Autumn and winter have a natural way of enticing you to seek out cozy moments of comfort and nostalgia filled with heartwarming conversation and cuisine—especially when it comes to your wedding day. Whether you’re planning an intimate wedding in your childhood backyard or designing a robust celebration in the mountains, we’re here to remind you that you can create an unforgettable experience for you and your guests that’s reminiscent of the beauty of the season and your love story within it.
Amid the artistic flair and timeless charm that dance throughout the details of this Fall/Winter issue, you’ll find an abundance of ideas and fresh inspiration for the coming season, from “Things We Love” on page 12 and a collection of Real New Hampshire Weddings on page 27 that confirms there’s no shortage of ways to throw the party you’ve been longing for. A complete “Worth Every Penny” wedding budgeting guide awaits you on page 41, where a selection of NH planners and vendors pull back the curtain on cost and give their best tips on budget planning. If you’re looking to embrace elevated autumnal ambiance with a dash of classical romance in your wedding design, check out the “European Elegance” styled shoot at Aldworth Manor on page 52. Don’t miss out on our brand-new Vendor List on page 63 for everything you need to know about planning your special day, from venue to DJ suggestions.
Your day is made extraordinary by the moments, details and people that you’ve always dreamed of, as you stand hand-in-hand with your person, surrounded by an air of profound love and support, including ours. We’re here to go above and beyond for you like you do for your people, and help you create an inspired experience for you and your guests that reflects the ease, magic and empowerment we’ve left for you within these pages. Until next time …
Emily Heidt Editor
P.S. We’re looking for weddings to feature in our Spring/Summer 2025 issue of BRIDE. Interested? Visit nhmagazine.com/bride to submit your wedding
Calling all NH and New England wedding vendors…
We have an invitation for you!
This issue marks the end of our 2024 season and we are now pivoting our focus to bring you the best bridal content for 2025.
Whether it is a real wedding, bridal showers, day-after brunches, a styled shoot that you already participated in or want to pitch us, or even a trend that you want to share, we are always interested in seeing the magic you’re creating.
Send general questions and submissions for the Spring/Summer 2025 issue by Feb. 3, and the Fall/Winter 2025 issue by Aug. 30 to Emily Heidt at eheidt@nhmagazine.com.
*All weddings, shoots or other events must be located in NH to be considered*
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Art-filled invites, floral appliques, romantic silhouettes, luxe minimalism, statement seating— these are just some of the things we love.
� Intimate Weddings
There’s something about a smaller wedding that can take your breath away. Perhaps it’s the space and relaxed environment they evoke, or maybe it’s the depth of connection that they allow. While we love and adore your celebrations no matter their size, it’s no secret that a more intimate gathering allows for you to focus on personalization and spend more time with friends and family. This gives you the ability to create a more meaningful experience for you and your guests. They inspire a story of authenticity and treasured memories, validating that “good things (do) come in small packages.”
PHOTOGRAPHY
Kristen Phelps Photography
VENUE
The John Hay Estate at The Fells thefells.org
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Charming Memories
Looking for an extra dose of take-home fun to add to your bridal shower or bachelorette? Check out hip hope hoorah. You bring your girls, they’ll bring the memories. Their popup charm bar experience brings the party to you and allows your friends and family to design their own charm bracelet or necklace, using charms and unique vintage beads and gemstones, offered in both gold and silver. Their team will hand assemble everyone’s designs during the event, and your guests will leave with their new customized piece of jewelry to help remember this momentous season. hiphopehoorah.com, @_hiphopehoorah
PHOTOGRAPHY Alexis the Greek Photography
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Silk Blooms
Add a touch of elegance to your big day with hand-painted, real touch silk flowers from Concordbased Elegant Bloom Rentals. Owner Anna McCormick offers budget-friendly (and not to mention trendy) floral options with her high-end, artfully-curated rentals, from arches to bouquets and even floral backdrops. elegantbloomrentals.com @elegantbloomrentals
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Wild Lotus Creative
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Snowy Settings
If you’re an adventurer or outdoorsman at heart, head to Loon Mountain in Lincoln to tie the knot atop the snow-covered peaks like Loon Mountain ski patrollers and newlyweds, Emily and Billy, for an adventure all its own. Ski or board down the mountain after the ceremony with your guests, and finish the day with a beer, cake and dance party at One Love Brewery.
PHOTOGRAPHY
Gus Noffke
PLANNING By Emma B. BAKERY
Wicked Good Bakery FLORIST Mountain Roots Farm
5 Statement Seating
Since smaller seating areas are the most popular hangout spots at any reception, why not give them their own statement moment?
Kadeema Rentals owner and creative director Kristen Daaboul recommends designing a variety of seating options, from lounge to dining to cocktail, in various areas to allow people to have conversations in various group sizes. Mix banquette seating and tables of varying size with modern, clean lined items and light colors. This will create a more welcoming living room style setup, rather than the larger monotonous styles of seating.
kadeemarentals.com, @kadeemarentals
PHOTOGRAPHY
Stephanie Berenson Photography
Art-Filled Invites
Boutique stationery that looks and feels just as bespoke as your love story? Designer and artist Emily DeMeo with Of Light & Letters has you covered with all of this and more in her custom fine art paper creations. Inspired by French cafés and the sophisticated ambiance of The Greenery at McKenzie’s Farm in Milton, DeMeo designed this suite with scalloped details reminiscent of Parisian flower-filled awnings, vintage lilac artwork and small line illustrations—each piece a reminder of how invitations can become heirlooms for you to treasure for years to come. oflightandletters.com, @oflightandletters
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The New Romantic PLANNING Mirth Events Co.
