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“Focus on Moms + Summer Weddings” ISSUE
From the executive editor
May 2021 | Vol. 12 No. 2
Happy May!
GLAM + STYLE Fashion: Mother’s Day Gift Ideas ............................................................ 6
COMMUNITY FOCUS She glows’ : Colleen Huddleson .............................................................. 8 He glows’ : Rick Schuiteman................................................................... 10 glo GIRL: Courtney Scoles....................................................................... 12
FEATURES On Her Nightstand: Irene Paxia ........................................................... Motherhood: Safe Sleeping for Baby ................................................. Feature Focus: Summer COVID Wedding Trends .................................................... Wedding Ring Trends ......................................................................... 5 Generations ......................................................................................... Finance: Say “I do” to Wedding Budgeting ......................................
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Spring is in full bloom this month, providing us with a great excuse to get outside and take in all the beautiful flowers, lush greeneries, and sprouting leaves on trees. Spring signifies renewal, not just for nature, but for our emotional, physical and spiritual health, as well. Once I see the first yellow daffodil come up at the park, I feel all the emotional weight from winter being lifted from me and a smile instantly appears on my face. I hope you are feeling that same sense of relief this month. For many, Mother’s Day is a day of love and celebration, but after the difficult year we’ve all endured, don’t forget that not everyone has a happy Mother’s Day. Reach out to friends who have lost a mother, are estranged from their mother, never met their mother, or to mothers who lost a child or the friend who may have always wished to be a mother but is not. Let’s always do what we can to lift each other up. Thank you for reading our magazine. We truly do appreciate your support. This issue is another joint publication, with HOME Living tucked inside the pages of glo. Like our partners and many of you, we are taking it month by month, and we are hopeful that things will bounce back in the months to come. Don’t forget to sign up for our new e-newsletter, The Glo(w) Down, which we launched in January. It provides additional information about our She Glows, He Glows and Glo Girl features, as well as a wrap up of our Favorite Things for the month and more!
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Colleen Huddleson is the executive director of the Division of Creative Arts at Saint Francis University, and has a passion for her work, her students, and bringing the community together. “I provide professional support to the program directors, faculty and staff in the Division of Creative Arts,” explained Huddleson. “I coordinate with other university departments and academic divisions in a variety of areas, and I also coordinate the work of the creative arts staff. I truly have the BEST JOB EVER! I have the privilege of working with a team of brilliant artists, musicians and dancers to inspire and support and build future generations of creative professionals.” Huddleson said the best part about her job is simple: the students. “They are brilliant and authentic and creative and motivated and devoted and inspiring. And, I get to work with an amazing team of faculty and staff! It’s unbelievable to me. The faculty and staff are the greatest asset of this institution and I have always felt honored to work with them.” Huddleson lives in Fort Wayne with her husband, Jason, and their two children, Arthur (7) and Vivien (4). “They are the coolest people I have ever met,” she said proudly. “I could fill your magazine with stories about being their mom. It is the most fulfilling part of my life. I can’t say enough about Jason. He is CRAZY talented, runs his own graphic design business and is an incredible dad and husband. I am the luckiest lady on earth.” In her spare time, Huddleson loves to cook and spend time in nature. She also has served on the board of ARCH (Architecture and Community Heritage) and is presently serving as Secretary of the Board for the Fort Wayne Ballet and as Chair of the Fort Wayne Historic Preservation Commission. Living in Fort Wayne is ideal for Huddleson and her family. “It is perfectly situated in the center of major cities and phenomenal natural resources. I love our house, the parks and the schools. I also appreciate the incredible support the community has for the arts.” a 8
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Rick Schuiteman is frequently asked why he would relocate to Fort Wayne from San Diego, where he lived for 37 years. His answer is simple… because of the Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo. Schuiteman is the new Executive Director and he could not be happier with his decision to accept the open position five months ago.
San Diego. The city was big but had a smalltown feel. Everyone, and I mean everyone, was so welcoming and friendly.
“A year ago, I would never have imaged moving my family to Fort Wayne and working at the Children’s Zoo, but now that we are here, we are thrilled. I hope to be a part of the zoo family for many years to come,” he said.
What an amazing zoo! The grounds were so well kept. The animal exhibits were so natural. The landscaping was beautiful. The families visiting the Zoo were happy and engaged. It was such a wonderful experience; I knew I wanted to be a part of it.
Tell our readers about your family. I have a beautiful family of five. My wife, a 5th Generation Californian, agreed to move to the Midwest to start a new adventure, which I am grateful for. My youngest son, Brady, is a freshman at Homestead High School. He is on the football team and is really enjoying his first few months here. My daughter, Katie, has also joined us in Fort Wayne and is attending 10
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online college. She works for a video production company out of San Diego. My oldest son, Matt, attends San Diego State University and is currently living in San Diego. Where did you work previously? I spent 34 years with SeaWorld. On April 1, 2020, I, along with 95% of SeaWorld Parks & Entertainment employees, was furloughed. What made you want to choose our zoo and our city? My wife and I visited Fort Wayne in late July to see the city and the zoo. Immediately we noticed a lifestyle pace that was different from
Is there anything else you would like to add? I would love to take a moment to thank the community of Fort Wayne and all of those who support our Zoo. The generosity is so overwhelming. It is meaningful to the team… and to the animals. We just could not do this without our supporters, so thank you! a
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At age 11, Courtney Scoles had to learn life’s hardest lesson, and now her goal is to help kids in similar situations. Courtney’s mother Jennifer Schenkel-Scoles passed away in 2013 after battling breast and brain cancer. There were lines of people at the funeral home to pay their respects to the woman who worked in the finance office at Glenbrook Dodge. Of course, her daughter Courtney and her three siblings were crushed, but she remembers her mom telling her that life is like stairsteps. There were always going to be those you tripped and fell on, but you always have to climb back up to get where you are going somehow. Soon after, Courtney received a mentor through Big Brothers Big Sisters and she started attending Erin’s House For Grieving Children. “I found that helping kids on those sort of paths is what I want to do,” she said. “I don’t know how to put it other than there is more to life than just losing people. That’s what I want to help kids understand. There’s a lot more than just the bad things that go on in life, and there is good that can come out of those bad things.” So, Courtney became a volunteer at Erin’s House, working with a group of 6- to 9-year-old kids for three years before committing to study psychology, cognitive neuroscience and counseling at the University of Saint Francis where she’s an 18-year-old freshman. When the pandemic presented challenges for many BBBS clients, she joined Jaren Harmon, Miranda Jackson and Jorie Rodenbeck in forming Learning Pods, a program that helps children continue their schoolwork at the agency. Courtney serves breakfast and lunch, helps with assignments and makes sure students attend their Zoom classes. “I’ve always had a goal that I wanted to work with kids (at BBBS),” she said. “Now, coming here and working hands-on with them, something clicked, and I know absolutely this is what I’m supposed to be doing. For me, coming here wasn’t about making money, it was about the impact I was making on people, and that’s always been the goal. I saw the impact my mom made on people and all she did was sit in an office. If I can do what she did to one person in my lifetime, that would be all right.” Mom would certainly be proud of her start. a 12
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On Her Nightstand By Wendy Stein
Irene Paxia grew up in Venice, Italy. She is the Chief Executive Officer at Amani Family Services, and we featured her in our She Glows column in February 2020. She has a master’s degree (Laurea) from the University of Bologna, Italy, in International relations, and an MBA from IPFW. Irene also is co-founder of the Public Safety Committee of the Multicultural Council and oversaw the four editions in three languages of “International Guide to Greater Fort Wayne.” Her native language is Italian, and she has extensive knowledge of French and Spanish. She has traveled across the United States, Europe and sub-Saharan Africa and has experience teaching medical interpreting and cultural awareness programs.
