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En AECI Middle School, los estudiantes aprenden haciendo — con proyectos que despiertan su curiosidad y ganas de crear.
Con cursos en STEM, arquitectura e ingeniería, AECI inspira a tu hijo(a) a soñar en grande y construir su camino con confianza!
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Soaking Up the Last of Summer
New York Families,
As the last weeks of summer slip by, we’re squeezing in every last bit of sunshine, splash time, and sweet treats before the school year begins. Throughout the month of August, we’re exploring rooftop pools at hotels across the city to dive into for a quick and refreshing staycation (page 22), checking out all the fun family activities and events in the area (page 28), and soaking up every fun-filled second of a New York City summer.
In this issue, we share expert advice about giving birth the right way (page 24) and parenting through trauma (page 8). We’re also looking ahead to the new school year with a look at an exciting new educational program being introduced in NYC schools—one we all wish we had growing up (page 30). And
if you're feeling that familiar back-to-school shift, we’ve got helpful resources and important tips to ease the transition into the new school year!
And last but certainly not least, we caught up with daytime television queen Tamron Hall and her 6-year-old son, Moses, in Harlem, where she gives us an inside look at her New York Times Bestseller, Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid , shares what it’s like to raise a strong-willed, curious child in the city, and why community and connection are at the heart of everything she does (page 26).
Here’s to soaking up every last drop of summer—swimsuit on and ice cream cone in hand. Enjoy!
Tara
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The TraU ma App
How trauma can override our better parenting instincts
By Dr. roByn Koslowitz
It’s a familiar scenario. You wake up thinking: Today, I’m going to parent differently. Today, Bluey’s parents will have nothing on me. And then, the battle over the shoes begins. Your toddler doesn’t believe they serve a useful function, so he keeps taking them off. The middle-schooler is angry — she’s not sure what she’s angry about, but she’s sure it’s your fault. The teenager says he hates you. The toast burns, the milk spills, and you’re all running late. And then…we know what happens. When we wake up expecting to do X, but Y happens, we feel a sense of shame. It feels like it’s our willpower, our laziness, or some essential flaw within us. But what if it’s not you? What if it’s actually your trauma? What if it’s not about who you are, but what you’ve learned? Many of us begin each day with the best intentions—to be patient, responsive, and present with our children. But for trauma survivors, those intentions are
often overridden by something stronger than willpower.
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) doesn’t always show up as nightmares or flashbacks. Sometimes, it looks like snapping at your child, feeling numb during bedtime stories, or spiraling into guilt after a day of parenting in ways you never meant to. These aren’t signs of being a “bad parent.” They’re signs of a protective mechanism—one that was once lifesaving but now overrides your values.
The Brain’s Survival Coding
Trauma reshapes the nervous system. When something overwhelming happens—especially in childhood—the brain installs a survival protocol. I call it the “trauma app.” Like an app on your phone, it has a specific function: to detect threats and respond instantly.
The trauma app doesn’t ask whether the threat is real, current, or even dangerous. It just sees patterns. Raised voice? Withdraw. Eye roll? Attack. A child ignoring you? Flood
with shame or rage. These responses aren’t conscious. The trauma app overrides your thoughtful, intentional self in the name of survival.
How It Shows Up in Parenting
The trauma app is installed at the point of trauma, and its algorithm is set to protection mode by responding with Y when it experiences X. This means you may find yourself parenting with reflexes rather than reflection:
• If my child backtalks, I react immediately, because the trauma app warns me that defiance means I’m unsafe or powerless.
• If they cry, I rush to fix it—because the trauma app remembers how unbearable it felt when no one comforted me.
• If they seem ungrateful, I spiral—because the trauma app equates their ingratitude with proof that I’m not enough.
• If things feel out of control, I either get too harsh or completely give in—because the trauma app tells me that control equals safety.
• If they need connection when I feel overwhelmed, I shut down—because the trauma app learned long ago that emotional closeness in chaos isn’t safe.
These reflexes aren’t parenting strategies—they’re trauma responses. They override your current reality with outdated
scripts. And because they’re so fast and automatic, they often feel like truth.
The Trauma App Is Fast. Your Values Are Slow
The trauma app runs on instinct, not intention. It’s fast, rigid, and based on past experiences. On the other hand, your values—your belief in connection, in gentle correction, in letting kids feel big feelings— are slow. They require reflection, presence, and calm. But when the trauma app activates, it overrides those values. It doesn’t wait for your higher self to weigh in. It just acts.
That’s why you may yell when you meant to coach, shut down when you meant to engage, or overcompensate when you meant to hold a boundary. The app has taken over— and it’s working off a threat assessment that’s no longer accurate.
Trauma Doesn’t Know Time
One of the trauma app’s quirks is that it can’t tell time. It doesn’t know that the threat is over. It doesn’t realize you’re now the adult, safe in your own home, with a child, not an aggressor, in front of you.
That’s why your child’s eye roll might trigger a flood of shame. Your brain isn’t responding to your child—it’s responding to a teacher who mocked you, a parent who dismissed you, or a time when eye rolls meant emotional danger. To the trauma app, it feels like history is repeating itself. So it reacts with urgency, even when none is needed.
Discomfort ≠ Danger
The trauma app also confuses discomfort with danger. Whining, defiance, anger—these are uncomfortable. But they’re not threats. Still, the trauma app can’t tell the difference. It reacts as if your child is unsafe, or as if you are. That’s why you may find yourself overexplaining, people-pleasing, snapping, or withdrawing. Your brain is trying to regulate a sense of threat that isn’t actually present.
These moments aren’t failures. They’re notifications from the trauma app, trying to protect you from a threat it doesn’t realize isn’t happening anymore.
Reclaiming the Controls
The goal isn’t to delete the trauma app—it once kept you alive. The goal is to notice
when it’s running and gently take back the controls. To pause, breathe, and ask: Is this about now, or is this about then?
You don’t have to parent perfectly. You just have to parent consciously. The more often you can recognize the override and reorient toward your values, the less frequently the trauma app will run the show.
And when it does? Repair is always possible. Parenting isn’t about perfection— it’s about presence.
