Windsor-Essex golf course architect Christine Fraser is proving the biggest innovations in golf happen long before tee-off.
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DRIVE ART
Artist Chloe Chlumecky transforms ordinary moments into paintings filled with warmth, light, and nostalgia
ISSUE 172
DRIVE RECIPE
10 Oh So Mona celebrates the flavours of summer with a fresh, fire-roasted meal inspired by local farmers’ markets
DRIVE COMMUNITY
22 After 45 years of informing and connecting Windsor-Essex, Patty Handysides is embracing her next chapter of retirement
DRIVE SPORTS
26 Caboto Soccer Club celebrates 75 years of building community and shaping the next generation
DRIVE PROFILE
32 The May Court Club continues to give back in more ways than one
DRIVE MIND
36 Teri Gyemi explores how living in alignment creates lasting inner freedom
DRIVE EVENTS CALENDAR
38 Stay in the loop with local events in each issue and on our website thedrivemagazine.com
A NOTE FROM THE PUBLISHER
Things are heating up in Windsor-Essex now that summer has finally arrived. Long days, late sunsets over the Detroit River and celebrations around every corner, and this issue of The DRIVE feels like just that.
Inside, you’ll meet Christine Fraser who grew up on a family golf course, competed at the NCAA Division One level, earned her Master's in Landscape Architecture and then spent five years in England studying under one of the world’s most respected golf course architects. Christine has left her mark on some of the most storied courses in Europe and North America (Royal Birkdale, Sunningdale, Lahinch, The Toronto Golf Club) and recently made Canadian golf history as the first female architect to undertake a comprehensive Master Plan at the Toronto Hunt Club and this month, she’s our cover story.
You’ll also discover the story of Caboto Soccer Club, a WindsorEssex institution marking 75 years of the beautiful game, community and everything that comes with it.
Windsor’s Next Top Business submissions are open. Know someone with a great idea? Send them our way.
And if you have a story worth telling, we want to hear it. Reach us at connect@thedrivemagazine.com.
Thank you,
Paul St. Pierre Publisher
to grill FROM MARKET
To me, summer eating isn’t about complicated techniques; it’s about letting the season do the heavy lifting. This dish was born from a love for the flavours of summer found in our local farmers’ markets. Keeping the seasoning simple allows the flavours of bell peppers, zucchini, juicy tomatoes, and fragrant herbs to shine. My absolute favourite way to cook them is over an open flame on the barbecue. A quick kiss from the grill adds a deep, smoky char without losing any of that vibrant, explosive juiciness you only get from peak-season produce. Seasoned with salt and pepper and paired with herb-marinated chicken, then placed over a bed of fluffy rice and finished with a refreshing mint yogurt sauce. This bowl is everything I love about eating outdoors. It’s fresh and tastes exactly like summer.
FIRE-ROASTED CHICKEN & VEGGIE BOWL
FOR THE CHICKEN
• 2 chicken breasts, fillet
• 2 tbsp cooking oil
• 1 tsp garlic powder
• 2 tbsp fresh oregano, chopped (or 1 tsp dried)
• Salt and black pepper to taste
FOR THE MARKET VEGETABLES
• 2 medium zucchini, sliced into ribbons for the grill or half circles for the stove top
• 1 bell pepper (any colour), cut into wide strips
• 2 habanero peppers left whole
• 8-10 cherry tomatoes left whole
• 2 tbsp cooking oil
• Salt and pepper to taste
FOR THE MINT YOGURT SAUCE
• 1 cup plain yogurt
• ¼ cup fresh mint leaves, finely chopped
• 3 cloves garlic, minced
• ½ tsp salt
THE BASE
• 1 cup basmati or jasmine rice, following cooking instructions on the package.
DIRECTIONS
1. Filet the chicken breasts and add oil, oregano, salt, and pepper. Turn on your grill to medium heat (350 degrees). Let the chicken sit to marinate while the grill heats up.
2. Following the cooking instructions on your desired rice, prepare one cup of rice to be used for the base of your bowls.
3. Cut veggies then drizzle with oil, salt and pepper.
4. Once your grill is ready, add the chicken and vegetables and cook for 10-15 minutes, flipping halfway, until the chicken reaches an internal temp. of 165 degrees and the vegetables have a slight char.
