THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Worship schedule inside. Refer to website for more detailed information www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Deacon: John Wedemeyer
November 22, 2020
Christ the King of the Universe Christ has power over all creatures. (Quas primas, 13)
Join us for THANKSGIVING DAY MASS Thursday, November 26 in the Church at 9 am.
Advent Penance & Reconciliation will be held on Sunday, Dec. 6 , 2020 at 3 pm Several priest confessors will be available 3:00 pm arrival Second Grade Families
Start your day in thankful prayer!!
Family Last Name arrival times - , - , 3:15 pm, 3:30 pm, & 3:45 pm
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Mass Intentions for the Week of November 21 - November 29 For * Requested by Saturday, November 21 – 4 PM Church William Gurkas * Rosalyn Gurkas Catherine Bowdish * Barbara Saake Veronica Grabowki * Grabowski and Munger Family Sunday, November 22 – Church - Christ the King 8 AM Helen & John Sionas * Eileen & Michael Stivala 10 AM Kathy De La Vega * Yaninas Family Marian Green Higgins * Fred and Lisa Claps Abel Rodriguez * Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff and Parishioners 12 PM Pro Populo Lori Ann Romer * Cirronella Family Bernadette Shine * Heidi and Al Lohn Baptism after the 10 am Mass Emma Patricia Johnson Baptism after the 12 noon Mass Bennie Simone Berardi Monday, November 23 – 9 AM Chapel Margaret Boyle * Aiello Family Abel Bocanegra Acayturri * Tom and Angela Kinlin Tuesday, November 24 – 9 AM Chapel Sal Aiello * Aiello Family Logan Dayton * Gail and Bill Cargiulo Wednesday, November 25 – 9 AM Chapel Joanne Borden * Jane and Neil Slattery James Bergen * Mary and Bill Klein Thursday, November 26 -9 AM Church Connie Kleinberg * Hary Family Joan Mainzer * Richard and Marie Innocenzi Friday, November 27 – 9 AM Chapel Cynthia Woolford * Martha Mary Guild Saturday, November 28 -4 PM Church Pro Populo Terence Deckert * John and Susan Murphy Zumbo and Tripodi Families * Carl and Providence Zumbo Sunday, November 29 – Church 1st Sunday of Advent 8 AM Mae Mascaro * Mascaro Family 10 AM Joseph Simoniello * Sean and Denise Devaney Abel Rodriguez * Rorie and Jack Coppola Cindy Boyle * Freda O’Doherty 12 PM Robert Leight * Thoresen Family Betty Leight * Thoresen Family
Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Marcela Abril Kathleen Amatel Fr Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley Janice Basilice Christen Chellis Blake Conley John DeSimone Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Joann Feliciti James Fiedler Cynthia Fiedler Emily Gioacchini Edward Habrack Tom Hudak Anton Kopp
Bridget Korn Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Ludwig Mendola Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Walter Moeller Kevin O’Shea Stanley Rembisz Paola Richmond Owen Shoemaker Victoria Slater Dominic Sozio Gerard P. Thompson Seneida Tomasetti Lauren Vinci
To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Mass Intention Request ONLINE Available through the link below is an online form to request Mass Intentions for the 2021 calendar. https://bit.ly/3dbHyip
Rest in Peace Please remember in your prayers, those who have recently died. Eugene Szalankiewicz
Parish Office Hours Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Sunday
9 am – 2 pm 2 pm -7:30 pm 9 am – 2 pm 9 am – 2 pm 9 am -12 noon
The Parish Office will be closed for Thanksgiving on Thursday, November 26. It will reopen on Sunday, November 29 at 9 am.
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November 22, 2020
PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN SPC Michael John Mento, US Army PFC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army Captain Richard Savo, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 1st Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army TSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org.
Catholic Charities News Community Services is Catholic Charities link to parishes in the Trenton diocese. Serving families in crises, we provide food, mortgage, rent and utilities assistance, temporary housing, counseling, and immigration services. To learn more about Catholic Charities Community Services visit our You Tube presentation. Click on: https://youtu.be/-r8YRyPClY4 If you know of anyone needing assistance, please contact Catholic Charities at 800-3607711.
3 Lifelong Catechesis Week November 23 - November 29 READINGS FOR THE WEEK
23 Mon 24 Tue 25 Wed 26 Thu 27 Fri
Rv 14:1-3, 4b-5/Lk 21:1-4 Rv 14:14-19/Lk 21:5-11 Rv 15:1-4/Lk 21:12-19 Rv 18:1-2, 21-23; 19:1-3, 9a/Lk 21:20-28 Rv 20:1-4, 11—21:2/Lk 21:29-33
November 29 - 1st Sunday of Advent Is 63:16b-17, 19b; 64:2-7/1 Cor 1:3-9/Mk 13:33-37 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: What special things do you do to get ready for a visitor at your house? What things can you do like that to get ready for Jesus? Question for Youth: What is one thing that you can do this week to help you remember that Jesus is coming? Question for Adults: When you’re getting ready to receive a guest, what are some things you do? How do you apply this to receiving Christ? - Lifelong Catechesis
Sanctuary Lamp Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or in the Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one. The suggested donation is $25.
