanes. When we’re not using it, we share our bag of travel toys with friends. They always add a few new items, which is fun to discover on our next trip.

Expect a mess. Wherever there’s a toddler, a mess is sure to follow. Always have hand wipes with you, and use the airsick bags from the seatback pocket in front of you as a small trash bag.

Skip the gadgets (mostly). I’m a sucker for gadgets and I’ve tried a lot of TikTok “must haves.” Most have been a waste of money and space, but I do highly recommend a car seat tray for road trips. It provides little ones with a desktop for the car, which is great for snacking, activities and playing with toys. Ours doubles as a dry-erase board, which our little guy loves.

Travel compact. An umbrella stroller is lightweight, quick and easy to use, and saves space in vehicles and hotel rooms. Many car rental companies offer car seat rental options, so be sure to inquire.

Depart at night. We like to travel at night, even opting for red-eye flights when available. On the day of travel, we stay very active to wear our kiddo down. Then we give him a bath, put cozy pajamas on, and take a blanket on board. Flying at night means your toddler is more likely to sleep while traveling. This holds true for road trips. Wait to hit the road until after dinner and bath time (there’s also usually less traffic at night).

Find a balance. I try to leave the tablet as my last resort, but I also believe in picking my battles. Most airlines have options for free games, movies and TV, but if your kid has a favorite, be sure to download it

beforehand. Don’t forget headphones! We’ve tried them all; the only pair my son will wear are wired Paw Patrol headphones, complete with puppy ears.

Holidays are a special time to make memories with people we love, and travel can be a wonderful way to do that. Enjoy the journey, go with the flow and make the most of each moment. After all, today becomes tomorrow all too fast. v

Jennifer Garcia is a photographer and freelance writer in East San Diego County. When she’s not traveling with her husband and toddler, she’s often thrifting, crafting or baking.

Traveling with an infant? Read triedand-true tips for traveling with babies in the extended version of this article in the new issue of San Diego Babies & Toddlers at www.sandiegofamily.com/ parenting/baby/san-diego-babies-andtoddlers.

’Tis the Season for Holiday Toys!

Goodyear Kids

Mega Car Engine Repair Set

$49.99; 3+

Costco.com

This is so cool for tinkering enthusiasts and budding engineers! Through imaginative play, kids learn to fix, assemble and take care of their “vehicle” with included mini drill, socket wrench and other tools. Batteries required.

Blocchi Frosted Fairytale Magnetic Blocks

$49.99; 3+

Walmart.com

Create a winter wonderland with 84 festive building blocks from USA Toyz. Construct a magical castle and ice towers with snowy creatures and fairytale characters. Magnetic pieces are easy to connect, safe to use and perfect for small hands.

Ready to start your holiday shopping?

Consider this year’s hottest toys—and don’t forget a new game or two for Thanksgiving weekend! Pick up our December issue for more toys and gift ideas.

Harmony Play Kitchen

$219.99; 2+

Step2.com

Pint-sized chefs enjoy hours of imaginative play with interactive features such as clicker knobs, working light and “sizzling” burner. Modern, sleek design and ample storage for included 25-piece accessory set. Batteries required.

Loog Piano

$249; All ages LoogGuitars.com

This portable, digital piano for beginners is appropriate for all ages. Features musician-grade sound, pro design, velocity-sensitive keys, rechargeable battery, built-in speakers and dedicated learning app.

furReal Coco the Tumbling Panda

$55.99; 4+

Amazon.com

Coco, the interactive panda plush is ready to play with over 60 soundand-motion activations from wiggling and giggling to rolling and snacking. At nap time, Coco loves to snuggle while falling asleep.

Lite-Brite ColorPOP! Collection

$25.99; 6+

Amazon.com

Nostalgic Lite-Brite fun with allnew translucent HD screen, four light modes and high-definition color templates in Disney Stitch, Hello Kitty, Elf on the Shelf and more. Each set includes six scenes and 650 mini-pegs. QR code offers additional downloadable templates.

Huffy Electro-Light Bike

$139.99; 4-6 years Huffy.com

Kids love the dazzling light-up handlebar, frame and chainguard of this 16” steel-frame bike for the style; parents appreciate the visibility. Also features red tires and grips, removable training wheels and padded, adjustable seat. Batteries included.

CONNETIX Glitter Castle Pack

$69.99; 3+

ConnetixTiles.com

Inspire creativity and encourage STEM-learning with magnetic glitter tiles in vibrant colors that bring designs to life. This 48-piece pack features beveled squares, isosceles and equilateral triangles for building shimmering towers, bridges and more.

