Jewish News April 20, 2026 Edition

Ambassador Dennis Ross and Ghaith al-Omari visit Sandler Family Campus

Jewish News Staff

For more than two years since October 7, the Jewish world has continued to grapple with grief, anger, fear, and deep internal division. Conversations about Israel and the Palestinians have strained relationships, fractured communities, and tested leadership at every level — especially on college campuses, where the next generation is forming its understanding of identity, history, and responsibility.

In late February, members of Tidewater’s Jewish community leadership had the opportunity to be part of a conversation about Israel, the Palestinians, and the responsibility of Jewish leadership with Ambassador Dennis Ross and Ghaith al-Omari.

permanent-status talks in addition to holding various other positions within the Palestinian Authority.

Ross and al-Omari have spent decades navigating the hardest dimensions of Israeli-Palestinian negotiations. Today, they travel together to campuses across the country, modeling informed, principled disagreement — demonstrating that it is possible to engage complex realities without abandoning nuance, mutual respect, or intellectual rigor.

Klebanoff, Ghaith al-Omari, and Ambassador Dennis Ross.

Ambassador Ross is the counselor and William Davidson Distinguished Fellow at the Washington Institute for Near East Policy. He also teaches at Georgetown University’s Center for Jewish Civilization. For more than 12 years, Ambassador Ross played a leading role in shaping U.S. involvement in the Middle East peace process, dealing directly with the parties as the U.S. point man on the peace process in both the George H.W. Bush and Bill Clinton administrations.

Ghaith al-Omari, the Rosalinde and Arthur Gilbert Foundation Senior Fellow in The Washington Institute's Irwin Levy Family Program on the U.S.-Israel Strategic Relationship, is the former executive director of the American Task Force on Palestine. He served as advisor to the negotiating team during the 1999–2001

In this serious, candid, and policygrounded conversation about what comes next, moderated by Jay Klebanoff, the men fielded questions on topics such as:

• The current strategic landscape in Israel and the Palestinian arena,

• Realistic scenarios for the months and years ahead,

• Lessons learned from past negotiations, and

• Strategic insights on campus trends.

Ross and al-Omari spoke about how slogans have become substitutes for thought, and that most peace activists are not really about peace, but rather about “no Israel.”

They also highlighted the two realities on Gaza. Israelis saw hostages and the death of soldiers, while everywhere else witnessed the death and destruction in Gaza.

At a time when voices are often amplified by outrage, this gathering presented a new perspective and appreciation for the ability to learn from each other.

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Survey: 60% of Americans have an unfavorable view of Israel’s government

Six in 10 Americans say they have a very or somewhat unfavorable view of Israel, up 20 points since 2022, according to a Pew Research Center survey released this month.

About half of them say they have a “very unfavorable” view of Israel, a proportion that has tripled in the last four years.

The survey of 3,500 U.S. adults conducted late last month, weeks into the U.S.-Israeli war on Iran, offers the latest signal that anti-Israel sentiment is surging among Americans. Multiple previous polls have shown that Americans newly sympathize more often with the Palestinians over the Israelis.

The poll results come as politicians on both sides of the aisle are pushing for Israel to receive less or no U.S. aid, and as the pro-Israel lobby AIPAC has become a punching bag especially among Democrats.

The latest poll replicated the partisan divide widely detected in polling, with about 80% of Democrats saying they have an unfavorable view of Israel, compared to 40% of Republicans. Nearly half of Democrats under age 50 said they have a “very unfavorable” view of Israel.

While Republicans continue to hold an overall favorable view of Israel, they are split on their assessment of its leader, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, according to the Pew survey. As many have little or no confidence in him as have a lot or some confidence — though among Republicans under 50, only 30% said they had any confidence in him.

The poll is the second released this month to detect opposition to the Israeli government among Jewish Americans specifically. The Pew survey found that 56% of U.S. Jews have little or no confidence in Netanyahu when it comes to world affairs. A smaller survey by the Jewish Electorate Institute found that 63% of respondents described themselves as both “pro-Israel” and critical of Israeli government policies. (JTA)

DNC committee rejects resolution condemning AIPAC

The Democratic National Committee will not vote on a resolution that condemns the pro-Israel lobby AIPAC specifically, after a sub-committee rejected the resolution on Thursday, April 9 during the DNC’s annual meeting in New Orleans.

The DNC’s Resolutions Committee instead advanced a resolution condemning “dark money” more broadly in electoral politics. AIPAC is one of several lobbies that have flooded elections with millions of dollars of spending, along with technology and real estate PACs, but it was the only one mentioned specifically in the proposed resolution.

Proponents of the resolution said AIPAC’s $14 million spend during Illinois’ primaries last month

made it worth calling out specifically. But its critics — including some who are themselves critical of AIPAC — said the resolution’s singling out of AIPAC carried an “undercurrent of antisemitism.”

Chair Ken Martin said the DNC opted to take the more inclusive approach. “We had various resolutions that focused on different industries and groups, and instead of going one-by-one, we passed a blanket repudiation,” he tweeted. “I have made my position on this clear from day one: We must end the influence of dark money in our politics and restore power back to the people.”

Jewish Democratic groups praised the decision.

“We agree with the rejection of dark money in politics — a topic covered in another more expansive resolution adopted by the Committee — but also believe that singling out any individual organization is both unproductive and unnecessarily divisive,” said Halie Soifer, CEO of the Jewish Democratic Council of America.

The Resolutions Committee also declined to adopt two resolutions supporting the Palestinians and opposing the war in Iran.

“We’re pleased that the DNC Rules Committee rejected a set of divisive, anti-Israel resolutions,” Democratic Majority for Israel President and CEO Brian Romick said. “These measures would be a gift to Republicans, would further fracture our party, and do nothing to bring Israelis and Palestinians closer to peace.” (JTA)

Connecticut school punishes students who targeted ‘Jew Canaan’ rivals

AConnecticut Catholic school has issued punishments in connection with a series of antisemitic social media posts about the school’s hockey rivals last month, The New York Times reported.

Posts associated with fans of Fairfield College Preparatory School disparaged the New Canaan Rams ahead of their March 23 game, which the Rams won, according to the newspaper.

“Win or lose we booze, and at least we’re not Jews. Hail Fairfield,” read one of the social media images, according to the New York Times, while another depicted a New Canaan player wearing a kippah and an Israel jersey. Some used the epithet “Jew Canaan.”

The school informed families about the posts and told the New York Times that the posts did not reflect Fairfield Prep’s values.

“We are very aware of the offensive antisemitic comments and posts,” a spokeswoman said. “Antisemitism is repugnant and antithetical to our values as a school and antithetical to the Jesuit tradition. There have been disciplinary actions that have been taken related to the social media posts.”

Many Jewish high school students say casual antisemitism is common at their schools, and the Anti-Defamation League recorded a sharp rise in reported incidents of antisemitism in K-12 schools in recent years, noting that independent schools, which vary in their accountability processes, may have fewer

safeguards than public schools. (JTA)

Jewish basketball legend

Amar’e Stoudemire inducted into Basketball Hall of Fame

AAmar’e Stoudemire, the American-Israeli basketball star who became a devout convert to Judaism after retiring, is heading to the hall of fame.

Stoudemire will be inducted into the Naismith Basketball Hall of Fame Class of 2026 alongside Milwaukee Bucks coach Doc Rivers and WNBA legends Candace Parker and Elena Delle Donne, according to ESPN’s Shams Charania, a top NBA reporter.

The 43-year-old Stoudemire played 14 seasons in the NBA, the first eight with the Phoenix Suns, who retired his No. 32 in 2024. Stoudemire was a six-time All-Star, the 2003 NBA Rookie of the Year and won a bronze medal with the U.S. team at the 2004 Olympics.

He also played professionally in Israel, where he won two Israeli Basketball Premier League championships, was named an All-Star twice, and won the league’s Finals MVP in 2020. He was inducted into the International Jewish Sports Hall of Fame last year.

Stoudemire, who formally converted to Judaism in 2020, has been vocal about his affiliation with Black Hebrew Israelites, a movement whose core belief is that African Americans are the genealogical descendants of the ancient Israelites. He has also coached at the Maccabiah Games and owns a line of kosher wine.

Stoudemire left his assistant coaching job with the Brooklyn Nets in 2022 after saying the role interfered with his Shabbat observance. Stoudemire, whose name on Instagram is “amareisrael,” frequently posts on social media about studying the Talmud and other Jewish texts.

Stoudemire joins a lineage of Jewish basketball icons in the Hall of Fame, including Sue Bird, who was inducted last year, Nancy Lieberman, Nat Holman, Barney Sedran, Max Friedman, and Dolph Schayes — the only other Jewish player to have his number retired in the NBA.

Non-players include coaches Red Auerbach and Harry Litwack, Harlem Globetrotters founder Abe Saperstein, coach and executive Eddie Gottlieb, the NBA’s first de facto commissioner Maurice Podoloff, and referee Dave Tobey. Senda Berenson Abbott, a pioneer of women’s basketball, became the first woman inducted into the hall in 1985. (JTA)

Tracking hate symbols

ADL is monitoring extremist symbols through the “Hate on Display” database, a comprehensive online resource devoted to antisemitic and hateful symbols and images employed by antisemites, white supremacists, and related haters in the U.S. Launched by the ADL Center on Extremism in 2000, it was just updated. This database has hundreds of entries that can help identify potentially antisemitic and extremist symbols, groups, and beliefs. (ADL)

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ANTISEMITISM

Moderation cuts leave most extremist, antisemitic content on Instagram unchecked, ADL finds

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(JTA) — White supremacist networks, terror group supporters, and Nazi merchandise vendors have gone largely unchecked on Instagram amid weakened content moderation by its parent company Meta, according to a new analysis by the Anti-Defamation League.

Instagram failed to remove 93% of hateful and extremist content reported by the ADL’s researchers, a figure the watchdog says demonstrated a “systemic failure” to protect users, according to the report published on Wednesday, April 15. The content included accounts and posts linked to white supremacist networks, groups that are designated as foreign terrorist organizations by the U.S. government and vendors selling Nazi merchandise.

The report comes over a year after Meta’s CEO, Mark Zuckerberg, announced that the company would do away with its fact-check program and stop using automation to detect and remove hate speech.

“Instagram is developing into a hub for hate and antisemitism, and our research demonstrates this clearly,” Jonathan Greenblatt, the CEO and national director of the ADL, says.

abandonment of moderation, Meta has undergone a similar shift more recently. The ADL has sparred with Musk and X in the past as well.

Meta still does not allow “organizations or individuals that proclaim a violent mission or are engaged in violence to have a presence on our platforms,” according to the company’s community standards, which also say the company removes “dehumanizing speech” and “harmful stereotypes.” But it has also scaled back its capacity to enforce the rules.

The changes, which Zuckerberg billed as a “trade-off” between catching hateful content and reducing the number of “innocent people’s posts and accounts that we accidentally take down,” drew criticism from Jewish groups, including the World Jewish Congress and CyberWell.

Of the 253 posts that the ADL’s Center on Extremism reported earlier this year, Instagram removed only 11 accounts and 8 posts, according to the new report, titled “How Meta’s Content Moderation Changes Risk Turning Instagram into a Hub for Hate.” In 20 cases, the watchdog says that Instagram said it lacked the bandwidth to review the reports.

“Meta’s moderation rollback has created a permissive environment where extremists thrive, bad actors turn Instagram’s own features into amplification tools for hate, and as a result, vulnerable communities suffer.”

While Elon Musk’s decision to permit formerly banned extremist account-holders to return to X has made his platform the most prominent avatar of social media’s

The report also found a number of accounts that were linked or indirectly linked to terrorist groups, including at least 23 accounts that spread Islamic State and Al-Qaida Propaganda, as well as 33 accounts with direct or indirect connections to the Popular Front for the Liberation of Palestine.

