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6 Summer Health Summer can be a wonderful time of year with warm, sunny days and lighter longer evenings, often filled with the smell of BBQs and squeals of delight from the paddling pool! Neela Prabhu, a qualified licensed homeopath shares op tips to help you get through this season’s minor health issues quickly and naturally.
16 Smart ways to grow your business One of the most challenging parts of running a small business is managing its growth. How do you find the time – or budget – to expand? Namoi Summers, founder of Go Get Organised, shares smart ways to grow your business in a cost-effective and sustainable way.
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18 Managing exits & associated risks No matter how well run your business is, the truth is, at some point, every business owner and manager will need to part ways with members of their team. Tutu Popoola gives helpful tips on how to carefully manage how people leave your business.
8 In Conversation with Robert Douglas Robert is the director at Signature Pictures Academy, a social enterprise dedicated to combatting youth unemployment and diversifying the UK film industry by training and securing ongoing work for black, Asian and minority ethnic youngsters. 12 Eating well when you’re short on time Lucy Patel, a BANT Registered Nutritionist, shares strategies to help you to eat well, if you are short on time, we have never been busier, and it is crucial that we don’t neglect to nourish our bodies. on the cover
14 Why I started a career academy for mums Created from her experience, Jane Knight has created a platform to support mums to find work, sta t a business and get their mojo back after having a family. Fast forward to 2022, and Successful Mums is now an accredited and award-winning team of 15, having helped over 6,000 mums.
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20 Turning my pain into my passion After discovering that two young family members close to her suffered abuse, it created a passion in Esha Johnson, she did not want others to go through what they had been through, so ConverSafe was born. 22 Interview with Christina Flach Celebrity makeup and hair artist Christina Flach is the creator and CEO of Pretty Girl Makeup and a sepsis awareness advocate. She partnered with Sepsis Alliance to produce awareness campaigns highlighting sepsis; her husband died after a brief bout of sepsis in 2018. 24 Losing people we love, coping with family loss Whether an expected or unexpected death, losing a close friend or family member is the hardest challenge many of us face. The painful emotions can stay for long, and some can be in a state of shock and disbelief about the loss. Is there a way to prepare for grief when it comes?
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26 Interview with Terry Blackburn Terry Blackburn is an award-winning entrepreneur and founder of seven successful businesses in property investing, life insurance and mortgage brokerage. Terry, who aims to own 1,000 properties by the time he is 45, has only just started.
36 Your guide to business insurance Are you thinking about getting business insurance? If you are, then you’re not alone. If you run a business, you probably need business insurance because it is a vital component for ensuring that your company stays at the maximum efficiency l vel.
28 Let’s talk business with Clare Clare Morris is the Parents in Business Magazines “business troubleshooter”. Clare has the answer to the questions you submitted.
38 Our directory members If you are on the lookout for products and services, we showcase some of the products and services Parents in Business Directory members offer.
30 What does the high inflation rate mean for small businesses? Due to increased demand, high energy prices and supply chain issues, inflation has risen d amatically – and is expected to rise further in 2022. What can small business owners can do in their business to reduce the impact.
40 Book reviews Shona reviews Softening the Edge: Empathy: How humanity’s oldest leadership trait is changing our world. Written by Mimi Nicklin *Cover photo credit Jonathan Dwyer - www.honestsource.co
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32 Financial Planning for business owners Running a business can bring many great benefits, but itv also means you are responsible for building your financial future. Getting the right foundations in place will make this easier in the long run. 34 Interview with Mimi Nicklin Mimi Nicklin is the bestselling author of Softening The Edge, a podcast host and the CEO of a global advertising agency, and a mother to a 5-year-old daughter, a loud bulldog and a sleepy persian cat. They live between Sri Lanka, South Africa and Dubai but are originally British and from Hampshire. Disclaimer Views expressed in the articles are those strictly of the authors. Every effort is made to ensure that all information given is correct but Parents in Biz limited accepts no liability for inaccuracies, errors or omissions that may occur or their consequences. This publication is copyright and may not be reproduced, stored or transmitted in any form without written permission from the publisher. Copyright includes (and not limited to) the content syndication of the RSS feed of this publication. The content and images used in any of the articles of this publication. The Parents in Business Magazine logo and any of its derivatives.
