A PUBLICATION OF THE SALESIAN SISTERS OF ST. JOHN BOSCO
Dear Friends,
It may be cold and snowy in New Jersey, but there are no winter blues when you’re sledding! Our first regular issue of Partners in Giving for 2026 is filled with creative ways our Sisters continue to evangelize the young. Inside, you’ll find updates from our Sisters in the retirement home, highlights from the SEEK Conference, and glimpses of our celebrations of Catholic Schools Week, the Feast of St. John Bosco, and Villa Madonna’s 90th Anniversary.
As we move into the heart of Lent, Pope Leo XIV invites us to place God once again at the center of our lives, so that our hearts are not overwhelmed by the anxieties and distractions of daily living. Let us pray for one another, that this Lent we may respond more fully to God’s gentle call back to what truly matters most. With gratitude and prayers for a blessed Lent,
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Cover: Sister Amy Nguyen, Sister April Hoffman, and Sister Theresa Lee enjoy a snow day by sledding down the property of Mary Help of Christians Academy in North Haledon, NJ.
Salesian Sister, St. Maria Troncatti, and the Courage to Risk Everything
In past articles, we’ve talked a lot about virtues—the theological virtues of faith, hope, and love, and the cardinal virtues of prudence, temperance, justice, and fortitude. Next came Salesian virtues—joy, service, and simplicity. In this issue, we will look at another Salesian virtue: audacity, or faith-filled daring. I’ll be honest, this is one of my favorite virtues…God really calls us to risk everything and be daring!
Recently, the Salesian Sisters welcomed our first “Sister Saint” since Mother Mazzarello: St. Maria Troncatti. Her life is a story of the audacity of her trust in God. Born into a farming family in Italy, she felt drawn to religious life. Her parish priest, however, advised her to wait until adulthood before seeking admission to the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians. She made her first profession in 1908, even as some Sisters traveled to New York to open our missions here in America, arriving in Paterson, NJ.
Sister Maria Troncatti’s audacity was forged in suffering. During World War I, she trained in health care, serving as a Red Cross nurse in a military hospital. An eyewitness to the brutality of war, she learned to improvise under pressure. After surviving a violent storm, she made a daring promise to Our Lady: if she were spared, she would dedicate herself completely to the missions. For years, she begged to be sent “among the lepers,” and for years the answer was “no.” Eventually, she was sent to Ecuador, knowing she would likely never see her family or her country again.
In 1922 she departed Italy for Ecuador, where she served until her death in 1969. She was a pioneer, living in abject poverty and isolation with the local people, the Shuar, and colonists.
When she arrived in Méndez, she won the trust of the Shuar through one famously audacious act. Using only a pocket knife and what she knew from wartime nursing, she operated on the daughter of a tribal chief who had been shot. By saving the girl’s life, Sister Maria opened a door for the Gospel that words never could have unlocked.
Sister Maria traveled from village to village, treating the sick, teaching hygiene and basic agriculture, and converting children and adults. She soon became known as the “Doctor of the Forest.” Many of her journeys were dangerous; through dense jungle, swollen rivers, and disease outbreaks. During a devastating smallpox epidemic, she put herself at risk to remain close to the Shuar natives.
Her small dispensary was more than just a clinic; it was a place for healing souls. She welcomed the poor and uneducated, offered healing, and threw herself into the delicate work of peacemaking between the Shuar and the colonists, historically hostile groups. She prayed, worked, and even offered her life in exchange for peace.
On August 25, 1969, at age 86, she died in a small plane crash just after takeoff from the edge of the jungle where she had spent nearly half a century. Her death was seen as the final seal on a life offered entirely for her people. The Church recognized her heroism and she was canonized on October 19, 2025.
Sister Maria’s own words help us understand her heart: “One look at the crucifix gives me life and courage to work,” and, “Every day I am happier about my religious missionary vocation.” In these simple phrases, we glimpse the secret of her audacity: a life that dared everything by trusting completely in Jesus and Mary. Let’s try to introduce Sister Maria Troncatti’s audacious faith and trust into our own lives—starting today.
