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I just got back from my 45th-year reunion at Duke University. The OTR group I mentioned before was there too. OTR stands for On the Rocks, which comes from Rhododendron Bluff, or the Cliffs, in Duke Forest. That’s where nine of my Phi Kappa Psi fraternity brothers, little sisters, and I would hang out and enjoy drinks together. Reunions are a great chance to reconnect with old friends and make new memories, and this trip was no different. Some things stayed the same, while others changed—some for better, some for worse.


One downside is that all the fraternities have been moved off campus. When I was a student, fraternities were grouped by their entrances and fire doors, and on nice weekends, the campus was full of parties. Students would hang out on benches in front of each fraternity, often with a keg of beer. But in 2026, the campus felt empty. The new security system, which wasn’t around when I was at Duke, meant I couldn’t visit the old Phi Kappa Psi house or my old room. I have so many good memories from those days.
Not all changes were bad. The Bryant Center opened in 1982, just after I graduated, and it’s now the main student center. I remember when they started building it right outside my dorm window during my junior year. Today, it has the main dining hall, which offers all kinds of food—Indian, Latin, sushi, pizza, and more. The food is excellent, and tour guides even say it’s the best on any college campus. Back when I was a student, the food was so bad that we called the dining hall ‘the Pits.’ It was your typical bad cafeteria food. Durham has also changed for the better. When I was at Duke, and for years after, Durham was pretty run-down—a burnt-out tobacco town with not much to offer except the University. But over the last 10 to 15 years, downtown Durham has come alive with great restaurants, shops, hotels, bars, and new high-rise apartments. It’s easy to walk around, and the old Art Deco Central Carolina Bank building is still there. The old American Tobacco barns from the early 1900s are now Brightleaf Square, filled with shops and places to eat. With about 300,000 people and a lower cost of living, Durham is a very manageable place to live. If I couldn’t live in Nashville, I’d probably choose Durham.
Some things haven’t changed at all. The beautiful Gothic Duke Chapel still stands tall over West Campus and remains the symbol of Duke. I never get tired of seeing it. The Sarah P. Duke Gardens are still a 55-acre botanical wonderland. There’s a pond there where some of my fraternity brothers used to get tossed in by the rest of us—a tradition we called ‘ponding.’ And of course, my OTR friends are just the same as ever.
The OTR group made the most of our reunion. On the first night, we had burgers and hot dogs at Tim Searles’ house and shared stories from our college days. Tim is the only OTR member who lives in Durham, and his father was a professor there. The next day, we checked in at the reunion desk, picked up our name tags and a drink, then stopped by the Duke Spirit Store for some Duke gear. We enjoyed a great lunch at the dining hall and visited the Duke Gardens. That evening, we went downtown for tapas at Juju’s. The following day, we had lunch outside at the Washington Duke hotel and then visited the Cliffs. That night, we enjoyed curry at Viceroy in downtown Durham and finished with drinks at the rooftop bar at the Durham Hotel. These reunions and Duke itself mean a lot to me. The OTR group usually gets together in Durham every April, even if it’s not a big reunion year. I always look forward to these gatherings—they’re a very important part of my life.

Dave Mahanes, Publisher dave@slmag.net



















































































































































































































































































































































