While Meta has maintained a ban on official accounts run by Nick Fuentes, the avowed white supremacist and antisemite

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One Southern California-based merchandising company, Curb Stomp MFG, which sells apparel with Nazi symbols including Sonnenrads, Totenkopfs and SS bolts, and its owner had garnered more than 3.2 million views on hateful content posted to Instagram, according to the study.

Oren Segal, the senior vice president for counter-extremism and intelligence for the ADL, says that the lack of content moderation on the platform amounted to a “public safety crisis,” adding that the company’s “decision to gut content moderation puts Instagram at risk of being a megaphone for the world’s most dangerous antisemites and extremists.”

Releasing the report ahead of a Meta shareholder meeting, the ADL is calling on the company to “reinstate proactive moderation measures against violative content.”

FIRST PERSON

Yom HaZikaron and Sargent Ari Goldberg z”l

Adam Goldberg

This month holds many holidays for Israel and the Jewish people. The biggest and most important being Pesach, our redemption from Egypt, Yom HaShoah, Holocaust Memorial Day, and Yom Ha'Atzmaut, Israel Independence Day, commemorating the founding of the State of Israel in 1948. All these holidays are written about in great detail and taught to us as children and as adults. But one major holiday that gets little press in the USA is Yom HaZikaron, Israel Memorial Day. (The evening of April 20 this year.)

Why should we, as Americans commemorate Yom HaZikaron? We have our own Memorial Day and few of us have relatives that served in the Israel Defense Forces (IDF), let alone perished while in service.

Yom HaZikaron is observed the day before the Israeli Independence Day. In Israel it is a big deal, as almost everyone in the country served in the IDF and most also know or are related to someone who died in service of Israel. The observation is quite stark and moving. The day starts with a one-minute siren at 8 pm, with a two-minute siren at 11 am, the following day. Drivers stop their cars on the road, wherever they are, to show reverence. Public entertainment is closed, flags are at half-mast, and memorial services are held, with the main ceremony at Mount Herzl, the Israeli equivalent to Arlington Cemetery. The atmosphere is a deeply somber National Day of Mourning.

This last December, Yom HaZikaron was brought home to Tidewater, with the passing of one of our own. Just two days before his discharge from the IDF, Sargent Ari Goldberg z”l was tragically killed in an accident. Ari was born while I was stationed in San Diego,

California, with my wife Chava and two young children. He was the middle child between Peter, Leah, Zev, and Zipporah. Ari grew up in Virginia, our Navy family moving to Tidewater when he was 10 years old. He attended Toras Chaim Day School in Portsmouth, Blair Middle School for one year, and Maury High School, graduating class of 2020. While attending Maury, he also attended Tidewater Tech where he earned certification in carpentry. Always industrious, he received his welding certificate from Tidewater Community College. A true son of Tidewater.

In 2022, Sargent Ari Goldberg z” l went to Israel for a year at Mechinat Ruach HaNegev. He arrived in Israel with a desire to connect with the Jewish people’s homeland and then fell deeply in love with all that Israel stood for. During that year, he chose to make Aliyah and move to Dimona – a city that embraced him as their very own. Following October 7, Sargent Ari Goldberg z ” l saw his duty and enlisted in the IDF as a combat soldier in the Israeli Combat Engineering Corps, as missing out on the action in defense of the Jewish people and homeland was not an option for him. He served multiple tours in Lebanon and Gaza as his unit’s designated marksman. In fact, he was responsible for blowing up many of the tunnels, buildings, and private homes of terrorists from which Hamas and Hezbolah conducted their terror operations.

food and drinks with his own hands. His door was always open and his smile was always wide. Ari loved people deeply. He was warm, generous, and full of life, always welcoming others and ready to help anyone who needed it. He believed with all his heart in friendship, community, and caring for those around him, and he lived his life in a way that made everyone who met him feel at home.” This was echoed by his family, friends, and fellow soldiers.

Ari was also an inspiration to his family, with his younger brother Zev enlisting in the IDF and his younger sister Zipporah joining the US Navy. His older brother Peter also served a tour in the US Air Force.

Ari passed away on December 30, 2025, during Asara B’Tevet, Fast of 10th Tevet, commemorating the siege of Jerusalem. He was laid to rest in Soldiers Cemetery in Dimona, the city he loved. The impact of his loss was felt throughout all of Israel. We received calls from President Isaac Herzog and Ambassador Mike Huckabee. Members of the Israeli Cabinet and Knesset came to Dimona to pay a shivah call. The Chief Rabbi and Mayor of Dimona were keynote speakers at Sargent Ari Goldberg z”l’s funeral – all calling Ari a hero of Israel.

Sargent Ari Goldberg z”l, a boy from Tidewater, truly cast a giant shadow.

In Ari’s memory, his family, his adopted Israeli family and friends, and fellow soldiers are building a home in Dimona for Lone Soldiers (American and foreign soldiers fighting for Israel). It will be a place where they can rest, feel they belong, host friends, and experience real moments of home, family, and community, just like Ari did for others. Ari told his brother that he dreamed of buying a bigger house with more rooms so he could host more people. We are committed to making his dream come true. To create a place where the warmth and belonging that Ari shared with everyone around him will be felt.

The best description of Ari comes from his adopted Israeli family, the Fischs: “A creative and original soul who was always learning, always searching, and always pushing his own limits. He loved bringing people together, hosting friends, and preparing

The home will be called “Lev Ari,” the “Heart of Ari,” or “Heart of a lion” which Ari also had, in memory of the brave soldier Sargent Ari Malachi Goldberg, z”l.

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IN MEMORIAM

Reba Karp, editor emeritus, Jewish News

1936 - 2026

Terri Denison

Reba Karp held the distinction of sitting in the editor’s chair at United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, editing this, and other publications, longer than anyone else. Reba passed away on March 17 after providing this community with more than three decades worth of newspapers – an enduring archive of life in Jewish Tidewater – until her retirement in 2004.

Reba was as creative and talented

aspects of Judaism were heightened and celebrated,” recalls Harry Graber, former executive vice president of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.

“Reba was a robust and gifted professional whose leadership while editor was creative, visionary, and diligent,” he says.

Reba annually entered and won Press competitions, both with Virginia Press Women and the American Jewish Press Association.

as she was driven and determined to do more – producing Renewal, a quarterly magazine and To Life, a book featuring testimonials of area Holocaust survivors, all while publishing paper after paper. She also found time to write her own books – novels and historical volumes.

Working for the Jewish community was personal for Reba. She travelled to Israel several times and took various other trips to Jewish sites throughout the world. While not religious, she was committed to Israel, to calling out antisemitism, and to preserving the messages of the Holocaust and its survivors, especially those in Tidewater.

“Her leadership made sure that antisemitism was fought and the diverse

the chair or not tossing her notes, but it’s really been out of respect for the extraordinary editor, and for the past 21 years, editor emeritus, that Reba was.

At her retirement, the late Hal Sacks, who was the paper’s book review editor and long-time friend of Reba’s wrote:

Ode to the Queen

Here’s to Reba whose heavenly muse Gave us three decades of the Jewish News;

“Reba was one of a kind,” muses her old colleague and long-time friend Betsy Karotkin.

To call Reba, “one of a kind” is a lovely understatement.

Until just a couple of years ago, Reba drove a Corvette, with her VET GAL license plate moving to each new model she purchased. At the same time, she wore flowy dresses, and jewelry made from crystals and geodes. She spoke about her dreams and their meanings and predictions, along with the teachings of Edgar Caysee, the clairvoyant.

When I began my turn in Reba’s chair, she offered up lots of advice. Lots. And lots. In fact, she called with more just several months ago. Her suggestions usually made good sense, and plenty of them I follow to this day.

Along with her advice, Reba also ranted – as she did in our last call. She was funny, feisty, intelligent, foul-mouthed, and absolute in her convictions. The combination made for a fun conversation or interesting lunch. . .though she was very particular about choosing a restaurant.

I’m still sitting in Reba’s chair, and the desk drawers still house her things. Some may call me crazy for not replacing

Deadlines would beckon, arrive with a whoosh, Reba delivered with a little shmoosh;

As we from this fair eve in September Your great works will ere remember.

Reba made certain Jewish Tidewater will always remember.

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Security training: Important for everyone

Prue Salasky

It was just a day after the twin horrors of March 12 – the attack on Temple Israel synagogue in West Bloomfield, Mich. and the murder of an ROTC professor in class at Old Dominion University here in Norfolk – when I attended Friday night services in the Sinai Chapel at Ohef Sholom Temple.

I’m a semi-regular attendee, but on this occasion, I felt compelled to go to show that the violence of the previous day’s events could not be allowed to be a deterrent.

Still, I was on high alert.

So, it came as a surprise to me to find the regular police duo who provide security at the entrance showing no outward change in demeanor. They were as casually friendly as ever, ready with a warm greeting, an open door, and no bag search.

(They know you, I was later assured.)

Sitting in the chapel, I found my mind drifting. I scanned the room for exits. I wondered idly if the two exit doors on either side of the bimah, which lead directly to the parking lot, were operational. Would they open? Would they set off an alarm if used? How recently had they been tested? Which of the other exits would be safer to use?

The more I thought, the more I became concerned that I had no idea what action I should take in the event of “an active threat” – that’s the terminology used by Mike Goldsmith, former Norfolk police chief, now with the nonprofit Secure Community Network, and security advisor for United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. What if my uninformed actions contributed to endangering others? And, I thought, if I don’t know what to do, there must be others who also don’t know.

When I expressed my concerns in an email to Rabbi Roz Mandelberg the next day, I received an immediate response —- while she was on vacation, no less. She copied her response to our temple administrator, Jennifer Levin-Tavares, who pointed me towards an upcoming security briefing at First Presbyterian Church.

And that’s how I found myself inside in First Hall, on the left as you enter the church from the parking lot, on a glorious spring afternoon. I was part of a group of around 100 members of local faith communities who had gathered to learn about congregational safety in a one-hour presentation by Goldsmith.

And I give that detail about the room and its location as one of the lessons I learned that afternoon. Always know where you are! It sounds so obvious, but it’s easy to attend an event or take a class and not pay particular attention to the room number or its name, or which floor it’s on, information which could be critical in a crisis.

Despite feeling skeptical at the outset – what could I learn unless it was specific to Ohef Sholom? – I came away with several really useful tips, and a determination

to follow up and ensure that other members of Ohef Sholom have the same opportunity.

I know OST has been diligent over the past few years in ‘hardening’ the facility, in training staff, and having a security committee that is constantly working to ensure the safety of those who use the building.

But we also, as individuals, have a responsibility to be proactive to ensure our safety and the safety of others.

Here are my main takeaways from Goldsmith’s presentation:

1. Take immediate action! The natural reaction to an unusual circumstance or threat is denial: It’s essential to believe something bad is happening and to act immediately. There is no time to lose; the average time of an attack from start to finish is 12 minutes.

2. Goldsmith expanded on the mantra “Run, hide, fight” developed from the lessons imparted by hundreds of attacks at schools and places of worship over decades.

(And if you already know this slogan, rest assured that as a graduate of remedial driving classes, there’s always something new to be learned from a refresher course!)

a) Run: The preferred option is to run from danger/the scene of the attack until you are far enough away to be safe. Detail: Run with your EMPTY hands in the air.

b) Hide: Again, this does not mean to hide somewhere obvious where you are. He cited the Tree of Life Synagogue attack in Pittsburgh where multiple victims ‘played dead’ on the sanctuary floor with tragic results.

attack a perpetrator(s) from different directions vastly increases the likelihood of success.

Here’s some general safety advice:

1. Check the location of the exits.

As individuals, we have a responsibility to be proactive to ensure our safety and the safety of others.

Mike Goldsmith.

