2025-08-23 - The Southern Ocean Times

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August 23, 2025

Seniors Find More Than Meals At Community Café

By Stephanie Faughnan

MANAHAWKINJenny Caban never expected to find love again at 80 years old, and certainly not over lunch. But when she first locked eyes with Felix Martinez, 90, at the Meals on Wheels Community Café in Manahawkin, the spark was undeniable.

“It was love at fi rst sight,” Jenny recalled with a wide smile. Within a few years, the couple became such a fi xture at the café that staff staged a mock wedding for them in 2022, complete with a borrowed gown, cake, and plenty of laughter. Theirs isn’t the only romance to blossom inside the cheerful space where Ocean County seniors gather daily. Meals on Wheels of Ocean County - which recently passed its 50th anniversary - has become much more than a meal service. It is a place where empty kitchens and

lonely afternoons are replaced with friendship, companionship - and sometimes even marriage.

unconventional twist on volleyball - a giant soft ball tossed across a circle of seated participants.

Where Companionship Is On The Menu

Five days a week, the Manahawkin café buzzes with life long before the lunch bell rings. Seniors trickle in mid-morning, ready for crafts, speakers, and activities. Some days, it’s chair aerobics; other times, an

“It’s not just about the food,” explained Patty Mosier, the activities director. “The most important part is the socialization. People get to sit with peers, share conversations that matter, and build friendships. Some of those friendships turn into Atlantic City bus trips together -

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What Happens When Dottie’s House Closes?

By Stephanie Faughnan

BRICK - When “Patty” first walked into Dottie’s House more than a decade ago, she broke down in tears. The modest three-bedroom apartment was more than just a place to live. It was, as she described it, “a beautiful little home” - a safe space where she and her children could begin again.

Patty is not her real name, but a pseudonym to protect her family’s privacy. A

stay-at-home mom, she had made the painful choice to leave an emotionally abusive marriage, bringing her many children with her. Like so many survivors, Patty didn’t realize what she had endured was domestic violence until a friend gently gave it a name.

Her first stop had been her mother’s house, but it was far too crowded to be a long-term

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Sex Abuse Suits Filed Against School, Diocese

By Stephanie Faughnan

LACEY - A second lawsuit has been filed against the Lacey Township Board of Education, alleging that a former Roman Catholic priest who later worked as an elementary school teacher sexually abused a young student in the district during the late 1970s.

The latest complaint, filed in Essex County Superior Court, names W. S. Doe, born in 1970, as the plaintiff. The lawsuit claims that Fr. Lawrence Gadek, a former priest of the Archdiocese of Newark who taught at Lanoka Harbor Elementary School, abused her repeatedly between 1977 and 1980, beginning when she was just six years old

The case follows a 2024 lawsuit brought by another plaintiff whose name appears in court filings. Although her name is included in the complaint, this newspaper has elected to identify her by the initials F.H. to protect her privacy. F.H. was eight years old when she alleged that Gadek abused her for the fi rst time. She attended Forked River Elementary School and Lanoka Harbor Elementary School between 1977 and 1981. She claimed the abuse occurred almost daily and included fondling, digital penetration, and nude photographs. Both women are represented by attorney Gabriel C. Magee of Baldante &

(Suits - See Page 5)

A Lifeline For Domestic Violence Survivors

By Stephanie Faughnan

is not always visible. It can take the form of bruises and broken bones, but it can also mean withheld paychecks, relentless humiliation, or threats that leave someone too afraid to leave. Recognizing that abuse is multifaceted, Providence House Domestic Violence Services in Ocean County has been a refuge for survivors since 1986, offering

both safety and support to those in crisis. “We provide crisis services for survivors of domestic violence in Ocean County,” said Mary Pettrow, Service Area Director of Children and Family Services at Catholic Charities, Diocese of Trenton. “That includes emergency housing for people fleeing abusive situations. Survivors can stay in our safe house for up to 60 days.”

(Survivors - See Page 14)

Turn To Page 10 to read about The Cruise That Almost Didn’t Happen

Seniors:

Continued From Page 1 and, yes, sometimes into romances.”

That’s how John Bryant, 95, and his wife Cynthia, 72, met. Both living in Perry’s Lake, they were nudged together by café site manager Lorraine Flohr.

“She told us to sit together at lunch, and the rest was history,” Cynthia laughed. Married for a year and a half now, the pair credits Lorraine’s gentle matchmaking.

For many participants, these connections fill the quiet spaces left by the loss of a spouse or distance from family. Hunger, in this sense, isn’t always about food. Sometimes it’s about yearning for human connection and fi nding it across a lunch table.

The café is proof that getting older doesn’t mean losing the spark of fun. A recent “Groovy ’70s Party” had seniors dancing to disco classics, before gathering for a hot meal.

Each weekday, lunch is served with a nutritious entrée designed by a qualified nutritionist to meet at least one-third of the USDA’s recommended daily allowances.

Seniors are invited to make a voluntary $3 donation, but no one is ever turned away.

Ocean Ride buses bring participants to

the Manahawkin café (located at 179 South Main Street), while similar sites operate in Brick, Jackson, Waretown, and Little Egg Harbor, often with municipal transport. The only eligibility requirement? Being 60 or older and ready to join in.

More Than Meals

Meals on Wheels of Ocean County delivers more than 260,000 meals each year to about 1,700 seniors. But its leadership knows the need is growing - and the mission is expanding.

At an open house in August, the organization unveiled its strategic plan for the years ahead.

“Meals on Wheels is entering an exciting new chapter,” said Heather deJong, Director of Advancement and Engagement. “As part of our new strategic plan, Meals on Wheels of Ocean County is strengthening the way we deliver care, foster connection, and build community for our seniors across Ocean County.”

“This plan is designed not only to sustain our mission today but to ensure its impact for generations to come,” deJong continued. “To better serve more seniors efficiently, we’re also implementing new technology solutions for meal routing and preparation,

improving our operations to meet the growing needs of all seniors”

DeJong emphasized the organization’s investment in technology to improve meal routing and preparation, helping serve more seniors more efficiently. Alongside her, newly introduced staff members Jhanna Even, Director of Development, and Angela Gallucci, Marketing and Communications Coordinator, will help lead the charge.

Voices Of Support

Wyatt Earp, longtime board president, spoke candidly about the difference between Meals on Wheels and a commercial food delivery service. “Think about it,” Earp said. “Uber Eats drops food at your door and runs. Our drivers stop, say hello, and check on your wellbeing. That makes all the difference.”

Ocean County Commissioner Robert Arace praised the program as a “family” for those who might otherwise feel alone. “Knowing that there’s a program like Meals on Wheels, where every weekday, someone provides a meal, says hello, and makes sure seniors are okay, is incredibly important. I plan on being an extremely strong advocate for this program.”

