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PUBLISHER’S NOTE This month’s issue showcases our annual Where Are They Headed? story on graduating high school seniors. These young adults started school roughly the same time as our magazine got its start. Many have appeared in The Buzz because of their interests or accomplishments – or their families’. I’m feeling a little sentimental about it all, although that may also have something to do with the fact that our youngest son, Matt, just graduated from college and is heading off to Los Angeles, just as I did (except with his cell phone), to find a career and a new life. For the first time in 18 years, Joni and I will not have a kid in any school. Also, this summer will mark my 40th high school reunion, where I’ll see familiar faces, and notice who is missing – which brings me to another story I hope you read in this issue, Cathy Gordon’s article about young Buzz residents who battle drug addiction. Just as we celebrate our high school graduates, we salute those marking other kinds of momentous undertakings – and we wish joy to them all. michael@thebuzzmagazines.com
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Your letters, thoughts, opinions Cancer story hits home Just a quick note to comment on the consistently high quality of the magazine. I have a lot of time on my hands these days and read a lot, and am generally disappointed at the amount of grammar and spelling errors, as well as poorly written articles that make it to print, but not with this magazine. Your publication is always top notch. Thank you!! I recently read, for example, the article “Facing Cancer” [by Jennifer Oakley, May 2016] and found it especially resonated with me as a cancer patient. Although I have come close to death on at least five occasions in the past one and a half years, it appears I am beating a very difficult cancer as I have entered the small group of 20 percent of survivors with my attributes after 1.5 years. Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML) is the name of my cancer. Unfortunately, I and my family know too much about AML cancer, but ,[and] as the father of three small children (ages 4, 6.5, and 6.5), I must, and will be victorious over this evil illness. I credit almighty God for bringing me this far and hopefully to a successful conclusion by year-end. So you see, I appreciated reading this success story in your magazine. Eric Zoerb Editor’s note: Because of this story, Eric reconnected with an old friend from St. Thomas’ Episcopal School, Cheryl Laird, who is our Buzz associate editor. Thank you so much for your letter, Eric, and we wish you health. Jennifer’s stories have resonated with many readers whose lives have been touched by cancer. Each of the four Buzz magazines featured a different cancer survivor, so if you haven’t read the other ones, you can find them at thebuzzmagazines.com.
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Feels for foodie-kid story Many many thanks for all of the effort spent on the Foodie Kids piece [Foodie Kids: Grown-up palates, by Andria Frankfort, May 2016] and for portraying all of the kiddos so well! We are thrilled with how it turned out and love that you have shed some light on the possibilities to feed our kids well by educating and engaging them. Tama Klosek
On the other hand I believe the word Andria Frankfort meant to use in the title of her Foodie Kids story is "palates," not "palettes." Katherine Wallace Editor’s note: Thank you for reminding us that this was a story about food, not painting. We’ve corrected it at thebuzzmagazines.com. Send letters to info@thebuzzmagazines.com. Please include your name, address, phone number and email address for verification purposes. Letters are subject to editing for clarity and space. Views expressed in letters do not necessarily reflect the opinions of The Buzz Magazines, and The Buzz takes no responsibility for the content and opinions expressed in them.
Mom would be happy Thank you for the wonderful article about my mother, Miss Lillian [Miss Lillian’s Legacy: Beloved gardener’s plants live on, by Andria Frankfort, April 2016]. The habit of giving away flowers was one of her signature traits. And so it was on her birthday that she had to give away the sweet-smelling gardenias on the bush in her backyard. When Gigi Shapiro called me to tell me that the gardenia bush was still alive and well I could hardly believe it. The Buzz has really told this incredible story so well. And I think those who read it will understand that this story is the story of a minor miracle. That Melissa the new owner has moved it to the front yard for all to see and that Melissa is excited to have this legacy of my mother's incredible life in her garden. I am so glad that we were not able to move the gardenia bush off of the lot. It belongs on the land my mother so loved and tended. It belongs to Melissa. I truly believe that if you had not started writing this story none of this would have happened. So I am deeply indebted to The Buzz for saving this gardenia bush and in the process saving an enduring legacy of Miss Lillian. When my mother died I really wanted to share some of her stories and pictures and memories, so I built a website – www.lillianillig.com/members MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 6
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FOOD by Russell Weil, contributing writer
Restaurant Road Trips Culinary adventures near Houston
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he New York Times recently referred to Houston as “one of the great eating capitals of America.” That’s no surprise to locals. However, sometimes we forget the dining gems hidden in small towns just a short road trip away.
Brenham: 96 West Traveling northwest on Highway 290, the landscape begins to change in Chappell Hill, with green hills and ranches greeting drivers just east of Brenham. While known for Blue Bell ice cream, historic Brenham is also home to 96 West, a tapas/fusion wine and craft beer restaurant on the downtown square. The sleek interior of cedar wood, steel and leather feels like a trendy bar on Austin’s 6th Street, but 96 West’s friendly service and modern comfort food create a hometown feel. A meat lover’s cravings are fed with simple offerings such as Flat Iron Steak and mashed potatoes or barbecue pork flanked with mozzarella and provolone cheeses. But for the more widely branching palate, 96 West does not disappoint. Start with the tapas offerings, such as the Home Sweet Farm Market artisan cheese plate and Texas Akaushi beef sliders, paired with wine; the Cabernet house wine is especially smooth. From there, try the 8-ounce airline chicken breast, a breast with the drumette attached, stuffed with spinach and artichokes. The tart artichoke complements the silky spinach to create a balanced stuffing. And, for dessert, consider the Meyer Lemon Pound Cake. Made with local Meyer lemons and cornmeal from the family-run Richardson Farms near Cameron, Texas, the cake celebrates tart and sweet. Craft beers, flatbreads, soups, salads and a Sunday brunch round out the experience at 96 West. 4 p.m.-11 p.m. Wed.-Sat.; 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Sun., 103 South Baylor St., Brenham, 979-421-8388. 96west.com. $$
Burton: Brazos Belle About 15 minutes farther north from Brenham in the rolling hills of Burton is Brazos Belle. Since 1993, this authentic CountryFrench restaurant has thrived in the former cotton-farming town in Washington County. Chef MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 10
HEADED TO HUNTSVILLE The Collard Cabin, built in 1834, is the setting for fine road-trip dining at The Homestead on 19th.
Andre Delacroix and his wife Sandy welcome weekend diners to try his classic French techniques emphasizing lighter ingredients like herbs and red wine over butter and heavy cream. Brazos Belle’s setting is reminiscent of a quaint country farmhouse outfitted with wooden, small tables and French-inspired community tables. Walk up the steps to a long front porch that was originally the first home to the Burton Farmers Cooperative. That farming tradition continues, as Chef Delacroix grows his own herbs and seasonal vegetables. He frequents area markets each week to hand select vegetables grown locally. Their menu is classically simple and reasonably priced. I suggest ordering their Steak au Poivre Vert. My center-cut of filet mignon was tender, with a perfect deep red center of medium temperature. The chef makes his own peppercorn sauce. A nice choice of salads and appetizers is offered, as well as an ample wine selection. If you are a fan of spicy foods, try the French Country Pâté served with Dijon mustard. Desserts include chocolate mousse with fresh orange sauce and peach melba topped with Blue Bell ice cream. Brazos Belle is open only on Friday, Saturday and Sunday, so this is the perfect restaurant road
trip, especially when combined with an afternoon of antique shopping at some of the area treasures. 5:30-8:30 p.m. Fri. & Sat.; 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Sun., 600 Main St., Burton, 979289-2677. brazosbellerestaurant.com. $$-$$$
Richmond: Italian Maid Cafe If driving south is on your horizon, the family-owned Italian Maid Cafe in historic downtown Richmond should not be missed for lunch or dinner. The quaint café, housed in a turn-ofthe-century building, is decorated with a traditional and casual Italian flair. Wine bottles and local memorabilia adorn the walls, but the food is the real attraction here. Try some pasta dishes, such as eggplant parmesan layered with homemade ragu (meat-based sauce) or the beef lasagna with just the right amount of red wine and ragu. Homemade garlic bread is presented to the table as soon as you are seated. All desserts are made from scratch by Chef Alex Ciocca. Try the Italian cream cake. Be sure to ask your server about the daily dessert selections. To walk off your meal, enjoy a stroll around the downtown antique shops and other local stores. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Mon.-Wed..; 11 a.m.-8 p.m. Thurs.Sat., 300 Morton St., Richmond, 281-344-8955. italianmaidcafe.com. $$ (continued on page 12)
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BRENHAM BOUND Meyer Lemon Poundcake is a sweet and tart highlight of a culinary roadtrip to 96 West in Brenham.
El Campo: Prasek’s Hillje Smokehouse
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Continue your drive a little deeper south and stop at Prasek’s Hillje Smokehouse in El Campo. For many, this one stop for food, gas and gifts is a destination. Opened in 1974 as a grocery store by Mike and Betty Jo Prasek, this large local country store specializes in smoked products. Prasek’s is also a bakery, specialty meat market, gift shop, ice cream parlor and restaurant. Daily lunch specials at The Big H Grill are the big draw, served in a cafeteria-style setting. Pumpkin Seed Crusted Chicken, tender and juicy with a crunchy crust and butter sauce, is served with Prasek’s sausage jambalaya. Prasek’s sausage, smoked using the same family recipe for over 40 years, offers a spicy taste and crispy texture. You might try their version of King Ranch Chicken. Gourmet sandwiches include pork served with sweet potato fries or an Italian sub sandwich. But it was the barbecue plate of tender meats that I devoured. Burgers, steaks and salads round out Prasek’s huge menu. Before leaving, browse the store for goodies such as peppered turkey jerky, Pigs in a Blanket and other smoked treats, sweets or regional souvenirs. For those of you who want to enjoy Prasek’s locally, Houston’s River Oaks Doughnuts, 2601 Westheimer, features Prasek’s sausage in their MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 12
tasty kolaches. 7 a.m.-8 p.m. Mon.-Thurs.; 7 a.m.-9 p.m. Fri.; 7 a.m.-7 p.m. Sat.; 8 a.m.-8 p.m. Sun., 29714 US-59, El Campo, 979-5438312. praseks.com. $
Huntsville: The Homestead on 19th Road tripping north on the I-45 corridor toward Dallas generally bypasses the many small towns along that route. However, should you venture off to U.S. 75 (the old Dallas highway), you will be detoured through the charming and quaint centers of towns such as Buffalo, Fairfield, Madisonville, Centerville and Huntsville. The Homestead on 19th is located in the center of Huntsville adjacent to Sam Houston State University. Housed in one of Huntsville’s oldest surviving homes, and a local favorite since 1995, The Homestead specializes in fresh seafood and steaks served with whiskey butter. The cabin was built in 1834 by German immigrant and Texas Revolution soldier Lemuel Collard. This casual and historic setting, with friendly service, is a gentle reminder that we are deep in the heart of Texas. At dinner, the quality steak offerings include a traditional tenderloin filet and a creative mozzarella- and garlic-stuffed filet. One of the chef’s specials is a bone-in, honey mustard-glazed pork loin chop. Leaving the bone in creates a tender
experience, and the honey-mustard glaze brings just the right amount of sweet flavor to the perfectly prepared loin chop, accompanied by apple demi-glace, applesauce, mashed potatoes and sautéed seasonal vegetables. This comfort food is worth the drive. The Homestead also hosts cooking classes, as well as special dinners, including an annual Messina Hof Vintner’s Dinner. 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Wed.-Sat.; dinner served at 5 p.m. Wed.-Sat., 1215 19th St., Huntsville, 936-291-7366. homesteadon19th.com. $$-$$$ These are just a sampling of some dining destinations a short drive from Houston. Other popular ones to consider are Royers Cafe and Royers Pie Haven in Round Top and Volare Italian Restaurant in Brenham. The Inn at Dos Brisas in Chappell Hill is the only Forbes 5-star restaurant in Texas that is not in a major city.
