September 2025 Lake Norman Woman Magazine

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FAMILY COMES IN ALL SHAPES AND FORMS— by blood, by choice, and sometimes by the unexpected paths life takes us down.

When I moved to the Lake Norman area ten years ago, it was just me and my daughter. We didn’t know anyone. We left my hometown of Shelby—my big, loud, loving family of three sisters, two parents, eight nieces and nephews, and a strong circle of mama friends—because we needed a fresh start. I wasn’t sure what that would look like, but I knew in my heart we were in the right place.

At first, it felt lonely. Going from a house full of people to just the two of us was a big shift. But over time, Lake Norman became our home in the truest sense. I met my husband here. I found friends who feel like family. And just last year, I added an incredible work family with Lake Norman Woman magazine.

I come from a long line of strong women who know the value of showing up, looking out for one another, and building community—and I’ve found that same spirit here.

“FAMILY ISN’T ALWAYS BLOOD. IT’S THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE WHO WANT YOU IN THEIRS.”

So this month, as we reflect on the theme of family, I want to thank you. Whether you’re a longtime reader, a new subscriber, or someone who picks up the magazine now and then—your support has helped me feel at home. You’ve become part of my chosen family, and I couldn’t be more grateful.

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UPCYCLE CHALLENGE

Turn old furniture, jars, or pallets into something useful or beautiful.

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BUILD A BACK-YARD FIRE PIT

Use pavers or bricks to create a simple fire pit

CREATE A CHALKBOARD WALL

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Apply chalkboard paint to a section of wall or the back of a door. It becomes a rotating art display, to-do list, or message center.

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PROJECTSfamily

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MAKE A COZY READING NOOK

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Transform an unused corner with pillows, a small bookshelf, and fairy lights.

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Create puzzles and clues to solve together.

Add floating shelves or wall planters in the kitchen for basil, mint, and rosemary. Let kids decorate the pots with paint, labels, and stickers. MAKE YOUR OWN “ESCAPE ROOM” GAME

INSTALL A DIY HERB GARDEN

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UPGRADE LIGHTING WITH DIY FIXTURES

Swap out a basic light fixture for something unique like a mason jar chandelier or a pendant lamp made from a basket.

AROUND THE WORLD AT HOME

Pick a country each weekend to “visit” with food, music, and crafts.

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INDIVIDUAL BACON CHEESEBURGER

Serves 4

meatloaves

THEY SAY THE KITCHEN IS THE HEART OF THE HOME, and dishes like this prove why. Blending three all-time favorites into one irresistible dinner, this recipe invites everyone to gather around the table. Studies show that families who share meals together at least three times a week have stronger relationships, better communication, and even healthier eating habits. And when the table is full, screens can take a back seat while stories, laughter, and “pass me another slice” take center stage.

This isn’t just dinner, it’s connection served warm. Cooking together gives everyone a role to play—whether it’s mixing the meat, sprinkling the cheese, or making the side salad. No matter how you slice it, this is a recipe for family togetherness that will create lasting memories. W

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FOR THE MEATLOAF:

1 lb. Ground Beef

6 Bacon Strips, cooked until crispy

¼ cup seasoned Panko Breadcrumbs

1 Egg

1 tbsp. Ketchup

2 tsp. Yellow Mustard

1 tsp. Garlic Powder

¼ cup Minced Red Onion

MEATLOAF SAUCE:

½ cup Ketchup

2 tbsp. Yellow Mustard

1 tsp. Onion Powder

1 tsp. Worcestershire Sauce

1 Preheat the oven to 350F. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper and set aside.

2 Mix tother all ingredients for the meatloaf (except for the dill pickle) in a large bowl until combined.

3 Separate the meatloaf mix into four sections and form each one into individual portions. Place them on the prepared baking sheet.

4 Whisk together all ingredients for the cheeseburger meatloaf sauce. Dollop 1 - 2 tablespoons of sauce on each meatloaf and spread over with a spoon. Reserve any remaining for serving.

6 oz. Melty Cheese, cut into cubes

White Sesame Seeds, for serving SIMPLE CHEESEBURGER

Dill Pickles, for serving

5 Bake for 25 minutes, or until internal temperature has reached 160F. Sprinkle each meatloaf with sesame seeds, then plate each loaf individually with desired sides and provide chopped pickles on the side for serving.

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JESS BENTLEY | SLICE OF JESS

Jessica Bentley has over 10 years of experience sharing recipes and cooking tips with a goal to make everyone feel comfortable in their own kitchen and eat a more colorful plate. You can follow her on all social media platforms and via her website SliceOfJess.com.

TURNING CLOSET CLEANUP

AS THE NEW SCHOOL YEAR IS IN FULL SWING, it’s the perfect time to get your home—and especially your kids’ closets—in order. A well-organized closet not only saves time during hectic mornings but also helps children build independence and responsibility. Whether you’ve got preschoolers or high schoolers, here’s some step-by-step tips to organizing closets for a smoother day-today routine.

ROTATE SEASONALLY

As the weather shifts, so should your closet. Store out-ofseason clothing in bins on higher shelves, and do a quick fit-check during winter break and spring. A midyear minipurge helps keep everything current.

1 DECLUTTER TOGETHER

into family time

Start by taking everything out of the closet. This gives you a clear view of what you have and what you no longer need.

Sort Into Piles: Keep, donate, toss.

