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Welcome to the last issue of 2025!
It’s a very busy and exciting couple of months, and our extended What’s On section reflects that. We have found a great mixture of Christmas fairs, seasonal theatre performances, family-friendly events and, of course, places to catch up with Father Christmas locally – an indispensable guide for the season!
Sticking with the Christmas theme, we have compiled a handy gift guide of children’s books on page 10 and some festive baking ideas on page 11!
As a contrast to the busyness of the other pages, on page 9 we look at winding down and spending quality time with your tween; it’s good to step outside hectic family life from time to time and focus on the present moment!
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Martin Dodd for UK Productions and Anvil Arts proudly present Aladdin at The Anvil, Basingstoke from Thursday 11 December to Sunday 4 January.
James Mackenzie, best known as Raven from the award-winning CBBC series, will be taking the role of the wicked Abanazar in this year’s Christmas pantomime.
James played the original lead role in the multi-BAFTA awardwinning children’s game show Raven from 2002 to 2010, and he has been introduced to a whole new generation, as James, in CBeebies’ Molly and Mack.
He joins Basingstoke’s favourite funny man Chris Pizzey, best known as Mr Stephen from The Basil Brush Show, who is returning for more festive fun in this brand-new panto.
Producer Martin adds, “We look forward to taking the audience on an enchanted carpet ride to a whole new world, for a show full of outrageous genies, daring princesses, greedy villains and one opportunistically heroic thief come prince!”
Visit anvilarts.org.uk or call 01256 844244.
at the Anvil
We are thrilled to be able to offer a family ticket (which admits 2 adults and 2 children) for the Saturday 13 December, 6pm performance.
If you would like to be in with a chance of winning, please e-mail editor@familieshampshirenorth.co.uk by 30th November 2025. A winner will be selected at random after this date and informed within the next few days.
Schools and nurseries worldwide will take part in World Nursery Rhyme Week 2025, running from 10 to 14 November, an annual event that highlights the educational and developmental benefits of nursery rhymes for young children.
Since its launch in 2013, the initiative has grown into a global campaign involving millions of children from more than 100 countries.
The week provides teachers, carers, and parents with free resources, including song downloads, activity packs, and lesson ideas, designed to make learning fun while developing early skills such as speech, language, literacy and numeracy. Each year, five popular nursery rhymes are chosen as the focus, encouraging children to sing, play and learn together.
Organisers emphasise that nursery rhymes are a vital part of early education, supporting memory, rhythm and social interaction.
By joining in this November, schools and families can be part of a worldwide celebration of rhyme, song and early learning.
More info: www.worldnurseryrhymeweek.com
If you’re looking for FREE family entertainment to brighten up the winter months, The Shed in Bordon has you covered! This November and December, there’s a fantastic lineup of live music, creative workshops and festive fun for all ages.
November kicks off with a Sip and Paint Party and a spectacular Family Fireworks Night, followed by weekly live performances from brilliant local musicians. As Christmas approaches, families can enjoy Christmas Family Karaoke, the ever-popular Christmas Market with Santa’s Grotto, rides and live music, plus Daisy’s Craft Room for a spot of creative fun.
With FREE Toddler Tuesdays, regular markets, kids’ activities and a buzzing atmosphere every weekend, The Shed is the perfect place to make winter memories together.
More info at theshedwb.com
By Zuzu Jordan
When your child’s teacher greets you at pick-up with a weary smile or looks a little drained during a parent’s evening, it’s not because they don’t love what they do. Teaching is a highly rewarding profession but also one of the most demandingemotionally, mentally and physically.
The many hats of a teacher
A teacher’s job doesn’t stop at delivering lessons. In a single day, they may also act as coach, counsellor, nurse, mediator, cheerleader and problem-solver. This constant juggling can be both exhilarating and exhausting.
Planning beyond the classroom
What happens in class is only the tip of the iceberg. Behind every lesson is hours of preparation, marking and adapting plans to meet the needs of different learners. Many teachers work evenings and weekends, often unpaid, to bring their students the best possible experience.
Emotional energy
Children don’t just bring their homework to school - they bring their moods, worries and triumphs too. Teachers hold space for all of this. They celebrate the wins, comfort the tears and support children through challenges. On top of this, teachers are also responsible for safeguarding, which can involve sensitive or upsetting situations and requires immense emotional energy.
The pace of the school day
Imagine being ‘on stage’ for six straight hours with thirty children looking to you for guidance, answers and structure. Few jobs
One of the best ways parents can support teachers is by reinforcing school expectations at home. Children thrive when they see consistency between classroom and family life because it helps them understand that learning, respect and responsibility don’t stop when the school bell rings.
Simple routines make a big difference. Encouraging regular reading, setting aside time for homework and ensuring children arrive both on time and prepared each morning all show that school is a priority. Just as importantly, backing up teachers on behaviour expectations, like kindness, listening and perseverance, helps children see these values as part of everyday life, not just ‘rules for school.’
Of course, parents don’t need to recreate the classroom at home. It’s about building habits that support learning and showing children that you and their teacher are a team. When children see that the adults in their lives are working together, they feel secure, motivated and ready to succeed.
Backing up school expectations isn’t just about helping teachers; it’s about helping children flourish.
require such focus and authority without pause. Even lunch breaks are often spent supervising playgrounds or running clubs.
Why it matters
A tired teacher is still a dedicated teacher. Their fatigue reflects how much they give of themselves every day. When we recognise the demands of the job, we can better appreciate the effort behind every worksheet, every encouraging word and every patient explanation.
