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“Let’s Wish 2023 Farewell” ISSUE D e ce m b e r 2 0 2 3 | Vo l. 1 4 No. 9
GLAM + STYLE Fashion: Winter Fashion Preview................................................................ 8 Wellness & Beauty: The Dangers of Sitting too Much.................... 10
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COMMUNITY FOCUS She glows’ : Jana DeBusk ........................................................................... 12 He glows’ : Stephen J. Bailey...................................................................... 14 glo Girl’ : Olivia McFarren ......................................................................... 16
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As the crisp winter air settles in and the first snowflakes dance gracefully from the sky, we find ourselves once again on the cusp of that enchanting time of year — the holiday season. It’s a time when our spirits lift, and the world is adorned with a vibrant tapestry of lights, colors, and the unmistakable sounds of merriment. In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, the holidays offer a precious pause — a moment to reflect on the year gone by and to look forward to the possibilities of the one ahead. Whether it’s the comforting aroma of holiday treats baking in the oven, the laughter of loved ones gathered around a festive table, or the joyous melodies of seasonal tunes filling the air, there’s a magic that permeates every corner of our lives. As we embrace the holiday spirit, let us also extend our thoughts to those around us. May this season be a time of compassion, gratitude, and connection. Together, let us make memories that warm the soul and create a tapestry of experiences to carry us into the coming year. In these pages, you’ll find inspiration for holiday gatherings, thoughtful local gift ideas, and inspiring stories of people giving back to their communities. May this issue serve as a companion, guiding you through the enchanting landscape of the season and encouraging you to savor the joy that unfolds in the little moments. From our team to you, we extend heartfelt wishes for a holiday season filled with warmth, laughter, and love. Thank you for being a part of our community.
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By Holli Hattery
As the temperature drops, the leaves fall, and the colors of Autumn are replaced with the glow of the winter and holiday season, our closets tend to change, as well. Sweaters and scarves have the prominent position, while our tanks and tees are hidden in the back, waiting for summer. One of the best things about winter is the cute fashion trends that emerge every year, and this year, the nineties are back in full force. Say goodbye to your skinny jeans and jeggings because wide leg jeans are in. According to Elle magazine, “a more relaxed style culture is on the horizon, and that includes more people wearing baggy jeans.” This trend has also infiltrated the business world, and more business casual pants are also embracing the wide leg. Susan Johnson, owner of Susan’s Fashions in Fort Wayne, confirmed what the fashion magazines are saying. “A big, full leg jean is really in right now. It’s a big look in the jean category,” she said. She shared that she’s seen women pairing their full leg jeans with cute, shorter booties and showing a little ankle. If you aren’t a fan of the wide leg jean, don’t despair. Pleather pants and leggings are on trend right now, and if you don’t have a pair in your closet, you need to remedy that with a purchase of some shiny, pleather pants. If you are a pink girl, you are in luck. While pink is not normally a color you’d think of for fall and winter, thanks to the movie “Barbie,” bright, bubblegum pink is everywhere. All the Susan’s Fashion’s vendors have pink in their line this winter. Another blast from the past is the down vest with a shirt underneath. These are flat knit, knee length down vests that come in all different colors. They can be worn under a coat, and are perfect not just for this winter, but for fall and spring, as well. Shutterstock.com
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If you struggle with fashion, Johnson said that black and white is always a strong color combo that never fails. Pair it with reds, with royals, or with any color to make it pop. Silver is also a great, more neutral choice. Silver and shiny are in as well. The winter fashion scene looks a bit like the nineties or early 2000’s this year, but we are loving it. It’s fun and it’s comfortable. If you need help putting together a holiday outfit, check out Susan’s Fashions. Johnson and her associates would love to get you ready for the New Year! a
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The rise of chairdom occurred as we moved to cities from farms during the industrial revolution in the 1880s. We started sitting in cars around 1885. Henry Ford then added the conveyor belt around 1908. Factories started to swipe away our legs. The first computer appeared in the 1980s. Many jobs changed into desk jobs with technology being our main tools for our work.
