That Girl At The Party Magazine
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A Lifestyle Magazine by Courtney Henley
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Welcome to the first monthly issue of That Girl At The Party! Having founded TGATP, one of NYC’s first true lifestyle blogs in 2009, I am now proud to present you with a digital magazine version of my content. Like the blog, this digital version will include more of the products, spa services and destinations that I know you will love. Coupled with an entertainment guide, interviews and pieces on spirituality, business, and life in general, TGATP, the magazine, is a primer on all the best that life has to offer. My motto has always been “all the lifestyle it’s fit to print”. You will only find the very best in beauty, fashion, travel, tech and entertainment in my pages. My premiere issue, is all about the holidays. I attended tons of previews last summer and scoured the internet for the best gifts - rom the extravagant to the more affordable - for every person on your list. There are also a couple great food ideas, including my beloved late Mom’s legendary corn pudding recipe. And I have also included the best films to see this season. Future issues will feature travel pieces, health and wellness, product and movie reviews and interviews with the people who inspire me.
y e n t r u o C xoxo
Enjoy these 155-pages filled with gifts, foods, films and other wonderful holiday delights to spoil 
 your friends and family (and yourself!) with!
happy holidays
THE TREES I shopped all the sites to find the very best trees for 2018. I prefer artificial trees because I put mine up on November 1st and leave it up till January 2nd. Formerly a big Treetopia fan, this year their PR was MIA. So I went with a lovely Fir Green from Wayfair. I prefer unlit trees since a) both my cats chew through cords and b) if one light blows you have to cut all the lights out of a pre-lit tree.
Terrain Faux Noble Fir | $198
Beachcrest Home | Wayfair Fir Green | $185
National Tree Co | Kohls Fraser Fir | $92
Williams Sonoma Fresh Blue Ridge Mountain Tree | $109 to $149
The Ornaments
Ornaments I Love This Year
West Elm Shiny Brite Ornaments 12-pk | $16
Pottery Barn 12 Days Of Christmas | $89
Kurt Adler Early Years Mini Ball Set | $129
Pottery Barn Jeweled Circle Ornament | $18
MoMA Store Modern Women Ornaments | $36
Crate and Barrel Gold Pinecones | $13
I am a huge Elvis fan and his movies always lighten any dark day! 
 Thus, I was thrilled to find these adorable ElvisŽ ornaments from Kurt Adler! I am adding these to my tree this year.
joan rivers russian egg ornaments set of 12 | $64.56 I miss Joan, who was always a fun joy to encounter. Keep her spirit alive with these lovely Russian egg inspired ornaments, that are oh so elegant
Pottery Barn Beaded Owl Ornament $10.50
West Elm/ASPCA Pudge The Cat Ornament $10.50
MoMA Store Wild Things Are Ornaments $89.99
MoMA Store Royal Swan Globe Holiday Ornament $10.50 Wa t e r f o r d
Lenox
Angel 2018 Ornament $39.99
Annual Ornament for 2018 $10.50
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
Holiday
 Beauty Tech
TGATP | Beauty
hi-mirror plus with alexa
 $269 Mirror, mirror on the shelf, helps you be your loveliest self! The Hi-Mirror Plus with Alexa is beauty and tech merged to allow users to analyze, track and improve their skin.
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dyson supersonic hairdryer
 $399 Dyson's digital V9 motor is at the heart of their supersonic hair dryer spinning at 10,000 RPM and one inaudible frequency. With 4 heat settings, 3 airflow settings, a cold shot, ionizer, a removable filter at the bottom of the dryer that notifies you when it needs to be cleaned, a professionallength nine-feet power cord and a two-year warranty on parts and labor. Magnetic attachments include a smoothing nozzle, styling concentrator, and diffuser plus a bon-slip mat & storage hanger. This is the one hair dryer you will ever need!
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foreo ufo
 $279 The TGATP pick for 2018 Beauty Product Of The Year, the Foreo UFO is a must-have for every woman. Say goodbye to awkward clammy sheet masks forever with this LED equipped wonder machine.
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hairmax prima 9 lasercomb $399 Like many sistas, years of braids, wigs and extensions have thinned my edges, so the Hair Max is one of my new favorite gadgets. Coupled with their shampoo and conditioner, it is restoring my edges after just a couple months of uses. Available on their site: https:// hairmax.com
TGATP | Beauty
lightstim
 $279 LightStim LED light therapy delivers vital light energy to our skin in the same way that the sun provides it to plants. This awesome machine emits UV-free, beneficial light energy to the skin, which reduces fine lines and wrinkles, and nourishes your skin from within. I live for mine!

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qyk zoe $149 I was gifted with the QYK Zoe at the Babbleboxx Holiday event and I’m totally hooked. It’s the first and only 3-in-1 anti-aging Sonic Beauty Device that effectively Cleanses, Massages, and Applies your skincare products. Choose your favorite color ZOE, and get the world’s first cleansing, massaging, and soothing product applying, anti-aging Sonic Beauty Device shipped in one eco-friendly box. My skin feels cleaner and healthier with every use. It’s the perfect beauty gift.
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nu me 8-piece curling set
 $130 As well as, good products, beautiful hair requires proper tools. The NuMe curling set has eight tourmaline infused ceramic barrels that heat up to 450 degrees in seconds. I love this set because you do not have to have numerous space cramping wands to create different curly styles . The set also comes with a protective glove.

Foods
F o r Th e S e as o n
EAT HEALTHY EAT WELL I usually try to drop 10 to 15 pounds in the summer. Because the holiday season is always about eating tons of sweets and other yummy foods. But I am an emotional eater and this past year, which included the death of my father, has been stressful and rough. So, alas, very little weight was released. However, I do plan to eat healthier even while still enjoying the holiday smorgasbord.
12 Tur key Roasting Tips From Queen Ma rth a I caught my favorite home expert, Martha Stewart on The Today Show and she offered the following tips for preparing your holiday turkeys safely.
TURKEY
1. Wash your hands throughout your preparation. 2. Use paper towels instead of regular towels on surfaces. 3. Wear latex gloves while prepping your turkey 4. Sterilize your cooking area with vinegar. 5. Don’t rinse your turkey. 6. If fresh, thaw your turkey in its original bag. Thaw frozen turkeys for two days in the fridge. 7. Place parchment paper on top of your cutting board 8. Use separate boards for chopping meats, fish and vegetables. Use acrylic rather than wooden boards. 9. Roast your turkey in a proper heavy duty actual pan, not a flimsy aluminum one. 10. Stuff the turkey right before it goes into the oven. 11. Stick the thermostat into the thickest party of the bird. 12. After three days, throw any leftover turkey out. Our bird of choice this year is the Willie Bird Fresh FreeRange Turkey 10-12-lbs (pictured right) from Williams and Sonoma.
TGATP | Food
Naomi’s
 Corn Pudding Serves 4 to 6
My beloved late Mom was renowned for her corn pudding. Friends and family asked her to make it for every special occasion. In remembrance of her, here is her secret recipe. I never have a holiday meal without it.
