THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Worship schedule inside. Refer to website for more detailed information www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Deacon: John Wedemeyer
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Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time
What is your favorite way to talk with Jesus? What words do you use? Lifelong Catechesis
Abbreviated Mass Schedule Labor Day Weekend Saturday, September 5 - 5 pm (4 pm Penance & Reconciliation) Sunday, September 6 - 10 am (No 8 am or 12 noon)
LABOR DAY - Monday, September 7 - 9 am Mass
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Mass Intentions for the Week of August 15 - August 23 For * Requested by Saturday, August 15 – Church Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary 9 AM Special Intention * Suzanne Schlesinger 5 PM Catherine Pancetti * Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff and Parishioners Mary Coppola * Maureen and John Logan Dayton, Jr. * Ann Marie Dayton Sunday, August 16 – Church 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM Marilyn Newby * Mr. and Mrs. Franceschetti Helen and John Sionas * Eileen and Michael Stivala John R. Fitzpatrick * Fitzpatrick Family 10 AM Brian H. McKay * Carol and Frank Donahue Frank Viggiani * Rose Mary Viggiani Pro Populo 12 PM Michael Carroll * Diane Dragone Nelson Roman * Marilyn and Jim Cracchiolo Baptism after the 12 noon Mass Gianlucca Caggiano Monday, August 17 – 9 AM Chapel John Grabowski * Diane Carnevale Mrs. Irene F. Moskal and Edward W. Moskal, Sr. * Barbara and Edward Moskal, Jr. Tuesday, August 18 – 9 AM Chapel Mary Simonelli * Sergio DeGioia Wednesday, August 19 – 9 AM Chapel Bernadette Shine * Kathleen Verheul Thursday, August 20 – 9 AM Chapel Anthony Garito * Arlene and Family Friday, August 21 – 9 AM Chapel Christine Volpe * Ginny Hamlin and Family Saturday, August 22 – 5 PM Church Anna Merck * Barbara Saake John Grabowski * Martha Mary Guild Bernadette Shine * Bill and Cathy Lenahan Sunday, August 23 – Church 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM Mary Jo Towne *Neil and Jane Slattery 10 AM Ralph Petriella * Nora England Pauline Madzin * Rose Mary Viggiani Georgine DiMari * Linda and William Stagliano 12 PM Pro Populo Kenneth Faistl * Nancy and Harry Bauer
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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Marcela Abril Kathleen Amatel Fr Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley Janice Basilice Christen Chellis Blake Conley John DeSimone Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Joann Feliciti James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini Edward Habrack Marian Higgins Tom Hudak Anton Kopp Theresia Kopp Bridget Korn
Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Walter Moeller Kevin O’Shea Stanley Rembisz Paola Richmond Abel Rodriguez Owen Shoemaker Victoria Slater Dominic Sozio Gerard P. Thompson Seneida Tomasetti Cecilia Vilca Lauren Vinci
To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Mass Intention Request ONLINE Available through the link below is an online form to request Mass Intentions for the remainder of the 2020 calendar.
Rest in Peace Please remember in your prayers, those who entered into their new and eternal life in Christ recently. Marian Higgins Andrij Rudko David Horner, brother of Marsha Grigoli
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Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy. Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties. Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm. May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN SPC Michael John Mento, US Army PFC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army Captain Richard Savo, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 1st Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army SSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732-780 -2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org.
GROTTO CANDLES The Grotto Candles are available for your prayer intentions. Offering is $3.00 per candle.
