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WHAT SENIORS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT TAX FILING FOR 2026

By ANIKA YODER Feature Writer

As tax season approaches there is a lot to keep in mind between which forms to have on hand for filing, itemizing deductions and other considerations.

The Elkhart County Council on Aging provides seniors with tax prep services alongside the American Association of Retired Persons. Anyone looking for help with filing can contact the COA which will begin help with filing for seniors on Feb. 11.

According to Tina Fraley CEO of the Elkhart County Council on Aging, the council provides all in- person services for seniors for tax filing. All services are free with the COA managing around 600 returns a year.

“We have three preparers that will be in service on each of the days, Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday,” Fraley said. “All services are free. We don’t charge anything for our tax preparation services. If someone’s able to give a donation, of course, that’s always appreciated, but it is not mandatory to receive the services.”

According to AARP Tax-Aide District Coordinator for the COA Merritt Lehman, the COA provides volunteers to schedule filing appointments as well as the utilities needed for secure information handling. Under the Tax-Aide program, there are only two locations in the county according to Lehman that offer free tax services which include the COA, and Greencroft in Goshen.

Grace College is another facilitator for seniors needing tax prep services. According to Danielle Duff, assistant professor of accounting for Grace College, those looking for tax prep services that have a household income lower than $67,000

can find help at the Manahan Orthopedic Capital Center in Winona Lake. Duff is the Volunteer Income Tax Assistance program coordinator which is sponsored by the Internal Revenue Service.

The IRS provides the software needed to conduct returns.

As a VITA site coordinator, Duff works as a go-between for volunteers and community members looking for tax prep services. The services offered are free with the program attempting to aim for lower income and elderly individuals

who might not be able to afford to pay for tax prep according to Duff.

“VITA is that IRS sponsored program, and they kind of partner with organizations like colleges, churches, libraries, whatnot, all across the U.S.,” Duff said. “So it’s not just like Indiana by any means. Grace College is one of those sites that it partners with. And we also partner with Goodwill of Michigan. That’s another kind of community organization that helps us be able to get grants to fund the, fund the operations.”

According to Duff, something for seniors to keep in mind is that this year, VITA will be requiring electronic refunds as opposed to a physical refund check. The state of Indiana has not changed its standard deduction for about 30 years according to Lehman with the standard deduction for seniors being $2,500.

“The standard deduction increases with inflation, that has happened since about 1970 with federal taxes. But the state of Indiana. I don’t think they’ve changed their standard

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deduction for 30 years or so,” Lehman said. “I’ve actually talked to my state representative about it. I think they should index it with inflation. They have not. But anyway, for seniors, $2,500 is a standard deduction. And which is not very much. So Indiana residents pay taxes on almost all of their income.”

Those looking for tax prep services for Elkhart and Kosciusko counties can contact the Elkhart COA as well as Grace College for scheduling filing appointments.

Camp Mack shaped director’s history

By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer

Before Gene Hollenberg stepped up in front of a class, he had to admit one thing - he had no experience with children. He began volunteering at Camp Alexander Mack, a Christian youth camp and retreat center on the shore of Waubee Lake near Milford, to do some hands-on learning in the summer of 1977. He enjoyed it so much that he kept coming back as a volunteer until he was hired as executive director in 2016.

A Fort Wayne native, Hollenberg graduated from Snider High School and earned a bachelor’s degree in elementary education from Butler University, then a master’s in elementary and middle school education.

“I went into it kicking and screaming,” Hollenberg said of his career in education. “My mom was an elementary and middle school teacher, and I saw how hard she worked, and just didn’t feel like I wanted to work that hard.”

Still, he found being a business major wasn’t for him and where he really fit in was education. He taught middle school for much of his careerthough this wasn’t always the plan.

His second summer as a counselor, there was no room for him in the elementary

school division where he had been before.

“I pushed back and said, ‘there’s no way, I’m planning to work with little kids,’” Hollenberg recalled. The only available space was with the middle school campers, and his experience with them was eye-opening.

“I had so much fun that year counseling those middle school kids, and I found that my niche was middle school kids. I relate to them, I think they’re funny. When they’re being absolutely awful, I know how to communicate with them,” he said.

Hollenberg later earned a certification in school administration from Purdue University Fort Wayne, becoming principal of Ward Theater Arts Elementary School and Grissom Middle School, director of high schools in South Bend and principal of Nuner Primary Center. He completed his schooling with a doctorate of education in 2007.

In many ways, overseeing Camp Mack is similar to school administration.

“Where it differs is I’m responsible for raising the money here, whereas as a school administrator I was given a budget to use,” Hollenberg said. He is responsible for overseeing the overall operations of the camp, from food service to programs to facilities. He makes budgets, communicates between all departments and

sets goals for the camp alongside a 14-member board.

“Like a CEO of a corporation, it’s taking the operation and making it go where you need it at that time,” he said.

Ministry, and making decisions about how to reach out to churches and communities, is also part of Camp Mack’s mission. In order to facilitate that, he was ordained as a minister a few years after becoming director.

“It’s my opinion,” he explained, “that someone on the executive staff should be ordained because we are a ministry. ... How does this tie into our overall mission in ministry? I think there needs to be some kind of background in order to have that kind of responsibility.”

Hollenberg acknowledges the business side of the operation is not his greatest strength, so that aspect of the job presents some challenges to him. What he loves most is seeing the people who visit Camp Mack enjoy themselves and share memories of their time there.

“I meet them at lunch time and I greet them, they’re all happy and grateful for being here. Getting a chance to talk to folks about their experiences here, that’s the best part of the job,” he said.

It kinda balances out

By JIM CARPENTER Guest Writer

Looking back these past few years,

I think it’s very plain to see.

I didn’t know then but now I do.

I am changing but I am still me.

There comes a time to face the facts,

in terms of being old in age.

It’s not the end but it’s getting there.

You have reached a final stage.

You can adjust and try to like it.

You can fight it or let it be.

But I think it’s best to just accept.

Every one goes eventually.

There is a loss but still and then,

I think perhaps there is a gain.

The eyes of age might bring new life.

Searching out the good in change.

Life is but a metamorphosis.

The very best is yet to come.

So I will write my poems about it.

Until this day is finally done.

70s Flashback -

‘Friede’s Folly’ takes a surprise flight

By RANDAL C. HILL

Eleanor Friede was discouraged. As a senior editor at New York’s prestigious Macmillan publishing house, she seemed to be the only person there who believed in her latest project, a small hardcover book by aviation writer Richard Bach. Its title was “Jonathan Livingston Seagull,” and it consisted of fewer than 9,000 words of text spread over 43 of its 93 pages, as well as copious (and often blurry) photos of seagulls.

Bach’s work was a simple, allegorical account of one gull’s goal. He had wanted to achieve perfection in flight, something that others in his flock had labeled impossible, or at least a silly waste of time.

Friede’s workplace peers had

called Bach’s heartfelt creation “Friede’s Folly.” But Friede, undaunted, persisted until her publisher - with scant fanfare and minimal promotion - put “Jonathan Livingston Seagull” on the market in 1970.

Bach, who had been advanced a paltry $2,000, was as amazed as anyone -including Friede - about what happened next.

Fueled primarily by word-ofmouth support, “Jonathan” flew off the bookshelf (pun intended) during the early 1970s. For 38 weeks, it held the Number One spot on the New York Times best-seller list. It eventually sold over 3 million hardback copies.

Some literary critics dismissed Bach’s work as lightweight hipsterism, although many book buyers proclaimed Bach’s Christian Science-influenced handiwork either a spiritual or a self-help guide that, doggone it, made people feel good - well, maybe more than

Elkhart County Council on Aging events for February

The council of Aging is hosting the following activities and events.

Goshen Public Library, 10:15 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. every second Wednesday of the month, Feb. 11 - Valentine’s Day Crafts Elkhart Public Library Downtown, 9:30-11 a.m. every third Tuesday of the month, Feb. 17 - The Elkhart City Police will be joining the ECCA for coffee, doughnuts and a workshop on fraud and safety  Hunny Pot Studio - 2-4 p.m. every third Thursday of the month.

Hunny Pot Studio events: February Hand-Building — Build a tiny ceramic birdhouse

Travel through time

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

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As you motor around the country, visiting the grandkids or getting to see the sites on your to-do list or heading back for a class reunion, you can also travel back through time to trace your ancestry. When you get to your home town, you can leaf through local records to trace your forebears back as far as they lived in that location. Having pored through your lineage on line or through family files, you can stop on the way there or the way back home in towns and cities mentioned in your chronicles.

It’s a good way to see America as well as trace your ancestors.

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just “good” - when they read it. The idea of piloting a plane had always intrigued Bach. By age 17, he was polishing small aircraft in exchange for flying lessons. He later became an Air Force captain and, after departing the military, penned three books and numerous articles about aviation. But times were often hard for the writer.

Sometimes, he delivered phone books or sold jewelry to put food on the table for his rapidly growing family. Once his car was repossessed by his bank.

March Paint Your Own Pottery — Paint a cheerful ceramic peep

April Wheel Throwing — Form a bowl with real leaf imprints May Nature Craft — Make a bird feeder using a cardboard roll, peanut butter, bird seed, and Hunny Pot Love June Canvas Painting — Paint a cardinal in a tree, guided step-by-step BINGOCIZE will continue on Thursdays from February through March, 10:30-11:30 a.m. at the Goshen Public Library.

However, an incident in 1959 in the Belmont Shores area of Long Beach, Calif., would change his fortunes - and his life. Strolling alone by a fog-shrouded canal one night, he heard a crystal-clear voice behind him utter three words: “Jonathan Livingston Seagull.” (Jonathan Livingston had been a great racing pilot in the 1930s.) When Bach turned around, nobody was there. He hurried home and dashed off a 3,000-word tale.

Richard then forgot about it for eight years.

