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Mother’s
Day Gift Ideas
The most important day in the month of May has to be Mother’s Day! If you are looking for a special, unique gift that says “I Love You,” here are some ideas to inspire you.
Dear Mommy Book
Bring a magical touch to Mother’s Day with this Personalized Mother’s Day Book—a story where your mom is the star of an enchanting adventure. Every book is individually crafted to celebrate the love between a child and their mother. The narrative unfolds with delightful characters and heartwarming scenes that capture the essence of your most cher ished moments together. This timeless keepsake not only honors all the ways she makes your life magical but also creates new memories that will be treasured for years to come. ($39.95, Etsy, MyKidsDream)
First Mother’s Day Crystal Globe
Celebrate the precious milestone of a first Mother’s Day with this Personalized Crystal Globe LED Night Light. This heartfelt piece features a beautifully engraved illustration of a mother holding her baby, along with a loving message, name, and year—capturing the warmth and joy of becoming a mom for the very first time. A perfect keepsake to honor this unforgettable chapter, bringing love and light into any space. ($15.19, Etsy, CaDoKoShop)
Personalized Glass Tulip Flower Pot
Show your sincere gratitude for Mom with this exquisite handmade glass tulip planter! A thoughtfully curated gift, designed exclusively for the greatest mother in your life. This timeless flower features a classic, everlasting tulip design available in 5 stunning colors. Personalize the ceramic pot with a sweet name, mean ingful date, or warm loving message—creating a one-of-a-kind keepsake Mom will treasure forever. ($12.00, Etsy, AixDecoration12PH)
Just For Grandma
Don’t forget Grandma this Mother’s Day. If you have a Nana who loves to garden, this personalized garden stone will show her how much she is loved and appreciated. Include up to 7 flowers on the stone with the names of each of her grandchildren. Place it among flowers, near pathways, or anywhere special to celebrate family, love, and beauty. ($23.90, Etsy, MiraGiftsWorld)
SHELLEBRATE WORLD TURTLE DAY®️ ON MAY 23
Turtles have survived 220 million years, outlasting dinosaurs, ice ages, and mass extinctions. Today, conservationists warn their next 50 years may be their most uncertain. On May 23, American Tortoise Rescue (ATR) will shellebrate the 26th annual World Turtle Day®, a global movement mobilizing people to learn about, protect, and advocate for turtles and tortoises and their disappearing habitats.
It is estimated that 61 percent of turtle species are threatened or already extinct. Smuggling, the exotic food and cruel pet trades, habitat destruction, and climate change continue to push these ancient animals toward the brink. Biologists warn that without significant action, turtle and tortoise populations could decline dramatically within decades.
“Turtles survived the dinosaurs. It would be a tragedy if they couldn’t survive us,” said Susan Tellem, co-founder of American Tortoise Rescue. “World Turtle Day turns admiration into action and honors the ancient resilience of turtles and tortoises, as well as our passionate community of people around the world working to ensure their continued existence,” says Tellem.
Founded in 1990 by Tellem and her husband, Marshall Thompson, ATR launched World Turtle Day in 2000 to raise global awareness about turtle and tortoise conservation.
The 2026 observance marks a new chapter for the organization. ATR is unveiling a redesigned World Turtle Day website, expanded free educational resources and official merchandise, and a renewed strategy focused on scaling the global reach of the annual event. As part of this transition, ATR’s longtime sanctuary residents, including its largest tortoises and nearly 100 additional turtles and tortoises, have been relocated to Turtle and Tortoise Rescue of Arroyo Grande (TTRAG), a volunteer-led sanctuary providing expanded space and lifelong care.
“World Turtle Day supporters are encouraged to participate on and leading up to May 23 by hosting events, posting “shellfies” on social media, and advocating for stronger protections. Our new website has free resources, kid-friendly activities, event listings, swag, and everything else needed to make this year’s World Turtle Day the best one yet,” says Tellem.
For more information, visit www.worldturtleday.org or email worldturtleday@tortoise.com.
The Mother’s Day Upgrade Guide: Elevate the Basics She Uses Every Day
Moms have a special talent for putting everyone else first. She makes sure the kids have the best snacks, the coziest blankets, and the nicest gifts, while she’s over here using the same chipped coffee mug from five years ago. Sound familiar? This Mother’s Day, it’s time for an upgrade.
Instead of another candle or bouquet that fades in a few days, give her something she’ll actually use and enjoy, day after day. From morning coffee to nighttime relaxation, these elevated essentials will remind her just how much she’s loved, every single moment of her busy day.
A Great Start: Elevate Her Morning Routine
Mornings are tough, but a great cup of coffee or tea can make all the difference. Instead of the same old
rushed routine, upgrade her first sip of the day with something truly special.
Steeped Coffee Starter Kit—No fancy machine? No problem. These single-serve coffee bags steep like tea, making it easy to enjoy fresh, delicious coffee anywhere, whether she’s rushing out the door or savoring a quiet moment before the chaos begins.
Tea Forté—If she’s more of a tea person, Tea Forté’s beautiful infuser mugs and premium blends turn an everyday habit into a calming ritual. The Fiore Steeping Cup is both gorgeous and practical—perfect for the mom who deserves a little luxury with her tea.
Heavenly Tea Leaves—With so many flavors to explore, Heavenly Tea Leaves’ variety packs let her switch things up depending on her mood. Whether she’s craving a bold black tea or a soothing herbal blend, she’ll have the perfect pick for any moment.
A Great Day: Little Luxuries That Make A Big Difference
From carpool lines to work meetings to endless to-do lists, moms are always on the move. These small-but-mighty upgrades will make her day feel a little more special.
The Only Bean Crunchy Snacks Healthy, crunchy, and packed with protein, these roasted edamame beans are the perfect snack to toss in her bag. Whether she’s between errands or sitting on the sidelines at soccer practice, she’ll have a satisfying bite on hand.
Alter Eco Chocolates—Every mom needs a mid-day pick-me-up, and these organic, fair-trade chocolates are a delicious way to treat herself without the guilt. Dark, smooth, and oh-sosatisfying.
Freshcut Paper Flowers—Real flowers are lovely, but they don’t last. These stunning pop-up bouquets stay beautiful forever, adding a bright, cheerful touch to her space without the hassle of watering or wilting petals.
Woobles Crochet Kits
Sometimes, moms just need a little creative escape. These adorable crochet kits are easy, fun, and super relaxing—whether she’s stitching solo or making memories with the kids.
FlipBelt—Whether she’s out for a jog, running errands, or just needs a
hands-free way to carry essentials, the FlipBelt is a game-changer. It keeps keys, cards, and even a phone secure without bouncing or feeling bulky— perfect for busy moms on the move.
A Great Night: Relaxation And Rest, Upgraded
After a long day, she deserves some serious wind-down time. These thoughtful upgrades will help her relax, recharge, and get the restful sleep she needs.
Alpha Skin & Bath Products—A shower or skincare routine can be the ultimate form of self-care, especially with Alpha Skin’s ultra-hydrating body bundle. Soft, smooth skin? Yes, please.
Vant Pillows—Sleep is one of the best gifts you can give a mom. Upgrade her pillow to a Vant VirtuDOWN, and she’ll wake up feeling truly refreshed.
Because let’s be honest—she deserves the best sleep in the house.
Because She Deserves It— Every Single Day
Mother’s Day isn’t just about one special moment—it’s about celebrating everything she does, day in and day out. By upgrading the little things she uses every day, you’re giving her more than just gifts—you’re giving her comfort, joy, and a reminder that she’s loved and appreciated. Because the best gifts aren’t just for Mother’s Day—they make her feel special all year long.
Rebecca Hastings is a former elementary teacher who traded the classroom for writing when she stayed home with her three children. Passionate about authenticity, faith, and family, you can find her at RebeccaHastings.net and on Amazon. In real life, she can often be found typing words, driving her kids places, or wherever there is chocolate.
Food, fun and more…it’s what I do.
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HMother’s Day Edition Parents’ Night Out!
“...last year’s
“Breakfast at Tiffany’s” themed wine pairing brunch was unforgettable.”
appy May, and welcome to another Parents’ Night Out— this time, the Mother’s Day edition! Usually, I share everything date night with all of you lovely parents out there, but for this edition, I wanted to pause and showcase the mothers.
With Mother’s Day right around the corner, I wanted to share some of my favorite Mother’s Day experiences I’ve had over the years. Some of us use Mother’s Day to celebrate with our own mothers, our sisters, and the other mothers in our lives,
by Tasha Wagner
while others choose to celebrate with their children. Either way, I’ve got some fun suggestions for you!
Whatever your Mother’s Day looks like, I hope I can bring you some new and exciting ideas for this year and many years to come.
Celebrating with the kids can be such a beautiful experience. If you have school-age children, they’re always working on special projects for Mother’s Day. I remember being so excited on Mother’s Day morning because I knew how excited they were to give me something they had worked so hard on in their classrooms. The joy on their little faces as I gazed upon their work of art is and will always be priceless.
My husband and I would get dressed up, get the kids dressed to the nines, and head out for a Mother’s Day brunch. There are so many brunch options in this city that always deliver when it comes to both food and atmosphere. If you’re lucky enough to get a same-day reservation, I highly suggest The Terrace at Delaware Park. Located in the historic Marcy Casino, The Terrace offers breathtaking views of Delaware Park and Hoyt Lake.
The food here is absolutely spectacular. I would consider it more of a hearty brunch spot, with nods to Buffalo classics like Beef on Weck hash and elevated takes on favorites like chicken and waffles—served with a red velvet waffle. Sigh. Definitely wear something with a stretchy waistband, LOL. By May, Buffalo is usually starting to feel like spring, so grab a seat outside if you can and enjoy the view. They also feature a jazz band on Sundays, making it an experience the whole family can enjoy— even the kiddos!
If you plan ahead, many local establishments offer curated brunch buffets, which are always a hit with little ones. Watching their eyes light up as they take in all the options is half the fun. We always loved a good buffet when our kids were younger because there was truly something for everyone—no picky eater stress required.
Two of our favorite spots for Mother’s Day brunch were always Samuel’s Grand Manor and Banchetti’s. Both are longstanding staples in the Buffalo area—places you can trust to deliver a consistently great experience.
Prefer to stay in? Making breakfast at home—or letting the kids make you breakfast in bed—is always a sweet and memorable option. Just letting them come up with a breakfast they can create, with some supervision depending on age, is so fun! Sometimes it’s impressive and sometimes it’s inedible, but the memories made are irreplaceable.
Another activity we’ve loved over the years is visiting a farm. For years, Becker Farms has been considered an old family friend for our family for all kinds of holidays and celebrations. From Mother’s Day to Halloween, they always have something exciting going on. Be sure to check their website, as they’ve expanded so much over the years and offer a wide variety of experiences—even a winery and brewery, Vizcarra Vineyards and Becker Brewing Co. They will be hosting Mother’s Day Brunch on Saturday, May 9th and Sunday, May 10th, which includes a free hayride and free wine and fudge tastings for Moms. They will also be offering a lunch seating later in the day on Sunday, May 10th. I highly recommend going with your kids.
