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Outgrown relationship Dear Annie: I’ve been in a relationship with “Stuart” for almost three years now. In that time I’ve grown a lot, working to become healthier physically, mentally and financially. I eat healthily and work hard at my job. I no longer drink alcohol. I want to be the best version of myself. However, Stuart is in a different mindset. He smokes a pack of cigarettes a day and marijuana several times a day and in his free time is glued to Facebook or games. He wakes up daily hacking up the gunk in his lungs. I’m concerned for his health; my dad died when I was 17, and he had similar issues. I’ve brought this up with my boyfriend but he acts like I’m nagging. He seems to have no motivation. He is content as he is, and I don’t feel comfortable forcing him to change. I don’t want to hurt him because he has been wonderful to me during tough times. But I feel we have grown to be very different people. Or maybe just I have changed. How do couples continue if one is evolving and the other is content as is (even if unhealthy)? — Sad in Illinois Dear Sad in Illinois: From your letter, it sounds as though you are emotionally intelligent, with keen self-insight. Because of that, I believe you will recognize the right choice for yourself (and be able to act on it) once you develop just a little more self-confidence. Toward that end, I strongly encourage you to read “Codependent No More” by Melody Beattie and to attend a few meetings of a support group such as Nar-Anon (www.nar-anon.org), LifeRing Recovery (www.lifering.org) or Co-Dependents Anonymous (coda.org). I have a feeling you’ll recognize your story in others’ there, and that solidarity will give you the strength to keep growing,
whether or not that means replanting yourself elsewhere. ——— Dear Annie: I just read your response to “Yuletide Usurper,” who had a falling out with her sister over a fight on Christmas years ago, and I agree with you wholeheartedly. From personal experience, it is worth taking the time to mend fences now before too much time passes. Not too long ago, my younger sister pushed me out of her life. My husband and I had moved about six hours away for his job, and that seemed to deeply upset her. Over the next five years, I called, sent cards to the kids, did whatever I could, but we never reconnected. One night, I was trying to look up my niece online to see if she’d graduated high school. Instead, I found my sister’s obituary. She had died a month earlier of a chronic illness. For years, she’d been sick, and I never knew. She excluded me from her obituary and had no services. I’ve tried calling my brother-in-law, wrote to them, begged my niece or nephew to call me. It’s been three years — nothing. The moral of the story is this: Don’t let another day go by without making up. In retrospect, I should have driven the six hours and made her listen to me. She was only 56 years old, and I always thought we’d reconnect at some point. It never happened. — MM Dear MM: I am so sorry for the loss of your sister and the way things were between you two when she died. Your point is well taken: We should do all we can to mend fences with family members. But for what it’s worth, it
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Ditch cheating boyfriend Dear Annie: My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 years. Everything was good until three years ago when a woman contacted me to tell me that she’d been seeing him. She apologized to me for it. After we got off the phone, I found her on Facebook and realized that they’d been “liking” each other’s posts for years. She even posted a photo of them together, and someone had commented making a sexual joke about them. They’d both replied and laughed. So, I confronted my boyfriend, and he stopped — or so I thought. Then, six months ago, I found charges on his credit card statement for some local hotel! I confronted him, and he brushed it off, said it hadn’t been him. We have smart security cameras at our front and back door, and ever since I confronted him about the middle-of-the-night hotel charges, he’s disabled my ability to access the camera feeds from my phone. But I can always tell when he’s with her because he won’t answer his phone. (Otherwise, he always answers his phone.) I just hate the thought that the last 10 years were for nothing. — Had It Up to Here Dear HIUTH: Make decisions based on your future, not on your past. You’re caught up in the sunk cost fallacy — continuing your
who had attempted to teach me to use one — my husband, my techie son and others — didn’t “see” things the way I did. However, beyond finding an instructor with dyslexia, my solution is: Get an iPad or other tablet. Anybody can use an app, even small children. Now I’m a wiz and even teach my husband how to do it! And I just pretend that I only use an iPad because it’s a far superior device — ha! — A.F. Dear A.F.: I’m happy to share your practical tip for “In a Quagmire.” If anyone else has suggestions, I’ll print them here, too.
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Dear Annie: Just wanted to say thank you for including the letters from people who really love and appreciate their spouses. Life has been difficult lately for many of us, and reading positive words is uplifting. Dwelling on people’s often-petty complaints makes me feel down while reading inspiring words of love and appreciation makes me feel hopeful. — Keep the Positivity Coming! Dear Keep the Positivity: Thank you for your kind words. Cheers to positivity. The conscious brain can only hold one thought at a time, so choose a positive one whenever you remember. ——— Dear Annie: Please tell “Lost in Love” to get out of that toxic relationship immediately. It’s not worth another minute of her time. She may love him “with every fiber” of her being, but that love is not being returned. Any respectable man would not take money from a relationship to pay his mortgage and give nothing in return. I promise you, she will never regret leaving, only staying one more day. — Been There Dear Been There: Thank you for sharing your advice based on a similar experience.
