Town & Style 11.6.24

NOVEMBER 6, 2024 | FRONT

Rossman School Announces $6 Million Endowment To Honor Faculty Excellence

IN THE

by stephanie wallace

circus harmony

The nonprofit has welcomed a new artist in residence and guest director. Evan Tomlinson Weintraub is an accomplished circus performer, director, choreographer and creative consultant, who most recently worked with Cirque du Soleil as a human performance specialist.

frisella landscaping

In the wake of the devastation caused by Hurricanes Milton and Helene, the Frisella family traveled to North Carolina to assist with relief efforts. The team brought supplies and provided support to communities devastated by the storms.

ac hotel

Downtown Clayton is now home to the new hotel. Construction on the 11-story, 207-room hotel began in 2022 at the former site of the headquarters of the Clayton

kirkwood high school

The school’s volleyball program hosted its annual “Pink Out” Game, which supports breast cancer awareness. This year’s event raised more than $7,000 for the American Cancer Society, bringing the total raised by the initiative to more than $58,000 since it began in 2006.

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FOR TEACHERS

ROSSMAN SCHOOL

by stephanie wallace

ASK ANY SUCCESSFUL ADULT, and they will most likely point to a teacher who helped inspire them to thrive. Educators play a critical role in a child’s development that should not be underestimated. “Teachers are a school’s greatest strength and resource,” notes Elizabeth Zurlinden, head of school of Rossman School. “When it comes to influence in students’ future well-being, they are second only to parents.” Rossman serves children in junior kindergarten through grade six on its 20-acre campus. The independent elementary school is committed to building an environment of excellence, and its faculty is an important cornerstone of that mission.

Rossman is dedicated to working with educators who align with the school’s hallmarks of excellence. These include demonstrating the school’s values of honesty, kindness, respect and responsibility as well as creating a safe environment for students and pursuing their own continued growth and development. “Our faculty embodies our school’s mission and is deeply committed to modeling our values,” Zurlinden says. “They are collaborative, possess positive attitudes and approach problem-solving as an opportunity. Their pedagogy is grounded in a student-centered approach that inspires kids to not only build knowledge but also develop leadership skills, be creative and take risks.”

To ensure that Rossman can attract, retain and develop the highest caliber of teachers, it recently established the Endowment for Faculty Excellence. “The purpose behind the endowment is to allow our school to continue to attract top-tier talent and sustainably offer competitive compensation into the future,” Zurlinden explains. “It allows us to honor and support our current faculty while also looking forward to the future educators who will share their passion and talent with our community. It’s a provision for the continuity of excellence.” The endowment was made possible thanks to a $6 million gift from anonymous donors.

By investing in its faculty, Rossman is ensuring that its students can learn and grow in a supportive and positive environment. While the school’s academic standards are rigorous, its teachers work to encourage students and inspire a lifelong love of learning. “Rossman plays an important role in the academic, social, physical and character development of our students,” Zurlinden says. “Our faculty genuinely know and care for each student and are deeply invested in their success. I recently asked a group of students if they had a teacher who believed in them before they believed in themselves. Every hand was raised. The support of a teacher is a powerful thing.”

The impact of Rossman’s faculty is evident. Music teacher Amira Fuller was a student at the school. She was encouraged by her own music teacher to pursue her love for the subject and then share her passion by becoming an educator herself. “Our students and families are inspired by her talent and nurtured by her care,” Zurlinden notes. Fuller adds, “I was blessed to start my education at Rossman surrounded by excellent teachers who shaped and inspired me to become a teacher myself. Now, I get to be a part of the Rossman legacy of excellence and share the same love and passion for learning that I experienced as a student.” &

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OF THE TOWNS

by bill beggs jr.

earth city

For a dose of holiday romance, New Jewish Theater will present the St. Louis premiere of First Date, a romantic musical comedy by Austin Winsberg, Alan Zachary and Michael Weiner. The production runs Nov. 21 through Dec. 8 at the Jewish Community Center (The J). Zachary and Weiner, who wrote the music and lyrics, were classmates at an L.A. high school and began writing musicals together in college. Upon meeting Winsberg in 2003, the three instantly connected over their shared Jewish heritage and bad luck with women. Does their could-be couple go ‘Pffft’ right from the start? (No spoilers!) Main characters are Aaron, a blind-date newbie, and serial-dater Casey. They’re set up for a casual drink at a busy New York restaurant—but one drink morphs into a hilarious high-stakes dinner. As the date unfolds in real time, the two quickly find they’re not alone. In a delightful twist, Casey and Aaron’s inner critics take on a life of their own as employees and other patrons transform into supportive best friends, manipulative exes, protective parents—even a deceased ‘bubbie’— who sing and dance them through ice-breakers, appetizers and potential conversational land mines, meanwhile providing advice that may, or definitely will not, be helpful. Can they turn just another first and last date into something special before the check arrives? Visit The J for more info: jccstl.com/arts-ideas.

The Rams NFL franchise in 2016 returned to Los Angeles from St. Louis after 21 seasons here with one Super Bowl championship. Owner Stan Kroenke paid most of a $790-million settlement to the city and county as a result of the team’s departure. But bickering across jurisdictions has kept the disposition of the massive sum in limbo here. And in the news category of ‘stuff you’re just not going to believe,’ the Rams’ ownership thinks

Kroenke et al. are entitled to the team’s former practice facility in Earth City for $1, which makes absolutely no sense. The Regional Convention and Sports Complex Authority has filed a lawsuit to fight the team’s ridiculous offer, which was based on language in the lease agreement made when the Rams moved east to St. Louis in 1995. The facility, recently appraised at a little over $24 million, has essentially doubled in value since then. Maybe cranky Kroenke will next try to claim destitution, because after having to shell out $571 million, with the other 31 NFL teams on the hook for the rest, he could argue that $1 is the best he can do because his pockets just aren’t that deep anymore. Still, it’s worthy of noting: What in the world would a team from the left coast do with a practice facility here, smack in the middle of the Great Flyover?

downtown

The hotel completed in 1986 as the Adam’s Mark at 315 Chestnut St., with its commanding view of the Gateway Arch, was renovated and rebranded for $62 million in 2009 as the Hyatt Regency St. Louis at The Arch. The Adam’s Mark was facing a federal lawsuit by the Department of Justice alleging discriminatory practices. The 910-room hotel is in trouble again, this time financial straits. It’s only money, right? Well, the hotel’s parent company is seeking ways to restructure its debt, as a $93 million loan comes due the first week of November. The paradigm shift that was the pandemic knocked the bottom out of the hospitality market in general, and business at the Hyatt has yet to return to pre-pandemic levels. “Imminent default” are hard words for anyone to face, whether on a personal or professional level, and the hotel’s owner is scrambling for solutions. The hotel’s sheer size is a hindrance, industry experts note, pointing out that much smaller properties are also having difficulty with the changes in how business has been conducted since the pandemic shut things down in spring 2020. From windows on the hotel’s north side, guests can see the office building at 200 N. Broadway, but probably don’t realize that after 70 years downtown, PR giant FleishmanHillard is moving its world headquarters next spring from several floors there to Clayton.

WHERE WAS THE HYATT REGENCY ST. LOUIS LOCATED BEFORE it took over the Adam’s Mark on Chestnut Street downtown? What is that hotel known as today?

What brewer based in the metro produced 30,000 barrels of beer in 2023?

We knew that something big sure had to be brewing over at Schlafly. The metro-based beermaker produced 30,000 barrels in 2023.