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Contributors
Meet the people who have taken part in the creation of this issue
Our trusted panel of contributors give you essential advice on everything from PR to wellbeing and finance.
SHONA CHAMBERS, MARKETING CONSULTANT Shona Chambers is a Marketing Consultant and owner of Shona Chambers Marketing, a Marketing Agency based in Nunhead near Peckham. Specialising in helping Small Business Owners and Freelancers with their Marketing. *Photo credit Portrayed Photography www.shonachambersmarketing.co.uk SOUMYA KARKERA, LIFE COACH Soumya is a life coach for children and parents. She creates a safe space for children and parents to talk about their problems, find ways o move forward and feel empowered. Helping parents and children create a toolbox that has all the essential tools to navigate themselves has been her life’s work. www.linkedin.com/in/soumya-karkera CLARE MORRIS, FOUNDER OF CM RESOURCE Creating, refreshing, or enhancing your business model. Clare shares business growth ideas and strategies for new, developing, and established businesses. She can help you innovate, evolve and love what you do. www.cmresource.co.uk LUCY PATEL, BANT REGISTERED NUTRITIONIST Lucy is a BANT Registered Nutritionist and specialises in chronic stress, peri-menopause and hormone imbalance conditions. As a busy working Mum and business owner, she understands how living a healthy lifestyle when you are ruled by your to-do list can be very challenging. www.lucypatelnutrition.co.uk TUTU POPOOLA, FOUNDER & LEAD CONSULTANT OF SLEEK HR Tutu Popoola is the Founder & Lead Consultant of Sleek HR, an outsourced HR & Diversity, Equity & Inclusion consultancy for creative businesses in the UK. She is an Accredited Member of HR Independents and Member of the Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development (CIPD) www.sleekhr.co.uk NEELA PRABHU, FOUNDER OF HOMOEOPATHIC HARMONY Neela is a qualified licensed homeopath with almost 20yrs experience as a community pharmacist. Homeopathy is a holistic alternative form of medicine which dates back more than 200yrs. Outside of her homeopathic work, she enjoys kickboxing and the gym. She has 2 young daughters and 2 cats. www.homeopathicharmony.co.uk IAN RICHARDS, FOUNDER OF WORK TO LIVE FINANCIAL PLANNING Work to Live Financial Planning specialise in helping parents take control of their financial future, helping you make the right decisions at the right time about spending, saving and investing your money. They focus on helping you to balance being able to live a great life now with preparing for the future. www.worktolivefinancialplanning.com NAOMI SUMMERS, FOUNDER OF GO GET ORGANISED GO Get Organised offers a wide range of professional support services to businesses at affordable hourly rates, including virtual admin, marketing, web design, social media management, and more. It also hosts GO Get Networking, an ongoing programme of free online networking opportunities. www.gogetorganised.co.uk
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Robert Douglas
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obert is the director at Signature Pictures Academy, a social enterprise dedicated to combatting youth unemployment and diversifying the UK film industry by training and securing ongoing work for black, Asian and minority ethnic youngsters. He is a husband and father of two boys aged 4 and 8, they recently welcomed our dog, Marlow, to the family. Robert also runs an Instagram account documenting fatherhood and breaking down stereotypes.