MORE ONLINE No road-tripping story would be complete without Galveston. See the online version of this story at thebuzzmagazines.com for a link to Andria Frankfort’s Going to Galveston: BOI Buzz residents share fave spots, from July 2015. We’d love to hear about your favorite road-trip restaurant. Email info@thebuzzmagazines.com or leave a comment under this story at thebuzzmagazines.com.
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NEIGHBORS
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Good apple. Four years ago, Catherine Marshall met Nicholas Graham when they both worked at an Apple store. Nick, from Liverpool, England, quickly fell in love with the Southern belle, and he proposed at Zilker Park in Austin last year. They married this spring at Ian’s Chapel at Camp Lucy in Dripping Springs. At the wedding, when Catherine and Nick said their vows, Catherine shared that she never thought she could be so happy again after the death of her father and the illness of her mother, but Nick’s love has renewed her. Parents of the couple are Charlotte and the late Bill Marshall and John and Sara Graham. Although the couple honeymooned in Jamaica, there’s an upcoming European trip on the horizon. Strangers in the night. Alicia Cribbs and Kyle McIlheran initially met through a mutual friend in 2013, but it did not go as intended. They ran into each other six months later, and they have been running toward each other ever since. Alicia went to Kyle’s home one morning and noticed candles lit in the kitchen and dogs with bows around their necks. She said, “Yes.” They wed April 9 at the Kiehne Creek Farm in Fredericksburg in a field of bluebonnets, wildflowers and a few cows. Kyle surprised Alicia by singing The Way You Look Tonight by Frank Sinatra. A late-night snack of grilled cheese and Paulie’s cookies was served before the couple departed for Belize, where they swam with sharks and stingrays. The Best is Yet to Come, say the parents of the couple, Judd and Sheila Cribbs and Julie Wareing McIlheran. April showers. A tree broke into a pool and caused the Memorial Drive Garden Club Flower Show to be moved with lightning speed to Jana Stiffel’s home, much to the relief of cochairs Susan Diehl and Kristi Barnhill and hospitality chairs, Melanie Whatley and Suzy Godwin. Mary Hall of Royal Oaks Garden Club judged the entries in the H-Town Flower Take Over theme. The winners were Best of Show, Buffalo Bayou, Susan Diehl, Marsha Floyd and Barbara Isham; Best Depiction of Theme, Houston Zoo, by Susanna Jeu, Lisa Kline and Alice Sadeghpour; Best Use of Props, Bayou City Arts Festival by yours truly; Most MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 16
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GONE TEXAN Catherine Marshall and Nicholas Graham are surrounded by their bridal party.
Outrageous, Museum of Fine Arts, by Katy Borgan, Diane McDaniel and Jana Stiffel; and People’s Choice Award, Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo, by Karen Bloomfield, Julie Brann, Lisa Stephens and Risa Ziman. Good memory. Barbara Files and her son Jason Files celebrated milestone birthdays when daughter/sister Jessica Files Liff planned a getaway that started in San Juan, Puerto Rico, before going to Virgin Gorda’s Rosewood Little Dix Bay and Caneel Bay. Barbara randomly met Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell on a shuttle where they chatted away. Jason, 30 years old now, also had met McConnell when Jason was 10 and chosen by Nickelodeon as the “Youngest Volunteer” to represent the children of America and speak at the 1996 Presidential Summit on Volunteerism in Philadelphia. McConnell remembered him! Lovely ladies. Spring dresses and sunshine made for a perfect day at Suzie Johnson’s home where the Houston Junior Forum celebrated 70 years with a tea. The lunch honored presidents past and present – Janet Juban, Cooky Mays, Margaret Petersen, Jacque Royce, Cindy Cochran, Kay Newman, Paula Howeth, Judy Watson Perkins, Carolyn Kares, Gayle Barnett, Barbara Boek, Jan Arrington and Lucia Dixon Street. The new
president is Kim Vidor. A model event. The 17th Annual Spirit of Spring Luncheon and Fashion Show benefiting The Children’s Assessment Center raised a record $430,000 for programs critical to the healing of child victims of sexual abuse. Event chairs Kelley Lubanko and Kelli Weinzierl applauded the Modern Love collection of Milly fashions from Neiman Marcus. Former Miss America Marilyn Van Derbur shared her story of triumph over tragedy as a childhood-incest survivor. In the crowd of 520 were Stephen Lewis, Stephen Lubanko, John Weinzierl, Ericka Bagwell, Brady Crosswell, Ursaline Hamilton and Becca Cason Thrash. Four generations. To say there was excitement about the firstborn child to Jeffrey and Elisa Robin is an understatement. The baby, Lyla Rose Robin, is the first grandchild for Jean and Alan Robin and Miriam and Morris Sherman. She was born with a head full of dark hair in Miami, Florida. Lyla is dreaming in pink since everything in her room and wardrobe is rose.
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NEIGHBORS by Cathy Gordon, staff writer
Breaking the Chains How two Buzz residents battled addiction
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he epidemic has grabbed communities by the lapels. Overdose deaths among teens and young adults have skyrocketed during the past decade, more than doubling in ages 12 to 25, according
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t’s 3 a.m., and Memorial High School junior Austin Berry is passed out behind the wheel from a night of drinking, foot on the brake, car in drive. “Get out of the car,” orders a Hunters Creek policeman. Austin stumbles from his Jeep Grand Cherokee, which had come to rest in the middle of the road fronting Hunters Creek Elementary, the spot where he slipped into alcohol-induced oblivion. “You’d think it would be a sobering moment,” says Austin, “but it didn’t really faze me. I was arrested and taken to the Bunker Hill jail till my dad picked me up, really pissed. But hell no, I’m not thinking I have a problem. This is a fluke.” Austin’s tangled journey of addiction began as a teen and progressed into adulthood, with cocaine and prescription pills the likes of Xanax and the narcotic OxyContin keeping company with booze. “That was my existence,” says the 28 year old, now sober and a regional marketer for The Last Resort Recovery Center in Smithville, Texas, a 90-day clinical treatment and recovery center for young men. “Growing up in Memorial, it was just part of the culture,” Austin explains. “Kids don’t have to work; they have plenty of money. It’s easy to get drugs and alcohol. Drugs and alcohol made me feel like I fit in.” Karen Berry, who had a front-row seat to her son’s nightmare, puts it bluntly. “I think we’re looking at a whole generation that has entitled their kids. We worked hard to get our first cars and put ourselves through college. We wanted to give our kids something better. We did them a huge disservice. We gave them too much. “I can’t tell you how many funerals I’ve been to, young adults in their 20s,” she says. “I can’t fathom it. My heart breaks for those moms because their kids didn’t make it.”
ABYSS OF ADDICTION Teens who begin dabbling with drugs often tumble into a hole of full-blown addiction that continues into adulthood.
to a report by the U.S. National Institute on Drug Abuse. It’s in large part due to the nation’s epidemic of prescription drug abuse. Ages 18 to 24 are the biggest abusers of prescription opioid pain relievers, ADHD stimulants and anti-anxiety drugs. “One of the things we’re seeing is a continual abuse of prescription medications like Xanax,
Ativan, medications like OxyContin and things along those lines,” says John O’Neill, director of addiction services at Houston’s Menninger Clinic. “What young adults don’t seem to understand is that when you mix those with alcohol, you’re creating a very deadly blend. I can walk into 90 percent of America’s households and find something to get high off of with-
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DRAGGED OUT ON DRUGS Addiction takes its toll on mind, body and soul, say counselors who urge families to observe their teen’s behavior for signs of drug or alcohol abuse.
out much problem.” Austin, a mediocre student, discovered alcohol at 14. Marijuana was added to his “feel good” arsenal at 15. He soon graduated to cocaine. “I was at a friend’s house. I laid down on the bed and felt tingly from toes to chest and thought, ‘Wow! This is what I’ve been looking for.’ All my worries, poof!” By his senior year he was snorting coke every night. He was kicked off the Memorial High School golf team for not attending practice, but didn’t care. He stole from his parents, skipped school and viewed upcoming college as a giant party. “My parents had rules, but I was sneaky. I was the chameleon and played whatever part I had to play to deceive, connive and get my drugs,” he says.
He was accepted to the University of Alabama with a 2.8 GPA and 1200 SAT, declaring business as his major. His first day a dorm mate introduced him to OxyContin. “He chopped it up, and we snorted it in his dorm room. I felt like Superman.” Austin was hooked, living only to score pills. When he went without, withdrawal meant sleeping days at a time. Going to class? “Hell no.” He emerged from the semester pale, several pounds lighter with sunken eyes, lying to his parents about grades. Eventually he was suspended. “So many things happened after that,” he says. “All bad.” He was arrested for a DWI on his 21st birthday, quickly learning to “game” the
probation system. Terms of probation required that he blow into a police-monitored breathalyzer in his car before starting it. He’d drink at night, making sure he waited long enough “so it wouldn’t blow hot,” landing him an automatic 90 days in jail. He binged on pills, stopping five days in advance of scheduled urine tests so he’d test clean. He hibernated in his apartment, leaving only to meet his drug dealer. “Had him on speed dial.” Austin vividly recalls his dad’s loving, but hardline ultimatum: “Come live with us and get clean. But if you use again, you’re out on the street. Go join the Navy or something because you’re not coming home.” Still, Austin rejected the (continued on page 20) MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 19
Warning signs and what to do Addiction. Male, female, young or old, its face is the same. It divides, ruthlessly excising friends and family. Those in its grip abandon morals when it comes to obtaining drugs or alcohol, whatever the substance of choice. It’s all about how to get it, where to get it. And when can I do it again? “When it comes to substance abuse, if parents suspect it, I would encourage them to have a direct conversation with the child to start things off,” says John O’Neill, director of addiction services at Houston’s Menninger Clinic. “Sit down and talk to them openly. You may be surprised that some kids might tell their parents what’s going on. Some lie. It’s a mixed bag.” Pay attention to certain signs that could indicate a drug or alcohol addiction, he says. Your child doesn’t make eye contact. Their behavior radically changes; an overall sense of moodiness. They don’t want to introduce you to their friends. Grades are slipping. They lose interest in hobbies and things they once enjoyed. They start withdrawing. They become angry easily, sneaky and dishonest. There’s a disruption in their sleep and eating patterns. They seem to hang onto certain items, such as a backpack. At the same time, be aware of your home environment. Are you reducing access to alcohol? If there are prescription drugs in the house, make sure they are under lock and key and not accessible. “Not just for your kids, but for your kid’s guests,” O’Neill advises. “If you get to the point where you have questions and aren’t sure (continued from page 19) offer
until his dad’s caveat, “Okay then, call your mom and tell her you’re never going to see her again.’’ “That did it for me,” Austin says. “I love her so much. I caved.” Sobriety didn’t come easy, and he relapsed plenty, not fully following the tenets of a 12-step substance-abuse recovery program. But eventually he embraced sober living, climbing out of the abyss. He remembers the day, Sept. 16, 2012, a Sunday. He had borrowed money from a friend and was on a three-mile jaunt to the dealer, on foot, when he came to a lake. “I thought, ‘Shit, I’ve got to walk around this thing.’ Then boom, it hit me. This was my life. I’m behind on rent, and I’m going to be homeless, and I’m out looking for drugs. For whatever reason, that was my moment of clarity.” He caught a cab home, attended a 12-step meeting the next day and committed to a life of sobriety. These days he’s engaged to be married and dedicated to helping others beat their addiction demons. “Life can go sideways on you,” he says. “You can’t do it alone.”
