Families Thames Valley West November/December 2025
From the snowy mountains of Lapland to the human village of Elapai, join Maya, Pepper, Pip, Milo, Jasper, and the Snowberry Fairies as they race to save the Christmas Flame.
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Welcome to the last issue of 2025!
It’s a very busy and exciting couple of months, and our extended What’s On section reflects that. We have found a great mixture of Christmas fairs, seasonal theatre performances, family-friendly events and, of course, places to catch up with Father Christmas locally – an indispensable guide for the season!
Sticking with the Christmas theme, we have compiled a handy gift guide of children’s books on page 10 – and some festive baking ideas on page 11!
As a contrast to the busyness of the other pages, on page 12 we look at winding down and spending quality time with your tween; it’s good to step outside hectic family life from time to time and focus on the present moment!
Enjoy November and December!
Toys and Teens Appeal launched in Reading
Reading Family Aid launched its 2025 Toys and Teens Appeal on 23rd October, calling on the local community to help bring Christmas cheer to disadvantaged children across Reading.
Recent figures from End Child Poverty reveal that more than 11,000 children in Reading—30% of the town’s young people— are living in poverty. For many, Christmas morning would pass without a single gift.
Run entirely by volunteers, Reading Family Aid works to change that. Last year, thanks to the generosity of donors, the appeal delivered gifts to more than 2,000 children. The charity is once again asking for support to ensure every child has a present to open this Christmas.
Supporters can help in two ways: donate toys and gifts at local drop-off points (or arrange for collection), or give a financial donation to help purchase additional presents.
Visit ReadingFamilyAid.org for details on how to donate or find your nearest collection point.
Thrilling new book from local author and parent
BAFTA member and award-winning Berkshire-based director Leon Mitchell unlocks a new quest in epic sci-fi novel, Felicity Fire - And the Forever Key!
Felicity Fire - And the Forever Key introduces readers to Felicity, a sharpwitted kid who finds herself in the wrong place at the wrong time - or does she?
When hiding from school bullies in an odd antique shop, Felicity Fire finds a mysterious key and is swept away through an unusual door into an enchanted world shimmering with impossible magic and breathtaking wonder. Stranded and with danger lurking around every corner, she is soon joined by some mischievous, loveable and brave new friends, who join her on an unforgettable quest to find a way back home and save the land of forever.
GIVEAWAY: We are excited to be able to offer a FREE, signed copy of Felicity Fire – And the Forever Key!
If you would like the chance to win this, please e-mail editor@familiestvw.co.uk by 30th November 2025. One person will be selected at random after this date and the book will be sent to them by post.
Felicity Fire book orders from Gardner Books: uksales@gardners.com
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THE GREAT CHRISTMAS TOY GIVEAWAY
From Chaos to Clean: One Mum’s Journey
As a mum of three living in Berkshire, I’ve learned to juggle a million things at once. But let’s be real, keeping a clean home often falls by the wayside. After years of struggling to balance family life and household chores, I decided to turn my passion for cleaning into a business.
With Grandsage Cleaning Services, I’m dedicated to providing topquality cleaning services to families like mine in Berkshire. From messy homes to sparkling clean spaces, I’ll work with you to create a customised cleaning plan that fits your needs and budget.
Whether you need a one-off deep clean or regular maintenance, I’m here to help you enjoy a cleaner, healthier home. Let’s chat about how I can help you reclaim your sanity and enjoy more quality time with your loved ones.
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All Aboard… Introducing the NEW Beehive Express Party Play Bus – where the party rolls right up to your door!
Once a classic red London double-decker, she’s had a total glow-up and is now buzzing as a soft play party bus in dazzling bright yellow! The bus is perfect for birthday parties, weddings, schools, nurseries and corporate events. Whether you’re in Berkshire, Buckinghamshire, Hampshire, or Surrey (within 20 miles of Bracknell), The Beehive Express Party Play Bus is ready to bring the soft play party directly to YOU!
To enquire please complete the online form found at www.beehiveclub.co.uk/the-beehive-bus Facebook and Instagram: @thebeehiveexpressplaybus
Anti-Bullying Week 2025 – A Power for Good
Anti-Bullying Week runs from 10 to 14 November this year, with the theme ‘Power for Good’.
The Anti-Bullying Alliance chose this theme following consultation with teachers and pupils who wanted a theme that empowered them to do something positive to counter the harm and hurt caused by bullying.
The week will kick off with Odd Socks Day on Monday 10 November, during which adults and children wear odd socks to celebrate our uniqueness.
More information at www.anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk
The Christmas Flame advent calendar
The Christmas Flame is a magical Advent adventure told in twentyfour nightly chapters - perfect for families to read together throughout December.
Deep in Lapland, the Christmas Flame keeps the season’s magic alive, but this year invisible mischief, flying headteachers, and a mysterious enemy threaten to snuff it out. From snowy mountains to the human village of Elapai, Maya, Pepper, Pip, Milo, Jasper and the Snowberry Fairies must uncover the truth before Christmas fades.
This is a cosy, funny and heartwarming festive read for ages 6–9.
Follow @DesmondJamesBooks to find out more.
Why your child’s teacher is tired
By Zuzu Jordan
When your child’s teacher greets you at pick-up with a weary smile or looks a little drained during a parent’s evening, it’s not because they don’t love what they do. Teaching is a highly rewarding profession but also one of the most demandingemotionally, mentally and physically.
The many hats of a teacher
A teacher’s job doesn’t stop at delivering lessons. In a single day, they may also act as coach, counsellor, nurse, mediator, cheerleader and problem-solver. This constant juggling can be both exhilarating and exhausting.
Planning beyond the classroom
What happens in class is only the tip of the iceberg. Behind every lesson is hours of preparation, marking and adapting plans to meet the needs of different learners. Many teachers work evenings and weekends, often unpaid, to bring their students the best possible experience.
Emotional energy
Children don’t just bring their homework to school - they bring their moods, worries and triumphs too. Teachers hold space for all of this. They celebrate the wins, comfort the tears and support children through challenges. On top of this, teachers are also responsible for safeguarding, which can involve sensitive or upsetting situations and requires immense emotional energy.
The pace of the school day
Imagine being ‘on stage’ for six straight hours with thirty children looking to you for guidance, answers and structure. Few jobs
Backing up school expectations at home
One of the best ways parents can support teachers is by reinforcing school expectations at home. Children thrive when they see consistency between classroom and family life because it helps them understand that learning, respect and responsibility don’t stop when the school bell rings.
Simple routines make a big difference. Encouraging regular reading, setting aside time for homework and ensuring children arrive both on time and prepared each morning all show that school is a priority. Just as importantly, backing up teachers on behaviour expectations, like kindness, listening and perseverance, helps children see these values as part of everyday life, not just ‘rules for school.’
Of course, parents don’t need to recreate the classroom at home. It’s about building habits that support learning and showing children that you and their teacher are a team. When children see that the adults in their lives are working together, they feel secure, motivated and ready to succeed.
Backing up school expectations isn’t just about helping teachers; it’s about helping children flourish.
require such focus and authority without pause. Even lunch breaks are often spent supervising playgrounds or running clubs.
Why it matters
A tired teacher is still a dedicated teacher. Their fatigue reflects how much they give of themselves every day. When we recognise the demands of the job, we can better appreciate the effort behind every worksheet, every encouraging word and every patient explanation.
How families can help
The best gift parents can give teachers is partnership. Kind words of thanks, support with homework routines or volunteering for a class activity go a long way. Most of all, valuing their commitment can help lighten the emotional load.
So next time you notice your child’s teacher looking tired, remember it’s not a lack of enthusiasm. It’s the natural result of pouring heart, energy and care into shaping the next generation.
