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CONTENTS
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FEATURES
STORIES & COLUMNS
20 | Education The Best Boarding Schools to Consider
6 | Editor’s Letter
24 | Parenting What Every Parent Should Know About Childhood Grief
8 | Tech New York Finalizes New Social Media Rules for Kids
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FAMILY FUN 26 | Family Fun Apple Picking Spots 28 | Calendar The Best Family-Friendly Events Happening This Month
10 | Money 11 Ways to Cut Costs on Grocery Bills 12 | Activities Finding the Right After-School Activities
DIRECTORIES 14 | Directory After-School Listings
16 | Health What You’re Child Isn’t Saying 18 | Special Needs Tips for Building Individualized Support 22 | Ask the Expert Back-to-School Health Tips for Parents 30 | Mom Stories Moms Who Say Nope
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EDITOR’S NOTE
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Reset, Ready Summer isn’t quite over, but school is back, which means calendars are filling up, routines are returning, and before we know it, fall will be here. It’s time for new teachers, new schedules, packed backpacks, and figuring out how we’re going to fit it all in. And if there’s one thing New York parents know, it’s that the calendar doesn’t stay empty for long. This issue is packed with resources to help you jump right in. Our After-School Guide (page 12) is filled with activities, classes, and programs to help you find something your child will love after that bell rings. What is back to school without a few
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rules? We break down New York’s new social media rules for kids (page 8) and what this means for families. We also have Back-to-School Health Tips for Parents (page 22) and 11 Ways to Cut Costs on Grocery Bills (page 10), because between school supplies, activities, and everything else, September can get expensive fast! Here’s to fresh starts, getting back into the flow, and squeezing every last bit out of these final summer days before fall takes over. Happy September!
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SOCIAL MEDIA
New York Finalizes New Social Media Rules for Kids What parents need to know BY DANIELLE RAMOS
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admit I do the very thing we tell our kids not to do. I get in bed, pull out my phone, and catch up on social media. It’s the one quiet time in a hectic day, and most of the time, my algorithm pulls me right in. It’s pretty difficult to keep our kids from doing the same when it’s just so tempting, and that’s partly why Gov. Kathy Hochul and New York State are stepping in. Governor Kathy Hochul and Attorney General Letitia James released in the July the final rules for the SAFE for Kids Act, a law aimed at dialing back the features that make social media so hard for kids to put down. The rules spell out exactly how companies have to verify users’ ages and get parental sign-off before turning on certain features for anyone under 18. What Is the SAFE for Kids Act? At its core, this law hands parents more control over their kids’ social media experience and takes aim at the features built to keep people scrolling. The biggest target is the algorithm-driven feeds, the endless stream of videos and posts an app serves up based on everything you’ve ever clicked, watched, or lingered on. New York officials argue these feeds aren’t just convenient; they’re engineered to keep kids hooked, and that’s contributing to some genuinely unhealthy habits. Under the new rules, platforms can’t just switch on that personalized feed for an under-18 user by default. They’ll need verified parental consent first. Changes Kids Will See Kids aren’t getting kicked off social media,
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but the experience is going to look different once this kicks in: • The for you style feed will be turned off by default, unless a parent opts in • Instead of algorithm-picked content, teens will mostly see posts from accounts they follow • Notifications go silent between midnight and 6 am for minors, unless parents say otherwise • Kids can still search, browse, and use the app
minimum data necessary, and they can’t hang onto it longer than needed.
Companies Will Verify Age There will be age verification, and before a platform can unlock those restricted features, it has to confirm the user is an adult. Companies have a few ways to do that. They can verify a phone number or email, have users upload a photo or short video, or use other approved age-check tools. And platforms have to offer at least one way to do this that doesn’t require a government ID. Whatever method they use, New York’s rules say they can only collect the
Why New York Is Doing This State officials point to research linking heavy social media use, especially algorithm-driven feeds, to rising rates of anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and eating disorders among kids and teens. This law, which will take effect soon officially becoming active on January 25, 2027, isn’t a standalone effort. It’s one piece of a broader push in New York to protect kids online, alongside new rules on child data privacy, AI safety, and smartphone bans in schools.
What Parents Can Do Parents get to say yes or no to these features, and they can change their mind later if they want to loosen or tighten things up. If a parent says no, their child isn’t locked out of the app entirely. They can still search, browse, and use the parts of the platform that don’t rely on algorithmic feeds or overnight notifications.
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MONEY
11 Ways to Cut Costs on Grocery Bills BY DANIELLE RAMOS
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know I’m not the only mom who watches her grocery bill climb each week and stresses about how to pay for it all. According to the USDA, a typical family of four with two parents and two school-age kids spends between $1,018 and $1,675 per month nationally, depending on their budget. Most households land somewhere in the middle, around $1,387 a month. And if you live in New York, you already know groceries cost more here than almost anywhere else, so realistically, we are spending $1,400 to $1,700 a month, sometimes more, which is truly insane. To help offset those costs, here are 11 ways New York families can save money on groceries right now. Split Your Shopping Between Two or Three Stores The one-stop, loyal-shopper era of our parents’ time is pretty much over. A lot of families now have a new, regular rotation: a discount grocer for staples, Trader Joe’s or Costco for a few favorites, and the closest supermarket for whatever’s on sale that week. Most of us don’t have time to grab every deal, so pick two or three stores you like and trust and stick with them. Check Out Discount Grocers At Aldi and Lidl, everyday prices for staples like milk, eggs, bread, chicken, and produce are typically 20–40% lower than at traditional supermarkets. These stores have become noticeably better stocked and more pleasant to shop in over the past few years. The catch is you won’t find many name brands, and almost everything on the shelf is the store’s own label. That’s what makes the savings possible. Giving up brand names is an adjustment, but it helps you save. Lidl has recently become known for its fresh bakery, and both stores carry decent produce sections, so you can get more than just canned goods. Most of a weekly shop can be done at Aldi or Lidl, and you can save
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your big local supermarket for the one or two brands your family won’t budge on. It’s a small tweak, but it can be the biggest change you can make to save. Use Trader Joe’s for Select Items Trader Joe’s has so many inventive and tasty items, but it isn’t a discount grocer in the Aldi sense. It’s also not going to beat supermarket prices on milk, eggs, or chicken breast, but it does excel in frozen food, snacks, and a handful of pantry items, where quality is high, and prices are low. Frozen vegetables, frozen fruit for smoothies, frozen dumplings and appetizers, a long list of snacks beat both the regular supermarket and the name-brand version on price, and without the quality dip you sometimes get with generics. The trick is to go in with a short, specific list and stick to it. Trader Joe’s doesn’t carry the range a family needs to cover a week’s worth of groceries; it doesn’t sell diapers and has limited household, beauty, and pet supplies. Rely on Store Brands Check your supermarket’s own value line: Stop & Shop has Nature’s Promise, and ShopRite has Bowl & Basket. Store-brand
pasta, cereal, butter, and frozen vegetables are typically 25–30% cheaper than name brands and, in blind taste tests, have been shown to be indistinguishable from name brands. Start with pantry basics like flour, rice, beans, canned tomatoes, and frozen fruit. Plan Dinner Around What’s on Sale This can be the one habit that most affects your grocery bill. Instead of deciding what’s for dinner on Tuesday and then shopping for it, flip the order: check the weekly flyer or app first to see what’s on sale, and build the week’s meals around that. See which meats, fish, or veggies your family regularly enjoys are discounted that week, and plan your menu around the sale items. It only takes about 10 minutes on a Sunday, and it can be the difference between a $150 week and a $220 one. I have planned meals like this since I had kids, and if I didn’t, I would not be able to make it work. Stock Up When Something You Use Regularly Goes on Sale Along the same lines, when a staple your family eats every week, like pasta sauce, chicken breast, diapers, hits a real low price, buying two or three instead of one. Then you won’t pay full price next month. This only
works for things you were buying anyway and either have a long shelf life or can be frozen. Hit the Frozen Aisle Frozen fruits and vegetables get picked and frozen at peak ripeness, and they won’t go bad in three days after you forget about them. There is no way to gauge exactly when your family will want more or less fresh fruit, so having frozen on hand is a lifesaver and a money-saver. Think of how many times you’ve thrown out old and wilted veggies and fruit. Do the Membership Math at Box Stores Costco and BJ’s memberships both run $60– $65 a year. If you’re already buying diapers, paper towels, or rotisserie chicken weekly, the savings on those alone usually cover the fee within a month or two. But if you start buying things you wouldn’t normally buy just because the unit price looks good, that can quickly eat your savings. How many families have gotten a 24-pack of a snack their kids didn’t even like, or something they don’t really need, and then it’s $20 in the trash?