How families can help
The best gift parents can give teachers is partnership. Kind words of thanks, support with homework routines or volunteering for a class activity go a long way. Most of all, valuing their commitment can help lighten the emotional load.
So next time you notice your child’s teacher looking tired, remember it’s not a lack of enthusiasm. It’s the natural result of pouring heart, energy and care into shaping the next generation.
Zuzu is a Mastery for Maths Specialist who has taught primary for eighteen years and is Director of Arnett International. For FREE resources and tips, find her on Instagram @edumate_uk
Schools thrive when families and teachers work together and one of the most valuable ways parents can offer support is by getting involved in the school community. Even small contributions of time and energy can make a big difference, not just to teachers but to children too.
Helping out doesn’t have to mean a big commitment. It might be lending a hand on a school trip, reading with children once a week or running a stall at the summer fair. These acts ease the workload for staff and create special memories for pupils. For those with less flexible schedules, offering occasional help with resources at home, like cutting, labelling or preparing craft materials, can be just as valuable.
Beyond practical support, active participation sends children a powerful message: that their school is important and worth your time. It builds a sense of community where families feel connected, teachers feel appreciated and children feel proud. When parents join in, schools become stronger, warmer places and everyone benefits.
Number of pupils 500
Nursery Yes
Selective entry Nursery, Junior Prep, Senior Prep, Senior and Sixth Form. Day, Flexi, Occasional, Weekly and Full Boarding
Exit at age... 18
Age range 3 months to 18 years
Parents choose Sherfield for...
... its nurturing, family atmosphere and inspiring breadth of opportunities, all wrapped around the school day with care and clubs available from 7:30am to 6pm. With most clubs included in the fees, children can explore music, sport, drama and more without hidden extras. Families also discover that a Sherfield education is more accessible and affordable than they might expect, offering excellent value for the quality and breadth of experiences provided. Families value the balance of care, challenge, and community that helps every child grow in confidence.
Sherfield School is unique...
… for the way it blends the charm of a historic manor house with the vibrancy of a forward-thinking school community. Children here don’t just learn in classrooms, they explore ancient woodland, take part in outdoor adventures, and experience opportunities that spark curiosity and creativity. The combination of a warm, family feel with exceptional facilities and inspiring teaching makes Sherfield a place where children feel at home while achieving their very best.
Parent testimonials:
“You’ve helped my daughter to believe in herself, when her confidence was at rock bottom. It is a daily relief that she is somewhere where she feels safe, interested and valued. Sherfield is education as it should be.”
Year 5 Parent
Former Sherfield School students have gone on to study at an impressive range of universities and colleges including Oxford, Queen Mary’s London, Imperial College London, Kings College London, Exeter, UCL, Bath, Bristol, Durham and Nottingham. International university destinations include Australia, Turkey, Finland and the United States.
Transport links: We operate six bus routes to and from Sherfield each day. We have excellent links to travel into London and out towards Winchester and Southampton, from local rail stations. Basingstoke railway station is 10 minutes’ drive from the school.
Sherfield School excels at…
…bringing out the very best in every child, whatever their talents and aspirations. With small class sizes and a personalised approach, pupils are supported and stretched to achieve academic success while also encouraged to shine in sport, music, drama, and creative arts. The school’s nurturing environment means children grow in confidence and resilience, developing not only strong results but also the skills and character to thrive beyond school.
Sherfield School prioritises...
… the happiness, wellbeing, and personal growth of every pupil. The school places as much importance on respect, courage and kindness as it does on exam results, creating a balanced education that prepares children for life, not just university. By fostering a supportive community and promoting a love of learning, Sherfield ensures pupils leave with both strong foundations and the self-belief to succeed in whatever path they choose.
Open Days at Sherfield School are designed for you experience the school ethos and the warm, family-friendly atmosphere. Meet staff and pupils, take a walk around the school and facilities - it’s the perfect way to see the academic approach in action and will give you the opportunity to see if the school is the right fit for you. Book at www.sherfieldschool.co.uk
Senior School Open Morning (Year 7 to Year 10) - Wed 12 November, Fri 27 February 2026, Fri 20 March 2026 and Friday 1 May 2026
Early Years Open Evening (3 months to 4 years) - Thu 12 March 2026
Prep Open Morning (Pre-Reception to Year 6) - Wed 29 April 2026
Sherfield-on-Loddon, Hook, Hampshire RG27 0HU
By Ellie Malt
The first year of parenting? Total chaos. You’re exhausted, winging it and wondering why no one warned you that tiny humans come with so much stuff! No one gets it ‘right’ and looking back, most of us realise we stressed over the wrong things or missed little joys because we were too busy trying to keep it all together.
Here are six confessions from parents who’ve just been there:
The tale of Sophie the Giraffe
‘I splurged on Sophie the Giraffe because apparently, she’s the iconic teething toy. Big mistake. Our dog thought it was her chew toy and won every battle. After a few replacements, I realised babies don’t care about bougie toys. Save your money.’
Talking about the hard stuff
‘Every mum meetup was the same: nap schedules and bedtime routines. Boring. The real breakthroughs happened when I admitted I was struggling. Talking openly about exhaustion and doubt made me feel less alone. Way more useful than another nap hack.’
The spoon and plate saga
‘Starting solids? I spent hours researching the ‘best’ spoon and suction plate. I finally bought a pricey set that was basically useless - the spoon became a teether. Cheap supermarket ones worked way better. Don’t overthink (or overspend) it.’
