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A Girl Like Me, A God Like Him

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a girl like me A GOD LIKE HIM BY TAR A SEIDM A N & SC H A L E E SA N C H E Z

Edited by: Lisa Castello and Chastiny Lewis Proofread by: Vickie Hinton Designed by: Jaron Pitts

Copyright © 2019 by The Branch Church. All rights reserved.


To Our Beloved Sisters, Our journey to write this Bible study began last summer. Our God does not improvise in our lives. His plans are well laid out before we begin to even get a glimpse into what He is doing. We are so thankful it was in His plan for us to work together on this project! One message that has come through loud and clear as we walked this journey with Him is: “We are not alone.” Knowing that He is with us makes all things possible. His presence assures us in moments of doubt, comforts us in moments of sadness, encourages us in moments of fatigue, and inspires us beyond our own abilities. It is a powerful and life-changing truth to grasp His abiding presence. But there is more to the truth “We are not alone.” He showed us through this project how important each of us is for the other in fulfilling His purposes. Being able to work together on this project brought greater depth and joy than would have been possible individually. Not only that, but He brought others into the process that enriched what you now have in your hands in ways that we could not have even imagined! We are not alone – we are better together. So, it is our hope that as you walk through this study, these two truths will resonate in your heart like never before: 1) the God who loves you forever and ever is with you and 2) He provides you with flesh and blood reminders of His presence through the people He has connected you with. With a big hug for each one of you! May His Spirit bring you abundant life! Love, Tara and Schalee

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TA B L E O F C O N T E N T S LESSON 1 THE HEALED WOMAN...........................................................................5

LESSON 2 THE FORGIVEN WOMAN.................................................................... 17

LESSON 3 THE GENEROUS WIDOW................................................................... 33

LESSON 4 MARY...................................................................................................... 49

LESSON 5 LYDIA...................................................................................................... 65

LESSON 6 THE SERVANT OF NAAMAN'S WIFE............................................... 79

LESSON 7 ABIGAIL.................................................................................................. 93

LESSON 8 SARAH..................................................................................................105

LESSON 9 RAHAB..................................................................................................119

LESSON 10 THE WOMAN OF GREAT FAITH......................................................133 |3


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lesson 1 THE HEALED WOMAN TA R A S E I D M A N

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lesson 1

THE HEALED WOMAN Since this is a Bible study for women, I think it’s safe for us to talk about the unpleasantness that we all have to deal with once a month. You probably know someone (or maybe you

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are the someone) who deals with major issues during her

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monthly cycle. I’m talking about bloating, irritability, cramps,

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pain, backaches, headaches, stay-in-bed-for-five-days-and-pull-

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the-covers-over-your-head aches, heavy flow, food cravings,

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weight gain, exhaustion, mood swings, weakness, hot flashes,

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nausea, night sweats, insomnia, acne, depression, and feelings

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of wanting to throat-punch anyone who talks to you. It can be

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miserable. Praise God in Heaven that it generally only lasts

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about a week. We can do anything for a week, right!? Today we’ll meet a woman who dealt with it continuously for not just a week, not just a month, not just a year, but 12 years straight— until she encountered the ONE who would change it all.

Read Mark 5:22-29 Jesus was out and about, ministering and teaching. Word had gotten out about this teacher and miracle worker, and no matter where He went, people would follow. On this particular day, a synagogue leader name Jairus had just pleaded with Jesus to

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come heal his daughter who was dying, and Jesus had agreed.

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As He’s on His way to heal this dying child, a sick woman from the crowd reaches out and touches Him.

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What was physically wrong with the woman, and what were the consequences of this sickness in her life? (v. 26)

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Can you imagine? She’s been bleeding for 12 years. Wow.

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Think of the exhaustion. Not only does she not feel good,

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she’s financially drained and also has to deal with the social

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implications.

Read Leviticus 15:19-30 According to Hebrew law, a woman who was bleeding was considered ceremonially _________________________________.

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Ceremonial uncleanness was something that all Hebrews, male

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and female, experienced from time to time. It was part of their

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culture, and generally not a big deal. However, when a Hebrew

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dealt with a long-term illness or disease of some sort, the

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culture reasoned that there was a sin issue and this was the

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judgment of God.

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“uncleanness” would have prevented her from participating in any temple experiences. It wasn’t just that she wouldn’t “feel” like going—she wasn’t allowed to be there. She would be separated from her community for the duration of her condition.

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Think about the implications of dealing with a disease that kept you in a state of constant ceremonial uncleanness. Consider specifically the impact on relationships such as a spouse, children, and friendships.

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I can’t even imagine the loneliness. She was isolated and outcast. Her ailment kept her from enjoying closeness with her family, enjoying the sweetness of friendship, and it kept her from drawing near to God. She must have felt such despair.

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Have you ever felt helpless or desperate? Lonely? Unwelcomed? Sick? Shunned? Isolated? Shamed? Broken? Lost?

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If yes, then you can relate to this woman’s desperation.

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Read John 10:10 and write it below:

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Now underline or highlight Jesus’ purpose. Desperation and helplessness can be some of the most overwhelming feelings. But that’s where Jesus has been known to do His most beautiful work. He came to give us life abundantly—yes, after we die, but also right now, so we can live while we’re alive. When we come to the end of ourselves, God, in the person of Jesus, is positioned to display His power and love in our life and situation.

As soon as she touched Jesus’ clothes, she knew that the bleeding had stopped and she was freed from her suffering.

Read Mark 5:30-34 Jesus instantly knew that power had gone out from Him, and He wanted to know who touched Him. It could have been anyone.

In fear, she fell at His feet and told Him the whole truth.

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As she is at His feet, how does Jesus identify her?

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I LOVE His response!

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“Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑

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It’s sooooo beautiful that He calls her “Daughter.” What a tender

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way to address this woman who had been an outcast for so

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long.

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It’s interesting to note that:

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The form of the Greek verb translated “has healed you,” which can also be rendered “has made you whole,” indicates that her healing was complete. It is the same Greek word often translated “to save” and is the normal New Testament word for saving from sin, which strongly suggests that the woman’s faith also led to spiritual salvation. (MacArthur Study Bible note on Mark 5:34)

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With one faith-filled touch, she experienced the healing power of Christ’s love that naturally flowed from Him, and her life was _______________________________________________________________________

never the same.

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This woman who was financially, socially, and relationally

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bankrupt encounters the lover of her soul. Out of her

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desperation, she reaches out in faith to the only one who can make her well, and God does not disappoint her.

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He not only heals her body, but He also heals her reputation; He restores her position in her community; He declares her to be part of His family and saves her soul as well.

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She went looking for something that she knew she needed, and God, in His generosity, gave her that and much more.

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Instead of her blood making Him unclean, His blood makes her

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clean.

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What do you need from Jesus today?


I want to encourage you to reach out for Him.

As your study time permits, read the following thought-provoking questions.

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Try to mentally answer each one. You may want to jot a note to

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yourself in the space provided.

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1. It’s noteworthy that Jesus was on His way somewhere

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else, to help someone else—a prominent leader—when this

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woman’s faith caused her to literally reach out and touch

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Him. It’s often easy for us to think our situations aren’t as important as others’ situations. After all, Jesus was on His way to heal a little girl who was about to die. How might Jesus’ response to this woman’s faith reassure you?

2. Notice that not only did Jesus not condemn, accuse, or shame her, but He affirms and commends her faith that led her to reach out to Him. What does this tell you about Jesus’ desire for us to come near to Him in faith?

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Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Hebrews 11:1

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Highlight or underline the key characteristics of faith listed in that verse and respond to the following using the notes space: What are you hoping for that you can faithfully take to Jesus?

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PRAY AND SUMMARIZE _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________

Review this week’s lesson.

Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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Then respond to the following using the notes space:

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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2. Reword the statement or Scripture into a prayer of response to God.

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3. What does God want you to do in response to this week’s study?

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* Adapted from Experiencing God - Youth Edition.


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lesson 2 THE FORGIVEN WOMAN

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lesson 2

THE FORGIVEN WOMAN Think of your favorite before and after images. Whether it’s a house remodel, a new haircut, or anything in-between, I like seeing the changes that can take place. It’s amazing to see the

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potential that a creative person can bring out of some situations.