Robyn Koslowitz, PhD, has been a licensed child psychologist since 2017 and now houses her practice at The Center for Psychological Growth of New Jersey, focusing on trauma-informed psychotherapy for children, adolescents, and families. She is the educational director of the Targeted Parenting Institute and the host of the popular Post-Traumatic Parenting podcast and YouTube channel. Her work is regularly published in Psychology Today, and she has appeared on Fox, NPR, CNN, NewsNation, and other national television outlets. Her new book, Post Traumatic Parenting, is now on sale. She lives in New Jersey, where she practices post-traumatic parenting with her own children and family.
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New Year, New Gear!
Head back to school with these picks for all ages
By Shara Levine
As summer begins to wind down, back-to-school season revs up with store shelves lined with everything from backpacks to pencil cases. It can be overwhelming to wade through all the choices, especially when you factor in budget and what your child wants vs. what your child actually needs. We’ve rounded up our favorite supplies and gear, spotlighting what we love for the new school year.
Backpacks are not a one-size-fits-all purchase. Preschoolers have significantly less to carry than high schoolers, so here are three bags we love to get you through every stage.
The Skip Hop Little Kid Backpacks (1) have always been a favorite and the perfect “first backpack.” Besides being just the right size to bring home the day’s coloring sheets, these adorable designs offer a variety of choices for your little one to choose from, including Sesame Street characters and a slew of members of the animal kingdom (real and imaginary). $25. skiphop.com
As your kids get bigger, so will their backpacks and their opinions. We love this Nike Big Kids Elemental Backpack (2 because not only does it look cool, but it’s got a large interior pocket big enough to hold a laptop and notebooks, plus it has an expandable side pocket perfect for a water bottle and a fun pencil case that clips to the side of the bag in a bold contrasting color. There is also a smaller front pocket perfect for storing items your kid may want quick access to. $39. macys.com
And then they grew some more. The Herschel Classic XL Backpack (3) is ready for the big time. This bag has an inner sleeve for a laptop, padded straps, and is large enough to hold essentials like a binder, notebooks, and more. It also has a side pocket for a water bottle and a front
zipper pocket for smaller go-to items. Plus, it comes in various cool colors and two limited edition LEGO prints! $65-$75. herschel.com
A composition notebook (4) is a classic school supply essential. Though we are all familiar with the black and white marble design, Five Below has brought us a new take with bold colorblock and fun checker pattern designs. $3. fivebelow.com
Function and style come together with the Art 101 Charm Pencil Pouch (5). This fun design comes in a variety of colors and has the option to customize with the purchase of Charm 5-Packs in various Art 101 Charm Pencil Pouch, $9; $8 Charm 5-Pack. walmart.com
No matter how old your child is, everything, and I mean everything, needs to be labeled if you ever have hopes of seeing that lost sweatshirt again. For this, I rely on Mabel’s Labels (6) They have been my label of choice for years, and I always customize them with our last name and my phone number. That way, they can be used for
multiple children, and if someone finds a lost item, hopefully they’ll call to return it. I’ve gotten many random calls from people who have found our lost items. I put them on everything from notebooks to clothes to lunch bags. Your kids can help choose the colors, fonts, and designs. Labels start at $21.50 for 80. mabelslabels.com
You’re not supposed to play with your lunch, but no one said anything about not playing with your lunch bag! The Arctic Zone Pop-it Kids Lunch Bag (7) has a built-in pop-it handle for a little extra pop of fun. Older kids will like the sleek Chrome Lunch Box with more room for extra fuel throughout the day. Both come with a food storage container and reusable ice pack in an exclusive bundle. Pop-it Kids Lunch Bag, $22; Chrome Lunch Box, $22. arcticzone.com
Is your student ready for their first laptop? Light, portable, with an exceptional battery life, we like the Lenovo IdeaPad Slim 3 Chromebook (8). This budget-friendly PC is ideal for homework, web browsing, basic apps, and catching up with your favorite YouTubers. Starting at $260. lenovo.com
NYC School Admissions
Breaking down the process at both public & private schools
By Mia Sala S
Choosing a school for your little one is no easy task. Between open houses, online research, and more, it can be stressful (and exhausting!) to find the right fit. That’s why we’re here to help with an overview of what you can expect from the private and public school admission process in NYC.
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Individualized attention: Unlike public schools, which are funded by the government, private schools have the flexibility to create their own educational guidelines. This allows them to tailor their teaching methods to better suit individual students. They can adjust the pace of instruction, taking time to focus on each student’s unique needs. Additionally, private schools typically have smaller class sizes. With fewer students in each classroom, teachers can more easily recognize each student’s learning pace and ensure that everyone has the support they need to succeed.
Emphasis on Leadership: Private schools provide students with opportunities to take on responsibilities. Through various assignments, such as leading groups, serving as club presidents, or presenting projects, students can develop their leadership skills on a daily basis. Private schools encourage accountability, which is an important value we all want to instill in our children.
Outstanding resources: Thanks to the robust alumni networks that many private schools in NYC maintain, your children will have access to excellent opportunities and resources. This includes funded travel and trips, extended language programs, tutoring, college counseling, advising programs, and summer internships. Your kids will receive the support they need to succeess.
What should i consider when applying to a private school?
Do the advantages of private school education, mentioned earlier, resonate with
your family? When researching schools, take into account the school culture and environment, academic programs, extracurricular activities, and the school’s mission. The mission statement can reveal much about the school’s values and help you determine whether they align with your own. While the prestige of some schools may be tempting, it’s important to look beyond that and focus on what will be the best fit for your child.
When should i apply?
Typically, the official application process kicks off in September, although it doesn’t hurt to start looking around during the summer.
how long are the applications?
We won’t sugarcoat it—you should set aside some time. You will need to complete an online application, and you will likely participate in a parent interview and a tour or open house.
is there financial aid?
Many, if not most, private schools in
NYC offer financial aid programs, but this can vary by school. If financial assistance is important to you, be sure to explore this information on the school’s website before applying. Some schools may also provide scholarships or other funding resources to help families cover tuition costs.
What are private schools looking for?
There isn’t one specific quality that schools look for in your family, so just be yourself! Show the schools who you are and what your family represents. Remember, this process is about YOU finding the right fit for your child, not about private schools selecting you. Be sure to ask any questions you have and be honest about what you’re seeking.
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Diverse learning: NYC public schools offer a diverse range of academic subjects for your kids to dive into, including arts, computer science, health education, literacy, math, physical education, science, social studies, and STEM. You can expect a very well-rounded education for your kids where they’ll get to figure out exactly what they enjoy doing.
