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an you believe it is already February in the New Year? There is the old saying “time flies when you are having fun� and that should hold true when you are raising a family. That is what we hope to do here as we put together each edition of Coastal Carolina Parent. In some small way we will endeavor to help you have some fun with the children along with providing some of the information that is out there to assist parents. Valentines Day is fast approaching and spring is around the corner. Many of our local military families have loved ones returning from service and that is truly something to look forward to. Perhaps you will be looking for something special to do with the family. When you get the chance take a look at our events calendar in this edition. There are plenty of good things happening in our area for families to do together. We are working on making this calendar better and more inclusive each edition. The business community continues to provide tremendous advertising support and makes this magazine possible. Perhaps on your next family shopping outing you may visit them. This area has a diversified business base that is family and military friendly. I know they appreciate your support in return. Have a great February and look for our next edition in early April. All my best,
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6 The Power of Play
Encouraging children to get outside and play establishes life long habits.
8 Getting Along with Your Teen
BY ENA SELLERS
Four quick steps to get you on the right track.
11 Easy Crafts to Make with Preschoolers
Keeping your young children occupied through creativity.
18 What Not to Say to a Pregnant Woman Restraint and sensitivity can go a long way.
25 Take the Bore out of Chore
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Making chores fun promotes tidiness.
28 Setting up the Nursery
Ensuring your newborn’s safety is key.
37 February is Black History Month Celebrate diversity and cultural heritage.
Mekaylah Esguerra, age 10 and Father, John Esguerra 15 Expecting the unexpected
34 Community Calendar
33 Kid’s Corner
38 family Resources
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Encouraging Kids to Live a More Active Lifestyle Today’s kids often forgo baseball or tag for more sedentary fare like video games or surfing the Internet. Though it can be difficult to get kids off the couch, there are ways parents can help their kids embrace a more active lifestyle, which can have benefits now and down the road. Make it a team effort Parents who are concerned their kids aren’t getting enough daily exercise should ask themselves if they’re getting enough exercise themselves. A good way to encourage kids is to join them. Make daily physical activity a team effort. Kids don’t have to join Mom and Dad at the gym. Instead, go for a nightly walk after dinner, or make time to play catch in the yard. Parents who exercise every day are much more likely to have kids who exercise daily. Minimize television time The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends older kids watch no more than two hours of television per day. But as any parent knows, most kids average
more than two hours of television per day. To decrease tube time, parents can take televisions out of their kids’ bedrooms, instead putting televisions only in the common rooms which will also allow parents to more closely monitor what their kids are watching. Encourage extracurricular activities While parents might find it hard to believe, today’s kids still get bored. Boredom might be contributing to sedentary lifestyles. To combat boredom, parents should encourage extracurricular activities that get kids off the couch. Whether it’s participating in team sports, joining the local or school theater program or even getting a job, parents should encourage kids to do more after school than come home and turn on the television or play video games. Emphasize activity not exercise Many adults associate exercise with going to the gym or running on the treadmill, both of which are tough to
get excited about. Kids might be equally indifferent to exercise. Instead of emphasizing exercise, encourage kids to be active. Being active doesn’t have to mean playing a sport or doing calisthenics. Instead, an active lifestyle is one that’s not spent idling the hours away lounging. Express interest in kids’ activities Parents should express interest in their kids’ activities. When parents express an interest in their kids’ activities, kids are more likely to embrace those activities, something that’s especially beneficial if the activities in question are ones that get kids off the couch.
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Parents make many important decisions with regards to their children. One of those decisions that ranks among the most important is choosing a caretaker for your children. Today’s families typicall have a dual income. As a result, children are often left in the care of others, and who parents choose can be an agonizing decision. However, there are steps parents can take to ensure they make the right decision. When interviewing prospecting caretakers, observe how they interact with your child, and how your child interacts with them. The caretakerchild relationship is a two-way street, so weight each of these interactions equally. You aren’t the only parent who needs a caretaker or babysitter, so ask friends and relatives if they have anyone they can recommend. It might not hurt to ask coworkers, either, as they likely have a similar work schedule as you and therefore might be able to recommend someone who’s familiar with your schedule and make the transition as smooth as possible. Regardless of how comfortable you are with your decision once you’ve made it, you are still going to have some concern in the back of your mind as to what’s going on with your child at any given moment. Drop in unannounced to see just how things are going with the caretaker and your child when the caretaker isn’t expecting you. If things are going well, this will help relieve some of the fears or concerns you might have. If kids are old enough to
respond, ask them what they think of their new babysitter or caretaker. Kids are often brutally honest, so you might get the most accurate depiction of their time with the caretaker directly from them. Never hire a caretaker or babysitter who does not come with references. And don’t take the references on the applicant’s word. Call each reference and ask any questions you might have. The references no doubt are aware thay are being used, and should not have a problem asnwering your questions. After all, they are parents, too. Many babysitter applicants will likely be on the younger side, either in high school or in college. Ask any such applicants about their own families, specifically whether or not they have any younger siblings whom they were trusted to care for. As for older applicants, ask them if they have any children of their own, and whether or not their children are grown up. Many parents want their children to be the sole focus of the caretaker’s attention, so be sure to ask if that attention is to be shared with the caretaker’s own children. While making a decision with regard to your child’s caretaker can be tough, steps can be taken to make the process less stressful and one you are more comfortable with.