I leave you in the heart and hands of Our Lady,
Sr. Colleen Clair, FMA, is the Provincial of St. Joseph Province
St. Maria Troncatti (left) with Kivari children
Clockwise from top left: With Sr. Mary Bertha Paquin are Jessica Tamargo, Natalie Tamargo Hernandez, Nolia Nunez Perez, Danesis Socorro Perez with daughters Amelia and Gianna, and Darlene Socorro Price; Sisters with the Baldor Family; Roxana Rodriguez is happy to see Sister Carmen Morales; Sister Elfie Del Rosario with the altar servers; Sister Lou Ann Fantauzza accepts a commendation from Tampa City Councilman Guido Maniscalco; Tere Rolan and her daughter; Sister Mary Jackson greets guests; Ema and Mia Mittag pose with Sister Teresa Gutierrez; Sister Jazmin Rangel and two students act out a skit about Alicia Gonzalez Neve. Photos on this page by: Vidaroza Photography
Born of Generosity: Celebrating 90 Years of Villa Madonna School in Tampa
Villa Madonna School celebrated its 90th Anniversary on Saturday, February 7, 2026. Amazingly, this date was picked simply because it fit the calendar. Upon further research though, it was discovered that February 7th was in fact the date of Alicia Gonzalez-Neve’s death in 1952. If it weren’t for Alicia Neve donating her house and the surrounding land to the Salesian Sisters in 1936 in Tampa, Florida, Villa Madonna School wouldn’t exist!
The celebration took place with gratitude and included Mass, a dinner, and tours of the school. Hundreds of guests packed the gym for the celebration, which included 29 Sisters from around the Province of St. Joseph. Tampa Mayor Jane Castor attended, spoke, and gave a proclamation announcing “Villa Madonna School Anniversary Day.” Tampa City Councilman Guido Maniscalco presented a commendation to Villa Madonna School on its 90th Anniversary.
The evening included a renaming of the administration wing of the school in memory of Sister Mary Rinaldi for all of the work she did to help make Villa Madonna what it is today. The Honorable Judge EJ Salcines, Tampa Historian, spoke about Villa Madonna, the Salesian Sisters, and the good works of Sister Mary. A roll call of alumni from the different decades was a favorite, with an alum even present from the 1950’s. A great evening was had by all. Join us in 2036 for the 100th Anniversary Centennial Celebration!
Clockwise from top left: The Villa Madonna Liturgical Band plays for the celebration; Sister Colleen Clair receives a Proclamation from the City of Tampa from Mayor Jane Castor as well as a commendation from Tampa City Councilman Guido Maniscalco; Sister Margaret Rose Buonaiuto, Sister Nivia Arias and friends; Anna Anderson, Sister Isabel Garza, Fr. John Serio, and Fr. Jay Horan.
Postulants in California Living the Next Yes
The six postulants from the SEC province, together with their three companions from the western province, are enjoying their second year of initial formation in California. Each week they participate in in-house classes on topics like Salvation History, History of the Institute, Community Building, and Italian. Additionally, they attend classes in the Intercongregational Formation (ICF) program with young men and women in formation from three other religious communities—the Salesians (SDBs), Lovers of the Holy Cross, and the Sister Servants of the Blessed Sacrament. Each week they learn from a variety of guest speakers and share about their experiences in formation.
“It's been beautiful seeing all of us using our gifts and talents to bring Jesus to the young people, ”
Beyond the classroom, their formation continues at St. Dominic Savio School and Parish in Bellflower, CA. At the school, they assist in the mornings and during lunch, and also run several clubs for students in 1st through 8th grade—Marian Club, Green Team, Music Club, and Young Catholic Fun Club. In the parish, the postulants serve as catechists for students preparing for First Communion and Confirmation. “It’s been beautiful to get to know the community here and to see all of us using our gifts and talents to bring Jesus to the young people,” says Postulant Rachel Franklin. After this second year in formation, the postulants will return to the east in June. They will spend the summer serving at the Sisters’ summer camps, and then in early August, they will enter the novitiate in Newton, NJ.
