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Text and Photos By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer On a Wednesday morning, the Martin Luther King Jr. Dream Center is bumping with the sounds of Michael Jackson as members of the 55-and-up Silver Dreamers engage in a vigorous round of chair aerobics. The MLK Dream Center, 1522 Linden Ave., South Bend, was founded in 1973 with a mission to promote community engagement, education and wellness in the area. The center offers something for every age group, but its senior programming has been growing more

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robust as of late. “We have new seniors every day,” said program coordinator Daniel Marshall. “A lot of Gen Z’s and Gen Alphas are like, ‘I didn’t know about this, let me tell my granny, let me tell my aunt,’ and so you see new people coming for chair aerobics, getting memberships.” Silver Dreamers membership is free and includes access to everything the center has to offer, including the gym, open recreation spaces and computer lab. There is also a variety of activities designed just for seniors. The aforementioned chair aerobics take place 10-11 a.m. every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, and are

followed by line dancing for those who wish to participate. The line dancers perform at the REAL Services picnic every year. Silver Lounge is a time to mingle and partake in music, food and games every Thursday from noon to 2:30 p.m. The center has an arcade with games ranging from pool to skee ball, but Silver Lounge also offers chess, dominoes, wist and a variety of other sit-down games. The Alberta King Senior Women’s Club holds monthly bingo games, tea parties and regular bus trips. Members’ October trip took them to Shipshewana. The Senior Men’s Club Continued on page 3

GET YOUR GROOVE ON — Tyree Kirkland, left, and Georgia Macon show off their dance moves during “The Cupid Shuffle.”

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VFW officer finds purpose in leadership, community outreach By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer Mishawaka’s VFW Post 360 is not just a place to cry over war stories, said its senior vice commander Dan Gann. A retired first sergeant, Gann spent 23 years in the Army, eight of those on active duty. He sustained a serious injury in Iraq in 2003, but stayed in the service until 2007. “As a senior leader in a unit, you’re responsible for everybody’s training. ... I stayed as long as I did because I wanted to make sure that I was able to have the effect on younger soldiers’ lives, so they could find some purpose with their service,” he explained. Three of his soldiers are now first sergeants and command star majors. After his injury, he spent nine months regaining the ability to walk and doing some intense soul searching. “I asked myself and I asked God, ‘Why am I here?’ For a long time, I kept asking that question,” he said. Gann became active in the VFW in 2015 and began to find an answer. He has held several positions, including post quartermaster, post commander and district quartermaster. As senior vice commander, he assists the commander with special projects and acts as a benefit advisor, connecting veterans with service officers who can

help them file for any benefits they are entitled to. “When I got active with the VFW, I found the other programs that I could get involved with. Knowing that there’s a need for those services, it’s very rewarding for me. I get the personal satisfaction of knowing I’m still making an impact,” he went on. Gann is also the membership chairman for the state of Indiana. “The most challenging thing is definitely the membership,” he noted. “The most effective strategy is being out there and involved ... you have to be constantly engaged.” To that end, Post 360 has a table at the Mishawaka Market each Sunday. As part of his duties, Gann assists any other posts in the state with retaining members and attracting new ones. Educating veterans about the ways VFW posts serve their communities goes a long way towards that goal. “Most people think of the VFW as just a bar to go to. It’s not. We do have a canteen, but we like to pride ourselves on our public service,” Gann explained. Post 360, for example, holds the essay contests Patriot’s Pen and Voice of Democracy, which give scholarship money to winners. Three members of the post founded Mishawaka Troop Town, which provides assis-

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holds similar activities. The Montgomery Walkers program gives participants the goal of walking a total of 54 miles around the track, the length of the historical civil rights march from Selma to Montgomery, Ala. Anyone who meets the 54-mile goal receives a prize. “The pickleball population is growing,” Marshall noted. Pickleball is offered every day from 9 a.m. to noon in the gym. “From the time we open until 2:30 or 3 p.m., the Silvers run the place, which is pretty cool to see,” he went on. “We really care about our Silvers here.” Marshall himself is a “King Center kid,” someone who grew up in the neighborhood and came to the center regularly. Working there, he has seen a

desire among older people to stay active and make connections. “There’s a demand that I guess the world didn’t know about, 55-up wants to be just as social, if not more social, than every other age group, and they’re showing it,” said Marshall. The Silver Dreamers have their own events, but they also have an opportunity to participate in the MLK Dream Center community at large. Just last month, they had their own table at the center’s trick or treat event. “Even their presence with other things makes this one big happy village,” said Marshall. Indeed, Silver Dreamers themselves attest to benefits from both the physical and emotional exercise they get at

the center. Sanford Swanson Sr. said he’s been doing chair aerobics at the center for about three years and has found it helpful for rehabilitating from surgeries. Rhonda Williams, 56, was persuaded to attend chair aerobics and the Senior Women’s Club by her mother, Cecilia Brown, who has been coming for almost 15 years. “It’s the camaraderie, it’s the fellowship ... The movement is very motivating, especially when you see an older person working out,” Williams stated. Tyree Kirkland, a member for the past year, said simply, “This is family, I’ve found family.” For more information on programs and membership, visit mlkdreamcenter.com or call (574) 235-9445.

Elves for Elders program returns The Elves for Elders program at REAL Services is back again this year. The goal is to provide 1,000 gifts for seniors. The holidays are all about sharing love and making memories with family and friends. Unfortunately, for many homebound individuals, the holiday season can be a lonely time. That is why it is inviting people to join the effort to make their holiday season a little bit brighter.

This year, it is requesting $50 Visa or MasterCard gift card(s) to allow elders to safely shop for something they need. Of course, it welcomes any amount of gift you desire to share. It will group smaller denomination cards and monetary gifts together to ensure that each person receives a $50 gift. If you prefer Real Services do the leg work, mail your gift card or visit its website to donate online. People’s generosity will

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SMOOTH MOVES — Program coordinator Daniel Marshall, left, and Melissa Thomas play a rhythm game in the center’s arcade. Senior can play pool, foosball and skee ball in the arcade, or sit down for a game of chess or dominoes at the weekly Silver Lounge events. There are refreshments and music at each lounge.

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School in 1975, then followed his interest in the South Pacific and joined the Navy. He spent six years in the service, five on the USS Ramsey as a machinist mate, working in the engine room. After returning home, he had several different jobs, including as a machinist and radiator repairman, before deciding to go back to school at 52. Originally, Reed wanted to become a counselor for the Veterans Association. He felt a

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strong desire to help veterans who had been deeply affected, both physically and psychologically, by their time serving. “I was lucky to serve during peace time, but I still had problems afterwards from some of the things that we did,” Reed said. “There’s so many who have so many other problems.” He earned an associate’s degree in human services and a bachelor’s in psychology. Using what he’d learned, Reed then became a disabled veterans outreach program specialist, or DVOP specialist, for the state of Indiana. His job was to help veterans overcome barriers to employment. “Some of them are homeless. I’m sorry, but when your mind is on where you’re going to sleep that night, you’re not thinking about the questions these guys are asking during an interview. So you try to find them some place to stay, a program that can help them,” Reed said. Some were disabled, and needed help training for a job fit to their abilities or rewriting their resume to highlight skills they already had. He retired in 2023, but has continued to help veterans in getting benefits through the Marshall County DVA. “A lot of the benefits for veterans are a big secret,” Reed remarked. “When I got out, they handed us a manila envelope with all our paperwork and said, ‘Have a nice life.’ ... We let them know so they can get what’s due them ... we are trying to help them get what they’ve earned already.” Nowadays, veterans have access to the Transition Assistance Program after they leave the service, though some still leave with gaps in their knowledge. “We try to educate veterans as to what is out there, but they don’t realize at various

