New Haven, MI
Robyn D. Murphy, President Edna Clark, Editor
A Message from the Basileus
Greetings, My Beautiful Sorors,
Greetings, My Beautiful Sorors,
As we enter the final month of 2026, my heart is overflowing with gratitude, reflection, and the true spirit of giving that defines not only this season, but who we are as members of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. December is a sacred reminder hat love is not just spoken
As we enter the final month of 2026, my heart is overflowing with gratitude, reflection, and the true spirit of giving that defines not only this season, but who we are as members of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. December is a sacred reminder hat love is not just spoken it is shown through service, through generosity, and through being present. And time and time again, Omega Xi Omega continues to show up and show out with a heart full of purpose
it is shown through service, through generosity, and through being present. And time and time again, Omega Xi Omega continues to show up and show out with a heart full of purpose.
Special pink tea roses to OXO’s current Historian and Chartering Basileus, Soror Pamela Tinsley, whose thoughtful vision helped ensure that full Thanksgiving meals were provided to our CHIPP families, as well as to members of Vinson Chapel A.M.E. Church, pastored by Soror Jacqueline Burge. Additional gratitude goes Soror Tracy Lathan, our Empower Our Families Chairman, and the entire Empower Our Families Committee, whose coordination, care, and commitment turned a vision into an opportunity for OXO to once again show tangible love to our community We are also incredibly thankful for the generous donation of all of the turkeys by Soror Cleo Lloyd an amazing act of sisterhood that truly embodies what it means to be our sister’s keeper
Special pink tea roses to OXO’s current Historian and Chartering Basileus, Soror Pamela Tinsley, whose thoughtful vision helped ensure that full Thanksgiving meals were provided to our CHIPP families, as well as to members of Vinson Chapel A.M.E. Church, pastored by Soror Jacqueline Burge. Additional gratitude goes to Soror Tracy Lathan, our Empower Our Families Chairman, and the entire Empower Our Families Committee, whose coordination, care, and commitment turned a vision into an opportunity for OXO to once again show tangible love to our community. We are also incredibly thankful for the generous donation of all of the turkeys by Soror Cleo Lloyd an amazing act of sisterhood that truly embodies what it means to be our sister’s keeper.
And now… it is time to continue our Friendsgiving fun and come together again and celebrate OXO-style! Our upcoming OXO Christmas Party will be a beautiful moment of connection, creativity, and sisterhood. As we gather to decorate holiday glasses, we will sip, laugh, create, and enjoy the simple joy of being together no pressure, no agenda, - just love, laughter, and festive fellowship. This gives us space to reconnect, reflect, and enjoy a welcomed break from the pace of the season and simply be together.
And now… it is time to continue our Friendsgiving fun and come together again and celebrate OXO-style! Our upcoming OXO Christmas Party will be a beautiful moment of connection, creativity, and sisterhood. As we gather to decorate holiday glasses, we will sip, laugh, create, and enjoy the simple joy of being together no pressure, no agenda, - just love, laughter, and festive fellowship. This gives us space to reconnect, reflect, and enjoy a welcomed break from the pace of the season and simply be together.
In this season of reflection and renewal, I would also like to extend a heartfelt THANK YOU to the following Sorors for answering the call to leadership: Soror Sandra Boykin, Soror Edna Clark, Soror Kelli Hackel, Soror Nathifa Riley-Cochran, and Soror Michelle Williams Ward Your willingness to serve, to step forward, and to lead with intention does not go unnoticed. We see and appreciate you!
As we move through this holy and hopeful season, I encourage each of you to continue giving freely of your time, your compassion, your resources, and your LOVE. Never underestimate the impact of a kind word, a helping hand, or simply showing up for someone in need.
In this season of reflection and renewal, I would also like to extend a heartfelt THANK YOU to the following Sorors for answering the call to leadership: Soror Sandra Boykin, Soror Edna Clark, Soror Kelli Hackel, Soror Nathifa Riley-Cochran, and Soror Michelle Williams Ward. Your willingness to serve, to step forward, and lead with intention does not go unnoticed. We see and appreciate you! As we move through this and hopeful season, I encourage each of you to continue giving freely of your time, your compassion, your resources, and your LOVE. Never underestimate the impact of a kind word, a helping hand, or simply showing up for someone in need.
As I close Sorors, thank you for your heart! Thank you for your dedication! Thank you for truly living what it means to be your Sister’s Keeper!
As I close Sorors, thank you for your heart! Thank you for your dedication! Thank you for truly living what it means to be your Sister’s Keeper!
