Life in Castle Hills Magazine - May 2026

10 HOT SUMMER DESIGN TRENDS

DIRECTION61:3 HELPING TRANSITION

KIDS OUT OF FOSTER CARE

KELLY MURRAY Publisher of Murray Media Group kelly@murray-media.com

Cl os e to Hom e Honoring Fathers, Supporting Neighbors, and Finding Balance

As we head into one of the busiest and most meaningful seasons of the year, I can honestly say — this issue is one of my favorites, as it truly captures the rhythm of life in our community right now.

Our issue theme is Haven at Home, and we’ve pulled together some great trends that are bringing balance — and sunshine — to our lives. We’re also featuring an important cause this month by highlighting Direction 61:3, a nonprofit that walks alongside older foster and aged out youth to provide a network of support as they transition to become vibrantly independent young adults.

We’ve also included a special nod to Father’s Day. While this time of year can be bittersweet for me, having lost my dad a few years ago, I still find ways to celebrate him and carry his memory with me every day. I miss him deeply. At the same time, I feel incredibly grateful watching my husband, Scott, step into that role so effortlessly — showing up, loving big, and being the kind of father our kids will always look up to. There’s something really special about seeing that legacy of love continue.

As summer begins and schedules shift, I encourage you to slow down when you can. Enjoy the extra time with your kids, embrace the chaos, and make the memories. These moments go by faster than we think.

And as always, don’t forget the heart of our community — our local businesses and nonprofits. Shopping local, dining local, and giving your time to organizations that make a difference helps keep our community strong, connected, and thriving.

Here’s to a season full of celebration, reflection, and making the most of the days ahead.

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he Longhorn Council’s Frontier Trails District honored Captain Orlando Hinojosa with the 2026 Investment in Character Community Reception Award. This recognition acknowledges Hino’s outstanding leadership, dedicated service, and unwavering commitment to the core values of Scouting. Community leaders, local business partners, and supporters gathered to celebrate an individual whose integrity and dedication exemplify the spirit of community service while actively supporting programs that cultivate the next generation of leaders.

Captain Hinojosa’s commitment to public service spans decades. A graduate of Sam Houston State University with a Bachelor of Science in Law Enforcement and Police Science, he began his law enforcement career in 1986 with the Denton Police Department. His early roles included patrol officer and traffic section duties, where he enforced traffic laws, investigated crashes, made DWI arrests, and became one of the department’s first motorcycle officers in the early 1990s.

He was promoted to Detective and later served as a Community Resource Officer, building strong relationships with Denton residents and businesses through outreach and community events. Hinojosa retired from the Denton Police Department as the Public Information Officer and, in 2017, joined the Denton County Sheriff’s Office as the Community and Media Relations Captain. In this role, he continues to engage with the community, overseeing programs such as Crime Stoppers, Volunteers in Policing, the Citizens’ Academy, the Juvenile Impact Program, Explorers, and the Woman’s Empowerment Program.

Hinojosa’s longstanding dedication to service is evident in his Scouting journey. His early years in Troop 184 in Robstown, Texas, were marked by camping adventures, merit badge achievements, and special accomplishments, including earning the Mile Swim award. He fondly remembers

First row: Grandsons Cooper Falcone, Tatum Hinojosa, Carson Hinojosa, Hudson Falcone

Second row: (Son) Chase Hinojosa, (Daughter-in-law) Whitni Hinojosa, Orlando Hinojosa, (Wife) Shelley Hinojosa, holding granddaughter Oakley Hinojosa, (Daughter) Lauren Falcone, (Son-in-law) Jusin Falcone

Third row: (Brother) Rene Hinojosa and (Sister) Magda Hernandez

summer camps at Camp Karankawa, a memorable trip to the National Jamboree in 1977, and other notable Scouting achievements. Not only did he complete the Philmont Scout Ranch hike once in 1978, but he also successfully completed it again in 1980.

His ongoing engagement with Scouting continued through high school and beyond, culminating in a career that seamlessly blends public service and community involvement. Throughout his law enforcement career, he has shared his experiences with countless Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts, inspiring them to earn merit badges and skill awards and encouraging their pursuit of becoming Eagle Scouts.

The Sheriff’s Office congratulates Captain Orlando Hinojosa on his achievements and for embodying the values that Scouting aims to instill in youth leadership: integrity, service, and dedication.

by Craig Hewitt | photos courtesy of DIRECTION61:3

DIRECTION61:3

Former Foster Children BRIDGING

THE GAP

Support

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For many of us, becoming an adult is an exciting time in our lives, a time when we look forward to college, starting a career, or creating a new life for ourselves. But for young people who age out of the foster care system, this transition feels like the edge of a cliff. These young adults, who have already experienced trauma and hardships in their youth, are simply expected to take the next step with no family to turn to, no savings to lean on, and no clear path forward. For them, the next step is filled with uncertainty and fear.

Fortunately, one local nonprofit is looking to change that fear into hope. As a faith-based ministry and a 501c3 organization licensed with the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services, DIRECTION61:3 seeks to help one young person at a time by offering housing, guidance, and a community of support

so that former foster youth can build stable, independent lives. Founded in McKinney in 2017, DIRECTION61:3 now serves youth across Denton and Collin counties through a network of homes and programs designed to meet young adults where they are.

Two years ago, Denton resident, Simon Trask, became their Denton Area Coordinator. His involvement grew out of a spiritual calling that emerged after he and his wife joined the ministry. As longtime foster advocates, the Trasks saw firsthand the pressing need there was for a program like DIRECTION61:3.

“Young children in the foster care system are often adopted and become members of a new family,” says Simon. “But teenagers have a much harder time.”

