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You said yes. The man of your dreams bent down on one knee and asked for your hand in marriage, and you’re both floating on cloud nine. As hard as it is to believe, your cloud of bliss can quickly turn into a storm cloud of apprehension and uncertainty. After the initial excitement wears off and you are hit with the reality you have to plan a wedding, it’s not uncommon for brides to feel overwhelmed by the sheer volume of things to do. Before you start pulling your hair out from frustration, take the first 10 steps to planning your dream wedding and building your life with the person you love.
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Call your family
Share the news of your engagement with your families. It’s tempting to snap a picture of your new ring and add a quick status update for Facebook, but resist the urge. Your aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents don’t want to learn of your engagement from Twitter or Facebook. Set aside time to call all your relatives and tell them about your upcoming nuptials, and remind your fiancé to do the same. Don’t be afraid to enlist the help of your mother, sister or other family representative to help out if you have a big family Nobody wants to be the only family member left out of the loop.
Set a date, even if it’s not the final date
Right after “Congratulations,” comes the question “When is the wedding?” Save yourself and your fiancé a lot of headaches by having a game plan to help you answer the endless mound of questions people will bombard you with. Remember everybody is excited for you and wants to feel like they’re in the loop on what you’re planning. You don’t have to set the exact date right away, but pick a general time frame. If you have a general idea of what time of year you’d like to get married, share it with those who ask. Sharing this information also gives you a little direction in your wedding planning. captivating color. powerhouse skin care TM
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Set a budget.
Your wedding is an exciting, once-in-a-lifetime event, but it doesn’t require you to break the bank. Sit down with your fiancé and both your families, and talk about how much you have to spend on a wedding. If your parents or family members want to help, ask how much they feel comfortable helping with, and plan a general budget for your wedding. Finances can be tricky to talk about, but if you know how much you have to spend on your wedding, you will breathe a little easier when you get around to the actual planning part.
Talk about your guest list
You don’t have to be able to name every person you want to invite off the top of your head, but take time to start writing out a guest list. This can be done in the same conversation with your fiancé and both sets of parents as the budget meeting. Be courteous of family friends your parents really want to invite. Some of their friends watched you grow up and are eager to see you get married. Remember, the more people you invite, the more you have to spend. Of course you want to invite every person in the world to your wedding, but knowing your budget and maximum cap for your guest list is crucial to avoiding headaches at your venue and reception hall.
Meet with vendors.
Once you have an idea of what you want, hit the street with your mom, sister, future in-law’s or those who will help plan your wedding. Visit venues in your budget. Ask for questions on pricing, maximum guests, space and dates available. Talk to caterers about pricing options, food styles and expectations. Discuss flower options with florists. Meet with a few photographers and ask to look at samples of their work. Most vendors require deposits and need to know as far in advance about the date. When you plan to meet with potential vendors, have a clear idea of your expectations and budget in your head.
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Once you know how much you have to spend and roughly when you want to plan your wedding, it’s time to research. Spend some time online looking a venues, caterers and photographers. Think about the style you want to portray at your wedding. Do you want to have a vintage theme? Are you more interested in a wedding on the beach? Look at vendors’ websites, check out prices online, and read comments from previous customers. Think about what you want for your wedding and make a list of your top three venues, caterers, florists and photographers.
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Engagement photos.
Once you hire a photographer, plan an engagement session. The photos you take at your engagement session can be used in planning the design and detail for your save the date cards and invitations, and can help prepare guests if you’re having a themed wedding. Have fun in your engagement sessions. Be silly, kiss, and laugh together. Your photos will portray how relaxed you are and set the stage for your personality as a couple. Be yourself.
Who doesn’t want to look at wedding dresses? Little girls grow up dreaming of their perfect wedding gown. Go wedding dress shopping with your mom, grandmother and future mother-in-law. Keep the party small and make sure you enlist the help of those whose opinions you trust the most. Go to the store with an idea of what you’d like, but keep an open mind when trying on wedding dresses. Ask for your posse’s opinion but remember the ultimate choice must be yours. Your wedding dress should be suited to your style and taste.