Zuzu is a Mastery for Maths Specialist who has taught primary for eighteen years and is Director of Arnett International. For FREE resources and tips, find her on Instagram @edumate_uk
Helping out in the school community
Schools thrive when families and teachers work together and one of the most valuable ways parents can offer support is by getting involved in the school community. Even small contributions of time and energy can make a big difference, not just to teachers but to children too.
Helping out doesn’t have to mean a big commitment. It might be lending a hand on a school trip, reading with children once a week or running a stall at the summer fair. These acts ease the workload for staff and create special memories for pupils. For those with less flexible schedules, offering occasional help with resources at home, like cutting, labelling or preparing craft materials, can be just as valuable.
Beyond practical support, active participation sends children a powerful message: that their school is important and worth your time. It builds a sense of community where families feel connected, teachers feel appreciated and children feel proud. When parents join in, schools become stronger, warmer places and everyone benefits.
Call for Free Code Clubs in every school and library
The Raspberry Pi Foundation, the UK’s leading digital skills charity, is calling for a free Code Club in every UK school and library, aiming to equip young people with essential digital skills for a future shaped by AI. An Opinium survey found 60% of parents see coding as important, while over 70% say their child isn’t taught coding regularly at school.
Already supporting 2,000 free Code Clubs, the Foundation helps kids learn to code and build confidence, teamwork, and resilience. Free training and resources make it easy for anyone, regardless of experience, to start a club.
Teachers like Janine Kirk have seen Code Clubs open doors for all students to be creative and collaborative, breaking down stereotypes about who can code. The Foundation’s position is clear: every child should learn to code to shape an inclusive digital world. Code Club has reached 2 million children worldwide, with a goal of 10 million by 2035.
More info: www.codeclub.org
Helping schools tackle online misinformation
A new centre has been launched by the National Institute of Teaching (NIoT) to help schools tackle online misinformation, disinformation and conspiracy theories. Funded by the Pears Foundation, the initiative aims to give teachers and school leaders the tools to support children navigating today’s complex digital world.
The programme offers training, practical classroom resources, online learning modules and public engagement campaigns to strengthen media literacy and critical thinking among students. Pip Sanderson, NIoT’s Director of Teacher Development, said the centre will help teachers guide children safely online.
NIoT Chief Executive Melanie Renowden emphasised that young people are increasingly exposed to false information and that schools play a key role in protecting them.
The centre was shaped by feedback from teachers who say they urgently need support. Its goal is to build a generation of digitally savvy, critical thinkers.
School Open Days Nov-Dec 2025
Open days may need pre-booking. Please check before visiting.
Crosfields School
Reading, RG2 9BL 0118 987 1810
crosfields.com
Thursday 13 November, 9am: Junior experience day
Thursday 13 November, 6pm: Scholarship and bursary evening
Thursday 20 November, 9am: Year 7 experience day
Wednesday 3 December, 9:15am: Nursery stay and play
Friday 5 December, 9:15am: Reception taster
Leighton Park School
Reading, RG2 7ED 0118 987 9608
leightonpark.com
Friday 7 November, 9am: Weekday open morning
Tuesday 11 November, 8:30am: Taster day for students in year 6
Oratory Prep School
Reading, RG8 7SF 0118 984 4511 oratoryprep.so.uk
Monday 24 November, Toddler stay and play
St Joseph’s College Reading, RG1 5JT 0118 966 1000 sjcr.org.uk
Wednesday 12 November, 9:30am: Senior open morning Friday 14 November, 9:30am: Stay and play
The Abbey School
Reading, RG1 5DZ 0118 987 2256 theabbey.co.uk
Wednesday 26 November, 9:30am/2:30pm: Senior school and sixth form working open day
Confessions from the first year of parenthood
By Ellie Malt
The first year of parenting? Total chaos. You’re exhausted, winging it and wondering why no one warned you that tiny humans come with so much stuff! No one gets it ‘right’ and looking back, most of us realise we stressed over the wrong things or missed little joys because we were too busy trying to keep it all together.
Here are six confessions from parents who’ve just been there:
The tale of Sophie the Giraffe
‘I splurged on Sophie the Giraffe because apparently, she’s the iconic teething toy. Big mistake. Our dog thought it was her chew toy and won every battle. After a few replacements, I realised babies don’t care about bougie toys. Save your money.’
Talking about the hard stuff
‘Every mum meetup was the same: nap schedules and bedtime routines. Boring. The real breakthroughs happened when I admitted I was struggling. Talking openly about exhaustion and doubt made me feel less alone. Way more useful than another nap hack.’
The spoon and plate saga
‘Starting solids? I spent hours researching the ‘best’ spoon and suction plate. I finally bought a pricey set that was basically useless - the spoon became a teether. Cheap supermarket ones worked way better. Don’t overthink (or overspend) it.’
Embracing flexibility
Rigidity is a common regret for new parents. We fixate on details, fear failure and hold ourselves to impossible standards. Loosening your grip makes everything easier. Babies are surprisingly adaptable and parenting is easier when we let go of wanting perfection.
Go out while you can. Babies sleep through noise better than you expect - cafés, pubs and friends’ houses are fine. Don’t fear failed plans. A short nap or a messy meal isn’t the end of the world. There’s always tomorrow.
Let chaos in. Messy feeds, unpredictable sleep, piles of laundry - it’s all part of normal life.
Adapt on the fly. Flexibility means you can enjoy moments instead of stressing over what ‘should’ happen.
Laugh at the madness. The more you accept the imperfect, the more fun you’ll have and your baby will pick up on that energy too.
The first year isn’t about control; it’s about adapting, forgiving yourself and realising that imperfect days are often the best ones.
Missing out on easy outings
‘I was so scared outings with our little one would fail that we barely left the house. Looking back, I wish we’d gone to the pub more while our baby was still portable. Those outings would have done wonders for our sanity.’
Rushing through everyday moments
‘Every nap felt like a race to finish chores. I wish I’d taken long showers, sipped hot coffee or just chilled. Laundry never endsbut those little self-care breaks? Priceless.’
Forgetting to take enough photos of OURSELVES
‘I have thousands of baby pics and almost none have me in them. I felt too scruffy or tired to be in front of the camera. Now I regret it - those messy, real-life photos are what my child will treasure one day.’
Feeling like I needed to entertain my baby
‘Now I realise I didn’t need to wave rattles, sing, read or talk full time - she had more than enough to handle just getting used to being in the world.’
Ellie Malt is writer and a mum of two girls living in Surrey.
Practical daily goals
Here’s the real talk: babies don’t need the latest gadget, the perfect routine or a spotless home. Above all they need you - calm, present and sane(-ish). New parents tend to overstress, while forgetting to look after themselves. If you’re looking to avoid some common pitfalls here are some key points to manifest:
Skip the hype. That fancy teething toy or overpriced weaning set isn’t going to change your life.
Keep it honest. Vent to other parents about the hard nightsit’s far more valuable than swapping sleep charts.
Protect your downtime. Take the long shower, enjoy a hot drink or binge-watch a show. You deserve it.
Lower the bar. ‘Good enough’ isn’t a compromise. Your baby doesn’t notice if you skip a vacuum.
Celebrate small wins. Survived a full day? Got a few naps? Made it through bedtime? That’s success.
Parenting is messy, unpredictable and exhausting but realising that ‘good enough’ works will give you the energy to enjoy the ride.
The laughter factor: making emotional connection easier
By Adam Christing
Parenting can be wonderful, messy and exhaustingsometimes all before breakfast. With school trips, bedtime battles and endless laundry, it can feel like there’s little time left to breathe. But there’s one tool that makes family life lighter and more connected: laughter.
We hunger for humour. Babies laugh before they can talk! Smiles bond us, lift our spirits and help us lead our families with heart. Here are five simple humour tactics - or ‘laugh languages’ - that make emotional connection easier, even on the rough parenting days.