FRIEND TO VETS — Dan Reed is pictured at his retirement from working as a disabled veterans outreach program specialist in 2023. Since retirement, he has continued to assist veterans through the Marshall County Disabled Veterans Association. Photo provided by Daniel Reed. levels of disability — 10%, 20%, 40% — there’s other benefits that come with those levels,” he noted. The DVA participates in stand downs in Marshall, St. Joseph, Elkhart, Kosciusko, LaPorte and Porter counties throughout the year. Reed and his fellow volunteers are also at the Marshall County Life Enrichment Center, 1305 W. Harrison St., Plymouth from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. every Wednesday and on the second Saturday of the month. On Wednesdays, they answer questions and help veterans fill out power of attorney and intent to file paperwork. On second Saturdays, a national service officer is present to take Continued on page 6

MACHINIST MATE — South Bend native Daniel Reed is pictured following his completion of Navy boot camp in 1975. He joined after graduating from Riley High School and served as a machinist mate in the engine room of the USS Ramsey. Photo provided by Daniel Reed.

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Denise Van De Walle keeps building up volleyball programs By NATHAN PACE Staff Writer Denise Van De Walle was not sure she wanted to coach volleyball after graduating from college. Decades later she is still enjoying her passion as the coach of the Saint Mary’s College volleyball program. “Volleyball is a great team sport and I love coaching it,” Van De Walle said. “Coaching is teaching and that is how God wired me, to teach. Instead of teaching in a classroom like I started out, I am teaching in the gym. I love building relationships with the players and watching them grow and learn.” Van De Walle took over the volleyball program at the Belles in 2015 but her volleyball career started in middle school. Van De

Walle began the sport at St. Joe Grade School in South Bend as a sixth grader. The school did not offer sports to girls at the time and Van De Walle called them “extra-murals.” She enrolled at Ball State University and tried out for the volleyball team there in Muncie. The school did not offer volleyball scholarships at the time but Van De Walle made the team. She and the Cardinals had success at Ball State but at the time Van De Walle was ready to move on to teaching elementary education. Her volleyball coach had other ideas. “My college coach, Dr. Barb Curcio, wanted me to get into coaching,” Van De Walle said. “She told me about a job at Muncie Northside. I had no desire to coach. She kept pushing me

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years, ‘I don’t want to take anything from the vet that did lose an arm or leg.’ ... He’s got his pile of money, and you’ve got your pile of money. If you don’t collect it, you lose it,” he explained. Since retirement, Reed has also taken up leather working and participates in a few local shows. He and his wife, Robin, have two children and one grandson.

to apply because she thought I would be good at it. Just to get her to stop asking me about it, I applied and it was already filled. I was thrilled, but a week later the athletic director there called me and asked me if I wanted to coach their first ever JV team and I said OK. I started doing that and had fun.” This is where her coaching story took a strange turn when the varsity coach at Muncie Northside left town in the middle season. Van De Walle was asked to coach the varsity team and kept the season going with a surprising victory in her first game. She accepted the varsity coach role the following year where her team went 29-1 and won the 1977 state championship over South Bend Riley. Van De Walle found the drive to pursue college coaching and would coach NCAA Division I Bowling Green State University for 29 years. She became the first coach in the Mid-American Conference to reach 350 career wins. She also had the chance to coach the USA women’s sitting volleyball team to an Paralympic bronze medal in 2004 (Athens) and a silver medal in 2008 (Beijing). She could have called it a career but would later find her way to Saint Mary’s. The Belles had winning seasons in her first

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VOLLEYBALL LEADER — Saint Mary’s College Volleyball coach Denise De Van Walle has the Belles off to winning record in 2025. Photo provided by Saint Mary’s College and photographer Daniel P. Horan. years at the team but the cancellation of the 2020 season due to COVID-19 made it difficult for her team. “For nearly a year and a half we weren’t able to play or recruit. It hurt the program. We are back on track and are having a good season now,” Van De Walle said. “Recruiting is going well, too, so the future looks good.” In 2022, she married Frank Bock and the couple enjoys playing pickleball together. “ My favorite thing to do now is play pickleball. I play com-

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Dining/Leisure/Entertainment

South Bend Symphony Orchestra presents ‘The Firebird and Friends’ Sunday, Nov. 30, the South Bend Symphony Orchestra welcomes families to the DeBartolo Performing Arts Center for a vibrant journey through magical forests, lively creatures, and captivating melodies, presented at the annual Shein Trust Family Concert, “The Firebird and Friends.” Naima Burrs conducts this fun concert, featuring an imaginative program that combines storytelling, classical favorites, and animal-inspired works, culminating in thrilling selections from Stravinsky’s Firebird Suite (1919). From Tchaikovsky’s “Dance of the Swans” and Saint-Saëns’ elegant “The Swan,” to the charming antics of Respighi’s “The Hen” and Mussorgsky’s “Ballet of the Unhatched

Chicks,” young listeners and seasoned concertgoers alike will be swept into a vibrant orchestra menagerie. Audiences will also enjoy characterful excerpts from Prokofiev’s Peter and the Wolf and Beethoven’s Symphony No. 6 highlighting the instruments of the orchestra with humor and heart. The South Bend Symphony’s Family Concert is designed to be an interactive, educational and unforgettable experience. Come early to create a fun craft before the performance. There will be a booth beginning at 1:30 p.m. in the DeBartolo Performing Arts Center just outside of the concert hall. The South Bend Symphony Orchestra is grateful to Shein Trust for supporting the Shein

Trust Community series. Tickets can be purchased: Online at southbendsymphony.org. Call DeBartolo Performing Arts Center Box Office, (574) 631-2800, from noon to 6 p.m. Monday to Friday. In-person at the DeBartolo Box Office, DeBartolo Performing Arts Center, 100 Performing Arts Center, Notre Dame, during the times listed above or one hour before any performance. Stop by the Symphony Office, 127 N. Michigan St., South Bend, between 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tuesday to Friday. To view the 2025-26 season schedule, visit southbendsymphony.org. Dates, programs, and venues are subject to change.