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Getting along with your teen? 4 quick steps to get you on the right track Story by Ena Sellers It is not easy being a teen, nor is easy to be the parent of one. Here are a few tips to help you survive this difficult stage. Don’t expect perfection Remember teens are not perfect and like you, they have their own strengths and weaknesses. Don’t expect them to be an improved version of you. If you become over picky about their weaknesses, they will only pull away from you. Work on one behavior at a time, don’t try to change everything all at once. Being a parent who thinks their kid is perfect, will only give your teen a false sense of entitlement. If your teen makes a mistake don’t sit back and say “I told you so.” Give them a hug, dry their tears and let them know they are important to you. Actions speak louder than words Listen to your kids, even if you are busy. Always set time aside to listen to them. Don’t listen while doing something else, otherwise they will feel like you don’t care. Each kid needs to have their one-onone time to feel loved and appreciated. Remember that even a seemingly harmless comment from you can make your teen feel misunderstood, angry or even hurt. Listen to them and give them your undivided attention. Remember their bodies are going through all sorts of
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hormonal changes. Give them space Be there for them but don’t hover. Parents’ natural fear of their children messing up tends to make us over protective, but the truth of the matter is that they will make mistakes sometimes. It is ok. Share your experiences, your mistakes and what you learned from them so they can make informed decisions if they ever find themselves in a similar situation. Don’t force them to share with you. Give your advice when asked. If you nag excessively they will clam up. Be a cool mom Despite what you may think, being a cool mom does not mean ignoring bad behavior, dressing like a teen or learning the lingo to text your teen’s best friends. Been a cool mom means remembering how you felt when you were that age. Teens need parents not more friends. Stand on the sidelines, remain strong, yet comforting and your teen will appreciate you more. Don’t stop disciplining because you are afraid they will hate you. One day when they have their own teens, they will be grateful for all you did. For information and resources on teen programs aboard Camp Lejeune, contact the Children, Youth & Teen Programs’ Resource and Referral Office at 450-0553.
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alentine’s Day is a time for adult couples to show their affection. But Valentine’s Day is a fun time for kids, too. Kids love handing out and receiving Valentine’s Day cards, and parents enjoy seeing their kids’ crushes. Another Valentine’s Day tradition kids enjoy is the annual Valentine’s Day party. Parents hosting the party this year can make the most of their holiday party with the following tips. kids make the invitations Kids will get a kick out of making Valentine’s Day invitations for all their friends. Tools of the trade include construction paper, glitter, stickers, and any other accessories kids might feel are necessary. Parents who want to go the extra mile can take their kids around the neighborhood to hand deliver the invitations to their friends. Go big with balloons No kids party is complete without Mon-Sat: 10aM-7pM
balloons, and a Valentine’s Day party should include pink, red and white balloons. If time permits, create an archway of balloons at the front door or tie balloons to the mailbox so other parents know where to drop the kids off. Don’t forget sweets Kids might have ulterior motives for enjoying Valentine’s Day that go beyond giving and receiving valentines. Candy and cupcakes are as much a part of Valentine’s Day for kids as they are for adults. Chocolate and cupcakes are favorites for kids and adults alike on Valentine’s Day, so be sure to have some on hand for the party. Host themed games Instead of standard fare like “Pin the Tail On the Donkey,” spice things up for Valentine’s Day with a few games with a Valentine’s Day theme. If the weather permits, host a Valentine’s scavenger hunt in the backyard. Include prizes like Valentine’s stickers and, of course,
chocolate. If t h e weather is too cold for a scavenger hunt, plan other activities that can be done indoors. This can include some dancing to kids’ favorite music or even letting kids decorate the house themselves with Valentine’s themed decorations they made at the party. Accessorize For the party, purchase heart-shaped plates and red, pink or white utensils for the kids to eat with. For dessert, serve up a heart-shaped chocolate cake.
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Easy Crafts to make with
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Preschoolers are wiggly. They like to run and jump and they have a hard time sitting still. When I was an assistant teacher in a classroom full of threeyear-old’s, I quickly found out, as I was scrubbing crayon off the floor and tabletop later that night, that it takes more than just some crayons and white paper to please them. Here are some easy crafts to do with the youngest members of your household. Decorated coffee cup A hand-painted coffee cup can make a great gift for almost anybody. You can buy white coffee cups at the dollar store. Pick up a few different colors of acrylic paint and some gloss finishing spray at your local crafts store. Before you set your little one loose with a paint brush, wash your coffee cup with warm water and let it air dry. Once the cup is dry, let your
kids go to town, creating their own masterpiece on this reusable and unique canvas. Once they are satisfied with their coffee cup art, allow the paint to dry without interruption. This process can take up to 48 hours, depending on how much paint was used. When your paint has dried, apply the clear coat or gloss finish. This will protect the paint on your cup from chipping or disappearing in the dishwasher. This also gives your coffee cup and nice shine to it, which will enhance whatever
your children have decided to paint on it. Stencil Wall Hanging A homemade wall hanging, using carpet squares, acrylic paint and your favorite stencil, is an easy and fun way to let your child help you decorate your home without breaking the bank. “I did this with my preschool class,” said Linda Heath, a preschool teacher with more than 20 years of experience in coming up with unique crafts to do with her students. “You can buy carpet squares at the dollar store. We painted the hands of
our students and pressed them down into the carpet square to make their handprints.” This is a good opportunity to let your kids be creative on a blank canvas. Blank carpet squares are also a good opportunity for children to experiment with different textures, since the amount of paint needed will be more than what you would normally use on a piece of paper. There are enough unique craft ideas for parents to have a new craft every day of the year. Don’t let your child become bored by sitting and coloring. Look for easy crafts that you can do together. Most of them don’t take much time to put together, but the memories you make while spending time with your preschooler will last you for years to come.
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Children’s oral care is something parents are concerned about year-round, but there are several times during the year when oral care is especially important. Halloween, the winter holidays, Valentine’s Day and Easter are all large candy-eating times in the year, making it essential to take the time now to teach children the importance of maintaining good oral health. “Tooth decay is the most common chronic childhood disease, so it’s important to teach children effective brushing habits, especially around the holidays, when children are consuming more sweets than usual,” says dentist and mom Dr. Jennifer Salzer. Oral care isn’t usually a top priority for children, which is why it is so important for parents to get involved and teach children the importance of proper oral care early on. To make oral care
more fun for children, Dr. Salzer offers some of her best tips: Parents should brush their teeth with their child to set a good example. It also helps children to learn by watching and imitating their parent. Sing your child’s favorite song, like “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star,” or play a song from their favorite singer for the two minutes while they are brushing their teeth. Give your child a toothbrush designed to appeal to a toddler who is learning to brush and whose baby teeth are growing in. For younger children, when their first teeth begin to appear, parents should brush teeth using a child-sized, softbristled toothbrush. It’s important that children two and older use fluoridated toothpaste to help prevent decay as their teeth continue to develop.