5. While your chicken is cooking, mix the yogurt, garlic, and mint in a bowl. Set aside.
6. Assemble your bowl! Layer rice with chicken and vegetables and top with a generous dollop of the mint yogurt sauce.
Tip: To keep the vegetables from falling through the grates, cut them larger than you think you need to. You can always chop them down into bite-sized pieces after they are beautifully charred! Serves 2
Mona Elkadri is not just a food writer, but also a skilled recipe developer, former restaurateur, and culinary teacher. She possesses a keen appreciation for that elusive secret ingredient that invariably elevates each dish to perfection.
MISSING LINKS
Golf Course
Architect
Christine Fraser has grand designs for a more inclusive game
By Jesse Ziter
Photos by Trevor Booth
How do we save the game of golf from itself? The first woman to hold a lead design role on a golf course in Canada calls Windsor home, and she has some ideas.
In a way, for Christine Fraser, design can be a matter of life and death.
“If it doesn’t become more inclusive and diverse,” warns the ascendant thirtysomething course designer, “golf might not be around in 50 years.”
Informed by her experiences in and around the sport, Fraser works in a design language she sees as socially responsible in form and function - one capable of creating courses that optimize and extend the “golf lives” of all players independent of gender or skill. Truly accessible courses, she argues, accommodate a wide spectrum of skill levels and are useable by as many people with disabilities or mobility limitations as possible. They also coexist comfortably with their communities and the natural world.
Fraser’s ideas, viewed through a certain lens, are radical, but the golf world has begun to take positive notice. Fraser has been written up by the Professional Golfers’ Association of America and featured in Charles Schwab’s The Challengers video-series, a web-based showcase of innovators in the sport. In 2023, she was entrusted with a full-scale renovation of the Toronto
Hunt Club’s nine-hole course, considered by some the best in the country. Remarkably, a woman had never previously held a similar lead design role in Canada. At press time, the project, having been comfortably approved through a membership vote, is slated to come to fruition in 2028.
Closer to home, after years of drafting and discussions, Fraser recently broke ground on an exciting new development with Paul St. Pierre, founder and president of the LFX Group, owner of Belle River’s Rochester Place Golf Club & Resort, andfull disclosure - publisher of this magazine.
“Every architect’s dream is a home court advantage,” she shares with evident excitement. “To have someone with Paul’s passion, vision, and resources so close to my community has been wonderful.”
Fraser completed a Master of Landscape Architecture (MLA) degree from the University of Guelph (2014), where she learned AutoCAD, tree identification, and much more. She holds an undergraduate degree in Sports Management from Stetson, Florida’s oldest private university, which she attended on a golf scholarship. Her MLA thesis, a study of sustainable golf design, earned a bursary in the name of Stanley Thompson, one of Canada’s most iconic course designers, which funded a data-collection trip to Scotland. There, she connected with Dr. Martin Hawtree, a major British architect. Fraser spent five productive years as an associate architect with his firm, based just outside Oxford, working on Open Championship venues like Royal Birkdale and Muirfield and other notable courses elsewhere in Europe.
Eventually, Fraser was ready to take the next step in her career on more familiar turf. “I decided it was time to come back to Canada and implement what I learned in the UK here at home,” shares the proprietor of the independent golf course architecture business Christine Fraser Design. Shortly after Fraser’s repatriation, her new partner landed a job in Windsor. Fraser followed; the two have called Windsor home since 2019.
These days, Fraser works with clients across the country, including several in
Here Comes a New Challenger
In 2023, Christine Fraser landed on the radar of a global audience thanks to Charles Schwab, the Official Investment Firm of the PGA Tour for more than 25 years.
Fraser features alongside a coterie of world-class course architects, influencers, and “game improvers” from across the golf world in The Challengers, an award-winning collection of mini-documentaries from Charles Schwab Golf. The highly regarded web series, which ostensibly reflects the American financial services giant’s history of challenging Wall Street orthodoxy, is interested in men and women invested in changing golf by opposing conventional wisdom, exploring boundaries, and asking provocative questions around the edges of the sport. Sounds like somebody we know!
The Challengers highlights Fraser within its “Designers and Developers” portfolio. We think the slickly produced five-minute video, which centres on her commitment to diversity through design, captures Fraser’s one-of-a-kind voice while making a compelling argument she more than belongs in such august company.
Scan the QR code below to check it out for yourself.