Surprise!
Delight your kids with the power of the unexpected. Swap breakfast for dinner or announce a picnic in the living room. It is about breaking routines and sparking joy. It’s okay to make your children SAD when it means you Surprise And Delight them.
Poke
The best way to start is by poking fun at yourself (beat the rush). Turn your own flops into funny stories and show them how you have failed forward. Sometimes intimacy really does mean ‘into. me. see.’
In-jokes
Discover the laughter in shared experiences. Nothing says closeness like a joke only your family gets. Create ‘us’ moments: a nickname only you use, a secret phrase for extra biscuits or a running joke about Dad’s dance moves. Children light up when you repeat their funniest lines - it makes them feel like stars.
Wordplay
Use witty language and clever banter. Kids love playful twists on words and ‘dad jokes.’ Make up rhymes, invent silly names or puns: ‘I lost my job at the Orange Juice factory... I couldn’t concentrate.’ The Princess Bride became a family classic because it is more about wordplay than swordplay. Sometimes, just one perfectly timed word gets the biggest laugh. ‘Inconceivable!’
Amplify
Exaggerate stories and situations for impact. Don’t just tell a funny story, re-live it. Ham it up with expressions. Your face is a projector screen!
Laughter builds connection, eases stress and creates memories that last. Your kids may forget what you cooked for dinner but they will long remember when you helped them feel what’s funny.
Adam Christing is a father of four. He is a speaker and the author of The Laughter Factor: The 5 Humor Tactics to Link, Lift and Lead. You can discover your ‘laugh language’ by visiting www.thelaughterfactor.com
CHRISTMAS
Best new children’s gift books for Christmas
By Sarah Campbell
Looking for the perfect gift for young readers this Christmas? From beautifully illustrated classics to dazzling new releases, here are the most special, collectable children’s books of the season.
Paddington’s Twelve Days of Christmas by Michael Bond & Karen Jankel
Ages 2-4
This delightful hardback is perfect for young readers and Paddington fans alike. Inspired by the classic carol, the Brown family are busy celebrating their Christmas gifts - but Paddington is puzzled when he can’t find the partridge in a pear tree. Ever determined, he sets off to investigate, leading to plenty of festive fun and his very own spectacular Christmas Day surprise. With charming illustrations and Paddington’s trademark mischief, this joyful story is ideal for reading (and singing!) together over the holidays.
The Christmas Contest: An Advent Novel by Maxime Gillio
Ages 5-8
Make the countdown to Christmas truly magical with this ingenious advent novel that the whole family can enjoy together. Santa has a big problem: too many children on the nice list and not enough time to deliver the gifts! His solution? A festive competition to recruit his very first apprentice. Featuring a cast of captivating characters, the North Pole comes alive with excitement as contestants face a series of playful challenges. With twenty four sealed chapters to open day by day, this interactive story introduces a joyous new festive tradition.
The Extremely Embarrassing Life of Lottie Brooks by Katie Kirby
Ages 9-12
Puffin are celebrating their eightyfifth anniversary this year with deluxe clothbound editions of much-loved modern classics, including The Extremely Embarrassing Life of Lottie Brooks. Packed with laugh-out-loud moments, friendship and relatable growing-up struggles, this book celebrates the highs and lows of pre-teen life. Bound in cloth with coloured foils and sprayed edges, this beautifully presented hardback is both a perfect gift and collector’s item, with a brand-new foreword by Nadia Shireen.
Oh Dear, Look What I Got! by Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury
From the legendary creators of We’re Going on a Bear Hunt comes a brandnew rhyming delight that feels like an instant classic. In this playful hardback edition, each trip to the shop brings an unexpected surprise – a carrot turns into a parrot and the fun just keeps building! With Michael Rosen’s witty, read-aloud rhymes and Helen Oxenbury’s joyful illustrations, children will be giggling and guessing what comes next. Perfect for story time, this energetic and hilarious tale brings a final twist to leave little readers smiling.
Ages 2-4
Animal Magic by Michael Morpurgo
Ages 5-8
From one of the nation’s most beloved storytellers comes a beautiful hardback collection of four inspiring and heartwarming modern fables celebrating the bond between people, animals and the natural world. Readers will journey from the banks of the Thames to a seaside railway carriage, through countryside lanes on a bicycle and to a Devon farm where a refugee discovers hope through horses. Told with Michael Morpurgo’s trademark warmth and compassion, Animal Magic is a book to cherish and share.
Fold Out + Play Doll’s House Illustrated by Ingela P. Arrhenius
Ages 2-4
This ingenious interactive board book transforms into a beautifully designed 3D doll’s house for hours of imaginative fun. Children can press out and assemble furniture, stand up the charming characters and use colourful stickers to decorate each room - from kitchen and bathroom to cosy bedroom and living room. Once playtime is over, all the pieces pack in the sturdy built-in drawer, making it perfect for on-the-go adventures. This is a book, a toy and a delightful gift all rolled into one.
This is Not a Small Voice edited by Traci N. Todd
Ages 9-12
This stunning illustrated anthology celebrates the power and beauty of black voices. Featuring over one hundred poems by both classic and contemporary poets - including Maya Angelou, Amanda Gorman, Joseph Coelho and more, this collection introduces children and families to a dazzling range of perspectives, all brought to life with vibrant illustrations. The poems explore hope, struggle, joy, pride, family and home in an inspiring gift that is perfect for reading aloud.
Sarah Campbell is co-founder of Parrot Street Book Club, an online children’s bookshop offering a handpicked collection of high-quality children’s chapter books, plus an award-winning monthly book subscription for 5 to 14 year-olds. Find out more at www. parrotstreet.com
Brilliant baking with kids: age-appropriate tips and healthy tweaks
By David Atherton
Baking with your children can be one of the most rewarding (and often hilarious) activities you can do together but knowing how to tailor the experience by age can make all the difference between sweet success and a kitchen meltdown.
Toddlers & pre-schoolers (ages 2–4)
At this age, with attention spans short and curiosity high, little ones may not stick with the recipe from start to finish and that’s okay. Set up a little play table nearby so they can dip in and out of the action. Often they’ll see you enjoying the process and want to get stuck in again. Give them simple jobs like stirring, pouring pre-measured ingredients or decorating. Most importantly, let them play - a few floury fingerprints are all part of the fun.
Young bakers (ages 5–7)
This is the perfect age to get kids excited about being in the kitchen. My top tip? Give them their own baking kit. A personalised apron, a mini rolling pin or wooden spoon, even a paper chef’s hat; it helps them feel part of the process and encourages independence. Children in this age group thrive on praise and love having a job to do, so assign them a role: ‘flour scooper,’ ‘egg cracker’ or ‘official taste tester.’ Supervise closely but let them take pride in what they’re contributing.
Independent explorers (ages 8–11+)
Slightly older kids can often manage a lot of the recipe themselves with a bit of guidance. Step-by-step cookbooks with pictures are brilliant - they support children who may still be growing in reading confidence but want to feel in control. Let them choose the recipe, measure out ingredients and even adapt or annotate their cookbook with ideas of their own. Ownership over the process boosts confidence and creativity. There may be more mess but it’s all part of the learning (and the memories).
General tips for all ages
One universal truth when baking with kids: there will be mess. Lots of it. But that mess is creativity in action. Whether it’s icing on the walls or flour in the hair, these are signs of a fun, hands-on learning experience. Baking is also a fantastic way to
Christmas Slushy
At Christmas time, there are plenty of grown-up drinks like wine, eggnog and sherry but it’s nice to have something special for children too. This colourful, fruity drink is made just for kids, so they can feel included in the celebrations. Using cranberries and oranges, festive fruits with bold flavours, it’s refreshing but also bright and cheerful. Perfect for a Christmas party or a cosy family gathering, this slushy brings a splash of fun to family time.