Game Night

Fun!

Candy Land Vintage Bookshelf Edition

$47; 3+ WSGameCompany.com

This favorite childhood game comes in a vintage box that looks like a book when put away.

The Original TAPPLE: Disney Edition

$29.99; 8+ TheOP.games

Animal Hotel

$69.99; 4-10 years

Playmobil.us

Animal enthusiasts dive into the world of pet care and grooming while designing and maintaining a pet paradise. Set includes three cats, two dogs, a parrot and tons of accessories.

National Geographic Ancient Egypt Dig Kits

$19.99; 4+ Amazon.com

Unearth secrets of ancient Egypt with this exciting kit that includes three dig bricks—a pyramid, Sphinx and pharaoh. Use provided tools to excavate hidden treasures inside!

Hieroglyphic activity booklet and learning guide included.

The fun party game with a new twist—over 100 Disney-themed categories.

Fanzone Soccer Trivia Game

$29.99; 7+ UltraPro.com

Race to answer questions in five categories and determine the ultimate soccer fan!

Dinosaur Head to Toe Dominoes

$19.99; 3+ eeBoo.com

Another great game from eeBoo; perfect for little ones.

National Veterans and Military Families Month • National Adoption Month • National Gratitude Month

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“Dr. Seuss’s How the Grinch Stole Christmas!”

The Old Globe Theatre is transformed into the snow-covered Who-ville, right down to the last can of Who-hash. Featuring the songs “Santa for a Day,” “You’re a Mean One, Mr. Grinch,” and “Welcome, Christmas (Fah Who Doraze).” Select dates Nov. 8–Dec. 31.

The Old Globe, Balboa Park. Tickets: www.theoldglobe.org

Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.

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FREE Día de los Muertos Celebration. Live music and dance performances, themed photo ops, kids crafts and more. 3–8 pm. Downtown Chula Vista. www.downtownchulavista.com/events/diade-los-muertos-celebration

FREE Old Town San Diego Día de los Muertos. 40+ altars, fun activities, candlelit procession and more. Today & tomorrow. Old Town. www.parks.ca.gov/EventDetails/17797

FREE Day of the Dead Gaslamp. Altars, decorations and more. Today, 11 am–9 pm & tomorrow, 11 am–6 pm. Gaslamp, downtown. www.dayofthedeadsd.com

FREE Día de los Muertos at Leo Carrillo Ranch. Colorful decorations, arts and crafts, photo ops and more. Today & tomorrow, 10 am–3 pm. Leo Carrillo Ranch Historic Park, 6200 Flying Leo Carrillo Ln. www.carlsbadca.gov

FREE 30th Annual Día de los Muertos Festival. Vendors, food trucks, altars, catrinas, live entertainment, artisan market and more. Nov. 1, 4-9 pm. California Center for the Arts, Escondido, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

“Annie.” The extraordinary story of a little orphan who ends up in the lap of luxury. Today, tomorrow & Nov. 7–9. $22.50–$24.50. Casa del Prado Theater, Balboa Park. www.juniortheatre.com

Day Out with Thomas. Take a ride with Thomas, meet Percy and Sir Topham Hatt and enjoy a day of family fun. Today, tomorrow, Nov. 8–9 & 11. Southern California Railway Museum, 2201 S. ‘A’ St., Perris. Tickets: www.socalrailway.org

Sunset Scripps Pier Walks. Walking tours of Scripps Pier featuring hands-on science stations: squid dissections, local shark research and more. Today, tomorrow & Nov. 9. $40. Birch Aquarium at Scripps. Advance registration required: www.aquarium.ucsd.edu

SDSU Aztec Football. Tonight, Nov. 15 & 22. Snapdragon Stadium, 2101 Stadium Way. Tickets: www.goaztecs.com

Fleet Week San Diego. Events designed to honor and celebrate our military’s contribution to our nation and community. Through Nov. 9. Broadway Pier, downtown. Schedule: www.fleetweeksandiego.org

FREE Escondido Tamale Festival. Celebrate Hispanic culture with tamale contest, kids’ zone, music and more. 11 am–5 pm. Grape Day Park, 321 N. Broadway. https://usamulticultural.org/ escondido-tamale-festival

FREE Antique & Craft Fair Vendors Day at the Farm. Today & tomorrow, 9 am–3 pm. Summers Past Farms, 15602 Olde Hwy. 80, Flinn Springs.  www.summerspastfarms.com