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It gives me hope knowing that things don’t have to stay as they

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Today’s lesson focuses on a woman whose story reminds me

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that there can be before and after moments in our lives too—and

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the improvements can be just as remarkable!

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Please start by reading the entire text we are studying this week: Luke 7:36-50

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As you read, it might be familiar to you. There’s a similar story

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about a woman named Mary in the books of Matthew, Mark,

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and John who brought a jar of expensive perfume and anointed

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Jesus. Opinions differ among scholars, but the strongest

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evidences persuade me to believe that this is a different woman

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and a different occasion. This is not a crucial argument and what we can learn from her remains the same regardless of her name. However, for this study we’ll focus on this story alone without trying to fit in the other details from the passages in Matthew, Mark, and John.


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Luke does not specifically state the location of this encounter. But if we check the context, we see that Jesus had entered the town of Nain. It was a small town. You can get an idea of its relation to Nazareth (where Jesus grew up) and the other towns you read about in the stories of Jesus by looking at the maps.

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Read Luke 7:11-15

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What outstanding miracle did Jesus perform in Nain?

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Evidently, while still in Nain, Jesus was visited by two of John the Baptist’s disciples who were sent to question if He was the one God had promised to send. He replied to them:

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“Go back and report to John what you have seen and heard: The blind receive sight, the lame walk, those who have leprosy are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the good news is proclaimed to the poor. Blessed is anyone who does not stumble on account of me.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Luke 7:22-23

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Now that we have a better understanding of the details

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surrounding her story, let’s look more closely at who she was

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and what she did.

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Most importantly, we’ll find out why she did what she did.

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1. What was this woman known for?

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2. What did she do as soon as she learned that Jesus was eating at Simon’s house?

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3. What did she take with her?

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Tears can be the result of different emotions.

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She began in a standing position behind Jesus, but she did not stay there long. She quickly found herself in a prostrate position, close enough to His feet that her tears wet them and her hair was used to wipe them. And then she kissed His feet. But that was not all. She wanted to give Him everything she possibly could, so she poured the perfume she brought on His feet as well. That was it. She had done all that was within her capacity to express her reverence, gratitude, and love.

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Why did she do it? Did she expect a response? Was she looking for something in return? Absolutely not. And that is the most important lesson we learn from this unnamed woman. Her actions were motivated by what she had already received from Jesus. She was not asking Him for anything. She was not trying to earn anything from Him. She was not trying to impress the other guests. She had already received from Jesus what she had desperately needed—forgiveness. To Him she was no longer the woman full of sin—she was now the woman full of love and faith. Jesus found in her an example for Simon and for us.

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She went to thank Him. She left commended. She went to serve Him. She left affirmed. She went to love Him. She left with His peace.

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I can’t relate to the first part of this woman’s story. I have never

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been known as a “sinner” in the community. Among most

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people I have had a reputation of being a good person. But I can relate very well to her desperate need for forgiveness and to her desire to express gratitude.

In 2010, I went through a period of time when I was emotionally drained. I was impatient with my family, unhappy, and frustrated. Guilt from my harsh words, impulsive reactions, and lack of self-control was weighing on me like a backpack full of rocks.

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a retreat for missionary women. There He showed me His

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forgiveness and assured me of His love for me. I arrived home

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forever changed.

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If you haven’t yet received it, He is offering it to you right now.

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He wants to commend, affirm, and bless you. He loves you

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extravagantly! And He forgives you completely.

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Who is a God like you, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance? You do not stay angry forever but delight to show mercy. You will again have compassion on us; you will tread our sins underfoot and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Micah 7:18-19


His forgiveness frees us from past guilt and frees us to be different in the future. Jesus continually blesses us. His mercies are new every morning. The riches of His grace are immeasurable.

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And forgiveness is not the only thing we receive from Christ.

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Praise the Lord, O my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits—who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Psalm 103:1-5

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Using Psalm 103:1-5 as a start, answer these questions in the notes space. _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________

1. What has Christ done for you personally?

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2. What has Christ given you personally?

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In this woman’s story, she received forgiveness of her many sins

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and showed Jesus her appreciation through her tears, service,

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affection, and a gift. She left with even more than she went with.

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She left with a new reputation, an assurance of her salvation,

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and peace. Like this woman, Christ has given each of us a new reputation, a new identity.

3. How has Christ labeled you?

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Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ 2 Corinthians 5:17

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Our expressions of love to Him are always a result of what He

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has already given us. The more we understand how much He

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loves us, the more capable we are to love Him.

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This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ 1 John 4:10


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I invite you to pray this prayer with me:

Father, please help me to see all that You have already done for me—how extravagantly You have loved me—so that my love for You can be as extravagant as this woman’s.

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When I came home from the women’s retreat in 2010, there was no dinner I could attend, I had no perfume, and my hair was too short to use as a towel. In other words, there was no way I could express my gratitude in the same fashion this woman did. There had to be a different way. And there is.

Please find John 13:34 and Colossians 3:13 either in your Bible or on an app, and write the instructions they give us.

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We show our appreciation for all Christ has given us by sharing those same gifts with others.

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Who can you affirm?_______________________________ In what other ways can you share what Christ has given you?

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PRAY AND SUMMARIZE _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________

Review this week’s lesson.

Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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Then respond to the following using the notes space:

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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2. Reword the statement or Scripture into a prayer of response to God.

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3. What does God want you to do in response to this week’s study?

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lesson 3 THE GENEROUS WIDOW TA R A S E I D M A N

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lesson 3

THE GENEROUS WIDOW People-watching. Why is it so entertaining!? Let’s be honest—

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whether we’re at an airport waiting for a flight, or a mall during

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the Christmas rush, or really just about anywhere people are

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gathered, we’re watching what others are doing. Maybe it’s

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subconscious at first—or maybe we purposefully positioned

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ourselves for the best view—but then we become more engaged.

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We watch how they’re behaving, what they are wearing, the

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dynamics in their relationships, etc. We’re impressed with some

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and horrified by others, while the majority pass by without

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attracting our interest.

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It’s one thing to be the watcher, but have you ever had one of those moments where you realized you were being watched?


This is where we find our leading lady today, and she has an audience of one—Jesus. ________________________________________________________________________ To get the best understanding, let’s zoom out and consider

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what’s been happening up to this point.

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It’s Passover Week in Jerusalem. It’s the last week of Jesus’ life

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on this earth. He’s been in the temple, not just this day, but the

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day before. This should be a happy place for Him, right!? But it’s not. He’s upset about the condition and the atmosphere in the temple, and He hasn’t been shy about it. He’s agitated and drawing attention. Soon, Jesus is confronted by the religious insiders: the chief priests, the teachers of the law, the elders, the scribes, the Pharisees, the Herodians, and the Sadducees.

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Everyone wants a piece of Him. They’re trying to trap Him, to

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make Him look like a fraud or a fool, but, in true Jesus fashion,

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He answers their questions and manages to say something that

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shuts them up completely. This was His “drop the mic” moment.

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Except He doesn’t.

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He’s drawn a crowd of others who are listening to Him “with

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delight.” It’s like a cat fight—you know you shouldn’t be

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watching, but you can’t peel your eyes away! This is where we

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pick up in the text.

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Can’t you just see this? The chief priests and teachers of the

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law walking away from their last confrontation with Jesus, and

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He’s still going. He’s got a crowd and He’s going to say what

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He’s going to say.

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Talk about uncomfortable!

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Wow! It’s like Jesus is picking the scab. He’s had it with the

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hypocrisy of the religious leadership. Many of these men

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were walking around in self-importance and pride, relishing

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the attention and admiration of the crowd, saying their fancy

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prayers. It’s all too much for Jesus. But He doesn’t stop there.

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He goes on and basically accuses them of exploiting widows.

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“They devour widows’ houses. . . .” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Mark 12:40

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What does the word “devour” mean?

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Use an online (or old school) dictionary and write the definition of “devour.”