In 1967, he awoke one morning from a dream about seagulls. So strong was the impression it made on him that he hurriedly rewrote “Jonathan

Livingston Seagull,” the story gushing forth in a tsunami of words. When he had honed the brief book to a misty sort of perfection, Bach rushed it off to several publishers. They all turned thumbs down on the thin manuscript before it landed on Friede’s desk.

Some booksellers expressed frustration over just where to shelve the best-seller. Should it be filed under philosophy, nature, religion or children’s books?

Friede’s sage advice? “Put it

next to the cash register.”

Bibliography

Book: Bach, Richard. “Jonathan Livingston Seagull: A Story.” New York: The Macmillan Company, 1970. Internet: Richard Bach, Jonathan Livingston Seagull. (No author or date listed) en.wikipedia.org. De Chardin, Teilhard. “It’s a Bird! It’s a Dream! It’s Supergull!” Nov. 13, 1972. time.com.Walters, Jr., Raymond. “Seven Ways Not to Make a Best Seller.” July 23, 1972. The Friede quote from nytimes.com.

February 2026 events at the LaGrange County Public Library

Here are the events coming up for February 2026 at the LaGrange County Public Library and its branches in Shipshewana and Topeka. For more information and latest updates go to www.lagrange. lib.in.us

The LaGrange County Public Library and branches will be closed Monday, Feb. 16, in observance of President’s Day

LaGrange Tai Chi — 11-11:30 a.m.

Mondays Learn tai chi with videos from International Tai Chi Master David-Dorian Ross. These gentle workouts focus on slow movement, balance, and deep breathing. All ages. Free.

Walking Well Read — noon to 12:30 p.m. Mondays & Thursdays

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Come to the library for 30 minutes of cardio. We’ll walk up and down stairs. Around the book stacks, and through some behind-the-scenes areas. It’s great exercise. Drop in and join us. All ages. Free.

Pre-School Story Time (ages 0-5) Theme: Alphabet — 10:30 a.m. Tuesdays

Enjoy stories, songs and rhymes with a fun craft or activity.

Makerspace - 2:30 -7 p.m. Wednesdays, Feb. 4, 11, 18 and 25

For ages 5 and up, parents must stay with children 10 and under. Makerspace is a collaborative space where people can use a variety of tools and materials to create, learn and share. We will have different building materials and crafting supplies available for use along with new special projects every week.

Lego Play: (Registration not required) — 2:30-7 p.m. Thursdays, Feb. 5, 12, 19 and 26.

Ages 5 and up, parents must stay with kids 10 and under. Drop in anytime between 2:30-7 p.m.. All of our Legos will be out to build anything you want, or attempt to complete the challenges for the month.

Teen Games (ages 6th -12th grade) — 4-7:30 p.m. Monday, Feb. 9.

Drop in anytime and stay as long as you can. Play some larger group party type games or settle in for something longer. Homeschool Hangout (Registration not required) — 10:30 a.m. to noon Friday, Feb. 13. Join other homeschool families for a laid-back time to hang out, play games, relax together, share ideas and make new friends.

Second Saturday Book Club — 11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 14. This month we’ll discuss “Shakespeare” by Bill Bryson. Bryson celebrates Shakespeare as a writer of unimaginable talent and enormous inventiveness, a coiner of phrases (“vanish into thin air,” “one fell swoop”) that even today have common currency. His Shakespeare is like no one else’s – the beneficiary of Bryson’s genial nature, his engaging skepticism, and gift for storytelling. Copies available at the LaGrange Adult Services Desk. Ages 16+

Youth Book Clubs

Book Buddies Book Club:

Grade 1-3 (formerly Elementary B.C.) — 4-5 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 17 Ratnip- Lost and Found in the City by Cam Higgins. You’ll get your book at the meeting, no registration required. We will start reading our book together, do a fun activity, then you will take the book home

to finish reading and bring back next month.

Page Turners Book Club: Grades 3-7 (formerly Mid-Grade B.C.) — 4-5 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 17

Discussing the Mr. Penguin book series by Alex T. Smith.

Come to the library in January to get your book to read and discuss in February. At each meeting we will discuss the book we read this month and do a fun activity or craft related to the story.

Books & Banter Book Club:

Grade 7-12 (formerly Teen B.C.) - Special date and time this month: 5-6 p.m. Monday, Feb. 16.

Discussing: Renegades by Marissa Meyer.

Come to the library in January to get your book to read and discuss in February. At each meeting we will discuss the book we read for this month and do a fun activity or craft related to the story.

Teen Video Games and Table Top Roll Play Games (Grades 7-12) — 4-7:30 p.m. Monday, Feb. 23. Join us on the fourth Monday of each month for Nintendo Switch, Wii and VR. Come and go as you are able during this time. If you enjoy TTRPGs like Dungeons & Dragons, we will have some premade games to play through. We will have snacks and TV’s set up to play! Crochet for Beginners — 6-8 p.m. Tuesday, Feb. 24.

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This class is for adults who have never crocheted before. All materials will be supplied. Cost is $5, payable at class (exact change is appreciated). Register at the LaGrange library or by calling (260) 463-2841 x1030. Registration ends Feb. 17. Ages 12 plus

Make & Take with Deb: 3 Dimensional Canvas — 6 p.m. Wednesday, Feb. 25. Participants will add free form adhesive piping to a canvas in their own design, then paint as desired. All materials supplied. A finished sample will be on display at the library and on the library Facebook page beginning Feb. 2. Cost is $25 per person. Register with non-refundable deposit of $15 by Feb. 18 at the main library in LaGrange. (Ages 12 plus)

Cookbook Club - 11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 28.

This month’s theme is: Teatime. Choose a teatime recipe, make it and bring it to the Cookbook Club carry-in. Plates, silverware, coffee and tea will be provided. Cookbook Club meets the fourth Saturday of each month. Families welcome.

Shipeshewana

Pre-School Story Time (ages 0-5) Theme: Alphabet — 11 a.m, Tuesdays.(new time)

Enjoy stories, songs and rhymes with a fun craft or activity.

Topeka

Wednesdays at 11 a.m.

Enjoy stories, songs and rhymes with a fun craft or activity.

Blast To The Past -

‘I Write the Songs’ was written by Bruce Johnston

Barry Manilow

Who is the “I” in this wellknown oldie?

“I write the songs that make the whole world sing

“I write the songs of love and special things

“I write the songs that make the young girls cry

“I write the songs, I write the songs.”

The answer may - no, willsurprise you.

These iconic lyrics are from the recording by Manhattanite Barry Manilow, a hit single that he didn’t write. Manilow also didn’t compose the second 45 of his to rocket to the top of the Billboard Hot 100 chart during the 1970s.

Early in his Arista Records career, the former jingle writer for commercials had balked about recording “Brandy,” a song by American singer/songwriter Scott English that had been a success in Britain.

After signing with Arista, Manilow had reluctantly done English’s tune as “Mandy.” A wise choice, as it became Barry’s first number one single.

Later, Arista’s president, music veteran Clive Davis, felt strongly that “I Write the Songs” also had success written all over it if only Manilow would record the tune.

Again, Manilow hesitated. He hadn’t written the work, and he felt that the lyrics sounded “egotistical.” But the rising star wasn’t so stub-

born that he didn’t listen to his business-savvy boss, and Manilow was soon on his way to releasing his second Arista disc to grab the top Billboard spot.

Well, just who did compose “I Write the Songs”?

Here we need to swing the spotlight to Southern California and the land of the Beach Boys. Born in 1942, Bruce Johnston, the adopted son of the owner of the Rexall Drug chain, had grown up in the wealthy West Los Angeles suburb of Bel Air. Always enamored of music, Johnston mastered keyboards and the bass guitar.

He went to UCLA and later worked with record producer Terry Melcher (Doris Day’s son) before joining the Beach Boys in 1965 as a replacement for leader Brian Wilson, the pop-music genius who had recently trashed his brain with psychedelic drugs.

In the mid-1970s, Johnston temporarily stepped away from the popular band to go solo with an album called “Going Public.” His LP fizzled commercially, but it did contain his original composition of “I Write the Songs.”

Under Johnson’s guidance, that track featured a quiet, lightly orchestrated offering that would lack the near-bombastic dynamics of Manilow’s million-selling version. Manilow’s rendition featured an introduction of a tinkling piano and the gradual build

to a dynamic conclusion, with Manilow’s rich voice soaring above a studio orchestra in full-throttle mode.

Many people have opined that Johnston’s ballad was a tribute to Brian Wilson. Not true, Johnston testifies, and he cites the opening lines:

“I’ve been alive forever

“And I wrote the very first song “I put the words and the melodies together

“I am music, and I write the songs.”

Had this song been about Brian?

Nope. The answer, which is hidden in plain sight, is that Johnston was talking about God. Later, Johnston even referred to his classic as a hymn.

Bibliography

Book: Bronson, Fred. “The Billboard Book of Number One Hits (Third Edition).” (P. 425) New York: Billboard Publications, Inc., 1992. Internet: Breihan, Tom. “The Number Ones: Barry Manilow’s ‘I Write the Songs.’” Aug. 20, 2019. stereogum.com. “Bruce Johnston: From ‘Pet Sounds’ to Pink Floyd and Having Time to ‘Smile.’” (No author listed) Nov. 15, 2011. rockabillynblues.blogspot.com. “I Write the Songs, Bruce Johnston” en.wikipedia.org. “I Write the Songs” by Barry Manilow. (No author or date listed) songfacts.com. By PhilipRomanoPhoto - Own work, CC BY 4.0, commons.wikimedia.org/w/ index.php?curid=140854561.

All puckered out

Valentine’s Day is special.

By DICK WOLFSIE

The average person spends 20,000 minutes in their lifetime kissing. Again, this is simply an average. Your smooching may vary depending on whether you attend a lot of Greek weddings or have more than 15 grandchildren.