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lived for drugs,” says a former Bellaire High School student, 29, who wishes to remain anonymous. Sober 10 years, he’s now happily married and enjoying his dream job as a sportscaster in a large Texas city. His memories of teen years into young adulthood are freeze-frames of drug-induced
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what’s going on, it’s time to reach out to a professional. There are a lot of wonderful professionals in the community who can help.” Providing an alternative peer group for teens is absolutely crucial, says Joe Parker, a licensed clinical dependency counselor in Bellaire. He sees addicted teens and young adults through his private practice and alliance with the Houston-area Cornerstone Recovery, a charitable organization that raises funds for its Outreach and Adventure Learning Program. The program provides a fun, sober environment for teens where they can build healthy relationships and self-esteem. It also teaches parents how to drive their teen’s recovery and take back control. “Two key components create magic for people in recovery,” Parker says. “One of them is a positive peer group. You’ve got to have real friends who actually see you and love you and encourage you to grow in your recovery, to work your 12-steps, embrace the principles and who won’t put up with your BS. They push you to be better. That means more than anything mom or dad or a counselor or teacher has to say for sure. “The other element is family support,” he continues. “It’s one of the things we work hard to implement with our families because addiction isn’t just an individual disease. It’s a family disease. We help the family to work the 12-steps too.” Parker stresses how important it is to watch your child’s behavior. “That tells you everything you need to know,” he says, cautioning parents to not stick their head in the sand. “Denial is a very real thing, and it can be difficult for parents to deal with it. I see parents almost daily breaking through that.”
moments, including snorting cocaine for the first time off of his desk in Spanish class. “A kid just offered it to me.” Intrigued, he purchased coke from a student the next day. “I snorted a pretty big line, put my headphones on, took my dog out and skipped down the street like I’m on top of the mountain.” He came from a loving, Irish Catholic family. An empathetic kid, he loved animals, his mom and dad. But he also had a rebellious, antiauthority streak and didn’t do well in school. “I wanted people to think I didn’t care what they thought about me, but I cared deeply. I was the perfect storm for taking weed or alcohol when it was offered to me.” He began drinking in eighth grade. “The feeling I got from it is what separates me from a normal drinker. It fundamentally changed my perception of the world.” Recreational fun turned into full-blown addiction with cocaine, Ecstasy, Xanax and all manner of pills making up his drug cachet. He stole money from his parents, skipped class and took drugs every chance he could. A three-day methamphetamine and acid-induced weekend bender with friends is particularly memorable. “It was weird, like we had a shared hallucination where we were in a river and a hundred dead people were walking toward us,” he recalls. His parents sent him to a small liberal arts college in a dry county in Arkansas, “thinking that would solve my problem.” Meanwhile, he was loading up on Xanax and meth to enhance his higher learning experience.
His stash didn’t last long, and he started detoxing and sleeping for days, not going to class. He recalls vandalizing a campus flowerbed while drunk and getting caught. “Then college threw me out.” Nevermind that. Christmas break was here, and he was onto a giant party with Bellaire buddies. He overdosed on the prescription pain drug Fentanyl. A machine breathed for him for four days. Miraculously, he emerged from the hospital stay with no brain damage. If not for a female acquaintance who left the party to call 911, “I’d be dead,” he says. “All my so-called user friends didn’t want to call police. Too worried about getting in trouble.” A family intervention led to the Betty Ford Center, where he went through the motions, not really committed to sobriety. He went to another treatment center for young adults where he was introduced to Alcoholic Anonymous 12step meetings. But he didn’t fully embrace the program and slipped back into old ways. He remembers the day he was “struck sober.” His girlfriend, now wife, had broken up with him, and he was miserable. He was tired of his lies. Marinating in misery. “I poured out this gin I was drinking at the time. That was my God-given sobriety date. I was so revolted by myself. Stopped on a dime.” These days he’s in love with sober living and helps others beat their insatiable dependence on drugs and alcohol. “I feel so fortunate that I received God’s gift, the desperation to quit,” he says. “That was my saving grace.”
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NEIGHBORS by Jordan Magaziner Steinfeld, staff writer
Class of 2016 Where are they headed?
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hey made it. High school is done. Conquered. History. For many, the next step is college – an academic escape and adventure, a chance to learn, and learn how to be an adult, the next step in a life journey. Once again, as part of an annual tradition, we asked our graduating neighbors to share their college plans with us. What are they most looking forward to? What advice would they give their kindergarten selves if they could? To find out where more local 2016 grads are heading to college, check out – and contribute to, if you haven’t yet – our annual database of college-bound Buzz seniors at thebuzzmagazines.com. New this year, seniors can send messages to other seniors through our site to congratulate each other, keep in touch, or ask questions about college. Congratulations, Class of 2016.
Scott Kennedy – Wilchester Elementary School, Memorial Middle School, Stratford High School “Be yourself and follow your excitement,” Scott Kennedy would advise his younger self. He will study business honors at The University of Texas at Austin. Scott looks forward to meeting new people and living in Austin with friends. He has many passions – he would be interested in going into business, journalism, teaching or ministry one day – “but doing what Dude Perfect [sports entertainment group] does sounds like a dream job if there ever was one,” he said. Andie Chilson – Hunters Creek Elementary School, The Briarwood School, Duchesne Academy of the Sacred Heart Andie Chilson would advise her kindergarten self not to get caught up in the details. “You can’t see it now, but the big picture is coming together piece by piece,” she would say. She’s looking forward to studying communications at Fordham University in New York. She’s most looking forward to “the freedom and conducive environment to individuality and the opportunity to be completely responsible for myself.” Her dream job would be to become editor of the travel column for The New York Times. MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 22
Scott Kennedy David Cook – Hunters Creek Elementary School, Spring Branch Middle School, Memorial High School “Never forget kindergarten,” David Cook would tell his younger self. “You actually learn a lot there.” He will study business at the University of Arkansas, and is excited to attend sporting events and trying out new intramural sports. His dream job would be to grow his own business one day. Merritt Chastain – Valley Oaks Elementary School, Spring Branch Middle School, Memorial High School “Try hard,” Merritt Chastain would advise his kindergarten self if he could. He’ll study engineering at the University of Arkansas. He’s most looking forward to gaining independence and learning what interests him during college. His dream job would be to become a petroleum engineer for a large oil and gas company. His funniest moment from high school? “I’m not at liberty to say.”
Katie Whalley – The Briarwood School “Never give up on yourself,” Katie Whalley would encourage her kindergarten self. “As much as you want to give up when something is difficult, you have to just keep on challenging yourself.” This fall, she’ll study elementary education at Lynn University in Boca Raton, Florida, and dreams of becoming a special-education teacher. Sydney Nelson – Katy Elementary School, The Briarwood School “Stand up for yourself,” Sydney Nelson would encourage her younger self. She’s heading to Lone Star College-CyFair. Her goal is to teach pre-kindergarten, and her dream would be to own a school that provides resources to teen moms. Justus Veraart – Andre Gianton (in France), Niki de St Phalle (France), The Village School Justus Veraart will head to Hotelschool The Hague in The Netherlands (continued on page 24)
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Christian Loutchaninoff (continued from page 22) in this fall to study hospi-
tality management. One day, he hopes to become the manager of a country club. If he had the opportunity, he would advise his kindergarten self to have fun and enjoy the moment, and is most looking forward to new experiences and meeting new people in college. Christian Loutchaninoff – Foster Elementary School, Holy Trinity Episcopal School, St. Pius X High School Christian Loutchaninoff will head to Marshall University, where he will study music and communications. If he could give his kindergarten self one piece of advice, he would recommend speaking French with his dad more often. He’s most looking forward to college to have the freedom to study what he’s interested in studying. His dream job would be to become lead singer in a rock band one day. Domenic Patronella – St. Michael Catholic School, St. Thomas High School One day, Domenic Patronella hopes to become a cardiovascular surgeon, and his first step is the pre-med program at the University of Mississippi. He’s most looking forward to having more independence in college. If he could speak to his kindergarten self, he would say: “Don’t make the same mistakes over and over again.” After reflecting on high school, he says his most special memory includes beating Strake Jesuit all four years in football. MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 24
Charlie Meacham – The Awty International School This fall, Charlie Meacham will head to Carnegie Mellon University to study engineering. He’s looking forward to learning about nanotechnology, spending a year abroad and experiencing four seasons while in college. His dream would be to become a successful entrepreneur, retire early and then become a teacher at Awty. After reflecting on high school, he said one of his funniest moments was dressing up in full Teletubbies regalia for Halloween with three of his best friends. If he could, he would tell his kindergarten self to start juggling a soccer ball. Bryan Read – Memorial Drive Elementary School, Spring Branch Middle School, Memorial High School "Stop eating Play-Doh," Bryan Read would encourage his younger self. He's looking forward to studying business at The University of Texas at Austin. His dream job would be to become a composer for movie soundtracks. Lizzy Fallon – Annunciation Orthodox School, St. John’s School, Episcopal High School If she could, Lizzy Fallon would reassure her younger self that waking up at 5 a.m. every weekend for soccer games when she was little, and traveling throughout the country for field hockey every weekend when she got older, would be worth it one day. She will head to Columbia University this fall and
plans to study political science. She’s most looking forward to living in New York City, and her dream job would be to become a lawyer one day. Sarah Drew – Duchesne Academy of the Sacred Heart “Don’t be shy to make friends,” Sarah Drew would tell her kindergarten self. She will study engineering at the University of Oklahoma. Looking back at high school, she said her engineering class during her junior year changed her life. “That class helped me get out of my comfort zone and made me realize that I want to be an engineer.” Charles Dorfman – St. John’s School “Enjoy the time you have growing up because it goes by very fast,” Charles Dorfman would tell his kindergarten self. “Do everything you can – even if you are forced to by your mom. You will be glad you did most of the time.” He’ll study economics at Sewanee: The University of the South this fall. Sewanee is on top of a mountain, he says, and he plans to take advantage of all of the outdoor activities available to students and to join the lacrosse team.