Another favorite is Kelkenberg Farm in Clarence. It’s close by and offers that quintessential farm experience—animals to pet, pony rides, and more. It’s such a fun way to celebrate motherhood through your children’s eyes while embracing the true spirit and meaning of the day.
If Mother’s Day is your day to be “off duty,” so to speak— no judgment whatsoever—I personally love spending it with my sisters. It’s one day where we can just be women off the clock. If you’re reading this magazine, I’m pretty sure you’re already a hands-on, amazing mother. You don’t need permission to deserve a break—but Mother’s Day is the perfect day to take one, LOL.
I have shared so many wonderful Mother’s Day experiences with the women in my family, but one that stood out was at the Asa Ransom House. I truly cannot speak highly enough about their high tea experience. It’s the perfect excuse to get dressed up, surround yourself with women who inspire and uplift you, and enjoy a beautiful, elegant afternoon—pinkies up and all.
Fun fact: what we call “high tea” today isn’t actually what high tea originally was. Historically, high tea was a hearty, working-class meal—think meat and potatoes—served at high tables after a long day of work. What we enjoy today is actually closer to “afternoon tea,” complete with dainty finger sandwiches, a variety of teas, and desserts like petit fours. If this is your thing, I highly recommend the Asa Ransom House. Another fantastic option, if you don’t mind the drive, is high tea at The Drawing Room, located inside the Prince of Wales Hotel in Niagara-on-the-Lake. As you know, I can’t get enough of Niagara-on-the-Lake, LOL.
Speaking of Niagara-on-the-Lake, keep an eye out for events hosted by AMO Estate Wines as well. They host a Moth-
er’s Day event each year, and last year’s “Breakfast at Tiffany’s” themed wine pairing brunch was unforgettable. My family and I went all out—channeling Audrey Hepburn and fully embracing the glam. It was truly one of my favorite Mother’s Day experiences to date.
However you choose to celebrate Mother’s Day, I hope this gives you inspiration!
To all the mothers out there: I hope you feel seen, loved, and appreciated. It may not feel like it every day—because motherhood is the hardest job in the world, with zero pay and no days off—but I hope you feel the love and joy you deserve not just on Mother’s Day, but every day.
Being a mother isn’t easy, but it is one of life’s greatest joys. I hope you take the time to celebrate yourself and honor the strong woman you are. Whether you spend the day with your children or take some well-deserved time for yourself, I give you full permission to be off duty and truly enjoy it.
Happy Mother’s Day
Tasha Wagner is a Buffalo born and raised, recent empty nester, known for her connections in the local foodie scene. Tasha is fully equipped to be your personal date night concierge.
Compassion CORNER
Missing My Mom: Mother’s Day and Grief
Mother’s Day can be one of the most emotionally complicated days of the year for those who have lost a mother. While the world fills with flowers, cards, social media posts, and celebration, grief can quietly (or loudly) resurface—bringing sadness, longing, anger, or even guilt. For both adults and children, this day can feel like a painful reminder of what’s missing. But it can also become a space for remembrance, connection, and gentle healing.
Grief doesn’t follow a timeline, and holidays often intensify it. Mother’s Day can bring up memories and create a sense of isolation—especially when it seems like everyone else is celebrating.
You might notice yourself feeling disconnected or withdrawn, experiencing unexpected memories or dreams, or having sudden waves of sadness or pain. It’s normal
and expected to experience mixed emotions when you are grieving—including opposing feelings like gratitude and resentment. There is no right or wrong way to feel when it comes to grief; however you are feeling is valid.
SUPPORTING YOURSELF THROUGH THE DAY
Taking care of yourself on Mother’s Day is not selfish— it’s essential. Consider giving yourself permission to experience the day in whatever way feels most manageable. We’ve compiled some ideas below to help you determine what might work best for you.
1. Set your expectations intentionally
You don’t have to celebrate in traditional ways. Decide ahead of time what you need—whether that’s quiet, connection, or distraction.
2. Create a personal ritual
Lighting a candle, looking through photos, cooking your mom’s favorite meal, or writing her a letter can help transform grief into remembrance.
3. Stay connected (or take space)
Reach out to someone who understands, or limit social media if it feels overwhelming. Both are valid choices.
4. Allow all emotions
You might feel sadness, anger, numbness, or even moments of peace or joy. None of these feelings cancel out your love.
5. Practice gentle self-care
Simple things—rest, a walk, journaling, or even just breathing intentionally—can help regulate emotions during a difficult day.
SUPPORTING CHILDREN WHO HAVE LOST A MOM
Children experience grief differently depending on their age and personality. Mother’s Day can be confusing and painful for them, especially if they see peers celebrating.
1. Be honest, but age-appropriate
Use clear, simple language. Avoid euphemisms that might confuse younger children. Let them ask questions, and answer them honestly—even if the answer is “I don’t know.”
2. Normalize their feelings
Let children know it’s okay to feel sad, angry, or even not feel much at all. There’s no “right” way to grieve.
3. Invite remembrance
Encourage them to draw pictures, write notes, or share memories about their mom. This helps keep the connection alive.
4. Give them choices
Some kids may want to mark the day, while others may want to treat it like any other day. Offer options without pressure.
5. Watch for behavioral changes
Grief in children can show up as irritability, withdrawal, or changes in sleep and appetite. These are often expressions of emotion they can’t fully articulate.
COMMUNITY SUPPORT: YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE
For those navigating the loss of a mother, local peer support can make a meaningful difference. WNY Compassion Connection offers free programs for grieving children, families, and adults in Western New York, providing a safe space to connect with others who understand loss. Their parent loss group is open to anyone 18 years of age or older, and is held on the 2nd Tuesday of each month from 6:00-7:30pm. This group is designed to facilitate support, community, compassion, and conversation among those who have experienced a similar loss.
They also offer a structured 7-week introductory program where families can share their stories, build coping skills, and connect with peers, followed by ongoing support groups for continued community. Children are supported in age-specific groups—from young children to teens—through activities like art, play, and guided conversation, helping them process grief in ways that feel natural and safe.
A GENTLE REMINDER
While Mother’s Day may never feel the same, it can evolve into something meaningful in its own way. Some families choose to honor their mom by doing something she loved, volunteer or perform acts of kindness in her memory, share stories together, or start a new tradition that reflects both loss and love.
Grief is a reflection of love. The pain you feel on Mother’s Day exists because of the bond you shared— and that bond doesn’t disappear. It changes, but it remains part of you. The goal isn’t to avoid the feelings of grief and “get through” the day perfectly. It’s simply to move through it with compassion, honesty, and care. And if all you do is make it through the day—that is more than enough.
WNY Compassion Connection: A Center for Grieving Children and Families is an expanded service of the nonprofit P.U.N.T. Pediatric Cancer Collaborative bereavement program for any origin of loss. WNYCC’s mission is to help children and adults navigate their journey to healing and resilience following a loss to death through the power of peer support and grief education.
Fun Ways to Celebrate Your Teacher During Teacher Appreciation Week
When was the last time you thanked a teacher?
So often we go about life, grateful for their hard work but never really stop to thank them for the difference they make in our lives. From teaching kids to read and navigate numbers, to how to work in a group and practice good manners, teachers dedicate their lives to helping you raise your children.
Teachers educate, comfort, listen, and even protect kids every day. While every day is a good opportunity to say thank you, Teacher Appreciation Week offers a focused time to shower teachers with gratitude.
If you work with other parents from the class or the school, you can do something really special. Here are some fun and meaningful ways to celebrate the teachers in your child’s life.
LEND A HAND
Teachers are masters of multitasking. With so much on their plate, you can show appreciation by lending a hand. Offer to do things like make copies or organize the classroom library. Come in one afternoon and redecorate their seasonal bulletin board or organize and refresh their supplies. Practical help goes a long way toward making a teacher feel appreciated.
SET UP A SNACK TABLE
Break periods and lunchtime often get filled with meetings, helping students, or other work. Teachers can easily have a nourishing and tasty snack by creating a grab-and-go snack table. Ask parents to donate packaged snacks and drinks that teachers can take on the run. Great ideas are Kind bars, fancy seltzers, candy, and smoothies.
GET GIFTS THEY ACTUALLY WANT
Teachers don’t need more generic mugs. Instead, send out a survey asking each teacher about their favorite things. Great ideas include favorite candy, colors, restaurants, coffee orders, and authors. Use this information to get teachers things you know they will love.
MAKE THEM SUMMER READY
Many teachers look forward to summer break as much as the kids do. Help them get summer ready with a few things to encourage relaxation and fun in the summer sun. A beach bag or tote with a towel, book or magazines, sunscreen, and snacks will make them pool ready.
GIVE THEM DINNER TO GO
Teachers spend all day caring for and teaching kids, and many of them are tired at the end of the day. Give them a break by making dinners they can take home when they leave. Parents and local restaurants can donate meals that teachers can grab at the end of the day. Great ideas include pasta and salad, soup and bread, meatballs and hard rolls, burritos, and tortilla chips. And don’t forget dessert!
CREATE DAILY THEMES
To celebrate for the whole week, give each day a different theme with something fun for the teachers to do, receive, or eat. Some creative and fun ideas are:
Popcorn Day: Set up a popcorn table in the teacher’s room so they can grab some popcorn and a soda for a fun snack.
Book/Magazine Day: Bring around a cart with books and magazines for each teacher to choose from. See if a local bookstore will donate books and magazines or ask families to donate.
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—by Rebecca Hastings
PICK OF THE LITERATURE
— by Dr. Donna Phillips
It is finally Spring! It is the season of rapid growth, expansion, new life, and new possibilities! It is time to make plans for the upcoming summer and how you will spend the time of longer days, warmer weather, vacations, and outdoor activities with family and friends. While those things may be only in the planning stages, you can begin to enjoy this time of year by just going outdoors. And there is no better place to go than a park. It might just be a small park down the street or a county, state, or national park. All of them offer things to see and do. But most of all they offer fresh air, woods, lawns and fields, open space, often water, and certainly wildlife. All of these are the perfect ingredients to help create calm, creativity, and even a sense of happiness and joy. Even short, daily exposure, such as a 20-minute walk in a park, is sufficient to provide these health benefits. According to ULCA Health the benefits are significant:
Mental Health Boost: Spending time in green spaces reduces anxiety, depression, and anger while promoting calmness and increasing overall life satisfaction. Even 5 minutes can improve mood and self-esteem.
Physical Health Improvements:
Regular time outdoors reduces inflammation, lowers blood pressure, and improves immune function. It also provides essential Vitamin D, which is vital for immune function and bone health.
Better Sleep & Energy: Exposure to natural sunlight, particularly in the morning, helps regulate your circadian rhythm, leading to better sleep quality and increased daytime alertness.
Improved Cognitive Function:
Nature helps recharge focus and attention, reducing mental fatigue and increasing creativity. It is particularly beneficial for improving memory and boosting cognitive control.
Active Lifestyle: Outdoor environments encourage physical activity like walking, biking, or gardening, which helps with weight management and reduces the risk of chronic diseases.