Testing: Testing is essential in the NYC public school system to monitor student progress and determine eligibility for programs. In elementary school (grades K-5), students take various New York State and local tests. In middle school (grades 6-8), they continue these assessments with additional tests reflecting their advancing skills. High school tests serve a similar purpose while also facilitating opportunities for college credits and admissions. Accommodations are available for students with disabilities.
After school: After-school programs play a crucial role for working parents. NYC public schools offer over 900 after-school programs throughout the city. Most of these programs are free, allowing your children to explore their interests and discover new activities.
Clear expectations by grade: New York City public schools have a well-organized system that outlines specific goals and expectations for students at each grade level. For instance, in first grade, your child will learn how to subtract numbers up to 20,
describe shapes, tell time, understand place values and whole numbers, recognize the properties of liquids, solids, and gases, and explore music and rhythm, among other topics. As a parent, you will have a clear understanding of what to expect for each grade your child enters.
Do I have to apply to a public school?
All NYC children are guaranteed a seat in NYC public schools; however, you still need to apply because there are various programs available. Schools are categorized as district or zoned, based on your residential location. Additionally, there are non-zoned, boroughwide, and citywide programs that are open to a larger number of students.
How do I apply?
You can apply online through MySchools. You will be able to select up to 12 programs that your child is interested in attending. Including more options increases your chances of receiving an offer from any of your preferred programs. Remember, the order you rank the programs is important, so be
sure to arrange them accordingly!
What factors go into my application?
In addition to your child’s rankings, the available seats and demand at each school are considered when determining the school offer for your child. Other factors, such as priority batches, are also important; these include students and residents of the district, as well as applicants who qualify for free and reduced lunch.
Who can I reach out to for help or advice?
If your child is already enrolled in a public school, you can reach out to your school counselor for help or advice regarding your options. Additionally, MySchools allows you to easily explore various options and programs. You may also contact a Family Welcome Center for further assistance.
Navigating NYC school admissions can be challenging, but with the right information and thoughtful research, you can find the best fit for your child and family.
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Cardinal Spellman High School stands out as a leading co-educational, college-preparatory Catholic institution rooted in a mission to inspire a culture of aspiration, academic excellence, leadership, and service. With a 100% graduation and college acceptance rate, it offers 20+ AP and college credit courses. From 2021 to 2025, students earned over $312 million in college scholarships. The 13-acre campus is home to 30 sports teams and 50+ clubs, ensuring a well-rounded student experience.
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George Jackson Academy is NYC’s only independent middle school for bright boys from all incomes, with 100% of families receiving financial aid. GJA offers a rigorous curriculum, engaging instruction, and unique classes like fencing and Muay Thai. High School Placement begins in seventh grade with test and interview preparation, essay writing, and an exploration of schools. Visit gjacademy.org/events
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The Gillen Brewer School expands possibilities for students from pre-K to 8th grade with a wide range of language-based learning disabilities. Gillen Brewer’s integrated, academic-therapeutic approach and strong family partnerships help students make meaningful strides forward, becoming learners who are proud of their progress, prepared to engage with the world, and excited to explore.
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Mott Hall Charter School serves grades serves middleschoolers, ages 6–8 in the Morrisania neighborhood of the South Bronx. Guided by the motto “RISE to the Challenge,” students build Responsibility, Integrity, Scholarship, and Excellence. Mott Hall nurtures academic success, character, and wellbeing using a whole child
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St. Raymond Elementary School offers full-day academic programs for UPK-3 through Grade 8 in a safe, nurturing, and academically motivating environment. Their offerings include Catholic faith formation, honors, and remediation programs, computer and science labs, libraries, sports, a fitness center, an after-school program, and extracurricular activities. Tuition is affordable, and limited financial assistance is available.
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It Takes a Village
The growing trend of multigenerational living in New York City
BY TARA LUSTBERG
Multigenerational living — where two or more adult generations share a living space — is resurging in New York City as economic pressures, housing shortages, and shifting cultural values encourage more families to live together. Multigenerational households often include grandparents, adult children, and school-aged kids, all sharing responsibilities, expenses, and emotional support.
Nearly one in four Americans now lives in a multigenerational household, and New York City is at the forefront of this trend due to its high cost of living and diverse immigrant populations, where living with extended family has long been the norm. Though rates of multigenerational living situations are increasing across the board, the most significant increase is in the number of young adults, ages 25 to 34.
Benefi ts of Multigenerational Living
For many NYC families, combining resources across generations helps offset soaring rent and mortgage costs, especially as child care
and elder care expenses continue to rise. Having grandparents in the home can provide built-in child care, emotional stability for kids, and an opportunity for stronger intergenerational bonds. Likewise, older adults benefit from reduced isolation and increased daily support, which can help them age in place more comfortably and safely.
For older adults, living with family can be a far more economical alternative to institutional care or independent living. According to Genworth’s 2024 Cost of Care Survey, the average monthly cost of assisted living in New York is nearly $6,000, with some nursing homes charging upwards of $15,000 a month. The average rent of a two-bedroom apartment in NYC is just over $5,000 a month — but the maximum monthly Social Security honor payout is under $5,000 — so living on alone is not an option for many New Yorkers. Sharing a household can significantly reduce or eliminate those costs, while providing daily companionship, safety, and support from loved ones. Sharing responsibilities in a multigenerational home can ease the burdens of daily life for the entire family. Grandparents may help with school drop-off, after-
school pickups, and homework, while parents provide health care support or manage household finances. Children may contribute by helping with chores or offering tech assistance to older relatives. This cooperative dynamic fosters mutual respect, interdependence, and a sense of purpose across all ages.
37-year-old single mom Natalie Meade moved into her mother’s Queens condominium with her two children, ages 8 and 5 and says the decision was a no-brainer. “After [the kids’] father left, I couldn’t afford the rent on my own. I have lived in New York my whole life, but moving in with my mom was our only option to stay in New York.”
Meade and her daughters moved in last summer and says she couldn’t do it without her mother’s help. “Grandma picks the girls up from school every day, so I don’t have to rush from the office to pick them up or paying for additional child care, “The peace of mind it gives me to know my girls are cared for while I work is priceless.”