Celebrate the season with SBS Orchestra’s concerts Celebrate the season with the South Bend Symphony Orchestra at South Bend’s “Home for the Holidays” concerts. They will be at 7:30 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 13 and 2:30 p.m. Sunday, Dec. 14, at the Morris Performing Arts Center, South Bend. Immerse yourself in festive favorites, orchestral showpieces, heartwarming carols, and music that captures the joy and wonder of the holiday season. Music Director Alastair Willis leads the holiday tradition with the Michiana Festival Chorus, under the direction of Juan-Car-

los Alarcón, adding the power and beauty of choral music to this seasonal spectacular. Enjoy pieces such as “Joy to the World,” “White Christmas,” “Silent Night,” along with everyone’s favorite “Sleigh Ride,” and more. “Home for the Holidays is one of my favorite traditions with the South Bend Symphony,” said Willis. “It’s the perfect concert for our community to come together and celebrate the season through music. We’re thrilled to welcome back the Michiana Festival Chorus for a terrific

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‘Guitars and Cars’ Nov. 12 “Guitars and Cars,” featuring Richard Gilewitz with special guest, Tim May, will be Nov. 12, at Studebaker National Museum, 895 Thomas St., South Bend. Doors open at 6 p.m. Show starts at 7 p.m. Admission is free; donations to support public programs appreciated. Join in for an evening of music, history, and classic craftsmanship, hosted by the Studebaker National Museum. This special night features internationally-acclaimed, finger-style guitarist, Richard Gilewitz, known for his intricate technique, humorous storytelling, and genre-blending performances spanning folk, classical, blues and beyond. He will be joined by May, a master guitarist in his own right, celebrated for his dynamic range across bluegrass, Americana and acoustic styles. All galleries will be open for touring. Do not miss this fusion of string and steel — a perfect night out for music lovers, gearheads and culture seekers alike. Spots are limited. Advanced ticketing is encouraged. For more information, richardgilewitz.com or studebakermuseum.org/visit/upcoming-events.

CANDLELIGHT TOUR — The home of Timothy Stabosz, 1501 Michigan Ave., a restrained Queen Anne-style home on this year’s Candlelight Tour, was built in 1894 for Orran and Adele Fox. The house’s architect, Franklin Burnham, was also the winning entrant to design the 1889 Georgia State Capitol Building, his most notable commission. Photo provided.

La Porte hosting Christmas Candlelight Tour Dec. 6-7 Preserve Historic La Porte is hosting a Christmas Candlelight Tour of historic homes. Tour Chairperson Pam Ruminski stated the tour will be held, as usual, the first weekend in December. It will be from 4-8 p.m. Dec. 6 and from 1-5 p.m. Dec. 7. There will be a total of seven buildings open for self-guided touring. Live musical entertainment will be provided at most or all locations, and refreshments will be served at the church. Ruminski noted that this was the 30th year of the tour, with the first one being held in 1996. The sites on this year’s tour include: Bethany Lutheran Church, 102 G Street, built in 1883. Home of Cindy Weiner, (The Judge Alfred Link House), 616 C Street, built in 1912. Home of Dr. Jim and Christie Edwards, 2114 Woodlawn Drive, built in 1940. Home of Joe and Kellie Woods, 106 Franklin Court, built circa 1910. Home of Timothy Stabosz, 1501 Michigan Ave., built in 1894. The La Porte Railroad Depot, 809 Washington St., built in 1910. Carmel Chapel, 6200 West 50 South, built in 1872. Ruminski continued, “We are especially excited to announce, through the graciousness of the City of La Porte, that the storied La Porte Railroad Depot, which the city recently came into possession of, will be open for viewing, on our tour, for the first time since the station closed as a public building

decades ago.” The solid brick station, built in 1910 in the Prairie style, with its highly-visible tile roof, was restored just over 15 years ago. Preserve Historic La Porte is the area’s not-for-profit citizens group. It seeks to raise awareness of the quality of life and economic development benefits of preserving and protecting La Porte’s unique and special historic built environment. Besides the Candlelight Tour, the group seeks to promote local historic designations, engages in educational training, and directly saves or restores historic structures through grants or outright purchase. Ruminski stated, “For those willing to buy tickets in advance, which aids in our planning, the cost is only $25 per person. Day of tour tickets cost $30, and are available at Bethany Lutheran Church, during tour hours only.” Tickets are available from these establishments, during regular business hours: La Porte: Coachman Antique Mall, CO-OP Shoppes, Freckle Farm Primitives, Hot Spot Cafe, La Porte County Historical Society Museum, Meridian Title, Thode Floral, Town & Country Florist. Michigan City: The Antique Market, Hoity Toity. New Buffalo: Meridian Title. New Carlisle: Historic New Carlisle. Valparaiso: Meridian Title. For questions, contact Ruminski at (219) 363-2094 or p_ruminski@yahoo.com; or Tim Stabosz at (219) 363-7485 or tstabosz@yahoo.com.

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Faith

Area churches collecting gifts for Operation Christmas Child this month By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer Volunteers at South Bend’s Trinity Church already have the giving season on their minds, with national collection week for Operation Christmas Child coming Nov. 17-24. Through Operation Christmas Child, nonprofit Samaritan’s Purse sends gift-filled shoeboxes to children in developing countries. “It’s an opportunity not only to share the gospel, but to share with a child who’s probably never had anything of his own, never a gift before, sharing that they matter. They are important to somebody else,” said central drop-off leader Kellie Conrad. “It’s a chance to share God’s love and just the love we have for each other.” Trinity Church is a central drop-off location, where boxes from 11 drop-offs in six counties come together to be organized in trailers for transport. “We’ve actually grown exponentially,” said Conrad. “It used we’d have four (trailers) and only fill three, but now we’re up to a fifth trailer.” Each trailer holds 5,000 shoeboxes, bringing their total up to about 22,000 to 25,000 boxes. Shoeboxes can include items like socks, sandals, school sup-

plies, coloring books, hairbrushes or combs, toothbrushes, and toys like a doll, car, ball or jump rope. “Everybody’s different, but I like to put in a stuffed animal. Every kid needs something to cuddle at night,” said Conrad. Area Coordinator Mary Lee Crain, a longtime member of Trinity Church, observed the group with the least number of boxes was always older boys. She took it upon herself to help fill in the gap. “All my grandchildren are boys, so it was easy for me to tend toward packing for them,” she said with a chuckle. Other useful items for older kids, she noted, include tool kits and sewing kits. She also makes sure to include a holder for each toothbrush to keep it clean. “We like the shoeboxes already made,” Conrad said of collection week. Some people have extra items, which are used to fill in boxes with available space. “Some people will take their grandkids shopping with them to teach them about giving,” Conrad mentioned. Once the boxes are shipped off, local pastors partnered with Samaritan’s Purse invite kids to come to a presentation on the gospel. “The children come to the

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COLLECTION WEEK APPROACHES — Area Coordinator Mary Lee Crain shows off a sample Operation Christmas Child shoe box at her church, Trinity Church in South Bend. Collection week is coming up Nov. 17-24, and several area churches will be accepting donations for children in developing countries. Photo by Lilli Dwyer. gospel presentation not knowing that they’re going to get a box. They just receive an invitation and decide to come,” said Crain. “They’re not being led to come to the gospel in order to get a box.” Afterwards, the kids have an option to sign up for a 12-week discipleship course if they like. Crain also appreciates that Samaritan’s Purse has locals deliver the program, rather

than having Americans come to evangelize. Anyone can volunteer to help out with Operation Christmas Child, church membership not required. If interested in volunteering at Trinity, contact Conrad at kelss5423@gmail. com. Other area churches collecting for Operation Christmas Child include: New Creation Fellowship,

30190 CR 10, Granger. Crossroads Evangelical Free Church, 1650 N. Oak Drive, Plymouth. Liberty Bible Church, 608 Colfax Ave., La Porte. Michiana Christian Embassy, 1922 E. Main St., Niles, Mich. Each collection center’s hours of operation can be found online at samaritanspurse. org/operation-christmas-child/ drop-off-locations.