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otor vehicle crashes are the leading cause of death among U.S. teenagers, accounting for more than one in three deaths, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The good news is with a sturdy car and some well-ingrained safety lessons, these crashes are largely preventable. Many mothers and fathers are reticent to have their children join the millions of drivers on the nation’s roadways. A teen driver can test one’s nerves. Once a teenager receives his or her license, the family will have to reassess their automotive needs or risk fighting over the family auto-
mobile somewhat regularly. There are certain practices that should be commonplace even if a teenager is anxious to run to the nearest dealership to pick out a car. One of the first things a parent may do is to surround their child in the biggest, bulkiest vehicle possible. If there were an army tank available, parents might consider it. But large trucks and SUVs have a tendency to roll. Most families are already feeling the heat of overtaxed budgets. Another car payment could be unaffordable.
Plus, insurance premiums for a teenage driver could be very expensive, especially if that teen is driving a brand new car. Shop for a car that is a few years old. Not only will it have plenty o f miles still left in it, but also, if an accident occurs, the repairs likely won’t be as expensive as they would if a new car gets dinged up. Sure they may not be the ultra-cool sports car or the behemoth SUV, but sedans are large enough to effectively protect a driver in an accident and will have plenty of room to carpool friends to movies,
sports games and such. Parents should make their children financially responsible for the car in one way or another. Whether they contribute a few dollars to the monthly bill or are responsible for oil changes and fuel costs, having a financial investment may encourage kids to be more careful with the vehicle. A vehicle is only as safe as its driver. Consider defensive-driving courses in addition to the regular driving courses and exams the teen has taken. It will help him or her learn even more about being safe on the road. Of course, experience through road miles is another way to gain expertise.
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s the admissions process at the nation’s best schools grows increasingly competitive, how and when students prepare for college entrance exams could determine where they spend the next four years and beyond. Recognizing the important role planning and preparation plays during the college decision-making process, Revolution Prep, the largest on-campus test prep provider, offers the following tips to students and parents alike. Prepare for the admissions process early. Every parent and student knows students don’t simply show up on campus the first day of school and gain admittance to college. However, many parents struggle to understand just what needs to be done and when to help their student stand out among the rest. It’s critical to research in advance the requirements of the
colleges on your wish list and map out a timeline. Will your student take the PSAT? AP Exams? SAT Subject Tests? When do students have to start taking the SAT or ACT test so they can retake it if they want to? Creating a plan will give you peace of mind and alleviate the stress of not knowing if you’ve missed a crucial deadline. Take the SAT or ACT exams as seriously as you take your GPA. While a student’s resume is more than just test scores, even the most impressive application can take a hit without a solid performance on exams like the SAT or ACT test. For example, at the most competitive colleges, a student’s chance of admission could as much as double with each 200 point score increase on the SAT. In addition, it has been shown that 25 percent of the college admissions decision is based on a student’s SAT/
ACT test score. In spite of that, the average student typically spends just 10 hours preparing for such tests vs. 1000+ hours on activities such as sports or community service, that have the same weight. This is a good reason to investigate an SAT or ACT test course for your child which can provide 50+ hours of prep time -- 5 times the average. Learn the mental tricks of the trade. Success on the SAT or ACT test is not only about knowing the material. In fact, students who train their minds to handle the stress of the test often score better than those who take a purely academic approach to test preparation.
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e h t g n i t c e p Ex With Emily Hanke
Unexpected
here have been few events in my life more exciting and daunting than learning T I am pregnant. As I stared down at the plus sign
on the test, a thousand questions swirled around my mind. How long does morning sickness last? Is it safe for me to travel? Can I still eat my beloved sushi? When will I be able to feel the baby kick? The biggest question of all was “Am I ready to be a mom?” Having no siblings and this being my first pregnancy, I am a bit embarrassed to admit I don’t really have a clue what I’m doing. Luckily for me, there is a wealth of informative websites, magazines, books, and more that have helped me learn what to expect. My best asset so far has been a book that breaks down pregnancy week by week. Each week my husband and I sit down to read what changes our baby and my body should be going through. It gives us an opportunity to bond and learn about the incredible process of having a child. Another tool that had recently been pointed out to me by one of our readers (thank you
Kimberly!) is a group called Crystal Coast Mommies. Clueless people like me can peruse the forums, chat with other members, browse recipes, and get cleaning/organizational tips from the website. Instruments such as this group and others can be exceptionally helpful when making the transition to motherhood. So with all that being said, I suppose I am not quite as oblivious as I originally feared. My first obstetrician appointment was just as enlightening as the materials I have been laboring over (no pun intended). Minus the numerous blood samples that had to be drawn, it was actually an enjoyable experience. I got to talk to a nurse about any concerns or questions I had about pregnancy and of course the highlight of the day was getting to see that initial ultrasound image and hearing my baby’s heartbeat for the first time. At only roughly 10 weeks, it doesn’t look much like a baby yet and we fondly refer to it as “the gummy bear”, but I’m excited to see what else motherhood has in store.
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Find Your Pot of Gold E veryone is a little Irish come St. Patrick’s Day, and children are no exception. While kids can’t indulge in some of the spirits-induced revelry that accompanies the festivities this holiday, there are many things little ones can do to have a good time on St. Patrick’s Day. Children celebrating St. Patrick’s Day can do so in a number of fun ways. Dress in green Encourage kids to dress and accessorize in all shades of green. For even more flair, they can use face paint to draw shamrocks on their cheeks and hands. Make Crafts From paper four-leaf clovers to homemade leprechaun hats and belt buckles, children can get in the spirit by fashioning crafts that correspond with the theme of the day. Treasure hunt Send little leprechauns in search of gold at the end of the rainbow. Like an Easter egg hunt, hide gold-wrapped chocolate
coins around the house and set kids off to find the treasure. Blarney Stone toss Play a game of “hot potato” to Irish music using a garden rock to serve as the “Blarney Stone.” When the music stops, the person holding the stone is disqualified. Coin toss Set up a pot or hat and see how many coins each child can toss into the hat. The one who gets the most in the hat wins. Freeze dance Play Irish music and children have to “freeze” when the music is shut off. If someone moves, he or she has to sit out. Baking specialties Invite the kids to help bake some delicious treats, such as cupcakes with green frosting or Irish soda bread.