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INGRIEDIENTS
• 1. 2 cans Del Monte Creamed Corn • 2. 4 eggs • 3. Stick of Butter • 4. 5 TBSP Evaporated Milk • 5 Optional: Red pepper flakes, brown sugar
TGATP | Food DIRE CTIO NS The secret to success with this recipe is to vigorously whisk the eggs before blending with the creamed corn. My Mama swore by Del Monte but you can use any creamed corn you prefer. She also added sugar. However, I find the corn naturally sweet enough. I sometimes add hot pepper flakes for a spicy kick. • 1. Vigorously whisk eggs with the condensed milk. • 2. Blend in the creamed corn and place in a butter coated glass pan. • 3. Top with dots of butter to ensure browning of the top. • 4. Bake for about an hour until firmly set.
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Turkey 
 Guac Club Sandwiches Serves 8
No matter how you carefully you plan your Thanksgiving dinner, there is always tons of turkey left. Try this yummy recipe, which is sure to please the whole family.
TGATP | Food INGRIEDIENTS • 1. 24 Artisanal Bread Slices (I like pumpernickel) • 2. Leftover Turkey • 3. Turkey Bacon • 4. Avocado • 5 Lime Juice • 6 Chilies of your choice • 7 Kumata Tomatoes
TGATP | Food DIRE CTIO NS I made these sandwiches for family and friends a couple holiday seasons ago and they were a holiday favorite. Now I serve them as a traditional after Thanksgiving meal. • 1. Working in two batches if necessary, cook turkey bacon in a large skillet over medium heat until brown and crisp, 6 to 8 minutes per side; transfer to a paper-towel-lined plate to drain. Pour off all but 2 tablespoons rendered fat from skillet. • 2. Season turkey generously with salt and pepper. Add to skillet, and cook over medium heat until opaque throughout, 2 to 3 minutes per side; transfer to a paper-towel-lined plate to drain. • 3. In a small bowl, mash avocado, lime juice, and chiles with a fork; season with salt and pepper. • 4. Spread avocado mixture on one side of each slice of toast. Layer turkey, bacon, tomato, and toast to form four triple-decker sandwiches. To serve, skewer with toothpicks; slice in half with a serrated knife.
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
the gift of food The way to everyone’s heart is definitely through the tummy. Who doesn’t love really good food? These gifts will please all the foodies on your list and they are also perfect hostess and Secret Santa gifts!
“People who love to eat are always the best people - Julia Childs
Zucchi Olive Oils | $9.99
Funky Chunky Splurge Tin | $89
Russ & Daughters New York Brunch | $140
Starbucks Gift Cards | $20 & up
Knack Shops We Adore Somemores Kit | $50
Magnolia Bakery 24 Mini Cupcakes | $50
TGATP | Food
vahdam tea $12-$35 china Wintertime is tea time! These beautifully packaged tea box sets from Vahdam would pair nicely with a tea pot and set of tea cups from the Lenox Marchesa Painted Camellia collection. The individual boxes make great secret Santa and client gifts, while the trios are perfect to wow your beau’s Mom. And great minds think alike. Oprah chose Vahdam Tea boxes, as one of her 2018 favorite things, too!
TGATP | Food
teabloom complete blooming celebration set $69 Isn’t this tea pot from Teabloom just divine? Tea lovers, newlyweds spending their first married Christmas together, elderly relatives, your Christmas host - this gift is ideal for so many of the people on your list. According to their website: “It’s everything you could desire, whether you're a first time tea drinker or a connoisseur. You'll be amazed at the taste, aroma and beauty that unfolds before your very eyes with this very unique and treasured gift.” I believe them!
Harry and David Harry and David makes, bar none, the best food basket and box gifts. I love them so much that I always have to gift myself a couple baskets, as well as, all of my dearest friends. Make sure to also order some of their world famous Moose Munch.
Grand Signature Gift Basket | $99
Ultimate Heartside Gift Basket | $499
Deluxe Signature Cookie Basket | $59
Loaf Cake Assortment | $29
Organic Fruit Gift Basket | $69
Gourmet Specialty Snacks Basket | $99
Williams And Sonoma Williams and Sonoma is one of my favorite stores year round. During the holidays, they have tons of great food gifts, both large and small. Don’t forget to get some of their Peppermint Bark, now in its 20th Anniversary year, as a holiday favorite.
HARRY POTTER™ Hogwarts Gift Crate | $119
5 Days Of Entrees | $169
Star Wars Gift Crate | $129
Personalized Tin of Peppermint Bark | $38-$59
Fortnum & Mason The Queen's Hamper | $249
FEED Gift Crate | $129
The Beverages And Spirits Except for two glasses of wine, I have been teetotal for 8 years. So I am always looking for both great alcohol drinks for my guests and great non-alcoholic drinks for myself.
Bubly Water
These are the best of 2018.
Eden Specialty Cider
Dry Zero Soda
Marble Distilling Gingercello Bruce Ginger Ale
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide
Best Toys and Books for 2018
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toys.
While Christmas is first and foremost about the birth of Jesus, it is also about creating joyful memories for our little ones. There is nothing like watching the delight on the faces of the little ones as they open and play with their new toys. I am blessed to be able to preview the
 best of the best every year!
Pottery Barn Exclusive
teepee
 $207 Every child should have a teepee! I am crazy for this one from Pottery Barn made of cotton with a navy trim. In this special play space, little ones can create an imaginative world all their own. Designed after a traditional Native American teepee, it makes a wonderful sleepover tent and comes in two sizes.
TOYS! TOYS! AND MORE TOYS! “The best toys are like unicorns. They include enough horse to seem real, but enough horn to become magical.” - Amber and Andy Ankowski
Crate and Barrel Wooden Toy Workbench | $119
Fisher-Price Imaginext Jurassic World, T-Rex | $99
DC Comics Super Hero Girls Action Figure (9-pk) | $75
Amazon Avengers Titan 12-Pack | $109
LeapFrog Epic™ Academy Edition | $99
Morf Board Skate and Scoot Set | $99
TGATP | Kids
kabook $25 Make your child the star of their new favorite story! Kabook is the first-ever storytelling platform that magically transforms useruploaded photos into illustrations for the most personalized children’s book ever created, through a patent pending technology. I love this idea and this is top of my list for one of my nephews, who loves to read. Available at: mykabook.com
WowWee Untamed T-Rex by Fingerlings | $14
Marvel Black Panther Figure Set| $10
Kids Made Arts and Crafts Library Set | $39
Melissa & Doug Band In A Box | $25
Fat Brain Toys Green Market Grocery Game | $99
Disney Black Panther PJs | $15
Crate and Barrel Exclusive
etched wooden blocks $59 This Etched Wooden Blocks set includes all the letters of the alphabet and features etching and white painted images. They were designed by artist Elizabeth Olwen and make the perfect gift or keepsake. Set of 26 alphabet wood blocks feature etchings and white painted images makes a great baby gift or keepsake. Each solid poplar wood block measures 1.75 x 1.75” The paint is non-toxic paint and treated with oil-based lacquer You can wipe the blocks clean with a soft cloth. For 18 mos. and up.
Toys That Teach
Our favorite toys are the ones that also teach little ones great things. We were blessed to attend the Child’s Play Kids and Family Tech Expo and meet these great brands!
Little Bits Electronic Music Inventor’s Kit | $99
Kano Harry Potter Wand Coding Kit | $99
Little Bits Avengers Hero Inventor’s Kit | $149
Elenco Snap Circuits 3D Meg Box Built | $45
Tech Will Save Us Light Racer Kit | $149
Woobo Woobo and Woobo Mini | $149
TGATP | Kids
klutz jr book and craft kits prices vary
These fun kits from Klutz Jr allow you to craft with your children. I love the idea of turning bigger kids into budding movie directors and the sewing and clay pot kits are great for kids 4 and up.
