Tredyffrin Newsletter Fall 2020 by Franklin Maps

TREDYFFRIN TOWNSHIP CHESTER COUNTY

FALL 2020 NEWSLETTER

Inside This Issue

Township Directory......................................................3 2020 Public Meetings Schedule ..................................3 Voting 2020....................................................................4 Citizens Police Academy .............................................6 Library News ...........................................................8-10 Wharton Esherick Museum .......................................10 EAC - Tree Care ..........................................................12

Gardening & Landscaping.........................................14 Historic House Tour 2020 ..........................................18 Jones Log Barn Update........................................20-22 Health Corner - Back To School Injuries..................24 Teens In Quarantine...................................................26 Parenting Corner ........................................................27 Senior Lifestyles.........................................................28 Pet Safety & Tips ........................................................30

Tredyffrin Township • 1100 Duportail Road • Berwyn, PA • Chester County • 610-644-1400 • www.tredyffrin.org

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Names & Numbers To Keep In Mind... Board of Supervisors

Township Staff

Murph Wysocki, Chair Mark Freed, Vice-chair KS Bhaskar Julie Gosse Matthew Holt Sharon Humble Kevin O'Nell

TOWNSHIP MANAGER William F. Martin

ASSISTANT TOWNSHIP MANAGER & DIRECTOR OF PLANNING AND ZONING Matthew Baumann

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FINANCE DIRECTOR Joseph DiRocco, CPA TOWNSHIP ENGINEER Stephen Burgo, P.E. DIRECTOR OF OPERATIONS Darin Fitzgerald SENIOR BUILDING OFFICIAL Michael Pilotti DIRECTOR OF LIBRARIES Chris Kibler SUPERINTENDENT OF POLICE T. Michael Beaty TOWNSHIP SOLICITOR Gawthrop Greenwood, PC

Environmental Advisory Council Historical Commission Library Board of Trustees Municipal Authority Parks & Recreation Board Pension Trustees Planning Commission Traffic Committee Zoning Hearing Board

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William F. Martin, Township Manager Matthew Baumann, Assistant Township Manager/Planning & Zoning Director Patricia Hoffman, Editorial Assistant Gabrielle Ignarri, Communications/Social Media Coordinator Amanda Lafty, Community Development Technician Edward Watton, Franklin Maps Sales & Graphics Manager The staff wishes to thank the many contributors for the content of each Tredyffrin Township newsletter.

Important Phone Numbers Tredyffrin Township Building

Phone.........................................610-644-1400 Fax..............................................610-993-9186 Website..............................www.tredyffrin.org Email ........................tredyffrin@tredyffrin.org

Tredyffrin Township Police Department

Emergency..................................................911 Business .....................................610-644-3221 Dispatch .....................................610-647-1440

Tredyffrin Township Public Works Department

Business .....................................610-408-3620

Fire and Ambulance

Berwyn Fire Company ................................911 Paoli Fire Company.....................................911 Radnor Fire Company.................................911 Malvern Fire Department ..........................911

Tredyffrin Township Libraries

Strafford.....................................610-688-7092 Paoli ...........................................610-296-7996

Tredyffrin/Easttown School District

Business .....................................610-240-1900 Emergency Closing Number .......................854

PLEASE NOTE: During your participation in and attendance at Township events and activities like the Summer Concert Series, 4th of July Celebration, or Community Day, you may be filmed, videotaped, and/or photographed by Township Staff. Your attendance serves as permission for use of your image by the Township (for example: in newsletters or on the Township website).

2020 Remaining Meeting Schedule & Holiday Calendar BOARD OF SUPERVISORS 7 PM - Keene Hall September 21 October 5 & 19 November 4 & 16 December 7 & 21

ENVIRONMENTAL ADVISORY COUNCIL 7 PM - Community Room September 22 October 27 December 1

HISTORICAL COMMISSION 7 PM - Community Room September 16 November 18

PARK & RECREATION BOARD 7 PM - Community Room September 9 October 14 November 17

PENSION TRUSTEES 7:30 AM - Board Room November 18

PLANNING COMMISSION 7 PM - Keene Hall September 17 October 15 November 19 December 17

TRAFFIC COMMITTEE LIBRARY BOARD OF TRUSTEES

7:30 AM - Community Room September 16 December 16

7:30 PM Tredyffrin Public Library (T) ZONING HEARING BOARD Paoli Library (P) 7 PM - Keene Hall September 24 (T) September 24 October 22 (P) October 22 December 10 (T) November 18 December 16 MUNICIPAL AUTHORITY 7 PM - Community Room October 13

2020 HOLIDAY SCHEDULE Township offices closed

Labor Day September 7 Columbus Day October 12 (observed) Veterans' Day November 11 Thanksgiving Day November 26 Day after Thanksgiving November 27 Christmas Day December 25 New Year’s Day January 1, 2021

TOWNSHIP COMMUNICATIONS Tredyffrin Township makes every effort to provide information to the residents and businesses as effectively and as timely as possible. The methods currently in use are: SOCIAL MEDIA The best and most current place to get information is through the Internet by connecting to the Township website at www.tredyffrin.org, which continues to provide information on all events and programs taking place throughout the Township, as well as providing the latest news, events, and emergency announcements. Tredyffrin is also on Facebook and Twitter, so follow us on Facebook and/or Twitter to stay upto-date. E-NEWSLETTER Tredyffrin offers monthly updates about Township news and events via the e-newsletter. To sign up for the e-newsletter, weather advisories, events happening in and around Chester County, and/or alerts by email or by text, visit www.readychesco.org and enroll. By creating a profile and selecting what types of notices you wish to receive, updates can be sent to you however you choose. PRINTED NEWSLETTER This printed newsletter is distributed three times a year to every residence in Tredyffrin Township as a public service. Franklin Maps works closely with the staff to provide this service for the Township and its residents. The cost of the newsletter is covered by advertising and not Township funds. If you have items of interest or ideas for articles, please send them to tredyffrin@tredyffrin.org.