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Renting can be more economical when downsizing By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features To own your own home is most everyone’s aim. It’s assurance that you’ll have a roof over your head until you pass way. And this is linked to the yen to die quietly at home in our sleep. A more pragmatic view is that your house and property is a good investment because it usually increases in value over the years. A lot of folks take advantage of that process and use the proceeds from the sale of the family home to fatten their retirement fund

and downsize to a home close to the grandchildren or in a yearround warm climate. There are some people who never have owned a home. They aren’t homeless, they’ve just rented all their lives. It allowed them to move to other parts of the country to take advantage of job opportunities that cropped up. A colleague never owned his own home while raising a family and moving to seven different cities for better and higher-paying jobs. Had he purchased a home in each town, he would have faced the strain of having to find buyers for his property each time he got

a new job. As it was, all he had to do was give the landlord proper notice, and call the movers. Finding new digs to rent in his new location was never a problem. He and his family lived in an assortment of quarters, including the upper floor of private homes, apartment buildings, condos, and single-family homes. Renting has built-in advantages, especially when it comes to downsizing. If you don’t like your new quarters, you can just move out. Renting also allows you to control your housing expenses.

If the owners announce a rental hike, tell them you’re moving. You can usually negotiate a stay or at least decrease the amount of the increase. When you buy, there are still property taxes and mortgage insurance payments to make. If you buy into a community, the homeowners association fees normally rise steadily to meet the cost of maintenance and upgrading of the property. When you rent, you can set aside a sum comparable to what those payment would be and plunk it into your retirement account.

Renting also cuts down worry. When the toilet plugs up or the roof leaks, call the landlord. They have to make and pay for the repairs. If you’re renting in an apartment building, you have built-in security. You can go on vacation or visit the grandkids without having to worry about the security of your dwelling because there’s always someone in the building. In many cases, the owners have hired security personnel on site. Before buying, selling or renting, do the arithmetic to see how it works out for you.

versation. Their presence and advocacy encourage others to learn, empathize, and engage. Community education is one of the most powerful tools in combating misinformation. Volunteers can help distribute materials, host workshops, or simply share their own experiences. These efforts humanize the condition and promote early diagnosis, better care, and more inclusive communities. Behind every person living with dementia is often a caregiver - usually a family member who provides daily support, often at great personal cost. These caregivers face emotional, physical, and financial stress, and many feel invisible or alone. Volunteers can make a profound difference in their lives. Whether it’s offering respite care, going for walks, or just being a listening ear, small

acts of support can ease the burden. Volunteer-led support groups also provide safe spaces for caregivers to share their experiences, find resources, and connect with others who understand their journey. Volunteering in dementia-related causes also opens the door for inter-generational learning. When young people engage with older adults through memory cafes, art therapy or storytelling projects, they gain empathy and insight. These interactions break down age-related stereotypes and foster mutual respect. At the same time, older adults with dementia benefit from the energy, curiosity, and companionship of younger volunteers. These moments of connection can spark joy, reduce loneliness, and even stimulate memory.

A community which supports its most vulnerable members is a stronger, healthier one. Volunteers are the backbone of dementia friendly initiatives - helping businesses become more accessible, training first responders and advocating for inclusive public spaces. These efforts not only improve quality of life for those with dementia but also create a culture of compassion and preparedness. when more people understand the signs of dementia and know how to respond with patience and kindness, everyone benefits. Volunteering in this space is deeply meaningful. It offers a sense of purpose, connection and the opportunity to make a tangible difference. Many volunteers report increased empathy , improved mental well-being and a deeper appreciation for life’s small moments. Volunteering tied to dementia awareness and caregiver support is a powerful way to uplift individuals and transform communities. It’s about showing up, listening, and standing together. Whether you have a few hours a week or

just a willingness to help, your time can bring light to someone’s journey and help build a more understanding world.

The power of volunteering: Building dementia awareness, supporting caregivers By JOE COLLINS, QMCP Program Manager Alzheimer’s and Dementia Services of Northern Indiana Volunteering is more than just giving time; it’s about building stronger, more compassionate communities. When volunteers dedicate their efforts to causes, like dementia awareness and caregiver support, the impact ripples far beyond individual acts of kindness. It fosters understanding, reduces stigma, and creates a network of support for those navigating the challenges of memory loss and caregiving. Dementia is often misunderstood, and stigma can isolate those affected. Volunteers play a crucial role in changing that narrative. By participating in regional summits, educational events or annual memory walks, volunteers help bring dementia into the public con-

Always Best Care provides home care By MIA ALBERT, RN BSN Clinical Director Always Best Care, Michiana-Home Health Dementia. It’s an umbrella term encompassing multiple brain disorders that cause progressive decline in cognitive abilities, including thinking, memory, language, behavior and judgment. What we have learned at Always Best Care is it can leave families feeling overwhelmed, isolated and unsure as they seek to meet the needs their loved one with dementia has. One invaluable resource is home care. Care in the home of the person with dementia has the following benefits: • Familiar environment: staying in a care setting which is recognizable reduces the stress, confusion and agitation that can come with a change in environment. • Stability and routine: maintaining a regular daily schedule increases security and dignity. • Personalized care: individual needs are met through 1:1 care.

• Independence: supervision by a trained caregiver allows for greater involvement in activities of daily living, which contributes to overall independence. • Health and safety: consistent monitoring of health and symptoms with medication management improves quality of life, provides increased safety and reduces re-hospitalizations. The benefits of home care also extend to families and include: • Reduced burn-out: caregiver fatigue is a real effect of caring for a loved one with dementia, sharing the burden of care provides much needed rest and restoration for families.

• Peace of mind: families have the comfort and security of knowing their loved one is under the observation of a trained caregiver. • Stronger family connections: caregivers allow family members to step back from their role as a caregiver and enjoy a more relational connection. If you find yourself caring for a loved one with dementia, it’s important to remember the African proverb: “it takes a village…” doesn’t just apply to our children; it is also the healthiest, safest and most dignified model of care for your loved one with dementia and there is help available through home care.

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Thurs. Nov. 20 | 1 PM | Let’s Talk About It – Veterans Services Learn about programs and benefits available to veterans and their families. This discussion will highlight local resources, healthcare options, and ways our community honors and supports those who have served.

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Energy Assistance Benefits Begin Nov. 1 REAL Services’ Energy Assistance Program (EAP) will begin accepting applications for the upcoming heating season. EAP (also called LIHEAP) helps income-eligible households with electric, gas, propane, or fuel oil bills—so you can keep your home safe and warm.

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Good food and good friends are always on the menu at Portage Commons! Our “Come to the Table” Senior Meal Program welcomes older adults to enjoy a freshly prepared, nutritious lunch served Monday through Friday at 11:30 a.m. More than just a meal, it’s a chance to connect, share stories, and build friendships in a welcoming environment. We invite all seniors to join us for food, fellowship, and fun. Please call at least two days in advance to reserve your place. To make a reservation, contact the center at 574-284-7159 — Cheryl, our Meal Site Director, looks forward to serving you! This is a donation-based program, and every contribution helps us continue to provide meals for seniors in our community. We gratefully accept whatever you can comfortably afford, but donations are never required. To learn more or sign up for any of our meal sites, contact the Nutrition Office: Call (574) 370-3432 or Email nutrition@realservices.org Nutrition Manager: Jarena Baker – jarena.baker@realservices.org

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November Highlights at Portage Commons This month’s conversations at Portage Commons focus on wellbeing, creativity, and connection — with opportunities to learn, share, and strengthen both mind and spirit. Thurs. Nov. 6 | 1 PM | Let’s Talk About It – Seasonal Depression

As the days grow shorter, many people experience mood changes that can affect mood, sleep, and motivation. Join us to learn how to recognize the signs of seasonal depression and discover simple ways to stay active, connected, and positive through the colder months.