For The Littlest Ones There is nothing like interacting with babies and toddlers to reconnect with the child within! Here are some fun gifts for the wee ones. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
Tiny Love Into The Forest Play Mat | $48 Tiny Love 3-in-1 Rocker | $80 YooKidoo Discovery Playhouse | $35 YooKidoo Submarine Spray Station | $35 Pottery Barn Plush Pull Toys | S15
TGATP | Kids
boolean box $149 Boolean Box is a build it-yourself computer and electronics kit for girls (and boys!) to code, build, invent and animate. The Boolean Box comes preloaded with software, simple to use without parent supervision and doesn’t require an internet connection. Just open the box and connect it to your HDMI capable TV to get started. Girls (and boys) can create their own projects or use the projects on the Boolean Girl website (free with the purchase of a Boolean Box). The kit contains a Raspberry Pi, a basic computer (mouse and keyboard only), and comes with the curriculum used to teach hundreds of girls in the Boolean Girl camps and classes.
TGATP | Kids
novel effect app free If you have an iPhone and a speaker, there is simply no excuse not to be using this amazing invention to bring your child’s story time to life. Because it’s amazing and free! Novel Effect are pioneers in voice-driven technology that bridges the human and digital worlds, encourages interactive storytelling and creates community. This flagship mobile app synchronizes sounds and music in real time to your storytelling voice and was the 2018 Webby Award Winner for Best Integrated Experience. The interactive technology can bring books, animation, film, toy, and games to life.
TGATP | Kids
lego hogwarts castle $399 Forget the kids. You’ll want to construct this awesome Lego project yourself! It has 6,020 pieces, four mini figures, 27 micro figures, Hagrid's hut, the Whomping Willow, five boats, and, of course, the castle itself full of rooms and corridors from throughout the series, including Dolores Umbridge's pink office and Snape's Potions classroom.
TGATP | Kids
girl of the year luciana 
 $115 This year’s American Girl Of The Year is Luciana a science-lover, who dreams of traveling to the stars. Inspiring an interest in STEM, she is the perfect gift for every little gal on your list.
TGATP | Kids
eco-chic kitty designer dolls
 $47 Aren’t these the sweetest dolls you have ever seen? Handmade of soft linen with embroidered faces and braided yarn hair, these very special soft dolls will steal both you and your child’s heart. Echoing the artistry of homemade dolls from an earlier era, Eco Chic dolls from Pottery Barn are made from linen and feature outfits stitched from an assortment of fabrics, including cotton, ribbon, tulle and felt.
Barnes And Noble
Barnes and Noble is another favorite hangout for me. It always brings back memories of my childhood visits to New York City! This year, they have expanded their holiday gifts and there is literally something for everyone on your list.
Put Me In The Story Personalized Book | $6.99
Sasquatch Books 52 Lists For Happiness | $16.95
B&N Nook 10.1 E-Reader | $129.99
Harry Potter Tote | $9.99
B&N Yearly Membership | $25
B&N Children’s Collectible Editions Boxed Set | $50
Barnes and Noble
becoming by michelle obama 
 $19.50 This is the most anticipated book of the year by every American, who like me, misses the time when we had an elegant and sane couple in the White House. Gift this holiday must-read to everyone on your list.
kids (ages 1-8)
books. (Clockwise from upper left) 1. Dinosaurs Living In My Hair by Jayne Rose-Vallee
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2. Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
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3. Hidden Figures by Margot Lee Shetterly and Laura Freeman
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4 Steam Train Dream Train by Sherri Duskey Rinkey and Tom Lictenheld 5 Good Night Stories for Rebel Girls by Elena Favilli & Francesca Cavallo 6 The Little Boy/Girl Who Found His Friends by Wonderbly
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books for older kids. YA books are booming and that’s a great thing. We need to encourage reading in our young people on every opportunity.
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1. Americanized Sara Sardi 2. Children of Blood & Bone Tom Adeyemi 3. Layover Amy Anderson & Emily Meyer 4. Fire In The Heart Deepak Chopra
Barnes And Noble Exclusive
green tote with metallic birch $19 I am mad for this lovely tote, exclusively for holiday, from Barnes and Noble. What a delightful gift this would make if you filled it with great books, some Harry & David Moose Munch, a reading shawl and the cozy reading socks - all also available at Barnes and Noble.
Barnes And Noble
harry potter box set $65 The perfect gift for collectors and new readers alike, Barnes and Noble presents this breathtaking special edition boxed set of J. K. Rowling's seven bestselling Harry Potter books! The box itself is beautifully designed with new artwork by Kazu Kibuishi, and the books create a gorgeous, magical vista when the spines are lined up together. Now is your chance to give this set to a reader who is ready to embark on the series that has changed so many readers' lives, young and old.
Barnes And Noble Exclusive
reading socks $24.99 Give a pair of these adorable cozy reading socks along with a bestseller, like the new Michelle Obama bio “Becoming” or the new Stephen King book “Elevation” to all your favorite people.
Barnes And Noble
universal knitwear’s knitted reading shawl $45 This cozy rectangular reading shawl is perfect for staying warm while curled up with a good book, watching TV or just lounging around. The two front panels feature traditional wide patch pockets, handy for tucking away a paperback or ereader, a pair of glasses, or an assortment of handy items to help you unwind. It covers your back, chest and upper arms while leaving your hands free to turn pages. Hint to my nieces and nephew: I want one of these.
Barnes And Noble
the power of love by bishop michael curry $14 The whole world fell in love with Bishop Curry when he gave his amazing and inspiring sermon at the marriage of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. I watched it over and over! This book includes that now famous sermon and many more on the importance of Love. In these fraught times, this is another wonderful book to give to everyone on your list.
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
BEST IN TECH FOR HOLIDAY 2018
amazon echo look | $199 (LEFT) The ultimate gift for the fashionista. Personal style assistance and so much more!
acer chromebook muse 2 meditating headband |$249 (LEFT)
I love my Muse! Calm your mind and guide your thoughts from active to calm with the Muse 2. brain-sensing headband, your personal meditation assistant. It helps you to build a meditation practice so you can experience the benefits of meditation, such as relaxation, improved mood and reduced stress. I lived for the first one and now there is this new and improved version that also tracks heart rate and breath.
| $199 (BELOW)
The Acer Chromebook has an Intel Celeron processor and 4GB of RAM to load webpages quickly and provides lag-free streaming with 16GB of internal storage to hold documents and photos. It also has an HDMI port for connecting to a larger display. Affordable enough for all the kids on your list.
TGATP | Tech
iHome /aquio water bottle speaker $69 Water bottle company Aquio paired with iHome to create these gorgeous water bottle speakers. I have it in the teal. I haven’t used it as a functional duo yet. But I am using the speaker in my office and the sound is amazing.
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS
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1. Kindle Paperwhite 2018 2. Mac iPad 2018
MERRY
3. MacBook Pro
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TGATP | Tech
dji osmo mobile
 $169 I love this gadget. It allows you to create amazing films on your phone by keeping your hand steady. It can also be mounted on a tripod for filming those YouTube influencer videos!