Multigenerational living can foster a deeper sense of cultural continuity, especially in immigrant families who maintain strong ties to heritage and tradition. Sharing a home with grandparents offers children a unique opportunity to absorb family traditions, languages, and stories firsthand. Grandparents can pass down rituals, recipes, and values that might otherwise be lost over time, cultivating a sense of identity and belonging. This everyday exposure to cultural
heritage enriches children’s understanding of their roots and strengthens intergenerational connections that form a lasting foundation for resilience and pride.
Children who live with a grandparent may also learn about their family’s journey how previous generations overcame hardship and persecution, migrated, or built a community in a new city. Hearing about these lived experiences can shape a child’s worldview and help develop empathy, perspective, and a deeper appreciation for their heritage. Whether learning a language, observing a holiday ritual, or hearing bedtime stories from another era, these shared experiences provide rich, meaningful lessons that go far beyond any classroom.
Challenges of Multigenerational Living
While there are many benefits to living in a multigenerational household, it’s not without its challenges. In dense urban environments like NYC where square footage is scarce and privacy is limited, space constraints may cause tension.
Differing parenting styles, lifestyle habits, or generational values may lead to conflicts, especially when boundaries are unclear. While parents who are sandwiched between their aging parents and growing children may find respite from stressful caregiving responsibilities with additional help, those caregiving responsibilities both for children and aging relatives can become emotionally and physically taxing, especially without access to outside support systems.
Even when sharing household expenses, financial strain can occur if contributions are not equally distributed. Additionally, unspoken assumptions about these contributions can lead to resentment if not discussed openly. Successfully navigating these challenges requires intentional planning, ongoing communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to adapt as family dynamics evolve.
Families who thrive in multigenerational homes often establish clear expectations and flexible boundaries to help each family member feel heard and valued. A shared commitment to cooperation and adaptability
makes it easier to evolve together as needs change over time.
To successfully navigate these challenges, families should plan ahead, maintain ongoing communication, and foster mutual respect. They should also be willing to adapt as family dynamics change. Families that thrive in multigenerational homes often establish clear expectations and flexible boundaries, ensuring each member feels heard and valued. A shared commitment to cooperation and adaptability makes it easier to evolve together as needs change over time.
Still, for many families especially Millennials and Gen Z parents navigating the dual responsibilities of raising children and caring for aging parents with little support or resources multigenerational living offers a powerful solution. It creates a built-in support network that reduces financial strain, redistributes caregiving duties, and deepens emotional bonds across generations.
In a society with limited infrastructure for caregiving and rising living costs, this model of family living is not just practical it’s essential.
Soak Up Summer!
Family-friendly hotel pools for an NYC staycation
By Briaunna Malone
Are you soaking up every last second of summer and want to spend a day—or a weekend—pretending to be on vacation? A local hotel pool might be just what you need. While beach trips and far-off getaways aren’t always possible, these NYC hotels offer a chance to cool off, unwind, and enjoy a family-friendly staycation without leaving the city. From rooftop pools with skyline views to relaxing indoor escapes, these spots offer just the right mix of fun and recharge time. Be sure to confirm age policies when booking, as some pools have time restrictions for kids.
1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge
60 Furman St., Brooklyn 1hotels.com
With its unbeatable waterfront views and calm, natural aesthetic, this is a great option for families looking to recharge without leaving the city. The rooftop pool—open to hotel guests only—is a serene, beautifully designed space overlooking the East River and Manhattan skyline. Kids are welcome during the day (until 6:30 pm), and families can reserve lounge chairs in two-hour blocks through the hotel app. While day passes aren’t available, overnight guests have full access to the pool, and the location can’t be beat: right next to Brooklyn Bridge Park, Jane’s Carousel, and Dumbo’s kid-friendly spots. Parents looking for a relaxed, elevated stay with a touch of luxury will appreciate the thoughtful design, quiet vibe, and easy access to plenty of local adventures.
In the heart of Brooklyn’s trendiest neighborhood, Arlo Williamsburg offers a lively and stylish staycation option with a rooftop pool overlooking the Manhattan skyline. Hotel guests receive complimentary pool access,
with limited hours available for families. Children are only permitted during designated morning time slots and must be supervised. For those planning a kid-free escape, adultonly day passes are available starting at $85, which include access to the pool, lounge chairs, towel service, and rooftop bar. With its upbeat vibe, prime location near Domino Park and Williamsburg’s best restaurants, and stunning city views, Arlo is an excellent pick for parents looking to recharge, either with the kids in tow or on a quick grown-up-only getaway.
The Dominick Hotel
246 Spring St., Manhattan thedominickhotel.com
For a sleek downtown staycation that feels like a true escape, The Dominick’s rooftop pool offers a calm, family-friendly spot to cool off with city views to match. The pool is open daily from 9 am to 8 pm, and kids are welcome with adult supervision, making it a solid choice for a low-key afternoon in the sun. Hotel guests have access included in the daily resort fee, and non-guests can book day passes through ResortPass, starting at $175 for lounge chairs and $425 and up for cabanas (with an additional food and drink minimum). With plenty of space to spread out, shaded spots for relaxing, and a location near SoHo’s shops and restaurants, it’s a great option if you’re looking to hit pause without leaving the city.
Margaritaville Resort Times Square
560 7th Ave., Manhattan
margaritavilleresorts.com
For families looking to stay right in the heart of the action, Margaritaville Resort Times Square offers a rooftop escape with a heated outdoor pool that welcomes kids of all ages. It’s a fun, laid-back spot to take a break from sightseeing—or enjoy a full day of city views, swim time, and bites from the poolside LandShark Bar & Grill. Hotel guests have complimentary access to the pool, and non-guests can purchase a day pass for $100, which includes lounge chairs and pool amenities. Cabanas are also available for an upgraded experience. With its central location, family-friendly atmosphere, and everything you need on-site, this is a solid option for a NYC staycation that doesn’t require much planning.
The Marmara Park Avenue
114 E 32nd St., Manhattan park.marmaranyc.com
For a refined and low-key family staycation, The Marmara Park Avenue offers an elegant escape in the heart of Manhattan. Housed in a restored 1927 building, this boutique hotel features a serene, subterranean indoor pool perfect for unwinding after a busy day in the city. The pool is open to overnight guests and welcomes children with adult supervision, making it a peaceful, familyfriendly amenity that feels tucked away from the Midtown bustle. Parents will appreciate the calming atmosphere, spacious suites with kitchenettes, and proximity to family attractions like the Empire State Building and Madison Square Park. Day passes start at $80, or book an overnight stay with access to the
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pool and wellness center, adding a touch of luxury to your family’s city getaway.