To get the most value, keep a running list of exactly what you buy each month. Rice, oats, and paper products are the safest bulk bets across the board, and they don’t spoil. You can also split a membership with another family member or friend.
soup, and pasta with whatever vegetables you have are inexpensive and can be family favorites. It’s an easy way to stretch protein, use up odds and ends, and avoid buying any additional special ingredients. Make a List and Stick to It It sounds almost too simple to mention, but writing a list is something I learned from my mom, and it is still one of the most effective ways to save money (and sanity). You bypass impulsive spending and make shopping easier because you’re not mentally scrambling in a crowded store with kids in tow. You don’t have to do all of this at once. Start with a few, and the savings may add up faster than you’d think.
Cook From What’s Already in the Fridge Before Buying More I recently began doing this, adding a day or two before heading to the store by using what we have instead. You can easily make a soup from a half bag of vegetables, leftover rotisserie chicken or beans, and rice. It saves money and prevents food waste. Mix Up Simple Items Meals like rice bowls, big pots of
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ACTIVITIES
Finding the Right After-School Activities
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rom sports and dance to academic enrichment, art, music, and more, kids have plenty of ways to spend their time after school. But with a new school year come new schedules, and finding the right balance can take some thought. Here’s how to choose activities your child will enjoy without overloading the family calendar. The Benefits of Getting Involved After sitting at a desk all day, kids need opportunities to move around, play, and simply enjoy being kids. Physical activities can be a great way to help them get some energy out and reset after a busy day at school. After-school activities provide an ideal environment in which to nurture social skills and confidence,” says Shawna Stewart, program accounts specialist at MakerState LLC, a STEM enrichment program in Manhattan. “They teach children the value of working as a team to achieve a mutual goal—a skill that will benefit them in their future occupations.” Whether it’s joining a soccer team, taking an art class, learning an instrument, or trying something completely new, extracurriculars give kids a chance to explore their interests, make friends, and discover what they love. How to Find What Your Kid Loves There’s no need for kids to find their passion right away. Younger children may enjoy trying a few different activities before settling on a favorite, while older kids may have a better sense of what interests them. “By middle school, if not before, students should be experimenting with a diverse set of after-school endeavors that align with any interests they express,” says Kat Cohen, Ph.D., college admissions counselor and founder of IvyWise, an educational consulting company. When it comes to selecting an activity, give your child some say in the decision. For younger kids, a ranking system can help. Make a list of activities your child enjoys or would like to try, and ask them to rank their
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favorites. The goal is for them to feel like they have a voice in how they spend their time. And if they try something and decide it’s not for them? That’s okay, too. Part of growing up is figuring out what you like— and what you don’t. How to Figure Out a Workable Schedule Figuring out your kid’s individual threshold can be tricky, especially when the school year gets going and calendars start filling up. “Start with one after-school activity, then gradually add more as your child seems able to handle a more intense schedule,” Dr. Lieberman suggests. It’s important to make sure your kids don’t lose sight of the things that matter to your family, academics, family dinners, downtime, and simply having time to be a
kid. Siblings may also have very different activity levels and interests. “Every student is different, so there is no magic number of hours that should be devoted to after-school activities,” Dr. Cohen says. Most importantly, pay attention to how your child is feeling. Are they excited to go? Do they come home happy and energized, or overwhelmed and exhausted? “Use your intuition to really understand your child’s interests and favorite hobbies,” says Megan Gallagher, a TED Talk speaker, best-selling author, and mental health advocate for teenagers. “As a parent, the best thing you can do is to be present and show up.” Whatever you choose, remember that there’s no perfect after-school schedule. The goal is to give your child opportunities to have fun, make friends, try something new, and discover what they love.
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Art Lab 1000 Richmond Terrace, Staten Island, NY 718-447-8667 artlabsi.com info@artlabsi.org Art Lab offers a variety of after-school and weekend art classes, for children ages 3 through teen. Visit Art Lab’s Annual Open House on September 19th, 11am3PM, for free demos, miniclasses, and free t-shirt for children while supplies last. Look for free workshops and No School Daze events this fall. Check out adult class offerings in fine art, applied art, and photography too. Find yourself at Art Lab this Fall. Classes start midSeptember.
Bi’an Mandarin 475 Belfield Avenue, Staten Island, NY 10312 bianmandarin.com 347-258-9356 Bi’an Mandarin is a Mandarin immersion program for children ages 1.5 and up.
Located in Staten Island, we offer play-based classes that combine language learning with music, art, math, and science. Our toddler, Mommy & Me, after-school, weekend, and themed summer camp programs make learning fun and hands-on. Through games, stories, and real-world experiences, children develop strong speaking, listening, reading, and writing skills while building a lifelong love of Mandarin.
Blade Runner Fencing 663 Manor Road (St. John’s Lutheran Gym) bladerunnerfencing@gmail. com bladerunnerfencing.com With over 25 years of coaching experience, Blade Runner Fencing offers individual and group lessons to children, teens and adults. Classes are affordable with no membership fee or contract. Professional instruction and small classes ensure a positive learning experience. Focus
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JCC of Staten Island 1466 Manor Road, Staten Island, NY 10314 718-475-5200 SIJCC.org Growing up is about discovering interests, building confidence, and finding where you belong. At the Staten Island JCC, children and teens can learn, create, play, and grow through afterschool programs, sports, aquatics, music, and enrichment activities. With inclusive and specialized programs for children and teens with special needs, the JCC fosters friendships, lifelong skills, and a strong sense of community. Every program helps young people feel supported, empowered, and inspired to thrive.
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themselves, and developing the confidence, focus, respect, and discipline that lead to success—in school and in life. At Master Curry Karate, children don’t just learn martial arts—they build character, improve coordination, increase strength and fitness, learn practical self-defense, and make lasting friendships. With over 52 years of martial arts experience and 35 years proudly serving Staten Island families, Master Curry helps children become stronger, more confident, and better prepared for life’s challenges.
Staten Island Art and Culture 109 New Dorp Plaza 646-233-5173 inquire@siartculture.com A visual arts studio where people of any age can hone their art skills. This collective offers small group and individual lessons in a variety of painting genres, different techniques, sculpture,
paper-making, portfolio development, and more. They work with acrylics, watercolors, pastels, ink, etc. Best works are displayed and acknowledged in exhibitions. Develop your creativity and aesthetics! Sip & Paint available upon request.
Staten Island Community Tennis Center 2800 Victory Blvd. sitenniscenter@gmail.com 728-982-3355 statenislandtennis.com The Staten Island Community Tennis Center located on the campus of College of Staten Island and features six outdoor and six air conditioned courts. Fall classes for all ages and adults from beginner to advanced will start September 11th. Visit the website statenislandtennis,com for the Fall 2026 schedule, pictures and videos of the programs. Adult leagues and season courts will begin Monday, September
9th. The professional staff is also available for private instruction by arrangement. Your group can play at random times by calling the club for arrangements.
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HEALTH
BACK-TO-SCHOOL HEALTH TIPS FOR PARENTS BOOST YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM WITH DAILY VITAMINS
CONSIDER A FLU SHOT
Give your immune system the support it needs to keep up with busy days
Back-to-school season often means increased exposure to germs
Vitamin C – Supports immune health
• Helps reduce the risk of seasonal illness
Vitamin D – Helps support bones, muscles, and immunity
• Protects both parents and children
Vitamin B – Supports energy and metabolism
• Talk with your healthcare provider about what’s right for you
Magnesium – May help with sleep and muscle health Zinc – Supports immune function and overall wellness TIP: Talk with your healthcare provider about which supplements are right for you.