Better Vision in Children: Time outdoors can reduce the risk of myopia (nearsightedness) in children.
To get your youngest ready for your spring and for the adventure to come, consider Walden: A Nature Primer (Gibbs Smith, Kaysville, 2026, $11.99) written by Jennifer Adams and illustrated by Alison Oliver. The board book is meant for little hands and a guided conversation. While the illustrations are simple and the text limited, it is just enough to take us on an adventure walk through the forest. As we explore the woods and shore of Walden Pond, we are introduced to what Ralph Waldo
Emerson experienced in 1845. We meet the trees by looking at their leaves. We meet the plants that grow in and near the water. We meet the many berries that grow there. We meet the birds of the woods and the water. We meet the animals of the woods and the fields. We meet the many insects that live there. We meet the fish that live in the pond and the vegetables that grow in the garden. These are many of the things we can look for as we explore nature around us. Along the way, we learn some of the simple observations that Emerson made while he spent time at Walden Pond. If you have children who are learning the alphabet and love the outdoors, H is for Hiking (Gibbs Smith, Kaysville, $12.99) by Greg Paprocki is sure to be a hit. Letter by letter we go through the alphabet, connecting words to the letters and in the process have a great opportunity to create a story that goes along with them. We start with “A is for animal tracks” as animals watch a family walking through the words. Then we go to “B is for boots” and see an old codger resting in his camp and emptying his boot and so on through the alphabet. Each picture is filled with details and hidden information that will lend themselves to discussion and could make very interesting story. This can be done one at a time or they can be strung together to make a whole story. Not only is this fun but it also provides opportunities to provide new word knowledge, and it continued on page 39
DEAR TEACHER
– by Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts
THE TRANSITION FROM MIDDLE SCHOOL TO HIGH SCHOOL
Parents: If your children are moving from middle school to high school next fall, it is going to be a major turning point for them. They may be switching to a much bigger school with a lot of new students, facing increased academic expectations, handling peer pressure, having to choose the right extracurricular activities, as well as managing increased responsibilities. And if this is not enough, they now must figure out dating, the appropriate clothing to wear, and definitely part of this list is handling their online presence.
All of these new stresses can be reduced. One of the simplest ways is by having your children talk to high schoolers who have recently made the move from middle school. They should ask them what they did to make the transition easy for themselves as well as ask them what they should avoid doing. There are also helpful books that detail how to handle this transition. One is Sleeping Freshman Never Lie by David Luber.
One of the best things that middle schoolers can do to make this transition smoother is to become involved in extracurricular activities in high school, especially if they are moving to a much bigger school. Activities can give them a niche where they can find students with similar interests as well as make new friends. One caution: it is important that they don’t go overboard and involve themselves in too many activities. Some activities like sports and musical groups require so much time that it is probably a good idea to just concentrate on one activity or possibly two. Another thing that incoming freshmen need to be
aware of is that many activities start before the first day of school. And if they wish to participate in them, they will need to be involved in them early on. A call to the school early in the summer will give them this information.
Schools are aware that the transition to high school is a big move. For this reason, many will schedule an orientation session either sometime soon or before the new year begins. This will give the students a good picture of the physical plant so they will have an idea of where classrooms, lockers, the library, school offices, and gym are located—making a more comfortable first day at the new school. Orientation meetings are also likely to have discussions of classes freshman can or must take as well as some basic rules regarding behavior, absences, and disciplinary practices. Attending orientation meetings is a must as it is a helpful preview of what to expect as a freshman. And if a meeting is offered for parents, they will find it extremely wise to attend to get a bird’s eye view of what their children’s high school offers to and expects of their students.
While classes a freshman will take are typically chosen with the help of a counselor, it is good for both students and their parents to have a discussion of possibilities before the meeting with a counselor. One thing that needs to be done is to find out what courses are required for admission to colleges they might attend. Then a four-year plan of courses can be sketched out to meet these requirements. The same holds true for those students who may wish to attend a technical or professional school.
Parents, here is a consideration that you might not have considered: how ready academically are your children to handle the more difficult content load they will face in high school? If children have struggled academically, parents will need to get in place the appropriate aids that they need. And you might consider having struggling children attend a summer school or learning center program.
Over the summer, parents and children need to have meaningful discussions and come to mutually satisfactory agreements on how a variety of things will be handled to avoid problems during the freshman year. This includes such things as transportation to and from school, the choice of appropriate internet websites and what will be posted on them, the handling of homework, dating rules, and bedtimes. And parents, do be sure to tell your children how excited you are about the new adventures in store for them.
Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher.com and visit the dearteacher.com website to learn more about helping their children succeed in school.
—by Rebecca Hastings
5 Ways to Prepare for Camp
Summer camp may be months away, but you and your child should start getting ready now. It’s way too early to pack, but summer camp is about more than what you put in the duffle bag or pack for lunch. Kids need to know what to expect and how to feel ready when summer arrives, and so do you.
Instead of waiting until the last excited (and maybe nervous) hours before camp, work through these 5 things over the coming months to ensure you and your child are ready for a summer filled with fun.
1. GET TO KNOW THE CAMP
Learn what you can about the camp. If possible, visit the camp so you both know what the grounds are like and it feels familiar on drop-off day. Meeting some of the staff or seeing the cabins can ease anxiety. Go online and explore what they have for activities and talk about what your child is looking forward to. It is also helpful to chat with other families who have attended the camp.
If you’re still deciding what camp to go to, involve your child in the process. Ask what they hope to experience at summer camp. Talk about activities they want to do, how long they want to go, and if they want to learn about anything specific.
2. UNDERSTAND THE RULES
Learning the rules and regulations is an important part of a successful camp experience. Filling out forms on time, providing doctor’s notes and proper medications, learning what you can and can’t bring, and understanding behavior expectations are important.
When you talk about the rules with your child, make sure you understand what the consequences are for breaking those rules.
Knowing these things ahead of time can save headaches down the road.
It is also essential to consider the safety guidelines. A few safety questions to ask are:
• How are counselors and staff trained?
• What kind of background checks are performed?
• Is there medical staff on-site?
• How are water activities handled?
3. BE POSITIVE
Camp should be a positive experience for your child. Emphasize the fun and exciting aspects of camp. Highlight the new friends they’ll make and the activities they’ll enjoy.
Even if you are nervous about sending them, it is important to stay positive while talking about camp. Your enthusiasm and confidence in their ability to handle the experience can be contagious. If your child is nervous, talk to them about it without dwelling on it.
4. ADDRESS FEARS
Positivity does not mean ignoring concerns or fears. It is common for kids to be worried about homesickness. Instead of saying they will be fine, let them express how they feel. You can discuss homesickness openly and let your child know it’s okay to miss home. Offer strategies like writing letters or keeping a memento from home.
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Daddy Daddy The Track
– by Shannon Carpenter
MO’MONEY MO’PROBLEMS
Afun camp for parents where no children are invited at all. In this camp, parents will explore the myth that having more money creates more problems. You’ll enjoy random date nights, spending copious amounts of money on purses, watches, and designer dogs. Then at the end of camp, you’ll look at your bank account and still see wads of cash! More money creates more problems for the old rich, but the new rich get to eat and have healthcare. Camp lasts 1 week, and ends with a Great Gatsby style party.
LIVE THE HOBO LIFE
Before TikTok Van Life or homesteading, there was Hoboing. When you’re a hobo, it’s not about creating content, it’s about riding the rails! Spend one glorious week alone in a boxcar, seeing our great nation. Eat beans out of a can, dodge the Billy clubs of railmen, and learn switch blade skills in this intensive, all-inclusive experience. Which signs on fence posts mean this farm is safe? How do you jump on a moving train? Where is the bathroom? Learn all these skills as you travel down the Great Northern Pacific. At the end of the line is relaxation!
THE PEACE OF GOING NO CONTACT
Chaotic people bring a chaotic life. From your narcissistic mother-inlaw that demands to be in the delivery
week. The final week is all about love. Call your partner by romantic foreignsounding names like Raul or Crocodile Dundee. Finally, head home and write a book about it as if it’s real life, and everyone can do that.
HOW TO PICK A LEFTOVER CAMP
The Summer Camps Parents Really Need This Year
The Summer Camps Parents Really Need This Year
room to the neighbor who wants to take a nap in your bedroom, it’s time to cut those people out! You’ve tried hard, and you’ve practiced empathy. In this camp, instructors will teach you the ins and outs of blocking every toxic personality out of your life. From social media and email to restraining orders and hit men, make those people someone else’s problem. You’ve got a toddler, and that’s about all the patience you have in life at the moment.
With summer here, gaping holes in your childcare have appeared. Every other parent started their camp research for their kids last year, and you’re left with the dregs. Brewery Camp (for under 5) is a great choice. Turn your chemistry-inclined child into a bad habit for you. Playing with Uranium (pre-teen) runs all day, and they glow all night. No more afraid of monsters in your closet for your child. Discover a hundred more with How to Pick a Leftover Camp.
ARE YOU GOING TO EAT THAT?
EAT, PRAY, LOVE CAMP
We’ve all read the book and thought, man, it must be great to get a big fat advance and just disappear from life. Well, this camp brings all of that Eat, Pray, Love magic right to your front door. But on a budget. Spend one week in “Italy,” which is really just in your kitchen, cooking Mac N Cheese for your kids. (Mac N Cheese not included). Week two is praying and meditating that oil prices won’t continue to rise and that you can afford air conditioning next
This is a secondary camp that goes beyond picking edible mushrooms and urban scavenging. Those grocery prices aren’t going to get any cheaper, and as a committed parent, you’ve got to figure out how to make that budget stretch. This camp will teach you the do’s and don’ts of dumpster diving, what wild lettuce looks like, and, of course, bothering DINK (Dual Income, No Kids) couples in restaurants. Simply ask them if they are going to finish that massive steak. Surely they can only make it halfway through. Just follow your child’s lead, because they already do this when you have ice cream. And if you have teenagers, like some of us writers do, they don’t even bother to ask! Learn from them. Take that food, Conan the Barbarian! (Son, that last piece of pie in the fridge is mine. I will literally bite you if you touch it.)
Shannon Carpenter is the father of three and has been a stay-at-home dad since 2008. He’s the author of the book “Stay-at-Home Dad: Your Essential Manual for Being an Awesome Full-Time Father.” as well as the co-host of Dadhouse Pod. In addition to his writing on parenting, he is also a humor writer trained through the famous Second City. And we all know that having a sense of humor is essential to surviving parenthood!
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“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”
It was 250 years ago on July 4, 1776, that the U.S. Congress adopted the Declaration of Independence that included these famous words and the world changed forever. To celebrate the creation of our nation, there will be multiple celebrations this summer with many centered along the Eastern Seaboard.
This semiquincentennial (the word literally means “half of 500 years”) extravaganza is a once in a generation opportunity to celebrate our nation’s unique history, enjoy new experiences, and have fun with the whole family.