Eight out of the nine total postulants for the US and Canada Postulant Amber Payne
Practicing music for liturgy
In the convent chapel
Called & Consecrated: A Weekend of Renewal
By Sister Jackie Sardina, FMA
From January 16-19, the NAC temporary professed Sisters gathered together in San Antonio, Texas for their annual formation gathering. These meetings are always a fruitful time of vocational renewal and mutual encouragement in Salesian consecrated life. This year the theme was “Called and Consecrated,” focusing on living the vows with fidelity and fostering harmonious community life.
The Sisters were accompanied the whole weekend by Sister Thuy Huong Nguyen, SUO Provincial, Sister Colleen Clair, SEC Provincial, Sister Sandra Neaves, SUO Formator, and Sister LouAnn Fantauzza, SEC Formator. After arriving from all over the United States and Canada, the temporary professed Sisters relished the time to rekindle friendships. The first night of the gathering was spent in Eucharistic Adoration, remaining before Christ listening and thanking Him for his goodness and mercy in their formation journeys.
On the first full day of the gathering, Sister Sandra reminded them of the beauty and challenge of living the Salesian family spirit. The Sisters were also able to gather with their companions of profession and share about their experience of living the Constitutions articles on community life.
On the Lord’s Day, with the chapel filled and voices united, the Sisters shared in the Provincial House community celebration of the Eucharist, which included the commissioning of nine VIDES (Volunteers In Development, Education, & Solidarity) volunteers. Fr. Thomas Klosterkamp, OMI, an experienced formator and theologian, gave three conferences on living of religious life today, drawing from the Old Testament, the Gospel, and the vows themselves to pinpoint enduring models and insights.
The weekend concluded with a celebratory dinner at a local Texas-Mexican restaurant, provided for by the restaurant owners who are great benefactors of the Sisters. All those who attended the weekend left refocused on their religious vows, refilled with fraternal joy, and refreshed for the mission.
From top to bottom: The temporary professed Sisters of the United States and Canada, with their formators; With a group of the new VIDES volunteers; Posing with St. Mary Mazzarello.
When you think about supporting our beloved Sisters and the young people we serve, you may immediately think of writing a check or making an online gift. And yes—those generous contributions sustain our mission every day. But did you know there are other meaningful ways to give that don’t require reaching into your wallet?
1. Redeem Credit Card Points for Gift Cards
Many credit card companies allow you to redeem rewards points for gift cards to major retailers and online stores. Those gift cards can be donated to us and used as event prizes, auction items, or to purchase needed supplies. It’s a creative way to turn everyday spending into meaningful support!
2. Donate New and Unused Gifts
We’ve all been there—another beautiful charcuterie board, a duplicate kitchen gadget, or a brandnew item that just isn’t quite “you.” Instead of letting those new, unused gifts collect dust, consider donating them. They make wonderful raffle or auction items at our events and directly benefit our fundraising efforts.
Your generosity takes many forms, and each one strengthens our ability to care for our elderly Sisters and continue our mission with the young. Thank you for being such faithful partners in this work. Together, we make a difference—sometimes in ways we never even imagined!
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Our Exchange of Love
Do you have a happy occasion you would like to share? The Salesian Sisters will celebrate with you. Is it a time to mark a less-than-happy occasion? Our prayer for your special day will commemorate this event. Do you have someone to thank? All of the Sisters will help multiply your gratitude. When you “Give Us This Day” the Sisters will pray for your intention and for the person whose sacrificial gift supports the endowment for our retired Sisters. Let this gift of time be an expression of our concern and love for one another. Thank you, and God bless you!
A House of Prayer, Community, and Mission
At St. Joseph Provincial Center, the rhythm of consecrated life is lived in many ways—through joyful celebration, quiet perseverance, and generous outreach. The following stories reflect this spirit.