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by Annie Blaylock McQueen, staff writer
Buzz Baby
Surviving a summer pregnancy
Buzz Baby is a column about life with babies from the perspective of a first-time mother.
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ast summer, a 6-months-pregnant mom found herself in a hot and sticky mess. Sophie Magness was stuck at Hermann Park with no stroller, two young toddlers and very pregnant – and she was running late to pick up her daughter at school. The day started out with a fun idea. She would take her then-2-year-old son Beau and 13-month-old son Zane to the Children’s Museum on a Monday school holiday. There was only one problem. “I forgot the museum is closed on Mondays,” said Sophie, a public relations manager at Magness Orthodontics. “So instead, we decided to ride the nearby Hermann Park train.” The group walked together over to the North train stop near the Miller Outdoor Theatre hill and, after only a short wait, boarded the train and enjoyed a leisurely train ride. “My brilliant plan was to pay the fare at the zoo station and get right back on the train to come back around to our original stop,” said Sophie. “When I saw the line at the zoo station to board the train I knew I was in trouble.” They were already late to leave to pick up her daughter at school by this point. Sophie said she begged the conductor to take cash for tickets and let them stay on the train. But her begging didn’t work. “We got out of line and started walking” towards the car parked near the Museum of Natural Science, said Sophie. “I am sweating profusely now, tired and trying to rush my two toddlers across Hermann Park. To top it off, the baby needed a new diaper and my toddler needed a potty break, so we stopped to use the Miller Outdoor Theatre restrooms.” Sophie said she was completely prepared to ask a perfect stranger to help get to their car at this point. “But when I emerged from the bathroom, to my amazement and relief, there was a zoo rental stroller sitting there, alone, unattended, calling my name,” said Sophie. “I have no idea how it got there except that it was sent from Heaven.” Sophie said she looked around and waited to see if anyone was going to claim the miracle MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 26
stroller. Once it was clear it was abandoned, she loaded the boys up and rolled them to the car. Pregnancy can be physically tough no matter what time of the year. Mix some summertime heat with a large baby bump, and you’ll most likely get one uncomfortable mom-tobe. Sophie recalled that during her summer pregnancies she always kept a tall glass of water by her side and planned indoor activities. “My DRESS LIGHT Mom-of-four Sophie Magness (pictured, pregnant with third child favorite summertime Zane in summer 2014), said she wore lightweight clothes during her summer outfits included these pregnancy, like this fishbowl maternity T-shirt. “It made people laugh,” she said. adorable T-shirts by people at Colonial Park Pool for which I wayMamagama Maternity,” she said. “I had one over-decorated for,” she said. “It was a Pinterest with a big beach ball, a fish bowl and a Captain pinup for sure. I was literally climbing trees to America shield. They always made people hang ship flags and lugging in beverage tubs. I laugh.” couldn’t help myself.” Allison Laird, a mom of two and a Lagree Allison advises other expectant moms to Fitness instructor, said she spent her summer carefully select their maternity attire during hot pregnancy keeping up with her then 2-year-old months. “Maxi dresses are a cute way to dress up son, Ford. “Every single day with Ford was spent your baby bump while staying super cozy and out and about,” said Allison. “At the park, zoo, hiding swollen ankles,” she said. “I suggest pairGalveston beach, museum, library, farmers maring it with a nice pair of moisture-wicking bike ket and a lot of time at Colonial Park Pool.” shorts. Knee-length [shorts are] ideal. That’s Allison said they traveled by bicycle to their right, just like the ’80s because chafing, friends,” neighborhood stops until she was about 35 she said, laughing. “That skirt is cute but there’s weeks along in her summer pregnancy with no air circulating under there. Be advised, and daughter Austyn (now 2). “I was large,” said maxi with caution.” Allison. “And between the basket full of pool Allison’s husband Matt was also on call for gear and a 30-pound toddler, the bike became frozen treats. “All I remember is going to get too hard to unload.” They just drove to the pool Icees every single day,” he said. at that point. Party planning can be a lot of work for anyone, let alone a pregnant woman who feels the For more baby stories, see thebuzzmagazines.com for heat times two. “I love parties,” said Allison. writer Annie Blaylock McQueen’s column, “Mommy Ford turned 2 when she was 36 weeks along with Moments.” If you have stories to share, leave a comment Austyn, but that didn’t stop her from throwing online or email info@thebuzzmagazines.com. a big celebration. “We had a party for 50-plus
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TRAVEL by Tracy L. Barnett, staff writer
Travel Buzz Spanish sojourns
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pain is so much more than a country. It’s a way of being in the world, a presence that evokes passion and drama and intricate, overwhelming beauty. Nowadays upwards of 64 million people visit this singular peninsular nation to explore architectural treasures like the Alhambra, the Alcazar and the surrealistic, boundary-breaking work of Antoni Gaudi; to witness the flamenco dancers whirling and stomping their way across the tablao; and to join the river of humanity that tests its mettle every year by running alongside a herd of charging bulls. Francyne and Kevin Jacobs – he, an attorney, and she, a cantor at several local synagogues – went in search of a lesser-known side of the country, what Francyne referred to as “Jewish Spain.” For Carol Lester, who went with her two daughters, it was a time of self-discovery, as well, with her daughters setting the itinerary. And Candido Alvarado, who traces his roots to Spain, finally completed his lifelong dream of running with the bulls. Candido’s first trip was in 1977, when he went with his soon-to-be-bride, Carol Alvarado, now a dentist. They went to Madrid, to the Riviera, to Monaco, to Gibraltar – and they were entranced. “We fell in love with Spain as a country, with the people, the culture, the food – we just thought it was fantastic,” said Candido. Carol fell in love – with Spain and with the man at her side. As much as they loved it, their romance with Spain was destined to be a long-distance relationship for a quarter century – but Candido never forgot a long-held dream to return. Inspired in part by Ernest Hemingway’s descriptions in The Sun Also Rises, he wanted to participate in the millennial tradition of the Running of the Bulls in Pamplona.
A badge of courage “I’d been putting it off, putting it off, and as you get older you realize you don’t have forever to do these things,” said Candido. “So in 2005, at the age of 55, I did complete the run – all the way to the bullring.” It turned out to be a defining moment in his MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 28
SEEDS FOR THOUGHT Francyne Jacobs had ample opportunity in Spain to reflect on the meaning of the pomegranate in Jewish tradition as she saw the plant growing and the design repeated in many places – here, in the town of Granada, which means pomegranate. Jewish tradition teaches that the pomegranate is a symbol of righteousness because it is said to have 613 seeds, which corresponds with the 613 mitzvot, or commandments, in the Torah.
life – and for both of them, a rendezvous with their old Iberian flame. The years rolled back as they made their way north on the high-speed freeways from Madrid through the rugged landscape of the Pyrenees. “Suddenly we pulled into a magical little town that pops up out of nowhere, this Spanish medieval town,” said Candido of his first impression of Pamplona. “We were sitting around the plaza and then the cannon goes off… all the kids are having time of their lives pouring wine all over themselves – and they were just getting started.” A rowdy tradition dating back to Medieval times, the festival occurs every July and draws upwards of a million people from all over the world. Every year an estimated 200 to 300 people are injured every year, and 15 have died since the event began keeping records in 1925. “Of course, it’s dangerous,” Candido responded. “It’s one of the macho, idiotic things that men do; it’s man versus beast and hopefully you’ll survive.” His wife tried to talk him out of it, to no avail. So they set a rendezvous point for after the run. “You hear the cannon go off, and there are thousands of people in the small streets…. Then all of a sudden the crowd starts to move.” It was
all over in a few minutes but it seemed to last forever. Candido thought he was far ahead of the crowd but when he stopped, a bull went flying by and he jumped into a cubbyhole of a building to take refuge before jumping back out into the melee. “Out of all those people probably a quarter of them made it to the bullring; most drop off to the side and stop running. You’ve got to be pretty agile to avoid the steers and the people and, of course, the bulls.” Back at the rendezvous point he found Carol. “She said, ‘God, that’s the most incredible thing I’ve ever seen – are you going to run tomorrow?’ I said, ‘No!’” “It was an experience that was once in a lifetime – it’s priceless, honestly,” he said. “It was a very personal thing for me to accomplish… it’s one of the highlights of a male who accomplishes it, and probably a female too – kind of a badge of courage.”
Trail of the Sephardim For the Jacobs, the experience was much more introspective. While their own family heritage traces back to Eastern Europe, they still felt a connection with the tragic story of the
AFTERNOON AT THE ALHAMBRA Natalie, Teresa and Carol Lester (from left) take a break from their awe-inspiring tour through the Alhambra fortress complex and palace in Granada, Spain.
Sephardic Jews. Spain had one of the largest Jewish communities under Muslim rule. But with the rise of the Roman Empire, Spain was pressured to convert or eliminate them; the end came in 1492, with the Alhambra Decree, ordering the expulsion of practicing Jews from what is now Spain. Those who stayed had to convert to Christianity, or face the Spanish Inquisition. “There were lots of ‘marranos’ who kept the Jewish traditions secret and stayed in Spain – there are those who say, ‘My grandmother or my great-grandmother always lit candles on Friday night and I never knew why; and then it turned out I had a family history of Judaism.’” A number of tour groups offer specialized Jewish heritage tours, but Francyne charted her own course. They started in Seville, the capital of the traditional Andalusia region, where they explored synagogues and old Jewish quarters. They took in a flamenco show there and marveled at the Moorish architecture of the Alcazar; then they took a day trip to Cordoba, home of the Grand Mosque-Cathedral of Cordoba. Then they headed for Granada, where they witnessed the Arabian Nights grandeur of the Alhambra; they were lucky enough to stay at the Parador Granada, which is part of the palace complex, and went for a run before the crowds arrived. In Madrid, they took in the Prado as well as the Reina Sofia Museum, home to Picasso’s Guernica, and took a side trip to Toledo, whose Jewish quarter is considered one of Europe’s most important. (For those who would like to explore a bit of Jewish Spain on their own, see
http://worldjewishheritage.com/spains-top-10must-see-jewish-quarters-2/.