Young adults aging out of foster care often face housing instability, unemployment, interrupted education, and social

isolation as they transition into adulthood. Even getting the basics, such as a driver’s license, a social security card, or a birth certificate, present obstacles most of us take for granted. DIRECTION61:3 steps in to fill that gap with a model that goes far beyond a safe place to sleep. Providing housing is key to creating stability, but staff and volunteers also walk alongside residents with practical support, acting as mentors, teaching life-skills, and helping them navigate the next steps toward independence.

This support is reinforced through the nonprofit’s weekly “Thrive” gatherings, a cornerstone of the DIRECTION61:3 experience. At Thrive meetings, young adults gather for encouragement, learning, and a sense of community. Activities include motivational guest speakers, life-skills training, career advice, and spiritual guidance. For young adults who have spent much of their lives moving from place to

Nonprofit of the Month

Seven houses currently exist, housing 28 young adults, but the nonprofit’s longterm vision includes expansion of the place, that kind of continuity can be deeply meaningful.

“Things have grown organically into a family environment,” Simon said.

Rather than focusing only on immediate needs, DIRECTION61:3 fosters an environment where residents can begin to heal, grow, and imagine a future full of hope. Through relationship building, spiritual encouragement, and the steady presence of mentors and peers, the program helps young adults build the confidence to move forward. Participants are encouraged to develop job skills, continue their education, manage daily responsibilities, and build healthy connections with caring adults who will remain in their corner.

ministry’s 4.8-acre property known as “The Farm,” which will eventually serve up to 60 foster and aged-out youth in the years ahead.

Like many small nonprofits with big aspirations, DIRECTION61:3 depends on community generosity to keep its mission going. The organization raises funds through

direct donations and special fundraising events, which include their “Tee Up for Foster Youth” charity golf tournament on June 22, and the “Paddle Battle” pickleball tournament in Denton set for August 1.

In a community known for stepping up in times of need, DIRECTION61:3 serves as a constant reminder that compassion can be both practical and empowering. If you are interested in supporting their cause, making a small donation, or becoming an active volunteer, visit direction613.org

In doing so, not only will you be helping DIRECTION61:3 to provide someone a home, a mentor, and a sense of community, you will also be giving a young person perhaps the most meaningful gift: hope.

How the City of Lewisville’s Animal Shelter Is Giving Dogs a Second Chance — Miles Away P WS ON THE RUNW Y

by Craig Hewitt |

At the Lewisville Animal Shelter, a quiet revolution is taking place, one that’s saving lives not just locally but across state lines. Dubbed Paws on the Runway, this innovative pet transport program is giving dozens of dogs the second chance they deserve, turning boarding passes into wagging tails and smiling families.

Launched in January 2026, the program was born from equal parts necessity and ingenuity. Here in Texas, where the abandoned dog population and euthanasia rates are among the highest in the country, animal shelters often face overcrowding. However, in other parts of the country, particularly in the Northeast, they are experiencing a shortage of adoptable pets.

“We have plenty of dogs up for adoption,” shares Brittany Polk, the Animal Services Manager for the City of Lewisville. “But in cities in the north, especially in the New York area, people want pets and can’t find them.”

To bridge that gap, Lewisville Animal Services is helping dogs find loving homes

faster than ever before, and they’re doing it in style. Through Paws on the Runway, dogs are transported by vans and, in some cases even airplanes, to rescue organizations such as Dog Star Rescue in Bloomfield, Connecticut, and Hearts & Bones Rescue in New York City. From there, these pups are quickly placed into adoptive homes where families are eagerly waiting.

The result?

Fewer animals are spending extended time in shelters, and more happy endings unfold every month.

The program’s success has been nothing short of extraordinary. In fact, demand has grown so quickly that the shelter is now working hard to keep up. Each transport requires careful coordination and preparation, including health checks, travel logistics, and partnerships with out-of-state rescues — all while continuing to care for the steady stream of animals arriving locally.

“We’re proud we started out with a bang, but the Paws on the Runway program is an ongoing project,” Brittany said.

That’s where residents of Flower Mound, Lewisville, and surrounding areas come in. While the idea of dogs boarding “flights” to new homes captures attention, the real work lies much closer to home. Fosters, volunteers, and supporters are sorely needed to help prepare these animals for their journeys.

Foster families, in particular, play a critical role. By sharing their homes temporarily, fosters give dogs a break from the shelter environment, helping them decompress, socialize, and prepare them for a life at home. Even a short stay in a foster home can dramatically improve a dog’s chances of adoption.

“We try to make the fostering process as easy as possible,” shares Brittany. “We cover all medical expenses, and food,

kennels, and toys are all provided by the shelter.”

For those who may not be ready to foster, there are countless ways to get involved. Volunteers assist with everything from walking and grooming dogs to helping at adoption events and transport days. Donations, whether monetary or supplies like food, bedding, and toys, help ensure each animal is healthy, comfortable, and ready for their next chapter.

Of course, for anyone considering adding a fourlegged friend to their family, the shelter always encourages local adoption first. While many dogs are transported out of state, there are still plenty right here in our community waiting for a place to call home.

What makes Paws on the Runway so special isn’t just the logistics or the numbers, it’s the stories. Once-anxious shelter dogs who were facing an uncertain fate are now sleeping soundly in their “fur-ever” homes. Families who wanted to share their lives have found a new member of the family. And a network of conscientious people hundreds of miles away made those stories possible.

“We would love to get to a point where the animals don’t need to wait for a new home, but until then, there’s plenty of work to go around,” Brittany said.