CHRISTMAS 2025
Christmas at St. Joseph Provincial Center was nothing short of joyful. From September through December, the Sisters gathered regularly to rehearse for The Joy of Christmas, a 35-minute musical celebration filled with song, reflection, and festive spirit. The production culminated in a memorable performance that brought warmth and laughter to all who attended. Standout moments included Sister Angela DiCapua as the Blessed Mother and Sister Domenica DiPeri as an unexpected but delightful Rudolph. The celebration can be viewed on YouTube on the PastPupilsFMA channel, extending the joy of Christmas well beyond the season.
FROM SMARTPHONES TO SMARTWHEELS
In recent months, Sister Pauline Joss faced a dramatic change in daily life following her diagnosis of Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS). Tasks once taken for granted like standing, walking, even moving independently from room to room, quickly became impossible without assistance. The loss of mobility brought new challenges and a profound sense of dependence.
Through the support of the ALS Foundation and Medicare, Sister Pauline has since regained a measure of independence. She now uses SmartWheels, a motorized chair specifically designed for individuals living with ALS. Once assisted to her chair, she is able to move freely throughout the house and, thanks to wider doorways, even venture outdoors. With Spring approaching, she looks forward to spending time on the newly renovated patio, enjoying fresh air, sunlight, and the quiet grace of God’s creation.
INSPIRED BY ST. CARLO ACUTIS – A LOVE FOR THE POOR
Inspired by the life and witness of St. Carlo Acutis, children in the St. Patrick, Assumption, and All Saints Faith Formation program, where Sister MaryAnn Schaefer serves, have been learning about Carlo's deep love for the Eucharist and concern for the needy. Beginning in January 2026, the students translated that inspiration into action by launching a monthly service initiative. Every third Saturday of the month, they collect canned goods to support the parish food pantry. Through this ongoing effort, the children are learning that faith is not only something to be studied, but something to be lived through service, generosity, and care for the poor.
From top, going clockwise: Sisters and attendees greet Most Reverend Earl K. Fernandes, Bishop of Columbus, OH; Mission Way in Columbus; Sister April Cabaccang joins in a Just Dance party before an evening keynote; The Salesian Family was also present in Fort Worth, TX; Author and academic, Arthur C. Brooks speaks about The Science of Happiness.
SEEK and You Will Find: Salesian Sisters Witness to College Students at SEEK 2026
By Madeline Appelhans, Aspirant
The SEEK 2026 conference, hosted by FOCUS (Fellowship of Catholic University Students), gathered more than 26,000 young adult Catholics across three locations in the United States from January 1–5, 2026: Columbus, Ohio; Fort Worth, Texas; and Denver, Colorado. The Salesian Sisters were privileged to be present at all three sites, walking alongside fellow attendees, witnessing to faith in action, and being nourished themselves through the meaningful liturgies, keynote talks, and a variety of personal encounters.
“In his video message, Pope Leo said that ‘The Lord Jesus alone brings us true peace and joy, and fulfills every one of our deepest desires.’”
Every day opened with Mass; the rest of the day entailed breakout talks, free time to explore the sponsor booths, opportunities for confession, and entertainment in the evening. Pope Leo XIV even sent in a special message on the opening night of the conference, inviting all attendees, especially the college students, to open their hearts to the Lord over the course of the week—to seek and to find Him. Between the Concurrent, Impact, and Keynote sessions, with speakers such as Fr. Mike Schmitz, Sister Miriam James Heidland, Dr. Edward Sri, and Lisa Cotter, anyone in attendance could find content meaningful to them.
On a walk through "Mission Way," one could explore a diverse range of sponsors—anything from religious congregations, missionary organizations, and colleges, to podcasts and woodcarved Catholic art. In Columbus, the Salesian Sisters shared a booth with the Salesian priests and brothers. It was often a lively spot, with many people stopping by to have conversations, venerate relics of Salesian saints, partake in an impromptu praise-and-worship session, pray Vespers, or compete in a game of mini basketball for the chance to win a pair of Salesian socks.