Denise & Bob Biribin

The best marriages are made in the food-service industry, said probably no one ever. But it’s worked like a charm for Denise and Bob Biribin, who met at the International House of Pancakes in North County where they were working in the 1970s. “I was the cook; she was the server,” says Bob, who was sitting next to his wife of 38 years in the front dining room of The Wolf Café, which they’ve owned and operated for 13 years. They went to different high schools, both named McCluer; McCluer North for him, McCluer for her. Their career encompasses Pantera’s Pizza and so many other dining and drinking establishments throughout the metro, including on Main Street in old St. Charles. When we met, it was a Monday at 10 a.m., and the joint was subdued, when Tuesday through Saturday it normally is hopping with breakfast customers and coffee fiends who drop in for a jolt of java and may stay for conversation—while keeping their laptops closed. As one of The Wolf’s many friendly signs reads: “We Do Not Have WiFi… Talk to Each Other.” This ain’t no Starbucks, Denise elaborates, but not so ungrammatically. At any time of day, it’s a place to meet and greet, whether Tuesday nights at open-mic night or downstairs in the spacious taproom where there are 16 taps a-flowing: Four for wine, four for cocktails and eight for beer. Down here is where The Wolf’s second annual holiday pop-up, BLING, will ring in the season starting Dec. 1, for which reservations will be taken on Eventbrite starting Nov. 1. A portion of the proceeds will benefit the food pantry Circle of Concern, and the Biribins expect the event to sell out. There’ll be lights galore and Christmas trees everywhere, including a late-1950s/early-1960s pink metallic ‘Mitch Miller’ tree—our words; your enterprising reporter grew up in that era. ‘Festive’ isn’t quite the word for it: “It’ll look like Christmas threw up in here,” quips Bob. But wait just a doggone minute: Wine on tap? Some wine aficionados might turn up their noses at something so outré, but for the Biribins, it’s just one less bottle to recycle. “Sustainability is our thing,” Bob points out. A hand-lettered sign clarifies this environmental initiative: The Wolf recycles or composts 97% of its waste (printed on the coffee cups is a whimsical cartoon character hugging a tree). The average restaurant annually produces 50 tons of garbage. By comparison, The Wolf may throw away only 5,000 pounds. The eatery and music venue used to be open seven days a week, the bane of existence for anyone in the service industry. But now, it’s closed Sunday and Monday: “That was a gift of Covid,” Denise recalls. Every employer was facing staffing challenges at the time. The Wolf is at 15480 Clayton Road, just west of Kehrs Mill. For more about this unique neighborhood destination—“Where Earth and Community Unite”—visit thewolfstl.com. &

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tune in!

Don’t miss the new season of the Bach Society of Saint Louis’ podcast, Bach Talk. Hosted by Ron Klemm, it offers listeners a peek behind the scenes to hear from singers, instrumentalists and conductors. New episodes are available monthly and can be found on all major podcast platforms. If you have questions about where to start listing, the Bach Society has a guide at bachsociety.org/bach-talk.

stick together

Make-A-Wish of Missouri & Kansas is partnering with the Saint Louis Blues to help a local Wish Kid pay it forward. Laila was diagnosed with hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis, a rare and life-threatening autoimmune disease. A St. Louis Blues superfan, the hockey team supported her throughout her health battle, and she quickly became an inspiring figure for the players during their 2019 Stanley Cup victory. Laila has chosen to share her ultimate wish by bringing five friends from St. Louis Children’s Hospital to a Blues game

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Congrats to VertiGreens! The local company received a $20,000 grant from the Boundless Futures Foundation, a private family foundation founded by Soon and McKeel Hagerty. The foundation’s EmpowHer initiative supports female entrepreneurs across the country. Founded by Tova Feinberg, VertiGreens uses shipping containers and hydroponic technology to sustainably grow hard-to-find ingredients for restaurants, caterers and grocery stores in urban areas.

a wild time

Construction is now underway for the Henry A. Jubel Foundation Destination Discovery at the Saint Louis Zoo. The new experience for children and families is set to open in 2026. The 2.8-acre area is designed with the youngest guests in mind, emphasizing close-up encounters with animals in an immersive, hands-on learning environment. You can check out an animated fly-through rendering of the new attraction on the Saint Louis Zoo’s YouTube channel.

calling all carolers!

The St. Louis Christmas Carols Association is looking for volunteers for 2024. Every season caroling groups sign up to spread cheer and collect donations for nonprofits that benefit children, such as Girl Scouts of Eastern Missouri, Center for Hearing and Speech and South Side Early Childhood Center. To volunteer, sign-up at stlchrismascarols.org/go-caroling by Nov. 30.

on Nov. 14, when the Gateway Korean Foundation and Left Bank Books will host a free reading at Ray’s Sports House.

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LEARN TO LEAD

ROHAN WOODS SCHOOL

by stephanie wallace

FOR FIFTH AND SIXTH GRADERS at Rohan Woods, the school year begins with a real adventure. Each September, the independent, coeducational elementary school takes its older students on a science excursion. The trip is designed to let them flex their leadership muscles, bond with their classmates and tackle hands-on, immersive lessons in STEM subjects. It’s a vital part of Rohan Woods’ innovative learning initiative called Project Approach, which allows students to creatively solve problems while developing fundamental skills.

For 2024, the students visited the Huntsman Marine Science Centre at the Bay of Fundy in New Brunswick, Canada. The trip allowed the fifth and sixth grade classes to tap into their interests in marine science and more. “The Bay of Fundy is such a unique environment—many of our students have never experienced anything like it,” head of school Sam Templin-Page notes. “They got to enjoy student-centered learning while spending time outdoors and taking on new experiences, which allowed them to examine the actual ocean floor while working alongside marine biologists and scientists. It brought their classroom lessons into the real world, where they got to see science in action.”

The experience is meant to complement the school’s challenging curriculum and Project Approach. Prior to departing on the trip, the students spend time in the classroom learning about the topics they’ll explore in real life. “They learn about the concepts and base knowledge in the classroom, and the hands-on experiential opportunities on the excursion allow for

more in depth understanding,” Templin-Page says. “Students get the chance to formulate their own research questions and conduct experiments both independently and collaboratively.” Following the science excursion, students bring their lessons back to St. Louis. The fifth and sixth graders share what they learn by giving presentations on the trip to the entire school.

The science excursion doesn’t only help students learn more about STEM subjects. The experience also encourages them to build important skills like decision making, teamwork, communication and adaptability. “It’s a great opportunity for students to reflect on their strengths and areas where they can grow,” Templin-Page explains. “The excursion plays a vital role in helping them develop important leadership skills. Many students don’t realize how independent they actually are. This opportunity allows them to see what they are capable of, which can be awe-inspiring. We often hear from parents about the positive impact the trip has.”

At Rohan Woods, education is not only about academic knowledge. The curriculum is designed to promote creativity and critical thinking while encouraging students to take an active role in how they learn. The science excursion is just one piece of a much larger puzzle. “Our goal is to ensure students are successful in their next steps, and that means our focus is on developing the whole child,” Templin-Page says. “Rohan Woods students are not only academically ready for secondary school and beyond, they are self-reliant, confident and creative leaders.” &

SERVING STUDENTS AGE 2 THROUGH GRADE SIX, ROHAN WOODS SCHOOL IS DEDICATED TO PROVIDING A CHALLENGING CURRICULUM CENTERED ON PROJECT APPROACH LEARNING. ITS OPEN HOUSE IS NOV. 21. PICTURED ON THE COVER: FIFTH AND SIXTH GRADERS ON A SCIENCE EXCURSION IN NEW BRUNSWICK, CANADA. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.821.6270 OR VISIT ROHANWOODS.ORG.

COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER

COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF ROHAN WOODS SCHOOL

ROHAN WOODS

11.15-12.30

THE POLAR EXPRESS TRAIN RIDE

St. Louis Union Station

4:30-8:30 p.m. | $40-$120 stlpolarexpressride.com

11.15-1.5

WONDERLIGHT’S CHRISTMAS

World Wide Technology Raceway 5-10 p.m. | $30 wonderlightschristmas.com

11.16-1.4 GARDEN GLOW Missouri Botanical Garden

4:30-10:30 p.m. | $5-$24 mobot.org

11.17-1.5

SANTA’S MAGICAL KINGDOM

Yogi Bear's Jellystone Park Resort

5:30-11 p.m. | $35-$50 santasmagicalkingdom.com

11.22-12.30

WINTER WONDERLAND Tilles Park

5-9 p.m. | $20-140 winterwonderlandstl.com

11.22-12.30 BREWERY LIGHTS

Anheuser-Busch Brewery 5-10 p.m budweisertours.com

11.22-12.31 WAY OF LIGHTS Shrine of Our Lady of the Snows 5-9 p.m. | Free (donations accepted) snows.org

11.23

AMEREN MISSOURI

FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS

Kiener Plaza

Noon-8:30 p.m. | Free holidaysinstl.com

11.23 & 11.24

UNIQUE BOUTIQUE

John Burroughs School

10 a.m.-4 p.m. | $7 jbsuniqueboutique.com

11.23-12.31

WINTERFEST Kiener Plaza

Fri: 4-8 p.m., Sat. and Sun: noon-8 p.m. Free entry archpark.org

11.26-12.22

CHRISTMAS CAROL: THE REMIX

The .ZACK Theatre

2 and 7 p.m. | $35-$225 stlshakes.org

11.29-12.24

ST. CHARLES CHRISTMAS TRADITIONS

Historic St. Charles Various Times | Free discoverstcharles.com

11.29-12.29

U.S. BANK WILD LIGHTS

Saint Louis Zoo 5-8:30 p.m. | $10-$18 stlzoo.org

11.30-12.23 THE NUTCRACKER

Touhill Performing Arts Center Various showtimes | $39-89 stlouisballet.org

12.4-22

MILLION DOLLAR QUARTET CHRISTMAS Loretto-Hilton Center

Various showtimes | $55-$105 repstl.org

12.6

MAPLEWOOD CHRISTMAS TREE WALK

Downtown Maplewood 6-9 p.m. | Free midcountychamber.org

12.6

SANTA JAM Stifel Theatre 7 p.m. | $50 stifeltheatre.com

12.7

A SPIRITED HOLIDAY PAST Bellefontaine Cemetery and Arboretum 10 a.m.-4 p.m. | Free bellefontainecemetery.org

12.7 & 12.8

CHRISTMAS AT THE CATHEDRAL Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis 10:30 a.m. and 2:30 p.m. | $30-$55 cathedralconcerts.org

12.7 & 12.14

LAUMEIER HOLIDAY POP-UP SHOP

Laumeier Sculpture Park 11 a.m.-4 p.m. | Free laumeiersculpturepark.org

12.8

BRUNCH WITH SANTA AND REDBIRD

Cardinal Nation Restaurant & Bar

10 a.m.-2 p.m. | $25-$65 mlb.com/cardinals

12.13

IN UNISON CHRISTMAS Stifel Theatre

7:30 p.m. | $40-$137 slso.org

12.13 & 12.14

CELEBRATE ST. LOUIS! Missouri History Museum 10 a.m.–1 p.m. | Free mohistory.org

12.15

HOLIDAY PARLOR TOUR AND HOLIDAY MARKET

Lafayette Square 10 a.m.-4 p.m. | $40 lafayettesquare.org

12.18

TRANSIBERIAN ORCHESTRA: THE THE LOST CHRISTMAS EVE Enterprise Center 7 p.m. | $59.99-$109.99 enterprisecenter.com

12.18

MARK O’CONNOR: AN APPALACHIAN CHRISTMAS

The Sheldon 8 p.m. | $41-$51 thesheldon.org

12.18 &12.19 CHRISTMAS CANDLELIGHT CONCERT

560 Music Center 7:30 p.m. | $25-$75 bachsociety.org

12.21

RUDOLPH THE RED-NOSED REINDEER THE MUSICAL

The Fabulous Fox Theatre 1 and 4 p.m.| $34-$89 fabulousfox.com

12.21 JOYFUL COCA 7 p.m. | $21 cocastl.org

12.22

HOLIDAY WORKS

All Saints Catholic Church 3 p.m. | $40 chamberchorus.org

12.28

KWANZAA CELEBRATION 2024 Saint Louis Art Museum 10 a.m.-2 p.m. | Free slam.org

WHAT’S NEW AT SCHOOL

CHURCHILL CENTER & SCHOOL

Churchill’s proven methods and well-trained faculty change the lives of children who struggle with dyslexia, ADHD and other language-based learning disabilities. At Churchill, we always remember that our success is measured not by how many students we impact, but by the impact we have on any one student!

▶ Open House: Nov. 12, 9-11a.m.

1021 Municipal Center Drive 314.997.4343 | churchillstl.org

THE COLLEGE SCHOOL

A CLOSER LOOK

Students in preschool through grade eight at The College School in Webster Groves go on more than 145 day and overnight trips during the school year, traveling more than 10,000 miles to connect their classroom learning to real-world application.

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 16, 9-10:30 a.m.; Jan. 11, 9-10:30 a.m.; Feb. 25, 6-7:30 p.m. Please register in advance.

7825 Big Bend Blvd. 314.962.9355 | thecollegeschool.org

COMMUNITY SCHOOL

The new Broughton STEAM Center offers state-of-the-art classrooms for science, woodshop and drama, plus accessibility upgrades. Experience our dynamic learning environment firsthand—register online today for an upcoming admission event and discover what makes us unique.

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 16, 9-11:30 a.m.; Nov. 20, 9:15-10:45 a.m. ; Jan. 15, 9:15-10:45 a.m.; Jan. 28, 9:15-10:45 a.m.

900 Lay Road

314.991.0005 | communityschool.com

FORSYTH SCHOOL

Forsyth students are learning about and participating in the election process with a school-wide vote for a new mascot costume. The student experience includes voter registration, platform development, campaign management, working the polls, authentic poll pads and ‘I Voted’ stickers.

▶ Open Houses: Jan. 25, 9:30-11:30 a.m. Advance registration is required.

6235 Wydown Blvd. 314.726.4542 | forsythschool.org

JOHN BURROUGHS SCHOOL

The Burroughs campus was recently designated a Level I arboretum. With more than 50 acres and dozens of species of trees and woody plants, our campus offers a living classroom where students can study biodiversity through science labs, art classes and more.

▶ Open Houses: Dec. 3, 6 p.m.; Jan. 9, 6 p.m. This event is for prospective parents/guardians. Details at jburroughs.org/closerlook.

755 S. Price Road | 314.993.4040 | jburroughs.org

New City School is celebrating its 55th anniversary in 2024-2025 and is honoring their past and celebrating their exciting future with commemorative activities and events all year long, including tours of its newly renovated early childhood classrooms.

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 16, 9 a.m. and 10:30 a.m.; Dec. 14, 9:30-11:30 a.m.; Jan. 24, 9-10:30 a.m.; RSVP required for all events. 5209 Waterman Blvd. | 314.361.6411 | newcityschool.org

PRINCIPIA SCHOOL

Principia is a place where possibilities unfold. We are an independent, coeducational college preparatory school offering innovative, future-focused programs for preschool through grade 12. Visit us to see how character and scholarship unite to create 21st-century leaders.

▶ Open House: Nov. 18

13201 Clayton Road | 314.514.3134 | principiaschool.org

UPPER SCHOOL

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ROHAN WOODS SCHOOL

Our dedicated team of professional educators brings passion, expertise and genuine caring to our school every day. They employ innovative teaching methods—including Project Approach— creating an engaging learning experience filled with challenges that inspire children to love learning.

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 21, 9-11a.m.; Jan. 15, 9-11a.m.; April 15, 9-11a.m.

For students age 2 through grade six 1515 Bennett Ave. | 314.821.6270 | rohanwoods.org

ROSSMAN SCHOOL

Rossman is excited to add a treehouse to its campus. This space, in addition to a nature trail and creek, will inspire nature-based learning for students of all grade levels.

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 20, 8:30-10:30 a.m.; Jan. 15, 8:30-10:30 a.m.

12660 Conway Road 314.434.5877 | rossmanschool.org

ST. JOHN VIANNEY HIGH SCHOOL

Vianney is updating student spaces with Griffins’ Café opening The Market for grab-and-go meals. This winter, Vianney will install a state-of-the-art artificial turf field plus new video scoreboards for the field house. In the spring, classrooms will be redesigned with furniture and technology that supports modern learning. 1311 S. Kirkwood Road 314.965.4853 | vianney.com

THE WHITFIELD SCHOOL

Join us for The Upper School Experience and progressive dinner. Discover how our innovative curriculum redefines rigor through engagement, our winning athletic teams and world-class college counseling program. Register at whitfieldschool.org/admission/events.

