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editor’s letter
As we step into the magical months of November and December, our holiday issue is here to inspire your celebrations and capture the spirit of giving, joy, and style.
Our curated Gift Guide offers a delightful blend of treasures, from gourmet treats to clothing to statement jewelry, for gifting the people who matter most (don’t forget yourself!) and helps support small businesses in our community.
Looking for holiday outfit inspiration? The fashion showcased in “Haute Holidays” will make you the star of every gathering. Whether you prefer classic elegance or trendy flair, we have stylish ensembles for men and women that will elevate your festive wardrobe.
For both amateurs and aficionados, local sommelier and the host of The Wine Centric Show
Matt Weiss has a wine recommendation for every palate and personality at your holiday table. His “Festive Wine Guide” explores the best selections to complement your feasts — and your friends’ and family members’ preferences.
We’re also shining a spotlight on 127 Haven, a nonprofit foundation that’s growing families in Uganda but is rooted right here in Wake County, and The Kupkake Fairy, known for their enchanting holiday treats that add sweetness to any celebration.
Our special “Holiday Happenings” section will help you plan all the events and experiences you won’t want to miss this time of year, and Farina in Lafayette Village will lure you with its hearty Italian American cuisine and warm ambience.
As we celebrate this joyous season, let’s cherish the moments spent with loved ones and the joy of giving back to our community. Wishing you all a festive and fabulous holiday season!
Thanks for reading!
Erin McKnight, Editor
CAN YOU CREATE MEMORIES THAT WILL LAST ALL YEAR?
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Only in The Northern Outer Banks will bringing the family together for the Holidays be filled with seasonal events, peaceful beaches, and memories that will last all year.
EPISODE 33
A Tour Through Agritainment at Phillips Farm with Michael Phillips
Host Melissa Wistehuff takes you beyond the pages of
Unveiling the Magic: Inside the NC State Fair with Heather Overton
EPISODE 29
A Place at the Table with Maggie Kane
EPISODE 30
EPISODE 31
EPISODE 26
Jacques Gilbert: From Apex’s First Black Police Captain to Mayor
Exploring Raleigh City Farm: Urban Farming in Downtown Raleigh
North Carolina Seafood Industry with Lin Peterson
EPISODE 32
CREDIT ^ STEVEN CUTLER PHOTOGRAPHY
Tree Lighting Celebration
includes a day full of activities
Downtown Cary Park
Dec. 6 | 2-10 p.m.
14th Annual Gifting Tree Project
Victorian Christmas
Page-Walker Arts & History Center
Dec. 6 | 2-5 p.m.
Downtown Cary Dec. 6-26 Santa’s Mailbox
Holiday Decorations
Downtown Cary Nov. 28 - Jan. 5
Menorah Lighting
Downtown Cary Park Dec. 16 | 5:30-6:30p.m.
15th Annual Gingerbread House Competition
Downtown Cary Dec. 6-14
Downtown Cary Park Nov. 17-Dec. 7 at the Page-Walker
Kwanzaa Celebration
Cary Arts Center Dec. 29 | 1 p.m.-5 p.m.
HOLIDAY HAPPENINGS
Turkey Bowl V
November 8, 1–3 p.m.
Morrisville Community Park
The Morrisville Police Department and Morrisville Fire/Rescue Department face off in a game of kickball. Admission is one nonperishable food item for families in need.
NC Chinese
Lantern Festival
November 15 to January 11 (closed Christmas Day)
Koka Booth Amphitheatre, Cary boothamphitheatre.com
Now in its 10th year, this walk-through experience features thousands of handcrafted lanterns, plus nightly Chinese traditional stage performances. See website for pricing.
Turkey Trot 5k
Saturday, November 22, 10 a.m.
Apex Community Park apexnc.org/538/Turkey-Trot-5K-Run
The course will take you through the park and around a scenic lake. Registration is limited to the first 600 individuals. Competitive and recreational divisions for adults and youth. $12–$30.
Trophy Trot 5k
November 27, 9 a.m. to noon
Dix Park, Raleigh nogrunclub.com
Set out Thanksgiving morning for a trot through Dix Park benefiting Healing Transitions, followed by an after party at Trophy Brewing & Taproom. $40–$50.
Kids Holiday Craft Fair
November 23, 2:30–5 p.m. Halle Cultural Arts Center, Apex
Children sell handmade holiday art and crafts in a fun atmosphere and are encouraged to donate a portion of profits to charity.
Mingle & Market Local
November 29, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. White Street, Wake Forest
Spend Small Business Saturday crossing names off your list. Giveaways for early shoppers, plus food, music, raffles, and a Cards for Service Members booth.
Jonathan Fredin
HOLIDAY HAPPENINGS
Fuquay-Varina Chorale
Holiday: Snow
December 5, 7:30 p.m.
December 6, 2 & 7:30 p.m.
Fuquay-Varina Arts Center app.arts-people.com/?show=294535
Dream of snow and hear the beautiful voices of this popular ensemble. $10 per person.
Print a passport or pick one up from the Apex Welcome Center or a participating business. Get stamps from Snowman Stops and self-guided merrymaking activities. Turn in your passport for entry into a raffle.
Winter
Wonderland Crafts Extravaganza
December 10, 6:30–8 p.m.
Cedar Fork Community Center, Morrisville
Show your creative side and enjoy festive snacks and hot chocolate.
Harry Potter and the Cursed Child
December 28 to January 11
Durham Performing Arts Center dpacnc.com
Experience the wizarding world like never before — direct from Broadway! $55 and up.
Cary Kwanzaa Celebration
December 29, 1–6 p.m.
Cary Arts Center
Embrace African culture through displays of dance, drumming, storytelling, and visual arts.
JINGLE ALL THE WAY
ABC11 Raleigh
Christmas Parade
November 22, 9:30 a.m.
Downtown Raleigh grma.org/christmas-parade
The largest Christmas parade between Atlanta and Washington, DC, now in its 81st year!
More than 80 decorated floats and vehicles, sponsored by hometown businesses and organizations, caravan through Main Street in downtown Fuquay-Varina.
Cary Jaycees
Christmas Parade
December 13, 2–4 p.m.
Downtown Cary
Bands, mascots, local businesses, community groups, and churches join forces for this beloved annual spectacle that runs from E. Chatham Street to the Cary Arts Center, now in its 46th year.
Happy Holly Days Parade
December 13, 10 a.m.
Holly Springs Village District hollyspringsnc.gov
Floats, bands, dancers, decorated vehicles, and marching groups travel Main Street through downtown Holly Springs.
ABC11 Raleigh Christmas Parade
LET THERE BE LIGHTS
Raleigh Tree Lighting and Market
November 21, 5:30–8 p.m.
Moore Square
Free photos with Santa, performances from local artists, a vendor market, food, drinks, and more at this 17th annual event.
Lighting of Wake Forest
December 5, 5–8 p.m.
Centennial Plaza
Musical performances, food and drink, and Santa’s arrival herald the spectacular tree lighting at 6:20 p.m.
Apex Tree
Lighting Ceremony
December 5, 4:30–7 p.m.
Apex Town Hall Campus
Join community members and the Apex Town Council as the tree is lit in the center of Town Hall Campus!
Cary Tree
Lighting Celebration
December 6, 2–10 p.m.
Downtown Cary Park
Farmers and vendor markets, photos with Santa, storytime with Peter Rabbit, a penguin playground, food trucks, a skating rink, performances from local organizations, and a handbell performance all lead to the official tree lighting at 6 p.m.
Morrisville Christmas
Tree Lighting
December 6, 3–6 p.m.
Indian Creek Trailhead
Santa Claus and the Town Council will be counting down the lighting of the tree at 5:45 p.m.
Apex Holiday Tour of Lights
December 6–31, 6–9 p.m.
apexnc.org/1718/Seasonal-Tours
Put on your favorite holiday playlist and follow a map for the most efficient route to see all the displays at homes and businesses across town.
Light the Springs
December 6, 5–8 p.m.
Holly Springs Cultural Center
Live music, festive food, free holiday crafts, Santa and Mrs. Claus meet-and-greets, and the town’s menorah and tree lighting.
Fieldstream
Farm Light Show
Throughout December
Fieldstream Farm, Raleigh fieldstreamfarm.com
An agritourism farm decks out with over 2 million lights for a drive-through show. Advance ticket purchase required, $20 per vehicle up to 8 passengers.
Fieldstream Farm Light Show
Illuminate Art Walk
December through early January
Downtown Raleigh downtownraleigh.org/illuminate
Storefronts, plazas, and public spaces house large-scale illuminated art installations from local artists.
Join Chabad of Cary for festive menorah lightings that bring the community together. chabadofcary.org
Chanukah Wonderland
December 14
Apex Senior Center
Games, crafts, food, and lighting the menorah on Town Campus.
Cary Menorah Lighting
December 16, 5:30 p.m.
Downtown Cary Park
Holiday music plus a sweet treat and kids’ activity.
Fenton Menorah Lighting
December 17, 5–7 p.m.
Fenton Square, Cary
Ice skating, and even an ice menorah.
Morrisville Menorah Lighting
December 21, 5:30 p.m.
Indian Creek Trailhead
Accompanied by live music.
December 11th–24th
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THE NUTCRACKER
Opportunities abound to catch the iconic holiday production. See websites for pricing information.
City Ballet Raleigh
December 5, 7 p.m.
December 6, 2 and 7 p.m. Stewart Theatre at NC State University city-ballet.com/nutcracker
Professional guest artists join talented students for a lavishly staged production.