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Breast Is Best
One of the first choices a new mother will make is whether to breastfeed or bottle-feed. Several medical organizations and child wellness groups stand by breastmilk as the best option for baby. But why is it superior to formula? Bonding Breastfeeding provides unsurpassed bonding time between mother and infant. In the early months, babies need to know their needs will be met and Mom is nearby. Because infant eyesight is largely undeveloped, babies thrive through smells, sounds and touch. Nutrition The human body prepares exactly what is needed to sustain life. Commercial formulas come close to mimicking the components in breastmilk, but nothing
beats the original. Introduction to flavors With formula, babies taste the same flavor at each and every feeding. When a woman breastfeeds, her milk often takes of the foods she eats, exposing her baby to a wider palate. This can prevent picky eating down the line. Immune system benefits Pediatricians and other experts say breastmilk contains antibodies that help a developing baby fend off common illnesses. A breastfed baby is less likely to develop ear infections and other common sicknesses. Other health benefits Studies say breastfed babies are less likely to get respiratory infections and acid reflux, experience colic or have diarrhea or constipation. Cost factors Breastmilk is essentially free, unless you purchase pumps and other accessories to facilitate the
process. The average pre-mixed can of baby formula can cost $7 for regular varieties. And because breastfed babies are less likely to get sick as frequently as other children, that means fewer trips to the doctor. Convenience While formula products have become more convenient, all that is needed to breastfeed is a baby and his mother. That means no running out in the middle of the night or sterilizing bottles when the formula supply has vanished. Benefits for Mom Breastfeeding can help shrink the uterus, burn calories and help a woman return to her prepregnancy shape more quickly. Studies also show breastfeeding can reduce the risk of breast cancer, high blood pressure, diabetes and cardiovascular disease, and also may help decrease the risk of uterine and ovarian cancer.
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regnancy is a lot of things – exciting, somewhat scary and always an adventure. And in a community bursting at the seams with new births, help is just around the corner, like with the New Parent Support Program aboard Marine Corps Base Camp Lejeune. However, with an ever-burgeoning belly the last thing pregnancy should be is an attempt to manage the obstacle course of veiled insults from so-called well-wishers. You know the type. They’re the friends or relatives who think they know you well enough to rub your baby bump, but who, in reality, don’t even know how old you are. Their seemingly innocent questions and comments can be instant selfesteem killers to unsuspecting pregos. So here’s some tips to pass on to your pseudo friends on what not to say to you over the next 40 weeks.
Wow, you’re huge! Follow this general rule of thumb – if you wouldn’t say something to a non-pregnant woman, you shouldn’t say it to one who is incubating a human. They are aware their figure isn’t what it was six months ago, and the glaring reminder could result in a lot of tears, extremely loud insults or a punch to the face. Bringing up the fact that you only gained seven pounds during your entire pregnancy could result in the same consequences. Was it a surprise? Baby-making isn’t like following the latest Rachel Ray recipe, ensuring the results you hope for every time so on some level the news of finding out their pregnant is a bit of a surprise to every woman. Nonetheless, babies are a joy whether they are planned or not. I was in labor for 47 hours! On a scale of zero to Charlie Sheen, how crazy can you be? Horror birthing stories should be banned worldwide.
Odds are high your fertilized friends teeter between feelings of extreme happiness of their new arrival and immense fear at the thought of the delivery. This is especially true for first-time mothers. Don’t add to their anxieties by sharing your own stories of epidural shots that didn’t kick in, having your baby in the front seat of a car or how your doctor looked like he was 12 years old. Until the baby comes, restrain yourself from saying much more than congratulations to your pregnant amigos. To earn bonus points, assure her that she’s going to be a wonderful mother and that she’s never been more beautiful. A quick trip to the store to satisfy a sudden craving would also help. Above all else, remember that friends don’t insult friends while they’re pregnant. It’s not safe – for anyone. For more information about the NPSP, call (910) 449-9501 or visit www.mccslejeune.com/npsp.
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id you know that March is Traumatic Brain Injury Awareness Month? A traumatic brain injury (TBI) is caused by a blow or jolt to the head or a penetrating head injury that disrupts the normal function of the brain. Not all blows or jolts to the head result in a TBI. The severity of a TBI may range from “mild,” i.e., a brief change in mental status or
consciousness to “severe,” i.e., an extended period of unconsciousness or amnesia after the injury. Each year, an estimated 1.7 million people sustain a TBI annually. Children aged 0 to 4 years, older adolescents aged 15 to 19 years, and adults aged 65 years and older are most likely to sustain a TBI. 1 There are many ways to reduce the chances of a concussion or other form of TBI, including:
-- Wearing a seat belt every time you drive or ride in a motor vehicle. Buckling your child in the car using a child safety seat, booster seat, or seat belt (according to the child’s height, weight, and age). Children should start using a booster seat when they outgrow their child safety seats (usually when they weigh about 40 pounds). They should continue to ride in a booster
seat until the lap/shoulder belts in the car fit properly, typically when they are 4’9” tall.1 -- Never driving while under the influence of alcohol or drugs. -- Wearing a helmet and making sure your children wear helmets when: Riding a bike, motorcycle, snowmobile, scooter, or allterrain vehicle; Playing a contact sport, such as football, ice hockey, or boxing; Using
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Parents of teenagers have their hands full. Between combating self-confidence woes and mood swings, many parents feel like they need to put on their battle armor to deal with their teen. Teenagers also have their hands full. They are bombarded by ideas from every angle. Thin is in, partying is cool, drugs are hip and lying is the only way to get freedom. While society plants these ideas in the minds of teenagers, parents are often left blindsided, unsure of how to fight back. Instead of tossing and turning in bed, plan to help your teen cope with peer and social pressures.