Mark

Dinglasan, Executive Director of

the New Jersey Office of Food Security Advocate, urged the community to dream big and urged the county to consider its own office of food security. “Make your dream so scary that hunger becomes afraid of it. Food security is about more than just a meal. Love, gratefully. Love each other. Gratefully love your community.”

“Meals on Wheels can serve a senior for an entire year at the same cost as just one day in the hospital,” said Joe Stroffolino, Strategic Plan Co-Chair and Causeway Family of Dealerships executive. “That’s very efficient and responsible spending.”

The Recipe That Keeps on Giving Drivers for Meals on Wheels of Ocean County have conducted wellness checks that saved lives. Its cafés have sparked friendships, romances, and marriages. Its community partners have ensured sustainability and growth.

“The message is ‘more than food,’” said Maria LaFace, Director of Senior Services for Ocean County. “Meals on Wheels is about care and connection - about making sure no senior feels forgotten.”

Jenny and Felix would agree. Between crafts, chair volleyball, and plenty of shared lunches, they’ve discovered not just nourishment but joy, and a future together.

Culinary Enthusiasts Invited To Library Gathering

BARNEGAT – Food lovers are invited to join the Culinary Enthusiast Club for a meeting on August 27 at 1 p.m. at the

Barnegat Branch of the Ocean County Library, 112 Burr Street. Attendees are encouraged to share their

favorite foods and restaurant recommendations with fellow participants. Guests are welcome to bring a personal dish,

especially one that reflects their cultural heritage.

The event is open to the public.

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Allegations Of Abuse

According to both lawsuits, Gadek used his authority as a teacher to isolate his students under the guise of providing “extra help” or “counseling sessions.” The complaints detail instances where Gadek allegedly forced the girls to undress, touched them inappropriately, required them to masturbate, and photographed them.

In F.H.’s case, she said Gadek would take her out of class for “extra help” with her schoolwork. He would then take her to his “classroom” for these extra help sessions, which was actually just a small office/room in the school.

During the fi rst episode of sexual abuse, Gadek allegedly asked F.H. to pull aside her top so that he could see her shoulder. She complied with this request because Gadek was in a position of power and

authority over her and she was scared and intimidated. Thereafter, the sexual abuse progressed very quickly. Gadek started to touch her chest area and then removed the child’s shirt, and began to rub/fondle her breasts. Gadek warned F.H. and stated that, “You better not tell.” She also complied with this command not to tell anyone due to fear, intimidation, and Gadek’s position of power and authority as a teacher.

The sexual abuse escalated according to the claims made by F.H. to the point that the teacher would have her remove her underwear. He would then touch, rub, and/ or fondle the child’s breasts, thighs, and vaginal area.

According to the legal complaint, Gadek continued to abuse F.H. daily after she was transferred to Lanoka Harbor Elementary School. After directing her to remove her clothes, Gadek would then instruct the child to masturbate. When she was in the fourth grade, F.H. claims the teacher took naked pictures of her.

Gadek allegedly visited her home, be-

Free Document Shredding

LITTLE EGG HARBOR — Ocean County will hold a free document shredding event on October 18 at 1 Sports Complex Drive. The event runs from 9 a.m. to noon or until the truck is full.

The program is part of the county’s 2025 Residential Document Shredding Program, sponsored by the Ocean County Board of

Commissioners and the Department of Solid Waste Management.

Residents may bring up to four boxes of paper. Black plastic bags, batteries, electronics, books, junk mail, greeting cards, photos, X-rays and CDs will not be accepted.

For more information, visit co.ocean. nj.us/recycle.

friended her grandmother, and then took her back to school where he attempted to abuse her again. Ultimately, F.H. revealed her teacher’s actions to her grandmother. She believes her now deceased grandmother reported the sexual abuse to school authorities.

In W. S. Doe’s complaint, Gadek allegedly asked sexually explicit questions, took nude photographs, and forced her to expose herself on a weekly basis throughout second, third, and fourth grade.

Both lawsuits accuse the Lacey Township Board of Education and the Archdiocese of Newark of negligence in hiring, supervising, and retaining Gadek. The filings claim that both institutions knew or should have known about his history of sexual abuse yet placed him in positions of authority over children.

Gadek was ordained as a priest in 1955 and served in the Archdiocese until 1966, including at St. Catherine’s Church in Hillside, where he was accused of abusing another girl between 1960 and 1962. That

claim was settled in January 2020 for a mid–six figure sum.

The Archdiocese of Newark publicly listed Gadek in 2019 as a priest with “multiple credible allegations” of sexual abuse of minors. He was permanently removed from ministry and laicized, which is the process by which a priest is formally dismissed from the ministry.

Civil Case And Legal Standing Gadek’s name does not appear on New Jersey’s Megan’s Law sex offender registry. The lawsuits are civil claims, seeking damages under New Jersey’s expanded statute of limitations for victims of child sexual abuse.

No criminal charges appear to have been fi led, and Gadek is considered innocent unless proven guilty in a court of law.

Both plaintiffs say they continue to suffer long-term emotional and psychological trauma, including post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, panic attacks, and difficulty maintaining relationships.

Town Seeks Scenic Photos For Calendar

WARETOWN – The Township of Ocean is seeking color, scenic photographs of local landscapes for its 2026 annual calendar, which will be distributed to all residents.

Photos may be submitted by email to clerk@twpoceannj.gov or in person at the Township of Ocean, 50 Railroad Avenue, Waretown, through August 31.

Submissions must be in landscape orientation and include the photographer’s name and the photo’s location.

By submitting, photographers grant the township full rights to the images for unlimited use. Photos will not be returned. For more information, call 609-693-3302, ext. 221.

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Continued From Page 1 solution. In desperation, she called Homes Now, a nonprofit offering affordable rentals.

Though nothing was available, she soon received a call from the now late Bill Jungerman, a longtime fixture at Dottie’s House.

“He was probably one of the most important people I ever met,” Patty said. “He told me, ‘Watch the actions, not the words.’ That single phrase has guided me ever since. And he was the one who called to say, ‘I think we have a place for you.’”

That place was Dottie’s House, a program that, for 25 years, provided transitional housing and empowerment services to women and children escaping abuse. On October 15, 2025, the program will shut down permanently, a loss many fear will leave survivors with nowhere to go.

A Vision Rooted In Personal Pain

Dottie’s House traces its roots to Carol Wolfe, an administrator in Brick Township who also founded Homes Now, an affordable housing nonprofit developer. Wolfe named the program after her mother, Dorothy “Dottie” Camilli, who endured decades of abuse at the hands of her husband.

“Her mother had no skills, no way to support herself,” said Mary Furmato, president of the Board of Trustees at Dottie’s House. “Carol’s vision was to create a program that empowered women, to teach them to work, to save, to live independently. That’s how it came to be.”