With a grateful heart and sisterly love,
With a grateful heart and sisterly love,
Robyn
Soror Robyn D. Murphy Basileus
OMEGA XI OMEGA EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE
TheChaplain’sCorner
This CHRISTmas
As the Christmas season draws near and the year comes to a close, there is a special reminder to pause, celebrate, and notice all that has been accomplished. This season brings warmth that goes beyond lights and gifts. It reminds us of God’s faithfulness, the joy that surrounds us, and the opportunities that await in the new year.
These final weeks are your chance to finish the year with intention. Focus on what truly matters, give your best to the moments that count, and release anything that no longer serves your growth. Celebrate the progress, the milestones, and the moments of clarity that came your way this year. Recognize the blessings that have shaped you and the doors that God has opened.
You are stepping into a new chapter full of promise. Walk into the new year with confidence, gratitude, and excitement for all that God has prepared. Finish strong, and let the joy of Christmas carry you into the season ahead. Happy Holidays, Sorors!
With hope and joy,
Soror Rockelia “Rock” Mathies
Soror Rockelia Mathies Chaplain
NG COMMITTEES & CHAIRMEN
Standards: Soror Gianna Austin
k Management: Soror Helena Jones
Bylaws: Soror Michele Graham
Finance: Soror Charo Earle
gram Initiatives: Soror Kimberley Will
Membership: Soror Carla Postell
Archives: Soror Pamela Tinsley
Technology: Soror Raquel Welch
p Development: Soror Donetta Houser-Sly
Courtesy: Soror Shemya Doster
Protocol: Soror Stephanie Edwards
Fundraising: Soror Juanae Stephens
Publicity: Soror Kea Norrell-Aitch
EAF Chairman: Soror Donetta Houser-Sly
Regional Awards: Soror Cathy Carr
Generation Next: Soror Kaitlin McQueen
Sisterly Relations: Soror Tomara Nolen
Social Connections: Soror Michelle Williams-Ward
Rituals: Soror Pamela Tinsley
Audit: Soror Michella King
PROGRAM INITIATIVES & CHAIRMEN
Strengthen Our SISTERHOOD: Soror Edna Clark
Empower Our FAMILIES: Soror Tracy Lathan
Build Our ECONOMIC WEALTH: Soror Sandra Boykins
Enhance Our ENVIRONMENT: Soror Nicco Russell
Advocate for SOCIAL JUSTICE: Soror Michelle Williams-Ward
Uplift Our LOCAL COMMUNITY: Soror Tonjie Reese
AD HOC COMMITTEES & CHAIRMEN
Scholarship Committee: Soror Vesta Rumphy
Social Media: Soror Angel Ingram
Spiritual Oversight: Soror Rockelia Mathies
NPHC Representatives
Soror Michoni Ward
Soror Argentina Abney
Soror Delicia Liddell-Jenkins
Holiday Spending: Happiness, Tradition, and Making Smart Choices
The holiday season is a time marked by celebration, generosity, and—often— significant spending. From travel and festive meals to gifts and decorations, costs can add up quickly. Many families look forward to this time of year, but the financial pressure that accompanies holiday traditions can bring stress if not approached thoughtfully.
SEVERAL FACTORS DRIVE INCREASED SPENDING DURING THE HOLIDAYS:
GIFT-GIVING TRADITIONS: MANY PEOPLE SHOW APPRECIATION THROUGH PRESENTS, OFTEN STRETCHING BEYOND THEIR USUAL BUDGETS.
SEASONAL TRAVEL: VISITING FAMILY OR TAKING A WINTER VACATION CAN INCREASE TRANSPORTATION AND ACCOMMODATION COSTS.
ENTERTAINMENT AND MEALS: HOLIDAY GATHERINGS FREQUENTLY INVOLVE SPECIAL MENUS, PARTIES, AND OUTINGS.
SALES AND MARKETING: BLACK FRIDAY, CYBER MONDAY, AND SEASONAL PROMOTIONS FUEL IMPULSE BUYING AND A FEAR OF MISSING OUT ON DEALS.
Because of these factors, holidays increase emotions which could lead to negative finances—nostalgia, generosity, and the desire to create memorable experiences. This emotional pull can make it easy to overspend without realizing it. For many, giving gifts or hosting celebrations is tied to expressing love, making it more difficult to set boundaries.
HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO HELP WITH SMART HOLIDAY SPENDING:
PLAN EARLY: ESTABLISH A REALISTIC BUDGET BEFORE THE SEASON BEGINS AND STICK TO IT.
MAKE A LIST: PRIORITIZE ESSENTIAL PURCHASES TO AVOID IMPULSIVE BUYS.
LOOK FOR MEANINGFUL, NOT PRICEY: THOUGHTFUL GIFTS OFTEN RESONATE MORE THAN EXPENSIVE ONES.