Visit www.bit.ly/ChristmasSlushy or use QR code for the recipe.
encourage fussy eaters to try new things - if they’ve made it, they’re more likely to taste it.
Most importantly, don’t aim for perfection. Aim for connection, curiosity and confidence. Your bake may lean a little to one side but your child will remember the joy of making it forever.
Three top tips for healthier bakes
Add a little wholemeal goodness. Swap ten to fifteen percent of your white flour for wholemeal. It barely changes the texture but gives you a nice fibre boost and adds more depth to the flavour.
Embrace dried fruits. Dried fruits like apricots, raisins or dates bring natural sweetness as well as added nutrients. Blend into cookie dough or sprinkle into muffins for a healthier treat.
Mix up your root veg. Love carrot cake? Try the same recipe with grated parsnip, beetroot, sweet potato or swede. It’s a fun way to explore flavours and sneak in a few extra vegetables.
This fun recipe is baked in the shape of a Christmas cracker – a real showstopper for the table!
Since it’s Christmas, if you have leftover parsnips, you can use these instead of carrot for a gentle nutty flavour and to keep the cake soft, moist and naturally sweet. Root vegetables have been used in cakes for generations, especially when sugar and butter were scarce; they remain a brilliant way to add flavour and texture.
Visit www.bit.ly/CrackerCake or use QR code for the recipe.
The Quality Time revolution: building a more connected family
By Rachel Jones
How many of us suffer from chronic over-scheduling?
Demanding jobs, childcare, school runs, social and extracurricular commitments leave little space for family life. On average, we devote less than half an hour’s quality time to our child each day. If they’re also spending a lot of time unsupervised on screens, it’s no wonder that parent guilt is very real.
Time spent on social media tends to compound that guilt. While giving us a big dose of the addictive hormone dopamine, it can also trigger feelings of inadequacy or emptiness. By contrast, oxytocin (the ‘love hormone’) is released during simple social interaction. It peaks during childbirth but plays a crucial role throughout life in family bonding and parent-child relationships.
I’m a great believer in encouraging lots of ‘offline’ activities. It doesn’t matter what - paddleboarding, cake decorating, wood whittling, drawing. Don’t just watch from the sidelines, join inshared play is excellent for adults too!
If you have two or more children and can manage ‘us’ time with each individually, it’s powerful. Regular, focused attention builds children’s self-esteem and reduces negative attention-seeking behaviour. Involve your child in everyday routines like cooking or gardening or create special rituals like a weekly games night or sharing a TV series.
When it comes to time spent with our children, quality invariably trumps quantity. According to bestselling author and pastor, Gary Chapman, quality time is one of a human’s five love languages. Simply making time for each other means more than words or gifts ever could.
The dinner table can be a powerful place for open connection, active listening and sharing opinions. Use mealtimes to
Weekend retreat with Berkshire company Re:treat
Over the last weekend of September my son and I stepped outside our usual routine and into a wonderful retreat in West Berkshire.
This retreat was specially designed for parents and their teens and tweens to spend time together, relaxing and connecting through shared activities. It can be difficult to slow down at home and enjoy the moment, and it’s always good to be able to focus on just one child at a time; our objectives for this weekend were to enjoy the moment –together.
…And we did! There was a brilliant mixture of activities, and I particularly appreciated the lack of competitiveness; it really was about enjoying what we were doing and our own achievements. The weekend started with a short meditation session and focusing on living in the moment, and then we were into the serious business of experiencing some wonderfully fun new activities!
My personal favourite was boxfit, and my son loved axe throwing! In calmer moments, we enjoyed a short local walk in stunning countryside, wreath making, mala making and cocktails/mocktails.
The food was plentiful, homemade and healthy, and served in beautiful surroundings and the whole experience was a really special one for both of us: highly recommended!
For more information, check out https://retreat.me.uk
celebrate achievements and ask open-ended questions. The following simple gratitude practice can be very effective; each person has to name their rose, thorn and bud from the day or week:
Rose: what was a highlight and what are you grateful for?
Thorn: what didn’t go so well?
Bud: what are you looking forward to?
By prioritising quality time with our children, we build stronger bonds and foster emotional wellbeing. Simple moments around the table or sharing activities have a profound impact on our relationships. Putting down devices and being present with our children will reap the rewards of a more connected family.
Rachel is the proprietor of Re:treat (www.retreat.me.uk) which runs family wellness retreats and parent and tween spa days in West Berkshire, providing parents and children with a unique opportunity to connect and enjoy new experiences together. Follow @retreatberks on social.
Quality tween time
The teen years steal the limelight but your child will need extra support between ages 8 and 12. It’s a time of huge emotional and social development as their bodies change and hormones undergo a big surge. Pressures pile in and selfesteem can be shaken.
When you as a parent feel pushed away, it can feel hard to encourage quality time without invading your child’s space. Don’t take their anger or frustration to heart – it isn’t aimed at you. Listen, REALLY listen, calmly and with empathy. Show you’re on their team and make them feel ‘seen.’
Give them more space but also express your love through tiny acts. A little message on their mirror, a note in their lunchbox or leaving a flower in their room can be really a simple way of connecting when life is busy.
Simple age-appropriate activities to enjoy together could be a home spa night, bike ride or café trip. And don’t feel you need to fill every silence either – sometimes just being together, quietly content, is more than enough.
Clubs & Classes Directory
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DEVELOPMENTAL CLASSES
Master Builders Club Brick Building Workshops for Children
Master Builders Club
is a LEGO® & DUPLO® lovers paradise! Our weekend and holiday workshops, after school clubs, birthday parties and nursery/primary school events are designed to provide children with an exciting and captivating experience. We provide 1000’s of LEGO® or DUPLO® bricks in a calm and supportive environment along with the imaginative stimulus to transform a room into a world of creativity. If you are passionate about providing engaging and stimulating play opportunities that nurture your child’s mind, then Master Builders Club is for you! To book your brick building fan a place or to find out more about our events, visit the webite.
www.masterbuildersclub.co.uk
BilinguaSing
French, Spanish and Italian classes from age 0-11. Fun sensory music classes with the added bonus of a second language! Trial slots available, as well as sibling discounts. Classes in Wokingham, Bracknell, Charvil, Woodley and other Berkshire locations Monday-Friday. Contact Cari Weston at cari@bilinguasing. com or call 07729261018 for more info.
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Encanta
Tots Classes starting NOW!
If you missed our Pop-Up’s in October, go ahead and BOOK A SESSION.
Tuesdays 10am
Pangbourne Village Hall, Wednesdays
10am Soul Barns, Mortimer Fun-filled bilingual, Spanish & English, music & sensory classes for 0-5s; inclusive classes with music, instruments, games & story-telling celebrating traditions and culture.
Single Sessions & Term Blocks available. Email hola@encantatots.co.uk
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Progress Youth Theatre Workshops for ages 7-18 involving theatre games, improvisation and skills development, leading to a stage production every year. We are an Arts Award Supporter and also offer LAMDA courses. Classes held at Progress Theatre, Reading.
Puddle Ducks teaches children from birth to 10 years to swim independently, confidently and to love the water.
Swimming is one of the most amazing experiences you can share with your baby!
Puddle Ducks’ highly trained and qualified teachers are experts at identifying children’s levels of ability and adapting activities to the individual, nurturing confidence and encouraging natural ability. They are 100% child-led, and their lessons are taught in specially selected pools with limited class sizes. Classes incorporate rhyme and movement based on extensive child development research. FREE trials (t&cs apply) and sibling discount are available. www.puddleducks.com/local-teams/north-hampshire-andreading
Aquacoach
Aquacoach runs weekly swimming lessons for children from 3 years in small groups, held at Queen Anne’s School, Caversham from 8am12pm on Sundays.