This is not a passive verb here. The word implies violence and destruction. ________________________________________________________________________ Although we don’t know exactly what Jesus meant when He said

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“devouring widows’ houses,” many commentaries conclude that

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He was referring to the way the religious establishment took

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advantage of the widows financially:

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“These teachers and preachers loved the honor and privileges they received because of their position. They did not get paid a regular salary for their work, but were supposed to be supported by tithes and offerings brought to the temple. Jesus accused them of exploiting widows, pressuring the very people they should have protected, women with the most limited means, to give them their property.” Vickie Craft

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It is one thing for these religious leaders to think of themselves as super important, but quite another for them to take advantage of the most weak and vulnerable in society. It’s disgusting, and Jesus will not be stopped from talking about it.

It’s interesting to note that, in Mark’s gospel, these are the last words Jesus spoke to a public crowd.

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It’s against this backdrop that we enter into a new scene and are introduced to our sharply contrasted main character, a poor _______________________________________________________________________

unnamed widow.

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Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a few cents. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Mark 12:41-42

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Talk about a scene. It’s Passover Week, crowds of people are

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in Jerusalem from out of town, and they’ve traveled with and

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brought their offerings. It’s like our modern-day Christmas and

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Easter services at church. It’s not all hoaxers and hypocrites.

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There’s genuine excitement and sincerity. For many, this was an

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important yearly pilgrimage—something they looked forward to

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every year. It’s a celebration.

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And we find Jesus people-watching. Can you blame Him!?

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What do you think the “temple treasury” was? (v. 41)

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Take a look at the illustration of the Temple from this time period.


Circle the area known as the Court of Women. There were areas within the Temple and around it that were reserved for

Jesus is positioned within the Court of Women. This was an area where

specific groups of people: some for priests only, some for men, some for

Jewish men and women and families could gather. Within this area,

men and women, some for non-Jews (Gentiles), etc.

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Jesus was watching the crowds as they brought their offerings. I’m sure some were enjoying the clinking and clanking of their _______________________________________________________________________

large donations.

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“So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑

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What does Jesus say our giving should look like?

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Then we see a poor widow come and put in two very small

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coins (lepta), worth very little. According to one biblical

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commentary,

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“Lepta are small coins, but hardly as worthless as a present day penny. Each lepta would be worth about 10% of a worker’s hourly wage—perhaps the equivalent of a dollar or two in today’s currency.”


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It seems Jesus was the only one to notice. _______________________________________________________________________

Have you ever witnessed someone do something—either

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amazing or terrible—and you instantly want to tell someone

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about it? Jesus recognizes this as a teachable moment, much

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like we might do with our children, and He’s about to tell His

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disciples what He thinks about this.

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By the way, we are His disciples too. This is our cue to listen up.

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Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑

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I LOVE this scene, and it challenges me on so many levels. Here

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we have such a contrast. Jesus has conveyed His disdain for

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the pretentiousness of the religious establishment here at the

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temple, and now here is a widow who, presumably, had already

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been taken advantage of. Yet she’s not holding anything back.

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There’s a good chance that this widow was aware that she

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wasn’t giving into a perfect system, but she chose to give

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anyway. This was an intentional act of faith and trust on her part.

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Jesus wants His disciples to take note. His judgment of this poor widow was not based on how much she gave, but on how much she kept—nothing.


He sees her putting in her two small coins—her ALL—and He doesn’t stop her. ________________________________________________________________________

What’s interesting to also note here is that Jesus has no interaction or encounter with her, and yet her example has now been talked about for 2,000 years. I love that Jesus noticed this widow. She’s someone we might have easily overlooked. It’s comforting to know that God sees our private sacrifices and acts of faith. He is taking notice even if no one else ever does.

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Over and over in Scripture, we see Jesus talking about money. He talked about money, wealth, and our relationship with it

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more than anything else except the kingdom of God. There’s

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a consistent theme of generosity, even outrageous generosity,

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along with faithfulness and trusting in God as our source

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throughout Scripture.

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Jesus isn’t just pointing out what this widow gave; He wants us

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to take notice of the sacrifice, faith, and trust behind it. What

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she gave was significant because it was everything she had.

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She wasn’t rolling in the dough.

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The amount was almost insignificant. What is significant is that she gave out of her lack, not out of her wealth, and Jesus was impressed.

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We tend to think if we have wealth in some area, then that’s the area that we should be giving from. Say we have a wealth _______________________________________________________________________

of knowledge, then we share knowledge. If we have a wealth

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of space in our home, then we can be hospitable. If we have a

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wealth of time, then we can volunteer. Yes. Absolutely.

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But what if Jesus is saying that what’s most valuable is when we are giving NOT out of our wealth, but out of our lack? When we’re investing in God’s kingdom purposes even when it’s scary, when we’re showing patience when we feel like there’s none left, when we choose to love even though the other person has been so unlovable, when we choose courage instead of curling up in comfort and security.

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What if what God is noticing isn’t the size of the gift, but the size of the sacrifice, even in the midst of all the “what-ifs.” This

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widow had 101 reasons why she didn’t need to give, and yet

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she still chose to, with trust and confidence in God’s ability to

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supply and provide anything she could ever need. She held

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nothing back.

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Throughout Scripture, we see God emphasizing our need

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to trust Him in everything, and that He is our source for all

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we need—physically, emotionally, mentally, relationally, and

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spiritually. God’s Kingdom is set up in a way that seems so

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counterintuitive. God desires for us to depend on Him, to trust

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Him, and to give to Him—our ALL—and to trust Him with the outcome.

Is there an area of your life in which you have a hard time trusting God? Here’s a clue: It may be a situation you think about often.


Read these verses and write down how they encourage you. ________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________

Luke 16:10

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Matthew 25:21

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Matthew 10:29-31

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Philippians 4:19

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2 Corinthians 9:8

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God desires to have our ALL. I want to encourage you to

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release it to Jesus. God is the perfect steward of anything we

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give to Him. He can be trusted.

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Pray this prayer:

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“God, please help me to release ___________________________

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___________________________to you. I believe that you love me,

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and you know how to handle this better than me, and that your

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plans are perfect. I choose to trust you today, tomorrow, and the

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next day. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

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Review this week’s lesson.

Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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Then respond to the following using the notes space:

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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2. Reword the statement or Scripture into a prayer of response to God.

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3. What does God want you to do in response to this week’s study?

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lesson 4 MARY SCHALEE SANCHEZ

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lesson 4 MARY

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“I am the Lord’s servant. . . . May it be to me as you have said.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑

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Luke 1:38

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Those words remind me of a movie line, “As you wish.” Some

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of you may have seen the movie The Princess Bride that came

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out in 1987, and remember this line repeated by the hero

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throughout the story. Mary’s statement is only recorded once

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in scripture, but her life said these same words over and over

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again.

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Mary is a familiar biblical character to most of us. You may not need to look up the references to answer these questions, but let’s refresh our memories a little:

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What town was Mary from?

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Who was Mary engaged to? ______________________________________________(Luke 1:27)


What tribe was Mary a member of? ______________________________________________(Luke 3:33) ________________________________________________________________________ (Remember that the 12 tribes of Israel were Jacob’s sons, so you are looking for one of

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these: Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Issachar, Zebulun, Gad, Asher, Dan, Naphtali, Joseph

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or Benjamin)

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Note: Scholars believe that the genealogy in Luke traces Mary’s family line, while the

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genealogy in Matthew traces Joseph’s family line.

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What is the name of the angel who visited Mary? _____________________________________________ (Luke 1:26)

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What was the name of Mary’s pregnant relative?___________________________________(Luke 1:36)

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There are so many details contained in the 19 verses that describe the angel’s visit, Mary’s response, and what happened _______________________________________________________________________

immediately after.

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Read Luke 1:26-45 like a detective, making notes of all of Mary’s feelings, words, and actions.

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What Mary felt

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What Mary said

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What Mary did

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What an experience for a young (probably early teens) woman!

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Those three months (Luke 1:56) she spent with Elizabeth

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were obviously very encouraging. God often puts people like

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Elizabeth in our lives to encourage us. When He asks us to do

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something, He will always provide us with what we need to do it.

Make a list of people God has connected you with who have encouraged your obedience to Him.