ModernHaus SoHo
27 Grand St., Manhattan modernhaushotel.com
ModernHaus SoHo offers a calm, designforward escape in the middle of downtown— complete with a seasonal rooftop pool that’s surprisingly family-friendly. Kids are welcome with adult supervision, and the atmosphere is relaxed enough for a low-key afternoon splash with sweeping city views. Pool access is included in the hotel guests’ daily facilities fee. Day passes are available through ResortPass starting at $295, consisting of a private day room, pool access, and in-room dining credit. It’s a splurge—but still far less than a flight to the Caribbean, and just about as nice. If you want to stretch out, stay cool, and spend a day pretending you’re on vacation, this downtown spot is a great way to go—no passport required.
The Peninsula New York
700 5th Ave., Manhattan peninsula.com
For a luxury family staycation in the heart of Midtown, The Peninsula New York offers a peaceful escape just steps from Central Park, top museums, and Fifth Avenue shopping. The hotel’s glass-enclosed indoor pool on the 22nd floor is open daily and welcomes children, making it a relaxing, familyfriendly spot to unwind year-round. While pool access is complimentary for hotel guests, non-guests can purchase a weekday spa day pass for $250 (includes access for two),
which gives access to the pool, fitness center, and thermal suite. With spacious rooms, thoughtful amenities, and sweeping city views from the pool deck, The Peninsula is a refined and restful option for parents looking to recharge without leaving the city.
Just steps from the sand, The Rockaway Hotel offers a breezy, beachside staycation with a heated outdoor pool that’s open seasonally. Hotel guests enjoy full access to the pool, with the option to rent cabanas for an additional fee. While the pool area is primarily geared toward adults, day passes for non-hotel guests are available for $100 per person; families staying overnight can enjoy pool time with children under adult supervision. With views of the ocean, on-site dining, and easy access to the boardwalk and beach, it’s a great choice for parents looking to combine city convenience with a laid-back coastal vibe.
Royalton Park Avenue
420 Park Ave S., Manhattan royaltonparkavenue.com
Royalton Park Avenue boasts a chic year-round 20th-floor rooftop pool, featuring a 40 -ft heated indoor/outdoor swim space, plush lounge chairs, daybeds, poolside service, and a lifeguard. Children are welcome with adult supervision during morning and early afternoon hours before the 6 pm 21+ restriction kicks in, making it a solid choice for families seeking a stylish city daycation. You can book a day-pass via ResortPass for as little as $25 (plus any resort fees) or inquire at the hotel directly. Parents will appreciate the convenient Midtown location near the Empire State Building, attentive poolside service, snack bar, and fitness center access — plus, booking an overnight stay includes pool privileges as part of the nightly resort fee (around $55/night).
TWA Hotel
JFK Airport, One Idlewild Drive, Queens twahotel.com/thepoolbar
The TWA Hotel’s rooftop infinity pool is one of the most unique swim spots in the city, with panoramic runway views and a heated beach-entry pool with underwater seating that doubles as a “pool-cuzzi” during the colder months. The kids will love the thrill of watching the planes take off while they splash, making it a fun and memorable outing for the whole family. Day passes are available through ResortPass.com or directly through the hotel, starting at $25 for adults and $10 for kids (ages 5–12) on weekdays, with weekend pricing around $50 for adults. Children under 5 are free. Early morning access before 10:45 am is complimentary for overnight guests. With plenty of retro flair, food and drinks from The Pool Bar, and access to the hotel’s observation deck and mid-century exhibits, it’s like going on vacation without ever leaving the airport.
The William Vale
111 N. 12th St., Williamsburg, Brooklyn thewilliamvale.com
The William Vale features Brooklyn’s longest outdoor rooftop pool, a 60-ft heated oasis on the fourth-floor terrace, with lifeguards, chaise lounges, cabanas, daybeds, a full food and cocktail menu, and skyline views. Children under 16 are welcome with an adult from 8 am until 12 pm daily. Hotel guests can reserve complimentary chaise lounge chairs in 3 -hour slots and upgrade to premium seating, while non-guests can purchase limited day passes via ResortPass—prices start around $99 on weekdays and $149 on weekends, with cabanas and daybeds available for an additional fee. Early birds may consider a daycation here for a morning full of family fun at this serene, chic pool, with its vibes and family-friendly amenities. Booking an overnight stay with complimentary pool access may be worth the splurge.
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There Is No One Right Way to Give Birth
OB/GYN Dr. Jessica Vernon’s new book tries to relieve the pressure
If you’ve ever made a birth plan — or even just scrolled through birth stories on social media — you know how easy it is to feel like there’s a “right” way to give birth.
In this honest and deeply reassuring excerpt from her new book Then Comes Baby: An Honest Conversation about Birth, Postpartum, and the Complex Transition to Parenthood , OB/GYN (and New York mom of two!) Dr. Jessica Vernon reminds us that birth doesn’t always go according to plan — and that’s okay. She shares real talk from her years of working with families, plus a bit of her own story, to help expecting parents feel more prepared, more supported, and less pressured to have the “perfect” birth.
Whether you’re a first-time parent or just need a gentle reminder, Dr. Jessica Vernon’s message is one we all need to hear: there’s no one right way to give birth.
Ionce heard a hospital consultant say that labor and delivery is a cross between a wedding and an emergency room. Just like on a wedding day, you might have a vision for how things will go in a perfect, idealized state, but often things do not go according to plan. It can be disappointing if you are not prepared for all of the possible ways and reasons your birth experience may not reflect what you envisioned. The truth is this: there’s no right way to give birth; there are only preferences. If you do make a birth plan, make a plan that is flexible and give yourself compassion when things don’t go as planned. Sometimes this means small changes, such as birth parents deciding they want an epidural, or big changes, such as needing an emergency C-section. I have seen many birth parents so set on accomplishing their ideal birth goals that when things do not go according to plan, they feel like failures as parents and as people
whose bodies are supposed to “intuitively know what to do.” I always try to help my patients truly believe that every birth is sacred in its own right, no matter how it happens. The goal is a safe and healthy baby and birth parent.