Get rid of the ‘Do as I say, not as I do’ philosophy. Lead your child by example. Your children watch every move you make. If you don’t want your child to curse, but you let loose a string of unsavory words every time a car cuts you off, you are fighting a losing battle. Likewise, if you are trying to teach your child that alcohol makes people act recklessly, holding a weekend gathering, getting drunk is not an option. The bottom line is to remember your children are watching everything you do and actions speak louder than words. “Always try to lead by actions,” Renee Howard, a local youth worker, “Act like your mother is watching you.” While making sure you are an excellent model of the adult you want your teen to become is a start, there are some things that model behavior can’t overcome. Make
sure you and your teenager have open, two-way communication firmly established. While it might not be your favorite thing to do after a particularly stressful day at work, talking to your teenager about the up’s and down’s of their day helps establish open and honest communication. Using your discretion, share the highs and lows of your day with your teenager. You don’t have to pretend like the world is perfect. When they see how you handle struggles, they will take their cue from you and approach situations in a similar manner. Remind your teenager they are one-of-a-kind. Fight back against the media’s stigma of not fitting in by highlighting your own unique nature. Encourage your kids to use their positive energy in strong ways instead of promoting negative thoughts and feelings amongst their circle of friends.
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In a 2008 study by Geetha Ramani and Robert Siegler, preschoolers were involved in “number line”board game research, where the player had to move a game piece through a series of sequentially numbered spaces. Prior to and after the game play the children were given math tasks appropriate for their age group. The kids who were in the control group and didn’t play experienced no math skill improvement. But the ones who had played the line game had marked improvement in measured math
skills. Ramani and Siegler have also found correlations between the number of board games that a child plays and a greater propensity for better preschool math performance. Puzzles are another form of recreation that have educational merit and could trigger certain areas of the brain resulting in improvement in intellectual skills. Puzzles develop hand and eye coordination and foster skills in problem-solving. They also encourage kids not to give up. Chess has been a game of strat-
egy played throughout the ages. There have been statements that chess can help a child become more intellectual. Others argue the flip side, that it is the intellectual child who gravitates toward chess play and therefore skews the numbers in the terms of intelligence and chess relation. When choosing games for children, educational value is derived most from games that require deductive reasoning and not pure chance from the spin of a wheel. A game like “Clue” or chess requires strategy and reasoning to become the winner. Even games like “Connect Four,” “Boggle,” “Scrabble,” and other deductive games are good choices to consider. Although games and puzzles have the fun factor, there are educational benefits that may arise also in play.
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become less overwhelming, will take less time to accomplish and in some instances present a perfect opportunity for a game. Charlene Prince Birkeland, of Yahoo.com’s Shine staff, suggests this entertaining game that would be great for birthday parties: “Scrunch up used wrapping paper into balls and toss them into boxes or paper bags. See who can score the most points or who has the most creative way of making a shot. When you’re done, take the filled bags out to recycling.” Lastly, reward your children for a job well done. Some parents create and use a chore chart that keeps a visual tally for completed chores and allows children to see their progress which can provide motivation as they work towards a reward
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Infants are commonly introduced to solid foods between 4 and 6 months of age. When preparing for the addition of solid foods to a child’s eating schedule, parents may want to consider the health and environmental benefits of making their own baby food. Commercially made baby foods are relatively safe, convenient and inexpensive. However, homemade baby foods are even more cost-effective and allow parents to regulate the ingredients put into the foods. Individuals concerned about pesticides and other food additives should consider organic foods when making baby foods. These foods are grown and harvested under stringent guidelines. Preparing homemade baby foods requires a few materials: * a food grinder, food mill, or food processor * storage containers * fresh foods Most baby foods are prepared by cooking the food until soft, allowing it to cool and then grinding the food down to a palatable texture depending upon the child’s age. Steaming retains the most nutrients in foods. Parents can also bake, boil or microwave foods. Some fruits, such as bananas, do not need to be cooked before use. Also, use caution with nitrate-high foods, such as carrots, beets, and green beans. These foods should be made in small batches and used
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quickly. Nitrates can build up in the foods when stored. Freezing foods that are potentially high in nitrates can alleviate this situation. Young infants should be introduced to one food every 2 to 3 days to check for allergic reactions and tolerance. Once parents have determine which foods a child can tolerate, they can then begin to experiment with food blends the children may enjoy. As a child grows, parents can vary the texture of foods, particularly when children begin to grow teeth. Eventually a child will want to self-feed finger foods and then parents can simply use foods that come right off of the dinner table. Homemade baby food can be inexpensive. That’s because parents can buy ingredients in bulk and store leftovers for later usage. Also, there are no costs of packaging when making homemade baby food, benefitting the environment by creating less waste and using less energy. Supporters of homemade baby food say there is another advantage apart from the cost and environmental factors. Some say children who eat the same foods their parents are eating may be less picky eaters as they approach the toddler years. Parents looking to experiment with homemade baby foods can find recipes both online and in books.
Parents consider their home a safe haven for children. But the home actually plays host to many childhood injuries. Each year, nearly 20,000 people die and 21 million medical visits result from home accidents in the United States, says the U.S. Home Safety Council. The majority of these injuries occur to children and the elderly. When improving your home, take steps to decrease the likelihood of accidents by targeting the areas where injuries are most likely to occur. Slamming doors & windows Amputations to fingers as a result of slammed doors and windows are a leading emergency room injury. This is easily remedied by putting foam or plastic guards on windows
and doors so they can’t crush fingers if they are accidentally slammed. High-placed latches on windows or doors that are off-limits can reduce injury. Stairs Statistics indicate more people end up in U.S. emergency rooms because of fallrelated injuries than from any other cause. Falls down stairs are a leading cause of injury. Adequate lighting around staircases can illuminate open stairwells. Non-slip treads on stairs can help prevent falls, as can replacing carpeting on stairs that is bunching or separating from the underfloor. Be sure handrails are sturdy. A pressure-mounted gate at the top of stairs can block the stairs to prevent falls if a child is wandering around at night
to visit the bathroom or another instance. Window safety Falls out of open windows are another startling statistic, with thousands of young children being susceptible to injury every year, according to the Consumer Product Safety Commission. Window guards that cover the open window with grating or metal bars, or locks, which prevent the window from opening past a certain height, can help prevent window injuries. It’s also important to keep furniture away from easily opened windows. Electrocution Children are curious by nature, and open outlets or wires and plugs will certainly attract their attention.