What are you currently reading? I am reading “On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous” by Ocean Vuong. It is the personal account of a Vietnamese American man who writes to his mother. It is beautifully written. I like that it is direct in its style, yet complex in the meaning. I enjoy that he keeps me wondering for the story behind the story. I appreciate that he is describing the suffering of his grandmother during the Vietnam war, which is a topic I haven’t read about in a novel before. There is tenderness in his description of his grandmother and the conditions of poverty in which they lived as a family. What’s a book you’ve always meant to read but haven’t gotten around to? “Sancalo” was written by my father Gaetano Paxia and edited more or less by my entire family over time. It is his memoir; he was an orphan who survived World War II and was raised in grim poverty in the south of Italy. I heard many of his life stories, however it is too painful for me to read. Do you have a favorite genre? I guess it’s more of a habit not everyone shares with me. I love history atlases. You know, those large hard cover books with maps of what the world looked like at various times in the past? I am interested especially in the history of colonialism in Africa. I love these books. I have never met anyone else who shares this love as much. Do you have a guilty pleasure read? I read and laughed out loud with the “Bridget Jones Diary. “I also picked up an Agatha Christie novel lately that kept me up most of the night. Is there a fictional character you identify with a lot? I grew up thinking that I was a little like Madame Bovary. I loved everything about the French language (in high school my dream job was going to be French interpreter). I liked how she longed for a bigger world and was easily transported in romantic adventures. a
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statement headboards & canopies
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By Amber Bouthot
Most of us spend about a third of our lives sleeping. That’s a lot of time spent in our bedrooms, so shouldn’t it be your sanctuary? Two rising trends this year to help achieve that aesthetic are statement headboards and canopies. Headboards are becoming a big focal point as the trend moves away from the minimal look. Oversized, upholstered headboards create a show-stopping accent wall. Big, bold headboards featuring a statement fabric like velvet are in, as are textured ones with caning or fluted trim. More homeowners are choosing canopy beds for their master bedroom. Canopies lend an elegant feel to any bedroom, in particular, iron canopies, which are stylish while still allowing for plenty of light. The height of the canopy draws the eye upwards and makes a huge statement when you walk into a room. As they become more popular, you can find one in any style: wood, metal and even upholstery. Here’s some inspiration for you as you dream about your bedroom makeover.
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Stock Tank Ponds
By Haiden Hibbert
Whether you’re looking for a DIY activity or a unique addition to your backyard, setting up a stock tank pond is a fun and rewarding project you can enjoy all summer.
A stock tank pond, or a container pond as some people call it, is basically a manmade pond hosted in a galvanized stock tank. It serves as a home for fish and plants and can double as a bird bath or place for small backyard visitors to get a quick drink. If it sounds a bit like an outdoor aquarium, you’re not wrong, but stock tank ponds require a bit more preparation and maintenance than your average goldfish tank. Here’s a look at how to set-up a basic container. 1. Decide where you’re going to put your container. Most stock tank ponds are at least two feet deep and four to eight feet in diameter, so you’ll need to make sure your outdoor area is big enough. The area also needs to be level and relatively shaded. (Too much sunlight will produce algae). If you’ve got trees hanging over your pond, you’ll have to deal with leaves falling in. 2. Purchase a tank. If you’re new to the world of container ponds, you’re probably wondering where in the world you can buy the supplies you need. Fortunately, everything you’ll need, starting with the tank itself, can be purchased at local home improvement stores and nurseries - and anything you can’t find will be available online if you search “galvanized tub” or “stock tank.” Most major hardware retailers or farm supply stores have galvanized stock tanks in stores. 3. Prepare the water. After you purchase your tank and place it where you want it, you’ll need to fill the tank. The easiest way to do this is to use an outdoor garden hose and fill the container most of the way to the top, leaving a couple of inches. Once it’s filled, you need to treat the water with a chlorine and chloramine remover so it’s safe for fish. 4. Add plants and fish. This is the fun part - the fish and plants you choose to put in your stock tank pond are what makes it come to life. You can find aquatic plants at local nurseries, pond supply stores or online. Look for pond plants like anacharis, Water Lettuce, Water Hyancinth, lily pads, duckweed and Parrot Feather Stem Plants. You’ll also want to be sure some of your plants are oxygenating to keep your water
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clean and free of algae. Be sure to ask your nursery or supply store about the planting and maintenance steps involved for the species you choose. If you plan to add fish to your tank, go with Gambusia or goldfish - these are hardy fish and fairly low maintenance. 5. Maintain your tank. The good news is, once you set up your tank, there isn’t a ton of maintenance involved, aside from feeding your fish. From time to time, you’ll also need to clear the tank of debris and leaves, as well as fertilize with an aquatic plant fertilizer.
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Electrical safety tips By Cathy Shouse
May is National Electricity Safety Month. The topic may be one that we don’t often think about until we’re having a safety issue, when time may be of the essence. We reached out to the expert. Tracy Warner, Corporate Communications Manager of Indiana and Michigan Power answered our questions, in addition to some that we didn’t know to ask. Read on for the full scoop. Plus, please consider sharing this vital information with friends and loved ones.
Q. It’s National Electricity Safety Month, when we mainly think of the warning not to go near downed power lines out of doors. But is there something that comes to mind for you? I&M: Staying away from downed power lines is one of the most important precautions everyone should take regarding electricity. That means more than not touching a line. It means staying a distance away from it. When a live wire touches the ground, electricity travels through the ground in all directions, so someone can be shocked by just being near a downed line. Sometimes, power lines are knocked down in a vehicle accident. Assume the downed power line — and everything it’s touching — is energized and extremely dangerous. Stay put and call 911. It’s important that you don’t exit the vehicle unless you’re in imminent danger. Honk the horn, roll down your window and make sure to tell passersby
not to come near the vehicle. Unless there’s a secondary emergency, such as fire or smoke, it’s safer to stay inside your vehicle than it is to exit and risk electrocution. If you must exit the vehicle, jump out of the vehicle with both feet together and do not touch anything. Then, shuffle your feet until you are about 40 feet away. Q. Please educate us on what homeowners need to know to keep safe. I&M: People working on their roofs can also risk injury. If a tree, antenna, ladder or something else that conducts electricity makes contact with an energized power line, serious injury can result. Calling 811 before you dig is also an important safeguard. If you’re planting trees, digging fence posts, or doing anything regarding digging into the ground, calling 811 will bring professionals to your property to determine where electric lines, gas pipes or other utilities are located.