Birth experiences are often shared and publicized across social media. In the best cases, this celebration of birth has helped many women overcome their fears and feel empowered. But it can also lead to a greater sense of judgment and loneliness if you feel your birth experience differs from what you see online. There are images all over social media of women having unmedicated home births, often referred to as “natural births,” as if giving birth any other way is not natural. These birth stories are wonderful, but they are only one type of birth story. The idealized images run the risk of making you feel that if you are unable to achieve an
unmedicated birth or even a vaginal birth, you are a failure.
The truth is that all births can be empowering and beautiful. I was extremely humbled during labor with my first daughter. I had such intense back pain with my contractions that I asked for pain medication when I was only two centimeters dilated. I definitely felt that I must be weak because I could not tolerate the contractions when I was not even in active labor. I never did get into active labor and I share more of my birth story later—however, I will say I was extremely grateful for morphine sedation and my epidural, even though my initial goal (due mostly to the fact that I wanted to prove myself capable in a society where this was idealized, not because it was actually a personal imperative) was to have an unmedicated birth.
I often see patients who come into the
office or to labor and delivery with very detailed birth plans. It’s hard to articulate to someone I have just met that although I’ll try my best to do everything the way they envision, expectations often don’t meet reality. I don’t want to come across as one of those doctors who will move quickly toward interventions, effectively taking away the birth person’s autonomy, so unless I have already gained the patient’s trust, I do not voice everything that I am thinking. So here it is, unfiltered and honest: there is a good chance your labor and birth will not go exactly as you have envisioned. That doesn’t mean it can’t be good.
Birth Plans Are Really Birth Preferences
Birth plans, which I prefer to call “birth preferences” or “birth wishes,” are comprehensive documents stating how the birth par-
“Create a birth plan that leaves room for flexibility and surprises, rank the importance of the elements of your birth plan, and give yourself compassion when things don’t go as planned.”
ent prefers to give birth. There are countless examples of birth plans online, and your care provider or hospital may also have sample documents for you to use. The amount of detail and focus on specific areas of the experience varies among different birth plans. I do not have a particular birth plan template that I love, so I recommend looking at a few to familiarize yourself with them and then asking your provider about any language in the plan that you do not understand. A patient once brought me a birth plan and had checked all of the aspects that she had heard an influencer on Instagram say she should check, including a lotus birth, which neither of us even understood. When I Googled it, I saw that it meant keeping the placenta attached to the baby for weeks after birth until the umbilical cord shriveled and detached. Once I explained this to the patient, she immediately told me she definitely did not want that and would prefer to go home with her baby without the afterbirth in tow.
All birth plans include details regarding the ambiance while laboring and giving birth, such as who will be in the room, how you prefer the birthing environment, if you want pain control during labor and birth, what type of labor augmentation and interventions you are okay with and which you want to avoid, immediate care of your baby after birth, and whether or not you would like to breastfeed/chestfeed. Birth plans are wonderful in that they can empower you to think about your goals and priorities, as well as decrease your anxiety around your birth experience before it happens. It can help the care team to provide person-centered care. However, they can also lead to expectations that often do not match reality. Just remember that ultimately there’s no right way to give birth, and there is no way to completely control your birth process, so create a birth plan that leaves room for flexibility and surprises, rank the importance of the elements of your birth plan, and give yourself compassion
when things don’t go as planned.
Although it’s wonderful to have an idea about how you want to birth your baby, the perfect birth cannot be planned. Plus, there are many circumstances under which your goals and preferences may change. Being too rigid in your plans makes it harder for you to negotiate these changes with yourself and your support team. Incorporate some flexibility in your birth plan to allow for the unknown. And develop self-compassion around your body and your birth so that if things go off course, you do not see it as a failure.
Dr. Jessica Vernon, MD, PMH-C, is a BoardCertified OB/GYN who has cared for and supported thousands of people throughout their reproductive journeys over the past 15 years. She is the associate medical director and director of mental health at Oula, a midwifery-based women’s health startup in New York City. As a mom of two, she brings her lived experience with the transition to parenthood to her work. She has a deep passion for providing holistic, people-centered, culturally humble care and has developed programs to increase access to perinatal mental health care and improve health equity. She has received professional recognition and has been quoted in the media for both her work and expertise in the field, as well as her openness in sharing her own story. She also serves on the board of directors for Postpartum Support International. Then Comes Baby is her first book. Find her online at drjessicavernon.com and on Instagram @dr.jessicavernon
on motherhood, her son Moses, and the magic of Harlem
By Danielle Ramos
Tamron Hall has been a familiar face on daytime TV since 2019, known for her honest conversations and down-to-earth style. That’s why so many moms across the city and beyond tune in while managing the daily juggle of family life, from prepping meals to feeding babies and everything in between.
Now, the Emmy-winning TV host and bestselling author is adding a new title to her busy career: children’s book author. Her debut picture book, Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid , was just released this spring and has already made its way onto The New York Times Best Sellers list.
Inspired by her 6-year-old son Moses, Harlem Honey is a sweet story about family, identity, and what it means to feel at home, even when you’re in a new place. Seen through the eyes of a curious little boy walking through Harlem, the story reflects the everyday moments of growing up, figuring things out, and trying something new.
We caught up with Tamron to hear about the personal inspiration behind her book, what it’s like to parent a strong-willed child, and her favorite family moments in Harlem. She opens up about raising her son, Moses, in New York City, handling the challenges of parenting a shy, curious kid, and why curiosity and community matter so much to her.
Congratulations on your first children’s book, Harlem Honey: The Adventures of a Curious Kid . What inspired you to tell this particular story, and why now?
My son is now in grade school, and I’ve seen him blossom in so many ways. I feel that cultivating curiosity not only helped him grow but also helped me parent a very shy child. I could see in real time how curiosity can help kids handle change and face their fears when going to new places and meeting new faces. And now that he’s older, I feel
comfortable sharing this story through the little character inspired by him.
Moses, the main character, is based on your son. What parts of his personality made it into the book?
So much of his personality made it into the book. From the very first page, when you meet this very defiant little boy, that is my son. He’s very strong-willed. My son is also an only child and exhibits a sense of independence in his play. Also, his sense of adventure. He loves walking and driving around the city. We like to call him “human navigation.”
The book touches on finding home in unfamiliar places. Why was that theme important to explore?