Design your invitations.
Once you have a clear theme and nail down your final date, prepare your invitations. If a print shop is going to make them for you, know what you want and meet with the printers. If you are designing your own, talk to your photographer about using your engagement pictures, and remember to include the date, time and venue. Have a plan to respond to RSVPs and to contact those who forget to RSVP. Consider setting up a wedding website to help people RSVP. Remember not to go over your maximum guest list.
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annah and Travis’s aquarium wedding mixed the best of the coast with a military component, adding a formal aspect to the occassion. Their wedding cake carried their coastalthemed wedding from the ceremony to the reception seamlessly, with multiple tiers and icing designed with edible seashells. The natural backdrop provided by the Pine Knoll Shores Aquarium, paired with the blue hues donned by the bridal party complimented each other nicely, and Hannah’s red and white bouquet added a romantic pop of color to her wedding day. The wedding ingredients:
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Budgeting for your wedding can be tricky business. In addition to buying a dress, renting venues and paying for flowers, photos and reception, guests, out-of-town relatives and other bridal party expenses can add up, leaving your budget drained. On average, according to costofwedding.com, couples in Onslow County spend between $15,956 and $26,593. Knowing the breakdown of your budget is crucial to making sure you set aside the proper amount of money.
Attire and accessories: $2,187
Hairpins, garter, shoes, jewelry, cufflinks, tie, pocket squares and cummerbunds are all included in accessories for the bride and groom alone. A tux for a groom, if he’s not wearing his dress blues, as well as the wedding dress, will have to be purchased. You can expect to spent 50 to 100 percent more if you go after designer names for your attire and accessories.
Beauty: $215
Beauty costs vary depending on who does the makeup and hair of the bridal party. If you hire somebody, expect to pay a substantial amount more. If you and your bridal party do your own hair and makeup, you probably already have the majority of what you need. You’ll still end up spending a little extra for a special look on your wedding day, though, so be prepared.
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If you’re having a DJ, string quartet, swing band or any other form of live entertainment, chances are you will spend more than a few hundred dollars. If you’re going to do the music yourself, make sure you have a sound system and know exactly what you’re doing.
Flowers and decorations: $2,526
In addition to flowers for the bridal party and family members, aisle runners, reception decorations, table cloths, and ceremony decorations will keep your venue looking festive and help personalize it to your taste.
Invitations: $382
If you do your own invitations, you can save a lot of money in this area, but beware: you will still have to pay for ink and nice paper to print them on. The cost of invitations are often overlooked, but the excitement of guests who receive them is heartwarming.
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Wedding rings: $2,048
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Photography or video: $2,015
You don’t want to hire the cheapest photographer around unless you are absolutely enthralled by their work at previous weddings. Hire a credible photographer to help make sure your day is documented with beautiful photographs.
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Keep in mind the average costs of your wedding will depend greatly on the number of guests you invite. A single guest can add almost $150 to your wedding budget, so the best way to limit your budget is to limit your guest list.
Venue, Catering and Rentals: $6,089
By far, the most expensive part of your wedding will be hosting and feeding your guests. Your ceremony venue, reception venue, caterers and rental equipment costs will vary, depending on the size and scale of your wedding. Be prepared to spend the majority of your budget on your venue.
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hen it comes to wedding budgets, figuring out who pays for what is a blurry line. Times are different than they were when your parents walked the aisle. Traditionally, the father of the bride shouldered the bulk of the wedding and reception expenses while the groom’s family chipped in for the rehearsal dinner and honeymoon arrangements. Now, couples who choose to marry later in life, and have money of their own, take on some of the costs themselves. Splitting the financial responsibilities between both families as well as the couple as evenly as possible will ease the load and help everyone avoid the debt-trap. Honest discussions with anyone who plans on contributing financially to the wedding may be difficult and uncomfortable, but are necessary to hammer out a realistic budget. Here’s a quick, reasonable suggestion for a breakdown of payment duties.