The desktop computer shackled millions to the desk chair. First came emails, then iPhones and texting. Then came social media, which made things worse. The average screen time per day for an adult in the United States is 7 hours and 4 minutes. Don’t be a prisoner of the chair! Sitting for two to three hours has been found to be like smoking a pack of cigarettes. Today’s jobs are perpetuating sitting disease. Sitting disease increases your risk of vascular disease, stroke, cancer, diabetes, and many other illnesses, 90% of which are preventable. Get a treadmill or stand-up desk. Walk 2,000 steps during lunch. Don’t sit! You need to stand and move. Activity of living (AOL) and non-exercise thermogenic (NEAT) are the secrets. Park the car far away, play tennis, play pickleball, play golf. Get a Fitbit or a smart watch to track your activity and set a daily move goal. On average, adults in the US take 4 to 5,000 steps daily. Amish farmers take 18,000 steps daily. In addition to using our AOL and NEAT, let’s increase our fun exercises. All types of dances can improve your health and intelligence. You must use your mind to dance. Exercise improves immunity. Pilates, yoga, Tai chi, chi gong are great activities. Join a class at your local Y or community center. Sitting and eating go together. While exercise helps our immunity, we must work twice as hard to not binge watch and binge eat. Binge watching and binge eating are a huge issue today. To 10 | DECEMBER GLO 2023 |
have great immunity, we must try not to eat processed food, fast food, or high sugar and bad fat foods. Choose something healthy. We are what we eat, after all. Sugar addiction is a serious addiction, probably more difficult than alcohol. Limiting your screen hours and replacing them with hours of physical activity and fun exercises will help limit the screen eating as well. Spend time working on a healthy diet to build your immune system. Don’t spend your life sitting. There is so much more to do. Look at my YouTube shows that are free, my books, podcasts, and Instagram for more information. Dr. Rudy’s 16/8 Keto leads to a healthy long life! a
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JANA DEBUSK By Jennie Renner | Photo by Eva Toscos
Jana DeBusk was born in Crawfordsville, Indiana, and moved to Kendallville during her pre-teen years. After graduating from East Noble High School, she continued her education at Western Michigan University, earning a degree in musical theatre. “I have been singing my whole life, and I just never wanted to do anything else,” said DeBusk. “I still don’t want to do anything else, but now I know there’s so much more.” Following college, DeBusk lived in New York for seven years. While living there, every year she travelled by herself to different countries to learn more about the world. “I had a very deep passion for exploration and independence. And doing it alone as a woman was terrifying — so I wanted to do it to prove to myself that I could,” she said. “And what I learned was that the world is a beautiful place, and the more you go and explore, the more you see how beautiful and connected we really are.” In 2013, DeBusk left New York to live in Colombia after reading the works of Gabriel Garcia Marquez. After two years there, she moved to the Netherlands where she earned a master’s degree in jazz. In graduate school, DeBusk’s research centered on creating communication between Syrian refugees, expatriates, and local women using vocal improvisation. Even with a language barrier, the women were able to communicate through music. DeBusk said it was an eye-opening experience for her as she began to deeply understand how much we are alike, no matter where we come from. After the Netherlands, DeBusk returned to Colombia where she lived for a year and was an English teacher for a global tech startup called Playvox. In 2019, she left to come back to Indiana. “I had $400, I was four months pregnant, and I had my guitar, and that’s it,” she said.
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DeBusk lived with family in Fort Wayne until she could get her own place. During this time, she performed her music and worked as a vocal instructor at Purdue Fort Wayne and Sweetwater. A couple years after relocating here, a recruiter from Playvox offered DeBusk a position as a technical writer. She took the job and dove into technology, soaking up everything she could learn. She quickly got promoted to the manager of product communications, the role she’s in now. “I hadn’t explored as much when I was younger, because I was so focused on singing,” she said. “I just feel like the more I explore, the more I want to do.” At 38 years old, DeBusk is continuing to sing in local venues, and in November, she played the lead in the musical Next to Normal. And this spring she will be in a local production of Cats. She also still enjoys traveling, but said she has no plans to move anytime soon. Her son Rami is four and DeBusk said they have found a good life here. “I like the stability and the community that we’re finding in Fort Wayne and having this be our home base while we still go out and travel the world is really important,” she said. “I want to use authentic communication, and bring people together with this communication — whether that be in music or tech, or just empowering women… I don’t know what that looks like…yet.” a
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Born and raised in the 46807 zip code in Fort Wayne, or the ’07 for locals, Stephen J. Bailey has built a beautiful life right here in the Fort and makes it his goal to share that beauty with the community. After losing his father at the age of 8, Bailey didn’t have a lot of men in his life to hold in high regard. Instead, his mother, sister, a family friend named Joan, and the comforting radio voice of Amy Grant inspired him. (FYI — He has met Amy Grant, talked, cried, and held hands with her several times!) These incredible women modeled an endless amount of hard work, determination, nurturing, and caring as mothers, wives, business owners, and employees. As a young adult, Bailey moved south for a few years before returning to Fort Wayne with no love, no money, no education, no career, and no prospects. Suddenly, he realized he couldn’t expect much from his community if he gave it nothing. Over the last decade, he poured his time, money, focus, resources, and purpose into Fort Wayne. Serving and volunteering on 25 boards and committees, he developed long-term relationships with people throughout the region. “I take pride in my ability to be open and vulnerable with people around me when they allow me to feel safe and seen,” Bailey informed when asked about his greatest accomplishment, “My life has been dramatically changed for the better by people along the way that have been vulnerable with me while they are on their journey.” He is proud of the relationships he has built with his husband and friends, honored by the career and home he has created, and humbled by his dedication to helping women in the community.
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same time, she’s open to what opportunities might come her way.
Some people live and breathe the art — and do it in style. Fort Wayne native Olivia McFarren is among those talented young people blazing her own creative path.
“After graduation, my ultimate dream job/goal is to be a Radio City Rockette,” she said. “I’m also open and interested in working on cruise ships or touring with an artist because I love the idea of being able to see the country/world while I dance.”
The daughter of two visual artists, Olivia is a student at Ball State University, pursuing a BFA in Dance Performance. Her college experience so far has broadened her horizons artistically. For instance, she’s been exposed to different types of classes since starting there, including West African, HipHop, and Dance Improvisation.
Wherever her career takes her, Oliva will undoubtedly give it her all. In hindsight, she said there’s no substitute for showing up every day and putting in the time and energy to achieve a worthy goal. In her words, “your work ethic is noticed by people and teachers who are around you a lot.”