As the program continues to grow, so does its need for support. With more dogs arriving and more demand from partner rescues, the shelter is calling on the community to step in and be part of something truly meaningful.

If you are interested in fostering, volunteering, or adopting, visit the City of Lewisville Animal Services website at: cityoflewisville.com/our-services/ animal-services

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f you’re ready to trade home maintenance for a more vibrant, connected lifestyle, Allure Lifestyle Communities offers a refreshing approach to active adult living across Texas. Designed for adults 55+ who want freedom without compromise, Allure communities blend modern residences with thoughtfully designed amenities and a strong sense of community.

Imagine starting your morning with a walk along scenic paths, followed by coffee with neighbors who quickly become friends. Your afternoons can be as active or relaxed as you choose, whether that means joining a fitness class, exploring nearby shopping and dining, or simply enjoying the comfort of a beautifully designed home without the stress of upkeep. With no lawn care, no maintenance, and no unexpected home repairs, your time is truly your own.

Allure offers a variety of residence styles to fit your lifestyle, including stylish apartments, spacious townhomes, and charming cottages, giving you the flexibility to choose the space that feels most like

home while still enjoying the benefits of a connected community.

Allure’s Texas portfolio includes thoughtfully located communities that offer both convenience and a welcoming atmosphere: Atlas Point at Prestonwood, Haven at Lewisville Lake, Sunstone Village, and The Spring at Silverton. Each location is designed to keep you close to the things you love while offering a peaceful retreat to call home.

What truly sets Allure apart is the lifestyle. It’s not just about where you live, but how you live. Residents enjoy a balance of independence and connection, with curated events, wellness programming, and inviting shared spaces that make it easy to stay engaged.

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Denton County Celebrates Medal of Honor Recipients & Everyday Acts of Courage

April, pride and patriotism were on full display in North Texas as the Medal of Honor Host City program in Gainesville marked its 25th anniversary.

As in year’s past, spectators were treated to an impressive motorcade as Medal of Honor recipients were escorted through Denton County, followed by a weekend of festivities that included a guest banquet, 5K charity run, a parade, musical performances, and comedy show. Yet the most lasting memory wasn’t the ceremony or even its honored guests, it was the way the community chose to embody courage, generosity, and shared responsibility, even in the face

Despite a cold, rainy forecast, the weekend drew a remarkably strong turnout. More than 500 vehicles created a roughly nine-mile-long cavalcade decorated in American flags along the route from

DFW International Airport to Gainesville. Where previous years saw pockets of support, this year’s crowds stretched for miles along the highway, a stirring sign of gratitude that underscored the region’s commitment to honoring those who have given so much for our nation.

Nine Medal of Honor recipients attended, but the success of the celebration rested on the collective effort of volunteers, sponsors, educators, veterans groups, and everyday citizens. In many ways, they were the unsung heroes of the event.

The motto, “Small Acts, Powerful Tribute,” felt almost prophetic, capturing all the behind-the-scenes work that went into the planning and implementation of every ceremony, event, and classroom visit.

Schools opened their doors for recipients to speak and engage with students, turning moments of admiration into opportunities for learning about leadership, responsibility, and service. Donors and supporters rolled up their sleeves to donate blood as part of a blood drive

organized with Carter BloodCare. Volunteers turned philanthropy into action, likening battlefield courage with civic duty. The weekend was less about recognizing singular feats of valor and more about nurturing a culture that dares to ask, “What can I do for my community?”

Moments of reverence mingled with profound gestures. The family of Medal of Honor recipient, Duane “Man of Steel” Dewey, who passed away in 2021, made a return visit to donate his medal to the Medal of Honor Host City Museum located on the campus of North Central Texas College in Gainesville.

Kenneth David, a newer MOH recipient and banquet speaker, left attendees in awe with a striking line. “I hope one day Medal of Honor recipients become an endangered species.” His reflection isn’t a wish for rarity of valor, but a hopeful plea for a future so free of war that the need for heroic sacrifice diminishes altogether.

What made this anniversary stand out was not a single spotlight moment but a shared commitment to make the event approachable and inclusive for people of all ages. The program reached across generations and neighborhoods, encouraging participation from students, families, veterans, and neighbors who had never attended before. The result was greater than any single event. The community as a whole came together to celebrate courage, humility, and service.

Long aimed to teach patriotism not as ritual but as practice, the celebration turns admiration from afar into a deliberate call to action — volunteering, mentoring, supporting veteran programs, and opening dialogue across the political spectrum. The weekend demonstrated that heroism comes in many forms. It happens when people sponsor a parade, cheer from a downtown lawn, or invite a veteran to share a story in a classroom.

As we celebrate Memorial Day, it’s worth remembering that honoring heroes is not something that occurs just once a year, it’s something we practice every day. If you want to keep the momentum going, consider serving in practical ways — volunteer with veteran-support organizations, participate in local events, and look for small acts of leadership in your own circles.

Gainesville is the only Medal of Honor host city in the nation.

The one lasting lesson that the Medal of Honor Host City program provides is that true heroism endures in our everyday choices to be kind, generous, and engaged with one another.

And if you’re looking for a hero, you don’t need a motorcade to find one, you need only to look into the mirror.

To learn how to participate or contribute in the future, connect with MedalofHonorHostCity.com.

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CLASSY CLOSETS' SMART DESIGN BRINGS ORGANIZATION TO KITCHENS & BATHS

by Craig Hewitt photography by Katelynn Ponomarenko

With 30 years of experience in the industry and a reputation for excellence, Classy Closets stands out as the gold standard in the world of custom storage solutions.