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Custom dictates the groom and his family pay for the engagement ring and party. In addition, the groom will also pay for the bride’s wedding ring and rehearsal dinner. Other expenses covered include the marriage license, honeymoon, and groom’s cake.
Bride and her family
Nowadays, most brides pay for their own dress and accessories, as well as their groom’s ring. Her family helps in financing the invitations, decorations and reception, including food and music. The bride also buys the gifts for the groomsmen, bridesmaids and parents.
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Your bridal party understands the costs of your big day, and typically will help where they can. They cover the cost of their dresses and suits, and also pay for the bachelor/bachelorette parties.
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ith an autumn-inspired variety of colors and styles, Lindsay and Christian’s wedding was laced with subtle reminders of the harvest season. From the cake to the floral arrangements, fall hues brought warmth and personality to the wedding. To give her dress a pop of color, Lindsay chose a sash that complimented her gown and color palette without drawing too much attention. Her outdoor seating area gave guests a chance to enjoy the last warm days of the year and provided a spectacular view over the New River.
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Traditionally, bridal showers were women only events, but times are changing. Men want in on the party, too. Start your marriage off right by celebrating together with a co-ed wedding shower. From the food to the activities, making it a genderfriendly event is sure to make everyone feel included and provide fun memories to remember on anniversaries to come. Themes tend to help in planning parties so here a just a few ideas. GREAT OUTDOORS Who doesn’t like a good barbecue? Fire up the grill and throw on the chicken, steaks, ribs and anything else your taste buds desire. While you and your guests enjoy fingerlicking food, challenge everyone to
a round of Frisbee golf, a pie-eating contest or if you’re feeling creative, make an obstacle course where teams can’t move on until answering a question about the couple. Open your gifts around a bonfire to complete the party. BRIDAL BRUNCH Waffles, omelets, and bagels are difficult to pass up for any gender so a brunch theme works perfectly. Encourage guests to wear their Sunday best, including fancy hats and fun ties. Gifts can center around the kitchen, like a griddle, coffee maker or juicer. For something different, have an omelet or coffee bar, offering a variety of ingredients and flavors for each. DECADE DANCE Showers are precursors to what
your reception will be like, so you might as well have fun. Invite everyone to dress in the attire of their favorite decade, whether it’s a flower child or a mall rat. Have the music blasting when they arrive and start dancing as soon as possible. The menu is wide open with this theme so include a variety of pizzas, chips and dip and drinks. To put a fun spin on things, dare each guest to speak in phrases unique to their decade of choice. Guys are great, but if you still long to have your exclusively female-friends soiree, suggest a lingerie party, where each lady brings the bride a different outfit. The groom can’t come, but there’s no doubt he’ll appreciate the festivity, especially the gifts.
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f your bridal party is happy, you’ll be even happier when the big day comes. Follow these tips to keep the group in good spirits. Include them in decisions directly affecting them. Just because a dress looks good doesn’t mean it looks good on everybody. You choose the color, but
let them choose the shape and style that fits them best. Your bridesmaids will be more comfortable, feel more involved and will look better in pictures. Respect their time. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it, but remember your bridesmaids aren’t paid to do your bidding. Spread out
the task requests and don’t overwhelm anyone with a pile of work. Don’t assume your bridal party can read your mind. Provide a schedule, including where to be at what time for the rehearsals, dinners, places to get ready and directions to everything. Give great gifts. Make
sure your bridesmaids know how much you appreciate them. Jewelry, such as earrings, necklaces or bracelets, are always appropriate gifts. You can also personalize each gift, like a gift certificate to their favorite spa or restaurant. And don’t forget to say thank you.
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budget and your sense of adventure, here are some unique suggestions for your after-wedding activities.