Rigidity is a common regret for new parents. We fixate on details, fear failure and hold ourselves to impossible standards. Loosening your grip makes everything easier. Babies are surprisingly adaptable and parenting is easier when we let go of wanting perfection.
Go out while you can. Babies sleep through noise better than you expect - cafés, pubs and friends’ houses are fine. Don’t fear failed plans. A short nap or a messy meal isn’t the end of the world. There’s always tomorrow.
Let chaos in. Messy feeds, unpredictable sleep, piles of laundry - it’s all part of normal life.
Adapt on the fly. Flexibility means you can enjoy moments instead of stressing over what ‘should’ happen.
Laugh at the madness. The more you accept the imperfect, the more fun you’ll have and your baby will pick up on that energy too.
The first year isn’t about control; it’s about adapting, forgiving yourself and realising that imperfect days are often the best ones.
Missing out on easy outings
‘I was so scared outings with our little one would fail that we barely left the house. Looking back, I wish we’d gone to the pub more while our baby was still portable. Those outings would have done wonders for our sanity.’
Rushing through everyday moments
‘Every nap felt like a race to finish chores. I wish I’d taken long showers, sipped hot coffee or just chilled. Laundry never endsbut those little self-care breaks? Priceless.’
Forgetting to take enough photos of OURSELVES
‘I have thousands of baby pics and almost none have me in them. I felt too scruffy or tired to be in front of the camera. Now I regret it - those messy, real-life photos are what my child will treasure one day.’
Feeling like I needed to entertain my baby
‘Now I realise I didn’t need to wave rattles, sing, read or talk full time - she had more than enough to handle just getting used to being in the world.’
Ellie Malt is writer and a mum of two girls living in Surrey.
Here’s the real talk: babies don’t need the latest gadget, the perfect routine or a spotless home. Above all they need you - calm, present and sane(-ish). New parents tend to overstress, while forgetting to look after themselves. If you’re looking to avoid some common pitfalls here are some key points to manifest:
Skip the hype. That fancy teething toy or overpriced weaning set isn’t going to change your life.
Keep it honest. Vent to other parents about the hard nightsit’s far more valuable than swapping sleep charts.
Protect your downtime. Take the long shower, enjoy a hot drink or binge-watch a show. You deserve it.
Lower the bar. ‘Good enough’ isn’t a compromise. Your baby doesn’t notice if you skip a vacuum.
Celebrate small wins. Survived a full day? Got a few naps? Made it through bedtime? That’s success.
Parenting is messy, unpredictable and exhausting but realising that ‘good enough’ works will give you the energy to enjoy the ride.
By Rachel Jones
How many of us suffer from chronic over-scheduling?
Demanding jobs, childcare, school runs, social and extracurricular commitments leave little space for family life. On average, we devote less than half an hour’s quality time to our child each day. If they’re also spending a lot of time unsupervised on screens, it’s no wonder that parent guilt is very real.
Time spent on social media tends to compound that guilt. While giving us a big dose of the addictive hormone dopamine, it can also trigger feelings of inadequacy or emptiness. By contrast, oxytocin (the ‘love hormone’) is released during simple social interaction. It peaks during childbirth but plays a crucial role throughout life in family bonding and parent-child relationships.
I’m a great believer in encouraging lots of ‘offline’ activities. It doesn’t matter what - paddleboarding, cake decorating, wood whittling, drawing. Don’t just watch from the sidelines, join inshared play is excellent for adults too!
If you have two or more children and can manage ‘us’ time with each individually, it’s powerful. Regular, focused attention builds children’s self-esteem and reduces negative attention-seeking behaviour. Involve your child in everyday routines like cooking or gardening or create special rituals like a weekly games night or sharing a TV series.
When it comes to time spent with our children, quality invariably trumps quantity. According to bestselling author and pastor, Gary Chapman, quality time is one of a human’s five love languages. Simply making time for each other means more than words or gifts ever could.
The dinner table can be a powerful place for open connection, active listening and sharing opinions. Use mealtimes to
The teen years steal the limelight but your child will need extra support between ages 8 and 12. It’s a time of huge emotional and social development as their bodies change and hormones undergo a big surge. Pressures pile in and selfesteem can be shaken.
When you as a parent feel pushed away, it can feel hard to encourage quality time without invading your child’s space. Don’t take their anger or frustration to heart – it isn’t aimed at you. Listen, REALLY listen, calmly and with empathy. Show you’re on their team and make them feel ‘seen.’
Give them more space but also express your love through tiny acts. A little message on their mirror, a note in their lunchbox or leaving a flower in their room can be really a simple way of connecting when life is busy.
Simple age-appropriate activities to enjoy together could be a home spa night, bike ride or café trip. And don’t feel you need to fill every silence either – sometimes just being together, quietly content, is more than enough.
celebrate achievements and ask open-ended questions. The following simple gratitude practice can be very effective; each person has to name their rose, thorn and bud from the day or week:
Rose: what was a highlight and what are you grateful for?
Thorn: what didn’t go so well?
Bud: what are you looking forward to?
By prioritising quality time with our children, we build stronger bonds and foster emotional wellbeing. Simple moments around the table or sharing activities have a profound impact on our relationships. Putting down devices and being present with our children will reap the rewards of a more connected family.
Rachel is the proprietor of Re:treat (www.retreat.me.uk) which runs family wellness retreats and parent and tween spa days in West Berkshire, providing parents and children with a unique opportunity to connect and enjoy new experiences together. Follow @retreatberks on social.