ADD PROBIOTICS TO YOUR ROUTINE
TIP: Schedule your flu shot early in the school year.
PRIORITIZE SELF-CARE • Connect with friends or family for emotional support
• Try Kimchi Kombucha • Support gut health with fiber-rich fruits and vegetables. TIP: Helps maintain overall wellness and supports your body’s natural defenses
• Try essential oils to help reduce stress. Lavender Chamomile Lemon Geranium Bergamot TIP: Always follow safety guidelines and dilute oils properly
MAKE SLEEP NON-NEGOTIABLE
Help support immunity, mood and energy Helps support immunity, mood & energy Create a consistent bedtime routine. Avoid scrolling, emails, and household tasks right before bed. TIP: Reserve late-night work and projects for only a few nights a week.
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SPECIAL NEEDS
Tips for Building Individualized Support Self-direction via OPWDD BY DONNA DUARTE-LADD
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or many families navigating developmental disability services, it all can feel like a lot because IT IS. If you are receiving Office for People With Developmental Disabilities (OPWDD) services, you have made some big strides in your child’s care. While OPWDD is a tremendous resource, the aid is structured around what agencies can offer, and while this is a huge help, it may not always be fully attuned to what your child truly needs. That’s why many of us parents eventually find our way to something called Self-Direction via OPWDD. Like most helpful resources I learn about that can help my child, I learned about them from other parents. These are parents who have their children receiving services through OPWDD. As my son got older, the options didn’t feel aligned with what he needed on a daily basis. And while services are always super appreciated, I knew that we needed different support. Around that same time, I spoke with a fellow mom whose daughter, now an adult with Rett Syndrome, had been using Self-Direction for years. Hearing her perspective made the service feel like the next step. Hearing how this family had built their life around it successfully helped push me to explore Self-Direction more seriously. I immediately brought this up to our care manager, who is a subcontractor through OPWDD, but I was told it might not be the right fit because I was always busy at work and it might be too stressful for me. She was right; most parents are overwhelmed, and show me a special needs parent who doesn’t have a lot on their plate! It wasn’t until my son was assigned a more supportive care manager, not just of my child, but also of helping me navigate the paperwork that Self-Direction entails, that I felt really supported. What is Self-Direction? In layperson’s terms, Self-Direction is a
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service option through OPWDD that allows families to design and manage the support for their child rather than relying solely on traditional agency-run programs. In simple terms, it gives families more control over how services are delivered and what their child’s support system actually looks like day to day. All self-direction classes, care has to all be approved, will explain more on this in a bit. Instead of fitting into a pre-set schedule or program, families participating in SelfDirection can hire their own support staff, create individualized routines, and design services that reflect their child’s interests, strengths, and goals. How Self-Direction Works While it’s called Self-Direction, families aren’t navigating the process alone. The model includes several key roles that help support families along the way: Broker: A broker helps families create a support plan and identify goals for their child. They also help determine how to allocate the approved budget to support those goals. Basically, they are in charge of the money approved for spending. This still means you have to be aware of the budget, how it is being spent, and the adjustments needed to stay within the yearly budget. Luckily, you are not alone. With a good broker, you will have check-ins monthly, if not bi-weekly. Fiscal Intermediary (FI): The FI handles the administrative side of things—payroll, taxes, and compliance—so support staff can
be paid, and the program remains in compliance with OPWDD regulations. They are who approve every single submission. Direct Support Professionals (DSPs): These are the staff members families hire to work directly with their child. DSPs might spend time with a child in the community, work on life skills, support social development, or help with everyday routines. One of the biggest differences between Self-Direction and traditional services is flexibility. Supports do not have to happen only during standard program hours or inside a facility. They can take place at home, after school, on weekends, or out in the community. For many families, that flexibility allows their child to build real-life skills in environments where they feel comfortable. Self-Direction also allows families to choose the people who support their child. Instead of rotating staff assigned by an agency, parents can hire individuals who genuinely connect with their child and understand their personality, communication style, and needs. That level of consistency can make a meaningful difference. Getting Started Getting started, however, isn’t as simple as signing up. My first step was attending an online seminar (start here: opwdd.ny.gov/getstarted/ front-door), which is required before moving forward in the Self-Direction process. Families participate in the training and receive a certifi-
cate before they can continue to the next steps. The seminar walks through the basics of how Self-Direction works and what responsibilities families take on when choosing this path. After that comes the registration process—and with it, a fair amount of paperwork. There are forms to fill out, approvals to move through, and meetings to help establish the program’s structure. Like many things within disability services, it requires patience and time. We are still fairly new to Self-Direction, and I’m learning as I go. One of the things I’m figuring out right now is how to manage the paperwork and the financial side of things. In some cases, families have to pay for certain items or services upfront and then submit the paperwork for reimbursement. For me, that has often meant putting expenses on my credit card and waiting to be reimbursed later. This part can be stressful, as it means that if you do not get an invoice pre-approved for the class or activity you are taking, the agency that manages your child’s Self-Direction budget will need to pay it and then be reimbursed.
Not every family can float expenses like this, and I think about it often. While Self Direction creates opportunities for more personalized support, the logistics can sometimes pose barriers that families must navigate carefully. The Promise of Self-Direction At its core, Self-Direction was designed to create more individualized support systems. This is a support that recognizes your child’s life plan may require individualized services to meet the goals set for them. This includes what their IEP states and what their care team is helping you work through to best support your child. The real shift is this: instead of trying to fit your child into an existing structure, the structure is meant to adapt to the child. For example, right now, my son, who is a little over six months in, is an eloper, which means water can be dangerous. So we have him in swim classes. For me, this shows him that pools are for swimming, and there are rules about how you get into the pool and how you swim. This is a life-safety skill. Of course, there is a trade-off. More flexibil-
ity also means more responsibility. Parents often find themselves interviewing staff, managing schedules, communicating with support workers, and staying organized with paperwork and planning. Many families describe Self-Direction as empowering—but also demanding. Still, I come back to the reason we started. Self-Direction offers the possibility of building support that truly fits my child—support that aligns with his personality and how he experiences the world. Right now, we’re still early in the process. I’m learning how to submit paperwork, how reimbursements work, and how the entire system fits together. Like many things in parenting a child with different needs, it’s a mix of hope, trial and error, and a lot of learning along the way. But even at this early stage, I can see why so many families talk about Self-Direction as a turning point. It offers something that can sometimes feel rare in complex systems: the chance to build supports around your child’s real life. And for many parents, that possibility is worth the learning curve.
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BOARDING SCHOOLS F or some families, the traditional day-school experience isn’t the only path to a great education. Boarding school is a big decision, but it can also open the door to an exciting new experience for students that extends beyond the classroom. These schools offer structured learning environments, built-in academic support, and a strong sense of community, all in one place to help your child blossom. Many also provide top-notch extracurriculars, college prep, and opportunities to foster leadership and confidence. The right school can provide the structure and support your child needs to thrive, now and in the future. Here are some excellent programs to consider.
EF Academy New York 582 Columbus Ave, Thornwood, NY 12533 914-495-6056, academy.ny@ef.com efacademy.org/en-us/new-york
Located on a beautiful campus in Thornwood, New York, EF Academy offers American students a global education without leaving home. The student body represents more than 40 countries, creating an international community where students learn alongside classmates from different cultures, perspectives, and experiences. Students can choose from the IB Diploma Program and a range of AP courses, with pathways designed to support their interests and university goals. A welcoming community includes day students as well as 5-day and 7-day boarders, offering flexibility for families while keeping every student connected to campus life. With a diverse community, personalized academics, and a welcoming campus, EF Academy provides an international high school experience in Westchester.