Check Sizes: Set aside outgrown clothing or items your child no longer wears.

Evaluate Condition: Say goodbye to clothes that are stained, torn, or missing buttons…and if they haven’t worn it in a year, chances are they will not wear it or it won’t fit anymore.

Sentimental Items: We all have those items that we think “oh I need to hold onto this for the kids someday.” Don’t keep it in their closet; put it in a tote and store it somewhere safe.

CREATE A

“GRAB-AND-GO”

ZONE

Reserve one section of the closet for daily essentials: backpacks, lunch boxes, school shoes, and jackets. This drop zone reduces last-minute scrambles and sets your child up for success each morning.

MAKE IT A WEEKLY HABIT

Start a Sunday evening tradition of choosing outfits for the week. Use a Monday–Friday organizer or label hangers for each day. This routine not only saves time but also cuts down on decision fatigue during those early mornings.

2 BUILD A SMART WARDROBE

Once you’ve decluttered, curate a collection of school-ready outfits.

Include weatherappropriate layers, uniforms (if needed), and comfortable shoes.

Organize by category: shirts, pants, skirts, jackets, etc.

Choose 7–10 mixand-match outfits that are easy to grab in the morning.

TIP:

Involve your child in the selection process so they feel ownership over their wardrobe. Consider painting or wallpapering their closet to something age appropriate that they can pick out.

3 DESIGN FOR INDEPENDENCE

Closet design matters. Create a layout that encourages kids to dress themselves and stay organized:

Install low-hanging rods for younger children so they can reach their own clothes.

Use clear bins for accessories, socks, and gym clothes.

Add labels or photos to bins and drawers to help kids identify where things belong.

Consider a valet rod or hanging organizer for pre-planned outfits.

Custom closet systems can grow with your child—adjustable shelves and rods offer flexibility over the years. W

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ANNIE HANSON | THE CLOSET NICHE

Annie Hanson is the CEO/Founder of The Closet Niche located at 197 Byers Creek Road, Suite H, in Mooresville. You can connect with Annie and her entire team at www.theclosetniche.com or give her a call at 704.635.1150.

When You Shop Here, You’re Family Too

Feels Like Home

At Whitlyn’s Boutique, family isn’t just part of our story it’s the heart of everything we do Owned and operated by a mother–daughter team, we built our boutique on the values we cherish most: love, trust, and togetherness. Every handpicked piece in our collection reflects the care and attention we pour into our own family, from timeless clothing and accessories to curated home décor that makes your house feel like home. We believe that style is more than what you wear it’s how you live, how you celebrate, and how you create lasting memories with the people who matter most. When you shop with Whitlyn’s, you ’ re not just supporting a business you ’ re becoming part of a family tradition built to inspire and connect. Because here, family truly matters Come see why shopping at Whitlyn’s feels like coming home because at Whitlyn’s Boutique, we ’ re more than a store; we ’ re a place where friends become family.

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NAVIGATING DIVORCE

Parting Ways, Planning Wisely

Census data over the last few decades indicates that the divorce rate in the U.S.A is almost 50% so this difficult life event impacts lots of Americans. While we know the law is involved in the process of divorce, the family finances are also a significant matter that has to be worked out. Here are six common areas to familiarize yourself with if you or someone you know is considering a divorce:

QUESTION 1:

Where do you go to get questions answered and become more educated about money matters if you are dealing with separation and divorce?

Well, I’d say the best way is to look for a CDFA® professional. In 1993 the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts developed a specialty designation for professionals who work in the financial landscape of divorce. The IDFA developed the credential of CDFA or Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. A certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA) helps couples and their attorneys work to achieve equitable divorce settlements using knowledge of tax law, investments, asset distribution, and shortand long-term financial planning. A CDFA can also provide in-depth financial analysis and advice to attorneys and couples relating to the divorce. CDFAs have several years of relevant experience, pass a certification exam, and undertake continuing education regularly to maintain the credential.

QUESTION 2:

How would someone find a CDFA®?

As a woman CDFA® professional, I find that it’s mostly women who seek me out. Oftentimes their therapist or attorney will recommend they meet with me, but also a girlfriend, family member, or neighbor in our community of Lake Norman will share my name. Sometimes they’ve done a web search for something like “find a CDFA” and that is how we connect. I meet people all the time and on occasion when I tell them what kind of work I do, they’ll say “I wish I knew you back when I was going through divorce,” so the specialty is still new to some.

QUESTION 3:

What are the most common financial mistakes you see in divorce outcomes?

They can be generalized into a few major categories: Not knowing about your family finances can make women vulnerable because they don’t know what money is at stake. If they are in conflict already with their spouse, they might be getting information from that partyand it’s not accurate. Not knowing how this all works can also lead some women to just walk away— even after 20-30 years of marriage because they don’t understand what the laws of the state say about dividing marital assets. One thing they can do to help get in the loop about the family finances is to gather documents like tax filings, mortgage documents, bank account numbers and balances, home values, credit card debt, as well as retirement accounts at financial institutions and with employers. Another mistake is to allow emotion to overrule your decision making. Divorce is a chaotic event for most couples and it can be very stressful, overwhelming, and thought

consuming; so the personal and financial outcomes can be improved with professional, therapeutic guidance on how to operate through such difficult matters. Because the divorce process can be expensive, some women put themselves last and are not willing to pay for mental health guidance. That is generally a mistake in my opinion, and I can usually tell on the first phone call or meeting who has a counselor or coach and who does not.

