āSo much of the nutrition advice out there is rigid and guilt-inducing, especially for parents just trying to do their best.ā
Nutrition
āThe cultural narrative is so entrenched in this vision of what a mother is, going all the way back to the Virgin Mary.ā
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LALA KENT
Kacie Barnes, Founder, Mama Knows
Sarah Hoover, Author, āThe Motherload: Episodes From the Brink of Motherhoodā
What Kids Really Need to Build a Healthy Relationship With Food Raising a Generation of Veggie Lovers
Early childhood, from ages 0-5, is a unique window of opportunity to cultivate healthy taste preferences and dietary patterns.
Unfortunately, nearly 90% of toddlers aged 12-23 months fall short of the recommended amount of vegetables per day. Partnership for a Healthier America (PHA) has a vision to change that and to raise a generation of veggie lovers.
Studies suggest that through exposure āearly and often,ā kids can learn to love veggies and become adventurous and healthy eaters. Even though children are born with an innate aļ¬nity for sweetness, their taste preferences can be shaped and modiļ¬ed by early dietary experiences. By oļ¬ering our youngest eaters a wide variety of vegetables early and often, parents can help foster the development of a broad taste palate and encourage a willingness to consume vegetables and diverse ļ¬avors during childhood.
Given all of the research around the beneļ¬ts of veggies for our youngest eaters, PHA created its Veggies Early and Often nutrition education coalition, which brings together early childhood educators, medical professionals, and food industry partners to raise awareness about the importance of vegetables for young children.
The Veggies Early and Often coalition helped develop free educational resources titled āRaising Adventurous Eaters with First Foods.ā These guides, available in both English and Spanish, oļ¬er evidence-based tips and practical activities to foster healthy eating habits and developmental skills appropriate for various age groups.
Written by Amy Warne, M.B.A., RD/LD, Manager of Nutrition and Health Programs; and Diana Delgado, Senior Director of Marketing and Communications, Partnership for a Healthier America (PHA)
Kacie Barnes, founder of Mama Knows Nutrition, empowers parents with balanced, judgment-free advice for nourishing kids and building lifelong healthy food habits.
What led you to create Mama Knows Nutrition?
Iāve always been fascinated by how food can impact health, but it wasnāt until I became a mom that I saw ļ¬rsthand how confusing and stressful feeding kids can be. I realized that so much of the nutrition advice out there is rigid and guilt-inducing, especially for parents just trying to do their best. I knew I could make a diļ¬erence by providing evidence-based, practical, and judgment-free guidance. Thatās why I created @MamaKnowsNutrition on Instagram ā to be a trusted source for parents who want to feed their kids well without feeling overwhelmed, shamed, or pressured.
What are some of the most common nutritional gaps you see in kidsā diets today?
People always think their kids arenāt getting enough protein, but itās surprisingly easy to get the recommended amount. Itās
incredibly rare for me to see a true protein deficiency in kids in the United States. However, a large number of kids donāt get enough fiber. This stems from the fact that the standard American diet is notoriously low in fruits and vegetables, and high in processed carbohydrates. According to the 2020-2025 Dietary Guidelines for Americans, children tend to not get enough vegetables, whole grains, or seafood.
Is there such a thing as focusing too much on healthy eating for younger children?
Absolutely. Restricting āunhealthyā foods tends to make children crave those foods more.
The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition published ļ¬ndings that children whose parents exert high control over their eating are more likely to eat in response to emotional cues rather than hunger. This emotional eating can lead to unhealthy weight gain and
disordered eating patterns. I feel passionate about this topic because I think itās an area where well-intentioned parents can actually do more harm than good. By focusing too much on āhealthy eatingā (or whatever we deem to be āhealthy eating,ā which is inextricably informed by our own upbringing and biases), we can unintentionally create oppressive food rules for impressionable kids.
Restricting āunhealthyā foods tends to make children crave those foods more.
What small, realistic changes can parents introduce to their children to make a long-term impact on their health? Make water the default beverage. Swap any sugary drinks for water or milk most of the time. At snack time, aim for what I call ācomplex snacks.ā Instead of defaulting to crunchy air snacks, try to include at least two of these key nutrients: protein, fat, and/or ļ¬ber. For example, you could pair a cheese stick with crackers or oļ¬er a yogurt pouch alongside pretzels. Taking this simple step to make snacks more balanced can help keep kids feeling satisļ¬ed longer, provide steady energy, and make it easier for them to meet their nutritional needs.
