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Thank You Murphy School District & Character Counts Education Grants For Helping Us Realize Our Hopes, Fears, and Most of All, Our Dreams...
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices . . .
Thanks to the foresight and generosity of
funds from Murphy School District, 21st century and Arizona Department of Education Character Education matching grant. This being a Mid-Report of 9 different workshops making a difference in 247 young lives and their families. Tomorrow's leaders in Arizona, experience the Pain being transformed into Possibilities and Purpose .They are now Inspiring and empowered find their gifts, know that they matter and lead a more meaningful productive life and a brighter tomorrow.
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hat: Release the Fear, a non-profit health and human services organization, teaches Arizona’s youth the
life skills needed to combat the effects of Peer Pressure, Gang involvement, Bullying, Abuse, and Violence in our society and to make better life choices. Release the Fear (RTF) has worked with thousands of at-risk youth and adults in Arizona and around the world, offering experiential programs that help reverse the paralyzing effects of fear and diminished self-worth. Our programs encourage youth to explore safe and healthy lifestyles and to overcome disabilities through the development of leadership and social skills through evidence-based curriculum that meets National Common Core standards. Arizona Department of Education, accredited Release the Fear program as a Character Education program
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ow: These programs stimulate whole-brain thinking and develop metacognitive thought processing
by utilizing new applied-knowledge teaching methods. These programs demonstrate options that awaken a creative consciousness and expose the unlimited potential of critical thinking and problem solving to help participants develop better cognitive behavioral skills. Our trained facilitators guide participants through interactive creative activities and analytically explore the connectedness to their lives. Release the Fear utilizes inquiry-based learning experiences, an educational practice where the teacher/facilitator uses controlled questioning to serve as a learning guide in order to move students towards new understandings. Educational research shows that student retention increases when new learning is discovered through inquiry practices, as the student is able to take ownership of these findings. The teacher/facilitator must act as guide while being an expert questioner, thinking of the end objective at all times and posing questions to allow students to reach objectives on their own. When this is done, students are able to create new thought patterns which connect and build on their applied knowledge and personal life goals. Without these essential life skills, the still- maturing minds of detained youth view their future as bleak with no hope for a “normal” life.
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pproach: Through experiential programs, we encourage participants to develop valuable core life
skills, better critical problem solving, and a healthy sense of understanding of self and others. Through the RTF programs, participants discover that anything is possible, that they have a purpose in life. They see why they do matter to the world, to the community, and most of all to themselves.
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ransformation: The Maricopa County Juvenile Probation Office released a 2010 report
demonstrating the value of Inside Out Bridging Possibilities workshops on 357 of their juvenile population. Thirty percent of incarcerated youth recidivate—meaning three out of ten will again find themselves in conflict with law and society and back behind bars. For the incarcerated youth who participated in just one Release the Fear workshop, that recidivism figure dropped by 23 percent. For those who were able to benefit from multiple workshops, it dropped by 16 percent - nearly half. That is an impressive impact on any child’s future as well as the community in general.. Release the Fear, Inc. has worked with youth in Arizona and internationally, in such places as Guam and El Salvador, instilling positive life changes for thousands.
For nearly seventeen years, Release the Fear has had the opportunity to interact with over 7,600 troubled youth; these youth now know they have a life purpose. They know their wishes and dreams can come true. They know they are worth it and that they matter!
Our evidence-based curriculum has helped troubled kids in schools, jails, detention, and treatment centers. Through the creative processes of art, music, and communication, we teach kids cognitive behavioral skills to build self-esteem. They learn tools to help them succeed in school, conflict resolution, and to address peer pressure, and bullying.
Between the years 2007 and 2013, Release
the Fear has shown constant improvement upon youth’s pre- and post-reporting’s learned about perceptions of themselves.
In addition, during the years of 2012 and 2013, Release the Fear has contributed to an overall improvement of youth’s self-reported willingness to assist another if bullied. Despite a decline of reported learning’s about proactive options to prevent being bullied, their learning consistently remained over 78 percent.
9 of 24 matching Grants October-December 2014 RELEASE THE FEAR 2014 RTF Pre/Post Survey Results Character Education Matching Grant Murphy School District OVERALL PERCENTAGES 247 Students (9 BP Workshops) Male 51% Female 49% – Youth Ages 11-15 95.3% discovered something new about themselves 96.8% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 70.1% compared to Post 83.3% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 86.6% compared to Post 99.7% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 90.2% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 93.3% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied.
Individual Workshop Percentages 1. October 20-22, 2014 Sullivan Elementary School 36 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 53% Female 47% – Youth Ages 12-13 97% discovered something new about themselves 100% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 75% compared to Post 86% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 72% compared to Post 97% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 81% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 94% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied. 2. October 20-24, 2014 Hamilton Elementary School 30 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 40% Female 60% – Youth Ages 11-13 97% discovered something new about themselves 100% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 83% compared to Post 90% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 97% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 97% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 93% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied.
3. November 3-6, 2014 Kuban School 25 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 64% Female 36% – Youth Ages 12-13 92% discovered something new about themselves 96% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 72% compared to Post 80% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 92% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 84% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 92% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied. 4. November 3-6, 2014 Garcia School 23 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 65% Female 35% – Youth Ages 12-13 100% discovered something new about themselves 100% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 83% compared to Post 100% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 100% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 91% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 100% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied. 5. November 10-14, 2014 Sullivan Elementary School 34 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 50% Female 50% – Youth Ages 12-13 94% discovered something new about themselves 100% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 56% compared to Post 62% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 78% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 94% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 94% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied. 6. November 10-14, 2014 Hamilton School 25 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 56% Female 44% – Youth Ages 12-14 91% discovered something new about themselves 96% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 70% compared to Post 87% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 96% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 92% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 96% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied. 7. December 8-11, 2014 Kuban School 21 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 48% Female 52% – Youth Ages 12-13 100% discovered something new about themselves 95% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 43% compared to Post 86% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 81% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 86% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 90% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied.
8. December 8-11, 2014 Garcia School 23 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 51% Female 49% – Youth Ages 12-13 87% discovered something new about themselves 91% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 79% compared to Post 92% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 96% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 100% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 91% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied. 9. December 11-18, 2014 Sullivan Elementary School 30 Students (1 IO-BP Workshops) Male 33% Female 67% – Youth Ages 13-15 100% discovered something new about themselves 93% discovered something new about classmates and friends. Pre 70% compared to Post 67% realized that they are not alone in their fears. Pre 67% compared to Post 100% realized that they can make their dreams a reality. 87% learned something to help them deal with bullying. 90% stated that they would do something if they saw someone being bullied.
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 36 young lives from Sullivan Elementary experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on October 20-22, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 12-13. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Get know each other, communicate, honesty. Make friends, know people. Not judge, open minds. Be better at goals, respect. / Friends, be kind, be in better moods. Not judging, friendship, social. Respectful, responsibility, fairness. Meeting people, apply into good college, successful. / Friendships and knowing others and yourself. Get along better being responsible. Not judging, make friends, teamwork. Reach for your goals, work hard, get smart. / Getting to know people, communication, respect because if you don’t give them they won’t treat you the same. Make new friends. Meet and get to know them. Be friends and confident. / Being social, not judgmental, citizenship. By being able to know people better. By sitting and just talking to the person. To help you be a better person. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Respect, friendship, social skills, responsibility, citizenship. Make friends, get along, have respect for others. Being a leader for yourself. Being responsible and making the right choices. / Proud, had confidence, happy, self-respected. To reach dreams and goals. Believe in yourself so no one can get to you. Jobs, sports team, grades. / Not being afraid, being happy. Make you confident. It’ll help you make the right choice. It’ll build because you’re learning. / We learned to respect. We have to respect our elders. It would help by trying to be the best so we would be good in life. / We learned responsibility and respect. It would apply with homework and turning it in. It builds our confidence. Everyone is going to respect and trust you.
Mirror Work: Look at Yourself in the eyes (ONLY) and tell yourself that you love or like yourself just the way you are.It makes me feel proud about myself and it will be a good day. / Nice, awesome, great. / Confident, awesome, cool. / Awesome, cool, unique. / Confident. / This make me feel good cause I just release some stress. / I like myself. It make me feel good. / Weird, happy. / Like I’m worth something. / Proud, happy, and good. / This makes me feel good inside. / This makes me feel good. / It. / makes me feel good. Cool and awesome. / I love myself. / Good. / I feel goofy sometimes but sometimes feel happy about me. / It makes me feel good. / It makes me feel not so good. / Happy, cool. / Grateful, trustworthy, and responsible. / Good, happy / It makes me feel like me. / Happy, proud, amazing. / It makes me feel happy because I am telling myself that I like myself and nobody is judging me. Hero: Who is Your Hero and Why do you think are they important? What characteristics or qualities, would you or do you, look for in a Hero? My hero is my dad. He is my hero because he always help me. Trustworthy. / My hero is my dad. / My brother because he is in the Marines. They fight for us. Nice, caring. / My uncle is my hero. To me I would consider him my dad. I know if anything were to happen to my mom or anything, they would take me as his own. He is important because he’s my hero and I love him. He’s my uncle and he’s family. Loving, cares for me, brave, caring, strong, kind, funny, I can count on him. / Martin Luther King Jr.. He freed the African Americans. Respected. / My hero is my mom. She’s important because she gave birth to me and she gives me love. I look at their love and also their personality. / Dizzy Wright. They are important because they talk about being confident and to be good. Their personality. / My hero is my mom. She is always by my side. I look for kindness. / Batman. / Grandma. My grandma is my hero because she gets food and other stuff for us. Because she takes care of my siblings and cousins. Citizenship and responsibility, knowledge. / Batman. Leadership. / Kobe Bryant. He is a beast at basketball. How good they are at something and how cool. / My hero is my mom. She is important because if she wasn’t there, I would fall apart. I look for kindness and determination. / My hero is Fluffy(Gabriel Iglesias). I look for kindness and determination. / She is important because if she wasn’t here, I wouldn’t be here. I look for kindness. / Messi. Because he is a professional soccer player. Soccer skills and awesomeness. / Mom. Because they raised you to be a good kid. A lot of respect. / Superman. He can’t die. Can fly. / My hero is my sister because she understands me and when have a problem, she’s always there. / Football is my hero. Because if there was no football, I probably would have been fat. A great sport. / My mom. She is important to me because she is important to me. That they are kind and not rude. / Dad. Because he makes me feel safe. Responsible, trustworthy. / Family and friends. Cuz I trust them. Cuz they can. No. / My friend. They support me. Supportive, helpful, nice. / Superman. I think he’s important because he saves people. Umm…..well he is cute. / My grandma is my hero. My grandma is my hero because she cared when no one else did. I look for kindness and respect in her. / My mom takes care of me when I’m sick. She helps me in everything. She takes care of me. Trustworthy, responsible, nice, respectful. / My hero is my mom because she is important to me. She is manage to take us to school clean and make food and still being there for me. If I were to pick a hero I would pick Superman because he saves people and has citizenship and that’s what I want in a hero. I would like for a hero leadership, citizenship, and to be funny and fun.
Seeing Beyond: Imagination, 5 senses, details. It would apply in writing because it will help you make you have a better story. You’ll have more imagination. / Strategy, imagination. Science because you need strategy to know how to make something work. Use strategy to help people. / We learned about teamwork and cooperation. Grammar and writing because you can describe things better. Working with your team better and get along (teamwork). / Imagination, clues, and details. Clues would apply in school with reading because we would use the clues that we used in seeing beyond. It would help us because we can use the imagination and clues. / Using context clues. It would apply in writing because you always have to think about it. It’ll help us figure things out. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: Creativity, reflection, thinking. Think before you write. So you can stand up for yourself. So you could get a good career. / To not worry about the fears and worry about hope and dreams. Give you confidence to follow your hopes and dreams. You will stand up for yourself and not have fear. Respect, leadership, confidence. / To be confident, thinking memory. Stand up to people. You’ll know what to do. It’ll help you accomplish things. / Overcame fear, express your feelings. So people can know you better. Standing up for yourself.
Achieving goals. / Achieving your goals. Thinking, memory. Putting in more effort. Not letting it put you down. With achieving your goals and what you want to do in life. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Optimism, effort, success. Help you be happier. It’ll help you reach goals in life. / Be sure of yourself, confidence, brave. Confidence to talk in front of class. Confidence and brave in job interview. / Describing things in the bags. Working together, trustworthy. Learning to work together with people. / Responsibility, confidence, cheerful. It gives you joy and confidence. Going to college happy might help to enter. / Five senses, imagination, detail. It’ll help by getting good at using your imagination. Later in life it might be handy. Describe a time when you had an experience that you perceived (thought/saw) as negative but through time or something you did, you perceived (thought/saw) the experience as a positive one.
Trying a ride because it look scary but I tried it and now I like that ride so I can get on it when I won’t pass by. / It’s good to have a positive experience. / It was when my dad promised me to take me somewhere but never did. I was sad but then I found out it was important. / I thought that I will be born in New York but I was in born in Arizona with no weather. / I felt bad because they just kept on bothering him and I stopped it. / At first I did like a girl in my class then we sat next to her then I met her. She turned out pretty cool. Now she is a really close friend. / When I got taken away and I moved with my tia and I thought it was gonna go bad but it turned out to be good. / Coming to Arizona. I met friends. There was football here. / Last year I was bad then my mom said I’m going to act up this year but I did not. / Once we took a trip to Flagstaff and it felt like it was going to be boring but it turned out ok because my aunt came alone with us because we walked through Flagstaff. / I saw a dog got crashed but later that day I hugged Deja and I got happy! / I was walking one day then I fell but I found a quarter and walked away. / The time I moved I thought it was bad. After a while I saw it was really good. / I seen a chair with a sweater and thought it was an evil monster or person. / When I went to Colorado, I thought it was boring but no it wasn’t. / When I saw a clown I thought it was scary. Then I went closer to it and was cool. / When my friend Dennis moved in I didn’t like him at first. But when I started talking to him he turned out to be cool. / At first I didn’t like a ride. Then I tried it and I enjoyed it. / We went to a trip to Colorado and I thought it was going to be boring but it was cool. / I think of that they would be critical. / Yes because a time negative was something positive. / A time I experienced that I was bad something was when I thought I was bad at soccer, it turned out I was good. / When I moved to this school, I thought I was not gonna make friends. But then like a month later I made a lot of friends. / Thinking a movie is bad but it turns out to be good. / I went to a move theater and watched the Harrison movie. I thought it was going to be boring. It turns out it was great. / The time when I thought a movie was bad then it turned out that it was actually a good movie. / Going to the movies and thinking it would be not good at all and at the end it turns out being good. / When I went to the mountain and broke my hand. But the nice thing is I missed school. / I remember the time we went to the lake and I thought it was going to be boring but it turned out to be fun. / The first day I went to preschool I was afraid but then that day was so much fun. Color: Creativity. Help you think. Be better person. / Courage, bravery. Believe in yourself. So you’re not too scared when you’re in front of everyone. / Strong movement. Having creativity and mind. Seeing the world in a different view. / Responsibility, confidence, cheerful. Make you happy. Help you by achieving something. / Family. They will always push you to your limits. They will make us better people. Overall, something New about Self or Others in your Group: We learned to use our minds a little more. / To always believe in yourself, be brave, and never think negative. / That people have the same fears as you and can help you with what you need help with. / I learned that they all participated. / About release our fears and accomplish our dream.
Funded By: Murphy School District Character Ed Location: Sullivan Elementary %Male 53
%Female 47
Dates: October 20-22, 2014
Ages 12-13
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 73 %NO 19 %Other 6 Post %YES 86 %NO 11 %Other 3 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 25 % Sometimes 56 % All the Time 19 Post % Not at all 14 % Sometimes 64 % All the Time 22 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 6 % Sometimes 75 % All the Time 19 Post % Not at all 6 % Sometimes 52 % All the Time 42 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 6 % Sometimes 58 % All the Time 36 Post % Not at all 6 % Sometimes 58 % All the Time 39 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 8 % Equal 47 % Leader 45 Post % Follower 6 % Equal 33 % Leader 61 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 47 % No 53 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 81 % No 19 Did you do anything? % Yes 53 % No 25 % No Answer 22 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 81 % No 19 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I didn’t go so I don’t know. / Respect. / Confidence. / To stand up for yourself and be brave. / Standing up for yourself and go tell that bully something. / Yes cause I stopped since the first day. / To change bad things to good. / It would help by just ignoring them and keep walking and tell someone. / Because I never had bullying. / I feel the same. / Using the who am I. / Yes to talk to them about it. / I will stand up to bullies. / Don’t be afraid step up. / Brave to speak up. / To not do it. / I’ll just keep myself up and going. / Sorry. / Yes I did you guys taught me that you never should be bullied. After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 94 % No 6 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: So they won’t feel down. / I would tell a teacher. / Because it’s rude that they can hurt other’s feelings. / I would go and tell someone. / I would stop it. / Stop and call a teacher. / Because the people being bullied are nice. / Yes I will tell the teacher. / Because it is not my business. / Help them. / I’d help them. / Help the person who gets bullied. / I would stop the bully. /
Because you need to speak up. / Confident. / I would help or get an adult. / I would say or tell an adult. / I would cuz that’s mean. / Yes I would do because I care for other people. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 92 % No 8 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Don’t let them push you. / My decisions will be responsible. / How to achieve my dreams. / We should be equal and respect others. / They want to respect I will give them respect back. / Yes because I don’t pay attention to the kids. / Don’t get it. / Because if you are on peer pressure sometimes you can get hurt. / Yes I did we have to know what it is. / Because I do my own decisions. / I feel the same. / I learned how to be my own person. / Yes to calm myself and answer. / Do the right thing. / Because you believe in you. / Responsibility. / I learned not to do something if you don’t want to. / Yes, because you do what you believe in. / Responsibility. / I learn that peer pressure doesn’t really matter to make good decisions. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 72% Post 92% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Yes, because why do we see in color. / Black and white. / I don’t care. She is black or she is fat. / What I think about color is blank. / I see color as something that makes it alive. / I think color is beautiful. / What do I think about color I don’t know. / Color is happiness. / I think color is equal. I never thought about color. / I think about color that is beautiful. / I think that the color are feels. / Color is something that makes a picture more creative and alive. / I think it brings out the nicest things. / I think color brings out the best in everything. / I think that everyone deserves to be treated and be equal with respect. / Color doesn’t matter in life. / I think it’s a kind of thing that is in you. / I do think about color all the time. / Red, purple, and yellow. / The rainbow doesn’t have all colors. It’s not a rainbow without all colors but only bright ones. / What I think about color is we all are equal and I don’t judge others. / No I never thought about color. / I like things when they’re colorful. / I don’t really care. / I don’t care about other people’s color. / No not really. / I have nothing against color. / No I don’t think about color because I don’t really care as long as I play. / Color is something that expresses you. / Color like race. / It’s a thing that fills in a blank. / Yes I think about color. I think color is a nice thing. / Pink. / I think colors are cool but I have not thought about until now. / Rainbow I think it is where unicorns come from. Post: Color doesn’t matter to me, it matters how you treat me. / Pretty impressive. / Be quiet!! / What I think about color is music. / Pick a color that you don’t like to make something good. / Color brings light. / Colors are more than just color on a paper. / More to color than just that. / They all have a meaning. / I learned that color is what supports you also my color is my family. / It’s nice because it is fun to have color in life. / Color is imagination. / I learned to be brave and to like myself. / I like it is like your mood. / That it helps me respect. / It’s great. That color is important. / I learned that color could sometimes be your fear and cool. / Colors mean trustworthy. / Color is something that expresses emotion. / That everything has color, music and people. / Color is something that describes. / I think they’re beautiful. / The color don’t matter because is the person. / My color is my family. I learned that color supports you. / I think it’s awesome that it’s beautiful. / That color is something to make something else alive, colorful. / I don’t care about color. / I still think everyone is equal. / I think color is important. / Color is life. / Color don’t matter. It’s how you treat me. / Color is beautiful. / I think colors are beautiful and bright. / About how bad the color. / Color shows feels on anything. / Well I think about workshop.
