Moon Valley Tattler December 2025

MOON VALLEY SHINES BRIGHT

Good News from the Glendale Union High School District

By Stephanie Poblete Perez

The Glendale Union High School District is celebrating an extraordinary accomplishment: all nine of its comprehensive high schools have earned an “A” rating from the Arizona Department of Education, the highest honor a school can achieve. This outstanding recognition highlights exceptional student learning, academic growth, and preparation for success in college, career, and life after graduation. The rating reflects excellence across multiple measures, including academic performance, progress towards graduation, and college and career readiness through advanced coursework, Career and Technical Education, and realworld experience. District leaders credit this achievement to the dedication of students, the expertise of teachers and staff, and the unwavering support of families and community partners, affirming Glendale Union High School District’s deep commitment to keeping the promise in every student to reach their potential.

The Glendale Union High School District Governing Board honored five exceptional members of the Thunderbird High School community during its Achievement Above All awards celebration. This year’s recipients include teacher Lucy Maurer, who inspires students through her culinary arts program, student Owen St. Clair, recognized for his academic excellence, athletic leadership, and compassion; and the Thunderbird Marching Band, which celebrated its artistry, teamwork, and school spirit. Support staff member Mario Celaya was commended for his reliability and dedication to maintaining the campus, while volunteer Jenna Parris was honored for her contributions to school programs and events. Together, these GUHSD honorees exemplify the excellence, service, and community pride that define Thunderbird High School.

The Glendale Union High School District Governing Board honored Patrick Henry and Victor Vega for reaching an outstanding milestone of 25 years of service within GUHSD. Both Thunderbird High School educators have made a profound impact on campus through their commitment to student success, leadership in their departments, and active involvement in school programs and initiatives. Henry’s work in Career and Technical Education and Vega’s dedication to mathematics and student activities have helped shape Thunderbird’s culture of excellence. Glendale Union High School District extends its sincere appreciation for their decades of service, which continue to strengthen the Thunderbird community and its legacy.

Thunderbird High School culinary students were honored to participate in the exclusive Culinary Careers Program Harvest Moon event at The Phoenician Resort. The Harvest Moon Feast brought together Arizona’s top chefs, each of whom mentored C-CAP students to create a signature dish for the evening. Working alongside Executive Banquet Sous Chef, Chris Iglesias of The Phoenician and Marriott International, their creation, Red Kuri Pumpkin Agnolotti, showcased skill, creativity, and teamwork, earning Thunderbird well-deserved recognition at this highly selective event. The event not only celebrates culinary talent but also supports Thunderbird students pursuing careers in the culinary arts through mentorship, education, and career pathways.

TRAPPED IN MOON VALLEY

I love presents, truly, who doesn’t?

There’s a special kind of excitement that comes with choosing something beautiful, wrapping it with care, and imagining the smile it will spark in someone else. But when I step back, I often find myself wondering: how much of what we buy is something we need , and how much is simply something we want ? That question lingers especially when I look at my extra bedroom, currently overflowing with bags, boxes, and thoughtful finds collected throughout the year.

I’ve always loved to shop. For me, it isn’t just about acquiring things; it’s about the discovery. I can be out in the middle of June or September or any ordinary Tuesday and suddenly spot an item that feels perfect for someone in my life. I’ll pick it up, hold it for a moment, and think, This is it. This is for them. Those small sparks of recognition are what make gift-giving so joyful. By the time the holidays roll around, I already have a stash of personalized and meaningful presents, each chosen with intention long before the festive rush begins.

But honestly the best gift is the presence of each other, spending quality, fun adventurous time together. Laughing, singing, eating and playing games. These are the best presents I receive. As the holiday season approaches, I’m reminded that the true meaning of gifts isn’t found in the price or the quantity, but in the care behind them. Whether it’s something big, something small, or something quietly sentimental, the best presents are those that say, “I see you. I know you. I thought of you.”

And that, more than anything, is why I keep shopping all year long. Gifts—when chosen with heart—are more than wants or needs. They’re a way of giving love shape, form, and presence.

Dawn Trapp

Arizona Cardinals and Pal Experiences Partner to Help Families with Developmental Disabilities

The Arizona Cardinals and Pal Experiences (Pal), a nonprofit dedicated to providing accessible and inclusive adventures, are excited to announce the launch of the Arizona Cardinals Pal, a set of free digital tools that make attending a football game more accessible for fans with developmental disabilities.

For families with children with developmental disabilities, such as autism, sensory processing disorder, or anxiety, going out can be a challenge. According to the National Autistic Society, over 70% of families with autism experience social isolation. This creates barriers for individuals, families, businesses, and communities.

The Arizona Cardinals and Pal Experiences have partnered to create a solution. Custom digital tools — such as an Arizona Cardinals Pal Video and Arizona Cardinals Pal Guide — use evidence-based best practices to address the challenges that keep many families at home. This allows greater access and inclusion for the 1 in 6 children with developmental disabilities (CDC). These free tools make the Arizona Cardinals a Pal Place, and all the resources can be found on both organizations’ websites.