Mother-daughter trip with a twist Carol Lester is the mother of four daughters, and she loves to travel. So naturally when Daughter No. 3, Natalie, invited her along on a trip to Spain, she quickly agreed. Ultimately it ended up being a mother-daughters trip: Carol, Natalie, and Teresa, Daughter No. 4. Natalie, 24, the instigator and planner, had been out of school for three years and has a goodpaying job. Teresa, 21, had just graduated, so Carol agreed to help her with some of her trip expenses. “But this wasn’t a trip for a mother to take her daughters to Spain – and that affected everything,” Carol said. “The budget was their budget, not mine – so I had an experience like I haven’t had in a long time. My husband and I are used to eating in nice places and staying in nice places; this was not like that. We would go miles out of our way to save a few dollars on tapas and sangria. It took a lot of control on my part to not take over.” So the trio ended up tripping around five Spanish cities and Morocco backpacker-style, with the help of Air B&B (airbnb.com).This made for a more “local” experience – staying in neighborhoods, shopping at the local market, chatting with the neighbors. They dined, slept, moved around and entertained themselves on the cheap – above all, people-watching. “In Spain people work, then go home and relax, dress up and go out and just stroll down the tiled streets,” Carol explained.
“It’s a national pastime they take very seriously.” They had a packed itinerary and only a week, so they “blasted through it,” Carol said: Madrid, with the “fabulous and beautiful, must-see” Prado, and the Parque del Buen Retiro. Seville – like the Jacobs, they visited the Alcazar, a royal palace renowned as one of Spain’s most beautiful. A flamenco performance – but this is where Carol drew the line. “We went to a hole-in-the-wall bar and saw a horrible flamenco performance, and I said, we’re going to have to do this again, and we’re going to do it right.” So she broke her rule and found a top-rated show with a flashy-costumed couple stomping their heels into a blur to a Spanish guitar rhythm. “That was one thing I just couldn’t let stand. It had to be right.” In edgy and hip Barcelona, they walked its imminently strollable Las Ramblas, and took in Gaudi’s influence everywhere – sea-themed Casa Batllo, Parc Güell, and most epic of all, La Sagrada Familia (Sacred Family) – a massive cathedral under construction since 1892, and slated for completion in 2030. Finally, they went to Málaga on the Costa del Sol and on to windy Tarifa, where they took a ferry to Tangier, Morocco, for a quick dip into the Arab world. Camel rides, tea and hospitality, shopping for pashminas and oriental rugs – it was all a splendid and unforgettable whirlwind. “While the rooms and food were downgrades to my typical travel, their fast pace was a physical upgrade for me. But I think I kept up, and was excited and happy to be there, just like they were,” said Carol, still smiling at the memories. MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 29
The Junior League of Houston
FOOD by Alexis Lehman Faust, contributing writer
Cooking Buzz Breakfast for house guests Cooking Buzz is produced in partnership with the Junior League of Houston, a women’s charitable and education organization founded in 1925.
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hen you’re a guest in someone’s home, it’s a wonderful sensation to wake up to the delicious smell of breakfast cooking. It’s been more than 20 years since I stayed on my grandmother’s farm, and I can still remember the scent of her homemade cinnamon rolls drifting from the kitchen into the purple bedroom where my sister and I slept. When my family visited each summer, the grandkids anticipated these rolls with an enthusiasm usually reserved for Disney World. And what a production these rolls were! My grandmother would be awake at 5:30 a.m. to start preparing them. I’m not a morning person at all, but the faintest scent of the rolls in the oven was enough to make me leap out of bed by 7 a.m. With school out and travel season in peak, chances are you’ll be hosting out-of-town family and friends at your home this summer. Your days may be packed with activity, which could involve lunches and dinners out. However, breakfast is your time to shine as a host. Instead of the usual hurried morning routine, your guests can relax while enjoying food and conversation in their pajamas. A breakfast spread can be delicious and impressive without unnecessary stress or waking up before sunrise. Let’s start with beverages. In addition to coffee and tea, I’m a huge fan of smoothies in the morning because they can pack such a nutritious punch. The Sunshine Smoothie from Peace Meals has three benefits: it’s a refreshing antidote to muggy Houston mornings, it delivers a healthy serving of fruit and yogurt, and it’s easy. Drop six ingredients into a blender and mix. Freeze the mango and peach slices overnight so the smoothie is cold upon serving. For a fancy touch, add a peach slice to the rim of each glass. For a main dish, I recommend the Herbed Eggs with Sautéed Arugula from Peace Meals. It’s a sophisticated, crowd-pleasing twist on classic scrambled eggs. It even helps you incorporate some extra greens into your day. Like the MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 30
smoothie, it’s pretty easy to prepare. The most difficult part of the preparation is refraining from eating all the garlic-and-herb cheese before you add it to the eggs. The eggs pair well with hash browns or grilled potatoes, toast or bacon. Now for dessert – because every special meal served for guests needs something sweet to SOPHISTICATED SCRAMBLE Morning eggs get a guest-worthy garlic-and-herb finish it off. upgrade in Herbed Eggs with Sautéed Arugula. Although I never small bowl, mix together the feta, mascarpone wrote down the recipe for my grandmother’s legand tarragon. Melt the butter in a large heavy endary homemade cinnamon rolls, I find the skillet over medium heat. Add the eggs and cook Coolrise Cinnamon Rolls from Stop and Smell until almost set, stirring occasionally. Meanwhile, the Rosemary to be a tasty alternative. This heat olive oil in a separate skillet over medium. recipe requires some advance preparation. Add the garlic and arugula, and sauté until the However, you can make the dough and cinnaarugula is wilted; set aside. Add the cheese mixmon mixture up to 24 hours before serving. ture to the eggs and stir until the cheese is melted Then refrigerate until you are ready to bake and the eggs are softly set. Divide the arugula them and make the icing. Drizzle the icing over among 4 plates and top with the eggs. Garnish the rolls as soon as they come out of the oven. with additional tarragon. Serves 4. Happy hosting.
Herbed Eggs with Sautéed Arugula From Peace Meals 10 eggs ¼ cup milk Coarse salt and freshly ground pepper ¼ cup garlic and herb feta cheese ¼ cup mascarpone cheese 1 Tablespoon minced fresh tarragon, plus additional 1½ Tablespoons butter 1 Tablespoon olive oil 1 garlic clove, pressed 4 to 6 cups arugula Whisk together the eggs and milk in a large bowl; season with salt and pepper. In a separate
Sunshine Smoothie From Peace Meals 2 cups frozen mango chunks 2 cups frozen peach slices 1 to 1½ cups freshly squeezed orange juice 6 oz. low-fat vanilla yogurt ¼ teaspoon almond extract ¼ teaspoon cinnamon Combine the ingredients in a blender and process until smooth. Serve immediately. Serves 2 to 3.
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by Todd Freed, staff writer
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s the St. Thomas Eagles entered the TAPPS 5A baseball playoffs, they did so off the best regular-season record in school history. St. Thomas went undefeated through its first 28 games, before ending the regular season with a 28-1-1 record. The Eagles’ only defeat took place in the second-to-last game of the season. “That kind of unbeaten streak is something you don’t ever imagine,” said Eagles head coach Ryan Lousteau. “We have a talented core of senior leaders. Obviously, you want to come out and win every game, but our winning streak was pretty incredible.” “Our team chemistry is just amazing,” said senior pitcher Paolo Cannatella. “For us to go undefeated through the first 28 games is phenomenal.” Second baseman Alex Carnegie echoed those sentiments. “We’ve been playing together in the same baseball system for several years. We all kind of have the same mindset out there on the baseball field.” On the mound, the Eagles boasted a dynamic duo in senior lefties Matthew Ashbaugh and Cameron Cash, who shut down one opponent after another all season long. “We’re throwing strikes, but our hitters and defense have had our backs,” said Ashbaugh. At the plate, players such as Nolan Lundholm, Philip Matulia, Owen Meaney, Brandon Campos and Carnegie carried a big stick all season long. “I’m just enjoying the ride,” added Ashbaugh. “It’s been awesome to be part of this team.” In tennis, St. Agnes Academy won a fourth consecutive TAPPS 5A State Championship, including a fourth straight individual title for Tigers senior Racquel Lyn. Lyn, who is ranked among the top 30 players nationwide in her age group, will play college tennis at Dartmouth. “She simply dominated every match this sea-
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son,” said Tigers tennis coach Tom Caine. “Racquel is extremely disciplined, and she’s GREAT AT STATE The Memorial Mustangs girls golf team took fourth in the state at inspired her team- the UIL 6A State Golf Tournament, marking the Mustangs’ highest finish ever at the state tournament. Pictured (from left) are Tiffany Nguyen, Erin Xu, Courtney Bryant, mates to be their Lindsey Ramos, Madeline Burleson, Lindsay Riddle and head coach Holly Paulk. very best. Nguyen posted the team’s best overall score “Amazingly, she hasn’t dropped a set in district over the 36 holes with an eight-over-par 154 or state in all four years at St. Agnes.” score. Sophomore’s Lindsay Riddle and At state this season, it was nearly an all-St. Courtney Bryant, as well as junior Erin Xu, Agnes final in both singles and doubles. Tigers rounded out the Mustangs’ fivesome at state. sophomore Christina Watson advanced to the “Our nerves kind of got to us on Day 1, but state final for the second straight year before the second day we had a goal to shoot an overall falling to Lyn in the state-championship match. 301 and ended improving our score by 15 On the doubles side, the Tigers duo of Taylor strokes,” said Paulk. Paulk was also thrilled to Ysaguirre and Natalia Nassar captured their see her team finish ahead of a Clements Rangers second straight doubles championship. The team that had won the regional title just two Tigers’ second doubles tandem of Jennifer weeks earlier. “Clements was the top team in the Mathieu and Kendall Couch advanced to the Houston area this year, and for us to beat them state semifinals, where they dropped a heartat state was one of our goals.” breaking three-set match. Also in golf, after winning its first-ever district “All six of our girls are so-called Super championship, Duchesne Academy finished Champs, which is the top category in the sixth overall at the TAPPS 5A State Golf USTA rankings for their age group,” said Caine. Tournament. It was the team’s first berth at state “We’re only losing two seniors, so the future also in 15 years. The Chargers were led by freshman looks really bright.” Danielle Talley, who shot a pair of 82s to finish The Memorial Mustangs girls golf team fintwo strokes out of the top 10. Freshmen Joanna ished fourth at the UIL 6A State Golf Kass and Meghan Pennington, as well as junior Tournament, marking the team’s best showing Lauren Valentine and sophomore Camilla in school history. Junior Madeline Burleson Valente, also made up the Chargers’ state-tourfired a one-over-par 73 on the second day as nament team. Memorial came on strong to capture fourth place. “Madeline is our No. 1 golfer,” said Editor’s Note: Todd Freed is the Emmy AwardMustangs golf coach Holly Paulk. “She has sevwinning co-host and producer of the KUBE eral major colleges already looking at her, and SportsZone, which airs Saturday and Sunday at 6 even played in the big Annika Sorenstam tourp.m. on Channel 57-KUBE. To submit high school nament, which features the nation’s top 72 sports news for possible inclusion in SportzBuzz, youth golf players.” please email todd@thebuzzmagazines.com. At state, Mustangs sophomore Tiffany
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SPORTS
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by Angie Frederickson, staff writer
SportzBuzz, Jr. W
elcome to SportzBuzz, Jr., a column spotlighting neighborhood athletes in elementary and middle school.