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Public Notices ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME Case Number: CV2021-635 1. SOLCIRE KUNNER filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: BROOKE LYNN ROUSSEL to BROOKELYNN KAI KUNNER 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons interested in this matter shall appear before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the petition should not be granted. NOTICE OF HEARING Date: 6/2/2021 Time: 9:00 AM Dept: #9 Room: N/A The address of the court is 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 3. a) A copy of this Order to Show Cause shall be published at least once a week for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: The Davis Enterprise 315 G Street, Davis, CA 95616 Date: April 9, 2021 Daniel M. Wolk Judge of the Superior Court 1243 4/18, 4/25, 5/2, 5/9
current relationship just because you’ve already spent so much time in it and don’t want it to have been a waste. The thing is, it wasn’t really a waste. Consider the good moments you’ve had, even with your boyfriend. Consider the tough, character-building moments, too. It’s all added up to a meaningful period of growth and lessons you can take into the next decade — after leaving this lecher in the last. Which you must do, pronto., ——— Dear Annie: In response to “In a Quagmire,” the gentleman who had difficulty using a computer: Computers confound me to no end. I enjoy my games and texting on my phone. I tweet a bit. But when it comes to any task where I’m expected to have the least amount of computer skills, it’s incredibly frustrating — as frustrating as not being able to get a “real” person on the phone to help me. I graduated high school summa cum laude but that has no influence on my computer skill, and “In A Quagmire” needn’t question his smarts. I just accept it as a place where I need help. Self-professed computer geeks are usually willing to step in and help. And in this day and age, if you have a child, grandchild, niece or nephew, they’re often able to help. — J. Mac Dear J. Mac: I heard lots of sympathetic feedback for “Quagmire,” including the following practical tip for adults who have struggled to get the hang of computers despite years of trying and lessons. Dear Annie: To “In a Quagmire,” his problem might be that he’s being taught by people who are not dyslexic! It takes one to teach one. We come at things differently. I’m about his age and also graduated from college with honors. And I’m dyslexic. I managed to somewhat teach myself to use a computer. The other people
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sounds as though you did do that. You tried, again and again, to reconnect with your sister. My heart hurts for you that, for whatever reason, she was unable to meet you halfway. I appreciate your letter.
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Residence Address, State, and Zip Meg Blankinship 527 Hermosa Pl. Davis, CA 95616 4. Business Classification: Limited Partnership 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: N/A “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Meg Blankinship 5/2, 5/9, 5/16, 5/23 1281 PUBLIC NOTICE YOLO-SOLANO AIR QUALITY MANAGEMENT DISTRICT NOTICE OF TELECONFERENCE PUBLIC HEARING NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN, that Wednesday, June 9, 2021, at 9:00 a.m. has been set as the date and time to hold a public hearing to consider the proposed District budget for fiscal year 2021/2022. The APCO is recommending to the Board of Directors, as part of the budget adoption process, a cost recovery adjustment of 1% to fees established under District Rule 4.1 - Permit Fees, Rule 4.3 - Asbestos Fees, and Rule 4.9 - Air Toxics “Hot Spots” Fees, effective July 1, 2021. This public hearing is being held via teleconference in accordance with the Governor’s Executive Order N-29-20 (March 17, 2020). Executive Order N-2920 authorizes local legislative bodies to hold public meetings via teleconference and to make public meetings accessible telephonically or otherwise electronically to all members of the public. Members of the public are encouraged to observe and participate in the teleconference.
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highlights of the ordinance; to obtain a full understanding of its provisions a reading of the document in its entirety The proposed budget will be available may be necessary. A certified copy of the for review online at www.ysaqmd.org full text of the adopted ordinance may be viewed in the City Clerk’s Office, 23 beginning May 9, 2021. Russell Boulevard, Davis, California, and/ All interested parties are invited to or copies may be obtained at a nominal participate. charge. Date:May 9, 2021 1291 5/9 Administrative Services Manager 1283 ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR CHANGE OF NAME PUBLIC NOTICE Case Number: CV2021-779 1. Chong In Nah filed a petition with this court for a decree changing names as follows: CITY OF DAVIS ORDINANCE SUMMARY Chong In Nah NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN on April 20, to 2021, the City Council of the City of Joseph Chongin Nah Davis, California, introduced, and on May 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons 4, 2021, the City Council unanimously interested in this matter shall appear adopted the following entitled ordinance: before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the ORDINANCE NO. 2601 petition should not be granted. AN ORDINANCE DESIGNATING THE NOTICE OF HEARING FOUR ORIGINAL DAVIS BICYCLE Date: 7/15/2021 Time: 9:00 a.m. LANES – (THIRD STREET FROM B Dept: #9 Room: N/A STREET TO K STREET; J STREET, FROM THIRD STREET TO EIGHTH The address of the court is STREET; SYCAMORE LANE FROM 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 RUSSELL BOULEVARD TO WEST 3. a) A copy of this Order to Show Cause EIGHTH STREET; AND WEST EIGHTH shall be published at least once a week FROM SYCAMORE TO A STREET), AS for four successive weeks prior to the LANDMARK HISTORICAL RESOURCES date set for hearing on the petition in PURSUANT TO ARTICLE 40.23 OF THE the following newspaper of general DAVIS MUNICIPAL CODE circulation, printed in this county: The following description summarizes The Davis Enterprise the aforementioned ordinance adopted 315 G Street, Davis, CA 95616 Date: 5/5/2021 by the City Council: Daniel M. Wolk The ordinance, pursuant to Section Judge of the Superior Court 40.23.070(c), (f) and (i) of the Davis 1293 Municipal Code, will designate the four 5/9, 5/16, 5/23, 5/30 original Davis bike lanes listed below as Landmark historical resource:
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