WHAT'S NEXT, PATTY?
After 45 years behind the microphone, Patty Handysides signs off but she's far from finished
By Melissa Buzzeo
Patty Handysides is a local household name - and for a good reason. After a 45-year career in radio, it’s no surprise that she’s become a local celebrity. Now, for the first time in decades, she’s embracing a new chapter after recently retiring. As she reflects on her remarkable career, she also looks ahead to the opportunities and possibilities that retirement has in store.
The outpouring of well wishes and memories since I announced my retirement has left me speechless. It's been truly my honour to serve my community.
Her journey into broadcasting began through a co-op placement at CKAR while she was enrolled in the radio broadcasting program at Centennial College in Oshawa. Reporting her first stories while still a student, gave her invaluable hands-on experience and confirmed she had found her calling. After graduating, she landed a job at CBC Radio in Windsor, where she was mentored by veteran CBC senior reporter Gino Conte. “He taught me how to be trusted and respected by those I was reporting on,” she says.
After three years at CBC Radio, Patty joined CKLW where her career took a new direction as a DJ. Along with this new role came another influential mentor. She was thrilled to be working alongside legendary Big 8 DJ Johnny Williams, learning from one of the industry’s most respected broadcasters.
Along with this fast-paced career came many changes for Patty. Less than two years later, she faced another challenge when she was moved into the newsroom to take on a new role as a news anchor. She settled into this position for several years, but just when she thought her career had reached a steady point, it took another unexpected turn. Patty recalled, “CHUM Radio purchased
our Ouellette Avenue studios in 1993, and I was moved back into music.” This marked another major milestone in her career, as she became morning co-host alongside fellow Big 8 legend, Tom Shannon.
Although Patty has always welcomed change, she embraced yet another new role after her morning co-host position ended. She returned to broadcasting journalism, a field she knew very well and where she felt at home. “I became a show host, which was based on news and that’s the job I retired from recently,” she said.
Such a long and accomplished career has created memories that will last a
lifetime. One of Patty’s fondest memories was covering the Queen’s visit to Windsor in 1984. While it was a significant professional assignment, it also held deep personal meaning. “My Aunt Margaret Birch, Ontario’s first female cabinet minister, was the Queen’s escort during the visit,” Patty recalls. Years earlier, while serving as a Queen’s Park legislative page, Patty lived with her aunt and was inspired by her remarkable work ethic, which sparked her own interest in politics. Beyond memorable assignments, Patty’s career also opened the door to extraordinary experiences. She flew in a Sea King helicopter and landed on a Navy ship, soared over Michigan in a
two-seat jet experiencing dizzying aeronautics and enjoyed front-row seats to major events such as the Detroit Formula 1 Grand Prix and the Red Bull Air races along the Detroit River. These adventures are just a few of the many unforgettable moments from her career.
Patty is beginning this new chapter of her life on a high note. She recently served as the Grand Marshal for Windsor’s Canada Day Parade on July 1st. Following the celebration, she plans to embrace the freedom of retirement. “It’s the first summer I’ll be able to enjoy on my own time since high school. I’ve never been unemployed,” she said. In the fall, Patty has already committed to emceeing several events, allowing her to continue serving her community. Beyond broadcasting, she is also a licensed pyrotechnician who designs fireworks displays. If she chooses to pursue this passion further, she may do so in her free time.
It’s the first summer I’ll be able to enjoy on my own time since high school. I’ve never been unemployed.
After years in a fast-paced career filled with constant deadlines and activity, Patty is now looking forward to the quiet life. She plans to spend more time riding her bicycle and exploring the trails in her neighborhood whenever she pleases. As she begins this new chapter, she has been deeply touched by the overwhelming support from the community following the announcement of her retirement. “The outpouring of well wishes and memories since I announced my retirement has left me speechless. It’s been truly my honour to serve my community,” she says.
75 YEARS OF THE BEAUTIFUL GAME
Caboto Soccer Club celebrates a milestone built around community and joy
There is something poetic about an early morning soccer practice. The amber sunlight glinting off the dew-soaked grass, as the goal nets cast long silhouettes that stretch for miles. The children jumping out of their minivans to seize the day and kick those checkered soccer balls. All this, while mom and dad stand on the sideline, sipping their coffee.