Call Julie on 07794 814620 or email julie@ aquacoach.co.uk for a free trial. www.aquacoach.co.uk
Little Wickets
Cricket fun for kids and toddlers as young as 2½. Year-round, weekly indoor classes in central Reading and Bracknell, run by our enthusiastic and qualified coaches. Get in touch at berkshire@littlewickets.com or on 0118 907 8202, or visit our website at www.littlewickets.com to book.
Puddle Ducks
Our highly trained and fully qualified teachers offer baby and toddler swimming lessons that will teach your child to love the water and swim beautifully. FREE TRIAL available. Various locations/times. Warm pools. Sibling discounts.
Contact northhampshireandreading@ puddleducks.com or call 0118 229 3232.
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DRAMA
Festive family fun
FESTIVE THEATRE PRODUCTIONS
Whether it’s a pantomime or a Christmas-themed show, here is a selection of what is on offer in our local theatres this festive season.
A Christmas Carol at South Hill Park, Bracknell
13 Nov
This festive season, Ballet Theatre UK is thrilled to present the return of the beloved classic A Christmas Carol. Step into the heart of a traditional Victorian Christmas, where Charles Dickens’ timeless tale comes to life. 7:45pm southhillpark.org.uk
Ghost Stories for Christmas at South Hill Park, Bracknell
14 Nov
Join Edwardian Tales for an evening of haunting dark delights set during Christmastide, on their second national tour of ghostly tales of dread. 7:30pm southhillpark.org.uk
The Little Mermaid at Watermill Theatre, Newbury
26 Nov-4 Jan
Far out in the ocean, deep beneath the waves, is a colourful kingdom bursting with flowing flowers, glittering shells and flittering fish. This new production of The Little Mermaid weaves together salty sea air, folk and sea shanty-inspired songs and an ethereal world below the waves for Christmas 2025. watermill.org.uk
A Christmas Carol at Reading Rep Theatre
28 Nov-3 Jan
Step into Victorian Reading for a heartwarming journey of redemption, wonder and joy. Featuring beloved characters and brimming with Dickensian charm, A Christmas Carol is the perfect festive treat for the whole family. readingrep.com
Robin Hood and Maid Marion at the Corn Exchange Newbury
28 Nov-3 Jan
Step into the magical forest of Newburyshire and join the swashbuckling hero Robin and his band of merry outlaws. Enjoy toe-tapping songs and plenty of jokes that’ll have you bowing with laughter. cornexchangenew.com
Mother Goose and the Golden Egg at South Hill Park, Bracknell
28 Nov-4 Jan
Packed with heart, hilarity and viral dance routines, this is a feel-good family adventure about doing good… even when no one’s watching.
Expect laughter, magic and a fairytale for the TikTok age. southhillpark.org.uk
A Christmas Carol at Kenton Theatre, Henley
29 Nov
With a beautiful score of festive carols, breathtaking costumes, and the stunning choreography this heartwarming ballet production is the perfect treat for the whole family. 2:30pm/7:30pm thekenton.org.uk
Santa’s Christmas Party at Kenton Theatre, Henley 30 Nov
Santa’s Christmas Party is a 45-minute, interactive family show, for ages 2–8. Each child gets the chance to receive a special present from Father Christmas in a popular meet, greet and treat! 11am/2pm thekenton.org.uk
Peter Pan at Kenton Theatre, Henley 6-30 Nov
A magical experience that will never grow old, featuring all the signature touches, dazzling costumes, spectacular choreography, special effects, a hilarious script, bags of audience interaction, sweets, and who knows, maybe even the odd water gun or two! thekenton.org.uk
Beauty and the Beast at The Hexagon, Reading 6 Dec-4 Jan
With knock-about slapstick comedy, plenty of audience interaction and stunning musical numbers - join a special Christmas experience that you will never forget. whatsonreading.com
A Christmas Carol at Arlington Arts Centre, Newbury 6 and 7 Dec
Don’t miss out on this unforgettable holiday experience – come and discover the true meaning of Christmas with Ballet Theatre UK! arlington-arts.com
Santa’s Christmas Party at Arlington Arts Centre, Newbury 24 Dec
Help get Santa’s Christmas Party on track in an adventure full of fun, festive songs and party games. Then meet Santa and receive a special present from him. 11am arlington-arts.com
CHRISTMAS FAIRS 2025
It’s lovely to get into a Christmassy mood at a Christmas fair – think, locally crafted gifts, festive food and drink and a cosy atmosphere – and we have a great selection in the Thames Valley West area. Happy shopping!
Saturday 1 and Sunday 2 November, 10am-4pm Trunkwell House, Beech Hill, Reading
With countless stalls of local independent businesses selling crafts, sweet treats, scents and trinkets, your Christmas shopping will be well underway! Bring the family along for a festive day of fun and a chance for the kids to have their own personal meet and greet in Santa’s grotto! trunkwell.com
Saturday 1 and Sunday 2 November, 10am-4pm The Herb Farm, Sonning Common
A range of independent local businesses all nestled within the herbs and plants in the sales tunnel will be available to get your early Christmas shopping underway. herbfarm.co.uk
Friday 14 November, 10am-2:30pm The Watermill, Newbury
The Watermill Christmas Fair is back and packed full of gorgeous crafts, beautiful gifts and festive sparkle. The cafe bar and restaurant will be open with a delicious range of food and drink (including mince pies and mulled wine, of course!) watermill.org.uk
Saturday 15 and Sunday 16 November, 10am-5pm South Hill Park, Bracknell
Over 60 artists present an array of beautiful, handmade gifts and festive wares. Explore the specialist open studios throughout the weekend and find out about visual arts courses. southhillpark.org.uk
A great opportunity to support local neighbourhood businesses and do your Christmas shopping for a fifth year running. A quirky take on the traditional outdoor Christmas market. madebytamalia.co.uk
Saturday 29 and Sunday 30
November, 6 and 7 December, 10am-3pm Oaktree Garden Centre, Bracknell
With a fantastic selection of local craft and gift stalls to shop from, plus Santa’s Grotto, children’s rides, free character meet and greets, children’s crafts, mulled wine and more! oaktreegardencentre.com
Thursday 4 – Sunday 14 December, 10am-4pm Henley Market Place
A selection of independent makers and artisans in Market Place will be offering everything from handmade gifts and crafts to seasonal treats and unique Christmas decorations. Father Christmas and the Grinch will also be making an appearance. experiencehenley.co.uk
Sunday 7 December, 11am-3pm Shaw House, Newbury
The House will be host to over 70 stalls selling locally made gifts, food, drink, decorations and craft; the perfect time for a spot of Christmas shopping. This year, the House will be dressed with decorations representing different eras, from Tudor times to the present day, highlighting the House’s 400-year history. For younger visitors there will be themed craft in the Activity Room and a reindeer trail. westberkshireheritage.org/ whats-on
Saturday 13 and Sunday 14 December, 11am-4pm Dinton Pastures, Hurst
A weekend of fun, festive cheer and activities to keep everyone amused, including children’s activities and rides and Santa’s grotto. There will be arts, crafts, gifts, food and drink, all just perfect for getting you in the festive spirit. wokinghamcountryside.co.uk
WHERE TO SEE FATHER CHRISTMAS LOCALLY
Seeing Father Christmas is a special experience for children, and we’re pleased to have been able to take a look at his diary again this year! Here are some local spots where you can see Santa.