Infinity Ballet
December 5, 8 p.m.
December 6, 3 p.m.
December 7, 2 & 4 p.m.
Halle Cultural Arts Center, Apex apexnc.org/1965/Infinity-Ballet-Presents
A one-hour storybook series rendition of Nutcracker Dances
Cary Ballet Company
December 6
Martin Marietta Center for Performing Arts, Raleigh
December 18–21
Cary Arts Center caryballetcompany.org/nutcracker
Multiple showtimes include the full-length ballet, one-hour Nutcracker Suite, and sensory-friendly production with softer music and other accommodations.
Carolina Ballet
December 11–24
Raleigh Memorial Auditorium carolinaballet.com/program/thenutcracker
Live music accompanies every show, including the NC Symphony Dec. 19–21.
WORTH THE DRIVE
The Southern Lights
November 21 to December 23, 5:30–9 p.m.
The Gardens of Southeastern NC, Willard thesouthernlightsnc.com
Stroll a dazzling garden light display, peruse a 12 Days of Christmas–themed art exhibit, take a whimsical wagon ride, and enjoy a range of seasonal treats, from coffee and cocktails to s’mores and soup. $12 online, $15 at the gate. VIP bundles available.
Topsail Christmas Market and Flotilla
December 13
Market noon to 6 p.m.
Flotilla 5–7 p.m.
Soundside Park, Surf City topsailchamber.org
Live music, food trucks, shopping, and photos with Santa and Mrs. Claus, followed by a floating light parade from Bush Marina to Soundside Park.
Candlelight
December 13 & 20
Tryon Palace, New Bern tryonpalace.org/events/candlelight-2025
Tour the historic Governor’s Mansion by candlelight as costumed interpreters present an engaging story. Enjoy other festive activities and food trucks as you await the black powder fireworks display to close the evening. See website for pricing.
How the World Celebrates
BY ERICA DELONG
Cherished traditions add a sprinkle of magic and a dash of nostalgia to the season. We establish rituals year after year that bring joy, laugher, and sometimes chaos.
But what makes them so important? For one, they offer comfort and a sense of stability and familiarity. The emotional lift they provide is like caffeine for the heart. Plus, they inspire creativity — whether we’re hunting for the perfect tree, picking out the ugliest Christmas sweater, or attempting a Pinterest-inspired gingerbread mansion likely to turn into a delightful mess. Exploring traditions from elsewhere in the world can teach us about values, history, and unique cultural quirks that unite us as humans, so join me for a merry trip around the globe.
We’ll begin in Spain with the annual El Gordo. No, it’s not a holiday feast (although Spain does those well!). El Gordo is the world’s largest Christmas lottery. On December 22, families gather around radios and TVs, fingers and toes crossed, hoping for a stroke of luck. The excitement is akin to how we feel when the Powerball reaches its peak. Winning or not, it’s a cherished part of the Spanish Christmas season.
Hopping over to Japan, December 25 isn’t about family gatherings — it’s all about that special someone in your life. Couples pull out all the stops for romantic dinners, much like we do on Valentine’s Day. However, many choose to celebrate with a big bucket of Kentucky Fried Chicken, a tradition so popular that it must be ordered weeks in advance.
Now let’s head to Iceland — one of my favorite countries to visit — for a dose of Christmas magic mixed with a hint of mischief. Kids leave their shoes on windowsills, hoping one of the 13 Yule Lads will drop by to fill them with treats. Each Lad comes with his own quirky antics, from Spoon-Licker to Sausage-Swiper, making the season both fun and full of surprises.
Over in South Africa, Christmas arrives right in the middle of summer! So, they celebrate with big outdoor gatherings and a tradition called the Boxing Day
Switzerland’s Silvesterchlausen tradition includes two new year’s parades to ward off bad vibes for the coming year.
Test Match, a cricket game that feels more like a picnic. Everyone brings their favorite snacks, supports their team, and just enjoys the lively atmosphere.
Our family recently returned from Switzerland, where we got a firsthand account of how they celebrate. On December 5, they kick things off with Klausjagen, where an ornate procession leads St. Nick into town. The Silvesterchlausen custom involves two separate new year’s celebrations where masked revelers parade around making noise to ward off bad vibes. And the decorated Christmas tree is revealed on Christmas Eve — which is so cool! I know some folks in the States also put up their tree on Christmas Eve. That’s a lot of work in 24 hours, and I truly applaud their dedication.
Switzerland native Johanna Runschke from Luzern shared her favorite holiday traditions: “We need to get out of the house to give Santa Claus time to ‘deliver’ the presents. We always go for a stroll through the city to admire the Christmas lights and soak in the peacefulness of the evening.
“By the time we return, the presents are already under the tree. But we keep
this tradition of strolling regardless. On Christmas Eve, you won’t find many people in the city, and the most magical evenings are when there’s a light snowfall.”
And these are just a few examples! Our world is filled with beautiful, quirky, and heart-warming traditions. So whether you’re into rolling cheese down a hill, dressing up as a horse (yes, those are real traditions), or just waiting patiently under the mistletoe, embrace the fun and festive holiday spirit.
Bringing it back home to North Carolina, my family has plenty of wonderful family traditions, like an annual trip to Wilmington for the Holiday Flotilla at Wrightsville Beach. Boats of all shapes and sizes are decorated for a fabulous floating parade that takes place on November 29 this year.
We also have our very own Christmas village! Visiting McAdenville, known as Christmas Town USA, is like stepping into a holiday wonderland. With twinkling lights and festive decorations, the town transforms into a magical scene straight from a Hallmark movie.
Raleigh’s 81st annual Christmas Parade is the perfect way to kick off the holiday season here in the Triangle. Mark your calendars — it’s happening on November 22! And don’t miss the incredible stroll through downtown Cary, always beautifully decorated for the holiday season!
One particular tradition in my family always sparks conversation: Hide the Pickle. The Christmas pickle is a glass ornament hidden on the Christmas tree, and the first person to find it on Christmas morning receives a small gift and is said to have good luck. While some believe this is an old German tradition called Weihnachtsgurke, it actually originated among GermanAmericans in the 19th century.
These diverse traditions from around the world open our eyes, educate us, and bring us together like a patchwork quilt of humanity. So why not adopt a new tradition this year? Mix it up, make it your own, and maybe even start a quirky tradition that future generations will wonder about and cherish. Happy holiday season! t
@EricaDeLong
KFC chicken on Christmas Day in Japan
The NC Flotilla in Wrightsville Beach
small business spotlight
The Kupkake Fairy
WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN
For one small business in the food and beverage industry, the pandemic provided a sprinkling of fairy dust.
In the bustling world of baked goods, The Kupkake Fairy, with locations in both Morrisville and Raleigh (inside the Morgan Street Food Hall), has captured the hearts — and taste buds — of the community.
Aisha and Joseph White are partners in business and in life.
Married co-owners Aisha and Joseph White have transformed their lives by offering indulgence in the form of custom cakes and catering. The couple’s recipe for success in the culinary world began with their shared background in selling insurance. “Being an insurance agent,” Joseph explains, comes with “a large degree of autonomy, so we were already used to the idea of moving at the pace we felt like moving at.” This independence and initiative, and a love of baking Aisha inherited from her mother, reignited their entrepreneurial spirit and helped The Kupkake Fairy spread its wings.
Initially, Aisha and Joseph started a catering company that focused on lunches. “We started doing a little bit of that, and that went pretty well,” Joseph recalls of their foray into the food industry. That first venture was focused on providing lunch options and cookies, which quickly gained popularity. The breakthrough moment came when they began working with local school systems, delivering lunches to teachers.
Aisha inherited her love for cooking and baking from her mother.
As they navigated the early stages of their business, they quickly realized the importance of adaptability. “When the pandemic hit,” Joseph shares, “everything suddenly was exploding for us.” While many businesses struggled during this time, The Kupkake Fairy managed to thrive. Aisha and Joseph had fortunately already opened the bakery and were, as he explains, “kind of balancing both” by naturally transitioning to offer more baked goods in their lunches. The couple’s decision to focus on the bakery during this turbulent time proved to be a wise one, as they capitalized on a freestanding location and the increased demand for comfort food.
Even after the world reopened, The Kupkake Fairy’s original intention — to give customers something truly scratch-made with high-quality ingredients at a price point that is affordable — remained unchanged. This commitment to quality shines through
in every cupcake, as the bakery prides itself on using fresh, locally sourced ingredients. Unlike other bakeries that mix water with powder, real milk is used. “We crack eggs, mix them with baking powder, salt … that’s all done by hand here,” Joseph explains, emphasizing the realness of their products and authenticity of the process.
The Kupkake Fairy’s presentation also sets it apart from competitors, as every cupcake comes in a plastic cup, which makes for easier eating and storage; this thoughtful approach also enhances the customer experience by making every cupcake feel special and inviting. “I think just the way we present ourselves to the public is a big part of what makes us different,” Joseph says.
Despite the bakery soaring during the pandemic, a new obstacle faces the business in the form of supply chain issues and rising costs. The price of essential ingredients has skyrocketed, with a pack of 60 eggs that
Everything sold at The Kupkake Fairy is freshly baked onsite and packaged with thoughtfulness for easy enjoyment.
used to cost $3.88 now being priced at over $13 after reaching a high of $23 and a bag of cocoa that used to be $15 now coming in at $42, illustrating the devastating impact of inflation on small businesses. “We’re having our greatest challenge currently,” Joseph admits, “but I feel confident because we’ve weathered any new thing with new ideas.”