Harrow International School New York 500 Montauk Highway 631-869-1572, admissions@harrownewyork.com harrownewyork.com
The Harvey School 260 Jay Street, Katonah, NY 10536 914-232-3161, ext. 113, admissions@harveyschool.org harveyschool.org, harveyschool.org/open-house
The Harvey School invites prospective boarding students and their families to attend their Fall Open House on Saturday, October 24, 2026 from 9:00am to 12:00pm on their beautiful hilltop 125-acre campus in Westchester County, Katonah, NY. Five-day boarding offered for students in grades 9-12 for both domestic and international students. Board during the week and still have family time at home on weekends. Rigorous academics and competitive athletics, a thriving arts program, 70+ electives to enhance curriculum, and a kind, caring community where students are truly known. Harvey teachers know their students well and guide them to embrace their strengths and discover their passions while feeling confident to be themselves as they strive to become who they want to be.
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Harrow International School New York, situated on an extraordinary 170-acre Long Island waterfront campus between New York City and the Hamptons, offers a prestigious boarding and day school for grades 6–12. Rooted in 450 years of British traditions, this IB World School blends rigorous academics with real-world readiness. Flexible options include 5-day boarding with weekend returns, 7-day boarding, or day school. The campus sits minutes from the LIRR and within easy reach of Long Island MacArthur, JFK, and LaGuardia airports, simplifying arrivals for families near and far. Small class sizes ensure personalized attention, while a strong individual care system fosters leadership, confidence, and character. With a global student body and a values-driven community, Harrow New York nurtures well-rounded, future-ready individuals. Learn more at harrownewyork.com.
The Knox School
The Masters School
541 Long Beach Road, Saint James, NY 11780 631-686-1600, admissions@knoxschool.org knoxschool.org
49 Clinton Avenue, Dobbs Ferry, NY 10522 914-479-6420, admission@mastersny.org mastersny.org
At The Knox School, being known changes what’s possible. On its Long Island waterfront campus, students in grades 6–12 join an intentionally small, globally diverse boarding and day community where a 6:1 student-teacher ratio ensures they are seen, valued, and understood. Faculty know each student as a learner and as a person, helping them see possibilities they may not yet recognize in themselves. With 35 AP and Honors courses and 20 dual-enrollment college courses, personalized academic pathways challenge students to grow, while arts, athletics, and leadership opportunities encourage new interests and meaningful risktaking. Along the way, students build confidence and a sense of purpose, ready to thrive in college and beyond. At Knox, students don’t simply prepare for what’s next. They discover who they can become.
The Masters School’s 5-day boarding program offers students the best of both worlds: an immersive boarding experience during the week and time with family on weekends. From Sunday evening through Friday, students live on a beautiful 96-acre campus in Dobbs Ferry, New York, where they benefit from faculty mentorship, evening study sessions, athletics, the arts, and a close-knit residential community. With peers from across the country and around the world, students form lasting friendships while developing independence, confidence, and a strong sense of responsibility. They are encouraged to explore their interests, take on new challenges, and make the most of a vibrant campus life. At Masters, students become part of a community where they are known, supported, and encouraged to grow.
Ross School 18 Goodfriend Drive, East Hampton 631-907-5400 ross.org
Ross School’s mission is to change how education meets the future by fostering interdisciplinary, integrated thinking and innovative leadership, engaging fully in the global community, and facilitating lifelong learning. A co-educational boarding school (grades 7–12 and postgraduate) and day school (preschool–12th grade and postgraduate), Ross is located on two beautiful campuses in East Hampton and Bridgehampton, New York, about two hours east of New York City. Serving approximately 320 students and attracting a world-class faculty, the school offers a global, integrated curriculum with engaging courses in science, math, arts, humanities, and wellness, along with opportunities for independent study, competitive athletics, extracurricular activities, and travel. With an emphasis on direct personal experiences, inquiry through primary sources, and hands-on interpretation and analysis of information, Ross School prepares students for success beyond the classroom. The school boasts a strong college placement program, with 100% of applicants receiving acceptances at competitive colleges and universities.
Simon’s Rock at Bard College 30 Seminary Drive, Barrytown, NY 12507 845-752-5600, admit@sr.bard.edu simons-rock.edu
Simon’s Rock at Bard College is an early college that allows students to begin full-time college studies at a younger age. With multiple entry points for all high school aged students, the curriculum culminates in a B.A. degree from Bard College, completed sooner than the traditional college degree timeline. Located just minutes from Bard College’s main campus, Simon’s Rock offers boarding and day student options. September 2026 | Staten Island Parent
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ASK THE EXPERT
What Your Child Isn’t Saying Dr. Shefali and the quiet clues your child may need help BY DANIELLE RAMOS
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first discovered Dr. Shefali Tsabary years ago on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday, right when her book The Conscious Parent came out. I was fascinated and absolutely loved how she prioritized a child’s emotional world. Her perspective felt both intuitive and deeply compassionate. It was a philosophy I fully embraced and still do. Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist, New York Times bestselling author, and the founder of the Conscious Parenting movement, and she’s spent her career helping parents see past achievement and behavior to what’s actually going on inside a child. Her upcoming books, Raising Conscious Daughters and Raising Conscious Sons (available for pre-order now, releasing September 15, 2026), get into how cultural expectations and emotional conditioning shape the way girls and boys grow into themselves. We recently caught up with Dr. Shefali, and she shared powerful insights into what parents often miss when children seem “fine” on the outside, and how we can raise kids who aren’t just successful, but emotionally connected, resilient, and grounded in their own inner voice. What’s here is just a taste of everything Dr. Shefali shared with us. The full two-part conversation is online at NewYorkFamily.com, where it goes even deeper.
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A lot of kids seem to be doing everything right. They get good grades, are involved in sports, and have packed schedules, but underneath that, many are struggling. What signs are parents often missing? The signs are often hiding in plain sight — and often, can be picked up through nonverbal signs such as fatigue, sleeplessness, loss of appetite, and joy. The child who is anxious and stays up at night, or overly perfectionistic and worries about every score and grade. The one who loses sleep or appetite. Or the one who gets agitated easily. All of these are signs of a child who feels like they are in a pressure cooker of performance and achievement. Most of the time, the more a child looks perfect on the outside, the greater the likelihood that they are flailing on the inside. When children are pushed to perform and when childhood becomes an endless resume of achievements, it is often at the price of their well-being. A child who seems “fine” by every external measure but is exhausted, compliant, and joyless is not fine. Parents miss this because we’ve been conditioned to confuse performance with well-being. When a child is achieving and high functioning, we stop asking questions. What I see again and again in my work is kids who have become exquisitely attuned to what earns them love—the grades, the trophies, the full calendar—and have learned to
suppress everything that might cost them that approval. Our children will always choose connection over authenticity. A daughter who says “I’m fine” when you ask how she’s doing. A son who goes quiet the moment you start talking to him. The withdrawal, the flatness, the loss of spontaneous laughter. These are the signs. The truth is that no child enters the world hungry for gold stars. That hunger is learned. It grows in those moments when a child discovers that achievement buys approval. When we praise the grind, we’re teaching fear. They learn to be afraid of being ordinary. And the child who has built their entire identity around external achievement doesn’t know how to tell you they are drowning, because the performance is who they believe they are. How is this constant comparison and performance pressure showing up in children emotionally, especially in terms of anxiety, perfectionism, and self-doubt? It is showing up as a generation that has learned to perform and base their choices on the external validation of strangers rather than to feel. And the body always tells the truth, even when the child can’t. Nearly sixty percent of teen girls now report persistent sadness—the highest percentage ever recorded. Rates of self-harm, eating disorders, and suicidal ideation have surged. Girls as young as nine are describing body
What Is “Algorithmic Abduction”?