To hide means that if you’re in a room with one door, you barricade it, turn off the lights, cover any glass if possible, and hide out of line of sight of the door. This option is used to buy time. For example, the average time that it takes Norfolk police to respond to a top-priority call is 4 minutes.

c) Fight: This is your last option when the other two aren’t possible. Scan the room in advance for anything that can be used as a weapon, such as chairs, desks, mic stands, etc. Working with others to

2. Know where you are.

3. Know how/with whom you’d communicate in a crisis.

4. Determine good hiding places in advance.

5. Scan the location for things to use as weapons (chairs, mic stands, coat racks).

6. Know that you should silence your phone; you can TEXT 911.

7. If you call 911, stay on the line until you are told to end the call.

8. Be alert to law enforcement response and follow all instructions calmly and without question. Goldsmith’s presentation was outstanding, both chilling and practical. He presented the facts without sugarcoating and further conveyed the chaos and noise – fire and smoke alarms, sirens, etc. – that typically accompanies an unfolding situation. Body-camera footage taken from past ‘active threat situations’ showed just how terrifying such episodes are for first responders too.

So, what can you do?

• Be personally prepared; take responsibility for yourself and learn the appropriate responses.

• Have your synagogue or church invite the local police for a tour so they’re familiar with the layout before there’s a crisis.

• Encourage others to learn how to thwart an active threat.

While it’s hard to think in these terms, it’s both prudent and essential for everyone’s safety. And that holds not only for the Jewish community, but for the community at large, as evidenced by the diverse crowd in attendance at that recent Sunday afternoon meeting.

I’m grateful to Mike Goldsmith for his work and also to Ohef Sholom Temple’s administration for their thoughtful and reassuring response to my concerns.

To schedule a presentation, contact Mike Goldsmith at mgoldsmith@securecommunitynetwork.org; for more information, go to www.securecommunitynetwork.org.

Hungary’s Viktor Orban’s loss to Peter Magyar, ends rule of a key Netanyahu ally in Europe

Philissa Cramer

(JTA) — Peter Magyar has ended Viktor Orbán’s 16-year tenure as Hungary’s prime minister, sending the closest ally of Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu packing after a decisive vote on Sunday, April 12.

Israel did not play a prominent role in the election, which centered on issues related to democracy, Hungary’s relationship to Europe and Russia, and corruption.

It is also seen as unlikely that Magyar will substantially alter Hungary’s relationship to Israel, even as many of the European countries to which he wants to stoke ties have softened or rescinded their own support. He is a conservative who was a member of Orbán’s Fidesz party for two decades and has said little to indicate any particular stances on Israel or the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

For some Jewish voters, Magyar’s silence was a turnoff for his new Tisza party, even as it rocketed higher in polls.

“I don’t hear anything from them about Jews, about Israel, about immigration, education or healthcare, or what they will do when they come to power,” Rabbi Joseph Frolich, who helms the historic Dohany Street Synagogue in Budapest, told Jewish Telegraphic Agency ahead of the election. He said he would vote for a liberal party that was not projected to win many seats in parliament.

Other Jewish voters said they were torn because of Orbán’s support for Israel and their perception that Jews in Hungary are safer than their counterparts in the rest of Europe.

Even as he has not been a critic of Israel, Magyar is unlikely to be as forceful an ally of Netanyahu as Orbán has been. Last year, Orbán invited Netanyahu to Budapest in part to signal defiance against the International Criminal Court, which had recently issued an arrest warrant for the Israeli prime minister, as part of his broad campaign against the EU and international institutions.

Orbán’s defeat is also a setback for the global right in which both Netanyahu and U.S. President Donald Trump are prominent figures. Many on the left and center see Hungarian voters’ repudiation of Orban’s moves to weaken Hungary’s judiciary, freedom of the press and nonprofit sector, as well as demonize immigrants and LGBTQ people, as a promising sign that such ambitions could be curbed in their own countries.

Netanyahu did not immediately comment publicly on the election results, though his Diaspora minister, Amichai Chikli, who has been a big booster of Orbán, tweeted that the election results proved that Orban was not a dictator, as some of his critics have charged.

The leader of the Israeli opposition, Yair Lapid, who is hoping to achieve similar results in Israel’s elections later this year, weighed in quickly. “Congratulations to @magyarpeterMP and the Tisza Party on their victory in the Hungarian elections!” he tweeted. “I hope that under your leadership, the relations between Israel and Hungary will continue to deepen and strengthen. Best of luck!”

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MISSION TO ARGENTINA

FIRST PERSON Argentina . . . what can I tell you?

Leora Drory

I will begin this article with a disclaimer: I am not a writer. And I’ll go one step further and admit that I have no idea how to start this article or how to title it. But despite all that, here I go – jumping in with both feet!

In early March, I joined 17 other Jewish women on a United Jewish Federation of Tidewater mission to the Jewish community of Buenos Aires, Argentina. I had no idea what to expect, but it didn’t take long to recognize two things simultaneously: The Jewish community in Buenos Aires is truly special; and the Jewish Federation of Tidewater is, too (especially it’s women!).

I’ve been on Federation missions before, with each one unique and memorable. Like my previous mission experiences, this mission’s itinerary allowed participants to see wonderful Jewish sites and hear from many impressive speakers. For the sake of sanity – yours and mine – I will not include every site we toured in this article. There is simply too much to say, so I’ll share some thoughts on a few of the places we saw and experienced.

We toured AMIA, the main Jewish institution in Buenos Aires (something

like our own Federation as far as being an umbrella organization). AMIA assists the Jewish community in strengthening and perpetuating Jewish life in Argentina. Its priorities include social welfare, cultural issues, community funding, and management of Jewish cemeteries. Its highly secure campus (featuring a magnificent Agam sculpture in the courtyard and memorials to those who perished in the 1994 bombing there) also houses the offices of the Jewish Agency for Israel, where we met JAFI Shaliach, Eli Cohen, and several young adult alumni of JAFI’s Masa program. Today, these bright young people are working across the Buenos Aires Jewish community as teachers, rabbis, sports coaches, and schlichim – strengthening ties with Israel and the Jewish people. They serve as outstanding role models for the next generation and are well-prepared for community leadership.

At the amazing ORT school (ORT Belgrano), we saw how the students from elementary to high school-age engaged in cutting edge science and technology, coding, business administration, and music and TV production. The students were bright, energetic, and confident as they presented their projects. It was very impressive!

We were surprised to learn that there are more than 30 Jewish day schools in Buenos Aires. This school has more than 8,000 students (about 30% of which are not Jewish – which speaks to the quality of the educational programming). We

ended our ORT Belgrano visit at Shabbat Sing-along with the youngest students and watched the Abba and the Ima light Shabbat candles and say the brachot over the wine and the challah. It brought back a lot of nostalgic feelings for those of us who recalled participating in Shabbat Sing-along when our own kids attended SIA and Hebrew Academy.

Our visit at the LeDor VaDor Home for the elderly was incredibly moving and impressive. A state-of-the-art facility originally started with the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC), it is now self-sustaining. Visitors arrive and are immediately met with a spacious lobby flooded with natural light and soaring ceilings. LeDor VaDor features a beautiful synagogue, library, coffee shop/bakery, hair and nail salon, and even an optical

department (whose available frames were incredibly stylish!). LeDor VaDor also provides physical and occupational therapy, with a full-service gym and expert rehab specialists. And yes, there is a waiting list to get in.

Other stand-out experiences included attending the Megillah reading on Purim at the Amijai Synagogue, where we returned later in the week to celebrate Shabbat with the congregation. Rabbi Alejandro Avrug proved to be everything his reputation has said he would be: smart, energetic, engaging, and even a bit opinionated. The Shabbat service was truly mesmerizing, and as we stood with 1,000 others to turn to the back of the sanctuary and welcome the Sabbath Queen, we felt truly part of the Argentinean Jewish community. All of this I saw with my own

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two eyes, heard with my own two ears, and experienced with my whole soul.

During Shabbat dinner with the rabbi and other community leaders, we learned that in addition to his 1,000strong congregation on an average Friday night, Avijai recently purchased a house not far from the shul, to serve as a place for young Jewish adults to hold services and programming. This location draws 150 - 200 worshipers every Shabbat. Their services are run by a young assistant rabbi (who is studying under Rabbi Avrug), and apparently it is the “place to be” for young Jewish singles and couples on a Friday night.

Our trip was well-balanced. We had a terrific opportunity to “follow our Campaign dollars” to see where they are hard at work in places such as LeDor VaDor, ORT Belgrano and the JAFI Masa program (as well as others I haven’t described, such as the Jewish community medicine bank, Refuot, started by JDC and now run under the auspices of the Tzedaka Foundation. Refuot provides free prescription medicine across the entire country – to Jews and non- Jews, alike – to 50,000 patients).

beautiful opera houses in the world (and peaked in on a live rehearsal of Swan Lake, what a treat!), and we even experienced a cooking class. Yay for corn empanadas!

I went to Argentina, and I did buy a t-shirt (it wasn’t for me). But I came back with so much more. I am glad to know our Federation dollars are hard at work helping our people not just at home in Tidewater and in the US. Again, not my first mission… but I am always proud and gratified to see that because of the work we do here at home and the dollars that we raise… we are connected with Jews around the world. Those in need are not forgotten. We are one people, stronger when we are united. We all just must help a little bit more.

To balance the site visits, we had wonderful Argentinean culture opportunities; we learned to Tango, we saw street art, we visited one of the most

Amy Zelenka, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater chief development officer and Mission planner, contributed to this article.

Living well as the campaign reaches new heights

Amy Zelenka

As this article goes to press, the 2026 United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Community Campaign is very near $5.1 million and on track to hit a record goal of $5.2 million.

In a time that continues to see rising antisemitism and threats to Jewish communities all over the world, the Federation is resolved to bring light and joy and Jewishness – whether it is through Arts & Ideas programs; the Konikoff Center of Learning and all of its educational opportunities; or the Jewish Community Relations Council and its proud and constant advocacy and support for all, here at home or in Israel. Or maybe it’s through the Federation’s allocated support for the amazing Jewish

agencies and organizations who deliver specialized services to the Jewish community.

If “living well is the best revenge,” then UJFT’s goal is to enable living well – for us, for our children, for our neighbors, and for those we may never have the chance to meet.

All of these programs and services cost money. And it’s the UJFT Community Campaign (and its remarkable donors, who give year after year) which help bring these services to all who want and need them.

So, whatever “living well” means to each person –being healthy, being secure, or being inspired to build a closer relationship with God, the Federation hopes you’ll support the programs and services of the Jewish community with a gift of support for the UJFT Campaign –

which ultimately brings so much wellness in the world.

The three options to make a gift of support to the 2026 UJFT Community Campaign are:

• Online via the Federation’s secure website at www.jewishva.org/donate.

• Call or email Amy Zelenka, UJFT’s chief development officer, at 757-965-6139 or azelenka@ujft.org.

• Mail a check to: United Jewish Federation of Tidewater 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 200 Virginia Beach, VA 23462 (Note: 26 Community Campaign on the check).

Amy Zelenka is United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s chief development officer.

Est ate Planning

Dear Readers,

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I tend to be a do-it-yourselfer. My preference, for example, is to craft my own cards for special occasions, plant each year’s new plants in the pots in front of my home, and map out my own vacations.

When it comes to estate plans and wills, however, for me, it’s time for the professionals. With laws constantly changing and evolving. . . and even if they didn’t . . . I know how much I don’t know. I also know that in order to enjoy a secure financial future, planning is paramount – not just saving. And that’s why attorneys, financial planners, insurance agents, accountants, and bankers all provide guidance to my family, using their expertise to design appropriate plans for us.

Within this section, you’ll find articles that offer advice for preserving your funds and talking to your family about your financial plans and desires, as well as pieces about considering philanthropy in your estate plans. Plus, Judy Rosenblatt helps explain the process of probating a will on the next page.

If you haven’t chosen your professional advisors, perhaps this section will give you some ideas and maybe even the impetus to get moving. . .before there’s a crisis of any sort.

Here’s to making a plan!

Terri Denison Editor

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Est ate Planning Probate: What does it mean?