My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 72% Post 97% Thoughts Shared: Pre: I don’t have one. / I don’t have one. / My dream is my mom come to the U.S.. / My hope is to be a professional soccer player. / To see my uncle again. / I do not have one. / My most important dream is I don’t know. / To have a great job and life. / My most important dream is to be famous. / Is that I don’t know. / I think to your hope or dreams will be sometimes. / I want to go see the Eiffel Tower. / No. / No. / to live a happy life? / My hope is to be something big in the world and dream of helping people. / My most dream is to play pro soccer. / My most important dream is to be an engineer. / Going to heaven, being an engineer. / To achieve my goals and walk my talk. / I would want to become a vet or singer. / My most important dream is to go to the NFL. / My most important dream is to become a doctor. / I can’t say. / To have a good life. / Yea I do. / To go to college. / I don’t have a dream. / My most important dream is to become a doctor. / To go to college. / Is to become a lawyer. / My dream is to play basketball or soccer. / My dream is to become a corpsman for the Navy when I grow up. / Going to heaven. / I want to be a cook. / Is be President of the United States of America. Post: To do something that can change people’s lives in a good way. / My dream is being a pro skate boarder. / Is to become a great person. / My dream is to be a professional soccer player. / NFL. / Becoming something successful. / I want to be a cook. / To achieve my goals, go to college and move to Miami and become a CSI. / To have my family together. / My hope is to get a hair salon when I grow up. / My most important dream is to be an orthodontist when I grow up. / Is to have a great family that cares for me. / My most important dream or hope is to be a vet. / Is to graduate college. / Is that I don’t have one. / My most important hope is that I have my mom. My dream is that I have a good life. / Is to be a veterinarian and go to college and help my mom in life. / I would like to be a soccer player. / Is to have a family. / My most important dream is to be a doctor. / To play pro soccer. / Is to become a football player. / My dream is to play soccer. / My most important dream is to become a doctor. / To be an engineer. / My most important dream is to become a doctor. / To have a good education. / I dream of becoming a vet or a singer. / My important dream is to be a basketball player. / My most important dream is to be a vet. / To be something great. / Is to touch a panda. / To become a rock legend. / To go to college. / To have a good job and money dream be a singer. / It is important of your hope and dream. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 97% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: Always try don’t let anyone put you down. / Is to believe. / Is to always try. / I could do it even if I can’t. / Don’t give up. / I will be responsible and reach my dream. / Work hard and have fun. / Teamwork and to cooperate. / Is have to know the five senses of details. / I learned to never give up on myself. / One thing I learned is to keep reaching it and never let go. / Is to have confidence and always think positive. / One that I learned to help me reach my dream is trustworthiness. / Is to keep on moving. / Is I don’t have a dream yet. / One thing that I learned to get to my dreams is to not be afraid. / Is that to have confidence in myself. / I help me in being more responsible. / Look at the whole picture. / Using creativity will help me reach my dream. / Is to keep going. / Follow your dreams. / Is to be confident. / To teach me is to be respectful. / I learned to reach my goals. / That the world is colorful. / To be confident. / To not give up. / Respect others
and you will be respected. / One thing I learned that to never give up. / Is to be successful. / Don’t let people drag you down. Be confident. / Is responsibility. / To respect others and all. / To believe in myself. / That never give up. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 97% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: I can make my dream come true if I really try. / No not really. / I know how to draw!! I guess!! / That I am I really good soccer player. / Look in a mirror. / I am respectful. / I learned to respect me and others. / Cooperation and friendship. / That no matter what they say you’re important. / I learned that I am a very strong person. / I learned that when you look at yourself in the eyes with a mirror you can feel proud of yourself. / That I have potential. / I learned to like and love myself. / That I’m very confident. / That mixing colors is cool. / That I was afraid of something and I do have dreams. / I learned that I wasn’t confident in myself. / Look outside of the picture. / I learned that I am special. / What I can do to keep going. / To release your fears. / That I’m a leader. / I learn to be nice. / I learned that I have a great friendship. / That I’m good at art. / I can be responsible for my decisions. / That I’m different in many ways. / That I’m afraid of losing my friend. / What I learned new was trust in myself. / That I’m more than I think I am. / I am confident and strong. / That I can be a leader. / That I am an equal. / Yes in summer school. / That color is in everything. / To learn now think yourself. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 100% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: They now know bullying is wrong. / It’s something that you could believe in yourself. / They draw I guess!! / That all of my friends play sports. / Be respectful. / My classmate is confident. / Treat others the same way you want to be treated. / I learned that there’s more to a person. / That they are all afraid of something. / I learned that Barbara wants to be a doctor. / I learned that you can always be friends when you’re kind to each other. / They’re not always the same. Everybody’s different. / I learned about my class to have citizenship. / That we can all get along. / That they keep you helping others. / I learned that when people look different doesn’t mean that are not nice. / That she is really nice when I thought she was mean. / I learned that you need to be kind. / Not to judge. / I learn that my friend is creative. / Their memories and how they are in their family. / That I thought wrong about them. / That they are different. / I learned that my friend has a lot of confidence. / That they can help. / That they can be shy sometimes speaking in front of class. / That every little people went to summer workshop. / That some people are scared of weird things like clowns or the grudge. / I learned that they are a leader. / Yes I sure did. About Nayely Romero. / They will stop bullying. / That they are funny. / That we are all equals. / to help them. / That all the people have negative and positive thing in life. / Well you meet your friends or a classmate.
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 30 young lives from Hamilton Elementary experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on October 20-24, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 11-13. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Communication, trustworthiness. Help us interact with people. Look at yourself before you judge others. Look at yourself before you judge others. It will help me be a better person. / Know people, communicate. None can be alone, exams. Teamwork, sharing with others. Interacting, working together. / How to communicate with each other. When you’re talking to other people. By communicating and asking and learning about each other. It helps you be able to talk to others. / We learned how to communicate with each other. By making new friends. You can just ask them before you judge them. The better you communicate in life, the more opportunities you would have in life. Creative Storytelling: Communicating. Using our imagination. It will make us more outgoing. Help others. It will make me a better person. / How to be truthful. Have a lot of manners, polite. If you’re the witness, tell what happens. More supportive. / Creativity, storytelling, group work. By telling them they made a good story. Respecting others. / We learned how to be fair. By not fighting with each other. By sharing and not fighting over things. To be fair with other people. Through the Hoops: Communicate, work together. Working with each others. Do not. Don’t let nothing bring you down. / Teamwork, communicate. Helping others in problems, fears. Doing what’s right, support them. Going through fears, completing goals. / Working together. Where others need help. When someone is getting bullied you help them. / Teamwork, communication, faith. To communicate with other people. This help bullying by standing up to a person that is bully. It would help by future employment.
Reflective Take Away Assignment: All character traits. People will look up to you. Believe in yourself. Have more confidence. / Responsibility, everyone has a hero. When you get bullied, they can help. Support the pressured. In career, tests and life. / We learned how it feels to be a hero. Help us be responsible. Stand up for people. Learn about responsibility. / Responsibility, character traits. To have more responsibility of what you do. To have a good character and not a bad character. This will help me in life for nobody can’t hate me because of my character. Seeing Beyond: Senses, imagination. It will help us use our senses more often and all subjects. We don’t know what character trait it will give us but we think that it will give us better imagination and stronger senses. / Use your senses, feeling, touch. In science using materials, in math, English. If you become blind, use them to go in path. / We learned how to work together. Working together applies in every subject because you have to work together to get things done. If we help each other, we can become better people. / We learned to use our imagination, our senses as well. It would help us in school with reading, writing. It would help us in our character to imagine how our future will be like. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: Some people have the same fear as me. Learning about others. By not laughing at other people’s fear, dream. I would help to learn about other people and overcoming my fear. / Respect, honesty, courage. Listening to others, being helpful. Being honest of what happened. In jobs, in careers, teamwork. / To overcome our fears. To not be scared. It will help in bullying because it will give you enough courage to stand up to yourself. To never let no one bring you down. / One skill we learned was to have courage. It would apply in school by having the courage for class presentation. It would help with bullying because you can stand up for yourself and have courage to tell an adult. By having bravery to get a job interview. Reflective Take Away Assignment: To accept things that go wrong. To be positive, then negative. Think of the good things, then bad. / Turn the bad to good, ignore the bad. In school study, don’t think of bad things. Don’t remember the bad, just the good. / We learned how to accept bad things. It applies in school when you get a bad grade and turn it into a good one. This applies in life when a person says something to you and you have to accept it. / How to fix stuff. To fix the stuff you have to fix. It would help in life because when you have a problem, you can fix it. Describe a time when you had an experience that you perceived (thought/saw) as negative, but through time or something you did, you perceived (thought/saw) the experience as a positive one.
When my sister said that the movie I wanted to see it was boring and then I saw it and it was awesome. / Then my story about the time I had a teacher my experience thought it was negative, through time I perceived saw the experience as positive one was my head was cut open in 2002 Dec 18. I was hitting my head on the chair at the same place at the time I was going to the hospital and passed out and don’t what happen but I saw what happen. / When I was very bad then I become better in school. / When my little brother got cut I made hit cut get better. / When I use to live somewhere else and moved I thought I wouldn’t like it but I do! / When my brother was arrested and taken to Mexico. I felt terrible, but then I was able to know about life in Mexico for him. So after that I felt really good. / A dog got hit and I went to the dog vet and he felt all better. / When I had a Nintendo and then I got a PS3 and after that I loved PS3 and PS4. / When I got in trouble and it turned out to be good so I won’t do what I did again. / When my toy broke and I fix my toy. / I changed schools but I made new friends. / When I move of school I thought that I was going to be shy but since my mom told me that my cousin go to that school I was happy and not shy. / At the beginning of the year the teacher was mean and now she is nice. / When my uncle died and my aunt was having her baby. / When my cousin had a broken arm but when he took to a hospital and healed up. / When I thought I was in bad and I was not. It was my
birthday they had a surprise party for me. / When I learned how to swim, I felt scared at first but then when I learned I felt more happy and relaxed that I could go on water! / I moved schools. I found new friends. / When I went to the office and I got in trouble but the good thing was I got 2 days of school off. / I remember a time when I got in trouble for my attitude and then changed my attitude. / An experience that I had is that I didn’t want to go to school and now I’m learning many things and I got friends. / I did not want to go to school and now I’m learning many things in school. / I was sick and got my medicine for me. / I was about to move from Hamilton but then my mom changed her mind and I didn’t!!! / When I thought I was never going to finish my homework but I did finish it. / I thought I was not going to go somewhere I wanted and I end up going. / I thought I wasn’t going to go to Las Vegas but when my mom said if I want to go I said yes so I ended up going to Las Vegas. / When I got really sick and I had go to the hospital and after 5 days I got better. / When they told me I sucked at soccer and how I am a good one.
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Funded By: Murphy School District Character Ed Location: Hamilton Elementary %Male 40
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Dates: October 20-24, 2014
Ages 11-13
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 83 %NO 10 %Other 7 Post %YES 90 %NO 7 %Other 3 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 30 % Sometimes 57 % All the Time 13 Post % Not at all 17 % Sometimes 50 % All the Time 33 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 3 % Sometimes 64 % All the Time 30 %No Answer 3 Post % Not at all 3 % Sometimes 54 % All the Time 43 %No Answer 0 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 3 % Sometimes 74 % All the Time 23 %No Answer 0 Post % Not at all 7 % Sometimes 43 % All the Time 43 %No Answer 3 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 7 % Equal 63 % Leader 30 %No Answer 0 Post % Follower 7 % Equal 43 % Leader 47 %No Answer 3 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 54 % No 43
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Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 77 % No 23 Did you do anything? % Yes 47 % No 33 %No Answer 20 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 97 % No 3 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I learn that if you see bully see you stop it. / I decided to start a dance thing to stop it. / It helped me get stronger. / To not bullying. / To stop bullying. / How to respect others. / It helps me respect others no matter what. / When someone is being bullied, do something. / Imagination. / Imagination. / Ignore them. / To have the courage to speak up. / Stand up. / Become help with bullying is not tell people. / Stick up for them. / That to tell a adult. / To not ignore them. / Not just stand there do the good thing. / I learned how to speak for myself a bit. / You can tell a friend. / Do the right thing. / Because I wouldn’t like if someone bullies me. / Because I ain’t going to. / I learned how to work together. / Remember about your hero. / This helps by releasing my fears. / Yes I learned about to be respectful and be a leader. / I learned that you can cheer yourself. After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 93 % No 7 % No Answer 0
Thoughts Shared: I will talk they to stop it. / I would stop it and stand for the person being bullied. / I would tell someone about it. / Yea cause it’s sad. / Yes because no one wants to be bullied. / I will back that person up. / No one should be treated bad. / I would step up for them. / He’s my friend. / Help them. / Tell an adult. / Because I know how it feels to be picked on. / Stand up and say stop bullying him/she. / I will help the people got bullied. / Yes, because I don’t like people getting hurt. / I learned a lot. / I will because I will feel sad. / Tell a adult. / Tell the bully stop it dude. / Because I learned to stand up. / I would help because that would be right. / I would do something about it like tell a teacher. / Because they are getting hurt. / Because I don’t want to get in problems. / Because I might get in trouble. / I would do something because I wouldn’t like it if people bullied me. / Tell an adult. / I would stand up for myself to a person that is bullied. / Yes I would help that person out. / Yes I would help that person feel better. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 90 % No 10 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Trustworthy yourself. / I learn about citizen ship and what it means. / It made me understand many things. / Respect. / Yes because I can make my goal. / Make your own decisions no matter how much they peer pressure you. / It helps me think what I think not what other people think. / Don’t let no one peer pressure you. / Cause I respected Jesse. / Respect teachers. / Our expectations. / I learned to ignore them. / Peer pressure can be bad. / To respect people. / Yes because I can help myself. / Yea I will help. / Yea I learn a lot of respectful stuff. / I learn caring and fairness. / Color because they can mean something in life. / Be honest help the bullied. / I learned you do what you wanna. / Yes more responsible at home. / I learned responsibility. / To respect our own decisions. / Because you can take all time you want with someone not peer pressuring you. / I learned how to respect others. / I learned how to respect others. / To do what you want. / It helps by thinking of respecting to others. / Yes I learn a lot of skill to be a hero and help. / I learned how to respect your elders. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 93% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: I like it. / A rainbow. / A rainbow. / The think about color as one of every pillars. / A rainbow. / I think about my favorite color. / Yes I think they’re pretty. / I think about color as something good. / Color is like crayons you color with. / I think about color that it has different effects. / Black and white are my favorite colors. / Blue stands for sad and red stands for madness. / I like color because colorful things makes me happy. / I never thought about color. / A rainbow. / Yes I love thinking about colors. / I like the colors and the color blue. / I think about purple because it my favorite. / Pink is my favorite color. / I like color because colorful things make me happy. / Yea about green. / I think color is better than none or my favorite color (purple). / A rainbow. / My favorite color is R. / I think about my favorite color. / I think about all the colors. / My favorite color. / It’s bright and colorful. / I think bright colors. / I think about bright colors. / I think about who first created colors. Post: That is rainbow. / I think about color as a mood. / Color can mean anything. / Being bright and not dark. / Color is important to everybody. / Color is important in things it makes it stand out. / I think color is cool. Color is part of music. / Colors mean something. / I learned how I feel. / I think about music because it changes. / Color can make color. / A happy color. / Rainbow. / I think that it is pretty. / Yea I learned that music has color. / That they have different colors. / That colors could mean something in life. / That everything has color including inside of people. / That music has color. / I learned color can always change. / Color has meaning. / I think that color means something in
different ways. / That color is like music. / About sad and other stuff. / I learned that music makes color. / That each color represents something. / I think colors are like feelings. / The color for me is music. / I learned that it has something to do with. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 97% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Play in a international soccer player. / Be a doctor. / To graduate college. / My most important dream is to become a game designer and baseball player. / My dream is to succeed. / That I want to be a football player or soccer player. / My most important dream is to be a FBI and help my mom. / I want to be something in life or be a professional soccer player. / My hope or dream is to graduate from high school and get a good job. / My most important hope or dream is to graduate from high school. / My dream is to be a police officer. / To become a police. / My most important dream is finish college. / To have a good job, get paid well. / My hope and dream is to go to college and to be a doctor. / To become an engineer. / That I get a good job. / My dream is to be a police. / My dream is to be a nurse. / To go to college. / Is to be a football player. / My dream for the future would be to become a doctor. / I don’t know. / My dream is to become a professional soccer player. / My dream is to become a professional soccer player and graduate college. / My important dream is to graduate from all my schools and get a good job. / My important dream is to graduate have a good job. / I want to be a famous soccer player who is cool. / I wanted to be a professional soccer player. / I want to be a professional break dancer. / My most important dream is to become a lawyer and to go to Harvard University. Post: Doctor. / My most important dream is to go to battle of the year. / My dream is to be a teacher and help children. / To graduate. / Graduate from college. / My dream is to follow my future dream. / To go to college and have a good life. / I think both are important. First you dream then you hope. / Having to see my father alive. / Is being a great person. / Do my goals. / My most important hope or dream is to become a lawyer. / Hope about I can stop bullying. / Life and dream. / My most important hope and dream is to help my mom. / My most important is hope. / That I was with my family and I was happy. / My hope is to always be with my family and my dream is to finish high school. / To become a professional soccer player in Argentina, forward. / My most important dream is to become a lawyer. / My hope is to have a family and dream is to become a doctor. / To have a family. / My most important dream or hope is to finish high school. / Is to be a lawyer. / Is to be nice. / My most important dream is to become a lawyer. / To become a lawyer. / My most important dream is great career, college. / My dream is to become a business worker. / I want to graduate and become a police. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 100% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: Hope to or your dream. / One thing that will help me reach my dream is confidence. / The workshop helped me learn who I am. / Respect others. / Being helpful and grateful. / Follow your path. / To keep my head up no matter what. / One thing is to believe in myself. / Be respectful. / Is respect others. / Work with others. / Is to be responsibly. / To release my fear. / To not be fair. / Is that it is going to be hard. / Doing the same we did today. / It to be caring and respect. / I learned to never give up on myself. / Ignore the people that make me feel sad and say that I won’t make it. / I learned that just believe in yourself and you can do it. / One thing I learned in here to my dream would be respect. / You can do anything you want. / Is to follow my dream or hope and do the right things. / Is to be myself. / Character colors. / One thing I learned
was to not let anybody stop me from who I want to be. / To follow your hero. / The one thing I learned in workshop to help me from my dream is how to be to reach my dream. / I learned character counts and to be trustworthy. / He is trustworthy, so I can be trusted. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 97% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: Believe in myself. / I learned how to work together. / That I am a smart great person. / Character counts. / You need to care for each other. / Consequences. / That I can do anything I want without anything stopping me. / I can be my own person. I didn’t know about color. / That I have a talent. / Care more about people. / Taking care of other people. / That I can be brave. / That I can tell the truth. / People are shy. / That there will be an obstacle going through life. / That I am brave. / That I could have fun. / I learn that to always hope or yourself. / That I’m special in every way it just takes a little bit to know it. / That I can be who I want to be. / No I didn’t really. / I learned how to work together. / I learned that you could have fears the same as someone else. / That I have to have more responsibility. / Peer pressure. / One thing I learned was that if I really want to do something, then don’t let anyone stop you. / I learned that I could accomplish my dream without no one interrupting me. / The one thing I didn’t know in the workshop is painting is about the feelings. / That we are all hero in life. / About trustworthy. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 100% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: That they had fun. / I learned that it takes courage to say something. / That they are true caring friends. / To paint teamwork. / That he had a tumor. / To care about others. / That they are always there for me no matter what and they respect me the way I am. / I learned a lot about my classmates and friends. / That Roger loves soccer. / We should all work together. / What their dream is when they are big. / That my best friend is shy to talk in front of a crowd. / That they’re awesome. / To be a good leader. / That they have a little brother. / That I learn their lives. / That their life had hope and happiness. / To never bring other down. / About their fears and dreams. Everyone should be treated the same. / I learned that Paula was actually a good person. / I learned that they have fun with these kinds of activities. / Everyone is scared of something. / About their fears, dreams and memories. / That my friend has to be more respectful. / Trustworthy. / I learned that I am my best friend’s hero. / How they live. / What I learning is they have the same feeling as other class has. / That all of them are responsible and all their dreams. / They have been bullied and never gave up.