dysmorphia. These are the visible symptoms of a generation placed under constant surveillance, ranked by strangers, and taught that a photo with too few likes is evidence of their own inadequacy. The resulting anxiety is inevitable. When every post is a potential verdict on your worth, the nervous system stays in a near-constant state of alarm. And over time, perfectionism becomes the coping mechanism—if I just get it right enough, I will finally be safe. For boys, the manifestation is different, but the wound is the same. Their anxiety shows up as withdrawal, numbness, rage, or disappearing into screens for hours. We misread this as apathy or defiance, when in fact it is a boy whose nervous system has pulled the emergency brake. He is overloaded. He doesn’t have words for it. And the culture around him is not offering any. Why do so many girls today seem caught between high achievement and deep selfdoubt? And how do you support a daughter in a culture that still expects girls to be accommodating, capable, and emotionally responsible for everyone else? Because she has been given two impossible scripts and told to perform both at once. Be brilliant but be agreeable. Achieve everything, but don’t take up too much space. Be strong but not loud. Be confident, but make sure everyone is comfortable. These are contradictory expectations. And the girl caught between them cannot win, so she internalizes the failure as her own. What we have done, generation after generation, is train our daughters to silence their inner voice—to override it, dismiss it, apologize for it, or trade it for approval, safety, and belonging. The girl who keeps achieving but doubts herself has not failed to develop confidence. She has succeeded in a conditioning that taught her confidence is dangerous. Supporting a daughter in this culture requires one foundational shift: we must stop praising her compliance and start honoring her voice. When she disagrees with you, don’t redirect her back to politeness. Stay present. Let her speak. Ask what she feels. When she says no, don’t penalize her for it—recognize it as her first act of self-authorship. The more often she hears herself speaking, and the more often you receive what she says without trying to fix or diminish it, the more she learns that her inner world has value. That is the anchor. Without it, even the most ac-
In Dr. Shefali’s words: Algorithmic abduction is what happens when the most formative years of a child’s life, the years meant for discovering who they are, are hijacked by technology that is designed not to support their development, but to monetize their attention. Our children’s minds are being rewired to crave stimulation and validation instead of creativity or reflection. Distraction is always available and often chosen over stillness. The very qualities that once defined childhood, like boredom or curiosity, are being overridden and replaced with two-dimensional interaction and synthetic intimacy. For our girls, I call it the algorithmic abduction of girlhood. For our boys, it is
complished girl remains convinced that she is not enough. You’ve written about boys facing a growing crisis of disconnection. What are you seeing in your work, and why does emotional shutdown seem to increase as boys get older? Boys are starving for belonging, and for a language they were never given. And as they get older, the gap between what they feel and what they are permitted to express becomes so vast that shutdown becomes the only manageable option. Here is what happens neurologically. When stress hits a boy, his first response is alarm. It is survival. And if fighting or fleeing doesn’t feel possible, his nervous system does the next thing it knows: it freezes. He goes blank. “I don’t know.” From the outside, that looks like indifference or apathy. What it actually is, is a boy saying with no words at all, “I am overloaded and I don’t know how to let you in.” And then culture doubles down. From toddlerhood, boys are told to stop crying, to be tough, to shake it off. In fact, adults use fewer emotion words with boys than with girls and move them more quickly away from their big feelings. So a boy learns two things fast: vulnerability is unsafe, and the only emotions that are permitted are jokes or numbness. By adolescence, the armor is built. This is a crisis of boys who could not find a safe place to put their pain, because no one taught them that pain could be survivable. If you could change one thing about the way the next generation is being raised, what would you want to shift most? I would shift this: the belief that our
the algorithmic abduction of boyhood. The mechanism is the same: a slow, deliberate hijacking of their attention, imagination, and identity. What is particularly dangerous is how invisible this process is. A girl isn’t being forcibly kept from herself. She’s being lured, one scroll at a time, through a hall of mirrors that makes her feel seen while ensuring she never truly is. And for boys, the threat escalates even further: AI companions now enter the spaces where only parents once had access. AI companions are experts at mimicking attunement, never challenging, and always agreeing. The algorithmic abduction is a battle beyond attention and is now a fight for connection. —Dr. Shefali Tsabary
children are here to fulfill us. So much of what we call parenting is actually a project of the ego—an unconscious attempt to repair our own wounds through our children, to prove our worth through their achievements, to be seen as good parents so we can feel that we ourselves were worth something. We load them with our own unfinished business before they are old enough to put it down. When we parent from that place, we cannot truly see the child in front of us. We can only see what they represent to us. And a child who is not truly seen cannot develop a genuine sense of self. They become, instead, a carefully constructed performance for us, for the world, for the algorithm, and they lose access to the only thing that will carry them through real life: their own authentic center. What I would ask parents to do—beginning today, not when they feel ready—is turn inward. Look honestly at the unmet needs you are carrying into the room with your child. Ask yourself what wound you are trying to heal through their success. Notice when your anxiety is speaking instead of your wisdom. That work, unglamorous, slow, and often painful, is the most powerful thing any parent can do for their child. Conscious parenting is about showing up awake. Attuned. Emotionally available. And above all, real. When children experience parents who are genuinely present—not performing parenthood, but actually in the room, actually meeting them—they can finally stop performing, too. That is what I want for the next generation. Children who know who they are beneath all of it. September 2026 | Staten Island Parent
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PARENTING
What Every Parent Should Know About Childhood Grief Expert guidance for families as the school year begins BY EDIL CUEPO
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y mom died of stage 4 breast cancer when I was 13. I was the eldest daughter, with a younger brother and sister who came after me. My mom’s death was something the adults around me — including my dad — were seemingly afraid to touch or bring up. It’s as if saying something about her would somehow make me experience the loss more. But losing a parent isn’t something you forget while you’re in the middle of reading a book or playing with friends. It’s just like how one doesn’t forget where they live, or when their birthday is. It’s something you’re constantly aware of. If adults didn’t talk about it, my siblings and I didn’t either. From the time my mom died, we rarely talked about her at home. There were pictures of her around the house, and our dad took us to visit her grave every Sunday, without fail. But there were no stories being exchanged, no memories said out loud. Only silence. Kids learn from adults. If our dad didn’t know how to talk about my mom, we didn’t either. In school, I just wanted to be like all my friends. It’s not every day you meet another kid without a mom or dad. It’s not because kids like me don’t exist, but because people tiptoe around it or avoid it altogether. Two years before my mom died, a friend of mine in elementary school lost her mom to cancer, too. I remember going to the funeral. A year later, she moved to a different school. She was the only other person I knew who didn’t have a mom. We never talked about her loss, either. Today, I lead marketing at Comfort Zone Camp, the organization built to give other
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kids what my siblings and I didn’t have: a fun, safe place to bring our grief to, and a community of other kids like us. Founded in 1998, Comfort Zone Camp expanded to New York after 9/11 to support children who lost a parent in the Twin Towers, and has served grieving families here ever since. I wasn’t alone in the way I felt alone. According to the 2026 Child Bereavement Estimation Model (CBEM), 1 in 11 children in the U.S. will lose a parent or sibling before they turn 18 (Source: CBEM). In New York, that number is 1 in 13 — slightly lower than the national average, but it still means that in a classroom of 25 kids, roughly two are statistically carrying a loss like mine, often
without anyone around them knowing what to do about it. For parents of grieving kids, backto-school isn’t just backpacks and school supplies. Milestones like this are a reminder of time passing without their loved one. For a bereaved kid, it may mean bracing for the first day of school without their #1 supporter: a mom, a dad, or a sibling. It’s why now is a good time to talk about what grieving kids actually need, and how the adults around them can do better than the adults around me did. “Children grieve differently than adults,” says Lynne Hughes, founder and CEO of Comfort Zone Camp. “They don’t wear black and mourn 24/7. They often compartmen-