TGATP | Tech
fit bit versa $199 Help the sporty gal in your Life, reach her fitness peak with Fitbit Versa — a health & fitness smartwatch that lasts 4+ days and features 24/7 heart rate, phone-free music, apps, coaching & more. The peach rose gold is my color of choice.
TGATP | Tech
peeps eyeglass cleaner
 $14 I only need my glasses for things like watching movies or concerts, so they are mostly in their case. But since I want them to be crystal clear, this product is a God sent! This is a great stocking stuffers for all the people on your list that wear glasses.
TGATP | Tech
theta sc 360 still & video camera
 $299 Great for the on-the-go influencers on your list. This tiny, but powerful, camera from Ricoh is perfect for shooting everything from travel excursions to festivals and fashion weeks!
TGATP | Tech
spektrum prospek-99 ultimate blue light glasses $55 If you spend long hours in front of a computer or watch TV late into the night, like I do, the PROSPEK-99 glasses are for you. Blocking 99% of ALL blue light can protect your vision as well as prevent headaches, eye strain, and sleeplessness. Available at: https://www.spektrumglasses.com
Gifts That Give Back There is nothing like knowing that our gifting dollars are also supporting great causes. Here are some love gifts than give back. Hand In Hand Soap | $4.99 Buy one bar and they donate 4 bars plus 4 months of clean water
Tragedy Assistance Program (TAPS) Beaded Bracelet | $45 Supports war widows worldwide
Final Straw Collapsible Straw | $25 Supports sea conservation
House of Marley Chant Mini BT | $50 Supports reforestation
Kiehls Kiss Me Lip Balms 3-pk | $25 Percent of proceeds to Feeding America
BEST IN BEAUTY FOR HOLIDAY 2018
HOLIDAY BEAUTY GIFTS AND GIFT SETS TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
The holidays are the perfect time to treat your besties and family members with lovely gift sets. Gift yourself too. One for you and one for them!
TGATP | Beauty
just bee lavender orange after bath oil $21 The Just Bee line of bee infused products range includes lip balms, after bath oils, lotion bars, and facial masks that are beauty must-haves. I can’t live without their after bath oil, which leaves my skin silky smooth after showers and baths.
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
Fragrances Fragrances are such a great gift for the women in your life. These are my three favorites for this year. (Clockwise from top)
1. Acqua dell’Elba For Women 2. Prada Mimosa 3. Natura Brazil Terra
AVEDA A v e d a a l w a y s m a k e s m e t h i n k o f t h e w o n d e r f u l l a t e H o r s t R e c h e l b a c h e r , t h e b r a n d ’s o r i g i n a l F o u n d e r, w h o w a s o n e o f t h e m o s t a w e s o m e e n v i r o n m e n t a l i s t , I w a s b l e s s e d t o m e e t .
A Gift Of Stronger Hair | $56
A Gift Of A Little Stress Relief | $25
A Gift Of Renewal | $52
A Gift Of Renewal For Your Journey | $21
A Gift Of Comfort & Light | $42
Styling Stocking Stuffer | $18
L’OCCITANE O n e o f m y f a v o r i t e f r a g r a n c e s i s L ’ O c c i t a n e ’s V e r b e n a E a u D e To i l e t t e , w h i c h i s a heavenly and great gift for women, like me, who are prone to fragrance allergies. Their hand cremes also make wonderful gifts.
Signature Advent Calendar | $59
Catelbajac Paris Shea Delightful Tea Collection | $105
Verbena Eau De Toilette | $59
THE BODY SHOP The Body Shop was one of the first product lines I ever used. T h i s y e a r, t h e b e a u t y m u s t - h a v e o n m y l i s t i s o n e o f t h e i r a d o r a b l e A d v e n t C a l e n d a r s !
25 Days of the Enchanted Ultimate Advent Calendar | $225
Peppermint Candy Cane Forest of Delights | $35
25 Days of the Enchanted Deluxe Advent Calendar | $110
Festive Body Butter Trio | $15
Olivia the Owl | $24
Wild Argan Oil Essential Selection | $26
ORIGINS Origins is another brand that always delivers lovely sets for the holiday gift giving season. The body and shoulder hugs are my go-to gifts for special people in my Life.
5 Star Raves | $35
Warm Ginger Wonders | $55
Best Of Origins | $60
Warm Body Hug | $45
Ginger To Go | $55
Stress Releasing Shoulder | $45
SEPHORA No holiday season is complete without a shopping trip to Sephora. Get one of these sets for you and one for every gal on your holiday list!
SEPHORA FAVORITES Best Of Hair | $25
SEPHORA FAVORITES Deluxe Perfume Sampler | $75
SEPHORA FAVORITES Give Me More Lip | $68
SEPHORA COLLECTION Once Upon A Night Blockbuster | $49
SEPHORA FAVORITES Lash Stash | $48
SEPHORA FAVORITES Beauty Vault: 12 Days Of Make Up | $90
ULTA Once strictly a Sephora gal, I now live for Ulta, which is way more affordable. The Ulta gift sets make great beauty presents for the women in your Life, both young and old.
ULTA Lip Glossary | $16
ULTA 12 Days Of Beauty | $60
ULTA Brilliantly Beautiful Makeup Collection | $19
ULTA Glam & Glow 53 Piece Makeup Kit | $19
ULTA Beauty Boss Kit | $45
The Best of The Rest
JO MALONE Cologne Collection | $115.00
STILA Enchanted Eyes | $45
CLINIQUE Lip Set | $49
URBAN DECAY Naked 4Some Vault | $160
TARTE Pineapple of My Eye Collector’s Kit | $59
KIEHL’S Beauty Advent Calendar | $70
Be Flawless This Holiday Season! Check out these awesome indie beauty brands that we met at the Indie Beauty Expo in NYC! These products will keep you both relaxed and at your beauty best throughout the holidays. Loba Mane
Aveseena
Ere Perez Stare Cosmetics
Luk Beautifood
Dome Beauty
The Everything 
 Oil
Honeybelle DIY Detox Mask | $16 Andmetics Brow Strips | $12
Shady Sun Shady Mist | $22 Frownies Facial Patches | $20 for 144
The Seaweed Company Purifying Micro Scrub | $13
Black Chicken Remedies Love Your Body Oil | $78
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
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GIFTS FOR HER 2018 1. Marc Jacobs Tote | $295 2. Sunny Domingo Devon Pave Bar Necklace | $ 85 3. Kinross Cashmere Scarf Camo | $150
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TGATP | Gifts For Her
Pandora Shine Collection $149 Pandora is one of my fav lines for quality, yet affordable, accessories. I wear my crown from the Shine collection preview, hosted by Ciara and Letitia Wright, everyday!
Stephanie Kantis Casablanca Oval Ring |$345 Happiest Tee Luxury Tees, Tanks & Sweats | $65-$98
Echo Lofty Plaid Ruana | $69
Land’s End Women’s Suede Shearling Moccasin | $44.97
UGG Isley Patent Boot |$250
TGATP | Gifts For Her
velvet eyewear cat-eye holiday style box $129 I have long been a fan of Velvet Eyewear and their new style boxes are the ultimate gift for every fashionista. I have the cat-eye box set, which is super cute. I am especially fond of the pink pair in my set.