The fun spread beyond the tape-line barriers of the booth, too, when young people were invited to enjoy a
home-cooked meal with the Sisters. It surely must have been quite the sight when groups of around twenty attendees traversed towards the convention center exit every night, intermingled with Sisters in gray and Aspirants in blue, with Sister Elfie Del Rosario, FMA, leading the charge (bubble-machine in hand, of course). While walking to dinner, a university student exclaimed in delight that she was experiencing “radical charity.” While this student may have been referring to the actual act of sharing a warm meal, she was more likely speaking to how radically the Sisters were living charity, that is, how easily they gave not only of their food, but their joy, love, and presence—a kind of charity which only comes from a life deeply rooted in Christ.
In his video message on day one, Pope Leo said that “The Lord Jesus alone brings us true peace and joy, and fulfills every one of our deepest desires.” The Sisters were a testament of this truth for the young people at the conference; and anyone who knows and experiences this truth is also called to be that witness. SEEK’s overall message was exactly that: seek the Lord, and once you find Him, go out and share the good news! Sometimes, it starts by simply extending an invitation to dinner!
Sister Anne Weis and Sister Boram Lee represented the SEC Province in Fort Worth, TX—one of three locations for SEEK.
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Marriage: God’s Faithful Love Made Visible
By Sister Theresa Kelly, FMA
As we have been reflecting on the Sacraments of the Church, we now turn our attention to the first of the two sacraments of service. Marriage is a sacrament of love, a visible sign and expression of God’s faithful love shown to us in Jesus and witnessed to by the faithfulness of married couples.
We know that God is love and God is a communion of persons sharing life and love. Pope Francis wrote: “The Triune God is a communion of Love and the family is its living reflection" (Amoris Laetitia 11). St. Paul described the love in marriage as a sign (sacrament) of Christ’s love for the Church.
“Living a life of prayer and closeness to God through receiving the Eucharist and the Sacrament of Reconciliation regularly, are necessary spiritual helps to enable married couples to live the commitments of marriage and family faithfully and with joy.”
The Revised Rite of Marriage (2016), uses the word “covenant” many times in the prayers for the marriage rite. This term reflects God’s faithful and unconditional love for his people of the Old Testament and is the word Jesus used when he gave himself to us to be with us always in the Eucharist.
Pope Francis wrote a beautiful apostolic exhortation in 2016—Amoris Laetitia—meaning The Joy of Love. In that beautiful document, he recalls the basic underlying truths we believe about marriage in God’s Plan: God created man and woman in God’s own image. They share the same nature and are equal in dignity. (Gen. 2:24 & 1:28)
They complement one another and show forth the image of God who is a communion of persons in the Trinity. “The couple that loves and begets life is a true living image of God” (AL 11). Some couples are not able to bring
forth life in the physical sense, but all are called to be life-giving, by sharing their love with others in whatever way they can. Love is always life-giving!
In God’s plan there are two purposes for marriage: 1. For the good of husband and wife; to mutually love and support each other, to be totally committed to each other in faithfulness throughout their lives.
2. To create a communion of love that is open to new life and to sharing with others.There are programs, such as Pre-Cana, available for those who are preparing for marriage. These are very helpful and it’s important to encourage those contemplating marriage to participate in some form of preparation for this sacred event.
The sacrament of marriage is unique in that it is not given by a priest—the couple themselves are the ministers of this Sacrament—the priest is the witness of the Church to the sacred moment of this sacrament that is conferred by the couple on one another, by their free consent and their making of the marriage vows to one another.
Right before the actual moment of the marriage vows, the priest says: “Dearly beloved, you have come together into the house of the Church, so that in the presence of Christ’s minister and the community your intention to enter into marriage may be strengthened by the Lord with a sacred seal. Christ abundantly blesses the love that binds you. Through a special sacrament, he enriches
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and strengthens those who are already consecrated by Baptism, that they may be faithful to each other forever and assume all the responsibilities of married life.” (Rite of Marriage, 2016)
Jesus confirmed the goodness of marriage, making it a source of God’s grace and a sign of God’s faithful love. That is why it can be called a “covenant” which is a relationship of mutual self-giving and is characterized by fidelity and permanence.