Terri Denison

Probate is the court-supervised legal process of validating a deceased person’s will, settling their debts, and distributing their assets to beneficiaries. It can be, but not necessarily, a confusing procedure, and therefore something to consider when making estate plans and when seeking professional assistance from an attorney.

To help Jewish News readers understand probate, Judy Rosenblatt, a Commissioner of Accounts for the Virginia Beach Circuit Court, agreed to answer some questions concerning the process. In her role as Commissioner of Accounts, Rosenblatt supervises fiduciaries and audits accountings and other filings by administrators and executors of estates, trustees of trusts, and foreclosure trustees, among other proceedings.

Jewish News: What is the first thing the family needs to do?

and witnessed properly).

The term “probate” is also used in reference to the processes involved in qualifying as a personal representative and administering the decedent’s estate.

JN: How do you know if a will must be probated?

a will is not always necessary.

Judy Rosenblatt: Find the will. If the will is not with the decedent’s other important papers, contact the bank or investment institution the decedent used or an attorney, if known.

JN: What is probate?

JR: “Probate” specifically refers to the act of submitting the will to the Clerk of the appropriate Circuit Court and “proving” with appropriate documentation or testimony from witnesses that the will is valid (that is, that it was signed

JR: Probating a will is not always necessary. For example, there may be no property that passes by will or the amount passing by will is less than $50,000. Additionally, qualification is not necessary to transfer a motor vehicle title. In these circumstances, the will is probated and proved and recorded and nothing further is done. Other instances where formal qualification or administration may not be required are joint accounts with right of survivorship in banks, savings institutions, or credit unions.

life insurance proceeds, IRAs, retirement plan benefits, and other accounts or assets made payable to a specific person also do not need to be probated. The transfer of real estate to a surviving spouse also occurs outside of the estate.

JN: Where should the will be probated?

JR: The person who wants to qualify takes the original will and original codicils (if any), a certified death certificate, driver’s license or passport, and a personal check to the Clerk’s Office of the

Circuit Court that has jurisdiction over the will.

Virginia does not have a separate probate court. The will should be probated in the Circuit Court of the city or county where the decedent resided or where the decedent owned real estate; or if none, where the decedent died or has any estate.

If the decedent died in a nursing home or similar institution, then that person’s residence is presumed to be where he or she resided prior to becoming a patient at such home.

JN: What types of reports are required by law?

beneficiaries and heirs that the will has been probated.

Inventory: The personal representative files an inventory which lists all probate assets at their date-of-death values. This is done within four months.

Accountings: The personal representative files an accounting every year. The accounting details what has occurred in the estate since the last report and lists all assets of the estate, all distributions and ending assets which remain.

JN. Any other advice?

JR: All cities in Virginia have a good website to assist you as you go through this process. Both Norfolk Circuit Court and

mation online to assist you. Norfolk has a

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Jewish Future Promise unites 150,000 Promisers,

future of Jewish life and Israel

More than 150,000 people worldwide have pledged $5.9 billion to secure the future of Jewish life, philanthropy, and the State of Israel, according to the Jewish Future Promise. The milestone took place in late 2025 amid a global rise in antisemitism and follows the second anniversary of the October 7 attacks, underscoring the growing urgency to preserve Jewish identity and values for generations to come.

“Reaching 150,000 promisers is a powerful reminder of what can be achieved when the Jewish people unite around a shared purpose,” says Mike Leven, JFP founder. “You don’t learn how to give unless you’re exposed to givers. My philanthropic foundation was my grandfather. Every Friday, he would drop

a dime or a dollar into the Jewish National Fund box at our door; whatever he had, he gave to help others. That lesson stuck with me. Years later, mentors like Bernie Marcus and Sheldon Adelson broadened that sense of responsibility and helped spark the Jewish Future Promise.

“Each promise represents a commitment not only to the future of Jewish life, but to the moral and spiritual legacy that binds us as a people,” says Leven. “Whether it’s a dime in a JNF box or $10 million from a donor-advised fund, contributing to others is a privilege, and our goal remains to inspire millions to make this promise and secure a vibrant Jewish future.”

“This is more than a milestone; it’s a reflection of what happens when

the Jewish people come together around a shared purpose,” says Hadara Ishak, president of Jewish Future Promise. “Each promise represents not only a commitment to the future of Jewish life, but to the legacy of giving that connects generations. From the small acts of kindness we witness growing up, to the larger commitments we make as adults, each is part of the same sacred thread of responsibility and care. Our focus is on deepening engagement, strengthening our global community, and inspiring new generations to give with purpose, pride, and an enduring connection to the Jewish people and Israel.”

The funds promised through JFP are earmarked to support a wide range of Jewish causes, including educational

initiatives, community development, social services, and cultural preservation, both in local communities and the State of Israel. Notable foundations, such as the Charles & Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation, the Marcus Foundation, and the deToledo Family Fund, have contributed significantly to this historic achievement.

JFP is a powerful response to a 2017 study that found a mere 11% of donations from key Jewish benefactors were invested in Jewish causes. JFP is a catalyst for change, and through its efforts, JFP has created an alliance of philanthropic family foundations, individuals, and families to secure billions in future commitments for various Jewish causes.

The Jewish Future Promise does

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not receive any of the pledged funds directly. Instead, it serves as a catalyst for meaningful intergenerational dialogue, inspiring families to reflect on their values, discuss their legacies, and ensure that a significant portion of their estate or planned giving supports the Jewish community and the State of Israel. Beyond the financial commitments, JFP’s impact lies in the conversations it sparks between generations, as parents, children, and grandchildren share their stories, beliefs, and hopes for the Jewish people. Through these exchanges, JFP strengthens the continuity of Jewish giving, identity, and purpose for generations to come.

Jewish Future Promise asks signers to make a moral commitment; if any charitable contributions are made upon passing, whether it be $10 or $10 million, at least half will support Jewish causes and/or the State of Israel.

A visionary global initiative dedicated to preserving and enriching the Jewish heritage for future generations, the Jewish Future Promise asks signers to make a moral commitment; if any

charitable contributions are made upon passing, whether it be $10 or $10 million, at least half will support Jewish causes and/or the State of Israel. JFP is embraced by notable philanthropists, including Bernie Marcus and Charles Bronfman, who pledged to direct their estate’s philanthropic gifts toward Jewish and Israel-focused causes.

Extending its reach, JFP also inspires young adults, through the Jewish Youth Promise for 13- to 24-yearolds, to promise lifelong engagement with the Jewish community. JFP’s impactful work is supported through partnerships with major Jewish organizations, including the Jewish Federations of North America, JNFUSA, Israel Bonds, the Orthodox Union, and a host of local federations across the United States.

For more information: www. jewishfuturepromise.org and www. jewishyouthpromise.org.

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Today, we honor our Legacy donors whose vision and commitment are already shaping a strong and enduring future for the Tidewater Jewish community. Your generosity creates lasting impact, sustaining our community today while ensuring its strength and vitality well into the future

Names displayed in BLUE signify those who have formalized a Life & Legacy gift through the Tidewater Jewish Foundation, thereby empowering our cherished organizations to pursue their missions with renewed vigor Thank you for your dedication to shaping Jewish futures in Tidewater and beyond.

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TALK WITH FAMILY ABOUT MONEY AND YOUR ESTATE PLAN

(StatePoint) Money management is not only a logistical challenge for many families, but it can also be an emotional one too, especially when it comes to transferring wealth from one generation to the next. Open, honest conversations about fi nancial values and intentions can cut through some of the stress, and help family members avoid resentment, confusion, and even legal strife down the line.

“With American Boomers poised to transfer an estimated $68-$124 trillion dollars to their Gen X, Millennial, and Gen Z heirs by 2048, the time to have the conversation with your family about money and inheritance is right now,” says Heather Hunt-Ruddy, divisional leader, Wealth & Investment Management at Wells Fargo. “It starts with letting go of the notion that money is a topic to avoid.”

Hunt-Ruddy offers these tips to facilitate productive communication with family:

conversations where you discuss goal setting, review milestones, and go over any updates or changes to your plans. It’s helpful to know in advance what topics you’d like to cover and who you’d like to be present for each conversation.

Set the tone: It’s important that fi nancial conversations go beyond just numbers on the page. By maintaining a collaborative tone and leading with open-ended questions, you can foster a multi-sided dialogue that ensures everyone’s voices are heard, concerns are aired, and values are shared.

For Jay and Joyce Kossman, giving is rooted in purpose Their approach is strategic by supporting institutions that educate, strengthen communities, and shape future leaders

Guided by tikkun olam, they believe investing in people is how we repair the world That’s why they value early Jewish experiences where identity, connection, and belonging begin

In partnership with Tidewater Jewish Foundation, they are putting those values into action

Don’t wait to plan: Don’t postpone key decisions about your health, caregiving, and estate until there is a crisis. Pressure can cloud judgment and lead to snap decisions. Worse still, a sudden illness or accident may leave you unable to speak for yourself. Get your house in order now – drawing up or updating an estate plan and other legal documents, selecting a power of attorney, and developing an advantageous strategy for wealth transfer – so that your wishes can be carried out as intended.

Prepare the next generation: Many younger adults lack fi nancial knowhow. To empower the next generation to manage the inheritance you leave them, as well as navigate their own fi nances, consider introducing them to the team that helped create your estate planning strategy, such as your attorney, fi nancial advisor, and CPA. It’s also helpful to recognize that their needs and preferences may differ from yours. For example, younger individuals may prefer holistic fi nancial advice delivered digitally. Ultimately, you’ll want to ensure your children or other beneficiaries have both basic fi nancial experience and are set up with a team they trust.

“To honor the values, hard work, and hopes for the future that your wealth represents, don’t give the matter short shrift. Balance the art and science of preserving generational wealth not only with a smart fi nancial strategy, but by inviting the next generation into the conversation early and often,” says Hunt-Ruddy.

Don’t wait to share: Emergencies are also not the best time to share important decisions about your estate with your family. Begin the conversation intentionally and calmly.

Keep it up: Once the ice is broken, get into a rhythm of recurring fi nancial

More insights on generational wealth and other financial topics can be found by visiting wellsfargoadvisors.com.

Strategic ways to reduce taxable income and preserve more dollars Est ate Planning

(StatePoint) – Have you ever lamented how much of your earnings go to taxes? One way to ensure that more of your money benefits you, your future, and your estate is by making strategic contributions to taxadvantaged savings accounts.

By opening and contributing to a Health Savings Account (HSA) and Individual Retirement Account (IRA), you can substantially reduce your taxable income. Not sure if these accounts are right for you? Consider these insights from Fidelity:

HSAs

An HSA is an account that can be used to pay for qualified medical expenses, including copays, prescriptions, dental care, contacts and eyeglasses, bandages, X-rays, and a lot more. It’s “tax-advantaged” because your contributions reduce your taxable income; the money isn’t taxed while it’s in the account, even if it earns interest or investment returns; and as long as you use your HSA funds for qualified medical expenses, you won’t owe taxes when you take money out of the account.

This triple-tax advantage is powerful, but it’s not the only reason why HSAs are so popular. Unlike a flexible spending account, an HSA is not “use-it-or-lose-it,” meaning it doesn’t need to be spent within a certain timeframe. If the money in the HSA isn’t needed for current medical expenses, you can save and invest it until you do and even take the account with you when you leave an employer. Just keep in mind that to open and contribute to an HSA, you’ll need to be enrolled in an HSAeligible health plan.

IRAs

An IRA refers to a tax-advantaged account designed to help you save for retirement on your own, independent of an employer. There are several types of IRAs, but when people say “IRA” alone, they often mean a traditional IRA. That’s a type anyone with

earned income can open and contribute to. Traditional IRAs allow you to save on income taxes now and pay them later in retirement, when you could be in a lower tax bracket and therefore owe less in taxes.

Fidelity estimates that you may need 55% to 80% of your pre-retirement income in retirement. Because an employersponsored savings plan might not be enough to accumulate the savings you need due to annual contribution limits, investing through an IRA could help you save more for the future.