What began as just eight units grew with federal support into a 17-unit complex of two- and three-bedroom apartments. Beyond the housing,

the program offered counseling offices, a family lounge, therapy rooms for children, and strict confidentiality and security measures.

“It wasn’t emergency housing,” Furmato explained. “It was a program. Women signed agreements to work at least 32 hours a week, attend counseling, and commit to life-skills training. It was about empowerment, getting them out into the world again.”

Carol Wolfe died in 2019, leaving behind a legacy that provided affordable housing to many local residents and improved the lives of mothers and children who found a way to escape their abusers.

Impact On Families

Over its 25-year history, Dottie’s House sheltered hundreds of families and an estimated 35 to 50 children annually. Survivors and their children received not only shelter but also case management, counseling, and educational support.

For Patty, that support made all the difference.

“My kids had art therapy, and they were counseled. I had counseling, too,” she said. “They even helped me with my resume and job search. They encouraged me every step of the way. It relieved so much tension from what was a very difficult time in my life.”

Residents paid affordable rent, often just a few hundred dollars, reinforcing accountability and preparing them for financial independence. “They wanted us to have our own stake in it,” Patty remembered. “They made sure you had skin in the game.”

Financial Struggles

Despite its success stories, the program’s

financial structure made it nearly impossible to sustain.

The property itself is owned by Homes Now, which leases it to Dottie’s House for $1 a year. Under the agreement, the nonprofit was responsible for maintaining the units - including expensive replacements like hot water heaters, heating and cooling systems, and bathroom and kitchen renovations.

“Some of the units still have the original hot water heaters and air conditioners,” said Christine Hofmann, executive director of Homes Now. “We’ve taken care of the roof, windows, and common areas, but the apartments themselves need major upgrades.”

At the same time, Dottie’s House was legally bound by affordable housing regulations that capped what residents could pay. A two-bedroom unit, for example, might bring in only $525 a month, far less than the cost of liability insurance alone.

“Well-meaning people offered $10,000 donations or fundraisers,” Furmato said. “But that’s just a band-aid. What we needed was reliable, ongoing funding to pay trained staff salaries. Without that, we couldn’t continue.”

The staffing shortage became acute in recent years. “It takes people with experience to support survivors dealing with trauma, depression, or addiction,” Furmato explained. “We couldn’t hire and retain them without paying livable wages.”

The board and staff tried desperately to keep the program alive. Fundraisers ranged from gift auctions to golf outings to 50/50 raffles. The Point Pleasant Borough Police Department and community watch collected Christmas toys and winter coats for residents’ children every year.

“I see this as sadness, because these are the community things that will be taken away,” Furmato said.

In October 2023, she even invited local mayors, council members, commissioners, and legislators to tour the facility in hopes of securing new funding. Despite interest, sustainable financial commitments never materialized.

“We weren’t looking for one-time donations,” Furmato said. “We needed a guaranteed commitment every year to keep our doors open. Without that, the math just didn’t work.”

What Happens Next

Homes Now plans to keep the 17-unit property dedicated to affordable housing, and preferably to domestic violence survivors.

“The facility is perfect for that,” Hofmann said. “It has offices, therapy rooms, a common area, and apartments. We’re in talks with another domestic violence nonprofit to step in. But it will require renovations and funding, so donations will be crucial.”

Hofmann stressed that even if no domestic violence organization takes over, the property will always remain affordable housing, potentially for veterans, seniors, or people with special needs.

One of her immediate concerns is for the families currently living at Dottie’s House. “Our main goal is to keep the residents who are there in their homes,” she said. “We can’t guarantee it yet, but we are trying”

Anyone wishing to donate to Homes Now as it prepares to rehabilitate the apartments in need of repair can call (732) 295-7380. For more information about this nonprofit, visit homes-now.org.

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Correspondence & Commentary From Your Local, County, State & Federal Officials

Congressman: Stop Blaming PJM And Stop The Delivery Fees

From The Desk Of Congressman

Jefferson Van Drew

WASHINGTON, D.C. - Congressman Jefferson Van Drew condemned Governor Murphy and other Democrats for attempting to shift blame onto PJM In-

terconnection - a regional transmission organization that oversees electricity movement across 13 states, including New Jerseywhile ignoring the very failed policies that caused New Jersey’s energy crisis.

In a recent letter, nine governors, including Murphy, accused PJM of mismanagement, citing rising rates and grid delays.

“PJM has been warning for years about

the consequences of Governor Murphy’s energy policy and how it would drive up energy prices,” said Congressman Van Drew. “Murphy poured billions of taxpayer dollars into offshore wind projects that failed and electric vehicle charging stations that no one asked for. Now, PJM is left managing a grid under historic pressure. With the rapid growth of AI and data centers, that demand will only climb, making this crisis even worse in the years ahead.

“Governor Murphy is looking for some-

one to blame for the consequences of his own agenda, but the truth is working families are the ones stuck paying the price. On top of it all, ratepayers are being crushed by ‘delivery fees’ that drive costs even higher. The state should immediately remove these unnecessary and burdensome fees, as people should not have to pay more just to have electricity delivered into their homes. It is time to stop playing political games with our grid. New Jersey must start investing in reliable energy sources like nuclear and natural gas.”

Bills Will Increase Accountability Of Electric Grid Operator

From The Desk Of The

Governor

Phil Murphy

TRENTON – Governor Phil Murphy signed into law AJR216/SJR154 and A5463/S4363, two bills designed to increase public accountability and transparency in decision-making by regional grid operator PJM Interconnection, LLC and its members as ratepayers in New Jersey and the region face an electricity cost crisis.

“These bills complement our long-term plan of action to hold PJM responsible for hardworking New Jerseyans’ skyrocketing electricity bills and a lack of new energy generation,” said Governor Murphy. “We are committed to creating a system that is fairer and more transparent for customers and the states that represent them – a necessary change from the opaque practices that have, for too long, defined PJM.”

PJM members, including electric public utility companies, vote on matters at PJM that impact ratepayers in New Jersey and across the regional grid. A5463/S4363 enhances transparency and accountability so that the public can understand how decisions made at

PJM may impact electricity reliability, affordability, and sustainability – calling on electric public utilities and their affiliates operating in New Jersey to disclose details on their voting at PJM to the BPU annually. Under the law, those utilities and their affiliates will be required to report their recorded votes and explain how each vote furthers the State’s goals of prioritizing the affordability, reliability, and sustainability of electricity production, consumption, and conservation.

The legislation directs the Board of Public Utilities (BPU) to examine whether PJM’s Reliability Pricing Model is advancing that goal. BPU is also directed to continue advocating, along with other states, for reforms at PJM that will increase electricity supply, protect ratepayers, and prioritize clean energy generation. Under the law, the BPU will report the results of the investigation to the Governor and the Legislature within one year.