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Turning my pain into my passion
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have been a counsellor for more than 15 years and have experience in working with children, young people, adults and families for over 25 years, so I am well versed in dealing with the trauma that arises from sexual abuse. That being said, nothing could prepare me for the shock I felt when I discovered that two young people in my family had suffered from the same abuse that I was supporting people with on a daily basis. I knew all the stats. I knew that 1 in 6 children suffer abuse before their 18th birthday and that lots of children don’t tell anybody at the time, but like most people, I didn’t think about it happening to anybody I knew. My experience prompted me to try and make a difference. Using my professional knowledge and personal experience, I created a series of workbooks called ConverSafe. To empower children and their parents to deal with potential dangers they may face. The workbooks are aimed at families with children aged 4 to 11, as well as carers and practitioners, and are designed
to address the topics of boundaries, consent, understanding ‘safe’, exploring ‘touch’ and ‘secrets’ in a fun, child-friendly way. They also introduce us to some of ConverSafe’s 32 characters, including Sally and Simon Safe, Barry Boundary, Becky and Bessie Breast, Victoria Vagina, Percy Penis, Bellamy Bottom and Mr & Mrs No.
“I knew all the stats. I knew that 1 in 6 children suffer abuse before their 18th birthday and that lots of children don’t tell anybody at the time, but like most people, I didn’t think about it happening to anybody I knew.” Most parents fear something bad happening to their children when they are not there, whether that is getting hit by a car, bullied or abused. There are a number of tools and websites out there that offer advice about sexual abuse, but when doing my research, I couldn’t find anything that put the parents fully in control of those conversations and or showed them how their children learn about things such as consent and boundaries. Many parents want to have those conversations but may not know where to start or what is age-appropriate, with ConverSafe, that worry is taken away as it is all laid out for them. Also, the lessons taught in the workbooks are lessons for life, there will never be a time when we don’t want our children to feel confident setting boundaries, understand consequences and be aware that they always have choices. With my workbooks, I am combining all my knowledge and experience and have created something fun and educational that could truly be effective.
What happened to those close to me created a passion in me. When I found out, I was angry and shocked. I didn’t want others to go through what they havd been through, so ConverSafe was born. Whilst it won’t save every child, the work and love that has gone into the workbooks will be worth it for those it does save. The ConverSafe workbooks are available to buy from Etsy and Amazon.
“There are a number of tools and websites out there that offer advice about sexual abuse, but when doing my research, I couldn’t find anything that put the parents fully in control of those conversations and or showed them how their children learn about things such as consent and boundaries.”
Esha Johnson Accredited Counsellor www.luminouscounselling.co.uk
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LET’S TALK BUSINESS WITH CLARE
STRAIGHTFORWARD SOLUTIONS AND STRATEGIES
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ello, I’m Clare – your positively creative Problem Solver I’m at my very happiest partnering with business owners like you to strengthen and confidentialy move your business forward. When not working you’ll find me outside, rain or shine running or wild gardening! Clare Morris is the Parents in Business Magazines
“business troubleshooter” answering your questions.
Q I have 3 children under the age of 10. I set up my business selling pre-loved children’s clothing online. My business is doing well, but my husband does not support my dream. He earns an excellent salary, and we are financially stable. He believes I should focus more on being a housewife. I find it so frustrating. Anonymous A What support would you like from your husband? Is support what you need, or possibly belief, interest, or freedom to grow?
If your family system is viewed in a particular way by your husband, then this may be the area that needs further understanding. You may not change the viewpoint, but he may be able to see that your home life is not threatened or that you will resolve any potential disruption or changes as a couple. Do you have a business plan? Your husband’s input could be helpful as he will see the future and potential in a more structured way. Try not to assume what your husband is thinking. And ask that he gives you the same respect before you both begin your conversations. Do you have a time where you could both enjoy a calm space without interruptions? Keep talking, but more importantly, keep listening to what each has to say. Take time out to consider each comment if the conversation is becoming heated. Pausing is helpful if you need to check your emotions.
Q I’m a single mum and a freelance graphic designer. I raised my prices 6 months ago, and I need to raise them again. How do I explain the new raise to my current clients? Graphic Designer A Price increases are sensitive. Give plenty of time for your customers to adjust to the change.