Church Greg Heh Weighell Family
Welcome to the newest members of our Saint Mary Parish family who was Baptized recently: Ashlyn Brooke Livoti Olivia Cainzos
THANKSGIVING Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural impulse to express that feeling. Thanksgiving is the following of that impulse. --Henry Van Dyke
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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org The Solemnity of Christ the King was instituted by Pope Pius XI with the encyclical Quas primas (in the first). Key elements of faith that we celebrate today include: Jesus is the Word of God made flesh, the Incarnate Lord. His kingship is founded upon the ineffable hypostatic union…Christ has power over all creatures. (Quas primas, 13) Jesus is fully God and fully man. He is both the divine Lord and the man who suffered and died on the Cross. In him, one person of the Trinity unites himself to human nature through the Incarnation and reigns over all creation as the Incarnate Son of God. Jesus shares a law of charity to show the way to communion with God. Those who keep them show their love for their Divine Master, and he promises that they shall remain in his love. (Quas primas, 14) By being close to sisters and brothers who are suffering, we draw close to Jesus. The Church acknowledges the reign of Christ, not only privately, but publicly. Thus by sermons preached at meetings and in churches, by public adoration of the Blessed Sacrament exposed and by solemn processions, men unite in paying homage to Christ, whom God has given them for their King. (Quas primas, 26) For Christians, when our faith is repeatedly marginalized in public life, we can fall into the habit of compartmentalizing our lives. We love Jesus in our private lives, but we shrink from acknowledging the kingship of Christ in social life. When we celebrate the Solemnity of Christ the King, we declare to the world and remind ourselves that Jesus is the Lord, not only of the Church, but of the universe. ©2020 USCCB Quas primas © 1925, Libreria Editrice Vaticana, Vatican City State. Used with permission. Abridged. All rights reserved.
ADVENT Sundays & Christmas Mass Schedule 1st Sunday of Advent Saturday, November 28 - 4 pm Sunday, November 29- 8, 10, &12 noon 2nd Sunday of Advent Saturday, December 5 - 4 pm Sunday, December 6 - 8, 10, & 12 noon 3rd Sunday of Advent Saturday, December 12 - 4 pm Sunday, December 13 - 8, 10, & 12 4th Sunday of Advent Saturday, December 19 - 4 pm Mass Sunday, December 20- 10 am Mass Christmas Christmas Eve - 3, 5, & 10 pm Christmas Day - 9 am & 11 am
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Worship Schedule: November 28 - November 29: First Sunday of Advent Volunteer (cleaning)
Reader 1
EM HC NEEDED - Organ Host Louise Habrack - Tabernacle Host Susan Murphy - Alt
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Carl Simone
Bruno Savo
Bridget Farrow
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Sophia Lennon Alexander Lennon NOT FILLED
Martha Cowles - Alt
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Rita Duenas
Kevin Swan
David Maliakel
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Gabriella Penczak Tesya Yaninas Valeska Yaninas
Sue Fitzpatrick - Organ Host Maureen Geiger - Tabernacle Host Dolores Addler - Alt
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Steve Rumsby
Matt Yaninas
David Maliakel
Greg Penczak NOT FILLED
Sunday, 12:00 PM (Church)
Jack Schatzle Jimmy Schatzle NOT FILLED
Ron Gabbard - Alt
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Alicia Mendez
Richard Gerbino
David Maliakel
James Dolan Joseph Rinaldo NOT FILLED
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Mark Hines William Hines NOT FILLED
Sunday, 8:00 AM (Church)
Saturday, 4:00 PM (Church)
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EXPECTATIONS AS WE GATHER FOR MASS Please arrive earlier than usual to search for seating that observes social distancing. Masks, Hand Sanitizer, and Social/Physical distancing are required. There can be no physical collection of Stewardship Offerings; A designated box(es) will be placed in the
Narthex/Gathering Space for the placement of envelopes or offerings. Thank you for your generosity. Missals, Missalettes, Bulletins, and other papers have been removed. Holy Water has been drained from all locations. Parish Clergy will distribute Holy Communion; we ask all coming forth to observe distancing front to back and side to side. Remove mask (and gloves) as you approach the Eucharist; put mask back in place as you return to your pew Volunteers are greatly needed to wipe down the wood of the pews after all Masses (weekend and weekday). We will have a cleaning crew take care of the floors, bathrooms, etc, but need this little bit of additional help. Please contact Andrew if you are able. We have been advised that socializing before or after the Mass inside or outside is to be discouraged; clergy are not permitted to greet parishioners before or after the Mass. NOTE: For those Catholic faithful that need to consider any possible health and safety risks involved with attending a public gathering the weekend Mass will be available online. Monday through Friday 9 am Daily Mass in the chapel in the Parish Hall - do not arrive prior to 8:30 AM