New Jersey, alongside other states, has sent multiple letters to the PJM Board of Managers since PJM’s June 2024 capacity market auction and has made multiple filings with the Federal Energy Regulatory Commission (FERC) on how to improve PJM’s capacity market rules. New Jersey continues the work to vigorously incentivize the development of

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new generation sources in-state to meet the growing electricity demand, which is influenced by regional grid-wide factors.

“Affordability is always top of mind for us at the NJBPU,” said Christine Guhl-Sadovy, President, NJBPU. “While we continue to advocate at the regional level to address PJM’s flawed market rules and work to develop key programs and spur investment in new energy resources in-state, PJM must come to the table and demonstrate that the ratepayers of New Jersey, and throughout the region, are a priority. The lack of transparency in their regular business, coupled with more than a thousand clean energy projects stuck in their red tape cannot continue. The recent, dramatic capacity auction price increases demonstrate that the status quo must change. It’s hurting ratepayers and it’s constraining energy jobs. Transparency is the first step toward accountability.”

“People are now learning what an important role PJM plays in setting the price for elec-

tricity in New Jersey. For too long, PJM has operated behind the scenes, making significant decisions in various committees with no real understanding of who is actually making those decisions. Our electric companies are all part of larger organizations. It is important to ensure that when our electric companies are voting at PJM, they are doing so to benefit New Jersey customers and not the interests of their parent corporations. This law will allow the public to look behind the curtain, see how the process works, and hopefully ensure that our electric companies are voting in our interests. Likewise, it is always a good idea to look at what PJM is doing and ensure that it is still in the best interests of New Jersey,” said Rate Counsel Director Brian Lipman. “Moreover, this is a multistate problem and will require a multistate solution. New Jersey, acting alone, cannot ensure equitable prices for PJM customers – we must continue to work with our neighbors to ensure we are all getting the best prices.”

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Barnegat High Seeks Donations For Project Graduation

BARNEGAT – Barnegat High School is asking community members and local businesses to support its 2026 Project Graduation, a free, drug- and alcohol-free celebration for seniors held after commencement.

Senior Class Advisor Astin Williams said the school will host its annual Senior Auction in February to raise funds for the event, which provides graduates with a safe and memorable night to mark the end of high

school. Proceeds will go directly toward Project Graduation.

Donations of gift cards, raffle prizes, prepared themed baskets, new and unused goods, empty baskets, decorative containers, clear cellophane wrap, and promotional items are being sought, along with monetary contributions.

Those interested in donating or sponsoring can contact Williams at awilliams@ barnegatschools.com.

Mayor, Council Recognize Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month

STAFFORD – The mayor and township council recognized “Turn the Towns Teal” during a recent council meeting in honor of National Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month in September.

Officials noted that more than 19,680 women in the United States are expected to be diagnosed this year with ovarian cancer, the deadliest of all female reproductive system cancers, and more than 12,740 women will die from the disease.

The proclamation emphasized the impor-

tance of early detection, noting that ovarian cancer has no simple or reliable screening test and symptoms often appear only in later stages. By recognizing warning signs and unexplained changes, women can improve their chances of early diagnosis and successful treatment.

Council members expressed solidarity with those battling ovarian cancer, honoring the lives lost and supporting continued research, prevention, and treatment efforts to help create a future free from the disease.

Chamber Sets Networking Event

FORKED RIVER – The Southern Ocean County Chamber of Commerce will host its September Start Up networking event September 17 from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. at Code 1 Creations, 918 Lacey Road, Suite 4.

The Chamber Connections gathering will offer refreshments, conversation, and opportunities to expand professional networks.

Attendees are encouraged to bring business cards to enter a drawing for a dozen custom screen-printed shirts.

Admission is free for chamber members. Nonmembers are welcome for $10 at the door. To RSVP, email kate@sochamber.com. For more information, call 609-494-7211, ext. 104, or visit visitLBIregion.com.

Free Document Shredding

LACEY – Ocean County will host a free document shredding event on September 13 at 820 Municipal Lane from 9 a.m. to noon or until the truck is full.

The event is part of the 2025 Residential Document Shredding Program sponsored by the Ocean County Board of Commissioners and the Department of Solid Waste

Management.

Residents may bring up to four boxes of paper. Black plastic bags, batteries, electronics, books, junk mail, greeting cards, photos, X-rays and CDs will not be accepted.

Additional information is available at co.ocean.nj.us/recycle.

Lacey Elks To Host Annual Lobster Fest

LACEY – The Elks will hold their annual Lobster Fest on September 26 from 3 to 8 p.m., offering a seafood feast at the lodge pavilion at 900 Beach Blvd, Forked River.

The $45 meal includes a 1.5-pound steamed lobster, six mussels, six clams,

four shrimp cocktail, and half an ear of corn. Organizers say the event marks the final weekend the pavilion will be open for the season.

For tickets or more information, contact Mark Niro at 732-579-7632.

Library To Host Book Café Gathering

BARNEGAT – The Ocean County Library

Barnegat Branch will host its Book Café on September 2 at 7 p.m. at 112 Burr St.

Attendees are invited to share and discuss their favorite books with fellow readers. The event is open to all.

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Township Lowers Speed Limits On Two Roads

STAFFORD – Speed limits have been reduced on East Bay Avenue and Cedar Run Dock Road following a traffic study by Ocean County Engineering in coordination with the township.

East Bay Avenue is now set at 35 mph for its entire length, including the section between the Yacht Club and Island Breeze that was previously 40 mph.

On Cedar Run Dock Road, the limit

from Route 9 to First Avenue has been lowered from 40 mph to 35 mph. The stretch from First Avenue to the boat ramp in Eagleswood is also posted at 35 mph.

Officials cited increased traffic along with more pedestrian and bicycle activity for the changes, which were adopted by township ordinance. New signs have been installed by the Ocean County Road Department.

St. Theresa Knights Of Columbus Outdoor Flea Market

LITTLE EGG HARBOR – The St. Theresa Knights of Columbus Council 14615 will hold its eighth outdoor flea market on August 30, 2025, from 7 a.m. to 2 p.m. The event, open to the public, will feature vendor spaces for $10. Organizers say it is

ideal for business promotions, crafters, or residents looking to sell household items. Shoppers are also encouraged to attend. Food will be available from the Knights’ concession stand. For more information, contact Rick Siano at 609-276-7228.

Stafford Recreation

Sponsors Adult Kickball League

STAFFORD – Join Stafford Recreation for some fun and friendly competition, all skill levels are welcome. Meet every Tuesday (weather

permitting) now through October 7 from 6 to 8 p.m. at Nautilus Park. For updates or cancellations, follow Stafford Kickball on Facebook.

