Psychology
Theories, Cultures, and Modern Challenges of Human Connection OSORIO, JASPER JACK M.
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Love is one of the most studied yet mysterious human emotions. Psychologists have developed frameworks to understand why and how peoplelove.
Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love (1986): RobertSternbergproposedthatloveconsistsofthreecomponents:
Intimacy (emotional closeness, trust, and connection)
Passion (physical attraction and desire)
Commitment (decision to maintain the relationship long-term)
ROBERT STERNBERG’S
Examples of combinations:
- Liking = Intimacy only
-Infatuation = Passion only
-Empty Love= Commitment only
Romantic Love = Intimacy + Passion
Companionate Love = Intimacy + Commitment
Fatuous Love = Passion + Commitment
Philippines – Courtship traditions like harana (serenading) once showed romantic sincerity. Today, social media and texting often replace traditional rituals, but values of respect and family approval remain strong.
Western Societies – Emphasize individual choice, dating culture, and expressions of affection. Cohabitation before marriage is widely accepted.
CHALLENGES IN MODERN RELATIONSHIPS: NAVIGATING LOVE TODAY
WHILE LOVE ENDURES, MODERN SOCIETY PRESENTS UNIQUE CHALLENGES:
1. ONLINE DATING:
2. Long-Distance Relationships (LDRs):
Challenge: Physical absence and loneliness.
Coping: Frequent communication, setting goals, and shared experiences (e.g., video calls, online activities).
3. Infidelity & Breakups:
Painful breaches of trust that impact self-esteem and attachment.
Strategy: Couples therapy, forgiveness models, and focusing on self-growth can aid recovery.
4. Cohabitation:
Increasingly common before marriage.
Can strengthen relationships through shared responsibilities but may also cause conflicts if expectations differ.
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