Online Mass viewing continues with the newest weekend Mass becoming available on Saturdays after 4 pm The Parish of Saint Mary - You Tube Channel (https://bit.ly/2SkpRET) Worship aid for weekend Mass at https://tinyurl.com/y4xhvqz8
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Julia Cullen Pastoral Coordinator of Elementary Religion Education - Grade 1 -6 ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 309
Rose Farrow Coordinator of Faith Formation for Youth Catechesis & Service - Grade 7 & 8 YouthRE@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 310
Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation / Adult Catechesis FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 x 305
Dear Religious Ed Parents (Grades 1-6),
The following can be found on the Confirmation Prep web page at www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Happy Blessed Fall to all of our Religious Education 2020-21 RE Policy for 7&8 Confirmation Prep. Families! I wanted to send an update on our Religious Forms and Prayers Education program here at the Parish of Saint Mary. Review Sheet We have a few events coming up...all can be added Saint Name report to your list of mandatory intergenerational events that Service Hours Project your child(ren) must complete this school year. Service Hours Record Sheet Upcoming Intergenerational Events in November: Sponsor Form for Confirmation DoT Prayers & Tenets MARK YOUR CALENDARS Homily Report Light up a memory Tree lighting and Christmas Carol - please RSVP
7th Grade Homework email 8th Grade Homework email
ATTENTION: On-Line Religious Education Students Grade 3 - 6 We are several weeks into the term. The My Catholic Faith Delivered courses at this point should be well underway.
Please help your child to be up-to-date and not fall behind with his/her work. Any questions, please contact Julia Cullen at ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org as soon as possible!
Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults have not been baptized into the Catholic Church, have been baptized but have not yet received the
sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist have been baptized in another Christian Church & would like to become a member of the Catholic Church The RCIA is a conversion journey - a time for learning, sharing, bonding with others and living your faith more deeply. To learn more, please contact Faith Formation. faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org
In past years, the Parish of St. Mary has distributed little books of spiritual reflections for Advent, the Christmas season, and Lent. Due to the pandemic we have suspended all distributions of paper items to parishioners. Thus, for example, we do not distribute paper copies of the parish bulletin. The publisher of the Little Books is making its books available to download on your phone. There is a single charge of $10 to get all the books for the year. If you are interested, go to www.littlebooks.org/app.
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November 22, 2020
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Quo vadis… My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate The Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ the King. One of the best ways we can begin to see the Christ in the other is not by judging the negative aspects of their persons first but instead looking for the good in the other. This can be carried out in such a simple Christian practice as seeking always to compliment rather than to criticize another. Care that we don’t spread gossip is another way. In this do we build up the body of Christ and bring honor to Christ our King who dwells in ourselves and the other. The call to build our community of the Church is especially important these days as some of our members continue to question whether or not there is a future here in our parish or if they feel a part of our parish. We must be supportive of them as they ask these important questions. It is also imperative for us to consciously become a more and more welcoming community. There are so many Catholics out there who simply do not feel as if they fit into a church…at least the church where they might be registered or the territory where they might live but do not attend. As evangelizers we need to support these members of the church as they too ask the difficult questions of faith and life. If you notice a new face in our midst don’t be shy. Introduce yourself and welcome this person if they are visiting or are new to our community. If you notice a parent with a fussing child, don’t look at them with a scour on your face; rather, encourage them in their attempt to satisfy their child. If you recognize a person with special needs offer to assist them as they find a seat or struggle to enter the communion procession. All of these simple and random acts of kindness help to distinguish our community as an authentic community of Christian Stewards. Together we can make the difference!