Kacie Barnes | Photo by Amanda Mendenhall
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How Lala Kent Prioritizes Mental Wellness and Routine as a Mom
TV personality and entrepreneur Lala Kent shares how motherhood reshaped her views on health, balance, and mental well-being.
What would you say your ideal vision of a healthy childhood looks like for your children?
My ideal vision for my babies is balance. Becoming a mother, I had to let go of the fairy tale that I was going to have a baby, and I was going to teach them to have a very sophisticated palate, I was going to put them in all the sports, and I just had this vision of how it was going to go. Then the baby is born, and they start growing and developing their own personality, you realize how little control you actually have. My biggest priority has been creating balance in their lives and making sure that my kids always know and feel that they have a safe and loving home with me, where they are empowered and pushed to be whoever they were created to be. While a healthy diet and staying active is extremely important to me, I think the most important thing is instilling conļ¬dence, self-love, and conviction ā I know how tough this world can be, and I want my kids to know and love who they are, and to make sure they never compromise that.
Sleep has become the most essential thing when it comes to my health and wellness. Often weāre starting to go to bed at 7 p.m., because I know that if I want to be present with my kids every day, I have to get sleep.
How do you balance work with instilling that conļ¬dence in your kids?
My children will always come ļ¬rst. Itās important for them to see me work, but as soon as I became a mother, my priorities
completely shifted and being present for their day-to-day is extremely important to me. No oneās going to remember if I turned down an opportunity, but my daughter is going to remember if I missed coming to class to celebrate her birthday or missed a dance recital, and my priority is my daughters knowing I wouldnāt miss their important moments for the world.
How has your view of health and wellness changed since youāve become a mother? Sleep has become the most essential thing when it comes to my health and well-being. Often weāre starting to go to bed at 7 p.m., because I know that if I want to be present with my kids every day, I have to get sleep. Working out has also become essential for me; I am extremely fortunate to be able to have someone come to my house to train me, which has made it much easier for me to prioritize. In the past, I didnāt prioritize my health in that way; I used to stay up and watch all the shows all night ā that is no longer an option for me. Itās all about ļ¬nding ways to be your best self for your kids and have enough stamina throughout the day to keep up with your children because it can be draining sometimes!
Whatās one piece of advice you would give to new moms or parents?
Be easy on yourself. Set your intentions for the week, and if they donāt go as planned, focus on the wins of that week. If you missed a workout or if the kids had one too many cookies, donāt ļ¬xate on those things. My biggest takeaway in the four years that Iāve been a mother is how important my mental health is. I ļ¬nd that if I ļ¬xate on all of the things that I didnāt accomplish, or moments I felt like a failure, then Iām not present for my children, and Iām failing everybody. Celebrate the wins and allow yourself to be imperfect.
Lala Kent | Photo by Joe Schmelzer
Jillian Michaels on Health and Leading by Example in Parenting
Celebrity health and ļ¬tness expert Jillian Michaels shares how motherhood transformed her mindset around balance, discipline, and long-term wellness for families.
What is it like balancing your work with being a mother of two?
Balancing work and motherhood isnāt a tightrope ā itās a terrain. Some days are smooth; other days feel like Iām hiking with a full pack and no map. Iāve learned that itās not about doing everything perfectly; itās about being fully present where you are when youāre there.
How has being a mother reshaped your approach to health and ļ¬tness?
Health and ļ¬tness were always personal to me, but once I had kids, they became generational. Iām not just working out to stay strong; Iām showing my kids what strength looks like, mentally and physically. I want them to see that taking care of your body is a form of self-respect, not vanity, and certainly not self-loathing. I want them to eat well because they love their body, not because they hate it.
What are your core principles when it comes to ensuring your kids live a healthy lifestyle?
For me, it comes down to common sense, not extremes. Iām not trying to raise health fanatics; Iām trying to raise informed, capable humans who understand how their choices impact their bodies and minds. The core principle is simple: Knowledge is power. When kids understand why whole foods matter, why sleep matters, and why movement matters, theyāre far more likely to make smart decisions on their own.
