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by The Rev� Dr� Russell C� Sullivan, Jr�, Pastor
When you’re grieving the death of a family member or friend, you may dread the holiday season. Thoughts of social gatherings, family traditions and obligations leave you anxious and overwhelmed. Your sadness can seem unbearable. You may wish you could skip these next two months and go straight to the routine of the next year—but you can’t. What can you do to lessen your stress and loneliness?
November Dates at a Glance
11/6 � �
� � � Family Retreat (August issue of PSL p 5)
11/7 Bagels & Belief (p 2)
11/10 GriefShare (p 1)
11/13 Men’s Breakfast honoring our veterans (p 2)
11/21 GivingTree Signups (p�4)
11/21 � � � Pine StreetWalkers Boyd Big Tree (p 6)
11/28 Advent Breakfast
11/30 Hanging of the Greens
PSL deadline Articles, photos and items of interest for the December issue of Pine Street Life are due by November 15, 2010� Please e-mail to Sue Black at
BL3COL@aol.com
You can start by learning what emotions are normal and to be expected when facing the holidays without your loved one When you know what to expect, you won’t be rendered helpless as holiday events trigger unexpected emotions� Make a point to spend time talking with people who have experienced a past loss and have already been through a holiday season without their loved one They can help you have an idea of typical emotions and emotional triggers to expect� These people can also provide much-needed comfort and support

making decisions in advance about traditions, meals, time spent with others, holiday decorating, gift-giving and commitments You will likely not have the energy or the interest in doing as much as you have in past years Decide ahead of time which invitations you’ll accept, and let the host or family member know that you might leave early� Decide which traditions will be too difficult without your deceased loved one, which traditions you’d like to maintain, and what new traditions you can start this year�
Another important step in surviving the holidays is to create a healthy plan for the coming season A healthy plan involves
What’s also helpful in facing the holidays is to communicate your specific concerns and needs with your family and friends� People in grief are often tempted to put on a mask and
(See grief on page 2)
by Tom Clark-Jones
We open Advent on November 28 with anthems by the American, Joseph Clokey and a re-visit to the beautiful opening of Handel’s “Messiah” with the glorious solos, “Comfort Ye” and “Every Valley” sung by Jonathan Hudson, our tenor soloist
Then on December 5, the Chamber Singers provide the sermon in song, with a beautiful work entitled The Mystery of Bethlehem by the distinguished Canadian composer, Healey Willan� Although not often performed because of greater interest in some of his larger choral works, this gem sets a beautiful mood for the season� Jonathan Hays and Courtney Gray join the group as soloists for this work
Look for more details about the season’s musical offerings, including the traditional Nine Lessons and Carols service and dinner on December 12, in the next issue of Pine Street Life
Representatives of the Neiman Group reviewed the Communciations Marketing Plan that will be implemented at Pine Street .
The Kick-off of the 20102011 Stewardship Campaign will take place on Sunday, October 24th
Gave approval to the Christian Nurture and Education Committee to purchase a flat screen TV monitor . This TV will be placed at the Welcome Center and be used to publicize ongoing and upcoming educational offerings at Pine Street .
Granted approval for Dr Sullivan to travel with a group of pastors from the Carlisle Presbytery on a one week mission trip to Lithuania, for the purpose of engaging with the Lithuanian Reformed Church .
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pretend things are fine, especially over the holidays Your friends may want you to “cheer up” and “have fun,” when that’s the last thing you want� Others will avoid you because they don’t know what to say and don’t want to make you feel worse Some family members will give you wrong advice in a misguided attempt to help� All of these people likely mean well, but will only end up hurting you if you don’t communicate what you truly need from them
As difficult as this may be, it’s important to tell people what they can do to help and what they are doing that isn’t helping� And if you don’t have the energy or inclination to talk to people face-to-face, then write your thoughts, concerns and needs in a letter or email What’s important is that you are being honest and gracious in your communication�
So where can you find out what emotions to expect over the holidays, how to create a healthy plan and how to communicate with family and friends these coming weeks?