Indeed, one of the bakery’s most significant achievements has been its ability to pivot and innovate. Aisha and Joseph have explored new avenues, including shipping their delightful treats to reach a broader customer base. Thanks to a grant for Black women in food, the business’s website was recently revamped. This investment in their online presence has already begun to pay off, with Aisha and Joseph seeing an increase in online orders.
Looking to the future, The Kupkake Fairy aims to grow its catering side, which currently consumes a smaller percentage of the business. The couple’s commitment to quality and community engagement is similarly evident in their approach to catering. “We do everything: tiered wedding cakes, dessert tables, and corporate events,” Joseph says about the versatility that allows the bakery to cater to a wide range of clients. “Even if you’re thinking about getting something from Publix,” he encourages, “give us a shot and see what we have to offer.”
Indeed, community support has been critical. “Supporting small businesses is crucial, especially now,” Joseph says, urging Triangle residents to consider the impact their choices have on the wider community. “You’d be surprised that for the same price, you can get something that has much higher quality” at The Kupkake Fairy, he adds, highlighting the importance of choosing local over corporate.
“When people support a small business,” he continues, “they are supporting the effort and the love that goes into it.” With The
Kupkake Fairy, customers aren’t just indulging in a sweet treat; they are participating in a story of hard work and dedication that continues
to unfold. Stop by to taste the difference and discover the sweet magic for yourself. t kupkakefairy.com
The bakery is conveniently located on Chapel Hill Road in Morrisville.
Haute Holidays
PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN
She + Sky black fitted sweater with rhinestones
Entro red tartan pleated skirt
“Classic tartans and rich, luxe fabrics like satin take center stage, reimagined with elevated details such as rhinestone embellishments and statement bows.”
Mandy Becker, owner, Swagger
Entro cream button-up sweater with red tartan buttons, sleeves, and accents
Glam black satin pleated pants
It’s time to embrace outfits that sparkle and shine. Whether you’re headed to a cozy gathering or a glamorous party, the right ensemble can elevate your festive spirit. This year, explore bold sweaters, shimmering metallics, playful patterns, and thoughtful embellishments that reflect your unique style. Layer for warmth and flair, and don’t forget statement accessories to complete your look. With Swagger Boutique and Gentlemen’s Corner, ladies and gents can dazzle in outfits that celebrate the joy of the season and leave a lasting impression.
Dreamers multi-striped sweater
Fate hunter green vegan leather skirt
Front toggle stone detail necklace
Entro cream silk dress
She + Sky hunter green cable knit sweater with rhinestone details
Coppley tuxedo
R Hanauer braces and bow tie
David Donahue tuxedo shirt
"This season has been particularly exciting as we get to watch our customers embrace new trends and styles. We have really seen a shift in what people are shopping for, as it seems many men are stepping aside from the typical shades of blue and embracing greens, purples, and especially brown this year. We are really noticing people wanting to dress to the nines again."
Worth Honeycutt, co-owner, Gentlemen's Corner
John Soderberg Rachel Serrano, PA-C
Tracy Gulitz, Licensed Aesthetician
It’s Time To Try Fruitcake
SOUTHERN SUPREME FRUITCAKE & MORE
makes the best fruitcake around. So good, in fact, that their family recipe remains unchanged since the company’s start in 1985.
Founded by Berta Lou Scott, Southern Supreme grew from a edgling home business into a specialty foods emporium selling its signature fruitcake and hundreds of other sweets and artisan food items, produced and sold in a 42,000 sq. ft. facility in the small town of Bear Creek, North Carolina.
Scott family recipes inspired every product on the shelves, including cheese orets, to ees, brittles, jam, pralines, and chocolate-covered clusters. But their namesake fruitcake remains in the spotlight as the business approaches 40 years.
Convinced you don’t like fruitcake? at’s likely because you haven’t tried one from Southern Supreme.
“We have a tendency to change a lot of minds,” says Randy Scott, son of Berta Lou.
Southern Supreme’s version is far from the dense and dry fruitcake of old stereotypes, and is instead moist, nutty, rich, and not overly sweet, lled with dates, raisins, pineapples, cherries, pecans and English Walnuts.
e abundance of nuts is one of the Southern Supreme secrets, says Berta Lou, as well as a picture-perfect glaze to top it all o .
“ e glaze is the hardest thing,” says Berta Lou. “You want it to sink in and give the cake a sheen.”
Over the years, the Scott family has won over many customers with just one taste of their fruitcake.
“We had to beg people to try it in the beginning,” says Randy. “Most of the time if they try it, then they end up being a customer.”
“Fruitcake has a bad name, but we’re changing it,” says Lisa Scott.
Visit the showroom and kitchens in Chatham County year round, and especially from mid-October through the end of the year when the displays are beautifully decorated for the holidays. Tour groups welcome.
Southern Supreme Fruitcake & More
1699 Hoyt Scott Rd, Bear Creek, NC 27207 (336) 581-3141 | (877) 815-0922 southernsupreme.com
The Gift
Guide
Seasonal shopping has never been easier. These Wake Living partners offer unique items with a local touch, from stocking stuffers to diamond jewelry.
BY EMILY UHLAND | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN
COMPILED
Just For Fun
1. Creativity and cuteness collide in The Woobles Learn to Crochet Kits, complete with step-by-step videos and easy-to-follow patterns, best suited to ages 12 and up.
2. ’Tis the season for cozy at Bless Your Heart Boutique with festive socks, a lip care duo, glitter puzzle, and a boozy mug of hot chocolate — warm and toasty fireplace optional.
3. Surprise comic collectors with long-lost favorites, hidden gems, and memorabilia of their favorite heroes and villains from Yellow Bird Comics
4. Local roots meet German tradition at The Corner Biergarten Bar and Bottle Shop.
up for gifting and hosting with a mix-and-match six-pack of NC craft and imported brews.
5. Kids and kids-at-heart delight in the latest arrivals of super-soft plush
6. From Pokémon to sports cards, Triangle Area Trading Cards has a nostalgic treasure trove perfect for collectors and gamers alike.
7. Give the gift of lather and cheer with body wash–infused buffers from Swagger. Perfect for those who want to scrub away the holiday stress.
8. Enjoy one-and-done shopping at Bottle Theory with merch for the whole family, from the softest T-shirts for mom and matching onesies for wee ones to a collapsible bowl for Fido and a growler of dad’s favorite draft beer.
9. Give your pup the ultimate holiday with treats, interactive fun, and a welldeserved spa day using natural and eco-friendly products at Dirty Dogs Spa
10. “Yes, please” to a stocking full of sweet sensation Chapel Hill Toffee and Griff’s Coffee Toffee, scratch made in its namesake NC town.
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Jellycats. Hunt them down at Southern Dash
Charming Home Additions
1. Add a touch of local flair with gifts from Cocoon Gallery — featuring works from more than 70 North Carolina artisans, including ceramic and glass vessels and a block print table runner.
2. Hand-carved wooden accents fuse form and function on champagne flutes, a pepper mill, and a sleek nutcracker from Preston Flowers. Collect Scandinavian-inspired gnome ornaments for fanciful frills on the family tree.
3. Serve up playful holiday charm with tableware and tea towels from Swagger
4. Set the stage for fabulous gatherings! With stylish serving ware and luxe décor essentials, a gift from Home for Entertaining is the recipe for unforgettable nights.
5. Elevated kitchen accessories, like a hand-crafted charcuterie board, pizza cutter, wine stoppers, and pepper grinder from Rescued WOOD Rehab, will help recipients slice, serve, and celebrate in style.
7. Whimsical glassware and candles from Gather Goods Co. enliven any tablescape.
8. Raise a glass to artisan-made drinkware, available at Serasana, such as hand-crafted ceramic mugs by Sawdust & Clay and individually painted wine and champagne glasses by local artist Heather Eck, which make every sip a celebration.
6. History buffs will love a deep dive into Hidden History of Cary, written by local resident Dr. Katherine Loflin.
Gastro Gifts
1. Meat the perfect gift. Nothing says “I care” like gourmet local goodies and top-quality steaks from The Butcher’s Market
2. Unexpected flavors and unique ingredients — like Dubai-style chocolates, marzipan sweets, global spices, and gourmet teas — abound at Sassool’s café and market.
3. Treat someone special to Aunt Ruby’s Peanuts: deliciously crunchy and perfectly seasoned for a delightful snack that’s sure to please.
4. Hydration is key during the busy holiday season — Bond Brothers Beer Company special releases like Scandi Snacks rye Baltic porter and I.&.L.&.Y. barrel-aged stout hit the spot.
5. Send a little love in every bite! Addictive baked goods, delicate macarons, and takehome mixes from La Farm say “I knead you in my life!”
6. Satisfy every sweet tooth in town with handmade millionaire shortbread cookie bars — layers of buttery shortbread, gooey caramel, and rich chocolate ganache — from Raleigh-based Artie Bars
7. There’s quite a buzz around this gift — small-batch fresh-roasted organic beans and canned nitro cold brew from Larry’s Coffee
8. Sip on life’s finer things with Damn Fine Vodka and Liqueurs from Durham Distillery . Decadent cocktails await with flavors such as Coffee and Mocha Bourbon Chocolate.
9. Delicious specialty and locally made food products, premium butcher cuts, and imported charcuterie from The Meat House impress casual cooks and discerning gourmands.
10. Creativity blossoms in the kitchen with nonalcoholic beverage options and coffee table–worthy cookbooks from Gather Goods Co.