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Remember when you were a kid and spent countless hours outdoors in your backyard? Do yourself a favor and recreate that experience, but perhaps with a few twists and the help of technology. Whether you’re having a few friends over to watch the season finale of your favorite Netflix series or planning a family movie night, your backyard can easily become the perfect backdrop for summer entertainment. The secret is to create your own DIY outdoor home theater experience, starting with the hardware. First, a projector is a must. You might consider an LED lens for optimal viewing quality and a model that can be controlled remotely. Also, when doing your research, take note of a few key terms. For instance, lumens and throw-distance refer to brightness and the amount of space between seating and the screen, respectively. Too, you’ll probably want to opt for one compatible with multiple devices and gaming systems for convenience. You can even find ones that work with your smartphone. Regardless of the model, don’t forget to budget for a projector tripod so you can get the height just right. Of course, what good is a projector without a screen? Depending on the size and shape of your yard, you could project the video onto the side of your house or garage. Or, if you’re looking to take your outdoor fun to the next level, you might consider splurging on an inflatable
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movie screen. Find the perfect spot in your yard, plug it in and it automatically inflates. Wait...it gets better! When you’re done for the night, the teardown is just as easy as the setup. Or if you’re feeling thrifty, stop by your local hardware store and grab a simple cotton canvas drop cloth to create your own budget-friendly version. Just make sure that the fabric is held taut, so it doesn’t detract from the viewing experience. Sound is another variable, of course. Unless your projector has multiple built-in speakers, you’ll probably want to hook up an external speaker to ensure the sound quality is adequate. There are several portable models on the market. Many are waterproof and/or Bluetooth enabled, so you don’t have to fuss with pesky extension cords. On that note, if your speakers or projector aren’t battery operated, make sure you have a few on hand to bridge the gap.
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features | well being
Get back to basics The great outdoors can greatly benefit your behavioral health By Julie Young
If you are looking for a great way to refresh your body, renew your spirit and recharge your internal batteries, then you needn’t look any further than the great outdoors! Studies have shown that being outside not only offers people a change of scenery, but also helps reduce stress and lower one’s blood pressure while increasing the production of serotonin (aka the “happy hormone.”) “Serotonin plays a key role in the entire body, enabling the brain and nervous system to communicate,” said Sean Goddard, APRN. “It helps with many things including sleeping, eating and digestion. Dopamine, oxytocin and endorphins all play a role in this, as well. For example, endorphins are responsible for what is known as the ‘runner’s high.’” Goddard is the founder and owner of The Crossings Mental Health Immediate Care and that researchers who have studied the benefits of “eco therapy” have discovered that a 50-minute walk can improve one’s cognitive response, as well. “When we exercise indoors, we do not use as many of our sensory capabilities. However, when we get outdoors, we actively increase the use of sight, sound and smell,” he said. “All of these play a direct role in how our body responds to our activity.” During the COVID-19 pandemic, Goddard made the decision to buy a bike and begin riding every day. However, he was surprised to discover that many stores had a depleted stock. During the days of lockdown, people rediscovered activities that they dropped long ago and while that period of time may be remembered for the many negatives associated with it, there has been an uptick in outdoor engagement.
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“People are more active outdoors than they were pre-COVID,” he said. Goddard said getting outside is as simple as making indoor tasks involve the outdoors and building good habits from there. Going outside to check the mail or take out the trash? Why not take an additional 15 minutes and do a lap around the block? Heading to the supermarket? Park further away and get in a few extra steps until it is second nature to do so. Dropping your kids off for practice? Stick around and walk the school track or march up and down the sidelines. Better yet, take up the sport and participate in it with your student athlete. The point is to get the body moving in small ways until it is second nature to do so. “Families that exercise together produce many of the same effects as being outdoors and it exercise provides additional benefits on building the family bond and relationships,” he said.
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Maintaining a By Bethany Beebe
Backyard barbecues and picnics are highlights of the warm-weather months. With some organization and work, the menu can be fresh, flavorful and grown at home. Kitchen gardens offer maximally fresh produce, with quality you control for unmatched flavor, while potentially, saving money.
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A kitchen garden is a plot of garden space close to one’s home, according to the Old Farmer’s Almanac. The proximity to the home makes watering and harvesting easier on the gardener. If perfectly straight rows or growing strictly vegetables is not your style, you might consider the potager-style garden. These French-style kitchen gardens contain flowers, herbs, vegetables, and do so in a less rigid format. Potagers rotate crops, shun harsh chemicals, and, as an added benefit, encourage pollinators. Should you decide to start a kitchen garden yourself, you will become one of a long line. According to Mother Earth News, as early as pre-Colonial times, Native Americans selected local varieties of plants to grow for food. By the late 1800s, urban areas began incorporating public gardening into plans. In Detroit, for example, the mayor set aside 430 acres of vacant space that created 40,000 bushels of food. Even more recently, Michelle Obama brought kitchen gardens to the
public eye with her installation of 1,100 square feet of growing space on the White House grounds. Whether you find yourself in the heart of downtown or in open countryside, a garden right out your backdoor can be fun and productive. You can achieve success with some basic information. From the Ground Up: The growth medium is a major consideration. Planting directly in the soil, using raised beds, or sowing in containers are all options. Whatever growth home is selected, optimal sunlight is necessary, and Purdue Extension recommends at least six hours of daily sunlight for vegetables (HO-32, Mother Earth News, Scout Guide). Dirt Under Your Nails: Soil is the home of your plants and should achieve optimal status for occupation. A soil test identifies deficiencies that may need to be resolved. Purdue Extension offers soil testing; potassium, phosphorus, pH, and organic matter levels are read so that additions like fertilizer are applied in a reasoned and educated fashion (HO-71-W). Water: All the sources cited count the importance of adequate moisture. Especially as they are establishing themselves as seedlings or small plants, keeping the roots moist is critical. The Scout Guide reports that some gardens have built-in irrigation. Others, more reasonably priced, employ soaker hoses. Application of water from a simple garden hose or watering can offers opportunity to enjoy some time in the garden to the one making the investment of time. What’s growing? With all the basic needs addressed, the specific contents of your venture cannot be forgotten. Check out Purdue publication HO-32 for a great deal of basic information about Indianafriendly plant options. When to plant, how much it could yield, space between the rows, and more can be found. Mother Earth News Easy Kitchen Garden, Step by Step | MOTHER EARTH NEWS Purdue Publication HO-32 Home Gardeners Guide (purdue.edu) Purdue Publication HO-71-W Collecting Soil Samples for Testing (purdue.edu) Scout Guide How to Cultivate a Successful Kitchen Garden - The Scout Guide
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at HOME | household pets
The Do’s and Don’ts
of Exotic Pets By Stacie Ball
TV shows and movies have always glamorized owning exotic pets. Ross Gellar on “Friends” owned a Capuchin monkey named Marcel, and one of Mike Tyson’s three Royal Bengal Tigers appeared in “The Hangover,” but are Hoosiers allowed to own exotic pets? If so, what accommodations and considerations do we need to take, and what dangers are there? and scorpions are venomous, but unless you are allergic, it is usually nothing more than a bee-sting type reaction.” Websites like bornfreeusa.org warn individuals of the risks involved in owning exotic pets. Many reptiles and monkeys can carry disease like salmonella or Herpes B, and animals like large snakes and tigers can cause serious physical damage or even death to people and other animals. While an animal may be cute and cuddly when it’s young, they can quickly grow to require more space, food, and care than most people are equipped to handle. Animal sanctuaries are becoming overrun with the number of exotic pets who have been abused, neglected or simply no longer wanted. For the well-being of both animals and people, it is very important to intensely research any animal before purchasing. If you’re considering an exotic pet for your home, check out the Wild Animal Possession Permit at the Department of Natural Resources website, https://www.in.gov/dnr/fish-and-wildlife/ files/fw-WAP_Laws.pdf.