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Voting 2020 See You At The Polls On November 3rd!

Mail-in Ballot Information

Deadline Alert: If you plan to vote by mail-in ballot in the 2020 GENERAL ELECTION, your completed application must be received in the Chester County office by 5 PM on 10/27/2020. Your voter ballot must be received in the Chester County election office by 8 PM on 11/3/2020. A late application will not be accepted, even if it was postmarked before the deadline.

How do I apply for a mail-in ballot? 2020 is a presidential election year and, like all years, it is important for you to vote on Tuesday, November 3rd. Take advantage of this important civic responsibility now that you have turned 18 (or even if you may be a bit older than that) and exercise your right to vote. Registration is handled at the County level and you can find information about voter registration in Chester County on their website at www.chesco.org. You can also call Voter Services at 610-344-6410.

General Election Voting Information Polls are open on election day from 7 AM to 8 PM. Last day to register to vote: October 19, 2020 The deadline to register to vote is now 15 days prior to an election, rather than 30 days.

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Option 1: Apply for a Mail-in Ballot Online Apply Online at VotesPA.com/ApplyMailBallot. Registered voters can apply for a mail-in ballot online with a valid PA driver's license or photo I.D. from the PA Department of Transportation (PennDOT). Option 2: Apply for a Mail-in Ballot by mail. Step 1: Complete a paper mail-in ballot application. Download and print a mail-in ballot application. You can contact your county election office directly to request a paper application. OR You can contact the Department of State to request an application by emailing ra-voterreg@pa.gov or calling 1-877-VOTESPA.

Step 2: Mail your application. Send your mail-in ballot application to the county election office. The deadline to apply for a mail-in ballot is one week before the election.

Other ways to request a mail-in ballot

Apply in person at the Chester County Voter Services. Once your county's ballot is finalized and available, you may request and promptly receive your mail-in ballot.

Contact Chester County Voter Services for more information. 601 Westtown Rd, Suite 150 West Chester, PA 19380-0990 610-344-6410 If your application is accepted, you will get a mail-in ballot with instructions from Chester County Voter Services. In the primaries, some voting locations were changed from their normal spots. Visit voter services in the fall to verify your voting locations have remained the same at https://chesco.org/156/Voter-Services.

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Citizens Police Academy 20thAnnual Tredyffrin Township Citizens Police Academy

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The Tredyffrin Township Police Department is proud to announce that we will be hosting our 20thAnnual Citizens Police Academy. The program was created to give people from the community a closeup view into how the Tredyffrin Police Department functions and the vast array of services it provides. Attendees are provided the opportunity to come to the police department once a week and learn about various topics.

Classes will be held every Wednesday evening, 7-9:30pm for 12 weeks commencing September 16th, 2020 at the Township Building, 1100 Duportail Road. If interested please contact the Director of Community Policing, Officer Joe Butler at 610-408-3654 or e-mail him at jbutler@tredyffrin.org.

Topics being covered this year include: domestic violence, tactical operations, criminal investigations, traffic safety, DUI and drug investigations, patrol procedures, a tour of the Chester County Public Safety Training Campus, a tour of a

You may also view the information on our web page at www.tredyffrin.org. Seniors, and those applicants who have served, or are actively serving in our military, please inquire about obtaining a waiver for the registration fee. Deadline for applications is September 11th, 2020. Space is limited. The Academy will not hold class during the week of Thanksgiving. The program is designed to increase understanding between citizens and police officers through training and open communication. This is an excellent program bringing together the community and the police department through mutual understanding. By participating in this program, citizens promote community involvement which is the most powerful force any law enforcement agency has in the fight against crime.

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WE'RE HAPPY TO SEE YOU

Please visit tredyffrinlibraries.org for current hours and operating procedures! There are a number of social distancing and safety protocols, as well as operational changes, that we will be asking you to follow while in the libraries. Please wear a mask when entering and using the libraries.We have additional masks to offer to community members who may forget to bring their own. Please limit inside visits to 45 minutes (or less). Spaces will not have chairs or tables for use at this time and we encourage you to use the libraries for browsing collections and checking out materials, picking up holds and using library PCs only. Public computer use will be by appointment only and limited to one daily 45-minute session. All meeting and study spaces will remain closed. No public gatherings of any kind will be permitted in those spaces. Due to the size of Paoli Library, safe social distancing is difficult, so patrons are also asked to register to come in and browse the collection. Browsing is limited to 2 patrons each half hour.

No Donations!

The Red Fox Bookshop will not be reopening and we are unable to handle donations at this time. Until further notice, please consider donating your materials to either the Vietnam Veterans of America's Red, White & Blue Thrift Stores or Goodwill in Berwyn. We appreciate your compliance.

Virtual Drawing Class for Ages 6 - 8

Tuesdays, 1:30 - 2:30 AM, Zoom Meeting (registration required) A simplified, live, virtual online version of FRAMED, with a new project every week. No special supplies needed! Space is limited. Miss Michele will email the meeting information after you register.

Virtual Storytime with Miss Stephanie

Tuesdays, 10:30 AM, Zoom Meeting (registration required) Miss Stephanie delights our young friends with stories, songs, rhymes and more!

Yarn Club

Thursdays, 2 PM, Zoom Meeting What are you making - we would love to see it! Are you a crafter who just needs to see other people? Join us for some time discussing your project and connecting with other fiber artists.

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Free one-on-one technology held over Zoom with instruction is completely tailored to your needs. Email Zoey Mills at zmills@ccls.org to schedule a one-on-one session.

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Weekly Events

Fridays, 3 PM, Zoom Meeting (Registration ends 2 hours before event) Join us for a few rounds of BINGO. You can view your BINGO card on a second device, print it out, or draw it on paper. If your child is not reading yet, parents will need to help.

Zen Meditation

Saturdays, 9:45 - 11:15 AM, Zoom Meeting Join Ying in this practitioner-led class for those interested in exploring Zen practice.