For the long-distance travelers
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If you plan on leaving the states to spend some alone time with your love, make sure you’ve saved some big bucks. Traveling overseas is expensive. However, getting away from everyone and everything you know also adds a lot of excitement for those who seek something new. Discover the exotic beaches of Brazil or explore the ancient castles in the highlands of Scotland. Make sure to study up on the culture and language of the country before you visit. Nothing kills the mood like being arrested for kissing in public, like one uneducated couple found out while in Dubai.
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The good ol’ USA offers plenty of options for fun, and there’s no need to exchange currency or learn a new language. Florida is a toy chest of revelry. Swim with dolphins, ride horses along the beaches of private islands, or visit Mickey and Minnie Mouse at Disney World. A new trend in domestic honeymoons is “glamping,” a mix of glamour and camping. Resorts in Montana offer the newlywed luxuries while emerging you in the heart of nature. If rustic romance is on your agenda, visit one of the many lodges in Colorado. Curling up next to your love while looking at a picturesque mountain range can’t be beat.
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There’s no place like home, and for those living along the Crystal Coast, honeymoon locations are a dime a dozen. Walk along the boardwalk at Myrtle Beach, S.C., discover the legend of Blackbeard in Beaufort, N.C., or visit the waterfront restaurants in the Outer Banks. Familiarity doesn’t necessarily breed contempt. Find the adventure in your everyday surroundings and be the tourists you try to avoid. Your honeymoon will be as fun as you make it.
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very bride dreams of the moment when the church doors open and all eyes turn to her. Your wedding day offers a variety of emotional moments, and you don’t want to miss any of them. From the first time you look in the mirror in your complete wedding gown to the moment you leave your reception with your new husband, your wedding day is sure to be full of moments you don’t want to miss.
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Father’s First Look Ask your photographer to capture the first time your father sees you in your wedding dress, holding your flowers, with your veil in place. It will be a truly special moment only the two of you can appreciate, and you will cherish the photos of his reaction in the years to come. Mother/son and father/daughter dance The bride and groom’s first dance with their parents is a symbolic moment in the reception and often moves friends and family members to tears. Instead of worrying if everyone will like your caterer or being concerned the DJ plays the right dance list, sink into the moment and embrace this reception tradition.
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Reception Exit Leaving your reception with your new husband will be an emotionally charged moment for both of you. After a busy and hectic day, this will likely be your first chance to think about the commitment you made. For the first time, you will be alone together as husband and wife. Soak up the memory as you begin your new life together.
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STORY BY JESSIE HEATH
As a new year stretches out before us, new trends and styles emerge. If you’re bringing in the New Year with a diamond on your finger, take a look at some of the hottest wedding styles 2013 has to offer. From fashion-forward dresses to subtle nods at the roaring 1920s, wedding styles in 2013 are sure to turn heads.
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Move over tradition. It’s time to make room for color, style and romance. Top fashion designers debuted their 2013 wedding styles on the runway with bold splashes of color and fresh styles for every bride. Splashing strokes of smoldering reds, demure blues and the more traditional blush shades, designers are incorporating more color into their wedding gowns in 2013. Fashion-conscious brides will also see more gowns with lace overlays, following the style set for by Katherine Middleton’s unforgettable wedding dress. The influential Duchess’s bridal ensemble showed a fresh and appealing side of lace, adding a romantic and soft flare to every gown. Finally, more and more dresses are doing double duty. For brides who want to change into a second dress for their wedding reception or after-party, designers are beginning to incorporate convertible styles. With removable skirts, trains and capes added to wedding dresses, brides can show off two sides of their personality with a simple snap of a button.
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art. With unique silhouettes and unexpected flavor combinations, wedding cakes are getting a face lift. In addition to traditional flavors like vanilla, chocolate and red velvet, more bakers are seeing requests for surprising flavors such as mango, mocha and lemon. Still in style, it’s not unusual to have a different flavor for multi-layered cakes. Exquisite frostings and cake designs will top the charts in 2013. Some brides prefer cakes with bold colors and patterns while others are taking a liking to cakes that mimic wedding dresses, with edible lace detailing, bows and touches of metallic hues. Incorporating nature will also play a big role in 2013 wedding cakes, as stones, branches and feathers step into the spotlight in displays and decorations.