Boat lovers won’t want to miss the majestic nautical spectacle in New York City. In the tradition of the 1976 Bicentennial and other maritime celebrations, international fleets will arrive in grand style and spend a week in the heart of the nation’s first capital.
From July 3 through 9, the Port of New York and New Jersey will host a weeklong spectacle featuring more than
30 international tall ships from more than 20 countries, more than 50 allied and U.S. naval vessels, a British aircraft carrier, Cunard’s Queen Mary 2 and an aerial armada of more than 100 aircraft led by the U.S. Navy’s Blue Angels.
“On July 4, the Port of New York and New Jersey will play host to the greatest peacetime naval gathering in U.S. history, where some 46 nations will be represented,” wrote Chris O’Brien, president of Sail4th 250 in the Washington Post. “When foreign navies send their tall ships to America, they’re sending ambassadors of friendship.”
“This July 4, when those tall ships sail past Lady Liberty, they’ll remind us that other nations still believe in the American experiment enough to send
their finest vessels and sailors to honor it,” he continued.
Among the U.S. tall ships will be Elissa, a National Historic Landmark, built in 1877 and one of the world’s oldest sailing hulls still in operation and Angelique and American Eagle, two Maine Windjammer sailing ships.
Other highlights include a rare International Naval Review, sightseeing cruises on the majestic Grande Mariner, docked ships for free public viewing, and a specially scheduled Fleet Week. The week also features concerts, food festivals, cultural festivals and a tickertape parade honoring post 9/11 veterans and first responders.
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NYC tallship Elissa
NYC tallship Angelique photo credit: Fred LeBlanc
NYC tallship American Eagle photo credit: Fred LeBlanc
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Addiction Treatment & Mental Health Services:
BRYLIN HOSPITAL
1263 Delaware Ave., Buffalo, NY 14209
716-886-8200
www.brylin.com
Compassionate, crisis mental health care for all ages. With HELP, There’s HOPEsm
SPECTRUM HEALTH & HUMAN SERVICES
227 Thorn Ave., Orchard Park, NY 14127 716-539-5500
www.shswny.org
Helping families throughout WNY with mental health & substance use counseling needs.
Boat Tours:
BUFFALO PEDAL TOURS
• Auto/Work Injuries
249 South Park Ave. Buffalo, NY 14204
716-984-3834
www.buffalopedaltours.com
Pedal the city or lounge on the water – perfectly relaxing birthday celebrations await.
1360 N. Forest Rd, Suite 111, Williamsville, NY 14221
716-725-6370
www.careconnectiononline.com
New Boutique! Insurance covered items, breast pumps & supplies, lactation support, classes, mom & baby items, nursing bras & tanks.
Childcare Resources: CHILD CARE RESOURCE NETWORK
1000 Hertel Avenue Buffalo, NY 14216
716-877-6666
wnychildren.org
Nonprofit Organization helping families find child care and educating child care providers.
COMMUNITY CHILD CARE
CLEARINGHOUSE OF NIAGARA 1521 Main St., Niagara Falls, NY 14305 716-285-8572 or 1-800-701-4KID
U-Pick farm market and CSA. Produce, baked goods, animal barn and more.
Fencing Instruction: FENCING CENTER OF BUFFALO 485 Cayuga Rd., Cheektowaga, NY 14225 716-553-3448
Infant-18 yrs., Tramp/Tumble, Learning in Motion, Open Time. FIND US ON FACEBOOK
ROLLY POLLIES
9630 Transit Road, Suite 100 East Amherst, NY 14051
716-689-6151
4058 N. Buffalo Rd. Orchard Park, NY 14127
716-662-7424
www.RPWNY.com
Children’s gym classes, camps, birthday parties, open play & more for ages 4 months - 9 years old! See Our Advertiser Spotlight.
Health Care & Wellness: GREAT LAKES MEDICAL IMAGING
111 N. Maplemere Rd., Suite 120 Williamsville, NY 14221
716-836-4646 or text 716-333-7773
www.GLMI.com
Open MRI, Low Dose CT, 3D Mammography, Bone Density, Nuclear Medicine, PET/CT, Ultrasound and Interventional Radiology.
SPECTRUM HEALTH C.A.R.E.S.
716-882-4357
www.shswny.org
Crisis line for youth (under 18 years) in Erie County who are in immediate crisis, struggling, putting their life or lives of others in danger, angry, depressed, talk or thoughts of suicide.
Serving all of Erie & Chautauqua Counties 716-838-0047
www.aspirewny.org
Aspire of WNY Supports People with Disabilities Live Independent and Fulfilled Lives!
THE CHILDREN’S LEAGUE
393 North St., Springville, NY 14141 716-592-9331
www.tclny.org
Center & community-based educational & therapeutic programming. EI & CPSE Evaluations. Serving children birth to 5 years of age.
COMMUNITY SERVICES FOR EVERY1
180 Oak St., Buffalo, NY 14203
716-883-8888
Email: info@csevery1.com www.csevery1.com
Helping people of all abilities reach their fullest potential.
THE DOWN SYNDROME
PARENTS GROUP OF WNY
547 Englewood Ave., Kenmore NY 14223
716-832-9334
www.dspgwny.org
Raising awareness of and enhancing the lives of people with Down syndrome
PEOPLE INC.
1219 North Forest Rd., Williamsville, NY 14221
833-404-0032
www.people-inc.org
People Inc. provides health and human services that enrich lives and communities through innovation and supportive services.
THE SUMMIT CENTER
150 Stahl Rd., Getzville, NY 14068
General Information: 716-629-3400
www.thesummitcenter.org
Developmental evaluations, therapeutic and clinical services, family support services, behavioral health services, respite, & school programs for children and adults.
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Toy Store: CLAYTON’S TOYS
5225 Main St., Williamsville, NY 14221 716-633-1966
1396 Hertel Ave., Buffalo, NY 14216 716-939-3000
www.claytonstoystore.com
One Hundred and ten years of delivering smiles!
ABUSE/DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
n New York State Office of Children & Family Services
https://ocfs.ny.gov/programs/ prevention
State Hotline: 1-800-342-3720
Report abuse/neglect of children. If you believe a child is in immediate danger, call 911 or your local police department.
n New York State Office for the Prevention of Domestic Violence
https://opdv.ny.gov/survivorsvictims
New York State Domestic & Sexual Violence 24 hour Hotline: 1-800-942-6906
According to Safe Horizon, a New York victims’ services agency, 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence; more than 3 million children each year witness domestic violence at home; without help, girls who witness domestic violence are more vulnerable to abuse, and boys are more likely to become abusers of their partners and children as adults, continuing a cycle of violence seen in families all too often.
n Haven House Child & Family Services
24-Hour Hotline: 716-884-6000 (for HELP & Shelter)
For over 40 years, Haven House has been working to prevent domestic violence/intimate partner violence and promote peace in the home. Services are based on a continuum of care ranging from a fullyinclusive emergency shelter in a confidential location to long-term transitional housing. The continuum of care includes an extensive counseling and advocacy program for all individuals regardless of gender that includes many satellite locations throughout Erie County.
Who Should Call? Anyone involved in an intimate partner violence
or family violence situation, including: domestic violence, dating violence, stalking, those in same-sex relationships, those with disabilities, male survivors, senior citizens, and immigrant and refugee victims of domestic violence. Friends, family members, co-workers, neighbors, or professionals with questions about domestic violence operates safe and secure emergency housing in a confidential location for women and their children, single women, and transgendered individuals identifying as female. Shelter supportive services include: Safety Planning, Individual Counseling, Support groups (including Art Empowerment), Advocacy. Referrals can call the hotline for information. Haven House housing assistance, Referrals to transitional housing, Food, Clothing, Crisis Intervention, and Children’s Programs.
n Family Justice Center of Erie County
716-558-SAFE (7233) www.fjcsafe.org
Offers free services for domestic violence victims and their children through an extensive collaboration with 13 partner agencies, all located at one secured, comfortable location, where victims can get all the services they need to safely escape abuse. Appointments are not necessary but are recommended. All services are available virtually by calling 716-558-7233.
Buffalo 438 Main St., Suite 201, Buffalo 716-558-7233
(Monday-Friday; 8:30am-4pm)
Orchard Park
4383 South Buffalo St., Orchard Park
716-662-0259
(Wed. 8:30am-4pm)
Grand Island
2074 Whitehaven Rd. Grand Island
716-558-7233
(Tues.; 8:30am-4pm)
ADOPTION
n Adoption Star
131 John Muir Drive Amherst, NY 14228
716-639-3900
www.adoptionstar.com
Provides thorough and compassionate counseling to pregnant individuals, regardless of location, who are considering their options, including abortion, parenting, and adoption. Allows prospective adoptive parents and expectant parents to explore all the adoption options and to receive the appropriate information and education necessary to access those options. Provides counseling and support to birth parents and prospective adoptive parents.
n Adoption Program
Child & Family Services
330 Delaware Ave. Buffalo, NY 14202
716-842-2750
www.cfsbny.org
Specializes in promoting permanency through adoption for children of all ages in the foster care system. Staff work with children freed for adoption as well as families interested in adopting children. Provides support, training, and case planning services for the child and adoptive family.
AFTER SCHOOL CARE
n For a very comprehensive list of more than 100 after school care programs in Erie County visit www.211wny.org and enter “after school” in the search box. Information on programs in Niagara and other counties is also available through this site. If you do not have access to the Internet, call 1-888-696-9211.
BABY NEEDS
There are a number of local “Baby Needs” programs that meet the emergency needs of infants and very young children by providing them with a supply of diapers, infant formula, baby food, and baby care products. Limited quantities available; supplies may differ at each location. Get in touch with Baby Needs programs at the following locations which serve specific zip codes:
n Buffalo River Food Pantry
62 Republic Street Buffalo, NY 14204
www.old1stward.com
716-856-8613
Mon-Thurs, 8am-11am. Serving zip code 14204.
n Every Bottom Covered Delavan Grider Community Ctr. 877 East Delevan Ave. Buffalo, NY 14215
716-896-7021
Provides up to 50 free diapers and/or 25 pull-ups for each child in eligible families. Diapers available for pickup on a monthly basis.
n The Genesis Center 2161 Seneca Street Buffalo, NY 14210
716-822-1901
www.thegenesiscenter.us
Hours by appointment only. Call to schedule. Serving zip code 14210 for parents with an emergency
need; no residency requirements for children’s clothing.
n Kenmore Alliance Church
175 Bonnet Ave
Tonawanda, NY 14150
www.kenmorealliance.com/ 716-876-5570
Many types of services are offered including emergency essentials for babies.
n Harvest House Baby & Children’s Ministry
175 Jefferson Avenue Buffalo, NY 14210 716-824-7818
www.harvesthousebuffalo.org
Serving Erie County; by appointment only.