The women I see where it ends badly is when they can’t take the pressure of being in the divorce negotiation process any longer and they just run. These women tend to be very regretful in just a few years but at that late date, there is not much that can be done to right the situation. Fidelity did a big study about this several years ago and the results generally reported that at five years post-divorce, most of the men interviewed said they were basically back on their feet financially but not so for the women.

QUESTION 4:

From what you’ve said, do you see differences in how women are financially impacted vs. men in divorce?

I talk mostly with women; they tend to seek me out so I can tell you what I see there. In terms of who is “in the loop” on the family finances, there are quite a few women who are not at all conversant on what the family earns, saves, has, or gives. While the women may be the primary purchasers of what the family needs, some have left the rest of everything (including oversight) to the spouse. Data from a comprehensive survey by a big international financial services provider support this. Not everyone, but just in general, we women don’t work and earn as much as men, so we save less and have less situations where we interface with financial matters. This causes women to feel under-informed and less confident about money matters. It also can create a divorce situation where the woman is very vulnerable when the soon-to-be-ex is not candid about the who, what, when, and where of family assets and debts.

Additionally, women who have not worked outside the home much or at all find numerous obstacles in securing employment. This is especially true in the case of silver divorce (divorce occurring at age 50 and over).

QUESTION 5:

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There is a lot of information about divorce on the web. Why shouldn’t someone take advice about divorce from social media?

I follow several Facebook groups about divorce, and some folks take that stuff like it is reliable information. I find that to almost never be the case. The thing people don’t understand is that every couple’s marriage, family life, and financial situation is unique. You can’t replicate someone else’s journey. Folks who’ve been through divorce oftentimes want to help others by sharing their suggestions. Everyone needs to understand that their journey and steps don’t reflect what the journey and steps are for others. It’s like if you had two vehicles that were involved in a wreck ... they could look very similar; the accident could have been very similar, but one car can be repaired while the other car is considered totaled. You can’t follow in the steps that someone else took. Don’t take advice from non-professionals. For most couples a property settlement in divorce is the largest financial transaction they will ever be a part of. Why would you not consider your situation and future to be important enough to get this right?

QUESTION 6: If a woman anticipates divorce in the future, what else might she consider in advance?

I personally never advocate for splitting up a marriage or a family. If a woman does have concerns about her marriage, I’m a big advocate for counseling. Even if only one party is willing to participate. Work with someone who can help you unpack the communications, situations, and conversations so you can gain enhanced insight. The other thing I would suggest is to get professional guidance as it pertains to the money and the law so that you can make the best decisions possible for your future.

Stoner, CRPC®, CDFA®, is Executive Director/Financial Advisor of The Stoner Group at Morgan Stanley in Cornelius, NC. She and her team can be reached at 704.896.9138 or via their website at advisor.morganstanley. com/the-stoner-group. The use of the CDFA® designation does not permit the rendering of legal advice by Morgan Stanley or its Financial Advisors which may only be done by a licensed attorney. Morgan Stanley Smith Barney LLC. Member SIPC. CRC 6620014 05/24.

For more information on step-families, visit www.empoweringparents.com.

MOST OF US THESE DAYS ARE NOT STRANGERS TO STEP-FAMILIES and the multitude of challenges that inevitably accompany this new, modern-day version of “normal.” However, anyone who has ever taken that step into step-families—whether child or parent—can relate to the fact that it is a mountain to climb. Add grandparents and other extended family members into the mix, and it can quickly become Mount Everest! If you are facing this new and exciting (and challenging!) family construct, here are some points to consider:

Create a special relationship with your stepchildren.

It can be a delicate and difficult balance to strike, but it is important to be an ally and supporter for your step-kids. Although you have to establish those healthy boundaries (as mentioned above), you still want to have their trust and to let them know you’re on their side.

Establish healthy boundaries.

Even though the biological parent should deliver the punishment, step-parents and step-children should still maintain a proper parent/child relationship. It’s ok to be their friend, but you are still a parent and a role model and should be seen in that capacity.

Parents, not stepparents, should do the dirty work. Most experts agree that it is dangerous territory for the step-parent to dole out the punishment. It is important to agree on household rules and discipline, but stepparents should take a back seat when it comes to being the disciplinarian.

Don’t override or criticize. While you do want to create a positive, loving relationship with your step-child, don’t try to compete with their biological parents. The kids may be feeling guilt in terms of the divorce itself as well as some level of guilt for developing a loving relationship with a step-parent. Let them know you support them and respect the relationship they have with their parents.

To meet the growing need in our community, we face new challenges. Rising costs and changes to federal funding are putting a strain on our budget, which means more families could go without the meals and the educational support they desperately need.

WISDOM TEETH THE WISDOM BEHIND

AS ORAL SURGEONS, we perform many different surgical procedures. One of the most common procedures is removal of wisdom teeth, also called third molars. One of the most common questions that we get is, “Why do we have wisdom teeth if they need to be taken out?” While there are several theories proposed for the presence of wisdom teeth, no one particular theory has been proven. What we do know, however, is that whether they are impacted or erupted into the mouth, they can and often do present an array of oral health problems.