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 21, 5:30-7 p.m.; Jan. 16, 6-7:30 p.m.

Advanced registration required.

175 S. Mason Road

314.434.5141 | whitfieldschool.org

THE WILSON SCHOOL

Since 1913, The Wilson School has excelled in reaching every student. Our deliberately small class sizes, two-teacher model, accelerated curriculum and nurturing, inclusive community allow our students to build the academic and social-emotional skills they need to succeed in secondary school and beyond.

▶ Open House: Jan. 16

Registration requested.

400 De Mun Ave. 314.725.4999 | wilsonschool.com

PARENT TRAP

by dr. tim jordan

CURSE OF THE GOOD GIRL

CURSE OF THE GOOD GIRL was the title of the 2009 book by Rachel Simmons, and it describes the conditioning that hurts girls’ self-confidence, limits their thinking and creates confusing standards and messages. I want to offer you examples of how this conditioning is still rampant today.

In my retreats, summer camps and school programs, I do an exercise to raise girl’s awareness of what they have internalized from parents, teachers, coaches and the culture. I first have them make a list of the qualities of a ‘good girl.’ Here are some examples that often come up: perfect, always happy, quiet, polite, selfless, obedient, modest, popular, athletic, pretty, passive and sweet. I then have girls create a list of the qualities of a ‘bad girl.’ Here’s what often appears on that list: aggressive, disobedient, angry, sad, masculine, talkative, risqué, outspoken, unpopular, out of shape, risk-taker and mean.

Some of the ‘good girl’ qualities are not healthy, while some ‘bad girl’ characteristics are ones that girls may like to live out. This highlights the mixed messages that arise from these standards, such as successful but not competitive, smart but not too opinionated, confident but not assertive, popular but still authentic, sexy but not sexual, a leader but passive and quiet.

From a young age, boys are praised and encouraged when they show direct, confident behaviors like winning a game or climbing to the highest tree branch. Girls also are told to be ambitious, smart and successful, but for them the directive comes with conditions that hamper their individuation and potential. Your future is limitless as long as you abide by these constricting expectations and standards. You can be whatever you want, but you can’t be yourself!

The final part of my camp exercise involves the girls making a list of a ‘real girl,’ i.e., what they view as being achievable qualities they can grow into. It often includes these qualities: unafraid to be themselves and feel their feelings, capable of standing up for themselves and their loved ones, trustworthy, independent, ambitious, a blend of masculine and feminine leadership qualities. Now that’s more like it.

We need to make girls aware of the unconscious good girl conditioning they’ve been absorbing and talk through their benefits and costs. Guide them to spend alone time deciding which qualities they want to grow into and their plan for how to achieve them. The awareness piece is huge. And as always, model what you want your daughters to learn. Moms at my workshops always moan as they too become aware of these same good girl qualities they have absorbed throughout their lifetime. Mothers have some growing edges in this regard as well as their daughters.

by bill barrett

Pedal the Cause is a community-wide fundraising bike challenge for riders of all ages and abilities with 100% of the proceeds staying in St. Louis to fund innovative cancer research at Siteman Cancer Center and Siteman Kids at St. Louis Children’s Hospital. Guests enjoyed food from some of St. Louis’ top chefs and a Executive director David Drier, director

by james anderson

The event supports the preservation and programs of the Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park, including public tours, free student field trips, paid internship programs, community lectures, exhibits and more. Guests enjoyed the opportunity to view the Preserving What’s Wright exhibit at the Kemper Art Museum as well as a silent auction. Co-chairs Tom Peterson and Sue Pruchnicki

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Take Note

1. Laurie’s Shoes

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2. Circle of Concern Food Pantry

Circle of Concern has been a resource for the community for 57 years, offering relief for families living in west St. Louis County and parts of Jefferson County. Each month, Circle feeds around 700 families.

3. St. Louis Jewish Community Center

Unlimited group exercise is an amazing benefit of membership at The J! Schedule a tour today and learn about the amazing amenities our members enjoy. 2

4. Neurology Coach InstituteThe Memory Training Center

The Memory Training Center offers services for clients who suffer changes in their memory and attention.

One-on-one weekly sessions are designed to match each client’s needs, using tools established by experts in cognitive training.

456 N. NEW BALLAS ROAD, STE. 26

314.604.0758

MEMORYTRAININGCENTER.ORG Around Town

5. The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis

Swing into the season with Million Dollar Quartet Christmas at The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis—an unforgettable Sun Record Studios jam session packed with iconic rock ‘n’ roll and holiday hits!

130 EDGAR ROAD

314.968.4925

REPSTL.ORG

6. Saint Louis Ballet

Saint Louis Ballet’s The Nutcracker will have 12 performances, featuring vibrant sets, colorful costumes and magical choreography. It is a cherished holiday tradition in St. Louis.

314.534.1111

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FROM WORKING IN THE AMAZON TO TEACHING AT Berkeley, Lúcia G. Lohmann has dedicated her career to studying and preserving biodiversity worldwide. The botanist and conservationist will take the helm as president and director of the Missouri Botanical Garden next year. For Lohmann, it’s an especially meaningful undertaking. Not only is she the first woman to hold the position, but it’s also a homecoming as she attended graduate school at the University of Missouri-St. Louis and worked as a postdoctoral fellow at the garden.

GET KNOW

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by stephanie wallace

LÚCIA G. LOHMANN OF THE MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN

where i come from …

I was born and raised in Brazil. It’s no wonder that I became interested in botany. Brazil is home to one of the largest numbers of plant species in the world. Since early childhood, I’ve loved spending time outside and have always been fascinated by plants. In high school, I got the chance to travel with researchers in biodiversity, and that experience opened my eyes to the potential of botany as a career.

what plants can teach us …

The interactions between plants and people really have shaped our society. Plants provide so much of what we need—from medicine and food to clothing and building materials. Understanding them and their relationship with other organisms on our planet is crucial. The health of the world depends on the connection between plants and people.

my st. louis connection …

I have such fond memories of my time as a graduate student at UMSL. I was 21 at the time, and I moved to the area completely on my own. The community was incredibly welcoming. I loved all of the cultural activities and parks, like the zoo and art and history museums. The botanical garden was one of my favorites, of course.

When I was homesick, I would go to the Climatron to spend time with the tropical plants and walk around to see what was blooming each day. I left St. Louis nearly 20 years ago, and I’m incredibly excited to be coming back.

as the garden’s first female president …

It’s an important responsibility. Women as leaders should be the norm, not the exception. I grew up in a family of academics, and my grandmother and her sisters were professors at a time when that was not common. In many ways, I feel like I’m following my family’s tradition of leadership in education.

my plans for mobot … I have lots of ideas, and I’m looking forward to connecting with both the garden’s staff and supporters to collaborate about new avenues we can explore together. My work is centered in biodiversity, so I’m also excited about future research opportunities. I’ve been thinking about new creative educational programming and how we can continue to enrich the lives of St. Louisans through botany. Strong institutions like the Missouri Botanical Garden have an important social and environmental responsibility. The work we do doesn’t just affect St. Louis; there is a global impact. &

HEALTH

NOVEMBER 6, 2024 | FLIP

INFOCUS + living with alzheimer’s T&S LIVING + home for the holidays

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DESIGN INSIGHT

ANNE MARIE DESIGN STUDIO

by stephanie wallace

THERE IS AN UNDENIABLE APPEAL to transforming a space into something new—especially when it’s your home. Countless TV shows feed into the desire to take the plunge and tackle a large-scale renovation, but the reality of such a project can be more challenging than expected. Anne Marie Design Studio is dedicated to making homeowner’s dreams come true. From kitchens to bathrooms and everything in between, the award-winning company tackles large-scale renovation projects from the ground up.

President and designer Anne Marie Boedges has been an industry leader for more than 20 years. Anne Marie Design Studio uses the design-build method, which means it provides both construction and design services. This way, homeowners avoid the hassle of juggling multiple contractors and a separate design team. The business is set up to provide convenient turnkey service, from initial planning and design to construction and finishing. “Our entire team works with you every step of the way,” Boedges explains. “We help with everything from coming up with a concept and pulling permits to handling installation and adding final touches.”