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Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 25 young lives from Kuban School experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on November 3-6, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 12-13. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Participation, communication. Grades, talk to people. Pay attention. To meet new people. / Math skills, soccer skills, reading skills. Getting better grades. By not thinking of stereotyping. It will help you be confident. / Work together, less shy. Job done faster. Helps us not being judged. Get a career. / Get to know each other, communication. Work together, listen to ideas. Eye contact, describing. Be a better person, respect others. Creative Storytelling: Bravery, confidence, creativity. Working together. Teamwork and confidence. To stand up to each other. / Teamwork, creativity, participation. It will make it easier to work with others. This will help because many bullies don’t learn. It will help you to work better with people you work with. / Public speaking, creativity, confidence. Not by shy when it comes to do a problem on the board. This helps with bullying so you can stand up to yourself. Helps me have confidence to talk in front of people. / Bravery, creativity, participation. Working together, using people’s ideas. It helps because if the bullies will come to this program, they will start to be friendly and stop the hate. It would help because I will be nicer and never be mean to people. Through the Hoops: Teamwork, participation, senses. Trustworthy. Teamwork. Helpful teamwork. / To get over tough time. It will make us understand that we don’t get what we always want. It will help because of the problem. It will help you get through problems. / Teamwork, trust, senses. Helps get work faster. It helps us to be trustful. It helps us be polite. / Participation, trust, trust, senses,
studying. Teamwork, studying, be prepared. Help each other, would be helpful. Helpful, each others, and caring. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Bravery, confidence, special. Helps speaking in public. Helps you to not be shy. Helps be a better person. / Confidence, responsibility, honor. It would give you better self-esteem. It would make you say no more. It will help us be more responsible. / Feel happy and good about ourselves. So we don’t worry about the haters. So we don’t worry about what other people say. Helps you with your dreams and be proud. / Confidence, responsibility, and less shy. It will apply because you’re gonna be less fear to stand up to people. It’ll help because it’ll be less embarrassing. You’ll be less shy. Mirror Work: Look at Yourself in the eyes (ONLY) and tell yourself that you love or like yourself just the way you are. It makes me feel that I have a life and that I could be someone in my family. / It makes me feel happy. / It makes me feel very happy. / It makes me feel happy. / Happy, humor, silly. / Weird, good. / I feel normal. / It makes me feel better about myself. / Good inside. / It makes me feel happy. / It makes me feel happy and to be myself. / Happy, loved, and unworried. / Good. / Happy. / It makes me feel the same. / Funny, crazy, cool, nice, awesome, kind, love, care, share. / Confident, enthusiastic. / Happy, silly, sad, worried. / It helps me feel confident. / It makes me feel happy. Hero: Who is Your Hero and Why do you think are they important? What characteristics or qualities, would you or do you, look for in a Hero? Messi. Because he’s a pro soccer player. / My dad. Because he protects me. Being nice, protection. / Batman. I choose to draw Batman because he stops criminals from doing bad things. I think they’re important because he saves the day. Qualities I look for in a hero is their super power. / Superman. He fights crime. He fights crime and stops the people from doing bad things and puts them in jail. Look like him. / Captain America. He saves the world. Responsible, respectful, honest. / My dad. Because I can trust him and he’s kind and helpful to other people. I think they’re important because they help people. Nice, helpful, kind, responsible. / Dad. He’s important because he raised me. The characteristics I look for a hero is if he’s nice and strong. / My hero is my dad. He shows me to work hard. Working will make me successful. / My mom and dad. They give me food and clothing. Nothing. / My mom. She takes care of me and gives me food, that’s why. None. / My hero is my best friend Jessenia because she is trustworthy. She is kind to me and other people. / My best friend. They are important because they help me in tough situations. / Spiderman. Because he helps people. Braveness. / My sister is important because she helps others and cares for others. In a hero has to be helpful, kind, smart, caring and be there for others. / My hero is Arianna Grande. She is cooool! She is so important because she sings the most awesome songs! I look for strong courage. / Spiderman. He is a hero by saving people. Awesome. / My hero is my best friend, Mitz. I can trust her and count on her. She has been there for me for a long time. Because I can count on her and I’ve known her for a long time. Kind, happy, trustworthy. / Superman. Because I thought he was real. Responsible, respectful, and resourceful. / My hero is my mom. I can rely on my mom. What I would look in a hero is responsibility. / Without him everyone will die. What I would look in a hero is kindness. / Nobody. I don’t know, just courage. Character.
Seeing Beyond: Be quiet, pay attention. To concentrate and to learn more. To be more talkative. / Honesty, creativity, senses. It will help with strategy to find answers to problems. With ways to help solve obstacles. / Senses and honesty, details. Math, reading, and science, and social studies. Working with cubes and books in reading. / Imagination, participation, creativity. Art, science, reading and math and social studies. Actions, movements, talking. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: To listen more. To pay more attention. To stop it. To listen to people and understand. / Honesty. Gain adults trust. Tell the truth to grown-ups. Gain trust from others. / Participation, creativity. Get good grade, better education, and working in groups. Forget about bad thing and thinking of the good. Art, helping others. / Creativity. You’ll learn to do better. Creativity will plan to stop bullying. It will help me to get a job.
Reflective Take Away Assignment: Having respect, being responsible, and resourceful. Being prepared, helping someone getting bullied. Jobs, bills, responsibilities, family, money. / Confidence. It will help you improve your grade. It would make you get a job and get lucky. / Trust, help, caring. To help others and care about them. To treat people like you want to be treated. / Confidence. It will help me in school to improve reading. It will help me find a girlfriend. Write about a time when you were trustworthy or caring and helped someone else in a positive way. How did it feel afterward? Describe the experience below. Then draw a picture on the back of what the experience looked like. When my friend got bullied and got beat up at the park. The first thing I did was help me grandma clean the whole house. / If I helped someone from getting bullied afterward I’ll feel proud because I had helped some from getting hurt or bullied and would be a saver. / I helped someone pick up their books and it made me feel very happy inside. / I helped my mom to clean around the house. The feel I felt was happy because I help my mom. I help my parents buying groceries store for home. / I help my parents babysitting when my mom goes to work. / I was caring about my little sister. I took care of her and I help her to get the ice cream on top and helping my mom to get foods and other things out of the car. / I had helped someone pick up their stuff when they dropped his stuff. / I was caring to my friend when everyone was putting her down. I felt good to know that I was helping. / I shared candy with my sister and it made me feel real good inside and I felt that I could do that again. / One time I was caring to my niece Dareny when I was helping her to learn how to swim. / When I was playing a very important game, then a boy fell instead of playing. I went and helped him. / One time were I was trustworthy or caring would be when my best friend fell and I picked her up.
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Funded By: Murphy School District Character Ed Location: Kuban School %Male 64
%Female 36
Dates: November 3-6, 2014
Ages 12-13
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 72 %NO 24 %Other 4 Post %YES 80 %NO 20 %Other 0 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 16 % Sometimes 76 % All the Time 8 Post % Not at all 4 % Sometimes 76 % All the Time 20 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 8 % Sometimes 72 % All the Time 20 Post % Not at all 4 % Sometimes 60 % All the Time 36 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 12 % Sometimes 64 % All the Time 24 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 72 % All the Time 28 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 0 % Equal 60 % Leader 40 Post % Follower 0 % Equal 44 % Leader 56 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 40 % No 60 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 56 % No 44 Did you do anything? % Yes 36 % No 60 % No Answer 4 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 84 % No 16 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I don’t know. / So I can help them. / I learned nothing. / To stand up to it. / So I can help other people. / Help others. / No because I didn’t see nothing. / I can tell other about the bully. / To be confident and stand up to the bully. / So you can stand up to yourself. / Did not come. / I help them because people need me. / To be resourceful. / I guess. / Stand up for yourself. / To stop bullying others. / Tell someone. / To help others. / I will tell the truth to grownups about the bullying. / Yes I learned to stand up. / No peer pressure. / To trust others. / By forgetting the bad things and think of the good. After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 92 % No 8 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I don’t know. / I would go tell a teacher. / Tell someone so they’ll help them. / You can make a difference. / I can fight the other guy. / Defend him. / Yes cuz they’re getting hurt. / Because it’s wrong. / I would do something because it would feel better helping someone and it would be better for the person who is being bullied. / I would tell the teacher. / So that I don’t see kids get hurt. / Yes to help them and protect. / Because it’s the best thing to do. / Because no one should be
bullied. / Yes because kids killed themselves by getting bullied. / To stand for someone. / I would tell a grown up. / Go get a teacher. / I did not go. / Yes I would stand up for them. / Yes I’ll stop it to stop someone from getting hurt. / I don’t wanna be involved. / I would tell a teacher. / Yes, cause I would like to be helped when I’m being bullied. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 88 % No 12 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I don’t know. / Yes because I learn responsibility. / Because it helps me be respectful. / I learned that I control my actions and I’m my own person. / I can help do my chores. / Think twice. / Yes cause my friend taught me. / I did because I learned to respect people’s opinions. / I learned to respect other’s decisions. / Because to make people care. / Yes to be resourceful. / How to stand up for yourself. / Not to be angry. / To respect others. / To learn being respectful. / I did if was peer pressure. / To responsibility to others. / Nobody here peer pressured me. / Yes because it makes me respectful. / Yes I’ve learned respect. / Be respectful. / To do my own decisions. / Yes, because I came up with ideas myself. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 88% Post 96% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Great because I don’t like anything without color. / Red. / Equal color, it’s right color. / I don’t know. / People. / My favorite colors express me and make me feel happy. / Red because mostly red is love and caring. / It is bright. / My favorite color, purple. / Blue, red, and grey makes me feel happy. / Red because it’s my color. / They make me feel. Purple, black, and never nice, blue, white, red, grey. / Black and grey = shy and kind. / Black, gray, white, and blue. It makes me feel happy. / Red and blue are my colors. / Blue, pink, and purple. They make me feel happy. / Blue and black, red and pink. These colors make me feel happy. / Blue, pink, purple, white, red makes me feel happy and lets me express myself. / I think of green because I see the world in my mind. / Red because people are mean to me. / Sometimes red. / My favorite color is white and black, also red it makes me feel fresh and cool. / I have never thought about color. / The first color that pops in my mind is red. / Blue. Post: No, I don’t know anything about it. / Great you could make everything newer. / Color is great. / I think color is how you express yourself. / I think if it’s my favorite color. / It could be about music. / It is awesome. / I think about the color red and I learned that color has different meanings. / Yes how you feel. / Red because it’s my favorite color. / I think about red because for love. / There’s dark and bright colors. / That everything has color, even people. / Beautiful world. / Red. / Color mean something. / I learned that color has other meanings. / It is life. / Color makes me fresh and cool. / To paint. / That they’re bright. / Color can be a mood for people. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 92% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Is to be a football player. / Nothing just having job like owning a company. / To be with my family and boyfriend. / So. / My hope is being a girl! / I want to become a vet to keep animals. / My dream is to be a soccer player and a Mexican singer. / My dream is being with my girlfriend when I grow up. / Don’t have one. / My most important dream is to get a good job. / To be a pro football
player. / To be a lawyer. / My important dream is to join the Army. / My most important dream is to be rich. / My dream is being a doctor. / To be a doctor. / I dream to become a pro soccer player. / A nurse. / I dream of being the richest guy in the world. / To be a pro baseball player. / To go to college/school. / My important dream is getting a education and have a nice job and a house and my parents never die. / My most important hope or dream is to become a doctor. / My most important dream is to go to college. / Get rich. Post: Good education/hope. / Is to either join the Army or play football. / Going to college. / Is to grow up and be successful and have a family. / Growing up with Jessenia and marry her. / Become a soccer player or Mexican singer. / To be a doctor. / Go to college. / My most important dream is to go to college and graduate from high school. / My most important hope or dream is to become a doctor. / Is to visit heaven to see what it looks like. / My most important is hope because it is real. / To go to college. / To be in the Marines and live a happy life with my family. / My dream is to become a pro soccer player. / Is to still have a family. / To go to college. / My most important dream is to join the Army. / Is to see the earth from the sky. / Is to go to college. / Is to skydive once on top. / College. / Go to college. / Is to be a vet to help animals with problems. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 96% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: No, I don’t know. / Never give up. / Be good to the people. / I learned to be confident and I will achieve my goal. / To release my fear. / Don’t be afraid what you want to do. / By graduating and going to college. / Determination. / One thing I learned was toe be responsible. / To be respectful. / Is to keep working hard. / I learn to respect people. / Be respectful. / To always keep going no matter how hard. / To not be embarrassed and shy. / Is stay with my family and boyfriend and better job. / Conquering my fear. / To never stop trying. / Is to not be afraid of my fears. / Is never give up. / Is to have confidence in yourself. / No peer pressure. / Yes it will help my dream. / By working hard and to keep believing in my dream. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 92% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: No, I don’t know. / To be creative. / My goofy. / I learned that I have the capability to do anything. / I think I didn’t know what color meant. / That confidence makes you stronger. / How to be active. / I learned about others. / I learned that many people are scared of heights. / I know more than I thought. / How to be careful about myself. / Nobody can treat you the way you want. / To be respectful. / I don’t know. / I could be someone in my life. / To take care of family and work harder. / To be creative. / My shyness. / That I have a lot of confidence. / Yes I learned that I can control anything. / Never do what people tell you, being a leader. / No bullying. / I like to talk in public. / That I am not so shy to talk in front of people. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 96% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: No, I don’t know but listening to the class about the fear, memory, dream. / They sometimes have the same fear. / They’re nice to other people. / They are closer then I think. / I learned that not everyone is the same and everyone has dreams. / My girlfriend released her fear. / That one my friends wanted a girlfriend. / By sharing others. / Most people have the same fear as I do. / I learned what their fear and dreams are. / My friends are not that brave. / How to be nice to one another. / To trust each other. / Their hopes and dreams. / I don’t know. / He was scared to be run over. / To share and care responsibility. / To be nice. / My friend’s fears and dreams. / I learned he was afraid of spiders. / I learned not all friends are trustworthy. / I have learned that never by shy to do something. Be a leader. Don’t be a follower. / She is special. / That they love animals. / That they’re afraid of clowns.
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices . .
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 23 young lives from Garcia School experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on November 3-6, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 12-13. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Respect, honesty, trustworthy, courage. This applies in school for example speaking in front. You need these tools. It gives you the courage to talk to someone. These skills/tools make you a better leader. / Honesty, respectful, trustworthy. So you don’t get in trouble. So you don’t judge, respect. It would make you a better person and makes you realize something you hadn’t. / Honesty, courage, get to know others, listening. Get new friends, gain trust. By saying the truth. People will know that you’re not shy. / Caring, responsible, hard working. Care about each other. Everybody speak Spanish. Hard working, more high in life. Creative Storytelling: Teamwork. Work and get along with classmates. You stick together. Work together. / Not to be afraid, creative, critical thinking. To get better grades. Stand up for yourselves and others. That you would be a better person. / Teamwork, art. Creative with projects. With a team you accomplish more. Feel positive and trusted. / Art, personality. Express yourself. Defend the person being bullied. Help me. Through the Hoops: Teamwork, going through challenges, trust. Bullying, classwork. Teamwork because everyone helps each other. In a job you have to work together. / Teamwork, going through obstacles, trust others. To get good grades. Going through obstacles. You going to meet new people and how you have trust them. / Teamwork, trust. When we need help. To prevent it. To accomplish your goals. / Teamwork, trust. Teamwork means working together. Teamwork means people out of trouble. Going through obstacles.