Impacted wisdom teeth create a pocket that bacteria can live in and cannot be effectively cleaned out. When these bacteria multiply, their byproducts destroy the surrounding bone and soft tissue and can damage the adjacent molars and supporting tissues. It can also cause cavities in hard-to-reach places that may not be fixable and can end up causing loss of the adjacent teeth. Additionally, impacted teeth can have different cysts and tumors form, which need to be removed. Even when wisdom teeth erupt into the mouth, rarely can they be maintained or kept clean, resulting in similar issues.

WHETHER THEY ARE IMPACTED OR ERUPTED INTO THE MOUTH, THEY CAN AND OFTEN DO PRESENT AN ARRAY OF ORAL HEALTH PROBLEMS.

The best time to remove wisdom teeth is between the ages of 14 and 20 as a general rule. Everyone in this age group should have a full mouth x-ray, called a panorex, to check the positioning of their wisdom teeth so a more individual plan can be formulated. Waiting until one’s late 20s, 30s, or 40s generally makes the removal much more difficult and increases the risks for complications and longer, slower recovery periods.

When patients have their wisdom teeth removed, they should remember that it is a surgical procedure. It involves having anesthesia, surgical removal of small amounts of surrounding bone and teeth, and a recovery period. Some patients feel great the next day while others may take several days to recover. During this time, patients should limit their activities at home, especially athletics, and stick to a softer diet. Syringes are given to patients to care for and clean the extraction sites.

Sometimes patients may be slow to heal or have pain that continues beyond a few days. This is generally referred to as “dry socket.” While dry socket is not dangerous, it can be uncomfortable and refractory to oral pain medications. In these cases, patients should follow up with their surgeon to have medicine placed directly into the extraction sites to ease the discomfort.

Knowing some of the facts surrounding wisdom teeth and their removal can help you plan to take care of them and prevent future, more serious issues down the road. W

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DR. MICHAEL FORAN | CAROLINA ORAL & FACIAL SURGERY

Dr. Michael Foran is an oral/maxillofacial surgeon and partner at Carolina Oral & Facial Surgery (as well as Lake Norman Implant Dentistry), located at 19910 North Cove Road in Cornelius. You may reach them at 704.892.1198 or visit them at www.CAROLINAOMS.com.

THERE’S A LATTE GOING ON

Life these days is a whirlwind for Dr. Naylor as she balances the roles of dentist, wife, and mom. Her daughter, now 10, and her 8-yearold son keep the family calendar packed with school events and extracurricular activities.

“We’re constantly on the go,” she laughs. “But it’s a good kind of busy. I love being part of everything they’re involved in.”

SIPS

OF SMILES AND TRAVEL

MUGS

“Professionally, nothing compares to helping a patient rediscover their smile,” she says, “especially when they haven’t felt confident in years. Those moments truly make my day.” Outside of work, Dr. Naylor enjoys traveling with her family and now that the kids are older, there’s always an adventure on the horizon.

coffee talk:

A sit-down chat with DR. NICOLE NAYLOR at West Lake Dentistry in Denver

OUR FIRST CUP

Born and raised in Parkersburg, West Virginia, Dr. Nicole Naylor’s path to dentistry began early and with determination. She earned both her undergraduate degree and Doctorate of Dental Surgery from West Virginia University, graduating with top honors and ranking among the best in her class. She also received the William Reed Butler Scholar Award for her research in endodontics. For the past six years, her practice has been nominated “Best in Lake Norman” by a patient voted platform. Dedicated to giving back, Dr. Naylor has served her community through initiatives such as the MOM dental outreach program, as well as a 10-day mission trip to Guatemala in 2009.

She strives to lead by example both at home and in her practice.

THIS IS HOW WE BREW IT

Mornings kick off with a burst of energy at her local gym, where both the workouts and the camaraderie set a positive tone for the rest of her day. Dr. Naylor credits a steady routine for keeping life organized and balanced. She enjoys preparing fresh, healthy meals for her family so weeknights run more smoothly, and weekends, though still busy, leave room for laughter, relaxation, and quality time together.

WE’RE THE PERFECT BLEND

At the heart of it all, family is what keeps Dr. Naylor grounded. Watching her children grow and learn is her greatest joy, and her husband’s unwavering support gives her strength through life’s challenges. “He’s my rock,” she says. “I’m so grateful for his positivity and encouragement.” Being able to maintain a thriving career while still being actively present for her family is something Dr. Naylor deeply values, and she strives to lead by example both at home and in her practice. W

Dr. Nicole R. Naylor and her team at West Lake Dentistry offer advanced, comprehensive dental care for the entire family using the latest technology. To learn more, call 704.483.1870 or visit www.WestLakeDentalCare.com. Their office is located at 298 N. Hwy. 16, Suite E, in Denver.

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Mooresville Fondo Charity Bike Ride

Downtown Mooresville, 7:30am-7:30pm

Benefiting the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, join riders of all ages and abilities for charity routes of 25, 50, or 75 miles through scenic Mooresville. Afterward, enjoy food, beer, and live music from The Trueriders.

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Liberty Park, Downtown Mooresville

BBQ food trucks, craft beer, live bands, family fun zone, and activities for all ages.

Healthy Aging

LONGEVITY HAS BECOME A CENTRAL FOCUS in modern health conversations, but simply living longer isn’t enough. The real goal is to age well—maintaining quality of life, independence, and purpose throughout the years. Healthy aging means more than just extending lifespan; it’s about enhancing the physical, mental, and social well-being that makes life meaningful.