Wed. Nov. 12 | 11 AM | REAL Talk – Energizing the Brain Through Expressive Arts with Patty Discover how creativity boosts brain health! Patty will lead this engaging session using expressive arts to spark imagination, relieve stress, and enhance cognitive well-being. You’ll leave feeling inspired to add a little more creativity to your everyday life.

Tues. Nov. 4, 11, 18 & 25 | 1 PM | Grief 101 with Center for Hospice Grief touches us all. Whether you’ve experienced loss recently or years ago, this supportive series offers understanding, coping tools, and a compassionate space to talk about healing and hope. Presented by the caring team from the Center for Hospice Care.

Thurs. Nov. 13 | 1 PM | Joyful Journey Brain Strengthening – Brain Games with Gayla Keeping your brain sharp can be creative and fun! Join Gayla J. Konanz, MSW, LCSW, Care Specialist with Alzheimer’s & Dementia Services of Northern Indiana (ALZNI) for an interactive session filled with laughter, learning, and activities that boost memory and focus. Visit Facebook for Events and Classes: https://www.facebook.com/PortageCommons

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11:30 AM | Lunch 12:30 PM | Good Nutrition and Chronic Conditions presented by St. Joseph Health Systems 1:00 PM | Lets Talk About It – Veterans Services 2:30 PM | Stay Active & Independent for Life SAIL

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Blast to the Past -

‘Calypso’ John Denver’s last visit to BillBoard’s Top 10 singles John Denver Many creative people seem to have a muse that provides much-appreciated guidance. But what happens A Boomer Blast when that To The Past same muse By RANDAL goes AWOL C. HILL - and at a moment when it’s needed the most? After creating musical odes to America’s natural wonders, John Denver selected a new subject for his final RCA Records winner; “Calypso” also became the singing poet’s last visit to Billboard’s Top 10 singles listing. The haunting ballad was released as the B side to “I’m Sorry,” which briefly topped the Billboard chart. But when that song slid out of first place, “Calypso” emerged as the preferred offering, and is now the better-remembered of the tunes. Oceanographer and documentary filmmaker Jacques Cousteau inspired an entire generation to take an interest in the world’s waters. As a youngster, a near-fatal car wreck had left Jacques with two broken arms. For his rehabilitation, he began swimming in the Mediterranean Sea - and quickly became fasci-

nated with all things ocean. He co-invented the AquaLung, in use to this day in SCUBA-diving. He eventually acquired a World War II British minesweeper which, in time, became the Calypso and a floating research laboratory and movie studio. Denver met Cousteau in Belize and was so impressed with what he saw that, on the spot, Denver felt inspired to write “Calypso,” a ballad meant to honor Jacques’s ship and the good being done on it. Denver took his acoustic guitar (which he always carried with him) and quickly created a rousing chorus. “Aye, Calypso, the places you’ve been to “The things that you’ve shown us, the stories you tell “Aye, Calypso, I sing to your spirit “The men who have served you so long and so well.” Then, somehow, Denver slammed into an artistic brick wall, as the words simply stopped flowing. Discouraged and embarrassed, he returned home to Colorado and spent some sleepless nights trying to conjure the remaining lyrics he sought. He always drew a blank. What had happened to the muse from his past that had inspired him to create such works as “Take Me Home, Country Roads,” “Rocky Mountain High” and “Sunshine on My Shoulders”? Strangely, Denver’s lyrics

about honoring Cousteau’s oceangoing vessel eventually came to him while he was skiing near his Aspen home. While on the slopes, Denver experienced an electric-like “zap” that demanded his return home to bring the remainder of “Calypso” to a proper finish. The rest of the words flowed effortlessly to him as he drove 25 minutes to his house. By the time Denver pulled into the driveway, the uplifting lyrics were finished. “To sail on a dream on a crystal-clear ocean “To ride on the crest of the wild raging storm “To work in the service of life and the living “In search of the answers to questions unknown “To be part of the movement and part of the growing “Part of beginning to understand.” Denver would declare, “It’s one of the best songs I’ve ever written,” and he often closed later concerts with “Calypso.” Thank you, muse.

JOHN DENVER

Helmets work, too By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features Seniors who still ride their bicycles should also wear a helmet. It’s simple to get one that fits comfortably.

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70s Flashback -

Trials and tribulations of the Tucson troubadour Linda Ronstadt has sold over 100 million records, earned 11 Grammys, three American Music Awards, an Emmy, and By RANDAL an induction C. HILL into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. And yet, she has never considered herself a very good singer. “I had a pretty normal life at home,” she recalls. “I listened to country music and Mexican songs on the radio. (Her father was Hispanic.) I never wanted to be anything but a singer. (But) I thought that I would be singing at pizza parlors or Holiday Inns or places like that.” At age 18, she left Arizona with $30 and her father’s guitar: “I had to get where the music was, and it was not in Tucson but in L. A.” Once settled in Hollywood, she and two male pals formed a trio called the Stone Poneys, the name coming from a Charlie Patton blues song. It didn’t take long to find work. (“We got gigs in little beatnik dives.”) Sometimes the band earned as little as $30 a night. Each Monday, Hollywood’s hip Troubadour folk-music club offered an open mic night, which served as a way for singers to audition and to be heard and seen by record company executives, managers and agents. The Stone Poneys signed with Capitol Records and cut a Top 15 single called “Different Drum,” which had been written by future Monkee Mike Nesmith. But follow-up Poney tracks tanked, and the outfit split up. Ronstadt then

toured as an opening act for such diverse artists as Neil Young, the Doors and Jackson Browne. She eventually formed her own backup group, mostly comprised of Troubadour music friends who would, in time, become the Eagles. Capitol Records signed Linda as a solo act, but she later switched to the more progressive Asylum label, claiming that staid old Capitol never really “got who I was.” Ronstadt hit her stride in the 1970s, releasing million-selling albums and hit cover singles by such iconic artists as the Everly Brothers, Buddy Holly, Roy Orbison, and Motowners Martha and the Vandellas, and Smokey Robinson’s Miracles. Ronstadt racked up countless miles on the tour road, which she often found boring and lonely. She also waged personal battles against stage fright and discouragement, especially when performing at large venues. “Playing at Madison Square Garden is something you just endured,” she has admitted. “You can’t hear yourself. The crowd is restless. They’re out buying hot dogs. It’s not a really artistic experience.” Around 2000, she noticed that her voice was giving her problems. “I saw my throat doctor every year for a checkup, but everything was fine. But I knew it was something. The top end of my voice kept slipping away.” The culprit was Parkinson’s disease. No longer performing, she currently spends her free time knitting, gardening, sewing and reading. (“I do everything that I didn’t have time to do when I was on the road.”) How would she like to be remembered? “That I wasn’t very good,” she says, “and I got better.”