Trivia Night

Saturdays, 7 PM, Zoom Webinar and Kahoot! Join quizmaster Zoey for fun nights of trivia. You see the questions on screen but answer via another web browser window or the Kahoot app on your devices. Visit kahoot.it to enter in each week's special code. Registration available weekly.

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Tuesdays, 2 PM Facebook LIVE @PaoliLibrary Miss Stephanie reads you the first two chapters from a chapter book that you can get via our digital collection.

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Tuesdays, 3 - 4 PM, Zoom Meeting (registration required) Express yourself through journaling and art, with new prompts every week. Space is limited. Miss Michele will email the meeting information after you register.

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Fun for Teens - Roundtable Discussion: Current Events

Game Nights

Teens are invited to meet weekly for discussions on topics we choose. We meet virtually on Tuesdays at 3 PM. To join the group, email Laurie at LDOAN@CCLS.ORG.

College Essay Help for High School Rising Seniors

Marylyn E. Calabrese, Ph.D., writing coach and teacher, has generously volunteered her time to help students work on their essay writing skills while the library is closed. Dr. Calabrese is the former chairperson of the Conestoga High School English Department. Her educational background includes an A.B. from Bryn Mawr College, an MAT from Wesleyan University, and a Ph.D. in Teaching Writing from the University of Pennsylvania. For rising seniors only, Dr. Calabrese is available at no charge for those who want to get started on their college application essays. She has helped thousands of students in preparing successful college application essays! For information: e-mail Dr. Calabrese at WRITEDRMEC@AOL.COM.

Tuesdays & Fridays, 8 PM, Virtually with Zoom & Jackbox Join us for some fun with Jackbox games! No experience necessary. To join the group, email Laurie at LDOAN@CCLS.ORG

Even More to Come

We are also planning for an online workshop w/ UIF REC Studio in Wayne. Check Tredyffrin Public Library Teen page on our website for this and more! Visit our website or email Laurie at LDOAN@CCLS.ORG.

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Has your library card expired? Do you (or someone you love) need temporary access to our digital collection and databases? You can now apply for 90 day access to our ebooks, audiobooks, Flipster magazines, and databases. Simply fill out a form and we will email you a library card number (or renew your existing number). Tell all your friends and neighbors.

The show must go on!

We are happy to announce that our incredible musical theatre teaching artists, Max and Zoe are back! In place of camp, they will be offering private and group coaching, fun theatre games, and social events, adapted for the online zoom format. Tuition is pay what you can. All donations to Max and Zoe for their college tuition. Contact Laurie at LDOAN@CCLS.ORG.

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Wharton Esherick Museum Exploring the Wharton Esherick Museum from Home

Nestled in a wooded hillside on Horseshoe Trail in Malvern, the hand-built home and studio of Wharton Esherick may not seem like a place to search for online resources and virtual learning - but it is! Throughout 2020, staff here at the Wharton Esherick Museum have continued to develop and expand our website, finding new ways to bring Esherick into the homes and classrooms of those eager to learn about this icon of American craftsmanship.

Collection Highlights - a database of celebrated Esherick works in our collection; Online Resources for Educators - a compilation of resources for college and university audiences and adult learners of all kinds, which features primary source archives, writings on Esherick, and an Esherick bibliography; and At Home Activities - a series of fun, educational activities designed with both K-12 teachers and families in mind. These fun prompts appeal to a variety of ages, from designing your own studio with Organic Architecture for high school students to a compare-and-contrast game for elementaryage students. Full lesson plans for teachers can be found on our website too.

In the spirit of their collaboration, try finding your illustration first and write a story based on it! Start by taking a look at our list of suggested woodcut prints (available on our website). Esherick's woodcut, “Ships Struck in the Storm”, is one example from this list. Does it inspire you? Create a story (or a poem, or song, or anything!) to go with it.

Below is a selection from our Reverse Storytelling activity - just a taste of the At Home Activities waiting for you at whartonesherickmuseum.org.

Reverse Storytelling

From our website's new Explore tab, guests can find multiple ways to dive into Esherick's legacy including: Notes from the Studio - our monthly blog posts illuminating Esherick's story (often through guest writers or deep dives into the Museum archives); 10

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Story and literature are integral to Esherick's work. He had early success as an artist creating woodcut illustrations for books. It may seem safe to assume that the writing existed before Esherick's illustrations, right? Not always! When working on his first book, Rhymes of Early Jungle Folk (Marcy, 1922), Esherick and writer Mary Marcy often exchanged poems and woodblock illustrations. At times, she would provide him with a poem, and he would create an illustration. Other times, he would give her an illustration and she would create a poem.

Looking for more inspiration? Check out our comprehensive list of Museums with Esherick in their Online Collections in our Online Resources for Educators at whartonesherickmuseum.org.

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EAC - Taking Care Of Your Trees You know that trees are good for the environment. Maybe you chose your home partly because of the trees, but now you may be replacing trees that were lost due to storm damage or construction. Help your trees thrive and maximize their ecological benefits by following these tips.

Planting trees

The right tree for the right site. Take time to learn about what trees work best in your soil. Look up information about any tree you consider planting: Is it suited to your type of soil? Will it thrive with this area's usual amounts of rainfall? What about the tree's mature size? Don't plant a tree that will grow to 90 feet near your house or to power lines! Early care ensures good survival. Tree Tenders cites two major reasons for failure of young trees to get established: Planting too deeply, and watering too little. For detailed video guidelines, go to the Pennsylvania Horticultural Society Tree Tenders Youtube videos, 'Planting a Container Tree' and 'Planting a Bareroot Tree'. Planting too deeply. A tree trunk ends in a root flare. The root flare should be above the soil line. Soil (or bark mulch) piled against the trunk of the tree encourages surface roots instead of the deep roots the tree needs. Even worse, microorganisms, insects, and burrowing rodents will attack the cambium, or nutrient-carrying layer, of the tree trunk if soil is piled against it. Root structure is made to be in contact with soil; trunk structure is not.

by Mary Westervelt, Tredyffrin EAC

Pennsylvania Horticultural Society (PHS) recommends watering with at least 10 gallons per week (up to 15 in a city situation where much of the soil is covered with pavement), preferably delivered slowly to the base of the tree. If it rains, you might be able to supply less extra water. Check the soil to be sure. And, if there's a warm spell in the winter, be sure to water your new tree.

tractor mowers, compacts the soil. Mowers, weed whippers, and other lawn-care equipment run into trees, damaging the bark and letting in disease and insects.