BREASTFEEDING
n La Leche League International www.lllusa.org
The local La Leche groupLa Leche League of Western New York - can be found on Facebook. Leaders are available to answer your questions about breastfeeding. If you are unable to find a leader in your area, call 1-877-4-LALECHE (1-877-452-5324). Western New York La Leche Leaders: Kimberly, 716-997-4662 Jenny - 716-512-5000
DRUG & ALCOHOL ABUSE
n Partnership for Drug-Free Kids
Get Help via text, email or by scheduling a call with their trained specialists by visiting www.drugfree.org. Drug use remains a significant problem in the United States, however adolescent drug use is particularly damaging as such use can affect the physical and mental development of younger people and can impact their opportunities later in life. In 2023, 7.2% of 12to 17-year olds reported using drugs in the last month. 79,384 people died from drug overdoses in 2024, making it a leading cause of injury-related death in the
United States. A person is more likely to die from an accidental opioid overdose than from a motor vehicle crash.
This national organization helps parents take effective action before their child’s drug use or drinking reaches a point where treatment is required. Research has shown that substance abuse problems can be reduced by intervening early. Encouraging parents to take immediate action is therefore a main goal of the helpline’s team of parent support specialists who offer expert advice to help parents plan a course of action and can supply a list of local resources or treatment facilities. Their website is an excellent one-stop resource where you can educate yourself about specific drugs, teen behavior, and ways to talk to your kids to prevent abuse from ever happening in the first place.
n UNDERAGE DRINKING TIPLINE
1-800-851-1932
underagedrinkingtips@erie.gov Erie County Sheriff’s Office anonymous, confidential, and free hotline. Concerned adults, teachers, students and friends now have a number to call 24 hours a day, to report planned underage drinking parties; underage drinking parties taking place or other activities that may be harmful to the health, safety and welfare of young people.
FOOD ALLERGIC FAMILIES
n Greater Buffalo Food Allergy Alliance www.gbfoodallergy.org
The mission of this local support group is to share information, tips, and experiences to ease the challenges of living with food allergies, as well as raise the awareness in the community; meets at the Orchard Park Library,
4570 South Buffalo St., Orchard Park. You can find meeting details and locations on the organization’s Facebook page.
LEAD POISONING SERVICES
n Erie County Department of Health LEADSAFE Erie County 503 Kensington Avenue Buffalo, NY 14124 716-961-6800
Families with young children who want information about lead poisoning prevention can request an assessment of their pre-1978 home. A visual exterior and interior inspection by staff will identify any potential lead hazards and a lead education visit with the family will provide cleaning supplies and strategies for avoiding lead hazards. “Communities of Concern” have been designated in zip codes 14201, 14207, 14208, 14209, 14210, 14211, 14212, 14213, and 14215.
MISSING PERSONS
n New York State Division of Criminal Justice Missing Persons Clearinghouse
1-800-346-3543
Call local law enforcement first to report a missing child or adult. Call the hotline for case intake or to provide lead information. Electronically distributes missing child or missing college student alerts statewide and assists in investigation.
NUTRITION ASSISTANCE
n WIC - Women, Infants & Children
https://www.ccwny.org/wic Women, Infants & Children (WIC) is a federal nutrition program that supports pregnant, postpartum, and breastfeeding women, infants and children up to the age of five to live a healthier life. WIC provides nutrition education and counseling, breastfeeding support, prenatal and postpartum support, referrals
and supplemental food vouchers. All of our services are free of charge.
WIC is for all kinds of familiesmarried or single parents, working or not working. Fathers, mothers, grandparents, foster parents or other legal guardians of a child under five can apply for the child to receive WIC. WIC does not require US citizenship, social security number, green card or legal residency to receive benefits.
Catholic Charities operates the program locally through a variety of locations. To reach any of the sites serving Chautauqua, Erie and Niagara counties, call (716) 2181484.
Not all of their locations are open every day, please call for site schedules.
You may be eligible for WIC if you:
• Are pregnant, breastfeeding or post-partum, OR
• Have an infant or child under 5 years old, AND
• Receive SNAP (Food Stamps), Temporary Assistance (TANF) or Medicaid or meet the income guidelines below, AND
• Live in New York State You can also call NY State’s Growing Up Healthy Hotline toll-free at 1-800522-5006 for further information about eligibility, etc.
PARENT ORGANIZATIONS
Moms, we know how it is. We manage the house, the schedules, the lunch packing and dinner making. We’re there for homework, the big game, the school play, and we make it happen with a smile. Where’s that little dose of “me” time? Thankfully, there are some helpful organizations in our community just for moms. Whether you’re a new mom or a veteran mom, there’s a special place for you to connect, refresh and relax. n MOMS Club www.momsclub.org
The MOMS Club is an international non-profit organization, started by a California mom. Several local chapters have formed which offer monthly meetings with speakers and discussions, park play dates, holiday family parties, outings for mothers and their children, and activity groups like playgroups, arts ‘n crafts, and a monthly MOMS Night Out. They also do community service projects. Find a local chapter through their web site.
n WNY Mothers Of Multiples formerly Mothers of Twins Club of Buffalo
www.wnymultiples.org
This support group for expectant and current mothers of twins (and more!) meets on the 2nd Wednesday of most months at 7pm at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, 2669 Sheridan Drive, Tonawanda. In addition to their meetings which feature “meet and mingle” sessions, they organize activities such as moms’ nights out, toy/clothing sales, and a great vareity of other momoriented and family events. Download membership forms on their website.
POISON EMERGENCY
n Upstate New York Poison Center
24 Hours A Day, 365 Days A Year 1-800-222-1222 https://www.upstate.edu/ poison/
Calls are answered by Specialists in Poison Information (SPIs), registered nurses, and pharmacists trained in toxicology. Specialists provide the most efficient and up-to-date poison information available. Physicians and toxicologists are on-call 24 hours a day for consultation purposes. are lost in the maze of rules and regulations in the Special Education System, these are the folks who can help.
FAMILY TRAVEL
Macy’s 4th of July Fireworks show will be celebrating its 50th anniversary this year. Watch the New York City skyline light up in a dazzling display accompanied by live entertainment. City officials project that as many as eight million spectators could line the 15-mile stretch of New York City and the New Jersey coast to watch it all unfold.
Don’t miss a visit to Fraunces Tavern Restaurant & Museum in lower Manhattan. It is a good place to dine and step back in history. Built as a private home in 1719 it became Fraunces Tavern in 1762 and soon became the epicenter of Patriot activity in New York during the American Revolution era. George Washington, Samuel Adams, Paul Revere and other leaders all dined here. Alexander Hamilton and Aaron Burr dined together at the tavern one week before their infamous duel.
On June 18, 1776, the New York Provincial Congress hosted a banquet at the tavern for Washington, his staff and officers to express their gratitude for the defense of the colony.
On December 4, 1783, Washington bid an emotional farewell to his officers at the end of the Revolutionary War in the Long Room at the tavern.
The museum’s Liberty 250 program commemorates the nation’s 250th anniversary through exhibitions, lectures, programs and special events. Path to Liberty, The Emergence of a Nation is a chronological, multi-year, special exhibition featuring artifacts, art, and documents telling the history of the American Revolution from 1775 to 1783.
The epicenter of America’s 250th celebrations is surely Washington, D.C. It is the heart of America’s milestone anniversary. Only here can visitors view the original Declaration of Independence and explore its impact. No other destination offers such a wealth of world class free museums and attractions— many with special exhibitions and additions.
Here is a sampling:
The National Museum of American History is the perfect choice to explore the nation’s history. As the museum tells visitors, it is a “story so big we need the entire museum to tell it.” Their exhibit is titled In Pursuit of Life, Liberty, & Happiness and features objects representing moments that transformed the nation. The showcase of 250 objects is grounded in a single powerful idea: the pursuit of our rights has always demanded action.
Objects include the desk Thomas Jefferson used to draft the Declaration of Independence; the only surviving Revo-
lutionary War fighting vessel, the gunboat Philadelphia; and the 1813 American flag that inspired the National Anthem.
The museum will also feature theater programs, musical performances, hands-on demonstrations, tours, and talks. Visitors get a chance to meet and chat with museum experts to learn about the last 250 years of American history.
The National Archives Museum has gained a prominent space in celebrations since it is home of the original Declaration of Independence. Last year, the museum opened The American Story that showcases items and records in the archives that tell important moments in our nation’s history.
On display is a rare 1823 Stone Engraving of the Declaration of Independence, George Washington’s annotated copy of the Constitution, and presidential gifts including horseshoes to President Bush from Queen Elizabeth II. The museum is the first museum in the city to use artificial intelligence to bring each visitor a special opportunity to engage with American history.
July’s openings or reopenings include the National Geographic Museum of Exploration, a museum underneath the Lincoln Memorial, and five new galleries with two more in the fall at the National Air and Space Museum.
On July 3, the Library of Congress will kick off a new exhibit called The Declaration Promise which will explore the principles of the Declaration of Independence. Treasures here include Jefferson’s rough draft of the Declaration of Independence, and Abraham Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address.
The Fourth of July Celebration on the National Mall and beyond promises to be the biggest ever. Start the day with an historic reenactment of the Declaration of Independence followed by the National Park Service’s famous National Independence Day Parade along Constitution Avenue. The three-hour event will feature floats and marching units from all 50 states and a special salute to the U.S. Military. The evening program called “A Capitol Fourth” is a star-studded concert on the National Mall followed by a spectacular fireworks show.
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National Mall fireworks show photo credit: washington.org.
5 WAYS TO PREPARE FOR CAMP
Another great way to allay fears is through role-play. You and your child can role-play various scenarios they may encounter at camp, such as making new friends or dealing with homesickness. This practice can help them feel empowered and more prepared for how to handle things.
5. AGREE ON A PLAN
Three of the biggest areas you and your child need to be on the same page about are what to bring, communication, and self-advocacy.
Mount Vernon, George Washington’s iconic home just outside Washington, D.C., is one of the most famous 18th century mansions in the country. Just in time for the 250th celebrations, the mansion embarked on a landmark preservation project three years ago.
The building began as a one and a half story house built in 1734 by George Washington’s father, Augustine Washington, and received its well-known name from his half-brother Lawrence Washington.
Washington began running Mount Vernon in 1754 and over the next 45 years he slowly enlarged it to create the 21-room residence that visitors see today. Despite his busy schedule and being away much of the time, he oversaw each renovation.
The father of our country was a dog lover, and well-behaved dogs are welcome on the grounds. There are even regularly scheduled walks for dogs and their owners who learn that Washington named one of his hound dogs Sweetlips and had a Dalmatian named Madame Moose.
He clearly had a sense of humor and a tender side even toward his beloved and brazen French hound Vulcan who
made off with a fine ham that Mrs. Washington was planning to serve for dinner. Family lore revealed that the General laughed heartily when he learned about the ham’s fate.
Mount Vernon is hosting a wide variety of special programs and activities in honor of the 250th celebration. They include George Washington and a Nation of Farmers exhibit highlighting Washington’s visionary role as the nation’s first farmer; a new Mount Vernon Education Center; Independence Day Fireworks over the Potomac River; and a family friendly program on July 4 with live music, historical demonstrations, and other interactive programming.
Travel Tip of the Month: For more information on Washington, D.C. celebrations visit washington.org. For Mount Vernon visit mountvernon.org. For the greatest maritime celebration in New York visit sail4th.org. For Fraunces Tavern visit frauncestavern.com.