LINDA RONSTADT

Traipsing through space might keep us healthy By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features Space exploration could be good for our health. While it might be of faint benefit to you, the health and well-being of your great-greatgreat kids could depend on it. It has to do with the fate of planet Earth and its residents. Will climate change make it unlivable? Will the globe become overcrowded with people? Will viruses and other critters overpower humans? A means of escape and a place to escape to already are being explored as the road to survival for the human race. The media has been treating upper-space flights by Tesla’s Elon Musk, Amazon founder and ex-CEO Jeff Bezos as funfilled fillips of flabillionaires. But these gravity-beating sorties by far-seeing individuals may be giving us a peek into

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Maple Pork Chop Sweet Potatoes Green Beans Dinner Roll/Marg. Fruit Cup Spaghetti/Meat Sauce Italian Vegetables Texas Toast Tropical Fruit Cup

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similar was to happen again. “We need to get to Mars as quickly as possible,” he said, “to establish a base.” But he doesn’t expect us to stop there. “One does not simply hopscotch to the stars on a whim,” he said. “It will take decades, if not centuries, to progress. We need to start now.” The process actually began back in the 1950s when the Russians launched Sputnik, the first artificial satellite to orbit the Earth. In the meantime, we enjoy a bundle of health benefits spawned by the space race. They include the development of memory foam mattresses and pillows that help us sleep better, more comfortable sneakers that ease pressure on legs and feet, and scratch-resistant lenses that keep our glasses clear so we can see better and avoid falling. Mature Life Features Copyright 2025

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what will save mankind. The United Arab Emirates’ Hope reached its Mars orbit in February and is man’s first mission to study the possibility of humans living on another planet. Chinese and U.S. orbiters joined it shortly after that. Their collection of data to determine if it’s feasible to colonize the red planet is more than mere curiosity. Extinctions have barraged the earth a handful of times, the last occurring some 65 million years ago after a giant asteroid smashed into the Gulf of Mexico resulting in a catastrophic wipe-out of half of all marine organisms and a major chunk of land creatures, including the dinosaurs. There’s no certainty that a similar event can’t happen again. Mr. Musk argues for making life multiplanetary to safeguard the existence of humanity in the event that something

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Financial planner worth the investment By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features Only death and taxes are certainties, according to Benjamin

Franklin, but we’ve also come to learn that nothing is free. So you need a financial plan to make sure you can afford to pay your taxes, as well as

Medical mistakes in the millions By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features Medical mistakes rank as the third leading cause of death behind heart disease and cancer. So it behooves you, as elderly academicians are prone to proclaim, to get a second opinion when faced with a medical crisis of any sort. A neighbor’s wife underwent surgery not too long ago after she was diagnosed as having a spinal nerve disorder and was left with several inches of metal in her backbone that limited the use of her right arm and hand. It was later revealed that all this was unnecessary because she was diagnosed with having spinal cancer that radiation would have been used to cure. More than 12 million people die from medical misdiagnoses each year, according to most surveys dealing with this matter. Autopsies reveal that 20% of the bodies inspected died of causes other than those reported. Medical annals are cluttered with cases of mistaken diagnosis of disabilities and disease. Even within medical ranks. For example, a nurse complaining of a severe headache that radiated down her shoul-

der to her waist was diagnosed by a doctor as having tensions headaches and was prescribed some pain medication. When she collapsed a few days later, doctors discovered she had a ruptured blood vessel in her brain. This event mirrors what thousands of folks suffer after visiting a doctor - they receive treatment that doesn’t cure the cause and can die or become permanently disabled. Doctors, like all humans, make mistakes. Even common and widespread health problems such as high blood-pressure and fractures are misdiagnosed. No matter what your doctor tells you at your next visit, get a second opinion. If your doctor balks at the suggestion, change doctors. Take charge of your health issues. Write down an outline of your medical history as well as a list of the symptoms of whatever condition you’re seeking help for. Also write down the diagnosis so you’ll have it correctly to show the second doctor after they’ve given you their opinion of your malady. If you still haven’t been satisfied or assured of a positive outcome, get a third opinion. Mature Life Features Copyright 2025

groceries and medical bills, as long as you’re alive. Despite this truism, less than 20% of the adult population seek out and work with a financial adviser. Many are fortunate enough to be employed by a company that provides retirement benefits. Some have purchased a home to build up an equity that cushions their senior years. And there are those who have established a savings plan to make sure their sunset years are golden. Instead of flying by the seat of your pants financially, seeking out a financial adviser can help you manage your way through economic bumps that occur because of pandemic quarantines, loss of employment, disastrous weather damage, and divorce as well as marriage, children and career moves. Talking over money matters with your brother-in-law, office colleague or neighbor can do more hurt than help if they

talk to check their experiences with the planner. Don’t put too much faith in these referrals because they’re going to pick their most satisfied customers, but the feedback can help round out the other information you collect. You’re not there to make any commitment because you’re going to review their policies and practices along with those of the other two or three prospects you plan to visit. Have them give you an outline of what type of program they feel best meets your needs and aims. And ask them how they make their money. Do they charge a fixed fee? A percentage of whatever profit they make for you? Or a commission on each transaction? Once you’ve chosen a planner, be totally frank with them and give them all your financial information so they can make sound decisions on the best program for you. Mature Life Features Copyright 2025

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ing meant waking up to the smell of my mom’s turkey and dressing. Charlotte Mapes never called it stuffing. I can still picture her in the kitchen, in her favorite moo moo, Diet Coke nearby, cigarette in hand, somehow managing to orchestrate the entire meal effortless. One tradition that makes us laugh year after year didn’t involve the turkey or the dressing. It was the rolls. Without fail, one pan would inevitably end up a little too dark. My mom, wise to her own ways, always bought an extra package, knowing a backup was necessary. To this day, my family continues the tradition with a good-natured reminder: “Don’t burn the biscuits!” The phrase has become part of our Thanksgiving vocabulary — a wink across the generations that ties us back to her. Family traditions like these may seem small, but they carry weight. They bind us together, give us stories to retell, and create a sense of continuity that lasts long after the people who started them are gone. Traditions are a way to pass along identity, history, and even humor to younger generations. But traditions evolve. Families today may be scattered across the country or blended in new ways. Some are too small for a giant turkey feast, while others gather through Zoom instead of around the same table. Some older adults

may not have close family nearby — or family at all. For them, creating a “chosen family” of friends, neighbors, or fellow church or senior center members can bring the same sense of warmth and belonging. Sharing a meal, swapping recipes or simply gathering for coffee and conversation can become meaningful new traditions that are every bit as special as the old ones. Here are a few simple ways to honor the old while making space for the new: • Write it down and share stories. Record family recipes or share your stories. “Don’t Burn the Biscuits” means even more when the next generation knows the story behind it. • Involve everyone. Invite grandchildren, friends or neighbors to help cook or decorate; they’ll feel ownership in the tradition. • Adapt with love. If travel or health makes the old way hard, try Friendsgiving, local-sponsored dinners or sharing dishes virtually. Holidays are about much more than the perfect meal; they are about connection, traditions old and new, and gratitude. Whether your family still makes “dressing” the way mom did, laughs over a pan of charred biscuits, or gathers with a circle of friends, who feel like family, those traditions — old and new — are what give Thanksgiving its meaning.