talize their grief and grieve in short bursts. Adults often miss it and dismiss it because it doesn’t mirror their own grief. It’s important to know this does not mean kids are not grieving.” That mismatch is part of why childhood grief so often goes unrecognized. A child who seems “fine” in September might struggle in ways that look nothing like sadness — trouble focusing, irritability, withdrawing from friends — and the adults around them may not connect it back to a loss that happened months or years earlier. For many adults, childhood grief doesn’t just resolve on its own. “Grief doesn’t wait for permission to be processed, so when it doesn’t get metabolized in childhood, it waits,” says Gina Moffa, a grief and trauma therapist. She sees it resurface at transition points: a client becomes a parent themselves, or their own child reaches the age they were when the loss happened. “It often looks less like sadness and more like a disproportionate reaction to something small,” Moffa says. “A snapped response to a partner forgetting to call. A wave of dread every October.” The stakes of leaving that grief unaddressed are measurable. According to the 2025 CBEM National Report, bereaved children are twice as likely to experience significant challenges at home, and 97% of teachers believe grief adversely impacts a student’s learning. The report also shows 1 in 4 youth who die by suicide were bereaved. The effects can also follow a child well into adulthood: bereaved youth are 175% more likely to develop a substance use disorder as adults. For a parent working through their own grief while raising a grieving child, Moffa says the goal isn’t to have all the answers. “What your child needs isn’t a parent with all the answers or perfect ways of grieving — it’s a parent willing to stay in the room while the hard feelings move through,” she says. “Naming your own experience honestly, even something as simple as ‘this is bringing up
“Children grieve differently than adults. They don’t wear black and mourn 24/7. They often compartmentalize their grief and grieve in short bursts. Adults often miss it and dismiss it because it doesn’t mirror their own grief. It’s important to know this does not mean kids are not grieving.” something for me too,’ models exactly what you want your child to learn.” Grieving kids often carry guilt that has nothing to do with reality. “A common response to grief is guilt—and it’s often an unrealistic guilt about a situation they couldn’t control,” says Hughes. “’If I knew CPR, I could have saved them,’ or ‘If I hadn’t been acting up that day, they wouldn’t have had a heart attack. That guilt often goes unspoken — which means it goes unaddressed, too, unless a parent knows to look for it. So what do grieving kids actually need from the adults raising them? Hughes points to a few essentials: Validate whatever they’re feeling. There’s no one way and no right way to grieve. Whatever they are thinking and feeling, let them know that it’s okay and normal to feel those feelings, and prepare them for the feelings to change over time. Help them make some sense of the loss. Kids will struggle with the why. Be honest in age-appropriate language. It’s okay to say, “I don’t know why this happened, but we are going to get through this. We are going to be okay.” Model healthy coping skills and self-care. Kids are going to take their cues from their parents on how—and how not—to grieve. If you never talk about your loved one, neither will they. Talk about your loved one by referencing them in conversation: “Your dad loved this song.” It’s okay to show the emotions of grief and then share what you do to feel better: “I get sad, then I cry, and I feel better.” “I get angry, then I journal or go for a walk, and then I feel better.” Then ask them: what do
According to the 2025 CBEM National Report, bereaved children are twice as likely to experience significant challenges at home, and 97% of teachers believe grief adversely impacts a student’s learning.
they do when they’re sad? Some of this applies specifically to parents and guardians. But the first two — validating a child’s feelings, and not needing to have the answer to why — apply to any adult in a grieving child’s life. Teachers, coaches, grandparents, and family friends worry they’ll say the wrong thing or upset a child, but avoiding their loss only leaves a child feeling more isolated and alone. Saying their loved one’s name out loud, or simply not changing the subject when their person comes up, can matter as much coming from a teacher or a coach as it does from a parent. These days, as a mom of two, I think about my childhood a lot. I wonder how different it would have been if my siblings and I were able to express how we actually felt about our loss and missing our mom on milestones like the start of a new school year. The truth is, we didn’t even have the words to express it with each other. As a 13-year-old, I understood I couldn’t get my mom back. But I wish everyone around me didn’t have to feel so uncomfortable with my loss. I wish I had the permission (and encouragement) to express how much I missed her and remember her throughout my childhood, just like any other kid talked about their mom. I wish they had asked me more about her. A grieving child doesn’t need us to have the right words. But they need us to make room for theirs. If we can offer that space and the willingness to sit with our own discomfort, then no child has to feel as alone in their grief as I once did. If you’re worried about a child’s safety or your own, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 by call or text. Edil Cuepo is the Chief Marketing Officer at Comfort Zone Camp, the first-ever nonprofit bereavement camp for kids in the US. She lost her mother to breast cancer at 13, and now reminds every woman to know her breast density and check for lumps regularly. Edil lives in Rockaway Beach, New York, with her husband and two kids. September 2026 | Staten Island Parent
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FAMILY FUN
APPLE PICKING Orchards Near NYC BY ALEXA LUTTER AND KAITLYN RIGGIO
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s summer winds down, apple-picking season is just around the corner! With the school year on the horizon, weekends are the perfect time to escape the city and enjoy a day at a local orchard. From crisp apples ready for the basket to fresh cider, pies, and plenty of kid-friendly attractions, including hayrides, playgrounds, and farm stands, these orchards offer more than just picking. They’re a chance to turn a simple outing into a full day of family fun.
Just 1–1.5 Hours Away! Dr. Davies Farm 306 NY-304, Congers, NY (845) 268-7020 1 hr 10 min from Midtown Warm apple pie days are here! Visit Dr. Davies Farm starting at the beginning of September. Check the website for exact dates; reservations are not required. to pick apples for all your delicious fall desserts. You will be able to pick from 5,000 trees, with 27 different varieties of apples, spanning over 65 acres. Bring the whole family (even the dog!) for a great outing that everyone will enjoy during the fall season. Keep in mind that the farm is cash-only, so come prepared if you plan to buy anything from the farmstand while you’re there. It is open daily from 9 am to 6 pm. Single admission is $20 per person, which includes access to the orchard and one Half peck bag (7-10lbs.) If five in your party, you can buy a group admission, $72, one-half bushel bag (25-30lbs). Children under the age of 3 are free with adult admission.
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1 Hour and Under Demarest Farms 244 Wiermus Road, Hillsdale, NJ (201) 666-0472 40 min from Midtown PYO Apples will return on August 29th. The apple orchard is open from September to October, Weekends and Holidays from 8 am to 5 pm. Hayrides run on weekends and holidays from 8 am to 4:30 pm. Fun fact: Even after the apple season, check the website for events such as Demarest Farms Halloween Family Light Show, Orchard of Lights, and Winter Lights Petting Zoo. Some of their tasty apples include Cameo, Cortland, Empire, Fuji, Gala, Golden Delicious, Honeycrisp, McIntosh, Mutsu (Crispin), Red Delicious, Snap Dragon, and Zestar. $8.62 ticket per person (ages 2 and over), which includes free parking, entrance to the apple orchard, and playground. Pick your own bag for a group is $21.55. Demarest Farms is still using a reservation system for apple picking this year, so be sure to make a reservation in their system ahead of time. Hillview Farms 223 Meyersville Road, Gillette, NJ (908) 647-0957 50 min from Midtown Make the trip to Hillview Farms to pick seasonal apples! Apple picking starts in September and lasts until October. Open 9 am to 6 pm daily! You can’t go wrong with the classic red apple, but make sure to take home a few other delicious options, such as Cortland, Empire, Fuji, Granny Smith, Golden Delicious, Jonagold, Jonathan,
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Riamede Farm 122 Oakdale Road, Chester, NJ (908) 879-7762 1 hr 20 min from Midtown With 40 types of apples, Riamede Farm has opened its apple picking! Get a taste of their ripening apples, or check out their other varieties as they begin to ripen over the course of the fall season. Farm Passes are required for entry and should be purchased prior to arrival. Be sure to check their online calendar for specific openings! Harvest Moon Farm & Orchard 130 Hardscrabble Road, North Salem, NY (914) 485-1210 1 hr 20 min from Midtown Be part of the excitement at Harvest Moon, the biggest time of the year. This familyowned and operated apple orchard is welcoming its main harvest with a variety of delicious apples. Bring the family to visit the orchards for apple picking and their farm store, which has farm-raised meats and dairy products.