Before increasing costs, are there time saving costs you can make? Removing unnecessary business tasks, withdrawing unprofitable add-ons, and not going ab ve and beyond your design remit. Giving you back a lot of invoiceable hours. If you have already taken these steps, make sure to segment and personalise your message. This change will have an impact on your client, so clarify this and try not to use a blanket email. Keep it short and kind. Call it a modest increase (if it is!) Don’t be too wordy, it can come across as defensive or apologetic. Customers just need to know the facts. ‘Everything else is staying the same is a reminder of how great your service already is! Without knowing more, I am being quite broad, but I hope this gives you a positive way to communicate with your clients by being precise and concise. And make it very easy for customers to reach you and talk about the changes ahead.
Q I am a business visibility coach. I recently held a live free webinar, over 50 people signed up, but no one turned up. It really knocked my confidence. How can I get my confidence back? Anonymous A Starting positively, please remember you have 50
potential clients who liked what you offered, and you can continue to market to them (GDPR permitting). Big cheer. Keep your confidence by messaging those who missed and apologise – yes, say you’re sorry. That you missed them and didn’t give a countdown to the event, explain the gain or that there was a freebie and would they be interested (suggestions). You could offer a free or discounted session! Translate into your own ideas. For the next one – stay on a roll here. You have your 50 keen sign-ups, why not ask them about a preferred topic, timings and duration for the next webinar. Every failure is a step to success. This is a learning opportunity for you, please build it into your business goals as a positive for the future success of your webinars. Recall free webinars you have attended and why. See if they match your offer, pitch and value for time. Webinar fatigue is a thing not to be underestimated.
“Clare has been the breath of fresh air that we so desperately needed! Always a pleasure to speak to and immediately able to offer such practical and creative advice.”
Q I have 2 children under the age of 5, and I am expecting my 3rd baby. I need to hire a virtual assistant to assist me in keeping my business ticking over. I have asked around in Facebook groups, but all the hourly rate quotes are out of my budget. I am worried about how I will cope when I have my baby. Do I pause my business and explain that I am on maternity leave on my website? Anonymous A First, I would love to know if these are key clients for you? Do you look forward to working with them? Are they adding value to your business?
If yes to the above, then maybe you could look at just offering one evening a week/fortnight/month for exclusive access to your expertise – and by doing so, implement a new pricing structure that funds a little more freedom when you are enjoying your life/work balance. Or, if it’s no. And leaves you without a main income. Would it be an opportunity to look at your business solutions and re-work them according to the sectors, client types/size etc., that you could enjoy working with at times of the day that are most suitable to you. Both of the answers seem to indicate a good time to reevaluate your financial and personal goals alongside your preferred customer and ways of working. I hope the answers help you see where your enjoyment and energy are most rewarded.
I am ready to answer your questions, which can be anything business-related, but don’t restrict the situations to just inside work. If they are affecting your life-work balance, I would love to address these. Click here to send your questions to me or email Info@parentsinbiz.co.uk Connect with Clare www.cmresource.co.uk JULY 2022
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Interview with:
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imi Nicklin is the bestselling author of Softening The Edge, a podcast host and the CEO of a global advertising agency, and is mother to an ever chatty 5-yearold daughter, a loud bulldog and a sleepy persian cat. They live between Sri Lanka, South Africa and Dubai but are originally British and from Hampshire. Tell us about your journey. How did you get here? I think I was always meant to be here. My dad is a writer, not formally in the ‘author’ sense but both professionally and as a storyteller within our family. I never gave much thought to why it was that his stories were always so brilliantly told, so accurately and powerfully human, until the summer of 2018. One afternoon that summer, I was sitting with a very wise life coach, and she shaped a sentence that had value well beyond the conversation it was based in. It was as if for all my working life, I had been waiting for someone to put this question to me so that I could finally name the thing I was missing. She asked, “Have you ever considered that what you are framing as intuition in leadership is actually empathy in leadership?” I hadn’t. For my entire career, I had put my skill with people, and my passion for organisational culture and relationships, down to ‘intuition’. But on that day in July 2018, everything changed. For the first time in ver
fifteen years, I realised that empathy was the ‘thing’ that my dad and I shared. This was what made me my father’s daughter and the creative strategist and CEO that I am today. I started to research what this meant, and before I knew it, I had a bestselling book and a podcast reaching 85,000 people, all focused on a passion for creating more understanding of empathy in our workplaces and world.