Early in my medical training, a professor once described the secret to aging well as a balance of three pillars: sleep, diet, and exercise. Sleep is essential, with seven to nine hours per night supporting physical and mental health. Nutrition also plays a vital role. A balanced diet—rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains, and healthy fats—helps fuel the body and fight age-related disease. Regular physical activity, such as walking, stretching, yoga, or swimming, improves mobility, balance, and overall strength, reducing the risk of chronic illnesses like heart disease and diabetes.

Healthy aging isn’t just about what we eat or how much we exercise; it’s a whole-person approach that includes the mind, body, and spirit. Staying mentally sharp through reading, puzzles, or learning new skills keeps the brain engaged. Purpose and joy can be found in hobbies, volunteering, and mentoring. And social connection is essential as meaningful relationships help protect against loneliness, depression, and cognitive decline. When we care for all aspects of our well-being, we don’t just add years to our life, we add life to our years. With that in mind, here are 10 keys to thriving at every age:

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Adequate Sleep:

Develop a consistent bedtime routine and aim for 7–9 hours of restorative sleep each night.

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Regular Exercise:

Move your body at least 150 minutes a week. Include both strength training and cardiovascular activities.

Balanced Diet:

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Stress Management:

Practice yoga, meditation, deep breathing, or other relaxation techniques to keep stress in check.

Emphasize fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins. Stay hydrated and limit processed foods.

Mental Stimulation:

Challenge your mind with reading, puzzles, learning new skills, or playing music.

Preventive Healthcare:

Keep up with regular check-ups, screenings, and vaccinations.

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Limit Alcohol & Avoid Tobacco:

These can speed up health decline and increase the risk of chronic disease.

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Social Engagement:

Maintain strong connections with friends and family. Join clubs, classes, or community groups.

Stay Positive:

Cultivate gratitude, find humor in everyday life, and focus on what you can control.

DR. MICHELLE SCHMERGE | EQUITY HEALTH

Dr. Michelle Schmerge founded Equity Health to make exceptional healthcare accessible to everyone, everywhere. Together with her team of clinicians and coordinators, she offers primary care, care navigation, and advanced care planning. Learn more at www.equityhealthcares.com.

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Embrace Learning:Lifelong

Take a class, learn a language, explore new technology—curiosity keeps the mind and spirit young. W

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STEP INTO WHITLYN’S BOUTIQUE and you’ll instantly feel it — that warm, welcoming energy that can’t be faked. It’s not just the elegant displays or the curated finds. It’s something deeper. Something personal.

Because Whitlyn’s isn’t just a boutique, it’s a love story between a mother and daughter, woven with faith, family, and a shared dream brought to life.

For Lynne and Whitney Barbee, building Whitlyn’s was never just about business. It was about creating a space where relationships matter more than sales, where kindness is the currency, and where everyone who walks through the door is treated like family.

“We’re a close-knit crew,” Whitney says.

“We genuinely love doing life together; whether that’s working side by side, being out on the lake, traveling, or just hanging out at home.”

Originally from Charlotte and Huntersville, Lynne and her husband, Tim, were drawn to Denver by the peaceful pull of Lake Norman. “Beatty’s Ford Boat Access was our favorite ramp to launch the boat,” Lynne recalls. “This whole area just felt like a home away from home.” That sense of belonging and connection would eventually inspire the foundation of Whitlyn’s Boutique, right down the road from the lake they love.

INTRODUCING OUR FOUR FINALISTS

BENEFITTING:

Tim and Lynne have two children, Whitney and Seth, and when they’re not working on the weekends they love going to the coast and seeing their son and his family. “Being a GiGi and Poppy to our two granddaughters is one of the greatest joys of our lives,” Lynne beams, “and of course, working with Whitney and son-in-law, Garet, is a true blessing. Family is at the heart of everything we do.”

The spark for the boutique began years ago after a beloved hometown shop closed. “We’d always loved shopping together,” Whitney shares. “We missed the personal touch where the owner knew our names and made shopping feel like a visit with a friend.” With complementary strengths (Lynne’s background in interior design and accounting and Whitney’s passion for marketing, events, and people), they took the leap and Whitlyn’s was born—first as a mobile boutique, then as the beloved brick-and-mortar store it is today.

Opening the storefront was a full-circle moment. “Seeing our name on a building was humbling,” Lynne reflects. “Working with my daughter and watching her chase this dream has been one of the greatest honors of my life.”

Faith is the foundation of everything they do, and subtle reminders of that can be found throughout the store with curated pieces that uplift and inspire.

“We pray over our business and try to fill our space with encouragement,” Whitney says. “It’s a joy finding just the right pieces for just the right people.”

Whitlyn’s isn’t just about style, it’s about intentional living. Whitney and Garet’s personal journey with infertility has shaped both their hearts and their mission. “It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever walked through,” she shares honestly. “But it’s taught me to slow down, to care for my body, and to be more conscious of the toxins in the products we use every day. That’s why Whitlyn’s is committed to carrying only all-natural bath and body products ... a decision born not from trend, but from truth.”

It is this honesty and vulnerability that has made Whitlyn’s a safe space for others. They often pray with customers or simply offer an understanding, empathetic ear that can only come from lived experience. And because giving back is a priority for them, Whitlyn’s partners with the Bundle of Joy foundation to help others who are struggling with infertility.

each year with the goal of seeing all 50 states. You can also find them enjoying time on the water, golfing, and gardening side-by-side. It’s a life filled with laughter, tears, faith, and fierce love.