Roar & Snore Safari. Experience a sleepover and observe the nighttime activities of wildlife and morning wildlife presentations. Today, Nov. 9, 14, 21, 22, 28 & 29. Starting at $160. Safari Park, 15500 San Pasqual Valley Rd., Escondido. www.sdzsafaripark.org

Rooftop Cinema Club: “Coco.” 1:30 pm. $11–$17. Manchester Grand Hyatt, 1 Market Pl. Full schedule: https://rooftopcinemaclub.com/san-diego

Escondido Renaissance Fair. Jousting, live entertainment and more. Today & tomorrow, 10 am–6 pm. $12–$30; under 5 free. Felicita County Park, 742 Clarence Ln. www.oldetymeproductions.com

“Working Girl.” A sharp and hilarious adaptation of the iconic 1988 film. Select dates through Nov. 30. 2910 La Jolla Village Dr. Tickets: www.lajollaplayhouse.org

Novemberfest. Face painting, photo booth, raffles and more. Proceeds support the Alta Vista Botanical Gardens and the Amigos De Vista Lions Club. For ages 21+. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens, 1270 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. https://altavistabotanicalgardens.org/ novemberfest/

The Haunted Trail of Balboa Park. $34.99. For ages 10+. Balboa Dr. & Juniper Rd. www.hauntedtrail.net

Haunted Corn Maze. 7–10 pm. $25. Carlsbad Strawberry Fields, Cannon Rd. & I-15. www.carlsbadstrawberrycompany.com

SeaWorld Spooktacular. Candy, costumes and plenty of spooky surprises. Today & tomorrow. Included with admission. 500 Sea World Dr. www.seaworld.com

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Calendar •

November

Brick-or-Treat Monster Party. Trickor-treating, character meet & greets with LEGO Monsters and more. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.legoland.com

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Daylight Saving Time Ends

Komen More Than Pink Walk. This event brings together survivors, supporters and advocates to raise funds and support breast cancer patients. 8 am. Balboa Park. Register: www.komensandiego.com

FREE Coronado Holiday Festival. Performances by Coronado school children, Skydiving Santa, a dazzling fireworks show and more. Schedule: www.hoteldel.com

FREE Carlsbad Village Street Faire. Children’s rides, arts & crafts and more. 8 am–4 pm. Carlsbad Blvd. to Jefferson. www.kennedyfaires.com

FREE Spreckels Organ Society Concerts. Sundays, 2–3 pm. Pavilion-Pan American Pl., Balboa Park. www.spreckelsorgan.org

San Diego Gulls. Tonight, Nov. 7, 14, 15, 19, 22 & 28. Starting at $34. Pechanga Arena, 3500 Sports Arena Blvd. www.sandiegogulls.com

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FREE The Super Dentists Candy Buy Back. Turn candy into cash, receive $1 for each pound of candy. Through Nov. 10. Deliver to any of their seven locations. www.thesuperdentists.com

Living Seas at Birch Aquarium. Venture into the hidden realm of a Giant Pacific Octopus, explore life beneath Scripps Pier and marvel at a vibrant coral reef. 9 am–5 pm. $24.95–$29.95; 2 & under free. 2300 Expedition Way, La Jolla. www.aquarium.ucsd.edu

Top Secret: Inside the High-Stakes World of Naval Intelligence. Go inside Midway’s restored Carrier Intelligence Center. Daily, 10 am–5 pm. Included with admission. $26–$39. USS Midway Museum, 910 N. Harbor Dr. www.midway.org

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Residents FREE Days at Balboa Park. Park museums offer free admission Tuesdays on a rotating basis throughout the month to residents of the City and County of San Diego, and to active military personnel and their dependents. Schedule: www.balboapark.org

San Diego FC Soccer Team. 5:30 pm. Snapdragon Stadium, 2101 Stadium Way. Tickets: www.sandiegofc.com

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UltraStar Cinemas Discount Thursdays. 50% off all movie tickets and popcorn. 7510 Hazard Center Dr. Showtimes: www.ultrastarmovies.com

FREE Party at the Pop Jet at Del Mar Highlands. Family-friendly entertainment. 10 am. 12925 El Camino Real. www.delmarhighlandstowncenter.com

FREE Santa Arrives on the Holiday Express Train. Train rides, crafts and more. 12–3 pm. Village Walk at EastLake, 884 Eastlake Pkwy., Chula Vista. www.shopvillagewalk.com