Ongoing care

Care throughout the life of the tree is important for maintaining the tree's health. Follow these pointers for ongoing care of a tree: Mulch correctly, skip the lawn under the tree, and protect your tree from deer (and weed whackers). Yes to mulch, no to mowing! It's important to keep the soil below the tree moist and uncompacted. Mulch in the form of shredded leaves or roots (no dye, please!) helps control weeds, keep the soil moist, and maintain the structure of the soil. As the mulch breaks down, it feeds the soil as well. Say NO to Mulch Volcanoes! Go for a walk in the woods. Notice how trees grow in the wild. They never have 'volcanoes' of soil or mulch mounded around the trunks! Keep the mulch AWAY from the trunk of the tree! See the warning against 'planting too deeply' above. Mounding mulch around the trunk is as bad as planting too deeply.

The healthy root flare of a tree surrounded with a mix of native and non-native ground-cover plants. The twigs and leaves add ntrients to the soil. No need to run the mower under this tree. (Photo by Mary Westervelt)

Protect trees from deer. In our area, young trees must be caged to protect them from deer. Saplings will be browsed if they are not caged or sprayed with deer repellant. Older trees, up to about five inches in diameter, attract bucks looking for a good place to rub the velvet off their antlers. Buck rub can result in so much bark damage that it kills the tree. Give your new trees a good start and continue providing the basic care needed to ensure that they contribute to the beauty of your property and to your property's environmental value.

Mulch volcano around a tree in a Tredyffrin parking lot. The mulch is compacted and full of roots, so it's very hard to scrape away. (Photo by Anne Murphy)

Over 4 inches of mulch removed, and still not down to the root flare! Note the roots circling the trunk. If left, they could grow to strangle the tree. (Photo by Anne Murphy)

Watering too little in the first two years. Yes, we live in a climate with adequate annual precipitation, but it may not fall when your tree needs it! A transplanted tree has probably suffered some damage to the tiny roots that bring in moisture and nutrients. You need to make sure the soil stays moist during the first two years, while the tree rebuilds a healthy root system. The 12

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Don't put your leaves out on the curb! Use them as mulch under your trees, shrubs, and on your perennial beds. Here's how: When leaves fall, rake them onto the lawn and run over them with a mower (NOT a tractor mower). Your mower may even have a mulch plug to help grind up the leaves. Then, rake the leaves to where they can serve as mulch. You can rake the leaves onto a tarp and drag them to where they are needed to save labor.

PHS recommends the 3-3-3 rule for proper mulching: 3 inches away from the trunk, no more than 3 inches deep, and extend the mulch to about 3 feet out from the tree. (For mature trees, you can even mulch out to the 'drip' line - the extent of the branches, which is the likely extent of the roots as well.)

You can also add the shredded leaves to your compost pile and use the composted leaves in the spring. However, keep some leaves in their shredded state on your property. Many butterfly and moth larva over-winter in leaf mulch. If you remove it or compost all of it, you may reduce the number of beneficial insects on your property.

What about having lawn under the tree? As PHS says, 'Say No to Grass!' Turfgrass is not natural in our area, and it requires heavy input of chemicals to be kept green. Those chemicals damage the soil in ways that make it harder for trees (and other plants) to grow. Cutting the grass, especially with heavy

Jenkins Arboretum and Gardens in Devon actually collects leaves from neighbors, runs over them with a mower, and bags them to use throughout the year as mulch. Take a tip from the local pros - those leaves are what your landscape needs!

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Gardening & Landscaping Enhancing Your Fall Garden

Autumn is a great season for admiring and bolstering the life in your garden. The shortening daylight hours signal leaves to begin their transition from lush, summer green to cooler hues of reds, oranges, and yellows. Dropping temperatures encourage the flora and fauna to slow down in preparation of winter dormancy and hibernation. A gardener's work, however, is never complete. This is an optimal time for cherishing the newly painted landscape and continuing garden improvement projects.

by Heather Titanich, Hamilton Fellow at Jenkins Arboretum & Gardens

through Jenkins, you may notice a dense layer of oak leaf litter in all of the garden beds and natural areas. Being in an oak dominated forest, this method of naturalistic gardening is just one way we manage the resources we have while continuing to provide for the local flora and fauna.

Autumn goldenrod - Solidago sphacelata â€˜Golden Fleece' In Flower (photo by Chris Swisher)

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Autumn is also a great time to expand your gardens and extend the bloom time. Cool air temperatures, moderate moisture levels, and adequate heat

Outside of the aster family, species such as Southern blue monkshood (Aconitum uncinatum), bottle gentian (Gentiana andrewsii), Cardinal flower (Lobelia cardinalis), and Great blue lobelia (Lobelia siphilitica) add a variety of flower types, textures, and colors that will brighten your garden as the temperatures begin to drop. After the plants are in the ground, remember to thoroughly water and mulch them to provide ample opportunity for successful growth. Southern blue monkshood - Aconitum uncinatum

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Seed Collecting Fall Color

Jenkins Arboretum & Gardens by the pond in autumn (photo by Chris Swisher)