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Rules and regulations vary from county to county, but Indiana allows Hoosiers to own almost any type of exotic animal as long as you obtain a proper permit. The Department of Natural Resources (DNR) has requirements for building and maintaining enclosures for the animals and lists specific items an animal may need to survive, such as a heat source or a pool. Indiana residents applying for a Class III Wild Animal Permit (for animals like tigers, bears and crocodiles) must also develop an action plan to keep the animal and others safe in the event the animal were to escape. “The best place to check legalities on exotic animals is Animal Control and the DNR,” Ben Lewis of Petware House suggested. They have information on permits, the size allowed, and the required cage or other habitat for specific animals. There is also pertinent information about nutrition, local laws and handling requirements pertaining to the animals. “If some of the animals are not handled regularly, they will not remain tame and may bite or try to get away,” he warned. “Many exotic animals are too aggressive for handling and should be left caged.” Lewis sells a variety of exotic pets. Some of the animals he has available are sugar gliders, prairie dogs, Bengal kittens, Manecoon kittens, tarantulas, scorpions, exotic tree frogs and uromastyx. “There are no dangers with anything I sell,” Lewis informed. “The tarantulas
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reader diy | at HOME
By Amber Bouthot
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Every month, we highlight do-it-yourself projects from our readers. Do you want to see your project featured in our magazine? It can be something as simple as a craft project or as large as a home addition. If you did it yourself, it can be featured. Email Amber at ambouthot@the-papers.com. This month’s Reader DIY project comes from Nicole Walker who restyles previously loved furniture pieces.
What was your inspiration for the project? Two years ago, my mother had a massive stroke and became paralyzed. When it was determined that she needed round the clock care, I decided to leave my career and care for her in my home. During that time, I had a friend who was moving and in need of furniture. I had some time on my hands, so I helped her by painting a few pieces of furniture and it was super fun. The day we moved those pieces into her home, I was in the alley behind her house and there it was in all its glory...an ugly yellow piece of trash. As soon as I saw it, I just had to get my hands on it.
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How long did it take from start to finish? This project took me four days from beginning to completion..
Was it easier or harder than you anticipated? Just like many creative endeavors, it began to take on a life of its own. When I decided that I wanted to replace the Formica top with natural wood, the project quickly became more challenging than I anticipated but also more exciting
What was the total cost of the project? Dresser: $0 Paint (PPG Color: Knight’s Armor): $14.55 Plywood Top: $15.96 Drawer Pulls (2.5” Brushed Gold Square Door Handles): $21.99 Paint Brush (Zibra 2” Angled Brush): $11.99 Wood Glue: $3.50
What did you like best about the undertaking? My favorite part about this project was that something that was going to a landfill was recycled into someone else’s home to be used for years to come. This was the first piece of furniture I ever sold. When I delivered it to my first client’s home, I felt like I was doing something beyond myself. It pierced my heart in such a way that I just never stopped. I wanted to continue to save trash and give it new life. This dresser changed me. Since this piece, I have restyled over 60 pieces in just 5 months. Sometimes we just try something, and it becomes part of who we are. That was what this project did for me.
What was the most challenging aspect? Without question, the most challenging part was cutting the plywood with a jigsaw to perfectly fit on the top of the dresser and then gluing it down securely.
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community | events Fort Wayne Museum of Art
By Ray Balogh
Botanical Conservatory •T hursday, April 29, through Tuesday, May 4, Mother’s Day online plant sale, curbside pickup at Lawton Park Greenhouse May 7-9, 13-16 • Saturday, May 1 (through June 27), “Color in Motion” live butterfly exhibit, public hours, regular admission • Thursday, May 6, $1 Night Insight: Insect Wings, 6 p.m.-7 p.m., $1 • Saturday-Sunday, May 8-9, Mom’s Garden Days, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, noon-4 p.m. Sunday, mothers admitted free • Tuesday, May 18, Garden Preschool: “Planting a Garden,” 10 a.m.-11 a.m., $12 Adults $5, children (3-17) $3, children (2 and under) free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-4 p.m. Sunday; closed Monday. Open 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve. 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, botanicalconservatory.org.
Exhibitions: • Planes, Trains & Automobiles: Classic Toys and Americana (ongoing) • Permanent Glass Displays (ongoing) • Bronze: The Artistic Interest (through May 30) • Bold Assemblage: Mixed Media from the Collection (through May 30) • Lost Man Blues: Jon Schueler — Art and War (through June 13) • A Century of Making Meaning: 100 Years of Collecting (through March 13, 2022) • Personal to Political: Celebrating the African American Artists of Paulson Fontaine Press (Saturday, May 8, through July 18) Traveling exhibitions (through Dec. 31, 2021): • AFROS: A Celebration of Natural Hair by Michael July • Graphicanos: Contemporary Latino Prints from the Serie Project • Geoffrey Hiller: Daybreak in Myanmar Events: • Thursday, May 6, Curator’s Tour: Lost Man Blues, virtual tour, 12:15 p.m. • Saturday, May 8, Second Saturday Family Tour, 10:30 a.m., regular admission. Pre-registration required. • Thursday, May 20, FWMoA Live: Samuel Levi Jones, virtual conversation, 7 p.m. • Thursday, May 27, Art + Writing Club for middle and high school students, 5 p.m. Adults $8, students (pre-K through college) $6, seniors (65 and older) $6, families $20, free admission for veterans and veterans’ families, free general admission 5 p.m.-8 p.m. every Thursday. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-5 p.m. Sunday (closed Mondays), 311 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.6467, fwmoa.org, facebook.org/fwmoa to join virtual events.
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Embassy Theatre •S aturday-Sunday, May 1-2, “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe,” 7 p.m. Saturday, 2 p.m. Sunday, $25 • Friday, Saturday, Tuesday, May 21, 22, 25, “American Son” by Christopher Demos-Brown, 7:30 p.m. each day, $35 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.
Memorial Coliseum •F riday-Sunday, April 30-May 2, Lucky Duck Consignment Sale, 4:30 p.m.-9 p.m. Friday, 5 p.m.-9 p.m. Saturday, 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Sunday, visit luckyduckfortwayne.com for ticket information Parking $6 main lot, $10 preferred lot. Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.
•S unday, May 2, Ryan Stevenson, 7:30 p.m., Eagles Theatre, $20 • Friday, May 7, Casting Crowns: A Night Under the Stars, 13-24 Drive In, 890 IN 13, Wabash, $129-$299 per vehicle of up to six guests • Saturday, May 8, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, 7:30 p.m., Ford Theater, $29/$39, premium seating $100 • Thursday, May 20, Here Come the Mummies, 8:30 p.m., 13-24 Drive In, 890 IN 13, Wabash, $99/$149/$199/$279 per vehicle of up to six guests (determined by row) • Friday, May 21, Travis Tritt, 8:30 p.m., 13-24 Drive In, 890 IN 13, Wabash, $149/$249/$299/$399/$499 per vehicle of up to six guests (determined by row) • Saturday, May 22, FireHouse with special guest Kip Winger, 8:30 p.m., 13-24 Drive In, 890 IN 13, Wabash, $99/$149/$229/$279/$399 per vehicle of up to six guests (determined by row) Ford Theater, 275 E. Market St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellcenter.org.