TGATP | Gifts For Her
forever one 1.05CTW emerald colorless moissanite solitaire with side accents ring in 14K rose gold $849 This was another brand that I met at the Babbleboxx Holiday event. I didn’t really know about Moissanite, which is lovely! It’s the world’s most brilliant gem and one of the rarest minerals found in nature. Charles and Colvard have made it their mission to share the beauty and brilliance of moissanite with the world. I am mad for this piece but there are tons of others on their site to choice from too.
Gifts For #TheResistance Resist the global rise of tyranny with these great products that also give back.
Adorable tees from The Female Quotient have
Co-written by BlogHer co-fouder, my friend and
fun and inspiring sayings and raise money for
awesome women Elisa Camahort Page,
equality for women in the workplace.
this is a vital primer on resistance.
TGATP | Gifts For Her
savage x fenty Rhianna is not only an amazing singer, she is one smart cookie. Kudos to her for making sure that both her makeup and her clothing lines are inclusive and designed for every woman! I love her lingerie line. Check out my favorite piece pictured right. There are loads of lovely options on her site that will make sexy holiday gifts. Watch out Victoria, the secret about Savage x Fenty is out!
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donna saylers fabulous furs champagne mink faux fur jacket $199 My late Mom loved furs and I was finally able to give her one right before she passed. I also love how they look and feel. However, I adore animals too much to ever walk around with dozens of dead ones on my back. 
 
 Thank God for Donna Saylers Fabulous Furs that allow us to have the look of a luxury fur without the carnage. This adorable jacket is top of my list!
TGATP | Gifts For Her
Nike Vapor Max Light Max II $180 Oh, how I want this Nike shoe! It’s everything right stylish, comfy and made by the company smart enough to make hero Colin Kaepernick their spokesperson! I simply have to have these shoes.
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
Top 2018 Holiday Gift Picks From The Accessories Council
One Two Cosmetic Magnetic Lashes | $69
Piccolo Cashmere Fingerless Gloves | $95
Patricia Nash Sunglass Holder | $49
Sugarpova Assorted Candies | $95
Fleur’d Blue Dahlia Lapel Pin | $95
Timex Crystal Opulence Watch | $75
Accessories Council Citizen By Azin
citizen by azin scarves $135 Wear your city with elegant pride with this lovely line of city themed silk scarves. Pictured left is the New York scarf with a digital print of the aerial view of New York City. It even comes with a mini guide to each city.
Accessories Council Ela Rae
ela rae sylvie bracelet $68 This delicate little bracelet is so pretty I want to leave it on 24-7! Tiny beads on a red string make an elegant, yet subtle, statement.
Accessories Council
 Via Saviene
via saviene aurum small bib necklace
 $185 Great for both work and play, this necklace is beautiful in every version. I am coveting the gold one.
Oprah’s Favorite Things
Oprah Picks I look forward to the announcement of Oprah’s favorite things every year. On this page are some great gifts for the women on your list, that Oprah and I agree on.
Empowered by Maya J Bracelets | $38 Artis Elite Mirror 10-Piece Brush Set | $360
Peace Love World Shag Throws | $48
APL TechLoom Bliss | $200
Buy from oprah.com for special deals!
Vionic Gemma Plush Slippers | $80 The Regal Wrap Velvet Queen Head Wraps | $62
TrüMedic IS-4000 InstaShiatsu+ Foot Massager
| $199
TGATP | Gifts For Her
The Gap The Gap is one of my go-tos for trendy, yet affordable items, for my list. Here are my picks for 2018.
The Gap Cozy Sweater | $62
The Gap Sherpa Gloves | $49
The Gap Peace Hat | $1 to $5
The Gap Plaid Boucle Fringe Scarf | $62
The Gap Cable-Knit Turtleneck Pullover Sweater Tunic | $38
The Gap Bucket Bag | $59
TGATP | Accessories
The Handbags Another trait that is, thanks to my Mom in my DNA, is a lifelong love of handbags. I recently ran into a classmate from elementary school, who said that the one thing he remembered about me is that I always had a coordinated handbag with my outfits. I am still handbag obsessed and get new bags twice a year - at Christmas and in early Spring when the sales are off the hook. Here are the bags I am coveting now.
Il Bisonte Leather Curly Bucket Shoulder Bag | $545
Michael Kors Rollins Large Pebbled Leather Satchel | $138
Il Bisonte Drawstring Suede Hobo Bag | $795
Les Petits Joneurs Olivia Suede Leather Bucket Bag | $730
Alala Micro New Laser-Cut Leather Tote Bag | $1925
Nancy Gonzalez Lee Bugatti Large Top Handle Bag | $4850
Vera Bradley
vera bradley carson bag
 $238 The Carson bag (pictured left) was the editors Christmas gift from Vera Bradley this year and oh how, I adore this bag! I had it in the embroidered navy already and though I have dozens of bags, I find myself using my Carson the most. It’s the perfect size, roomy but not overly large with tons of pockets. I now want all three colors of the leather version.
TGATP | Accessories
mz wallace kate $425 I have dozens of great designer bags but this one is the most utilitarian of them all. With tons of pockets, it keeps me organized while giving me great style. It even has a luggage handle! I love this bag!


LONGCHAMP PARIS Every gal needs at least one Longchamp in her handbag collection! I have a couple of Le Pliage bags and want a couple more, they are my go-tos for lightweight, yet roomy, bags.
1. T h e c l a s s i c L e P l i a g e To p H a n d l e M i n N a v y | $ 1 4 5 2. 3 D C r o s s b o d y B a g | $ 6 7 0 3. L e F o u l o n n e B r i e f c a s e U n i s e x | $ 7 9 0
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
GIFTS FOR HIM 2018
Jo Malone Men’s Gift Set | $155
Alexander McQueen Men’s Dress Shoe | $790 Boden Darley Tweed Coat| $196
GoPro Hero 7 Package | $349 at Best Buy Manscaped Darley Tweed Coat| $196
Uncommon Goods Deep Sea Sand Art | $85
Handolederco V i n t a g e B u ff a l o L e a t h e r Messenger Bag | $63 GShock GA710 | $130
Everlane
 Modern Snap Backpack | $68
TGATP | Gifts For Him
sony alpha a7 II mirrorless camera $998 Channel your man’s inner Gordon Parks with this awesome compact mirrorless camera from Sony. It features 24.3 megapixels, a moisture and dust-resistant design with a magnesium alloy body and a more robust lens mount. This is top of my wish list.
Wow the men in your Life, with these gifts from Uncommon
Ray Gun Sculpture | $180
Ergonomic Active Sitting Stool | $69
Custom Lake Art Cribbage Board | $69
Dad’s Playbook | $13
Goods!
Smartphone Controlled Paper Airline | $69
Mega Dad Personalized Comic Book | $38
TGATP | Gifts For Him
buxton thor roll top backpack $85 Buxton is a long time TGATP favorite for on trend, yet affordable, bags and wallets. Made of matte water resistant polyester, this stylist backpack features an interior padded electronics pocket, two exterior side zip pockets and an exterior bungee cord for extra storage with a top grab handle. It’s the ideal gift for all the men in your life. Hell, it’s great for women too!
TGATP | Gifts For Him
hastens down booties $110 Spoil the men in your life with these toasty unisex down booties. They are made of luxurious 100% cotton satin weave with classic Hästens detailing and filled with 90% goose down/10% goose feathers. Cosy and breathable— a Hastens bootie is the ultimate in decadent indulgence.