Just as a ramp helps fans who move differently, Pal Tools help fans who think differently, creating access and inclusion for families with developmental disabilities. These tools join several exciting efforts focused on fans with disabilities, such as ‘Cardinals Climb’, a new Sensory Room sponsored by Roman Empire Agency, and Sensory Bags.

“At the Arizona Cardinals Foundation, our charitable focus is on supporting the Special Needs community, and it’s just as important that we reflect that same commitment in the game day experience. By partnering with Pal Experiences and Roman Empire Agency we’re taking steps to be leaders in creating inclusive and welcoming moments for every fan who comes to a Cardinals game.” Bob

Hamer, Executive Director, Arizona Cardinals Foundation

These efforts elevate accessibility at the stadium, ensuring fans with invisible disabilities feel supported and fully included on game day.

“Arizona Cardinals Foundation is shining a spotlight on supporting people with disabilities. We’re honored to contribute through our Pal Tools and are proud to be part of a community that values and includes every fan. There’s nothing like the excitement of a football game—and now the Cardinals are making sure everyone has the chance to experience it.” Melanie Isaacs, Founder & Chief Inclusion Officer, Pal Experiences

“Our partnership with the Arizona Cardinals represents more than accessibility; it’s about belonging and acceptance. We’re creating sensoryfriendly spaces that give every fan the chance to feel seen, supported, and included. Together, we’re redefining what it means for fans of all abilities to experience game day with confidence, comfort, and joy.” Gabriela Salcido, Founder & CEO of Roman Empire Agency.

The Ultimate Guide to Winter

Secrets

BY DEBBIE ERBSTOESSER

I am very good at keeping secrets. My philosophy is; it is their story to tell, not mine, knowing that ‘they’ needed to unload on someone and chose me, doesn’t give me the right to tell their tale.

But this one (see picture) was tough. Joel and Isabella’s engagement is a different story. Keeping this proposal weekend a secret was hard !!!! I gave up a big MVWC-Moon Valley Women’s Club event without saying the real reason why. I even told people we were going to Show Low (the opposite direction of where we truly were going) and went so far as to put ‘Show Low’ on our monthly, master calendar just in case Joel and Bella came by. . . and they did! *whew!

I figured that if the secret was ruined, it wasn’t going to be by me! It wasn’t, it was a fabulous event. Joel hired a photographer who captured him down on one knee and paid for a venue at a winery in Cornville so family and friends could come celebrate.

It’s no secret I love ruffles. I have gone so far as to buy extra twin size sheets just so I can add ruffles and more pillowcases to the existing correctly sized sheets. I like lots of pillows, so I need lots of pillowcases! It’s no secret I love to exercise at Anytime Fitness, anytime, any day. It’s also no secret I name our vehicles; Sybil is my golf cart, Cali is my car, Beau is our truck.

It is also no secret that I am obsessed with my family, as in O.B.S.E.S.S.E.D! I can’t get enough of them. They fill me with so much joy. I suppose that is why whenever I type ‘boys’ into my phone it autocorrects to ‘joys’ and I’ve stopped changing it back! Gary still lights up my heart when he walks into a room, 45 years later. So much of life is hard, but there’s also a lot of beauty. I start my day

saying, “Something great is going to happen today” thereby looking out for the good and indeed, even on hard days, there is something great.

There aren’t many Christmas presents that are secrets anymore. I’ve helped my joys move enough times and seen our unopened, unused gifts they donate to know that it’s a waste of money to get them anything they won’t actually use, so I ask what they want; buy it, wrap it and I’m done before Thanksgiving. The presents are hiding in plain sight all wrapped up under and around the tree by Dec. 1st. There are a few surprises, but not many.

So I haven’t too many secrets, but those I do have, I don’t share until it’s ok to do so. In one case. . .even after their deaths, I have kept their secret.

It is the 17th anniversary of MVM-Moon Valley Magic. Thank you for letting us know how much you enjoy it.

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Moon Valley Shines Bright This December

BY DREW HUTCHINSON PRESIDENT, MOON VALLEY NEIGHBORHOOD ASSOCIATION

Every year, as December settles into Moon Valley, something special happens. The air gets a little quieter, the evenings get a little brighter, and our neighborhood seems to find a rhythm all its own. It’s a season that reminds us why so many of us choose to call this place home, not just for the houses or the golf course or the gorgeous views, but for the people who make Moon Valley feel like a true community.

This month, our Christmas light voting is wrapping up, and I encourage everyone to take a moment to vote for the homes that caught your eye this season (www.app.moonvalley.org). It’s more than a contest. It’s a celebration of the creativity, warmth, and effort our neighbors put into making the season brighter for all of us.