Before opening an IRA, check out a few different firms that offer them. Find out whether they offer helpful support and a user-friendly experience, plus whether they charge any fees or minimums. Then, once

the account is open, decide how much you want to contribute and how often.

“Setting up automated contributions can make saving for retirement into a habit that requires very little effort,” says Rita Assaf, vice president, Retirement at Fidelity. “It’s also a good idea to regularly check your asset mix to see if it is still a good fit for your goals, risk tolerance and time horizon.”

For additional financial resources and insights, visit https://www.fidelity.com/learning-center.

With a smart strategy that involves directing your income into tax-advantaged accounts, you can build more wealth for future needs and wants.

Est ate Planning A STRATEGIC APPROACH TO LEGACY: JAY KOSSMAN ON GIVING WITH PURPOSE

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Jay Kossman doesn’t think about legacy as something distant or abstract.

For him, it’s a daily practice shaped by intention, experience, and a deep sense of responsibility to others.

Growing up in Norfolk’s West Ghent neighborhood, Kossman’s early connection to Jewish life was more cultural than religious, he says. It wasn’t until he spent nearly 30 years away, primarily in Connecticut, that his understanding of Judaism began to take shape in a more meaningful way. Through study and guidance by a Chabad rabbi, he developed a deeper appreciation for the principles that continue to influence him today.

Among them is tikkun olam: the call to repair the world.

“That idea isn’t theoretical,” Kossman says. “It’s something you’re meant to live out in how you show up, how you support, and how you contribute.” That belief has become the foundation of his philanthropic philosophy.

Alongside his wife, Joyce,

Kossman takes a strategic approach to philanthropy, prioritizing institutions that educate, equip, and create lasting impact. Their giving reflects a belief that strong organizations don’t just meet immediate needs; they shape people, strengthen communities, and extend their influence over time.

That commitment has not gone unnoticed. In 2025, Kossman was recognized as a Distinguished Alumni by Old Dominion University, an acknowledgment of his sustained contributions of time, talent, and resources in service to the broader community.

Rather than focusing on shortterm outcomes, Kossman is drawn to long-term influence. “We focus on supporting institutions that help people learn how to think and lead,” he says. “If you invest in that, the return isn’t immediate, but it is lasting.”

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In those environments, he sees more than education or recreation. He sees continuity taking root. “You have to invest early,” he adds. “Those experiences stay with people, and they shape how connected they feel later in life.”

As a member of Tidewater Jewish Foundation’s board of directors, Kossman brings this same strategic lens to conversations around legacy giving, particularly when it comes to engaging future donors. “One of the biggest challenges is helping people understand the ‘why,’” he says. “If you can connect people to the purpose behind giving, if they understand the impact, that’s what sustains it.”

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Camp JCC fills days with fun, friendship, and spirit

Kate-Lynn Cipolla

From themed weeks to unforgettable traditions, Camp JCC aims to keep the energy high throughout the summer.

Favorite camp events include the Color Run and Apache Relay, Lip Sync Showcase, Camp JCC Gala, and Carnival Colossal. Daily fun happens with spirit days such as Crazy Hair Day, Tacky Tourist Day, Neon Day, and Tie-Dye Day, along with summer staples such as H2O Day, Watermelon Wednesday, and the Stars & Stripes Pool Party.

Every morning at Camp JCC begins with Boker Tov, a campwide celebration of songs, cheers, and laughter, setting the tone for a joyful day, and each week closes with Shabbat blessings, songs, and, of course, challah for all.

Camp JCC is the ultimate all-in-one day camp summer experience—offering something for every child. Campers swim twice daily (including instructional

swim), play sports, create arts and crafts, explore nature, and participate in music, drama, and classic camp games like gaga.

Open to children of all backgrounds, faiths, and abilities, Camp JCC is a welcoming, inclusive community where kids can try new things, build confidence, and make lasting friendships.

Camp JCC has a strong commitment to safety, low camper-to-staff ratios, and a caring team that ensures every child feels seen, supported, and successful.

“Camp JCC is more than just camp, it’s a place where kids grow,” says Betty Ann Levin, executive vice president, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC.

Fun and values go hand in hand at Camp JCC. All activities are designed to help campers build confidence, character, and

connection through core Jewish values:

• Simcha (Joy): Celebrating each day with laughter, energy, and positivity.

• Chaverut (Friendship): Building meaningful relationships rooted in kindness and respect.

• Ometz Lev (Courage): Encouraging campers to try new things and step outside their comfort zones.

• Arvut (Community): Creating a strong sense of belonging through shared traditions and experiences.

• Achrayut (Responsibility): Teaching accountability and leadership in everyday moments.

• Kehilah (Inclusivity): Welcoming and celebrating campers of all backgrounds.

Through these values, Camp JCC creates a community where every camper feels they belong—and leaves with skills that last far beyond summer.

For information, go to campjcc.org.

Kate-Lynn Cipolla is director of Camp JCC. She may be reached at klcipolla@ujft.org.

Wednesday, April 22, 2 - 3 pm, online

Summer camp season is around the corner, and the Secure Community Network (SCN) is launching its first-ever Camp Security Initiative Webinar Series, designed for camp administrators, counselors, parents, and campers. This program is intended to provide practical guidance to help in preparations for a safe and secure summer.

Protecting Campers: Safety Guidance for Counselors, is the subject of the webinar taking place on April 22. It will offer practical instruction for counselors on situational awareness, camper supervision, and reporting suspicious activity. The session includes a live Q&A period with security professionals.

SCN also offers a list of essential safety questions for parents to ask prior to sending their children to summer camp.

Some of the questions are:

1. Has the camp had a Threat, Vulnerability, and Risk Assessment performed and has it developed a plan to implement identified security and safety issues?

2. How is access to the camp controlled for visitors and vendors?

3. What is the procedure for handling a missing camper?

4. How does the camp communicate emergencies to campers, staff, and families?

The complete list of questions with details, is available at securecommunitynetwork.org.

Since launching in April 2024, SCN’s Camp Security Initiative has trained more than 5,000 camp-related individuals, conducted more than 100 site assessments, and helped secure $2.2 million in Nonprofit Security Grant Program (NSGP) funding.

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OPINION WHEN SCREENS REPLACE RELATIONSHIPS: EXAMINING TECHNOLOGY’S ROLE IN THE CLASSROOM

Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz

Ask any adult to reflect on their schooling, and they are unlikely to remember a worksheet or a video. They will, however, remember the teacher who sparked curiosity, who believed in them when they struggled, and the teacher who noticed when something was wrong. Many of us can point to educators who changed the trajectory of our lives, who turned a failing student around, or in some cases, quite literally saved a life.

This principle has been expressed by none other than King Solomon in the book of Mishlei (Proverbs): “As water reflects a face back to a face, so too does the heart of one person reflect the heart of another.” Our feelings and beliefs are sensed by those we encounter. Those feelings are sensed and then reflected back to us in the same way. When we express love, trust, and belief in someone else, we enable the other person to feel the same way about us. These positive feelings form the bonds of close relationships and are the foundation for continued inspiration and motivation to set high standards and accomplish goals which we may think are out of our reach. When we know someone loves us and believes in us, we can accomplish otherwise impossible tasks and withstand greater trials and tribulations knowing that we have the support we need to maximize our potential.

The success of educators is inseparable from a closely developed relationship which is invested in over the course of a year or more. When learning is outsourced primarily to technology, however, a critical conduit is removed. Effective learning is built on trust, responsiveness, and human connection. This is echoed in social-emotional learning research which emphasizes that teachers create the environments and relationships in which students can thrive academically and emotionally. It is the relationship which is at the core of success.

The presence of technology and its impact on our lives have been exponential. What is relevant today may already be irrelevant tomorrow. Simultaneously, our

access to, and dependence on, cell phones and other tech has also increased. This has not only been true in our personal lives. In schools, screens have become ever-present on desks, in backpacks, and in lesson plans. The prevailing assumption has been that “more technology naturally leads to better learning.” Yet a growing body of data suggests that this assumption deserves to be revisited.

As various sectors have begun to grapple with the balance between technology and the school environment, much of the discourse has been focused on students. Countless articles, news stories, and laws have attempted to comment on students’ distractibility, their dependence on devices, and their struggle to stay engaged. Far less attention has been paid to those who are meant to model the behaviors, interactions, and relationships we hope to instill: parents and teachers. Children learn not only from what we say, but from what we demonstrate. When teachers rely on screens as the primary conduit for instruction and engagement, the result is the implicit message being sent to children: mediated interaction is preferable to human connection.

A visit to many schools will find that a typical classroom has a significant portion of its learning, especially in the formative elementary and middle school years, relegated to visual platforms. While these tools can be valuable supplements and play a significant role in differentiated instruction and data-driven education, their use raises a fundamental question: Is school solely about information transfer? If education is reduced to content delivery, then a screen may indeed suffice. But schools have never been only about information. They are equally about the development of the whole child intellectually, socially, and emotionally.

Eating away even further at the teacher-student relationship is “technoference,” the intrusion of technology into in-person interactions. When a teacher or student engages with, or via, a screen, the relational link is severed. Instead, a message, however unintentionally, is sent that the device is more important

than the person in the room. The mere presence of a cellphone or tablet has been shown to reduce the quality of interaction, diminishing trust, closeness, and the depth of conversation. Perhaps most insidiously, screens foster a state of “absent presence,” in which individuals are physically together but mentally elsewhere, separated by their digital worlds. How can a teacher sitting at the desk bond with a student as they stare away in the opposite direction at a projector screen. How can students form a bond with one another when they remain individuals processing information from their own lens?

Digital tools in the classroom can crowd out opportunities for hands-on learning and direct social interaction with teachers and peers. For younger students, this loss is even

more significant as language development, cognitive growth, and emotional regulation depend on the back-and-forth responsiveness of an engaged adult.

At its core, the relationship between teacher and student relies on the ebb and flow of interaction that blends the realms of physical, psychological, and emotional. When technology dominates the classroom, the harmony is disrupted. If we want attentive, socially capable, and emotionally healthy children, we must ensure that our classrooms remain places where human connection is central and where teachers teach not only with content, but with presence.

Rabbi Aryeh Kravetz is head of school at Toras Chaim.

A slam dunk success: Recapping the Ultimate Bracket Bash

Kate-Lynn Cipolla

The Ultimate Bracket Bash was a slam dunk success, bringing a high-energy mix of play and creativity to the Sandler Family Campus. The evening kicked off in the gym with plenty of laughter as the kids engaged in lively games with balloons and took turns shooting around with basketballs on the court. Between rounds of play, the craft station stayed busy as everyone designed custom sports-themed bookmarks and hand-crafted bracelets featuring basketball beads. The excitement then moved to the indoor pool for a refreshing swim, allowing everyone to cool off and enjoy some time in the water with friends before heading into the final stretch of the night.

To keep the kids fueled for the festivities, a “Championship Snack Mix” featuring a savory blend of Cheez-Its, popcorn, cheese balls, pretzels, and party mix was enjoyed by all. This custom snack was the perfect addition as the energy shifted from the court to the screen. The night wrapped up by gathering to enjoy a screening of Cars 2 – the perfect way to wind down and celebrate a great event.

The next Kids Night Out is slated for Saturday, May 16. Registration is open. Since many favorite camp counselors will be there to join in the fun, be sure to register soon.

To learn more about Kids Night Out, School Days Out, Camp JCC, children’s classes, and more, contact Kate-Lynn Cipolla, Camp JCC director, at klcipolla@ujft.org or 757-321-2306.

A living conversation: Reclaiming Jewish identity through learning

Hannah Yasemsky

Miriam Anzovin’s two-day residency with United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Konikoff Center for Learning highlighted the impact of authentic storytelling on shaping Jewish identity. Anzovin’s approach moves beyond flat narratives, instead using personal experience that illuminates the essential Jewish values of lifelong learning, spiritual joy, and the wisdom of the Talmud. Her “hot takes” on the Talmud are not just for entertainment; they are a modern expression of the joy of learning. Through videos and conversations, Anzovin proves that deep engagement with Jewish texts is a powerful source of pride and a vibrant way to reclaim one’s Jewish identity.