Racing to victory The Memorial Middle School seventh-grade girls’ track team placed first in the district meet held at Stratford High School. Runners Caroline Bullers, Camille Smith, Lizzie Gissel and Madison Morrow (top photo, from left) contributed to that win by placing in their events. Caroline finished in sixth place in the 800-meter relay. The 4x200 meter relay was won by Camille, Lizzie, Madison and Tijana Lekic. It was a great season for the entire team, which won three out of four meets during the track season. The girls made progress during the season and improved their times, jumps and throws. The Lady Eagles placed in the top three in each event at all of the track meets.
Breaking barriers Angel Chase (middle photo), 14, bats for Grady Middle School in a game against West Briar Middle School. The eighth grader is the only girl on the boys’ baseball team at Grady. She is also the only girl in Grady’s history to play on the boys’ baseball team for all three middle-school years. In sixth grade, Angel made the team but didn’t start out with much playing time. She attended every practice and developed into an accomplished player and is now a consistent base hitter with a great batting average. In addition to baseball, Angel also plays soccer, volleyball and basketball, and runs track and cross country. Grady coaches named her Athlete of the Year at the annual sports ceremony.
Focusing on teamwork The Post Oak Little League (POLL) Naturals (bottom photo) celebrate after a recent game. In the spring 2016 season, the boys made the jump from machine pitch to kid pitch, with the help of their coaching staff. Coach Scott Irwin teaches the boys that teamwork is the basis for success. “Championships are won in pivotal moments in every practice and every game when a young man chooses team unity over personal recognition,” he said. The Naturals coaches take extra steps to help the boys bond as a team. After each game the boys sit in a circle and compliment each other on everything from making a great play to being baseball ready. The 2016 Naturals are (front row, from left) Will Herrin, Charlie Henry, Bud Irwin, Fletcher Dowell, Ben Kalife, Jesse Gonzalez, David Doughtie, Thomas Britton, Max Matti, Andrew Stover, Aston Clarke, Giles Pond and (back row, from left) coaches Rick Magee, Scott Irwin and George Britton.
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Northwestern State University of Louisiana. Murphy is headed to play football for the Los Angeles Rams. Pictured is Murphy (third from left) with his biggest fans, (from left) brother Robert, father and state Rep. Jim Murphy, mother Dr. Kathleen Murphy, grandparents Carol and James Pace, and Murphy’s girlfriend Kylie Fichter.
A winning idea Congratulations to Pace Murphy, Strake Jesuit class of 2012 and offensive lineman for
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When Betsy and Charlie Nettle's youngest daughter, Paige Nettles Montgomery (pictured, with her husband Ryan Montgomery), was diagnosed with cystic fibrosis at the age of 22, they
decided to step into action in the fight against CF. They started an annual 65 Roses Classic Golf Tournament to raise money and awareness of the disease. This year marked the fifth annual tournament. Paige was the event’s honoree.
On stage The Stratford Playhouse ended its award-winning season with A Chorus Line. The Playhouse won seven Tommy Tune awards for the musical
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Anything Goes, which was performed earlier this year. Next year's shows are Brighton Beach Memoirs, For Me and My Girl, and Avenue Q. You can find more information about the playhouse at www.shsplayhouse.org. Pictured (from left) are Michaela Barroga, Grayson Hart, Maddie Dyer, Phillip Bevers, Isobel Makin, Griffin Sink, Anna Langlois, Ben Howell, Rachel Harsley, Matthew Hopper, Noelle Flores, Cameron Saims, Reilly Lawrence, Colton Slaughter, Dani Greene, Collins Rush and Marlina Brown.
Henckel, Amy Djuvik, Marielissa Rodriguez Estrada, Grace Gibler, Carley Overbergen, Grace Mosby, Cameron King, Mary Kate Guerre, Anna Litner, Alex McConn, Kendall Kerr, Claire Johnson, Abby Molina, (back row, from left) Aoi Kuromaru, Victoria Robles, Madelyn Perdomo, Maddie Suerth, Esme Conkright, Sophie Early, Chloe Hayes, Angelica Burr, Carlee Churchill, Kate McCord, Maddie Gentil, Morgan Vandervoort, Elise Poteet and Madeleine Gustafasson.
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Brad Meltzer and Jean Becker (pictured, from left), and more than 1,600 guests joined the Barbara Bush Houston Literacy Foundation for its 22nd annual fundraising event in Houston – A Celebration of Reading. The lineup of authors included Pulitzer Prize-winning author Jon Meacham and New York Times bestselling authors Brad Meltzer, Kelly Corrigan and Dr. David Eagleman. The event earned more than $2.1 million for the foundation, which works to increase literacy rates.
What a ball
The Stratford High School Spartanaires welcomed their 2016-17 new dance-team members. These accomplished dancers are looking forward to an exciting year. Team members posed including (pictured, front row, from left) Kailie
It was a record-breaking year for the annual Cattle Baron’s Ball, which raised over $2.25 million for the American Cancer Society. Around $900,000 was raised on (continued on page 38)
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the auction alone. Some of the key auction items were children's quilts that raised $100,000, an in-home dinner with Johnny Carrabba and one with Bryan Caswell, a steer, a J.J. Watt jersey and some donated trips. Over 1,000 guests enjoyed Southern food from Caswell and Co. Catering while listening to the Eli Young Band and enjoying pig races, midway games, a wine pull and casino. Ball co-chairs were Lauren Maloy and
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Allison Flikeski. Auction chairs were (pictured, from left) Disney Harris, Molly Stone, Diane LeMaire, Dee Darby, Jackie Eubank, Emily Essaye, Scarlett Coffman and Ashley Peterson.
Empowering the community A crowd of 350 guests, including Frank and Stephanie Tsuru, Sarah Golshadi and Maria and Neil Bush (pictured, from left), filled Ecclesia near downtown in support of the non-
profit Project 88, which empowers underserved students to help end generational poverty in Houston. The group supports college advisors in Houston public schools and sponsors summer success programs at Rice University. Founders Ericka and Garrett Graham celebrated the night with founding chairs Cal and Hannah McNair and Lisa and Chris Seay. This is the second year for the event, along with a golf tournament held at Blackhawk Golf Club to raise more funds. See project88.org.
Group effort Mike Dumas, Krista Dumas, Lucie Dunwoody, Jim Wrotenbery, Kimberly Hickson and David Spaw (pictured, from left) spearheaded The Jung Center’s 30th Annual Spring Benefit. The evening, named How the Light Gets In, paid tribute to the George and
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Mary Josephine Hamman Foundation for its contributions to The Jung Center and the Houston community. The event was held at River Oaks Country Club for a crowd of close to 400 and raised more than $180,000 for The Jung Center. Funds raised will assist the Jung Center to continue to offer classes in a range of psychological, artistic and intellectual topics.
show of the children’s work and a much-anticipated train ride. In addition, families enjoyed a hot-dog supper, prepared by the kitchen staff at MDPC and served by volunteers. Sayler Robbins, chair, and Amanda Ollison, co-chair, created a successful event with books provided by Southwest Books. This year’s theme was All Aboard for Reading. The children made “train banks” and were urged to do tasks at home to earn money for their banks. A total of $803.18 was raised, and with this money, and a discount from Southwest Books, the school was able to
Back in time Over 350 guests, including Victoria and Randall Jamail and Dean Gladden (pictured), clad in rocker chic, were transported back in time for an evening of nostalgic fun in support of the Alley Theatre. Women donned dresses with touches of leather and fringe, and many men sported tuxedo jackets and concert T-shirts with their jeans. The warehouse feel of Silver Street Studios was transformed by Richard Flowers of The Events Company into a rock ‘n’ roll hall of
Meredith Long and Roger Plank, and The Galleria was a sponsor. Dancie Ware was lauded by the Alley leadership for volunteering to provide the creative direction for the ball.
purchase an assortment of books to donate to Small Steps Nurturing Center, which serves economically at-risk children in the Fifth Ward.
All aboard Each spring, The Yellow School at Memorial Drive Presbyterian Church hosts a book fair. They kicked it off this year with a family night, which included games, temporary tattoos, an art
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GREETINGS Rustin Rassoli, a junior at Awty International School, created an app that lets you send a signed greeting card by mail directly from your cell phone.
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DINING GUIDE
by Dai Huynh, staff writer
Eating out at the grocery store
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TABLE 57 There's a little something for everyone, including sweet potato hash with salmon, at Table 57 at H-E-B.
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hese days, in-store dining is something my family does weekly. We’re not the only one who has embraced this upward trend of shopping and dining. This grocery segment has increased nearly 30 percent since 2008, according the NPD Group, a Chicago research firm that tracks groceries and restaurants. Grocers, including H-E-B, Central Market and Whole Foods, have upped their shelf-to-table offerings, and choices abound, from foodie haven Revival Market (550 Heights Blvd.) to Jerusalem Halal Meats deli (3330 Hillcroft), with its juicy chicken and beef shawarma sandwiches. And for Central Americans, a breakfast of sweet corn tamales and cinnamon coffee tastes like home at Fiesta Mart (6200 Bellaire). There are restaurants and counter-service offerings that flank Hong Kong Food Market “4” (11205 Bellaire Blvd.), where Vietnamese gather for steamed pork buns, baguettes stuffed with pate, jalapeño and cilantro, beef pho, and freshly squeezed sugar cane. Here are other grocery stores where you can shop and dine. Super H-Mart ( 1302 Blalock Road) is a Korean mega-mart that’s a destination not only for the Korean community, but also chowhounds who storm the killer food court inside. The plus-handful of options include Daddy N Daughter, a perennial personal favorite, mainly for the gigantic gorgeous bowl of jjambbong seafood noodle soup, chock full of spices, octopus, mussels, seaweed and shrimp. MEMORIAL BUZZ JUNE 2016 42
For $15, it’s plenty for two people. Another favorite is Yori Yori, known for its barbecue short ribs and stir-fried clear noodle. 99 Ranch Market (1005 Blalock Road) is the store of choice for many to stock up on Asian pantry staples. While the sheer number of frozen-dumpling offerings is impressive, the highlight is the affordable, quick-service eateries, from chicken pho soup at Pho Quynh to salt toasted shrimp at L.A. Crawfish. Towards the back, there is a steam table with stir-fry vegetables and meats, but the main attraction is the dim sum – from cushiony pork buns and fried taro roots to steamed xiu mai dumplings. H-E-B (5898 San Felipe) is officially in the “grocerant” business with five restaurants, including Houston’s Table 57. Here, shoppers don’t have to settle for a run-of-the-mill deli counter when on the hunt for meat. Instead, they dine on stellar barbecue brisket, pulled pork, grilled salmon and chef-composed entrée salads, such as the lemon-pesto grilled tuna with kale and marcona almonds. Even the turkey is smoked in-house, and so a stack is more than a sandwich at Table 57 with its full-service cocktail and wine bar. Phoenicia Specialty Market (1001 Austin Street) is the offshoot of the original Westchase location, where you can spend hours upon hours exploring imported goodies from the Middle East. The downtown location places emphasis less on the shopping experience and more on the dining, with a terrific selection of skewered meats at the hot-lunch counter along with the full-service MKT Bar for fish and chips and a cold brew. Asia Market Thai Lao Food (1010 W. Cavalcade Street) changed owners, and the food has gotten better. The tables of Thai diners attest as much. Large groups of downtown workers gather for sticky rice and fried pork sausages. Platters of crispy fried fish, and even more sticky rice with fried quail, crunchy papaya salad, pad thai noodles, fish soup and beef stew are shared among friends, who after a hearty lunch will head straight to the refrigerator section of this tiny market for Thai and Chinese sausages to take home.