I’m not an overly competitive person, but I do believe in keeping up with the Joneses, who, by the way, are our newlywed neighbors down the street. The Fettermans next door have been married 40 years, so I’m thinking those folks may represent a more realistic role model for me.

I assume I’ve been rolling along at an acceptable rate up until now, but why not increase my output so my obit can read: Exceeded the standard kissing time by 2,000 minutes. Even my harshest critics would be forced to concede that when it came to lips, I was successful at putting two and two together.

When Mary Ellen came home

the other night, I gave her the customary hello, but I realized that if I lingered a few seconds longer in the osculation and then multiplied that time by my predicted life span, I could increase my total production by 20%. Osculation, by the way, is the scientific name for kissing. Don’t use that word during romantic encounters. It’ll have a negative impact on your lifetime total.

After 30 years of marriage, my wife became instantly aware that I had breached the unwritten rule for time spent on the customary: “Hi, honey, I’m home from work” kiss.

“What was that all about?” she asked.

“Is something wrong?”

“Your kiss. There was this delay. You were loitering on my cheek. You do know it’s only Thursday.”

The question, of course, is how they ever came up with 20,000 minutes. I did a little math, and it looks like if your kissing career spans 75 years, you need to kiss about 47.4 seconds a day to reach this goal. I’m a happily married guy, but there are a couple of days a week that, to reach this number, I would have to count my relationship with the dog (we’re just best friends, I assure you)

Freeze your credit

to fight fraud

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

The ease of communicating in cyberspace not only benefits you but is a boon to those who spend every minute their waking minutes devising methods to burglarize your life.

and my new Big Bertha driver, which gets a little extra lovin’ whenever I don’t hit a ball out of bounds.

Dentyne has a Facebook page where customers put their kissers right online, revealing truelife stories about kissing. About 12,000 individuals are seeking advice on how to inform loved ones about their halitosis. Actually, it’s only 11,258 people. The rest are beagles, cocker spaniels, St. Bernards and the like, put off by humans who insist on going nose to snoot without first freshening their breath.

The Facebook site also notes: “You kiss 20,000 minutes in your lifetime. What about the other 40 million moments?” Huh? It’s bad enough I’m now obsessed with maintaining a respectable record in the puckering department, but apparently a slew of other situations exist where your breath should be pristine. There’s something to chew on.

In order for my wife and me to someday reach the national average, I’m really going to need her full cooperation. Last night, I told Mary Ellen how beautiful she is and how great dinner was. I think I have a chance of reaching that 20,000 mark - as long as kissing up counts.

They’re finding it just as easy to use your credit card, funds from your portfolio and get cash from your bank as you do.

It’s up to you to revert to some paranoia, like the times you kept your hands in your pocket when you walked into a

Istrange town and kept close to the street lights at night.

Some modern tools can help you foil the schemers and scammers after your finances. A credit freeze restricts access to your credit report without your permission. This bars access to identity thieves who would open new accounts in your name.

You contact each of the three major credit bureaus - Equifax, Experian and TransUnion - to initiate, lift or temporarily open a credit freeze.

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Ellis finds peace in creativity

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By LILLI DWYER Staff Writer

A house painter by day, Tim Ellis of Etna Green finds deep solace in creative expression by night.

Raised in Warsaw, Ellis graduated from Warsaw Community High School in 1986. He spent a few years in the army, then returned to his hometown. After a struggle with addiction, he got sober and has remained so for 35 years.

“I’m proud of who I am, but it’s been hard,” he said. “I went through a lot of loss.”

Starting at a young age, he sought a sense of stability through art.

He began learning guitar at 14 and still loves to play old blues songs. After a workplace accident, he became “maybe the best two-and-a-half-fingered guitar player there is,” he joked.

He later learned painting and pyrography, the art of burning words and images into wood.

During a difficult period, he put down all his artistic pursuits.

“I went through a divorce a couple years ago, and here I am in my late 50s and I’m like, ‘What am I going to do with my life?’” he said.

Then one day, while in his mother’s neck of the woods in Plymouth, he stopped by a local art gallery.

“They had a stained glass class for $35, and that’s where I built my first piece. ... I kind of fell in love with it,” he said.

Projects are made by cutting individual pieces out of stained glass, wrapping each piece with copper foil and soldering them together, a delicate and time-consuming process.

“One of the ladies I took lessons from, she said, ‘If you

like puzzles, you’ll like stained glass. If you don’t like puzzles, don’t even bother,’” said Ellis. “And she’s right, it really is about that, but you make your own pieces.”

Ellis describes himself as “open to just about anything” when it comes to art and is very interested in experimenting with different forms and mediums.

He comes from a line of creative people - including his mother, Pam Dickson, who performed as one half of the clown ministry duo, Merkie and Missfit. At 74, she is still painting faces.

“I kind of look at everything in an artistic sort of way, or try to. I try to see beauty and art in everything, even if it’s a stick on the side of the road. ... I’ll pick them up and take them home,” he said.

Rocks he finds make their way into his rock tumbler, he has his eye on making glass beads, and fellow Warsaw artist The Birdhouse Magician has Continued on page 7

woodburning pieces. The art form is also known as pyrography.

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Peering into the past: leaders who made a difference

By TOM MORROW

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There are a handful of presidents students of history and civics should get to know in understanding what made America the dominant global nation it is today.

Most folks under 40 take for granted America’s position in the world. It was no accident how we got here and understanding how our republic works.

While President Donald Trump was an easy target for his bombastic style, his presidential personality wasn’t much different from that of President Theodore “Teddy” Roosevelt, who found himself in the Oval Office early in the 20th century due to

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him interested in making his own miniature fantasy structures.

“I have a small smelter, and I want to do some smelting next year. That was another class I took over in Fort Wayne, was how to cast aluminum,” he mentioned.

The peace he finds through art is what compels him to keep creating and trying new things.

“When I’m right there actu-

the assassination of President William McKinley.

Republican Roosevelt became known as “T.R.” and believed in a strong Navy. He had the U.S. Navy’s pre-World War I battleships of the Great White Fleet circle the globe showing off our growing power. It was part of his Big Stick policy, as in “walk softly but carry a big stick.”

Teddy oversaw the momentous building of the Panama Canal, which linked the Atlantic Ocean to the Pacific and cut in half the time needed to go from ocean to ocean by not having to travel around the southern tip of South America.

The Republicans originally ran T.R. for vice president in 1900 to get rid of him. As governor of New York, he had been an irritat-

ally going on it, whether it’s doing a piece of stained glass, or in the middle of a guitar solo, or just looking at beautiful nature - I have this peace of mind that I can’t seem to get any other way,” he said. “If I can just get a few minutes of peace a day, it keeps me pretty solid.”

When not working or crafting, Ellis enjoys taking long, contemplative walks and spending time with his daughter, Piper.

ing maverick to old-guard politicians. Their plan backfired when McKinley was assassinated. As president, T.R. created havoc in both government and business with a vast variety of reforms.

Herbert Hoover was a popular post-World War I humanitarian, but he’s best remembered for being an ineffective president and gets the brunt of the blame for the Great Depression of the 1930s.

While he failed as a president, Hoover’s greatest accomplishment was being that of humanitarian. After World War I, he had organized the feeding of Europe and followed up after World War II when President Harry Truman asked him to organize the feeding of millions of Europeans left homeless and starving after that war.

Franklin D. Roosevelt has been ranked by many among America’s greatest presidents. He served more than 12 years, guiding the nation through the dark years of the 1930s Depression and World War II, but his vice president became one of the nation’s leading leaders.

Harry Truman became known among detractors as “His Accidency” when he moved into the Oval Office after Roosevelt died a few weeks into his fourth term. The Democrat from Missouri became the only high-school graduate of the century to become president.

Ironically, FDR had never told Vice-President Truman about the development of the atom bomb. Truman was informed about the highly-secret $2 billion World War II project after assuming office. He made the historic decision to drop the two bombs on Japan that ended the war and launched the nuclear age. It was one of the most important decisions any head of state ever made.

An estimated half-million U.S. troops and as many as 1.5 million Japanese were saved from death that, if the war continued, would have resulted in assaulting the mainland of Japan.

Presidents Dwight D. Eisenhower and John F. Kennedy led us through the turbulent 1950s and into the 1960s.

Kennedy and his vice president, Lyndon Johnson, changed America with their quest for meaningful civil rights.

President Ronald Reagan was one of the nation’s most charismatic chief executives. He was staunchly anti-communist and dedicated himself to defeating the Soviet Union and end the Cold War that began some four decades before his presidency. His building up the U.S. military resulted in out-spending the Soviets, which caused their collapse. And history recalls his challenge to Russian leaders to tear down the Berlin Wall that was a concrete symbol of the rift between East and West.

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Scheerer McCulloch: Your trusted partner in auction, real estate and moving: Introducing Relocation Services

Several years ago, some friends whom had Moving can be a stressful experience for a wide range of people, not just seniors. Whether you’re downsizing, relocating for work, or handling life changes such as divorce or inheritance, the process can feel overwhelming. A few years ago, I spoke with friends who had recently moved from their family home to a retirement community. They shared how the coordination, delays, and stress made the experience challenging. This inspired me to expand our services beyond seniors to help anyone facing a move.

With a background in real estate, auctions, and appraisals, I recognized how our comprehensive services could ease the burden. Today, my team offers professional moving, real estate brokerage, antique and home appraisals,

auctioneering, floor planning, climate-controlled storage, and both online and onsite auctions. We also provide complete property clean-up, selling items, and removing non-salable belongings. Our goal is to make every move seamless, stress-free, and efficient.

We serve clients across surrounding counties and beyond, ensuring everyone has access to reliable, compassionate support during their transition. Contact us today for a free consultation and experience a smoother move. Call (260) 441-8636. We’re here to help.

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Hearing Healthcare

Q: Why Aren’t My Hearing Aids Working?