USE CASH OR DEBIT: AVOID RELYING ON CREDIT UNLESS YOU HAVE A PLAN TO PAY IT OFF QUICKLY.
SHARE RESPONSIBILITIES: FOR GATHERINGS, CONSIDER POTLUCKS OR GIFT EXCHANGES TODISTRIBUTE COSTS.
To find financial balance, holiday spending doesn’t have to be a source of financial strain. With mindful planning, it’s possible to enjoy the season’s traditions without starting the new year with regret. The key is the balance between celebrating the joy of the holidays while keeping long-term financial well-being in mind.
Advocate for Social Justice
Soror Michelle Williams-Ward
TheWorkContinuesBeyondElectionDay
TheWorkContinuesBeyondElectionDay
As we reflect on the recent election season, it is important to remember that our commitment to advocacy does not end when the ballots are counted. Even though elections are over, we still have a great deal of work to do. True social justice is not a moment it is a continuous movement.
As we reflect on the recent election season, it is important to remember that our commitment to advocacy does not end when the ballots are counted. Even though elections are over, we still have a great deal of work to do. True social justice is not a moment it is a continuous movement.
Our responsibility as advocates includes staying informed, engaged, and present in the issues that affect our communities every single day. This means paying close attention to all local elections from school boards to city councils to county leadership. These positions often shape the policies that impact our families, our neighborhoods, and our quality of life. Local elections may not always draw the same attention as national races, but their outcomes directly influence matters such as education, public safety, social programs, and representation.
Our responsibility as advocates includes staying informed, engaged, and present in the issues that affect our communities every single day. This means paying close attention to all local elections from school boards to city councils to county leadership. These positions often shape the policies that impact our families, our neighborhoods, and our quality of life. Local elections may not always draw the same attention as national races, but their outcomes directly influence matters such as education, public safety, social programs, and representation.
We must also continue our work in safeguarding the protections afforded under the Civil Rights Act, ensuring that equality is upheld and that discrimination in all forms is challenged and defeated. Protecting civil rights is not an achievement we celebrate once; it requires constant vigilance and collective action to ensure that every individual is treated with dignity and fairness.
We must also continue our work in safeguarding the protections afforded under the Civil Rights Act, ensuring that equality is upheld and that discrimination in all forms is challenged and defeated. Protecting civil rights is not an achievement we celebrate once; it requires constant vigilance and collective action to ensure that every individual is treated with dignity and fairness.
In addition, we cannot overlook the urgent and ongoing issue of Black maternal and child health. The disparities in maternal mortality and infant mortality among Black women and children in this country are unacceptable. As advocates, we must continue pushing for better access to care, culturally competent healthcare providers, expanded resources, and policies that protect the health and well-being of Black mothers and their babies.
In addition, we cannot overlook the urgent and ongoing issue of Black maternal and child health. The disparities in maternal mortality and infant mortality among Black women and children in this country are unacceptable. As advocates, we must continue pushing for better access to care, culturally competent healthcare providers, expanded resources, and policies that protect the health and well-being of Black mothers and their babies.
During the holiday season, many in our communities face challenges related to housing, food security, healthcare access, and economic stability. Guided by our Sorority’s commitment to service to all mankind, we remain intentional about standing in the gap, providing support, and advocating for lasting change. Every workshop, initiative, voter engagement effort, and community partnership has brought us closer to a more just and equitable society.
During the holiday season, many in our communities face challenges related to housing, food security, healthcare access, and economic stability. Guided by our Sorority’s commitment to service to all mankind, we remain intentional about standing in the gap, providing support, and advocating for lasting change. Every workshop, initiative, voter engagement effort, and community partnership has brought us closer to a more just and equitable society.
These are just a few of the many social justice concerns that demand our attention. Whether advocating for equitable education, criminal justice reform, voting rights expansion, or access to mental health resources—our mission continues.
These are just a few of the many social justice concerns that demand our attention. Whether advocating for equitable education, criminal justice reform, voting rights expansion, or access to mental health resources—our mission continues.
Let us stay committed, stay informed, and stay hopeful. The election season may be behind us, but the work of justice, equity, and empowerment moves forward every single day. Together, we will continue to lift our communities and make meaningful change.
Let us stay committed, stay informed, and stay hopeful. The election season may be behind us, but the work of justice, equity, and empowerment moves forward every single day. Together, we will continue to lift our communities and make meaningful change.