TGATP | Gifts For Him
happy socks beatles box sets $42 for 3 $84 for 6 Send The Beatles' fan in your life on a trip to Pepperland with the Happy Socks The Beatles socks box set. Part of their collaboration with The Beatles, these socks come in boxes shaped like an EP record sleeve, with artwork from the iconic Yellow Submarine on the front. The socks included each feature a different element of the Beatles cult film. Available in a set of 3 or a set of 6, the socks are made of combed cotton and available in unisex sizes.
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
Gifts For
 Our Fur Companions
With two beautiful long-haired rescued kitties, I am the stereotypical Cat Lady and proud of it! I adore all animals and see cats and dogs, as little fur embodiments, of God on Earth. The holidays are the perfect time to spoil them even more than we usually do.
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My girls are getting these this year. 1.Companion Gear Gingerbread Cat House & Scratching Pad | $8.49 2. Neko Flies | $22 - $39 3. Munchie Cat Catnip Sushi | $35 3
TGATP | Pets
petstages tower of tracks $5 to $10 This is every kitty’s favorite toy. Triple the tracks make for three times the fun and hours of crazy cat play. When she was a kitten, Bodhi used to jump in the middle and play with this. I found it online for just $5, so she is getting a new one!
TGATP | Pets
mousr
 $149 Invented by a three cat loving electrical engineers, the Mousr is the first robotic cat toy. Coupled with an app that guides the robot mouse, with a sensor that tracks your cat’s proximity, this is THE cat must-have for this holiday season.
TGATP | Pets
tgatp cat toy picks from chewy.com SmartCat Toy Box Balls 3 Pack | $2
Chewy has the best prices on all pet toys. Stock up this holiday season and spoil your cats and dogs all year round. Prices start at just $1!
Ethical Pet Laser Exerciser | $2.39
Petstages Fresh Breath Mint Stick | $2
SmartKat Fish Flop 3 Pack | $1.99 Cat Dancer Cat Charmer Toy | $4.79
Chewy
frisco 57-in cat tree $35 - $53 Another must-have for my two fur gals this for Christmas, this cat tree is the right height and price for every cat household. It comes in multiple heights but I think 57� is perfect.
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For Dogs P.L.A.Y. Classic Food Taco Toy | $15
PrideBites Pizza Dog Toy | $10
P.L.A.Y. Holiday Hound Turkey Toy | $15
Even though I am a human companion to two cats, I also adore dogs. I can’t wait till I can have a home where, like Oprah and Martha, I can have numerous cats and dogs. In the meantime, I spoil every dog I meet and take doggy street shots. If I had a dog, he would be getting these items for Christmas this year.
TGATP | Pets
kong classic flyer dog toy $5 - $10 Dogs love frisbees! These durable rubber discs from Kong provide great exercise. And they are a much better option for your dog’s mouth than plastic, which can crack and injure your dog’s mouth.
TGATP | Pets
flossy chews cotton 5-knot tug toy $6.99 Dogs love to tug it out, fetch and tug to out again. This awesome rope toy flosses their teeth whenever they tug and chew on it, offering health benefits while they play,
TGATP | Pets
outward hound hide a Squirrel puzzle toy $14 From our doggie experts, this is a beloved toy. Play a game of hide and seek with your dog by hiding the six squirrels and letting her find them. This toy even comes in three sizes, so even little puppies can play.
With family and guests on the way, I always like to do a complete inventory and revamp of my kitchen during the holidays.
Home

 This month, I am showcasing cookware, cool gadgets and musthave appliances.
Hint: they make great hostess gifts.
TGATP | Home
Cookware The first thing to update in your kitchen is your pots and pans. Are they scorched or scratched on the surfaces? You’re going to be doing a lot of holiday cooking, so why not update your old pots with these great eco-friendly cookware options. 1. GreenPan ™ Padova Ceramic Nonstick 10-Piece Cookware Set $249 at Crate and Barrel
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2. Bialetti Aeternum Red 7192 Fry Pan, 10.25-inch $29 at Amazon 3. Cuisnart’s Green Gourmet Cookware Set $181 at Amazon 4. Ozeri Green Earth Wok $48.99 at Wayfair
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Turbo Pots The kind people at Turbo Pot gifted me with two pots this summer and I can’t live without them now. Here is the skinny from the company itself: The quick-boil kettle and pot from Turbo Pot save you time and gas stove energy by doing the boiling job super fast—like, 30-50% faster than usual—thanks to a unique design that was tested (and is now used) in restaurants. The base of the kettle and pot are where all the quick-boiling action comes from. Highly conductive aluminum fins increase the heating surface area throughout the base of both and better absorb heat from a gas stove burner. This gets water to a boil much faster than a traditional flat-bottomed kettle and pan—the kettle clocks in at around seven minutes—reducing heat-up time and lost energy. The team at Turbo Pot turned to restaurants to test out this award-winning design, who then added the kettle and pot to their kitchens. Now you can enjoy the same quick-boiling tools as the pros.
TGATP | Home
Ninja Blender Duo with Auto IQ $159 I use my Ninja Duo religiously! From your morning smoothie to your food processing, it is perfect for every blending need. With a Total Crushing blender, the Ninja pulverizes ice to snow in seconds for creamy frozen drinks and smoothies.
The Nutri Ninja Pro Extractor Blades break down whole fruits, vegetables, ice and seeds for nutrient & vitamin extraction. Auto-iQ technology features timed, intelligent blending programs that do the work for you, no guesswork required. This set Includes three Nutri Ninja cups (18oz, 24oz and 32oz) with Sip & Seal Lids and a 75-page recipe cookbook.
TGATP | Home
aarke carbonator II $199 I adore my Soda Stream, but I am coveting this elegant carbonator that creates bubbles, while shining like a diamond on your counter! I am living for the gold one.
TGATP | Home
Star Wars™ Slow Cooker $159 Uncanny Brands PR reached out to me and asked me to preview their Star Wars slow-cooker. I love it and have been cooking with it all fall. I have made flawless turkey, three different chilis and spicy chicken soup, and even cooked my Thanksgiving turkey in it this year.
It’s adorable and works like a dream. My one change would be a longer cord as you have to keep it fairly close to an outlet. Otherwise, it’s perfect and the ideal gift for all the cool Moms and home chefs in your Life.
LENOX Once you have updated your cookware, get some holiday themed china to go with it! I am such a big fan of Lenox that even my cats eat off of their china.
Winter Greetings™ Dinnerware
Winter Greetings™ 4-piece Plate Set
Balsam Lane Dinnerware
Winter Greetings™ Plaid 5-piece Place Setting
Alpine 4-piece Dessert Plate Set
12 Days Of Christmas 4-piece Plate Set
Must Have Holiday Kitchen Gadgets
Get out of the kitchen and spend more time with your family and friends this Christmas.
Joseph Joseph ThermoBaste™ 3-piece roasting and basting set | $45
Joseph Joseph Nest™ 9 Plus Bowl Set | $45
These gadgets from Joseph Joseph and Tovolo will save time and make cooking a breeze. Joseph Joseph Nest™ 9 Plus Bowl Set | $45
Tovolo Whisk | $ 45
Tovolo Precision Peeler | $45
Adorable Kitchen Additions
I found a ton of super cute gifts for the chefs on your list.