However, her love affair with dance started long ago.
With that in mind, she advises young people to stretch themselves beyond their limits, physically and mentally.
“I’ve always been dancing and singing, but my first dance class was at the Fort Wayne Dance Collective and at two and a half years old, I said, ‘It’s my dream come true’ at my first class,” she said. “Through elementary school, I danced at school and performed in different ways thanks to Weisser Park Elementary School. I trained at Fort Wayne Ballet for nine years, and I’m incredibly thankful to have it as the foundation of my technique.”
“Push yourself just over where you think you should stop,” she said. “For example, if you can easily do two push-ups, add one or two more next time. If you push up to the same point every time, you won’t grow as much. It doesn’t have to be a lot to add up. But, do that safely! Don’t pull a muscle!”
Fast forward to high school at Fort Wayne’s North Side, and she decided to pursue other styles of dance, including musical theater, jazz, and contemporary. She did all this while making the National Honor Society and finishing in the top 25 in her 2022 class.
She’s also a firm believer in not falling into the comparison trap. Your journey is your own and you should lean into that truth. As she puts it, “there’s no one in my past or present who has taken the same path, so I find strength in my unique experiences.”
Now, at Ball State, this Gen Z’er is set on making dance a profession. At the
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! n O y t r a P Ready to ring in 2024? We have your ultimate checklist for a perfect New Year’s Eve party! By Julie Young
A New Year’s Eve party is a wonderful way to say goodbye to the old and ring in the new, and no matter if you are planning an intimate gathering or a blowout bash for all of your friends, we are ready to help with the top tips to make your soiree swing! One Month Before _________________________________ • Create a guest list. Friends, family, couples, or singles? Ladies only or guys you know who are ready to mingle? • Send out invitations. Find the perfect invitation that will set the tone for your event and make sure they are sent out electronically or via snail mail. • Decide on a theme. The Roaring 20’s remains a popular decade to pay tribute to, but any decade will do. You can also consider a masquerade ball, red carpet event, or black and white extravaganza. • Make Reservations. If you are hiring a caterer, renting a hall, band, or placing any other kind of special order, now is the time to take care of it.
Two-to-three weeks before ___________________________ • Plan your menu and assemble your grocery lists. Generally speaking, only 75 percent of your guests (if it’s a big party) will make it, but it’s always best to have more than enough. Also, be sure to serve one or two items that reflect the theme of your event.
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One week before __________________________________ • Create a playlist for your party. Even if you are planning on live music, you’ll want to have a selection on hand when the band goes on break. Consider your guests preferences and create a wide selection or go with music that reflects your theme such as movie soundtracks, decade hits, etc. Don’t forget Auld Lang Syne. • Find party games that work for a crowd. An intimate gathering may enjoy a selection of board games, but trivia games, charades, and Pictionary are time-honored, sure-fire winners with most people. • Purchase alcohol. This is important especially if there are certain wines and liquors you want to be sure to have on hand.
Not everyone is into alcohol, whether they are a designated driver, simply choose sobriety, or are underage, you’ll want to include them in your plans. Here are a few suggestions: • A small sundae bar so that they can “mix” their own treat.
One-to-two days before _____________________________ • Clean up. If you are hosting a house party, be sure to make it look nice for your guests. Stock your powder room and make room in the closet for additional coats and wraps. • Extend an invite to your neighbors. This is vital if you live in an apartment or are planning a large party with live music that might get a little loud.
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Setting Realistic New Year’s Resolutions By Amber Bouthot
As the calendar flips to a new year, it’s a time for reflection, renewal, and setting resolutions. Many of us eagerly jot down a list of ambitious goals, fueled by the optimism of a fresh start. However, often, these resolutions fizzle out before February arrives. To make this year different, let’s focus on setting realistic New Year’s resolutions that are not only attainable but also sustainable. The allure of setting high-reaching resolutions is undeniable. Losing 50 pounds, running a marathon, and saving a substantial amount of money can be powerful motivators. However, these grandiose goals are often set without considering the practical steps required to achieve them. Instead of setting ourselves up for disappointment, let’s commit to resolutions that align with our capacities and daily lives. The first step in setting realistic resolutions is to be honest with ourselves. This means assessing our current circumstances, strengths, and weaknesses. It’s essential to identify areas in our lives that need improvement while acknowledging our limitations. Realistic resolutions should be based on a thorough understanding of who we are, what we can realistically achieve, and where we want to go.
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Accountability Accountability is another key factor in achieving your resolutions. Share your goals with a friend or family member who can provide support and encouragement. You may also consider using digital tools, such as habit-tracking apps or goal-setting journals, to help you stay on course. Accountability partners or tools can remind you of your commitment and help you adjust your approach if needed.
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Realistic resolutions should be adaptable. Life is unpredictable, and unexpected obstacles can get in the way of your goals. Instead of giving up if you encounter setbacks, be flexible and adjust your plan as needed. For example, if you set a resolution to read 50 books in a year but fall behind, don’t be discouraged. Modify your goal to a more realistic number or extend your timeline. The key is to keep moving forward.