Mirror Work: Look at Yourself in the eyes (ONLY) and tell yourself that you love or like yourself just the way you are. I like myself. / It makes me happy, good. / Good, glad. / Happy, great. / Good, happy. / I like who I am. / Sooo helpful. / Good, happy. / It makes me feel happy for the helpful thing I’ve done. / Happy, proud, and confident. / Worried, great, weird. It felt good because it look that someone loves me. / It makes me feel a little weird. / Confident. / Weird. / I feel happy. / Happy. / It makes me feel that I have courage inside and I can accomplish things in life. / I feel good, cool, nice. / It makes me feel that I can do what I want to do nobody can tell me what to do. / It feels good because it feels like someone loves you! / Made me feel comfortable. / I’m pretty. Hero: Who is Your Hero and Why do you think are they important? What characteristics or qualities, would you or do you, look for in a Hero? Paul Walker. Because he is a good actor. Good actor, respect. / My dad is my hero. Because he is my favorite person I trust. Be on my best behavior. / Mom. Because I was born. Respect. / They’re important to me because they support me, they’ve always been there when I always need them, and I’ve been with them since I was a little baby. Supportive, nice, responsibility, respectful, honest, and trustful. / Mom and dad. Because they did a lot for me and gave me everything I need. Because they are hard workers. Yes, hardworking, kind. / Leso Man. They’re very wild and energetic. Brave, responsible, courage, caring. / Mom, dad. / My dad. Because he takes care of me. / The Flash. Because I think he’s my hero. / My mom. Because she always helps me. Courage, honesty, and confidence. / My grandma. My grandma is important because she helps me. Honesty, courage. / Patrick from Spongebob Squarepants. He is a starfish and have big hair and have orange and power. / My dad is very helpful. He is important because he is helpful and trustworthy. The characteristic I would look for in a hero is caring, respectful. / My mom. She helps me keep going. Respect, honesty, trustworthy. / Soldiers. Cause they protect us. Brave. / My sister. She helps me with everything and she foundmy half sister. I will tell them that if they would teach me how to be good. / Soldier. They help the community. Brave. / Hope Solo. She is important because she is the best goalkeeper in the whole world and because I look up to her and hope one day to be better than her. That they are strong and really people to know them one that they are nice and social. / Mom. They helped me and never let me give up. Kindness, careness. / Larry Fitzgerald, Patrick Peterson, RG Griffin III, Tyrann Mathieu, and my uncle. They make me do better when I’m playing sports and when I’m having a bad day. I very good person that’s nice and is active. / Batman. He is fast, strong and because he saves people. Save me all the time. / Gareth Bale is my hero. He is a soccer player in Real Madrid. He is important because he doesn’t care what other people say because he already has everything. He reached for his dream. I would like that they don’t care what other people say. They believe in what they want and accomplish. / Naya Rivera. She is famous, very pretty, and single. They don’t care what they say about them. Responsibility. / My mom. She has always been there for me. Honest and that you can trust them. / My mom. They protected me! Brave.
Seeing Beyond: Honesty, imagination, teamwork. Reading because you use your imagination. It makes you more creative. / Imagination, honesty, senses. In science because you need it to find out weird stuff. Because you can have fun. / Teamwork, critical thinking. Math because we work together. To work with new people. / Teamwork, critical thinking, senses, honesty. When you think you think about answers. You use senses by open up your awareness. Teamwork works by helping up in life. Honesty is good because people will trust you all the time. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: Thinking, respect, imagination. You have to think about the problems. Stand up for each other. / Thinking skills, respect, don’t judge. To be nice to others, to get better grades. Not prejudging others. Few victims could feel more comfortable. You can be better to different people. / Critical thinking, imagination. Work with others. To not prejudge. To make many things possible. / Critical thinking, respect, not judge, imagination. To be nice to other. Stand up. More respect to other people. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Teamwork, respect, kindness, responsibility. You work together, mentoring. Working with people you don’t like. / Teamwork, respect, kindness. To be kind to others,
working in groups. To be respectful to others in life even if you don’t like them. / Respect, teamwork, kindness. To be nice to people. We might need help at work. / Respect, teamwork, kindness, trust. Kindness it to be kind to others. Teamwork is to work in groups. Respect means if you want respect, give respect. Respect means in life is because be nice. Write about a time when you were trustworthy or caring and helped someone else in a positive way. How did it feel afterward? Describe the experience below. Then draw a picture on the back of what the experience looked like. I have been caring by giving away food to my sister when she was small. / When I helped my brother, I felt good. / I helped a homeless guy because he needed some money. / I helped a homeless family and gave them food. It felt great. They were asking for food and I gave them a lot. / I was helpful when I gave my brother my football. / Helping a person with their problem. / When I was trustworthy was when I was taking care of my sister. She was a good girl and she was a piece of cake to take care of. / It was when I was helping my cousin to ride a bike. It felt good. / I was caring when my friend dropped some papers and I helped her. / I help my cousin by cleaning her room. I felt very kind. / One time me and my cousin organized the toys for her mom. It felt very good. / My friend told me a big dark secret and he actually trued me and said you’re the most trustworthy person I met and felt happy. I was caring when a random person fell and dropped his backpack and helped them. / My friend got stolen so I let him use my ball for two days. / My friends got into a fight and I made them hang out afterward and it felt cool. / My friend got injured and I put him up in foot. / I helped my mom clean the house. / The time when I was caring was when my little sister was calling my brother names. I told her how would you feel if I called you names. She said bad. The next day she stopped calling my brother names and said sorry. I felt glad and proud. What I experience was when you see someone being called names you could show them a positive way. / I helped my mom clean her room cuz she was tired. / One time I was caring was when I was at Walmart. There was a person with one arm only and he couldn’t put the groceries in his car. I helped him by putting the groceries. It feels good I helped someone. / I went to a restaurant. When I walked outside, I gave a homeless man a box of food. It made me feel good. / I’ve been caring or helpful when I have a homeless person some money. Afterward I felt helpful and caring.
Yes/No: Confidence, self respect. Believe in yourself. Citizenship, believe in yourself. / Belief, confidence, focusing. For you can go to school. Do what you want to do. Citizenship because you can believe in yourself. / Beliefs, honesty, self-respect. Believe in yourself. Help you believe in yourself. By have courage in yourself. / Respect, honesty. Believe to go to college. Confident. It comes to be respect. Color: Awareness. Pay attention to detail. It’s about the team and not individual. / Feelings, courage. To be brave. To move on and colors have different meanings. / Having a strong foundation, imagination. Multi-tasking. Accomplish anything. / Mindfulness, thinking. Using thoughts. Get a good education.
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Funded By: Murphy School District Character Ed Location: Garcia Elementary %Male 65
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Dates: November 3-6, 2014
Ages 12-13
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 83 %NO 13 %Other 4 Post %YES 100 %NO 0 %Other 0 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 4 % Sometimes 79 % All the Time 17 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 74 % All the Time 26 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 65 % All the Time 35 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 35 % All the Time 65 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 8 % Sometimes 62 % All the Time 22 % No Answer 8 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 65 % All the Time 35 % No Answer 0 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 8 % Equal 57 % Leader 35 Post % Follower 4 % Equal 31 % Leader 65 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 61 % No 39 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 78 % No 22 Did you do anything? % Yes 29 % No 71 % No Answer 0 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 39 % No 57 % No Answer 4 Thoughts Shared: Left. / Bullying is not nice. / Telling somebody. / I learned strategies that help. / Yes work together. / Like stand up to yourself. / To stand up for others. / Because I can face my fears. / You can always tell someone and not be scared. / That you have to stand up. / Like stand up to yourself. / Work together. / Because you have to be honest when telling the teacher. / One thing I learned was to not be embarrassed. / Because now I feel like I can help and stand up for others as well. / Will help them. / Always say something. / To stand up for yourself. / I learned that only I can tell myself what I can do. / To stand up. / That others are perfect in their own way. / Because bullying will not get you nowhere. / Yes to speak up. After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 91 % No 9 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I would go help him out by fighting the other kids. / Yes don’t want people getting hurt. / Telling the teacher or somebody. / Yes I would do everything to help. / Step them. / Because people don’t deserve to be bullied. / I would tell a teacher. / Because that’s someone who feels
scared too. / Yes I should be confident on myself. / Yes I would. / Tell someone. / So he will stop bullying. / Because you have to tell the truth. / Everyone has to stand up to each other. / Because no one deserves to be treated badly. / I would help them. / Tell someone. / Maybe. / They need help. / Tell an adult. / They are not being good. / I will tell them to stop and tell a teacher. / Yes is to protect who is getting bullied. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 100 % No 0 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I learned responsibility like if you gave me something, I’m responsible about what happened. / Believe in myself. / Responsibility be you can believe on yourself. / Yes because if I respect myself I won’t do bad things. / I explain to do stuff. / Ask someone for help and think. / Do not do stupid things. / Yes because if anyone tells me something too bad. I won’t. It’s my responsibility. / Yes not always have to do what people say. / Yes I did on respect. / It’s not do stupid things. / Sometimes. / Because I didn’t know too much. / I learned that you should respect other people. / Because I’m the only one that truly knows why I do things and make decisions. / I did not judge people. / Go with your own decision. / That not be afraid. / Only I can do my decisions. / To make the right choices. / I have to do my own decisions. / Honesty, citizenship. / It helps do respectful decisions. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 87% Post 96% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Yes. / I think it expresses feelings. / Color is something beautiful. / No. / Yes I wonder if here was no color if the world would be black and white and not express people. / Colors express people. / I think color is great. It brings cheer to the world. / I think color is colorful and bright. / Color is awesome bright. It actually expresses how you are. / No. / They are colorful. / Haven’t thought about it. / Of everybody the same color. / It is colorful. / It is colorful. / I can color. / It’s what makes our world look amazing. / They are colorful and expresses the way you are. / What think of color is that it sometimes expresses emotion. I have never thought of color. / It’s colorful and cool. / I think about purple. / It’s cool. / No I haven’t but colors are very peaceful. / I think it’s art and good things joined together. / Color sometimes shows expression or feelings. Post: It makes everything amazing. / Music is like color. / When you close your eyes and put music the colors turn light or dark. / I think color expresses things. / In song there is color. / It is very colorful. / That music has a lot of colors. / It’s very peaceful and it’s very cool. / Every color has their own meaning. / That it has music. / That they’re important. / Music is color. / I learned that color is music. / I learned that it can have many definitions. / They have meanings. / It show people who you are. / It differerent kinds of color. / Yes. / It identifies who you are. / That it’s creative. / That it’s important. / Colors are colorful. / It’s what helps everything look amazing. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 100% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: A pastry chef. / Is to donate money to people with cancer. / My dream is to go to college and I hope that my parents won’t go away and leave me here. / No. / My dream is to help the poor. / To own a restaurant. / I think both but mostly dream because it gets you going. / My most important
dream is to go to college. / Go to college. / To have powers. / So. / Becoming a vet. / To accomplish something important. / I don’t have one. / None. / Have a lot of money. / To become a professional mechanic. / Go to college and be someone important in life. / My most important dream is to become a good baker. / I want to go to college and get a job. / I do. / To be a cop. / Is to be a football player or Marine. / To be an architect and have a good home. / Being a medical assistant. Post: My dream is being a street dancer. / My dream is to go to college. / Is to become a police officer and donating money to people with cancer. / I hope to own a restaurant some day. / Soccer player. / Is to go to college. / To be a baker. / Is to be a professional football player or Marine. / Being really successful in life. / Is to go to college. / Is being a cop. / It is going to college. / My most important dream is to be a baker. / Dream. / Help bullying. / Is to go to college. / Is going to college. / My most important dream is to one day have a family. / Is to become a Nascar driver. / Is to go to college. / Is that my dream will come true. / Is to be a sports car mechanic. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 100% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: Believe in yourself. / Believe in yourself. / Is that you got to believe in yourself to reach your dream. / Trust because if I trust people it can help. / Never stop to believe. / Is teamwork. / To not give up. / Is to be a leader. / Be confident with myself. / Is to believe. / Is listen. / Going to school. / Being honest and tell the truth. / One thing I learned to reach my dream is to have confidence. / To believe in myself. / Don’t judge. / Never give up. / Is always believing. / Is that I can believe in myself. / To never give up. / Is to have hope. / To become a teacher. / Don’t let people tell you what you can’t do. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 100% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: That I can believe in myself. / I can speak up more. / That you can accomplish anything when you keep saying believe everytime. / I learned to be brave. / To do color. / Color expresses me. / That I will be trustful. / I was really not that much responsible. / I’m confident about myself. / That I don’t have to listen to other people opinion. / People have fears. / Everybody is the same. / I didn’t know that people had the same things. / That you shouldn’t be ashamed. / I’m not confident. / I did not know what color meant. / Be trustworthy. / That you could do anything. / Believing in yourself can do many things. / That I’m brave. / That I’m perfect in my own way. / That there are no wrong or right answer. / How smart and nice I am. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 100% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: That he want to be a sports car mechanic. / That my friend is scared of the same thing as me. / That sometimes colors express feelings. / I learned that sometimes people are going through things and you might not notice. / To never be mean. / Some are scared of heights. / That they have the same fear as me. / It’s a good idea to be a leader not a follower. / They are trustworthy. / That some people have the same fear as I. / People have the same fears. / We are together on this. / Some have the same interest as me. / That you have to support them when they’re feeling bad. / That we all have similar fears and dreams. / They are honest. / People have the same fears. / That to treat them with respect. / He was raised alone by one parent. / That they are very brave. / That everyone is awesome. / It bad to bully. / What’s their fear, dream, and childhood.
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices . .
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 34 young lives from Sullivan School experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on November 10-14, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 12-13. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Getting to know others. Talking to them. Know them better. Expressing feelings. / To help us learn in the future and get better education. To learn all subject, to learn about more the person. Everybody has different answer. Work hard and work as a group or by yourself. / A skill is to never judge by attitude or by how people say a book’s cover. It will apply to be judgmental or to bully in school. It would prevent it by you to know the person. It would help us to be a better person. / Not to be shy. To talk to new students. Cause it would make you anti-social. By going top a stage. Creative Storytelling: Teamwork, public speaking. Caring, respect, kind, imagination. Be more confident. Working together. / Inspiration, imagination, bravery. To not be embarrassed in front of people. By helping each other. It will help me in college. / A skill was to speak in public and use your imagination. It would apply to you having respect and to be responsible. It will help by people knowing that you will speak up and also that they can trust you. It will apply to me having citizenship and other responsibilities. / Trust, respect, caring, responsible. Stay out of trouble. When you care for someone they respect you. Make more friends, gain trust. Through the Hoops: Imagination, teamwork. Get more ideas. Change their minds to not bully. Working together and in strategies and games. / Trust, concentrate, mind’s eye. You could and use your mind’s eye. It would apply to you using teamwork. It will help by people know that you’re trustworthy. It would apply in life by there being obstacles to achieve your dreams. / Trust. If you need someone. Stuff I trust my friend to have my back. Trusting your peers to get ahead in life.
Reflective Take Away Assignment: Confidence, courage. Having responsibility. Having confidence to tell that person no. Having courage and thinking about yourself. / The tools are courage, responsibility, and confidence. This tool will help us by having more responsibility. Our friends force us to do something bad and you say no. The tool build character is to say no to something bad. / To have courage and be confident about ourself. It would apply because in school you have to have courage to talk in public. It would apply with people trying to put you down. It would make us stronger and will courage us to achieve our goals. / Confidence, proud, courage. When you have confidence you can achieve things. When your confidence about yourself you can achieve anything. By achieving your goals. Mirror Work: Look at Yourself in the eyes (ONLY) and tell yourself that you love or like yourself just the way you are. Good. / Mi sedauw good. / Como cuando soy aferada ser lo que tengo que acer para aprender. / It makes me feel great, strong. / The word confident makes me feel good and brave too. / That I am friendly. / It makes me feel good because it helps me think good stuff. / It makes me feel weird. / Well good. / It makes me feel better. / I feel normal. / It makes me feel good about myself and not worried. / It makes me feel normal. / It makes me feel happy. / It make me feel like I shall help other with your problem. / I think it makes me feel normal due to I see my face every day. / Joyful, happy, positive. / It feels good to help other people. / It makes me feel happy. Boost my courage up. / It make me like I could change my future. / It make me believe in myself. / I feel happy and safe when I am with my hero. / I feel happy and safe when I am with my hero. / It makes me feel good, pretty, and special. / That I’m helpful. / Good, nice. / Respectful, nice, careness, helpful. / Awesome, responsible, amazing, nice, respectful. / It makes me feel proud of myself because I found out the real me. / It makes me have more confidence. I don’t care what other people say about me. Hero: Who is Your Hero and Why do you think are they important? What characteristics or qualities, would you or do you, look for in a Hero? Mom. I think they are important because the heroes know much. / My family takes care of me. The responsibility. / Me siento bien estar con mi mama y que ella meda consejos Buenos cuando me siento triste. Porque medan ganas de seguir siempre adelante. El respeto de todos no se. / Patrick Peterson. He’s strong good at football. NFL. / My hero is Paul Walker. Paul Walker is important to me because he was the first star I ever know. Confidence, bravery, friendship. / Taylor Lautner is my hero because he is caring for others. He is important because he always is caring. Care, trust, citizenship. / I think my uncle is important because he is good person. I look for in a hero is a kind person. / She is my hero because I can tell her all my secrets. I would look for trustworthiness, caring and respect. / My mom feeds me and take me to sleep and helps me on my work and cleans my clothes. My mom because she is kind to me and responsible because she does all her payments and get us food to eat so we won’t die of hunger and clothes. Because she made me who I am and took care of me and I love her what she does. To me she is responsible mom. Responsible. / Mom. They are important to me because she’s my favorite person. I wish she would follow all the characteristics. / I don’t know. / My brother. It is important because it is your hero of life. To be brave, to be smart. / My hero is Batman because he saves people and helps a lot of people. Cause I like how he saves people. That he is a cool hero. / Mom. I think she is important because without her I wouldn’t be who I am. I see these qualities in her: respect, trustworthiness, caring, fairness, responsibility, citizenship. / My hero is my mom. She is important because she is the one who raised me and made who I am now. / My mom to take care of my cousin and my brothers to get care my mother. Yes, because they take care of the people. They are trustworthy to people who want to be like them. / I think it is my pet bird. He helps me through tough times. He is important because it was from my dead grandma. I think I’d look for a caring and trustworthy hero. / Batman is my hero. Batman is my hero because he always thinks positive and never gives up. The characteristics I look in my hero are that they are always positive and help others. / My hero is MJ. He’s a celebrity and a singer. They are important by teaching the world a lesson. Responsibility, caring. / Bonny the Bunny. They’re important because he or she is your hero if you’re sad that hero should make you happy. Citizenship, trustworthy, respect, responsibility, fairness, and caring. / Macklemore. It is important because in the future your hero will change you. The thing I’m looking for a hero is song video game and actor. / My grandma is my hero. She is always nice to me. I get along with my grandma the most than the rest of my family. I think my hero is important because she always believe in me.