In conversation at the Sandler Family Campus, Anzovin was asked two primary questions: How can Jewish individuals reclaim their voice on social media? And what would she say to someone struggling with fear while trying to show up authentically as Jewish?

Anzovin’s honest response was empowering. She admitted that she still feels a flash of anger when faced with those she calls, the “modern Romans,” the ignorant and hateful commenters who mirror historical adversaries. However, she views this anger not as a burden, but as a vital tool to have when the “Romans are coming,” because they will indeed come, time and time again. Anzovin suggests that a “healthy amount of anger” provides the momentum needed to defend Jewish identity. The key, she says, is to channel that fire into productive action: using it as fuel to dive deeper into study, learning, and teaching. “By turning the heat of antisemitism into the light of education, we ensure that our authenticity remains our strongest defense and our most radiant contribution to the world.”

Inspired by the late Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks, Anzovin brought a magnetic energy to the Tidewater community during her residency. Her daily practice of Daf Yomi has lit a fire within her—one that warmed the entire room as she spoke. With a blend of wit, charm, and an unapologetic passion for Talmudic studies, Anzovin did something remarkable: she ignited a collective desire to engage in Daf Yomi, a global cycle of studying one page of Talmud each day, completing the entire text over the course of about seven and a half years.

Anzovin’s residency was a reminder that Jewish texts are not just history, but a living dialogue. Now, it’s Tidewater’s turn, so get ready. The community will begin its own deep dive into Daf Yomi this fall, with plans to build small cohorts learning together in anticipation of the next global cycle beginning in summer 2027.

To learn more about studying Daf Yomi, and to look for upcoming courses, visit JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, senior director of Jewish Innovation, at SLautman@ujft.org.

To get involved with NextGen or learn more about upcoming opportunities to learn with small groups of adults, ages 22- 45, contact Hannah Yasemsky, NextGen engagement coordinator, at HYasemsky@ujft.org.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

An evening with Photographer Joan Roth

Hunter Thomas

In honor of Women’s History Month, the Tidewater Jewish community gathered at the Sandler Family Campus on Thursday, March 19 for a screening and conversation with internationally acclaimed photographer Joan Roth. The evening featured A Feminist Lens: The Art and Activism of Photographer Joan Roth, a 45-minute documentary that traces more than five decades of Roth’s work documenting women’s lives, activism, and identity.

Following the film, Roth was joined by the film’s executive producer and her daughter, Melanie Roth Gorelick, along with Laura Gross, for a conversation reflecting on the values, relationships, and questions that have shaped her photography. Together they explored how art can serve as a form of witness, inviting audiences to look closely and consider whose stories are seen and remembered.

In conjunction with the program, a companion exhibition of Roth’s photography was on view in the Simon Family JCC’s Leon Family Gallery, featuring images of Jewish women from around the world.

Presented by Arts and Ideas at the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, the evening offered an opportunity for reflection, dialogue, and connection through art.

WHY EVERYONE IS TALKING ABOUT MESSY MAKERS AND LITTLE BAKERS AND CHEFS

Kate-Lynn Cipolla

Kids headed home with flour-dusted aprons, neon-colored fingertips, and the kind of ear-to-ear grins that only come from a day of pure discovery, are good indications that Kyra Jones and Reagan Goode are back in action with their interactive classes. These once-aweek sessions have transformed space at the Simon Family JCC into a vibrant hub of imagination, proving that the most powerful learning happens when kids are free to explore.

Messy Makers is officially in its second season, becoming the ultimate sensory riot for explorers aged three to six years old. This isn’t an average quiet art class where kids stay inside the lines; it is a

high-energy, five-week exploration lab where the primary goal is to be wonderful and gloriously messy. These little creators are currently diving headfirst into a world of texture and color once a week, asking “what happens if I mix this?” and getting to hear a resounding “let's find out!” every single time. From the mindbending stretch of Oobleck and the fluffy wonder of cloud dough to the spectacular foam of elephant’s toothpaste and 3D puffy paint masterpieces, the innovation happening in this class is off the charts.

Meanwhile, the air smells incredible every week as Reagan Goode leads her third season of Little Bakers and Chefs. This is a real-deal culinary

adventure where young foodies in grades one through five are becoming absolute kitchen rockstars. These aspiring chefs sharpen their skills by whisking, pouring, and creating fromscratch treats that would make a professional baker jealous. Everything from savory cheese quesadillas and fresh smoothies to gooey cinnamon rolls, sugar cookies, vibrant fruit pizzas, and seasonal pumpkin muffins are on the menu. The confidence these kids are gaining is unmatched as they master new techniques and explore bold flavors. Plus, they are bringing home culinary skills and a sense of pride that will last a lifetime.

for children to join the fun. To ensure every age group gets their time to shine, Goode switches the age requirements each season. This means that the fall will kick off with a 5-week session of Kitchen Kiddos for little chefs ages 3–6, followed by another highly anticipated return of Little Bakers and Chefs for the older students.

Registration for these high-demand classes go fast.

Since children’s classes do not take place during the summer, the upcoming fall sessions are the next big opportunity

To learn more about Kids Night Out, School Days Out, Camp JCC, children’s classes, and more, contact Kate-Lynn Cipolla, Camp JCC director, at klcipolla@ujft.org or 757-321-2306.

Ari Mulligan wins IBMA Student Excellence Award

Alicia Pahl-Cornelubs

For the second year in a row, a Strelitz International Academy fifth grader won the prestigious IBMA Student Excellence Award, with Ari Mulligan’s selection as this year’s Primary Years Program Recipient.

The IBMA (International Baccalaureate Mid-Atlantic) is a regional association of International Baccalaureate World Schools that supports collaboration and excellence in IB programs across Virginia, Maryland, Washington, D.C., Delaware, and Pennsylvania. This award honors students who represent the values of the International Baccalaureate (IB).

As part of the application, students reflect on a service project and their growth through the IB Learner Profile. Ari shared how participating in a community service project helped him understand the power of empathy, teamwork, and taking action to make a difference. It was a great example of the IB mission in action, caring about others and helping build a more peaceful world.

Exemplifying what it means to be a caring and reflective IB learner, Ari says, “In 2023 and 2024, for my birthday, instead of getting presents, I asked everyone to bring canned food. I took the food to the food pantry and stocked the shelves. The volunteers there told me who the food helped. This showed me the importance of intercultural understanding and respect. I learned that helping someone in need is better than getting something for your own benefit.”

Through this meaningful service, Ari demonstrated the IB mission to develop empathy, understand different perspectives, and choose to make a positive impact.

Alicia Pahl-Cornelubs is International Baccalaureate coordinator for Strelitz International Academy.

BBG GETS NEW ADVISOR

Courtney Krutoy Tidewater BBYO recently welcomed Anya Dippold to Simcha BBG’s Advisory Committee.

BBYO advisors serve as positive role models, working in partnership with staff members to supervise and guide AZA and BBG chapters. Advisors empower each BBYO member to do their best, develop new leadership skills, and grow into dynamic and engaged young Jewish leaders.

A native of Charlotte, N.C., Dippold was an active and dedicated member of Ohavim BBG in Eastern Region's North Carolina Council throughout high school. During her time in BBYO, she served her chapter as Gizborit (treasurer), Morah (vice president of membership and recruitment), and ultimately as N’siah (president). BBYO, she says, played a significant role in shaping

her leadership skills, confidence, and some of her closest friendships.

Dippold attended the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where she studied psychology and advertising/public relations. While at UNC, she discovered her passion for working in sports and later interned in public relations with the Carolina Hurricanes. She currently serves as the manager of Sponsorship Fulfillment for the Norfolk Admirals Professional Hockey Club, where she oversees corporate partnerships and community activations.

Now living in Norfolk, Dippold says she is excited to return to BBYO in a new role as Simcha BBG advisor. She looks forward to mentoring teens, building meaningful programming, and helping members create the same lasting memories and leadership experiences that meant so much to her.

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BACK AT THE BEACH: JFS RUN, ROLL & STROLL RETURNS

SUNDAY, MAY 3, 8 AM, 24TH STREET PARK, VIRGINIA BEACH WHAT

Julie Kievit

Jewish Family Service’s Run, Roll & Stroll returns to the Virginia Beach Oceanfront next month. The 5K race and 1-mile fun run will begin at 24th Street Park.

“We are thrilled to return oceanside and once again offer a true race-day experience,” says Kelly Burroughs, JFS CEO.

This event is about more than just running—it is a celebration of community. Whether participants run, walk, roll, or simply come out to cheer, there is a place for everyone. This year’s event will also feature a variety of fun activities for all ages, including free fairy hair, balloon animals, glitter tattoos, and more, making it a perfect outing for families.

“We are so excited to be back at the oceanfront!” says Kelly Burroughs. “I am personally so looking forward to seeing all the kids and Team Tiger out there running, Cheering them over the fi nish line is always my favorite part!”

As the organization’s largest annual fundraiser, Run, Roll & Stroll plays a vital role in sustaining JFS programming such as the JFS Food Pantry, home delivered meals, Embrace counseling, and support services. Every dollar raised goes directly back into helping individuals and families in Tidewater when they need it most.

One of the most special aspects of the event is the way it brings people together. Individuals, families, and local organizations are encouraged to participate, and in past years, teams have added an extra layer of energy and connection to the day.

Whether by participating in the race, forming a team, sponsoring, or simply coming out to cheer, everyone’s involvement makes a difference.

Registration is open and sponsorship opportunities are available, offering meaningful ways to support the community while gaining visibility for organizations.

For more information on registration and sponsorship, see the links below and contact Brooke Rush at brush@jfshamptonroads.org or 757-321-2238.

Registration: runsignup.com/jfsrunrollstroll

Sponsorship: jfshamptonroads.org/spring-into-healthy-living-sponsorships/

Nadiv to

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2nd Annual Texas Hold’em Fundraiser

Tuesday, May 12, 6 pm: dinner; 7 pm: game play, Sandler Family Campus

Amy Zelenka

The Nadiv Young Professional Men’s Campaign Division of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater will hold its second annual Texas Hold’em Fundraising event next month. Last year’s inaugural event sold out, and it is anticipated that this year’s will, as well.

All player levels are welcome – from beginner to expert. $100 buys players one seat at the poker table and includes kosher snacks and drinks along with the chance to win amazing prizes. Opportunities are also available for Add-Ons to extend play during the tournament.

Nadiv is excited to show-off its brand-new customized chips and, more importantly, to engage the community in a fun and meaningful night of “playing for a purpose.”

All proceeds from this year’s event benefit Tidewater’s PJ Library program. PJ Library sends free, high-quality, age-appropriate Jewish children’s books and music to families monthly to encourage reading and foster connection to Jewish values, traditions, and culture. It serves families with children from birth through age 8, with the PJ Our Way option for kids ages 9-12. PJ Library resources are especially helpful in bringing interfaith families (where one parent may not be Jewish) closer to one another and to the community, as parents learn alongside their children about history, holidays, and culture.

This year’s tournament aims to attract approximately 150 players.

If interested in playing, register ASAP (seats are selling fast!) online at www.jewishva.org/poker.

For more information or for assistance with the online registration form, contact Amy Zelenka at 757-965-6139

Yom Ha’Atzmaut in Tidewater: A day of community, culture, and connection

Sunday, April 26, 12 - 3 pm, Sandler

Nofar Trem

Celebrate Israel’s 78th Independence Day, Yom Ha’Atzmaut, while connecting with friends, embracing Israeli culture, and strengthen community ties – bringing together families, friends, and organizations in Tidewater.

This year’s gathering offers a chance to support Israel during a challenging time. Yom Ha’Atzmaut is not just about reflecting on Israel’s history, but also about deepening the connections between local Jewish families and their ties to Israel. It’s a moment to stand united and celebrate the resilience and spirit of Israel.