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KPBS Kids Event: Molly of Denali. Practice social skills and learn about different cultures through craft activities and story time. 10 am–12 noon. $14. San Diego Children’s Discovery Museum, 320 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.visitcmod.org

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Space Night. Blast off into the universe and introduce little ones to astronomy, astronauts and aerospace. 5–7:30 pm. $17. Children’s Museum of Discovery, 320 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.visitcmod.org

“CoComelon: Sing-Along LIVE!” This interactive show brings CoComelon’s vibrant world to life. Starting at $33. California Center for the Arts, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

Kids in the Garden: Cooking and Nutrition–Corn! 10 am–12 noon. $5. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens, 1270 Vale Terrace Dr., Vista. Pre-register at farmerjonesavbg@gmail.com. https://altavistabotanicalgardens.org

FREE Red, White & Blue Salute. SeaWorld holds the men and women that have served in our armed forces in the highest regard, and is honored to host them at their park as guests. Through Nov. 10. 500 Sea World Dr. Details: www.seaworld.com/sandiego

“Lightscape”

This mile-long, illuminated trail has been reimagined with vibrant new installations from artists from around the world, plus a few returning favorites that continue to dazzle. Nov. 14 through Jan. 4, 5–10 pm. $18–$28; 2 & under free. San Diego Botanic Garden, 300 Quail Gardens Dr., Encinitas. www.sdbg.org

CURIOSITY WELCOME

Ride the Point. Ride the hidden, unridden and forbidden Point Loma for pancreatic cancer research. 8 am. Starting at $25. Liberty Station, 2562 Lanning Rd. Register: www.ridethepoint.org

Archaeology Day: “Honoring the People.” Basket weaving demonstration, rock painting and more. 9 am–3:30 pm. Anza–Borrego Desert State Park Visitor Center, 200 Palm Canyon Dr., Borrego Springs. www.anzaborregoarchaeo.org/ archday2025/

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FREE Christmas on the Farm Craft Fair. Live music, handmade crafts and more. Today & tomorrow, 9 am–4 pm. Bates Nut Farm, 15954 Woods Valley Rd. www.batesnutfarm.biz

Don’t forget to call to confirm dates, times and admission prices.

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Veterans Day

Scan the QR code to read “9 Ways to Thank a Military Veteran,” which includes thoughtful ways to express gratitude to those who served in our armed forces.

FREE Veterans Day Parade. Honoring those who served past and present. 10 am. Harbor Dr., in front of the County Admin Bldg. Details: www.sdvetparade.org

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World Ballet Company Presents: “Cinderella.” Blending humor, romance and the timeless majesty of classical ballet. 7 pm. Starting at $60. Concert Hall, California Center for the Arts, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

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Disney’s Moana Live-to-Film Concert. The beloved movie accompanied by live performances from a unique on-stage musical ensemble. 6 pm. Starting at $27. Balboa Theatre, 868 Fourth Ave. www.sandiegotheatres.org

SeaWorld Christmas Celebration. Where holiday traditions are made, with delicious food, stunning live shows, delightful holiday shopping and joyous entertainment. Select dates through Jan. 4. 500 Sea World Dr. www.seaworld.com

“Roald Dahl’s Matilda The Musical.” Through Nov. 16. $36. Center Theater, California Center for the Arts, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

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San Diego Made 10th Anniversary Holiday Market. Get a head start on

your holiday shopping while supporting local businesses. Today, 10 am–5 pm & tomorrow, 10 am–4 pm. NTC Park, Liberty Station. www.sdmademarkets.com

FREE Holiday Marketplace. Unique gifts from local makers and artists. All sales benefit the park. Today & tomorrow, 9 am–3 pm. MTRP Visitor Center, One Junipero Serra Trail. www.mtrp.org

Teen Movie Night: “Wicked.” Art project, games, food and more. 5–9 pm. $6. Mickey Cafagna Community Ctr., 13094 Civic Ctr. Dr., Poway. www.poway.org

FREE Girl Scouts & Young Entrepreneurs Holiday Craft Market. Hands-on activities, games, holiday photo ops and more. 9 am–1 pm. Kit Carson Park, 3333 Bear Valley Pkwy., Escondido. www.facebook.com/ events/1122589372648747/

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FREE “The Enchanted Tail.” For kids 3–12 and their families. 2–3 pm. Spreckels Organ Pavilion, Balboa Park.  www.opera4kids.com

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Giving Machine

Giving Machines are a unique twist on vending machines. Help others by purchasing items like clothing, medical supplies, canine therapy, books, food and livestock for charities locally and worldwide. Donations are eligible for tax deductions. Starting Thanksgiving Day, Giving Machines will appear in 131 cities in 21 countries, including Old Town San Diego. Flip to p. 13 for more info.

