The Coat of Arms Menlo School, Atherton, California
Volume 49, Number 1
Thursday, October 6, 2022
serving Menlo's upper school since 1973
BeReal Challenges Norms: Are Students BeingReal? by KAYLIE WU
In the early months of 2022, the BeReal app exploded in popularity. BeReal strives to shift social media in a more casual direction by encouraging its users to post photos on a daily basis, whenever a random notification goes off. However, many similar social media
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platforms have circulated throughout Menlo before, such as Poparazzi and quickly fizzled out. Still, even in October 2022, approximately eight months after the app’s popularity first surged, BeReal has yet to suffer the same fate. Many teenagers continue to post on BeReal everyday. According to Online Optimism, in July 2022, the app hit a milestone of over 10 million active daily users, preserving the app’s relevance. Some believe BeReal belongs permanently in the Menlo community, while others perceive the app as an ultimately fading trend. BeReal releases a notification at a random time once a day, beginning a two-minute timer for users to post what they are currently doing. Posts consist of two photos
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— one taken from the selfie camera, and one taken from the front camera — and are able to be viewed by friends on the app, just like an Instagram feed. The photos are taken directly on a camera in the app, not allowing for filters or photo editing to take place. Although BeReal posts are intended to be taken when the original two-minute notification is released, some people instead wait to photograph the best part of their day hours later; such staged posts strip BeReal of its acclaimed title. The only penalty for a late post is a notification, which displays to people how many minutes “late” the photo is considered. According to freshman Libby Vitro, BeReal feels much more permanent as a popular app compared to Poparazzi. “BeReal is doing a good job of lasting because it gives you a notification to post every single day,” Vitro said. “[The app] is constant, which is why I think it will last a significant amount of time.” Senior Annika Porteous agrees that BeReal has successfully stayed current, and she posts on the app almost daily. Porteous credits BeReal’s success to its unique and sporadic culture. “BeReal is very unpolished,” Porteous said. “Some parts of the app can be pretty funny, and it’s nice that posts are at any given moment of the day.” Unlike Porteous, Vitro does not feel that BeReal has maintained a casual posting environment, since lots of her friends instead plan their photos ahead of time, to purposefully
showcase the most interesting parts of their days. “People don’t necessarily do their BeReals on time,” Vitro said. “BeReal isn’t very real, so it doesn’t change anything.” Vitro and freshman Halle Blanchard both try to upload their BeReals within the original two-minute window each day, but they admit it is easy to save the post for later, especially when a fun event can be captured, such as a concert or dinner with friends. Sophomore Tyler Fernandez added that he prefers sharing BeReals that are interesting rather than boring, even if this means ignoring the two-minute timer. “I’m not usually doing anything cool when the BeReal notification comes out,” Fernandez said. “I take it later on in the day.” Fernandez does not think posting late takes away from the app’s casual culture, and it instead makes his feed more exciting to scroll through because people are capturing fun moments. One feature on BeReal depicts how many times a user has retaken their photos before uploading it for others to see. According to junior Stella Buch, most of her friends care a lot about how many retakes their posts will display to others. “People are really embarrassed to retake [their BeReals],” Buch said. Similarly, according to senior Avery Romain, even though many people strategically prepare their BeReal posts in a fake way, it seems as if they simultaneously want others to still perceive them as “real.” “Users try to look perfect while taking their BeReal, so that other people won’t see a bunch of retakes. It’s almost like people are being fake and genuine at the same time.”
BeReal Culture, pg. 5
Menlo Removes Gender Filter on Knightbook in Preview of Changes by GEOFFREY FRANC
Before the 2022 school year began, Menlo removed the function allowing users to filter students by gender on its student directory, Knightbook. In late September or early October, Knighbook will allow students and faculty to add their pronouns and a recording of them saying their name. The removal of the boys/girls filter came as a result of a petition campaign organized by Emory Tudor, who graduated from Menlo in 2022 and identifies as nonbinary. “When I came out, it was just very unfortunate to constantly be seeing myself grouped in with a category that I didn’t identify with,” Tudor said.
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So, Tudor took matters into their own hands. In January 2021, they began circulating a petition to scrap the boys/girls filter that garnered over 300 signatures in the first week with the Spectrum Club’s help. According to Director of Institutional Equity, Diversity, Inclusion and Belonging Keith Wheeler, over 900 people ended up signing the petition that Tudor circulated. “They went to alums, to parents, to the middle and upper school students because they wanted to show the intersectional care and commitment to this work from the entire community,” Wheeler said.
Knightbook Changes, pg. 3
We discuss: Are Private College Counselors the Right Choice? pg. 17
Senior Tori Chou poses for her Knightbook photos. Staff photo: Geoffrey Franc
Cool or Criminal? Inside the Decisions of Menlo’s PartyHosting Families pg. 9
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