Over the last weekend of September my son and I stepped outside our usual routine and into a wonderful retreat in West Berkshire. This retreat was specially designed for parents and their teens and tweens to spend time together, relaxing and connecting through shared activities. It can be difficult to slow down at home and enjoy the moment, and it’s always good to be able to focus on just one child at a time; our objectives for this weekend were to enjoy the moment –together.
…And we did! There was a brilliant mixture of activities, and I particularly appreciated the lack of competitiveness; it really was about enjoying what we were doing and our own achievements. The weekend started with a short meditation session and focusing on living in the moment, and then we were into the serious business of experiencing some wonderfully fun new activities!
My personal favourite was boxfit, and my son loved axe throwing! In calmer moments, we enjoyed a short local walk in stunning countryside, wreath making, mala making and cocktails/mocktails.
The food was plentiful, homemade and healthy, and served in beautiful surroundings and the whole experience was a really special one for both of us: highly recommended!
For more information, check out https://retreat.me.uk
By Sarah Campbell
Looking for the perfect gift for young readers this Christmas? From beautifully illustrated classics to dazzling new releases, here are the most special, collectable children’s books of the season.
Paddington’s Twelve Days of Christmas by Michael Bond & Karen Jankel
Ages 2-4
This delightful hardback is perfect for young readers and Paddington fans alike. Inspired by the classic carol, the Brown family are busy celebrating their Christmas gifts - but Paddington is puzzled when he can’t find the partridge in a pear tree. Ever determined, he sets off to investigate, leading to plenty of festive fun and his very own spectacular Christmas Day surprise. With charming illustrations and Paddington’s trademark mischief, this joyful story is ideal for reading (and singing!) together over the holidays.
The Christmas Contest: An Advent Novel by Maxime Gillio
Ages 5-8
Make the countdown to Christmas truly magical with this ingenious advent novel that the whole family can enjoy together. Santa has a big problem: too many children on the nice list and not enough time to deliver the gifts! His solution? A festive competition to recruit his very first apprentice. Featuring a cast of captivating characters, the North Pole comes alive with excitement as contestants face a series of playful challenges. With twenty four sealed chapters to open day by day, this interactive story introduces a joyous new festive tradition.
The Extremely Embarrassing Life of Lottie Brooks by Katie Kirby
Ages 9-12
Puffin are celebrating their eightyfifth anniversary this year with deluxe clothbound editions of much-loved modern classics, including The Extremely Embarrassing Life of Lottie Brooks. Packed with laugh-out-loud moments, friendship and relatable growing-up struggles, this book celebrates the highs and lows of pre-teen life. Bound in cloth with coloured foils and sprayed edges, this beautifully presented hardback is both a perfect gift and collector’s item, with a brand-new foreword by Nadia Shireen.
Oh Dear, Look What I Got! by Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury
From the legendary creators of We’re Going on a Bear Hunt comes a brandnew rhyming delight that feels like an instant classic. In this playful hardback edition, each trip to the shop brings an unexpected surprise – a carrot turns into a parrot and the fun just keeps building! With Michael Rosen’s witty, read-aloud rhymes and Helen Oxenbury’s joyful illustrations, children will be giggling and guessing what comes next. Perfect for story time, this energetic and hilarious tale brings a final twist to leave little readers smiling.
Ages 2-4
Animal Magic by Michael Morpurgo
Ages 5-8
From one of the nation’s most beloved storytellers comes a beautiful hardback collection of four inspiring and heartwarming modern fables celebrating the bond between people, animals and the natural world. Readers will journey from the banks of the Thames to a seaside railway carriage, through countryside lanes on a bicycle and to a Devon farm where a refugee discovers hope through horses. Told with Michael Morpurgo’s trademark warmth and compassion, Animal Magic is a book to cherish and share.
Fold Out + Play Doll’s House Illustrated by Ingela P. Arrhenius
Ages 2-4
This ingenious interactive board book transforms into a beautifully designed 3D doll’s house for hours of imaginative fun. Children can press out and assemble furniture, stand up the charming characters and use colourful stickers to decorate each room - from kitchen and bathroom to cosy bedroom and living room. Once playtime is over, all the pieces pack in the sturdy built-in drawer, making it perfect for on-the-go adventures. This is a book, a toy and a delightful gift all rolled into one.
This is Not a Small Voice edited by Traci N. Todd
Ages 9-12
This stunning illustrated anthology celebrates the power and beauty of black voices. Featuring over one hundred poems by both classic and contemporary poets - including Maya Angelou, Amanda Gorman, Joseph Coelho and more, this collection introduces children and families to a dazzling range of perspectives, all brought to life with vibrant illustrations. The poems explore hope, struggle, joy, pride, family and home in an inspiring gift that is perfect for reading aloud.
Sarah Campbell is co-founder of Parrot Street Book Club, an online children’s bookshop offering a handpicked collection of high-quality children’s chapter books, plus an award-winning monthly book subscription for 5 to 14 year-olds. Find out more at www.parrotstreet.com
By David Atherton
Baking with your children can be one of the most rewarding (and often hilarious) activities you can do together but knowing how to tailor the experience by age can make all the difference between sweet success and a kitchen meltdown.
Toddlers & pre-schoolers (ages 2–4)
At this age, with attention spans short and curiosity high, little ones may not stick with the recipe from start to finish and that’s okay. Set up a little play table nearby so they can dip in and out of the action. Often they’ll see you enjoying the process and want to get stuck in again. Give them simple jobs like stirring, pouring pre-measured ingredients or decorating. Most importantly, let them play - a few floury fingerprints are all part of the fun.