The store is open 9 am to 5 pm, daily. Stuart’s Fruit Farm 62 Granite Springs Road, Granite Springs, NY (914) 245-2784 1 hr 20 min from Midtown Stuart’s Fruit Farm has been a proud familyoperated farm since 1828. Starting Sep. 6, from 10 am-5pm, bring your family along for the start of the apple-picking season, with an array of apples to choose from! There are over 20 varieties of apples to choose from, spread across the months of September and October. Alstede Farms 1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester, NJ (908) 879-7189 1 hr 20 min from Midtown Alstede Farms invites your family to pick their crisp, seasonal apples for the fall season. Kids will be thrilled to see and learn how food grows as they pick their own for a healthy snack. Bring home this delicious fruit for making traditional homemade apple pie, cider, and delightful pastries. Choose from over 50 different varieties. Check the website “What Can I Pick Today” for updates. Don’t forget to check out the other fun activities offered on the farm, such as the tractor-drawn wagon ride, seeing the sunflower field, and more! Tickets must be purchased online in advance, utilizing time slots. Apple Ridge Orchards 101 Jessup Road, Warwick, NY (845) 987-7717
Over an Hour and a Half Apple Dave’s Orchard 82 Four Corners Road, Warwick, NY (845) 772-1242 1 hr 40 min from Midtown Apple picking season at Apple Dave’s Orchards begins August 29th. Take home a variety of apples like McIntosh, Cortland, Honeycrisp, Gala, Empire, Jonagold, Rome Beauty, Red Delicious, Macoun, Fuji, and Golden Delicious apples. You can also visit their farm store, which sells fresh-pressed apple cider, apple donuts, pies, flowers, and seasonal items. Admission is $5 per person on weekends – free on non-holiday weekdays.
1 hr 30 min from Midtown Kick off the fall season by visiting the most scenic and rustic pick-your-own farm. Just 60 miles from New York City, you can pick from a variety of 20 different apples throughout the Hudson and Warwick Valley starting Aug. 30th. Have a fun and educational experience as you spend time at the orchards apple picking. They even have smaller trees that little ones can reach! Open to the public from 9 am to 5 pm on Saturday and Sunday. No reservations required! Lawrence Farms Orchards 306 Frozen Ridge Road, Newburgh, NY (845) 562-4268 1 hr 30 min from Midtown Take a drive to Lawrence Farms Orchards and make it a family day out! Enjoy the beautiful scenery of the farm and have a blast picking a variety of apples. By the end of August, Gala and Ozark Gold will be available. Check this chart to see what apples are available each month through October. Open 9 am to 4 pm, daily. Admission is $6 per person Monday through Thursday and $9 per person on weekends and holidays. Children under 2 years old are free. Season passes available. Barton Orchards 63 Apple Tree Lane, Poughquag, NY (845) 227-2306 1 hr 30 min from Midtown Switch up your typical weekend plans and take a family car ride to Barton Orchards.
These apples are known for being the best in the area, and there are over 120 acres of apple trees to pick from. Check the times for apple picking on their online calendar. As we move through the fall season, a variety of different apples will be available for picking, such as Early Golds in August, Jonamac apples in September, and Ida Reds in October. Masker Orchards 45 Ball Road, Warwick, NY (845) 986-1058 1 hr 30 min from Midtown Masker Orchards is a go-to for familyfriendly apple picking in the Hudson Valley region (you can even bring the dog). Apple picking kicks off Saturday, September 5th! With 14 varieties of apples ripening throughout the season at Masker Orchards, you’re sure to find all of your family’s favorites. To help make sure of this, they put together an approximate ripening guide! Fishkill Farms 9 Fishkill Farm Road, Hopewell Junction, NY (845) 897-4377 1 hr 30 min from Midtown Fishkill Farms has been part of the Morgenthau family for over 100 years and invites your family for the apple picking season. This 270-acre apple orchard offers a variety of fruits and vegetables throughout the year that you can pick. Be sure to check online for upcoming times to make your family’s reservation!
Harbes Family Farm 5698 Sound Ave, Riverhead, NY (631) 683-8388 2 hrs from Midtown Harbes Orchard opens on August 29th. The star attraction at the 78-acre Harbes Family Farm is the breathtakingly beautiful apple orchard. Featuring 27 different varieties, the orchard uses an innovative trellis system to grow apples that are within reach of even the smallest of hands. Admission prices vary based on dates and packages. Be sure to check the website for a complete breakdown. Enjoy tons of family-friendly attractions, such as hayrides, corn mazes, and delicious treats! Bishop’s Orchards 1355 Boston Post Road, Guilford, CT (203) 453-2338 2 hrs from Midtown Bishop’s Orchards takes pride in growing the highest quality fruits to enjoy year after year from their family to yours. They grow over 20 varieties of apples that suit all your needs for cooking, gifts, or a quick snack on the go. Apples are readily available from late August to late October. On site, they grow over 20 kinds of apples. Hank’s PumpkinTown 240 Montauk Hwy, Water Mill, NY (631) 726-4667 2 hrs from Midtown Hank’s PumpkinTown in Water Mill, NY, is well-known to families for its amazing apple picking and over 30 acres of fall family fun! It costs $35 to pick one peck (about 10 pounds of apples). After you’ve had your fill of apple picking, wander over to the wooden playground, maze park, face painting, and gem mining. The Market has yummy, freshly baked pies, cookies, cupcakes, candy apples, and ever-popular cider donuts. September 2026 | Staten Island Parent
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calendar THINGS TO DO IN SEPTEMBER
Boogie Woogie Wednesday: DJ Got Me Fit Wednesday, September 2, 3:15 pm – 4 pm Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terr. All ages Free with admission Join in some super fun fitness! Local favorite DJ Got Me Fit will lead children in silly games and dances inspired by the latest pop music.
Fungi Hike Thursday & Friday, Sept. 3 – 4, 10 am – noon High Rock Park, 200 Nevada Ave. All ages Free September is National Mushroom Month, and the Greenbelt is a fantastic place to take a leisurelypaced hike in search of mushrooms and other fungi. From amanita and boletes to slime molds and turkey tail, you could potentially spot a wide variety of fungi. Bounce House Day Friday, September 4, 11 am – 4 pm Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terr. All ages Free with admission Get ready to unleash your inner acrobat as you conquer the ultimate bounce house. Jump, climb, and slide your way through a thrilling experience! National Wildlife Weekend Part 1: Raptors of Staten Island Saturday, September 5, 11 am – 12:30 pm Wolfe’s Pond Park, 240 Cornelia Ave. All ages Free Take a guided nature walk with
The 46th Annual Richmond County Fair at Historic Richmond Town the Urban Park Rangers and explore the remarkable raptors that call Staten Island home. Learn how hawks, owls, and other birds of prey shape the health and balance of our park ecosystems while searching for signs of their presence along the trail. The 46th Annual Richmond County Fair Saturday, Sept. 5 to Monday. Sept. 7, noon – 8 pm Historic Richmond Town, 441 Clarke Ave. All ages $7-$15 The Richmond County Fair is turning 46, and they’re kicking off the celebration with three full days of food, fun, and everything that makes Staten Island shine. Every year, over 15,000 people gather on the 35-acre museum village to enjoy carnival rides, live
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music, local food, shopping, and the sights and sounds of Staten Island’s biggest summer tradition. National Wildlife Weekend Part 2: Returning Wildlife of Staten Island Sunday, September 6, 11 am – 12:30 pm Blue Heron Nature Center, 222 Poillon Ave. All ages Free Learn how foxes, coyotes, river otters, chipmunks, and other species are making a comeback across the borough’s forests and wetlands. Rangers will share insights into why these animals are returning, how they shape local ecosystems, and where signs of their presence can be found. Tot Time Tuesdays Tuesdays, 10 – 11:30 am
Clay Pit Ponds State Park Preserve, 2351 Veterans Rd. West Ages 0-5 Free Each week explore a new nature topic during this toddler program through crafts and activities. A story time begins at 10:30am, followed by a short 15 minute guided hike at 11am. America250: 1776 Peace Conference Celebration & Reenactment Saturday, September 12, 11 am – 3 pm Conference House, 7455 Hylan Blvd. All ages Adults $10; Kids $5; Children under 5 free As part of the Conference House’s America250 series, this signature event commemorates the nation’s 250th anniversary at the very site where history unfolded. Enjoy a
SEPTEMBER full day of history, tradition, and family fun, including outdoor museum displays, 18th-century crafts and trade demonstrations, colonial music, children’s activities and much more. Cottage Row Curiosities Saturday, September 12, noon – 5 pm Snug Harbor Cultural Center, 1000 Richmond Terr. All ages Free Shop the Row at Cottage Row Curiosities, a community artisan market at Snug Harbor featuring over 40 vendors from the Staten Island community, as well as food and drink options from onsite partners Egger’s Original Ice Cream Parlor and Harbor Eats. Enjoy live pop-up music performances and free activities! Rain date is the following day. 7th Annual La Colmena’s Annual Mexican Independence Day Parade Sunday, September 13, noon – 2 pm La Colmena, 774 Port Richmond Ave (parade start) to Veterans Park, Park Ave & Bennett St (parade end) All ages Free Experience an unforgettable day featuring spectacular performances by local groups showcasing traditional Mexican Folklórico dance, live music, colorful cultural displays and festive entertainment. The Westerleigh Folk Festival Saturday, September 19, 11 am – 7 pm Westerleigh Park, Neal Dow and Maine Avenues All ages Free The Westerleigh Folk Festival returns for the 19th year. WestFest is an all-day music and arts festival that features live music, vendors, children’s activities, and more! Discover new artists, enjoy captivating performances, and shop the vendors’ incredible selection of handcrafted goods. Rain Date: October 3rd, 2026.