Our pastor, Russell Sullivan, and parish associate, Heather Sigler, will host A GriefShare Surviving the Holidays seminar, to be held on Wednesday, November 10� You have the option of participating in the seminar at either 12:00 noon or at 6:00 p.m� that day� This seminar offers practical, actionable strategies for making it through the holiday season At this two-hour seminar, you’ll view a video featuring advice from people in grief who’ve faced the holidays after their loss� You’ll hear insights from respected Christian counselors, pastors and psychologists You’ll receive a Holiday Survival Guide with over 30 encouraging readings, helpful charts and tips to manage the holiday season during this difficult time
Pine Street Men will meet for breakfast on Saturday, November 13, 2010 and honor our military veterans as guests for breakfast that morning We will be providing rides for anyone that is in need of a way to get to Fellowship Hall that morning� Please call the church office at 238-9304 if you need a ride
Any veteran, male or female, is invited� It does not matter when you served Those who are currently in the service are also welcome�
Bagels and Belief
Topics & Speakers
November 7, 2010
What we believe about Jesus Christ
Rev Alex Lang
January 2, 2011
What we believe about the Holy Spirit
Rev� Heather Sigler
February 6, 2011
What we believe about the Trinity Dr Lee Barrett
March 6, 2011
What we believe about God’s Ultimate Purpose
Rev Russell Sullivan
April 3, 2011
What we believe about the Church Rev Heather Sigler
May 2, 2011
What we believe about Evil Rev� Alex Lang
June 5, 2011
What we believe about Christianity and Other Religions
Guest Presenter
Bagels & Belief meets in Fellowship Hall at 9:40 a m
At GriefShare Surviving the Holidays, you’ll meet with other grieving people who have an understanding of what you’re going through They won’t judge you or force you to share, but will accept you where you are and will offer comfort and support� Your holiday season won’t be easy; your emotions may ambush you and suck you under at times But you can choose to walk through this season in a way that honors your loved one and puts you on the path of health and healing�
Breakfast will be served at 8:30 a m , conversation and fellowship will follow� Sign up at the Welcome Center�

To register or find out more about GriefShare Surviving the Holidays, call the church office at 238-9304, or sign up for the seminar at the Welcome Center�
by The Rev Dr Russell C Sullivan, Jr , Pastor
There is nothing more enjoyable than to be surprised by a pure act of kindness and generosity� When those experiences happen, we just can’t say thank you enough! Pine Street has received a gift like this from the Estate of Marie Graupner Elias Marie and her husband, David, were not members of Pine Street, but were devout Christians with a deep commitment to Harrisburg and our surrounding community� Let me share with you some highlights of their lives

David and Marie were lifelong residents of Harrisburg� They worked together for many years in their business, General Machinery and Equipment Company, and they were superb business partners� A trained engineer, David supplied the technical expertise necessary for his business while Marie ran its daily operations� Being successful in their company, however, was not the sole ambition of their life Their hearts were also invested in improving both the community of Harrisburg and the lives of those who live and work in Harrisburg� Through civic organizations and their church, they gave faithfully to the arts and charities�
They were model citizens in every way� Notwithstanding their wealth, they lived a simple lifestyle and were known for their integrity, humility, caring, and generosity� One of the great lessons we learn from this generous couple is that we are blessed to be blessings in our world and that the place we are called to bless is none other than our own communities where we live and grow�
David died in 1989, and Marie, in 2009� Through Marie’s Estate, she has continued their legacy of serving the community In addition to Pine Street, two other area churches, three non-profits that serve the homeless and poor (including our own Downtown Daily Bread), four Pennsylvania schools, a dozen non-profit organizations, and the arts were recipients of bequests from her Estate�
The funds that Pine Street received were used to replace the windows in our Educational Building What a timely and amazing gift! Let us be inspired by the example of the Elias’s to give and share of our blessings And let us be thankful for this magnificent and unexpected gift! May the benediction over their lives be the words of Jesus: “Well done, thou good and faithful servants!”
by Craig Kegerise, Chair, Capital Campaign
It seems hard to believe that the three year Capital Campaign is almost at an end� But now, three years after we undertook raising over $ 1,700,000, we can see the fruits of our labor
Because of the generosity and faithfulness of our congregation, Pine Street Church and the Boyd Center have seen many improvements: Who could miss our beautiful stained glass windows, now fully restored? Or look up and see the beautifully restored chandeliers and improved lighting throughout the sanctuary? If you walk outside the church at night, the welcome new lighting of our exterior brings safety and warmth to those who pass by� The renovations to the Administrative office provide a more welcoming place for visitors as well as a more efficient workplace for our staff The new Welcome Center in the Gathering Place keeps us informed of all the happenings in the church and the new carpet in the hallway outside the sanctuary adds warmth and cleanliness as it guides us to worship�
Have you visited the Boyd center lately to see the renovated gymnasium, rest rooms, and kitchens? They are fantastic!