READINGS FOR THE WEEK 17 Mon 18 Tue 19 Wed 20 Thu 21 Fri
Ez 24:15-24/Mt 19:16-22 Ez 28:1-10/Mt 19:23-30 Ez 34:1-11/Mt 20:1-16 Ez 36:23-28/Mt 22:1-14 Ez 37:1-14/Mt 22:34-40
Sunday, August 23 - 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time Is 22:19-23/Rom 11:33-36/Mt 16:13-20 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: What are three things you know about Jesus? Question for Youth: Today’s Gospel is about identity – the revealing of Jesus’ true self. How difficult is it to you to reveal your true self? What holds you back from being who God created you to be? Question for Adults: If Jesus turned and asked you the same question, who would you say he is? How would you describe Jesus to someone who did not know him? - Lifelong Catechesis
Sanctuary Lamp Intentions ONLINE Available through the link below is an online form to request Sanctuary Lamp Intentions for the remainder of the 2020 calendar. https://bit.ly/37RKz5p
Sanctuary Lamp Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or in the Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one. The suggested donation is $25. Intentions are available in the Chapel August & September
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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org
The Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary is a Solemnity in the Roman Catholic Church, celebrated every year on August 15. The celebration has been observed from the early days of the Church, likely beginning in the 5th century. While there is no account of Mary’s assumption in the New Testament, apocryphal texts give varying accounts of the end of life details of the Mother of Jesus. The most widely told account is that the apostles of Jesus heard of the passing of Mary and went to pay their respects. It is said that Saint Thomas (yes, the doubting one, although this may very well be a story-telling device to connect the narratives) was not with the others, arriving 3 days afterwards. His late arrival led the others to decide to re-open the tomb, to allow Thomas to see the body, only to find that the body was not present, leading to the belief that she had risen from the dead as had Christ, and had ascended into Heaven. While this is a touching story with many parallels to that of Christ’s resurrection and ascension, the veracity of the account is often called into question. Nevertheless, it was enough to convince authorities several centuries later to begin celebrating Mary’s resurrection and ascension. This was later changed to a belief in the assumption of Mary. As there were no accounts of her physical body remaining on earth, it was surmised that rather than dying and rising again, the Virgin Mother of God was assumed, body and soul, into Heaven. This belief, as well as scriptural passages from the Psalms and Book of Revelation, led Pope Pius to declare with papal infallibility on November 1, 1950: “By the authority of our Lord Jesus Christ, of the Blessed Apostles Peter and Paul, and by our own authority, we pronounce, declare, and define it to be a divinely revealed dogma: that the Immaculate Mother of God, the ever Virgin Mary, having completed the course of her earthly life, was assumed body and soul into heavenly glory.” and thus we honor Mary, Queen of Heaven on this Holy Day.
Online Mass viewing continues with the newest weekend Mass becoming available for Saturdays after 5 pm The Parish of Saint Mary - You Tube Channel (https://bit.ly/2SkpRET)
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Worship Schedule: August 22 - August 23 Twenty-First Sunday in Ordinary Time Altar Server
EMHC
Volunteer (cleaning)
Reader 1
Reader 2
Cantor
Usher
Saturday, 5:00 PM
Patrick Dickinson NOT FILLED
Gail Cargiulo - Alt
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Charles Young
Bruno Savo
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Ed Piotrowski Joseph Powell
Sunday, 8:00 AM
Ashley Austin Daniel Austin
Lisa Aldridge - Alt
NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED
Annette Raynor
Kevin Swan
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Michael DiScenza Anthony Mendoza
Sunday, 10:00 AM
Valeska Yaninas Tesya Yaninas
Carol Donahue - Alt
NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED
Carl Simone
Matt Yaninas
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Greg Penczak William Spence
Sunday, 12:00 PM
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Patricia Gesner - Alt
NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED
Dan Mazzeo
Richard Gerbino
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James Dolan Joe Mancino Joseph Rinaldo
EXPECTATIONS AS WE GATHER FOR MASS Enter via the front doors of the Church Each person is wearing their mask and to observe social distancing when entering/exiting, selecting a seat, & processing/recessing to receive Holy Communion. It will require all to come earlier than usual to search for seating that observes social distancing. Masks and Social/Physical distancing are required. There can be no physical collection of Stewardship
Offerings; A designated box(es) will be placed in the Narthex/Gathering Space for the placement of envelopes or offerings. Thank you for your generosity. Missals, Missalettes, Bulletins, and other papers have been removed. Holy Water has been drained from all locations. Parish Clergy will distribute Holy Communion; we ask all coming forth to observe distancing front to back and side to side. We have been advised that socializing before or after the Mass inside or outside is to be discouraged; clergy are not permitted to greet parishioners before or after the Mass. NOTE: For those Catholic faithful that need to consider any possible health and safety risks involved with attending a public gathering the weekend Mass will be available online. see below Monday through Friday 9 am Daily Mass in the chapel in the Parish Hall. For all parishioners: Congregating before and after Mass is prohibited, as per the bishop. There will be no children’s liturgy of the word dismissal. Volunteers are greatly needed to wipe down the wood of the pews after all Masses (weekend and weekday).
We will have a cleaning crew take care of the floors, bathrooms etc, but need this little bit of additional help. Please contact Andrew if you are able. At weekday Masses, no one is to arrive prior to 8:30 AM. All Masses will be in the Chapel in the Parish Hall. Exposition remains suspended for now. Private adoration of the Blessed Sacrament reserved in the tabernacle is welcomed and encouraged at any time.
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Faith Formation Office Dr. Jim Bridges Coordinator of FF/ Adult Catechesis
Julia Cullen Coordinator of FF/ Elementary RE
FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Rose Farrow Coordinator of FF/ Youth Catechesis & Service YouthRE@stmaryscoltsneck.org
We welcome Rose Farrow to the Religious Education Department. Rose has been an active parishioner of the Parish of Saint Mary for many years. We look forward to working with Rose as the Pastoral Coordinator for Youth Catechesis and Service (Confirmation Preparation).