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Important information about nursing homes Nursing homes are expensive and without careful planning, an extended stay can easily bankrupt your family. The average cost of a nursing home in the U.S. is nearly $10,000 a month. That’s nearly $120,000 per year. You’re looking at a bill of $200,000 to $1 million for your family member with Alzheimer’s disease. Dementia and Alzheimer’s can result in a nursing home stay of two to 10 years or more! What most people don’t realize is that the government will only pay the nursing home bill for a single person after they have spent down

to $2,000. Medicare will only cover you for a maximum of 100 days, if they will even cover you. Social Security won’t pay nursing home bills at all. However, Medicaid will cover nearly all the costs - if you get your ducks in a row now! My new 2025 book, “How To Protect Your Family’s Assets From Devastating Nursing Home Costs,” sets forth in plain English what the rules are and how you can qualify for Medicaid coverage yet still protect your home and life savings. Find out how Medicaid will even cover the cost of care while you can remain

By CLIFFORD J. RICE Elder Law Attorney living in your own home! Also, married couples should be sure to ask us about the new safe harbor trust, which can

save hundreds of thousands of dollars. Receive your free copy of my book when you do planning with Rice & Rice during the month of November. At Rice & Rice Attorneys, we count almost 25 separate Medicaid planning techniques that can be used to save money from the nursing home for married couples, and almost as many such valuable techniques for single persons. Legal help is available at Rice & Rice Attorneys, 1237 University Drive, Granger. Call (800) 303-7423 to schedule an appointment for a free consultation or to attend one

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Primrose Retirement Community of Mishawaka 820 Fulmer Road, Mishawaka, IN 46544 (574) 259-3211 • primroseretirement.com

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Brickyard Fountainview Health Center

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Our spacious independent and assisted living apartments offer something to retire to not just something to retire from. Residents at Primrose enjoy a healthy and active living environment.

Riveridge Rehabilitation & Healthcare Center 1333 Wells Street, Niles, MI 49120 (269) 684-1111 • www.riveridgerehab.com

Rehabilitation, Skilled Licensed Nursing, Occupational, Physical and Speech Therapy. Private/Semi-Private Rooms, Long-Term, Respite Care, Pet Visitation Allowed. Non-Smoking Facility. Chronic Heart Failure & Wound Care Programs Offered. Medicare And/Or Medicaid Accepted.

Holy Cross Village at Notre Dame

54515 933 N., P.O. Box 706, Notre Dame, IN 46556 (574) 287-1838 • www.holycrossvillage.com

Riveridge Rehab in Niles, Michigan, offers newly renovated rehab units with 4 private suites. Additionally, we have a locked memory care unit with multi-sensory room.

Signature HealthCARE of Bremen

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Dujarie House, Independent Living, Assisted Living, Respite Care, Rehabilitation Unit, Alzheimer’s Unit, Skilled Licensed Nursing, Intermediate Care, Therapies: Speech-Occupational-Physical, Long Term Care, Respite Care, Private Rooms, Pet Visitation Allowed, Residential Apartments

Hubbard Hill Retirement Community

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Tanglewood Trace Senior Living

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Morning View Assisted Living 475 North Niles Avenue, South Bend, IN 46617 (574) 246-4123 • www.morningview-alf.com Compassionate and trained caregivers on staff 24-hours per day. Accepting Medicaid waiver. Secure units. Assistance with activities of daily living. Daily life enrichment activities. Nutritional and dietary support.

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Finance

Cash in on your home By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

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Everyone’s home is their castle, but for some it can be their bank. The equity in your domicile has been rising over the years and is like stuffing cash under your mattress. It isn’t doing you any good if you aren’t using it. There’s a catch here. You don’t want to re-mortgage your house just to pay off credit-card debt or climb aboard a cruise around the world. It makes sense only if you need to bolster your retirement income, or if the property needs repair or can be enhanced to increase its selling price. Much touted for folks in this frame of mind are reverse mortgage. Originally designed for cashpoor people, they have hidden costs and clauses that can make you homeless. Providers of these loans do

the appraisal and let you know how much you can borrow. They proclaim all you have to do is maintain insurance coverage, keep up the maintenance on its condition and appearance, pay the taxes and utility bills, and keep on living in it. If you move out, you repay the loan. The means, should you or your spouse become debilitated and have to move into a senior-care facility, you have to repay the loan. Which, in most cases, means you won’t have enough money to afford the senior-care living. A more financially sound and manageable plan is to arrange a home-equity loan. Again, only if you need the money. Augmenting your monthly-living income is a sound reason. Talk with your financial advisor and do the arithmetic to make sure you borrow enough to make the payments on the loan, known as servicing the loan out of the loan.

Or you can arrange for a line of credit to be tapped into only if a cash crunch hits. If interest rates drop a good chunk lower than your current rate, you might consider refinancing. Some financial gurus suggest you go for the longest rate, which lowers the monthly payments you have to make. Then, some of them say, you can make a 13th payment every year. This plan calls for making an extra principle-only payment each year, which cuts down both the life of the mortgage and amount of debt you repay. Compare interest rates. If the percentage between a 30-year mortgage and a 15-year loan is minuscule, take advantage of the longer-term financing. And don’t worry about making extra payments to shorten its life. However, make sure there is no prepayment penalty on any type of loan you obtain.

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Save time and air fare By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features Flying from hub airports can save you time, money and airport discomfort. If you live in San Diego, for example, it can be cheaper and faster to take the train or drive to LAX in Los Angeles if you’re looking to fly across the country or over the Pacific or Atlantic oceans. This applies to anyone living close to such major hubs as Atlanta, Chicago, Denver, Minneapolis, Phoenix and St. Louis. Mature Life Features Copyright 2025

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features The cruise industry appears to be sailing into more pleasant seas as passenger numbers climb. A record-breaking more-than 34 million people took cruises last year. Meanwhile, operators of the more than 350 ships cruising in the waters around the world are scrambling to fill their cabins so a bit of shopping may uncover a bargain here and there. When you book plays a prominent role and there’s a dichotomy here. You can get a good price by booking your voyage far in advance - most travel advisors suggest as much as 18 months before boarding - or you can fish for last-minute offerings made by the ship owners to fill the vessel. When you do book, check on what’s included and not included in the fare, such frills as the tip or a beverage package. Don’t set sail during the high and holiday seasons, although there are bargains available for sailing between Thanksgiving and Christmas. The less costly shoulder seasons are spring and fall. Keep in mind that, depending

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Favorites from before By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features There probably still are 50-year-old things around the house that recall the days of yore. How about that pair of ugly but comfortable Birkenstocks? And that packet of M&Ms tucked into the kitchen cupboard? A constant reminder of decades past are those big square brown trucks UPS still uses, as is your color television set,

which came into its own in the mid 60s. Alex Trebek and “Jeopardy” began their amazing run about the same time as “Star Trek” ventured “where no man has gone before.” The Big Mac and Pop-Tarts emerged back then with a healthier counterpart, Gatorade. Both James Bond and The Beatles popped into our culture about the same time as the pill, which planted seeds for the later sexual revolution. Mature Life Features Copyright 2025

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Strokes strike anyone anytime By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features Recognizing a stroke in its early stages can save the life of the victim, which could be yourself or someone nearby. There are several tell-tale signs that blood flow to your brain has been cut off, which causes brain cells to die and affects your awareness and activity.