As September rolls in, we notice the subtleties in the changing color palette of the trees. Our home gardens also start to cycle through and slow down, giving us an opportunity to admire the season's hard work. The timing of this leaf color change is determined by the reduced hours of sunlight. The brilliance of the color change is then influenced by climatic factors, such as moisture and temperature. Wetter conditions and cooler nighttime temperatures allow for a longer period of color change, while sunnier days make for a brighter color. In Southeastern Pennsylvania, peak fall color is typically enjoyed in mid to late October. Certain deciduous trees are known to have a brighter display of fall color, including red maple (Acer rubrum), sugar maple (Acer saccharum), and blackgum (Nyssa sylvatica). Additionally, there are a few deciduous conifers that join in the show and drop their needles in the fall. This includes bald cypress (Taxodium distichum) and American larch (Larix laricina), both of which turn a beautiful, golden yellow. Some plants have a rather unique lifecycle in which they are blooming as the leaves are changing color. This anomaly can be seen in the Franklin tree (Franklinia alatamaha) and some deciduous azaleas including Rhododendron x 'Weston's Innocence'. Jenkins Arboretum & Gardens is home to an accredited collection of rhododendron and azaleas. These plants are most often thought of as providing striking colors when blooming in the spring, but many also have notable features in the fall. Some species, such as the Encore azaleas, even have a second bloom time as many other plants are beginning to drop their leaves. Once the leaves have fallen, they can still be of use. Chopping them up with a lawn mower and raking them into garden beds provides habitat for beneficial insects and organic matter for the soil. As they are broken down by bugs, the leaves return nitrogen and phosphorous to the soil, acting as a slow release fertilizer that helps improve soil health. Walking

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retention in the soil provide an ideal window for planting herbaceous and woody plants. These conditions reduce the potential for drought stress and insect predation on the plants and are far more comfortable to garden in than the midsummer's heat. When deciding which species to add to your home landscape, it is important to be honest about the light, moisture, and space that you can provide. These factors will influence the continual maintenance required as your garden grows. At Jenkins, we focus on supporting plants native to the eastern United States. These species have an evolutionary history that lends them to being adapted to their surrounding conditions, so they require minimal maintenance once established. Native plants also support the local wildlife by providing food and shelter for birds and insects. If your goal is to add more late summer and early fall blooming plants to your garden, you may want to consider planting those in the aster family. While they vary in size and color, most plants in this family have a composite flower head that is made up of dozens of smaller flowers. This creates a dense display of color that will last through September and sometimes even October. Species such as blue wood aster (Symphyotrichum cordifolium), smooth aster (Symphyotrichum laeve), and aromatic aster (Symphyotrichum oblongifolium) are examples of individuals that will grow in a variety of conditions and bloom through early fall. Planting goldenrods is another way to extend the seasonality of a garden by adding tall bursts of orange and yellow. They are also in the aster family, and species such as autumn goldenrod (Solidago sphacelata 'Golden Fleece'), zigzag goldenrod (Solidago flexicaulis), and flat-top goldenrod (Euthamia graminifolia) grow in a contained fashion and provide nutritional nectar sources for bees through September.

Once pollinated, plants that bloomed in the spring and early summer will transition to the next phase in their lifecycle and begin to set seed. Leaving these herbaceous stalks standing in your garden can provide additional visual interest and food sources for native birds. Some species with particularly showy seed structures include the native strawberry bush (Euonymus americanus), Eastern wahoo (Euonymus atropurpureus), and red buckeye (Aesculus pavia). Furthermore, collecting seed from your garden and sowing it through the winter is a cost-effective way to grow your plant collections and prepare for (photo by Harold Sweetman) Strawberry bush planting in the spring. This Euonymus americanus seed can be done in a variety of ways, the simplest being to use an old milk jug as a small make-shift greenhouse. Even though the days are growing shorter and the temperatures are cooling, there are many different aspects of your gardens to enjoy throughout the year. Each season is an opportunity to enjoy a variety of plants while preparing your gardens for the next phase of their lifecycle. We encourage you to explore the life in your own garden and tune into the everchanging natural world. Jenkins Arboretum & Gardens is a 48-acre public garden showcasing native flora of the eastern U.S. and a world class collection of rhododendron and azaleas. The gardens are free of admission and open every day of the year at 631 Berwyn Baptist Road in Devon. Heather Titanich is a Hamilton Educational Fellow at Jenkins Arboretum & Gardens. She is participating in a 2-year educational program that is focused on learning and working towards becoming a professional in horticulture.

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Historic House Tour

by Pattye Benson, President, Historic Preservation Trust

COVID-19 FORCES THE CANCELLATION OF 16TH ANNUAL HISTORIC HOUSE TOUR

Innovative Fundraiser to Complete Jones Log Barn Living History Center Project The saying goes, “If walls could talk what stories they could tell''. Held annually since 2004, the Tredyffrin Historic Preservation Trust arranges for these stories to be told on its annual historic house tour. However, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Trust president, house tour chair, and historic homeowner Pattye Benson announces the cancellation of the 16th Annual Historic House Tour. A much-anticipated community event and its largest annual fundraiser, the historic house tour is a signature event for the Trust, a nonprofit organization dedicated to preserving, protecting, and educating the community about local historic and cultural resources. Through ticket sales and tour sponsorships, the annual historic house tours have benefitted the rebuilding of the Jones Log Barn as a local living history center and community education programs and raised $35K in 2019. In its place, the Trust is conducting its first-ever “As History Goes On” nonevent fundraiser scheduled on the original 16th Annual Historic House Tour date of September 26, 2020. Patty Benson explains, “To avoid serious public health risks, regrettably, we had to cancel our very popular annual house tour and the well-attended house tour preview party, which served as an opportunity for the Trust to thank the house tour 18

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participants, sponsors, and local elected officials for supporting historic preservation and making the annual historic house tour possible. Along with the Board of Directors, we know our house tour guests and preservation enthusiasts are disappointed to hear about the 2020 house tour cancellation. The annual house tour is a consistent community favorite and the Trust's leadership will miss seeing everyone”.

Benson adds, “Our disappointment today does not dampen our ongoing mission for completing the Jones Log Barn Living History Center, providing an amazing space for sustainable, historic education programs, inviting the public to visit, and hosting future Trust events. With the help of the community, the Living History Center will welcome visitors in 2021 and provide a glimpse into the stories and experiences of our past.”