The Fall Clean Up is being held this coming Saturday, 21 November. There is plenty for participants of all ages. Check out the e-letter for details. Mass will be celebrated Thanksgiving Day at 9:00 am in the church. Giving thanks to God and receiving the Holy Eucharist is the best way to begin a day of thanks. When joining family members and friends try your best to use hand sanitizer and some physical distancing. We will be taking up the Misa Emanuele music setting for the sung mass parts during the Advent & Christmas Liturgical Seasons. This setting was introduced several years ago in our parish and the congregation received it favorably. Let me take this opportunity to thank all of our parish liturgical ministers, especially the music ministers, for their steadfast commitment, and loyalty in serving our parish community. The 2020 election season is coming to a close. There have been many tight races especially for members of the US House of Representatives. I think it is good to recognize how many citizens participated in this year’s election. The number of participants is the greatest and I believe the highest percentage ever recorded. I am encouraged by this participation. Our Democracy continues to thrive. It is sometimes quite messy. It does not always yield to our personal choices. Democracy is celebrating the will of the people. Let us give thanks for this great freedom and our responsibility to preserve and cherish it for generations to come. Our Parish Advent Penance & Reconciliation / Confessions is being held Sunday, 6 December 2020 at 3:00 pm. The format has changed to comply with covid protocols. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday. Peace. Father Jeff
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Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Sharing Our Treasure November 15th - 33rd Sunday in Ordinary Time Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship
$ 22,407
Envelope Contributions
$ 15,870
Electronic/Online Contributions
$ 6,010
Loose Contributions
$ 527
Avg. Contribution per Household this week $78. 42 # of Contributing Households
279
# Registered Parishioner Households
989
Additionally, because of your contributions, we were able to send $500 to the appeal for Human Development. THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish. May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.
Faith, Hope & Healing Program Thank you to all parishioners who have completed and submitted your Commitment Card! For those parishioners who have not yet had the opportunity to submit their card, all cards need to be returned today. Please contact the parish office if you have any questions or need a Commitment Card. Electronic giving is the preferred, easy, safe and secure way to give to our parish. To schedule a recurring electronic gift directly from your bank account or credit card, please visit our website and follow the instructions. We appreciate all parishioners using this means to support our parish.
CORPORATE MATCHING GIFTS Many firms and corporations offer matching gift programs to benefit religious organizations, charities and other nonprofits to promote philanthropy amongst their employees. St Mary Parish is a registered charitable organization with the IRS and is also listed in GuideStar which is required by some of the corporate matching gift programs. Please consult with your employer to sign up for their matching gift program. If you have any question or need help signing St Mary Parish for corporate matched contributions, please contact Edwin at the Parish Office, 732-780-2666 x312. Thank you for your support!
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CHRISTMAS OUTREACH
CHRISTMAS SPONSOR-A-FAMILY Purchase gifts for a family in need. You select several families or a group of people can sponsor a larger family. We ask that you spend $50 per person and you will be provided with a list of needed items prepared by the family. This program adopts families from Aslan Youth Ministries. The goal is to sponsor families in need at Christmas. If you, your family, your neighbors, coworkers, or friends would like to sponsor a family in need this holiday season, please contact: Kathy Maher wamaher2@aol.com
Stewardship Prayer Loving Father, you alone are the source of every good gift. We praise you for all your gifts to us, and we thank you for your abundant generosity. Everything we have, and all that we are, comes from you. Help us be grateful and responsible. We commit ourselves to being good stewards. Help us develop and share your gifts with others as you have generously shared yourself with us. We make this prayer through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, now and forever. Amen (Daniel Conway, Advancing the Mission of the Church)
Due to COVID restrictions, we will not be having individual ornaments on the tree this year or collecting toys as we have in past years. Many of the organizations we work with are not able to collect, sort and distribute physical gifts. Instead, gift cards are requested which will be distributed directly to families. In order to provide the assistance we normally offer (800 gifts), we are asking that parishioners participate by purchasing gift cards or making monetary donations. They can be dropped in the collection box in Church or at the parish office during regular hours. The following are needed: Target Walmart Kohl's ShopRite Amazon CVS
(470) $25 gift cards (20) $25 gift cards (25) $25 gift cards (15) $25 gift cards (50) $25 gift cards (20) $25 gift cards
MONETARY DONATIONS are also needed and will be used by our team of shoppers to purchase the remaining 200 gifts for organizations that want physical gifts as well as any gift cards still needed. Monetary donations can be made by check to St Mary Parish (please write "Tree of Love" in the memo line) or through our Online Giving system at https://bit.ly/3mOQP4d (please write "Tree of Love" in the comment box). ALL GIFTS ARE DUE BACK BY DECEMBER 6th. NO WRAPPING OF GIFT CARDS IS NECESSARY. We realize that many people enjoy purchasing children’s toys and gifts for families, and hope that next year we will be able to return to our St. Mary Tree of Love tradition. Thank you for your generosity!
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The Parish of St. Mary will be showing the new film “Fatima� on Sunday, December 13 beginning at 1:15 p.m. in Madonna Hall. Seating will allow for social distancing. Masks must be worn. Register by emailing Jim at Faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org. Runtime is just under 2 hours.