Self Compassion Setting resolutions that are too stringent can lead to burnout and disappointment. Therefore, it’s crucial to balance your resolutions with self-compassion. Understand that it’s okay to have setbacks and that the path to self-improvement is not linear. Be kind to yourself and acknowledge your achievements, no matter how small. Celebrate your progress along the way to maintain motivation. Setting realistic New Year’s resolutions is a more sustainable and effective approach to self-improvement. Honesty, specificity, accountability, adaptability, and self-compassion are the cornerstones of achievable goals. By taking these principles to heart, you can transform your resolutions into lasting changes that will enhance your life in the year ahead and beyond. Remember, the most important thing is not to set grandiose resolutions but to take small, consistent steps towards self-improvement. The journey itself is as significant as the destination. a
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Resolutions should also be specific, measurable, and attainable. For example, instead of pledging to “get in shape,” set a resolution to “exercise for 30 minutes, three times a week.” By quantifying your goal and breaking it down into manageable parts, you can better track your progress and stay motivated. Moreover, make sure your resolutions align with your current lifestyle. If you’re not an early riser, setting a goal to wake up at 5 AM daily may not be attainable. Start with what you can manage and gradually build from there.
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FEATURE | Holiday Gift Guide
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FEATURE | Holiday Gift Guide
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Give the Gift of an Experience Looking for a gift for the hard-to-buy person on your list? Give them the gift of an experience. Fort Wayne Food Tours gift certificates make the perfect gift. The tour includes four culinary stops and a walking tour of downtown that includes historical and cultural information, as well as a behind the scenes look at the various murals along the route.
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FEATURE | Holiday Gift Guide
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FEATURE | On Her Nightstand
On Her Nightstand By Wendy Stein
What are you currently reading?
“We Are Here To Hurt Each Other” by local author Paula Ashe (note: previously featured in this column). I love horror stories, especially on the dark side and this book is both. It is a compilation of short horror stories, each one as scary and twisted as the next. I love how the book takes you on a rollercoaster ride of what can possibly top the story you just read and then the next one does just that.
Do you have a favorite author?
Stephen King. I have been reading his books since I was a child.
What’s your favorite genre? I have a feeling I know what you’re going to say… Horror and Thrillers
I’m a little scared of what the answer might be to this next one. Do you have some favorite books from childhood?
I had a few, I loved “The Hobbit” by J.R.R. Tolkien and I loved “Mrs. Frisby and the Rats Of NIMH” by Robert C. O’Brien. Another one of my all-time favorites was “Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry” by Mildred D. Taylor. I have been reading since the age of 3, and as I was growing up, I always had a book in my hand.
What fictional world would you like to spend some time in?
Chantel Williams
From the moment I read “The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe” by C.S. Lewis, I always wanted to go to Narnia.
Final thoughts: Is the movie ever as good as the book? No, but I feel like “The Color Purple” came close! a
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FEATURE | Motherhood
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The Six Mom Friends You Need – And Where to Find Them! By Mary Jane Bogle
Mom friends. They’re the secret weapon for surviving motherhood. Whether you’re just starting out or your kids are grown and flown, you’ll never stop needing the advice, care, and laughter your mom friends bring. Here’s a quick guide on who they are and where to find them. The “Been There, Done That” Mom — This woman is a step ahead of you in the parenting game, and she’s a great source for practical advice. She can tell you what worked for her — and what didn’t — and help you remember that “this too shall pass.” The “Shoulder-to-Shoulder” Mom — This mom is living in the
trenches with you, and she’s the perfect go-to when you just need to tell SOMEBODY about your recent mom fail. Plan on sharing tons of laughter — along with a few tears and some hugs — with this bestie.
The “Newbie” Mom — Here’s your chance to offer encouragement to
someone else. This woman is a few stages behind you in the parenting journey, and she could really benefit from your experience.
The “Adventure Seeker” Mom — This mom will push you outside
your comfort zone. She’ll be the one to suggest the new restaurant for your next Mom’s Night Out and urge you to leave the grocery shopping for another day so you guys can take the kids to the latest exhibit at the children’s museum. You should always go. These are the days you’ll remember long after the groceries are gone.
The “Professional Organizer” Mom — This gal will keep you keep
up-to-date on all the school or homeschool co-op calendar events, remind you that Little League and soccer registration ends soon, and never let you miss a “dress-like-your-favorite-super-hero” day again. Follow her on social media, even if you can’t stand how perfect her life is right now. She’s guaranteed to keep you on top of yours.
The “Mom’s Mom” Mom — Yes, it’s redundant, but that’s also the
point. This woman is a natural caregiver, and she’ll be the one to set up the meal train when you have a baby, be the first one to drop off soup when you’re sick, and be the one to get your kids from the pickup line when your appointment runs long — no questions asked. She might even take your kids to her house for an impromptu playdate while you clean your house and plan dinner, and she’ll be quick to swap childcare nights with you so you can catch up with your spouse.
WHERE TO FIND THEM Knowing you need friends is great, but connecting with them is something else entirely. Here’s a handy guide on where to look.
Shared Activities — This is the number one place to find your “mom
in the trenches” friend. You don’t have to have everything in common. Just knowing you’re doing the same things at the same time can be enough.
Family — Family members can be friends, too. Just be sure to choose wisely what you share and with whom. Your Aunt Mabel may have loads of advice about your kid’s latest bout of insomnia but might not appreciate hearing how you fed everyone cereal because you went to the museum with your friend instead of buying groceries!