Young bakers (ages 5–7)
This is the perfect age to get kids excited about being in the kitchen. My top tip? Give them their own baking kit. A personalised apron, a mini rolling pin or wooden spoon, even a paper chef’s hat; it helps them feel part of the process and encourages independence. Children in this age group thrive on praise and love having a job to do, so assign them a role: ‘flour scooper,’ ‘egg cracker’ or ‘official taste tester.’ Supervise closely but let them take pride in what they’re contributing.
Independent explorers (ages 8–11+)
Slightly older kids can often manage a lot of the recipe themselves with a bit of guidance. Step-by-step cookbooks with pictures are brilliant - they support children who may still be growing in reading confidence but want to feel in control. Let them choose the recipe, measure out ingredients and even adapt or annotate their cookbook with ideas of their own. Ownership over the process boosts confidence and creativity. There may be more mess but it’s all part of the learning (and the memories).
General tips for all ages
One universal truth when baking with kids: there will be mess. Lots of it. But that mess is creativity in action. Whether it’s icing on the walls or flour in the hair, these are signs of a fun, hands-on learning experience. Baking is also a fantastic way to
At Christmas time, there are plenty of grown-up drinks like wine, eggnog and sherry but it’s nice to have something special for children too. This colourful, fruity drink is made just for kids, so they can feel included in the celebrations. Using cranberries and oranges, festive fruits with bold flavours, it’s refreshing but also bright and cheerful. Perfect for a Christmas party or a cosy family gathering, this slushy brings a splash of fun to family time.
Visit www.bit.ly/ChristmasSlushy or use QR code for the recipe.
encourage fussy eaters to try new things - if they’ve made it, they’re more likely to taste it.
Most importantly, don’t aim for perfection. Aim for connection, curiosity and confidence. Your bake may lean a little to one side but your child will remember the joy of making it forever.
Three top tips for healthier bakes
Add a little wholemeal goodness. Swap ten to fifteen percent of your white flour for wholemeal. It barely changes the texture but gives you a nice fibre boost and adds more depth to the flavour.
Embrace dried fruits. Dried fruits like apricots, raisins or dates bring natural sweetness as well as added nutrients. Blend into cookie dough or sprinkle into muffins for a healthier treat.
Mix up your root veg. Love carrot cake? Try the same recipe with grated parsnip, beetroot, sweet potato or swede. It’s a fun way to explore flavours and sneak in a few extra vegetables.
David Atherton is the 2019 winner of The Great British Bake Off and author of My First Christmas Cook Book, part of the My First Cook Book series, available online and from all good book shops. © Walker Books 2023. Text © 2023 Nomadbaker Limited. Illustrations below © 2023 Katie Cottle. All rights reserved.
This fun recipe is baked in the shape of a Christmas cracker – a real showstopper for the table!
Since it’s Christmas, if you have leftover parsnips, you can use these instead of carrot for a gentle nutty flavour and to keep the cake soft, moist and naturally sweet. Root vegetables have been used in cakes for generations, especially when sugar and butter were scarce; they remain a brilliant way to add flavour and texture.
Visit www.bit.ly/CrackerCake or use QR code for the recipe.
Whether it’s a pantomime or a Christmas-themed show, here is a selection of what is on offer in our local theatres this festive season.
3-7 Dec
Tales from Acorn Wood at Christmas at The Haymarket, Basingstoke
Packed full of toe-tapping songs, puppetry, and all the friends from Acorn Wood, this beautiful show is the perfect festive treat. anvilarts.org.uk
6-24 Dec
The Christmas Dragon at Proteus Theatre, Basingstoke
This isn’t just a show you watch – it’s a world you step into! Scratch Built’s signature immersive storytelling will bring The Christmas Dragon to life. proteustheatre.com
8 and 9 Dec
A Christmas Carol at Phoenix Arts Centre, Bordon
With Andrew Margerison (That Knave, Raleigh, Frantic Assembly’s Fatherland, Macbeth) taking on every character — from the sorrowful Cratchit to the jubilant Fezziwig — this is theatre at its most intimate and magical. 7:30pm phoenixarts.co.uk
11 Dec
A Christmas Carol at The Haymarket, Basingstoke Ballet Theatre UK is thrilled to present A Christmas Carol. With a beautiful score of festive carols, breathtaking costumes, and stunning choreography, this heartwarming production is the perfect treat for the whole family. 7:30pm anvilarts.org.uk
11 Dec-4 Jan
Aladdin at The Anvil, Basingstoke
James Mackenzie, best known as Raven from the award-winning CBBC series and James, in CBeebies’ Molly and Mack, takes the role of the wicked Abanazar in this year’s Christmas pantomime Aladdin. He joins Basingstoke’s favourite funny man Chris Pizzey, best known as Mr Stephen from The Basil Brush Show, who is returning for more festive fun in this brandnew panto packed full of sidesplitting comedy, exotic settings, dazzling special effects, plenty of slapstick and much-loved routines. anvilarts.org.uk
12-13 Dec
A Christmas Carol at The Haymarket, Basingstoke
In their first national theatre tour, Operation Moonlight are thrilled to be reviving Laura Turner’s adaptation of A Christmas Carol. Dickens’ beloved tale of redemption is brought to The Haymarket in an authentic and joyful adaptation. anvilarts.org.uk
12-28 Dec
Rapunzel at The Harlington, Fleet Packed with slapstick comedy, dazzling dancing, toe-tapping tunes and plenty of traditional audience participation, Rapunzel is the perfect festive treat for all ages. Book now for a show that will leave you laughing, cheering, and singing all the way home! theharlington.co.uk
It’s lovely to get into a Christmassy mood at a Christmas fair – think, locally crafted gifts, festive food and drink and a cosy atmosphere – and we have a great selection in the North Hampshire area.