Empowered by a passion for design and a desire to provide customers with personalized organizational systems, Classy Closets helps homeowners get the most out of their spaces with innovative ideas that make everyday life a little easier.

For three decades, the company has built its name on precision, craftsmanship, and thoughtful design.

They are the experts in transforming closets, garages, home offices, laundry rooms, pantries, and entertainment spaces into highly functional and beautifully organized environments.

Every project has been rooted in one guiding principle — creating solutions that fit each client’s lifestyle perfectly.

A NEW CHAPTER

Now, Classy Closets is proud to announce an exciting new chapter. After years of designing, manufacturing, and installing custom cabinetry throughout the home, the company is officially expanding its services to include custom kitchen and bathroom cabinetry. This addition is a natural evolution of what Classy Closets has always done best. The same attention to detail, personalized design process, and commitment to quality now extend into two of the most essential spaces in the home.

Kitchens and bathrooms require a careful balance of beauty and performance. With decades of experience in maximizing storage and enhancing functionality, Classy Closets brings a unique perspective to these spaces.

Rather than offering one-size-fits-all solutions, each kitchen is tailored to the homeowner’s cooking habits, storage needs, and aesthetic vision. Bathrooms are designed to blend comfort, efficiency, and style, whether the goal is a clean, modern look or a warm, spa-like retreat.

Because Classy Closets manages the entire process, from initial design to manufacturing to installation, clients benefit from a seamless experience and consistent quality at every stage.

The collaborative approach the company is known for remains unchanged — listen carefully, design thoughtfully, and execute with precision.

FAMILY AND COMMUNITY

Classy Closets has been family owned and operated since its inception in 1996 and prides itself on providing top-tier products and unmatched customer service.

More than just a franchise, each location is deeply rooted in the local community it serves.

At the helm of the Dallas/Fort Worth location, Jerry and Julie Caldwell have fueled the growth of this beloved enterprise for decades. The location was originally opened by Julie’s father, Don Cotton, and her brother-in-law, Andrew Vivian. Jerry and Julie joined the family business in 1998, continuing its legacy while helping it evolve into what it is today.

Jerry began his career in the construction industry, and his fascination with cabinetry is driven by his intrinsic desire for organization, a trait that reflects the very nature of the services their company provides.

“I’ve always been intrigued with the cabinet industry, and I like things neat and orderly,” Jerry said. “So, it’s kind of ironic that I ended up in this business.”

CUSTOMER SATISFACTION — HEART OF CLASSY CLOSETS

At its core, Classy Closets is powered by a team dedicated to quality, craftsmanship, and meaningful results. From designers and installers to the manufacturing department, every team member shares a commitment to delivering solutions that truly improve their clients’ homes and daily lives.

“It says a lot about our character that when I follow up with clients after a job is done and they start telling me how much they love our team even before they tell me how much they love the project,”

Jerry said.

That level of trust has been the foundation of the company’s success for 30 years and it continues to guide its future as it expands into kitchens and bathrooms.

Whether you’re looking to modernize your kitchen, organize a closet, revamp your garage, or create a more functional bathroom, Classy Closets is ready to help you embark on your quest for organizational bliss.

With a blend of craftsmanship, personalization, and exemplary customer service, clients can expect a trusted partner dedicated to making every day a little more organized and a lot more stylish.

Schedule a consultation today and discover how Classy Closets can transform your home, delivering the quiet luxury of being beautifully organized.

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Personalized Picks that Feel One-of-a-Kind — Just Like Him

by Murray Media | photos courtesy of Funko Pop, Paint Your Life and social media

Father’s Day has a way of sneaking up, and with it comes the quiet pressure to find something that feels a little more meaningful than another tie or grill gadget. This year, the trend leans personal — in the best way.

Think gifts that reflect who he is, what he loves, and the people who love him right back. From playful to senti mental (and a few that land squarely in between), these ideas turn everyday items into something he’ll actually keep.

For the dad who doesn’t take himself too seriously, a CUSTOM FUNKO POP might be the most unexpected win. Design a miniature version of him right down to his hairstyle and outfit — even dress him in his favorite NFL team gear. It’s quirky, affordable (starting around $30 on Funko.com), and just self-aware enough to earn a per manent spot on his desk or shelf.

Of course, not every gift needs to tug at the heartstrings. Some are simply about making life more enjoyable. A PERSONALIZED SOFT COOLER from PersonalCreations.com (about $30) is perfect for backyard hangs, weekends at the lake, or sideline duty at summer games. Add his name or a simple “Dad’s Cooler,” and suddenly it’s his.

One sweet spot between practical and personal: a HAMMER HE’LL ACTUALLY USE. Uncommon Goods offers real, working hammers engraved with a message along the handle — one side reading “[Dad], I love making memories with you,” and the other signed with your name. At around $35, it’s the kind of gift that feels both useful and meaningful. There’s a growing category of gifts that turn HANDWRITTEN NOTES INTO SOMETHING LASTING

Several Etsy shops can etch a child’s actual handwriting onto the base of a rocks glass. For about $20, it transforms a simple “I love you, Dad” into something he’ll see — and likely use — every day.

Child Status PENDING

On the more sentimental end, custom artwork continues to be one of the most meaningful ways to capture family moments. Services like PaintYourLife.com will HAND-PAINT A PORTRAIT from your photos — and even combine multiple images into one. That means you can create a scene that never quite happened in real life, like dad with his kids and a grandfather they never got to meet. Starting around $195, it’s an investment piece, but one that often becomes an heirloom.

AL, GAME-USED BASEBALLS, stamped with his initials or a meaningful number. At around $28.50, it’s small, but it carries a story — and for a baseball-loving dad, that’s the point.