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Take a few minutes to thank Him for each of these people! Pick three that you can call, visit, text, email, or write a note to this week. Share with them the specific ways God has used them in your life.


Now write Luke 1:45 here: ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

The English word “Lord” in the original language of this text (Greek) was κύριος. Look at this entry from Strong’s Greek Lexicon about the biblical usage of this word:

1) he to whom a person or thing belongs, about which he has power of deciding; master, lord A. the possessor and disposer of a thing i. the owner; one who has control of the person, the master ii. in the state: the sovereign, prince, chief, the Roman emperor B. is a title of honor expressive of respect and reverence, with which servants greet their master C. this title is given to: God, the Messiah In Strong’s definition of κύριος, it is used to describe the person who is “supreme in authority.”

Underline any portion of the above entry that resonates in your spirit.

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What is the Holy Spirit communicating to you about the authority of Christ in your life?

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God fulfilling His purposes through us has more to do with Him

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and less with us. He chooses us more because of what He can

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do through us than what we can do for Him.

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We have arrived at the part of Mary’s story I’ve anticipated since the start—her song. It reveals an element of her character that has great value and we would be wise to learn from.

Read the entire song in Luke 1:46-55.

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Mary knew her God well.

Write a list of the characteristics of God described in these verses.


A commentary from the International Standard Bible Encyclopedia states: ________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ “The canticle, which at least expresses Luke’s conception of her nature, indicates that she is not accustomed to dwell much upon herself (4 lines only call particular attention to herself), and that her mind is saturated with the spirit and phraseology of the [Old Testament].” International Standard Bible Encyclopedia

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We know that Joseph and Mary were poor (Luke 2:24 notes the sacrifice they gave at the temple, which was designated

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for those who were financially unable to purchase a lamb).

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However, Mary’s declaration as she bursts into song was not a

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reference to her financial means:

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“My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for He has been mindful of the humble state of His servant.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Luke 1:46-48

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God favored Mary because of her humility.

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Write down the instances in which you see humility in Mary’s story.

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Proverbs 3:34, James 4:6, and 1 Peter 5:5 all say that God opposes the proud, but He gives grace to the humble. _______________________________________________________________________

Throughout His Word, story after story shows how pride

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destroys individuals and nations, but humility makes room for

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restoration, salvation, and grace.

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It pleases our Father when He finds a humble heart.

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You may be thinking right now, “I want to be more humble.” If

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so, the first step is to ask Him to help you. The truth is, all of us

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need His help in this area.

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So I invite you to join me in this prayer:

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"Father, please help me to be more humble."

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Humility enables us to see ourselves as we really are. Humility

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makes it possible for us to rejoice and give thanks that our

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Father has chosen us and involved us in His plans.

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Being highly favored by God did not make Mary’s ego swell.

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She kept her heart free of pride and acknowledged that her

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position as His servant required that she do whatever He

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wanted. It is tempting to think that if God has chosen us and is using us in His plans, then we get to call the shots. Pride can make us think we’re more important than those who weren’t given the same mission, or it can make us upset because we weren’t given the same task as someone else.


Try to imagine how the story could have read if Mary had gotten a big head. What if she had demanded to have a chariot surrounded by soldiers escort her to Bethlehem? After all, she

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was carrying the King, the Son of God. But she didn’t. She let

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God write the story and call the shots. She let Him take them to

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Bethlehem on a donkey. She accepted giving birth in a stable.

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She could have gotten bitter that her mother, father, and other family members weren’t present at the birth. She could have become angry with God when they had to move to a country where she knew absolutely no one (Matthew 2:13-15).

But her humility allowed her to rejoice with what He gave her.

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And so Mary teaches us an invaluable lesson of humility. She

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reminds us that we are the Lord’s servants. We do what He asks

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us to do.

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There are many factors in our lives we do not get to choose— who our parents are, where we were born, or what our native _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________

language is. We don’t get to choose the mission God will give us or who He will ask us to share His love with. But there are a few things we will always be able to decide:

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1. Will I obey the Father’s will or do what I want?

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2. Will I rejoice in what He gives me or be bitter about what I don’t have?

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3. Will I be thankful for what He has done or demand to be treated better?

Circle the area you think needs the most improvement in your life right now: more obedience more rejoicing more thankfulness


If it’s more obedience, write down what God has told you to do that you aren’t doing.

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Please don’t waste any more time. Humble yourself under His

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mighty hand. If He has told you to do it, you can trust that He

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has a very good reason for it.

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If it’s more rejoicing, celebrate with your hubby or a friend. Take some time to talk about what the Lord has done for you with someone else.

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If it’s more thankfulness, go buy a notebook or journal and commit to writing in it, every day for a month, at least 10 things you can thank God for.

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As we conclude this lesson, I see one more important aspect of humility in Mary’s story. In her song, she declared: _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________

“From now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me— holy is His name.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Luke 1:48b-49

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that she would be blessed by His gracious hand. Jesus said:

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“...he who humbles himself will be exalted.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Luke 18:14b 1 Peter 5:6 declares that when we choose to humble ourselves under God’s mighty hand, He will lift us up in due time.

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let’s continue, as Paul teaches us in Romans 12:3, to think

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instructs us, to put others’ interests above ourselves. Let’s

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continue to follow Christ’s example, being obedient in whatever

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Whether He asks you to move to another country, start a Bible study with two peers, clean the bathroom for a neighbor recovering from surgery, preach to a crowd of 10,000 people, or

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pray with a child, remember:

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Have you ever had a season in your life when you felt like

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God was taking you the long way to get to your destination?

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And there were road blocks at every turn? The apostle Paul

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orchestrated it all.

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When we meet up with Paul in Acts 16, he is on his second journey into “all the earth,” trying to bring the good news about Jesus the Messiah to both Jews and non-Jews (Gentiles). He is traveling through Asia with his companions Silas and Timothy, and they are about to encounter some unexpected changes to their itinerary.

Read Acts 16:6-12. Don’t worry about knowing how to say all of the place names or remembering them, but pay special attention to the twists and turns on this journey.


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P A U L’ S J O U R N E Y T O P H I L I P P I

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Look at the map that details Paul’s second missionary journey. ____________________________________________________

What happened that caused Paul to change his itinerary and end up heading from Phrygia/Galatia (Asia) all the way across the Aegean Sea to Macedonia (Europe)?

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When we meet Paul in Acts 16, he has just visited the churches in Derbe and Lystra.

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Circle these cities on the map.

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Timothy has just joined Paul; they are ready to “go into all the world” again to share

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the good news of Jesus the Messiah. Notice the areas of Phrygia and Galatia in Asia.

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Acts 16:6 says that they were “forbidden by the Holy Spirit to speak the word in

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Asia.” They end up heading through those areas north to Mysia and attempt to go

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into a region called Bithynia, “but the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them.”

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Notice the dashed line from the area of Derbe and Lystra up to Mysia, near Bithynia.

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Place an X over the regions where they encountered road blocks by the Holy Spirit. Hint: the regions start with the letters P, G, and B.

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Since Paul and his companions were prevented from sharing the gospel in Asia and

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again in Bithynia, their only other option was to head southwest to Troas. While in Troas,

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Paul had a vision that gave him his “next steps” in this adventure.

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Draw a heart around Philippi.

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took a few days to get settled. Typically, in a new place, Paul

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colony, there was no synagogue. However, Paul knew that he

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could probably find a few people who were sympathetic to the

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Jewish heritage on the Sabbath. In the absence of a synagogue,

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Jews and people friendly to the Jewish faith would gather near a water source—their own unofficial prayer house. This is where Paul met Lydia.

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was told. So let’s dive in and learn a few details about her.

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Where was Lydia from?

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Lydia was from Thyatira, a city in western Asia, and her hometown was known for its production of purple dye. Luke calls her a “seller of purple cloth.” So basically, Lydia was a

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business woman. At some point, Lydia moved from Thyatira

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to just across the Aegean Sea to Philippi. So now she was an international business woman—impressive, right?

What do we know from scripture about Lydia’s relationship with God before she met Paul?