Faith Community — If you’re a person of faith, now is the perfect
time to plug in. Join the intergenerational Bible study and go to the overnight women’s retreat. Not only will these ladies pray for you; they’ll also drop off an amazing dish the next time you’re sick!
Yourself — Be the friend you want to find. Invite someone out to coffee or over to your house for a playdate. You’ll never know how much you have in common if you never ask! a | DECEMBER GLO 2023 |
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FEATURE | We Love Your Style
We Love Your Style ELLE HELM
By Amber Bouthot
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Each month, we highlight someone whose style we is an amazing mixologist. We love to try out admire. This month, it’s Elle Helm. Elle is a graphic new or unusual cocktails. The bar was our first designer and a new mom to her adorable baby boy, home project. It took several months, and we Raymond. She and her husband, Matt, also have two mainly did everything DIY. fur babies: Rhodesian Ridgebacks Bruno and Stella. Initially, I envisioned an antiqued mirror wall Elle loves to thrift, cook, and garden. Fun fact: she is for the back of the bar. Since that would have been very difficult, I started looking Deer Park’s three-time Chili Cook-off Champion. into wallpaper. Maxwell Interiors, a family How would you describe your style? Vintage, Cozy, Chic
Tell us a little about each area of your home you chose to highlight. Why did you choose them? What makes them your faves? During the four and a half years we’ve been in our home, we’ve worked the hardest on our bar and nursery. When I toured our house and saw the empty space in the dining room, I immediately knew
friend, worked with me on the golden wallpaper. The wallpaper is my favorite part of the bar. It’s so unique and warms the space up. Visitors are always surprised that it is not metal of some sort. I worked with a rep at City Glass on the custom glass shelves. The black granite countertop was a remnant piece from Classic Marble. The library light is from Wayfair. We took a hiatus from working on the bar while I was pregnant, but now we are starting to use it more again. My husband and I wanted to stay gender-neutral for the nursery even though we were having a boy. We loved the idea of getting a metal, vintage-looking crib that could be used for a boy or girl. The crib is new from Wayfair but has that great vintage look. I already had the brown/taupe drapes to use in the nursery. My husband and I took a folded-up drape to Menards to compare against paint samples. We chose this beautiful green, making the room very cozy. Having a beautiful nursery makes the middle-of-the-night feedings more enjoyable.
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A lot of the decor in the nursery came from my parents. Above our changing table is an old print of a dog and baby in a basket that hung in my nursery when I was a baby. Our
bookshelf, other vintage prints, and mobile came from my parents. I’m very much my mother’s daughter. We have similar tastes in fashion and home décor. Whenever she makes new drapes for her house, I take her old ones, and she helps me hang them in my house. Much of the credit goes to my mother. She helped us make a house our home.
When you think of your home, what’s the feeling you hope your family and visitors have? I love when visitors come over and comment on different items. Every piece in our home has a story, like our dining table from my grandparents. Or the living room drapes I bought from an estate sale in the ‘05 neighborhood. (Fun fact: those drapes were custom-made in the late 60s and were cared for very well. They are holding up great!)
What’s your favorite color? That’s a tricky question. As a designer, I love and appreciate all colors. When it comes to my home, though, I’m a sucker for anything gold. a
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HOME LIVING | Feature
Preparing for Extreme Winter Weather By Bethany Beebe
It may not be Bing Crosby, but it is “beginning to look a lot like”... winter. The snow and ice can be beautiful; the cold refreshing. While it may have its joys, winter weather can also be dangerous. To do our best at making it to Spring safe and healthy, preparation is necessary for those times when the weather may become extreme.
General health Staying warm and safe is critical, especially when the power goes out and we cannot operate our furnaces. All those in cold-weather climates should have clothing to layer, including hats, mittens, and scarves. Children and adults will find utility in layering. A base layer that is thin and wicks away moisture under an insulating layer to trap heat can help keep us comfortable under an outside-exposed top layer that blocks wind and precipitation. Especially in the case of senior citizens and babies, maintaining a warm environment is important. The CDC recommends those over 65 years old keep an easy-to-read thermometer for indoor temperature monitoring; as we age, it becomes more challenging to discern temperature changes in our most immediate environments. Babies have a more difficult time staying warm than their fully-grown counterparts. Warmer clothes, moving to a warmer location in the case of power outage, or holding the child close to share one’s body heat in the case of a heating emergency can help keep a baby safe. Having the things we need also makes extreme weather easier to handle. Extra medication and spare supplies for pets are two such measures. When a forecast of challenging winter weather is made, buying groceries is a good idea; hoarding should be avoided, however, leaving enough for others.
Around the house Basic changes around the house can make for a safer and more comfortable season, extreme weather or not. Weatherproofing the house by insulating walls and attics, putting in storm/thermal pane windows, employing caulk or weather stripping around doors and windows, insulating water lines, repairing roof leaks, and trimming tree branches that could fall on the house lead to greater preparedness. Heat sources should all be safe to use and maintained well. If a fireplace is part of your emergency plan, have an inspector check the flue annually. The chimney is not the only heat source that needs ventilation to the outdoors for safe use; anything that burns fuel should be vented, as recommended. Near these heat producers, a dry-chemical fire extinguisher should be ready for use. Furnaces should be checked seasonally, and a smoke/carbon monoxide detector can assure safety when using these most critical creature comforts.