For 75 years, the Caboto Soccer Club’s passion for the game has extended much further than just winning trophies. Boasting
By Devan Mighton
Photos by Adriana Lipari
one of the largest programs in Southwestern Ontario, Caboto Soccer has done its time, both winning provincial titles and developing young soccer stars. However, their greatest accomplishment has been, quite possibly, the community that they have helped mould around their passion for the “Beautiful Game.”
These days, nearly 900 young athletes hit the pitch with Caboto Soccer every season, but according to club president Egidio Mosca, the organization’s success has never
been about the numbers.
“I think the club’s longevity is really tied to the dedication and passion that the volunteers have shown over the years,” states Mosca. “It’s the board members, coaches, administrators, team managers, and all the people who do what they do for the love of the game, for their kids and for giving back to the community.”
Founded in 1951 through the Giovanni Caboto Club, Caboto Soccer originally fielded a senior men’s team made up
primarily of players of Italian heritage. At the time, across Essex County, the clubs were largely organized around ethnic communities, with clubs representing Italian, German, Serbian, Croatian, and other immigrant populations.
However, as Windsor-Essex evolved, so did Caboto. “What Canada became over time—a melting pot of different cultures— the club became as well,” explains Mosca. “Today, our teams are made up of players from many different backgrounds, religions, and cultures. Everyone is welcome.”
The transition didn’t occur overnight. The club’s original players started families, and their focus shifted toward creating opportunities for all the youth of WindsorEssex. Caboto’s youth program has grown through the decades and, today, Caboto offers programs for boys and girls while continuing to emphasize development, teamwork, and love of the game.
“Our mandate is simple,” states Mosca.
If our legacy is opening opportunities for children and creating memories they’ll carry with them for the rest of their lives, then we’ve done what we set out to do.
“We want to make memories.” Caboto Soccer is not just about participation in team sports; it’s also about helping young people develop qualities that last a lifetime. Caboto Soccer teaches qualities like leadership, resilience, communication, and teamwork. As soccer has continued to surge in popularity in Canada, more Windsor-Essex families have embraced those opportunities for their children. “Parents want their kids involved in team sports because they teach so many of the characteristics and values that help children grow into adults,” he explains.
Over the years, Caboto Soccer has
celebrated its share of league championships, and five Ontario Cup titles as well, however, the organization has come to value community service as just as important. Through its Shield of Excellence program, Caboto teams are encouraged to volunteer, fundraise, and support charitable causes throughout Windsor-Essex. Since its inception in 2016, the organization has helped to raise more than $50,000 for local charities.
“We’re fortunate to be able to play sports,” says Mosca. “Not everyone is in the same position. If we can fill even a small gap in our community by giving back, that’s important to us.”
Caboto Soccer’s commitment to its community partners is also a key reflection of their success as a program. Relationships with organizations including McAuliffe Park Sports, South Windsor Youth Soccer Club, Central Park Athletics, and the WindsorEssex Catholic District School Board have helped grow opportunities for youth
athletes while allowing the club to continue expanding.
However, Mosca is quick to point out that without their hard working and diligent volunteers, Caboto Soccer wouldn’t be capable of its aims. “The club would not exist without the volunteers,” he states. “If the volunteers go, sports stop.” Whether it’s organizing registrations, coaching practices, painting field lines before a tournament, or stepping in at a moment’s notice there’s a need or something comes up, volunteers remain the heartbeat of Caboto Soccer.
As Caboto Soccer celebrates its 75th anniversary, Mosca is optimistic about the future of this storied organization. “Our goal is to give kids the absolute best experience we can,” he says. “If our legacy is opening opportunities for children and creating memories they’ll carry with them for the rest of their lives, then we’ve done what we set out to do.”
I’m interested in those everyday experiences that don’t seem significant at the time but become meaningful when you look back on them.
Light GLIMMERS OF
How Windsor artist Chloe Chlumecky transforms everyday moments into paintings filled with memory and light
By
Lucy Lane
Photos and artwork by Chloe Chlumecky
The streets of Walkerville hold a certain charm, one that feels creatively alive with art and culture. Beyond the historic buildings and the tales of the past, there’s an artistic current running through the neighbourhoods that house artist co-ops, writers’ workshops, and an annual art festival that’s been running for over 40 years. Windsorbased painter Chloe Chlumecky knows this charm firsthand.
