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epending on your perspective, here comes the start of what could be an all “too quick” summer season, or as my Mother used to say, “the countdown to when you three boys go back to school.” Whether you will be counting down or hoping it lasts forever, we are blessed to be living in Coastal Carolina this summer. This issue of PARENT might help you prepare for this great season and stay safe, too. Remember the sun block as you enjoy the miles of beautiful beaches the coast has to offer. An investment now in skin protection will protect you and your children in the future from the hazards sun overexposure can cause. This edition of PARENT has many summer ideas for things to do with the family and to keep the kids busy. July 4th will be a great time but remember to check out the fireworks safety piece. Please remember the safety of your pets, too. Pets require shade and more water than usual. Museums, Aquariums, Historic sites, boating, fishing, beaches, cool movie theaters, good eating and shopping are all here. There will be some good rainy day TV, too with this year’s summer Olympics from London. Our advertisers have placed messages for you throughout the issue and look forward to welcoming you this summer. With the price of gas it pays more than ever to shop, play and dine local and you won’t regret it! We celebrate the many military families that have been reunited this year with the return of our troops, but there are still many in harms way and serving throughout the world. When we are all having fun this summer please remember those that are abroad defending our freedom and keep them in your prayers. Have a great summer and let the games begin.

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June - julY Volume 1 Number 4

8 Local Child Makes Impact

2012

By Lance Cpl. Jackeline Perez Rivera

New River Teen Wins Military Child of the Year

9 School’s Out For Summer

Discover engaging ways to keep your children active during the summer months

17 Fireworks Safety

Avoid injuries while celebrating with these useful tips

23 Summer Fun Close To Home

You don’t have to travel far this season for adventure

24 Don’t Forget The Sunscreen

BY SARAH ANDERSON

Minimize your family’s risk of skin cancer

36 6 Tips For Handling A Weather Emergency Prepare for Hurricane Season with this useful information

45 Common Parenting Mistakes

Parenting is all about trial and error, but we’ve compiled a list of behaviors to try and avoid

30 Expecting the unexpected

48 Community Calendar

33 Sensei Says

52 family Resources

Pregnancy column with Emily Hanke Local martial arts instructor provides insight to parents and their children

37 Monthly munchies A fun, family-friendly recipe

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Autism speaks Marine, father helps piece together puzzle STORY BY MAJ. BRADLEY GORDON

2012

My son has autism. There, I said it – not easy for a Marine and a proud father. More specifically, he has Asperger Syndrome. Some call it a disease, but it’s not. Let’s make sure that is clear up front. He is not a freak or weirdo, at least no more so than you or I. He is a young teen, working through the difficulties of puberty with the added bonus of learning, understanding, teaching and dealing with his diagnosis. Every parent looks at his children through rose-colored glasses. We can’t always see their imperfections because we don’t want to believe they have any. It is not until we remove our glasses and allow ourselves to accept the reality that our child may be “different” in some way do we let our guard down and do one of two things – deny or fight. I’ve chosen the latter because my son has chosen to fight against what society views as different, to make them aware, in his own way, using the means he is just now learning to understand. I, on the other hand, have more resources and tools in my life toolbox. I want to be his voice, his advocate, his sword and shield. One day he will be his own sword and shield. Until then he can rely on me to make sure the world knows that even though he may be a little different on the inside, he is as perfect as you are, as perfect as your children, as perfect as any person walking this Earth. Autism is now being diagnosed in one out of every 88 children in America, according to the U.S. Center for Disease Control and Prevention. More specifically, boys are diagnosed at the rate of one in every 54, a number that is 10 times greater than 40 years ago. The CDC has gone on the record as declaring autism as an epidemic. Autism affects more children in the U.S. than diabetes, AIDS, cancer, cerebral palsy, cystic

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fibrosis, muscular dystrophy or Down syndrome – combined. Part of this newfound epidemic is because of better diagnosis techniques and awareness campaigns within organizations such as Autism Speaks. I am sure there are many who will say “no way” because pediatricians and parents are attempting to explain behavior. Being a parent of a child with AS, I assure you, we weren’t looking for a reason, and we fought hard not to label our children. However, after many years of working with him, therapists, teachers and caregivers, we allowed him to have more intense testing to understand the complex make-up of our oftenmisunderstood oldest child. I was deployed in Helmand province, Afghanistan, when I found out my son had been officially diagnosed with AS. As a parent, I felt helpless. I don’t say hopeless because I know there is a sunny-side to all of life’s problems, you just have to get to the point you can turn the situation over and find it. I felt helpless because I wasn’t there to hold my boy’s hand. I wasn’t there to hold my wife’s hand. I wasn’t there to be the reassurance I knew they both needed. My son needed to know I would do anything for him, help him learn about AS, help him understand it, and help him develop the skills to beat it. All I could do was write an e-mail, talk on the phone or Skype (always a challenge when there are three boys in the house, all wanting to see me at the same time and tell me about their lives). I couldn’t be there to put my hand on his shoulder, give him that little physical touch I know helps him relax, remain calm and reassure him it will all work out. I felt helpless for my wife. Not only did she get this news that