Christmas Grotto at The Lexicon, Bracknell 22 Nov-24 Dec
Step into a magical winter forest this Christmas, with storytelling, a dazzling hologram show and a special visit with Santa. Plus, each child will receive a festive keepsake gift. thelexiconbracknell.com
Meet Santa in his Magical Grotto at Squire’s Garden Centres, Hare Hatch and Wokingham 22 Nov-24 Dec
Step into an enchanting grotto and be welcomed by one of Santa’s jolly elves before meeting the man himself. Every child will receive a wrapped gift to take home along with a special ‘I’ve Seen Santa’ badge to wear with pride. There is also a quiet grotto specially adapted for children with additional needs, offering a more relaxed space (on Fri 19 Dec, 12-4pm & Tue 23 Dec, 2-4pm). squiresgardencentres.co.uk
Breakfast with Santa at Squire’s Garden Centre, Hare Hatch 23 Nov-21 Dec
While you dine, your little ones can colour in their own Christmas card – a lovely memento to take home and share. A very special jolly guest will make an appearance during breakfast to say hello, before your family visits Santa in his grotto. squiresgardencentres.co.uk
Mini Christmas Experience at Bucklebury Farm Park 3, 5, 10 and 12 Dec
Meet and greet with Father Christmas, have a photo and a pressie! Suitable for under 6s. buckleburyfarm.co.uk
Children’s Tea with Santa at Dinton Pastures 3 Dec-23 Dec
Enjoy a delightful Christmas Tea surrounded by twinkling lights, seasonal treats, and the jolly spirit of the season. Father Christmas will be there to share stories, listen to your Christmas wishes, and perhaps even give you a sneak peek at his naughty or nice list! wokinghamcountryside.co.uk
Father Christmas at the Farm –Jingle Lodge at Bucklebury Farm Park 6-23 Dec
Father Christmas is coming to Bucklebury Farm again! His elves are very busy plotting and creating the most magic experience for your little ones! buckleburyfarm.co.uk
Santa’s Great Christmas Escape at South Hill Park, Bracknell 6-24 Dec
With a magical mixture of puzzles, games and festive fun, this fantastic interactive adventure is guaranteed to show your children why Christmas really is the most wonderful time of the year. At the end of their time with Santa, each child gets a special moment to sit with him for photos, a quick chat and a small gift. southhillpark.org.uk
Santa Afternoon Tea at De Vere Wokefield Estate, Mortimer 7-21 Dec
Indulge in a magical afternoon tea for all the family set in the beautiful Mansion House this Christmas. This year, Wokefield Estate will be visited by Santa and his Elf, who will have a gift for each of the children too. whatsonreading.com
A Date with Father Christmas at Cobbs Play Barn, Hungerford 19-21 Dec
A delightful, intimate family event where you can spend quality time together before the festive rush begins. Enjoy delicious food, festive table games, and the magical moment of being greeted by Father Christmas himself! cobbsplaybarn.co.uk
Santa Cruises with Hobbs of Henley 20-23 Dec
The brilliant Bertie Slippers is sure to have the whole family laughing as he brings the Christmas cheer with his magic, balloons, and puppet show. Best of all, Father Christmas himself will be holding court in his grotto, bearing gifts for all the good girls and boys. hobbsofhenley.com
LONG-RUNNING SEASONAL LOCAL EVENTS
Enjoy local venues throughout the season with magical decorations and special activities for everyone!
Where’s My Husky at Henry Street Garden Centre, Arborfield
The Christmas display has been transformed into an interactive journey, where each scene brings a page of the story to life. Children can follow in Henry’s footsteps, uncover clues, and join in the adventure to help Henry find his husky. henrystreet.co.uk
The Enchantment of Ballet: Christmas at Basildon Park, near Pangbourne 15 Nov-4 Jan
Experience the magical world of ballet with a wonderland of beautifully adorned trees, garlands, and twinkling fairy lights. The magical atmosphere extends to the gardens, where you’ll encounter enchanting lights and decorations. nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/oxfordshire-buckinghamshire-berkshire/ basildon-park
Illuminate Reading at Forbury Gardens, Reading 15 Nov-4 Jan
Experience Reading’s newest winter light trail and immerse yourself in a magical light trail around the grounds of Forbury Gardens & Abbey Ruins this winter. Follow a 30-50-minute route filled with beautiful light installations that transform the park and ruins into a glowing seasonal display. illuminatereading.co.uk
The Magical Christmas Experience at 4 Kingdoms, near Thatcham 22 Nov-24 Dec
Expect to meet cheerful characters, see fantastic shows, join in with the fun and meet some truly magical people who will know all about the family. More than a Santa’s Grotto, more than a pantomime, more than a light show – it’s a personalised journey to the heart of Christmas. themagicalchristmasadventure.co.uk
A Theatrical Christmas at Greys Court, near Henley 22 Nov-4 Jan Immerse yourself in a wonderland of beautifully adorned trees, garlands, and twinkling fairy lights, all inspired by the characters of Henry Irving, Lady Brunner’s grandfather, and the magic of theatre. The magical atmosphere extends to the gardens, where you’ll journey through the elements of a theatre show. nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/oxfordshire-buckinghamshire-berkshire/ greys-court
Christmas Lunch at Squires Garden Centres, Hare Hatch and Wokingham 24 Nov-23 Dec
A fabulous festive feast this Christmas season with great food, beautiful decorations and a fantastic atmosphere! squiresgardencentres.co.uk
All aboard for Christmas at London Transport Museum 27 Nov-4 Jan This winter, enjoy a merry mix of festive fun and seasonal transport history at London Transport Museum. From Santa and his elves to costumed characters and a Christmas trail through 200 years of transport history, it’s a magical way to celebrate the winter season. Suitable for all ages. ltmuseum.co.uk
Christmas Tree Sales at Dinton Pastures, Hurst 29 Nov-21 Dec
Dinton Pastures have teamed up with local supplier, Needlefresh, to bring you Christmas tree sales to the Activity Centre! wokinghamcountryside.co.uk We wish
What’s on
November/December 2025
All listings are correct at the time of publication. Please check with the venue before you visit in case anything has changed.