Her studio sits on Erie Street, a few kilometers and a lifetime of memories away from the streets of South Walkerville that first appeared in her early paintings. “Coming back to Windsor will always ground and inspire me to keep working,” she says. “Sometimes the most powerful inspiration comes from the places you know best.”
It’s a philosophy that started forming long before she ever picked up a paintbrush. As a kid, Chloe would park herself in front of the TV and draw cartoon characters, recruiting her friends to join in while she tried to teach them. Even then, something in her was drawn toward close observation. “I’ve always been interested in closely observing the world around me,” she reflects. That instinct would eventually become the foundation of everything she makes.
Her formal training began at Walkerville Collegiate, where the school’s arts program gave her the encouragement and structure to take her work seriously. From there, she went on to study Visual Arts at the University of Windsor in the Armouries building downtown, a fitting setting, as it turned out, for the kind of rigorous, technique-driven education that would shape her into the painter she is today. “I had the opportunity to learn from some amazing professors who challenged me to develop both my technical skills and my artistic voice,” she says.
It was also at university that Chloe made the switch from acrylic to oil paint. The decision wasn’t arbitrary. “For what I was trying to achieve in my paintings, acrylic felt very synthetic,” she explains. Oil paint, by contrast, gave her the flexibility her work demanded. Because her paintings are so
rooted in atmosphere, light, and subtlety, she needed a medium that could hold nuance and allowed her to build delicate transitions and communicate warmth through texture and luminosity. Oil paint, she says simply, “has a depth that helps me capture the warmth I’m trying to communicate.”
The real turning point in Chloe’s artistic development, though, came during an unexpected stretch of stillness. COVID lockdowns forced everyone to find ways to spend the time at home. While some turned to sourdough bread and TikTok dances, Chloe turned to her canvas. Suddenly she was noticing the way afternoon light moved across a kitchen table, the objects she’d lived with for years without really seeing, the mundane moments that ordinarily dissolve into background noise. “That period had a huge impact on the direction of my work and where it stands today,” she says.
Her process now begins with what she calls her iPhone “sketchbook” a camera roll full of captured moments that stopped her in her tracks whether it’s a bedroom at the end of the day, someone sitting in a familiar room, sunlight dancing on an ordinary surface. “I’ll take a reference photo because something about the light or the feeling of the moment catches my attention,” she says. But the photograph is never the destination. In the studio, she strips away the documentary quality of the image and works instead toward the feeling underneath it; the emotion that made her reach for her phone in the first place. “I’m interested in those everyday experiences that don’t seem significant at the time but become meaningful when you look back on them.”
Though her work is deeply autobiographical, Chloe is careful to leave the door open for viewers to walk in and find themselves there too. “I hope they leave enough space for viewers to connect them to their own experiences,” she says. “I think we’ve all had those quiet moments at home or in familiar places that stay with us long after they’ve passed.”
To learn more about Chloe, please visit her website ChloeChlumecky.com
A LEGACY OF SERVICE
The Enduring Impact of the May Court Club in Windsor
Written
Melissa Buzzeo
Located at 1122 Wyandotte Street, the May Court Club thrift shop is a familiar spot in Windsor. However, many residents who have visited or simply walked past the store may not be aware of the rich history behind the building. Founded In 1898 by Lady Aberdeen, the wife of the governor general, the
May Court Club began in Ottawa. Established on May Day, the organization takes its name from this tradition. It is not surprising that today, it stands as Canada’s oldest women’s service organization. Its long-standing presence has helped it build a, “highly respected history and profile,” says Martha Robinson, Director
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Photos by Adriana Lipari
of Special Events for the Windsor branch. She is pleased to say that when she made the decision to join the May Court Club about 12 years ago, it gave her a new purpose and in doing so, she has never looked back.
The May Court Club of Windsor was officially founded in 1934 with similar clubs emerging across Ontario. According to Club historian Linda Monforton, the organization’s goal has always been to serve the community through meaningful welfare initiatives. Over the years, the club has supported a variety of programs including the thrift shop (which continues to thrive today), a day nursery, a prenatal clinic and a food program for undernourished children.
While the focus of the Windsor branch has evolved over time, its core value of “service to others” remains unchanged. The club takes pride in its long-standing reputation and contributions to the community, including purchasing the first building for the Children’s Aid Society in Windsor. In 2026 alone, 17 local organizations supporting children and youth received a combined $140,000 in funding.