27-30 Nov
Hawk Conservancy Trust, Andover
Enjoy the runup to Christmas with a delightful, festive shopping experience. With over 60 local businesses attending, you can find personalised presents, decorations, treats and much more. hawk-conservancy.org
29 and 30 Nov
Basing House, Basingstoke
This festive event will feature over 35 stalls offering an array of gifts, crafts and seasonal treats, alongside hot food from Berro Kitchen and a cosy café serving tea, coffee, mulled wine, soft drinks, cakes and ice cream. On Saturday, the ECWS Reenactors will bring Tudor Christmas to life with period costumes and fascinating insights, while on Sunday, the Two Bird Experience will introduce some delightful feathered friends in the cart shed. hampshireculture.org.uk
5 Dec
Holybourne Theatre
Includes Christmas stalls, a chance to meet Santa, a raffle and lots more. Free entry. holybournetheatre.co.uk
6 Dec
Gilbert White’s House, Selborne
A Christmas market full of local and independent stallholders, festive entertainment in the beautifully decorated house, mulled wine, beer and Christmassy treats and, of course, traditional Wassailing! gilbertwhiteshouse.org.uk
Seeing Father Christmas is a special experience for children, and we’re pleased to have been able to take a look at his diary again this year! Here are some local spots where you can see Santa.
Meet Father Christmas at Milestones Museum, Basingstoke 22 Nov-23 Dec
An experience that will warm your heart and leave a smile on your face as you enjoy the joy of the festive family fun. Capture the magic with family photos and unwrap your special Christmas gift from Father Christmas together! hampshireculture.org.uk
Santa’s Grotto at The Harlington, Fleet
26 Nov, 6 and 13 Dec
Step into Santa’s Magical Workshop and embark on a heartwarming journey with the assistance of jolly Funtime Elves! Children will be able to take part in activities such as reindeer food making (to take home), Christmas letter writing and meeting Santa and receiving a gift. theharlington.co.uk
Breakfast with Father Christmas and Christmas Show Experience at Proteus Theatre, Basingstoke 22-24 Dec
Enjoy a delicious themed continental breakfast before joining the 11am performance of The Christmas Dragon in festive surroundings. Lovingly created by the team behind the show, you will meet some of the characters from the show and spend some special time chatting with Father Christmas himself! 9:30am proteustheatre.com
This winter, try the brand-new Stick Man™ Christmas Trail at Alice Holt Forest.
Help Stick Man to deliver the final present, can you work out who it’s for? Pick up an activity pack from the Visitor Centre, which includes an activity leaflet, keyring, sticker sheet, reveal lens and a pencil for just £4.
Take your selfie at the end and share it for your friends to see. Don’t miss out on the Giant Marble Run too when you visit!
www.forestryengland.uk/alice-holt-forest
Escape the winter chill and step into the period streets of Milestones Museum, adorned with festive decorations. Book to meet Father Christmas in his magical grotto.
For some water fun, splash about at Basingstoke Aquadrome, catch a blockbuster at the Odeon, or strike up some fun at Hollywood Bowl. Thrill seekers will love iFLY Indoor Skydiving (also perfect as a Christmas gift!).
Many of the venues serve food and drink, but you will also find McDonalds, Costa, KFC and The Spruce Goose if you want a bite to eat. Plenty of free parking makes your visit even easier.
Visit www.basingstokeleisurepark.co.uk to plan your festive fun!
Christmas Lights Switch On attracts many thousands of people to the city centre in November. Here are some local events for you to enjoy.
Alton Friday 21 Nov
Andover Friday 21 Nov
Fleet Wednesday 26 Nov
Newbury Saturday 15 Nov
Yateley Saturday 29 Nov
Enjoy an enchanting, sparkling Christmas at historic places in and around Hampshire. You’ll find houses and gardens transformed with magical scenes and activities with lots for families to see and do inside and out.
Step into a world of enchantment at The Vyne from 22 November to 5 January where treasured fairy tales sparkle to life. Aglow with dazzling trees and magical scenes, in the house discover The Snow Queen’s icy realm, Red Riding Hood’s cunning wolf and Beauty and the Beast’s elegant tea set. A FREE family trail offers fun games and activities in the house (11am-3pm) and gardens (10am–4pm).
At Hinton Ampner a celebration of best-loved pantomimes awaits from 15 November to 4 January with A Pantomime Christmas. Twinkling with magical fairy lights, enjoy riotously fun free games and activities in the gardens including a hunt for the missing panto props (10am-4pm). Inside the house (10am-3.30pm) spot scenes featuring Aladdin’s lamp, Jack’s magic beans, Snow White’s feast and Christmas trees laden with tempting goodies for Hansel and Gretel.
Lose yourselves in a tale of glittering ballgowns, lost slippers and seasonal sparkle with A Cinderella Christmas at Mottisfont from 22 November to 4 January. Collecting your timed ticket for the house at Visitor Reception, wander through the house (10.30am4pm, last entry 3.30pm) filled with shimmering trees, music and enchanting scenes. Families will love Cinders-themed outdoor games and activities, plus a spotter trail for little ones in the garden (10am-4pm).