“If I had to picture my perfect day,” Whitney smiles, “it would be relaxing by the water with Garet and my family without a care in the world. But until then, I want to make everyday matter and to be a blessing to someone else.”

Outside the boutique, the family embraces life fully. They travel together

It is that spirit of service, of joy, of heart that makes Whitlyn’s Boutique more than a store. “This life can be hard,” Lynne adds, “but we get the opportunity to make someone’s day better. To lift them up. That’s what Whitlyn’s is all about ... one family welcoming others, one heartfelt connection at a time.” W

WOMEN

on theMOVE

LAKE NORMAN WOMEN MAKING THEIR SPLASH

LALAINE AGUSTIN, is a dynamic executive assistant known for her all-around administrative support spanning executive, sales, and billing departments. Having worked extensively with international clients, she is currently a part of the

WSIC Radio/Lake Norman Woman Magazine family. From e-learning manuals to payroll and billing, she’s the behind-the-scenes engine of efficiency.

SOLY BALL announces her new business, The Sol Organizer, serving the entire Lake Norman area. A professional organizer, Soly is your transformation companion who will help you do what might feel overwhelming if attempted alone. “I am your reset coach,” she smiles. “No matter what life is handing you, I’m here to walk through it with you ... step-bystep with no judgement—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Let me help you clear your mind, heart, and space.”

SARA FREEMAN is a fly-fishing guide who is passionate about connecting her guests with nature. Together with her husband, Nick, they founded Rivers & Ridges, a fly-fishing guide service that fully outfits their guests and introduces newcomers to the sport. Sara is especially dedicated to encouraging more women to explore fly fishing, connecting them to the peace found in the river and to the sport’s supportive community of women anglers.

JAMEKA HAYNES

Humanity-Centered Strategist, certified life coach, and founder of BOLD Conversations Consulting. With 30 plus years in executive retail, nonprofit leadership, and inclusive engagement, she empowers change through bold dialogue. Jameka is a community champion that serves on various boards in Iredell County and mentors youth and young adults. She helps others use their superpowers to build belonging, dismantle division, and create spaces for authentic connection—empowering humanity one bold conversation at a time.

BRANDI JONES named Interim Executive Director of Angels & Sparrows. With over 20 years in nonprofit leadership, she brings a strong record of advancing economic mobility for families. As they navigate a pivotal season of growth and need, community support is more important than ever. Please join Angels & Sparrows in welcoming Brandi and in fueling their mission forward.

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SCIENCE, SOUL, AND A HUMAN TOUCH

OR DR. CAMMY BENTON, medicine has never been about simply writing prescriptions. It’s about truly listening, uncovering the deeper causes of illness, and guiding her patients toward lasting health. Her warm, approachable nature instantly puts people at ease, but it’s her dedication to treating the whole person

A graduate of the Brody School of Medicine at East Carolina University in 2000, Dr. Benton always knew she wanted to practice family medicine. Believing that medical residency should be more comprehensive, she completed an extra transitional year in Baltimore before finishing her training at UNC-Chapel Hill in 2004. It was during her early years in a traditional group practice that she began to feel the limitations of the conventional model.

“Once I began working in a group practice,” she recalls, “I realized that the standard approach was often to dole out ‘a pill for an ill,’ and I saw how quickly that list of medications could grow. One pill often led to another ... prescribed just to manage the side effects of the others.”

This realization became the turning point in her career. Determined to offer her patients more than quick fixes, Dr. Benton began exploring holistic medicine, which focuses on root causes rather than symptom management. In 2013, she became boardcertified in Holistic and Integrative Medicine, and three years later she completed her functional medicine certification.

“Functional medicine searches for the root cause of disease,” she explains, “and then determines a solution by looking at all systems in a person—not just an isolated symptom. It also considers the patient’s

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unique body and life circumstances, while still integrating the latest medical research.”

In 2017, Dr. Benton took a leap of faith and opened Benton Integrative Medicine, with locations in Huntersville and Denver. The practice offers functional medicine, direct primary care, hormone therapy, sexual health programs, and a variety of holistic services designed to support mind, body, and spirit for your entire family.

Her ability to balance a thriving practice while giving back to her community speaks to her deep sense of purpose. Outside the clinic, she’s a passionate educator and advocate, often sharing her expertise through workshops, talks, and local outreach programs. She is as committed to empowering her neighbors with knowledge as she is to caring for the patients who walk through her door.

“Healing is not just a medical process,” she smiles. “It’s a partnership. I believe in giving my patients the tools and education they need to take an active role in their health journey. I want them to know they have options. My goal is to help them feel heard, understood, and supported as we work toward real, lasting wellness.” W

HYPERBARIC OXYGEN THERAPY (HBOT) and its role in women’s health

HBOT HAS BEEN PROVEN AN EFFECTIVE THERAPY for age related concerns such as cognitive decline, balancing hormones and alleviating menopausal symptoms, infertility issues, and facilitating healthy aging.

Hormonal Transitions

Perimenopause, Menopause, and Ovarian Function

HBOT has been shown to significantly alleviate perimenopausal clinical symptoms including insomnia, night sweats, and heart palpitations. In patients with premature ovarian failure, HBOT effectively regulated hormone levels, improved symptoms, and shortened the disease process.

