The JUNE 2016 | Series No. 3, Issue No. 3
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At The Perpetual You, we believe in choosing, embracing, celebrating, and unleashing who you've always been – who you already are – who you want to be.
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Friendship is the most important thing. – JULIA CHILD
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L E T T E R from our E D I T O R
W
hen the idea for this month’s theme began brewing—nearly a year ago now—I was virtually friendless. Sure, I had acquaintances, and my Facebook friend count wasn’t too shabby; but, in the department of genuine, intimate, loyal friendships, I was zero for zero. When my sister moved from Florida to Connecticut (my home), my friendship quota started to rise. Not only did LaKay and I spend the summer establishing a magical bond based on our mutual love of brainstorming and champagne cocktails, my circle of potential friends increased exponentially. Where my sister goes, friends are sure to follow. Those same months, and in the time since then, I’ve embarked upon several close relationships of my own, and I’ve reconnected with an important woman from a “past” life to rekindle our easygoing, enthusiastic camaraderie. I’ve attended more social gatherings than at any other point in my life, and I’ve spent time with “strangers” (i.e. potential friends) virtually every single day. How does an introvert such as myself, prone to isolation and more comfortable with introspection than conversation, turn her friendship fate around in less than a year?
Simple. I opened myself up to the possibility inherent in making feminine connections. I let the Universe know that I no longer desired isolation over companionship. I made a commitment to be my genuine self, whether alone or with a friend. Turns out, that attitude—more than anything—is what Intentional Friendship is all about. Even if you’re celebrating with only one close friend, the act of declaring how important friendship is in your life will bring about monumental goodness and exponential connection. If we can stop looking at other women as strangers, competitors, or potential sources of heartache, our hearts will be open to celebrate when a tribe arrives to fill it up.
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IN THIS ISSUE
Create
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by Celebrating Friendship
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Create a life where friendship is a priority. Reminisce about the good times and dream up new adventures. Get your toes done and throw a garden party. Take a class, see a movie, & call up that woman you’ve been eyeing at the last three networking events.
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dwell Curate a home that welcomes friends old & new. Be ready to gather at a moment’s notice; enjoy playdates while they’re still happening. Appreciate the imperfection that comes with welcoming people into your home.
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Going on a girls trip? Listen to our "Friends For Life" playlist.
celebrate Celebrate your closest friend & confidante— your differences, your quirks, your shared experiences, and your future—with Cover Story Superstars & Business Partners,
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Cultivate a story of yourself that tells of strength and self-love. Pay tribute to the woman who taught you how to be a friend. Offer up the deepest parts of yourself, and be rewarded tenfold.
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Lee Lee
Jessie
Creative Director & Managing Editor
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The Lee Lee is the #ladyboss of The Perpetual You. A writer by trade, designer by heart, and mother by choice, she seeks intentional practices and a positive mindset. Connect with her through Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest or Email. If you’re near Hamden, CT, she welcomes you to stop by her front porch.
Jessie is a multi-disciplinary designer & art director striving to make her world more pixel perfect. When she's not poring over mockups, she can be found singing (loudly) in her car or compulsively buying striped shirts. You can stalk her @jessieleiber or work with her at Little Legends.
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Kirsten
Social Media Coordinator
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Brittany is a social media guru and cabi stylist. She is often found on her phone curating hashtags or talking the latest runway trends, but also enjoys the perfect mix of chocolate and barre classes. You can plug in with her on Instagram @dressedtt9s or Twitter.
Kirsten is a designer, illustrator, and lover of plants. When she's not creating botanical doodles in the wee hours, she enjoys sleeping, sipping buttery chardonnays, or watching Cary Grant movies. See her whimsical calligraphy & illustrations @KirstenEike.
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