A:

I’m glad you asked! Too often when hearing aids aren’t living up to expectations, they get left in a drawer instead of being brought in for what is usually an easy fix. Almost always, it’s as simple as changing the dome and filter.

As we age, our hearing changes and nobody’s gets better. It’s human nature to blame the hearing aids. It could be 6 months or 3 years, but at some point, as you lose more hearing, the devices need to be reprogrammed to account for your ongoing loss. Called

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a test and refit, we can have you in and out in 30 minutes and you’ll think you have new hearing aids. I can’t count the number of times when a patient comes in ready to buy new hearing aids but is thrilled to learn just a good cleaning and a test and refit was all it took for them to be hearing great again. If your provider seems more interested in selling you hearing aids than making yours sound great, then call us.

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My Medicare Matters

A. Choosing a Medicare plan can be challenging, and sometimes a plan does not meet your needs once you begin using it. If you are currently enrolled in an Advantage plan, you do have an opportunity to make a change. The Medicare Advantage Open Enrollment Period runs from January 1 through March 31 each year. During this time, you may switch from one Advantage plan to another or return to Original Medicare and enroll in a Part D drug plan. Only one change is allowed during this period, and your new coverage will begin on the

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first day of the following month. If you would like help reviewing your options, the Indiana State Health Insurance Program (SHIP) offers free, unbiased counseling to Medicare beneficiaries. Trained SHIP counselors at REAL Services are available to explain your choices and help you make an informed decision. To schedule a SHIP appointment or get more information, call REAL Services at (574) 233-8205.

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Financial Services

Q. How can financial planning benefit me?

A. A new year brings a fresh start – and with it, new chances to get your finances in order. Managing money thoughtfully can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be.

With Everence® financial planning services, you can identify your goals and create a road map that helps you move through life with confidence. Working with a financial planner offers valuable benefits, including:

1. A partner in decision-making Financial stress often comes from feeling alone. Financial planners provide guidance for complex situations, helping relieve fear and anxiety. We often see clients relax after realizing they have a partner and a plan.

2. Support in taking the next step

A financial planner helps you move from intention to action. While many people know what they should do, planners provide accountability and implementation support.

Getting started is often the hardest part. But taking that first step can bring relief and help you build confidence in your financial future. Call us at 574-537-8773 to connect with an Everence financial planner today.

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February’s episodes include Becky and Terry Cuzzorea with Seniors Helping Seniors for those seeking the opportunity to help others. Crystal Hallwood from the nutrition arm of Real Services and Tracey Ford from Wawasee-Syracuse Trails will feature episodes this month.

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and provide them with information about available services, organizations, and events. Sponsored by Aging Connections of Michiana, Senior Life Newspapers, and Goshen Home Medical, Senior Talk Michiana is tailored for seniors and offers valuable information on services and organizations in Michiana. Listeners can access the podcast through free subscriptions available on Spotify and www.seniortalkmichiana. org. Episodes are also available at www. thomaslrose.com/senior-talk.

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Hospice Care

Q: Can I Stay in My Home – And Should I?

A: Hospice offers four levels of care, two of which happen at home. The four levels are:

• Routine Home Care. The most common level of hospice care, this includes nursing and home health aide services.

• Continuous Home Care. This is when a patient needs continuous nursing care during a time of crisis.

• General Inpatient Care. Shortterm care during times when pain and symptoms can’t be managed without a hospital setting.

• Respite Care. Short-term care in a facility during times when the patient’s caregiver needs a break in caregiving

You might decide you or your loved one wishes to stay where friends and family can visit freely. In fact, most people choose this option. A relative

or friend usually serves as the primary caregiver.

You may also get care at hospice centers, hospitals, nursing homes, and other long-term care places.

You might want to think about these questions when deciding whether to stay at home:

• Just how ill is the person needing care and how does he/she feel?

• Can any pain be managed away from a hospital or nursing home?

• Is the main caregiver physically and emotionally able to provide what’s needed from home?

• If you are a caregiver and work, can you afford to cut back on your hours at work or leave your job?

• Will you be able to get the extra supplies you might need, such as a bedside commode or a wheelchair?

Your decision is personal, and each situation is different. But how you answer questions such as these will help you decide where to go.

Elder Law

Q. What’s the difference between an elder law

attorney and an estate planning attorney?

A. Estate planning and elder law often overlap, which leads to confusion, but estate planning primarily focuses on events occurring at death, while elder law focuses on events occurring during life.

The goal for an estate plan is an orderly and efficient transfer of your assets, carrying out and honoring your wishes. Planning typically includes wills, revocable living trusts, powers of attorney, advance healthcare directives, and beneficiary designations. Elder law, on the other hand, goes further to encompass planning for long-term care, asset preservation, spousal protection, guardianships, and Medicaid benefits.

A comprehensive legal plan often

includes estate planning as a starting point, with elder law consideration and discussion gradually taking on a greater importance as you age. Addressing both estate and elder law planning allows you to maximize the amount of assets protected, maintain autonomy, and manage care costs effectively during your life, while also ensuring an efficient and orderly transfer of your assets at death.

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Jeff Penney stays busy with coaching and computer lab

By ANIKA YODER Feature Writer

Staying active during the winter months can be challenging with cold weather and travel being difficult on icy roads. For Jeff Penney, 67, coaching elementary school basketball is a way to keep active and help teach kids about the basics of the sport. A computer lab teacher at Osolo Elementary School in Elkhart, Penney works with students to help develop computer skills to prepare them for middle school and high school.

Basketball is not the only sport Penney coaches. With a background in college lacrosse, Penney ended up coaching several sports for Elkhart Community Schools. High school boys’ lacrosse, elementary boys’ soccer and girls’ volleyball are also part of the athletic work Penny manages.

“When I had kids that age, they were basketball, and soccer players, and I had played lacrosse most of my life,” Penney said. “So I decided — well, I didn’t decide. They needed coaches, so I started coaching them, and basketball, and soccer are very similar to lacrosse. And it just kind of was an easy fit to do that. And, you know, I like doing it.”

Working with players that are not just team members but students provides a different coaching experience according to Penney. His teaching experience can help inform coaching, Penney said. And with elementary aged students learning the basics of the sport, teaching is involved in more of the coaching element. “Well, I think that that way it’s actually kind of better for building a relationship with the kids,” Penney said. “Obviously, you take some teaching techniques and use that when you’re coaching. And you use some coaching techniques when making sure that they’re focused and on task rather than messing around.”

For Penney, working with kids in an academic as well as a coaching capacity provides a unique amount of preparation. From preparing computer lab lessons for kindergarten through fifth grade and then determining what to focus on for practices and getting ready for games, Penney said a unique part of the job is the prep and background required for success.

“The preparation that you have to do overall for all of this, here’s a lot of background work done before you actually walk out on the corridor, walk

out on the field, and execute all that stuff. So that’s really the thing you don’t think about, the amount of time that is spent doing all that stuff, and thinking about even lineups. ‘What’s their strength? what’s their weakness? How do I figure this out?’ And find the best fit, you know?”

Teaching as an aspect of coaching is a valuable part of the job according to Penney. Students being able to grasp the elements of the game and working with each other to understand technique is what Penney said is important for the elementary school students where competition is not necessarily the most significant part of the learning curve. Making sure students are there to learn the sport and play an equal amount in the game is the focus for the fourth and fifth graders Penney works with.

“I really like the teaching part, obviously, as a teacher. I like going through the fundamentals and stuff. I think that’s a lot of fun. And even still at high school, because I’ve played so much, I can impart some things that these kids probably don’t know about, a nuance to help them get better. So that’s the part I really like about it.”

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Aging is your superpower!

By SHARON DUTKOWSKI School of Behavioral Sciences Grace College

Forget stereotypes, aging is not a decline; it is an evolution. It’s the process of turning decades of experience into a unique kind of superpower. The psychology of aging is a fancy term for how our mind, body, relationships and life experiences influence how we age, and this is what creates your superpower. As we go through life, we make decisions along the way that have impacted our life. Embrace your superpower! Traditionally people do not think about aging in a positive

way, but Baby Boomers and Generation X are changing that way of thinking. This stage of life has the potential to be rewarding, fruitful, meaningful and even enjoyable if you allow it to be. It may look different than how you have lived your life previously but being open to the possibilities is the key. I am a Generation X’er and I have been watching our generation and the boomers rewrite what aging looks like. Living with a purpose seems to be the way of thinking. This creates phrases like brain health, life in community, exploring interests, and lifelong learning. Aging is a great example of

wisdom and resiliency. Resiliency is navigating areas of struggle with confidence based on our previous experiences and wisdom. An example of this is if you think about a muscle — it strengthens through specific habits and mindsets — enabling us to thrive in tough circumstances.

If you are over 50 years old, you’ve learned to grow and adapt in a world that looks nothing like it did when we were all teenagers. For many of us, electronics were new when we were teenagers or they did not exist at all. Do you remember the phone on the wall? Or party lines, when we shared the phone with our neighbors?

Growing up in my house there was one phone in the kitchen, and the cord was very short so my parents (and my five siblings) could hear the entire conversation. Like many people, my dad, who is 86 years old, like many of you had a crank phone with a very short cord and multiple lines in his early years of life. Now in the

year 2026 he just got an iPhone 17 and is using it to Facetime and text his six children. He is still navigating how to use all the bells and whistles, but through his resilience he takes it one step at a time.

I would call this cognitive flexibility, when your brain is saying “I have survived before, I will again” it is our natural way to rebound.

Over the next several months we will explore these topics and more. The goal is to learn more about ourselves and how aging will be your superpower. We will look at ways to gain our wisdom and resiliency through our life experiences to grow each day and each year.