NOVEMBER
Until 9 Nov
Spectacle of Light at Welford Park, Newbury
Discover this wonderful night-time Spectacle of Light and follow the new illuminated trail around the grounds of Welford Park. welfordpark.co.uk
Until 6 Dec
Christmas Toys and Teens Appeal, Reading
Supporters can help in two ways: donate toys and gifts at local dropoff points (or arrange for collection) or give a financial donation to help purchase additional presents. readingfamilyaid.org
1 Nov Teen Rangers at Greenham Common, Thatcham
A wildlife club for 11–17-year-olds who have an interest in wildlife and conservation. 10:30am bbowt.org.uk
1 Nov Terror on the Thames, Henley Town Centre
Spend the day with your little ‘terrors’ trick or treating in their costumes at participating shops in
Henley. Shops and businesses taking part will be displaying black and orange balloons at their entrances with treats… or tricks inside their stores. 11am-4pm experiencehenley.co.uk
1 Nov
Young Rangers at Greenham Common, Thatcham
A wildlife club for 8–11-year-olds who love nature and wildlife. 2pm bbowt.org.uk
2 Nov
Reading Children’s Book Group at Fourbears Books, Reading
This month’s theme is Non-Fiction November, and the fantastic author Susan Martineau will be there! Suitable for ages 5-8. 10am fourbearsbooks.co.uk
2 Nov
Rude Science Live 2025 at The Hexagon, Reading BBC Gastronaut Stefan Gates’ revolutionary, high-tech, highlyexplosive new show is packed with outrageous science stunts. On the surface it’s a riot of disgusting experiments built to delight young audiences, but under the bonnet it’s a brilliantly-constructed, curriculumdriven adventure. 11:30am/3pm whatsonreading.com
2 Nov
Laser Light Show at Dinton Pastures, Hurst
Enjoy thrilling fire shows and a stilt walker, children’s rides and bungee trampolines, along with a great selection of food and drinks. 4:30pm wokinghamcountryside.co.uk
6 and 7 Nov
Nature Tots: Sticks and Leaves at the Nature Discovery Centre, Thatcham Tots can take part in outdoor nature play, stories, trails and crafts. 10am bbowt.org.uk
6 and 7 Nov
Dinosaurs themed day at the Look Out Discovery Centre, Bracknell On toddler days there are extra special activities for children up to age 5. This includes face painting, story time sessions, sensory activities and arts and crafts. bracknell-forest.gov.uk/leisureand-events/look-out-discoverycentre
6-8 Nov
RARE Productions present High School Musical at Kenton Theatre, Henley
Troy Bolton, the star athlete at a small-town high school, falls for nerdy beauty Gabriella Montez at a holiday karaoke party. When they return to campus, Troy and Gabriella audition for the upcoming school musical. thekenton.org.uk
6-9 Nov
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory at South Hill Park, Bracknell Step into a world of pure imagination as EBOS presents Charlie and the Chocolate Factory the musical. Packed with unforgettable songs, a dazzling set and colourful and fascinating characters, this magical production brings Roald Dahl’s beloved story to life like never before. southhillpark.org.uk
8 Nov
West Berkshire Ballet School: Golden Gala at Arlington Arts Centre, Newbury
This special anniversary show will take you on a journey through the school’s rich history, revisiting some of its memorable performances. From timeless ballets to exciting musicals, students will bring these stories back to life on stage in a spectacular showcase honouring five decades of dance. 2:30pm/7pm arlington-arts.com
9 Nov
Dinosaurs Live! at the Corn Exchange, Newbury
Ever since they were first identified in the 1800s, dinosaurs have sparked the imagination of kids and adults alike and for the first time ever, the world-renowned Natural History Museum has teamed up with Mark Thompson Productions to take you on a dinosaur adventure like no other. 12:30pm/3:30pm cornexchangenew.com
16 Nov
The Zoo that Comes to You at Arlington Arts Centre, Newbury Come and meet this eclectic group of charming yet cheeky animals, as they discuss their life experiences and the challenges they face in a rapidly changing world. They have a lot to say and want to inspire people of all ages to take action, because they know small actions can make a big difference in the world. 2pm arlington-arts.com
17-22 Nov
Stageworks: The Wizard of Oz at Kenton Theatre, Henley Stageworks is proud to present the classic tale of Dorothy Gale and her friends as they journey through the magical land of Oz to meet the all-powerful Wizard and ask him to grant their dearest wishes – a brain, a heart, some courage and a way home to Kansas. thekenton.org.uk
19-22 Nov
It’s a Wonderful Life at Shinfield Players Theatre, Reading This play is based on the wonderful classic film directed by Frank Capra. The re-imagining is a joyful story of love, hope and community. 7:45pm whatsonreading.com
22 Nov
First Days Glow Walk at Dinton Pastures, Hurst
This year, Glow Walk is packed with more magic than ever before! The event has been reimagined to bring the atmosphere closer, making every step sparkle and glow. 5pm-9pm firstdays.net
23 Nov
Children’s Book Group Ages 9-11
Author Special - Susan Martineau at Fourbears Books, Reading
Susan Martineau is an author, editor and first-class fact finder who writes creative and educational books for children. Her book, Real-Life Mysteries, is the winner of the Blue Peter Book Award for Best Book with Facts 2018. 10am fourbearsbooks.co.uk
23 Nov
The Two Witches at Shaw House, Newbury
Join a magical pink and green show. The characters will delight young audiences with a fun sing-along, themed games and story time, with plenty of time at the end to take photographs. 11am/1pm/3pm westberkshireheritage.org
28 Nov
Henley Christmas Festival
The town centre will be closed to traffic and filled with stalls and rides to entertain the whole family. The centrepiece of the evening will be the Christmas Lights Switch-On at 7pm, performed by The Mayor of Henley with a VIP Celebrity guest alongside the Christmas Card design winner, Kenton Theatre Pantomime characters and Christmas sponsors. 5pm-9pm experienchenley.co.uk
30 Nov
Reading Comic Con – Winter 2025 at Loddon Valley Leisure Centre, Reading
This will be a great day for families, sci-fi collectors, fans and every other kind of Comic Con fan! There is lots to see and do, including out-of-thisworld displays and props, traders selling collections and meeting celebrities from TV and the movies! 10am-5pm whatsonreading.com
Festive fun for all the family at Squire’s
For
Celebrate the magic of Christmas at Squire’s Garden Centres, with a joyful line-up of seasonal events for all ages, promising festive cheer and family fun.
Enjoy Breakfast with Santa, meet Santa in his Magical Grotto and indulge in a delicious Christmas Lunch. Browse exciting gift at the Christmas Shopping Evening or get creative at a Decorate a Wreath Masterclass. With something for everyone, Squire’s promises festive cheer, family fun and magical memories this Christmas. Book early as places are limited. Visit www.squiresgardencentres.co.uk for more information.
Two Towers and a Triangle
Enjoy a family cycle ride of about ¾-hour in Tilehurst, created especially for Families Thames Valley West magazine by Nick Marshall.
We start the route on Halls Road (RG30 4PU), just round the corner from Tilehurst Water Tower.
Water towers are positioned at the highest point around so that water can flow downward to all who have need of it.
Halls Road is a long straight road but generally not too busy. The brakes! The time to check the brakes is before you need to use them.
At the far end we take a right turn onto Mayfair.
When we get to the traffic lights we go left into Church End Lane. We pass a playing field and then, just past the school, there is a path on the left. This emerges at Calder Close. (Nettle alert! You can cycle into Blundells Copse here, but trousers are recommended.)
Turn left into Chichester Road. Nearing the top and looking up, we see the old, brick-built, water tower. It was recently on sale, if you had a spare million or two! Now turn left, then right into Recreation Road. We arrive at a small park on the left. Go through the park and turn right into Gratwicke Road. At Corwen Road cross over and go down the path on the left of Walnut Way. As the road curves round, we see the green Coop sign before we come to a sort of triangle in the middle of the road.
We retrace our steps slightly, going along the short bit of road named ‘The Triangle.’ We turn left into St Michaels Road and keep going till we reach two bus stops, one on each side of the road. Just beyond this, take a right turn into Keswick Close. At the end there is a short path that comes out on Mayfair. Go right along Mayfair and then left into Landsdowne Road.
After a while we see a path on our right lined by mature oak trees. This comes out on Park Lane. Turn left with the water tower ahead. When you reach the roundabout, turn left back to Halls Road where we began.
Next to the post box you might spot an old water trough. A worn inscription tells us it was donated by the Cattle Trough Association. For those planning to bring a herd of cattle past this spot, I should warn you that the trough is dry, despite the thousands of gallons held nearby!