We all know that living in fidelity and love over the long haul is not easy—it requires patience, self-giving, self-sacrifice and a strong commitment of faithfulness to one’s marriage partner, as well as supporting each
“Believers,
other in facing together all the “ups and downs” that life brings.
That’s why receiving the grace of the sacrament of Marriage is such a great gift! However, this gift has to be nurtured and cultivated. Living a life of prayer and closeness to God through receiving the Eucharist and the sacrament of Reconciliation regularly, are necessary spiritual helps to enable married couples to live the commitments of marriage and family faithfully and with joy.
Let us pray that all people may be mindful of the sacredness and inviolability of marriage and the family, and of its beauty in God’s plan.
Free to Serve:” The Laundry Angels’ Tuesday
Ministry of Hospitality and Welcome
Sacred Heart Spirituality Center in Newton, NJ is blessed by a devoted group of volunteers affectionately named the "Laundry Angels." Each Tuesday, they gather in a spirit of service and friendship to serve in the hospitality ministry, carefully preparing beds and rooms to welcome incoming retreat groups. Sister Nivia Arias, FMA recently shared with them the Strenna 2026 of Salesian Rector Major Don Fabio Attard, SDB.
The Strenna is an annual message and theme presented by the Rector Major, the head of the Salesian Family, to guide the spiritual and pastoral life of Salesians and their collaborators for the coming year. This year's theme is, “Do Whatever He Tells You—Believers, Free to Serve" based on the Wedding Feast of Cana. After brunch and time spent together, Sister Nivia led a discussion and sharing with the ladies on how the Strenna might be lived out among them in their daily lives.
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Sister Molly Heine with Dr. Nadia Sauer Choe
ST. JOHN NEUMANN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL, Naples, FL — On January 31, 2026, St. John Neumann High School proudly hosted its Annual Celtic Ball, themed Anchored in Christ. The evening was emceed by Sister Pamela Rose Suresca, who set the tone in her nautical attire, while Sister Pat Roche led attendees in raising funds to support important campus improvements. Proceeds from the event will benefit new bleachers, cafeteria reconfiguration, stadium bleacher expansion, and track and field enhancements. It was a fantastic night of community, generosity, and Celtic spirit!
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Catholic Schools Week was a joyful celebration of faith, community, and service at St. John Neumann High School in Naples, FL. Throughout the week, students shared the importance of Catholic education by speaking at local parishes and proudly representing their school. The celebration continued as the school community gathered to celebrate Mass with the Bishop, strengthening their shared faith and mission. They were also excited to host Celtic Experience Day, welcoming 8th grade students from their Catholic feeder schools for a fun and engaging afternoon on campus that showcased the spirit and opportunities of SJN. Catholic Schools Week concluded on a high note with their annual Destress Day, a joyful celebration filled with raffles, laughter, and school spirit, an uplifting reminder of the strong community that makes Catholic education so special.
Late Winter 2026
Clockwise from top left: Mass with Bishop Frank Joseph Dewane; Sister Pamela Rose Suresca leading the choir; Sister Susan Bagli at the school Mass; Sister Pat Roche enjoys seeing the young people on Celtic Experience Day
Sister Pamela Rose Suresca and Sister Pat Roche at the Ball
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MARY HELP OF CHRISTIANS ACADEMY, North Haledon, NJ MHC Academy had the pleasure of welcoming Sister Colleen Clair, Provincial of the Salesian Sisters for the United States and Canada, on Wednesday, January 28. An alumna of the Class of 1988 and former Head of School from 2021 to 2023, she reflected with students on how a Catholic education in the Salesian tradition shapes both heart and purpose.