Speaking of traditions that bring us together, our Moon Valley Light Parade will take place on December 13th at 7 p.m., departing from the Moon Valley Country Club. Check out the route map included in this issue so you know exactly where to gather along the way. This parade has become one of the most joyful evenings of the entire season, and we look forward to seeing the amazing decorated vehicles, families bundled up, children waving glow sticks, and neighbors greeting neighbors.

As we close out the year, we’ve also begun collecting 2026 MVNA membership and security dues, along with optional donations for projects that help keep Moon Valley vibrant. These include everything from our July fireworks to new monument signs to future community events. Your support truly fuels everything we do. www.moonvalley.org/ membership/

Looking forward, please mark January 8th on your calendar for our Annual Moon Valley Meeting at Moon Valley Country Clue. We will be joined by special guest speakers from our community, and we’ll share updates, projects,

and opportunities to get involved in shaping the neighborhood’s future.

A thousand small acts of generosity build into something powerful.

Before we rush into the new year, I want to pause and reflect on what this season really means for Moon Valley. It’s easy this time of year to turn inward and focus on our to-do lists, the gifts we’re trying to find, or the celebrations we’re trying to host. Yet here in Moon Valley, we’ve always done something more. We’ve used this time to give back.

Our Food for Lights program is a perfect example. Behind the glow of our holiday decorations is a purpose we’ve been living out for decades: feeding local families through our partnership with Desert Mission. Some might wonder if donating a single can of soup really matters. The answer is yes.

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generosity build into something powerful. Whether you donate through the MVNA or anywhere else in the city, I encourage everyone to give what they can this season. Even a little makes a meaningful difference to a family who needs it.

And since we’re talking about giving back, I want to share something personal. My path to involvement in the MVNA didn’t start with a deep calling or a noble purpose. It started because I kept losing the Christmas light competition. I convinced myself something had to be off, maybe unfair, maybe broken. So I got involved. And very quickly, I learned two things:

1. It wasn’t rigged.

2. We simply didn’t have enough volunteers to make everything as organized and consistent as it could be.

That realization changed my perspective. Since then, we’ve gone from under ten people deciding the winners to thousands of neighbors voting. We made the system better, but it only happened because people stepped up.

That’s why I’m inviting you to consider getting involved too. We’re looking for new voices, new energy, and new ideas to help carry the MVNA into the future. The time commitment is manageable, the meetings are once a month, and your involvement can be as big or as small as you choose. If you’ve ever wanted to influence the direction of the community, even in small ways, this is your chance.

If you’d like to take that step, reach out at board@ moonvalley.org. Find your reason. Mine started as something small and a little funny, but it grew into something meaningful. Yours could too.

Thank you, Moon Valley, for another year of friendship, generosity, humor, and heart. Let’s finish 2025 together in the way only this neighborhood can: with kindness, community, and lights that shine far beyond our streets.

Only as Old as You Feel

BY NICHOLAS WARNER, DC

Anyone who’s approaching their golden years – or is witnessing a friend, family member or loved one getting there – has undoubtedly started to ponder their own aging inevitability. The most common thought, no doubt: How can I stay as healthy and functional as possible, for as long as possible? Put into more simple terms, it’s really a question of, How can I stay “young,” no matter how old I am?  Here’s a big way, according to research, and all it involves is your mindset.

Your attitude toward the aging process is a key determinant of your health and well-being as you age, according to research findings published in  JAMA Network

Open. Researchers discovered that among adults ages 50 and older, having the highest level of aging satisfaction was associated with better health (reduced risk of death), greater participation in health behaviors (such as physical activity) and higher psychosocial well-being (for example, reduced risk of depression / loneliness) compared to having the lowest level of aging satisfaction. These findings were maintained even four years after initially assessing participants’ level of satisfaction toward the aging process.

What’s your aging satisfaction level? The higher, the better according to this study, which makes perfect sense if you think about it. Don’t worry about getting old; from a chronological perspective, you can’t do anything about it. But you can change how old you  feel , and it starts by how you approach the aging process. Talk to your doctor for more information.

Hiring Unlicensed Contractors

BY TOM SERTICH, KIRK DEVELOPMENT COMPANY

In Arizona, a contractor’s license is required for any project where the total cost of labor and materials exceeds $1,000.00 or when a building permit is needed. Licensing through the Arizona Registrar of Contractors ensures that only individuals who meet specific education and experience requirements are allowed to do business. The Registrar also investigates complaints against licensed contractors and verifies that they are properly licensed, bonded, and insured.

Hiring an unlicensed contractor may seem like a way to save money, but it exposes homeowners to significant risks. Poor workmanship is common, and without proper insurance, any injuries or damage on the job could become the homeowner’s financial responsibility. Permit issues are another concern— unlicensed contractors may skip required permits, leading to problems when selling the home.