Normal admission applies to all the above events. All venues are closed on 24 and 25 December.
www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/hampshire/christmas
Enjoy local venues throughout the season with magical decorations and special activities for everyone!
15 Nov-4 Jan
A Pantomime Christmas at Hinton Ampner, Alresford
A celebration of best-loved pantomimes awaits. Twinkling with magical fairy lights, enjoy riotously fun free games and activities in the gardens including a hunt for the missing panto props (10am-4pm). Inside the house (10am-3:30pm) spot scenes featuring Aladdin’s lamp, Jack’s magic beans, Snow White’s feast and Christmas trees laden with tempting goodies for Hansel and Gretel.
nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/hinton-ampner
20 Nov-20 Dec
Eco Light Festival at Gilbert White’s House, Selborne
With environmental consciousness at its heart, the light trail takes you on a magical journey through Gilbert White’s House where you can experience nature come to life through inventive sensory displays. Then weave your way into the garden where more magic awaits. 4:30pm-8pm gilbertwhiteshouse.org.uk
22 Nov-4 Jan
A Cinderella Christmas at Mottisfont, Romsey
Lose yourselves in a tale of glittering ballgowns, lost slippers and seasonal sparkle. Wander the house (10.30am-4pm) filled with shimmering trees, music and enchanting scenes. Families will love Cinders-themed outdoor games and activities, plus a spotter trail for little ones in the garden (10am-4pm).
nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/mottisfont
22 Nov-5 Jan
A Fairytale Christmas at The Vyne, Basingstoke
Step into a world of enchantment where treasured fairy tales sparkle to life. Aglow with dazzling trees
and magical scenes, in the house discover The Snow Queen’s icy realm, Red Riding Hood’s cunning wolf, and Beauty and the Beast’s elegant tea set. A free family trail offers fun games and activities in the house (11am-3pm) and gardens (10am–4pm). nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/ hampshire/the-vyne
29 Nov-21 Dec (weekends only)
Santa’s Post Office at the Hart Shopping Centre, Fleet
Santa’s Post Office is a unique opportunity for children to step into a world of Christmas wonder. They’ll have the chance to meet cheerful Christmas elves, write heartfelt letters to Santa and send them off using a special Post Box. 10am-4pm lovefleet.co.uk
29 Nov-24 Dec
Christmas at Finkley Down Farm
Celebrate the season with a magical, immersive festive adventure at Finkley. This full experience is bursting with activities and memory-making moments for the whole family. finkleydownfarm.co.uk
29 Nov-29 Dec
The Illuminated Garden Adventure at West Green House, Hook A kilometre-long trail to find A Carnival of Animals with brilliantly lit great bears, giant owls in flight, dramatic peacocks and green frogs on the lake. Plus, glittering flowers in the walled garden. westgreenhouse.co.uk
6-23 Dec
Cosmic Christmas at Winchester Science Centre Santa is back in the Planetarium. Blast off on a live-action immersive festive space adventure for the whole family, meet the man himself and get a special Christmas gift. winchestersciencecentre.org
All listings are correct at the time of publication. Please check with the venue before you visit in case anything has changed.
Ancient Romans vs. Ancient Britains at Museum of the Iron Age, Andover
The museum’s resident Roman and Briton (Marcus and Cedric) are both looking for recruits to train - do you have what it takes? Pick your allegiance - Roman or Briton - and take on six challenges around the museum to prove your skill and loyalty. 10am-4pm hampshireculture.org.uk
History Saves the World! at Museum of the Iron Age, Andover Family-friendly exhibition exploring what we can learn from history. From planting vegetables to mending clothes, find out more here. 10am4pm hampshireculture.org.uk
Saxons vs. Vikings: Choose Your Side! at Curtis Museum, Alton
Pick your allegiance - Saxon or Viking - and take on five challenges around the museum to prove your skill and loyalty. A fun, interactive trail for the family - choose your side and step into history! 10am-4pm hampshireculture.org.uk
Stick Man Christmas Trail at Alice Holt Forest, Farnham
This winter, try the brand-new Stick Man Christmas trail! Help Stick Man to deliver the final present, can you work out who it’s for? Pick up an activity pack from the Visitor Centre, which includes an activity leaflet, keyring, sticker sheet, reveal lens and a pencil, for just £4. Don’t forget to take your selfie at the end and share it for your friends to see. Don’t miss out on the Giant Marble Run when you visit too! forestryengland.uk/alice-holt-forest
Until 29 Nov
Dotty the Dodo’s Autumn Fact Hunt at Curtis Museum, Alton Join Dotty the Dodo as they hunt for all the best facts from the natural world! 10am-4:30pm hampshireculture.org.uk
1 Nov
Creative Crafts: Stitch a ceramicsinspired bag! at Allen Gallery, Alton
Join artist Sachiko Mason to stitch a small purse or drawstring bag using beautiful fabrics inspired by the Allen Gallery’s ceramics collection. Suitable for older children (8+) and teens or anyone wishing to learn hand-sewing and textiles skills. 10:30am-4pm hampshireculture.org.uk
1 Nov
Andover Museum by Torchlight at Museum of the Iron Age, Andover Dress in your spookiest costumes and explore the museum by torchlight - if you dare! Enjoy spooky object storytelling, ghost stories, crafts and Halloween themed snacks. 10am-4pm hampshireculture.org.uk