On the move To make us more comfortable keeping a regular routine in the winter, maintenance on the car is a must. Keeping the gas tank full can prevent line freezing. A check, by experts, of the oil, brakes, filters, and battery, among other things, can allow us to go “dashing through the snow” to the beat of winter’s melody until warmth returns again. a
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HOME LIVING | Feature
Outdoor
-Tech HighHome Enhancements By Cathy Shouse
When it’s time to equip an outdoor living space, the options conjure the theme song from the Disney classic movie Aladdin. It’s “A Whole New World.”
The Werkleys have an annual Indianapolis 500 party and show the race on both TVs. One TV is permanently mounted and the other is on a swivel so it can face the pool or the side of the shelter with the fire pit.
Libby Werkley switched homes a few years ago, and she and her husband created an exceptional outdoor space. They started by building a structure, decked it out with two weatherproof TVs, a fountain, and pool, and included technology enhancements.
“The specialized TVs aren’t that much more expensive,” she said. “They come ready to go and ready to brave the elements.”
“Building this large shelter on the back of our house has been amazing for us,” Werkley said. “We use our outdoor TVs all the time. We updated it with reclining patio furniture, and my husband and I are out there at least three times a week, sometimes every day in the summer. We use the outdoor TVs way more than we anticipated.”
Everything with the pool is managed from her phone app, and their adult children can enter the pool using the app when Werkley and her husband are away. The Werkleys have multiple fountains that can be controlled from an app, including two bubblers, as well as fountains that come out of the side of the pool. “I can make them go all the way across to the other side of the pool or we can keep them low. Sometimes we just sit outside with the fountain and listen to the water. It’s very calming,” Werkley said. Any modern outdoor space will take advantage of the lighting options, which are another key element
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Tate, who kicked off his business at the Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show in March, said his busiest season is Christmas, but there are many options for enjoying lights all year round. “There’s Valentine’s, 4th of July, and Memorial Day, to name a few. Some people are having tailgate parties at home to watch college football. One of our clients is a Notre Dame fan and turns his lights to Notre Dame colors. We’re trying to change the mindset, so you don’t use the lights only at Christmas.” Depending on what is chosen, in general, the cost is $25 to $28 per linear foot of an installed, turnkey light system. The installation will be located to work with your landscaping and not to detract from the property’s overall appeal. The lesser quality products will show the tape and the wires, so Tate has carefully chosen what he offers clients. Some have twenty pre-set choices to choose from, and they can be placed on a timer, as well. Most LED lights he installs are projected to last for 100,000 hours.
for entertainment and, potentially, for security. Tony Tate of Northern Lights LED, LLC works with customers wanting unique looks and durable design. Everything can be directed remotely, too. “You could be on a beach in Tahiti and as long as you have wifi, you can operate your lights,” Tate said. “There are all types of color palettes. The lights can be set on stationary, twinkle, or fading in and out. They can even split colors.”
“Everybody loves it,” Tate said. “Every customer I have is willing to let me bring people over to see what I’ve done for them. They post their photos on social media. I had one couple where the wife was literally dancing in the driveway. I now have my home set up to show, as well.” a
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HOME LIVING | I Am Home
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Jill Brueggeman Goeglein By BethAnne Brink Cox | Photo provided
The list of accomplishments Jill Brueggeman Goeglein has achieved would fill every page of this month’s issue. Multiple positions with Vera Bradley, the YWCA, and Coopers & Lybrand (now Price Waterhouse.) And that’s not counting her commitment to her church, her work with the Lutheran Foundation, Riley Children’s Foundation, Birchwood Adult Daycare, and a new facility for Alzheimer Daycare. You might think there aren’t enough hours in the day, but Goeglein finds them. She explained, “Many people mistake retirement as an end to a busy and happy life; it gave me an opportunity to pursue interests I simply didn’t have time for while working. It’s rewarding to be part of an organization making huge investments in our community, including support of breaking the stigma against mental illness: our family suffered a tragedy with the loss of my middle son, Ross, age 30, to suicide January 31, 2022. Although I have personally supported mental health for years, I now find myself on the most difficult grief journey. We have partnered with RemedyLIVE the past two years with a golf outing that benefits the organization in Ross’ memory.” This past August, the second annual event raised $100,000 for RecoveryLIVE. Goeglein is a Fort Wayne native and has lived here her whole life. “I absolutely love Fort Wayne, and my husband and I currently split time between our home in Clear Lake and downtown Fort Wayne. We also have plans to spend a few weeks in Florida each year starting next year, as I have discovered my tolerance to harsh winters has been decreasing, and it offers a great place for our family to visit us. As mentioned the Goegleins live downtown Fort Wayne in a condominium in Midtowne Crossing. “We love living downtown! she said. “We enjoy walking to restaurants, events, coffee shops. It has been so fun to see downtown come to life in the past few years.” With all her bright enthusiasm, Goeglein said that Fort Wayne offers excellent quality of life. “But it is tough to identify one part of Fort 34 | DECEMBER GLO 2023 |
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Wayne as the best. I think it is the collective parts that give us that overall excellent quality of life. Living downtown, one of our favorite holiday traditions includes the Night of Lights, Wednesday evening before Thanksgiving. We love having our family join us that night as we walk around downtown. It is truly one of the most fun nights in Fort Wayne. And Christmas always includes attending church, and spending time with our family. We have found it is important to hold on to past traditions, while also adding new ones. Our loss of a loved one has taught us the value of cherishing every moment together, and we try hard to be together as much as possible.” And that, then, is another part of Ross’ legacy, as well as the way his family honors his memory. It is a shining example to everyone to do the same, with our loved ones here or gone, building memories and traditions that will become more precious with every passing year. Goeglein has given us all a gift by sharing this deepest loss in this way. a
HOME LIVING | Company Spotlight
By Gabby Hunnicutt
Money Matters Professional Collections, LLC is a local debt collection agency that was established in 2000. When Christina Adkison joined the team in 2003 as a collector, the client base was primarily medical and dental practices. She worked her way through the ranks and became General Manager, eventually purchasing the company in 2016 when the original owner wanted to leave the business to travel.