For a touch of nostalgia, LEGO OFFERS BUILDABLE MINIFIGURES you can customize to look just like him — right down to the accessories. At around $12, it’s an easy add-on gift that feels surprisingly thoughtful, especially if there are kids involved in designing it.

If you’re looking for something interactive, PERSONALIZED BOOKS offer a sweet option, especially for younger kids. Titles like “The Things I Love About My Daddy” from Letterfest.com let children fill in prompts about what makes their dad special. The finished product arrives as a bound book for around $40 — equal parts gift and keepsake.

For dads who love to grill, Etsy shop CrealityShop offers a playful option: a CUSTOM PLATE featuring stick-figure versions of dad and the kids, often gathered around a grill, labeled something like “Dad’s Grilling Buddies.” It’s lighthearted, personal, and perfect for summer cookouts (around $35).

And for the hobby-driven dads, personalization makes the experience even better. Golfers might appreciate CUSTOM GOLF BALLS printed with a photo (DiamondGift Shop on Etsy offers sets starting around $10), while gamer dads can store their gear in a handcrafted, personalized DUNGEONS & DRAGONS DICE CHEST from shops like Dibrova Store (around $51).

If his happy place involves a ballpark, there’s something special about gifting a piece of the game itself. Etsy shop Baseballidays crafts KEYCHAINS FROM PROFESSION-

WEARABLE GIFTS are getting a personal upgrade, too. Companies like Embroly will stitch a favorite photo directly onto a hoodie, complete with “Dad” across the chest and kids’ names along the sleeves. It’s cozy, practical, and just sentimental enough to feel special without being over the top (around $64).

If you’re working with a favorite photo, there are plenty of creative directions to take it. Etsy sellers like Personalizy can etch an IMAGE DIRECTLY ONTO A BASEBALL for about $14, while others, like Printideal, transform PHOTOS INTO SOFT WATERCOLOR-STYLE artwork (around $30). For something more modern, FamWalls creates STREET-ART-INSPIRED POSTERS that give family photos a bold, graphic edge, with pricing that varies by size.

And if you’re short on time — or just want a one-stop option — retailers like Walgreens offer a wide range of CUSTOMIZABLE PHOTO GIFTS, from puzzles and blankets to coasters and pil-

preparing to

? no-pressure guide to decluttering

by Randee Paraskevopoulos

The home you bought when the kids were young was great, and the game room got constant use. Now you’re down to two, and the only time you’re in there is to dust and vacuum.

It’s time to consider downsizing. Experts estimate it takes 1-2 years to declutter your home, maybe longer if you’re in a large house or if you’ve lived there for more than 10 years. There’s no time like the present to start. But how?

DEFINE YOUR LIFE

Define who you are now, and what you envision your life is going to be like. If you've been fairly casual with kids in the house, do you think you'll eventually want to host more "formal" dinner parties? Are there hobbies you're no longer interested in? Was that piano just around so your kids could take music lessons? This will make it easier to decide what you'll need in your next, probably smaller or easier-to-maintain home.

ELIMINATE TRASH

To kick-start the process and see immediate results, do a quick purge of anything that's trash — broken items, stained clothes, or anything that's expired.

BIG ITEMS

Then tackle the big items like furniture, as those take longer to get rid of. This is easier once you know the size of the place you’ll be moving to and what you'll need to take with you. If you don't know your destination yet, start with pieces you know you won't take with you.

ROOM BY ROOM

Then go room by room, from the easiest to the hardest, saving sentimental items for last — bathroom, guest room, office,

living room, bedroom, garage, attic, etc.

Search decluttering and you’ll find dozens of ways to make decisions. Some say to get rid of “x” things per day, or tell you how long to declutter at a time, and what rules okay keeping “just in case.” All are mental hacks that will help you decide what to do with each item — keep, donate, sell, or trash/recycle it.

In each room, make four piles and start separating. It’s best to get rid of the piles from one room before moving on.

KEEP

These are things you use on a regular basis — or at least every three to six months — “spark joy” (if you’re a KonMari fan), or have great personal value.

If you have duplicates of items like kitchen gadgets, tools (how many screwdrivers do you really need?), or linens. Keep the best or your favorites, and get rid of the others.

If you’re struggling here, maybe think about what would happen to your things if you don’t make those decisions. Based on a book by Margareta Magnusson, the concept of Swedish Death Cleaning is all over social media.

It’s a proactive way to prevent your loved ones from having to deal with your stuff after you’re gone. Instead, share the items that tell your story with your family now.

(For a laugh — and reality check — search for “Millennial Inheritance Community” on Facebook, where people share photos of what their family left, such as 500 Smurfs and a “raccoon room.”)

Storage units only delay the decision, and you end up paying twice for your stuff.

DONATE

Search who takes your items, or go

through Donate 2 Impact, a North Texas nonprofit donation clearinghouse that converts goods into financial support for local charities.

If you wouldn’t gift your item to a friend, it’s not a good donation. You’ll want to recycle or trash broken appliances, stained furniture, or ripped clothing.

Set up a donation basket in your closet or laundry room, so you can set clothing aside as you try them on. When you have a few bags, make that trip to the donation center. You’ll feel lighter once the stuff leaves the house.

SELL

Research what price items are bringing and decide if it’s worth your time. Selling takes longer and can be discouraging. Markets for items like antique furniture are flooded as more households downsize.

For bigger items you don’t want to ship, try local groups like Facebook Marketplace or Craigslist. Smaller or specialty items might do better on eBay. Call in experts for rare books, art, or collectibles.