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Potty training tips for tough toddlers When you dreamt of having a child, you looked forward to snuggles, coos and giggles. Even changing diapers didn’t seem like a duty at first. Now, two to three years later, you’re ready to ditch the baby wipes and move on to the next phase – potty training. Lori Tulifua, a local mother and military spouse, is still reveling in the newness of her baby boy, but she knows the inevitable is coming. “Right now, he doesn’t mind sitting in a wet or dirty diaper,” she said. “That will work against us later.” Potty training is a gross but necessary part of parenting, and it’s not as easy as it seems. “I loved the idea of saving on diapers,” Fiorinda Pierre, a mother of three stationed at Marine Corps Base Camp Lejeune, noted. “It’s exciting but also challenging.” For those tough toddlers who’d rather scream like a banshee than sit on a toilet, you’ll need a game plan. First, keep a routine as much as possible by taking them or reminding them to go to the potty every 15 to 30 minutes. A lot of children will do well when they are first being taught how to be a big boy or girl. They can even go for as long as a week with no accidents. However, as soon as their normal schedule differs, whether with a trip to grandma’s or staying with a sitter, they regress. Don’t panic. As soon as possible, get them back into their routine. To prevent surprises, let them know
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erhaps the most costly of growing pains for parents is the amount of clothing, toys and furniture their children go through.With two children of their own, Hunter and Michele Jackson can attest to that. From Knoxville, Tenn., the Jackson’s solution to save money while raising their sons was to take part in children’s consignment events. After participating at consignment events in Knoxville and watching them grow, they decided to run their own consignment event in Eastern NC. Thus, the Dr. Seuss-loving couple developed the children’s consignment event “One fish, two fish, nearly new fish.” The Jackson’s kicked off their first consignment event 2 years ago in Greenville, NC, and expanded east to host an event in Jacksonville last spring. The upcoming sale will be March 23-25 with a private sale for the consignors and volunteers on March 22. The sale will be hosted at the Swansboro Rotary Civic Center. Nearly New Fish will also host the Greenville sale March 1-4 next to the Harley Davidson dealer. Jackson believes military families in Jacksonville are excited to have the consignment event here. “A lot of military families new to Jacksonville from other areas have attended consignment events other places and are very pleased to see something like this come to Jacksonville,” said Jackson. The Jacksons anticipate the response to the upcoming event will be even bigger than the fall sale here in Onslow county. The timing of the events is very important as it coincides with changing seasons and changing temperatures. “The idea is that when seasons change Nearly New Fish can help re-outfit your kids for a fraction of the price of retail
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stores,” said Jackson. And clothes aren’t the only thing parents can look to consign or buy at the event. “We have pretty much anything you can think of that you need for your kids. Some of our biggest items sold besides clothes are outdoor toys—swings, power wheels, and bikes. We also sell a lot of high chairs, bouncers, DVDs, books and games,” said Jackson. The consignment event even has maternity clothes. The Jackson’s bottom line for this business should be your bottom line too. “This is a smarter way to buy and sell everything you need for your children,” says Jackson. Here’s how it works. Parents who have new or like new children’s products they would like to sell need to register at www. nearlynewfish.com. You determine the price for your own products, and fill out pre-designed tags for them. Drop off the items you want to sell, and receive 70 percent of the profit from all items sold. In addition, consigners who volunteer to work at least four shifts at the event will receive 75 percent of their profits and have early access to shop at the event. Individuals only interested in shopping can sign up to volunteer in order to gain early access to the event during the afternoon, March 22. Expecting and new mothers also get access to the pre-sale starting at 6 p.m., March 22. Whether you have piles of children’s items around the house or you have an empty child’s room that needs to be filled, this consignment event is something you can’t afford to miss.
5 thoughtful gifts Valentine’s Day is prime season for florists, with floral sales capturing 40 percent of holiday dollar volume, according to data collected by IPSOS-Insight FloralTrends Consumer Tracking Study. While flowers -- particularly mixed flower and red rose bouquets -- may comprise the leading gifts for romantic gifters, many others are looking to buck the flowers-andchocolate trend this year and offer something more unique. On the heels of the holiday giving season, most gift-givers realize how difficult it can be finding the “perfect” gift for a recipient. That gift may be even more difficult to find when the intention is to convey love and affection. But Valentine’s Day givers can look to a number of gifts that are very thoughtful but needn’t take more than a
that don’t require much thought
little forethought. Gift card You may be thinking a gift card doesn’t sound that thoughtful. However, when paired with a listing of gift items, it’s easy to illustrate the thought that went into the gift. It may make sense to simply purchase one of those interesting items, but this way you’re giving the recipient the choice of what he or she really wants to select. Something engraved A simple scarf turns into something more special when it includes monogrammed ini-
tials or a special saying. The same can be said for anything from a picture frame to candle holders. Taking the time to have something monogrammed or engraved imparts thoughtfulness into the gift. Pet accessories People view their pets as members of the family and often as small children (when small children are not yet present). Especially during the dating stage, providing an adorable gift for his or her pet may be seen as a heartfelt gesture. Be sure to pick up a little something for the pet parent as well, though.
Hobby gifts Recognizing the interests of a loved one is a clear sign that you’re in tune with what he or she enjoys to do. If you have an avid reader on your hands, a new e-reader or some e-books may be ideal. Sports fans could appreciate tickets to the next home game of their favorite team. Someone who dabbles in culinary creations may delight over a gift basket full of top-ofthe-line cooking utensils. A spending spree Take your Valentine to his or her favorite store and encourage him or her to pick out a few favorite items. Set a price limit or let them choose regardless of price. This way you can spend time together and see the joy on your Valentine’s face when he or she is choosing treasured items.