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Lighthouse Station Women’s Club Serves Community

BARNEGAT – The Venue at Lighthouse Station Women’s Club, located on Lighthouse Drive in the township, has been hard at work planning special events for our Barnegat Community. The following event donations were given to the Barnegat School District.

In March our members donated Candy and Small Gifts which allowed us to package 60 Easter Backpacks. In June our members donated assorted School Supplies totaling approximately $600.00 for Barnegat School Children.

In conjunction with the Barnegat Police Department, last November, and will be organized again for this November, our members were given suggestions on donations for Thanksgiving Baskets. Included in our baskets were $20.00 Gift Cards (to purchase Turkeys), Candied Yams, Marshmallows, White Potatoes, Gravy, Corn, String Beans, Cranberry Sauce, Macaroni & Cheese, Cookies, Candy, Plates and Napkins.

At the end of September, The Women’s Club will hold their third Breast Cancer Awareness Walk. Last year we raised

$2000.00 that was donated to Susan G. Komen. This year our walk will be held on September 28. Our donation will be given to CMC Foundation – Cancer Center (A member of RWJ Barnabas – Community Medical Center). Our donation will go to The Inspiration Boutique which is located inside the J. Phillip Citta Regional Cancer Center.

Our ongoing event is our Scholarship Fund for Barnegat High School Students. These awards will be presented at our Women’s Club June, 2026 meeting. To start our Scholarship Fund, we had two fundraising events. In April we had our Brown Bag Auction and raised $400.00 and in June we had our Evening of Old Bags that raised $440.00.

The Women’s Club is now working on our Holiday Craft/Gift Fair which will take place on October 19 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m., in our Venue Clubhouse located at 85 Butler Drive. All donations from our Craft/Gift Fair will be added to our Scholarship Fund. We hope you will visit our Craft/Gift Fair and help us reach our goal!

Barnegat High School To Start, End Earlier In 2025-26

BARNEGAT – The township high school will have new bell times for the 2025-2026 school year, the district’s transportation department announced. The school day for grades 9-12 will run from 7:05 a.m. to 1:40 p.m., with early dismissal at 11:05 a.m. All other schools in the district will maintain their current schedules.

The change is part of an effort to create a more efficient transportation model, according to Transportation Director Lisa Vargas. Parents and guardians with questions about the new schedule can contact Vargas at 609-698-5816 or lvargas@barnegatschools.com.

Playful Pup Jace Awaits Adoption At Shelter

Photo courtesy Southern Ocean County Animal Shelter

MANAHAWKIN – The Friends of Southern Ocean County Animal Shelter is introducing Jace, a one-year-old dog described as happy, affectionate and eager to please, who is ready to fi nd a forever home.

Shelter staff say Jace greets everyone like a longtime friend, his excitement and uniquely adorable face brightening any day. Playful and “delightfully derpy,”

Jace enjoys kiddie pool splashes, showing off his favorite toys and joining in active family fun.

Jace is housebroken, knows how to sit, and responds attentively to his person, according to the shelter.

He can be visited daily from 1 to 4 p.m. at the Southern Ocean County Animal Shelter, 360 Haywood Road, Manahawkin.

Brother & Sister Raise $5K For Stafford EMS

courtesy Stafford Township Emergency Medical Services

STAFFORD – Two young siblings brought big smiles and even bigger results for Stafford Township Emergency Medical Services, raising more than $5,000 with their lemonade stand fundraiser. Memphis and MiKenna Rank once again set up shop, serving their well-known lemonade to benefit the squad. Their determination and dedication drew strong

community support and helped generate the sizable donation.

Stafford Township Police and the Stafford Township Volunteer Fire Company also joined the effort, lending their support to the fundraiser.

“We are beyond grateful to be part of such an incredible and supportive community,” Stafford EMS said in a statement.

Casting With A Cop Tournament Returns

BARNEGAT – The American Angler Fishing Club, in partnership with the Barnegat Police Department, the Association of Surf Angling Clubs and the Barnegat Recreation Department, will host the second annual Casting with a Cop kids-only fishing and crabbing tournament on August 23 at the Barnegat Municipal Dock.

The event aims to get children outdoors, promote fishing and foster positive interactions with local police, while also educating youth on the dangers of drugs and how to

recognize and avoid drug paraphernalia.

Agencies expected to attend with information tables and vehicles include the New Jersey State Police Marine Bureau, Ocean County Sheriff’s Department, Barnegat Fire Department, U.S. Coast Guard and Barnegat First Aid Squad.

Organizers thanked numerous local businesses, organizations and residents for sponsoring the event, which they hope will build lasting community relationships and a love for the outdoors.

Lacey Elks To Host Labor Day Celebration

LACEY – The Elks will host a public Labor Day celebration on September 1 from 11 a.m. to 9 p.m., featuring live music, food trucks and a vendor fair.

The Terry Cheri Band will perform from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m., followed by the Polish Nannies from 4 to 8 p.m. Attendees can

enjoy a variety of street food from assorted food trucks and shop at vendor booths throughout the day.

The event is open to the public. For more information, contact Tracey Zummo at 609-312-1002 or traceyzummo123@gmail. com.

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Officers Save Service Dog From Lagoon

BEACH HAVEN WEST – Quick actions by local police saved a service dog from drowning after she fell into a lagoon while vacationing with her family, authorities said.

The England family’s Rhodesian Ridgeback, Moose, slipped into the water and struggled to stay afloat. Moose is a highly trained service animal for 14-year-old Mason England, who lives with non-verbal

Photo courtesy Stafford Township Police autism, seizures and epilepsy. She detects seizures, calms him during anxiety, and is a constant companion, the family said.

Officer Vincent jumped into the lagoon to reach Moose, lifting her to Officers VonSchmidt and Fabrizzio, who pulled her to safety.

Police said Moose was unharmed and quickly reunited with her family.

Army Of Hope Picnic To Honor Military, Families

LACEY – The New Jersey State Elks Association’s Army of Hope Committee will host its 21st annual Army of Hope Picnic on September 14 to honor fallen heroes, severely wounded soldiers and their families.

The event will run from noon to 5 p.m. at Lacey Elks Lodge #2518, 900 Beach Blvd. Admission is $25 for adults and $5 for children under 10, including food, refreshments and entertainment.

Organizers invite the public to meet and mingle with troops, veterans and military families while paying tribute to their service and sacrifice. Proceeds will support veterans and their loved ones.

For tickets or more information, contact Marty Hickey at 201-538-7146, Jack Joyce at 856-669-7549 or Mallory McPherson at 973-652-3173. Checks

should be made payable to NJSEA (Army of Hope).

Survivors:

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Unlike other programs that may involve waiting lists, Providence House makes it clear that anyone in crisis will be accommodated. At the safe house, survivors receive meals, clothing, and basic necessities, often after arriving with nothing but what they’re wearing. All services are free of charge and confidential.