Starting a remodeling project can be a daunting prospect, but Anne Marie Design Studio works hard to offer its clients peace of mind during the transition. The company uses technology to help ensure the process is even smoother. While Boedges does sketch every design by hand, she employs an innovative computer program to allow clients to experience a three-dimensional version of the rendering via virtual reality headsets. “Sometimes, it can be difficult to visualize something based on a drawing,” she says. “This allows clients to walk through the space virtually and really understand the design. It’s just one way we strive to deliver top-notch, white glove service.”

One Kirkwood homeowner learned the benefit of Anne Marie Design Studio’s approach first-hand. Relocating from southern California, she wanted to capture the open feeling of her previous home in an older property. The kitchen was the focus of the renovation, and the project had unique challenges, according to Boedges. “Older homes are generally smaller, but the goal was to create a spacious feeling with an open floor plan—the homeowner was downsizing but didn’t want to feel like she was,” she notes. “There were awkward floor and ceiling height changes we had to work around, and the walls were plaster, making electrical work and other projects more difficult.”

Boedges was able to create a space that feels more expansive than its actual footprint. While the dimensions of the kitchen and living area were initially awkward, the final design created a sense of balance. Appliances, storage and seating also were able to be added without making the space feel overly full. While the project was centered on the kitchen, Anne Marie Design Studio also worked on other areas of the house. “For any renovation, we look at the whole home,” Boedges notes. “It helps keep the same feeling throughout. For this project, we wanted to ensure the entire house was charming and inviting. We help clients maximize the potential of their homes while creating beautiful spaces.” &

W rking Out the Latest Fitness Trends

From spin classes and jazzercise to crossfit and hula hooping, exercise is constantly evolving with new trends to get people moving. We’re looking at cozy cardio and rucking, two of the latest workout crazes, to see how they can help on your fitness journey.

By Stephanie Wallace

Get Cozy

What is cozy cardio?

This fitness trend comes from social media. It’s all about taking some of the intensity out of your cardiovascular workout and redefining your relationship with exercise. Instead of the high pressure environment of the gym, it involves creating a cozy atmosphere at home. This can include lighting a candle or putting on a favorite movie or TV show while doing low impact movement, such as using a treadmill or walking pad.

How do you create a cozy workout?

Cozy cardio is easily adaptable to most lifestyles and routines. When it comes to the workout component, you just need to find exercises you can do at home and that you enjoy. If a walking pad or treadmill is not an option, you can jump rope, do pilates, dance and more. It doesn’t all have to be burpees and squats—unless that is what works best for you! As for the cozy part, that all depends on what makes you feel comfortable. That can mean listening to a podcast you enjoy, wearing your favorite P.J.’s or other comfy clothes and using mood lighting.

What are the benefits of cozy cardio?

The goal of cozy cardio is to get active without having to deal with the stress and anxiety that can often come with working out, especially in a setting like a gym. Instead of pushing yourself to the max, the idea is to find a comfortable way to meet your fitness needs. If you’re new to working out, it can be a great way to introduce exercise into your daily routine in a low pressure way. It also can help build it into your routine as you’re pairing it with things you enjoy.

As long as you are doing a moderate-intensity workout (i.e. one that gets your heart rate up 50% to 60% higher than when you’re at rest), you’re still going to see the regular benefits of cardiovascular exercise. These include everything from building strength and flexibility to improving your heart health and maintaining a healthy weight.

Can you be too cozy with your workout?

Don’t get too complacent with your workout. Make sure you are getting your heart rate up and build the intensity and difficulty of your routine as your endurance improves over time. There’s nothing wrong with getting cozy, but don’t forget the cardio part!

Cause a Ruck-us

What is rucking?

This fitness trend comes from the military practice of carrying weighted rucksacks during boot camp. It’s done in preparation for real world scenarios where heavy loads must be carried long distances. As an exercise, it’s simply carrying a weighted backpack for a set time or distance. Think of it as hiking—only you can do it anywhere.

Is special equipment needed?

All you need is a rucksack or backpack and weight to add to it. There are benefits to picking a rucksack over a backpack, as the former is designed with rucking in mind. Rucksacks have inserts to hold weights, sit higher and tighter on the back and often have padded shoulder and chest straps. Backpacks are made to simply hold items, so your weights may shift and poke you. They also pull more, causing stress on the shoulders and lower back. If you do want to go with a backpack, opt for a well constructed one with a chest or waist strap for extra support and wide shoulder straps. While rucksacks come with specially designed weights, there are other options. You can use dumbbells, barbell plates or weighted sandbags. Household items like water bottles, books, canned food or plastic bags filled with rocks or kitty litter also can be used. It may be helpful to wrap items in a towel to provide cushioning.

How do you get started rucking?

It’s best to ease into rucking—don’t jump right into a multi-mile hike with half your body weight on your back. Even if you regularly weight train, walking with the weight on your back is a different experience. It may be beneficial to see how long you can walk comfortably with just the empty rucksack or backpack. When you’re ready, start with a small weight like five pounds. Increase both your distance and weight in small increments as you build stamina.

What are the benefits?

When compared to just walking, rucking helps build more muscle and burns three times more calories—making it comparable to jogging. It also can improve your physical endurance, allowing you to do more. Your mental health can also get a boost thanks to the time spent outdoors being active. &

LIVING WITH ALZHEIMER’S

SPECIAL SECTION

Leading the Way in Memory Care

stephanie wallace

FACING THE REALITIES OF MEMORY LOSS is never easy, especially for the loved ones of people suffering from dementia. Health and safety become paramount, and oftentimes, that means considering alternative living arrangements. For 20 years, Parc Provence in Creve Coeur has been dedicated to making that transition easier for all involved. The vibrant senior living community specializes in memory care, and its staff works with families by offering support, expertise and understanding.

Parc Provence offers an innovative village design created by memory care expert Dr. Benjamin Schwartz. The community consists of five households defined by the abilities and care requirements of residents. Each household has its own living environment, featuring a kitchen, dining room, living room and back porch with access to a courtyard. “The households also can use the community’s central living areas, which include a bistro, art gallery, library and billiards room,” chief revenue officer Patrick Leonard explains. “An advanced security system enables residents to explore safely. The freedom of movement encourages them to maintain a sense of independence for as long as possible.”

The village design allows residents to connect with peers who are experiencing similar challenges. The Parc Provence staff also is empowered to work with individuals wherever they are in their journey with dementia. “We provide the personalized support our residents need,” Leonard says. “With a full continuum of care including assisted living, skilled nursing and rehabilitation services, we have established a new and better standard for quality, long-term memory care programs.”

Parc Provence keeps residents engaged through innovative programming. It offers more than 60 daily activities to support residents socially, cognitively, physically and emotionally. The staff undergoes special dementia training so they are equipped to meet whatever needs may arise. “We make a point to go above and beyond in staffing the community with an unmatched quantity and quality of individuals—our staff-to-resident

ratio is the highest in the industry,” Leonard explains. “Our residents and their families feel the difference as soon as they walk in the front doors.”

To ensure that it can provide top quality care, Parc Provence also partners with local organizations like the Alzheimer’s Association. It also has worked with memory loss and dementia experts from Washington University School of Medicine for 20 years. This partnership includes the community’s medical adviser, Dr. David Carr, and medical director, Dr. Lenise Cummings-Vaughn. “They are onsite each week providing care and guidance,” Leonard notes. “Our residents and families truly find comfort in knowing they’re here.”