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Luke calls Lydia a “worshiper of God.” Notice that Lydia had come together with some other women on the Sabbath to pray. Although she was a Gentile from Asia—now in Europe—the

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relationship with the God of the Jews. And, as it turns out, the

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God of the Jews was interested in a relationship with her too!

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What does Scripture say happened to Lydia that caused her to accept Paul’s message?

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beautiful details. In verse 14, it simply says,

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The Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what was said... ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑

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Wow! Wow! Wow! We could all use a little more of this in our lives! It’s so nice to realize that we aren’t alone in the gospelsharing experience—God is actively engaged in getting the truth out.

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What two things happened immediately after Lydia accepted Paul’s message about Jesus?

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effect, causing her whole household to accept the message

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of Christ and be baptized. She also insisted that Paul and his

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companions come stay at her house.

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Think about the person who first shared the gospel with you, and the person who shared the gospel with them, and the person who shared the gospel with them.

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Paul probably didn’t know when he shared the gospel with Lydia that her decision would influence so many others.

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became a follower of Christ three months before we graduated

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from high school. He was searching for answers back then, and

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a mutual friend of ours shared the gospel with him in a brief, almost passing conversation.

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That conversation changed the course of his life forever.

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His heart was changed because of the good news that he

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heard that day; he went on to become a pastor and now leads a

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church in the Chicago area. The friend who shared the gospel

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with him that day never knew the outcome until this reunion!

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As your study time permits, read the following questions and try to mentally answer each one. You may want to jot a note to yourself in the space provided. 1. Think about the lengths God went to in order to pursue Lydia’s heart (Paul being stopped from entering other regions, the vision of the Macedonian man, etc.). Just like He did with Lydia, God pursues our hearts. He’s been pursuing us since the day we were born, whether we realize it or not. Looking back over your own life, are there any moments you can think of that may point to God’s pursuit of your heart?

2. Paul was a big part of Lydia’s conversion, but he had to follow the Spirit’s leading in order to get there. Oftentimes, when God tells us NO, it’s because He has a YES for us somewhere else. Have you ever felt prompted to go somewhere, do something—

Read Acts 16:40

OR to NOT go somewhere, to NOT do something--and then later realized why? What did you learn about God from that

Lydia welcomes the missionaries again, and we see her using

experience?

her influence and her resources to advance the message and cause of Christ. This final verse of Acts 16 is the last time we

3. It’s important to note that we aren’t alone in the gospel-

hear about Lydia, but the implications of her conversion will last

sharing experience. When Paul shared the message of Christ

for eternity.

with Lydia, Scripture says that “the Lord opened her heart.” Paul shared the message. God opened the heart. It’s our job to

Lydia’s conversion and her hospitality was the beginning of the

share the message. It’s God’s job to open the heart. Think back

Philippian Church, which became a major financial contributor

to a time when God spoke to you through someone else. They

to Paul’s missionary travels. It’s interesting that the seed Paul

shared something that touched or changed you. What did they

sowed when he shared the gospel with Lydia ended up being a

share? How did it affect you?

harvest that he drew from later to advance the gospel. 4. Consider someone (or several someones) you know who you

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could share the good news of Jesus with. Write their name(s) down in the space provided. Ask God to open their heart so that when you share, they’ll readily respond!


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lesson 6

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Few of us know what it’s like to be at war. Our nation has been free from war on our own soil since April 9, 1865, when Ulysses S. Grant surrendered the last major Confederate army at Appomattox Courthouse. Unless we or our loved ones have served in the military, our experience with war is limited to stories, books, and movies. In today’s story, a young woman was directly and dramatically impacted by war, but it did not overcome her.

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Syria (Aram) and Israel fought one another for a long time. They

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engaged in battles resulting in more than 100,000 casualties (1

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Kings 20:29-30). In 1 Kings 22:3-37, the Syrians killed the king

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of Israel. The Syrians and the Israelites were not friends. They

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In the midst of this conflict, God chose to use a young girl

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man who was not only outside of His chosen people, but also

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commanded the enemy army fighting against them. Our heroine

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lived in Israel (shaded in yellow on the map) before the Assyrian

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Empire engulfed her entire nation.

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Her new master would be a man named Naaman. He lived in Damascus near the border of the Assyrian Empire at that time.

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The Aramean army sent many groups of soldiers to fight in Israel. One time they took a little girl from the land of Israel. This girl became a servant of Naaman’s wife. She said to his wife, “I wish that my master would meet the prophet who lives in Samaria. He could heal Naaman of his leprosy.”

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Naaman went to the king and told him what the Israelite girl said. Then the king of Aram said, “Go now, and I will send a letter to the king of Israel.” So Naaman went to Israel. He took 750 pounds of silver, 6000 pieces of gold and ten changes of clothes as gifts. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ 2 Kings 5:2-5 (Easy-to-Read Version) Yep, that’s all we know about her. Unnamed. Unrewarded.

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What disease had attacked Naaman’s body? ______________________________________


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In spite of the undesirable changes thrust upon her at a young age, this young girl made an enormous impact, and her story has much to teach us about our Father and His plans for us.

What good news did she share with Naaman’s wife?

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centuries beforehand, God gave the following instructions

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through King Solomon:

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If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑

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Note: In The Message Bible, "In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head" is expressed as "Your generosity will surprise him with goodness."

When have you had an opportunity to act kindly toward someone who had previously hurt or mistreated you?

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What was the result of your actions?


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However, our acts of kindness to those who have hurt us may not always be received in a positive way or have an immediate effect. Look again at Proverbs 25:22 to the left.

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“But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, because He is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Luke 6:35-36

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If a young prisoner of war could show kindness to her enemy, what’s keeping me from doing the same?

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Why do I choose not to be kind to those who have hurt me?

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What will I gain by ignoring, talking badly about, or mistreating them?

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What will I gain by praying for them, serving them, and intentionally acting in ways to benefit them?


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kindness being shown to the Arameans by an Israelite.

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Please read 2 Kings 6:8-23.

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Briefly describe how Elisha treated his enemies.

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I can’t help but wonder if Elisha’s experience with Naaman

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towards the Arameans who tried to capture him. Perhaps the young servant girl’s actions influenced the great prophet of Israel to show mercy to an entire army.

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What do you learn about caring for others and sharing news that will benefit lives around you?

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What aspects of your life (circumstances, age, position, social status, etc.) might be holding you back from reaching out to someone in need?

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Amazingly, the information she shared not only changed Naaman’s physical condition (complete healing from leprosy), it changed his heart condition (pride replaced with humility), and his spiritual condition (knowledge and worship of the One True God).


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God’s willingness to use this young woman to show His

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kindness and healing to Naaman reflects His willingness to send

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His own Son to live among us and die for our salvation. Yes,

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even though we opposed God by choosing our own way rather

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than His, He demonstrated His love for us (Romans 5:8) and made it possible for us to have peace with Him.

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Because of the kindness and salvation that we have received from our God, we are commissioned by Him to share His kindness and grace with others.

Pray that God will give you opportunities to show His kindness this week.

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Be aware of the needs of those around you.

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Be ready to speak when God provides the right time. Trust Him with the rest of the story.

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Review this week’s lesson.

Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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3. What does God want you to do in response to this week’s study?

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lesson 7 ABIGAIL TA R A S E I D M A N

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lesson 7 ABIGAIL

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“There is a story told of the one-time heavyweight boxing champion of the world, Muhammad Ali, flying to one of his engagements. During the flight, the aircraft ran into foul weather, resulting in mild to moderate turbulence. The passengers were instructed to fasten their seatbelts immediately. Everyone complied, except Ali. Noticing this, the flight attendant approached him and requested he observe the captain’s order, only to hear Ali respond, “Superman don’t need no seatbelt.” Without missing a beat, the flight attendant replied, “Superman don’t need no airplane either.” Ravi Zacharias

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Don’t you love it when someone diffuses a potentially volatile person or situation? Today we’ll meet a woman who used her wisdom to create peace for those caught in the middle of two difficult people.


Before we meet this wise woman, let me give you a little background. In the book of 1 Samuel, we watch national power in Israel transfer from Saul to David. God had rejected King Saul

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because of his disobedience, and He commanded the prophet

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Samuel to privately anoint David as king. But for a long time,

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Saul continued to reign.