we probably knew deep down, just weren’t ready to accept, but she had two other boys that she needed to care for and tend to while I was half-way across the globe, nine time zones away. Lacrosse and soccer practice, Cub Scouts, Boys Scouts, afterschool friends and weekend birthday parties needed to be taken care of, but they couldn’t receive the attention they deserved. She and my son needed to deal with this wrinkle in life. I was helpless to do anything about it. I’m a fixer, and being in Afghanistan, I couldn’t fix my family. I couldn’t fix the parts of my life that meant the most. There were four people in the world who needed me, and the moment they needed me most, I wasn’t there – I was helpless. What a lonely feeling it must be to receive this diagnosis, I cannot even imagine. As a young boy, to not have your father, a “tough” Marine, there to give a hand on the shoulder and say “everything is going to be alright. I’m not going to let anything hurt you.” It had to be devastating. What a lonely feeling it must

be to be sitting with her oldest son, the one who is so much like her it causes friction at times, to be there listening to the doctor tell you, tell your son, he is different according to societal norms. Wanting to be strong for her son, to have to play both mother and father and wanting to scream at the heavens “why” and cry and be vulnerable, but knowing she had to be the one to carry on and push him through it. She had to take more time with her oldest son to learn and understand about this new diagnosis, yet balance that with the equal time for the other two very active sons whose schedule in itself is a full-time job. Add to this the loneliness that there just aren’t many people who understand autism, let alone Asperger Syndrome. How do you talk about it in a combat zone? Who do you talk to about it? Are there others who deal with similar issues? Does the Marine Corps even understand? Does the Marine Corps have programs in place, do they have people available, do they know what services are required and

can they provide them to me in a combat zone, to my son, my wife and my other boys? In the spectrum of epidemics and world-threatening diseases, how much do we know about autism and AS? And if the medical world is still struggling to understand it, how can I expect the Marine Corps to empathize with me and help me understand and help my family? They say it takes a village to raise a child, and putting pride aside, my wife has leaned on the village to help raise not one, but three boys so she can focus on our eldest and understand him, teach and develop him, for him and with him. It takes a lot of energy, and each day I am not with my family is another day I feel more helpless. My wife and I may have actually been part of the problem, not the solution, for many years. I think we didn’t ask all of the questions because deep down, we didn’t want the answers. We didn’t want to allow someone else to pigeon-hole our son; however, in retrospect

we may have done just that. We allowed teachers, counselors and his peers to pigeon hole him and use that against him, all while we didn’t want to acknowledge it, buy into it or believe it. I’m sure we aren’t the only parents who feel that way, so if anything, I hope others will allow themselves to let go of their pride and be part of their child’s solution, not their problem. My son is a complex young man, wrapped in hormones, surrounded by a judgmental society, learning to deal with the curve ball life dealt him and only recently being able to put a name or a reason to his symptoms. He knew he was a smart kid, always has been. He often didn’t really listen in class because he didn’t feel he needed to since he picked up math, science, reading and comprehension just by looking through the book. While the rest of the class was learning how to add one plus one and get two, my son was already understanding the concepts of two times two making four. In his mind, class is beneath him because he gets it.

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New River teen wins Military Child of the Year about anything.” She found handling the stress of her father’s deployments and her experience as a big sister helped her build a barrier which kept her from being overwhelmed. Booth had to leave behind her love of softball when she discovered her sickness, but she found a new love in academics. “I put all of my energy into school,” said Booth. “I’ve had more time to dedicate to studying.” Her hard work shows. Booth landed a spot at the top of her class in Southwest High School. She balances her academics with a host of clubs such as the student council, StudentTo-Student, which helps new students with their transition into the school, National Honor Society, Students Against Destructive Decisions and Health Occupation Students of America. She also volunteers with

many organizations including the local USO, Lifestyles Insight Networking Knowledge and Skills program, Drug Education For Youth and the Onslow County Partnership for Children. She was able to take volunteering to a new level and become a mentor to children when working with DEFY. Through DEFY, the children learned life skills that would lead them away from drugs. “I educated them, but I was also their confidant,” said Booth. “I felt that (DEFY) was a place where I could really see an impact.” Booth worked with a group of children for a year, mentoring and fostering their growth. She saw the kids gain a greater degree of self-esteem. “Teenagers need (volunteer) experiences to realize not everything is monetary,” said Booth. “You can have an emotional gain. Even adults