Trustworthy is what I look for in a hero. / My dog is my hero because he respects me and he is fair. He treats me like others and we are all equal. I think my hero is important because without him I wouldn’t be happy! Fairness and respect. / My mom is important because she’s my mom and she cares about me. I love my mom. She is special to me. / My mom is important because she was the one is raising me. I look in a hero is kind, helpful, respectful, responsible, caring, and trustworthy. / Bryan. Because he is like a brother to me. Trustworthy, fairness, caring. / Ms. Hare is helping her and being respecting her not yelling at her of bullying. She is respectful to us and she nice and helpful to everybody. Respect. / Mrs. Hare sometimes us treat others. We have to earn them by be quiet and listen to the teacher and try to not get mad at the teacher. If she does get mad she will get mad. I think she is important because she will respect everybody. Respectful. / My sister is my hero because I know when I need something, I can talk to her. I trust her and she trusts me. We are respectful to each other and that is why she is my hero. I think they are important because I can talk to them. I would like all the qualities because it would make me feel even better. / My hero is my dad because he has been there for me in the good and bad times of life. I think that person is important because he has been there since I was small. I look for their kindness, helpful and also bravery. / My hero is my grandma because she fought to the very end of her problem. She had breast cancer but she fought and they found a medication. I do think she’s important. I know she’s important because when I am sad, mad, happy, she’s there. Nice, trustworthy, respect, responsible, and such more.
Seeing Beyond: Teamwork, kindness. It would apply in school by group working because you need to work as a team. By being respectful to new people. / Sense, honesty, details. It would help us in art because in art you use your imagination It will help you by imagination. / to collaborate with our teammates and use details. It would apply to the subject writing because you use your imagination. It would apply to being honest and to trust people to say the truth. / Details, senses, mind’s eye, teamwork, and honesty. Use teamwork, you could help each other. Math, English, grammar, science. Jobs, meeting new people. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: Courage, no right or wrong. Standing up for yourself. To be a better person. / Courage, no right or wrong, confidence. This will help us by learning. To stand up and be confident. Be a better person. / Confidence, no right or wrong. To speak in our own classroom. Stand up and communicate. To be a better person. / Confidence. To talk in front of students. Having confidence that friend will help you. Having confidence. Write about a time when you were trustworthy or caring and helped someone else in a positive way. How did it feel afterward? A time I was being trustworthy is when my friend told me something and I didn’t tell nobody because I was being trustworthy to her. / I was caring for my cousin and helping her do her homework. That made me happy. / I helped my mom once that she needs to try her best. At last it feel happiness. / One day my friend had to tell something important and he told me. Afterward it made me feel that I can keep a secret and that my friend trust me. / I was trust some day in 3rd grade a kid I trust to be my friend for a long time and we were going to care for me and him to be my friend. / This one time a old lady was having trouble with the street and I help her out and made me feel good. / It was on Saturday and I was caring about the kids with cancer. My mom took me to see them and I give them my old toys. It felt good to help. / When I saw Dannie’s mom struggling with a 5 water gallon. I helped her out and took it inside her house. After that I felt good about myself. / I helped a bird that broken his leg. He couldn’t land straight he would crash into items. I helped him get better and he became my best friend and pet. / I was caring for my friend the day her baby brother died. I was with her making her feel happy. / When I helped someone with their homework. I felt happy to help. / A time I was trustworthy was when my friend told me a secret and I didn’t tell nobody. / It felt like if I had helped that person and that I go home and felt like I should help myself that way. / I’m always trustworthy with my friends and family. And always caring for other people like I helped them with stuff inside. / I took care of my mom when she was sick. When she wasn’t sick anymore I felt happy because I knew my mom was better because of me. / I helped and cared a dog from the street and adopted it. / The time I was caring is when my friend went to the hospital. I was there for her when she needed me. / It made me feel happy because I help my friend when he broke his leg. I helped him go to the car. / I was caring for my brother because his room was a mess and I helped him clean up
and that made me happy! / When one of my team players was locking us down then we were then I said you can it then he did it faster. / A time when I was caring was when I helped a little girl because she fell and scraped her leg and elbow. This was a time when I was caring. / A time I was trustworthy was when my sister told me a secret and I kept it but then my other sister knew of that secret and told my mom. / By letting a lil kid play football with the big kids. / One day I was walking down the street and then one girl was scared to go to the store and I help her to go to school and I took her to home. / One time that I was being caring and trustworthy was when my friend was have a hard time with her boyfriend. After that I wanted a boyfriend. This experienced me by when I have a boyfriend to be careful with him and with other friends. / The time when I was caring when I helped my mom wash the dishes and helped her cook and helped her what she need. / I was once trustworthy when my brother left to school he trusted me with his clown faces hat he bought from the store. / When me and Gricelda went to recess we sat down and she started to cry I told her what happen that something about her grampa so we went to lunch she stop crying and she had fun. I help her. / One time when I was walking home I saw a dog he looked so hungry and tired so I kept it. / I was caring when those kids pushed a kid and went to pick him up. / Puede ser cuando ay alguien que se cayo y to lo levantas y platicas con ella y te garra confianza or puede ser de otro modo. / When my friend need someone to take care of his phone so I was trustworthy and gave it back.
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices .
Funded By: Murphy School District Character Ed Location: Sullivan Elementary %Male 50
%Female 50
Dates: November 10-14, 2014
Ages 12-13
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 56 %NO 38 %Other 6 Post %YES 62 %NO 32 %Other 6 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 12 % Sometimes 79 % All the Time 9 Post % Not at all 18 % Sometimes 61 % All the Time 21 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 9 % Sometimes 75 % All the Time 16 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 68 % All the Time 32 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 3 % Sometimes 63 % All the Time 34 Post % Not at all 3 % Sometimes 53 % All the Time 44 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 6 % Equal 47 % Leader 47 Post % Follower 3 % Equal 74 % Leader 23 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 41 % No 59 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 72 % No 25 % No Answer 3 Did you do anything? % Yes 52 % No 32 % No Answer 16 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 94 % No 6 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I learned that bullying shouldn’t be happening. / By having responsibility. / I can help others. / Helping the people. / Helping the people. / To do something. / Defend others. / I read it and understand. / I learned to ignore that person. / Speak up for others. / Change his mind. / Cuz I learned about colors instead. / No fear for bully. / I could talk to a teacher or adult. / No I haven’t. / You can work things out with bullies. / I will be more caring. / People will have courage. / To tell them don’t to be a bully. / To never bully. / So people can’t beat up. / To be kind to others. / I learn vocabulary. / To not bully. / To stand up and say something. / Make friendship to the people who bully. / Be confident and have courage. / Make them stop. / I don’t want them being bullied. / Yes because we tell others to stop. / Not to change. / I’ll be more respectful. / Being brave and stand up who you are. / To walk away from bullying.
After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 94 % No 6 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I would do something because it’s the right thing to do. / By telling an adult. / I would talk to them is they stop bullying. / Helping. / Helping. / Maybe to help them. / I would tell them to leave them alone. / I am shy. / I would tell them to back off. / Tell them to stop. / Back him off. / So they won’t get fear. / I would help the kid out. / I would ask a teacher or adult. / Fight them. / I would tell them to back off. / It will be good because you are respecting others. / To tell them it is not ok. / To be brave. / Yea help the kid who’s getting bullied. / Yes I will do something. / Unless they are my friends. / Because I’ll feel bad. / I would go and tell the teacher. / I would say something to the bully. / I would stand up for that kid. / Tell an adult. / I’ll tell them to stop. / Yes I’ll defend that person. / I will do something because they are getting bully. / Tell to stop. / I would stop them because I feel bad for them. / Tell the teacher. / I will walk to them and say bully you own size to them. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 91 % No 9 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Respect yourself. / Because I respect myself. / I can help courage. / I can help courage. / By being confident. / To be more responsible. / I can be confident. / Well there some people that help so they helped me. / I learned to be confident. / Well don’t listen to strangers. / Follow my mind. / People can’t tell me what to do. / I knew some of that. / I respect the rules but not being pressured. / Yes I learned. / I learned that you can beat your goals. / Yes because we learned about all that. / To make good decisions. / To do better. / I learned that I have a lot of skills. / Yes I learn skills. / I learned to respect others. / Because I’m brave. / I learn that I have a lot of skills. / If I’m responsible my dream will come true. / I learned about all respecting people. / Don’t listen, be brave. / To be confident. / Courage and confidence. / Yes I learn all the lessons. / I think we all need to learn about ourselves. / I’m more respectful to others. / Be trustworthy. / Respect to older people to other and be responsible. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 44% Post 97% Thoughts Shared: Pre: IDK. / Why can’t we see ultra violent. / I never thought about it. / Red I think blood and white like a sky cloud. / I have never thought about color. / I think color is a rainbow. / Never thought about it. / I think that the colors are pretty. / Not at all I haven’t thought about color. / I think color is pretty and no I never thought about color. / No never thought of color. / I never thought about it. / Yes blue because it’s so nice dark color and shiny. / I never thought of. / I never thought about it. / I don’t know. / I think that blue means friendly. / That they are part of different things. / I never thought about it. / I don’t think of color. / Ya when I wanted my parent to get back together. / Blue, green, and red. / Pink. / The color what is blue, green, and pink. / No. / Banana, unicorn, grapes, apples. / I never thought of it. / I like blue because in the night I could see the stars. / I never thought about it. / I never thought about it. / I don’t see such thing as color we are all the same. / Purple.
Post: Music has color. / Red a color. / The colors affect mood. / The color affect mood. / The color affect mood. / It could be anywhere. / The color affect mood. / Pink. / I think it is the way we think. / I still want to help people. / Never thought about it. / I think color can change mood. / Seriously why can’t we see ultra violet. / Yes with the bullying I see. / Red as blood. / I think that colors is a feeling. / That music can have color by the rhythm. / Some is good. / That it can to light or dark. / That there’s no right or wrong question. / Yes I learn all things and lesson. / That it is all about rhythm. / To be brave. / That color can mean anything. / I think color expresses emotions. / Color is like music to me. / I learned that you need to be brave. / I learn that it’s important. / Wonderful and beautiful. / The color was awesome and it will be great. / The colors don’t matter. / Never thought about it really. / They are colorful. / To learn about it. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 78% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Biggest dream is to go to college. / Get a job, nice house, internet, and pet dog. / My most important dream is to have house and a life. / Is to be NFL player and go to college. / My most important hope or dream is to be a doctor when I grow up. / To be a NFL player. / To be a Marine. / My dream is to help kids with cancer but I think that I will never reach it. / My dream is to have a successful life. / I don’t have a hope or dream right now. / Help people cross the streets. / My most important dream is to become a biologist. / Is to go to see my family over the world. / To be a engineer. / I don’t know. / My important dream is to be rich and have money. / To have a happy life. / My dream is to become a teacher. / To be a NFL player. / Is to go to college graduate from the GCU. / No because ay pleases. / To make differences. / I don’t have. / None. / Finish school and get a good job and help others. / To be a soccer player. / My important dream was to be a police officer or teacher. Shooting stars. / My dream is to become a pediatrician. / My most important hope or dream is have a better life and study hard. / To graduate and get a good job. / Not sure. Post: Most important dream is to become someone in life. / I being a good student. / Be with my family and study. / Be with my family. / Be with my family. / Important hope to graduate college. / Be a soccer player. / To be smart. / My hope is to always impress. / My hope is to help people. / To be a Marine. / Is to become a professional football player. / Get job, live in house, have a pet dog. / Is to graduate from college and be in the military. / To be in Cardinals. / My most important dream is to be a football player. / My dream or hope to be a model or a cheerleader. / To reach my goal to be a doctor. / That it can change. / My dream is to be a soccer player. / That I wish Christmas is the best. / My dream is to be a movie star. / Is to be a biologist. / To be a engineer. / To finish school and get a education. / Is to protect my family and make them straight. / Finish school and have a good career. / None oh to be successful. / Is to reach my goal to be a photographer. / My important dream is to be a police officer. / I help with cancer. Please at least help me visit the little kids with cancer. / My dream is to become a pediatrician. / Is travel the world. / To follow my hope and dream in my future. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 100% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: I think I learned to don’t give up. / To have courage. / Take my own decisions. / Respect my choices. / Respect my choices. / To not give up. / Respect my choices. / Say I hope for it. / Is to keep trying no matter what. / Have hope or courage to help others. / Pass school. / Is
to have confidence. / Courage. / I learn to tell or talk to a teacher about me being bullied. / That I have confidence. / Is to have respect and responsibilities. / To work hard to reach to your goal. / To be responsible. / To work with people. / To never by shy and be confident with you. / People care about each other. / And to help people. / Help with stopping bullying. / Is to always stay up and don’t let nobody ruin my dreams. / I learned to never give up. / Is to get my goal and believe. / One thing I learned is that to be proud about ourself. / Be confident and be proud of yourself. / To believe in myself. / I learn that to help other and care about them too. / I haven’t reach my dream yet. / There is no right or wrong. / Don’t give up. Bring your goals up. / Do great in school and high school. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 94% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: I already knew everything about me. / About the colors. / I can help others. / Help the people in bullying. / I didn’t know I was shy. / I should try harder. / I don’t have one. / Paint under the floor that everyone creates different stuff. / I learned that there isn’t a wrong answer. / Have courage, don’t be shy. / I have known everything about me. / I like colors. / About color. / I never knew that bullying is illegal. / That I’m nice. / I am much smarter and better than I think. / That I like to color or draw. / That I can be confident to speak in front of the class. / Do new stuff. / To never care of what you doing. / That color of the music. / To help each other. / To have courage. / That I can speak in front of people. / That I am very brave. / I learned about sharing being respectful. / I learned to be confident and talk in public. / That I can speak in front of others without being shy. / Courage. / I learn new about the color because I didn’t know now I do. / That I am weird person. / I have not being embarrassed a lot. / That I was learning new things. / To bully other is to lose your. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 100% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: I saw some students aren’t really shy. / They are smart. / Respect, other. / Respect my friend and my family. / Respect my friend and my family. / That they can help you. / Respect childs. / About help us each other. / I learned that Jaime likes Dubstep. / That my friend is not shy anymore. / Their dream. / That they never give up. / That bully can be stop. / I learned about teamwork and have their backs. / That I’m cool. / Friends can also depend on each other. / Something I learned is that Candy is mean. / That everyone is scared of something. / To work with others. / That they weren’t shy. / Caring about each other and be respectful. / That you can be more than a friend, you can be a hero. / That some friends are trustworthy. / That he feared his dream about talking. / That we can overcome any obstacles. / To make friends and not be rude. / That most friends can be trustworthy. / That a classmate stood up for herself and spoke up. / That other people have fear and they don’t believe in their self. / I learn new is that caring about each other and do not judge other people. / They seem mean but don’t bully. / My classmate has family in other states. / That working as a group. / To what again to help, teach.
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices . .
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 25 young lives from Hamilton School experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on November 10-14, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 12-14. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Confidence and respect. You will speak without being nervous. You won’t judge someone. Successful in career and less consequences. / A good social activity. Making new friends is a skill to apply in school. To prevent stereotyping is to not assume or judge people by the way they look. Citizenship could build character in my life. / Communicating an idea is important, in exercise, not judging. It helps in school because you need skills like that to get by. From judging people’s appearances. To not judge and respect people’s thoughts. / Communication skills. It would help us with getting new friends. It would prevent stereotyping because I would communicate with others and you wouldn’t stereotype. To tell people how you feel. Through the Hoops: Teamwork, courage. Helping each other. Courage to stand up and help. Taking risk. / Life, energy, and courage. Working with others. Stand up for yourself and others. Depend and trust peers. / Courage, goals, challenges, teamwork, energy. Even though there might be a challenge, you can always try. Courage to stand up for yourself. Skills to overcome an obstacle/challenge in your life. / Life energy, teamwork, challenges, courage. Using teamwork to help you do classwork. Getting through the challenge, standing up for yourself. Getting through all the obstacles/challenges in life. Seeing Beyond: Respect, collaboration. Math, science, reading, and grammar/language arts. It will help me to follow through and my dreams. / Feeling, listening, and imagination. This would help us on mostly all the subjects. We could listen better and this helps us get confidence to people. / Our 5
senses, imagination, critical thinking, teamwork. To work together and to think. Easier to talk to people. / 5 senses, feeling, listening, imagination, collaboration. Science, math, reading, and writing. We would use our five senses to learn. If you don’t listen then you will not know what to do. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: Memory, trust, and recognition. Remembering work, taking tests. Trust real friends to help out. Fix mistakes and be trusted. / Memorizing, trusting people with secrets and focusing. Working on esteem. Getting to understand people better. Social skills, preparing for a job and being independent, confidence. / To share and trust people around you, also memory. To remember and put into other people. To communicate. To be more open. / Recognizing fears, goal setting, memory, trust, and focus. We would set goals. We would use communication skills. Open up about our fears. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Confidence, courage, and encourage. To answer and something when you’re asked first time. Have confidence to speak up and to act. / Confidence, respect, courage, citizenship, trustworthy. Speaking up, helping others, and standing up. Jobs, promotions, and more money. / Confidence, courage. By speaking up. To have courage in groups. / Confidence, respect, courage, citizenship, trustworthy, encourage. Speak up when asked the 1 st time to make a fool of someone in a joking way. When you want respect give, have courage to act, speak up, have confidence to reach your dreams. Describe a time when you had an experience that you perceived (thought/saw) as negative, but through time or something you did, you perceived (thought/saw) the experience as a positive one.