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As Saul recognized David’s growing success and popularity

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among the people, he became jealous. He sought to kill David,

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forcing him to run away.

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Eventually, we find David and a band of 600 followers hiding in the caves and strongholds of En Gedi trying to elude King Saul and his 3,000 troops. It’s here that David had a chance to kill Saul, but instead, he showed restraint by only cutting off a piece of Saul’s garment as proof that he had been close enough to do away with his pursuer. When Saul found out, he was immediately

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ashamed and asked David for forgiveness, which David readily

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gave.

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With Saul no longer an imminent threat, David could finally relax

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a little bit. This is where we’ll pick up.

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Read 1 Samuel 25:1-9.

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We’ve just met Nabal, the rich landowner, and his wife Abigail. How does the text describe Nabal and Abigail? (vs. 3)

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What was happening with the livestock during this time? (vs. 7)

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celebration—a time to reap the benefits after a year of hard

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work. Some commentaries suggest that Nabal’s large herd of

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livestock might have produced as much as three tons of wool.

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Nabal was a wealthy man.

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David sent 10 young men on an errand. What was their assignment?

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Nabal to share his great wealth with his men, especially since

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they had protected his investment. This kind of reciprocity was the custom of the day. However, it didn’t quite go as planned.

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Read 1 Samuel 25:10-11. What was Nabal’s response to David’s request?

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Nabal not only denied David’s request for provisions, but he

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acted like he didn’t have the foggiest idea who this “son of

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Jesse” was. Calling them names, Nabal’s denial was accusatory,

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harsh, and rude.

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Let’s look at how David responded.

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Read 1 Samuel 25:12-13.

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What was David’s reaction when he heard about Nabal’s response to his request?

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Remember, David just came out of a season where he used

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every ounce of his self-control NOT to kill Saul. He’s also

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been fighting Israel’s battles with his band of 600 men while

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on the run from the king. On top of that, he and his men have

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been quietly protecting the shepherds and livestock of a rich

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landowner near their hideout. At this point, David has used up all of his patience and niceness. This was no time for rude denials of reasonable requests! He’s done—and ready for war!

It’s notable that David took 400 men to fight one family.

Have you ever been so mad at someone that you felt out of control?

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As David and his men were getting ready to attack, one of Nabal’s servants filled in Abigail on the details of what had happened.

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It’s interesting to note that the servant understood the potential for a bad outcome and went to Abigail.

What does this tell you about Abigail’s reputation?

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And here’s where Abigail shines.

Read 1 Samuel 25:18-31.

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Abigail acted quickly. Smart girl. Verses 18-19 show us that she knew how to calm a man down. . . FOOD! Okay, maybe David and his men were a little “hangry,” but who can blame them? Abigail loaded up several unfortunate donkeys with hundreds of pounds of food for David and his men and headed in their direction.

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Notice vs. 19. Why do you think the text points out that Abigail didn’t tell her husband?

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Verses 23-31 provide the longest recorded dialogue from a woman in scripture.


Read over these verses and list at least three practical actions Abigail took to promote peace with David. Abigail teaches us a lesson in peacemaking and conflict resolution. First, when she met David, the soon-to-be king, she got off her donkey and bowed before him in an act of humility and respect. (I wonder if this was the first time anyone had treated David like the king that he was becoming?) But there’s more: •

Vs. 24: In addition to showing humility and vulnerability through her body language, she took ownership and accepted responsibility for the actions of her household. She addressed David with a title of honor. She politely sought permission to speak.

good things about his future. She acknowledged his military prowess and integrity and reminded him that the battle belongs to the Lord. •

Vs. 29: She pointed out his current favor and security with God. She reminded him of God’s faithfulness in the past, suggesting that God will be the one to wipe out his enemies with a shot from a sling—a subtle reference and reminder of his victory over Goliath.

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Vs. 25: She affirmed the injustice by acknowledging Nabal’s lack of character, in essence telling David he was right to be offended.

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Vs. 26: She acknowledged David’s right to kill Nabal, but also urged him to show patience and restraint by not taking matters into his own hands. She found common ground with him by pointing out their mutual goal—the destruction of his enemies.

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Vs. 30-31: She prophesied again about the Lord completing what He started, fulfilling His calling of David as a ruler and leader for Israel. She reminded him that he wouldn’t want to have anything negative on his record, and then asked him to remember her in his success.

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Vs. 28: She continued to humble herself and asked for forgiveness for any offense or presumption. She encouraged him by prophesying about his lasting dynasty, foretelling

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How did David respond to Abigail?

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Read vs. 36-42.

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What was the final outcome of this story?

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I think it’s noteworthy that David’s response was not to praise Abigail, but to praise GOD. David immediately recognized God’s

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role in sending Abigail to meet him. He accepted her gifts and

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her gesture, assuring her of no harm, and sent her home in

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peace. Abigail was wise and prudent. She knew God’s plan

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for the nation and that David was unbeatable. She followed

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God’s known will, and He used her actions to accomplish His

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purposes.

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List what we are to do when we have been wronged.

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Which of the above instructions is hardest for you?

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Consider a difficult person or relationship in your life. What actions can you take today to love the unlovely?


Consider the last time someone acted unloving or disrespectful towards you. How did you react? What was your response?

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Read Proverbs 15:1.

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How could this proverb change or improve your reaction next time?

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Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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2. Reword the statement or Scripture into a prayer of response to God.

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3. What does God want you to do in response to this week’s study?

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lesson 8 SARAH SCHALEE SANCHEZ

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lesson 8 SARAH

Have you ever thought life would be easier, more pleasant, or less complicated if certain people weren’t around anymore?

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Our heroine in today’s lesson certainly did, but her story can teach us some important truths. Let’s get started with some background information.

Read Genesis 11:29-31 and fill in the family tree to the right. (Note: We will start out calling our heroine “Sarai” until her name is changed later in her story.)

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As in all of our stories, it’s good to remember that we do not live in a vacuum. At some level, our parents, husbands, siblings, in-laws, and children affect our story. Sarai’s story was greatly impacted by her husband and his role in God’s plan. We don’t get to choose our parents. I even met one woman who did not get to choose her husband. But we always have a choice about how we respond to their decisions and actions. Sarai’s father-inlaw decided to leave their homeland. Her husband decided that they would go with him. The Bible gives us no indication that Sarai had any say whatsoever in these matters.


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ABRAM AND SARAI'S JOURNEY TO CANAAN

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If you are in a season of life right now that was not your preference or choice, let God’s word encourage you today that He is at work in your circumstances, and His purposes for your

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life will be fulfilled.

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In Him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of Him who worked out everything in conformity with the purpose of His will, in order that we, who were the first to hope in Christ, might be for the praise of His glory. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Ephesians 1:11-12

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The Lord will fulfill His purpose for me; your love, O Lord, endures forever — do not abandon the works of your hands. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑

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Abram and Sarai traveled throughout Canaan as nomads. But due to a famine, they moved to Egypt for a while (Genesis 12:10). This detail is significant because Hagar probably joined the family as Sarai’s maidservant during this time.

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Sometimes the very thing we are unable to do becomes our identity. Let me give you an example. The kitchen has never been a good friend of mine. When I was growing up, the joke around our house was, “I smell something burning; Schalee must be in the kitchen.” I’ll refrain from sharing with you how many times I’ve set off the fire alarm with my cooking.

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As we dive into the next passage, we see that “something” in

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Sarai’s life. Actually, it already was mentioned in Genesis 11:30.

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If you peek at Romans 4:19 and Hebrews 11:11, you’ll find it

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Our weaknesses make us vulnerable to Enemy attacks of doubt, guilt, shame, discouragement, and insecurity. A weakness can be an inability to accomplish a specific task. It can also be an extended exertion of energy that has drained our strength.

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What specific weaknesses are you experiencing right now?

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But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ 2 Corinthians 12:9-10

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What was the truth our Father spoke to Paul, which empowered him to boast and delight in his weaknesses?

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When have you (in your own life or someone else’s life) seen weakness result in a display of Christ’s power and strength?