The afternoon will be packed with activities for all ages, from hands-on experiences for kids to opportunities for adults to connect and engage. Enjoy authentic Israeli barbecue, delicious food, and synagogue-led programs that bring the essence of Israel to life. Everyone can join in the fun and make meaningful memories.

In addition, representatives from Virginia Hillels

will be available to offer high school students and their families time to explore Jewish life on college campuses—an important opportunity and consideration for those planning their future.

One of the highlights of the day will be the Israeli marketplace hosted by ESEK. With more than 20 curated collections, it is a chance to meet Israel through the stories of its people — from Nova Music Festival survivors featured in the NOVA Collection to

Israel Defense Forces reservists working to keep their businesses going while serving. From handmade jewelry and Judaica to artisanal foods, every item has a story, and every purchase is a meaningful way to show support.

More than anything, the day is about connection— whether it’s reconnecting with old friends, meeting new faces, or simply coming together as one.

Tidewater’s Yom Ha’Atmzmaut events are presented by Avraham and Karen Ashkenazi, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, and Simon Family JCC, and

Family Campus

made possible through the generous support of Simon Family Foundation and the Helen G. Gifford Foundation.

For more information and to register, visit JewishVA.org/YH or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

Yom Ha’Atzmaut Sponsors

Avraham and Karen Ashkenazi

Palms Associates

Simon Family Foundation

Virginia Beach Arts & Humanities Commission

Helen G. Gifford Foundation

Harbor Group International

American Israel Public Affairs Committee

Payday Payroll Services

S.L. Nusbaum Realty Co.

Gentry Locke Attorneys

Eide Bailly

The Law Offices of Daniel J. Miller

Wilks, Alper, Harwood & McIntyre, PC

The Spindel Agency

Allegra Marketing Print Mail

ENSURING A SAFE DAY FOCUSED ON FUN

Due to global events and in our ongoing commitment to the safety of the community, enhanced security measures will be in place for this year’s Yom HaAtzmaut celebration. We appreciate your partnership in helping us create a safe, secure, and welcoming environment for all.

Please read carefully and plan:

• RSVP is required for all attendees. Those who have not RSVPd in

advance will be asked to provide information upon arrival and should expect delayed entry.

• A valid photo ID is required for entry. Having your ID ready will help expedite the check-in process.

• Please allow additional time for arrival and entry.

This will ensure adequate time for parking, security screening, and check-in.

• Metal detectors will be in use. All attendees will be screened upon entry, and weapons of any kind are strictly prohibited.

• Travel light.

We strongly encourage guests not to bring large bags (with the exception of diaper bags). All bags are subject to inspection.

• Security protocols will be in place throughout the event.

These measures are designed to support a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone.

Thank you for your understanding, cooperation, and shared commitment to community safety. We look forward to celebrating together.

CALENDAR

APRIL 20, MONDAY

Book Club with The View from Lake Como by Adriana Trigiani. The group meets every third Monday of the month at 1:30 pm, Sandler Family Campus. Next meeting is May 18 to discuss Wreck by Catherine Newman. Information: Jewishva.org/Adults or Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

APRIL 21, TUESDAY

Yom Ha’Zikaron. Join Tidewater’s Shinshinim for a meaningful Yom Ha’Zikaron (Israel Remembrance Day) ceremony to support, honor, and remember the Israeli civilians and soldiers who have died in battle and terror attacks. Through shared remembrance and solidarity, ensure their legacy lives on. Stand together as a community with respect and gratitude. 8:30 am. Sandler Family Campus. Information and to register: JewishVA.org/ Shinshinim or Nofar Trem at NTrem@ujft.org.

APRIL 21, TUESDAY

Happy Hour with Ben and Zikki Siman-Tov, Yom Ha’Atzmaut Chefs-in-Residence. Ring in Israel Independence Day with rising culinary stars Ben and Zikki Siman-Tov, the creative voices behind @BenGingi, NYC’s BUBA Bureka and authors of Eat Small Plates. Get to know them, hear what inspired their work, and what they have planned next. Registration required. 6 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information and to register: JewishVA.org/YH or Nofar Trem at NTrem@ujft.org.

APRIL 22, WEDNESDAY

Israeli Chef’s Table Experience. This signature Yom Ha’Atzmaut (Israel Independence Day) multi-course culinary journey won’t be found anywhere else. Connect to Israel through food like never before at the third annual Israeli Chef's Table Experience with Ben and Zikki Siman-Tov, the creative voices behind @BenGingi, NYC's BUBA Bureka, and authors of Eat Small Plates. The chefs will share stories that highlight the deep ties between food, culture, and heritage. Information and tickets: JewishVA.org/YH or Nofar Trem at NTrem@ujft.org.

Due to global events and to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience, enhanced security measures will be in place. Advance RSVP is required, and all attendees must present a valid photo ID upon arrival. Allow extra time for entry and plan to travel light, as bag checks will be conducted. Thank you for helping ensure a secure and welcoming celebration.

APRIL 26, SUNDAY

Israel@ 78: Community. Culture. Connection. Connect with Israel through hands-on activities for all ages led by the Tidewater ShinShinim, local synagogues, and more. Experience Israel through food, music, and art. Shop the Shuk to support Israeli small businesses, reservists, and families affected by October 7. 12 - 3 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information and registration: JewishVA.org/YH or Nofar Trem at NTrem@ujft.org.

Due to global events and to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience, enhanced security measures will be in place. Advance RSVP is required, and all attendees must present a valid photo ID upon arrival. Allow extra time for entry and plan to travel light, as bag checks will be conducted. Thank you for helping ensure a secure and welcoming celebration.

APRIL 23, 30, THURSDAYS

Baby & Me. A relaxed hour of coffee, treats, and playful activities for babies up to 24 months. Connect with other caregivers while little ones explore and play with friends. Free to attend, no registration or membership required. 9 -10 am. Simon Family JCC. Information: JewishVA.org/PJ or Blake Sisler at BSisler@ujft.org.

APRIL 26- MAY 20, SUNDAYS AND WEDNESDAYS

For All Humankind. A JLI Course offered by Chabad of Tidewater in partnership with the Konikoff Center for Learning of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. What values enable a good life? What values shape a just society? Join this four-part course to discover Judaism’s ethical message for all people. Explore foundational Jewish texts to discover the spiritual path tradition offers every individual and how these values guide family life and uncover the essential role of education. Plus, understand what it takes to achieve Judaism’s vision of a more perfect and peaceful world for all humanity. No previous Jewish learning necessary. This course will satisfy the continuing education (CLE) requirements of lawyers and other legal professionals. Register at myJLI.com. $85. Scholarships are available.

Four Sundays, April 26 - May 17, 9:30 - 11:00 am at Chabad House in Norfolk. Four Wednesdays, April 29 - May 20, 7 - 8:30 pm at the Sandler Family Campus.

MAY 4 - 8, MONDAY THROUGH FRIDAY

PJ Library Book Exchange. Bring outgrown PJ Library books and place them in the collection boxes in the JCC lobby or at Strelitz International Academy until May 1. During the week of May 4, all collected books will be displayed on tables in the Sandler Family Campus lobby for families to browse and take home. Whether donating a few titles or browsing, be part of a fun exchange that celebrates reading, community, and the joy of finding that next favorite story. Information: JewishVA.org/pjlibrary or Blake Sisler at BSisler@ujft.org.

MAY 4, MONDAY

Screening for Jewish American Heritage Month. As Confederate monuments are removed nationwide, this documentary examines the life and complicated legacy of Moses Jacob Ezekiel, an internationally known Jewish-American sculptor who fought for the Confederacy and created one of its most prominent memorials. Steven Pressman’s film explores Ezekiel’s art alongside the enduring impact of the Lost Cause myth. Registration required at JewishVA.org/JAHM or Sarah Cooper at SCooper@UJFT.org.

MAY 5 AND 12, TUESDAYS

Botanical Garden tour for Jewish American Heritage Month. Explore the work and complicated legacy of Moses Jacob Ezekiel, the first American born Jewish artist to achieve international acclaim and a supporter of the Confederacy. This guided walk and talk tour visits the Moses Ezekiel Statuary Vista Garden, featuring Carrara marble sculptures he created in Rome between 1879 and 1884. Registration required at JewishVA.org/JAHM or Sarah Cooper at SCooper@UJFT.org.

MAY 5, TUESDAY

Yiddish Club. Embrace Yiddish culture, language, and history through music, film, poetry, and literature. Usually meets on the first Tuesday of each month. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: www.jewishva.org/Adults or contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

MAY 7 AND 21, THURSDAYS

Roundtable Conversation. Join community members of all ages for conversations involving current events, politics, and more for spirited debates. Meets every first and third Thursday of the month. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: www.jewishva.org/Adults or Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

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Irene Thelma Bressler

ENGLEWOOD, OHIO – Irene Bressler of Englewood, passed away on March 23, 2026, shortly before what would have been her 88th birthday.

She was pre-deceased by her husband of over 61 years, Ronald Bressler, in 2018, her parents, Arthur and Louise Halsband, and her siblings, Steven and Emily Halsband. She was born in Providence, Rhode Island, but raised in the nearby town of E. Greenwich. She lived in the Dayton area for more than 60 years after relocating from Chicago.

She is survived by her three children, Dawn (Jack) Kaye, Kevin (Karen) Bressler, and Andy (Shellie) Bressler, nine grandchildren, Rebecca (Gregory Garbuz), Kaitlin (Brant Appel), Hannah (Daniel Grasso), Korinne (Eytan Rosenblum), Allison (Christopher Graves), Brooke, Adam, Casey, and Ava, and seven great grandchildren (Aubrie and Jasmine Bryant, Gloria and Miriam Graves, and Henry,

Hallie, and Blake Appel).

Irene was a dedicated homemaker who devoted her life to her family and community. Irene was an excellent cook who made sure her growing family had nutritious and tasty food to eat. She and Ron created a loving Jewish home, with the children getting their religious education at Temple Israel. Irene was a lifetime member of Hadassah and served, among other roles, as president of the Dayton chapter for several years. For the past seven years she was a resident at Brookdale Assisted Living in Englewood.

Contributions in her memory may be made to Ohio’s Hospice.

Funeral services were held in the chapel at David’s Cemetery. Burial was in David’s Cemetery. Tobias Funeral Home, Far Hills Chapel.

Reba Karp

VIRGINIA BEACH – Reba Karp passed away peacefully on March 17, 2026, at the age of 92.

Reba was truly one of a kind. She began working as editor of the Southeastern Virginia Jewish News in May 1978 and was also instrumental in the creation of Renewal Magazine. Both publications won numerous state and national awards. Her most rewarding moment, however, was the publication of the book, To Life, featuring the testimonies of Tidewater’s Holocaust survivors, rescuers, and liberators, which received two national awards.

Prior to her association with United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Reba was the afternoon editor of the LedgerStar, again the recipient of awards for writing and page design. Reba published 10 books, one of which is in its fourth printing, The Edgar Cayce Encyclopedia of Healing.

She leaves behind a son, Dr. Nelson Karp, a brother, and a nephew, Mark, and her four adoring cats.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Edward.

A colleague and friend, Rabbi Israel Zoberman, noted that Reba was “devoted to the well-being of the community and will be sorely missed.”

Harry Graber, UJFT’s former executive vice president, said, “Reba’s leadership made sure that antisemitism was fought and the diverse aspects of Judaism were heightened and celebrated. She was well-respected and loved by her staff and fellow colleagues of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.”

Another friend and colleague, the late Hal Sacks, upon her retirement, left these words in tribute to Reba: “Here’s to Reba whose heavenly muse Gave us three decades of the Jewish News. Peace, peace oh Madame Queen, we pray you think of us each day.”

During these past few years as Reba’s health declined, her dear friend, Teresa Lilly, was by her side, assisted by Loquanda.