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beloved 1992 animated film Aladdin as part of the 2026 “Better on the Big Screen.” Don’t miss the sing-along and costume parade with Tinny Kenny Jones and meet & greet with Princess Jasmine in the Lobby! 76th Annual Fence Show Saturday, September 26, noon – 5 pm Staten Island Museum, 1000 Richmond Terr. All ages Free Each year, the Fence Show transforms the Museum’s front lawn into an outdoor gallery featuring local artists and craftspeople. See and purchase paintings, ceramics, prints, jewelry and textiles and take something original home from this longstanding festival.
La Colmena’s Annual Mexican Independence Day Parade NYC Emergency Management Family Preparedness Fair Saturday, September 19, 11 am – 3 pm Staten Island Children’s Museum, 1000 Richmond Terr. All ages Free (register in advance) Be an Emergency Super Hero! The NYC Emergency Management is hosting a day to assist families in planning for rare but devastating events. Special guest Ready Girl will make an appearance and lead a dramatic activity for kids. Other activities will include: bounce house, balloon artist, face painting and superhero cape coloring. Explore the exhibits, make crafts, and gather helpful supplies and information. Autumn Moon Festival Saturday, September 19, 2 pm – 5 pm Snug Harbor Cultural Center, 1000 Richmond Terr. All ages Advance online sale: $12. In-person $15 Student/Senior: Advance online sale: $10. In-person $12 Children 5 and under: Free When the moon is full,
mankind is one! The Autumn Moon Festival is one of the most important holidays in the Chinese calendar. Come together to be transported away with legends and traditional experiences, including performances and demonstrations, and crafts for all ages. Sea Shanty Sessions Sunday, September 20, 2 pm – 4 pm The Noble Maritime Collection, 1000 Richmond Terrace All ages Free Led by the Folk Music Society of New York, this program offers a great opportunity to experience authentic, timehonored maritime songs in an appropriately historic setting. The sessions are free and family friendly, and you are encouraged to sing along if the mood strikes you! Aladdin Movie Screening and Sing-Along Friday, September 25, 6 pm St. George Theatre, 35 Hyatt St. All ages $20 Join a movie screening of the
Staten Island Water Lantern Festival Saturday, September 26, 4 pm – 8 pm Wolfe’s Pond Park, 240 Cornelia Ave All ages Tickets starting at $24.99 The Staten Island Water Lantern Festival is bringing people together for a celebration of light and community! This unforgettable evening will be filled with tasty food trucks, fun music, activities, and thousands of lanterns lighting up the night with love, hope, and happiness. Hispanic Heritage Month: Monarch Migration Monday, September 27, 11 am – 12:30 pm Brookfield Park, Arthur Kill Road and Brookfield Avenue All ages Free Celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month with NYC Parks! The Urban Park Rangers lead the way to interpret the journey of the monarch butterfly. This species has a very significant connection to Hispanic culture and heritage. Its annual journey through Canada and the United States to Mexico spans amost 3,000 miles.
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MOM STORIES
Moms Who Say Nope Why motheres don’t need permission to protect their peace — or explain it BY DONNA DUARTE-LADD
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s the school-year energy builds and calendars start to fill up, the invisible weight of everyone else’s needs, sign-ups, snacks, feelings—may already be inching back onto your shoulders. I think about that weight often. I’ve been carrying it for a while, probably since I became a mom. But especially after my youngest was diagnosed as autistic, and I realized something had to give. Or I was going to lose something. And that something... was me (!!!). So I did what I had to do: I got unapologetically protective of my time. Merciless, even. I started speaking up— taking a firmer stance on how I spend my day-to-day. Not in a telenovela way (a Mexican soap opera where every word is súper dramática), but in a way that gave me some breathing room. Some grace. And it’s not a checklist. It’s not a hack (though I do love a good hack). It’s this: You’re allowed to say no. I don’t mean saying no to your kids; that’s a different conversation for another day. I mean the things you don’t want to say yes to, but feel like you should. The stuff that pulls at your sense of responsibility, loyalty, or just being a ‘good’ person. Not because you’re overwhelmed (though you probably are). Not because your calendar is already full (also, yes). But because “no” isn’t selfish. It’s a boundary. A pause. A decision.
Why Saying No Feels So Wrong (and Isn’t) For many of us, saying no goes deep. And I get it. I have friends who don’t flinch when setting boundaries, and I watch them like: teach me your ways. But for some of us, there are reasons, emotional, cultural, generational, why that word catches in our throat. Elise Loehnen, author of On Our Best
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Behavior, puts it beautifully. She writes not just about saying no, but about why we struggle to defend our time and our needs in the first place: “We struggle to move forward because we spend too much time defending our ‘goodness,’ stuck in the binary that if you’re not impeccable in your behavior, across the arc of time, then you must be bad.”Oof. We are taught, especially as women, to make others comfortable. Be palatable. Pleasant. Easy. But maybe comfort isn’t the goal. Maybe clarity is. Research backs it up. A study in the Journal of Consumer Research found that people who said “I don’t…” instead of “I can’t…” held stronger boundaries, because it framed the decision as a choice, not an excuse. And that’s what this is: a choice. A shift. A reclaiming. Look to the Young (and the Really Young—aka Our Kids) I think about the young generation here. They sometimes get a bad rap. I’ve been trying to borrow a little from them, and even the really Gen Alpha lately. They’re not afraid to say no. They’re not twisting themselves, their words,
or actions to make us comfortable. If something is outside their comfort zone, it just… is. Sure, sometimes their delivery misses the mark (and if you’re parenting a Gen Alpha kid, you may be getting more eye rolls than full sentences). But, the message is clear: they know how to prioritize themselves. And moms? We could use some of that. That doesn’t mean we toss “no” around carelessly or use it as a shield. Just like “yes,” a “no” is powerful. It deserves to be used with purpose. I’m not saying no to the nonnegotiables. I still show up for my kids. I care for my ailing mom. My friends, when I can genuinely make time for. Obviously, I’m there for the people I love. But I’ve started looking for the edges, the moments I can protect. The invitations I don’t need to accept. The obligations that drain me more than they serve me. As Brené Brown said (because she always gets it right): “Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind.” Saying no shouldn’t come with stress or drama, yours or anyone else’s. It should come with what you’re asking for in the first place: a little room to breathe.
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