Restaurant Listings $ (under $10) $$ ($11-$30) $$$ ($31-$60) $$$$ (over $60) Prices include drink, tax and tip per person Buzz Dining Guide columnist Dai Huynh (D.H.) is a James Beard food-journalism award winner and longtime Houston-based restaurant writer. Contributing reviewer Russell Weil (R.W.), a Houston native, is the author of the blog Eat More Burgers, eat-more-burgers.com. Their visits to restaurants in the Dining Guide were anonymous, and they paid for their meals to maintain objectivity. We’d love your thoughts too. Write to info@thebuzzmagazines.com with your own dining opinions and suggestions. Also, you can contribute in the Comments section under the online version of this story at thebuzzmagazines.com.
Antica Osteria Regional Italian Neighborhood: Southhampton Antica Osteria, in a vintage brick house, attracts an eclectic mix with its warm, old-fashioned feel. There are Turkish movie stars, socialites, ingénues, young lovers, media types and, even, parents with
well-behaved children. The attractions are the well-prepared pastas; spaghetti carbonara lush with cream and pancetta makes the strongest impression, along with abundantly friendly service and a homey vibe. Every meal begins with complimentary bruschetta and ends with a gracious smile. In between, there are simple, satisfying antipasti. Many customers order pastas as their entrées, but for those who must have meat, consider the deftly prepared osso buco – an occasional special – or the grilled angus fillet. Dinner Mon.-Sat. 2311 Bissonnet, 713-521-1155. anticarestaurant.com. $$$ – D.H.
Bramble New Southern American Neighborhood: Briargrove When a restaurant fits a chef like a glove, everything comes together effortlessly like it does at Bramble, Randy Rucker's latest Gulf Coastinspired venture and, so far, his best foot forward. Here, he effortlessly melds Southern classics with modern techniques, creating an enticing menu that is out of the ordinary and yet familiar. Take his beef tartare with a dash of miso. Who would have thought? And yet, that bit of fermented soybeans adds a je ne sais quoi that makes you want to take another bite and another bite. Crunchy peanuts give this dish a surprising crunch. Not always available, but if the dinosaur-sized seared beef short rib shows up, order it. Lunch Mon.-Fri. & dinner Mon.-Sat. 2231 S. Voss Road, 832-819-
0322. restaurantbramble.com. $$$ – D.H.
Coltivare Pizza & Garden Italian and American bistro Neighborhood: The Heights The same team who brought us the popular Revival Market created another Heights favorite with Coltivare. The garden-fresh, Italian-influenced eatery is popular for its inventive menu of small plates and salads, but the pizza is the real reason I recommend a visit. The Meyer Lemon, for example, with lemon, olives, goat cheese and rosemary, is an inspired mixture of citrus and spice for a unique pizza unlike any other. Fresh salads feature local strawberries, sugar snap peas, hazelnuts, red cabbage, yogurt with aged balsamic and mint. Later, try the chocolate rum cake topped with pistachio buttercream and salted caramel ganache. This is quite a popular spot, and seating in the rustic dining room and patio area is tight. Try to get there at opening time. Or find a spot at the bar and enjoy a craft cocktail until your table is ready. 5 p.m.-10 p.m. Mon. Wed. & Thurs.; 5 p.m.-11 p.m. Fri. & Sat., 5 p.m.- 9 p.m. Sun. 3320 White Oak Dr., 713637-4095. coltivarehouston.com. $$ – R.W.
Cottonwood New American food and spirits Neighborhood: Garden Oaks From the owners of Raven Grill comes Cottonwood in Garden (continued on page 44)
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Chef’s Corner: Randy Evans
CHEF EVANS Our Chef's Corner expert this month is Randy Evans, H-E-B director and executive chef for restaurants.
Find out where the experts eat, with our new Chef’s Corner column. Every month, chefs reveal their personal recommendations. From bargain Columbian eateries to high-end restaurants, you’ll learn where they go and what they order. To kick it off, restaurant writer Dai Huynh interviewed chef Randy Evans, who garnered countless fans during his tenure at Brennan’s of Houston and Haven. After closing Haven, Evans became director and executive chef for H-E-B restaurants. In between tweaking menus for Table 57 (5895 San Felipe) and True Texas Barbecue (9710 Katy Freeway), he hunts down good grub during his visits to Houston. Last year, the Houstonian moved his family to a five-acre homestead in Boerne to (continued from page 43) Oaks. Part bar, part pub,
part band venue, along with an excellent patio (fire pits, games, live music), Cottonwood offers 30 craft beers on tap. From Nitros (where the addition of nitrogen makes smaller bubbles and a creamier experience) to hoppy India pale ales, their list is impressive. (512) Brewing Company out of Austin is represented, as is local favorite 8th Wonder. Their Squirrel Master Burger sports a poblano-stuffed Angus patty, thick layer of creamy pepper jack, crispy bacon and a fried egg dotted with bright green flecks of fresh jalapeño. Besides salads and sandwiches, Cottonwood also offers a Sunday brunch featuring Tres Leches French Toast. 4 p.m.-midnight Mon.-Thu., 11 a.m.-2 a.m. Fri.-Sat. 2422 N. Shepherd Dr., 713802-0410. cottonwoodhouston.com. $-$$ – R.W.
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be near H-E-B headquarters in San Antonio. What do you miss most about Houston? I miss good Southern fried chicken. I have been on the hunt [around San Antonio], but no luck so far. I still go to Barbecue Inn (116 W. Crosstimbers Road) for fried chicken. It’s one of my favorite places growing up on the North Side. We went there for fried shrimp, chicken fried steak and fried chicken. I didn’t try their barbecue until I was in my 30s. It’s good, but I still go there for the fried food – the right balance of crunch, salt and moisture. What’s another must-visit when in town? I always try to hit Underbelly (1100 Westheimer), to see Chris (Shepherd), eat great food and shoot the bull. When people think of Chris, they think about the best meats. But one of the best things Chris does is seafood. Fish, especially. People don’t talk about it. Maybe it’s because of the giant meat case. Chris buys whole animal, but he buys whole fish as well, and he really does something special with it each time. Last time, I had this Vietnamese snapper dish that had this great sweet-and-sour tang. The thing about Chris is that he takes all those flavors from Chinatown and makes it his own. Any new discoveries? A place I went recently that was really good was Southern Goods (632 W. 19th Street) in the Heights. I like seeing people use underutilized cuts, and Southern Goods smokes this beef belly, and then roasts it with this wonderful crunchy glaze. It’s nice, served with creamy grits. Order that with really good fried green tomatoes. They sandwich the gooey mozzarella between the fried tomatoes. It’s refreshing. What is your last stop before heading back to Boerne? Sushi in Boerne is slim to none. So I usually run into Kata Robata (3600 Kirby) for a fast bite. Otherwise, if I have time, I kill it, especially if my kids are with me. It’s one of their favorite places. My eldest, 9, loves the maguro, hamachi and the special rolls. My 6 year old loves the scallop with soy paper and spicy mayo. My wife and I will have an ice chest, and we’ll take home cold ramen, hamachi and snapper; we load up. Mainly, we go there for traditional sushi. The rice is amazing, balanced and served at about 98100 degrees, with a nice tart acidity that brings out the freshness of the fish. Recently, we had sushi in Boston. Afterwards, my kids looked at me, “Really? This is sushi?” Kata has ruined sushi for my kids. We can’t eat anywhere else.
Neighborhood: Museum District If there were an award for the most inventive fried chicken in Houston, I’d put my money on the Korean fried chicken at Dak & Bop, the sleek, modern Korean café in the heart of the Museum District. Their version is twice-fried to create an eggshell-thin, ultra-crispy crust around a drippingly juicy interior. On my last visit, I enjoyed two wings, two strips and one drumstick for the value price of $10. They have a variety of sauces for dipping, two of which accompany any fried chicken order – I chose Sriracha honey-lime and soy garlic. Extra sauces are available for an additional cost and include buffalo, hot and spicy and a medium spicy option. My side order of kimchi fries were spicy and flavorful with a four-cheese blend, caramelized kimchi, green and white onions, cilantro, toasted sesame seeds and spicy mayo. Side orders include slaw, mac and cheese and other fries.
The bar is lively, serving up uniquely creative cocktails. Be patient after placing your order, as each item takes approximately 30 minutes to prepare. This place is popular, so expect a wait. 11:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m. & 5-10 p.m. Mon.-Fri.; 11:30 a.m-10 p.m. Sat., Happy hour: Mon.-Sat. 5 p.m.-7 p.m. 1801 Binz St. #120. 713-5280280. dakandbop.com. $ – R.W.
Saltillo Mexican Kitchen Mexican Neighborhood: Near Bellaire Fans of La Casa de Caballo will be happy to hear that it has immigrated near the city of Bellaire and rechristened itself as Saltillo. Many of the old favorites remain, including the 4 pound-plus ribeye cap ($190) large enough to share with five of your BFFs, or for a smaller group of four, there is the 3-pound top sirloin ($80). Saltillo is smaller in size but in many
ways with more charm. We like, too, the threecourse lunch specials for $20. Try the tasty trio of tacos. Lunch Mon.-Sun. & dinner Mon.-Sat. Happy hour: Mon.-Fri., 3-6 p.m. 5427 Bissonnet St., 832-623-6467. saltillomexicankitchen.com. $$$ – D.H.
South Coast Grill Gulf Coast cuisine Neighborhood: Downtown Satisfying food can be such a good trip down memory lane. Rechristened and revamped, the restaurant formerly known as Massa's Seafood Grill provides that and more. Marching proudly into the next era of Houston dining, owner Joseph Massa continues to honor his family’s 72year-old tradition of good, solid Gulf Coast seafood and Creole specialties. Fewer and fewer restaurants are doing Gulf Coast cooking right these days, which is why of late we find ourselves delving into Massa's spicy grilled catfish with red beans and rice. Try, too, the pecan-crusted rainbow trout lovingly doused with lemon buerre blanc and served with potatoes au gratin. The composition pairs beautifully with a crisp sauvignon blanc. Although a recent addition, the shrimp and grits with blackened shrimp is another crowd favorite. Open lunch & dinner Mon.-Fri. & Sat. for dinner. Happy hour: Mon.-Fri, 4-7 p.m. 1331 Lamar, 713-655-9100. southcoastgrill.com. $$-$$$ – D.H.