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•T hursday-Friday, May 6-7, Anthem Lights, 8 p.m. Performing Arts Center, $19.95 to $54.95 • Saturday, May 8, Dustin Lynch “Live & Acoustic” featuring Kameron Marlow, Performing Arts Center, 8 p.m., $29.95 to $89.95 • Friday, May 14, Michael W. Smith, 8 p.m., Performing Arts Center, $29.95 to $94.95 • Friday, May 28, Gary Allan, 8 p.m., Performing Arts Center, $39.95 to $119.95 • Friday-Saturday, May 28-29, 7 p.m. Friday, 1 p.m. Saturday, Music Hall. $39.95 All shows add $18 for dinner theater. Performing Arts Center address is 760 S. Van Buren St., Shipshewana. Music Hall address is 195 N. Van Buren, Shipshewana. 888.447.4725, thebluegate.com.
Hanging baskets, vegetable plants, annuals, perennials, herbs, native plants and more. Proceeds support scholarships to area students and community outreach. Free admission. 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Saturday, Floral Hall, Noble County Fairgrounds, 580 Fair St. For more information, call Jackie Gordon at 260.450.0567 or visit facebook.com/ncmg.in.
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• Saturday, May 8, “A Night at the Opera” classic movie, 7:30 p.m., Stroede Center, free admission 319 Wade Ave., Defiance. 419.784.3401, defiancearts.org.
2 DECATUR: Flea Market Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. Sponsored by the Adams County Coin Club. Free admission. 8 a.m.-3 p.m. Sunday (year-round), Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St. (Highway 224 East). Contact Carla at 260.517.8182, facebook.com/decaturindianafleamarket.
4, 11, 18, 25 FORT WAYNE: “Little River Ramblers” Hike and explore the interesting plants and wildlife of Eagle Marsh. Bring binoculars for a close-up view. Sponsored by Little River Wetlands Project. Free admission. 9 a.m.-11 a.m. Tuesday, Arrowhead Prairie on Aboite Road. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.
4-5, 11-12, 18-19, 25-26, 31 SHIPSHEWANA: Shipshewana Flea Market More than 700 open-air booths. Bargains on home decor, plants, produce, collectibles, tools, crafts, pet items, more. Food available for purchase. Free admission, $5 general parking, $8 preferred parking. 8 a.m.-4 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday and Memorial Day, 345 S. Van Buren St. 260.768.4129, shipshewanatradingplace.com.
8 MONROEVILLE: Mother’s Day Tea and Canvas Beginner-friendly, step-by-step painting instruction, tea and snacks. $30/person covers art supplies, food, beverages. 2 p.m.-5 p.m. Saturday, Cornerstone, 19819 Monroeville Road. Register at 260.623.3972 or community@cornerstoneyc.org.
Geared toward 50 years and older, but all are welcome. Hybrid presentation via Zoom or in person at Eagle Marsh barn. Free admission. 8:30 a.m.-9:45 a.m. Thursday, 6801 Engle Road. Register at least 24 hours in advance at 260.387.0399 or a.munger@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.
16 FORT WAYNE: Cherry Blossom Festival Japanese music, dance performances, recorded tea ceremony, visual storytelling, origami, magic, anime contest. Free admission. Noon-5 p.m. Sunday, virtual event. 260.432.7780, cherryblossomfw.com.
16 FORT WAYNE: Eco Fest Fort Wayne Event to increase awareness about sustainability and its importance to the environment, planet, and collective health. Free admission. Noon-5 p.m. Sunday, Rothschild Pavilion, Headwaters Park West, 110 W. Berry St. For more information, contact Addie Farris at 260.449.6148 or ecofestfw@gmail.com, ecofestfw.com.
22 FORT WAYNE: Ombudsman Training Learn how to earn certification as a volunteer ombudsman to serve area nursing home residents. Free admission, program includes brunch. 9 a.m.-noon Saturday, 3201 Stellhorn Road. 260.469.3161, doingthegood-ombudsman.org.
6-8 BLUFFTON: “Frozen Jr.” The youth of Fire & Light Productions will present Disney’s “Frozen Jr.,” a musical tale about love and loyalty. $8 in advance, $10 at the door. 7 p.m. Thursday and Friday, 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Saturday, Life Community Church, 428 S. Oak St. 260.241.3378, fireandlightproductions.com/tickets.
7 FORT WAYNE: Historic Sweeney Homestead Open House Complimentary refreshments, music by Hearthstone Ensemble, spinning demonstrations. Bake sale in kitchen. Free admission. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Friday, Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd. 260.637.8622, settlersinc.org.
7 WARSAW: First Friday Theme: Interactive Art. Free admission. 5 p.m.-9 p.m. Friday, downtown. 574.267.6311, warsawcdc.org/first-friday.
7-8 FORT WAYNE: Herb and Perennial Plant Sale Purchase commercially grown local plants and perennial diggings in basement or on west lawn. Proceeds support maintenance and restoration of the Homestead. 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Friday, 9 a.m.-noon Saturday, Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd. 260.637.8622, settlersinc.org.
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7-8 FORT WAYNE: Mother’s Day Weekend Shopping Take your mother shopping in downtown. Free admission. All day Friday and Saturday. For more information, visit downtownfortwayne.com or facebook.com/downtownfortwayne.
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With a mission to inspire creativity and enable our community to transform their houses into homes, House to Home co-owners Emily Baker and Beth Stutzman offer quality, trendy and unique home furnishings to fit a variety of lifestyles. With fresh, quality, yet affordable inventory on point with current trends and styles, House to Home combines staging and design skills to make sure clients can truly visualize its products at home. Baker met Stutzman through mutual friends, and the pair connected quickly over a love for interior design and desire to be working in a field they were passionate about. The second time they talked to each other, both women decided to combine their talents and ideas to begin a design business. In 2017, House to Home officially opened its doors as a staging business (furnishing vacant homes that were going on the market). “Shortly after starting the staging business, we realized we couldn’t get the furniture we needed in the styles we wanted locally,” said Baker. “We figured if we were having issues finding furniture and décor we liked locally, then others must be too. So, we decided to kill two birds with one stone and open our own furniture store, while also sourcing furniture for our staging business. In August 2018, we
officially opened House to Home as a furniture and home décor store.” House to Home has three main focuses: décor, staging and design. Baker and Stutzman love all aspects of their business, but staging homes is a favorite niche. Both Baker and Stutzman have loved interior design since they were young — Stutzman went to school for interior design and helped friends and family over the years with redesigning their rooms. Baker also grew up with a love for interior design but with an equally strong desire to be in business. She went to school for business and worked for seven years as an Executive Assistant and Project manager in Northern California. Over those years she successfully assisted with redesigning two multi-million-dollar properties and learned a ton about starting and running a business. The variety of strengths and experience that both women bring to the team has resulted in a dynamic and successful business.