What to bring: Talk about what your child can and cannot bring with them to camp. Go over the rules and packing lists provided by the camp. Also, be sure to label everything (yes, everything!) and talk about keeping track of their things.
Communication: Decide how you and your child will communicate and when. The camp will likely have rules about this, so be sure to understand and follow those guidelines. Some camps allow email or a daily text or phone call while others only allow written letters. It can be fun to mail some letters or care packages the week before they leave. This way they will receive them in the early days of camp when it is often the hardest. Do not be surprised if your child calls or writes less frequently than you agree upon. It is often a sign that they are having a good time!
Deborah Williams lives in Holland, NY and is a veteran travel writer whose work has appeared in national and international publications. She is the recipient of the Society of American Travel Writers’ Lowell Thomas Gold Travel Writing Award.
Self-advocacy: Camp is a chance for your child to build independence. Give them opportunities to do that. Talk to them about how to respectfully stand up for themselves and how to get help when needed. Understanding these skills will help your child feel equipped to enjoy their budding independence. These may not be the exciting parts of camp but addressing them and making a plan ahead of time makes a big difference. Your child can have a great summer camp experience. With a little preparation, you’ll both feel ready for them to embrace all summer camp has to offer!
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Making The Right Camp Choice
Summer camps have become an absolute necessity for many working parents who need coverage during the weeks when school is no longer in session, but camp has always been an important experience for children.
Camp experiences allow children to make new friends, relate to adult supervisors other than their parents, develop a sense of independence and self-confidence, as well as the ability to work with others as a team.
In today’s technology-oriented world, summer camp gets kids away from their screens and outdoors to interact with the natural world. Sports and physical activities get kids moving — literally — toward increased fitness levels.
Camp is a natural extension of the classroom — today’s camps offer many traditional activities such as swimming, arts and crafts, and hikes, but there are many creative and exciting opportunities to explore specific areas such as performing in a theater production, learning to dance, riding a horse, or trying gymnastics.
Choosing a camp is a very individual decision based on many factors. Some important questions to ask are:
1) How does the camp recruit its staff? What type of training do the camp counselors have? How old are they? Are background checks done? Do they have first aid training?
2) What is the ratio of counselors to campers? Day camp guidelines call for 1:8 for children ages 6-8; 1:10 for children ages 9-14; and 1:12 for ages 15-18.
3) Ask about return rates. How many staff members return each year? How many campers return? Ask for references — talk to some parents who have recently sent their children to the camp.
Visit the American Camp Association’s website at www. acacamps.org for more complete parent checklists and the questions to ask when “interviewing” a camp to see if it’s a good fit for your child and your family.
A Trip Like No Other
—by Rebecca Hastings
Ispent just 24 hours at The Preserve with my family, and my only regret is that we couldn’t stay longer.
From the moment we pulled up to the towering stone pillars at the entrance, it was clear we were someplace special. Flaming lanterns flanked the massive gates at the guardhouse, casting a warm glow against the winter evening. As the gates opened and we were welcomed in, it felt less like arriving at a resort and more like crossing into another world.
I had read about The Preserve before our visit, a Rhode Island destination known for blending luxury accommodations with outdoor experiences for all ages. Having lived in New England my entire life, I thought I had a pretty good sense of what this region has to offer. I’ve vacationed along the coast, escaped to the mountains, and spent time in quiet rural settings. But The Preserve was unlike anything I had experienced before.
After passing through the gates, we drove a winding road through the woods, tall trees lining either side. Even in winter, when much of the landscape is bare, there was a quiet magic to it. We slowed as we passed a fenced area where goats grazed peacefully, an unexpected
and charming detail that made us all smile. It was the first hint that this place manages to be both refined and refreshingly down to earth.
Settling In
Check-in was smooth, and before long, we were escorted to our home for the night. Along the way, we were handed a schedule of daily activities, which made the property feel exciting rather than overwhelming.
The Preserve offers a mix of places to stay, from expansive homes to cozy townhouses, and even a tiny home village that’s still growing. The tiny homes especially caught our eye: small
in footprint but carrying the same thoughtful touches and careful design as the larger residences. Some felt perfect for couples, others for larger families, and each one seemed to fit seamlessly into the natural setting.
Throughout our stay, staff checked in as needed, offering guidance, answering questions, and quietly ensuring everything ran smoothly, so we could simply relax and enjoy our visit.
Laurel Ridge Grand Living
Our family stayed in a Laurel Ridge Grand Home. With over 2,000 square feet of space spread across three levels, it felt both welcoming and indulgent. The home offered four bedrooms and spa-like bathrooms that instantly elevated the experience. Heated tile floors, rainfall showers, and built-in Bluetooth sound systems made everyday routines feel luxurious.
The décor struck a perfect balance between rustic and refined. Leather sofas, soft upholstered chairs, and reclaimed wood-style furnishings created a warm atmosphere. It was a space
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Laurel Ridge Grand Home
Hastings and her husband in the Hobbit House
designed to invite you to settle in, to linger over conversation, stretch out after a full day, and truly relax. Thoughtful touches like stocked snacks and beverages made us feel genuinely cared for. My family felt completely comfortable— and more than a little spoiled.
Around The Table
That evening, we enjoyed dinner at Double Barrel Steakhouse. The bread service alone is worth mentioning: Gruyère popovers that were impossibly light and fluffy, served warm and quickly, were declared a must-have at the table. My filet was perfectly cooked, tender and flavorful, and the truffle fries quickly became a shared favorite. The atmosphere struck the same balance the resort does so well—elevated but relaxed, refined without feeling stuffy.
The next morning, we opted for in-room dining, with breakfast delivered directly to our kitchen from the main restaurant. It was a simple luxury, but one that made the morning feel unhurried and indulgent, setting the tone for the day ahead.
Offering Something
For Everyone
With 3,500 acres to explore, it was easy for each of us to find something that sparked our curiosity. While the boys headed off to the Sporting Shoppe—a space that includes retail offerings and
an indoor firing range—the girls and I were whisked away to the Hilltop Spa.
Perched high above the landscape, the spa offers sweeping views that make it easy to forget everything else. The outdoor infinity pool was stunning, even in cooler weather, while the indoor whirlpools and saunas provided spaces to unwind. One of my favorite features was the hydrotherapy whirlpools paired with a cold plunge shower—a bracing and surprisingly refreshing experience.
Later, my daughters returned to meet the boys for a shooting lesson at the indoor range, where expert instructors provided guidance in a safe, supportive environment. Meanwhile, I stayed behind a little longer to enjoy an aromatherapy massage, savoring the rare luxury of uninterrupted quiet.
As a parent, I appreciated how easy it was to relax. The property is fully fenced and gated, and the discreet presence of highly trained security staff meant we could let our teens head off on their own while we enjoyed our activities.
Even with full days, we knew we were only seeing a small slice of what The Preserve offers. We passed horseback riding trails and heard stories of Bentley off-roading adventures, world-class golf, and guided hunting experiences scattered across the property. It felt like the kind of place where no two visits would ever look the same.
A Highlight We’ll Talk About For Years
If I had to choose one moment that defined our trip, it would be the private Hobbit House dining experience.
Tucked into the landscape, the Maker’s Mark Hobbit Houses feel like something out of a storybook. With massive round doors and a cozy, cavelike interior, the space instantly transports you somewhere that feels like Middle Earth.
The farm-to-table menu was prepared course by course using Le Creuset
The bread service at Double Barrel Steakhouse
Maker’s Mark tasting
Hastings and her family outside the Hobbit House
cookware, with each dish thoughtfully paired with a Maker’s Mark tasting. The experience felt intimate and immersive, more like a private event than a meal.
Halfway through dinner, my oldest looked around and declared, without hesitation, “This is better than Disney!” After the final course, we gathered around our private fire pit at the Hobbit House and roasted marshmallows for s’mores.
Trying Something New Together
The next adventure took us fly fishing—another first for our entire family. Picked up in two Bentleys by expert guides, we were driven to one of the fully stocked fishing areas on the property.
Our guides patiently taught us the basics, offering individualized instruction as each of us tried our hand at the sport. Their one-on-one attention made all the difference. Every member of our family caught fish (except me, but I was too busy cheering everyone else on). It was one of those shared experiences that we’ll all remember.
Already Planning Our Return
Leaving The Preserve felt a little like waking up from a dream you weren’t ready to end. As we drove back through the gates, we found ourselves replaying favorite moments like the quiet magic of the grounds, the laughter around the Hobbit House fire pit, and the thrill of trying something new together.
The Preserve doesn’t ask you to choose between comfort and adventure, or between luxury and the outdoors. It offers all of it, thoughtfully and seamlessly, in a way that works for families, couples, and travelers of every age. We came for a quick getaway and left with memories we’ll be talking about for years—and a shared hope that we’ll be back sooner rather than later.
PICK OF THE LITERATURE
can also help to build background knowledge, both of which are strong predictors of eventual reading success. Older children will find A Kid’s Guide to Backyard Animals (Gibbs Smith, Kaysville, 2026, $14.99) written by Eliza Berkowitz and illustrated by Nicole LaRue a wonderful companion to the outdoor explorations. This easy to navigate book can fit into a backpack or a pocket and is organized by Mammals, Birds, Reptiles, Amphibians, and Invertebrates. With a list of each species under the heading, one can easily access a picture, a description, size, habitat and range, what it eats, and a fun fact. This is a great book for the curious mind and easy for challenged readers to access information. Information in your hand and a place to log identifications and observations are the perfect prompts for budding and curious minds.
Everyone loves a true story of an animal in need that has a happy ending and Tulip the Brave Little Beaver (Something Wild, Kiln, 2024, $25.00), written by Dr. Holley Muraco and illustrated by Colleen Coggins, is just such a story. Dr. Muraco is a scientist who studies aquatic animal health and is a wildlife rehabilitator in Mississippi. Upon the arrival at her clinic of an injured and disorientated baby beaver whose home
had been destroyed by land clearing, she knew she needed to prevent this destruction of land clearing in protected areas. As she nursed her newfound inspiration, she discovered unknown things about beavers and their adorable and interesting behaviors. Dr. Muraco established a nonprofit called Something Wild to save native wildlife with a focus on the North American Beaver and with the help of hundreds of donors and grants, she was able to secure the funds to purchase and create a 35-acre Beaver Sanctuary in Hancock County Mississippi. Now she protects and rehabilitates beavers so they can be returned to the wild and offers educational outreach through social media and presentations. If you are inspired by Tulip’s story and that of the sanctuary, you can follow videos posted on YouTube: @hmuraco or explore her website and perhaps donate at www.somethingwild.org.
Can you think of a better way to get into the swing of Spring than with these resources? Time outdoors and with family or friends can lead to benefits for all including the woods and wetlands you explore.
Dr. Donna Phillips is an associate professor in the College of Education at Niagara University where her specialty is literacy and children’s literature. She lives on Grand Island, NY and is the mother of two adult children and the grandmother of one.