In recent years, Money Matters has expanded its collection services to include other types of organizations like restoration companies and attorneys to meet the growing needs of the community. In general, Money Matters is geared towards working with small and medium practices because for them, Adkison says, “every dollar counts.” These practices don’t necessarily have the revenue to allow for services to go unpaid like a hospital would, and they operate on a much smaller scale. While large collection agencies purchase debt for pennies on the dollar, Money Matters takes a different approach. It is assigned to Money Matters to collect, giving the clients more control of the process, including final approval on if and when they want to pursue the debt collection in the court system. Clients of Money Matters can check in on the progress being made with their accounts, like payments being made and statements being sent, with their own unique portal. Building trust with the recipients of their client’s services is just as important at Money Matters. “Yes, we want to do a good job for our clients, but we also understand that people are humans,” Adkison says. Doctors and dentists can expect their patients to receive the same level of professionalism and respect from Money Matters when debts are being collected. While clients may be reluctant to send debt to an agency for collection, with Money Matters they can be confident knowing that they have a reliable partner in the process. a Christina Adkison
Money Matters, LLC, Fort Wayne, 260.471.0490, mmpcollections.com
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1-10 | Thursday-Sunday | Summit City Music Theatre Presents: A Christmas Carol - A Fort Wayne Tradition Salomon Farm Park
For years, Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol has captivated, entertained, and changed the hearts of people all over the world, and now it’s time for Fort Wayne to join in this beloved tradition of Christmas. Bring your blankets and coats and witness this story of redemption in the historic Salomon Farm Park Old Barn with the entire family. Show times and prices vary. More info: https://www.fortwayneparks.org/a-christmas-carol.html
1-10 | Thursday-Sunday | Fort Wayne Ballet – The Nutcracker
Dream along with Clara as her champion battles the Mouse Queen and sweeps her off to the enchanted Land of Sweets. Sugarplums pirouette in this visual spectacle; a must-see for the young at heart. Start a new family tradition this holiday season with Fort Wayne Ballet’s The Nutcracker! Dates vary between December 1, 2023 - December 10, 2023. Tickets: $55 with Orchestra / $45 Standard. Arts United Center, 303 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. https://fortwayneballet.org/performance/nutcracker/
1-17 | Daily | Festival of Gingerbread
1-January 7 | Daily | Timeless Tradition
Holidays at the Botanical Conservatory have delighted the community as a family favorite over the last 40 years. Its gardens in light and scenes of merriment contribute to a warm holiday spirit in the heart of downtown Fort Wayne. Fresh cut evergreens, a lush poinsettia tree and deep ruby undertones are the backdrop to this year’s memories. Join us in celebrating an oasis of growth and tradition. Recurring weekly on Sunday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday until January 7, 2024. Foellinger Freimann Botanical Conservatory, 1100 South Calhoun Street. https://www.botanicalconservatory.org/
1 & 2 | Friday & Saturday | Le Chic Holiday Market
Kick off your Holiday shopping with Fort Wayne’s Shopping Tradition- Le Chic! Amazing and unique vendor after amazing and unique vendor! One of a kind holiday shopping for EVERYONE on your list! The first 200 adults in line both Friday and Saturday will receive a re-usebale Le Chic Sak! Friday 5pm - 9pm; Saturday 10am - 4pm. $5 (Children 12 and under are free). Allen County War Memorial Coliseum. https://lechicholidaymarket.com/
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The History Center will host the 38th Annual Festival of Gingerbread through Sunday, December 17th. With new creations crafted each year by gingerbread artists of all ages and skill levels, this cherished holiday event will continue its tradition of joyful spirit and downtown cheer. Monday - Thursday 9am-5pm, Friday - Saturday 9am-8pm, Sunday 12pm-5pm. $7 for adults ages 18-64, $5 for seniors ages 65+ and youth ages 3-17, and free to children ages 2 and under. https://fwhistorycenter.org/event-sched/#festival-of-gingerbread
Roanoke Christmas in the Village
1-30 | Friday, Saturday & Sunday |
Christmas at The Fort- A Timeline Event
Wild Zoo Wonderful at the Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo
Santa is coming to the Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo! Wild Zoo Wonderland at the Zoo from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.* on select dates. Come say hello to animals on Red Panda Ridge, hear a holiday tale during Story Time, give a stingray a jolly treat, visit Santa Claus, and more! December 1-3, 8-10, 15-17, 21-23, 26-30, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. FREE for Zoo Members, $12 for General Admission (Ages 13+), $10 for Kids (Ages 2-12), and FREE for children below the age of 2. https://kidszoo.org/