Sharon Dutkowski is a full-time professor at Grace College. Some of the courses she teaches are Human Development through the LifeSpan; Grief and Loss; Abnormal Psychology; Psychologoy of Aging and Socal Problems. She has over 25 years experience working in nonprofit organizations, most recently at the Salvation Army Kroc Center in South Bend as director of operations.

and collectible items. The firm’s experienced team focuses on helping clients maximize value through professional and transparent auction processes. The company recently auctioned several notable collectibles, including a new, unopened Legoland Castle System: King’s Mountain Fortress; a new, unopened Lego System Wolfpack Tower; and a vintage Lego Black Seas Barracuda pirate ship, No. 6285. The pirate ship was assembled and may be incomplete, a factor that added interest for collectors. The items drew strong attention from enthusiasts, reflecting continued demand for well-maintained and hard-to-find collectibles.

Scheerer McCulloch offers services beyond auction sales, including expert appraisals, targeted marketing and secure handling of items throughout the auction process. The company works with individual collectors, estate executors and business owners, tailoring services to each client’s needs. Scheerer McCulloch emphasizes integrity and results, aiming to connect valuable items with interested buyers. Recent auctions highlight the firm’s ability to attract competitive bidding for collectible assets.

For more information about auction services or upcoming auctions, contact Scheerer McCulloch Auctioneers at (260) 441-8636.

LEARNING ABOUT CYBERSECURITY — Seniors had an opportunity to learn more about cybersecurity during Lunch & Learn Series sponsored by the Elkhart County Council on Aging and the Goshen Public Library. Grace Thomas, development & community engagement manager of the Goshen Public Library presented. The Lunch & Learn series meets on the second Wednesday of the month for various activities. Photo provided by the Elkhart County Council on Aging.

Home work is working

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Working at home enhances opportunities for seniors who aren’t ready to curl up on a couch and watch television for the rest of their days.

Adding to the possible job openings for oldsters is the fact employers are having problems finding workers of all sorts, ranging from dish washers to financial consultants.

Human-resource pros are finding out that salt-and-pepper hair can be the sign of a seasoned worker with such unseen benefits as leadership, problem-solving and teamwork that complement the skills necessary for the job at hand.

And they probably enjoy working from home, a phenomenon that has risen in prominence and acceptance.

Changes are racing through the job scene of late. While the supply of younger workers is diminishing because of lagging birth rate, more older workers

are staying on their jobs longer to not only to solidify their retirement finances but to stay busy and active.

Such traditional sectors as teaching and nursing that required person-to-person contact are now being handled in cyberspace, adding to the opportunities for these professionals to offer their services from home.

Workers who have become accustomed to years of reporting for work to join a team of colleagues who provide reciprocal personal and professional support may tremble a bit when faced with the concept of toiling all by themselves in a corner of the house.

The self-employed have long recognized the advantages of working from home.

First of all is not having to dress for the office. Comfort trumps all else. And you don’t have to cope with crammed traffic to get to and from your desk.

You can sleep in if you wish

and get your work done after lunch or awaken early to get things done and then enjoy the rest of the day - have coffee with friends, visit the grandkids, bicycle through the park.

Depending on your situation, you can work a four-day week and have long weekends every week.

You do have to be your own boss.

Set a schedule, don’t miss deadlines, and keep your eyes on the goals you and your employer establish. If you’re a procrastinator and need someone to look over your shoulder, working on your own may not be for you.

If you can self-start and finish you duties and chores on time, the working world is opening up as employers find home-workers are just as productive as office-bound staff and there’s no need to provide expensive high-rent office space to provide their service or sell their product.

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Schemers and scammers always in season

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

A Social Security scam linked to tax time can reach you any time of year via e-mail, telephone or the postal service.

This is not, repeat - noteven remotely connected to the Social Security Administration.

The schemers usually offer to file a refund claim with the

The thieves offer refunds of Social Security taxes you’ve paid over the years, an attractive lure during the economic slough in which everyone has been wallowing.

Internal Revenue Service in return for a percentage of the refund and an up-front fee of $100 or thereabouts for doing the paper work.

The only sure thing that will happen is that you lose whatever money you send to these crooks.

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It’s not too late to fight the flu.

This flu season has been especially active, and older adults face a higher risk of serious complications such as pneumonia, dehydration, and hospitalization. As we age, our immune systems respond more slowly, making it harder to fight infections.

The good news: it’s not too late to get a flu vaccine. While the flu shot may not always prevent illness entirely, it can make symptoms much less severe and greatly reduce the risk of serious outcomes.

Learn more by visiting realservices.org/services/a2aa/vaccines/

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A MATTER OF BALANCE Free Fall-Prevention Workshop for Adults 60+

Concerned about falling? This award-winning program helps older adults build confidence, improve balance, and stay active. Learn practical tips to reduce fall risks and move with ease. Mondays | Feb. 23 - Apr. 13 2026 10:00 AM -12:00 PM | Mishawaka Library

Space is limited for this FREE program. Please register by calling (574) 284-7132 or scan the QR Code

Community & Conversations

A New Monthly Gathering

Come Hungry. Leave Connected.

Portage Township and REAL Services invite you to the launch of Community & Conversations, a new monthly evening event centered on food, connection, and community.

Join neighbors, families, and local leaders for a free meal and relaxed conversation in a welcoming, informal setting. No speeches—just good food, friendly faces, and meaningful connection, especially during the winter months.

Thursday | February 12, 2026 | 4:00 PM - 6:00 PM Portage Commons Senior Enrichment Center

Held the 2nd Thursday of each month

FREE and open to all! Donations accepted.

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January Highlights at Portage Commons

Tues. Feb 4 | 10:00 AM | Trivia Tuesdays

Put your thinking cap on and enjoy friendly competition, laughter, and lively conversation.

Wed. Feb. 5 & Wed. Feb. 19 | 2:00 PM | Bingo with Laurie Brown

A Portage Commons favorite! Join us for classic bingo fun, prizes, and social connection.

Tue. Feb. 10 & Tue. Feb. 24 | 10:00 AM | Joyful Journey: Brain Strengthening

Engaging activities designed to support memory, focus, and overall cognitive wellness.

Tue. Feb. 11 | 11:00 AM | REAL Talks: Heart Health

In recognition of Heart Health Month, learn practical tips for caring for your heart and staying active.

Thu. Feb. 19 | 1:00 PM | Let’s Talk About It: Heart Health

An informative and interactive discussion focused on heart health and healthy aging.

Fri. Feb. 6 | 12:30 PM | Friday Flick: Dovey’s Promise

Settle in for a meaningful film and a relaxing winter afternoon with friends.

Mon. Feb. 23 | 1:00 PM | Intro to Watercolors

Ready, set, paint! Explore beginner-friendly watercolor techniques and unleash your creativity.

Wed. Feb. 26 | 12:30 PM | Virtual Vacation

Travel the world without leaving Portage Commons during this guided global experience.

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Faith Jesus walks with Rich Rhodes through the storms of life

By LAURIE LECHLITNER Staff Writer

“When I’m ministering to the men in jail, I always tell them that we’re either going into a storm, (are) in a storm, or walking out of the storm,” said Rich Rhodes, Milford. “Jesus not only died to save us, but he also walks with us through the storms. He is my healer. Jesus not only healed me once, but twice, of stagethree cancer.”

Rhodes grew up at Milford First Brethren Church. “My mother was in charge of junior church and was instrumental in my coming to faith in Jesus Christ. When I was 13, we had a revival meeting at the church. I remember a man coming to minister to the children who brought a squirrel. When he stretched out his arms to signify the cross, the squirrel ran up and down his arms. It got our attention. When the invitation came to receive Jesus as my personal Savior, Mom asked me if I wanted her to walk down the aisle with me. I said yes and we both made our way to the altar.”

Rhodes, affectionately known as Mr. Rich, followed in his mother’s footsteps. He was involved in children’s ministry at Nappanee Missionary Church, leading singing for 18 years. “Little kids are so authentic. They say anything that comes to mind. They’re also very open

to the Gospel. Adults often make it too complicated. If we tell kids Jesus is coming back, they’ll immediately start looking for Him. The Word of God says it and they believe it. The Kingdom of God belongs to little children and adults with childlike faith.”

Rhodes’ bout with cancer started last February. “After breakfast, I started getting a severe pain in my right lower abdomen. I also experienced dry heaves. It was a stormy, icy day and I didn’t want my kids out in it. So, I drove myself to Memorial Hospital, South Bend. The scans showed a tumor the size of a softball.”

He was transferred to I.U. University Hospital in Indianapolis. “Twelve of my prayers were answered, the greatest being that I was taken down by my coworkers, the ambulance transporters I had trained on the job.”

After a three-hour surgery, the hospital staff found a tumor the size of a football that was removed along with his right kidney. They also burned his liver where another tumor touched it. “The scan showed that I was cancer free after the operation.”

However, another storm was on the horizon. “The cancer showed up in a scan again in August. Again, I prayed and my family and friends prayed. They gave me a DNA blood test and compared it to a specialized blood test, a new proce-

center, and Thea. His prayer is for both of them to love the Lord and follow Him all their lives. He is so thankful for his answered prayers and healing from Jesus so he can spend more time with his family and friends.

dure. It came back cancer free. The Lord again healed me.” Sickness is not the only storm Rhodes has walked through. He began his jail ministry after losing his 26-yearold son Gabe in 2022. “I talk

to the inmates about the love of Jesus. My son, Gabe, made some poor decisions in life, but he knew Jesus and showed it by loving his fellow inmates. Many of those I minister to in jail remember him.”

The loves of his life are his two grandchildren, Thea, 6 and Maverick, 2. “One of my life’s verses comes from Romans 8:28. God does work all things together for good to them who love Him.”

Let me tell you something

By KJ MAPES CEO REAL Services

February is Black History Month, a time set aside to reflect on the people and stories that have shaped our nation. As I’ve grown older, I’ve come to see it not only as a moment to look back, but as an invitation to listen - to voices shaped by experiences different from my own.