We owe many thanks to the Renovation Committee lead by Ken Hays for their great work�
In addition to the renovations within the church and Boyd Center, our Capital Campaign funds have been pledged to the Community Check-up Center in downtown Harrisburg to help needy families get medical attention; to the Susquehanna Safe Haven Shelter to provide a safe place for those in need; and for needed improvements at Camp Krisland
With the help of God, we have been able to accomplish all these things But we are not done yet Although all renovation bills have been received and paid, there are still $ 70,367�27 in pledges from the congregation that are outstanding Pledges that are still needed to complete our commitments to the mission and program portion of our campaign� If you have not done so, we urge you to complete your pledge to the Capital Campaign as soon as possible
All praise, honor, and glory be to God our Father�

This year the Mission Committee is again sponsoring the Giving Tree� It is an opportunity to remember the less fortunate in our community and around the world in grateful appreciation of all God has done for us
Sign-ups will begin on November 21 and continue on November 28 and December 5th in the Gathering Place� Gifts are to be returned to the sign-up table on December 5th or 12th so that they can be delivered in time for Christmas This year checks for monetary donations should be made out to Pine Street Presbyterian Church with the specific agency in the “memo�” This will enable all monies received to become part of our budget and these contributions will show up as part of our church records for mission giving� The following agencies have been chosen this year:
. Delta Community — Gifts for individuals Delta Community assists homeless parents
. HELP Ministries — Money for vouchers which are sent directly to landlords or fuel vendors
HELP Ministries provides emergency services such as shelter, rent assistance, and heating fuel
. Promise Place — Gifts for individuals
Promise Place is a living facility for women just out of prison who are trying to turn their lives around
. YWCA— Basic goods and supplies to be distributed to persons based upon need The YWCA serves as an advocate and provides resources for women and children in our area .
. Heifer International — Monitary donations to buy animals
Heifer International provides animals to provide sources of food and income in third world countries .
. Community Check-up Center — New or gently used children’s books
Community Check-up Center provides compassionate and caring medical services .
. Downtown Daily Bread — Hats, scarves, gloves
DDB provides hot, nutritious meals and a wide range of services for the needy and the homeless of the city
Lend A Hand’s schedule for 2011 is now available� Because the 2010 hurricane season did not produce any storms that hit the coasts of the U�S� disaster recovery efforts will continue in Iowa and Tennessee� Trips are scheduled in January, February, March, April, and May, 2011� For more information go to www. lendahand.net or contact Bill Bauer�
On October 2, six Pine Street Church members (John Hertzler, Norriene Koozer, Jeanne and Bob Troy, and Debbie and Roger Olson) volunteered at the home of Catherine Schaeffer of Camp Hill as part of Rebuilding Together She had applied to Rebuilding Together Greater Harrisburg for help at her home The ‘crew’ repointed the chimney, trimmed tree branches that overhung the roof, cleaned out a gutter and replaced a downspout, sealed a basement wall with a waterproofing material, and built an additional landing on her front stoop to add another step to enable her to more easily enter her house It was a beautiful, sunny day and she was pleased with our work� Funds for the materials that were needed will be paid from money currently in the Mission Possible Fund The Mission Committee thanks Pine Street members for supporting this fund
Pine Street received a lovely thank you note from the director of the Hansel and Gretel Early Learning Center for our involvement in the reading program this summer We plan to read to the children again next summer�
“It is with much sadness that the summer comes to a close and also ends our special visits from our Pine Street Readers . The children so enjoyed those visits and their interactions with you Many of them would ask if this was a “Reading Day ” The added time you offered them this summer was a true gift That personalized time – the time spent with quality children’s books and an adult’s undivided attention is so missing from most of their lives… We thank you for sharing your time, talents and love of reading with our little ones .
Sincerely, Laura Grill, Director”
On Saturday, October 16, Pam and Bill Bauer, Jo Dolbin, Alex and Courtney Gray, John Hertzler, Jean Lonie, Debbie Olson, Ella Poland, Terry and Barb Seaton met at Strites Orchard and gleaned 420 lbs of apples Most were were sent to the Central PA Food Bank� Some was taken by Ella Poland directly to the Ecumenical Food Pantry� Thanks to all who support this yearly mission

by Elaine Strokoff
We have a need for donations for the Thanksgiving meal: turkeys, hams, pumpkin pies, sweet potato pies, coffee, sugar, juice, cranberry sauce, vanilla extract, onions, styrofoam 6oz. cups, and Thanksgiving napkins.