11. Uncork happiness! A bottle of wine from The Wine Merchant is the perfect way to toast someone special.
12. Teatime is a treat with a luxe tea service and specialty loose leaf blends from Fuquay Spice and Tea
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2. Effortless style comes easily with cheeky apparel and accessories from Villa 19. Salute your own favorite daughters and sisters with gifts that cheer them on.
3. In a state with a rich tradition of women’s soccer success, girl power reigns at WakeMed Soccer Park — especially during NC Courage games. Parade that team spirit dressed in colorful NC Courage apparel like a pastel tie-dye hat, crest T-shirt, and scarf.
4. Bless Your Heart Boutique stocks all the goods to stay cozy and gift happy.
5. Dress her in head-to-toe glam with all-occasion looks from Betty & Jane Boutique. The only thing missing — a dinner reservation.
6. When adventure strikes, soft activewear by Local Girl Outfitters transitions effortlessly from indoors to out, available at Southern Dash
1. Maintain that fresh salon style at home with amika hair care products and the silkiest satin pillowcase from Pinup Studio. Top it off with a touch of Pinup pride in an effortlessly chic (and pink) beanie.
2. SkinCARE MedSpa at CARE Plastic Surgery keeps the glow going with the ultimate beauty survival kit, including products like Allure Best of Beauty winner Skinceuticals P-TIOX and cult favorite EltaMD UV Skin Recovery SPF 50 to help your loved ones look fabulous year-round.
3. Support local artisans with gifts from Serasana including Sudsy Mess Soap Co. goat milk soap and scented soy candles from Breath Peace Body.
4. Skincare with science at its core, Fafabiotic uses live probiotic cells in premium topical formulations to support skin’s natural microbiome — a futuristic self-care experience with enviable results.
5. Good hair days are the best days, so unleash the fabulous. Gift some SexyHair products from Twisted Scizzors to help your friends channel their inner diva.
6. Find everyday luxury in Garden Supply Company’s selection of deluxe hand soap, lotion, and body care products.
7. Scents of the season, such as Peppermint & Rosemary shower steamers or a Crystal Pine Capri Blue candle from Bless Your Heart Boutique, transform any home into a holiday haven.
8. Soft holiday jammies plus at-home pampering equals a do-it-yourself spa day courtesy of Swagger
Handsome Finds
1. Suit up for the season with specialty menswear and accessories. He’ll be dressed to impress for every occasion with a gift from Ashworth’s Clothing
2. Work hard and play hard with outdoor gear built tough, like Turtlebox portable speakers and Xtratuf boots from Southern Dash. A plush sweatshirt by Local Boy Outfitters (pictured opposite) adds cozy comfort.
3. Forgo the holiday chaos and escape to Bond Brothers Beer Company to chill and thrill with beer and disc golf. Snag the Bond Brothers signature Discraft discs for league or casual play.
4. Timeless style never goes out of fashion. Tailored and casual picks from Gentlemen’s Corner elevate his everyday attire.
5. Show your support for North Carolina FC in the stadium and on the streets with logo gear in team colors. Pair with a ticket package for the ultimate futbol fan experience.
6. Preserve the taste of fine spirits with a glass and leather flask by Clayton & Crume (made in Kentucky, where they know something about bourbon). Shop Home for Entertaining for this and other premium gifts and housewares.
1. Dazzle her with the Bailey’s Fine Jewelry Club Collection Tennis Choker and Ippolita Classico Wavy Frame Earrings.
2. Diamonds are a girl’s best friend, especially in a coordinating bangle, pendant, and ring set with a modern clover motif from Holland’s Jewelers
Where to Shop
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127 Haven
WRITTEN BY ERIN MCKNIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN
Ryan McEvoy’s faith-led nonprofit isn’t only a safe haven for Uganda’s orphaned children — it’s a haven for hope.
For Ryan, owner of Jeff’s Bagel Run in Wake Forest, the urge to serve came in 2019 when, a decade after he cofounded the uBreakiFix franchise, he felt a divine calling to pivot his life’s work.
“I just felt God calling me to do something different,” Ryan recalls about the decision to sell 900 uBreakiFix stores across the country and establish 127 Haven, an organization dedicated to building families and not
orphanages. “It was like my faith became real to me when I read James 1:27, which emphasizes caring for orphans and widows,” he says.
As a Christian, the verse — “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world” — awakened in Ryan the desire to transform his faith into purpose. “I wanted to live out this verse and take it seriously,” he explains. “Caring for orphans is a selfless act, and I was ready to commit my life to that cause.”
Putting compassion ahead of convenience, and admittedly with little preparation, though at the time feeling “strongly like this is where I needed to go,” Ryan traveled to Uganda. Once there, he connected with a close friend who shared his vision of helping children in need. Lynette had once been an orphaned child rescued from the streets of Uganda, just like the kids 127 Haven sought to help.
Ryan says this parallel “hit Lynette in the chest,” and she shared with him that she would “love to save kids the way I was saved.” An inspired Ryan then purchased land in Uganda and began the process of creating families, the first of which includes Lynette and her husband David serving in the role of legal guardians for orphaned children who otherwise might have fallen victim to trafficking or may not have survived at all.
127 Haven operates on the principle that a family atmosphere should be fostered. “We take orphaned children off the street and build families out of them,” Ryan says. He emphasizes that the nonprofit isn’t
Jeff’s Bagel Run in Wake Forest has become a popular spot for those looking for authentic NY-style bagels and coffee.
127 Haven has indelibly changed Ryan and is never far from his mind.
running another orphanage, which can be a grim environment for children; instead, it is building “small homes where children can grow up in a loving environment.” This approach to growing disciples is rooted in faith, as Ryan explains: “I believe that Christ died for our sins, and we’re all orphaned from Him. I want to teach these children about the love of Christ and give them a chance at life.”
The organization currently provides a home for 10 children, some of whom are siblings, with plans to expand in both Uganda and elsewhere in the world. The Philippines is of particular interest, as 127 Haven is focused on children who have been rescued from human trafficking or are at risk of being trafficked. But first, the plan is for more families to be grown in Uganda.
Finding children in need is a thoughtful and prayerful process, Ryan explains. “In the beginning, we just prayed about it,” he recalls about founding the organization and determining which children to take in, and “God has provided each child perfectly.” 127 Haven works closely with local social workers who help identify children in need and are supportive allies because they recognize that real families are being created and as a result are firm believers in the cause.
Ryan McEvoy, founder of 127 Haven
All bagels and craft coffee are made fresh daily.
Ryan’s time in Uganda is cherished and provides additional opportunities to grow the foundation and serve children in need.
Recently, Lynette and David have been preparing to welcome two new children, a 3-month-old and an 8-month-old, into their home. “We don’t say yes to every child we hear about,” Ryan says, citing 127 Haven’s need to ensure that the children can be cared and provided for all the way through their university education. “We pray and make sure it feels right.”
The first child that 127 Haven, and Lynette and David, took in was at the time a young teenager. She is now, as Ryan describes her, “a beautiful young lady” who, despite being behind in school due to her prior living circumstances, is now 19 and wants to become a lawyer.
But the 127 Haven journey hasn’t been without its challenges. The hardest part, Ryan admits, has been navigating the cultural differences, bureaucratic hurdles, and legalities surrounding child welfare in Uganda.
Fortunately, the 127 Haven board comprises a small team of trusted voices
with a deep-seated desire to help the most marginalized members of society. There are no associated admin fees — nobody is getting paid, and Ryan asserts that he will never take money from the organization. Even for his regular visits to Uganda, he pays personally for travel expenses.
“I hate asking for money,” Ryan admits about funding 127 Haven’s inspired work, “but I know people want to help.” The best way to do this, he says, is to sponsor a child in the 127 Haven family. Just $40 a month — which for many people would be a small sacrifice — can have a significant impact and change a life. Helping to raise a child through sponsorship will include ongoing communication and other elements that make the relationship personal over pecuniary.
Community involvement can take more than one form, though, as Ryan explains: “We need people to support us, whether through sponsorship or simply spreading
the word about what we do. Together,” he encourages, “we can create families out of orphans and give them a brighter future.” t 127haven.com jeffsbagelrun.com
None of the bagels are toasted, with boiling being the standard for Jeff’s Bagel Run.
Digital communication allows hearts to remain connected across continents.
To find the best medical care for your family, look no further. From the top of your head to the tips of your toes, these local professionals cover it all.
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At the heart of Birch Therapy, PLLC is Jenn’s belief that when families feel supported together, they can overcome challenges and build lasting emotional wellness. As a mom of four neurodivergent kids, founder Jenn Birch understands both the strengths and struggles families face, and she has built a team that provides specialized, neurodivergent-affirming, wraparound care.
Since opening its doors in September 2010, Birch Therapy, PLLC has taken pride in joining families on their emotional health journey and meeting the mental health needs of greater Raleigh community members of all ages. Now in its 15th year, Birch Therapy has expanded this passion by opening a Cary location, embracing Jenn’s Cary roots.
Today, Birch Therapy is home to 18 deeply compassionate and emotionally attuned clinicians. Together, they partner with schools, community agencies, and families to strengthen connection and create a solid foundation for growth. Services include individual therapy for children, teens, and
parents; family therapy; psychological testing and evaluations; parenting classes; social skills groups; and community education workshops.
What sets Birch Therapy apart is its personal touch from the first encounter — every client is thoughtfully matched with a therapist who fits their family’s needs, not through an algorithm or long form, but through genuine care and connection. Whether it’s navigating school refusal, managing anxious meltdowns, addressing big and baffling behaviors, or sorting through developmental uncertainties, Birch Therapy provides more than therapy sessions — it offers a supportive team invested in the wellbeing of the entire family.