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Family Flicks review by Reinhild Moldenhauer Huneycutt
“THE ADVENTURES OF TINTIN” “The Adventures of Tintin” is a family friendly animated movie based on the internationally beloved characters created by Belgian cartoon artist Herge. The epic, globe-hopping quest that spans hidden mysteries, menacing criminals and ancient secrets brings a dazzling life to the classic escapades that have enthralled generation after generation with their one-of-kind mix of action, humor and scintillating tale-spinning. The story follows the unquenchably curious young reporter Tintin, voiced by Jamie Bell (“The Eagle,” “Defiance”) and his fiercely loyal dog Snowy as they discover a model ship carrying an explosive secret. Drawn into a centuries-old mystery, Tintin finds himself in the sightlines of Ivan Ivanovitch Sakharine, voiced by Daniel Craig (“Cowboys & Aliens”), a diabolical villain who believes Tintin has stolen a priceless treasure tied to a das-
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tardly pirate named Red Rockham. But with the help of his dog Snowy, the salty, cantankerous Captain Haddock, voiced by the brilliant Andy Serkis (“The Rise of the Plant of the Apes”), and the bumbling detectives Thompson & Thomson, Tintin will travel half the world, outwitting and outrunning his enemies in a breathless chase to find the final resting place of The Unicorn, a shipwreck that may hold the key to a vast fortune, and an ancient curse. From the high seas to the sand of North African deserts, every new twist and turn sweeps Tintin and his friends to escalating levels of thrills and peril, proving that when you dare to risk everything, there is no limit to what you can do. Simon Pegg (“Paul”) and Nick Frost (“Pirate Radio”) lend their voices to Thompson & Thomson; Toby Jones (“The Rite”) can be heard as the voice of Silk, a pickpocket. Director Steven Spielberg (“War Horse,” “E.T.,” “Raiders of the Lost
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February 3
Friends of Sheppard Memorial Library Annual Book Sale Friday & Saturday 9am – 6pm, Sunday 1 – 3:30pm. Greenville Convention Center, Greenville. Annual book sale. Hardbacks and paperbacks in all categories. Childrens’ books, nonfiction, DVDs, CDs, and other audio visual materials also. Sunday is bargain day with books sold by the bag. Members of the Friends can attend a preview sale on Thursday night.
February 4
Learning Center: African Art 1-4pm. Cape Fear Museum, Wilmington, NC. Discover the African influences in Lower Cape Fear art and culture. Explore the geography of Africa. Uncover the origins of Lowcountry basketry then make a basket to take home. Find out how African artisans helped design local historic architecture. Create your own art using African-influenced symmetry and design in the style of local artist Minnie Evans.
February 5
Spread the Love Free Tastefully Yours heart shaped cheese board and spreader when you spend $75 or more. Present same day receipts to Mall Management Office. February 5-14.
February 8
Snake & Turtle Feeding 4-4:30pm. Halyburton Park, Wilmington, NC. Enjoy a brief presentation about the live animals on display in the Event Center and then watch them feed. At least one snake and a turtle will be fed during the demonstration. Ages 3 & up. Preregistration is required. Ringling Brothers and Barnum & Bailey Circus $15 and up. February 8-12, Various times. For 130 years, The Ringling Brothers And Barnum & Bailey Circus has been amazing and delighting
audiences around the world. Now you can experience all the excitement of this three ring extravaganza live in person. See the astounding acrobats, vibrant visuals and prodigious performers for yourself in 2012. Tryon’s Tales for Tots: Happy Birthday George! - North Carolina History Center $6 for children ages 3 to 5, adults free. 10am to 11am. Tryon Palace. You’re never too young for history! Pre-schoolers and parents will learn about America’s first president, George Washington, by visiting the Stanly House where he once slept. Tots will also make a festive craft in honor of the founding father’s birthday.
February 11
Valentine’s Is For The Birds Family Workshop 10:00am. NC Botanical Garden, Chapel Hill. For families! Show some love to our feathered friends during the cold season. We’ll visit feeders to identify common winter birds, learn how you can participate as a citizen scientist in Project FeederWatch, and make some Valentine bird treats to take home. $15 per family.
February 12
African American Read-In 3:00pm – 5:00pm. New Bern Craven County Public Library. The 4th African American Read In will be held on Sunday, February 12, 2012 at the New Bern-Craven County Public Library. For more information, call: 252-638-7802.
February 14
Carousel Sweets Valentine’s Movie Night 5pm. Free candy hearts on Valentine’s Night.
February 16
Kids Klub Event 10:30 am. Center Court Jacksonville Mall. Join Sturgeon City for their Mad
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Science Day. Become your own mad scientist.
February 17
Home Party Show Jacksonville Mall. Learn how to become a stay at home entrepreneur. Representative from Mary Kay, Thirty One Gifts, Tupperware and more will be on hand. February 17-19. Jammie Jam PJ Party 5pm to 7pm. $7 to $8. Dress in your PJs and bring a special stuffed friend to the Children’s Museum in downtown Wilmington, NC. Kids will have the opportunity to make toothpaste and dream catchers, play board games, and settle in for a cozy story time. Call to register.
February 18
Family Fun Day Buy Tickets, Play Games, Help Animals. Proceeds to benefit local animal rescue and humane groups. Admission is $2 / $10 Max for Families. (Cash Only Event) Additional Sponshorship Available call (252) 514-2502. Final Registration is February 3.
February 19
Cape Fear: African Skies Cape Fear Museum, Wilmington, NC. 3-2-1-Blast off! Cape Fear Skies offers your family a realistic planetarium experience the third Sunday of each month. Venture into outer space as you hear mythical tales and explore stars, planets, and more. Parental participation is required. Compare and contrast the local night sky to that seen in Africa. Program offered at 1:30, 2:30 & 3:30 pm.
February 23
Onslow County Real Estate Investors Meeting 7:00pm - 9:00pm. ATTENTION REAL ESTATE INVESTORS: the next meeting will be Thursday, Feb. 23. The meeting will be held at the Comfort Suites on Workshop Lane
(across from the Walmart on Hwy 17). Please contact Jody Davis at Choice Realty for more information (910) 265-0771. FORECLOSURE TOUR CHOICE Jacksonville Realty 2013 -A Lejeune Blvd. Every Saturday at 10:30am! Call Jody Davis at (910) 265-0771 for more info or to schedule a tour weekdays! www.choicehomz.com
March 4
Sssnakes at Jacksonville High School 2:30pm & 3:30pm. The Onslow County Parks and Recreation Department and the North Carolina Museum of Natural Science are sponsoring two spring nature sessions on “Sssnakes” at Jacksonville High School in the cafeteria. Participants will have the opportunity to learn about various snakes. The two, one hour long programs will feature a short lecture then provide an opportunity for hands-on participation. An adult must accompany children under 12 years of age.