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Visit Roanoke for a picturesque Christmas celebration, including: Lighted Parade, Pony Rides, Santa & Mrs. Claus, Hot Cocoa Bar & Cider, Cookies & Carols, Breakfast with Santa, Shopping, Dining, and More! Friday: 5-8 p.m., Parade at 7 p.m. on Main Street in downtown Roanoke. https://visithuntington.org/events/ christmas-in-the-village-of-roanoke-in
2 | Saturday | Talk with soldiers about how they observed the holidays. Visit with the artisans as they present hand-crafted gift ideas. Pick up a sweet treat from the bake sale and check out the Old Fort merchandise. Welcome the holidays with fun and festivities at the Old Fort!10:00 am – 4:00 pm, FREE. The Old Fort, https://oldfortwayne.org/
2 | Saturday | Christmas on the Farm
Get your photos with Santa Clause in the Old Barn, visit with the farm animals, go on a horse-drawn wagon ride. Vendors will be in the Wolf learning center for any holiday shopping. Watch the blacksmiths forge iron. 1:00 pm – 5:00 pm, $5 per car. Salomon Farm Park, https://www.facebook.com/events/761933305699858
2 & 3 | Saturday & Sunday | Holiday Home Tour
Make plans to attend the William Woodland Park’s annual Holiday Home Tour! There are 7 historic homes and 1 apartment to tour this year, plus 1 surprise stop that you will love! Saturday December 2nd from 5pm - 9pm and Sunday December 3rd from 1pm - 5pm. Tickets are $15. William Woodland Park Neighborhood, https://williamswoodlandpark.com/holiday-home-tour-2023
2, 9, 16, 23 & 30 | Saturdays | Ft. Wayne’s Farmer’s Market
The Ft. Wayne’s Farmers Market hosts a constantly changing variety of products, including meat, produce, farm products, baked goods, jewelry, artisan crafts, food trucks, and much more! 500 E State St. The future Fransiscan Center. https://ftwaynesfarmersmarket.com/
2, 9, 16, 23 & 30 | Saturdays | YLNI’s Winter Farmers Market
The YLNI Farmers Market will relocate to their winter market home beginning October 7, 2023. The Market will move to The Olde East End Building located at 1501 E. Berry Street in downtown Fort Wayne. Formerly home to Picker’s Dream, The Olde East End Building is best known as the Wayne Candy Factory. 9am – 1 pm. https://www.facebook.com/YLNIFarmersMarket/
7 | Thursday | Cirque Dreams Holidaze (Touring)
CIRQUE DREAMS HOLIDAZE dazzles with a brilliant and whimsical family holiday spectacular. This annual tradition wraps a Broadwaystyle production around an infusion of contemporary circus arts. As lights dim and the music swells, audiences will have visions of sugarplums dancing in their heads as a fantastical cast of holiday storybook characters come to life on stage. 7:30 pm, Tickets are $35. Embassy Theatre, http://fwembassytheatre.org/events/
7 | Thursday | Pearl Harbor Day Remembrance Ceremony
The public is welcome to attend and honor the men and women who were lost in the attack on Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941. Guests attending the ceremony should enter the Memorial Coliseum employee parking lot at entrance #4, off of Parnell Avenue, located across the street from Casa Ristorante and Afdent. Guests should enter the building through Memorial Hall at Veterans Plaza near the airplane. 7:00 pm, Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, https://www.memorialcoliseum.com/
8-17 | Days Vary | A Charlie Brown Christmas
Everyone’s favorite holiday classic returns to Youtheatre in an all new production. Charles M. Schulz’s Emmy Award-winning A Charlie Brown Christmas has been warming hearts since it debuted on television over 50 years ago. Now the whole family can join Snoopy, Lucy, Linus, good ol’ Charlie Brown and the whole Peanuts gang as they sing, dance, and learn the true meaning of Christmas LIVE ON-STAGE! December 8th at 7 PM; Dece mber 9th at 3 PM; December 10th at 3 PM; December 14th at 7 PM (Sensory Friendly Performance); December 15th at 7 PM; December 16th at 3 PM; December 17th at 3 PM. Tickets are $15. First Presbyterian Church, https://www.fortwayneyoutheatre.org/charlie-brown-christmas-1
14-16 | Thursday-Saturday | Elf Jr.
Fire & Light Productions presents Elf Jr., based on the New Line Cinema film and presented by special arrangement with Music Theatre International. December 14-16, 7 PM; December 16, 2 PM, Tickets are $16. Arts United Center, https://fireandlightproductions.com/events
15-17 | Friday-Sunday | The Spirit of Christmas
Heartland Sings presents its 10th anniversary performance of this Fort Wayne holiday tradition. Selections on the program include time-honored favorites in sophisticated arrangements and original creations for Heartland Sings by Maestro Robert Nance. Friday: 7:30 p.m.; Saturday: 3:00 p.m.; Sunday: 3:00 p.m. Tickets are $35 in advance, $40 day of. Allen County Courthouse Rotunda, https://www.heartlandsings.org/spirit-of-christmas Shutterstock.com
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