Held annually since 2004, the historic house tours have featured 113 different historic homes including seven Revolutionary War headquarters, fourteen barns, five churches, three schools, including two one-room schoolhouses, two general stores, two springhouses, several historic playhouses, one library, an arboretum, a mill, and the Wharton Esherick museum.

Historic preservation supporters and house tour enthusiasts are encouraged to donate to the 2020 “As History Goes On” fundraiser on behalf of Tredyffrin Historic Preservation Trust at www.tredyffrinhistory.org.

Through the generosity of many individuals and local companies, the rebuilding of the Jones Log Barn is nearing completion. The final phase to be completed by the end of 2020 includes barn lighting, an upper level entrance ramp, construction of a wall in the lower level of the barn utilizing original sliding doors from Fritz Lumber Yard, and interior educational programming.

As a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit organization, all gifts are taxdeductible as the law permits. You are welcome to contact Trust president Pattye Benson with any questions at 610.644.6759.

Joining the other two historic structures - General Duportail's Quarters and the Federal Barn, both on the National Register of Historic Places - the Jones Log Barn will be the centerpiece of the Living History Center at Duportail, located on Adams Drive in Chesterbrook.

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Rebuilding Of Jones Log Barn Nears Completion

by Pattye Benson, President, Tredyffrin Historic Preservation Trust

The Future Of The Past

Jones Log Barn before demolition (Pattye Benson)

The Jones Log Barn (circa 1730) was one of the oldest, intact log barns in the MidAtlantic region. Its rare architecture and unique history made it eligible for the National Register of Historic Places and it was certified as a Chester County Historic Resource in 2004. The barn is unique, not only for its age and its contributions to Pennsylvania history, but also for its architecture. The Jones Log Barn stood next to British Major General William Howe's headquarters in Berwyn, Tredyffrin Township, for over 250 years. However, due to benign neglect, the deteriorating barn posed a liability to its owner and faced an estate-ordered demolition in 2000. The Tredyffrin Historic Preservation Trust, a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit organization, dismantled the barn and stored the historic logs and other barn materials in Valley Forge National Historic Park, while funds were raised for its rebuilding.

doors from the historic Fritz lumberyard in Berwyn, and interior educational programming.

Interior upper floor (Pattye Benson) Cedar shake roof materials (Pattye Benson)

The Trust is reconstructing the Jones Log Barn on Adams Drive in Chesterbrook on the site of an earlier barn and it joins General Duportail's Quarters and the Federal Barn, both listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Utilizing original barn logs stored in Valley Forge National Historic Park, repurposed historic materials from the Fritz red barn in Berwyn, and new logs where required, Scott Walker of Axe Handle Timber is rebuilding the centuries old log barn. Much of the Jones Log Barn rebuilding project is complete, including the stone foundation, log structure and forebay, doors and windows, guttering system, siding, cedar shake roof, and its flooring. In the next few months, the remaining work includes the barn lighting, upper level entrance ramp, a lower level wall utilizing original large sliding 20

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With construction affected during the COVID-19 pandemic, the Trust is pleased to report that the Jones Log Barn project is now back on schedule with completion anticipated by the end of 2020. The vision for the barn's future use as a Living History Center is close to becoming a reality. With the generosity of many individuals, local companies, and another historic barn, the Living History Center will welcome visitors in 2021 and provide a glimpse into the stories and experiences of our past. In addition to highlighting historic log barn construction, other anticipated uses of the History Center may include: Living history and special programs for residents, local school students and visitors; Cooperative programs with nearby Valley Forge National Historical Park in addition to other partnerships; Permanent and changing interactive exhibits demonstrating its role in the early history of the community and its role in the American Revolutionary War. For historic preservation to matter, and for our local history to be meaningful, it needs to be supported. A community that respects its history respects itself. How can you help?

Cedar shake roof front (photo by Julie Gosse)

A great way to get involved in local history and its preservation, the Tredyffrin Historic Preservation Trust (www.tredyffrinhistory.org) has many volunteer opportunities available.

For information about how you can support historic preservation in the community, you may contact Trust president Pattye Benson at (610) 644-6759 or by email info@tredyffrinhistory.org.

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Health Corner Back to School Safety for Hands and Arms

By: Dr. Matthew Wilson, Orthopedic Hand Surgeon Philadelphia Hand to Shoulder Center

The start of the new school year brings an increase in many activities that can cause injuries to hands, wrist, arms, elbows and shoulders. Here are some tips for keeping kids safe while they participate in their favorite activities. Young athletes are at risk for common injuries like fractures, dislocations, ligament injuries, tendon ruptures, and tendonitis. Often these injuries are due to accidents and falls during play, but they can also be caused by overuse. Sports such as tennis, golf, field hockey, ice hockey and lacrosse can cause overuse injuries to hands, elbows and shoulders because of the swinging and shooting motion needed. Baseball pitchers are especially at risk for overuse injuries due to repetitive motion and should follow the recommended pitch counts for their age.

Musicians may risk injury if they overuse their hands by playing their instrument for several hours every day. They are also at risk for neck and shoulder injuries. Nerve compression is quite common due to holding an instrument in the same position for a long period of time. An important strategy for avoiding overuse injuries is for musicians, their instructors and their families to recognize when it's time to take a break from playing.

When to See a Doctor Most hand, wrist, arm, elbow and shoulder injuries can be treated at home with rest, ice, elevation and over the counter anti-inflammatory medication. However, some injuries need to be evaluated by a hand specialist. Open wounds, fractures, dislocations, jammed fingers, crushed fingertips or fingernail injuries, swelling that doesn't improve within a few days, or loss of motion are signs that a child should be evaluated by a hand surgeon. If your child has sustained an injury and you are unsure of its severity, call us at 1-800385-7472 to reduce the risk of permanent damage. Dr. Matthew Wilson is a boardcertified orthopedic hand surgeon with the renowned Philadelphia Hand to Shoulder Center. With 17 state-ofthe-art offices in PA and NJ, Dr. Wilson and his physician colleagues welcome new patients with hand, wrist, arm, elbow and shoulder injuries and conditions. Visit Hand2ShoulderCenter.com to learn more or call 1-800-385-7472 to schedule an appointment.