Dear Parents of our Confirmation candidates: We recognize that these are difficult times, with uncertainty and reasonable anxieties, especially with regards to our children. Like many school districts nationwide, we make plans and contingency plans. We do our best to be safe while seeking to come as close to normal practices as possible. The Sacrament of Confirmation will be conferred by our Bishop on Friday, October 23, at 4 pm. Due to restrictions on the number of people allowed in our Church at one time, attendance will be limited to the candidate, his/her sponsor, and you, the parents. There will be assigned seating, so that safe distancing can be assured. All present will need to wear a face mask. The diocesan guidelines also dictate that there will not be actual physical contact in the conferral of the sacrament. The sponsor will stand behind the candidate without putting their hand on the shoulder of the candidate. The Bishop will anoint the candidate’s forehead with chrism using a single use swab. The Bishop will neither tap the cheek nor shake the hand of the candidate. The Confirmation ceremony is NOT a Mass, so there will be no distribution of the Eucharist. We will have a practice on Saturday, October 17, immediately following the 4 pm Mass. If possible, the sponsor should be present for the practice. However, a parent can stand in for the sponsor. In addition, we will have a professional photographer present. As we have done in past years, the candidates will gather in Madonna Hall beginning at 3 pm, while the parents and sponsors find their assigned seating in the Church. We intend to have a group photo taken in Madonna Hall with the candidates very briefly removing their masks for the photo. Information regarding ordering photos will be shared as soon as we have it. In addition, we will be having a Confirmation Retreat on Sunday, September 13. It will begin with attendance at the 12 noon Mass and will end by 4 pm. It will be led by Colleen Rayner, who facilitated last year’s retreat, which was overwhelmingly praised by those who attended. The candidate should be accompanied by their sponsor if at all possible. If not, then one parent must attend. Finally, all the necessary paperwork needs to be submitted as soon as possible. Before you submit anything to us, be sure to make and keep a copy for yourself. You can mail the paperwork to us, or drop it in the mailbox outside the Parish Center. If the office is open, you can bring it inside and give it to a member of the staff. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact us.
Rose Farrow
Pastoral Coordinator for Youth Religious Education YouthRE@stmaryscoltsneck.org
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Dear First Communion Families, First Communion has been rescheduled for Sunday, October 18th and Sunday, October 25th at the 10 am and 12 pm noon Masses. We will be keeping the same day and time slot that you had originally been given through the lottery system last year. (If you were the first Sunday last time, you will be the first Sunday this time) If this is a hardship for any reason or you don't remember what you were originally signed up for, please contact us and we will do our best to work with you. We will be following the same protocols that have been in place here at the Parish of Saint Mary. Social distancing will be observed and masks will be worn. We will have the photographer take candid shots of your child receiving the Eucharist and we will also be taking the group picture with Father. If you wish to have a private session before the Mass with the photographer, please contact him for details. Dave Mellone 732-859-3352 Once the church office is open again, after Labor Day, please feel free to pick up your banner kit if you haven't already done so. You and your child can decorate the banner and bring it in the day of their Communion to display in church. Don't forget to take it home with you as a keep sake at the conclusion of Mass. The rehearsals will be as follows: Wednesday, October 14th at 5 pm for the 10/18 10 am ceremony Wednesday, October 14th at 6 pm for the 10/18 12 pm ceremony Wednesday, October 21st at 5 pm for the 10/25 10 am ceremony Wednesday, October 21st at 6 pm for the 10/25 12 pm ceremony Please arrive promptly at rehearsal. Your child should attend with one parent only. We will be reviewing how to receive the Eucharist and the children will practice with the unconsecrated host. We ask that you watch this short video with your child prior to rehearsal depicting how to properly receive the Eucharist. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdGkTdv4Dt4 If you have any questions or concerns, please contact us at the parish office. We look forward to celebrating this very important sacrament with you and your child.
Julia Cullen Pastoral Coordinator of Elementary Religious Education 732-780-2666 X. 309 ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
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Coordinator of FF/ Adult Catechesis FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org
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Quo vadis… My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time. The Canaanite woman’s single mindedness on behalf of her daughter is rewarded with her being healed. This gospel challenges us to be just as single minded about placing our request before God, and also just as single minded about our own inclusive ministry to others. It’s interesting that the Canaanite woman’s cry to Jesus was that he “have pity on me” (not on her daughter, although that is surely implied in the request). This gives us an insight into our inclusivity and ministry: we must be so “at one” with others that their plight is our own plight. Ministry is more than doing for another; it implies an empathy with another that discloses the unity we share as members of the body of Christ. One dimension of living the paschal mystery is that we work to increase our unity with one another, which in turn draws us to reach out to others in mercy and compassion, no matter who they are. The Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary is observed Saturday, 15 August. Mass will be celebrated at 9:00 am in the Church. I invite you to come and pray that through the intercession of Mary our Church will continue to grow in holiness and service. The Assumption is the Patron of our Diocese of Trenton, let us pray in a special way for His Excellency, The Most Reverend Bishop and Monmouth, Ocean, Mercer, and Burlington Counties.