Most importantly, unlicensed contractors lack accountability. If something goes wrong, homeowners have little recourse. Ultimately, the potential risks far outweigh any upfront savings. Hiring a licensed professional is always the safer, smarter choice.

If you are looking for a licensed, bonded and insured contractor, call KIRK DEVELOPMENT for a free in home estimate at 602 944-3658.

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Talking With Your Family About Your Estate Plan

BY LIBBY BANKS, THE LAW OFFICE OF LIBBY BANKS, PLLC

You might not think that the holidays are the best time to talk with your family about your estate plan, but it might be the only time they are all in one place. Talking with your family about your estate and what you have planned, or intend to do can assure that nothing comes as a surprise later. When your family knows what you’re planning or already have in place, who you’ve chosen to handle things, and how you want decisions made, you give them clarity, and that can assure less confusion and dissension later. Estate Planning is a priceless gift, and knowing ahead of time what to expect makes it even better.

Estate planning isn’t just paperwork. It’s the roadmap your loved ones will rely on if you become incapacitated or after you’re gone. When you explain what you have put together to assure that things can be handled as easily as possible, you give peace of mind to your family.

If you have a Revocable Living Trust, a simple explanation goes a long way. Your family doesn’t need to be fluent in legalese – they just need to understand the structure:

While you’re well and able you are in full control of your assets as trustee. If you become incapacitated, your successor trustee will step in to manage finances for your benefit.

At your passing, your trustee administers your estate, and ultimately distributes your assets as you instructed in your trust – without the delays and public filings required by a probate court proceeding. What should you share with the family? While you don’t have to reveal

account balances or exactly what you have, be sure they know where to find the information about what you own when the time comes. We offer an online vault you can store and update information, and only allow access when someone else is serving as trustee. Knowing where your estate plan is located, and what is in your estate will get them started quickly to manage your estate when you cannot.

Knowing who you’ve named as successor trustee and for healthcare decision making is important too. This assures that who you’ve chosen is prepared and gives you an opportunity to advise the others to cooperate with and support the person on whom you placed this huge responsibility.

If you’re still making decisions or planning updates these conversations can help you think through who is best suited for the role. Discussing what you need from your trustee and healthcare agent can help you make final decisions. It will also let you find out whether the person you want to serve is willing to serve.

Finishing your estate plan—and talking with your family about it—is one of the most loving acts you can give. It prevents stress, avoids misunderstandings, and creates a smooth path forward when life takes unexpected turns.

If you’re ready to create or update your estate plan, I’m here to help. Call my office for a complimentary consultation at 602-375-6752, or visit https:// libbybanks.com.

ONE MORE CHRISTMAS STORY

Randy and Susan had been trying to have a baby for a long time. No one in their family had known. It was quite a surprise to everyone when they announced at the family reunion that Susan was pregnant and the baby was due in December. The people of the Church of the Rock watched Susan’s belly grow month by month, inch by inch. Rev. Hoffman was especially watchful. He had been praying for Randy and Susan for a long time. Given Rev. Hoffman’s proud admiration you would have thought he was responsible for Susan’s pregnancy. If ever confronted, Rev. Hoffman’s dream response was, “Why not, do not ever underestimate the power of prayer.” Randy was grateful for Rev. Hoffman’s prayers, but he also knew that it was more than prayer that got Susan pregnant. It took a lot of work and vigilance, but it was no less a miracle.

On Dec. 24th Susan found herself breathing hard and pushing for life. Randy found himself breathing hard in time with Susan and grunting and groaning in moral support. Randy was coaching; “1-2-3, breath.” Occasionally, a nurse or a doctor would come into the room and examine Susan. They would lift the sheet, poke around, put the sheet back in place, and in a bored I-havedone-this-a-thousand-times-before tone of voice announce that Susan still had a long way to go. The snap of the latex glove pulled off the hand was like an explanation mark emphasizing the long way to go. The door to the outside world was opening but it was slow. On it would go, “1-2-3, breath.” It was not time yet.

In the local school Jr. High was having their annual Snowball Dance. This dance allowed the 7th and 8th graders to dress up, spend a lot of mom and dad’s money, and let the kids act all grown up for a night. Some adults thought the formality and money spent on the dance at such a young age was ridiculous. “After all,” complained Rev. Hoffman, “what do they have to look forward to?” Others thought it was cute. The whole scene did have an awkward

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funny side to it. On a slow dance you could see couples moving back and forth, barely in time with the music. It was like watching people fish from a pier. The kids’ movements were like bobbers on a choppy Lake Pleasant. When someone stepped on someone else’s foot it was like a striped bass grabbing the bait. A head would suddenly go down as that person would grab their foot in pain. But the boy or girl would recover quickly, and their head would join the rhythm of the others, bobbing back and forth. Their movement in the dim light of the dance floor was not fluid, graceful, nor expressive like ballad. The rhythm of the bobbing was like the ticking of a biological clock. Tick, tick, tick, hormones were like an unexploded bomb.