Dottie’s House Closure

Until recently, Providence House could refer clients to Dottie’s House when their time in the safe house came to an end. With the closure of Dottie’s House, survivors face fewer options.

“The closing of Dottie’s House means there are fewer resources available for individuals and families who need housing because they are affected by domestic violence,” Pettrow said. “We will no longer be able to refer clients there when it is time for them to transition out of the safe house.”

This challenge is magnified by New Jersey’s severe housing shortage. “New Jersey is currently facing a deficit of more than 200,000 units of affordable housing,” Pettrow added. “And that has a negative impact on many survivors of domestic violence who are looking to start over.”

Advocacy And Partnerships

Providence House’s reach extends far beyond its shelter. The organization works hand-inhand with all Ocean County police stations and the New Jersey State Police. Through its Domestic Violence Response Teams (DVRTs), highly trained volunteers are dispatched to police stations or emergency rooms when survivors come forward.

“They are available 24/7 to advocate for survivors, educate them about their rights, and just be with them during an incredibly trying time,” Pettrow said.

The organization also offers counseling, legal advocacy, and education programs aimed at breaking the cycle of abuse.

A Community Effort

Like many nonprofits, Providence House operates with thin margins. Yet its mission is sustained through grants, partnerships, and community generosity.

“It’s important to note, our services are provided at no cost,” Pettrow said. “The safe house, meals, clothing - all of these things are provided free of charge.”

Community members can help by donating money, food, and household items, or by volunteering. Opportunities include joining a DVRT team or assisting with outreach efforts.

“Monetary donations are always welcome,” Pettrow emphasized. “Anyone interested in volunteering or joining a DVRT team can visit CatholicCharitiesTrenton.org and see how their help is needed.”

Always Open, Always Free

For survivors in need, Providence House’s 24/7 confidential hotline remains a lifeline: Ocean County Hotline: 1-800-246-8910

Statewide Hotline: 1-800-572-SAFE

“Since 1986, Providence Domestic Violence Services has been providing shelter to survivors in Ocean County,” Pettrow said. “As well as caring for survivors, we are committed to breaking the cycle of abuse. We believe every home should be safe.”

Dr. Izzy’s

Sound News

Presented By: Isidore Kirsh, Ph.D., F.A.A.A. (N.J. Lic. #678)

Why Most Alzheimer’s Drugs Don’t Work Effectively

One of the highest risk factors for cognitive decline is untreated hearing loss. Many consumers procrastinate and wait 5-7 years to even have a basic hearing evaluation. If you have documented hearing loss, your risk for some type of dementia, including Alzheimer’s is at least 2x greater.

Alzheimer’s disease is one of the most challenging neurological disorders, both to understand and to treat. Despite decades of research and billions of dollars invested, most Alzheimer’s drugs have failed to produce meaningful results. Here’s why:

1. Late Diagnosis: By the time symptoms appear, much of the brain damage has already occurred. Current drugs typically target symptoms rather than root causes, and are administered too late to halt or reverse the progression of the disease.

2. Complex Disease Mechanisms: Alzheimer’s involves a variety of pathological processes: amyloid plaques (protein clumps outside neurons), tau tangles (twisted proteins inside neurons), chronic inflammation, mitochondrial dysfunction, and vascular problems. Focusing on a single factor often yields limited results because other damaging processes continue.

3. Amyloid Hypothesis Limitations: Most drugs have targeted beta-amyloid, long believed to be the primary cause. However, many people with high amyloid levels do not develop dementia. Removing amyloid has not consistently led to cognitive improvement, suggesting that amyloid may be a symptom rather than the root cause.

4. Blood-Brain Barrier Challenges: The blood-brain barrier protects the brain but also prevents many drugs from entering

it. Delivering therapeutic molecules safely and effectively remains a major obstacle in developing Alzheimer’s treatments.

5. Individual Variation
: Alzheimer’s may not be a single disease but a group of disorders with different causes, influenced by genetics, lifestyle, and environmental factors. Therefore, a one-size-fits-all drug approach is unlikely to work for everyone.

6. Lack of Early Biomarkers: Until recently, reliable early biomarkers for Alzheimer’s were lacking. Without early detection, many clinical trials enroll patients who are already in advanced stages, reducing the chances of success.

7. Short Clinical Trial Timeframes: Alzheimer’s progresses over decades, but most clinical trials last only a few years. This mismatch makes it hard to demonstrate the long-term benefits of potential treatments.

8. Difficulty Measuring Cognitive Decline: Cognitive changes are subtle and slow, and measuring them reliably in clinical trials is challenging. As a result, some drugs may have modest benefits that are hard to detect with current evaluation tools.

In Summary: Alzheimer’s is a multifactorial, slowly progressing, and complex disease. Most current treatments arrive too late and focus on narrow targets. The future likely lies in multi-targeted approaches, earlier intervention, and personalized medicine based on an individual’s biology and risk factors.

Dr. Izzy and his Staff will continue to educate you about hearing care choices. Please feel free to contact our offi ce at 732-451-3962 or visit our website at gardenstatehearing.com.

His offices are in Toms River, Whiting, and Manahawkin. He can be reached at 732-451-3962 or via Web site at gardenstatehearing.com. Dr. Izzy & Staff gives Retirement Community Talks!

Dear Pharmacist

Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

Kidney Stones: What To Expect, What Helps, And What No One Told Me

By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

Let me tell you, friends, there’s nothing like a kidney stone to make you rethink every life choice you’ve ever made. We need to talk about the pain, the symptoms, when to run to the ER, and how to avoid hosting another internal rock concert.

Mine started out of nowhere. I was just grabbing an Amazon package from the porch when a stabbing pain shot through my left side under the ribs. Within minutes it wrapped around to my back.

That’s called flank pain, and it can stop you in your tracks. The pain was so intense I started to feel cold and clammy and I couldn’t catch a deep breath. At sixty, I wasn’t taking chances, so Sam drove me to the ER. They gave me an IV with Toradol and within ten minutes I could breathe again. The physician assistant said I’d passed a 4.3-millimeter stone exceptionally fast and sent me home with a few pain pills. Spoiler alert, he was wrong. Two days later, another wave of severe pain hit. Kidney stone pain is sneaky that way. You can feel perfectly fi ne between attacks because when the stone isn’t moving, it’s quiet. But the second it starts traveling down the ureter, you’ll know.

The symptoms aren’t always the same for everyone. Sometimes it’s sudden, sharp pain in the side or back that can radiate to the groin or belly. Some people get nausea or vomiting, blood in the urine that might be visible or might only show on a urinalysis, an urgency to urinate with

little or nothing coming out, burning when it’s in the bladder area, or just that deep sensation like an invisible icepick jabbing into your side. For me, it was only flank pain, but it got my attention fast.