Also check if your neighborhood has a community garage sale, which will attract more buyers and give you a deadline to work towards.

TRASH OR RECYCLE

Fill your bins every week.

Visit timetorecycle.com to learn where to recycle things in North Texas. Staples will take pens and pencils, and Best Buy recycles electronics.

You can buy recycling bags and boxes from companies like Trashie, which you fill with clothing and textiles. When you send them in, you get cash for gift cards and discounts.

TAKE PHOTOS & DIGITIZE

Another tip — digitize paperwork so you don't need to carry the bulky files. Photographing items or scanning photos may also enable you say good-bye to sentimental items, as you'll still have the memory triggers without it taking space.

TAKE YOUR TIME

Getting ready to downsize is not an overnight proposition — it took decades to accumulate the stuff, so you can't get rid of it overnight.

Take your time, and give yourself some grace. Call in a friend if you need a second opinion or encouragement.

Don’t give up. You’ll get there.

is all about making our homes feel functional, sunny, and wonderfully us. Whether you’re hosting a patio dinner, curling up with a good book in the shade, or chasing a bit of that resort vibe without leaving town, we’ve rounded up the 10 hottest design ideas that bring balance with a little Southern hospitality.

10hot for Summer Living

Design

Plants aren’t just aesthetically pleasing, but they have been shown to be moodelevating as well. Palms, fiddle-leaf figs, or space-saving vertical garden by a sunny window create a calming, air-purifying effect, and are totally North Texas-friendly.

Cool & Heat-Resistant

Think of surfaces that stay cool under the summer sun. Light stone, polished concrete, or ceramic tile reflect light and repel heat. This keeps living areas more comfortable, saves on AC (if indoors), and stands up to rambunctious summers with kids and pets. It’s practical, stylish, and makes every space feel brighter without sacrificing the cozy, homey feel you love.

Warm Neutrals, Bold Accents

Picture creamy whites, sandy taupes, and soft beiges, jolted with cobalt, sage, or terracotta. That palette mirrors Texan sunsets, pairs beautifully with stone and wood, and hides the inevitable kid-drawings or pet fur a lot better than pure white. It’s timeless, adaptable, and stylish enough to retain resale value while remaining welcoming for everyday life.

Outdoor Living Spaces

Speaking of summer entertaining, built-in grills, outdoor bar seating, shady sitting areas, and ergonomic layouts keep guests flowing from kitchen to lounge. Durable, weatherproof materials handle heat and rain, while the setup becomes a natural gathering spot, capitalizing your time with family and friends without the fuss.

Maximalist Yet Comfortable

Statement Ceilings

One emerging trend is using ceilings as a new focal point. Painted ceilings, wood beams, or metallic textures draw the eyes upward, adding a high-impact wow factor without changing your floor plan. North Texans love the personality boost and the added value. Plus, it’s a playful, sophisticated touch that fits open, modern layouts and makes rooms feel instantly elevated.

Lightweight, Airy Textiles

From drapes to slipcovers, linen and cotton in pale tones drift ethereally through summer spaces. Layered textures feel effortless, breezy, and incredibly comfy in the Texas heat. In addition, they’re easy to care for, pair with rustic or modern looks, and give interiors a soft, resort-like vibe that stays chic year-round.

Bold botanical prints on fabrics, wallpapers, and accents wake rooms with color and life. In our climate, florals feel energetic yet balanced with neutral furniture, so spaces stay lively but not loud. It’s personality-forward, sunlit, and surprisingly versatile—perfect for modern and traditional vibes alike and easy to refresh as seasons shift.

Textured Surfaces

Texture brings warmth after sun-soaked days. Rattan chairs, wicker baskets, and clay pottery add tactile interest indoors and out. In North Texas, these natural elements stay fresh across seasons, pairing with light walls for a breathable, vacation-ready look. It’s cozy, versatile, and wonderfully low-maintenance.

Smart, Subtle Technology

Think of smart lighting, climate control, and hidden media hubs, tech that acts like a helpful assistant. The goal is to create comfort and convenience: easy schedules, energy savings, and zero clutter. North Texans appreciate practicality, especially when it augments your living areas, increases home value, and makes summer living smoother without turning your space into a gadget showroom.

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Things to Try

If you love the idea of giving your home a little more character without spending a fortune, the Denton County area has plenty of secondhand gems worth exploring. From antique-filled consignment shops to community thrift favorites, these local stores offer everything from practical pieces to one-of-a-kind décor that can instantly warm up a room.

SECONDHAND

Antique GAllery Denton | antiquegallerydenton.com

324 E McKinney St., Denton | (940) 243-3933

A favorite for treasure hunters, Antique Gallery Denton offers a large, vendor-based shopping experience with a broad mix of antique furniture, vintage décor, and collectible accents. If you like browsing for one standout piece rather than combing through an entire showroom, this secondhand store makes it easy to uncover unexpected finds.

Ruth’s room thRift store | ruthsroom.com

1721 N Carroll Blvd., Denton | (940) 591-7884

This local nonprofit resale shop in Denton blends a warm, community-minded feel and an ever-changing inventory. While it’s not strictly a furniture store, Ruth’s Room offers one of the best bets in town for affordable secondhand home pieces, small tables, seating, and décor treasures. If you enjoy the thrill of the hunt and supporting a good cause at the same time, look no further.

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furniturebuyconsignment.com

1565 W Main St. #460 Lewisville | (972) 436-4389

Lewisville’s Furniture Buy Consignment ranks as one of the strongest local choices for wellkept secondhand furniture. Shoppers come here for gently used sofas, dining sets, bedroom pieces, and home accents that can look right at home in a fresh, modern interior. Named the Best of Denton County, this local chain has earned recognition and praise for decades.