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While loving what they do, the design and staging business does have its challenges. “The most challenging, and important, part of beginning a project is asking enough of the right questions to understand what the client actually wants,” explained Baker. “We often joke that we are part therapists, part marriage counselors and part interior designers. People often think they know what they want, but if we take only what they say at face value, we often will miss the mark. They may appreciate a number of different styles, they may admire a variety of designers, but what they actually want to live with and what will make their house feel like home, can be very different. So, the most important part of starting a project is getting to know our clients, and asking a lot of questions before diving in.” Being centrally located in downtown Fort Wayne has been a great benefit for House to Home. “We LOVE being downtown; it was a dream of ours from the beginning,” said Baker. “We are passionate about the Fort Wayne community
and revitalizing downtown and other historic areas so to be part of the oldest block in Fort Wayne history is huge.” As Fort Wayne continues to develop and support small businesses, Baker and Stutzman appreciate the attention on companies like theirs. “We truly would not be here today if it wasn’t for our amazing customers and community,” said Baker. “We see House to Home growing and becoming even more involved down the road with helping to revitalize historic homes and buildings throughout Fort Wayne. It’s an amazing thing to be building something that isn’t just for our community today but will hopefully benefit the community for generations to come. Thank you, Fort Wayne, for being such an amazing city where we are encouraged and supported in pursuing our dreams while raising a family and investing in our community!”
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Staying connected to its customers and keeping on top of the ever-evolving technology and constant advances in heating and air conditioning (HVAC), fireplace equipment and solar installation is what makes Collier’s Heating & Air Conditioning in Warsaw a premiere dealership. The company was founded in 1987 by Joe Collier and Ken Diekhoff. Though both have retired within the past four years, new owners and long-time Collier’s employees Kevin Lehman and Chuck Ault are carrying on the firm’s mission of providing quality products, expert installation and outstanding service to its residential and commercial customer base. New owner Lehman joined the company fresh out of HVAC school and worked his Kevin Lehman way up to installation manager. Ault started as a service technician and advanced to service manager. They became junior co-owners with founder Collier after Diekhoff’s 2017 retirement and they became full co-owners with Collier’s retirement in October 2020. The new owners will soon be utilizing technology to provide customers with more options to interact with the company when it is convenient for the individual customer. The rollout of the new webbased, on-line scheduling through the website started April 1. According to Lehman and Ault, no changes in operations, products or service are expected. Ault explains that “while it would be easy to think of us as just another HVAC company, we view ourselves primarily as a customer service company. When people come to us with problems, whether it’s a furnace repair, indoor air-quality or home comfort issue they can’t seem to resolve, we’re here to help find solutions.” For heating and cooling needs, customers can count on top-of-theline Lennox and Mitsubishi equipment; and for geothermal installations it’s WaterFurnace. Collier’s Fireplace Shoppe sells Hearthstone, Ambiance and Napoleon wood, gas and electric fireplaces. In addition,
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it displays wood and gas stoves and wood boilers. They also specialize in grills and smokers from Napoleon, Pit Boss, Louisiana Pellet and FireDisk, and are Kosciusko County’s exclusive dealer for the Big Green Egg grills and accessories. The company’s solar division does both ground and roofmounted solar arrays. It serves customers in Kosciusko, Fulton, Wabash, Whitley and Elkhart counties. Chuck Ault Collier’s was located on Winona Avenue from its founding until a new, state-of-the-art showroom for the Fireplace Shoppe and HVAC headquarters opened in October 2019 at 2315 Shelby Drive at the southwest corner of State Road 15 and U.S. 30. It also includes a product warehouse. Grand opening was held in June 2020. Part of doing business in a community is becoming immersed in its daily life, activities and projects. Collier’s partners with one of its HVAC suppliers (Lennox) on a nationwide initiative known as ‘Feel the Love,’ which provides a new furnace for a local homeowner in need. In addition, the company actively supports Combined Community Services fundraising and food drives several times a year and partners with the American Red Cross by hosting a blood drive at its headquarters twice a year.
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Reneta Thurairatnam grew up in an Ohio village, Union City. Population: 1,701, as of 2019. Her high school class had 48 graduates. “So, to me,” she says, “Fort Wayne’s a big city.” Thurairatnam moved to this big city in 2002, after she graduated from Huntington University and was hired into a management training program with National City Bank. It’s been nearly 20 years, and there are no plans to leave. “The initial move to Fort Wayne was tough,” she says. “So many people are from the city and already have their friend groups that it can be tough to connect with others.” Plus, she spent the first decade or so getting established in the area’s financial industry. After 10 years of focusing on professional growth, Thurairatnam found a way to connect personally and socially: Girls Night Out Fort Wayne, which she started attending in 2013. Known as #GNOFW on social media, the events brought together local women who wanted to meet one another and try out new restaurants or bars. (Full disclosure: Amber Bouthot, the executive editor and publication manager for Home Living magazine, founded Girls Night Out Fort Wayne.) “A lot of people who came to that were transplants — people who are not originally from Fort Wayne,” she says. “That was a big life saver. I’m still friends with a large number of people I met through that.” Today, one of Thurairatnam’s favorite things about living in Fort Wayne is the diversity of restaurants. To ask a self-professed foodie for her top three favorite restaurants is to invite a few more than three. To be even more helpful, Thurairatnam shares some menu suggestions, too. In no particular order, Thurairatnam’s top restaurants in town are: 1.Tolon- “Everything’s good,” she says, “especially the scallops and the bone marrow. Chef Matt [Nolot, who owns Tolon] is super creative. I’ll try anything, so I love a creative menu.” 2.Banh Mi Pho Shop - for the ramen 3.Catablu - for the drinks 4.Nawa - for the Thai food 5.The Copper Spoon - for a late-night bite “Summertime is a favorite season to live in Fort Wayne, thanks to the weekly festivals and events,” she says, and various outdoor things to do and see like Promenade Park, Barr Street Market, The Landing and the Rum Runner Party Boat, which she rents each year with a group of friends. Plus, Fort Wayne is an easy spot to travel from. It’s close to Chicago, and Thurairatnam and her husband can fly internationally right out of Fort Wayne International Airport.
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One improvement she hopes to see come to Fort Wayne is a better transportation system. “You think about New York and Chicago, it’s super easy to get around,” she says, “but here we’re not really walkable.” Looking forward, Thurairatnam predicts she and her husband won’t be moving any time soon. When she imagines her life 30 years from now, she sees herself downtown, living in a condo. “As we (Fort Wayne) continue to grow and develop, it puts us in that much of a better spot,” she says.