Super H Mart Korean food court Neighborhood: Spring Branch A handful of family kiosks and tables line the right side of this mega Korean supermarket, where shoppers dine on homey dishes, from crispy fried Korean chicken and bibimbap to oyster pancakes. The centerpiece is Daddy & Daughter, with its nourishing, briny seafood noodle soups. It’s also praised by Koreans for the comfort dish jajangmyeon, noodles tossed with pork and an unctuous sweet, salty black bean paste. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 1302 Blalock Road, 713-468-0606. hmart.com. $ – D.H.
Tony’s Upscale Gulf Coast Italian Neighborhood: Upper Richmond High ceilings and an elegant backdrop provide a cinematic setting for star sightings, anniversaries, birthdays and engagements over fresh flowers, Riedel glasses and Christofle flatware. Life unfolds under the watchful eye of consummate restaurateur Tony Vallone, whose contemporary Italian menu sparkles with deftly prepared seafood and homemade pastas. For an overview of this posh Houston landmark, explore the nightly tasting menus, starting at $95 for five courses. Lunch can be a bargain, even at Tony’s, with a three-course menu for $23, or $29 if you opt for the char-grilled hanger
steak with salsa verde as your main course. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Fri. & dinner Sat. 3755 Richmond, 713-622-6778. tonyshouston.com. $$$$ – D.H.
Underbelly Upscale Texas eats Neighborhood: Montrose Underbelly chef-owner Chris Shepherd’s menu is a touchstone of the nose-to-tail movement. The Oklahoman is known to haul a whole hog through a roomful of diners, and his passion is mirrored by a striking woodcutting of a snout at the entrance. Family-style offerings include a pork roast with smoky sweet cornbread. Another piglet rendition is spicy kimchi stew. Shepherd shares his fondness for Asian cuisines with sweeping touches here and there – all of which are satisfying against an airy, modern, Texas Hill Country setting, with maple wood communal tables, fresh wildflowers and a wall of homemade preserves. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Thurs. & dinner Fri.-Sat. Happy hour: Mon.-Sat., 3-6:30 p.m.; 10 p.m.-midnight. 1100 Westheimer Road, 712528-9800. underbellyhouston.com. $$$ – D.H.
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The battle of college admissions
Stress fractures causing stress?
College admissions in the 21st century is a battle; every battle requires an effective strategy, tactical steps and resilient execution. The soldiers of this battle are your children, and the commander, despite the popular belief, is NOT you – neither is your college counselor at your school who fights more than a hundred battles in a given year. The commander should be a licensed and recognized college counselor who not only knows these battles by location (having visited colleges, walked around and felt the “atmosphere”), but also one who can speak to the “fit” to each individual student. This commander should be a professional who can explore individual options and create custom plans for not only seniors, but juniors. The commander should be able to give the individual attention to each one of his soldiers, and communicate with you on a regular basis to establish goals. June 1 is the beginning of the college-counseling season for the Class of 2017. Hire a professional who can lead your family with a personalized approach to the college-admissions battle, as you would hire a professional attorney, CPA or doctor for your legal, accounting and medical needs. Research these professionals, check their affiliations and reputation, and interview them. For more information about hiring a professional for your college-admissions needs for your high school student, please call or email us. Firat Educational Solutions, LLC, Ibrahim Firat, MBA, Independent Educational Consultants Association Professional Member, 3701 W. Alabama, Suite 390, Houston, Texas 77027, 713.871.1048, www.firateducation.com
Stress fractures are hairline cracks in a bone. In young people, these can develop as a result of overexertion or prolonged high-impact exercise, such as running or tennis. But they may also occur in middle-aged or elderly people, especially women, who experience a reduction in bone density or the more severe condition known as osteoporosis. People with such conditions may develop stress fractures even as a result of normal daily activities, such as walking. In the feet, stress fractures most often occur in the metatarsal bones, the long bones leading to the toes, but they can also occur in the heel. The best way to prevent a stress fracture is to avoid sudden increases in activity or exercise by gradually building up your exercise regimen. Wear well-cushioned shoes to reduce impact on your feet. Warm up before you exercise, because limber muscles allow better joint flexibility, which in turn helps cushion the impact on your bones. Symptoms of a stress fracture include: 1. Pain when you press on a bone. 2. Possible redness and swelling. 3. Pain that develops after you increase your activity level or, if you are middle-aged or older, with your normal activity level. If you think you have a stress fracture in your foot, see your podiatrist. Whatever you do, don’t continue exercising. You might break the bone completely. Bellaire Podiatry/Nail Laser Center of Houston, Dr. Barry P. Weinstein, 4909 Bissonnet, Suite 120, Bellaire, Texas 77401, 713.721.5500, www.BarryWeinsteinDPM.com
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Rhinocort drops from $200 to $20 Funny thing about drug prices in the U.S. By far, we have the highest prices on brand-name prescription medications, but generics are often cheaper here than in other first-world countries. For prescription generics, we can thank Walmart, whose $4 per month on many generics completely changed the conversation. Target, HEB, Randalls and others will match Walmart’s prices. For non-prescription (OTC) meds, much credit goes to Perrigo, the generic drug company whose fexofenadine is sold as Wal-Fex at Walgreens, AllerFex at Costco, CVSHealth Allergy Relief at … well, you get the picture. If you want generic Allegra, it’s coming from Perrigo. When Costco puts it on sale twice a year, each tablet costs only 18 cents. If generic Claritin or Zyrtec work for you and don’t make you sleepy, they can be had for less than 5 cents. On the other hand, brand-name medications routinely raise their prices far above the rate of inflation. An EpiPen cost about $35 in the 1980s; now a twopack of EpiPens (they are no longer sold as single units in the U.S., but are in Canada and the U.K.) costs over $550. Granted, if it’s covered by your insurance and you either don’t have a deductible for prescription meds or have met that deductible, your copay may be as low as $0 if you bring the coupon available on www.epipen.com. Those without insurance can’t even use that coupon! Back to Rhinocort … this nose spray was never that popular in this country. It ran a distant fourth to Flonase, Nasonex and Nasacort when all were prescription and brand name. But Rhinocort did have unique advantages – it’s the only inhaled corticosteroid that is FDA Pregnancy Category B; all the others are Category C. Plus, Flonase causes nosebleeds in about 10 percent of
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A difficult transition for Mom A minute with Maisie Rarely is the transition to assisted living an easy one. Think about the degree to which Mom’s life changes when she finally leaves her home of 20 years or more. Even though it’s often the best decision, that amount of change may make her feel that life is nearly over. What are some ways in which we can make Mom’s difficult transition as easy as possible? First, talk about her future needs early. Don’t wait until an injury or illness forces the conversation. Second, think about your parent’s need for closure as she moves from one phase of life and to another. Even after moving into the new facility, take her home every few days and let her say goodbye to her belongings. Finally, make sure her new home is one in which the staff knows her by name and is able to provide activities and responsibilities that she cares about. She needs personalized attention and purpose in her new phase of life. Fairbanks Court exists to provide personalized attention and purpose for our small family of residents. Give us a call or stop by and let us show you our brand-new assisted-living home, and be sure to visit us on Saturday, June 11, from 1 to 6 p.m., for our Open House! Fairbanks Court Assisted Living, family-owned and operated by David and Kate Gober, 7810 Trentway, Houston, Texas 77040, 713.690.1344, info@fcal.com, www.fcal.com, Facility ID 106525
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t’s been five years since our inaugural Buzz summer reading roundup. And in those five years, we’ve cited recommendations from men, women, teenagers, children and even authors. What haven’t we included? Recommendations from a couple. Until now. Meet Samantha and Gil Melman, two of the most voracious readers I know, who happen to be married, and whose book endorsements never disappoint. If Gil tells me to read a book, I read it. And generally it becomes my favorite book for some time after. How the two of them – parents to three children in elementary, middle and high schools, he a lawyer – manage to read as much as they do is baffling. But lucky for us they do, and they’re happy to share what they like. “My favorite book of the year,” Gil says, “is Fates and Furies,” by Lauren Groff. “I didn’t like it at first,” Samantha says. “It was kind of serious. But it snuck up on me. It’s heavy-handed, reminded me of Donna Tartt (author of Goldfinch). Very highbrow. But I kept reading and was awed by the prose.” The story of a marriage, told through the husband’s perspective and then the wife’s, Fates and Furies is about secrets and what happens when truths come to light. The New York Times Book Review says, “Groff is a writer of rare gifts…[she] delivers with comedy, tragedy, well-deployed erudition and unmistakable glimmers of brilliance.” Amazon editors picked Fates and Furies as the No. 1 book of 2015, and its award list is extensive. Gil says Fifteen Dogs, by André Alexis, is “the most unique thing I’ve read in a long time. Easy to absorb and get through.” Samantha had just started this book when we wrote this story, but she said she was going through it quickly and enjoying it. “A Canadian author writes about 15 dogs who are given the ability to think like humans,” Gil says. “The book…is way more interesting than it sounds. Think Animal Farm meets Kerouac’s On the Road.” Kirkus Reviews called this short, 160-page novel an “inventive romp through the nature of humanity.” The Orphan Master’s Son: A Novel, by Adam Johnson, was named one of the best books of 2012 by numerous publications. Gil says, “This one is great, but it’s a hard read.” Winner of the
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Pulitzer Prize for fiction, the story explores the intimate and human side of hidden, inner North Korea. “Yeah, Gil wants me to read that one,” Samantha says. “I guess I’ll be reading it. He’s just so good – he knows exactly what to read. He read this one before it was awarded the Pulitzer.” Samantha calls The Girl On the Train, by Paula Hawkins, “excellent, excellent. It’s good and easy, and from the very first page I could tell I liked it.” Gil calls it a “poor man’s Gone Girl, but a page turner nonetheless.” USA Today named the mystery – a story of a routine commute into London gone awry – its Book of the Year. Author Anthony Doerr won the Pulitzer Prize for All the Light We Cannot See, his story of a blind French girl and a German boy whose lives intersect during World War II. “One of the better books of this decade,” according to Gil, the book is “kind of cool because it touches on the Holocaust but it’s not about the Holocaust,” Samantha says. “You see a different perspective of World War II, which is interesting. It tells the regular French people’s perspective, not necessarily those who were collaborative with the Nazis. And it’s beautifully written.” For something “ridiculous and kind of stupid
but funny and fun,” Samantha recommends Crazy Rich Asians, by Kevin Kwan. It’s the story of an American woman who travels with her boyfriend to his hometown of Singapore, only to learn that he might possibly be the country’s most eligible bachelor. “True garbage,” Gil says. “But hey, maybe that’s what you need in the summer. Title says it all.” “I read a lot of what I’m hearing in pop culture,” Samantha says. “When I hear people commenting about something, I have to read it so I can be part of the conversation. A lot of times Gil thinks it’s too lowbrow. But if everybody is reading it and it’s a thing, there must be something to it. He’s snobbier than I. To that I just roll my eyes.” But Gil is confident in his choices: “I should be a book reviewer,” he said, following our interview. “That was the most fun 10 minutes I’ve had all week.”
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