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P1 A Father’s Day Reflection
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P7 Get into the Swing of Things
Summer 2023
A Father’s Day Reflection
By Randy Spencer, VP of Organizational Impact I am a father, and on Father’s Day, I contemplate and honor all of the courageous and loving fathers I have had the privilege to know and support. Whether in my personal life or professional one, most of the father’s I know are bound by a commitment to do the best they can for their children. At Presbyterian Children’s Homes and Services, we serve some heroic dads, like Samuel. He was thrust back into parenting after losing his child. You see, Samuel’s adult daughter and her husband were killed in a car accident. The couple left behind two devastated children. With no other options, Samuel immediately became a “father figure” to his orphaned grandsons. He was forced to deal with the trauma of losing a child and raising two young boys simultaneously! It was difficult! The transition proved to be more than Samuel believed he could handle. He knew he needed help and contacted PCHAS. A PCHAS Child and Family Specialist worked with Samuel to guide him along as he faced this new challenge. Samuel focused on learning new parenting skills and developed the tools he needed to help his grandsons heal from their trauma. Today, Samuel and “his children” are thriving! This story highlights the challenge of equipping parents (and grandparents) with attitudes and skills needed to help them cope with and resolve trauma in their lives and in the lives of their children. Fairly recent breakthroughs in our understanding of trauma and the impact it has on the brain, body and subsequent behaviors in children, has accelerated our ability to assist them to heal their minds and change the trajectory of their lives. That is the work of PCHAS. When I began working at PCHAS, fifteen years ago, my twin sons were five years old. My PCHAS journey has interwoven with my own growth as a father. For decades I have taught others to be better parents but having my twin boys, has driven the lessons much deeper. Now I better understand the depth of love that a parent feels and the pain and anger that can spring up in any given moment. If you ask me, “What is the most important work you do at PCHAS,” I would answer, unequivocally, that it is teaching and empowering parents. Continued on page 3