At the end of the dance guys would take the girls home. Each would hope that all the kissing practice on their pillows would pay off. At that crucial moment at the door girls who fit their dresses too well and boys whose shirt collars and ties were too large---their lips would touch, for some it was the first time but for almost all of them it would not be as magical as they hoped. Despite all the money, preparation, corsages, dinner at Olive Garden’s, chauffeuring by mom and dad, practicing with their pillows, anxiety attacks and phone calls (who is asking who, a kind of pre-adolescent foreplay), they were not ready. It was not time, yet.

Meanwhile, Randy and Susan are still breathing hard and Randy is coaching, “O.K. honey, 1-2-3, breath.!” It was not time, yet.

Across the township a group of Christmas carolers were approaching the home of Mrs. Linester. Mrs. Linester was an elderly woman. She was not like the elderly women of the Church of the Rock, all of whom were stately, gentle, and kind. Mrs. Linester was different. She was the kind of woman who had a cane and was not afraid to use it. Her name was given to Rev. Hoffman as a person who could use some Christmas cheer. So, she was added to the itinerary for the Christmas carolers. The carolers were so excited about spreading the warm loving spirit of the Christ Child. They piled out of their cars, lined up outside Mrs. Linester’s door, and started singing, “Silent Night.”

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When they got to the line, “...all is bright” the porch light went out. The carolers went on to the second verse but still no Mrs. Linester. They knew she was home, so they sang the third verse. Still, no Mrs. Linester. There are degrees of rudeness. Nothing feels so rude and offensive than a group of people who come with smiling faces to give Christmas cheer, and the person who is to graciously and gratefully receive the good cheer, doesn’t want anything to do with it. But the carolers were determined. Mrs. Linester would have her Christmas cheer whether she wanted it or not. The carolers started with “Hark the Herald Angels Sing.” When Mrs. Linester did not show her face at the door after the first verse, they got the preacher’s little boy to ring the doorbell, repeatedly. He was perfect for the job. Finally, the carolers wore Mrs. Linester down. She came to the door and started shouting, “Go Away. I don’t want you here! Go away!” In good Christian response the carolers started singing louder. Again, they wore Mrs. Linester down. She stopped yelling and only muttered things under her breath. When the carolers finished, two children approached the door with a fruit basket. She cracked the door open and stuck her cane out. She waved it around trying to knock the basket out of the children’s hands. She started shouting again, “Go away. Go away!” That was the last manger straw for the carolers. With a vengeful glee in their eyes, they broke into a chorus of “We Wish You a Merry Christmas.” It was a battle of wills. Mrs. Linester vs. the Carolers. Christmas cheer vs. Christmas blues. Santa Claus vs. Scrooge. When the carolers finished there was a moment of silence. The carolers smiled at Mrs. Linester and Mrs. Linester scowled at the carolers. The silence was broken when she slammed the door in their smiling faces. Her statement was punctuated with wet snow sliding off the roof and landing with a splat at the caroler’s feet. It was not a joyful time.

Randy and Susan are still breathing hard and pushing. Randy is coaching, “1-2-3, breath.” It is very near the time.

Christmas is a time for miracles but not the kind of miracles that are quick

and flashy. Christmas speaks of miracles that are slow and unfolding. Christmas is about miracles that happen in God’s time and in God’s way. Christmas is a time of miracles that require patience and trust. Patience in the ancientness of God and the kind of patience that is required in miracles like springtime and growing gardens, and birthing babies. Christmas is a time for miracles that require trust. Trust in God’s plan and trust in God’s love. Christmas should remind us that miracles are sometimes slow but in the fullness of time they are miracles, nonetheless. Do you hear a baby crying? Could it be Randy and Susan’s baby or another baby which is born every year in God’s time?

It’s the Holiday Season! BY ARCHER CUSHMAN

The holiday season has finally arrived! This is a very special time of year for my family because we have a lot of Christmas traditions, some of which we’ve been doing since I was born. I’d like to share my top five favorite traditions - maybe you will be inspired to try one!

1. Adopt-a-Family: Adopt-a-Family is a program run by St. Vincent de Paul that matches families in need with people looking to spread some holiday spirit. “Adopted” families send wishlists with items that they want and needit’s really humbling to see what families request. One year, there was a kid who only wanted pajamas for Christmas which made me question my own 20-item Amazon wishlist. Once we receive the list of items needed, the fun begins. We go shopping for outfits, and gifts, and stocking stuffers. My sister and I use money that we saved all year to help pay for some of the gifts. This year, I’m buying a 7-year-old girl a Hello Kitty Tamagotchi (my mom says the 90s kids will know what that is). After we wrap the presents, we get to be Santa’s helpers and actually deliver the gifts to the family. My favorite part is meeting the people that we got gifts for and seeing how much of an impact our gifts make on them. Thanks to friends and family who are also jumping in to participate, we are adopting nine families this year! My friends and I were lucky enough to work with the Night Owls, a local quilting group, to sew quilts that will go to all nine of these “adopted” families.