A significant portion of the funds raised for these initiatives comes from the thrift shop. The club has approximately 130 members, with around 70 active volunteers in the thrift shop. Because the organization owns its building, operates as a registered charity, and relies entirely on donated goods, it can keep the prices affordable. Martha shares that the shop continues to thrive, thanks in part to efforts to adapt to changing times- welcoming younger volunteers, refreshing the store space, keeping it very clean, and introducing new ideas. The team is always seeking gently used clothing and household items, as well as new volunteers and customers.
May Court is well known for hosting a variety of successful fundraisers within the community. Over the past few years, they have organized Walkerville Garden and Christmas Tours, Art Sale and Auction “Ya Gotta Have Art” and the popular Book Lovers Luncheon which showcases three local authors reading from their books. This year it will be held on October 18. They also run smaller events throughout the year, including trivia nights, vintage sales, bake
sales, silver sales, and Christmas in July.
Earlier this year, Martha introduced a new event concept. She thought it would be fun to host a fashion show with the theme “Girl’s Night Out.” She formed a committee to bring the idea to life, showcasing the club’s ongoing creativity and commitment to engaging the community in fresh and exciting ways. Together, the team imagined what would make the perfect night out and decided on the name “Sequins and Sparkles Soiree,” capturing the spirit of the event.
From there they brainstormed a wide range of ideas that guests would enjoy on their night out. The list included sparkling wine, food, live music, tarot card readings, personal poetry writing, hand massages, makeup demonstrations, raffle and door prizes, and wine and chocolate tastings. Guests also received swag bags to take home, and of course, the evening featured a May Court fashion show. All these elements were included in the ticket price, making it a fully inclusive experience.
For the fashion show, the committee selected pieces from the thrift shop, with May Court members modeling the outfits. Both the clothing and jewellery displayed during the event were available for purchase that evening. This was a well-received event, and they look forward to hosting more May Court Fashion shows in the future.
The event welcomed many guests and Martha and her committee were delighted to see many guests embracing the theme by dressing in sequins and sparkles. The event was held at Sho Art Studios in Windsor, a venue the team appreciated for its strong support of the May Court Club.
Robinson is a proud and dedicated member of the May Court Club. She shares that she has always valued volunteerism and raised her children with the belief in giving back to the community. She speaks passionately about the club’s impact, sharing heartfelt stories of how it has supported individuals in Windsor. When discussing events like the Sequins and Sparkles Soiree, her pride is evident. With members like Martha, the May Court Club continues to thrive and make a meaningful difference in the Windsor community.
IS AN INSIDE JOB integrity
How living in alignment creates inner freedom, personal sovereignty, and a more honorable world
We've all experienced the difference between someone whose words and actions align and someone whose intentions are compromised. Your nervous system recognizes the distinction immediately. One leaves you guarded and unsettled; the other creates a sense of safety, trust, and peace.
Lately, I've found myself reflecting deeply on the value of honor. Whether I'm simply noticing it more or whether integrity has become increasingly rare, I see how often people sacrifice truth for convenience, approval, or personal gain. Each time it happens, something essential is lost, not only between people, but within ourselves. Recently, while walking with a dear friend, she shared her sadness after being taken advantage of because someone viewed her kindness as weakness. I invited her to imagine a world where every thought, word, and action was rooted in honor and where people genuinely considered the well-being
of one another. We both smiled as an unexpected feeling of relief settled over us. Even imagining such a world brought peace to our nervous systems.
WHY DOES THAT VISION FEEL SO DISTANT?
Perhaps because we wait for society to change before giving ourselves permission to feel safe. But our freedom doesn't begin with governments, institutions, or the choices of others. It begins within. We cannot control the integrity of the world around us, but we can choose the integrity with which we meet it.
Imagine living without wondering whether someone is manipulating you, overcharging you, gossiping about you, or compromising your health for profit. Imagine moving through life without constantly needing to protect yourself. That world may seem far away, but each of us has the power to create that experience internally by refusing to let the behavior of others determine who we become.
INTEGRITY IS AN INSIDE JOB.
It is the quiet decision to remain aligned with your deepest values regardless of external circumstances. It is choosing truth over comfort, responsibility over blame, and authenticity over approval. When you stand firmly in your own Divine Line, you become sovereign. You stop outsourcing your peace to the opinions, behaviors, and chaos of the outside world.