I donāt believe in rigid rules or fear-based thinking. I believe in moderation. We eat birthday cake and we have screen time, but we also talk about balance, energy, and how to feel your best. I give them tools, not ultimatums.
Ultimately, my job isnāt to control every bite or every step ā itās to guide, educate, and model a lifestyle thatās sustainable, ļ¬exible, and rooted in self-respect. The goal is to help them build a healthy relationship with food, ļ¬tness, and their bodies that they can carry for life.
What are some tips you have for making ļ¬tness fun for kids who might be less enthusiastic about it?
Ditch the word exercise. Kids donāt want to āwork out,ā nor should they. They want to play, compete, and move their bodies in ways that feel exciting. The key is making ļ¬tness about fun, not force. Find what lights them up. Is it soccer? Dance? Martial arts? Skateboarding? Great ā lean into that.
The goal isnāt to raise gym rats; itās to help kids associate movement with happiness, conļ¬dence, and accomplishment. That means giving them options, letting them explore, and cheering them on when they ļ¬nd something they love. Not every kid is into traditional sports, and thatās okay. Build obstacle courses in the backyard, do silly dance-oļ¬s in the living room, or go on adventure hikes. Make movement part of life, not a chore.
Unmasking Sleep Apnea in Teens
Teenagers are often labeled as lazy and disrespectful when they fall asleep in class, but for some, that sleepiness is a symptom of obstructive sleep apnea (OSA).
As a teenager, Edgar Castro Tello experienced frequent exhaustion and sleepiness during the day, but he didnāt know why.
āMany times, I would get home from school and just sleep,ā Tello said. āThatās how exhausting it was to be active during the day. Every day felt like a struggle.ā
It wasnāt until years later that Tello received his diagnosis of OSA ā a revelation that brought both clarity and validation. Now, at age 34, Tello feels more energized throughout the day. He treats his sleep apnea using a CPAP machine, which delivers pressurized air through a face mask to hold his airway open as he sleeps. When Tello ļ¬rst met his partner, Frankie, he told him about his CPAP therapy, a detail that left Frankie surprised.
āI had no idea what sleep apnea was,ā Frankie said.
Frankieās reaction is not uncommon. Many members of the general public, and even healthcare providers without specialized training, arenāt familiar with the symptoms of sleep apnea. As a result, it often goes undetected in teens, instead misattributed to laziness, moodiness, or growing pains.
Through Project Sleepās āSleep Apnea: Letās Face It!ā awareness campaign, people like Tello are speaking out to shift the narrative. By sharing their stories, they hope to empower more young people to recognize the signs, ask questions, and seek help sooner than they did.
Written by Emma Cooksey, Sleep Apnea Program Manager, Project Sleep
Jillian Michaels | Photo by Don Flood
INTERVIEW WITH Edgar Castro Tello
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Jasmine Roth on Spotting the Signs of Pediatric Sleep Apnea
HGTV star Jasmine Roth shares her daughterās unexpected diagnosis and the importance of recognizing pediatric sleep apnea early.
When you ļ¬rst started noticing that your daughter had sleep problems, did you think it could be sleep apnea?
No, not at all. I didnāt even know kids could have sleep apnea, so it wasnāt on my radar at all. Her struggles were something that weād dealt with since she was as young as six months old. We had sleep consultants try to help us, but we never ļ¬gured it out.
Then, when she was a little over 3 years old, she started doing this weird snorting noise when she slept. We took her to the pediatrician, who recommended we go to an ENT, who knew immediately what was going on. He told us her adenoids and tonsils were swollen, and she would probably need surgery because she had sleep apnea.
That was the ļ¬rst time we heard kids could have sleep apnea. It sounded like a really big deal to us, so we actually opted to do a sleep study ļ¬rst before the surgery. Her tests came back that she had borderline severe sleep apnea ā she was waking up seven times per hour. Obviously, we needed to do the surgery, and it was ļ¬ne! Her recovery was quick, and itās been a game-changer for her.
Are there any common misconceptions youāve noticed about kids and sleep apnea?
For me, itās less of a miseducation and more of just a complete lack of education. We all know to do our pediatric checkups. I read all the books, and I have friends and family who have babies. I donāt want to say I knew it all, but I felt like I had a pretty good handle on things to look for. This was definitely not on my radar, and I wish it had been.