EMPOWER OUR FAMILIES YOUTH LEADERSHIP PROGRAM
OurY.L.I.studentshavebeenonamissionwithspearheadingtheir leadershipabilitiesthesepastfewmonth.Thesestudentshavebeen brainstorminganddevelopingtheirownideasofwhatmakesagreat leader.Mostofourstudentshavealreadyaccomplishedsomeleadership roles at home and in school, and OXO is fortunate to fulfill this initiative with fostering their skills to embark on more leadership activities in the community.
September:
WehadameetandgreetwithournewandreturningY.LI.members.At thatmeeting,ourstudentsbrainstormedtheirfutureleadershipgoals.
October:
Ourstudentsmadetheirvisionboards.Theywereabletoputtogether boardsthatrepresentedtheirindividualpersonalgoalsandfuturecareer goals.
November:
OurstudentscollaboratedwithtwoY.L.I.chaptersfromRedfordand Pontiac.OurstudentswereabletoattendTauAlphaOmega(Redford) chapter’sY.L.I.teensummit.Ourteenswereabletobeinspiredby motivationalspeakersonmentalhealthandsafetyawareness.Theyalso joinedThetaLambdaOmega(Pontiac)chapter’sY.L.I.withaletterwriting campaigntoinspiretheirteacherstoencouragemorestudentstowrite lettersforacauseoftheirchoice.
Stay tuned for December: December 13th - Koaster and
EnhanceOurEnvironment
As we prepare to enter a new year and embrace new mercies, new blessings and new initiatives, let us reflect on all the hard work and successes that we have had throughout the year!
Waste Reduction Efforts
Over 150 gallons of paper, aluminum and plastic products collected and recycled via chapter activities.
Arbor Day & Community Gardens
Over 30 participants in conjunction with YLI planted 3 trees and over 36 flowers at Seminole Academy
Planting with a Twist
EndoftheYearWrap-Up!
In partnership with Alpha Rho Omega’s EOE committee, attendees created over 40 sustainable plants and vegetables for home and community gardening efforts.
Adopt-A-Highway
Completed 2 chapter clean up days, covering over 2 miles and collecting 14 bags of waste and debris.
Upcycle & Uplift
Omega Xi Omega’s EOE committee partnered with the EOE committees of Alpha Rho Omega, Tau Alpha Omega, Theta Lambda Omega, Beta Mu and Nu Phi, to host over 116 participants, who helped create sustainable mats for the homeless, totes bags for cancer patients, crafted words of encouragement and donated over 100 combined novels and feminine hygiene products
OnNovember7th,StrengthenOurSisterhoodhostedOXO’s PHIRSTFriendsgivingPotluckandPinExchange.Sororsenjoyed deliciousfood,fun-filledgames,andwarmsisterlyfellowship! It wasabeautifuleveningfilledwithlaughter,connection,and gratitude.Wonderfulmemoriesweremade,andtheSororsleft alreadyanticipatingthenextgathering.Momentsliketheseremind sjusthowblessedwearetobelongtothebestSisterhood.
Friends
Giving
to the Dynamic Sorors born in December!
to the Dynamic Sorors born in December! Happy
Soror Rockelia Mathies
Soror Rockelia Mathies
December 10
December 10
Soror Latasha Davidson
Soror Latasha Davidson
December 12
December 12
Soror Kaitlin McQueen
Soror Kaitlin McQueen
December 11
December 11
Soror April Sanford
Soror April Sanford
December 27
December 27
HAPPY AKAVERSARY SORORS HAPPY AKAVERSARY SORORS
Soror Diana Bledsoe
Soror Diana Bledsoe
December 5, 1977
December 5, 1977
Tau
Soror Keia Perry-Farr
Soror Keia Perry-Farr
December 5, 1993
December 5, 1993
Beta Mu
Beta Mu
Soror Meliah Tinsley
Soror Meliah Tinsley
December 5, 2021
December 5, 2021
Beta Mu
Beta Mu
Soror Yolanda Crain
Soror Yolanda Crain
December 9, 1978
December 9, 1978
Delta Chi
Delta Chi
MAILING ADDRESS:
MAILING ADDRESS: Omega Xi Omega Chapter P.O. Box 480435
P.O. Box 480435
New Haven, MI 48048
New Haven, MI 48048
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OMEGA XI OMEGA CHAPTER MEETINGS WILL BE HELD AT THE
STERLING HEIGHTS COMMUNITY CENTER
STERLING HEIGHTS, MI 48313 OMEGA OMEGA CHAPTER MEETINGS
STERLING HEIGHTS COMMUNITY CENTER
40250 DODGE PARK RD SEMINAR ROOM 2 (2ND FLOOR)
40250 DODGE PARK RD SEMINAR ROOM (2ND FLOOR)
STERLING HEIGHTS, MI 48313
Soror Edna Clark Editor