When I first went to school and I was freaked and I know that all the kids were scared too. / When my mom took me to El Salvador where she is from. / I had ok grades my mom wasn’t very happy, then my sister’s grades were horrible and she made my grades ok. / When I broke my tibia bone and I went to the hospital after a while. It was fun to experience how to live with a wheelchair. / When I fell off my bike and opened my knew. Then I went to the hospital. It was fun. They gave me whatever I wanted. / Once I spinned to throw a football. Now if I spin I throw further. / I thought that when my brother got in trouble, I helped him with his work and behavior. / Well once I went to the store and a girl saw me with a mean face and later on she bumped into me again and told me something positive. / A couple years ago, my family and I moved houses. When I arrived at my new home, I was upset to leave my best friend. But through time I saw it as a positive and now I love my house. / When I had to accept more people living with us. It became fun because they weren’t so bad. / When I moved to Hamilton in 2nd grade, I thought it was going to be bad. It turned out good. I have great friends and nice classmates. / When I went to Mexico last year I thought I was going to be a loner but I had lots of friends! / I went to move to new house. / When I go school, I think that the things are gonna go wrong but starts going great. / I was scared of heights but then kept on getting on high stuff and I stop getting scared. / I felt different. / One thing that I thought was negative was 8 th grade. I thought it was going to be hard, but now I know it isn’t as bad as it made it seem. / One day I didn’t want to go to school but then we went on a field trip. / I was scared of heights and I didn’t want to go to the mountains and I got used to it. / One thing that I first thought that was wrong was going to school but I went learning more and school can change your life. / I thought that going to 8 th grade was going to be bad but then it got better. / When I was in football I though people were talking about me. But more later people weren’t talking about me say I am so good and stuff and I was happy. / I thought having a little sister would be extra work and harder but now she’s helpful and pretty cool. / Well when I was about to start my soccer game and the girls on the other team had an attitude and then I got mad and they were nice, so I got happy. / I was scared going to MDA camp, but later on I was really happy because I made lots of new friends. / I have to finish school to be successful. / I thought my school was going to be wack but now not really. / My life is negative. But some time is not. / When moving to this school knowing nobody and then the teacher introduced me to the class and I made friends. / I thought that school
sucked a lot but when I went to school, it got way better. / When I was moving schools to Hamilton, but then later on I made friends and made 3 best friends. At first I was scared of not making friends. / I felt really happy because I have gotten life skills due to this program and I’m able to think more positive. Color: Strong foundation, creativity. Focus on subjects. See things differently/same. Truthfulness, responsibility. It would help you by showing who you are and represent. On working together and trusting people on their job. / Teamwork, fairness. To work together. Be fair and nice. / Having a strong foundation. Reminding yourself of what you have. To be a strong leader. Overall, something New about Self or Others in your Group: I learned to have courage and respect. But to respect you need to respect yourself. To speak up and act without peer pressure. / That we can be confident in ourselves. / We all can be artistic. / That we have the courage to do something.
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Funded By: Murphy School District Character Ed Location: Hamilton Schools %Male 56
%Female 44
Dates: November 10-14, 2014
Ages 12-14
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 70 %NO 22 %Other 8 Post %YES 87 %NO 9 %Other 4 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 26 % Sometimes 56 % All the Time 18 Post % Not at all 13 % Sometimes 56 % All the Time 31 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 56 % All the Time 44 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 27 % All the Time 73 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 43 % All the Time 57 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 44 % All the Time 56 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 0 % Equal 26 % Leader 74 Post % Follower 0 % Equal 39 % Leader 61 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 35 % No 65 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 70 % No 30 Did you do anything? % Yes 52 % No 31 % No Answer 17 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 92 % No 8 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: I forget. / No we did not talk about bullying. / Respect myself. / Speak out. / Tell a teacher when someone is getting bullied. / I learned that telling others will stop bullying. / I learned about the colors on songs. / I learned that I can be trusted. / To stand up for other people. / To stand up for yourself. / Help others when they’re being bullied. / Speak up. / Just to tell someone. / It is very fun to learn. / It helps want to speak and help them. / Stand up for myself. / I learned all kinds of character traits. / Don’t be scared of them. / The way to judge people on the way they dress. / Stand up for yourself. / Confidence. / I learned that character counts. / Speak up. / Don’t be scared. / Be caring. / To have confidence to stand up. / It help a lot. / Not to judge.
After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 96 % No 0 % No Answer 4 Thoughts Shared: I would try to help that person. / Yes I will defend them. / Defend them. / They might not be brave. / I will go tell a teacher. / Yes because those kids can’t defend themselves. / Sometimes. / I would do something. / Because everybody should be treated equally. / I would stand up for them. / Help them. / I would find help. / I would defend them. / Nobody wants to be bullied. / I would so wouldn’t feel alone and scared. / I would help. / I will help them out once I see it. / Tell the teacher or get help. / I would do something because bullying is bad. / Because they might be afraid to stand up for themselves. / Stop it. / I would go up to the person being a bully and tell him to stop. / Try to stop and act. / I would stop it. / Don’t let anyone bring you down. / I’d tell them to stop. / yes because that’s not right. / Because they are equal to you. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 96 % No 4 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Only to listen to myself. / Yes I will now always make my own decisions. / Don’t let anybody choose for me. / Express myself. / To speak up. / Yes because you get to make your decisions. / To have caring and trustworthiness. / Because it helped me. / Yes I did learn skills. / I learned to respect my own decisions. / Make your own decisions. / To follow through. / I’m more confident on my opinion. / Many skills. / No because my mom taught me all of this. / Don’t let anybody choose for us. / I did learn respect but I don’t have problems with others with respect. / Think come. / Citizenship and trustworthiness. / Don’t listen to others. / Respect for yourself. / I learned respect and I would make my own decisions on peer pressure. / To respect and courage. / I really did. / Because peer pressure wasn’t involved. / To respect my opinions. / Yes I did. / Teach other people. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 83% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Color is important. / Lime green because it’s bright. / I don’t know. / I think it’s something that makes people. / The color I like is blue because it is cool. / Color is the way you express yourself. / I think color is important because it might be flavors of your favorite color. / I don’t know what color is. / Yah, I thought about my favorite color and thought about different ones. / It sometimes is it depends on the situation. / Colors can affect your mood. / Never I have. / Color is the way you express yourself. Yes I have. / There is no color. Everybody is the same inside. / Color can affect you and it means a lot. / Everyone is equal. We might look different but inside we’re all the same. / It is important. / I have thought about color and I think that it depends on the situation. / I think all colors are decoration without a meaning. / My personal opinion is that it doesn’t really matter because everyone is equal and everyone should be treated the same. / Black cuase it’s a cool color. / Color means decoration to me. / No I have not. / No I never thought about color.
Post: It can be any color you want. / It’s art. / They are cute. / I think it’s cool. / Color can be music and art. / I learned that color will make you feel better. / That if how the music sounds that how the color change. / I learned about the traits in color. / I learned that color means feelings. / Color is the way you are feeling, the mood you are in. / Respect everyone or anything at all times. / Color can. / That we could work together. / That color can represent sometimes moods. / That it show you people’s emotion and feelings. / I still think they are just decoration. / I learned that color is like your character. / That color represents different things. / That color is everywhere. / It is important. / Color comes in many different ways. / Color is how you respect yourself. Color helps you describe how you’re feeling. / That you can see it different not as just another color. / It makes everything better. / Color is just color. / Color can be based on mood/anything. / Yes it makes you what color is for. / It expresses people’s feeling. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 96% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: My most important dream is to pass high school and go to college. / Cook. / I don’t know. / Take off my cast!!! / My most important dream is to go to college. / Is to become a nurse/surgeon and go to college. / I think dream is most important because they could come true one day. / I want to become a football player. / To have better grades. / Is becoming a doctor and helping others. / My most important dream is to go to college and help my family out. / My dream is to be a racer. / My hope or dream is to be a doctor. / Hope: to be successful. Dream: become a nurse. / To be successful and make my family proud. / My dream is to become a successful lawyer. / I don’t have one. / My most important hope is to get into college and graduate. / Be a paleontologist. / My most important dream is to graduate and do something good in life. / To be a singer. / My most important dream is to finish my education and become a soccer player. / Being a soccer player. / My most important dream is to become a soccer player. Post: To be a chef. / Undercover cop or gamer designer. / Our color. / To be successful. / My most important dream is to finish middle school. / My most important dream is to go to college. / To have a good life and a good job when I grow up. / Is to be a race car driver. / To become a game designer. / To go to college, become a surgeon/doctor. / My dream is to become a successful lawyer. / My most important dream is to be a nurse to go to ASU. / Is being a pro football player. / I hope I become a nurse. / Is to become a doctor and help others. / Goals. / Is to become what I hope will be and I will try my best to accomplish it. / Is go to college and complete my goals. / My most important dream is becoming a soccer player. / Go to college. / Graduating from college. / Is to be a doctor. / Hope: to be successful and achieve. Dream: to become a nurse. / Is to be a FBI agent and make my mom a house to live in. / Is becoming a police officer. / To make my family proud. / To become a doctor. / To be a journalist. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 96% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: To be citizenship and responsibility. / Cuz I didn’t really pay attention. / To help other. / Express my feelings. / One thing I learned in the workshop that will help me with my dreams are respect. / Never give up even if people say you can’t do it. / Respect, caring, trustworthy. / One thing I learned that helped me reach my dreams is to always be truthful. / To never quit on your dream. / To have courage to reach/follow my dream. / Respect others, take responsibility, and make sure others know you’re trustworthy. / There are obstacles that I can fight. / Is respect people. / To never give up on my dreams and goal. / To pay attention to my work and to be responsible. / Never
give up. / Is in order to reach my goal is to show all my respect, careness, fairness. / Fairness. / One thing I learned in the workshop to reach my dream is to not give up. / Is to have courage. / Confidence in myself. / The thing I learned was citizenship. / That there will be hoops and if you can’t pass them to find a new direction. / Never give up, go a different direction. / Being myself. / To be more confident. / Is my citizenship. / Have people help you not with everything though. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 91% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: I am brave. / I didn’t listen. / Responsibility. / I learned that I am really loud. / Something new I learned in the workshop was respect, responsibility. / I learned that I could be able to trust people. / I kind of knew everything the things they teached. / Something new I learned that I did not know about myself. / That I could stand up for others. / That I have the courage to follow my dreams. / I can find a way to help others when they need help. / I can now sometimes speak up if I try. / That I could work together. / I learned that it’s fun to paint. / That I need to let everyone help like in teamwork. / To be responsible. / I didn’t know that color changes in different ways. / Nothing. / What I learned new about me is that I am trustworthy and I didn’t know that before. / I am caring and I help others. / Color is everywhere. And it is even in people. / I learned that I could talk in front of a crowd of people. / That I can actually speak up if I want to. / I have confidence. / I am who I am because that’s who I am. Don’t let anyone change you. / I can talk louder. / About respect I guess. / I don’t have to be shy all the time. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 96% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: They are nervous. / I didn’t listen. / To be respect. / How they feel. / Treat your friends with respect. / I learned that they’re respectful and caring. / How colors change. / That they will always be helpful to you. / They are really happy for this. / I learned that my friend wants to become a doctor and that I could trust them. / Similar fear. / Some friends have similar things like the fear of height. / That they wre a good friend to me. / That she also loves to paint. / That they don’t want to feel as if they are not being heard. / Some of their fears. / I learned that it is good to work together. / That we all different. / I learned that a classmate was afraid of heights. / That they are afraid of some things. / That they are good people. / I learned new about my classmate or friends was that they could be respectful. / That they are risk takers and speak up when necessary. / They are not that much different. / They can be funny and play around too. / That they respect you if you respect them. / A lot I didn’t know there were so different from me! / They are very helpful.
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices . .
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 21 young lives from Kuban Elementary experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on December 8-11, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 12-13. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : No judging, teamwork, social, get to know others, stereotype. This skill will help accomplish more. Get to know would help would not judge people. People will like you as you are. / Socialize with other people. Make new friends. Because you will be able to know them better. It will make you a better person. / I learned how to do teamwork. We will be able to work with others. We’ll get to know each other and not judge. We’ll be able to work with people. / No judging, teamwork, social. Communicating with others. Get to know others better. Get along, jobs, building relationships. Creative Storytelling: Confidence, not being shy, being brave. Not being stage fright. You could stand up for yourself. People will know your ideas. / Having confidence for standing up and talking. We won’t be afraid of talking to teacher. By being confident in bullying the person being bullied will be confident and tell someone older to help. We will be confident in jobs and not be nervous and have positivity. / Communication, teamwork, public speaking. You use them by talking with teachers/friends. By help others and talking to the people bullied. People will know you get act. / Critical thinking, confidence. Speaking in front of others. Sticking up for yourself. You won’t be shy.
Through the Hoops: Teamwork, trust, thinking. You will get along in school. Being straight up and speaking up. Study, get through obstacles and taking risks. / Trust people to pass you the hoop. It will help by trusting your classmates. By trusting your friends to be there for you. By trusting others in jobs or in life difficulties. / Trust. Teachers will give you trust. Trust someone that gots your back. Help people you start to know. / Teamwork, taking risks, obstacles. Going through obstacles and making good decisions. Being confident to tell the teacher. Making good choices and getting along with others. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Motivation, reflection, confidence, responsibility. Homework, being on time and on task. Not falling into lies, think before you do, and say no to drugs. Be successful, good choices. / Love yourself and to love all your perfect imperfections. Respect yourself and others. If someone tells you wrong, you will love yourself and won’t believe them. To learn to respect yourself and others. / Someone to encourage you. Someone to encourage you to do better in school. The person encouraging you can give you advice. They help me make good decisions. / Gaining confidence, being strong. When meeting others and doing a test. You won’t be shy in front of other people. Being confident when working with others and meeting them. Mirror Work: Look at Yourself in the eyes (ONLY) and tell yourself that you love or like yourself just the way you are. When I look at myself in the mirror I think I look weird. / It makes me feel confident but also silly. / I felt weird and creeped out. / It makes me feel good and better. If I’m trying for something I need to do this so I like myself. / I think it make me feel great awesome. / Silly because I’m looking at myself. / It makes me feel good about myself. / It makes me feel good. / I like me the way I am. It makes me feel happy, loved. / It makes me feel important and it makes me feel proud to be myself. / It makes me feel more confident than I was before. / I like the way I look like and I would judge myself anymore. I feel very great to look at myself. / It makes me feel awesome. / It makes me feel confident even though I’m not the best looking kid. / It makes me feel good and dumb. / Great, thankful, beautiful, awesome. / It makes me feel good. / It makes me feel weird since I’m look at myself in the mirror and talking to myself. / Happy, excited. / It makes me feel confident about myself. Into who I really am. / It makes me feel happy. Hero: Who is Your Hero and Why do you think are they important? What characteristics or qualities, would you or do you, look for in a Hero? No hero. I would make my hero be strong and invisible. / Abel Tesfaye. His singing makes me express how I feel. I look for respectful, funny, and caring. / My hero is my dad. He is important because he’s the most generous dad ever. My characteristics or qualities that I will look for in a hero is fun, active and trustworthy. / Jesus is my hero cuz he gave me trust and hope. We don’t know how he looks like but I know he talks to me. / I think is Captain America because he’s the Captain of America. Because they’re grateful for our country. Captain America. / The weekend because he makes me express who I am. I think the weekend is important because he expresses who I am. Funny. Person who expresses their feelings, chill. / My mom because she’s always there and she’s the best. I look for loyalty, kind, helpful, and sharing. / My hero is my mom. Because she looks after me and takes care of me and help me every time. Nice, funny, respectful, helpful, and careful. / My mom, dad. I think because they made me and they are telling to what to do and not to do. They are helpful, loving, nice. / They support me in school and they do so many things for me. I look forward to a hero to be supportive and kind. / My parents. They are always there for me and love me. They make sure I have what I need. I love them. I think they are important because they love me. I look for them, making sure I am alright, and always give me what I need. / Family is my hero because they are there for me every day. They are important cuz they are there for you at all times. Something that I look is for them to have confidence just like that one person. / My dad is my hero. I think he is important because every day he makes me laugh and he tickles me a lot. I look for a caring and trustworthy hero. / My hero is important because without her I wouldn’t be here writing this sentence. In a hero I see a smart, strong, and brave person, like my mom. / My favorite hero is Wonder Woman. I think they’re important because they’re intelligent and truthful. I look in them to be good and theirselves. / Mom is the best. I don’t know what to do when she is gone. I love her. She plays with me she is fun to be with. Because I feel calm when I am with her. How great she is. / No hero. / Sister. I think
my sister is important because she helps me. I look for teamwork in a hero. / My dog. They are important because he’s been with me everyday I’m bored. If I didn’t have him I’d probably be bored to death. No judging, trustworthy, and caring. / They are helpful, careful, creative. My dad. / My dog is important to me because he’s always there for me. Trustworthy. / Skrillex. Because they make me happy! He is cool and awesome.