I didn’t grow up in an environment rich with diversity. As an adult, I’ve had to learn the value of different perspectives,

of giving space, of listening, and of recognizing that some of the most important lessons come not from books, but from people willing to share their lived experience.

For me, one of those teachers was a woman named Dorothy Height - not the famous civil rights activist, but an advocate in her own right.

Dorothy served on the board of an organization I led, and she was a powerhouse. She introduced me to segments of my community I didn’t know and held space for me in rooms that were not due me - rooms where trust had to be earned and where listening mattered far more than speaking, especially as a younger white woman.

She was one of the most elegant and well-spoken black women I had ever met. Dorothy carried herself with strength, pride in purpose, and a quiet contentment rooted in her principles. She had lived through moments in history, including the Civil Rights Movement, and she had also experienced deep personal loss. She lived with

lupus for more than 20 years and, even then, created a lupus awareness initiative in my hometown - turning personal struggle into service.

When Dorothy said, “Let me tell you something,” you stopped talking and listened. Those words were never casual. While planning Senior Power Day at the Statehouse, she looked at me and said, “Let me tell you something - you need two buses.” I paused. We had never taken more than 10 people before, certainly never two, full-size charter buses. She didn’t pause. I wasn’t sure. She was. And she filled them.

Dorothy understood people. She knew how to bring them together, how to inspire participation, and how to turn concern into action. That kind of leadership doesn’t come from position; it comes from trust, credibility, and years of showing up.

That is the long view of aging.

Many black older adults are not simply students of history; they are living history. Their lives reflect change that was often slow, difficult, and never guaranteed. Aging, in this context, is not just about time passing. It is about memory, endurance, and the steady work of carrying truth forward.

Dorothy shaped the way I understand history - not as something finished or distant, but as something carried by people still among us. Black History Month reminds us that these stories are not confined to textbooks or anniversaries; they live in people, and our responsibility is to listen while we still can.

Fighting adds fear to flying phobia

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

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It’s bad enough to know that eight out of 10 people in the jetliner cabin has some version of flight phobia, but the added strain of airport searching and

air-fare and luggage pricing and fees for a pillow and blanket has upgraded the number of unruly, impolite, rude and downright ornery passengers on your flight.

Piling on the stress of sitting in the middle seat are seat-

mates with cute little pets and oversize bags packed under foot.

And almost every air-travel trip recap and recollection is dominated by complaints rather than contentment.

• “The guy in front of me who

puts his seat all the way back so I can’t even move my knees.”

• “When I get an aisle seat, everybody - even the flight attendant - bumps me when they go up and down the aisle.”

• “The blind on the window seat rarely works - it either

Retiring abroad requires extra steps

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Some folks look forward to retiring to their lake shore cottage after resigning from the labor force. Others plan on moving closer to the grandkids when they sell the house as soon as they retire.

And there are those who dream of sipping cooling refreshments by a tropical beach or strolling into the village nestled into a hillside just below their Alpine villa.

While their dreams are more exotic than most soon-to-beretirees, their planning is a bit more involved because of the financial arrangements and conditions they face.

The costs of everything probably will change after they leave home. Appliances, utilities, groceries, health care, automobile maintenance and everything else will be paid for in a foreign currency.

It’ll take a while for your brain to quickly translate and compare the local price for coffee or a cab to what it was back home. You may find dayto-day living is cheaper, which is probably one of the reason you chose to move in the first place - climate and cost.

Before you move anywhere, you should visit and spend some time there. Not long ago, a move within this country served as a cautionary tale to anyone retiring to a new locale.

The individual sold their house and belongings in southern California and re-located in Oregon “because everything looked so green all the time.”

Less than a year later, they returned to their California home town “because it rains up there all the time.” They had never set foot in Oregon before ripping out all their California roots.

Before tumbling holus-bolus into a Caribbean cabana, take a few trips there for a couple of weeks at time at different times of the year to find out if the climate is what you’ve dreamed it is.

You might even establish a financial presence to make your transition easier. Open a bank

account and use your credit cards to make purchases.

Get referrals for and set up relationships with an attorney, loan officer, insurance salesperson and real estate agent. You’ll need medical services so check out how medical insurance works there. Make an appointment with a doctor you plan to use and visit a local clinic to make a list of services it provides.

Go shopping in the locale so you’ll know where to go for the goods and services you’ll need when you live there.

Will language be a problem and will your television set, computer and cell phone work there?

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Mediterranean diet a way of life

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

The tongue-and-tummypleasing Mediterranean diet has climbed high on the list of ways to improve your heart health.

Visions of Italian pasta and pizza and Greek goodies dance through our minds when most of us consider our choices of Mediterranean menus.

But there are 22 countries in Europe, Asia and Africa encircling that sea, so just where does this diet originate? And what foods are we talking about?

While the term “Mediterranean diet” is rather loose, it

refers to meals rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, legumes and olive oil that are low in saturated fats and high in lean sources of protein, like fish. Red wine in moderation is a bonus inclusion.

The diets of Mediterranean countries differ in the amount of total fat, olive oil, type of meat and wine intake, milk vs. cheese, and fruits and vegetables, and the rates of coronary heart disease and cancer.

It’s generally accepted that the first scientific probe of this food regimen was launched shortly after World War II in Greece by the Rockefeller Foundation in an attempt to improve the popu-

lation’s health.

Researchers learned quickly that plant-based food made up almost 75% of the Greek diet. Archaeological evidence revealed that cereals and legumes were favored dietary items in the Middle East more than 10,000 years ago.

More recently, Arabic peoples introduced new foods into the European diet, bringing eggplant, rice and some spices from India.

The key elements of the Mediterranean diet - bread, olive oil and wine - were spread throughout continental Europe by monastic orders that migrated there to evangelize

those peoples. Bread, oil and wine were central elements of the Christian liturgy that was being spread throughout Europe.

The Mediterranean diet encompasses more than food. It also embraces a lifestyle that includes physical activity and gatherings of family and friends to enjoy such foods as garlic, olive oil and tomatoes that promote good health.

Think of life and living in Spain, Italy or Greece, and the music and menus in each of these countries. That will get you started on the Mediterranean diet.

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won’t stay up or stay down.”

• “The cool air blower blows right down my neck.”

Sound familiar.

Yet people keep flying, despite the fact that ticket prices are climbing at jet speed and airlines are shaving flights from their schedules so their planes will be crammed full.

It’s important to remember the majority of fellow passengers aboard your plane are emotionally brittle because of their flying phobias, which range from anxiety to claustrophobia to pure panic.

Almost 20% of the adult population cannot fly.

John Madden, legendary coach of the Oakland Raiders, never set foot in an airplane after his panic attack in 1979. He continued his sports-commentator career by traveling coast to coast in a motor home.

The fact that the U.S. National Safety Council Statistics has proved over and over that flying is much safer than traveling in traffic has not diminished the number of fearful flyers. An average of some 20,000 people die on the road in the U.S. in a six-month period. This is about the same total of all commercial air travel fatalities worldwide in 40 years.

While flying may be safe, it appears each flight has become less safe.

The internet is packed as tightly as a jet plane with videos of confrontations in airports and on airlines over who should get on first or get off first.

Noting a “disturbing increase in incidents where airline passengers have disrupted flights with threatening or violent behavior,” the Federal Aviation Administration adopted a zero-tolerance policy for those who “interfere with, physically assault, or threaten to physically assault aircraft crew or anyone else on an aircraft” and increased fines.

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Coffee recognized as worth the break

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Coffee breaks are being recognized as more than just a brief respite from work.

Caffeine can be good for you. Moderation matters in all corners of our lives but up to three cups a day can be healthy.

Critics warn that caffeine dehydrates your system, increases hypertension and the risk of heart attack, cuts down on your ability to sleep, is linked to gout attacks, rais-

Summertime heat can be dangerous

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

To put a twist on an ancient adage, if you can’t handle the heat, you might want to stay in the kitchen.

At least it’s probably air conditioned.

While monsoon rains, hurricanes, tornadoes and thunderstorms punctuate the heated hibernation season that stretches from Memorial Day to Labor Day, the elderly still find coping with triple-digit temperatures an unending battle.

While climate-conscious observers claim the planet is getting hotter, reports continue of infants and family pets dying of heat stroke after being left in parked cars.

As youngsters, most of us looked forward to the summer season to splash around in the

nearest pool, pond, lake, river or beach.

With age, we’ve come to make sure the air conditioner and television set work to get us through the high-temperature times.

Besides staying cool, it’s important to stay hydrated to avoid heat exhaustion and heat stroke.

Drink plenty of water and don’t wait until you’re thirsty before taking a drink.

Pay attention to the televised weather forecasts so you can arrange trips to the doctor, supermarket, church and anywhere else when the mercury is not at its peak.

The elderly can lose some of their ability to respond to temperature changes to protect themselves. Some diseases and medications can intensify the effects of hot weather.

Slowing your pace helps

protect yourself against heat. Don’t do anything fast or that requires sweat-and-strain efforts.

Exercise sessions - running, swimming, biking, tai chi, gym visits, aerobics -should be pared down and scheduled for the cooler times of day.

Watch for signs of heat exhaustion in yourself and those around you. They include a fast weak pulse, heavy sweating, fainting, nausea, vomiting and a cold, clammy skin.

Heat stroke indicators range from a rapid strong pulse to skin that is hot, red and dry or moist along with a body temperature that has climbed above 104 degrees. It might also include unconsciousness.

Any of these signs call for medical treatment immediately because they mean the heat has made you sick.

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es blood pressure, and brings on anxiety, heartburn and stomach problems.

While coffee fans admit much of this may be true, there’s a growing list of benefits for those who drink coffee.

Surprisingly, it’s been discovered that an eight-ounce cup of java contains more disease-fighting antioxidants than a regular serving of oranges or blueberries.

Coffee drinkers reportedly have a lower risk of such chronic conditions as diabetes and heart disease as well as less cognitive decline as they age.