Founder Jenn McClees Birch, Ed.S., LCMHCS, RPTS, NCC, is known for her calm, collaborative leadership and unwavering commitment to whole-family care — a vision that continues to guide Birch Therapy’s growth and impact with five locations across the greater Raleigh area.
EMPATHY IS AT THE HEART OF LITTLE TOOTH CO
At Little Tooth Co, Dr. Jean G. You, Dr. Maryam Qayumi, and Dr. Katie Keogh bring not only expertise but also a deep sense of empathy to every patient they treat. As board-certified pediatric dentists, they have undergone rigorous training to specialize in the oral health needs of babies, children, and adolescents. Their years of experience ensure that each child receives the highest standard of care — whether it’s a routine cleaning or a more complex procedure.
What sets Dr. Jean apart is her understanding that a child’s dental experience goes beyond teeth. She recognizes the importance of creating a positive, stress-free environment for children and their families. As a hands-on mother herself, Dr. Jean brings a unique perspective to what parents and children need during dental visits. She approaches every appointment with the same compassion and care she would want for her own children, ensuring young patients feel safe and supported.
Her ability to connect with parents, address concerns, and provide practical guidance on managing oral health at home is central to her approach to pediatric dentistry. This blend of professional expertise and personal understanding makes Little Tooth Co a trusted partner for families.
At Little Tooth Co, the philosophy is simple: Pediatric dentistry is not just about fixing teeth — it’s about fostering trust, building confidence, and helping children establish healthy habits for life. Dr. Jean’s empathetic, patient-first approach ensures that every child leaves the office with a smile. Parents can feel confident knowing their little ones are cared for by experienced professionals who genuinely understand the joys and challenges of raising healthy, happy children.
When your child visits Little Tooth Co, they’re in the hands of experts who truly care — because here, empathy comes naturally.
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A DECADE OF EXCELLENCE IN EYE CARE
Samantha McPherson, McPherson Family Eye Care has provided high-quality eye care for the entire family. What started as a small practice has now grown into a team of six highly skilled doctors, each bringing their expertise and pas sion to ensure the best possible vision care for our patients. We are proud to remain an in dependently owned business in Wake County.
tions and eye wear continues to be one of our most important goals. We also take on the challenges of complex contact lens fittings, including the fitting of scleral lenses for patients with keratoconus or irregular corneas. These custom lenses provide improved vision and comfort for individuals who may struggle with traditional contact lenses and glasses.
progression of myopia in children, reducing the risk of developing eye pathology related to high levels of near-sightedness as an adult. Our dry eye center is well known throughout Wake County for providing compassionate, skilled, and individualized dry eye diagnosis and management. In addition to utilizing available prescription treatment options, we use state-of-the-art instruments, including OptiLight, OptiPlus, and TriLift, for in-office procedures that go beyond the capabilities of traditional eye drops. These advanced technologies not only provide relief from dry eye symptoms but also rejuvenate skin tone and strengthen the muscles around the eyes.
tial vision problems of our younger patients. Innovative contact lenses such as orthokeratology (Ortho-k) or MiSight and treatment with atropine eye drops are designed to slow
At McPherson Family Eye Care, we remain committed to providing cutting-edge, personalized eye care for every member of your family. If you’re looking for expert, compassionate eye care, we invite you to experience the McPherson Family Eye Care difference. Schedule your appointment today and see the world more clearly!
EXPECT SOMETHING DIFFERENT AT SUPREMIA DENTISTRY
Blending modern technology, innovative techniques, extensive training, and human compassion, it’s easy to see why Supremia Dentistry has won Wake Living’s “Best Dentist” designation every year since 2012.
Led by Dr. Edmond Suh and Dr. Morgan Herman, Supremia handles a range of dental needs, including cosmetic and sedation dentistry, gum disease prevention, teeth whitening, the diagnosis and treatment of sleep apnea and TMJ disorders, veneers, and teeth straightening utilizing Invisalign technology.
Dr. Suh is an international lecturer on a variety of topics from painless dental techniques and technology to cosmetic procedures and TMJ therapy. He is currently a faculty member and regional director at the world-renowned Las Vegas Institute for Advanced Dental Studies, and serves as a key opinion leader for numerous dental
manufacturers. He is a two time past president of the International Association of Physiologic Aesthetics.
Dr. Herman graduated from the New York University College of Dentistry with honors in esthetic dentistry. Her focus on the mouth-body connection aligns with Supremia’s interest in providing holistic and naturopathic treatments, which combine traditional dental care with a wholebody approach. She is a Diplomate with the American Academy of Dental Sleep Medicine and holds an associate fellowship with the American Academy of Implant Dentistry. This makes her one of the more highly decorated clinicians nationwide.
At Supremia, our goal is to provide comprehensive, patient-centered care that promotes oral health, aesthetics, and overall well-being. Come see what we’re all about!
SMARTER WAYS TO PUT YOUR SAVINGS TO WORK
We get it, sometimes savings accounts feel a bit like a comfy couch. You park your money there because it’s safe, familiar, and doesn’t require much effort. But what if your money could be doing more? Like a couch that doubles as a storage space or folds out into a comfy guest bed, some savings accounts can actually do double duty. Instead of simply sitting there, your money could be growing significantly faster. Curious how? Let’s dive into a few easy, smart, and realistic ways to level up your savings.
1. Upgrade from “Basic” to “High Yield”
If your savings currently sit in a basic savings account, you’re likely earning very little on your money. Coastal’s High Yield Savings account, on the other hand, could offer you significantly higher dividends. Think of it as upgrading from a bicycle to an electric scooter. Both will get you there, but one does it a lot faster (and with a little more excitement).
Why it’s smart:
• Earn significantly higher dividends than a regular savings account.
• No monthly fees, meaning your growth stays yours.
• Your money stays accessible, so there’s no trade-off between earning more and flexibility.
2. Choose a Checking Account That Pays You
Checking accounts often get overlooked when it comes to earning potential, but they shouldn’t. With dividend-earning checking accounts, like Go Green Checking, your everyday spending account can become a source of earnings. You could be earning more without having to change how you spend. Smart, simple, and beneficial.
Why it’s smart:
• Earn dividends on money you’re already using daily.
• Enjoy perks like early pay (with direct deposit), and discounts and perks.
• Feel good about supporting community-focused initiatives, since transactions help fund charitable giving with the Coastal Foundation.
3. Automate Your Savings (Set It and Forget It!)
One of the simplest yet most powerful ways to grow your savings is automation. It’s a bit like putting your finances on autopilot. Set up a monthly transfer from your checking to your High Yield Savings, then sit back and watch your savings quietly grow without lifting a finger.
Why it’s smart:
• It removes the temptation to spend the money.
• Makes saving feel effortless and stress-free.
• Helps you consistently reach your savings goals, month after month.
4. Keep Your Savings and Checking Together (Simplicity Wins)
Having your savings and checking accounts at the same financial institution can be beneficial and less stressful. When your money’s in one place, it’s easier to manage, easier to transfer, and easier to track. It’s like keeping all your favorite apps on your home screen, putting everything you need right where you can find it.
Why it’s smart:
• Easy transfers between accounts, allowing quicker adjustments.
• Simplified budgeting with everything clearly visible in one location.
• Better peace of mind knowing your money management is streamlined and simplified.
Ready to Make Your Savings Work Smarter?
If your money’s been feeling too comfortable (maybe even a little lazy), now’s the perfect time to give it a boost. Coastal Credit Union has two easy, smart ways to help you earn more:
High Yield Savings:
Enjoy significantly higher dividends with no monthly fees. Keep your money accessible while watching it grow faster, without lifting a finger.
Go Green Checking:
Get rewarded for your everyday spending and take advantage of exclusive perks like early direct deposit, discounts at local events, and contributions to community causes.
Making your money grow isn’t complicated. It’s about choosing smarter, simpler ways to bank that reward you and your goals. That’s banking better.
Ready to get started? Check out Coastal’s savings solutions today and watch your savings do more for you!
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Every day, 66 new people make Wake County their home — a pace of growth that places our region among the fastest-expanding in the nation. With this extraordinary influx comes a need for innovation, investment, and planning to ensure a thriving future.
Introducing Wake GPS: Growth + Prosperity Summit, coming to Embassy Suites Cary December 4. Hosted by Cary Magazine, Wake Living, and Main & Broad, in partnership with sister company S&A Communications, the landmark event will explore Wake County’s trajectory and the opportunities that lie ahead.
Building on more than two decades of storytelling, community partnerships, and celebrated events like the Women of Western Wake Forum, Wake GPS represents the next step in the media group’s commitment to fostering meaningful conversation about growth, progress, and prosperity across the region.
Mapping Wake County’s Economic Momentum
Progress is a hallmark of Wake County. Once a quiet pocket of central North Carolina, it has evolved into a hub for technology,
UNC Children’s Health Campus (conceptual rendering)
healthcare, research, and hospitality. Major employers, universities, and new housing developments continue to fuel the region’s economic vitality. Yet, as Wake County grows, so does the need to collaborate — to ensure the road ahead remains both prosperous and inclusive.