The hormone balancing properties of HBOT are further validated in patients following ovarian cystectomy. This is an invasive procedure (wound to the ovary) and HBOT helps the body repair the wound, balances hormone levels, and enhances post operative ovarian function.

Infertility Treatment

HBOT is an established adjunct therapy for improving fertility outcomes. It stimulates new blood vessel growth (angiogenesis) and reduces inflammation in the endometrial lining of the uterus thus increasing endometrial thickness and endometrial receptivity. HBOT also equates to higher-quality eggs and embryos. HBOT transforms the lining of the uterus into the optimal condition for embryo implantation resulting in greater implantation success and higher pregnancy rates. The treatment protocol consists of 7-10 days consecutively beginning from the day 2nd - 5th of menstrual cycle.

Animal studies in older females improved age-related declines in oocyte quality and blastocyst formation resulting in increased fertilization rates. These findings suggest that HBOT may be a potential clinical application for improving fertility in aging females.

HBOT has emerged as a potential adjunctive treatment for male infertility, as it targets various sperm abnormalities and improves fertility outcomes. Research has revealed significant improvements in sperm survival, density, morphology, normal sperm rates, and motility following HBOT with an increased clinical pregnancy rate.

Anti-Aging Benefits and Healthy Aging

The incidence of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease is almost twice as high in women as it is in men. More than half of the population over 60 years old express concern about the decline in their cognitive abilities. A healthy diet, exercise, and HBOT have all been shown to be tools to prevent and treat age-related cognitive decline.

The Aging Process Is Linked to Several Mechanisms

Body tissue lack of energy/oxygen due to narrowing of the blood vessels as we age resulting in decreased tissue blood supply.

· Mitochondria dysfunction increases as we age. These are the brain of each cell in our body that determines the cells overall function.

· Stem cell exhaustion as we age results in the body’s decreased ability to repair damaged tissue.

HBOT Mechanisms That Influence the Aging Process

· Tissue oxygenation is increased 25 times and causes various molecules to be released that produce new blood vessels that improve oxygenation of the tissue, including the brain.

· Mitochondria function is restored by HBOT in all cells of the body including the brain.

· Stem cell recruitment to repair tissue, including brain cells, increases eight-fold when the tissue signals a need for repair.

HBOT anti-aging protocols have shown the ability to increase telomere length by 20% and produce a 30% decrease in senescent cells that can lead to age-related disorders and cancer.

With its many applications, ranging from supporting fertility to mitigating aging, HBOT is proving to be a versatile drug-free solution tailored to the unique needs of women at every stage of life. W

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DR. ROGER HUNTER | NIRVANA HYPERBARIC WELLNESS

Dr. Roger Hunter is the owner of Nirvana Hyperbaric Wellness located at 146 Medical Park Road, Suite 110, in Mooresville. For more information, call 704.471.4100 or visit www.nirvanahbo.com.

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IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR A PLACE that feels like a mini-vacation without ever leaving Sherrills Ford, you’ll find it at Anntony’s at the Landing (4491 Slanting Bridge Road or come by water via The Landing). This local water-front favorite blends mouthwatering Caribbean-inspired flavors with a laid-back, familyfriendly Key West vibe that keeps people coming back for more.

From the moment you walk in, the upbeat music, colorful décor, and tempting aroma of island spices let you know you’re in for something special. Whether you’re grabbing a table with the kids, toasting a drink with friends, or having date night, there’s something for everyone.

Families especially love the extras — a game room stocked with board games, an outdoor sand area for the kids, plenty of space for celebrations, live music, and dog-friendly. Anntony’s offers a free event room that’s perfect for birthdays, baby showers, rehearsal dinners, holiday gatherings, or even casual business meetings.

And since they’re always on island time, they can bring the party to you with off-site catering, or you can order ahead and pick up your feast to go ... whatever works best for you!

And the food? It’s a flavor festival! Enjoy a tempting lineup of appetizers, rotisserie island chicken, fresh seafood, burgers, wings, amazing sides, and more all with a splash of island flair. Pair it with a cold drink from the full bar, and you’ve got the recipe for perfection. And don’t forget the Key Lime Pie! C’mon down, mon, the islands await! W

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Cornelius Festival of Cultures

3:00 to 6:00pm Cain Park (near Cain Center for the Arts)

A free event celebrating diversity with food, cultural booths, art, and live performances.

All American Dog Show

2:00 to 5:00pm Robbins Park (17738 W. Catawba Ave)

This free community event welcomes hundreds of dog lovers and their furry friends to enjoy pet-related vendors, concessions, and fun contests.

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FAMILY ISN’T ALWAYS WRITTEN IN THE LANGUAGE OF DNA— unless, of course, you’re talking blood type. When Beth Perryman first noticed a billboard seeking a kidney donor, she couldn’t have imagined it would lead her down a path that would not only change her life, but gently reshape her understanding of what it truly means to be family.

A native of Winston-Salem, Beth moved to Charlotte after graduating from Appalachian State University and settled in Lake Norman with her husband Drew in the early ’90s where they raised two children. Beth now works part-time and stays active with weight training, walking, and book clubs. She also volunteers on the Guest Experience team at Love Lake Norman Church.

Beth recalls the moment she saw the billboard along the side of the road: “The first time I noticed it, I thought to myself, ‘I am an organ donor’ but the next time I passed it, I looked closer and realized they needed a living donor ... and specifically someone with type O blood.”