Anna Lee Rapport Langman

CHARLOTTE, N. C. – Anna Lee Rapport Langman passed on March 9, 2026, at the age of 86. She was a resident of Charlotte, North Carolina.

A funeral service was held at The Hebrew Cemetery, Chapel, in Charlotte.

Interment followed in the Hebrew Cemetery. McEwen Funeral ServicePineville Chapel.

Jordan S. "Buddy" Levitin

NORFOLK – Longtime Norfolk resident, Jordan S. Levitin, better known as “Buddy,” 92, passed away on April 10, 2026.

He is survived by his wife, Carol, 88, and children Michael (Caryn), Samuel (Susan), son-in-law Bob Mastorakis, and grandchildren Brenna, Daniel, and Jonathan. He was the son of William and Goldye Levitin and was predeceased by his brother, Charles, and daughter, Amy.

At an early age, he was nicknamed “Buddy” which stayed with him the rest of his life.

He was very close to Charles, who taught him to play baseball and golf in the 1940’s. Buddy was elected captain of the Maury High School golf team, when the new sport was introduced to local high schools. According to Buddy, Granby High golfers were unbeatable because they played the nearby course every day after school.

Buddy was a 1952 graduate from Maury and graduated in 1956 from Duke University with Phi Beta Kappa honors. He met Carol Ann Hyman from Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, at Duke, and they were married in June 1959 after Buddy returned from military duty in Korea. Following the death of his father, he and his brother took over the family furniture business.

Buddy led a life of service to others. On alternate Monday mornings for 12 years, he and a co-reader were the “Voice of Hampton Roads” on WHRO, reading The Virginian-Pilot to blind listeners.

He was past president of the Norfolk Host Lions Club, Melvin Jones Fellow of Lions International, and recipient of the Lions International President’s Award. He was a former member of the board of directors of the Lions Medical Eye Bank of Eastern Virginia and a lifetime member of Congregation Beth El.

He served as Master of Norfolk Lodge #1, Ancient, Free, and Accepted Masons, the oldest Masonic Lodge in the Commonwealth. He was president of the Grand Lodge of Virginia Scholarship Foundation.

In 1984, Buddy was called upon by Thomas L. Oliver, Norfolk native living in

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California and chief engineer for AT&T West Coast to establish the TOWN Foundation, named for members of his family and the family of his late wife. Graduating high school students would have the opportunity to avoid the financial difficulties he experienced putting himself through Virginia Tech in the 1920’s.

From 1998 through 2008, Buddy served on the Norfolk State University Foundation board of directors and revised the board’s scholarship program. He was the first president of the TOWN Foundation and served 30 years as president, secretary, and executive vice president until retiring in 2017 as vice president emeritus.

In 2009, Buddy and Carol established the Levitin Family Endowment at Norfolk State University, and in 2015, the Jordan and Carol Levitin Endowed Scholarship in Nursing at Old Dominion University.

Buddy became an avid walker in 1975 and subsequently was attracted to the sport of competitive race walking. He became a member of the United States Track and Field Association and was a certified USATF Mater Level official. In 2019, at the Virginia 24 Hour Ultra Walk/Run for cancer in Hampton, he set a state record in men’s 85-89 age group.

As a competitor or judge, Buddy was always quick to remind friends “when you see a turtle sitting on a fence post, you know it didn’t get there by itself.”

The family requests contributions in Buddy’s memory to the scholarships listed above or a charity of the donor’s choice.

A funeral service was held at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Norfolk Chapel, officiated by Rabbi Jacob Herber. Interment followed at Forest Lawn Cemetery.

Howard Mark Miller

VIRGINIA BEACH – Howard Miller passed away peacefully on March 19, 2026; he was 74 years old.

He will be remembered as a devoted father, a cherished family member, an accomplished Bridge and basketball player, and a respected legal advocate whose compassion and integrity touched many lives.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, and raised in West Hempstead, Long Island, Howard had a passion for basketball. At West Hempstead High School, he became

an All–Nassau County Basketball Player and was second at the school’s all-time points upon graduation. His remarkable skill attracted the attention of top college coaches, among them Lefty Driesell and Digger Phelps, who visited his home during the recruitment process. Lifelong medical challenges ultimately prevented him from playing at the level he once seemed destined for, but Howard’s love for the game never faded. He continued to play whenever he could and later found joy in coaching his son Nate, and his niece Melissa, and nephew Matt.

Howard went on to graduate from the College of William & Mary, where he met his wife, Francis Miller. He earned his law degree from the University of Richmond School of Law. Settling in Tidewater, Howard co-founded the law firm, Miller & Marx, building a respected practice in family and criminal law.

His commitment to public service was profound. Howard served as president of the Tidewater Legal Aid Society and was a twotime recipient of the Pro Bono Award from the Norfolk–Portsmouth Bar Association – a testament to his deep sense of responsibility toward those in need of legal support.

Outside the courtroom, Howard pursued another lifelong passion: Bridge. His dedication, sharp strategic mind, and competitive spirit earned him recognition as a Diamond Life Master, one of the esteemed ranks in the game. Among his proudest achievements was winning a national pairs Bridge title with Richard DePaulo, a highlight that reflected both his skill and his love of the challenge the game offered.

Howard was predeceased by his wife, Francis Miller, and parents Harold and Florence Miller.

He is survived by his devoted son, Nathaniel Miller. He also leaves behind his brother, Dr. Norman Miller, and Norman’s wife, Gail Miller; his niece, Melissa Miller, and her husband, Seth Lonsk; and his nephew, Matthew Miller and his wife Jennifer. To his family, friends, colleagues, and all who were touched by his kindness, Howard’s memory will remain a source of warmth, inspiration, and enduring affection.

Graveside funeral services were held at the King David Section of the Woodlawn Cemetery. Donations can be made to the charity of the donor’s choice.

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Shirley E. (Cohen) Neumann

PHOENIXVILLE, PA. – Shirley E. (Cohen) Neumann, 96, wife of the late Leonard J. Neumann of Phoenixville, passed away on Wednesday, April 1, 2026.

Born on December 30, 1929, in Philadelphia, Pa., she was the daughter of the late Julius and Beatrice (Abramson) Cohen and sister of the late Bernard (Buddy) Cohen.

Shirley worked as the bookkeeper with her husband for many years at Neumann’s Furniture Store in Phoenixville.

She was a member of Congregation

B’nai Jacob, Phoenixville, and served in many leadership roles including multiple terms as president of the Sisterhood. She was also a founding member of the B’nai Jacob Cemetery Association.

She is survived by four children: Beverly, wife of Stuart Berman z’l; Harriet, wife of Steven Bissey; Jerry, husband of Naomi Richman Neumann; and Melissa, wife of Seth Schwartz.

She is survived by nine grandchildren: Scott (Hillary), Rachel (Chris), Aaron (Elizabeth), Daniel, Zachary, Benjamin (Ariel), Hannah (Michael), Ian (Rose), and Rebecca and seven

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great-grandchildren, Sammy, Jack, Isaac, Neville, Lev, Charlie, and Shalva.

Her funeral service took place at Congregation B’nai Jacob in Phoenixville. Burial followed in B’nai Jacob Cemetery, Mont Clare, Pa.

Contributions in her memory may be made to Congregation B’nai Jacob or to the charity of the donor’s choice.

Stephen Howard Pitler

NORFOLK – Stephen (Steve) Howard Pitler, age 81, passed away on Tuesday, March 24, 2026.

Steve was born in Norfolk on March 20, 1945. The son of Julia and Albert Pitler, Steve attended Granby Elementary and Granby High School. He graduated from Temple University in 1968, and he received his law degree from the University of Baltimore in 1973.

Steve married Janet, the love of his life. He was a devoted husband, wonderful father, and grandfather. He was a confident and loyal friend to many.

Steve was a three-sport athlete at Granby and at Temple University. While at Granby, he was voted most athletic. He won the heavyweight Eastern championship and placed second in the state. He was also selected as Norfolk’s outstanding baseball player. At Temple University in 1968, he was voted the most outstanding athlete.

Steve went on to attend law school and was admitted to practice law in 1973. Steve was selected as one of the best lawyers in America. He retired in 2012. He also served six years in the Virginia National Guard.

Steve will be remembered for his sense of humor, superior wit, integrity, and dependability.

Steve is survived by his wife, Janet, his son, Damon, and daughter, Evan. He is also survived by Damon’s wife, Amy, and four beloved grandchildren, Theodora, Veronica, Logan, and Lucinda.

A funeral service was held at Ohef Sholom Temple in Norfolk. Burial followed

at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Online condolences may be shared with the family at www.hdoliver.com.

Richard Taylor

NORFOLK – Richard Taylor, 86, passed away on April 2, 2026.

Richard was born on May 10, 1939, in Norfolk, Va.

Of blessed memory are his mother, Dorothy, his father, Hyman, and his brother, Martin H. Taylor.

Richard is survived by his wife, Pearl, his daughters, Shawn (Jeff) and Stephanie (Jeff). He had seven grandchildren: Taylor, Tommy, Sawyer, Skylar, Jay, Kara, Abby, Molly, and Josh. Richard also leaves his fourlegged companion, Jack.

Funeral services were graveside at Forest Lawn Cemetery; a reception followed at Altmeyer Funeral Home in Virginia Beach. Donations can be made in his memory to Temple Israel, 7255 Granby Street, Norfolk, Va., 23505.

fMay the Source of Peace send peace to all who mourn, and comfort to all who are bereaved.

Red noses, real healing: The power of laughter in Tidewater

Nofar Trem

For one remarkable week in March, Tidewater experienced a different kind of medicine—one delivered with red noses, improvisation, and deep compassion. Representatives from the Dream Doctors Project, an Israeli nonprofit that integrates professional medical clowns into hospital care teams, spent several days across the region demonstrating how humor and empathy can transform the healing environment.

The residency was led by CEO Tsour Shriqui and professional medical clown Nimrod Eisenberg, who traveled from Israel to introduce local healthcare professionals, educators, and community members to the growing field of therapeutic medical clowning. Even amid the ongoing war in Israel, the pair remained committed to the visit and successfully made their way to Tidewater, bringing with them both expertise and a powerful message about resilience and healing.

During their time in Hampton Roads, Shriqui and Eisenberg visited hospitals, care facilities, and schools. Their schedule included stops at Children’s Hospital of The King’s Daughters, Lake Taylor Transitional Care

Hospital, Sentara Norfolk General Hospital, and the Jones and Cabacoy Veterans Care Center, as well as visits with students in the Health and Science Academies at Bayside, Maury, and Deep Creek High Schools. At each location, they demonstrated how humor, play, and human connection can reduce anxiety, build trust, and support patients and caregivers.

“We are incredibly grateful for the opportunity to learn from The Dream Doctors Project and see firsthand the joy they bring to pediatric care,” says Robin Kantor of CHKD. “Children need so much more than medicine to heal, and this experience brought an extra dose of laughter and connection to our patients and staff. We are especially thankful to United Jewish Federation of Tidewater for making this meaningful day possible.”

Members of the broader Tidewater community gathered for a special evening program on March 24 to learn more about Dream Doctors and the global impact of medical clowning. Through interactive demonstrations and storytelling, Shriqui and Eisenberg showed how nonverbal communication, improvisation, and empathy

can help patients cope with fear and uncertainty. At the same time, they spoke candidly about how the wars in Israel over the past two and a half years have shaped their work, particularly in hospitals, emergency response efforts, and trauma recovery settings.

By the end of the residency, the impact of their visit was clear. Healthcare professionals gained new tools, students were introduced to an unexpected approach to patient care, and community members left with a deeper understanding of the healing power of humor. Eisenberg reflected that despite the packed schedule, the warmth of the Tidewater community made the experience unforgettable, and every person he met along the way left a lasting impression.

This residency was presented as part of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, and Community Partners’ 15th Annual Israel Today Series.

For more information on upcoming Israel Today events, visit JewishVA.org/IsraelToday or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

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