Young children are at risk for hand and arm injuries on the playground. The National Program for Playground Safety reports that 80 percent of playground injuries are caused by falls. The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission recommends that the area where a child might fall should have a protective surfacing extending at least six feet in all directions and should be at least 12 inches deep. Protective surfacing can be made of wood chips, mulch, sand, pea gravel, shredded tires or rubber mats. Adequate supervision is also important. Climbing bars and “monkey bars” cause more falls and injuries than any other type of playground equipment. Parents can encourage kids to stick to the swings or slide or teach them a few games they can play with friends that don't involve climbing equipment. 24

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Teens In Quarantine Teens in quarantine: Helping teenagers through missed moments amidst COVID-19

As far as young adults who might have concerns about what this means for their future, it can be helpful to remind them that everyone who is preparing to receive them into their new environments knows that ALL people have been affected by this. Being at home doesn’t preclude them from preparing for the future. They can set up a schedule and have goals for what they would like to be doing when this is over – either by themselves or with the help of people online.

Navigating teenage emotions during COVID-19: Insights for parents from child and adolescent psychiatrist, Dr. Sood Dr. Bela Sood, child and adolescent psychiatrist, offers some insight for parents on how to help teens of all grade levels navigate the emotions of missing friends and missing out as a result of COVID-19. How are teens different from younger children in terms of mental health during this time? It’s common to lump kids into one group, but teens have very different developmental needs than small children. Adolescents tend to start detaching from their families and developing stronger connections with their peers and social groups. They remain very keenly aware of how their parents are feeling and keep an ear out to what parents are saying, but do not show it…on the surface their friends are the ones they turn to. So, you can imagine that this social distancing and lack of face-to-face connection with peers is a major stressor for them in contrast to younger kids who are very content being with their parents. It can also be hard for teens to understand how all of the rules and mandates apply to them and the importance of their role in this. It may be worth reiterating what a noxious virus this is and the fact that they can catch it or they can be asymptomatic carriers, bring it home and cause others to be sick, including grandparents and other loved ones. However, it’s important to validate their feelings and acknowledge any anger that may exist. Recognize how important prom, the last stretch of school and graduation are. This could be re-framed as – “this year of high school is now ‘extra special’ and you’ll remember it throughout your life.” We can also challenge them to produce memories and projects that are unique to this time to help make the most of the situation. How can parents encourage teens to open up so we can validate their feelings and help them through this situation? Everyone who has raised teenagers has struggled with this challenge, with one situation or another. Teenagers are not typically going to solicit your advice. As parents we have to understand that this isn’t personal. 26

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Try to make your communication with them as non-threatening as possible. Maybe your family can agree to have dinner together each day. One of the advantages of this pandemic is that people have the time to do that. This is a good time to find out how everyone is feeling. You might even talk about your own vulnerability. You don’t have to lose control of your emotions, but you can gently share your own feelings and your teenager might join in. Normalizing their feelings is also very important – “How must it feel to not be around your friends? How must it feel to have been looking forward to an event that is now not going to happen? That must be so disappointing.” You can share your own disappointments in missing out on things you had planned so they know they are not alone in feelings of sadness or frustration. What are some things that might be stressors for teenagers at this time? A big thing is missing out on important and sentimental life events, particularly for those who are graduating from high school. This is their last experience before they become young adults and it’s a rite of passage that feels like they have been “robbed of.” It is sure to cause high emotions and feelings of frustration, which may include resentment.

Most importantly, it is acknowledging their loss and knowing that it’s validated by the significant people in their life. And then, it’s time to move on. That’s the nature of loss like this – you have to accept it and then figure out how things are going to work out for you. In addition to talking over family dinners, what are some other ways parents can make this time less stressful for teens? As humans, we’re creatures of habit so creating a loose schedule for the day and sticking with it as much as possible can be helpful for everyone. When kids go to school

there is a set of guidelines for how the day is going to go, and often it’s the unpredictability of not knowing that causes anxiety. Spending time with family is a great thing to do these days. Maybe your teenager will let you into their world a little bit – you can find out what’s trending in the teen world. Talk about things that are important to them and focus on things they’ve wanted to do, but don’t usually have the time for. We’ve seen videos of teens teaching their parents to use TikTok and making funny videos together. Look at the opportunities this time can bring and take advantage of them.

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Parenting Corner Dealing With Lying

an excerpt from Andrew Mullen’s book, Middle Schooled.

The middle school years can be filled with tremendous accomplishments, growth and maturity. As parents, you can sit back and watch your child steadily evolve into the amazing and confident young person you know that they are. This parenting stuff is easier than growing a Chia Pet… (Insert sound of a needle scratching across a record album.) But wait! You just realized your child has been lying to you for two weeks! Instead of attending track practice, they have been enjoying Iced Espresso Classics at Starbucks and perusing the aisles of Five Below looking for fake plastic vomit and other must have items. What are you going to do!!!! Keep reading, it is all going to be OK! Believe it or not, lying is part of growing up. While there are many families that don't have issues with their children not telling the truth, many do. Yes, it is wrong, but experimenting with this new-found power is normal. When you think about it, it is amazing. With a few carefully twisted words your child can:

Avoid negative consequences. (Tell my parents I did my homework and I am still going to the dance. Sweet!) Establish their identity with their peers (Forging my parents' signature on the Sex Education Unit packet and telling my buddies. I am a loose cannon, a rebel of unparalleled proportions.) Prove they are different from their parents or that they feel the rules are too strict (Dress to short. Is that right mom? I will leave the house in sweat pants and pack the mini skirt in my gym bag. Change in the bathroom and I am back in the game!) Get some needed attention. Avoid hurting someone's feelings (You look nice in that dress Aunt Frumpy… We both know your anut did look a little big boned in that dress but why make her feel bad? Perhaps this kind of lie you let go? Pick and choose your battles.) Here are some suggestions that might be helpful in dealing with this problem-solving strategy that can quickly become a bad habit:

Stay calm! When you catch your child in a lie, don't react. Send them to their room and cool down. Talk to your spouse or other trusted person and come up with a game plan. Remember that they are not lying to hurt you. There is probably something going on and they don't know how to deal with it. Yes, they lied and you are mad, but why did they do it? What is the underlying problem they were trying to solve? Ask them! Don't start lecturing. They don't listen. Stick to the facts and keep it simple. “I saw you jump out of the window, fall into the recycling bins and run down the road. I know you left the house.”