Kikkerland® Cat Kitchen Timer in Grey | $4.99
Kate Spade New York Jingle All The Way Salt and Pepper Shaker | $29
Dash Mini Rice Cooker Steamer | $25
Happy Camper 6-piece Measuring Set | $13
Anthropologie Dottie Honey Pot | $20
Now Designs Calvin Cat Critter Oven Mitt, Set of Two | $25
TGATP | Films
AT THE MOVIES The end of the year always brings the best and most entertaining movies of the year to our screens. This year is chockfull with more than 20 good films either in theaters or coming out. Check out my must-see movies for the 2018 holiday season.
TGATP Top Holiday Films Green Book
The wonderful true story of the relationship between legendary musician, Don Shirley and Tony Lip, the driver, who became his lifetime good friend is - apart from Black Panther - my favorite movie of the year. The script and both leads are Oscar worthy.
Widows
Viola Davis can read the phone book on screen and I would watch her. She is, aside from Meryl Streep, the greatest American actress, working today. This film was awesome although one of the ads spoils it and gives away the big twist!

The Grinch
Benjamin Cumberbatch is pitch perfect as the mean one, Mr. Grinch and Max is even more adorable than the original dog. Narrated by Pharrell, this is holiday fun for the whole family.
Robin Hood
Shame there wasn’t a better PR effort on this film. Neither me or any of my movie reviewing colleagues, attended any screenings, which is usually a real bad sign. However I have a crush on both Jamie Foxx and Jamie Dornan. And Taron is perfectly cast. So I will definitely see it.
Robin Hood
Shame there wasn’t a better PR effort on this film. Neither me or any of my movie reviewing colleagues, attended any screenings, which is usually a real bad sign. However I have a crush on both Jamie Foxx and Jamie Dornan. And Taron is perfectly cast. So I will definitely see it.
Vox Lux Natalie Portman is one of the most underrated actresses of our generation. She is absolutely amazing in this film about a rock star making her comeback despite personal struggles.
The Favorite
Powerhouse acting from all of the leads - especially Olivia Colman as the Queen - make this THE movie to see this season. It’s a dark and dastardly tale, so it will not exactly put you in the holiday mood. But it will definitely entertain you. And if you are a movie lover, it cannot be missed.
Anna and the Apocalypse
Best described as “The Day of the Dead meets High School Musical”, what could be more fun than a zombie musical? This Scottish import is sure to be a holiday cult classic. It’s dark in places but could be this generation’s “Rocky Horror Picture Show”, just with zombies!
Science Fair
One of my favorite films of the year and docs of all time, this fun film follows the amazingly sharp kids that attend the annual International Science Fair. I loved it so much, I attended two screenings in one week!
Roma
Directed by Oscar winner, Alfonso Cuaron, this has early Oscar buzz to take Best Picture and Director. While it is playing simultaneously on Netflix - I hate when they do that and feel you should see it on a proper big screen. Great films should be seen in theaters first, not on 50” TV screens!
Mary Queen Of Scots
Both Saoirse Ronan and Margot Robbie shine in this biopic about the relationship between Mary Queen of Scots and her cousin, Elizabeth the I. It’s an interesting story of early misogyny towards a female leader that particularly resonates in this #MeToo era.
Once Upon A Deadpool
PG-13 version of Deadpool with Fred Savage should be silly good fun.
Mortal Engines With Robert Sheehan, Hera Hilmar and Hugo Weaving with a screenplay from
Peter Jackson of “The Lord Of The Rings” fame, this film kicks ass from start to finish! See this on the biggest screen you possibly can because the visuals are stunning.
Spiderman Into the Spiderverse
There was big controversy over having a black Spidey, but hey, why not? He is, after all, an urban dweller! It is a shame that the first black Spiderman had to be animated, but we can’t win them all.
If Beale Street Could Talk
There is Oscar buzz for Regina King for her portrayal as a wonderous mother, in this adaption of the James Baldwin novel. Directed by Barry Jenkins of “Moonlight” fame, this is one of my favorite movies of the year and the most romantic black film ever made. Please support this film.
Mary Poppins Returns
I was five years old again and loved every minute of this enchanting sequel to the classic ’60’s original. Emily Blunt is the perfect Mary Poppins and Lin Manuel was wonderful too. My one wish would have been a cameo from Julie Andrews. Otherwise, this film was perfect.
Bumblebee
This is the best Transformers ever. I loved Haillee Steinfield. Written by female screenwriter, Christina Hodson and executive produced by Steven Spielberg, Bumblebee brings totally new life to the Transformers franchise.
Second Act
I worked with Jennifer Lopez on one of her first films and she and I shared a ton of laughs. She was a great gal then, so I will always appreciate her. I am hoping this rags to riches story is a Christmas hit.
On The Basis Of Sex
This biopic about the beloved America hero, Ruth Bader Ginsburg is top of my holiday list. Academy Award winner, Felicity Jones is perfectly cast as a young Ruth. Directed by Mimi Leder and written by Daniel Stiepleman, the film also stars Arnie Hammer as Ruth’s supportive husband. Kathy Bates and Sam Waterson round out this stellar cast.
Acquaman
Jason Monoa was so outstanding as Aquaman in “The Justice League”, it’s great to see him get his own movie. I don’t know Acquaman’s backstory, so am looking forward to this.
Welcome to Marwen
Based on a true story, Steve Carell plays Mark Hogancamp, who after he is violently assaulted by neo-Nazis, constructs an imaginary town to aid in his recovery. The all-star cast includes Janelle Monae, Leslie Mann and Diane Kruger. Legendary “Forest Gump” director Robert Zemeckis directed.
Holmes and Watson
Back together after “Talladega Nights” and “Step Brothers”, Will Farrell and John C Reilly bring us some welcome holiday laughs as Sherlock Holmes and his faithful sidekick Dr. Watson. It’s a “no shit, Sherlock” that this is going to be hilarious!
Destroyer
Nicole Kidman brings the drama this Christmas with this dark tale of a police woman trying to redeem herself. Kidman is unrecognizable and will likely garner an Oscar nod for this powerful performance.
Vice
Christian Bale completely disappears into his role as Dick Cheney, one of the most shady Vice Presidents in American history. Vice has an all-star cast of Sam Rockwell as GW Bush, Steve Carell as Donald Rumsfeld and Amy Adams as Lynne Cheney. Directed and written by “The Big Short” and produced in conjunction with Plan B, Brad Pitt’s company.
TGATP | Health And Wellness
Give the Gift Of Health and Wellness Gifts that promote wellness are the ultimate display of Love! Here are my favorites for 2018.
Uncommon Goods
 Ergonomic Active Sitting Stool | $100
Vionic Gemma Plush Slippers | $80
Uncommon Goods Crystal-Infused Chakra Essential Oils Set | $125
Homedics
 Total Body Shiatsu Mat | $199
Fit Desk | $ 349
Spoonk Accupressure Mat I $50
TGATP | Health And Wellness
verilux happy lucent LED natural spectrum energy lamp $49 I get sleepier and sometimes my mood is low in the winter. Thus, I live for my Verilux lamps. The HappyLight Lucent™ is the newest and smallest Verilux LED light therapy lamp that delivers a powerful 10,000 lux for increased energy, mood, focus and sleep. And best of all it provides a daily sunshine boost, which also helps stimulate Vitamin D production.