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Erika Booth, a military youth aboard Marine Corps Air Station New River, was recently recognized as Operation Homefront’s Military Child of the Year for the Marine Corps due to her incredible ability to thrive despite hardships. Booth is a frequent volunteer. She helps take care of her 13-year-old brother who is autistic, all while handling the effects of lupus, an autoimmune disease in which antibodies attack normal cells. One of the medications she takes to treat it is a blood thinner that puts her at risk of severe bleeding if injured. When Booth was diagnosed with lupus she drew upon her life as a military child to give her the resilience she needed to make it through. “I went from being relatively healthy to having to take (multiple) medications,” said Booth. “I never had to go to the doctor and I never had to worry

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Zumba STORY BY JESSIE HEATH

While summer may be the time for most teenagers to lounge on the beach or catch up on their favorite television shows, teens aboard Marine Corps Base Camp Lejeune are looking for ways to stay active. Over spring break, teens met at Tarawa Terrace Community Center aboard the MCB Camp Lejeune housing area, for an hourlong group exercise Zumba class with Zumba instructor Tanita Silversmith. “Teen Zumba is something we were really excited to be able to do here, because it’s a different group of patrons than we normally work with,” said Lynn Ramirez, group exercise coordinator, Semper Fit Division, Marine Corps Community Services. “It’s a win-win situation for the kids programs because it gives both our groups something to do. The youth program supplies the kids and we supply the instructors.” The idea for a teen-based group exercise class stemmed from a parent who called Ramirez and wanted to attend the adult group exercise Zumba class with her daughter. Due to license restrictions, patrons under 16 years of age do not attend adult-based group exercise classes, but Ramirez wanted to find a way to offer exercise options to younger patrons aboard MCB Camp Lejeune. “Even the young (patrons) who don’t play sports on base need something to keep them active,” said Ramirez. “We started looking for a way to reach out to the patrons we don’t typically get to interact with. Things fell into place from there.” Silversmith’s energy and enthusiasm proved to be a perfect fit for the teen Zumba class. In her first Zumba class, Silversmith appealed to the young patrons by using a mixture of popular music and dance moves in a way that Ramirez doesn’t believe would work nearly as well if older instructors tried to follow her lead. “(Silversmith) is just a great person, all around,” explained Ramirez. “She’s obviously active, she’s friendly and outgoing, and a good role model all around - especially for these younger girls who are attending the teen Zumba class. “She has a fresh form and is new to doing this, but she is doing a fantastic job,” added Ramirez. “I think this age group will do a lot better learning from her and have more fun with

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her than they would trying to follow one of our older instructors on staff.” Keeping her teens moving to the beat, Silversmith led them through an hour’s worth of music and dance moves, laughing with the young patrons when they got lost and showing her fun side by incorporating moments of freestyle into her easy-to-follow routines. Making traditional Zumba dances work for teenagers involved breaking down each step into a simple pattern, while continuing to work different muscles and body parts. Because the physical ability of a young teenager is different than that of a fully-grown adult, many Zumba moves are modified or changed to help teens get the best possible workout. “At the end of the day, we want to get these guys and girls up and moving, but we want them to have f u n

doing it,” said Ramirez. “We want to make it available to them and keep them engaged in such a way that they don’t even think about the fact that they are exercising.” T h e

teen Zumba class is not the only way the group exercise classes are extending their reach to some of MCB Camp Lejeune’s youngest patrons. In the future, Ramirez has planned Zumbatomic classes for children ages 4 to 16. These classes not only provide time for kids and teens to get active, but also give parents an opportunity to do something with their children.