Living this way requires courage. It asks us to honestly examine where we have drifted from our own values and to gently return home to ourselves. Every act of integrity strengthens not only our character but also our nervous system, allowing us to move through life with greater resilience, clarity, and freedom. The ripple effect is extraordinary. Every person who chooses honor creates greater safety for everyone around them.
Here are a few simple yet powerful ways to strengthen your integrity each day: Speak impeccably. Your words create your reality. Speak truthfully, kindly, and with intention, both to others and to yourself. Every conversation either builds trust or diminishes it.
Move your body. Movement improves circulation, supports the lymphatic system, strengthens the heart, and reminds your body that it was designed to thrive, not merely survive.
Dress with purpose. Caring for your appearance is not vanity; it is self-respect. When you present yourself with intention, you cultivate confidence, dignity, and self-worth from the inside out.
Create beauty around you. Your environment influences your inner world. A clean, organized, and peaceful space brings clarity to the mind and calm to the nervous system.
Question your assumptions. Most suffering grows from stories we invent. Seek understanding instead of feeding uncertainty through gossip or judgment.
Maintain healthy boundaries. Boundaries protect your peace, preserve your energy, and allow you to remain true to yourself without resentment or self-abandonment.
Don't take things personally. Other people's words and actions are reflections of their own inner world, not your value. Remaining grounded in your own truth protects your sovereignty.
Hydrate well. Pure water supports every system in the body. Consistent hydration promotes energy, detoxification, healthy circulation, and mental clarity.
Nourish yourself with whole foods. Choose nutrient-dense, minimally processed foods whenever possible. Practice the Japanese principle of Hara Hachi Bu,
eat until you are about 80% full, allowing your body to remain energized rather than burdened.
Limit alcohol and recreational drugs. Temporary escape often comes at the expense of long-term vitality. Lasting wellness comes from supporting the brain, heart, liver, and nervous system rather than asking them to recover from unnecessary toxicity.
Prioritize restorative sleep. Deep rest is where healing occurs. It restores the body, sharpens the mind, regulates emotions, and renews the spirit.
Reduce screen time. Constant stimulation and endless headlines can disconnect you from yourself. Time spent in nature, creating something beautiful, or simply sitting in silence restores perspective and nourishes your mind, body, and soul.
These practices are not about perfection. They are daily reminders that your greatest influence is over your own choices. As you strengthen your relationship with yourself, you naturally become less reactive to the noise of the world and more anchored in your own wisdom.
The world may not change overnight, but your experience of it certainly can.
When you choose integrity, you reclaim your sovereignty. You stop allowing fear, manipulation, or the behavior of others to dictate your inner state. Instead, you become someone whose presence brings calm rather than chaos, clarity rather than confusion, and hope rather than division.
Perhaps that is how a more honorable world begins, not through waiting for others to change, but through each of us quietly becoming the example we long to see.
Because every great transformation starts with one person choosing to live in alignment with their own truth.