The most common type is a “calcium oxalate” stone. Risk factors include dehydration, too much sodium, high-oxalate foods like spinach, almonds, and beets, and certain medications such as topiramate or high-dose vitamin D. Even the climate you live in matters. The southeastern United States is nicknamed the Stone Belt for a reason.

If you have sudden severe pain, a fever with chills, nausea or vomiting that prevents you from holding fluids, visible blood in your urine, or you cannot urinate at all, get to a doctor or ER immediately. Kidney stones can cause infections and even damage your kidneys if they block urine flow.

For some people, prescription medications like tamsulosin can help relax the ureter and make passing a stone easier. Ibuprofen can help with pain and inflammation, while Toradol is sometimes used in a hospital setting.

If you can, try to catch your stone in a urine strainer so your doctor can analyze it and help you prevent a repeat performance. If you want to read the full unedited version of this story with all six types of kidney stones, prevention strategies, and my personal hyperparathyroidism journey, visit suzycohen.com and sign up for my free weekly newsletter.

(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2025 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.

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Library To Host Garlic Gardening Workshop

MANAHAWKIN – The Stafford Branch of the Ocean County Library will offer a free interactive workshop on planting, harvesting, drying and storing garlic at 10:30 a.m. on September 8.

Presented by Rutgers Master Gardener Noreen Baris, the program will follow garlic’s growing cycle from November planting to June harvest, with tips on dry-

ing and storage. It will also include photos, historical facts, trivia and surprise prizes. Baris, a certified Master Gardener since 2008, has decades of teaching experience and has worked in the Master Gardeners’ vegetable garden for 15 years.

Registration is required at tinyurl.com/ GarlicOCL, by calling 609-597-3381, or in person at 129 North Main Street.

R.C. Shea & Assoc. Inside The Law

When Can You Stop A Town From Enforcing A Zoning Ordinance? Understanding “Estoppel”

By: Vincent DelRiccio, Esq. R.C. Shea & Associates

If you get a zoning violation notice in New Jersey, your fi rst reaction might be: But the town told me I could do this! Sometimes, the law has a way to push back — it’s called estoppel.

In simple terms, estoppel means the government can’t suddenly change its mind and enforce the rules against you if:

• They clearly gave you permission to do something,

• You reasonably relied on that permission, and

• You spent significant money or made big changes based on it.

New Jersey courts are reluctant to estop a municipality from enforcing its zoning and land-use laws. The rule of thumb: equitable estoppel against a public body is “rarely invoked,” and then only in very compelling circumstances where justice and fair dealing are n the property owner’s side.

IF a property owner wants to argue that a town should not be able to bring a given enforcement action against them,

they would need to show:

• The town’s official made a reasonable but possibly mistaken call on the zoning rules.

• That official had the authority to make the decision and gave you a permit or written approval.

• You relied on that decision in good faith and made substantial investments before the town changed course.

Sometimes, owners can argue that the town knew about a certain condition for years, didn’t do anything about it, or even gave other approvals in spite of it. While this can be part of an estoppel argument, courts are still cautious — they usually want clear proof the town’s actions (or inaction) reasonably led you to believe you were in the clear.

That said, raising an estoppel argument is highly complex, fact specific, and suited only to a narrow set of cases. If you are looking to resolve or oppose a zoning violation, give the attorneys at R.C. Shea and Associates a call. (732) 505-1212.

Social Services Moving Operations To New Facility

TOMS RIVER – The Ocean County Board of Social Services will soon consolidate its Toms River operations into the new Ocean County Resource Center at 1005 Hooper Avenue, officials announced.

The move will take place in phases, with programs shifting from their current buildings to the new centralized location. Services previously housed in Building 3 — including General Assistance, the Special Response Unit, Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program and Temporary Assistance for Needy Families — have already relocated.

Medicaid, Adult Blind and Disabled, and NJ Family Care programs from Building 5 will move on September 8. Adult Protective Services and Child Support Paternity from Building 7 will follow on September 15.

The transition will not affect the Northern Resource Center and Manahawkin satellite offices, which will remain open and operational. OCBSS will continue to operate without interruption during the move.

For more information, call 732-349-1500 or visit the Ocean County Board of Social Services on the web at: shorturl.at/yTUs0.

POW/MIA Watchfi re Vigil

SEASIDE HEIGHTS – The Sons of the American Legion Detachment of New Jersey will host its 35th annual POW/MIA Watchfi re on September 20, at 1200 Route 35 in Seaside Heights.

The 12-hour vigil will run from 7 p.m. to

7 a.m. and is open to the public. The event honors prisoners of war and those missing in action with a symbolic watchfi re and remembrance ceremony.

For more information, email watchfi re@ njsal.org.

Barnegat Farmers Market

BARNEGAT – The 2025 Barnegat Farmers Market will be held on Thursdays through October 2 at 14 Birdsall St, Barnegat, be-

tween 9 a.m. and 1 p.m.

Enjoy local produce, specialty foods, baked goods, spirits & winery, non-food vendors.

The Galapagos Islands - Home To The Vampire Finch

By Renee A. Thomaier

Retired New Jersey State Licensed Wildlife Rehabilitator

The Galapagos Islands are renowned for their unique and distinctive fauna. Among these, the vampire fi nch stands out as a particularly notable species. This subspecies of the sharp-beaked ground fi nch resides exclusively on Darwin and Wolf Islands and exhibits significant behavioral differences from its relatives.

Utilizing its sharply pointed beak, the vampire fi nch pecks at the feathers and skin of the Nazca booby (a large seabird native to the eastern Pacific) to draw blood, which it consumes to enhance its nutritional intake when other food

sources are scarce. Note that the host boobies rarely display distress during these interactions. It is theorized that this behavior evolved from the fi nches’ initial role in removing parasites from booby plumage. Historically, while extracting feather parasites benefitted both bird species, the fi nch received food and the booby relief from pests, occasional bloodletting led to the development of this unique adaptation.

Many animals practice ‘social grooming.’ Examples are monkeys and apes groom each other for parasites, while oxpeckers (species of bird) keep hippos’ skin free of ticks and dead skin.

Sexual dimorphism is evident with-

in the species: males are black, while females display greyish plumage with brown streaks. Adaptively, the vampire fi nch possesses the largest and most pronounced beak among all sharp-beaked ground fi nch subspecies, supporting its specialized feeding habits.

The invasion of vampire fl ies favors vampire fi nches whose females display stronger brood care instincts, as those spending more time with off spring are more reproductively successful. Over time, this selective pressure may eliminate inattentive mothers and increase genes linked to attentive brood care, gradually adapting the fi nch population to better cope with the fly threat.