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Infant mortality, defined as the death of a child before the age of one, is one of those terrifying tragedies that we think can never happen here, to us, or to our babies. But according to the Indiana Department of Health, statistics show that of the 559 Indiana infant deaths in 2018, 69 occurred in the Northeastern Hospital Region (in.gov). Additionally, Parkview Health reports that Indiana has one of the highest infant mortality rates in the United States. SwaddleDesigns / Shutterstock.com
“According to 2017 data, the infant mortality rate in Indiana is 7.3, compared to the national rate of 5.8” on Parkview.com. There is good news, however: by better educating parents in our community and offering local resources for safe sleeping practices, these deaths can be reduced and even prevented entirely. According to Meg Distler, Executive Director of the St. Joseph Community Health Foundation, local care providers almost all are now involved in educating new parents on what science and research have shown as best practices. “It is most easily described as the ABCs of safe sleep,” she said. This acronym stands for: a place for baby to sleep alone, on his/her back, and in a crib. New parents might believe that co-sleeping in the same bed as baby is safer because they are closer and within reach, but this is actually a dangerous practice. The chances of rolling over and smothering the baby are much higher than you’d expect. And what about all those adorable soft crib bumpers, baby blankets and stuffed animals? Those are also a no-no, according to experts. Cribs should have a flat mattress with a fitted sheet, and nothing else that could pose a suffocation risk. Distler says that providers are in the process of committing to use similar messaging to build education efforts and reinforcing that messaging. Resources like the St. Joseph Community Health Foundation have created informative handouts for community partners in order to spread the word about safe sleeping practices. Over the years, safe sleep practices have continually changed and evolved based on research and
doctors’ recommendations. Your mother may have put you to sleep on your stomach for better sleep, while your first child may have had a stabilizing crib pillow to prevent sudden infant death, but the most recent recommendations are for babies to sleep alone, on their backs, in a crib that is free of pillows and blankets. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, “back to sleep” is the safest for baby every time he or she sleeps. Here are some key tips to keep in mind: • Infants should be placed for sleep in a supine position (wholly on the back) for every sleep by every caregiver until the child reaches 1 year of age. • Side sleeping is not safe and is not advised. • Skin-to-Skin is recommended for all mothers and newborns, regardless of feeding or delivery method, immediately following birth (as soon as the mother is medically stable and awake) for at least an hour. Thereafter, or when the mother needs to sleep or take care of other needs, infants should be placed supine in a bassinet. – American Academy of Pediatrics (aap.org) Distler reinforces the importance for new parents, especially, to reach out to local resources for help, information and supplies.
INFANT MORTALITY FACTS • Infant mortality is defined as the death of a baby before his or her first birthday. • The infant mortality rate (IMR) is the number of babies who die in the first year of life, per 1,000 live births. • Of the 559 Indiana infant deaths in 2018, 69 occurred in the Northeastern Hospital Region. • Non-Hispanic black infants are 2.2 times more likely to die than Non-Hispanic white infants in Indiana.
PRACTICES TO REDUCE INFANT MORTALITY • Improve overall health for women of child-bearing age. • Promote early & adequate prenatal care. • Decrease early elective deliveries before 39 weeks. • Decrease prenatal smoking & substance use. • Increase breastfeeding duration & exclusivity. • Support birth spacing & interconception wellness. • Promote the ABC’s of safe sleep: place baby to sleep alone, on his or her back, in a crib.
“We have a free printed directory of local prenatal and infant resources (updated for 2021) that can be found at sjchf.org/directories. Most of the resources can also be found online at healthcaredirectory.org,” she said.
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Summer COVID wedding trends
Lauren Tourkow by Jaclyn Youhana Garver
Color coordinated hand sanitizer. Black tie double-masking. Socially distanced ballroom dancing. Each spring brings with it new wedding trends, and in 2021, those trends are all about the coronavirus. It’s a reality couples have to contend with, and some local brides shared how they’re assuring their guests feel safe and taken care of. (And on the list above, we’re joking. Mostly … because those things actually do exist.) Lauren Tourkow is getting married in July in Michigan, and because the number of coronavirus cases spiked over the winter, Michigan changed its max capacity for venues. However, the resort where Tourkow is getting married gave the couple a free upgrade to the largest venue space, allowing them to invite up to 125. “They settled on a 100-person guest list, which was 20 to 30 fewer than it would have been during a typical year,” Tourkow says. 16
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often viewed as lax in comparison to many other states’—mean many see Indiana as a pandemic “danger zone,” Hobbs says.
Saying ‘I do’ on a livestream
Hobbs livestreamed her bridal shower, which served as a handy test-run for the main event. She used Facebook Live, and she enjoyed that virtual attendees were able to comment in real time. It was a simple process, and she’s hopeful it will work similarly for the wedding. She can set up the camera in a stationary spot, and someone can check on it periodically. “Maybe the maid of honor?” she wonders. If it wasn’t for the coronavirus, Tourkow figures the couple wouldn’t have considered livestreaming the wedding. However, since the couple has family across the country who doesn’t feel safe traveling, livestreaming is on the agenda, too.
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Ashely Hobbs While Ashely Hobbs didn’t necessarily trim the wedding’s guest list, the couple did consider the fact that Hobbs’s fiancé has a lot of family who live out of town. They’re inviting those family members but know many won’t be able to come, in part because Indiana’s regulations—which are
‘Leaving my mind open for anything’
Hobbs knows, even with all her planning, a pandemic means that a lot of decisions can change at the last minute. She hopes that’s not the case, but who knows? “I’m leaving my mind open for anything,” she says. “I told my fiancé, ‘We already paid for it, and we’re going to stand in a big, open room (and get married) if no one else can go.’” Checklists have saved the day for Tourkow, helping her feel organized during a time when rules and regulations can change daily. “There is so much to work out in planning a wedding, even without COVID,” she says. “It just feels like one more consideration to take. Ultimately, we both are super stoked for our day and are very much going with the flow of it all.” a
In an ideal scenario, Tourkow would feed her guests buffet-style. But to keep guests in their seats, minimize the number of hands touching the food and avoid a congested line, the guests will eat a plated dinner. Hobbs worked with her local venue to decide that she would seat guests from the same household at the same table, and tables will be at least 6 feet apart
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Wedding Ring Trends By Stacie Ball
One of the most important decisions you’ll make regarding your wedding is choosing an engagement and/or wedding band. After all, it is a symbol of eternal love. There are so many options out there, but who knows where to begin? I interviewed two experts in the field with plenty of great advice.
KEEP IN MIND “You will be wearing this ring for a lifetime,” said Eileen Eichhorn, Graduate Gemologist at Eichhorn Jewelry. “Select a style you will love for your lifestyle.” Hannah of Will Jewelers agreed and explained that a nurse may need a lower profile ring to accommodate putting on and taking off gloves, and someone who works outside may need a thicker, wider band. Both experts stated that rings can be customized to fit your personal style. Below are some of the most popular ring trends this year.
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Many brides are requesting rings with hidden and intricate details. “Hidden halos are the newest trend,” Hannah explained, “This is when smaller diamonds are set in the head that is supporting the main center diamond.” Other brides are opting for a classic, straight diamond band in white gold with stackable, patterned bands. As for the cut of that brilliant stone, there are several options, such as oval and teardrop, but Eichhorn determined that one rises above the rest. “The round, brilliant-cut diamond is still the most popular cut style,” she informed.
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“Women just love the look of a little extra sparkle!” Hannah observed, “They are having a lot of fun with diamond patterned bands and thicker diamond bands.” Eichhorn noticed a similar trend in her store. “Matching ‘skinny’ diamond bands continue as the choice of most brides,” she informed, adding that many women are choosing to stack in either rose gold, yellow gold, or white gold-- whether matching or not, “Some prefer custom made shadow bands for a seamless look with or without diamonds.” 18
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“Classic yellow gold or white gold, high-polished styles with inside comfort fit are usually what grooms want,” Eichhorn explained, “But wide white tungsten carbide is still popular.” At Will Jewelers, grooms can mix and match patterns and textures with their popular line of customizable wedding bands. Some grooms are opting for a non-traditional zirconium (durable black metal) band. “Zirconium bands are really fun and can be customized with inner sleeves that are colored or patterned!” Hannah said.