Researchers have found that seniors who have as many as four cups of coffee a day cut in half their risk of heart disease compared with those who take in less caffeine.

Medical experts point out caffeine interacts with many

medications so go over your list of prescriptions and supplements with your primary care physician to make sure coffee is compatible.

Among the benefits being attributed to coffee is the ability to relieve a headache, as well as protecting the liver and offering defense against strokes and cancer of the mouth and throat.

Coffee drinkers who get agitated or jittery after too many cups of coffee have found that drinking decaf soothes the nerves, while providing the same benefits.

Cutting back on the milk and sugar also limits your calorie intake. If coffee straight doesn’t suit your taste, try adding such flavor enhancers as cinnamon that not only improve the taste but adds healthy benefits of their own.

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Take time out from sitting

By CECIL SCAGLIONE Mature Life Features

Whiling away the hours in a comfortable chair is the

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With one-to-one support from an agent, you can get clear, helpful answers to all your Medicare questions, big and small. You’ll learn why so many people choose Medicare Advantage, as well as which plans best meet your specific health, budget and medication needs. And you can enroll with confidence, knowing that 4 out of 5 members recommend UnitedHealthcare Medicare Advantage coverage.

image of leisurely living as we grow old. But it could be slowly killing us. Sitting for long periods can open the way for diabetes and heart disease and even bring on earlier death.

When you’re watching television, get up off the chair for two or three commercials every hour and walk around the room. A couple of minutes of activity every hour won’t make up for a good walk in the park or laps in the pool or a bike ride around the neighborhood, but it will lower the risks cited above.

You can also get some chores done while you’re up. Put the wet laundry into the dryer, empty the dishwasher, vacuum the living room.

While you’re up, you’ll probably find other things you can or need to do that’ll keep you active.

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Assisted Living With Studio And One-Bedroom Apartments, Meals, Housekeeping, Laundry, Daily Assistance, And Priority Access To Greencroft Goshen Healthcare.

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Assisted Living, Rehabilitation Unit, Alzheimer’s Unit, Skilled Licensed Nursing, Semi-Skilled Nursing or Intermediate Care, Therapies: SpeechOccupational-Respiratory-Physical, Long Term Care, Temporary Care, Private/Semi-Private Rooms, Pet Visitation Allowed, Pharmacy On Premises, Medicare and/or Medicaid

Hellenic Senior Living

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Hubbard Hill Retirement Community

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Offering Memory Care, Assisted & Independent Living Apartments and Skilled Services. We’ll meet you with the appropriate level of care wherever you are — whether you’re fully independent or looking for additional assistance. Call us.

Signature HealthCARE of Bremen

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Our Gated Community is a smaller, dedicated unit for comfort and safety for Alzheimer’s and Dementia Residents. We offer Enhanced Quality of Life Programming which includes cognitive strengths, life skills, daily movement, power of music, artistic expression, creativity and socialization.

The Waters of Wakarusa-Assisted

Living Facility

303 N. Washington Street, Wakarusa IN 46573 (574) 862-1918

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Independent/Assisted Living. Private studio/1bed/2bed apartments. Home-like family-oriented environment. Family-style dining. Daily activities. Transportation available. 24-hour care-givers. Pet friendly. Out-patient therapy available. Come for tour today.

Waterford Crossing (Healthcare)

1332 Waterford Crossing Circle, Goshen, IN 46526 (574) 534-3920 • www.trilogyhs.com

Rehabilitation Unit, Skilled Licensed Nursing, Semi-Skilled Nursing or Intermediate Care, Therapies: Speech-Occupational-RespiratoryPhysical, Long Term Care, Temporary Care, Private/Semi-Private Rooms, Pet Visitation Allowed, Pharmacy On Premises, Medicare and/or Medicaid

343 S. Nappanee Street, Elkhart, IN 46514 (574) 295-0096 • www.woodlandmanornursingandrehab.com

Rehabilitation Unit, Alzheimer’s Unit, Skilled Licensed Nursing, Semi-Skilled Nursing or Intermediate Care, Therapies: SpeechOccupational-Respiratory-Physical, Long Term Care, Temporary Care, Private/Semi-Private Rooms, Pet Visitation Allowed, Medicare and/or Medicaid

ADULT DAY CENTER

RIVERVIEW ADULT DAY HEALTH CENTER

2715 E. Jackson Blvd. Elkhart, IN 46516 (574) 293-6886

www.radhc.org

At our ADULT DAY HEALTH CENTER in ELKHART, we focus on creating meaningful, engaging days for seniors. With personalized care plans, enriching activities, and a friendly, professional team, we’re here to support caregivers and brighten lives!

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AGING CONNECTIONS

Serving Northern IN & Southwest MI www.agingconnections.org

Trusted Resource Directory: Visit our searchable website to find vetted professionals providing services in your area for aging resources, education, and information. For more details, check our Community Calendar for events and FREE educational meetings. Aging Connections is a 501(c)(3) Non-profit Organization.

REAL SERVICES, INC. 1151 South Michigan Street South Bend, IN 46601 Phone (574) 233-8205

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Helping seniors and caregivers access meals, transportation, in-home and aging-in-place services, senior programs, healthy aging, guardianship and other aging services.

ALZHEIMER’S & DEMENTIA SERVICES OF NORTHERN INDIANA, INC. (ALZNI) 111 Sunnybrook Ct. South Bend, IN 46637 (574) 232-4121

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Providing specialized education, support, and resources for caregivers and those affected by Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias including screenings, support groups and programming.

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GREENLEAF LIVING CENTER

1201 E. Beardsley Ave. Elkhart, IN 46514 (574) 206-0086

www.greenleafhs.com

“We treat our residents with the same love and dignity that we would expect for our own loved ones. Fulfi lling activities with our Daily Rhythms programming that stimulate the mind and offer socialization.”

MY MOTHER’S HOUSE, LLC 55665 County Road 14 Bristol, IN 46507 (574) 202-7091

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We provide a compassionate environment where your loved one will be treated like family in our private care home.

NORTH WOODS VILLAGE AT EDISON LAKES 1409 E. Day Road Mishawaka, IN 46545 (574) 267-1866

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Memory Care isn’t what we do, it’s ALL we do!

SIGNATURE HealthCARE OF BREMEN 316 Woodies Lane Bremen, IN 46506 (574) 546-3494

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Our Gated Community is a smaller, dedicated unit for comfort and safety for Alzheimer’s and Dementia Residents. We offer Enhanced Quality of Life Programming which includes cognitive strengths, life skills, daily movement, power of

VIVA SENIOR LIVING AT SOUTH BEND 955 N. Hickory Road Mishawaka, IN 46545 (574) 314-5369

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WATERFORD CROSSING 1212 Waterford Circle Goshen, IN 46526 (574) 537-0300

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Licensed Assisted Living, Alzheimer’s Unit, Memory Support Unit On Campus, Long Term Care, Temporary Care, Private/Semi-Private Rooms, Pet Visitation Allowed, Daily Activities

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FUNNY PHARM 1100 Chicago Avenue Goshen, IN 46528 (Chicago Avenue Entrance of The Old Bag Factory) (574) 971-8056

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Hosting some of the biggest names in clean comedy for year-round entertainment every Friday and Saturday. Every weekend, some of the funniest clean comedians and biggest household names in the biz are making their way to The Maple City. Reach out TODAY to see them! HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

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BRICKYARD ELKHART HEALTH CARE CENTER

1001 W. Hively Ave. Elkhart, IN 46517 (574) 294-7641

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MAJESTIC CARE OF GOSHEN

2400 W. College Avenue Goshen, IN 46526 (574) 533-0351

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COMFORT KEEPERS

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Providing Compassionate Senior Home Care & Home Assistance In Northern Indiana Region. Includes personal care, respite care, transitioning home care and more. Indiana Medicaid, VA Provider, long term insurance and private pay.

HOME INSTEAD

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VILLAGE CAREGIVING

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4711 Evans Avenue

Valparaiso, IN 46383

1417 N. Michigan Street Plymouth, IN 46563

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A 5 Star hospice. Dunes Hospice has the highest visit frequencies in the area for nurses, CNAs, Social Workers, and Spiritual Counselors. We serve with dignity, honor, and above all, compassion.

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Mishawaka, IN 46545 (574) 332-8320

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On the road to Hana

By FYLLIS HOCKMAN Mature Life Features

Just as the queasiness in my stomach from the continuous onslaught of curves and cutbacks along the narrow uphill road began to subside, we careened around another 180-degree hairpin bend.

The sight of the first of several quiet waterfalls sliding down sheltered creviced cleavages alongside the road managed to wash away most of my reservations.

We were on the road that winds its way along the northern coast of this Hawaiian island from the rustic village of Paia to Hana on its eastern tip. It’s only 52 miles long, but the series of twists,

turns, dips and dives can take up to three hours to negotiate. But vistas of lush greenery, ocean blues, rock, white water foaming up over the shores, and waterfalls bubbling over craggy cliffs make it a worthwhile adventure.

So is taking time to stop for a bit to sit beneath a banana tree enveloped by giant sixfoot-long leaves. And looking out at the wrinkled brownhued mountains lacerated with ridges created by 2 1/2 million years of rainfall.

A sign proclaiming “Narrow Winding Road Next 30 Miles” gets lost in the forest of sugar cane, and coconut trees, and pineapple fields. Hana Highway is certainly a misnomer considering it’s stretched over

600 curves and 56 one-lane bridges.

Nearby Kaumahina State Park combines a Garden-ofEden setting with the more practical appeal of restrooms and picnic tables. A stone-cut nature trail opens the way to a dip in a natural swimming pool framed by waterfall and rock.

If you’re a flora and fauna buff, a stop at the Ke’anae Arboretum is a must. It’s as close to a Hawaiian jungle as you can get, with a wealth of native trees, plants and flowers.