Howās your daughter doing now?
Amazing! Hazel is sleeping like a champ! Five or six weeks after surgery, she slept through the
I donāt want to say I knew it all, but I feel like I had a pretty good handle on things to look for. This was deļ¬nitely not on my radar, and I wish it had been.
night for the ļ¬rst time, which means we slept through the night. She has no issues ā just goes to sleep, sleeps through the night, and wakes up in the morning, which anybody with a child knows is a big deal.
What advice do you have for parents who have noticed their child isnāt getting a full night of sleep?
The ļ¬rst thing is just to notice it. Donāt assume itās normal if your child is a year old, and theyāre not sleeping through the night. Donāt ignore it and just say, āOh, theyāre a bad sleeper.ā Most likely, itās something thatās a bigger issue. Developmentally, our children need sleep to grow and change. Donāt wait to get it taken care of, because it really could lead to bigger issues further down the line.
Jasmine Roth with her daughter, Hazel Lynn Roth | Photo by Mike Radford Photography
Redeļ¬ning New Motherhood: Sarah Hoover Is Breaking the Silence on Postpartum Struggles
Author and mother Sarah Hoover opens up about the hidden emotional toll of new motherhood and the urgent need for honest postpartum conversations.
In your writing, you talk a lot about the misconceptions and pressures that society places on new mothers. Can you discuss what those misconceptions and pressures are, and how you felt that stigma when you ļ¬rst gave birth?
Before I had my first kid, I remembered feeling that, as a woman, I should be a natural fit for motherhood, that maternal instinct would kick in the minute my baby was born, and I would fall madly in love with him. No one had hidden from me that motherhood was arduous, but I thought that if I were a good enough woman, it would feel natural and fulfilling, and the joy I got from loving this little creature so grandly would make up for how hard it is. I had a very traumatic birth, and was depressed when I was pregnant, because none of it felt natural to me. When my kid came out and they put him on my body, I felt nothing for him. I thought there was going to be some hormonal fireworks display, and I would feel so connected and madly in love, but I felt totally empty.
Why do you think more people arenāt talking about the disconnect that new mothers might feel?
The cultural narrative is so entrenched in this vision of what a mother is, going all the way back to the Virgin Mary. Sheās selļ¬ess, devoted, and she puts her son
ļ¬rst in every way. I felt like the total opposite of that. If you had asked me one month in how it was going, I would have lied to you very convincingly, because I was also lying to myself. I had internalized so much of this messaging about what it means to be a good woman and mother, and it convinced me that part of my duty as a woman was to sell this version of motherhood thatās hopeful and exciting. I told myself that if I faked it long enough, eventually I would make it, and the trauma part would go away and make room for the joy and the fulļ¬llment, and suddenly Iād love being a mommy.
What made you want to speak out and share your story?
I wrote the book that I wish I had during that time. I wrote the things that I felt couldāve been the most helpful to me while I was going through it myself. I felt so deeply alone when I was going through my dark days, and I thought I was a total anomaly and a complete freak. But it turns out so many other mothers feel the same way! I had no idea. I remember thinking I needed to write my truth in case it would help make other women feel less alone. Because if just one person had said to me, āWhen your baby comes out, you may not love them right away. And thatās OK. Theyāll come out a stranger, your relationship will grow, and youāll
ļ¬nd your path to love, fulļ¬llment, and motherhood,ā it would have normalized my feelings, and I think my trajectory would have been so diļ¬erent.
If you had asked me one month in how it was going, I would have lied to you very convincingly, because I was also lying to myself. I had internalized so much of this messaging about what it means to be a good woman and mother, and I felt like part of my duty as a woman was to sell this version of motherhood thatās hopeful and exciting.
Whatās one piece of advice youād give to new mothers?
Even though these phases seem so long and impossible when youāre in them, they end. And hey, it all ends, some day. So you owe it to yourself and to those little beings to really explore why you feel the way you do, to really be honest with yourself. There is incredible growth that comes from demanding more for yourself and learning to advocate for what you need to be a connected and fulļ¬lled parent. You must have the perspective that these phases are short in retrospect, and you have to assure yourself that thereās light at the end of the tunnel if you do the work to ļ¬nd it.