That’s where Wake GPS comes in. Designed as a forum for shared insight, the summit will feature four thought-provoking panel discussions, each focused on a cornerstone of the region’s economic landscape:
Mid-Atlantic Regional President at First Horizon Bank; Tyler Grodi, President & CEO of Coastal Credit Union; Jim Hansen, Regional President for the Eastern Carolinas & Southeast at PNC Bank; and Jonathan Taylor, Regional President- Triangle at Southern First Bank. Elias Dau, Branch Manager and Financial Advisor at Ameriprise Financial Services, LLC, will moderate this discussion on the future of finance.
Healthy Growth: Scaling Care for a Thriving Wake County
As the population rises and demand for healthcare intensifies, this panel explores how the region’s top providers and educators are scaling for the future. Speakers include Cameron Ebron, Executive Director of Real Estate and Facilities Planning at UNC Health; Donald Gintzig, President & CEO of WakeMed Health & Hospitals; Dr. Barbara Griffith, President of Duke Raleigh Hospital; and Dr. Scott Ralls, President of Wake Technical Community College. The discussion will be moderated by State Senator Gale Adcock, a longtime nurse practitioner and healthcare policy leader.
Destination Wake: How Hospitality & Tourism Fuel Economic Momentum
Tourism and hospitality continue to anchor the local economy — from restaurant innovation to destination marketing and sports tourism. Denny Edwards, President & CEO of the Greater Raleigh Convention & Visitors Bureau; Chef Scott Crawford, Owner of Crawford Hospitality; Brian Fork, CEO of Hurricanes Holdings, LLC; and Sheri Erhart, Chief Operating Officer of CMC Hotels, will explore how these industries attract visitors, support jobs, and strengthen community pride. The session will be moderated by Wit Tuttell, Executive Director of Visit North Carolina.
Future-Proof Finance: Navigating Risk, Regulation & Innovation in 2026
As Wake County’s economy diversifies, banks and credit unions are balancing innovation and stability while driving responsible growth. Panelists include Laura Bunn,
Blueprints for Growth: Real Estate Strategies for a Booming Wake County Development continues to reshape the Triangle’s business districts, corridors, and communities. Paul Zarian, Managing Director – Carolinas at Hines; Skip Hill, Senior Vice President & Raleigh Market Leader at Highwoods Properties; Jamie Schwedler, Partner at Parker Poe Adams & Bernstein LLP; and John Powell, President of Phoenix Commercial Properties, will discuss how thoughtful planning can guide sustainable progress. The conversation will be moderated by Moss Withers, CEO & Principal of Lee & Associates Raleigh-Durham-Wilmington.
Honoring Leadership and Legacy
Beyond the panels, the summit will celebrate those shaping the region’s progress. The 2025 Cary Magazine Movers & Shakers Awards Luncheon will honor outstanding local leaders whose vision and drive embody Wake County’s spirit of innovation.
To close the day, the Icon Awards Conversation will spotlight two individuals who have been on the front lines of Wake County’s transformation — visionaries whose leadership has paved the way for the community’s continued success.
More than a conference, Wake GPS: Growth + Prosperity Summit is a rallying point — a roadmap for sustainable progress. By uniting thought leaders from across key sectors, the summit aims to ensure that as Wake County grows, it grows wisely, inclusively, and with intention.
After all, the future isn’t a destination — it’s a direction. And together, Wake County is navigating the road to a stronger community.
Forget pairing with the plate — this holiday, pair with the personality.
WRITTEN BY MATT WEISS, THE WINE CENTRIC SHOW PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN
Vivid personalities tend to come on even stronger during holiday gatherings. Perhaps it’s an overbearing mother-in-law (not mine, of course), a kooky great aunt, or a know-it-all cousin. Whatever quirky personalities surround your holiday table, there’s a wine to satisfy every palate.
Instead of suggesting bottles based on a holiday menu, I’ve called on more than 20 years of training as a sommelier and wine professional to offer recommendations fitting the archetypes that gather around my table. I hope it helps you navigate your own holiday hosting (or at least makes you chuckle).
For the aunt who insists on ice in her pinot grigio
Don’t try to fight it — instead, grab a bottle of really tasty pinot grigio that will complement many dishes on the table and might even satisfy my cousin, who isn’t happy until she pours her beloved New Zealand sauvignon blanc. For this, I recommend Marco Felluga’s pinot grigio from Collio.
Here’s the thing: Plenty of wine pros turn their noses up at pinot grigio because it lacks a story or sense of place. Many bottles on the shelf are labeled Delle Venezie, which means the wine can come from three different regions in northern Italy. The result is often a generic, mass-produced beverage rather than a magic elixir that captures a vineyard in a glass.
Marco Felluga’s version is different. Grown on the hills of Collio, just 12 miles from the Adriatic Sea, this pinot grigio reflects its home. The minerals of the ancient soils and the touch of sea spray create a wine that feels rich on the palate, with zippy lemon and acacia flower notes. So if Aunt Mildred wants to put ice in hers, let her. This wine is more than just refreshing — it’s a bottle that will please almost everyone at your holiday table.
For the sister who just wants something sweet
The obvious choice is Moscato d’Asti, and I fully support that. But if you’d like to add a bit more sophistication with a wine that works across the holiday meal, allow me to suggest Johannes Selbach’s Riesling.
Riesling tends to spark strong feelings, but trust me — this isn’t just any Riesling. It’s Selbach-Oster Zeltinger Schlossberg Spätlese. Don’t let the label intimidate you: Zeltinger is the village, Schlossberg the vineyard site, and Spätlese simply means the grapes were picked a little later for extra ripeness.
Yes, it has some sweetness, but it’s balanced by ripping acidity. This comes from one of Germany’s most iconic winemakers, working in arguably the finest stretch of the Mosel Valley. The result is a wine that pairs with so much on the holiday table — whether you’re starting with spicy clams, carving a honey ham, or finishing with Mom’s apple pie.
In the glass, it teems with peach skin, dried apricot, honey, and that mineral snap that smells like rocks after fresh rain. Best of all, it’s relatively light in alcohol — so your guests can pour full glasses without tipping into overripe silliness.
For grandpa Napa
This guy scans the table, zeroes in on the Napa Cab, and ignores everything else. In a pinch, he’ll stoop to drinking whatever’s on hand, but he’ll whine about it — and, of course, grandpa never brings his own bottle. Typically, gramps wants the opulent, showy Napa Valley cabernet. He wants to chew on his wine — big alcohol, aggressive tannins, the whole package. And yes, there are great examples that won’t break the bank. Paul Hobbs’ CrossBarn Napa Valley Cabernet, for instance, has all the power with silky tannins to keep it polished.
But since you’re getting the sommelier’s guide here, let me show you something from inside the industry: A Tribute to Grace Dorigo Family Vineyards Grenache. This is the cool-kid wine, and it absolutely delivers. Instead of knocking you over with alcohol and tannin, it mesmerizes with flavors of dried blueberries, a dusting of sea salt, and a hint of white pepper.
This bottle will have grandpa Napa rethinking his choices — and bragging to the ol’bros about how he’s discovered the “next big thing.” Just do yourself a favor: Hide the extra bottles so you can enjoy some for yourself.
For the do-it-yourselfer
I have Italian cousins who proudly bring their homemade wine and insist everyone tries it — God bless ’em. Maybe you have a neighbor who brews beer at home or blends their own mushroom tea. Thanks, but I’ll be reaching for something from a real vineyard — an approachable Italian red that is affordable with enough complexity to keep it interesting. My pick: Dolcetto di Dogliani.
Dolcetto has long been the wallflower of Piedmont winemaking. In a region where Nebbiolo reigns supreme and Barbera has become, dare I say, trendy, Dolcetto is too often overlooked. Alternatives here could certainly be Montepulciano d’Abruzzo or a young Sangiovese from Tuscany. But the wine that first made me fall in love was Marziano Abbona’s Papa Celso Dolcetto di Dogliani. Sourced from a special hillside south of Barolo and stretching almost to Liguria, this is the richest expression of Dolcetto you’ll find.
An estate-grown wine that pays homage to Celso Abbona, who planted these vines more than 60 years ago, Papa Celso is medium-bodied with notes of dark cherry and subtle licorice. Pro tip: Drizzle a little white truffle oil over your holiday dish to make this pairing sing.
For
the discerning palate
My cousin can walk into a family gathering, scan a table, and despite knowing nothing about wine, zero in on the most expensive, special bottle. They then pour a glass filled nearly to the rim and applaud their fine taste.
Let’s honor that natural palate, but be kind to the wallet with the sommelier’s classic darling: Burgundy.
For this, I’ve got two options. First, Premier Cru Chablis (the second tier of Burgundy’s hierarchy). I especially love the fifth-generation team behind Bernard Defaix’s Vaillons.
If I were teaching a class, this is the bottle I’d use to show what classic Chablis should be — rich on the palate with golden apple flavors, lifted by the salinity and minerality of Chablis’ white chalky Kimmeridgian clay soils. And we can’t leave Burgundy without some red. For value, I turn to Savigny-lès-Beaune, like the bottling from Domaine Serrigny. Burgundy is the OG of pinot noir: think tart cherries and grilled portobello mushrooms. These wines aren’t cheap, but they’re timeless, versatile, and guaranteed to satisfy my cousin’s “elevated” palate — while pairing beautifully with a spread of holiday dishes.
For the wellness warrior
Local retailers, such as Taylor’s Wine Shop and Wine Authorities, will help you navigate the personalities and palates around your holiday table to find the perfect bottles for your gatherings. Remember: Choosing wine shouldn’t feel like a test; it should feel like part of the celebration.