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Sesame Street performs for Marine Families Story by Amy Binkley

Sunny days have swept the clouds away, and Sesame Street has been found. Marine Corps Base Camp Lejeune was a welcomed stop for Elmo and his friends as they rolled onto base with their customized tour bus as part of the Sesame Street/USO Experience for Military Families at the base theater, recently. The tour, which has traveled to military installations around the world, came back stateside to introduce a new character, a new story and a new way to help military children deal with their unique lifestyles. “Our nation’s military community is our top priority, especially our youngest heroes,” said Sloan Gibson, USO president and CEO. Headlining Phase Six of the targeted show is the new kid on the block, Katie, a military child who is sad about having to relocate with her family. With the help of Elmo, Cookie Monster and other friends, Katie learns that moving doesn’t have to be

scary and making new friends can be fun. Katie was introduced by First Lady Michelle Obama and Dr. Jill Biden at a Joining Forces rally in April 2011. “Our goal is to reach as many military children and their families as we can with Elmo and Katie’s message of hope and resilience,” explained H. Melvin Ming, Sesame Workshop president and CEO. “And as we begin our sixth phase of this tour, we are proud to see the growing number of troops and their families reached by this effort.” The first five phases of the experience dealt with focused on helping kids deal with their feelings when mommy or daddy are deployed and have to leave home for several months. Tickets for the three, free performances went fast as parents planned weeks in advance to bring their little ones to learn and meet their

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was not only educational but also helpful in passing time since her husband deployed. “I’m trying to keep them as busy as possible,” she responded. “It’s neat for her to be able to relate the things she sees on television to what she’s seeing in real life.” The military-focused show was the perfect celebration of Month of the Military Child, as hundreds of kids and their parents filled the theater’s

seats. While singing and dancing filled most of the 30-minute show time, the event also educated children on the inevitability of having to move to a new place while being a military child. “I loved the theme – moving, making new friends,” noted Fiorenda Pierre, a military spouse who came with her three sons. “We always talk about it. They’re so young and

they get sad about moving. It’s cool when Elmo explains it.” Rebekah Schler knows what it’s like to relocate with a child because of the military. Her son is only one and has already moved three times. “He may be young, but he definitely knew something was different (when we moved),” she admitted. “I think it’s helpful to be with other kids who know what he’s going through. It’s nice to know someone cares.” Katie danced along with Grover and Rosita and learned that meeting new friends means one step forward, one step at a time. “This show is the vehicle to the tools that start a dialogue to help (kids) make new friends,” explained Tom Zaizar, Sesame Workshop company manager. “When it happens to them, they’ll be able to relate it back to this and start a discussion. It gives kids insight and security knowing they’ll be all right.” Zaizar was careful to point out that the show isn’t just for children but for families. “One of the great things

about this show is that it really brings families together,” he said. “There’s a moment when (parents) see their kids’ faces light up, and they look at each other and understand that this is a good thing.” The focus may have been different, but Sesame Street is far from new, teaching everything from the alphabet to healthy eating for decades on educational television ­“This show is for kids of all ages,” replied Zaizar. “A lot of the adults now are the first generation of Sesame Street (viewers). It’s a tradition. Who knows? Twenty years down the road they could be coming in with their own families to watch a show like this.” In the past four years, according to the website, the tour has taken its message to more than 248,000 troops and military families and performed 433 shows on 131 military bases in 33 states and eleven countries. In total, the tour has logged more than 106,500 miles. For more information, visit uso.org/sesame.

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Summer vacation often starts with high expectations. Children are excited about the prospect of fun days outdoors playing with friends, while parents await relaxing without the responsibilities of school and extracurricular clubs. But once summer vacation arrives and the first few days have passed, parents often find that the litany of cheers and giggles transform into a chorus of “I’m bored.” Many parents pore over ideas that will keep their children busy all summer. Many activities that come to mind tend to be expensive, so parents might need to think outside the box to come up with entertaining ideas that won’t break the bank. Day Trips If a parent is off for the summer, then day trips may be a possibility. Schedule a few day trips to different locations that the kids are excited to see.

Newspapers routinely print “Go See It” or “Just Go” listings that highlight local events. The family can gather around the table and decide which outings would be interesting and then mark them on the calendar. Some parents purchase season passes to amusement parks and take the kids several times over the summer. In either case, bring snacks and lunch from home when possible to keep costs in check. Kid Swap Chances are many of your neighbors are also facing the same difficulties a s they t r y

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self as the defender of his daughter’s virtue, while she sees her father as a prison guard. Finding a balance can keep the lines of communication -and love -- open. Be available Frequently spending time together and showing an interest in what she likes can keep conversations going. It may be difficult to focus on the latest trends or which guy she’s rooting for in “The Hunger Games,” but spending time in each other’s presence can continue to build on the foundation of comfort and trust. Cherish the little things Before you know it, she’ll be out of the house and fully immersed in her own life. So make the most of opportunities to share time together while they’re still available. Lead by example Show her how much you love her mother and ingrain those images in her mind. They say girls often lean toward men who emulate their own fathers. her boyfriend It’s alright to be over-protective --