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“Being on a budget doesn’t necessarily mean you have to limit style,” Hannah advised. She recommended selecting a classic solitaire, which is a plain band in any color of gold with a stone and cut of your choosing. Eichhorn suggested handpicking a pre-owned, totally refurbished estate ring. She said, “When completely refinished and detailed, made to look new again, these rings present the best savings around.” When ring shopping, you are free to choose vintage, classic, modern, or design your own. Drop by Eichhorn Jewelry or Will Jewelers to see the most popular designs in person. a
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Faith,\Familyand Fun How Two Families with Five Generations of Living Relatives Strengthen the Ties That Bind by Mary Jane Bogle
Most of us proudly display a three- or four-generations photo after a new birth, but two area families have exceeded all expectations, boasting five generations alive and well. Here, Alicia Herber and Laura Miller share what it takes to keep their families growing and thriving through a century or more of close-knit family ties.
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Common to both families is a vibrant faith—faith in God and faith in each other. “Faith is the glue that holds us together,” said Miller. It’s the same story for Herber. “Faith and prayer are what keeps us so strong,” she said.
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Both families share a Catholic heritage and maintain a vibrant and active faith to this day, either by volunteering in the community or by taking care of one another. “This family is a very wonderful set of people to have in your corner,” said Herber, who inherited a treasure when she married into the family. “Recently, with our granddaughter in the hospital, we received so much love and support, whether it was meals, gas cards or even a cousin volunteering excess breast milk for the baby. In this family, help takes all forms.”
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Just as each family shares a legacy of faith, they also inherited generations of strong women who held the family together, sometimes against strong odds. “I have the best role models in my mom and Grandma Brough,” said Miller. “Whether we were making homemade pies with apples from the orchard or getting a pattern and sewing a doll or a nightgown, I learned by doing things with them. They always gave unselfishly to the community and continue to serve as role models for me and my children.” For the Herber family, the patriarch, Donald Will, often worked two or three jobs his entire life, owning multiple businesses in three different states, leaving wife Doris to raise all the children and manage the home and large family farm. Those women didn’t stop caretaking when their children left home, however. Each matriarch, with Grandma Brough at age 101 and Grandma Will at age 92, remembers birthdays, sending cards frequently and regularly checking in on the children, the great-great grandchildren and everyone in between.
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Brittainy Chaffee, a private banker with STAR Financial Bank, it’s possible to have a nice wedding while not going into debt. On that note, Chaffee said setting and adhering to a budget will set you on the right course. “This is really important, because when you get married, you’re usually combining finances and a household and that can be a big stressor,” she said. “It can derail some of your goals for the future, like purchasing a home or starting a family, if you’re having to pay down debt. “ In order to avoid falling into this trap, Chaffee recommends communicating early and often with all parties responsible for wedding-related expenses. For instance, say your future in-laws agree to pay for the reception dinner. This is a case when expectations need to be in line with reality. There’s a huge difference between a three-course plated meal and a buffet-style option.
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According to the wedding website theknot.com, the 2020 national average cost of a wedding is $19,000. This figure is especially daunting when you consider that it’s quite possibly half of some people’s annual salaries. Despite what message the industry may try to send, wedding planning doesn’t have to cost a fortune — nor should it. In fact, if you ask
“Knowing what those parents expect and what each of you can contribute can give you a good starting point,” she said. Starting with the food isn’t a bad idea because it can be the biggest expense. “There are a lot of little expenses that can add up really quickly,” she said. “So, if you start with those bigger items, you can work your way down the list, pare down and plan around what’s most important to you.”
Speaking of priorities, Chaffee suggests putting a lot of thought into what matters to you early in the planning process. This can save you some money and emotional distress. That’s because what you think is important to you today might not be relevant 6 months from now. “I have a co-worker who paid for a child’s wedding recently,” she said. “They hired an expensive photographer in St. Lucia and she said she’s got beautiful pictures, yet they hardly ever look at them.” Regardless of what you consider essential to your big day, consider a practical tip for saving. You might set up a separate account for the occasion or elect to have a certain amount automatically deducted from your paycheck. That way it’s seamless and you can have peace of mind knowing you’re working toward the goal. Speaking of goals, don’t lose sight of the objective, which is to rein in costs. One way to control expenses is to take a DIY approach. Whether a backdrop at the ceremony, invitations, wedding favors or table decor, there’s a lot you can do on your own if you’re willing to put in the time. When in doubt, remember the wedding should be less about the day itself and more about celebrating your relationship. a
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Taurus (April 20 - May 20) Everything you plant will flourish this month if you have confidence in your abilities. Enough with the self-defeating attitude! You can do anything you put your mind to. Put your green thumb to work and create a new avenue for income. It will take energy, but we know you have what it takes.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21) Every worthwhile goal begins with a plan and it’s time to start drafting yours. There will be fits and starts along the way, but if you dig deep, the seed you plant will germinate and grow into something truly special. Have confidence, work hard and reap the benefits of your efforts.
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
If you try to keep up with the Jones’ you may find yourself coming up short. Not everyone has what it takes to be a master gardener and that’s OK. Even a little pop of color will make a big difference to your property and there is nothing wrong with asking for a little help. It may lead to a new friendship!
This is the month to look at the weeds in your life and eliminate them once and for all. Identify your bad habits and begin to make the break. Support systems will help make the struggles a little easier and you will be grateful for the assistance. You will be held up as an example to those around you who have goals of their own.
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
When the weeds invade your world, your protective instincts will kick in. Use that outer shell of yours to defend all that is important to you and you will be victorious. Take a trip this month. Your life could use a little variety and what you discover will be worth the investment.
Because you tend to achieve your goals quickly, you often lack patience with those who are not on life’s fast track. Remember that the flower who blooms last is often the most beautiful of all. Share the spotlight and be a mentor for someone who needs your tender loving care.
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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It’s not enough for you to connect with nature and get your hands in the dirt. You won’t be satisfied unless your garden is the most glorious. Why do you always have to be the overachiever? Maybe if you let good enough be good enough, you would find inner peace.
They say it’s hard to be humble when you are perfect in everyway, but don’t let that perfection give you a big ego. A stiff breeze can knock you down to size and its important not to take your blessings for granted. Use your confidence to strengthen your relationships this month.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
As a life-long learner, you can always be counted on to attend a lecture at the extension office or the library and you always ask the best questions. You take copious notes and are quick to lend a neighbor a hand with their garden. Your generosity will not go unnoticed.
Libra (September 23 - October 22) The best flowers blossom in healthy soil. That goes for humans as well as plants. Take care of yourself this month and recalibrate your scales to achieve balance. Watch your diet. Do not overindulge and with practice, you will become the best version of yourself. 26
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Aries (March 21 - April 19) Sunshine makes everything grow, so get outside and enjoy May’s beautiful weather. Take up a new sport our other hobby and engage in new experiences with the love of your life. You will be enriched by spreading your wings. a
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