Seeing Beyond: Creativity, teamwork. Reading because you’re inferencing. Think of other options. / Honest, ability. Reading – citing evidence. We have to be honest on where we found our info. Help you get a job – responsible. / Honesty, instincts, science. Science helps us pay attention to nature. Being trustworthy. / Imagination, touch. History because the teacher can bring historical objects. How you can help the blind people and see how it feels to touch things. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: Knowing people, socializing, confidence. People know what you like and don’t like. You have the wits to stand up to them. People get to know you. / Respecting others while they were talking. Respect teachers while they care. We won’t be afraid of the bully. Respecting people through work or life. / To follow our dream. You’ll do better in school to follow your dreams. You’ll not bully people to show good examples to everyone. It will show what you wanna be when you grow up / You’re never left behind. There’s people who have the same fears, hopes, and/or dreams. Maybe the bully that is messing with you has the same fear as you. You will get along with a lot of other people because you have things in common. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Caring, trustworthiness. You become more friendly. Be successful, help the world, people will be nice to you. / Care for others. Care for classmates and help them. To listen to people and help them out. / Help people. You’ll be helpful to the teachers and students. People might need help and we’ll help them and they’ll think we’re polite. / Caring and trustworthy. People and teachers will trust you and believe in you. You will be a caring person and worry about others. Write about a time when you were trustworthy or caring and helped someone in a positive way. How did it feel afterward? I was caring when my parents got me a puppy. I was caring for him about a year and now he is big. / When I was playing soccer and someone drop my teammate and I pick him up. / One time I was helpful with my mom. I helped her do the dishes and afterwards that I helped her I felt great. / The trustworthy or caring and helped someone is when I saw someone get hurt. I helped and he said you are really trustworthy person. / I was caring to my sister because I helped her cook and wash the dishes. / The one nice thing I did is when I was walking back to Circle K to my home and I saw a homeless guy and I gave him a $50. / I helped my friend do his homework because he didn’t know how to do it and I did. / Trustworthy I had been trustworthy with my friends because they tell me secrets and I don’t ever say what they tell me only I keep to myself. / I was caring when my dad had a really hard day and I was caring about my dad cause he was tired/emotional. / I care for my family, also my dog. Last time my family grounded me and I did nothing. I went to where my dog was and she was hungry. My mom came outside and she said I am not grounded anymore. / I remember a time last year when my sister broke her nose and I had to help her to the nurse. It was kind of weird because it happened at school. / I was caring with my friend and he was upset and I told him it would be OK. He was happy that I was there to cheer him up. I felt happy that I was there to help him. / When I helped my brother on his math homework. I feel great when he gets it right. I love him so much. / When I helped that one person I was feeling trustworthy and helpful. I really really did feel like a responsible. /
One time I was being craing to my puppy. My puppy was hurt so I fed him and showed him a lot of love. Then he was happy. / A time when I was caring was when I was helping my dad put up the Christmas lights. / I was standing alone outside then someone came up to me and asked my opinion on something and instead I gave her advice and it helped her. I felt happy. / When my friend had problems at home, I comforted her and told her she could count on me. / I help this girl to go to the house while she was fainting and I help her. I love that girl like a sister so I ain’t going to leave her like that. / My friend was feeling sad and I made him feel better and happy. / A time I was caring was when my dog went missing. We couldn’t find her for 3 days and everyone was sad. We finally found her and we were happy. I was caring for her.
Yes/No: You could say no to bullies. You can make your decisions. You will have the ability to say no. You will be a confident person. Color: Makes you happy. Better attitude. A better student. / How to read others. Color is a chill work. It can be happy and sad. To have confidence. A color can represent your feelings. / Color can make you happy. To face the fears. To have responsibilities. / Colors could represent your emotions. You can show your emotions to others. You will be creative. Overall, something New about Self or Others in your Group: Respect others, being more confident. I’d have more responsibility for myself and others. I’d be more caring to other people. / Everyone is different and unique. / To be trustworthy so people could have trust in you and be nice to everyone to work as a group for teamwork. / Be more respectful and caring for others.
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Funded By: Murphy School District Character Ed Location: Kuban School %Male 48
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Dates: December 8-11, 2014
Ages 12-13
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 43 %NO 52 %Other 5 Post %YES 86 %NO 14 %Other 0 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 14 % Sometimes 86 % All the Time 0 Post % Not at all 5 % Sometimes 81 % All the Time 14 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 5 % Sometimes 81 % All the Time 14 Post % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 62 % All the Time 38 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 19 % Sometimes 48 % All the Time 33 % No Answer 0 Post % Not at all 19 % Sometimes 48 % All the Time 28 % No Answer 5 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 29 % Equal 43 % Leader 24 % No Answer 5 Post % Follower 24 % Equal 43 % Leader 33 % No Answer 5 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 52 % No 48 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 71 % No 29 Did you do anything? % Yes 52 % No 38 % No Answer 10 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 86 % No 14 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Stand up to your self. / To be kind to them even if they are not with you. / To get help. / I learned that you have to stand up to them. / Don’t be shy. / Respecting others. / I must not be shy and stand up to people. / Confidence to stick up for myself. / How they deal with the bully. / To stand up to them. / Kind of. / To stand up to bullies and don’t believe what they say you are. / To stand up to bullies. / To be trustworthy and help others. / No because not everyone could help you. / Respect and never be quiet of bullying. / Just don’t be shy. After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 90 % No 5 % No Answer 5 Thoughts Shared: I would tell them to stop. / I might, depends what it is. / I would tell the teacher if someone is being bullied. / I would tell the teacher if someone was getting bullied. / I would stick up for them. / I would have don’t it before. / If I were being bullied I would want someone to know as well. / Stick up for them. / I will do something to stop it. / Only if I can. / I would tell an adult. / To help them out. / I’ll have their back. / Tell him to stop. / I would stick up for them. / IDK cuz they might bully you. / I would. / I will tell them to stop.
Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 81 % No 19 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Responsibility means caring. / To help people that are in trouble. / I believe to make my own decisions but depending on what. / Go with my own decisions. / I already respect my decisions. / I need to be confident and learn what is right and wrong. / I will respect myself and not let anybody tell me what to do. / I will not listen to them. / I learn how to respect others. / Not really because I want to fit in and people bully me a lot. / Because I’m strong. / To get help of someone older when you fall in peer pressure. / Don’t be rude and do things right. / Yes I do. / Yes I did. / To not be shy. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 86% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: I think of all the colors. / I think of crayons and art. / I think it’s what the world’s made of. Gray (my favorite color) is the color of my favorite animal (wolf). / It’s OK about it. I don’t really care. / I like black cuz it’s not a good thing to do black it good for sines. / Crayons. / Skin color. / Skin color. / No because that is racist. / Color pencils. / Pink – weak. / Beautiful, colorful, ugly, not fancy. / Purple for happy. / I think color is like color blue, red, green, purple, orange, pink, and gray. / A color pencil. / I think color is bright. A world without color is boring. / Blue I think that it is a cool color and I like it a lot. / I think all the color. / Blue makes me feel positive in any mood. / I think of a rainbow. / I feel green is chill. / I think colors mean something and no I have never thought about colors. Post: Color means something in you. / When I think about color, music comes to my mind. / Colors are really beautiful things. / Citizenship. / I think color is bright. / Color is what defines everything. / What I think about color is it makes me feel like playing video games. I learned it makes you unique. / I think of bright dreams and hope. / Colors could represent emotion. / Colors makes me feel happy. / That it is cooler. / Colors mean something. / Beautiful, creative, wonderful, cool. / Colors are feelings. / I think color is sad, happy, chill. / I think that color expresses your emotions. / Rainbow. / Black cuz it make you feel inside only. / About color blue is respect. / It represents something fair. / Rainbow. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 81% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: I always want to be with my family and become a makeup artist and hair stylist. / To have a red friend. / My most important dream is to work at the CDC. / I dream going back to Mexico. / I think I don’t have a good dream at all. / Be a successful cosmetologist and nurse. / Soccer. / Soccer. / So. / Is to become a vet and go to Paris. / My most important hope or dream is to go to Seattle, Washington. / To go to high school and college. / When I grow up, I want to become firefighter. / To help people. / When I grow up I want to become a secret spy in the FBI or in the CIA. / My dream is to be famous. / I want to be with my family. / My dream is to make my own brand of subwoofers. / Move to New York. / My dream is to be a professional basketball player. / I don’t have one.
Post: I would say dream. / My most important dream is to become an artist. / Is to be a police and protect the law. / My most hope or dream is to be someone in life. / My dream is to become a FBI agent, secret spy, or in the CIA. / To be with my family and go to Paris. / My most important dream is working at the CDC. / My most important dream is to accomplish my goals. / To go to New York and become a vet. / Going to night school. / To be famous and have a big house and also have money. / My most important hope or dream is to help others and to make my dream come true. / Is to become a mechanic. / To share respect, love, and hopes with the world. / To see my sister and go to Paris! / Is to finish college and be a football player. / To become a professional cosmetologist and nurse = dream. / To help my family and friends go through bad times. / To be a soccer player. / Hope and dream but mostly hope. / Want to be famous. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 100% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: It’s going to help me be successful in life. / Being a better person. / Is to be following the respect, trustworthy, caring, responsibility, fair, citizenship. / I learned can’t ever give up on myself. / To never give up. / One thing is always try to make important choices that are right. / One thing I learned is never give up to reach my dream. / To have confidence in myself. / To be caring and trustworthy. / Is that I will not give up on my dreams. I will have no fears. / Is to stand up for yourself. / To not stop hoping and to not give up. / Keep trying and to never give up. / To be confident in myself. / I learned to never give up and that my opinion counts. / To be respectful and help others. / Of being nice to others. / To help others. / Respecting others and trusting. / To not be shy. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 100% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: Citizenship. / Yes I did. I learned to respect and ask polite things. / People who have the same fears as me. / To face your fear in everything. / I learned that I have more talent than I think. / I could speak more better in front of others. / I learned that I should be myself and unique. / I learned that I can be more confident and less shy. / That I have common fears with other people. / I can reach my dreams. / That my fear is losing someone I care about. / I have confidence and bravery. / Respect. / I felt more confident and trustworthy. / I’m confident. / To be confident in myself and don’t be shy. / That my opinion counts. / How shy I really was. / To be trustworthy to people you don’t like. / Be respectful. / Citizenship. / That I am shy to talk.
What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 95% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: Respect. / I learned new things about my classmates. / They have the same fears as me. / That you should be confident. / That some of them may or may not have things in common with me. / Dayann lost her brother. I feel bad for her. / I learned some have the same fear as I do. / I learned that everyone has something in common. / I learned that Marilin is scared of snakes. / They dreams, they hope, and they fears. / That they are caring and they do a lot of teamwork. / That they have friends. / I didn’t learn anything from them. / I learned to respect and to help out. / I learned that a lot of people are afraid of losing loved ones. / That one of my friends has been bullied and I’m gonna have her back. / That they’re afraid of snakes. / What they were afraid of. / The way they shared the comments to others. / To not bully. / Fair is you have to share. / That some are shy and some are not.
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Grant, 23 young lives from Garcia School experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on December 8-11, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 12-13. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Leadership, trust, teamwork, confidence. Learning to accept others. If you know how to work together, you will learn to accept others. It would let us communicate with people who are different than us. / Confidence, honesty, respect, trust. Make friends, homework, full sentences, raise hand. Accepting others, make people feel comfortable. This skill will help me in life because I will be trusted in a job. / Trustful, respectful. To be nice to each other. Respecting and not grouping. They will trust you. / Equality, trust. It will help us work together with others. Allow us to give second chances. It would help develop social skills and trust others. Creative Storytelling: Communication, teamwork, confident. You need to communicate and your teacher. Standing up for yourself or one another. It will help me to speak different language to different people. / Confidence, responsibility, trust. Raising hand, speaking in front of class, turning in homework. It would help because you can go up and that bully something. It would help me be a better person. / Having teamwork and confidence. When you are presenting to the class. You would have the confidence to ask a teacher. When you’re talking to strangers. / Confidence, leadership, communication. It would apply in school because you have to communicate with others while working. It takes a leader to say something. Because it can build up my confidence so I’ll be able to speak in front of people.
Through the Hoops: Connection, trust, problems. Interfering with people’s lives. People have issues. Helping other people with their problems. / Connection, trust, teamwork. Study for test, group work. Help each other in difficult situations. It’s make things easier. / Teamwork, leadership, connection. Group work, don’t be a follower. Stand up for other people. Other people helping each other. / Friendship, trust, leadership. To help organize. To step up to help. Trust people to go your own way. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Reliable, pride, wisdom, trustworthy. You will be trust with more work. It will help me say the right thing. It will help me build up confidence. / Pride, courage, responsible. Doing homework, behave. Stand up for yourself. Making friends, success. / Responsible, courage, trust. To stand up to front of the class. To not be shy. Accomplish things. / Pride, courage, responsible. You will be responsible. Courage because you trust yourself. Pride will help you accomplish your dreams. Mirror Work: Look at Yourself in the eyes (ONLY) and tell yourself that you love or like yourself just the way you are. I felt proud of being me. / I love myself. / It makes me feel courageous for what I do. / It makes me feel beautiful. / Confidence, trustworthy, compassionate. / Confident, pretty proud of myself. / Good. / Strange, weird. / Weird, embarrassing. / Awesome, cool. / Great! / Weird. / Weird. / Good. / Happy. / It makes me feel good. / Excited. / Positive, confident. / Makes me feel confident about myself. / It makes me feel like a leader, fierce, brave. / Good and happy. Hero: Who is Your Hero and Why do you think are they important? What characteristics or qualities, would you or do you, look for in a Hero? Dad. My dad is my hero because I know he is strong and supportive in any way he could and he would give his life for me. Because he is my dad and I know he is there in whatever choice I make. Strong, heroic, fine looking, hard working, fights for what is right. / My mother because she showed me that there will be difficulties in life and we have to get through them and never give up. Responsibility, respect, wisdom, kindness, leadership. / Bruce Lee. He gives really responsible speeches. I want them to be grateful for what they’ve done. / My mom. I think my mom is important because she is my birthgiver. She helps me when I’m feeling down. I look for a big heart. My birthgiver has a huge heart. / My aunt. She is amazing. She takes me everywhere shopping, decorating her house. She lets me hold her baby. Because she is my role model. Trustworthy, caring, fairness. / August Alsina. He is a singer. He is really cute. I look in forwarding to meeting him. Because he does caring things for others. Caring, respectful, positive. / Cassandra. She hard working. Helping poor people. / Mom. / My dad and mom. / Parents. Give you spirit. They help me a lot. / My mom. They care about me and she is a hard worker. Hard worker. / Parents. They work hard. Pride. / Brother. Because he is responsible. / Mom and dad. Because they are always helping me. Respect, honor, trust, caring, fairness, and responsibility. / Albert Einstein. I believe Albert Einstein is important because he made the world realize there is more than one way to think. The qualities I look for in a hero are leadership, confidence, and courage. / Fabiola Villa. She is very intelligent and is always positive about herself. Them to be a leader and has to be a hard worker. / Dad. He is the one that took care of me. / My hero is my dad. Because he teaches me a lot of important values. / My mom cause she is strong and because she works hard and is just awesome. Because they are special to me. I look for trustworthy, honesty and braveness and fake braveness. / Jesus. Because he is somewhat the heart and soul of the world and he’s a fierce leader. A leader, smart, and capable of anything. / Cousin Andres. Smart. Courage.
Seeing Beyond: Imagination, details, honesty. Details to make things sound and seem more real. Math, writing, reading. / Senses, imagination, honest. Science, reading, math, story problems, expressing yourself. Motivate yourself and others. / Trust, imagination. Writing, science, math, reading, accomplishment. Reading something without pictures. Word problems in math projects. / Honesty, trust, patience. Honest on test, trust your gut and help you not to give up. If you’re honest, people will reward you.
Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: Confidence, remembering, creativity. Help you talk in front of crowds. Stand up for the other person. Show you appreciation. / You’re not alone, confidence. Having friends, confidence. Stand up for yourself. Not afraid. / Trust, honesty, courage. People will trust you. Teamwork. When presenting something. / Social skills. By participating in class. To stand up to a bully. To able to work to others. To able to work to others. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Confidence, persistence, trust. Standing up for one another. You have to trust people to help you. / Perseverance. If we keep studying we can do better in a class subject. Not to give up and keep trying. / Patience. To wait in line. When saving up money. / Brave, courage. Reading in front of others. Public speaking and being more responsible. Describe a time when you had an experience that you perceived (thought/saw) as negative, but through time or something you did, you perceived (thought/saw) the experience as a positive one.
I helped a kid get up when he fell. / When me and my friend got in a fight but became sisters. / One time was when I saw a kid being bullied and then I told a teacher and the kid being bullied became friends. / I lost my dog and I got a turtle. / I was once got in trouble when I was at my house for forgetting my dentist appointment and so I was really late (I thought). / Once I fail a test in my favorite subject and I thought this would bring my final grade to a zero. The good thing was that I learned nothing is perfect. / One time I found a puppy on the streets and I picked him up because I felt bad and I took him to my house and me and my mom found his owners. They were happy and I was too because if that was my puppy I would be grateful that somebody found my puppy. / When I lost my shoes and I got new ones. / It was one time when I was getting bullied until this kid came by and the kid told the bully something. So then me and him became best friends. / When I was smaller, I didn’t think playing games was easy until I grew up. Now I’m a total gamer. / A few days ago I forgot my writing assessment and no one was home so there was no way I could get it but the teacher was not there so I got one more day to turn it in. / Well I would feel really confused if I was to bully someone and thought it was positive but then in the future I eventually changed. I would feel confused and guilty. / Coming to Garcia Elementary. I thought I wasn’t going to make any friends but I’ve made a lot of friends through the years. / I got in trouble for running. Then I realized how. / I was going to the ice cream truck and I was running and I bump into somebody and spill his ice cream cone. I had a dollar to go buy one so I gave the dollar to that person. / When I lost my dog but I found a new one.
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Dates: December 8-11, 2014
Ages 12-13
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 79 %NO 17 %Other 4 Post %YES 92 %NO 4 %Other 4 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 9 % Sometimes 61 % All the Time 30 Post % Not at all 13 % Sometimes 43 % All the Time 43 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 0 % Sometimes 61 % All the Time 39 Post % Not at all 4 % Sometimes 39 % All the Time 57 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 4 % Sometimes 61 % All the Time 26 % No Answer 4 Post % Not at all 9 % Sometimes 39 % All the Time 57 % No Answer 0 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 0 % Equal 43 % Leader 53 % No Answer 4 Post % Follower 0 % Equal 47 % Leader 53 % No Answer 0 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 57 % No 43 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 91 % No 9 Did you do anything? % Yes 29 % No 71 % No Answer 4 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 100 % No 0 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Being trustworthy for. / Self-confidence. / Everyone has something in common most of the time. / I learned to release my fear. / I can now face up to bullies. / To stand up for others. / I learn that you can be brave and stand up. / By having courage. / I learned to stop it. / Helping others. / Everybody is equal. / To have confidence. After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 91 % No 0 % No Answer 9 Thoughts Shared: Tell them to stop. / I would stand up for them. / No one deserves that kind of meanness no one should. / It’s helping. / I would stop it. / If I was in that situation I would want them to help me too. / I would stand up for them and defend. / By telling the teacher. / Stop it. / Tell a teacher. / I would stand up for them. / I would stand up for them. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure?