The face on the billboard, Wayne, stayed with her. “He has such a warm and welcoming smile,” she says. “I would see it walking my dogs, driving to work, it just kept popping up.”

After some reflection and prayer, Beth did something few would have the courage to do. She reached out to see if she might be a match.

Though she had no personal connection to kidney disease, something about this request pulled at her heart. “I remembered praying in years past about decisions and asking God for a billboard,” she laughs. “Well, there it was.”

Not yet sure it could actually happen, Beth didn’t tell many people at first, but her family was onboard from the get-go, supporting her every step of the way. “My kids and husband were great. I tried to stay healthy and active going into surgery, and we all worked together as a family toward that end.”

Beth and Wayne met before the procedure to get to know one another, and they both knew it was a perfect match—in more ways than one! “We went to dinner and had so much in common,” she shares. “We just laughed and laughed. The restaurant was closing, and we realized we had talked the night away.”

The surgeries were a success and recovery—bolstered by community and family support—went smoothly for them both. On surgery day, they were placed across the hall from each other. “I was so relieved to hear he was doing well,” Beth smiles. “Our families met, and it felt like something much bigger than all of us.”

Beth’s story reminds us that the most powerful family ties aren’t always written in our genes, but in our choices. Sometimes it’s a single selfless act—a gift of life that creates a ripple of love, hope, and healing that stretches far beyond biology. For what is “Family” if it’s not about showing up, giving freely, and loving without condition. W

For what is “Family” if it’s not about showing up, giving freely, and loving without condition.

To learn more about how you can become someone’s perfect match, visit www.organdonor.gov.

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The William A. Graham Jr. Farm, built circa 1890, features a rare 16-sided "round barn" and was owned by the son of NC governor William Alexander Graham.

A Bavarian-themed celebration featuring live music (“Wagon Load A Trouble”), beer specials, and festival fun.

Kids’ Fishing

Fish Camp Family-friendly fishing contest where children compete in catch-and-release.

FOOD FANDOM

Pigskin Pigs in a Blanket: Wrap mini sausages in crescent dough, then pipe laces on top with mustard or cream cheese to look like tiny footballs.

Pizza Footballs: Use crescent dough or pizza dough to create footballshaped mini calzones stuffed with cheese, pepperoni, or sausage. Score “laces” on top with white cheese or sauce before baking.

TEAM SPIRIT MOCKTAIL BAR

Set up a DIY bar with sodas, sparkling waters, fruits, and juices to build team-colored drinks and name them things like “Carolina Blue Blitz” (blue raspberry lemonade with fizz) or “Tar Heel Tonic” (a tonic-based citrus drink with blueberries and mint)

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Game Day Grazing Board: Arrange meats, cheeses, fruits, and crackers in the shape of a football field, complete with green grapes for turf and salami goal posts. Add chocolatecovered almonds as “footballs.”

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HALFTIME CORNHOLE (WITH A TWIST!)

Use mini footballs instead of beanbags, or paint the cornhole boards with rival team logos and play tournament-style. Add challenges like “throw with your non-dominant hand.”

FANTASY FACE PAINT STATION

Set up a quick face-paint corner or sticker tattoo table with team colors, under-eye strips, and glitter. Great for kids and spirited adults alike!

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Words are magic. They actually change our brain chemistry! As wordsmiths here at LKNW, we are especially fond of words that will resonate with our readers, in hopes they will help guide & inspire you.

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HERE’S A CURIOUS TRUTH: we will never truly see our own face the way others do. Yes, we catch glimpses in the bathroom mirror, on a Zoom call, in the occasional selfie. But if you add it all up, it’s only a few minutes a day, maybe less. The rest of the time, we’re living inside that face, never able to watch it in motion the way the people in our lives do every single day.

Our families know our face far better than we do. They see it light up when we walk in the room. They recognize the subtle tilt of our head when we’re listening intently, the little crease between our brows when we’re worried, the exact curve of our smile when we’re proud or amused.

Think about it. The face your child knows is the one that has bent close to kiss a scraped knee, whispered a bedtime story, or beamed from the crowd at their school play. The face your partner loves is the

one they’ve woken up to a thousand mornings, the one that says “I understand” without a word. Even extended family and dear friends carry in their minds a moving picture of your expressions, one you will never fully witness yourself.

For most of human history, people lived without mirrors or photographs to tell them how they looked. They knew themselves by touch and by the reactions of others. The image of their own face was built from memory and imagination. Today, we live in an age where we can see ourselves anytime (in front-facing cameras, video calls, and snapshots) and yet we still don’t see what others see in the quiet, unposed moments.

That’s because the truest expressions, the ones your family treasures most, aren’t captured in mirrors. They happen in the middle of life: when you’re laughing until you cry, when you’re listening with your whole heart, when you’re caught off guard by joy or pride.

Those are the moments that become imprinted in the memories of the people you love.

Maybe that’s a gentle reminder to care less about perfect angles or cameraready smiles, and more about what our face communicates every day. Is it open? Kind? Reassuring? Does it tell your family and those closest to you that they matter? Does it light up in a way that makes them feel seen?

In the end, the face we wear is less about how we see it and more about how it makes the people around us feel.

In the end, the face we wear is less about how we see it and more about how it makes the people around us feel. Your family knows your face better than anyone, and the story it tells will be one of the greatest gifts you ever give them. W