Don’t want to shop? A check would be great, made payable to Downtown Daily Bread and sent to 310 N. Third St., Harrisburg, PA 17101. Thank you for helping DDB provide a bountiful holiday meal for 150 men, women, and children.
Please refer questions to Brenda at 238-4718. THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP!!
Elaine
OnSeptember 22 I attended a press conference at the State Capitol Hunger Garden The Hunger Garden is a cooperative project established earlier this year to grow fresh produce for food banks, pantries, and soup kitchens, and to raise awareness on hunger issues outside the Capitol Building� Downtown Daily Bread played an active part in the project since its inception
After the press conference, the Under Secretary of Food, Nutrition and Consumer Services, Kevin Concannon, along with Senator Brubaker, Rep� Susan C� Helm, and officials from the Food Bank, U S Department of Agriculture, Feeding America, and members of the Hunger Caucus, toured Downtown Daily Bread� Our guests also helped Brenda prepare lunch by peeling, slicing, and dicing assorted vegetables from the Garden to be used in a salad for that day’s lunch� It was fun watching dignitaries don aprons and seriously begin their prep work
During my DDB talk, I was asked how long I had been at Downtown Daily Bread� I had to do a quick calculation to verify that this June I began my 15th year The time has gone by quickly� I told the delegation how DDB has evolved over those years� The dining room was not the modern, bright, welcoming place it is now There was no substitute cook, no counselor, no mail delivery, no clothing, no showers, no haircuts, no employment counseling, no health checks, no legal advice, no veterans’ services, no homeless services, and no mental health referrals� All those pieces of our Lunch Plus program came from listening to our clients and trying to fill their needs�
The 2011 Harrisburg Entertainment coupon books are now available The book contains coupons for local restaurants, movie theaters, sporting events, grocery stores, and more! Books are available at the Welcome Center for $30� Checks should be made payable to Downtown Daily Bread� DDB receives $5 from each book and more after 25 are sold� It’s a way to pick up some extra funding for DDB & we need it!
Thanks for your help� Elaine

On an interesting note, a photographer for the event told me that in 1983, when Downtown Daily Bread opened, he took pictures of the facility for The Patriot-News He remembered the dining room and kitchen in the Boyd gym� I asked him to tell me more about those first days� His recollection was fuzzy but one thing he did remember, “I was so surprised to see that there were hungry people in Harrisburg� I had not realized that before and it was a real awakening for me�” I could say the same thing for me 15 years ago� We have all come a long way� x

Loretta Smith, Margaret Mielke and Marna Holt manned the Bears for Bread booth at East Pennsboro Township’s Pumpkin Fest on October 9 & 10 They received $1,300 in donations, which will be presented to Downtown Daily Bread� Bears will be available in the Gathering Place during Advent for a $10 donation�
You are invited to join the Pine StreetWalkers for a stroll in the woods after worship on Sunday, November 21, 2010 We will "walk" among the tall trees and falling leaves of Boyd Big Tree Preserve Conservation Area� Meet at 1 p�m� at the parking lot of Boyd Big Tree� Boyd Big Tree is located on Fishing Creek Valley Road Take PA 322 West (toward State College) Take the Fishing Creek exit, turn right and go 2�6 miles, entrance to Boyd Big Tree is on the right� This is a very nice trail, some roots and some hills but nothing real difficult or long� There is plenty of parking at Boyd Big Tree Check it out on the web http://www.dcnr. state.pa.us/stateparks/parks/boydbigtree.aspx� Signup at the Welcome Center�
POINSETTIAS ORDER FORM – 2010
If you would like to purchase a poinsettia that will be used for decorating the sanctuary for Christmas, please complete the form below. There will no longer be automatic renewals for ordering poinsettias.
The form can be either mailed or put in the box in the Gathering Place along with your check made payable to Pine Street Presbyterian Church (please specify in the memo that this is for poinsettias). The cost of the poinsettias are $8.00 each. Deadline for orders is December 12, 2010.
WORDING OF DEDICATION:
In Memory of
In Honor of
Given by
Amount Enclosed*___________________
*Payment is due when order form is submitted.
Mailing address is: Pine Street Presbyterian Church, 310 N. 3rd Street, Harrisburg, PA 17101
WE MUST HAVE THE ABOVE FORM FILLED OUT AND PUT IN THE BOX IN THE GATHERING PLACE (BOX IS MARKED). IF YOU DO NOT FILL OUT THIS FORM, YOU WILL NOT HAVE YOUR MEMORIAL LISTED IN THE CHRISTMAS BULLETIN, EVEN IF YOU HAVE MADE ARRANGEMENTS TO HAVE IT DONE AUTOMATICALLY FROM YEAR TO YEAR.