Post % Yes 96 % No 0 % No Answer 4 Thoughts Shared: Fairness, responsibility. / I learn to respect my decisions. / It’s important to have trust. / Ignore. / It’s bad. / To say no when people ask me to do something wrong. I could say no. / By being responsible. / To respect others and my decisions. / Like never to be scared. / Help people. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 74% Post 87% Thoughts Shared: Pre: No. I have never thought about color. / When I see color I think of a person. Every person has a unique “personality” (color). / Personality. / I think it’s pretty normal. I treat everyone equal. And no I haven’t. / No, because everyone is a human. / I believe color shouldn’t matter because anything or anyone is unique. / A rainbow because it’s colorful. / When I think of the color blue I think of peace. I don’t really think of color just my favorite song. / I don’t think about life/mother nature. / When I see red I think of love. When I see black I see people who are racial. / I don’t think color matters. Because what counts is what they are like inside. / Sometimes color express you. / I never thought about color. / I think of amazing. / The water because my favorite color is blue. / Friendship. / I think color is life. / What I think color is it expresses feelings and other emotions. / I think that they are the same as us and equal. / I think color doesn’t matter. No. / I think it’s awesome. / I think of personality. / What I think of when it comes to a color is a chimpanzee. Post: Everything is not based on color. / I still believe color is unique. / I treat everyone the same. / I learned that color is based on sound. / Color is equal. / Color doesn’t matter. / Color means different things. / That all colors are different. / Awesome. That it could be bright or dark. / Yes. / Songs have it. / I don’t think color matters. / I think it’s life. / I learned. / Color means different things. / Rainbow! / Different songs have different colors. / Equal. / All color is equal. No difference. / Color can define things. / Everybody can be different and still mean something. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 96% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: My most important dream is becoming a professional soccer player. / To be good in life. / Is to meet August Alsina. / My most important hopes and dreams are to graduate from college and have a good job. / To do great at school and pass high school. / My most important dream is to go to MIT. / Is to become an engineer. / Is to become a lawyer and make my mom and dad proud by graduating from school. / To create one. / I want to accomplish my dream of being an architect and learning that things will cross my way to stop me from pursuing my dreams. / Is to work and get a car and a house. / Help my friend through her problems. / Is to be a vet. / To have a good job. / To be a football player. / My most important hope is to go to college. / What my favorite dream is to become a professional football player. / My important dream is to be a police. / Is become a doctor. / To go to college. / To be successful. / My most important dream is to make it to the military.
Post: Be respectful to my sister. / My dream is to finish college. / To finish through college. / Is to graduate college. / My dream is to be a professional baseball player. / To work. / To have a big house. / Is to make my parents proud, get a house, car, and become a lawyer. / To become a doctor. My most important dream is a vet. / To become a professional football player. / Is to graduate high school and college. / Completing college. / College. / Is to follow my dreams and have a good job. / Go to college. / Is to go to college. / To go to college. / Being successful. / To follow my dream and become either a nurse or architect. / Is dream. / Is to go to college and have a great life. / To get married. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 96% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: Fairness. / I learn self-confidence. / I know now that friends are important. / To be positive and don’t give up. / Ignore judgment. / Respect. / Never stop believing in myself. / To never give up and think positive. / Is courage. / To stay true to myself. / Persevere and never give up. / Responsible. / No right or wrong answer. / Become positive and be a good person. / Is to not give up and have courage. / Is to respect and be trustful. / To have courage. / Character. / To never ever give up on myself. / Confidence. / To be respectful and myself. / Confidence. What did you learn New in the workshop about yourself that you did not know before? Post 87% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: I can trust everyone. / I learn I can speak well among my classmates. / It’s not bad to express yourself. / No. / No wrong or right answers. / I have confidence. / Proud of being me. / That I am a really outgoing person. / That I am not alone. / I can speak out loud. / My dream and hopes. / I’m awesome. / I have hopes. / To help other when getting bullied. / That I know how to express myself. / If you respect yourself, you respect everybody. / Being creative. / I am not the only one. / I had so much courage and confidence. / I’m not afraid. / That I’m beautiful no matter what. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 91% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: They are respectful. / I learn many of my friends have the same fear. / We all have many things in common. / Yes. / Help. / That all are equal. / Stand up for another. / That we should always be kind and not judge anyone. / That they want to work at NASA. / That some of them has the same fears as me. / Most people have stolen something. / They have the same fear as me. / I’m not the only one. / Not be embarrassed. / That they have stuff I common with me. / They learned to respect. / They are creative. / They are kind of the same. / They had problems just like me. / Same fears. / That they can trust me.
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices . .
Thanks to Murphy School District Character Education Matching Grant, 30 young lives from Sullivan Elementary experienced their Possibilities. This workshop took place on December 11-18, 2014. Opening up possibilities for the young minds of Arizona’s youth for a brighter tomorrow.©
“Bridging Possibility” workshops. Through stories, activities and artwork, Release the Fear’s Workshops will help students to: Draw One’s Fears and Awaken Hopes and Dreams Stimulate Creative Listening and Communication Bridge Understanding Discuss How Color Affects Us and Our Environment Awaken Senses Heighten Visual Awareness of Our Environment Turn Pain into Possibilities into Purpose. The students are divided into four groups or teams that they remain with throughout the workshop. In their small group, the students may be asked to complete an activity, to share responses, or to reflect on an exercise. Often times these groups can have students with different beliefs, various backgrounds, and even opposing gang affiliations. The workshop will end with a group created painting to be displayed for the public. Participant Responses Participants are asked to reflect on several of the activities and then share with the group. These responses are written in their words without edit. The following responses are from the students who range in ages from 13-15. The students are asked to reflect on the following question: How do you think this activity could help you in your daily life (In School, Out of School, or In Your Career)? Who am I? : Respecting each other. Respecting other students. By respecting how people look. Teamwork, communicate. / Communication, confidence, get to know each other. Have more confidence. Not going to put tags on each other. Talk to other people, believe in yourself. / Communicating. Help us learn. Just looking at it. Respecting people. / Outgoing, social, honest. Talking to other student, tell the truth. Not judging for your look. You would be known as an honest person. Creative Storytelling: Details, thinking, helping. Helping people learn. It could stop bullying. By thinking and helping others. / We learned have respect. To learned more and respect. To help to stop the bullying. The hero is going to respect the person. / Getting confidence, teamwork. Guiding you through process. Help you on character traits, distribute. Help you what to expect. / Respect, fairness, trustworthy. It would help in school by being able to respect and trust others. It would help and improve character. It would help you be able to use all 6 of the character count pillars. Through the Hoops: Trustworthy, citizenship, responsibility. You do your work. You try to solve the problem. It helps because you have a lot of problems. / To help people and trust. To trust the students. To trust the people and tell to stop bullying. To trust some of people. / Teamwork, trust. Respectful to others, communicate. Working as a team to figure it out. / During the game we showed trustworthiness by trusting others. It shows that we can use teamwork to solve problems together.
Help show others that you are someone who can count on. It would apply in life by showing that we can overcome obstacles just by gong through them. Reflective Take Away Assignment: Respectful, responsible, and citizenship. It helps so you could know more people. It calms you. It helps with people. / Confidence, responsibility. Learning, test. Make good decisions. Respect yourself. / Character traits. Speaking in front. Know what to do. Build up maturity. / We learned how to use the 6 pillars of character. Being able to respect others and showing fairness. It would help by being able to overthink the situation and go with what is right. By being able to have a better life in the future. Seeing Beyond: Senses, details, mystery, description. Math, science, word problems. You get to know someone or something. / Details, mystery, descriptions, collecting data. Social studies, you find more details. Better at communicating, respectful, descriptive, patient. / Sense information, details. Writing, reading, grammar, science. Gives you more facts, better educations. / Senses, questions, details, describe. Math, reading, writing to collect all information. Helps you know more about something. Drawing one’s Fear’s, Hopes and Dreams and Sharing: We can achieve our goals. We can finish school to get to your dream. You can mature more, people won’t bully. I will be knowing responsible. / Yes to that we can make our dreams come true. To understand and help people. To confront them. Respecting others. / No fear, have fun, to open up. It will help by not being scared. Tell them how they feel. Stand up and help. / The skills and tools we use is to work as a team. By helping others. To help them out. To be a helpful person. Reflective Take Away Assignment: To help other people and to be responsible. To be nice and pass around good. To help you to the process. / Something new, to be brave in school. For not being scared in front of the class. To know what we’re gonna do in the future. / We learned how to open up, be confident. Help is the best way. You won’t be scared to follow your dreams. It would be applied when you’re in public speaking. / To achieve your goals. It’ll help you graduate. It’ll get you a good job. Overall, something New about Self or Others in your Group: We learned we can get over our fears and our dreams can come true. / I like how to respect other and be responsible to others and in school and help people that have courage in themselves. / We will be more respectful, helpful, responsible, and have no fear. We will stand out and listen and express our feelings. / That we are all helpful people and we can help anyone for anything.
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Funded By: Murphy School District Character Location: Sullivan Elementary %Male 33
%Female 67
Dates: December 13-18, 2014
Ages 13-15
Do you think others (Kids my age, older & younger, Adults) have the same Fear as I do? Pre %YES 70 %NO 29 %Other 7 % No Answer 3 Post %YES 67 %NO 23 %Other 10 % No Answer 0 Rate this statement: You feel comfortable speaking in front of others. Pre % Not at all 40 % Sometimes 47 % All the Time 13 Post % Not at all 20 % Sometimes 53 % All the Time 27 Rate this statement: I believe I can make my hopes and/or dreams come true. Pre % Not at all 10 % Sometimes 47 % All the Time 30 Post % Not at all 3 % Sometimes 53 % All the Time 50 Rate this statement: I respect my own decisions even when dealing with peer pressure. Pre % Not at all 13 % Sometimes 74 % All the Time 13 Post % Not at all 7 % Sometimes 63 % All the Time 30 Complete this statement: I am trustworthy and see myself as a __. Follower, Equal, Leader Pre % Follower 7 % Equal 37 % Leader 56 Post % Follower 3 % Equal 33 % Leader 64 Have you ever been bullied? % Yes 23 % No 77 Have you ever seen someone being bullied? % Yes 76 % No 17 % No Answer 7 Did you do anything? % Yes 67 % No 23 % No Answer 10 Did you learn something in the workshop that will help you deal with bullying? Post % Yes 87 % No 10 % No Answer 3 Thoughts Shared: No se mal tartar a los ninos. / IDK. / To be respectful. / Tell them to stop bullying kids. / To help others. / Asking why they are being a bully. / You can respect others the way you wanna be treated. / I don’t know. / Stand up. / Yes I learned not to bully. / IDK. / To help the person. / To annoy them. / I learned that I should do what I believe what’s right and to stand up for my choices. / To stand up for yourself. / To stand up for yourself. / No I didn’t learn nothing in bullying. / Tell them to stop. / You help to stop bullying. / Respecting others. / How to respect others. / We can help end it. / To pass on character traits and to not be a bystander. / It was when we all drew pictures. / Yes because bullying have to stop.
After attending the character education workshop and learning about compassion, if you saw someone be bullied, would you do something? Post % Yes 90 % No 10 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Esto esta mal. / Tell someone. / I would let someone know. / I will get help or tell them to stop. / I would help them. / I would tell the teacher. / I would stop it because it is the wrong thing to deal. / Help them. / I would help stop and confront him. / I would help them. / I would tell them to stop. / So that can get bully. / Because I wouldn’t like for someone to be bullied. / I would go and stay stop. / I would go and say stop. / Yes I would help them out. / To tell the fighting would solve the problem. / Yes but they won’t stop. / Stop and talk to them. / Yes I would. / Yes I would try to help. / It’s not good to bully. Help out. / It is important to stand up bullies. Did you learn any skills, such as respect or responsibility, to help you make your own decisions not based on Peer Pressure? Post % Yes 93 % No 7 % No Answer 0 Thoughts Shared: Respeto. / I learned all 6 character pillars. / Respect others as they respect you back. / I learned to work with others. / I could control it. / Because I can’t think it really fast. / I make my own. / Help out. / Yes I learned to respect all the people. / I think how you feel. / I should do what’s right, not what others think. / To believe in yourself. / To believe in yourself. / I learned respect to others. / So we could end peer pressure. / Because others have did decisions. / Yes I learned a lot of skills. / Yes to express what you’re feeling. / To not listen to others, respect your own decision. / Responsibility. What do you think about color? What % gave more thought and shared them about color. Pre 40% Post 100% Thoughts Shared: Pre: Color doesn’t matter. We are all the same. / No never. / No I haven’t and to have equal rights. / Blue. / Blue. / Purple. / Red. / Purple. / Pink. / Yes is a color like red. / I have think of a color. Blue. / No. / Red. / I have never thought about color. / No I never thought about color. / I don’t judge people. / Nah. / No. / No. / Blue because is the color of the sky. / Nah. / I think they are pretty shapes. / I do not judge by color. / Yes. / Yes, pretty shades. / It nice I guess. / Nothing and no. / No. / No. / I don’t know. / No I haven’t and to have equal right. Post: Respeto. / Color is emotion. / To not judge by color. / Feelings and respect or help other. / That it helps you imagine things. / It is like it helps you. / It means emotions and they feel. / We like to do something else. / To have your favorite color. / Never be scared. / That we all have different feelings. / Being trustworthy. / To respect. / I think it cool. / Color represents emotions, music, and things you do in life. / It is really nice. / It whatever. / It whatever. / Pienso diferente. / Feelings. / Color expresses emotions. / Has a feeling. / Have fun with others. / I learned that all the colors are cool. / I’m wearing red because it’s my favorite color. / It was really nice. / It doesn’t matter, what matters is what’s inside a person. / Color is more of how it is. / IDK is going to be real. My most important hope or dream is. . . What % gave more thought to their Dreams becoming reality. Pre 67% Post 100%
Thoughts Shared: Pre: That my mom will get back on her feet. / To be a photographer and my mom can get back on her feet. / Building houses. / My dream is vet. / Study in college. / Army. / To have a good job. / Going to college. / I want to be a basketball player. / Me helping my mom when she old and taking care of her. / To become someone who is known. / Have my own clothing line. / To be a soccer player. / To be a doctor. / To be a soldier. / No. / To travel to London and live there. / My most important dream is to be a football player. / Is being a dentist and have more respect. / Be a someone in life. / Helping people that need it or Special Forces. / To be a doctor. / No. / No. / I don’t but maybe soon. / Make a phone company. / To get my brother out of jail. Post: Ser army. / To be successful in life. / To have a good work. / Being a football player. / To help little kids with their dreams. / Is to have a car. / My dream is to be a soccer player in Barcelona. / To help my mom out with bills and with the payment. / Vet. / To help and protect people. / To become a professional UFC fight to help my mom. / To become a fashion designer. / To go to Paris. / Going to college. / My most important dream is being a dentist. / To be someone in life. / To be a vet. / To be a famous tattoo artist. / To be a teacher. / To be a medica forense. / To be a surgery doctor. / Arquitecto. / My most important dream is to finish college. / Helping little kids with their dreams. / Complete them. / To become a doctor. / Hanging with friends. / To go college and work as a helper on a hospital for kids. / Basketball. / To be successful. / To travel to London and possibly live there. Also be an amazing architect. / To become a football player. / IDK to make real. One thing I learned in workshop that will help me reach my dream is: Post 100% discovered something new in the workshop. Thoughts Shared: Trabajar en grupo. / Being respectful. / To behave good. / Believe in yourself. / To stand up to myself and tell myself I could do it. / Is to make good choices. / To respect to help and speak out. / To be responsible with your education and I’ll be successful. / Not to be scared. / To work hard and study. / Be responsible and mostly respectful. / Talking to others to what to do. / To do a good job and help people that need it. / Never stop trying. / I learned how to respect. / To believe in myself. / To be helpful. / To never stop believing even though there might be problems you can overcome them. / To really do my dreams. / To believe in myself. / To believe in myself. / A trabajar en equipo. / One thing I learned in workshop to reach my dream is to speak in front of people. / To stand up to myself. / Follow my dream. / I can achieve my dream. / Talk to others. / To make good decisions. / To not give up. / To be confident through everything. / To do anything. Anything is possible as long as you put in effort. / Responsibility because it is important to reach your dream. / IDK to make real. Coming into the workshop, which Character Count did you want to improve or work on to help you? How did the workshop help you improve it? Thoughts Shared: Respeto. / Responsibility. / By reading the paper. / Responsibility. / Tell little kids not to bully and care about other. / It helped me to speak in front of the class. / Caring. It helped me because I helped some kid find a present. / Respect because others judge really fast. / It help me improve because mean kids don’t have certainty to have this. / To learn new stuff and being helpful and trustworthy. / I learn respect and how to use it not and in school not to be rude. / Yes because many kids don’t have a family to have this. / Help me to communicate. / By learning. / One thing the workshop help me by being more respectful. / To respect. / By getting help. / Respect. I learned how to listen to others and give them respect. / It helped me to be brave while speaking in front of others. / To learn more. / To learn more. / A trabajar juntos. / I wanted to get better at speaking in
front of a lot of people. / That I face my fear to stand up to myself. / I would want to work on my caring. / Because I learned a lot. / To have courage. / To have courage and improve on teamwork. / Respect. / It helped me to be brave while speaking in front of others. / On respect because I usually disrespect many others on a daily basis so now I know it’s not good. / Caring because we would always listen to people on improvement. / IDK play basketball respect. What did you learn New in the workshop about a classmate or friend? Post 93% discovered something new about classmates or friends in the workshop Thoughts Shared: Trabajar en grupo. / They’re nice. / To respect them and others. / I didn’t learn anything new about them. / That I love them just the way they are. They don’t need to change who they are. / That they are helpful. / I learned that Mario wants to be a UFC Pro. / How others feel and think. / They have different dream. / To be respectful and helping. / Fair is a big thing and it’s time to release it. / That we all need to respect and have courage yourself. / That everybody have different fears. / To be nice. / That they help their parents. / To be responsible and respect. / To help each other. / That we all have one or two things in common. / Everything. / To be friendly and nice. / To be friendly and nice. / Sus colores. / That they are not shy to speak. / I love them how they are. / A friend wants to be a doctor. / My friends fears. / To respect. / They are all unique in ways. / To not give up. / That some of us have things in common. / They all have character traits. / Many classmates have the same fear.
Inspiring & empowering kids with the tools to make better life choices . . Release the Fear, Inc. ® PO Box 3815 Phoenix, AZ 85030 www.releasethefear.org 602-818 6959
Thanks to the insight of Arizona Department of Education and Murphy School District every child that experiences program walk for with a better character. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to deliver Character Education at its Best and for believing in our mission and vision ,that each and every child is deserving to be inspired and empower with the tools to make better life choices. Today they are that much closer to finding their gifts they have to share with the world around them. Most sincerely,
Robert J Miley CEO and Founder
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