8 Nov Merrycon 9 Family-friendly Boardgame Convention at Alton Assembly Rooms
A library of games will be available from which you can pick, or games can be recommended to you. Teaching games to attendees is also a big part of what makes MERRYCON the event that it is. 10:30am-10:30pm altonassemblyrooms.com
8 Nov Franky at Phoenix Arts Centre, Bordon Don’t miss this fun-filled story with
The Malls Festive Market
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Live choir performances around our Festive Tree
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Stocking Up: 23rd December 2025
Sessions at: 11.30am, 1.15 and 3.00pm
Starlight
Stilt Walkers: 24th December 2025
Sessions at: 3.00, 4.15 and 5.30pm
songs, a riotous hook-a-duck game, and the chance to learn the hottest new dance craze ‘The Franky Walk!’ Come along to this comedy adventure that will be sure to lighten and brighten up your day. 2:30pm phoenixarts.co.uk
8 Nov
Bordon Fireworks Extravaganza at The Shed, Bordon
Get ready for an unforgettable evening as Bordon Fireworks returns with a spectacular display that will light up the night sky! 4pm-8:30pm theshedwb.com
9 Nov
The Phoenix Board Gamers’ Tabletop Takeover at Phoenix Arts Centre, Bordon
Calling all gamers, hobbyists, families, and fun-seekers! The Phoenix Board Gamers are hosting an all-day tabletop games event — and you’re invited! 10am phoenixarts.co.uk
11 Nov
Timothy’s Tots – Remember, Remember at Gilberts White’s House, Selborne
Make a treasure box of memories. Join Timothy the Tortoise for these interactive preschool sessions connecting your child to nature and the changing seasons. 11am gilbertwhiteshouse.org.uk
15 Nov Christmas Launch at Festival Place, Basingstoke
Start the Christmas Carnival with some special activities. 10am-6pm festivalplace.co.uk
16 Nov
Mayor’s Charity Screening: Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone at Phoenix Arts Centre, Bordon
Experience the wonder of Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone on the big screen and help support a great cause in the process. Dress as your favourite character and grab yourself a Sneaking Snackbox from the trolley (or a Butterbeer from the bar). 5pm phoenixarts.co.uk
21 Nov Christmas Lights Switch-on, Alton
For those who are shopping or browsing, there will be plenty of
commercial and charity stalls to visit along the High Street, Market Street and inside the Assembly Rooms. Children will have the opportunity to meet Father Christmas and his elves. 3pm-7pm altonassemblyrooms.com
25 Nov
Timothy’s Tots – Hibernation at Gilbert White’s House, Selborne Who’s asleep this winter? Meet the sleepy creatures! Join Timothy the Tortoise for our interactive preschool sessions connecting your child to nature and the changing seasons. 11am gilbertwhiteshouse.org.uk
29 and 30 Nov, 6 and 7 Dec
The Petting Manger at West Green House, Hook
The space under the Chinese pavilions becomes the sweetest manger full of gentle animals, perhaps a sheep, a cow, a goat, even a rabbit, as part of an animal selection any small child will love to see and pet. Animal handlers will be there to assist the children enjoy the experience. 4pm-8pm westgreenhouse.co.uk
30 Nov
The Teddy Bear Fair at Alton Assembly Rooms Bears, bears and more bears! Free entry, and refreshments. 10:30am3pm altonassemblyrooms.com
30 Nov
Zoom! at Phoenix Arts Centre, Bordon
A play for children aged 3-8 years with music, songs and puppetry. This is a gentle introduction for young children into ways they can help to protect their environment. 11am/2pm phoenixarts.co.uk
6 Dec Elf on a Shelf Trail at Whitchurch Silk Mill
Make your way along the trail and find activities for the whole family. Take part in the 10 elf-themed activities around the site and collect your chocolatey reward. 10:30am12pm / 1:30pm-3pm whitchurchsilkmill.org.uk
6, 7, 12 and 13 Dec
Owls by Moonlight at Christmas at Hawk Conservancy Trust, Andover
Kick off the festive season with a magical evening with the Trust’s owls! They will be flying their awesome owls under moonlight at this special time of year with a few festive features to get you in the Christmas spirit. 7pm hawk-conservancy.org
9 Dec
Timothy’s Tots – Twinkle with Timothy at Gilbert White’s House, Selborne Crafts and stories inspired by the stars. Join Timothy the Tortoise for our interactive preschool sessions connecting your child to nature and the changing seasons. 11am gilbertwhiteshouse.org.uk
19 Dec
The Little Elf Cinema Night at The Wellington Arms, Stratfield Turgis This is the ultimate Christmas movie night for kids – perfect for ages 4–11. Parents can relax in The Waterloo Suite’s bar area with food and drink available to purchase during the film.
5pm lovebasingstoke.co.uk
20-23 Dec
Little Red Riding Hood at Phoenix Arts Centre, Bordon Lyngo Theatre’s wardrobe is a portal to the wild wood where something is roaming the forest, animals are mysteriously going missing, and a little girl has just received a beautiful red cloak from her granny. Open its doors and everything comes alive through puppetry, songs and music from hidden hatches and secret compartments. 2pm/6pm phoenixarts.co.uk
21 Dec
Santa Dash 3K Family Fun Run at Basingstoke Sports and Social Club
Take part in a charity Santa dash 3k family fun run and raise money for Cardiac Risk in the Young. Please feel free to dress up in fancy dress! There will also be a selection of lovely Christmas craft stalls to enjoy. 11am lovebasingstoke.co.uk
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