The Polar Express. A magical trip to meet Santa with hot chocolate and a cookie served by dancing chefs. Select dates through Dec. 31; 11:30 am, 1:30, 4, 6 & 8 pm. $49–$88. Southern California Railway Museum, 2201 S. “A” St., Perris.  www.socalrailway.org

Meditation Ocean: Aquarius Reef Base. Multi-sensory art installation that reimagines Aquarius Reef base — the world’s only undersea research habitat. Wander through simulated underwater spaces and step inside a re-creation of aquanauts’ living quarters. Included with admission. Birch Aquarium, 2300 Expedition Way. www.aquarium.uscd.edu

Rady Children’s Ice Rink. Kick off holiday festivities and give back to San Diego

families dealing with childhood cancer. Open daily through Jan. 4, 10 am–10 pm. $15–$20; includes skate rental and helmets. Legacy Plaza, Liberty Station, 2875 Dewey Rd. www.rchicerink.org

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Skating by the Sea. Take a spin around Hotel del Coronado’s famous beachfront ice rink featuring stunning views of the Pacific and benefitting Make-A-Wish San Diego. Daily through Jan 4. 1500 Orange Ave. Tickets: www.hoteldel.com

FREE Oz Lightshow Spectacular. Experience the magic of the season as The Del’s historic pine trees are draped in a spectacular light show set to an Ozinspired soundtrack and a finale of snow flurries. Nightly every 30 minutes, 5–9 pm.

Through Jan 4. Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

Fun Animal Friday. Story time, handson activity and an animal meet-and-greet. 10–11:30 am. $14. Children’s Museum of Discovery, 320 N. Broadway, Escondido. www.visitcmod.org

FREE Santee Holiday Lighting. Face painting, holiday photo ops and more. 5:30–8:30 pm; tree lighting 6:15 pm. Santee Trolley Square, 9884 Mission Gorge Rd. www.cityofsanteeca.gov

Mannheim Steamroller Christmas. Christmas classics in the distinctive Mannheim sound. Today & tomorrow, 7:30 pm. Starting at $52. Civic Theatre, 1100 Third Ave. www.broadwaysd.com

Camp Christmas. Spectacular water show, hayrides, bounce houses, laser tag and more. Fri.–Sun., through Dec. 23. 5:30–9 pm. $10–$15; 4 & under free. 8668 Pine Creek Rd., Pine Valley. Tickets: www.pinevalleycampchristmas.com

Ebenezer Scrooge’s BIG San Diego Christmas Show. Fast, funny and highly theatrical reimagining of one of the most beloved holiday stories ever told. Select dates through Dec. 28. The Old Globe, Balboa Park. Tickets: www.theoldglobe.org

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Pinery Christmas Trees. Open daily (except Thanksgiving); Mon.–Thurs., 10 am–9 pm & Fri.–Sun., 9 am–9 pm. 4 locations: 5354 Sweetwater Rd., Bonita; Del Mar Horsepark, 14550 1/2 El Camino

San Diego Family’s Map of Lights

San Diego County’s BEST (and newly updated) Map of Christmas Lights is available Thanksgiving weekend—the perfect time for a family holiday light adventure!

Scan the QR code starting Nov. 27 to access the map.

Real; Mission Valley, 1286 Camino Del Rio N.; 13421 Highland Valley Rd., Rancho Bernardo. www.pinerychristmastrees.com

Holidays at LEGOLAND. Holiday LEGO characters, giant LEGO tree, seasonal shows and more. Select dates through Jan. 4. One LEGOLAND Dr., Carlsbad. www.legoland.com

Holiday Market. 10 am–4 pm. $14–$16. Japanese Friendship Garden, Balboa Park. www.niwa.org

FREE Doggie Street Festival. Awesome pet products, services and more. 10 am–3 pm. NTC Park at Liberty Station, 2455 Cushing Rd. www.doggiestreetfestival.org

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FREE Encinitas Holiday Street Fair. 9 am–5 pm. Coast Hwy. 101 from D to J St. www.encinitas101.com

Monday | 24

Thanksgiving Camp starts today! Kids in grades K–6 can attend camp at San Diego Junior Theatre from Nov. 24–26. Scan QR code in ad on page ++ for details.