Sober-curious guests still want in on the holiday toast, and many winemakers are leaning into nonalcoholic options. Germany, with its long history of nonalcoholic beer, is leading the charge. Wolffer Estate on Long Island has a German-born winemaker crafting the vibrant Spring in a Bottle Rosé. The grapes come from Rheinhessen, Germany — a blend of pinot noir, merlot, and St. Laurent. Organically grown, this wine is legit, bursting with notes of ripe peach, fresh pear, and a touch of dried flowers. The bottle is stunning (and the wellness warrior can even share it with the kids).
Matt Weiss is the host and creator of The Wine Centric Show. A family vacation through Southern France ignited his passion for wine. Matt nurtured that passion as a bartender in Los Angeles and New York City, then eventually earned certifications through the American Sommelier Association and the Court of Master Sommeliers, and worked for Michelin-starred restaurants and acclaimed NYC chefs. Drawn to North Carolina’s rising wine and culinary scene, Matt has established roots in Raleigh with his wife, two boys, and their dog. Today, he channels his passion for fine wine as a distributor serving the Triangle’s food and beverage community. winecentricshow.com | @winecentricshow
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Sunday Gravy, Every Day at FARINA
WRITTEN BY ANDREA RICHARDS
PHOTOGRAPHED BY JONATHAN FREDIN
Farina means flour in Italian, and from the get-go, the restaurant, located in North Raleigh’s Lafayette Village, shows it knows its identity: a cozy neighborhood joint for comforting Italian American fare. The menu features wood-fired pizza and pastas — bolognese, carbonara, baked rigatoni, and yes, a version of Sunday Gravy — all staples of Italian American cuisine, including, as well, iconic dishes like chicken and eggplant parmesan, chicken marsala, and shrimp scampi.
Farina covers all the classics, but it doesn’t stop there, adding in seasonal specials, which can stray into new fusion territories, like a “French Dip” sandwich made from short rib that feels like it comes straight from some heavenly Nonna’s pot roast. Served with au jus, the sandwich proved so popular that Ian Moore, Farina’s co-owner and operating partner, added it to the main menu.
like the menu, this place is very homemade — it’s far from perfect, and that’s what gives it character.”
When people go to Italy, they think the food is so good. The produce is why — the dishes are all basic, they’re just using stuff that’s in season.
— Ian Moore, Co-Owner
The specials, like the rest of the menu, rely largely on local purveyors. Ian visits Raleigh’s State Farmers Market twice a week for fresh produce and also has a host of vendors who secure locally sourced ingredients.
“When people go to Italy, they think the food is so good. The produce is why — the dishes are all basic, they’re just using stuff that’s in season,” says Ian, who credits Ronnie Moore’s Farm in Meadow for Farina’s fresh tomatoes.
It’s not just the tomatoes that are first-rate: Lacking the physical space for breadmaking, Farina’s bread all comes from Oxford’s Strong Arm Baking Company; the coffee and espresso come from Black & White Coffee in Wake Forest; and the shrimp in the scampi arrives fresh from the NC coast courtesy of Locals Seafood.
“I make it and print it out here, so whenever I want to make a change, it’s easy,” he says. “It allows flexibility, and
The quality of ingredients certainly shows in the final dishes, especially when prepared by deft hands of Farina’s
The flavorful Tuscan chicken pasta features blackened chicken, cherry tomato, spinach, sundried tomato cream, and rigatoni.
two chefs — brothers Martin and Manuel Bermudez — who work alongside Ian on menu development.
Don’t let the friendly vibe fool you: These dishes are well executed with thoughtful details that make a big difference. The antipasti are for sharing — with woodfired wings, grandma’s meatballs, even mussels. For me, the goat cheese stuffed peppers in a balsamic reduction stands out, the unexpected addition of golden raisins among the pine nuts and capers highlighting the sweetness of both peppers and basil. It’s a nice opening act along with an arugula salad that changes with the seasons. Adding shrimp, which are well seasoned, gives the salad even more textural contrasts and flavors and also transforms it into a proper lunch.
As far as entrees go, the eggplant parmesan is a dark horse — I’ve had too many oily, soggy, and bland parms in my lifetime to approach the dish with anything but caution. But at Farina, the paper-thin slices of eggplant remain crisp despite the mozzarella and marinara atop.
How is such a feat of sorcery (should we call it saucery?) even possible? Ian reveals the secret: beef tallow, which explains both the crispy, golden-brown texture and the flavor boost. “So it’s not vegetarian,” he offers apologetically, “but my sister’s a vegetarian and she eats it.”
Pescatarians can delight in the delicate seared salmon, served atop a sweet pea lemon risotto that I truly could not get enough of. Neither, it seems, can Ian, who confesses that he often scrapes off the bottom of the risotto pans for a snack. Similar to the eggplant parm, the shrimp scampi exceeded my expectations — it is light and lemony rather than the usual garlic-forward version, and this change allows the sweetness of the fresh shrimp to dominate. For those looking for a crème sauce, the Tuscan chicken pasta offers a flavor-packed one of sundried tomatoes, combined with blackened chicken for even more punch.
The eggplant parmesan retains its crispiness despite the addition of fresh mozzarella and marinara.
The varied menu features grilled Faroe Island salmon served atop herbed lemon and sweet pea risotto as well as other seafood dishes.
The goat cheese stuffed peppers make a bright and bold antipasti option.
TOP: Outdoor seating allows diners to enjoy the lively Lafayette Village environment.
BOTTOM: The restaurant includes regular and private dining, as well as bar and pizza bar seating options.
The wood-fired pizza topped with fresh stracciatella cheese is fantastic, and while there are other possibilities on the menu, I can’t imagine not ordering tiramisu for dessert. These feel like the type of things that go without saying — and by the time one arrives at dessert, you may feel significantly at home enough to offer the folks at the table next to you a forkful of whatever dessert you choose.
You certainly don’t have to, but it is a possibility — that’s how comfortable and full of good cheer the food and the atmosphere of Farina feel. This sentiment, I imagine, is only stronger during the monthly jazz night, when Ian invites a three-piece jazz band of students from Enloe to provide live music. Along with great food, Farina also features a full bar and a broad selection of Italian wines, so sip along to some smooth music.t
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All of Farina’s pizza offerings are top-notch.
The delicate tiramisu is the perfect way to end any meal.
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Kodagu Classic
from Jalwa Indian Bistro
As India’s largest coffee-producing region, Kodagu is known for rich, aromatic beans and hearty, spice-driven cuisine. The addition of coffee liqueur to a classic boulevardier creates a complex cocktail suited for slow sipping over conversation following a rich meal.
1 ounce rye whiskey
1 ounce Campari
1 ounce coffee liqueur
1 ounce sweet vermouth
Combine all ingredients in a mixing glass with ice. Stir well until chilled. Strain into a rocks glass over fresh ice. Garnish with an orange twist or coffee bean (optional).
Jalwa Indian Bistro prioritizes authenticity in every dish, using traditional recipes and techniques to bring you all the rich flavors and time-tested traditions of Indian cuisine.
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NOMU JAPANESE RICE LAGER from
Funguys Brewing
Originally created for a Korean fare purveyor in Durham of the same name, Nomu has become a mainstay on the Funguys lineup. It starts with a traditional lager base and adds flaked rice, resulting in a smooth, light-bodied beer with 4.6% ABV.
About Funguys Brewing
A mom-and-pop owned and operated brewery, Funguys is best known for flavor-forward ales and lagers, including fruity dessert beers. Weekly releases and a steady stream of one-off brews ensure there’s always something fresh to taste in the family- and dog-friendly Raleigh taproom. funguysbrewing.com
Sleep Apnea and Snoring
UNDERSTANDING THIS COMMON AND TREATABLE DISORDER
Snoring is often dismissed as a harmless annoyance, but for many people, it can signal a more serious condition: sleep apnea. Sleep apnea is a common sleep disorder in which breathing repeatedly stops and starts during sleep. This interruption not only leads to poor rest, but can also trigger a cascade of health problems if left untreated.
What is sleep apnea?
There are three main types of sleep apnea. The most common, obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), occurs when throat muscles relax too much, blocking airflow. Central sleep apnea happens when the brain fails to send proper signals to the muscles that control breathing. Complex sleep apnea syndrome is a combination of both. Regardless of type, sleep apnea results in frequent pauses in breathing that reduce oxygen levels in the body.
Snoring as a warning sign
Snoring is one of the most recognizable symptoms of sleep apnea, though not everyone who snores has the disorder. In cases of OSA, the airway becomes partially blocked, causing the tissues in the throat to vibrate and produce sound. Loud, chronic snoring accompanied by daytime sleepiness, gasping during sleep, or morning headaches should raise concern.
Effects of sleep apnea
The consequences of untreated sleep apnea are far-reaching. Interrupted sleep leads to excessive daytime fatigue, difficulty concentrating, and irritability. Over time, the disorder significantly raises the risk of high blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, type 2 diabetes, and obesity. According to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, untreated sleep apnea increases the risk of heart failure by 140% and stroke by 60%. Furthermore, research estimates that about
22 million Americans suffer from sleep apnea, with 80% of moderate to severe cases undiagnosed.
Diagnosing sleep apnea
Diagnosis typically begins with a sleep study. At Supremia Dentistry in Wake Forest, state-of-the-art technology means you can partake in an ambulatory sleep study from the comfort of your own home. It’s also more cost-effective than an overnight study at a sleep clinic. A home test uses a simple, lightweight, and portable monitor, along with sensors and a mask, to track your breathing, oxygen levels, and breathing effort. The results are then analyzed by a sleep specialist.