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In 2012, more and more brides cut costs by decorating for their wedding with do-it-yourself elements. These DIY decorations give weddings a pop of personality, and will be even more common in 2013. An expanding number of crafty brides will incorporate handmade and homemade elements into their weddings, such as handwritten place cards, photo booths full of scarves and accessories from the bridal party and homemade baked goods. By cutting costs with DIY elements, financially-savvy brides are also giving their weddings a dash of individuality.
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urricanes and weddings don’t mix, and unfortunately for east coast brides, it’s nearly impossible to predict if a hurricane will hit on your wedding day. If you’re getting married in the spring, summer or early fall, make sure you know what to do in case a hurricane puts pressure on your wedding day festivities. When planning a wedding in Coastal North Carolina, it’s crucial to understand hurricane season. The 2013 Hurricane Season officially begins June 1 and last until November 30. Beware – hurricanes can occur before or after the official hurricane season. Nobody can control the weather. It’s worthwhile to look into wedding insurance. Wedding insurance helps provide reimbursement for nonrefundable expenses in the case of severe weather, and can be a lifesaver in the case of an emergency on your wedding day, whether it’s stormrelated or not. If you’re neck-deep in wedding planning and a tropical storm begins to threaten the coast and your perfect day, don’t stress out immediately. Assess the situation thoroughly. View weather forecasts seven days in advance. Keep in close contact with your vendors, and ask them what you
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can do to help them. Figure out if you need to move your wedding and reception locations or change the date. It’s no fun to push back your wedding date, but it’s much better to be on the safe side. No matter what kind of tent you order for your outdoor reception, it won’t stand up to wind gusts in category 1 hurricane, let alone a category 3 or 4. You don’t want to put your vendors, yourself and your guests in danger by trying to hold your wedding in the eye of the storm. It’s best to push back the date if the storm is barreling toward you. If you have to cancel, make sure you contact all your guests. This is especially important for guests who have to drive in from out of town. Set up a wedding hotline for your guests, and give them your phone number or the number of somebody who doesn’t mind answering questions and fielding calls. Your guests will be disappointed too, but they will certainly understand your situation and most of them will do their best to make your wedding day when you reschedule it. If a hurricane or any other storm forces you to put your wedding on hold, don’t worry. You will marry the love of your life. It’s simply better to do so when you won’t blow away.
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STORY BY JESSIE HEATH When it comes to your reception, your table decorations will be the center of attention. Why not make sure they’re gorgeous? Spruce them up, add pops of color, and incorporate textures in accordance with the season within which your wedding is held. SPRING TABLES Spring is the season of all things new. Pastels and Victorian Era flairs give spring centerpieces a flirty and fun feeling. Instead of perfectly coifed and symmetrical centerpieces, embrace your inner gardener and select arrangements that give your reception that “straight from the garden” look by filling baskets with bright colors and budding blooms. Consider incorporating herbs or sprigs of greenery. If you’re looking for something a little more whimsical, use chicken wire bird cages or canning jars to add a contrast
between old and new at your reception. SUMMER TABLES Summer begs for bright colors, warm tones and bold centerpieces. Tropical flowers, palm branches and beach themes are incorporated into many a summer wedding. Bold centerpieces are eye-catching, when done correctly, but beware – they can be overpowering and overwhelming when paired with too many other decorations. If you’re going to make a bold statement with your summer centerpiece, opt for clean and simple place settings and table clothes. Use light colored, lightweight table linens. Use clear glass centerpiece holders and let your floral arrangements or candles speak for themselves. FALL TABLES Autumn is the harvest season, and what better way to incorporate its many rich tones into your wedding than with
your centerpieces? Embrace falling leaves and natural elements by including rustic elements into your table settings. Filling tin buckets with twigs, berries, nuts and changing leaves gives your wedding reception a seasonal statement. Using autumn flowers, like sunflowers and other warm tones, helps play off the changing color of leaves. WINTER TABLES While winter is the season of all things cold and exciting, your centerpieces should still reflect warmth. Keep things inviting by using gold lights and candles to give your centerpieces a warm glow. Let your centerpieces create a romantic mood by using bright colors with neutral tones like whites and tans. Your linens and silverware can be heavy and dark, as most guests will gladly accept the warmth glowing from the dark, romantic setting you provide.