In my own life, I’ve moved a lot. I left home for college at age 18, and I’ve since lived in Philadelphia, Chicago, Bryan College Station, which is a small town in Texas, and my career has taken me around the world. And so for me, my life has been a series of entering unfamiliar rooms and meeting new people, but when I saw that my son was a bit more shy, I wanted to use what I’ve learned in my own experience as a reporter and talk show host, to embrace curiosity and how to face my fears.
You spotlight some iconic Harlem landmarks in the book. How did you choose which places to include?
Many of the places I included were places that I was excited to see when I moved to New York in 2008. There are so many exciting places in the city, but these were iconic. I was inspired to include these Harlem landmarks after meeting a little boy who attended school not far from the Apollo, who had never seen the actual building. We take so many iconic locations like the Apollo for granted, but every day, a kid gets to see it for the first time.
You mentioned noticing that Moses would act differently in new environments. How
do you support him through those moments of discomfort or transition?
We try to use “scaffolding,” a parenting method where you provide support for your child when they need it or when they’re trying new things, and then you slowly reduce that support as your child gets more independent. I try to explain to Moses what we’re about to do, where we’re going, and some expectations of things that might be happening. It’s not always foolproof because when you walk into a new room, you can’t anticipate everything. But I’ve found that sharing as much as possible, whether traveling on an airplane or going into a new restaurant, has helped tremendously.
What have been your favorite moments exploring Harlem with your son in real life?
Sunday brunches in Harlem are as iconic as the location. You can pick any place in Harlem on a Sunday, and you’re bound to have a phenomenal time. We recently went to BLVD Bistro with him, and he had the best time. We love the music and the fun; it’s always a celebration.
What lessons do you hope children (and their parents) take away from Harlem Honey ?
I hope they take away how powerful curiosity is. Whether you’re a 5-year-old or a 95-year-old, having a sense of curiosity about people and places is so liberating. It allows our children to be brave and independent and sparks their development. It’s a universal thing.
You’re a bestselling author, Emmy-winning host, and a mom. What’s your secret to balancing it all … if there is one?
I don’t have a secret, but I definitely live by my calendar. I try to plan my day minute by minute. For some, that might be a bit rigid, but for me, it allows me to handle the things that I need to take care of in a timely fashion. But I try to be flexible and embrace spontaneity!
When you’re not on set, what does an ideal weekend look like for you and your son in New York City?
It depends on the time of year, but in the summer, we love to go to the park. We love going to the West Side Highway. It’s one of our favorite places, and we love discovering
all of the different corners and crevices of the park. We also just love going to Central Park, hanging out around the Great Lawn, and playing soccer.
With back-to-school on the horizon, what’s one piece of parenting advice you
live by when it comes to helping your kids transition back to school?
One of the things I do is I try to explore how he’s feeling and have an honest conversation about what he’s excited about and nervous about. I also think it’s important to be patient with your kid as they go through that transition.
Photo by Allie Holloway
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By ShAr A Levine
Bronx
family fridays in the garden
wHen : Fridays, 10 am – 12 pm, through Aug. 8
wHere : Van Cortlandt Park Alliance Garden & Compost Site, Broadway and Mosholu Ave., Riverdale
Ages: 2 – 11
wHAt: Dig for compost critters, water the plants, explore nature, harvest some veggies, and more!
wAnt to go?: Free. vancortlandt.org
young Dancemakers
company Performance at lehman college
wHen : Wednesday, Aug. 6, 1 – 2 pm
wHere : Lehman Center for the Performing Arts, 250 Bedford Park Blvd. West, Kingsbridge Heights
Ages: 7 and older
wHAt: Enjoy a thrilling performance featuring the next generation of dance artists and an interactive workshop in on-the-spot dance-making.
wAnt to go?: Free. 718-960–8833, eventbrite.com
nyc Parks kids in motion: color me tote Bag
wHen : Friday, Aug. 8, 3 – 5 pm
wHere : Metcalf Playground in Soundview Park, Metcalf Ave. &, Seward Ave., Soundview Ages: All
wHAt: Kids are invited to unleash their creativity and design a tote bag.
wAnt to go?: Free. nycgovparks.org
2nd Annual Bronx Bookworm Book festival
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 9, 10 am – 3 pm
wHere : Fordham Plaza, 1 Fordham Plaza, Fordham
create a Family a rt Project at Wave Hill on august 30 and 31.
Ages: 8 and under
wHAt: Little lit fans will enjoy a day of special activities including storytimes, illustration demonstrations, and more.
wAnt to go?: Free. thebronxisreading.com
indigenous Art workshop with nAic- ny
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 16, 12 – 4 pm
wHere : Starlight Park, 1490 Sheridan Blvd., Longwood Ages: All
wHAt: Join the North American Indigenous Center of New York and the Bronx River Alliance to learn traditional indigenous crafts and about contemporary indigenous cultures.
wAnt to go?: Free. bronxriver.org
nyc Parks Presents: kids fun and fit Day
wHen : Thursday, Aug. 21, 4 – 6 pm
wHere : P.O. Serrano Playground, 2125 Turnbull Ave., East Bronx
Ages: All
wHAt: Play family games, tackle obstacle courses, and more.
wAnt to go?: Free. nycgovparks.org
end of summer celebration with flor Bromley
wHen : Thursday, Aug. 28, 3 pm
wHere : Francis Martin Library, 2150 University Ave., Morris Heights
Ages: 12 and younger
wHAt: This interactive, multicultural musical
experience, led by Latin GRAMMY-nominated artist Flor Bromley, and celebrates diversity through rhythm, language, and movement.
wAnt to go?: Free. 718-295–5287, nypl.org
family Art Project: fishy fun
wHen : Aug. 30-31, Saturday and Sunday, 10 am – 1 pm
wHere : Wave Hill, 675 W. 252nd St., Riverdale
Ages: All
wHAt: Turn colorful paper bags into 3D fish that can swim through the air and flutter home with you.
wAnt to go?: Included with $4-$10 admission. 718-549–3200, wavehill.org
Bronx night market
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 30, 12 – 7 pm
wHere : Fordham Plaza, 1 Fordham Plaza, Fordham
Ages: All
wHAt: Featuring over 30 local vendors, this iconic market showcases a diverse array of cuisines and unique vendors.