Drawing on Scripture, Sister Colleen spoke about the parable of the seed and the importance of the ground in which it is planted. She reminded students that growth is nurtured by both God’s grace and the environment that surrounds them. “If the seed winds up on very good ground then it can take root and it can grow. You don’t realize it but you are living in the good ground. Your heart, God has already prepared that it be good
ground." She continued, “I know you are in a place where it’s encouraged that you be that good ground. It’s encouraged that you open your heart to Jesus.” She emphasized that while God prepares the soil, the final and essential element is personal openness. The care of dedicated educators, the intentional learning environment, and the love invested in the Academy all help cultivate that good ground. What ultimately completes the process, she noted, is a receptive heart.
Sister Colleen concluded her visit by presenting Don Bosco pins to the students, a meaningful symbol of their shared Salesian identity. Her visit took place during Catholic Schools Week and in anticipation of the January 31 feast day of Saint John Bosco, offering students a powerful reminder of the faith, values, and community that define a MHC Academy education.
During Catholic School’s Week MHC Academy students also encountered high school students from the Salesian Sisters’ school in Laguna, Philippines Two MHC Academy seniors gave a tour of the school to the students and Sister Javy Romanos, one of their chaperones, and answered questions about life in the United States. The students from the Philippines noted that they felt at home because of the familiar images of Salesian saints, the joyful family spirit of the students and even the name, as their school is called Mary Help of Christians College.
Sister Colleen hands out Don Bosco pins; Sister Colleen with Head of School Sister Kelly Schuster; at the Don Bosco Mass
ST. ANTHONY SCHOOL, Hawthorne, NJ — St. Anthony launched Catholic Schools Week with a dynamic Learning Fair and Open House commemorating the 250th anniversary of America’s founding. The event showcased the strength of the school community and the depth of its academic program, made possible through the support of engaged parents, faculty, and staff.
Students from preschool through eighth grade participated in a school wide exploration of American history, transforming the campus into a living classroom. Pre-K through first grade students examined daily life in 1776 through hands on activities, including chores, games, schoolwork, and period social dancing. Second grade students brought the Founding Fathers to life through a living museum, while third graders reenacted the Boston Tea Party.
Fourth grade students integrated social studies and STEM learning by designing wigwams and longhouses as part of their study of Native American life in the Northeast during the Revolutionary era. Sixth grade
students presented in depth research on colonial life, exploring topics such as trade, occupations, women’s roles, fashion, food, medicine, military life, espionage, and notable historical figures, including George Washington and Phillis Wheatley. Their presentations were complemented by hands on demonstrations, including the creation of clay beads and marbles.
Seventh grade students focused on colonial engineering, designing and constructing waterwheels used to power early mills. Through this project, they calculated work, power, and horsepower, applying mathematical and scientific principles to historical innovation.
The day concluded with eighth grade reenactments of pivotal moments in American history, including the signing of the Declaration of Independence and Washington’s Crossing of the Delaware. Together, these experiences reflected Saint Anthony School’s commitment to academic excellence, experiential learning, and faithbased education that prepares students to understand the past while shaping the future.
SALESIAN SCHOOLS
IMMACULATA-LA SALLE HIGH SCHOOL, Miami, FL — Even with a little rain in the forecast, the spirit of Don Bosco Day shined brightly as ILS came together for a joyful celebration. Students enjoyed a full day of activities, including crafts, bounce houses, sports, and plenty of opportunities to laugh and connect with friends.
Alongside the festivities, the school also took time to celebrate their Salesian Sisters. As the Church honors those who have committed their lives to the consecrated life, ILS students, faculty, and staff offered a gesture of gratitude and a promise of the support of their prayers. Commenting on the event, Gia Spencer, Marketing Director at ILS, shared, “We are especially thankful for the Salesian Sisters who serve our ILS community with such love and dedication. You remind us each day that we are seen, valued, and deeply loved by God. Through your faith and kindness, you embody the spirit of St. John Bosco and inspire our community to live with joy, compassion, and purpose.”
The Class of 2026 & LINK Club had the honor of hosting the Special Olympics on campus at ILS. The experience was nothing short of inspiring. From the opening ceremony to the final rotation of obstacle courses, the seniors and LINK members worked tirelessly to create an inclusive, welcoming, and supportive environment for every participant. Their dedication and compassion was a reminder that the real victory lies in the joy we share and the bonds we build as a community.