I’m Teri Gyemi, a passionate life coach with a strong love for human behaviour. My own flawed past and my will to understand the hidden impulses that led me there, as well as my unrelenting desire to serve others, is what inspired me to become a life coach. Equipped with my certifications from the late Debbie Ford of The Ford Institute for Integrative Coaches, 2 decades experience as a life coach, practice as a workshop leader and educator, I have successfully supported clients through a holistic approach in realizing and executing their goals, healing emotionally, reviving their relationships or uncouple from unhealthy ones. My hope is that something I write will encourage those in need to take a step toward positive personal growth. terigyemi.com | psychologytoday.com
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AUG 1 Essex County Plowing Match | Comber 9am-3pm
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AUG 2 Amherstburg Open Air Weekend Downtown Amherstburg 10am-4pm
AUG 3 Mack Flash Trivia | Canadian Brewhouse 6-8pm
AUG 4 Improv Drop-in Night | Chapter 2 Brewery 6:30-8:30pm
AUG 5 Cosmo Club – Fashion Show by Dilly Daisy | Wolfhead Distillery 5-8:30pm
AUG 6 Open Mic Storytelling Circuit | Ford City 7pm
AUG 6 Music Bingo | Parks & Rec Gastropub and Sports Bar 7-9pm
AUG 7-9 Caldwell First Nation 2nd Annual Competition Pow Wow | Caldwell 5pm
AUG 8 Pedals and Passport | Malden Park Visitors Centre 7am-5pm
AUG 9 Comber Fair Demolition | Derby Comber Fairgrounds 1:30pm
AUG 9 Goalie Training Program The WFCU Centre 11am-12pm
AUG 10 Experience Windsor Summer Series City Hall Square 5-8pm
AUG 12 Date on Purpose: Summer Social Cookie Bar 7-10pm
AUG 13 AWE Summer Nights | Art Windsor Essex 5-9pm
AUG 14 Mill St. Market | Leamington Arts Centre 5-10pm
AUG 15 Rocking The Pit Outdoor Concert & Pig Roast | Rob n’ Sons Kitchen 5-11pm
AUG 15 DROPPED ‘26 | Drouillard 11am-10pm
AUG 16 Tecumseh Farmers Market
AUG 17 Card Board Game Night The Shadowbox Theatre 5-10pm
AUG 19 Wicked Wednesdays: Haunted Heritage Tours | Canadian Transportation Museum and Heritage Village 8-9pm
AUG 20-23 Windsor Carnival 2026 Lanspeary Outdoor Rink 12pm
AUG 21-23 Canadian Middle Eastern Festival Jerome St 11pm
AUG 22 Windsor Punk Rock Flea Market Capitol Theatre 4-9pm
AUG 23 Rosé All Day | Cooper’s Hawk Vineyards & The Vines Restaurant 11am-4pm
AUG 23 The Windsor Regency Ball Willistead Manor 5pm-12am
AUG 24 Summer Coding Camp | Windsor Day Camps 9am-4pm
AUG 25 Phogheads Comedy Showcase Phog Lounge 8:30-10pm
AUG 26 Neighbourhood Nights | Realtor Park 6:30-9pm
AUG 27-30 Windsor 2nd Annual Asian Night Market | Riverfront Festival Plaza 10pm
AUG 28 Walkerville Distillery District Night Market | Walkerville Brewery 5PM
AUG 28-30 Northern Heat Ribfest Devonshire Mall 5-8pm
AUG 28-30 Tecumseh Corn & Music Festival McAuliffe Park 12-5pm
AUG 29 Over 30’s Day Party | Ariius Night Club 4pm
SEP 3-6 The 172nd Harrow Fair at the Harrow Fairgrounds
SEP 4-6 Windsor Food Festival | Riverfront Festival Plaza
SEP 4 89x Birthday Bash | The Colosseum at Caesars Windsor 7:30pm
SEP 5 Music On the 42 Summer Concert Series SUNSET® Amphitheatre 7-11pm
SEP 5 Lakeside Market | Atlas Tube Centre 8am-1pm
SEP 5 Downtown Windsor Farmers Market Pelissier Street 9am-2pm
SEP 6 Parking Lot Party | River’s Edge Tap & Table 2pm
SEP 8 Take It To The Limit: The Music and Legacy of the Eagles | Capitol Theatre 7-9pm
JUL 31 Live Music with Rochelle Day | Colchester Ridge Estate Winery 5-8pm
AUG 1 The Gulfstreamers Live at Parkside Grille 6pm
AUG 6 Live at The Lighthouse Mettawas Park 7-8:30pm
AUG 7 Live Music Friday Daisy & Co. Wine Bar 6:30-9:30pm
AUG 8 Sandy Ridge Live at The Canadian Brewhouse 2pm
AUG 13 Alessandro Rotundi Live at Urban Surf Co. 6:30pm
AUG 14 Southwind Buoys Live at Parkside Grille 6pm
AUG 15 Mystic Highway: CCR / John Fogerty Tribute | SUNSET® Amphitheatre 7:30pm
AUG 20 Lisa Difazio Summer Piano Tour | Kona Sushi Tecumseh
AUG 21 Mark Chichkan Live at Parkside Grille 6pm
SEP 3 Jason Baclig Live at Urban Surf Co. 6:30pm
SEP 5 The S’aints | SUNSET® Amphitheatre 7:30pm
*Event details are subject to change. We recommend verifying dates, times and availability with the event organizers before attending. The Drive Magazine is not responsible for any changes, cancellations or inaccuracies.