2. Moon Valley Christmas Lights: It’s pretty awesome to live in a neighborhood that’s famous for awesome Christmas decorations. Each year, our neighbors invite us to join their holiday hayride around Moon Valley. We make hot chocolate and bundle up in blankets and spend the night singing carols and waving to passerbys. My favorite stop is the Atari house - I think it’s so cool that you can play video games on their roof! I also really like the houses that sync up to music. There are a few of those in the neighborhood and they never disappoint. We usually do a few Christmas light tours before the holiday season ends. It’s so nice to come home each day to twinkling lights all around.

3. “Holidays Around the World” Festival: For the last five years, our homeschool group has hosted a “Holidays Around the World” festival. My friends and I walk from booth to booth learning about different holiday traditions from around the world. My dad always runs the Jokabokaflod booth, which is a tradition in Iceland where families gift each other books, drink hot chocolate, and spend the night reading by the fireplace. He tries to talk in an

Icelandic accent but it never works. I also really like the Tio de Nadal tradition from Spain. In this tradition, children hit a decorated log with a stick and loudly yell “Caga Tió” (which means “Poop, log!”) in hopes that the log will give them candy and gifts. Afterwards, we end with a holiday potluck. Families bring food and drinks from different countries and we all sit around and have a feast. When we are done, many of us hop in the car and go look at Christmas lights (see #2 above).

4. Advent/Kindness Calendars: Each year, my mom creates a holiday countdown calendar with lots of holiday activities and experiences for us to enjoy. Sometimes, she puts something in the Advent calendar that we already had planned (which is not as exciting), but sometimes is something totally unexpected. Some of my favorite Advent calendar surprises include: holiday sticker books, getting to see a holiday show, a special movie night, and gingerbread houses. In addition to this Advent calendar, my mom also sets up a Kindness Countdown calendar. Each day, my sister and I are challenged to complete an act of kindness. If we do, Buddy the Elf (an elf toy that mysteriously showed up in house a few years ago) adds a piece of furniture or holiday decor to his wooden dollhouse. My sister always looks forward to see what pet Buddy will receive - it’s usually a dog. Last year, my sister and I were convinced that my mom was the one putting things in the dollhouse so we set up my sister’s camera to try to catch her in the act. The camera died before we had any evidence, so the mystery lives on.

5. Gingerbread Houses: Last but certainly not least…the most awaited part of our Christmas traditions…gingerbread houses. We never know where on the Advent calendar this tradition will be but we always hoping for it. My sister and I each get our own gingerbread house and my mom sets out bowls of healthy candy and non-candy food items for us to use…but mainly eat. One year, we tried to make an all-natural gingerbread house made out of graham crackers and homemade frosting, which failed spectacularly. There were a lot of tears. Now we just buy them at the store. Another year, I was sick on the day that we made gingerbread houses and I didn’t get to eat any of the candies…so now I am motivated to not get sick since gingerbread houses can happen at any moment. So those are some of my favorite things that we do at Christmastime. But overall, this time of year is special because I get to spend so much time with my family and friends and because everyone is so focused on creating joy for one another. In the end, isn’t that what it’s all about?

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Christmas BY BRIGHID CONSTABLE

Usually, Christmas activities are expensive and nonstop in my house –always a main event every weekend.

It’s always been The Polar Express up in snowy Williams one weekend, The Nutcracker at Symphony Hall the following weekend, Christmas at the Princess, professional Christmas pictures for the holiday cards, visiting Santa at the mall, etc.

Sounds familiar to you, too?

And as you can imagine, it’s as exhausting as it sounds… even if they are everlasting memories for the kids.

This year, I’m not going wild for Christmas at all. (Though, you may think otherwise!)

Later this month, we’re taking the kids on a huge Disneyland/California Adventure trip right before Christmas with extended family. I already know this is going to take up so much energy and money, so I’ve decided to opt out of things I typically do during the month of December.

This year, I’m going for a very merry “lowkey and cheap Christmas.” (Hey, that should be a holiday song.) Though, they will be filled with happy memories.

Instead of The Polar Express or Christmas at the Princess, our family is attending the free Peoria Holiday Festival on Saturday, December 13, from 5-9 p.m. There will be meet and greets with Santa, live music, Nutcracker ballerina performance, aerial acrobatics, a tree lighting ceremony, and definitely other items… all pro bono.

Instead of expensive holiday cards ordered from Minted or Shutterfly with professional pictures of the fam, I’m either thinking of NOT doing them or just buying a box of cards from World Market or Home Goods for all the kids to sign. Kinda keep that 90’s vibe alive… A picture of the kids in the card, everyone signing it, and voila, done. (My 9-year-old, Brynn, will love this crafty project and it’s a bit more personal than previous cards.)