“I had written 30,000 words from a beach in South East Asia without ever considering it might one day become a book.”
What inspired you to become an author? The truth is that I never thought about becoming an author until I wrote Softening the Edge, but once I identified the reach and impact of the Empathy Deficit globally and started to write, I couldn’t stop. I feel that this book wrote me, rather than the other way around. Softening the Edge focuses on something I have been passionate about for my entire career—the sustainable wellness of our workforce, treating people with kindness and decency, and the future of effective leadership that sustainably promotes human values as well as the financial alue of every business. After I arrived in the Middle East, as a single mum to a baby, in 2018 to take on a leadership role that was entirely different from the one I thought I had accepted, I based much of the evidence in the book based on my experience of leveraging empathy skills to make direct and profitable change. In that way, the book was as much cathartic as it was a professional thought piece. Faced with a broken business and zero client base at the time, I turned to empathy as the only way I knew of to turn the business around. It worked, and my book shares that story.
How did you move from the idea of a book to an actual book? I started to write about empathy, its influence and the decreasing levels of it that we see and feel in the world of work and society today over the summer months. I was passionate about talking about the terrible levels of loneliness, the burnout, the corporate anxiety, the apathy, and the absenteeism.
“Before I knew it, I had a bestselling book and a podcast reaching 85,000 people, all focused on a passion for creating more understanding of empathy in our workplaces and world.” Not to mention the numbers of Millennials fleeing the corporate world for more balanced and controllable universes of entrepreneurial or freelance life. So passionate I was about these themes that I had written 30,000 words from a beach in South East Asia without ever considering it might one day become a book. A few months later, it was not only a book but an entire shift in my career and focus. The key to writing a book is to start!
How do your values show up in the work you do? I was committed to being an empathetic leader long before I began writing about it. I always believed that an empathetic leader is someone who can bring empathy and leadership into coexistence, whilst mastering anger, disappointment, and impatience, to be able to continually create a culture where people feel valued, cared for, and encouraged to
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perform. I knew it was possible, yet it was often missing. Today, I call these values and this leadership approach, Regenerative Leadership. It focuses on leaders that value aligning people’s wellbeing and individual needs, with business decision making, on an ongoing basis are able to continually fill the emotional and connectivity deficit the Empathy Deficit, behind so many of our wider social and emotional issues. To this day, I train my teams in this fundamental empathetic principle: that there are many more good people than bad and that people respond to their own realities in their own way. These are values of humanity, and they are the path to sustainable growth.
What advice would you give to a parent? Who is struggling to take their idea forward? I have learnt in these years that you need an equal balance of tenacity and patience, fuelled by an ever present passion for your idea. It can be exhausting, and it can often feel like you are speaking to a silent void beyond your laptop, but if you show enough commitment consistently and authentically to yourself and the world, you soon see likeminded people showing us in your universe. It’s a lesson in never giving up. I remember in 2020 telling my publicist that if every day someone replied to me and mentions that my work or ideas are of value, I will keep sharing. So far, every day, I get one small sign this work is worthwhile, and I keep going. My takeaway is that success favours the ludicrously tenacious!
How do you manage your time between family and business? I don’t! I use instinct every day to work out where I am most needed at that time and then create balance around that – but I do this by ensuring I commit a fair amount of my income to childcare so that my daughter has consistent support alongside us in this journey. We mums can do a lot, but we simply can’t do it all and offering my little girl love and consistency from multiple people, whatever my workload, is key to me. I feel very lucky I have this capacity and work tirelessly to ensure it stays that way.
What do you enjoy doing in your spare time? What is spare time?!