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“A Christmas Carol.” A reimagined production of Charles Dickens’ timeless tale of hope and redemption. Through Dec. 28. Starting at $44. The Joan, 2880 Roosevelt Rd. www.cygnettheatre.org

thursday | 27

Thanksgiving Day

Thanksgiving Day Cruise. Family-friendly cruise with balloon art, face painting and more. 2, 3:15 & 4:30 pm. 998 W Mission Bay Dr. Tickets: www.bahiahotel.com

FREE Family Christmas Tree Farm

Cut the perfect tree, enjoy hayrides, a petting zoo and more. Opens Nov. 28. Daily, 10 am–8 pm.

300 Pepper Dr., El Cajon. www.familychristmastreefarm.com

O’Side Turkey Trot 5K Run/Walk & Kids Run. Move your feet before you eat. Features live entertainment on the course, costume contests and more. 330 N. Coast Hwy. Register: www.osideturkeytrot.com

Fun Run. Start and finish the race under the world-famous “ENCINITAS” sign on Coast Highway 101. 10K, 7:30 am; 5K, 8 am. Register: www.encinitasturkeytrot.org

Father Joe’s Villages Thanksgiving Turkey Trot 5K. 7:15 am. Balboa Park. Register: www.thanksgivingrun.org

Thanksgiving Lunch Cruise. Gourmet meal, waterfront views and more. 1–3 pm. Flagship San Diego, 990 N. Harbor Dr. Tickets: www.flagshipsd.com

Encinitas Turkey Trot 10K, 5K, Walk/ Coronado Turkey Trot.

8 am. Proceeds benefit the Pediatric Ophthalmology Department at Rady Children’s Hospital-San Diego. Tidelands Park, 2000 Mullinex Dr. Register: www.rchacoronadoturkeytrot.com

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Jingle Jets. The Midway will be transformed into a festive holiday wonderland on the sea. Select nights, through Dec. 30, 5:30–9 pm. $20–$30; 3 & under free. USS Midway Museum, 910 N. Harbor Dr. www.midway.org

North Pole Limited. Enjoy hot chocolate, cookies and Christmas music as you head to the North Pole to pick up Santa. Through Dec. 21. Fri.–Sat., 5 & 7 pm; Sun., 3 & 5 pm. Starting at $15. Pacific Southwest Railway Museum, 750 Depot St., Campo. www.psrm.org

Turkey Bash at Lions Tigers & Bears. Witness rescued big cats and bears savoring their Thanksgiving feast. Today & tomorrow, 10 am. 24402 Martin Way, Alpine. Tickets: www.lionstigersandbears.org

FREE Santa’s Coming! Craft Fair. Oneof-a-kind holiday shopping, live music and more. Today & tomorrow, 9 am–4 pm. Bates Nut Farm, 15954 Woods Valley Rd. www.batesnutfarm.biz

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FREE Holiday Lights in Downtown El Cajon. Santa, trackless train rides and more. 3–8 pm. Prescott Promenade. www.downtownelcajon.com/hlm

FREE Country Christmas Tree Lighting Craft Market. Santa, music and more. 12–6 pm; tree lighting at 6 pm. Julian Town Square. www.visitjulian.com

Holiday Hayride: A Christmas Celebration. Hayride, ornament making, candle making and more. 10 am–4 pm. $20–$25. Fort Cross, 4425 Hwy. 78, Santa Ysabel. www.fortcross.com

Boarded! A New Pirate Adventure. Interactive show where participants learn pirate skills. $35–$85. Maritime Museum of San Diego, 1492 N. Harbor Dr. www.sdmaritime.org

Holiday Movies on the Beach. Tonight & Dec. 6, 13, 20, 27 & 31. $25.75. Hotel del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave. www.hoteldel.com

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FREE East Village Tree Lighting & Holiday Market. Festive evening of fun activities, Santa and more. 4–8 pm; tree lighting 6:45 pm. Quartyard & 13th Street. www.eastvillagesandiego.com

The Nutcracker by International Ballet Stars. All-new, hand-painted sets and over 200 exquisite costumes. 2–4 pm. $54–$114. California Center for the Arts, 340 N. Escondido Blvd. www.artcenter.org

FREE Dazzling Holiday Light Show & Snowfall. Features falling snow, choreographed music and dancing lights. Kids receive free magic glasses for viewing. Every Fri.–Sun. thru Dec. 21, 6 & 7 pm. Village Walk at EastLake, 884 Eastlake Pkwy., Chula Vista. www.shopvillagewalk.com

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