10:30 am. Center Court Jacksonville Mall. Join Sturgeon City for their Mad Science Day. Become your own mad scientist.
March 17
Breakfast with the Rays 8am-9:30am. $15. Pine Knoll Shores Aquarium. Enjoy a continental breakfast and help feed these amazing animals before the aquarium opens for the day. Advanced registration is required. Ages 5yrs and up.
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Behind The Scenes: Aquarium Close Encounters 2:00pm – 3:30pm. $12. Help feed the animals, visit labs and holding areas and enjoy a look at the “Living Shipwreck” from above in this in-depth behind the scenes adventure. Closed toe shoes required. Ages 8yrs and up.
March 9
Emerald Isle St Patrick’s Festival 10:00am. Emerald Plantation Shopping Center, Emerald Isle NC. Music, dancing, food, amusement rides, arts & crafts vendors.
March 10
St. Patrick’s Day Parade & Festival 9:00am. North Myrtle Beach Main Street, North Myrtle Beach, SC. A fun-filled festival of music, crafts, food and children’s activities on a day for everyone to feel a wee bit Irish. The festival is open from 11 to 4, and starts off with a parade down Main Street at 9 am to the cheers of thousands.
Consignment Sale March 9 through 11. All types of merchandise. Contact Bobbi Jo Kelly at dpkgroup@aol.com.
2012 Dixon Elementary PTO Dolphin Dash 5K & 1m Fun Run 8am. Dixon Elementary School. This is a flat fast course running around the Dixon Elementary School and surrounding neighborhoods. The race begins and ends at the school. Proceeds of the run will provide for the revitalization of the DES playground area. 5K Registration on active.com. Keywords: Dolphin 5K. Mail in registration form available at dixon. nc.oce.schoolinsites.com.
March 15
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March 31
Easter Egg Hunt 9:00am. The Onslow County Parks and Recreation Department are sponsoring 5 Easter Egg Hunts for Onslow County. The first Easter Egg Hunt will be at Richlands/ Steed Park beginning 9am. The second Hunt will be at Onslow Pines Park beginning at 11am. The third Hunt will be held at Stump Sound Park beginning at 1pm. The fourth Hunt will be held at Hubert By-Pass Park beginning at 3pm. The fifth hunt will be held at Deppe Park at 5pm. There will be lots of prizes and candy, and a visit from the Easter Bunny. Bring a basket to collect eggs!
March 24
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texas chili soup - Serves 6 2 tablespoons unsalted butter 1 cup chopped onion 4 teaspoons minced garlic 1 pound ground pork 1 pound ground beef or turkey 2 cans (29 ounces each) diced tomatoes 3 cans (15 to 16 ounces each) pinto beans, drained and rinsed 1 quart beef or chicken stock 4 stalks celery, chopped 2 tablespoons chili powder 1 tablespoon red pepper flakes 1 teaspoon cayenne pepper 1 teaspoon salt Shredded cheddar & Monterey Jack cheeses, for garnish 2 green onions, chopped 8 ounces sour cream
In a large pot, warm the butter over low heat and saute the onion and garlic until golden. Add the ground pork and beef and cook until browned. Drain off half of the fat. Add the tomatoes, beans, stock, celery, chili powder, pepper flakes, cayenne, and salt and simmer until the flavors meld, 30 minutes to 1 hour. Serve in bowls sprinkled with cheese, chopped green onions, and a dollop of sour cream.
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lack History Month is celebrated annually in the United States, Canada and the United Kingdom. Americans and Canadians celebrate Black History Month in February, while the U.K. devotes the month of September to recognizing and celebrating black history. Over the course of history, blacks have made tremendous contributions that have impacted all aspects of society. The following facts and figures recognize some of the more notable persons and some lesser known tidbits to celebrate this Black History Month. ÁÁ The banjo originated in Africa. Until the 1800s, this popular and unique instrument was considered played exclusively by blacks.
ÁÁ C.B. Brooks invented the first street sweeper, a truck equipped with brooms, in 1896. ÁÁ Frederick Jones invented a portable air conditioner that proved especially valuable in World War II, during which it was used to preserve medicine and blood serum. ÁÁ Computer scientist Mark Dean, born in 1957, led a team that developed the ISA bus, which allows the use of computer plug-ins, including speakers, scanners and disk drives, among other things. ÁÁ Lonnie G. Johnson, an engineer whose work has included spacecraft system design for NASA, invented the Super Soaker water gun, a toy that was immensely popular in the early 1990s. ÁÁ Arguably one of the
greatest Olympian the world has ever seen, American Jesse Owens became the first athlete to win four gold medals in one Olympiad at the 1936 games in Berlin. ÁÁ Following in Owens’ footsteps, Wilma Rudolph overcame polio to win three gold medals in the 1960 Olympic Games. The 20th of 22 children, Rudolph broke three world records. ÁÁ Booker T. Washington was the first African-American to be honored on a United States stamp. ÁÁ When her autobiographical work “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings” made the bestseller list, Maya Angelou became the first AfricanAmerican woman to author a non-fiction bestseller.
ÁÁ In 1975, Lee Elder became the first AfricanAmerican golfer to play in the Masters Tournament. Twentytwo years later, Tiger Woods would become the first African-American to win the prestigious tournament. ÁÁ The American Community Survey reported in 2005 that there were 2.4 million black military veterans in the United States, the highest of any minority group.
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Children’s Activities Cedar Point Gymnastics 135 Sherwood Ave, Cedar Point 252.393.7778 cedarpointgymnastics.com New Bern Gymnastics 260 Kale Road, New Bern 252.635.2100 newberngymnastics.com Ramires ATA 1034 W Corbett Ave, Swansboro 910.326.7677 ramiresatabba.com
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