SINGLE
May brings so many new things and with new things comes opportunities to start fresh. This month marks the end of school for some and (almost) the end of school for others. It also hosts Mother’s Day and the feeling of summer just around the corner. Now is a great time to think about tossing out the old and bringing in the new. Here are 8 ways to get yourself ready for a fresh start, no matter where you are at in your parenting journey.
1. If school is nearing the end for your kids, start going through their backpacks and getting rid of old, used supplies they no longer need. Emptying their bags out can give them more room for their cubby items they’ll be bringing home from school on their last day. This would also be a good time to decide if their backpacks can be thrown in the washer to survive for one more year, or if it’s their turn to be tossed into the trash.
— by Meagan Ruffing
A Fresh Start in May
2. Snacks at home are about to be doubled—maybe tripled—with kids being home for the summer. Now is a good time to take inventory of what you have in the pantry and fridge and start figuring out what needs to be replenished and reorganized to make the transition from May to June even easier. With grocery bills as expensive as they are right now, it’s more important than ever to be intentional about buying what you need and wasting less.
3. Now is a perfect time to start thinking about a vacation. Vacations look different for each family, so maybe this year your plan is to book a beach getaway or maybe it’s a long staycation weekend in your home. Whichever option your budget allows this year, it’s important to carve out time to rest, be together, and have fun. My kids and I do the ‘every other year approach’ which means we do a big vacation one year where I budget all year for it and then the next year we do something simpler. I want my kids
to grow up knowing that no matter what we have for money, we can always spend time together in some capacity.
4. May is an opportune time to spring clean and toss things out that you no longer need. It feels good, it serves a purpose, and your house just feels cleaner. It’s easiest when you create three piles: keep, toss, donate. Set a timer for each space and challenge yourself to get done as much as you can during those 15 or 20 minutes. This will help you stay on track and not get burned out in one room. Space things out and start new the next day if you’ve done all you can for today.
5. Decide what to do for Mother’s Day and make it happen. Whether you’re the mom who is reading this article or someone who does the planning for mom, make this year extra special by putting some thought into what you would like to see happen. If you’re the mom, how do you want to feel on your special day? What would make Mother’s Day memorable for
you? If you’re the person planning it for mom, ask mom what she would like and start putting things in motion. Some moms like to go out and be celebrated, and other moms like to have time alone.
6. Is it time to freshen up your wardrobe? Take a good look at your closet and decide what can go and what can stay. A simple trick to help you while you’re sorting is to ask yourself, how do I feel when I wear this? That’s a quick way to decide whether it deserves a spot in your closet.
7. Make a list of everything you’re grateful for on one side of a piece of paper and then everything that’s bothering you or feels unfinished on the other side of the paper. Having both sides written down gives you the opportunity to recognize what’s going well in your life and what you’re thankful for, while also making note of the things that you would like to be different. It’s a good habit to get into so your thoughts have somewhere to go.
8. Finally, start a new bucket list for the month. This is a running list of all the things you’d like to get done during the month. It can be places you’d like to go, people you’d like to see, or things you’d like to do. The idea is to reset your mind for the month and start fresh with fun and exciting things to look forward to.
I hope this May is the kickstart for a fun-filled summer and a memorable Mother’s Day. As we step into the warmer months, I hope this list of ideas helps you reflect, recharge, and create lots of memories with your family.
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Meagan Ruffing is a parenting journalist, mental health therapist, and single mom who tries to do her best each day. She doesn’t always get things right but continually strives to do better.
RAISING DIGITAL KIDS
— by Mike Daugherty
LPainting with Words: A Parent’s Guide to AI Art and Literacy
et us talk about screen time. It is the modern parent’s eternal tug of war. We want our kids to be digitally literate, but we cringe when we see them mindlessly scrolling through endless short videos on YouTube or playing increasingly weird games on Roblox. While there is a time and place for those things, one of your goals as a parent should be on shifting the focus from kids passively consuming content to becoming active content creators.
Welcome to the virtual art studio. Generative AI is rapidly changing the world, and while it might sound intimidating or overly technical, it is actually opening up entirely new ways for children to express themselves. From generating vibrant digital paintings to composing original songs, artificial intelligence platforms can serve as incredible creative partners for your kids. This article is your guide to helping your child step out of the audience and into the director’s chair, using generative AI for artistic exploration, mindful creation, and ethical learning.
SHIFTING THE FOCUS: FROM CONSUMERS TO CREATORS
Kids today are digital natives, but being a native does not automatically make someone a creator. Most of the applications fighting for our children’s attention are designed for passive consumption. Generative AI completely changes that dynamic. When a child sits down with an AI art or music generator, they cannot just watch. They have to think, imagine, construct, and direct. They have to ask themselves: What do I want to make today?
We can frame artificial intelligence for our kids not as a magic machine that does the work for them, but as a co-pilot. Think of it as a highly skilled assistant waiting for your child’s specific instructions. If your child loves dragons, AI allows them to design a dragon exactly as they picture it in their mind’s
eye. If they have a melody stuck in their head, AI can help them build a full orchestral track around it.
By introducing these tools, you are giving your child a powerful new medium. You are teaching them that their ideas have immense value, and that technology is simply a bridge to bring those amazing ideas out into the real world.
PAINTING WITH WORDS: MASTERING AI ART GENERATORS
Visual art is often the easiest and most exciting entry point into generative AI. Platforms like DALL-E, Midjourney, or the built-in AI tools in educational programs like Canva allow kids to turn text into stunning visual imagery. But the real magic happens in the prompt.
Writing a good prompt is a secret masterclass in language arts. To get a great picture, your child cannot just type the word “dog.” They need to be specific. Is it a fluffy golden retriever or a tiny, wrinkled pug? Is the dog wearing a futuristic space suit? Is it flying through a neon galaxy or sitting in a cozy, sunlit kitchen? Is the artistic style like a watercolor painting, a Saturday morning cartoon, or a 3D animated movie?
Prompt engineering teaches children to expand their vocabulary and understand the power of descriptive language. Try sitting down with your child and taking turns coming up with the wildest concepts you can imagine. Challenge them to use colorful adjectives, specify locations, and name artistic styles like cubism or impressionism.
When the image is generated, discuss it together. Did the AI get it right? What words could we change or add to make the picture closer to what you imagined? This iterative process of trying, tweaking, and trying again is the very heart of the creative journey.
COMPOSING THE FUTURE:
MAKING MUSIC WITH AI
Creativity does not stop at visual art. If you have a child who loves music, generative AI audio platforms offer a fantastic digital playground. Tools like Suno or Chrome Music Lab allow users to describe a genre, mood, and tempo, and then generate completely original tracks.
This is a phenomenal way to introduce kids to musical concepts without requiring them to master an instrument first. You can explore different musical genres together. Ask the AI to create a spooky jazz song about a haunted house, or an upbeat pop anthem about eating too much ice cream on a summer day.
Take it a step further and encourage your kids to write their own lyrics. Writing poetry and song lyrics is a unique form of expression. Once they have their words written down, they can input them into an AI music generator and hear their own writing sung back to them in any style they choose. It validates their creative writing in a way that is incredibly rewarding. It also teaches them about the emotional impact of music, as they can hear firsthand how their exact same lyrics sound completely different when set to a heavy metal guitar track versus a gentle piano lullaby.
NAVIGATING THE ETHICS OF THE VIRTUAL STUDIO
As we invite these powerful tools into our homes, we have a responsibility to teach our children how to use them ethically. Generative AI does not create out of thin air. It was trained on millions of images, songs, and texts created by real human beings.
It is crucial to have an open, age appropriate conversation with your kids about where AI gets its knowledge. Explain that AI is like a giant digital library of human art. It looks at what real artists have done and learns patterns from them. Because of this, we always need to respect the human artists who made the technology possible.
Teach your children the importance of transparency. If they use an AI tool to create a picture for a school project or to design a birthday card for a grandparent, they should be proud to say they designed it using AI. We want to foster a culture of honesty, making sure they understand the difference between directing an AI to create a picture and claiming they drew something entirely by hand.
Furthermore, remind them that AI is not a replacement for picking up a real paintbrush, strumming a physical guitar, or writing with a messy ink pen. The virtual studio should complement their physical creative pursuits, offering them just one more way to express themselves.
BRINGING IT ALL TOGETHER: YOUR NEXT STEPS
Integrating generative AI into your child’s life does not require you to be a computer programmer or a tech expert. It only requires a bit of curiosity.
Start small. Pick one weekend afternoon to sit down together and try generating a family portrait as a superhero comic book cover, or write a silly song about your family pet. Keep the focus entirely on the joy of the process, the laughter when the AI makes a funny mistake, and the pride when a prompt works perfectly.
The goal of the virtual art studio is not to turn your child into a professional digital artist or a chart topping music producer. The goal is to give them a safe, expansive playground where their imagination has absolutely no limits. By guiding them to use generative AI actively, thoughtfully, and ethically, you are doing so much more than just managing their screen time. You are helping them discover the lifelong joy of bringing their own unique ideas to life.
Mike Daugherty is a husband, father of three young children, author, speaker, Google Innovator, and possible Starbucks addict. He is a certified educational technology leader who has served in a variety of roles through his twentyyear career in public education. Currently, Mike is the Assistant Superintendent of Innovation, Technology, and Communications for the Chagrin Falls Exempted Village School district in Northeast Ohio. As an IT director he has developed creative, well thought out solutions that positively impact teaching and learning.
TWEENS & TEENS
—by Katy M. Clark
I10 Things a Part-Time Job Will Teach Your Teen
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attended Senior Night for my daughter’s team recently. As I sat in the bleachers listening as each graduating senior was honored, I was impressed by their list of accomplishments.
The first Senior played multiple varsity sports and participated in student government and numerous clubs. The next Senior lettered in more than one sport as well, plus she was in the marching band and belonged to the honor society. On and on it went as each Senior was celebrated.
When we got home, my daughter, a junior, mentioned that she felt dejected. When I asked why, she said quietly that it was because her list of high school activities was shorter than those of tonight’s seniors.
She expressed that she felt that her accomplishments in high school didn’t measure up, because she played one sport, not two or three, and had tried just a few clubs.
That’s when I reminded her that she’s been working a part-time job throughout high school. This job is truly her “thing,” something she dedicates time and effort to, that she enjoys, and that she balances along with schoolwork and her favorite sport.
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I feel that her part-time job teaches many valuable lessons and it should be front and center on her list of accomplishments in high school—as it should be for all teens who work, whether out of necessity, to earn extra spending money, or because it’s the activity where they fit best.
Holding down a part-time job in high school is absolutely an important achievement. There are amazing benefits and skills that teens garner from working a part-time job. Here are ten below:
1. Employment skills. The process of getting a job teaches teens important employment skills such as how to create a resume and present their best selves during an interview. They also tackle lining up their references, those teachers and coaches who will vouch for their character and work ethic. Then there’s updating their resume to reflect their new skills. And, if they move on to another job, they’ll master professionalism when giving notice. All of these are valuable employment skills they’ll need in the future.