MoMA Store
MoMA Store Picks for 2018 I shop the MoMA store every year for unusual and fun gifts. Check out my finds for this year.
Tulip Objet d’Art | $375
Woven Triangle Bag | $165
Lucky Clover Object | $65
Portable Ultra Short Throw Projector | $999
Bumble Bee Candle Snuffer | $40
Heart Bowl I $30
Stackable Popsicle Molds $18
Moon Table Lamp $730
Slinky $5
WaterRower Rowing Machine $1500
Roy Lichtenstein Drowning Girl Umbrella $40
Kago Square Bowl $160
Fabric Brooch $250
April Vase $250
TGATP Holiday Gift Guide 2018
stocking stuffers Be creative and clever with your stocking stuffers this year! Here are some fun ideas to wow your family and friends.
Best Stockings
QVC Personal Creations Personalized Argyle Knit Stocking | $19
Pottery Barn Kids Star Wars ™ Chewie Stocking | $24
Garnet Hill Woolen Stocking | $73
Land’s End Felt Star Christmas Stocking | $35
Great things come in
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Create unforgettable holiday stockings with these one-of-a-kind small gifts.
Terrain Pressed Flower Wax Sachets | $15
Sol
 Smart Handbag Light & Charger | $35
MoMA Mini Snowglobes | S29
Anthropologie George & Viv Soaps Gifting Bar | S10
Voluspa
 Crushed Candy Cane Mini-Candle | $ 16
Uncommon Goods Love Tokens For Couples | S20
Add these beauty minis to your stockings!
Just Bee Lappy Lips |$18 for 6pk
Intelligent Nutrients Destress Express |$48
Adoratherapy Gal On The Go | $46
Foreo Luna Play | $39
TGATP | Voyages
Travel
Holiday traveling can be exhausting and leave us cranky and tired before we even start celebrating with our families. For this month’s travel coverage, I offer you some practical tips and great products to make the journey more relaxing and stress-free.
TGATP TIPS FOR HOLIDAY TRAVEL
Relax relax relax! I used to get all harried and flustered when traveling home or to friends’ homes. But now, with both my parents gone, I love to just mail the presents out and pamper myself at home.
Plan your trip well in advance. Part of the hassle of traveling is getting tickets and packed last-minute. Buy your tickets in the spring for the holidays and get it out of the way.
Pack light This is hard one for me as I always tend to overpack. But hauling a heavy bag, even if it is on wheels, just adds to the stress of traveling.
RELAX AND LET GO
Book tickets with your natural life rhythm in mind I know this may be obvious. But some people book their tickets for hours that are far earlier than their bodies enjoy. For example, I am not a morning person. So having to be on a plane, bus or train at 9am, would just leave me exhausted for my whole trip. 
 Work with your body’s natural flow.
Disconnect I used to take my phone, laptop, Kindle and/or iPad on every trip. However I would rarely use them all. There is no need to take all of your electronics on every voyage. Pick a couple, say your phone and your iPad or Kindle Paperwhite and leave it at that.
Plan alone time Book a spa massage or mani/pedi in your destination city to give yourself needed alone and pampering time away from your family.
TGATP | Voyages
Osprey $285 Great travel all starts with a great bag and nothing beats the Osprey convertibles. Since I tend to overpack a bit, I can’t live without my Osprey Ozone Convertible Day bag. I cram tons of stuff in the multiple pockets and it still fits on the plane. It also has super sturdy real wheels, not spinners. The day pack detaches and the whole bag can also be worn on your back, I was gifted mine by Osprey a couple years back, so they don’t seem to have the same model. But I am sure, that this version is just as great. This newer model has even has padded laptop and tablet sleeves. And I love it in the blue!
TGATP | Voyages
Travel is a breeze with these four great products.
1. Trtl Neck Support Pillow Voted the #1 travel pillow by travel writers. 2
2. Shacke Pac Travel Cubes These handy cubes keep your bag organized and come with a laundry bag for dirty clothes.
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3. FIL Noise Cancelling Headphones Good headphones are a must for me when I travel. My favs right now are the FIIL and I have them in black and white. 4. Zoppen RFID-blocking Travel Passport Wallet This multi-purpose wallet keeps your money, cards and passport safe and organized with RIFD technology. 3
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Book Of The Month The Couple Next Door By Shari Lapena
I couldn’t put this twisty thriller down and you won’t be able to either! This is the perfect holiday guilty pleasure. Centered around the kidnapping of a tiny baby, there are tons of secrets unveiled. I expect there to be a film in the works any minute now.
Thanks And Blessings “From them will come songs of thanksgiving and the sound of rejoicing. I will add to their numbers, and they will not be decreased; I will bring them honor, and they will not be disdained.” - Jeremiah 30:19
In these perilous times for the nation and the world, this holiday season ushers in a special time of gratitude and reflection for me. My thoughts are with all who are suffering, including the survivors of the California fires. Fred Guttenberg and the other Parkland families, as well as, the families separated from their children at the border, who are spending their first holidays without their beloved children.
Give Thanks
Thoughts On The Season Last summer, on August 23rd, my father passed at 95, making this my first holiday season as an adult orphan. It has been a sad but transformative two months. Our childhoods, our adulthoods, our own eventual mortality - the passing of our parents forces us to relive so many things. I am experiencing an odd mix of emotions, as now sadness is mixed with memories of holidays past, many of which are not that happy. The death of my father, who is now joined with my beloved mother and at peace at last, represents a new shift in consciousness. I want to embrace my nieces and nephews in a special way this year. I want to create new happy holiday traditions. I want to reconnect to the good people in my Life and permanently disengage from any toxic folks. I want to engage in radical selfacceptance and Love. I want to be merry and bright. Because this year, marks the beginning of the rest of my Life. It’s my first year AP (after parents). My first year, where both of the people that brought me into physical being, are gone from this plane. The first year where how the holidays go will be totally up to me. In addition to my father’s passing, the state of the nation has also been on my mind a lot. I am totally exhausted from all the divisiveness, anger and hate. This has also made me long for a loving, peaceful holiday this year. I am wishing the same for you, dear TGATP readers.
DAD
A Savior Was Born Many people forget the true reason for Christmas and get trapped in a never-ending cycle of shopping and partying. There can also be too much of an emphasis on the behavior of family and friends and the expectations we place upon them.
“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful C o u n s e l o r, M i g h t y G o d , Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”
Isiah 6:9
These unfulfilled expectations have ruined many people’s Christmases for way too long. If that’s you, dear reader, this year, don’t fall into that trap. Remember the real reason for Christmas.
This Christmas, if you are Christian, praise Jesus everyday and be grateful for the many blessings a connection with Christ brings. And Christians and non-Christians, make sure to practice kindness and express gratitude everyday.
That Girl At The Party | On the Scene
Jada Pinckett Smith and her mom Adrienne Banfield-Jones at the Moms Event
Donna Karan At Urban Zen Holiday Party
Models at Sol De Janeiro Party
The Roots at Intel House at Fast Company Innovation
UNTIL NEXT TIME.
I hope you enjoyed this premiere issue of the magazine version of That Girl At The Party. Have a blessed holiday season and I look forward to providing your with even more great content in 2019.