When they are honest, make a big deal about it. When they mess up, keep your cool. “Thank you for telling me you scratched our new BMW with your hockey stick. Your father and I appreciate your honesty…” It is our job as parents to help our kids deal with life and guide them through this confusing time. Seriously, it is. Would I lie to you?

Middle Schooled by Andrew Mullen is an adolescent parenting guide for those who would rather laugh than cry!

Have consequences that you can and will follow through with. Keep the emotion out of it. Focus on why they felt the need to lie and discuss other options that might have helped solve the problem in a more effective way. Do not engage in arguing. This normally does not help. Be a good role model. If you tell lies, your kids will too.

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Senior Lifestyles Staying Engaged While Staying Safe Staying safe during COVID-19 doesn't have to mean being isolated. With a little planning and outreach, older adults can find activities that help them remain active and engaged. Missing your morning exercise class? Try a virtual class. There is a wide selection on YouTube provided by instructors from Silver Sneakers, the YMCA and more. Some charge a small fee but if you search, you can often find free options. Also try your cable company. Some Verizon and Comcast packages include free exercise programs. Interested in visiting a museum, attending a lecture or hearing a concert? Your favorite museums, arboretums and music venues most likely offer online programs. Visit their website or social media accounts, like

Facebook and YouTube, to see what they offer. The Frick Collection in NYC has a lecture series called Travel with a Curator or enjoy virtual walks at the Morris Arboretum. Both are available on YouTube. Several major performing centers, such as the Metropolitan Opera and Lincoln Center offer performances online or on television. For those who would like to catch up with family and friends, there are several online programs that allow you to have a real time, face to face conversation with 2 or more people. Zoom, Facetime, Skype and Facebook are free apps that you can use. You do need to have a smartphone, tablet or computer in order to access the services. Schedule a weekly get together to keep in touch.

great option for anyone living alone, the Brighten Your Day phone call check in. A Surrey staff member or volunteer will call you on your telephone just to see how you're doing. Surrey offers a wide variety of programs and services, including technology programs, transportation, grocery shopping, grab and go meals and home care services. Visit www.SurreyServices.org.

If you're looking for a connection that requires less technology, call Surrey Services for Seniors at 610-647-6404. Surrey offers a

Surrey Services for Seniors: Offering safe, reliable in home services If the idea of moving to a retirement community, assisted living facility, or nursing home doesn't appeal, Surrey's in-home services can help older adults to live in their own home for longer. Our full range of services is available whether just a little help or regular daily assistance is needed. Surrey's holistic philosophy and 40 years of serving older adults means we have a unique approach to helping our clients. Our experienced staff of nurses and social workers meets you or your loved one during a free, one-on-one planning session to determine exactly what your needs are. Then, we work with you to create a customized plan that provides safe, reliable, in-home care. To protect everyone's health and safety, our caregivers regularly go through a rigorous screening process and follow CDC Protocols to maintain the highest standard of health. Unlike other companies who use contract workers, Surrey caregivers are employees who receive regular training and best practices communications. In addition to Personal Care for help with bathing and dressing, Surrey offers RN Care Management which can help you manage medications, a chronic condition (diabetes, congestive heart failure, COPD, hypertension, etc.) and accompany you to physician/medical appointments. Visit https://www.surreyhomecare.org/ for a full description of all the in-home services available or call Surrey Home Care Services today at 610-647-9840 or to find out how you can get the care you need and remain in your own home.

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Pet Safety & Helpful Tips Pet Preparedness

by Alyssa Mages, BS, CVT If there's one thing that the recent events surrounding the pandemic has taught us is that being prepared is a crucial & often overlooked concept. From the lack of toilet paper to shortages in batteries, multiple medication backorders and no critical care supplies, the list goes on & on & on. As focused as we've been on the essentials for us humans - and this is as it should be - let us not forget that it's equally important to not lose sight of our furry family members & their needs. Many of our canine & feline companions are also on long-term medications and/or prescription diets. Some need additional support in the forms of enrichment and/or behavioral interventions, and they are just as susceptible to the feelings of depression and anxiety during times like these. Having an adequate supply of their food & medications, supportive care provided and/or providers in place, and ways to alleviate and address their stressors are just a few of the ways we need to provide our best friends with the care they need and deserve. Some other suggestions and thoughts to keep in mind are to ensure your pets are upto-date on their vaccinations, have necessary ID tags/licenses, and are microchipped. With

the summer months and the subsequent loud events that come along at this time of year - fireworks & thunderstorms - can bring the potential for spooked pets and escapees. Another thing to be aware of are when other disaster-type events take place such as weather-related incidents, emergencies and/or accidents is to have a First Aid or Emergency Kit solely designated for the furry members of your family. A list of items to include which is not exclusive, is provided below.

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Fall 2020 Newsletter

Tredyffrin Township 1100 Duportail Road Berwyn, PA 19312

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For over 40 years, Jim’s Auto Care Group has served the Main Line area with a commitment to service and value.

Our family of businesses now includes three locations to serve your automotive needs. 729 West Lancaster Avenue 316 East Conestoga Road Strafford, (610) 687-1292 Strafford, (610) 687-5511

507 East Lancaster Avenue Berwyn, (610) 644-4090

Tredyffrin Township • 1100 Duportail Road • Berwyn, PA • Chester County • 610-644-1400 • www.tredyffrin.org