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weakness, you are not alone. God’s grace is sufficient for you.

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Allow His power and strength to work in you.

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We’re ready to move on to Genesis 16:1-16. Please read it.

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At this point in Sarai’s story, we could hold quite an interesting

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discussion about why she made such a “foolish” decision. We

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all of her better options. But instead, let’s focus on what her story can teach us. If you take time to read through Genesis 11-23, you will notice that God never spoke His promise directly to Sarai. God spoke to Abram. God even sent an angel to give specific instructions and encouragement to Hagar — twice.

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Have you ever wanted God to speak to you the same way He is speaking to those around you? We often want the good things we see others receiving.

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Why do you think God did not speak directly to Sarai?

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We have a gift that Sarai didn’t have. God has given us His

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written Word to speak to us. When we don’t receive a direct

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message or sign from the Lord, the Bible reassures us of His

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Which verses from the Bible have been especially encouraging to you in the past?

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aren’t providing the encouragement you need in your current

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circumstances. Now is a great time to find a concordance or search Google for verses that God wants to use to speak to you today. For example, you could type “Bible verses about ___________________.” Don’t get discouraged if the first verses that show up don’t seem particularly significant to you. Keep scrolling, all the while expecting to find God’s message for you.

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Now we get to the “good” part of Sarah’s story—where balloons are inflated and cake is ordered for a long-awaited celebration.

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Please read Genesis 21:1-7 very carefully.

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Write Genesis 21:1 replacing Sarah’s name with yours.

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Take some time to thank God for His graciousness to you. You can journal your thanks here.

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One gracious act of God on our behalf does not disqualify us from future troubles.

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Jesus said,

“In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ John 16:33

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Genesis 21:8-21 brings more heartache into Abraham and Sarah’s story. Sarah became so troubled by the relationship between Ishmael and Isaac that she asked Abraham to get rid of Hagar and their son. Although it broke his heart, Abraham

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received direct instructions from God to do what Sarah asked.

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And God took care of Hagar and Ishmael. Genesis 21:20 says,

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God was with the boy as he grew up. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Genesis 21:20

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We know that Sarah’s life included its share of difficulties, but it

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God said to Abraham, “As for Sarai your wife, you are no longer to call her Sarai; her name will be Sarah. I will bless her and will surely give you a son by her. I will bless her so that she will be the mother of nations; kings of peoples will come from her. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Genesis 17:15-16 God was faithful to Sarah. God was faithful to Abraham. God was faithful to Hagar. God was faithful to Ishmael. You can count on God being faithful to you, too!

He will keep you strong to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. God, who has called you into fellowship with His son, Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ 1 Corinthians 1:8-9

That makes me wanna shout!

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Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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lesson 9 RAHAB

If we stop to think about it, we have choices every day. We

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decide if we will continue living as we always have, or if we

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will try something new—a new gym, a new supplement, a new

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clothing trend, a new parenting tactic, a new recipe, a new

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podcast. Some of these choices end up really blessing our

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lives, and others . . . maybe not so much.

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choices and decisions that carry a little more weight.

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Will we take this new job? Invest in that business? Will we give to this charity, or take on that leadership role? Which school will we choose? In these decisions, there’s more risk involved. So we take time to seek God—to pray, to ask for wise counsel, and to make a calculated decision over time. But what if a major decision must be made on a moment’s notice? And you knew it would affect you and the people you love most for the rest of your life?

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Today we meet a woman who faced this kind of life-altering decision. With faith and courage, she took bold, immediate action and ensured her place in God’s story.

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As the story begins, the people of Israel have just ended 40 years of wandering in the wilderness. Their leader Moses has died, and Joshua has been commissioned as their new

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leader. He was the one to lead them into the Promised Land of

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Canaan—the land flowing with milk and honey, the land they’ve

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been waiting for decades to enter and occupy. Joshua was filled

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with the Spirit of God, and the people of Israel, all 2.5 million of them, stood ready and eager to follow their new leader.

Joshua told the Israelites to get ready. They would cross the Jordan River to take possession of the land the Lord had given them. But before they did, Joshua wanted to check it out.

Read Joshua 2 :1-7. Why do you think Joshua sent out the spies secretly? (Read Numbers 13:1-2, 8, 16, 27-31; and Numbers 14:5-9 to recall Joshua’s past experiences.)

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Joshua was no stranger to espionage. He was one of the 12 men whom Moses had chosen to explore the land of Canaan

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some 40 years prior. He and Caleb were the only ones to return

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with a faith-filled report. Because of the lack of faith among the

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rest of the spies that resulted in grumblings from the people of

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Israel, God prohibited the Israelites from entering the Promised

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Land for another 40 years.

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So when Joshua sent out two spies to scope out the area they

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were about to conquer, we can see why he wanted to keep it

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named Rahab and stayed there. ‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑‑ Joshua 2:1

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Here she is: Our leading lady, Rahab.

When I first read this, I was like, “What!? The spies just happened to come to the house of a prostitute!?” But as it turns out, Rahab’s home likely functioned as both an inn and a brothel. Travelers and foreigners probably slept there often—with

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her. This also explains why the king knew exactly where these

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men would have been staying.

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It’s fascinating how Rahab acted so boldly to help these men—

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hiding them and then lying to the king’s messengers! This was

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serious stuff. Treason. Punishable by death. We’ll soon learn

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what convicted her to make this decision, and how her quick

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thinking and swift action earned her loyalty and protection from

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God’s people.

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Read Joshua 2 :8-16. When Rahab spoke to the spies, she confessed, “I know that the Lord has given you this land. . . .”

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What information led her to this conclusion? (vs. 10)

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What happened to the courage of the people of Jericho when they heard of Israel’s past conquests? (vs. 9 and 11a)

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Basically, Rahab recalled the goodness of God to His people.

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She testified of His faithfulness to His people. I can imagine

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the two spies listening to her with wide eyes and big grins on

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the inside, filled with pride to learn how their nation, their team,

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was revered and feared. Talk about a confidence boost!

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Our youngest son, now in ninth grade, has played flag and

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tackle football since he was in second grade, and he has never

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been on a winning team. Now keep in mind, he’s an impressive

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little athlete (well, not so little anymore), but it takes more

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discouraging and disheartening to size up the competition and know you’re going to get beat, especially if people will get hurt. This was where Rahab found herself, but we’re about to witness her strong declaration that took her off the losing team and ensured her a place on the winning one!

Write out Rahab’s strong declaration from vs.11b. Her declaration makes you wonder what else she’d heard to be able to exclaim such passionate words.

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Have you ever had a moment where you’ve freely and passionately exclaimed your praise of God? What led you to that exclamation? What were you recalling or thinking at that moment?

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I also wonder if Rahab’s declaration was a pep talk to herself,

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recognizing her desperate situation, but committed to her next move.

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“The dogs of doom bark the loudest at the door to our destiny.”

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Sometimes our breakthrough is just on the other side of the

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door.

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Recall a time when you were in a desperate or scary situation.

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What thoughts were floating around your heart and head? Were they strong declarations of faith or wimpy murmurings of fear?

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What did Rahab request in vs. 12-13? What does this request reveal about her?

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Rahab made her strong declaration of God’s power and authority, but she wasn’t done. She insisted the spies swear to show her kindness, sparing her life AND the lives of her family

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and all who belonged to them. And the spies agreed! This was

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flat-out BOLD of Rahab. Talk about guts! She was going for

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broke. She wasn’t simply satisfied with salvation for herself—she

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wanted it for her entire family! Oh, that we would all have a

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Rahab in our corner!!

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The spies made an oath with Rahab that included two

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conditions.

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What two things did the spies require Rahab to do to ensure her salvation?

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Rahab agreed to their conditions and acted immediately.

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What do you think the significance of the scarlet cord might be? (Hint: Read Exodus 12:7, 12-13,

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22-23; Joshua 2; 17-19; and Matthew 26:28.)

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Rahab knew the plan was risky, but as soon as the spies left,

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she hung the scarlet cord from her window. When God asks us

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to do something that requires courage, Satan is quick to tell us

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that we aren’t enough, we don’t have what it takes, and that we’ll

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fail.