Parc Provence has a deep connection to St. Louis. Locally owned, it is dedicated to meeting the needs of the community. “We take pride in management and other long-term staff who have been around for many years and truly live out the culture of person-centered care,” Leonard says. “There is no better place for your loved one to receive the care, attention and quality of life they deserve. It’s been an honor to provide the premier memory care community to the St. Louis area for 20 years, and we can’t wait to see what the next 20 have in store.” &

THE PARC PROVENCE SENIOR COMMUNITY IN CREVE COEUR SPECIALIZES IN MEMORY CARE, PROVIDING SUPPORTIVE RESIDENTIAL ENVIRONMENTS RANGING FROM ASSISTED LIVING TO SKILLED NURSING. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.542.2500 OR VISIT PARCPROVENCE.COM. COVER DESIGN COURTESY PARC PROVENCE | COVER PHOTO BY TIM PARKER PHOTOGRAPHY

To truly lead the way in memory care, It takes a village.

A village of expert memory care clinicians. A village of highly-skilled nurses and staff for every stage of dementia—from assisted-living to skilled-nursing care. What’s more, we’ve designed Parc Provence to function as a village—with five levels of care provided in a household setting. Plus a greenhouse, ice cream parlor, library, art gallery, chapel and more, all nestled amongst private pathways and gardens exclusively for residents and their visitors. Putourvillagetoworkforyourfamily.

Experience the joy of togetherness! At Friendship Village, Thanksgiving is a celebration of community— filled with laughter, delicious food, and cherished traditions. We’re thankful for the abundant fun and meaningful friendships that make our communities a vibrant place to call home all year long! Schedule a visit to learn why our residents are thankful they chose Friendship Village!

Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care, Skilled Nursing and Rehabilitation, Private Duty, Home Health, and Hospice options are all available.

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LIVING WITH

alzheimer's

& ALZHEIMER’S DEMENTIA

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

RACE & DEMENTIA

Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine have new insights into racial disparities in dementia. The team found that genetic ancestry plays no role. Rather, these differences are related to the social determinants of health. The study looked at the population of four Latin American countries to investigate the complex web of risk factors associated with cognitive decline.“Marginalized racial and ethnic groups have higher rates of dementia in many countries, and disentangling the biological from the social contributors has been challenging,” says corresponding author Dr. Jorge Llibre-Guerra, an assistant professor of neurology. “Latin America provides a unique framework to separate the two. It is the region with the largest mixture of genetic ancestries, plus it has profound social inequalities. This study clearly shows that poor cognitive health is part of the legacy of the racial caste system. It’s not family ancestry that is putting people at risk. In a way, the findings are reassuring because social determinants of health are modifiable.”

DIET & ALZHEIMER’S

A study from Harvard has found that red meat may increase dementia risk. People who consume two servings of processed red meat a week have a 14% high risk of developing the disease. Findings also indicate that replacing one serving of processed red meat with nuts and legumes can lower the risk by around 20%. Researchers at the T.H. Chan School of Public Health looked at the food-frequency of more than 130,000 participants in the Nurses’ Health Study and Health Professionals Follow-Up Study, which is tracked for up to 43 years. Each additional serving of processed red meat was linked to around 1.6 years of additional cognitive aging for both global cognition and verbal memory.

TREATMENTS ON THE HORIZON

The Alzheimer’s Association reports that a study in Philadelphia has found a glucagon-like peptide-1 (GLP-1) drug may be able to help slow cognitive decline. The drug is used to help manage diabetes and lower the risk of heart disease, stroke and kidney disease by mimicking a natural hormone released by the stomach after eating. In animal models, it was discovered that it may have neuroprotective effects, reducing early forms of amyloid and normalizing the brain’s processing of glucose. The study found that the drug liraglutide may be capable of reducing cognitive decline by as much as 18% after one year for patients with mild Alzheimer’s. “We are in an era of unprecedented promise, with new treatments in various stages of development that slow or may possibly prevent cognitive decline due to Alzheimer’s disease,” says Maria C. Carrillo, Ph.D., Alzheimer’s Association chief science officer and medical affairs lead. “This research provides hope that more options for changing the course of the disease are on the horizon.”

SENIOR SERVICES & AMENITIES

1. ACCESSIBLE HOME HEALTH CARE OF ST. LOUIS

Accessible offers seniors individualized care in the comfort of their home. Specialized services are offered for dementia, Parkinson’s, strokes and activities of daily living.

PICTURED: OWNERS ANDY SCHNECK AND LYNN SCHNECK 443 N. New Ballas Road 314.838.9979

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2. FAMILY PARTNERS HOME

Our assisted living home model is expanding. Please contact us today to schedule a tour to see how living in a home can improve your loved one's quality of life!

3. FRIENDSHIP VILLAGE SENIOR SERVICES

Friendship Village redefines luxury living for seniors. Our exquisite amenities celebrate all that life has to offer, from gourmet dining and elegant social spaces to curated activities. Experience a vibrant lifestyle filled with spiritual growth, security, connection and adventure—whether on our resort-style campuses or through our membership programs. Learn more today!

4. THE GRANDE ASSISTED LIVING & MEMORY CARE COMMUNITIES

Each senior living community we manage goes beyond the expected, creating living spaces that offer the safety and serenity you deserve, along with an innovative and invigorating lifestyle you’ll embrace. We have three communities in the St. Louis area. Visit our website to find the location that's right for you. bridgeseniorliving.com

5. PARC PROVENCE

Music provides therapeutic benefits in memory care by stimulating every part of the brain. Music therapy is one of the tools we use every day to provide the highest-quality care for our residents.

605 Coeur de Ville Drive 314.542.2500

Premier Memory Care in St. Louis

Meet Me Where I Am... at Lilac Trace

Lilac Trace is Bridge Senior Living’s specialized Memory Care program. It was created through the years of Memory Care experience our collective team possesses, from individual caregivers at each community to our executive team members.

and Dementia Care.

THE ACCURACY OF BLOOD TESTS

There are currently at least five companies offering blood tests for Alzheimer’s disease. Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine led a data analysis to compare six of the commercially available tests head-to-head. The blood tests are designed to detect signs of Alzheimer’s disease, particularly the presence of amyloid plaques in the brain. The study found that some of the tests are accurate enough to replace invasive spinal taps previously required to make a diagnosis. Most therapies available for Alzheimer’s target amyloid, so doctors need a way to confirm its presence before they can prescribe treatment. Across the six tests, five distinct biomarkers linked to Alzheimer’s were measured using various techniques. One proved exceptionally accurate at identifying signs of the disease: a form of tau known as phosphorylated tau 217 (p-tau217).

THE IMPACT OF AIR POLLUTION

Wildfire smoke, motor vehicles and factories all emit a type of air pollution called fine particulate matter (PM2.5). Researchers have been looking at the risk such pollution has in developing dementia. Now, a decade-long study of more than 1.2 million people in California has found that wildfire smoke notably increases the risk, according to the Alzheimer’s Association. Exposure to non-wildfire PM2.5 also raised the risk of dementia diagnosis, but not as much. Researchers observed a 21% increase in the odds of dementia diagnosis for every increase of one microgram per meter in the three-year average of wildfire PM2.5 exposure. Comparatively, a 3% increased risk was found for every three micrograms per meter of non-wildfire PM2.5 exposure.

NEURON INSIGHTS

Research at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis has found a way to study neurons without a brain biopsy. The team transformed skin cells from patients with late-onset Alzheimer’s disease into brain cells. The lab-derived neurons accurately reproduced the hallmarks of the disease, such as amyloid plaques, tau protein deposits and neuronal cell death. The cells offered insight into aspects of their genomes that change their activity as we age. The findings suggest new potential courses of treatment. “In these patients, our new model system has identified a role for retrotransposable elements associated with the disease process,” says senior author Andrew Yoo, Ph.D., a professor of developmental biology. “We were pleased to see that we could reduce the damage with a drug treatment that suppresses these elements.” &

T & S HOME

by stephanie wallace

from the homeowners » Also known as The King House, 904 Briar Hill Road is a one-of-a-kind mid-century modern home tucked away in Belleville, Illinois. Thanks to its location, the property offers stunning views of the St. Louis skyline. Ann Nadler grew up in the home, and she’s excited for the exceptional property to welcome a new family.

The property has an impressive architectural pedigree. Originally, the land was purchased by a doctor from Wisconsin in the 1940s. He actually worked with Frank Lloyd Wright to create a design for a home. Construction began, but unfortunately, the doctor passed away, and his wife opted not to finish the project. The land was then sold to Charles Erwin King. He was one of the most prolific mid-century architects of the period, and the design of the house is beautiful. King lived in the home with his wife until they divorced in the 1960s. My parents bought the property in around 1968.