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the classy cactus Antique mAll theclassycactus.com

212 W. Main St., Justin | (940) 648-2747

A longtime favorite for vintage lovers, The Classy Cactus Antique Mall in Justin is packed with antiques, collectibles, furniture, and one-of-a-kind décor finds. Shoppers love the variety, from rustic statement pieces to timeless home accents that add character to any space. It’s the kind of place where every booth feels like a new discovery.

thRift GiAnt | thrift-giant.com

324 W Round Grove Rd., Lewisville & 1701 Brinker Rd., Denton

With multiple locations throughout the DFW area, Thrift Giant is a dependable option for shoppers who love the thrill of uncovering a bargain, especially for affordable furniture and home décor. Known for a broad secondhand selection, frequent inventory turnover, and budget-friendly finds, this local favorite pairs variety and value where you can find everything from side tables to accent pieces.

Let's Re-Engage Locally

As we step into May, our community turns its attention once again to local elections. It’s a season that invites each of us to pause, reflect, and re-engage with the democratic process right here at home.

Local government — our cities, our councils, our school districts and our Commissioners Court — makes decisions that shape our day-to-day lives in direct and tangible ways. And unlike national or international politics, the people serving in these local roles are individuals we can meet, talk with, and truly get to know.

Yet many residents, discouraged by the tone of national and international politics, tune out local races entirely. I want to encourage everyone to resist that impulse. If national politics feels overwhelming, step closer instead of stepping away. Your voice carries even more weight in local elections, where turnout is smaller, decisions are immediate, and every ballot genuinely matters.

Stay involved. Do your research. Ask questions. Show up at local forums or town halls. Vote — and encourage your neighbors, friends, and family to vote as well. Civic participation isn’t just about election day; it’s about building a culture of engagement and respect all year long.

And as we move through campaign season, I hope we can turn down the heat — especially on social media. Imagine a community conversation centered on policy, ideas, and solutions rather than personalities or personal attacks. We can model that by choosing to discuss issues

constructively and by remembering that every candidate is a person with a family, a story, and a desire to serve.

Let’s commit to building our community, not tearing one another down. When we stay involved and stay respectful, we all benefit.

HONORING OUR MOTHERS

With Mother’s Day just passed, it’s worth pausing to recognize the extraordinary influence that mothers and maternal figures have in shaping not only families, but entire communities. Their steady guidance, quiet sacrifices, and daily acts of love ripple far beyond their own households.

Mothers are often the ones who anchor neighborhoods, volunteer in schools, check in on elderly neighbors, keep tra-

ditions alive, and bring people together in ways that strengthen the social fabric around us. They teach resilience, compassion, responsibility, and service — the very qualities that make communities thrive.

Whether someone is a mother, stepmother, grandmother, foster mom, guardian, mentor, or a person who has stepped into that nurturing role in someone’s life, their impact is profound. On this day, and every day, we honor the countless ways they support, encourage, and inspire us.

So, to all the maternal figures who lift others up, give more than they take, and model what it means to care for a community — thank you. Your influence makes Denton a better, kinder, and more connected place to call home.

And let me end by adding that I am so very thankful for the support, advice, and so much more from my mother, Colleen “Cokie” Eads, and my wife, Ginger, who has been that steady influence guiding our own family.

Grilled Vegetables with Italian Dressing

Make the Dressing Grill the Veggies

¼ cup Italian parsley fresh, chopped

2 cloves garlic minced

½ cup extra-virgin olive oil

2 tablespoon balsamic vinegar

¼ cup Parmesan cheese grated

½ teaspoon Kosher salt

½ teaspoon black pepper ground

Place all of the dressing ingredients into a medium-sized bowl and whisk together. Set aside. If making in advance, transfer to a jar with a lid and keep in the fridge until ready to use.

1 bunch asparagus white ends removed

1 yellow squash thickly sliced length-wise

1 zucchini thickly sliced length-wise

2 ears corn each cut into thirds

1 large red onion thickly sliced

1 red bell pepper

¼ cup extra-virgin olive oil

coarse sea salt for garnish

1. Heat your grill to medium-high heat.

2. Liberally brush the oil all over all of the vegetables.

3. Place all of the veggies on the grill over direct heat. Grill, turning occasionally, until beginning to char in places. Remove as they are ready onto a large cutting board or platter.

4. Place the bell peppers in a bowl and cover with plastic wrap. Let rest for at least 10 minutes or until cool enough to handle. Remove the peppers and use your fingers to pull the skins from the peppers. Use a knife to remove the stem and the pod of seeds inside the pepper. Cut into strips (½" to 1" wide). Use a paper towel to brush away any lingering seeds.

Arrange the grilled vegetables on a platter. Drizzle some of the dressing over the top and garnish with the coarse sea salt. Place the rest of the dressing in a small bowl (with a spoon) and serve with the vegetables.

G LF mini & indoor

With summer around the corner, families are looking for ways to entertain everyone. Whether you’re looking for some friendly competition, fresh air, or an indoor retreat from heat, North Texas has no shortage of options. From glow-in-the-dark mini golf and state-of-the-art arcade action to country club-style indoor putting courses and driving ranges, these six spots offer more than just golf, they deliver a fun-filled day for the whole family.

CAMP COPASS

8200 East McKinney St., Denton, TX 76208 CampCopass.com

Resting on the banks of Lake Lewisville, Camp Copass in Denton is a longtime local favorite for families who like their recreation with a side of outdoor charm. The campus features an 18-hole miniature golf course with varied terrain and creative hole designs, making it a laid-back but engaging stop for all ages. Home to summer camps and faith-based retreats, it’s a great place to pair a round of putt-putt with other camp-style activities on the property.