For Christmas, our family is showing up to the big family dinner in our pajamas because the holidays are meant for comfort. I’m not getting dressed up like I usually do. I’m not cooking green bean casserole like I usually do. I’m not cooking or baking anything on Christmas actually… except purchasing our annual Christmas morning Cinnabons.

There’s going to be a ton of baking in my house this month instead of spending money on frivolous activities because the week in between Christmas to New Year’s is the laziest (and my most favorite week) of the year.

We eat total holiday baking junk food and then watch all 8 Harry Potter movies in our pajamas. I think Brynn is old enough to deal with Lord of the Rings, but she’ll probably be too busy creating cool things on her new laptop. (Shh…)

Although this might seem like a lot, it’s actually cake (or fruitcake, I suppose?) compared to other Christmases.

And I invite you to have a very merry lowkey Christmas, too. But if you’re going all out as well, I suppose I’ll wish you Happy Holidays, too.

The Moon Valley Women’s Club (MVWC) Moonlight Holiday Treasure Shopping & Mixer

By Sheila Mehlem

Sip, Snack and Shop on Monday, December 8 from 5:30pm to 8:00pm in the strip shopping mall on Cave Creek Road and 18th Street. These shops are normally closed on Mondays, but they will open their doors for this special festive event. The participants are: The Tattered Nest, Everything Goes, Sweet Peas and Sage, A to Z Thrift and More, My City Salvage, New to You and Retail Therapy. They will be offering exclusive discounts, promotional offers, and raffles to encourage guests to visit their stores and explore the extensive selection of Christmas items, home goods, jewelry, flowers, collectibles, antiques, and clothing.

A $15 entry fee includes appetizers and drinks and proceeds will benefit the MVWC Service Project, the charitable arm of the club. This event is open to the public, so invite your neighbors and friends for a night of holiday shopping and mixing with friends. For more information visit www.mvwomensclub.org

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Annual Community Food Drive Is in Full Swing

Embracing a holistic approach to health is a year-round priority at Moon Valley Chiropractic where we are devoted to whole-body wellness both inside the clinic and throughout the community. We are dedicated to delivering the best evidence-based practices, promoting smart nutritional choices, and giving with a full heart as we celebrate that our annual Community Food Drive collection is in full swing. It’s the perfect time of year to streamline your pantries or cash in on holiday bonus sales in order to help our community stay strong all season by supporting wellness through good nutrition. When donating to a food drive, the most nutrient rich contributions are canned and non-perishable items that offer balanced, long-lasting energy.

Canned beans, lentils, chickpeas, tuna, and salmon provide high-quality protein and essential fats. Low-sodium canned vegetables and fruits packed in water or their own juices supply important vitamins without unnecessary sugar or salt. Whole-grain staples such as brown rice, oats, and whole-wheat pasta are versatile, nutritious, and easy to prepare. Shelf-stable nut butters, low-sodium soups, and milk alternatives round out well-balanced options that can be used in a variety of meals. These more nutrient-dense items don’t just fill pantries; they support immune health and daily energy, which is especially important to wellbeing, especially during the busy holiday season.

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strong foundation. Nutritional science continues to show that diets especially abundant in vitamins A, C, and D; zinc; antioxidants; and whole-food nutrients can strengthen immune response and help manage inflammation, both of which are key for navigating seasonal stress and travel. Help us continue this health promoting tradition which also fosters unity, compassion, and community support ensuring that families in the valley and surrounding areas have the provisions they need during the holidays.

We wish to extend our heartfelt gratitude for the generosity shown in years past and welcome all contributions to help continue making a meaningful difference again this season. Together, with our neighbors, we feel blessed to share wellness, kindness, and healthy living across the valley. As schedules tighten and demands increase, maintaining good health is a crucial practice. Research in chiropractic and integrative health suggests that consistent care is important in immune system regulation by optimizing how the nervous system functions. Regular spinal alignments can reduce muscle tension, support nervous system communication, and enhance the body’s natural ability to adapt. Come see us for your next chiropractic visit.

To donate to the community food drive, simply bring your extra canned goods and non-perishables now through Thursday, December 18th, to our lobby drop box during regular office hours or find us online at www. moonvalleychiropractic.com to learn more.

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TURNING HEADS WOULD SAVE LIVES

BY FROSTY KROENING

A friend sadly reported the passing of a young relative in a motorcycle accident. Life taken before fully lived. Besides praying for his soul’s journey and solace for his family, what lessons surface?

When I took a driver test decades ago, the man administering it said to me, “Young woman, if you don’t turn your head, you will be in a bad accident!” I still hear that voice when I drive. And, I turn my head. Further, when I was a carefree teen, I rode on the back of a charming young man’s motorcycle. It was exhilarating! Mom later told me he was in an accident and became a quadriplegic. I have no idea how she found out! We did not know him!