2. Exploring career paths. Working during high school allows teens the chance to try out different careers
and discover what they’re passionate about. Being in the service industry, for instance, allows teens to consider if they like working directly with customers. Teens can check out physically active jobs such as landscaping or painting or discern if working in an office is a better fit. Reporting to a direct supervisor, no matter the industry, might ignite a passion in some teens to follow their entrepreneurial spirit and be their own boss.
3. Teamwork. Part-time jobs encourage teamwork, much like playing a sport. Teens learn to trust and appreciate their fellow employees as they all work together to achieve their workplace’s goals. They value the importance of the team functioning without conflict and as little complaint as possible. As each person pitches in to do their part, and encourages others to do their part, the team accomplishes their tasks faster and better, whether that’s taking out the trash or cleaning the bathrooms.
4. Doing something that they enjoy. This is a big benefit for many teens, who genuinely enjoy going to work compared to going to school. Indeed, many teens find a job less stressful than schoolwork. They discover a sense
of purpose and feel successful executing job duties versus trying to achieve good grades in subjects they don’t relate to or feel passionate about.
5. Earning money. It’s exhilarating for teens to realize that they can be paid for doing tasks or providing a service. After all, they don’t get paid to go to high school! Earning money provides motivation to work harder, too, so they can make more.
6. Appreciating money. After all the effort exerted to get that paycheck, you better believe teens appreciate the value of money. They now understand exactly how hard they have to work to earn an hour’s pay. It’s also eye-opening as they consider how far their paycheck goes towards their wants and needs, whether they want a new vinyl or need a tank of gas.
7. Managing money. Parttime jobs help teens develop money management skills now that’ll help them become financially prepared adults. Teens master direct deposit for their paychecks. They understand the reality of taxes and the different kinds taken out at the state and national level. They can learn about interest and the value of putting aside a portion of each paycheck into a savings account with a higher interest rate, hopefully using it to their advantage towards saving for a future goal like a car.
8. Beating boredom. Teens don’t have time to be bored when they head to a job after school or on the weekend and then come home to tackle their homework or help around the house. Working a job also means that teens won’t have so much free time to spend looking at their phone, which I know many parents consider a huge bonus!
9. Life skills. Part-time jobs teach teens how to handle difficult situa tions with customers, improve their communication skills, and refine their abilities to problem solve. Then there are
things like having to show up on time, respect a supervisor, and play by the rules of their employer, all of which increase working teens’ responsibility. Teens also become more adept at time management as they balance school, extracurriculars, free time and their work schedule.
10. Increasing autonomy.
One of the most important (but bittersweet!) benefits of working during high school is that teens gain greater autonomy through their jobs. They’re often in charge of all aspects of their employment, from scheduling shifts to communicating with supervisors. We parents are out of the loop, in a good way. Our teens work independently from us, growing into young adulthood and gently pulling away. As they should!
So, when it comes time for my daughter’s Senior Night celebration next year, I’ll remind her that working a parttime job is a terrific accomplishment for a high school student. After all, look at all the skills and benefits that teens reap from the experience. My daughter and all teens that work during high school should feel proud of this accomplishment and how it’s preparing them for an amazing future.
Katy M. Clark is a writer and mom of two who celebrates her imperfections on her blog Experienced Bad Mom.
FUN WAYS TO CELEBRATE YOUR TEACHER DURING TEACHER APPRECIATION WEEK
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Fancy Coffee Day: Perfect for morning or a midday pick-me-up, set up a table where teachers can get fun coffee creations that are sure to beat the coffee in the teacher’s lounge.
New Supplies Day: Collect classroom supplies, teaching supplies, stationery, tissues, and other things teachers use in the classroom. Invite teachers to come to pick a few things to refresh their classroom.
Relaxation Day: Turn the teacher’s lounge into a relaxing oasis with calm music, cucumber water, and spa kits with lotion and face masks to take home. Get a massage therapist to give mini-massages for a special treat.
Flower Day: Bring each teacher fresh-cut flowers or small potted plants. It’s fun to bring this during class so kids can see how nice it is to celebrate their teacher.
Ice Cream Day: Set up a sundaemaking station with all the fixings and make sure each teacher gets coverage to come to enjoy a sweet treat.
Talking to Kids About Disabilities SPECIAL NEEDS
—by Sarah Lyons
“Why do you talk like that?” I heard the question come from behind me as I helped another child in the Sunday school class.
“It’s just the way I am.” I heard my sister-in-law wisely answer the curious boy.
My sister-in-law, Kara, was born with Cerebral Palsy. She was helping me in the classroom that day when one of the kids noticed her speech was different. Kara has been taught to answer “It’s just the way I am,” after years of questions about her differences.
Our kids have grown up around their beloved Aunt Kara and accept her as she is, but there came a time when each of them has asked about Kara’s disability and why it makes her different.
Chances are, at some point, your child will meet someone at school or in the community that has disabilities. It is normal for children to have questions about people who are different, which means parents should be prepared to answer their questions in an intelligent and appropriate way. Here are some tips to get the conversation started:
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT BUT THE SAME
All of us have unique gifts, personalities, and challenges. No two people are the same and this is a great thing because diversity makes life interesting and fun. While we are all different, everyone has things in common too. All people, including people with disabilities, want to have friends, be shown respect, and have the desire to be accepted. Encourage your child to embrace the differences of others and find common ground, as well. If your child is interested in a popular television show, book, toy, or game, chances are a person with special needs is too. Ask them what they love to do. I would guess they will be happy to tell you.
TYPES OF DISABILITIES
Some disabilities are obvious and some are not. Some people may need a walker or wheelchair to help them move around. Others may have a cognitive (thinking) disability that is not as visible. Explain in simple terms that people struggle with different things and may need a little extra help from a physical tool (like a wheelchair) or help from others. People can have impairments with sight, hearing, walking, speech, cognitive, or a variety of other things. It is important to note that just because someone is in a wheelchair, it does not mean they have a cognitive disability. Also, disabilities are not contagious and children are not going to “catch” the disability. These things may sound obvious to adults, but children process things differently and many have these questions.
NAME CALLING IS NEVER OKAY
Emphasize that people with disabilities have feelings too. Name calling is hurtful, disrespectful, and is a form of bullying. People with disabilities need others to stand up for them when they cannot stand up for themselves. Encourage your child to tell an adult if kids are teasing another child. Your child can be an example
to others by being kind and respectful. Parents can set an example by using positive language and behavior towards others, as well.
A NOTE ABOUT “RUDE” COMMENTS
Kids are curious and love to ask questions. Many times, they will speak exactly what is on their mind, without thinking about whether the comments will be hurtful. This can be very embarrassing to parents. So, what do you do if your child blurts out a rude and embarrassing comment? Start by answering calmly and matter-offactly. If, for example, your child says “Why is that boy in a wheelchair?” simply answer, “He needs it to move around. Why don’t you say hello?” If the child is reluctant, say hello to him yourself along with something like “John likes trains. Do you like trains too?” If the person accompanying the child responds, follow their lead. It is always better to treat others as you would like to be treated than to hurry away in an embarrassing situation. Later, when you are at home, you can ask your child if they have any other questions about others with disabilities and reinforce the value of treating everyone equally.
My sister-in-law, now thirty-eight years old, has been asked many questions over the years, some rude and some just curious. She has learned to handle them well because she knows that, just like anyone else, she has challenges to overcome and successes to celebrate. Kara loves watching movies, dancing to music, and taking care of animals. She loves eating candy, pizza, and tacos. She is fun to be around and loves to get out and explore new places. People with disabilities are just people. Sometimes that simple fact is all kids need to know.
Sarah Lyons is a writer and stay at home mom of six children, including triplets.
Create Little Moments of Happiness This Spring with Family-Friendly Potato Recipes
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As the weather breaks and spring brings increased opportunities for families to get outside, activities, adventures and jam-packed calendars abound. All those special moments spent at the park, the sports field or in the backyard may leave lasting memories, but they can also leave you feeling short on time in the kitchen. Bring a little moment of happiness to busy family mealtimes during the spring season with The Little Potato Company’s line of easy-to-prepare Little Potatoes. They come pre-washed, require no peeling and are small enough that they don’t need to be cut, allowing for less time in the kitchen and more family time around the table as the days get longer—no extra spring cleaning required. For an added helping of convenience, their Microwave Ready Little Potato Kits come with delicious seasoning packs; simply pop into the microwave, sprinkle on the included seasoning and enjoy.
For a fun after-school or game-night snack, these Crispy Air Fryer Potato Nuggets pair perfectly with a variety of delicious dips. The air fryer cooks the potatoes in minutes, creating a crispy snack with minimal prep—no chopping or peeling needed.
Or you can make a delicious side dish a cinch with pesto, which adds a bright, flavorful twist to a classic in these Basil Pesto Mashed Potatoes. They pair perfectly with everyday family meals using Little Potatoes that require no chopping or peeling thanks to their naturally thin skins, helping cut down on prep time while bringing fresh flavor to the dinner table.
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Enter the sweepstakes at TheLittleSpringtimeSweeptakes.com, and find more ways to make spring meals a breeze by visiting LittlePotatoes.com.
Crispy Air Fryer Potato Nuggets and Dip
Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time: 24 minutes
Servings: 4
Potatoes:
1 cup all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon pepper
1 cup milk
1 1/2 cups panko breadcrumbs
1 1/2 pounds Little Potatoes
Chimichurri:
1 bunch cilantro
1 bunch parsley
3 limes, juice only
2 tablespoons honey
2 teaspoons salt
1/2 teaspoon pepper
1 teaspoon chili flakes
1 cup canola oil
Heat air fryer to 390º F.
To make potatoes: In a shallow bowl, combine flour, salt, garlic powder and pepper. Whisk in milk until smooth.
Place panko in a separate shallow bowl.
Working in batches, coat potatoes in batter then toss in panko until fully coated.
Place potatoes in the air fryer and cook 24 minutes, flipping halfway.
To make chimichurri: In a blender, blend cilantro, parsley, lime juice, honey, salt, pepper, chili flakes and canola oil until smooth.
Serve potato nuggets with chimichurri.
Basil Pesto Mashed Potatoes
Prep time: 5 minutes
Cook time: 20 minutes
Servings: 4
1 1/2 pounds Little Potatoes water
1 teaspoon salt, plus additional for seasoning, to taste, divided
2 1/2 cups fresh basil
4 cloves garlic
1/3 cup pine nuts
1/2 cup Parmesan, grated
2/3 cup olive oil
pepper, to taste
1/2 cup milk
2 tablespoons butter
Add potatoes to a large pot and cover with water. Add 1 teaspoon salt and bring to a boil for 15 minutes, or until potatoes are tender.
In a food processor, place basil, garlic, pine nuts and Parmesan. Add oil and pulse until mixed then season with salt and pepper, to taste.
In a small saucepot over low heat, heat milk and butter until butter is melted and milk is steaming.
Once potatoes are cooked, strain and transfer to a medium mixing bowl.
Using a potato masher, smash potatoes with milk and butter mixture then season with salt and pepper, to taste. Stir in pesto mixture.