All animals host billions of microbes in their digestive systems that help break down food. Different bacteria enable digestion of various foods; for instance, cows have bacteria that produce cellulase, an enzyme that lets them extract protein from plant cell walls. This unusual digestive system allows them to digest unusual food.

Information for this article comes from various sources, so statistics may differ. For inquiries, call 732-244-2768. It is illegal to possess, relocate, or cause harm to wildlife for any reason. Managing wildlife without state and/or federal permits is illegal. Violations are subject to legal penalties.

CLASSIFIEDS

Auto For Sale Help Wanted

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Items Wanted

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Senior Services Available - Toms River, Berkeley area. Shopping, doctors, pets, errands, converse. Retired male. References available. $20/hr. Flexible. 732-600-0179. (34)

Interior And Exterior PaintingSmall home repairs. 30 years of experience. Free estimates. Fully insured. LIC: 13VHO4548900 Call Tommy: 609-661-1657. (36)

GARDEN & PLANT CARESUMMER HELP! Avoid costly plant losses. Diagnose problems, pests, watering, repot, refresh containers, houseplants, pruning. Care & Advice. House Calls. Semi-retired Master Gardener. Joe – 732-232-8144. (32)

Narcissistic abuse? - Need a caring, understanding ear from a Christian female who's been there? In person/phone, $20/hr. LADIES ONLY. 609-994-6959. (40)

Handyman Available - 15 years experience. Light plumbing and electrical repair. Install fixtures, etc. No job too small. 646-734-9141. (33)

PAINTING By Neat And Meticulous European Craftsman - who will beat any written estimate. Senior discounts. Interior, exterior. Call 732506-7787, cell 646-643-7678. (t/n)

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Affordable Landscaping - Spring Cleanups, Complete lawn maintenance, Sod & seed lawns, Shrubs & tree pruning, Topsoil & mulch and much more. 732-808-7477. (25)

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Handyman - Painting, powerwashing, electrical, plumbing, light hauling. Call Joe 732-859-9266. (19)

Car Service - 24/7. Doctors, shopping, airports, hospitals, cruise, shops, Atlantic City, family functions, NYC accomodations for large groups. Call for reasonable rates. Kerry 732-606-2725. (42)

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DO YOU WANT YOUR CAR TO LOOK NICE, AND SHINE? Call Lenny. Lenny's Mobile Auto Detailing 908-868-4609. (38)

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Garden State Property Maintenance - All yard work. Tree-trimming and removal, stump grinding, pavers, decks, flower beds, weeding. 609-661-5470. (t/n)

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Baby Shower Event To Aid Expectant Mothers

OCEAN COUNTY – Fulfill Food Bank will host a community baby shower on September 30 to provide more than 75 expectant mothers in Ocean County with essential supplies for their newborns.

The event will take place from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at The B.E.A.T Center, 1769 Hooper Ave., next to the People’s Pantry. Donations will be accepted through Sept. 1.

Organizers are requesting new baby items including diapers, wipes, baby lotion, formula, baby food, clothing, layette items, baby hygiene kits, gift cards and coupons. Fulfill, which fights hunger in Monmouth and Ocean counties, said the effort aims to help families and individuals facing both food insecurity and economic hardship. For more information, visit fulfillnj.org.

Military Community Hiring Event Coming To Joint Base

JOINT BASE MCGUIRE-DIX-LAKEHURST – A hiring event for the military community will be held September 4 from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Tommy B’s Community Center, 2705 East Arnold Avenue, on base.

The event, hosted by DAV, RecruitMilitary and the Transition Assistance Program, will feature local, statewide, national and remote

job opportunities in fields such as project management, human resources, transportation, logistics, healthcare, information technology and government.

Organizers encourage service members, veterans and their families to attend. More details are available at rmvets.com/JBMDL0925.

Star Trek Fan Club Offers Presentations

JERSEY SHORE – The USS Challenger, a chapter of Starfleet: The International STAR TREK Fan Association is offering free presentations about Star Trek, a science fiction franchise saga which will turn 60 years next year.

Talks, lasting 30 to 45 minutes, are available to local organizations, including women’s and men’s clubs, veterans groups, historical societies, scouting organizations, schools

and libraries. Presentations explore the franchise’s legacy and information about the local chapter and its parent organization. The program will be led by the club’s commanding officer, Admiral Bob Vosseller, with recruitment handled by Lt. J.G. Bill Schmidt.

For more information or to schedule a talk, call 732-575-6904 or email BillSchmidt1000@aol.com.

FUN & GAMES SUDOKU

CROSSWORD PUZZLE

in “Oppenheimer”

Bassoon cousin

Dessert made in a ramekin

Gospel that includes the parable of the Prodigal

Outstrip expectations

Returned a verdict

Like a penthouse

Evocative of the past

Bibliography space

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): Get some fresh air literally or figurately; you may be subconsciously craving a new perspective. A relationship conversation could be calm or agitated, put a pin in it if things get emotional and unproductive.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Old, unresolved business in your mind or heart can impact your day-to-day life more than you realize. Clear the old stuff with some intentional self-work to pave the way for fresh new beginnings. You should have the energy needed for completing tasks.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): If you’ve been looking for your yellow brick road, you could be close to finding it—clues are in your lifelong passions and interests. You or a partner could have just the knowledge and insights the other needs.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Existential questions could be occupying your mind; ask the Universe for clarity and you might find that the answer drops in your lap. A tweak to your appearance you’ve been considering could find its moment this week.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Spend time with a bestie if you can—you or they might have just the remedy for something worrying. Take on something active to release high energies. Creative inspo could flow strongly today, use it to get something started or completed.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Don’t let a career or other worldly concern destroy your day or your sleep. Worries should settle down very soon and helpful changes could already be afoot. It could be time to break out and let your light shine.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): It’s not a good

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time to consider or adjust your budget or investments, your own perspective might not be 100% accurate, and there could be little outside support. Keep messaging with friends mellow and low-key.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): A concern about a joint or shared venture could be troubling but may be resolved soon. Adjust your expectations of a relationship, they may just not have much to give now. Share bounty with friends; build networks of reciprocity.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Bring your concerns to a partner, they could be simpler to resolve than you may think. A day trip could offer both fun and some interesting takeaways. It could be somewhat challenging to get basic daily tasks completed to your satisfaction.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Show you care with real support and real efforts. Be a refuge for a partner or let them provide sanctuary for you. Developing your talents is a long game, while you’re reaching some potentials there is always more attainment.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Keep conversations in relationships mild and on point— avoid getting extreme or reactive. Get out of your routines for a day if you can to switch things up and reinvigorate yourself. Express creatively for soul satisfaction.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Clarity around finances could be tough to achieve now, but some active analysis could shed light. You may want to cocoon today to rest your heart and mind. Move past any anxieties and remind yourself of your many wins, large and small.

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