What are some standout features of the home?

The location is the property’s biggest

WITH SOME OF THE BEST VIEWS OF ST. LOUIS IN THE REGION.”

—JON SHIRRELL AND

benefit. The views of St. Louis are amazing, especially when the skyline is lit up in the evening. Everytime I pull up into the driveway, I am enthralled. The home has many floor-to-ceiling windows, so you can enjoy the views from almost anywhere. There’s a beautiful gazebo that’s like a bird’s nest. It’s probably my favorite spot. My parents added a kidney-shaped pool in the 1970s—we spent a lot of time out there. From the living room, you can watch the surrounding fields and see wild deer and turkey. It’s just a beautiful place to be.

Do you have any favorite memories of growing up in the home?

So many. There were all of the holidays, birthdays and pool parties. There’s a winding staircase connecting the second

floor and lower level. Behind it, there’s a little nook that I would make into my own little fort. We had a barn with horses, so I spent many years enjoying riding around the property with my siblings. In the winter, ice would form on the driveway, and we’d go out with skates.

What do you want the next homeowners to know about the property?

I hope that they can appreciate everything about the property. There’s the natural beauty that comes in thanks to all of the windows and the amazing architecture. It’s a wonderful place to be, and I hope they can make as many memories as our family did.

•Less Competition: With fewer homes on the market, your property will have higher visibility to more buyers.

•Serious Buyers: Those searching in the winter typically are more motivated due to a specific timeline, relocation, or other.

•Relocations: Some buyers need to purchase a home regardless of the season due to a job transfer.

•Faster Time to Close: With lower inventory, your property might spend less days on market before selling.

155 N Hanley Road, 305 St. Louis, MO 63105

Top-floor 2-bedroom, 2-bath condo, just moments from downtown Clayton. Enjoy vaulted ceilings, an open floor plan with a cozy fireplace, and a private deck. With in-unit laundry and low HOA fees, this home offers both comfort and convenience in U City.

DOOLEY ROWE REAL ESTATE ADVISORS

M: 314.252.8520 team@dooleyrowe.com dooleyrowe.com

210 Herworth Drive

Clarkson Valley, MO 63005

Discover resort-style living at 210 Herworth Drive in Clarkson Valley, MO. This 4-bed, 3.5-bath home in Forest Hills Country Club Estates offers stunning golf course views, blending luxury and leisure. Priced at $799k, experience country club living at its finest.

JEFF LOTTMANN

Real Estate Advisor

M: 314.406.8911 jeff.lottmann@compass.com jefflottmann.com

REAL ESTATE REIMAGINED

Compass is a nationwide real estate brokerage that has grown to be the #1 real estate company in sales volume* who partners with the industry’s top talent to bring years of high-producing experience to service our clients.

Compass provides the resources of an in-house marketing/advertising agency that is powered by an industry-best technology platform. This proprietary real estate platform has been reimagined to make the property search and selling experience intelligent, seamless and sophisticated.

13012 Pembrooke Valley Court

St. Louis, MO 63141

Experience elegance at 13012 Pembrooke Valley Court, featuring 3 bedrooms, 4.5 bathrooms, and luxurious amenities including a wine tasting room, three fireplaces, and high ceilings. Discover unparalleled comfort in this exquisite residence.

SUE KELLY TEAM

Real Estate Agents

M: 314.602.3533

sue.kelly@compass.com suekellyteam.com

1161 Greystone Manor Parkway Chesterfield, MO 63005

Experience luxury living in this custom 1.5-story home with over 7,800 sqft in the desirable Greystone subdivision. Nestled on a quiet cul-de-sac, it boasts a private, tree-lined backyard with an inviting in-ground pool. Features include a gourmet kitchen with Thermador appliances, a grand primary suite, and a finished lower-level walk-out with a family room and wet bar.

SHERYL DESKIN

Real Estate Agent

M: 314.330.9329

sheryl.deskin@compass.com deskinteam.com

15300 Oaktree Estates

Chesterfield, MO 63017

Elegant and spacious, this open floor plan with natural light everywhere makes this detached villa opportunity hard to pass up! Located in a boutique gated community, with a versatile commute and near so many conveniences in the heart of Chesterfield!

SUSAN HURLEY

Real Estate Agent

M: 314.308.6636 susan.hurley@compass.com susanhurleyhomes.com

1025 Wellington Terrace Town and Country, MO 63017

Experience timeless elegance at 1025 Wellington Terrace. This stunning Colonial home offers 4 bedrooms, 3.5 bathrooms, and luxurious amenities, including a private pool. Immerse yourself in the sophistication and charm of this Town and Country residence.

ZOE TAYLOR

Real Estate Agent

M: 618.719.5921 zoe.taylor@compass.com movingmedicinestl.com

Welcoming New Agents

We’re excited to introduce The Monschein Team, John Seiler, Meggin Martin, and Jason Cooper as the newest additions to the Compass family. Their expertise strengthens our commitment to providing exceptional service.

17734

Wildwood, MO 63005

Nestled on a private, tree-lined lot, this elegant 2-story home features a grand foyer, versatile living spaces, a gourmet kitchen, screened-in porch, luxurious primary suite, finished walk-out lower level, 3-car garage, sprinkler system, hot tub, and much more!

KRISTI & JT MONSCHEIN

Real Estate Agents M: 636.299.0887 info@themonscheinteam.com themonscheinteam.com

30 Meadowbrook Country Club

Ballwin, MO 63011

Enjoy luxurious country club living in this exquisite Meadowbrook ranch. Perfect for entertaining, it features an open floorplan, gourmet kitchen, spacious primary suite, and walk-out finished lower level. Relax in the stunning outdoor spaces on a private .76-acre lot, just steps from club amenities.

LINDSEY JACOBS + SUSIE O. JOHNSON

Real Estate Agents | M: 314.602.7495 showandsellstl@compass.com showandsellstl.com

Celebrating Our Leadership Excellence

Alongside them, we proudly highlight our seasoned sales leadership, Matt Travaglini and Jason Pashia, whose combined 47 years of industry experience continue to guide our success.

HOME FOR THE holidays

PICTURE THIS… OUTDOOR

by lauren rechan

TRENDS

GIVEN THE BEAUTIFUL FALL WEATHER, this is the perfect time to discuss the most recent trends in exterior design and landscapes. Since the pandemic, outdoor spaces have remained a vital extension of our living space. These trends artfully combine this desire for an outdoor hideaway with green and eco-friendly elements. Take a look and see!

I love a great shed! This one is designed to get you out into nature and read. The interior is lined with antique bookshelves and books galore

a meditation space.

1166 Dimock Lane | Collier's Reserve

As native St. Louisans, we are part of the #1 real estate company in the U.S., and we are dedicated to helping you find your dream home in Southwest Florida! Whether you're looking in Marco Island, Naples, Bonita Springs, Fort Myers, or the beautiful Sanibel and Captiva islands, our expert team is here to guide you every step of the way. Licensed in both Florida and Missouri, Mary Noel resides in St. Louis and Dan resides full time in Southwest Florida. Whether buying or selling a vacation home or a permanent residence, we are committed to making it a smooth and successful transaction. We can meet you in St. Louis or in Florida! Call us today!

Owned and Operated Since 1936

Designed by Weber & Groves in 1897, this Italian Renaissance-Style home features outstanding architectural details which have been restored and updated with all the civilized amenities for today’s modern lifestyle. Grand entry hall with gracious staircase leads to stunning leaded glass bay window. Spacious epicurean kitchen with 6-burner, Wolf range and built-in steamer, custom inset, double-stacked cabinets, Decor double ovens, granite counter tops, 56” x 66” island with seating for 4, 2 sinks + mudroom. Fabulous library with leather wallpaper & original bookshelves. Elegant formal Living Room with French doors that lead to an updated screened-in porch. Formal Dining Room with in-laid wood floors, antique sconces and fireplace + updated powder room. Beautiful, arboretum-style back yard is pure tranquility with large deck with retractable screens and a 2-person, built-in spa. 3 bedrooms, 2 updated baths & walk-in closet + laundry room complete the 2nd floor. 3rd floor has 2 additional bedrooms + large rec room. Wine cellar in Lower Level. Carriage house with apartment above.