wAnt to go?: Free admission. maschospitalitygroup.com
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43rd Annual national Dominican Day Parade
wHen : Sunday, Aug. 10, 11 am
wHere : Parade begins at 6th Ave. bet. West 37 St. and West 38 St., Midtown
Ages: All
wHAt: Celebrate Dominican culture and pride with festive floats, live performances, first responders, and local leaders.
wAnt to go?: Free. natddp. org
india Day Parade
wHen : Aug. 17, 12 pm
wHere : Parade begins at E. 40th St. and Madison Ave., Midtown
Ages: All
wHAt: Considered to be the largest parade outside of India, spectators will see over 50 marching bands and over 40 floats display Indian culture and pride.
wAnt to go?: Free. fianynjct. org
Disney Descendants/ Zombies worlds collide
tour
wHen : Thursday, Aug. 21, 7 pm
wHere : Madison Square Garden, 4 Pennsylvania Plaza, Midtown South
Ages: All
wHAt: Join the cast from the latest Descendants and Zombies movies in this groundbreaking concert event featuring the chart-topping hits in one unforgettable night.
wAnt to go?: Tickets start at $64. msg.com
Brook Lyn
celebrate the caribbean
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 9, 11 am – 5 pm
wHere : Brooklyn Children’s Museum, 145 Brooklyn Ave, Crown Heights Ages: All
wHAt: Experience live steel drum performances, dance with moko jumbies (stilt walkers), try your hand at traditional art-making, and enjoy Caribbean food.
wAnt to go?: $15. 718-735–4400, brooklynkids.org
Hindu lamp ceremony
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 16, 4 –7:30 pm
wHere : Brooklyn Bridge Park, 334 Furman St, Brooklyn Heights
Ages: All
wHAt: Witness the traditional Hindu Aarti ceremony at Pebble Beach, then decorate palm leaf lamps and release
celebrate the end of s ummer with Flor Bromley at Francis Martin Library in Morris Heights on a ugust 28.
them along the East River to make prayers and pay respects to loved ones.
wAnt to go?: Free. brooklynbridgepark.org
new york liberty west indian night
wHen : Aug. 28, 7 pm
wHere : Barclays Center, 620 Atlantic Ave., Brooklyn Ages: All
wHAt: Celebrate West Indian culture and see the New York Liberty take on the Washington Mystics.
wAnt to go?: Tickets start at $34. liberty.wnba.com
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49th Annual sranan Dey
wHen : Sunday, Aug. 3, 12 – 7 pm
wHere : Roy Wilkins Park, Merrick Blvd., Jamaica Ages: All
wHAt: Enjoy a day filled with music, dance, food, and culture, celebrating the beautiful country of Suriname.
wAnt to go?: Free. eventbrite.com
the 35th Hong kong Dragon Boat festival
wHen : Aug. 9-10, Saturday and Sunday, 9 am – 5 pm wHere : Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Grand Central Pkwy. and Van Wyck Expy., Flushing Ages: All
wHAt: Vibrant culture, thrilling dragon boat races, honoring the Year of the Snake with a festival that will bring together tradition, competition, and celebration.
wAnt to go?: Free. hkdbf-ny. org
Arthur Ashe kids’ Day powered by net generation
wHen : Saturday, Aug. 23, 9:30 am
wHere : USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center, Flushing Meadows - Corona Park, Flushing Ages: All
wHAt: Tennis fans of all ages can see top players practice and enjoy a variety of familyfriendly entertainment and activities.
wAnt to go?: Free. usopen. org
starlight Park in Longwood hosts an indigenous a rt Workshop on august 16.
Education Get $mart!
NYC Public Schools to teach real-world money skills with new FLY program this fall
By Danielle Ramos
Many of us have wished we had learned about day-to-day budgeting and finance in school rather than the obscure math classes we never used again once we graduated. Part of that wish will soon be available to NYC public school students.
At a press conference at Brooklyn Collegiate Preparatory High School in June, Mayor Eric Adams announced the launch of FLY — Financial Literacy for Youth, a new citywide program to bring financial educators directly into local public schools this fall.
With FLY, over 350,000 students and their families will soon have access to free workshops, one-on-one financial counseling, and real-world money lessons, all designed to help them build healthy financial habits early on.
“Too many students leave high school knowing about chemical bonds but not Treasury Bonds,” said Mayor Adams. “That ends with our administration.”
Students will still learn the typical math and science classes. “To succeed in the 21st century, students need to learn how to do both, which is why we set an ambitious goal of making sure that every public school student can learn how to save and spend money by 2030,” explained Adams.
How FLY Will Work
Though it will start with 15 select schools this fall, the program’s goal is to teach every NYC public school student how to save and spend money responsibly.
Starting this upcoming school year, the FLY program will:
• Send financial educators to 15 school districts around the city
• Provide free financial counseling and workshops for students and their families
• Launch in-school banking programs to help kids learn how to manage real accounts
• Teach important money topics, including different types of bank accounts and products. Students will learn to budget
their money, understand and build credit and recognize scams and bad financial advice.
The program is backed by a $25 million investment over five years, and the long-term plan is to bring FLY to all 32 school districts by 2030.
School Districts Starting FLY This Fall
The first 15 districts were chosen because they include neighborhoods where a lot of families don’t have bank accounts. These districts are also part of the city’s FutureReadyNYC program, an initiative from the Adams administration to help schools offer new career paths. Students in the program can explore jobs in education, tech, business, and health care, and get paid work experience while they’re still in school.
If you live in one of these districts, your child’s school could be among the 154 schools getting financial educators this fall: Manhattan: Districts 2, 3, and 5 (Chelsea, Central Harlem, Upper East & West Sides)
Bronx: Districts 7–12 (Hunts Point, Fordham, Belmont, Mount Eden, Parkchester, and more)
Brooklyn: Districts 14, 19, 21, and 23 (Williamsburg, Brownsville, Coney Island, and Canarsie)
Queens: District 30 (Astoria, LIC, Jackson Heights, North Corona)
Staten Island: District 31
“Programs like FLY will help students feel confident when making financial decisions,” said Schools Chancellor Melissa AvilesRamos. “It’s a life skill that can benefit them forever.”
“The best way to set our children up for financial success is to prevent them from making the same financial mistakes that we’ve all made in our lives, but for too long, young people have been left out of our efforts to financially empower New Yorkers,” said DCWP Commissioner Vera Mayuga. “With ‘FLY,’ we will make sure our that the city’s children are able to reach for the clouds and soar toward their financial goals.
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