The most common cause of a stroke is a blood clot that plugs a blood vessel in the brain. Strokes can also occur when a blood vessel in the brain ruptures and bleeds into the brain. The victim may feel nothing, some numbness or severe pain. The result can be minor or debilitating, striking the whole body with long-term mental and physical paralysis. It’s the third leading cause of death.

Getting treatment within an hour of the attack can prevent much of the damage and disability it inflicts. Restoring blood flow to the brain as quickly as possible lowers the chance of serious permanent injury. Those most likely to have a stroke are the elderly and risk factors include hypertension, high blood pressure, smoking, diabetes, high cholesterol, sickle-cell disease and a family

history of stroke. Indications that you’re having a stroke are stumbling as you try to walk, weakness on one side, trouble seeing and difficulty speaking. Most people do not recognize they’re having a stroke so it’s up to someone nearby to recognize the signs and call 911 immediately. What you will notice is the stroke victim is confused and has trouble talking to you and understanding what you are

saying to them. They might suddenly have trouble seeing you out of one or both eyes. You could notice a sudden drooping, especially of one side of their face and body. They might complain of a sudden headache and dizziness while losing some of their physical coordination. If you notice anyone with just one of these signs, call 911.

term describes it as a general increase in prices and a fall in the purchasing power of money. However you say it, it still means things cost more than they used to. We’ve heard about the higher prices of cars, lumber, homes, and everything on the supermarket shelves.

But higher prices alone do not mean we should hyperventilate about inflation. They’re one of the elements that create inflation but the real culprit is the decline of your money’s purchasing power. Just because the price of air fare goes up because everyone’s going on vacation doesn’t mean we’re being hit

by inflation. Money mavens are interested more in why prices rise. A rainy season can ruin a crop, boosting its price until regular seasonal supply can be resume. Supply-chain breakdowns can cause sudden but short-lived surges in the price of certain products. Those events are not to be confused with inflation. There are those who wail when the Federal Reserve Bank prints more money to meet demand because that lowers the value of currency. Money supply is important, but so is the demand for money. If you lose confidence in the

future of your currency, you’re likely to seek something else that will maintain its power to purchase what you need and want. Dumping dollars for gold and silver is one common practice, as is buying another country’s currency. Like so many economic theories and multi-syllabic words, inflation is not easy to define. When prices rise when consumers change their behavior or supply chains get snarled, that’s not inflation. But when prices climb because there’s a shift in the supply of and demand for money, that’s when inflation starts to become a problem.

Inflation is a four-letter word By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features There’s a lot of talk about inflation these days. No one can pin point its cause nor can they really explain what it means. One generally accepted description is “Too much money chasing too few goods.” An economic

Time and rest battle colds By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features Colds have been compared to, among other things, hangovers — the only thing that cures both of them is time. Youngsters catch a half-dozen or so colds a year, while adults average a couple or so. During these complex COVID-19 times, it’s difficult to tell if you’ve been attacked by the original virus or a variant, or if you’ve contracted the flu, or if you have a cold. If you and your doctor have narrowed down your event to the common cold, what do you take for it? Home remedies abound. Many oldsters may remember the mustard plaster: a poultice of mustard-seed powder pressed between two towels and placed over the chest while you slept. It’s was supposed to sweat the ills out of your body and stop the cough accompanying your cold. It’s still being used.

Also on the cure-yourself list is to totter off to bed with a box of tissue handy for blowing your nose. To help you sleep, a shot of brandy, straight or in a glass of warm water, is often recommended. Staying hydrated has become more popular and so has gargling a warm salt-water solution to relieve a scratchy throat. A world-wide cure for almost anything is a nice warm bowl of chicken soup. Supporters of this remedy concede it may not always help, but it can’t hurt. The array of cold remedies at your nearby pharmacy have been rated no better than what you can come up with at home. For example, combining honey, lemon and ginger in a jigger of warm water is a tasty bit of relief. Adding a bit of whisky or rum doesn’t hurt. Garlic in any form is regarded by many cultures as a hefty weapon against the common cold. How can anyone resist the

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Travel

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The world’s larges rotating cable car suspended alongside the California mountain overlooking Palm Springs doesn’t sound appealing to someone like me, who isn’t all that happy about heights. But safely enclosed as it slowly climbed to the top, I was able to fully appreciate the surroundings and prepare for even a more spectacular view awaiting me at the summit. And enjoy several attractions not usually associated with mountain tops. The tramcar travels 2.5 miles along the cliffs of Chino

Canyon to a height of more than 8,500 feet, offering 360-degree panoramic views of the desert below and the rugged mountain landscape. As I focused on the scenes unfolding above me and below me, I overheard several people saying, “Okay, that’s high enough.” The popping in my ears alerted me to the increase in attitude. And then the experience began. A restaurant and, as expected, a gift shop and 360-degree views, of course. Add a couple of theaters and a natural history nestled within 50 miles of hiking trails from easy to moderate to strenuous. You could live up there. But keep in mind that tempera-

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The automobile man and his dream Text and Photos By Tom Morrow Mature Life Features

“cyclops” headlight which would turn when steering to improve visibility around corners during night driving. But production of the Tucker ‘48 was shut down in 1949 amidst controversial accusations of stock fraud. The 1988 movie “Tucker: The Man and His Dream,” starring Jeff Bridges, is based on Tucker’s ordeal surrounding the car’s production. The U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission, or SEC, was embittered after small automaker Henry J. Kaiser was given millions of dollars in grants towards development of his new Kaiser and Frazer cars, but reportedly squandered the money. While Tucker took no money from the federal government, the SEC kept him under close scrutiny. His SEC trial began Oct. 4, 1949, and his factory was closed the same day. Only 38 Tucker Torpedos had been built. However, a corps of 300 loyal employees returned to the factory (some without pay) and finished assembly of another 13 cars for a total of 51 vehicles. The SEC contended Tucker never intended to produce a car. Throughout the trial, the SEC report on Tucker was classified as “secret” and, while his attorneys were never allowed to view or read it, the document was leaked to the press. The prosecution and defense debated until the judge demanded prosecutors “get down to the meat of the case and start proving the SEC conspiracy charge.”

Tucker’s defense attorneys surprised everyone by refusing to call any witnesses. Defense attorney Daniel Glasser told the court, “It is impossible to present a defense when there has been no offense.” Kirby invited the jury to take a ride in one of the eight Tucker ‘48s parked in front of the courthouse. The verdict quickly came in “not guilty” on all counts. Preston Tucker’s reputation rebounded after his acquittal. His optimism was remarkable; after the trial was over, he was quoted as saying, “Even Henry Ford failed the first time out.” Despite the outcome of the trial, speculation became widespread that the entire Tucker enterprise was a sham. The Tucker Automobile Club of America has amassed more than 400,000 drawings/blueprints, corporate documents, and letters suggesting Tucker was, in fact, planning to mass-produce the Tucker ‘48. He had hired more than 1,900 employees. While Tucker may have been a carmaker with foresight, he was financially short-sighted and his lack of financial backing forced his company into foreclosure. His assets were auctioned off, but two remaining Tucker 48s were given to him and his mother. He died of lung cancer on Dec. 26, 1956, at the age of 53, and is buried in Flat Rock, Mich.

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