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teachers, parents and children from base in the all-night event. “This illness isn’t limited,” she said. “It affects us all. We represent a military base, but we’re here to serve the people and teach the kids to support a good cause. This is a great community event, not just a Camp Lejeune thing.” Age is not a determining factor when cancer chooses its targets. The evening’s youngest survivor was four-year-old Taeler

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t’s summer in North Carolina. The heat is growing more relentless each day. The kids want something to do. Grab the swim suits, beach towels, & sun block and head out to Hexagon Wake Park at Tucker Lake in Benson, NC. While everyone else is fighting the crowds at the beach, you and your family can enjoy the clear water and white sandy beaches at the #1 crystal clear lake in the area. Hexagon Wake Park at Tucker Lake is more than just a swimming hole. This spring-fed lake features fun for the entire family with beach volleyball, rope swings, 4 acres of shaded picnic area with grills and tables, a bath house, jungle gym playground, soft play water toys, kid slides, boat rentals, and a 167ft twisting waterslide. Looking for a little more thrill than waterslides and rope swings? Opening for the first time this year, Hexagon Wake Park at Tucker Lake will have a cable wake park for those into extreme sports. What is cable wakeboarding? It’s just like regular wakeboarding, but instead of being pulled by a boat, the rider is pulled by an overhead cable system. Cable wakeboarding is more environmentally friendly and you can do some pretty amazing tricks on the system that are much harder to do behind a boat. Cable wakeboarding is ideal for those seeking excitement without the expense of owning a boat. The only expense you have to worry about is the cost of equipment and the cable pass for the park. Who wants to worry with boat maintenance, lake traffic, water and air pollution, and especially filling a boat with gas? Getting your kicks on the Hexagon Wake Park will save you tons of money without sacrificing the fun. Beginners and advanced riders will all have a blast whether just being pulled or catching air and doing tricks. Tucker Lake and the Hexagon Wake Park are ideal locations for birthday parties, school groups, and church groups. The Hexagon Wake Park will be offering a day camp this summer for children ages five and older. The pristine beaches and crystal clear water is a perfect place for kids to swim and play, cruise around on canoes or paddleboats, or just enjoy the great outdoors. The Hexagon Wake Park at Tucker Lake beaches are now open for the season and hours are from 10am to 6pm Monday through Thursday and 10am to 7pm Friday to Sunday. There is an admission fee of $10 for those ages 12 and older, $5 for ages 3-11, and free for 2 and under. No credit, debit, or checks are accepted, so be sure to bring cash or use the park ATM. There will be an additional fee for the cable park. Guests are welcome to bring chairs, rafts, food, and drinks, but the Snack Shack will be open to vend short order foods, floats, suntan lotion, and more.

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made me fairly difficult to deal with. My poor husband, bless his heart… He deserves an award. We have our shower coming up and hopefully that will help me get the ball rolling on getting baby stuff done. I know I should get these done, but I’m a little hesitant to start anything big until we find out some news on my husband’s work situation. As a Marine, he is required to go anywhere and do anything that is required of him and I completely understand that. We just got news that he was flagged for recruiting duty which brings the possibility of having to move. I’m less than thrilled. I can’t imagine trying to pick up and move to who-knows-where with a newborn, two cats, and two rather large dogs. Oh the life of a military wife! By the time the next edition of Coastal Carolina Parent is in your hands, I may very well be on maternity leave. Now that I read that, I realize just how close to the finish line I really am. And from there, the next chapter of the story begins!

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rystal Ann Cavalier has never been one to seek attention. She finds comfort in helping others, providing whatever she can without asking for fear or recognition. So, when recognition comes her way, it is hard for her to understand why. “I don’t feel like I do anything that other military spouses don’t do,” Cavalier admitted. “I’m glad (my husband) wants to recognize my hard work. That says a lot.” Cavalier, who has an obvious compassion for others, works to better the quality of life for herself, her family and everybody she comes into contact with.