Our Summer Religious Education Program second module concluded this Friday. I have received many positive comments from parents and the participants as well. We are very blessed to have a dedicated teaching/ catechetical staff, many of whom continue with us each year. We will continue to evaluate this program and strive to offer the very best faith formation opportunities for our parishioner families. I have begun conversations about the 50th Anniversary of the establishment of Saint Mary Parish as we know it on this campus in 2022. It is my hope that the focus be on Community Building and Spiritual Renewal. Anyone interested in helping us prepare, contact Edwin at the Parish Office. More information in the coming months. The summer months are quickly passing. Make sure to take some time and enjoy the summer sun. Make a visit to the beach. Take a walk on the sand or the boardwalk. Enjoy the beauty of creation that is all around us. We have many beautiful parks throughout Monmouth County for public enjoyment. As the days become shorter the glimpse of autumn becomes more apparent. Just a reminder that we have an abbreviated Mass schedule Saturday and Sunday of Labor Day Weekend. Please check out details in the bulletin. Have a great week. Let us pray for one another. Peace. Father Jeff
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Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Sharing Our Treasure August 9 - 19th Sunday in Ordinary Time Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship
$ 15,371
Envelope Contributions
$ 8,152
Electronic/Online Contributions
$ 6,850
Loose Contributions
$ 369
Avg. Contribution per Household this week $ 54.75 # of Contributing Households # Registered Parishioner Households
274 1,080
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2020 ANNUAL CATHOLIC APPEAL UPDATE
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As of 10 August 2020
Parish goal: $75,000 Total raised: $46,519 Percentage of goal: 62% # of Donors: 190 Payments received: $41,589 Average gi : $244.82 Thank you to all parishioners who have already made a pledge. If you have not done so yet you can do it here: https://www.dioceseoftrenton.org/aca-donate-page
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COVID - 9 Precautions Martha Mary Guild’s Annual Clothing/Linen Sale will NOT be held this year. As a precaution for those that volunteer to help preparing for and running the sale the MM Board has CANCELLED the sale for 2020. We look forward to the next Sale in Sept. 2021!
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STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION: TOTAL ACCOUNTABILITY The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops has defined stewardship as a “life of total accountability and responsibility, acknowledging God as Creator and responsibility, acknowledging God as Creator and owner of all.” As we travel our faith journey through the Church Year, following in the footsteps of Jesus as His disciples, let us reflect on how accountable and responsible we have been with the gifts God has given us. Were we the good stewards that we are called to be? Did we give back with increase a portion of what we have received from our abundantly generous God? Have we grown in our faith and shared our time, talent, and treasure with others? It is not too late. “Rather, whoever wishes to be great among you will be your servant; whoever wishes to be first among you will be the slave of all. For the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10: 43-45)
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Catholic Charities News You’re invited to the Catholic Charities inaugural Guardian Angel Benefit of Hope virtual event on
The readings this week invite us to consider marriage as a vocation of service and as a foundation and source of passionate faith. This week, pray for those in your life who are married: friends, parents, and family. Ask God’s blessing and grace in their lives, so that they may take comfort in knowing that they are supported by the prayers of this parish community. Rev. Rev. James Grogan
A GOOD PRAYER A good prayer, though often used, is still fresh and fair in the eyes and ears of heaven. --Thomas Fuller
Wednesday September 30, 2020 from 6:00 to 7:30 PM. This fun and entertaining virtual fund raiser, hosted by comedian Joe Piscopo, will feature entertainment, a silent auction, basket raffles, giveaways and a Super 50/50 raffle. Catholic Charities Diocese of Trenton, inspired by our Catholic faith, provides trauma – focused specialized counseling, addiction treatment, domestic violence services and help meeting basic needs for over 100,000 people each year, regardless of their religion. The celebration is an opportunity to hear stories of the transforming impact Catholic Charities makes on our community. There is no charge to attend the event but, we ask that you register at www.catholiccharitiestrenton.org/ GABOH2020. Hope you can tune in. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for your support and please call, if you know of someone in need of our services. 877-871-7551 or 609-8717551.
Healing After Abortion: Do you know someone who is carrying the grief of a past abortion? There is always hope. The pain and sorrow of abortion does not need to endure for a lifetime. A “Day of Prayer and Healing” offers the opportunity to experience the love and mercy of God and to respond to His invitation to begin the journey of healing the wound of abortion. For upcoming dates, locations, and confidential registration, or just to talk to a Sister, please call the Sisters of Life at (866)-575-0075 (toll free) or reach us by email at hopeandhealing@sistersoflife.org.