How do you push back against the lies of your enemy? What are some practical strategies you can employ to encourage yourself to walk out what God is calling you to do?

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What was the end result of Rahab’s faith and action?

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Read Matthew 1:5, Hebrews 11:31, and James 2 :25.

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Rahab is one of only five women mentioned in the genealogy

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of Christ. The writer of Hebrews lists Rahab in the great “hall

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of faith” along with notables like Noah, Abraham, Sarah, and

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Moses. In James’ New Testament letter, he notes Rahab as one

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who showed faith by her action. I wonder if, when Rahab died,

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she had any glimmer of understanding about the legacy she

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would leave.

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What do these scriptures tell you about God and His ability to use anyone in His story?

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The whole story of Rahab is filled with declarations of faith.

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What is a promise that God has made in scripture that you can declare over your life?

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Hint: Use Bible Gateway to search, or Google “scriptures about ____.”

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For example, if you are struggling with fear, you might use Joshua 1:9

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“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be

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afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”

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Rahab’s faith in action secured her place in a new family—the family of Israel. Her act of faith impacted her whole family and became a seed that would eventually lead to the birth of Jesus. Think about the ways, big and small, that God calls us to have faith, to trust Him, to take risks. Imagine the outcomes.

What is one area that God is calling you to have faith in and take action on?

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God is so creative and unique in the way He pulls us into His plan and His story. Rahab was a helper who ended up being helped.

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Look back over your life. In what ways has God pulled you into His plans or purposes?

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Review this week’s lesson.

Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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Then respond to the following using the notes space:

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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3. What does God want you to do in response to this week’s study?

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lesson 10

THE WOMAN OF

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lesson 10

T HE WOM AN OF GR E AT FAI T H Jesus ignored her – STRIKE ONE! He excluded her – STRIKE TWO! But. . . She had GREAT FAITH – A GRAND SLAM!!

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Let’s see what we can learn from the story of this amazing

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woman as recorded in Matthew 15:21-28 and Mark 7:24-30.

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Please start by reading Mark 7:24-30.

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Mark 7:26 tells us that she was born in Syrian Phoenicia.

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Phoenicia was a region north of Galilee. (The Syrian preface

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distinguished it from the Phoenician region on the African continent.) He also highlights that she was a Greek. At that time the Jews looked down on all other races of people (known as Gentiles). In fact, they referred to them as dogs. The final detail we know, which is shared in both Matthew’s and Mark’s accounts, is that she had a daughter—a child who was demonpossessed and suffering terribly.

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Similar to the chronic leprosy of Naaman, which had no cure,

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this mother had no hope of relieving her daughter of the pain

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inflicted by the demon. Until one day, she heard about Jesus.

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We are given no information about how this good news came to the desperate mother. But she wasted no time. As soon as she heard that Jesus was near, she went to Him.

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Which of the following causes you to hesitate to act in faith:

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a. what others will say or think

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b. worrying that you may be wrong

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c. wanting to look at different options

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e. I have no problem acting by faith.

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What specific act of faith can you take today?

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Once in Jesus’ presence, the woman’s actions and words expressed great reverence and respect.

Please read Matthew 15:21-28. Write down everything she said.

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Did you notice that all three times she called Jesus “Lord?” She used the same title Elizabeth and Mary used, which we studied in lesson 4 (page 49). She was acknowledging Jesus as the One with supreme authority. But that wasn’t enough to get her the grand slam. Even demons acknowledge the authority of Christ. (James 2:19) This woman’s belief in Jesus went beyond an acknowledgment of His authority. She also believed that He

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was merciful and compassionate—that He not only could heal

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her daughter, but He actually wanted to and would do it.

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Where is your current level of faith in Christ? Do you believe that He was a famous historical figure? YES NO Do you believe that He has authority over every other power? Do you believe that He is God’s Son? Do you believe that He can save you?

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Do you believe that He wants to forgive you?

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Do you believe that God raised Him from the dead?

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This list could continue infinitely because there are so many facets of His character and power. But I want us to see the connection between our knowledge of Him and our faith in Him. This woman knew Jesus was the Son of David. She knew He was merciful. She knew He could deliver her daughter. And so she came to Him, worshiped Him, and pleaded for His mercy.

Make a list of things that you know about Jesus, and describe how these truths impact your actions: Jesus is... Therefore, I... ____________________

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In addition to this woman’s faith being active and immediate, it was also resilient (able to withstand or recover quickly from difficult conditions). She did not give up after the first obstacle.

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She did not go home after the second hurdle. She stuck with

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it, even in the face of resistance. This is an invaluable lesson of

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faith for all of us. Consider what author and pastor Chuck Smith

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“It is my opinion that Jesus knew all along that He was going to heal her daughter. He knew the faith that was in the heart of this desperate mother. He was seeking to draw out her faith to its fullest expression. Every time He took a step back, she took two forward.

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“Faith will cause you to see the love in the heart of Christ even when He is reproving you. Unbelief will imagine that He is angry even when He is speaking words of love. Faith will help the soul to wait even when God delays. Unbelief will throw it all over if there be any tarrying.”

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to increase, there are two essential elements: resistance and

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proper nutrition. This is the way personal trainer, Keneé Dover,

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“When you have a muscle under tension for an extended period of time, this actually causes tiny tears in the muscle fibers. Once they tear, it’s important to put the proper nutrients into your body to fully repair the fibers. . . if you don’t have the proper nutrition, your muscles won’t be strengthened.”

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Comparing this process to our faith gives us a wonderful picture

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of how the difficulties in our lives actually serve a greater

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purpose of strengthening and refining our faith.

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Look at the illustrations. Jesus is like a trainer who works toward the goal of producing great faith in each one of us. Part of His strategy is to provide us with the necessary resistance.


MUSCLES & FAITH

FAITH The trials (resistance) in our lives cause the brokenness necessary for our faith to be strengthened when it is fed the right nutrients (the truth of His Word).

MUSCLES As you lower the weight (resistance) downward, the tearing of the bicep muscle occurs. The muscle fibers are actually strengthened during the reparation process.

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According to verses 6 and 7, why do trials come into our lives?

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List some trials that have personally caused you to suffer grief.

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What have you learned about Christ during those trials?

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In what ways have these trials strengthened your faith? So just as the pain of physical exercise produces positive results in our bodies, the pain of our sufferings produces positive growth in our faith.

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Thankfully, along with resistance, Jesus provides proper

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nutrients. The life-giving, faith-building nourishment He provides

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can be found in His Word. That’s why He led you to this study.

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My guess is that you are probably facing a trial today. If not, you will be soon. And He is ever so lovingly giving you “daily bread” with everything you need to restore brokenness and build

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genuine faith—a faith that believes Him to be true to His promise,

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a faith that reasons God can raise the dead, a faith that knows

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God rewards those who earnestly seek Him, a faith that can

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move mountains, a faith that can stand firm in the day of trouble,

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a faith that can fight the good fight, a faith that can finish the

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race, a faith that will one day result in praise, glory, and honor!

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So what’s on your menu? How are you showing up for the banquet He has prepared for you?

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Right now you are participating in this study, which is great! This is the last week we will study together, so now is the time to start thinking about how to continue growing in your knowledge of Him and His Word so that your faith in Him can flourish.

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Please take time to fill in this chart and make a health plan for your intake of His word this summer.

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As you think about intentional ways that you can grow closer to

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Jesus this summer, be specific about the who, what, when, and

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Plan a personal time for you and the Lord alone, but also make

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time to meet with others for mutual encouragement.

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What: Determine a specific study or book of the Bible you will read.

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When: Put specific times on your calendar to help you be faithful in following through.

Where: Atmosphere impacts our thoughts and can be a strategic part of our plan. For some, being outside in nature is an amazing way to draw closer to God, while others prefer to meet in a church building or a coffee shop.


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Review this week’s lesson.

Pray and ask God to identify one or more statements or Scriptures that He wants you to understand, learn, or practice.

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1. What was the most meaningful statement or Scripture you read this week?

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2. Reword the statement or Scripture into a prayer of response to God.

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