Friendly and outgoing, Cavalier strives to make a difference in the lives of other military spouses and families. She started assisting families stationed at Fort Bragg, but quickly expanded her efforts to help military families across the United States, as well as those stationed overseas. When service members and their families were facing payday problems in spring of 2011, Cavalier volunteered to be the 8th District Congressional Military Family Caucus Chair and held several meetings with her congressman to discuss how the problem would affect military families. Cavalier has also taken the iniative to start a non-profit organization called Support Our

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Building a Positive Self-Image All true champions have it. For some it comes easily; others must work hard to attain it. Everyone agrees it is an essential ingredient to a successful journey along the path to Black Belt. What is this important trait? You guessed it! A positive self-image. A positive self-image is important because the way you picture yourself is bound to affect the way things turn out for you. For example, if you think of yourself as someone who is “good in math,” then you will probably do well on your next math test. The same is true of the Martial Arts. If you hold a positive image of yourself, then you are more likely to achieve positive results from your training. The crucial point to remember is this: a negative self-image leads to defeat; a positive self-image leads to victory. Sometimes it’s tempting to measure your self-image against the qualities and opinions of others. Even though it might seem difficult at times, don’t let anyone decide how you should see yourself! People can certainly help reinforce your positive self-image, but no one should ever convince you to doubt your abilities. Having a positive self-image doesn’t mean you have to pretend to be perfect. Recognize that you have strong points as well as weak ones, just like everyone else. And never be ashamed of your abilities. You must like yourself and believe in yourself so that others will too! A positive self-image doesn’t appear out of thin air. You can improve your self-image by following a few suggestions: 1. Honestly evaluate your present self-image. Get a clear picture of how you view yourself. Identify those qualities you admire and those you would like to change. Then dedicate yourself to making the changes. 2. Concentrate on succeeding in the future. Everyone has experienced failures or regretted certain actions. Look to the future and try your best to put the setbacks behind you. 3. Develop a positive relationship with the people in your life. This is especially important with your instructor, teammates, and others who influence your training. Let them know they can count on you, and take the kind of actions that encourage them to expect great things from you. 4. Develop personal habits you can be proud of. Show the pride you take in your appearance by dressing neatly and keeping yourself well groomed. Resolve to be on time wherever you go. These habits will improve other people’s image of you and will boost your own self-image. 5. Finally, expect great things of yourself and push harder. Remember, we strive to live up to our own expectations. So expect to make progress. Expect to succeed in your goals. Expect great things of yourself and you will achieve them. As your self-image grows, so does your pride. With a positive self-image, you are that much closer to great achievements. James Wright is the proprietor of Wright’s Extreme Martial Arts and Family Karate Center Academy, Jacksonville, NC.

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and distribution of child pornography, which is a felony. They also discussed what could happen if the pictures land in the wrong hands. “They send a photograph of themselves nude or seminude to someone who sends it to someone else,” said Special Agent Dana Shutt. “In essence it will go viral on the Internet and there’s nothing that law enforcement can do about it.” Linda Taffie, a teacher at the school felt that while the students had heard the information before that having the special agents who have witnessed the scenarios the teens have been warned about made it more of a reality to them. Many of the teens were interested in a future in criminal justice. The agents also spend time discussing their work, giving an overview of what NCIS does while sharing with the teenagers a hint of what life as an NCIS agent is like. “We like to give them the opportunity to experience what people do first hand,” said Taffie. “We have a nurturing way about us (at Lejeune High School). We try to bring (our students) as many real world experiences as we can.” The presentation was a part of a weeklong series of presentations that aimed to give the high school seniors information they could use after graduation. The presentations included such topics as finances, higher education, avoiding substance abuse and concluded with Internet safety.

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Kayak for the Warriors - Pine Knoll Shores, NC Kayak and bike races are just part of the fun planned during this event. Visit their website for more information or to register

June 15

2nd Annual Military Heroes Golf Classic - Jacksonville, NC

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9th Annual NC Blueberry Festival

June 8

Thalian Association Children’s Theater Presents, “CAMP ROCK”

Festival hosted by Historic Downtown Burgaw, nestled in the heart of Pender County. For more information, call (910) 259-9817.

events in support of the exhibit will take place in Pender County throughout the summer. Sponsored by Smithsonian Institution, North Carolina Humanities Council, and Journey Stories Pender Partners.

Children’s Discovery Gallery

The Onslow County Museum is opening an exhibit “The Night Sky” through mid-November. The exhibit is hands-on and interactive for children and toddlers. Family Summer Fun Passes available for $15 per household. Good for unlimited visits throughout the exhibition. Regular admission $2 for adults and $1 for children 13-18. For more information, visit www. onslowcountync.gov/museum or call (910) 324-5008.