What I do know is that motorcyclers, bicyclers, scooter riders and walkers are in great peril. Part of the danger is that too many of us, including motorcyclers, etc., do not turn our heads when on roads. Walkers bop across streets listening to music. Kids riding electric bikes zoom everywhere now, although I see fewer since the City passed new regulations. But motorcycles remain especially dangerous because they are hard to see, riders speed and weave, and drivers do not expect to see them. Do we, as drivers have to become swivelheads? Not a bad idea, but especially at intersections, it is wise to turn and look. Be aware of moving and stationary vehicles. TURN AND LOOK AGAIN. It takes only a second and can save a life. No one likes to be told what to do, we get it. But imagine being in the shoes of the driver of the vehicle that hit the young man. No one wants that trauma either. If this article saves one life, it will be worth it.

Is Learning a Basic Human Need?

By Rabbi Shneur Wolfman

In Kabbalah, the world is divided into four categories: inanimate objects, vegetation, animals, and humans. Each one has its own needs and its own way of thriving. A plant can live on water and sunlight. But if you gave an animal those same conditions food, water, and a quiet spot in the corner, it would wither. An animal needs movement, interaction, and a real habitat. It needs more than the vegetation’s survival basics.

A human being, Kabbalah teaches, is something entirely different. Not just an advanced animal, but a soul with an intellectual and spiritual capacity. You can give a person all the physical comfort in the world, but if their mind and soul aren’t engaged, they will feel empty and lack fulfillment in their life. A human has to learn, think, question, and grow.

The upcoming Holiday of Chanukah (Dec. 14 - 22) is, in many ways, a story about learning. The Greeks didn’t try to destroy the Jewish people physically, they outlawed their ability to learn. Without learning, they knew the rest would quickly crumble. The miracle of Chanukah isn’t only the jar of oil, it’s that the Jewish people rose up to reclaim their right to study, to think, and to live with their Torah again.

We are launching the Moon Valley Jewish Learning Initiative, a space for relevant, high level Jewish learning here in our community. The learning initiative will start with Decoding the Talmud, an accessible overview of the Talmud’s history and structure. Then we’ll offer a five-week Read It In Hebrew crash course for anyone who wants to learn the basics of the language And after that, The Course of Why, exploring some of life’s biggest and most important questions.

If you’d like to learn more or register, visit www.jewishmoonvalley.com/learning. Have a wonderful month!

Moon Valley Chanukah Festival

Join us for the Moon Valley Chanukah Festival! The festival will be on Sunday, December 14 from 3:30-5:30pm in the Moon Valley Park (502 W. Coral Gables Dr). Join us for an afternoon of fun, with live music, kids activities, arts and crafts and your favorite Chanukah foods. There will be security at the event. This event is free of charge and open to the whole community. RSVP: www.jewishmoonvalley.com/festival

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When the Holidays are Hard…

BY DR. SANDI HOWLETT

The songs start the day after Halloween on some radio stations, a few hold off until Thanksgiving night and by Black Friday, the radio and retail stores are teeming with holiday music. You know the songs, “It’s the most wonderful time of the year”, “Deck the halls with boughs of holly”, and of course “I’ll be home for Christmas”. For some people, the nostalgia from these tunes is reminiscent of the best part of their memories…Christmas past, family gathering and celebratory joy.

For others, each note is a painful reminder of something very different. Gatherings where trauma was the tradition. Remembering those who will never again be able to join the festivities. Being separated from loved ones by miles and more. For lots of people, the holiday season is the most difficult time of the year.

Holiday stress and sadness can come from lots of things – death of loved ones, being separated or estranged from loved ones, financial pressure, failing health, job loss, difficult or dynamic family gatherings, the demands of travel, shopping, excess food and libations, additional social demands, and life just not working out as hoped. The holidays exacerbate emotions…the highs are higher and the lows are lower. The brights are brighter and the darks are darker. The extremes are compounded when social media and extensive holiday marketing focuses on the UP of the season, unrealistic ‘up’ in many cases, creating an even greater chasm and disconnect for those who down.

If the holidays are hard for you, take heart that you are not alone. More people than you might imagine report the holiday season as the most dreaded and difficult time of the year. So, what can you do to make this year a little easier?

• Ramp up your self-care

• Do not try to ‘do it all’

• Discuss with family members what traditions / customs are most meaningful

• Look for ways to simplify the holidays

• Don’t say ‘yes’ when you want to say ‘no’

• Do something new, i.e. start a new tradition remembering loved one who died, say their name

• Let yourself feel your feelings

• Give yourself and others the gentle, healing gift of grace

• Opt out of the holidays completely this year

• Seek professional help and support if needed

This is a season – not your forever. Do the things in your power to make this year simpler, smoother, and more consciously meaningful.

Dr. Sandi Howlett is a Grief Specialist, speaker, and writer based in Phoenix. She may be contacted at drsandihowlett@gmail.com

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