30 Nov
Wokingham Winter Carnival
There’s a whole host of street entertainers, music, singing, dancing and the fun of the fair with loads of different rides, whether you’re young or old. Santa will be in his grotto and for lunch there are stalls offering an amazing choice of food and drink. 11am-5pm wintercarnival.co.uk
DECEMBER
4 and 5 Dec
Nature Tots: Winter Celebration at the Nature Discovery Centre, Thatcham
Tots can take part in outdoor nature play, stories, trails and crafts. 10am bbowt.org.uk
4 and 5 Dec
Winter Wonderland themed day at the Look Out Discovery Centre, Bracknell
On toddler days there are extra special activities for children up to age 5. This includes face painting, story time sessions, sensory activities and arts and crafts. bracknell-forest.gov.uk/leisureand-events/look-out-discoverycentre
6 Dec Teen Rangers at the Nature Discovery Centre, Thatcham A wildlife club for 11–17-year-olds who have an interest in wildlife and conservation. 10:30am bbowt.org.uk
6 Dec
Green Christmas Tree Sale at Wildmoor Heath, Crowthorne Come and buy your Scots Pine Christmas tree, other natural decorations and Fair Trade goods. 11am-3pm bbowt.org.uk
6 Dec
PACT’s Carols at Reading Minster Please join us for a fun-filled, family-friendly afternoon of music, performances and Christmas reflections to celebrate and raise money for PACT’s life-changing work with women, children, families and the local community. 3pm pactcharity.org
6 Dec SEND Family Explorer Morning at London Transport Museum, Covent Garden
Children with SEN, disabled children and their families can meet Santa and enjoy the Museum outside of regular hours. With gallery sounds turned off and the space closed to the general public, this early morning session offers a calm and welcoming environment. 8:30am-10am ltmuseum.co.uk
7 Dec Children’s Book Group - Ages 5-11 - Christmas Party at Fourbears Books, Reading
The final book group of the year is a bumper edition! 10am fourbearsbooks.co.uk
7 Dec Woodley Christmas Extravaganza
A fantastic day full of festive fun, including full-day entertainment from the centre stage, street entertainers, craft stalls, food stalls and fairground rides. 10am-3pm woodleytowncentre.co.uk
7 Dec Kidical Mass Christmas Bike Ride from Elms Field, Wokingham or Thames Lido, Reading
Enjoy a safe, family-friendly, joyful ride! 1pm kidicalmassreading.co.uk
7 Dec Family Funday: Food and Craft Market at St Bartholomew’s Church, London Road, Reading
Get ready for an unforgettable day packed with excitement, creativity, and community spirit! Prepare to enjoy an amazing variety of stalls bursting with handmade treasures, delicious food, and refreshing drinks to keep you fueled for the fun ahead. 12pm-5pm whatsonreading.com
11 Dec
Midwinter Revels at Shaw House, Newbury Spanning several centuries, GreenMatthews’ Midwinter Revels is a celebration of Yuletide Past guaranteed to warm the cockles of the most Scrooge-like heart. Featuring Christmas carols, winter folk songs, toe-tapping tunes and a plethora of weird and wonderful instruments, the show is brought to life with GreenMatthews’ trademark wit and humour. 7:30pm westberkshireheritage.org
12 Dec Hungerford Victorian Extravaganza, Hungerford town centre
All the fun of a Victorian evening. Free entry, fun fair, steam engines, music, parade, Santa’s Grotto and much more! 5pm-9pm hungerfordextravaganza.com
13 Dec Young Rangers at the Nature Discovery Centre, Thatcham A wildlife club for 8–11-year-olds who love nature and wildlife. 2pm bbowt.org.uk
13 and 14 Dec Festive Weekend at Dinton Pastures, Hurst Including Christmas trees available
Tilehurst Water Tower
to buy, the Rollin Inn bar, children’s activities and rides, Santa’s Grottoall just perfect for getting you in the festive spirit! 11am-4pm wokinghamcountryside.co.uk
14 Dec
Beauty and her Prince at Shaw House, Newbury
An enchanting royal visit from Beauty and her Prince: the royal couple will delight young audiences with a fun sing-a-long, themed games and story time. There will also be plenty of time at the end to take photographs. 11am/1pm/3pm westberkshireheritage.org
14 Dec
Festive Family Carvery at De Vere Wokefield House, Mortimer Chefs will be serving a delicious, three-course carvery lunch complete with all the tasty festive trimmings. To keep the little ones entertained, there will be fun activities available, in addition to a family-friendly DJ and disco. 1pm devere.co.uk
14 Dec
Festival of Light 2025, Newbury
Be part of the Corn Exchange’s Festival of Light and help transform Newbury town centre into a twinkling wonderland. The procession will travel along Northbrook Street before arriving in the Market Place with live music and a festive atmosphere. cornexchangenew.com
15 Dec Magical Lights at the Museum of English Rural Life, Reading Wrap up the year with an evening of lights and lanterns in the museum garden. Choose from two versions: the main event (6pm to 7:30pm), or an earlier session with sensory provisions for neurodivergent visitors and their loved ones (4:30pm to 5:45pm).
merl.reading.ac.uk
18 Dec
Christmas Biscuit Decorating at Dinton Pastures, Hurst In partnership with local supplier BEEscuiteer, decorate biscuits for the festive season! No experience necessary, suitable for children 8+ and adults alike. 5pm-7pm wokinghamcountryside.co.uk
19 Dec
Christmas Carol Concert at Shaw House, Newbury Cantemus, a Newbury-based chamber choir, will be giving a concert of old and new festive music to prepare you for the Christmas season. The programme will include music which tells the Christmas story from Advent to Epiphany, with poems and readings along with traditional carols for audience participation. 7:30pm westberkshireheritage.org
20 Dec
The Snowman - Live at Reading University
This is the perfect event for all the family. Alongside the iconic animated film, the concert will include fun and festive music, with audience participation. 2:30pm whatsonreading.com
20 Dec
WiFi Wars Xmas Special at South Street Arts Centre, Reading WiFi Wars returns with a very festive version of the live comedy game show where you all play along! Log in with your smartphone or tablet
and compete in a range of games, puzzles and quizzes to win the show, and prizes! 3pm/7:30pm whatsonreading.com
21 Dec
Children’s Magic Show at Shaw House, Newbury
Featuring Mr Muddle the charming, if muddlesome magician, who captivates and amazes children with his comical slapstick magic. Exciting antics with wands and balloons will fill the party with fun and enjoyment. 11am/12:30pm/3pm westberkshireheritage.org
22 Dec
A Christmas Catastrophe at Sonning Common Village Hall
A huge snowstorm has fallen, and Santa needs the help of the Master Builders to get the presents delivered to Bricksville. Sign up your LEGO fan now and help save Christmas in Bricksville. 9:30-11:30am masterbuildersclub.co.uk
22 Dec
A Christmas Catastrophe at Badgemore Primary School, Henley
A two-hour creative adventure with 1000’s of LEGO bricks, Minifigures and LEGO components. Immersive brick building experience for LEGO fans aged 5+. 2pm-4pm masterbuildersclub.co.uk
23 Dec
Movie in the Hall: Frozen at Shaw House, Newbury
Fearless optimist Anna teams up with rugged mountain man Kristoff and his loyal reindeer Sven in an epic journey to find Anna’s sister Elsa, whose icy powers have trapped the kingdom of Arendelle in eternal winter. Feel free to come along in fancy dress! 10:30am westberkshireheritage.org
23 Dec A Christmas Catastrophe at Woodcote Village Hall
A huge snowstorm has fallen, and Santa needs the help of the Master Builders to get the presents delivered to Bricksville. Sign up your LEGO fan now and help save Christmas in Bricksville. 2pm-4pm masterbuildersclub.co.uk
29 Dec
Coral Challow Hurdle Day at Newbury Racecourse
This is the perfect excuse to get family and friends together and enjoy a day out at the races which features the Grade 1 Coral Challow Hurdle on the track and also boasts a host of free family-friendly activities and fun. 10:30am newburyracecourse.co.uk
29 Dec
The Lost Dragon at Cholsey Pavillion
An ancient map hidden in a treasure chest shows the path to a lost dragon. This is a LEGOfilled adventure full of wonder and hope with 1000’s of LEGO bricks, Minifigures and LEGO components. 2pm-4pm masterbuildersclub.co.uk
31 Dec
New Year’s Eve Family Party at De Vere Wokefield Estate, Mortimer Welcome 2026 at this family party, while enjoying tasty dishes from international food stalls, plus children’s activities hosted by character entertainers. 6:30pm devere.co.uk
Autism and ADHD Assessment Clinic
NICE guideline compliant multidisciplinary assessments for children and adults.
Average wait time of 2 weeks.
Fully qualified, experienced assessors.
Established 2012. Professional, reputable, widely accepted.