7-9pm, June 8-17 (Sunday performance is at 3pm ). $10. Historic Hannah Block Community Arts Center Based on a Disney Channel Original Movie written by Dan Berendsen and Karin Gist & Regina Hicks, and on characters created by Karin Gist & Regina Hicks and Julie Brown & Paul Brown. This summer at camp was supposed to be all about the music and having the time of their lives. But the new, flashy Camp Star across the lake now threatens Camp Rock’s very existence. To keep the doors open, Mitchie steps up, rallies her fellow Camp Rockers, and gets them into top shape for the ultimate showdown! This new musical based on the hit Disney Channel Original Movies Camp Rock and Camp Rock 2: The Final Jam will fire up your stage with over a dozen songs, including “This Is Me,” “Can’t Back Down,” “It’s On,” and “We Rock.”

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June 9

9am. Possumwood Acres hosts a funfilled Day Camp that will enrich and teach children about the importance of NC wildlife.

1pm. Richlands Library. Creatures of the Night is an exploration into the sights and sounds, truths and fictions of crepuscular and nocturnal creatures, how we diurnal humans relate to them, and how we can be involved in the beauty of our world, and worlds beyond, after the sun goes down.

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11am-3pm. Pender County Public Library. This national traveling exhibit is featured at Pender County Public Library until August 4, 2012. Special

1pm. Main Library Jacksonville. Creatures of the Night is an exploration into the sights and sounds, truths and fictions of crepuscular and nocturnal creatures.

Learning Center: Creative Chemistry

1pm-4pm. Cape Fear Museum of History & Science, Wilmington. Is Oobleck a liquid or a solid? What does an atom look like? Find out as you investigate matter. Explore solids, liquids, and gases and experiment with mixtures! Unravel a colorful mystery and experiment with acids and bases.

Cape Fear Skies: Greek Myths and Legends

1:30pm-4pm; (Program offered at 1:30, 2:30 & 3:30pm). Cape Fear Museum of History & Science, Wilmington. 3-2-1-Blast off! Cape Fear Skies offers your family a realistic planetarium experience the third Sunday of each month. Venture into outer space as you explore the night sky while listening to Greek star-inspired stories. Parental participation is required.

June 19

Childcare Network Day Camp at PAWS

9am. Possumwood Acres hosts a funfilled Day Camp that will enrich and teach children about the importance of NC wildlife.

June 21

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Teenage Dream - The Ultimate Katy Perry Tribute Band 7pm-9pm; (Doors open at 6:30. Come early for general admission seating.). $10. Kenan Auditorium UNCW. Enjoy an evening of top pop artist Katy Perry’s music faithfully recreated by Teenage Dream - The Ultimate Katy Perry Tribute Band. Be ready to be entertained with chart topping hits!

June 25

Boys and Girls Club at PAWS

9am. Possumwood Acres hosts a funfilled Day Camp that will enrich and teach children about the importance of NC wildlife.

June 26

Creatures of the Night

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July 3

Seven in One Blow - the children’s show

July 3-7. Tuesday 2pm-3pm. Thursday 2pm-3pm. Saturday 11am-12pm. $5 - $15 * contact the Presenting Organization listed below for ticketing information. Cullman Performance Hall at Tryon Palace. The ECU/Loessin Summer Theatre presents “Seven in One Blow”, a children’s theatre play, developed by Randy Sharp and the Axis Theatre company of NY, a contemporary “take” on the Grimm Brothers’ classic fairy tale with princesses, monsters, ogres and even a talking green-pea.

July 4

July 4 Freedom Festival

Wednesday, July 4 3:00 pm at Onslow CO. Pines Park Administrative Office, Jacksonville, NC. The Onslow County Parks and Recreation Department and Daily News are sponsoring the 29th Annual Freedom Festival on July 4, 2012 Onslow Pines Park. Scheduled activities, Games, Rides and Vendor Booths will begin at 3 p.m. and the Patriotic fireworks display will be at 9:00pm Live entertainment on two stages featuring Galon Pope & SweetWater and Flatbed Dixie Band, beginning at 5pm.

Nature Totes

8am at Clark Park Nature Center, Fayetteville, NC. The Nature Center offers Nature Totes available for check out. Each tote is designed for children Pre-K to 4th grade. Nature totes contain books, games, lessons and hands-on activities, art and more. Totes can be kept for 1 week from the date of check out. Subjects include birds, trees, mammals, wildlife gardening, spiders/insects and amphibians/reptiles.