ACADEMY OF OUR LADY HIGH SCHOOL, Marrero, LA — After five months of construction, AOL has unveiled its new recording and podcast studio—the first of its kind in the Archdiocese of New Orleans—transforming a former library copy room into a professional, soundproof space. Designed to provide students with technical training rooted in Catholic values, the studio also opens doors for music, media, and communication opportunities for both students and the wider community.
Making Space for Grace This Lent
The Lenten season is once again upon us. Every year it seems to arrive with a heavy thud, abruptly ending the lingering warmth of Christmas that somehow manages to stretch all the way to Ash Wednesday. As you can probably tell, Lent has never been my favorite season. I understand its purpose. It calls us to ongoing conversion, to greater holiness, and reminds us that one day we will stand before God. Still, nothing feels quite as stark as hearing the priest say, while tracing ashes on our foreheads, “Remember you are dust, and to dust you shall return.”
Lent is uncomfortable by design. It invites self-examination and asks us to take an honest look at our lives. The three traditional practices of Lent—prayer, fasting, and almsgiving—are meant to draw us out of ourselves and refocus us on God and on the needs of others. Yet this year, I find myself needing to approach them a little differently. After a year marked by grief and loss, after spending so much energy tending to sorrow, I recognize a need for healing. Perhaps Lent can become the path toward that healing rather than simply another demand.
“We pray not to control outcomes but to become aware of God’s presence within them”
Prayer as a Lenten practice seems obvious. Christians pray, but there is a difference between saying prayers and praying from the heart. It is easy to slip into routine, to recite familiar words out of obligation or quiet fear. Sometimes we treat prayer almost like a good luck charm. If I say this prayer, nothing bad will happen. That is not faith. God does not require persuasion to love us. He is not waiting to be convinced of our worth. Prayer is not currency, it is relationship.
Real prayer opens space for grace. We pray not to control outcomes but to become aware of God’s presence within them. We ask for protection not as an insurance policy, but as an expression of trust. Perhaps this Lent the invitation is to pray more simply—fewer formulas, more honesty, less talking, more listening. Silence can feel awkward at first, but in silence we notice what is stirring in our hearts; whatever rises there can become our conversation with God.
Fasting, too, deserves a deeper look. We often reduce it to food. While there is value in physical discipline, the deeper purpose of fasting is the training of the will. It strengthens our capacity to say no to what harms us, like sin, and yes to what leads to freedom, like virtue. Perhaps the fast we need most is not from chocolate, but from harsh words, gossip, complaining, constant criticism, and the relentless negative self-talk that so many of us carry.
In a world of constant stimulation, fasting might also mean stepping back from noise. Limiting social media. Turning down the volume of constant notifications. Choosing rest instead of one more obligation. Many poor decisions are made when we are exhausted or overstimulated. A calmer heart is more receptive to grace. If fasting creates interior space, that space can become fertile ground for God’s work.
Almsgiving is usually understood as giving money to those in need and that is certainly part of it. Generosity loosens the grip of selfishness and reminds us that everything we have is gift, but money is often the easiest thing to give—time and attention are far more costly. Presence is expensive.
There is also another dimension worth considering. Some of us have spent so much time caring for others that we have neglected our own well-being. For those who live in constant service mode, carving out time for rest, for something life-giving, can feel almost indulgent. Yet Lent is not about misery, it is about freedom. Holiness and joy are not opposites. If caring for our physical, emotional, or spiritual health feels like a sacrifice because we are not used to doing it, that may be a sign of how necessary it is.
Maybe the discomfort of Lent is simply the discomfort of growth, of letting go of habits that have numbed us and facing grief we have postponed. The discomfort of admitting we are tired. Can we receive the discomfort as an invitation? Can we acknowledge our needs and honor them?
Forty days from now, Easter will come whether we are ready or not. The question is whether we will allow these days to change us before it arrives.
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