The artwork of Mary Lundeen and four other artists is being showcased in the HUB Gallery on Penn State’s University Park campus as part of their fall exhibition, Uncommon Bond� The exhibit runs from September 14 to December 12, 2010� Admission is free�
Evan Sassaman has been cast in Open Stage of Harrisburg’s production of A Christmas Carol Performances are December 2–5, 2010
Rachel Bani has been selected as principal trombonist for the Harrisburg Symphony Youth Orchestra� Their Holiday Spectacular concert is December 12, 2010 at 3:00 p�m� at the Forum�
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Monday, Nov. 1
Psalm 5; 145
Zephaniah 1:7-13
Luke 12:49-59
Tuesday, Nov. 2
Psalm 42; 146
Zephaniah 1:14-
Luke 13:1-9
Wednesday, Nov. 3
Psalm 89:1-18; 147:1-11
Zephaniah 2:1-15
Luke 13:10-17
Thursday, Nov. 4
Psalm 97; 147:12-20
Zephaniah 3:1-7
Luke 13:18-30
Friday, Nov. 5
Psalm 51; 148
Zephaniah 3:8-13
Luke 13:31-35
Saturday, Nov. 6
Psalm 104; 149
Zephaniah 3:14-20
Luke 14:1-11
Sunday,Nov. 7
Psalm 98
Haggai 1:15b–2:9
2 Thess 2:1-5, 13-17
Luke 20:27-38
Monday, Nov. 8
Psalm 135; 145
Joel 1:1-13
Luke 14:12-24
Tuesday, Nov. 9
Psalm 123; 146
Joel 1:15–2:2 (3-11)
Luke 14:25-35
Wednesday, Nov. 10
Psalm 15; 147:1-11
Joel 2:12-19
Luke 15:1-10
Thursday, Nov. 11
Psalm 36; 147:12-20
Joel 2:21-27
Luke 15:1-2, 11-32
Friday, Nov. 12
Psalm 130; 148
James 1:16-27
Luke 16:1-9
Saturday, Nov. 13
Psalm 56; 149
Joel 3:9-17
Luke 16:10-17 (18)
Sunday, Nov. 14
Isaiah 12
Isaiah 65:17-25
2 Thess 3:6-13
Luke 21:5-19
Monday, Nov. 15
Psalm 57; 145
Habakkuk 2:1-4, 9-20
Luke 16:19-31
Tuesday, Nov. 16
Psalm 54; 146 Habakkuk 3:1-10
(11-15) 16-18
Luke 17:1-10
Wednesday, Nov. 17
Psalm 65; 147:1-11
Malachi 1:1, 6-14
Luke 17:11-19
Thursday, Nov. 18
Psalm 143; 147:12-20
Malachi 2:1-16
Luke 17:20-37
Friday, Nov. 19
Psalm 88; 148
Malachi 3:1-12
Luke 18:1-8
Saturday, Nov. 20
Psalm 122; 149 Malachi 3:13–4:6
Luke 18:9-14
Sunday, Nov. 21
Luke 1:68-79
Jeremiah 23:16
Collossians 1:11-20
Luke 23:33-43
Monday, Nov. 22
Psalm 62; 145 Zechariah 10:1-12
Luke 18:15-30
Tuesday, Nov. 23
Psalm 12; 146 Zechariah 11:4-17
Luke 18:31-43
Wednesday, Nov. 24
Psalm 96; 147:1-11
Zechariah 12:1-10
Luke 19:1-10
Psalm 132; 134
Thursday, Nov. 25
Psalm 116; 147:12-20
Zechariah 13:1-9
Luke 19:11-27
Friday, Nov. 26
Psalm 84; 148 Zechariah 14:1-11
Luke 19:28-40
Saturday, Nov. 27
Psalm 63; 149 Zechariah 14:12-21
Luke 19:41-48
Sunday, Nov. 28
Psalm 122
Isaiah 2:1-5
Romans 13:11-14
Matthew 24:36-44
Monday, Nov. 29
Psalm 122; 145
Isaiah 1:10-20
Luke 20:1-8
Tuesday, Nov. 30
Psalm 33; 146
Isaiah 1:21-31
Luke 20:9-18