Who or what inspires you? So many people and so many things. My father inspires me for his wisdom and never-ending patience for life, my boyfriend inspires me for his unwavering belief in celebrating the everyday little things, and my daughter inspires me for her ability to see people and life exactly as it is right now.
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Parents in Business Directory Joy Foster TechPixies
Salihah Agbaje Spoken World Productions
Bhavini Lakhani B81 Designs
TechPixies is an award-winning CPD accredited online learning platform with a social mission to help women leverage the power of modern technology (Social Media, WordPress and MailChimp) to improve women’s access to employment or help them to start a business.
Spoken World Productions are a Theatre in Education organisation operating across London and the globe (virtually!) to bring fun, educational and enriching Drama lessons to primary aged children.
Bhavini is a Milton Keynes-based graphic designer with a shed-load of passion and the experience to match. She has been a print-focused graphic designer for over 14 years, working in-house and for agencies before breaking free and setting up B81 Designs in 2011.
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Their sessions are designed to work in line with all subjects and can be tailored to the individual curriculum. So if you are a school teacher, home educator, enrichment officer or parent seeking a drama package for your child to enjoy, they can help.
Bhavini loves working with clients of all shapes and sizes, from Barclaycard and British Gas to business-to-business start-ups. www.b81designs.com
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Patience Modevi Otentikcare Patience created Otentikcare as a wellness hub for women because she believes that wellbeing should be an everyday practice and that even the smallest things in life can bring calm, comfort and care. With this in mind, she shares the mindful products and practices that have revolutionised her own well-being in her online space. She stocks authentic, sustainable products for mind, body and soul wellness, with a particular focus on products for ladies over 40 who are conscious of their wellbeing. www.otentikcare.co.uk
Beverley Bispham - Luvlybubbly Craft Parties Luvlybubbly Craft Parties organise kid’s craft parties for children, where young passions for fashion are born. They strive to inspire the youngest minds of our generation with creative and fun craft parties. They are based in North North East London and organise kid’s craft parties all around London and surrounding areas– including Kent, Essex, Herefordshire and parts of Sussex. www.luvlybubbly.co.uk
Georgina Fihosy AfroTouch Design Afrotouch Design is an unapologetically Afrocentric brand that produces personal stationery items that showcase West African designs uniquely and memorably. Each product is based on and designed with a touch of West African print fabric. The vibrant colours and unique designs allow our customers to connect with the beauty. Many potential customers struggle to find station ry and gift items that refl ct their culture, so AfroTouch Design exists to fill thi space within this industry. www.afrotouch.design
You can find these businesses and more on our online directory Michelle Molyneux MJM Virtual Solutions
Louise Worsley Worsley Training
Nadene Martin Format Services Limited
Your everyday virtual admin solution provides personal assistant support to conquer general admin tasks, so consultants and small businesses can focus on growing their business. They offer a range of flexible packages to suit your needs, drawing on our expertise in education, Health and Social Care, GDPR and proofreading to name a few.
Louise has over fifteen years of hands-on First Aid experience, both as a global expedition leader and as a parent. She draws from this to bring First Aid to life for participants, providing practical training grounded in realistic examples of how the techniques could be used. Louise is qualified th ough and regulated by Rescue Emergency Care, Nuco Training and ProTrainings.
Format Services is a Virtual Assistant Company taking care of all of your administration needs. Offer various services which can support you to grow your business, and you can view them further in the Services section. There are many benefits of outsourcing your administration, which you can discuss further as every business is unique.
www.mjmvirtualsolutions.com
Julie Hawkins – Single Mums in Business Network The primary objective of the SMBN is to help you gain exposure to your business. They concentrate on driving traffic to their member’s pages so that you are seen. The secondary objective is to reduce stigma and dispel misconceptions that single mums are work shy. It is the passion of founder Julie Hawkins to raise awareness of the real issue is that work is not in sync with school and wages are not in sync with inflation www.singlemumsbusinessnetwork. com
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