Treatment options
OSA is often treated by wearing a sleep machine, called a CPAP, which stands for continuous positive airway pressure. By wearing a face mask, this machine forces air through the nose and mouth to keep the throat from collapsing during sleep. You may also realize improvements simply by wearing an oral appliance. This looks similar
CONTRIBUTED BY DR.
EDMOND SUH, D.D.S.
to a mouthguard and is customized to keep your throat open by repositioning your jaw or tongue to prevent airway obstruction. This therapy is considered the gold standard for the treatment of mild to moderate OSA and produces great results.
Sleep apnea and snoring should never be ignored. What may seem like a nightly inconvenience can be a sign of a serious health condition. Early diagnosis and treatment may not only improve quality of sleep, but also protect long-term health. If you or a loved one struggles with loud snoring, chronic fatigue, or pauses in breathing during sleep, consulting with your dentist is a critical first step.
Edmond W. Suh, D.D.S., is the owner of Supremia Dentistry in Wake Forest. He is an international lecturer on advanced esthetic dental procedures, and leads an award-winning team that has completed extensive training and continuing education to implement the latest technologies and techniques. For more information or to make an appointment, call (919) 556-6200 or visit supremiadentistry.com.
In Search of Osmanthus
Osmanthus (Osmanthus spp.) is a sneaky plant. Why? Well, this evergreen woody ornamental can envelop the garden with an enchanting sweet aroma that is crazily elusive because it’s borne on flower panicles sometimes so small they can only be found after a dedicated hunt.
So, if you enjoy sending visitors in your garden on scent searches, below are two osmanthus options I have found at area nurseries to consider:
Fragrant Tea Olive (O. fragrans). As advertised, this is a very fragrant shrub. Plant descriptions say it can stretch up to 10 feet tall and about as wide, and I’m sure they do, but it could take a while — I’ve had two growing in amenable conditions for over 10 years, and both have only “stretched” to about 7 feet high.
Many fragrant tea olives have unremarkable sprinklings of teeny flowers, but their scent is pleasantly strong and long, with “long” having two meanings: (1) the sweet botanical perfume easily carries deep into the garden, well beyond its points of origin; and (2) the blossoms have a bloomfest in the fall, but it can linger. Some years, I have caught enjoyable yet fleeting whiffs even in late winter.
If balancing an obvious, pleasing scent with equal visual pop is necessary to help soothe your flowery feng shui, you’re in luck with the cultivar ‘Fudingzhu.’ I’ve seen this sassy plant (also known as ‘Pearls on Buddha’s Head’) at local garden centers flaunting large, bodacious clusters of fragrant white flowers that can’t be missed in either scent or sight.
False Holly (O. heterophyllus). This is a doubly sneaky osmanthus. While its minute flowers play their typical hide-and-seek-andsniff game with gardeners, the plant covers
‘Fudingzhu’ osmanthus has large, bodacious bloom clusters.
itself with new leaves that can be pointed like the spiny foliage of American or English holly, so misidentification is a common faux pas. Variegated versions of false holly are available, and one of the more popular (meaning easier to find) cultivars is the sassy ‘Goshiki.’ In Japanese, its name translates into “five colors,” and there is truth to this advertising with emerging new leaves showing off splotched patterns of soft cream, buttery yellow, light green, dark green, and pleasing pink. The pink fades as its foliage matures, but the beauty of ‘Goshiki’ remains, making it a must-have holly — er, osmanthus for the landscape.t
L.A. Jackson is the former editor of Carolina Gardener Magazine. Want to ask L.A. a question about your garden? Contact him by email at lajackson1@gmail.com.
Timely Tip
Written and
Autumn is a good time to plant woody ornamentals, including, of course, osmanthus. Although this scent-sational attentiongetter is adaptable to many soil types, it will suffer in sites that drain poorly. Once established, osmanthus is fairly drought tolerant. Give it all the morning sun you possibly can, but try to site it in an area that has some mid-afternoon summer shade. This is especially important for fancy variegated cultivars such as ‘Goshiki,’ which could experience color fade under the intense summer sun. Finally, don’t fear the deer — osmanthus is not one of Bambi’s favorite munchies.
To Do in the Garden
NOVEMBER
• Have squirrels been enjoying digging in your newly planted, spring-blooming bulb beds? Spread chicken wire over the growing grounds to curb their burrowing activities and then, for cosmetic purposes, add a light covering of mulch.
• If culinary helpers such as oregano, thyme, dill, chives, rosemary, and basil are still growing strong in the garden, now is a good time to make bottles of herb vinegar, which, by the way, can make great holiday gifts!
by L.A. Jackson
DECEMBER
• Had problems with leaf rollers romping in and ripping up your cannas this year? Cut back any remaining leaves and stalks, then trash them because that is where these dastardly pests like to overwinter until next spring.
• Plants are, of course, great gifts to give your gardening friends, but for something different that I am sure will also be appreciated, check with local garden centers or landscape companies to see if they sell certificates for such services as mulch delivery and spreading, tilling, pruning, lawn maintenance, or irrigation system installation.
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The variegated beauty of ‘Goshiki’ osmanthus
happenings
For the 35th year in a row, the Town of Wake Forest has received the Certificate of Achievement for Excellence in Financial Reporting from the Government Finance Officers Association for its Annual Comprehensive Financial Report for the period ending June 30, 2024. The award recognizes excellence in governmental accounting and financial reporting.
Finance Director Samantha Sanchez earned an Award of Financial Reporting Achievement for leading the team that prepared the report, which promotes transparency and accountability by providing detailed insight into the Town’s financial position and operations.
Wake Forest also received the 2025 NC Chapter of the American Planning Association’s Marvin Collins Awards for the Wake Forest Downtown Plan, Go Wake Forest, and South Main Street Corridor Study. Members of the Wake Forest Planning Department accepted the award at the APA-NC Conference in Charlotte on October 15. wakeforestnc.gov
The City of Raleigh Parks, Recreation and Cultural Resources Department has earned national accreditation from the Commission for Accreditation of Park and Recreation Agencies (CAPRA) and the National Recreation and Park Association — the highest honor a park and recreation organization can achieve. The multi-year CAPRA accreditation process includes a thorough self-assessment, peer review by experienced professionals, and an onsite evaluation. This distinction places Raleigh Parks among a select group of agencies nationwide recognized for excellence in operations, planning, community engagement, and service delivery.
“This accreditation is a testament to the dedication of our staff, the support of our community, and the vision of our City leadership,” says Stephen Bentley, Director of Parks, Recreation and Cultural Resources. “It affirms that Raleigh Parks is delivering high-quality programs, services, and facilities that enhance the quality of life for all residents.”
Introducing Wake GPS: Growth + Prosperity Summit, coming to Embassy Suites Cary December 4. Hosted by Cary Magazine, Wake Living, and Main & Broad, in partnership with parent company S&A Communications, the landmark event will explore Wake County’s trajectory and the opportunities that lie ahead.
The summit will include four thoughtprovoking panel discussions with leaders from the commercial real estate, banking & finance, healthcare, and hospitality industries; a Cary Magazine Movers & Shakers Awards Luncheon; and the presentation of Icon Awards to two individuals whose leadership has paved the way for Wake County’s continued success. wakegps.com
Raleigh hosted the second annual Engage Raleigh Expo on September 13, welcoming 90 exhibitors and nearly 300 attendees. Workshops included topics from community preparedness and storytelling to digital literacy and intergenerational relationships. Dr. Valencia Hicks-Harris, executive director of Empower All, Inc., delivered a keynote address emphasizing the value of intergenerational connections, shared experiences, and building stronger communities.
The Bioenergy Recovery Project launched with a ribbon cutting ceremony at the Neuse River Resource Recovery Center in October. Raleigh will become the first city in North Carolina to power its bus fleet with renewable natural gas derived from its own wastewater. New technology allows biosolids to be converted to natural gas, cutting the city’s biosolid waste in half. The process also yields highquality soil conditioner. The energy derived will power more than 70 GoRaleigh buses.
“This project proves that we don’t have to choose between protecting our planet and operating efficiently,” says Raleigh Water Director Whit Wheeler. “We’re taking something that used to be waste and turning it into clean energy that will fuel our city for years to come.”
After six years of service, Raleigh Police K-9 Hugo, a Belgian Malinois trained in patrol and explosive detection, has retired. Adopted by the department in 2019 and partnered with Senior Officer David Green, Hugo played a key role in integrating K-9 operations with special enforcement teams and assisted in tactical missions alongside the FBI, US Marshals, and other agencies.
Honored with multiple commendations, Hugo also provided advanced security for major events including the US Open, NC State Fair, and Carolina Hurricanes games. Now 10 years old, he’ll spend retirement with Officer Green following a City Council resolution transferring his ownership.
The Wake Forest Public Art Commission held a free Community Celebration of the Arts on October 11 at the Wake Forest Renaissance Centre. The event included activities for all ages, an art show in the Arts Annex, caricatures from Cartoon Jordan, and a mini market with local artists. Multiinstrumentalist, storyteller, and visual artist Luke Vandergriff performed a unique mix of live looping, spoken word, and global rhythms using instruments crafted from repurposed materials.
The Renaissance Hotel and Johnson Distributing will host Cork and Canvas, an art and wine event, on November 12 from 6–8 p.m. Attendees will enjoy an exhibit with works by Ty Swint and Lois Sprague, plus a wine tasting provided by Johnson Distributing and hors d’oeuvres by the chefs at the Renaissance Hotel. The newly renovated hotel is located at 4100 Main at North Hills St. in Raleigh.
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