BEST ROOM IN THE HOUSE

Prepare to be wowed by this dreamy great room with its top-of-the-line kitchen, spacious family room, vaulted ceilings and relaxing pool views.

Experience

This stunning third-story patio is the perfect spot to enjoy the gentle morning sun and sip coffee as the day begins. French doors seamlessly connect the patio to the inviting family room and kitchen, making it an ideal spot for entertaining or quiet reflection. Decorated in vibrant turquoises and corals, the space radiates a cheerful, coastal charm, inviting you to relax and unwind in this serene urban retreat.

5 VALLEY VIEW DRIVE LADUE | $2,699,000

This kitchen is a chef’s dream! It features a gas cooktop with pot filler, two dishwashers, a microwave, two 30-inch refrigerators, quartzite waterfall island, wet bar with ice maker, beverage center, wine cooler and spacious hidden walk-in pantry.

This gourmet kitchen has granite countertops, custom cabinetry and a wet bar. It is adjacent to the breakfast and hearth room, featuring beamed vaulted ceilings. Perfect for entertaining.

An impressive front porch entrance has exceptional craftsmanship and distinctive design elements.

This impressive great room features tall ceilings, beams, a gas log fireplace, hardwood floors, wainscotting and French doors that open to a patio, inground pool and private back yard.

The heart of this home is undoubtedly the expansive, sunlit family room, perfectly situated just off the kitchen. This inviting space offers ample room for relaxation and entertainment, making it ideal for family gatherings and casual get-togethers.

light-filled living room features vaulted ceilings and seamlessly connects to the formal dining and great room areas.

FROM THE BLOG OF...

RETRO REVIVAL

The Retro Revival aesthetic beautifully captures the spirit of the ’60s and ’70s while reimagining

Warm Color Palette

Color is at the heart of the movement, with bold hues of yellow and red leading the way. These shades bring warmth and energy to any room. Think mustard-yellow or cherry-red accents to evoke the lively spirit of the past.

Slim Aarons Photography

Slim Aarons’ iconic work captures the glamorous lifestyles from the ’60s and ’70s, which adds an aspirational touch to any design. His images, often featuring luxurious poolside scenes and elegant parties, bring a sophisticated yet relaxed feel that complements the overall aesthetic perfectly.

Retro Wallpaper

Wallpaper is a great way to incorporate patterns that harken back to the past. Think bold geometric shapes, whimsical florals and striking color combinations that create a dynamic backdrop for your interiors.

Timeless Appeal of Rattan

Rattan, a staple of mid-century design, has made a triumphant return. This versatile material brings a touch of nature indoors, adding texture and warmth. Whether it’s a rattan chair, coffee table, or pendant light, these pieces offer a blend of comfort and style that seamlessly fits into retro-inspired spaces.

it for contemporary interiors. Explore these playful, colorful and eclectic trends that bring nostalgic charm to modern spaces.

Lacquered Finishes

Items with a glossy sheen add a touch of sophistication and modernity. Lacquered pieces in bold colors can serve as striking focal points in a room, enhancing the overall retro feel.

Mixing Materials

The combination of mixed materials creates an eclectic feel, adding to the visual interest while creating a dynamic and layered look that feels both curated and spontaneous. Retro Revival is all about embracing color and pattern. Don’t shy away from mixing and matching different patterns—the key is to create a lively and harmonious balance that captures the playful essence of the era.

Funky, Colorful, Playful

The Retro Revival trend encourages creativity and self-expression, inviting you to experiment with different styles and elements. At its core, the style has a deep sense of nostalgia for an era marked by bold experimentation in design, a celebration of individuality and a love for all things vibrant and unconventional. By embracing these elements, Retro Revival allows us to create interiors that are not only stylish but also deeply personal and evocative.

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HOMEWORK

DEAR HOMEWORK,

We bought our home about a year ago because it has a great floor plan on the main floor, but the outside has zero curb appeal! We’ve tried to improve it by removing overgrown landscaping in the front yard and a sidewalk to the street.

We don’t love the home’s Art Deco style because it just seems tired. The bow front window feels like it needs something more than a flat roof, and the curved dormer windows and trim style are dated. The gray brick with yellowing cream trim and white-sealed concrete driveway and front walk certainly don’t help!

The only thing we like is the front door, but we wish it had some windows to let light into the foyer. I know there is a way to make our house shine, but we’re lacking a vision and are overwhelmed with where to start!

DEAR JUST NOT OUR STYLE,

Sincerely, —JUST NOT OUR STYLE

Well, I like a lot more about your house than you do, but I have a soft spot for this era of architecture. Since you don’t really like anything about the appearance of your house, let’s completely transform all aspects of it.

To start with, put a roof over the curved bow window. I would use a variegated, architectural asphalt shingle here and over the entire roof. Note that the thick parapet wall above the curved windows has been slimmed down. The two dormers receive new hipped roofs. Next, use more of the stone seen on the curved bay in other areas of the composition. Stone walls at the new parking area and entry court and a stone veneer on the chimney give the façade charming details and texture. Currently, the windows only have horizontal divisions. I show adding one vertical mullion and painting them all dark brown. I have added a window to the front door and lowered the ones in the garage. The landscape is kept simple and bold; combined with the other changes, it gives the property a more current feel.

Thanks for asking, —HOMEWORK &

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BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

You may have just put away your jack-o-lanterns and spooky Halloween decor, but the winter holidays are just around the corner. Whatever you’re celebrating, you can create holiday magic for your friends and family through your decor. Here are some trends that can bring some festive cheer to your home this winter.

put a bow on it

Bows for the holidays? Okay, maybe not the most revolutionary suggestion. However, thanks to the rising popularity of feminine aesthetics like Barbiecore and coquette, ribbons and bows are bigger than ever. You can expect that trend to extend to holiday decor, but it doesn’t have to be all over the top frills. Ribbons are very traditional decor and can be a simple way to decorate for the season. Bows are an easy way to add some decoration to almost anything in your home— from the Christmas tree to the mantle to the staircase to the dining table.

disco decor

Want something fun for the holidays? Take inspiration from the 1970s and think disco. The hashtag “discodecor” has been trending on TikTok, and it’s just perfect for the holidays. Nothing compliments hundreds of twinkling lights like the glamorous aesthetic of a mirror ball. Disco balls can be hung from tree branches, perched as tree toppers, used as garlands or placed on mantles or tablescapes. As a bonus, these decorations also are perfect for New Year’s Eve.

supersize it

When it comes to decorating for the holidays, don’t be afraid to go big. Oversized baubles and other ornaments are a great way to add a playful touch that is still luxurious. And you don’t have to confine your supersized decor to the tree. Use size to link your decorations from room to room—think giant bows on the stairs, large paper stars in the dining room and even an oversized nutcracker in the foyer. If you want to be festive, don’t be afraid to make an impact.

(old) old school

Vintage holiday decorations have been a big trend for a few years, but in 2024, expect to see people taking things even further back in the day. Thanks to popular shows like Bridgerton and The Gilded Age, there has been a rise in popularity of the aesthetics of the 18th and 19th centuries. You can bring “regencycore” to your holidays with lavish materials, gilded accents and rich jewel tones— remember everything should be fit for a king or queen. Add some opulence with velvet and flocked materials, pick vintage elements like lace and tassels, and don’t be afraid to go over the top with the baubles.

feeling the felt

Looking for something folksy to add some charm to the winter months? Felt ornaments are the answer. Created by artisans using a needle felting technique, these bauble alternatives often take the shape of adorable critters. You also can find them in classic Christmas designs like gingerbread, candy canes, pine cones and trees. Felt ornaments embrace a larger folk aesthetic that is currently trending with people embracing handcrafted pieces and taking inspirations from woodland aesthetics. Not just for the tree, they can add some