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With all the planning you’re doing for your wedding, it’s hard to imagine adding anything else to the list. When you’re tracking down your caterer, preparing to have your flowers picked up and taking care of last-minute bridal party emergencies, there are certain must-do’s that always seem to fall through the cracks.
1. Bring your legal documents.
Signing your marriage certificate after the wedding is one of the most important parts of your wedding day. Make sure you have all necessary documents with you. You will also need witnesses, in addition to the officiate who performed your wedding. Most marriage certificates require at least two witnesses sign. Consider asking your mother and new mother-in-law, or your best man and maid of honor to stand by your side as your take care of the legal side of becoming husband and wife.
2. Decide where things go.
While you may already know where you want your guests to sit and how you want your reception hall decorated, deciding where to place programs, place cards, guest mementos and wedding gifts is an important task. There are three times during your wedding when people are likely to give you gifts. Instead of having presents and cards thrust in your hands all night, have a designated spot for guests to place them. If you’re concerned about being given piles of things while you greet guests, ask a member of your bridal party to stand beside you and take gifts and cards for you.
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3. Pick somebody to take your things home after the reception.
Once you and your groom make your get-away, chances are you won’t be loading down the trunk with all your gifts and mementos. Pick a trustworthy family member, close friend or member of your wedding party to take care of all your personal items. Choose a person and let them know everything you need taken care of after the wedding. If your wedding and reception were held at different locations, ask them to go back by your ceremony location and pick up anything you left behind. Call a nursing home or local shelter ahead of your ceremony and ask if they would like your flowers. Make sure there is room in your refrigerator for your cake and any leftover food. If you’re changing out of your wedding gown before you leave the reception site, you will need to ensure it gets home in top shape.
4. Figure out your post-reception plans.
If you’re not leaving for your honeymoon immediately following your reception, figure out where you will stay on your first night as husband and wife. Pack your luggage for your honeymoon and take it with you so you don’t have to do too much running around the day after your wedding. Consider packing one overnight bag separate from the rest of your luggage so you don’t have to sort through piles of clothes in search of what you want to wear your wedding night or the day after. Arrange plenty of time to arrive at the airport or your honeymoon destination, take your trip itinerary, tickets and passport, if needed. Also, if you’re flying to your honeymoon destination, don’t be afraid to tell the airline it’s your honeymoon. Sometimes, this little bit of information can make your travel experience even more enjoyable.
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Sometimes the joy of engagement is quickly squashed by the overwhelming task of planning the details of your impending nuptials. Staying organized and on schedule will not only ensure your wedding goes smoothly but relieve you from getting too stressed. Story By amy binkley
Immediately after engagement
Discuss your budget for the wedding and how many guests you want to invite. These decisions will affect everything else.
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– Decide on your colors for the flowers, decorations and overall theme of the wedding – Send out “Save the Date” cards – Select and order bridesmaid dresses – Order flowers – Visit with caterers to decide on a menu for the reception, including the cake – Settle on the design for programs, place cards and other printed materials see Page 34
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– Schedule dress fitting and remember to wear your shoes to ensure proper tailoring – Make sure groom’s suit is ordered, as well as his party’s – Nail down the order of the service, such as who will speak when – Secure wedding license – Tie up loose ends and make final decisions on details
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