Pua’a Ka’a State Wayside Park is the next stop with a footpath that winds in and out along streams and overlooks. Overlapping paths

through multi-colored bushes lead to a consortium of pools and waterfalls. A swing on the Tarzan-like hanging vines overhead adds a dimension to the tropical swimming hole most backyard pools lack. At the rise of another double-U bend in the road is a small roadside stand proffering bananas, papayas, guavas, coconuts and pineapples. We watched the owner, machete in hand, traipse down a

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nearby path and return with bunches of bananas to meet the lunchtime demand.

Wainapanapa State Park temporarily transports you into an otherworldly excursion before entering the tranquil town of Hana. A steep-stepped path meanders beneath gnarled branches so thick with growth that an eerie darkness prevails even on a sunny day. Hidden within the rainforest vegetation are cavernous rock formations that envelop crisp freshwater pools connected by lava tunnels.

Light and color return with the approach to Hana. Large trees with red-blossom canopies, rainbow-lined sidewalks, and green-laden hillsides announce your arrival.

A visit to the Hasegawa General Store, immortalized in a 1964 song of the same name by Paul Weston, jolted me out of the tranquil reverie engendered by the town. The small shop, known for its awesome accumulation of every conceivable item, is so cluttered and cramped that it conflicted with the airy openness of the natural beauty all around.

Still, it is a worthwhile stop, if only to pick up some Dramamine - the store’s best-selling item - for the ride back.

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Tax pro can protect your income

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

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Since the only sure things in life are death and taxes, it’s never too early to prepare for either of them.

Preparing for your passage to the afterlife will be left for another discussion as we focus on how to get ready for your annual tussle with the taxman.

As the government focuses on adding thousands of staffers to track down tax dodgers and expanding its reach into more and more pockets, it becomes

TSA checkpoint self-check

By CECIL SCAGLIONE

Mature Life Features

Everyone worries about having everything they need to get through the Transportation Security Administration checkpoint at the airport so they’ll be able to get on the airplane flight they’ve booked to see the grandchildren, make it to their cruise ship’s departure port or back to their favorite village in Europe.

But what about making sure they have everything after they’ve been frisked and scanned at the TSA searching station.

As you reassemble your belongings, are your reading glasses still on the leash around your neck and your sunglasses perched above your forehead? Did you leave your belt behind again - the one you had to take off because it has a metal buckle? And where’s your passport?

While you’re not going to need your house and car keys until you get back, make sure you didn’t leave them back on the checkpoint.

While the TSA holds items for 30 days before disposing of them, there is no assurance anything you’ve forgotten there will be retrievable when you return home.

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more important to consider working with a tax-preparation professional if you don’t already have one. Since anytime is tax time, it’s also a good idea to review your relationship with our current tax pro.

Anyone can hang up a tax preparer shingle. Being schooled, trained and certified as an attorney or certified public accountant or business and economic teacher isn’t enough. Nor should you rely on your son or daughter to “take care of things” just because they’re younger and “have more know-

how about these things.”

You want someone who’s been in the tax-preparation business for some time and keeps up with the constantly changing tax laws.

If you’re shopping for someone to prepare your taxes, be wary of those that promise to get you larger refunds and tax breaks than anyone else.

You also should avoid those who base their fee on a percentage of your refund.

Make sure they provide you with a signed copy of your return and that they will be

around and qualified to work with you should questions arise several years later.

Preparing your tax return is much more complicated it you decide to become self-employed, whether you work from home or open an office somewhere. This is where a reliable accountant who prepares taxes is valuable to keep track of your income and expenses and tax laws that apply to your business.

They can help you maintain good records and keep copies of checks and receipts and contracts and agreements and all

other documents related to your finances.

The same applies if you own rental property.

You also will need professional help to seek protection from government raids on your investment portfolio.

There’s been a long-held belief that you can save money by doing your own taxes, but the increasingly-convoluted tax laws has led to a growing practice to hire a reliable tax-preparation professional to protect your money.

A voyage on the Intracoastal Waterway

By VICTOR BLOCK Guest Columnist

While taking a recent journey through several southeastern states, I knocked on an unmarked wood door, uttered a secret password and was admitted into a throwback Prohibition-era speakeasy in Savannah, Ga.

Later, I took a horse-drawn carriage ride through Beaufort, S.C., a picturesque town that has served as backdrop for more than 100 movies and TV shows.

I was traveling aboard the American Eagle, one of American Cruise Lines ships that ply U.S. waters. The voyage went from Florida’s Amelia Island to Charleston, S.C. via

the Intracoastal Waterway.

Along the way, the ship docked at some of the south’s most charming cities and towns, and the outings at each port appealed to many interests. For starters, I checked out the American Prohibition Museum in Savannah, where displays bring the “Roaring Twenties” back to life in a colorful way.

A beer truck is parked amid a mob of sign-carrying mannequin protesters. A soundtrack broadcasts evangelist Billy Sunday railing against “king alcohol.”

A portrait of August Anheuser Busch Sr., the brewing magnate, comes alive and engages in a debate with the picture of

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Diamond Tours

April 11-19,2026 - San Antonio, TX

May 17-23, 2026 - Cape Cod & Martha’s Vineyard

May 17-23, 2026 - Cape Cod & Martha’s Vineyard

May 18 - 23, 2026 - Branson show Extravaganza

May 18 - 23, 2026 - Branson show Extravaganza

June 8-13,2026 - Lancaster Show Trip

June 8-13,2026 - Lancaster Show Trip

July 23-29, 2026 - New York City & Statue of Liberty

July 23-29, 2026 - New York City & Statue of Liberty

August 31- September 4, 2026 - Mackinac Island

August 31- September 4, 2026 - Mackinac Island

September 12-19, 2026 - Montreal, Quebec City, Canada Capital

September 12-19, 2026 - Montreal, Quebec City, Canada Capital

October 1-12, 2026 - Grand Canyon, Las Vegas and Hoover Dam

October 1-12, 2026 - Grand Canyon, Las Vegas and Hoover Dam

November 7-15, 2026 - Amelia Island, St, Augustin, FL

November 7-15, 2026 - Amelia Island, St, Augustin, FL

November 30 - December 5, 2026 - Pigeon Forge & Smokey Mountains

November 30 - December 5, 2026 - Pigeon Forge & Smokey Mountains

February 10, 2026 - Hollywood Casino

March 10, 2026 - Grand Victoria Casino

March 10, 2026 - Grand Victoria Casino

March 21, 2026- Indy Flower & Patio Show

March 21, 2026- Indy Flower & Patio Show

April 2026 - Wine Tour

April 2026 - Wine Tour

May 2026 - Tulip Festival

May 2026 - Tulip Festival

May 2026 - Fort Wayne Zoo

May 2026 - Fort Wayne Zoo

June 2026 - Indy Zoo

June 2026 - Indy Zoo

June 2026 - Dayton Air Show

June 2026 - Dayton Air Show

July 3, 2026 - The Wilds

July 3, 2026 - The Wilds July 2026 - Peru Circus

July 2026 - Peru Circus

August 2026 - Chicago Air Show

August 2026 - Columbus Zoo

September 2026 - Fair Oaks Farms

September 2026 - Brookfield Zoo

September 2026 - Wine Tour

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a female member of the Temperence League hanging nearby. After viewing the exhibits, guests enter a nondescript door and are immersed in the realistic setting of a 1920s speakeasy.

Passengers who went ashore at Hilton Head Island, S. C. could visit alligators at a wildlife preserve or take a dolphin-watching cruise. In Brunswick, Ga., they could check out a 19th-century rice plantation or take a ride on a shrimping boat.

Beaufort (pronounced BYOO-fert), S. C. has a small-town atmosphere, streets lined by graceful antebellum homes and overhead canopies of Spanish moss-festooned oak trees. Hollywood’s love affair with the town began in 1914 when scenes for the film ”The Americans” were shot there. Viewing it all from a wagon pulled by a straw hat-wearing horse named Bandit added to the ambiance.

On the last day of the cruise, I took a tour of Charleston’s cobblestone streets and squares. Founded in 1670, the city’s architectural style is the unique “single house,” with a narrow, one-room-width side facing the street. That design was necessary during the Colonial era, when a wall enclosed the miniscule, 62acre town, and space was limited.

A long list of other tours also was available to passengers. In Charleston, they included a visit to the magnificent Magnolia Gardens and Plantation, founded in 1676, and Fort Sumter, where the first shots of the Civil War were fired.

During time between ports, passengers could choose from almost around-the-clock activities available on the ship. Lecturers described the next day’s shore excursions and delved into topics like the Music of the Civil War,

the Civil War at Sea and Early American Religion.

Fun and games included bingo, trivia and arts and crafts. A Veterans Appreciation Ceremony honored passengers who had served in the military, and those traveling on their own could attend a solo travelers meetup.

Evening entertainment was equally varied, including live music, a talented ventriloquist and an equally gifted Gullah woman. She described and demonstrated the unique culture, customs and cuisine of that African American ethnic group which is centered in the area.

Of course, cruises are known for their abundant food options. Fresh-baked cookies were served twice a day; nibbles and beverages were available 24/7 and a snack bar offered light breakfasts and lunches on the deck. The evening feast included a pre-dinner cocktail hour with more-than-ample hors d’oeuvres and ended in the white-tablecloth dining room. The menus often reflected the culture and tastes of the region through which we were traveling: crabcakes, barbecued pork chops and shrimp and grits.

American Cruise Lines’ small ships (90 to 180 passengers) are specifically designed to navigate this country’s waterways and coastlines. They’re known for offering spacious staterooms many

of which have floor-to-ceiling sliding glass doors that lead to an outside private balcony.

You may choose from dozens of itineraries and opt to travel in a modern river boat or classic paddle wheeler. The ships frequently skip touristy ports in favor of smaller, often overlooked destinations. For more information, visit americancruiselines.com or call (800) 814-6880.