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6:30pm - 8:30pm at Pullen Park, Raleigh, NC. Raleigh Drum Circle drum-

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July 5

Emerald Isle Day Camp at PAWS

10am. Possumwood Acres hosts a funfilled Day Camp that will enrich and teach children about the importance of NC wildlife.

July 9

Summer Youth Theater Camp

9am - 4pm at Clare Hall Performing Arts Center St. Francis of Assisi, Raleigh, NC. Price: $210 per week. Full time youth theater camp. Weeks of July 9, 16 & 23. Rising 2nd to rising 8th graders. Aladdin Jr. Join us for our 15 summer of all day camps. Mornings are spent rotating in small groups to specialists in yoga, art, music, creative drama, film studies. Afternoons we run the show! Camp culminates in two full performances. $210 per week.$25 before/after care. 11401 Leesville Road, Raleigh. Clare Hall, Campus of St. Francis of Assisi. (919) 264-7089.

July 11

Boys and Girls Club at PAWS

9am. Possumwood Acres hosts a funfilled Day Camp that will enrich and teach children about the importance of NC wildlife.

July 12

Creatures of the Night

1pm. Swansboro Library. Creatures of the Night is an exploration into the sights and sounds, truths and fictions of crepuscular and nocturnal creatures.

July 14

A Time for Science Saturday Family Fun Day

9am-11am. $5 Adult, $3 Child. A Time for Science Nature and Science Learning Center Grifton, NC. Experience nature in a fashion unique to the season by means of a guided walk through some portion of the nature conservancy,

then enjoy a related nature-craft activity. Register by July 13. Call for more information.

July 17

Creatures of the Night

1pm. New River Air Station Library. Creatures of the Night is an exploration into the sights and sounds, truths and fictions of crepuscular and nocturnal creatures.

July 19

Bow-Wow Bingo

6pm-8pm. $20. Pitt County Schools and Recreation Greenville, NC. The BowWow Bingo event is a way to show support for homeless animals. All proceeds will be split between Humane Society of Eastern Carolina and Spay Today, a low-cost spay and neuter clinic. Call 252-412-6651 for more information.

July 20

Boys and Girls Club at PAWS

9am. Possumwood Acres hosts a funfilled Day Camp that will enrich and teach children about the importance of NC wildlife.

July 21

Take Your Parents Outside Day

12pm-4pm. Cape Lookout National Seashore Harker’s Island, NC. Cape Lookout National Seashore is hosting “Take Your Parents Outside Day.” Learn how to set up an environmentally friendly campsite, learn to fish with poles and nets, and go on a nature hike and complete a GPS scavenger hunt. The entire family is welcome but younger children will be required to wear life jackets, if they get into the water.

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Boys and Girls Club at PAWS

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Continued from page 47 but it was all worth it. One of the sailors’ projects was to fix rafts and walk boards in the nearby pond for the ducks to use. During the project to fix the rafts, two sailors leaned a little too far out of the canoe they shared and tipped over into the water. In spite of the accident, the sailors kept their motivation and got the job done. “We just stood up and pushed the canoe back to shore,” said Petty Officer 3rd Class Frank Bowman, with the Group Aid Station, Combat Logistics Regiment 27, 2nd Marine Logistics Group. “It was definitely all worth it. It’s not too often that I get to do that. I have a great appreciation for animals. I always have, ever since I was young. We didn’t actually get to work with the animals, but we were trying to improve their homes. It was good to have this opportunity.” Rita Rendon, a wildlife enthusiast and volunteer with Possomwood Acres, said the sanctuary is a place for people to bring injured animals who cannot necessarily survive in the wild on their own. “Possomwood Acres educates people on wildlife rehabilitation,”

said Rita Rendon, a wildlife enthusiast and volunteer with Possomwood Acres. “A lot of people don’t know that you can’t just rescue an animal, you have to be licensed.” Rendon added that in order to rescue birds, one has to be federally licensed. For mammals, one would have to be state licensed. “I took a course (to get my licenses) and it gave me so much joy that I could volunteer,” said Rendon. Rendon added that during certain seasons or during inclement weather, they have almost all their cages and tanks filled with sick or injured animals, which can be somewhat difficult to take care of due to that fact that Possomwood Acres is a non-profit organization and run solely by volunteers work. “She does it all on her own, the moneyshegetsfromteachingbiology and wildlife rehabilitation is the money she uses for the sanctuary,” said Rendon. “Everything else we get is by donation.” For more information about Possomwood Acres, visit the website possumwoodacres.org.

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