MONSTER MINI GOLF

1580 Keller Pkwy. 50 C, Keller, TX 76248 2223 Colorado Blvd., Denton, TX 76205 (Coming soon!) MonsterMiniGolf.com

Monster Mini Golf has already been lighting up the Keller entertainment scene with its signature glow-in-the-dark fun in North Texas for some time now, but their new Denton location is scheduled to open this summer, doubling down on the brand’s popular indoor mini golf experience. With other attractions like arcade games, bowling, laser tag, and animatronic “monsters,” this colorful fun house is a visual spectacle to behold, making it an easy pick for birthdays, rainy days, or anytime.

THE BACK NINE GOLF

2701 Flower Mound Rd., Flower Mound, TX 75028 5017 Teasley Ln. #121, Denton, TX 76210

TheBackNineGolf.com

With locations in Flower Mound and Denton, The Back Nine Golf brings a relaxed, welcoming spin to the golf experience, making it a strong fit for families looking for something a little different from the usual mini golf outing. With a laid-back atmosphere and a focus on fun rather than formality, parents can introduce their children to the game with high-tech, indoor golf simulators that feel approachable and stress-free. Their signature kid camps are especially appealing for families, combining recreation, skill-building, and quality time in one easy stop.

POPSTROKE

5770 Grandscape Blvd., The Colony, TX 75056 | PopStroke.com

At PopStroke in The Colony, visitors get the wholesome charm of mini golf paired with the polished feel of a country club. This outdoor venue features two 18-hole courses designed to resemble real golf conditions, complete with waterfalls, wind mills, and sand traps. With top-notch amenities that include a full-service bar, a made-from-scratch restaurant, an ice cream parlor, a playground, and an array of outdoor games, parents will enjoy a round of golf as much as the kids.

BIGSHOTS GOLF

15700 Golf View Dr., Fort Worth, TX 76177 | BigShotsGolf.com

Just south of Justin, BigShots Golf brings a modern golf-and-entertainment vibe that works well for families with mixed interests.

With a 6-hole putting course and a 56-tee box driving range, the venue is built around interactive entertainment and relaxed socializing, making it a strong choice for groups who want more than a traditional course. It’s especially appealing for families with older kids who like a little tech-forward competition mixed with food and fun.

MAIN EVENT

407 W. State Hwy. 114, Grapevine, TX 76051 2070 S. Stemmons Fwy., Lewisville, TX 75067

MainEvent.com

If you’re looking for a variety of family-friendly entertainment options, Main Event in Grapevine and Lewisville remains the classic all-in-one entertainment destination. While mini golf is regrettably not available at the locations nearest to Denton County, the franchises still offer the most fun under one roof with state-ofthe-art bowling, laser tag, hundreds of arcade games and virtual reality, making it the perfect place for families, young adults and groups of all ages. If you’re looking for indoor fun with a dazzling array of entertainment choices, Main Event provides the perfect place for a high-energy family outing with minimal planning.

IMPRESSION

ISLA MUJERES

On the quiet southern tip of Isla Mujeres, Mexico, just 8 miles off the coast of Cancun, a luxurious Caribbean, cliffside retreat has just earned one of travel’s rarest distinctions. Impression Isla Mujeres has been awarded the AAA Five Diamond designation — a recognition reserved for only 0.3 percent of the more than 60,000 hotels evaluated across North America.

by Terri Guthrie,

We arrived at the resort by a private catamaran from Cancun, where staff waved from the dock, greeted us with a warm “welcome home,” and handed us a welcome drink as soon as we stepped ashore. Stepping onto the property carved into the island’s southern cliffs, the sea is visible from nearly every angle. The terraces of the resort’s 123 oceanfront suites overlook the sparkling turquoise waters, and the multiple infinity pools seem to spill into the endless horizon.

During our stay at Impression Isla Mujeres, my husband and I joined a sunset cruise that featured a violinist on board. Listening to the music, while watching the sun set over the water, was magical. A champagne toast was definitely in order. Another highlight was the “General Manager’s Table.” This unique cooking class is led

by Impression’s GM, Mourad Essafi, and includes many of the chefs and staff. It evolved into a delicious meal that was paired with international wines. This was one of our favorites – very entertaining and educational.

Food became a big part of our stay, mostly because the resort’s seven exceptional dining experiences all come with water views and dreamy ambiance. My husband and I would compare notes after each meal. All the restaurants are excellent. Our favorites were Spezia for its standout Italian dishes, Wildfire Grill for consistently excellent steaks, and Sake, which served the freshest Asian-inspired cuisine. Just part of the five-star experience.

AAA’s Five Diamond designation is one of the industry’s most respected markers

of excellence. Properties undergo unannounced inspections, anonymous overnight stays, and annual reevaluations. For travelers, the rating offers reassurance of a promise of exceptional service, elevated amenities, and consistent quality. For Impression Isla Mujeres, the recognition places it among the most exclusive hotels in North America — a notable achievement.

PLANNING A VISIT

If you’d like to visit one of our Top 5 resorts in the world, this is it! Impression Isla Mujeres is accessible year-round. It’s especially easy on American Airlines’ direct flight from DFW International Airport to Cancun. The resort’s intimate size means bookings fill quickly, especially for oceanfront suites with panoramic views. To learn more, visit hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/mexico/impression-isla-mujeres-by-secrets/seiim

Terri Guthrie is a member of The Society of American Travel Writers. Scan the QR code to listen to her weekly podcast.