Floral Appliques
Crafted to evoke a sense of wonder, Enaura’s Harlowe gown is adorned with whimsical embroidery that’s highlighted by beautifully ruched tulle at the side waist, adding a touch of delicate drama. Pair with this handcrafted heirloom veil, BV12211 for a sophisticated, bespoke couture look. Find a selection of Enaura gowns at Madeleine’s Daughter in Portsmouth. enaura.com, @enaurabridal
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Custom Gift Bags
Wedding welcome bags are the perfect way to make your loved ones feel right at home, and the team at Belle Box Co. has mastered the art of crafting them for you. Specializing in New England weddings, they work together with you and/or your planner to come up with exclusive gift concepts that represent your vision for your celebration. Each gift is then curated from local New Hampshire brands and vendors (think eats and treats, something to sip or even on-theme keepsakes), assembled with monogrammed gift tags or itineraries and shipped or delivered to you. belleboxco.com, @belleboxco
8 Show-Stopping Signage
Think outside the box with your signage as a true work of art in its own right. Kate DiTullio of Kate’s Calligraphy finds that these displays are an extra experience for your guests, so why not shake it up? Try these terra cotta pots that feature fresh fruit and herbs and bright florals for an extra pop of color, as the perfect seating chart alternative to a large wall. @kates_calligraphy
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Dani Haims
FLORALS
Rococo Floral co.
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Luxe Minimalism
Think elegant yet understated décor. Refined yet intentional aesthetics. And simple yet opulent design that has its own moment without overshadowing yours. Mix and match bolder orange hues with soft gold textures, woven elements, and butterfly, strawberry, mushroom and wild gumpaste sugar flower cake adornments to create an experience that feels as zestful and unique as you are (even in cozier fall or winter months).
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Kate Preftakes Photography PLANNING Events by Sorrell
CAKE Graceful Baking
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Romantic Silhouettes
Modern details elevate and update the otherwise timeless silhouette of the Montecito gown by Anne Barge. The strapless A-line dress of brushed floral jacquard paired with the asymmetric bodice drape and full pleated skirt add to the lasting allure of its vintage glamour look with the classic taste. annebarge.com, @annebarge
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Demure Bridal Showers
Who says you have to leave the understated elegance to your wedding? Demure design has its place in bridal showers, too. Manchester-based party boutique Ellie and Piper offers a curated selection of premium party goods, home décor and even small gifts so you can party in style. Founder and owner
Tina Marchand used light and airy feathers, white florals and desserts, a sliver of silver in the cutlery and sky blue accents to create a celebration that will leave you on cloud nine. Bonus tip? Try alternating place settings to instantly add more depth to your table. ellieandpiper.com, @ellieandpiperco
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Kimberly Ngim
Real Weddings
PHOTO BY Chris Bennett Photography cbennettweddings.com
ASHLEY ROGERS & BRANDON BORGHI
OCTOBER 7, 2023
The Details
THE WEDDING DAY IN A WORD: Us
WEDDING THEME: Bohemian Lake
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR ASHLEY: During our ceremony, after I walked down the aisle, I took a moment to look back and see everyone that was there to celebrate with us.
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR BRANDON: Being able to have the wedding at Ashley’s family’s property.
BIGGEST SURPRISE: We were surprised with a Mariachi band!
IF YOU COULD DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN: I really don’t think we would change anything at all. Even the rain made our day special!
PIECE OF ADVICE: If you ever find yourself getting stressed while planning something, put it down and walk away. Come back to it when you have a new mindset.
HONEYMOON LOCATION: Dorado Beach Ritz Carlton Reserve in Puerto Rico
CEREMONY
Bay Side Inn bayside-inn.com
FLORIST
Dream Baby Floral dreambabyfloral.com
CATERER The White Apron thewhiteapron.com
CAKE Sweet Caroline sweetcarolinebakerynh.com
HAIR
J Rose Hair Boutique jrosehairboutique.com
MAKEUP
LAVO Beauty lavobeauty.com
RENTALS
Lakes Region Tent & Event lakesregiontent.com
JENNA MACDONALD & IAN BUSCHE
FEBRUARY 3, 2024
The Details
THE WEDDING DAY IN A WORD: Festive
WEDDING THEME: Modern Mountain Lodge
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR JENNA: Listening to Ian’s vows and reading mine to him.
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR IAN: Dancing with Jenna and all of our family and friends to the last (throwback!) song of the night.
BIGGEST SURPRISE: The relief we felt after all was said and done!
IF YOU COULD DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN: We’d try our wedding day out as guests instead of the center of attention.
PIECE OF ADVICE: Try on your complete wedding day ensemble (undergarments and all!) at least once before the big day to avoid needing to make any lastminute adjustments.
We closed the night to Lynyrd Skynyrd’s "Free Bird." Everyone had lighters to hold up on the deck and we ended the song with an epic dance/air guitar party.
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR DON:
The entrance and exit of our wedding
ceremony. Everyone entered to their own Rock and Roll song, and the recessional was to “You’ll Never Walk Alone” that our guests sang together to us as we exited.
BIGGEST SURPRISE:
Our concert-level production reception entrance, and our Frank Sinatra-meets-Star Wars first call of everyone onto the dance floor
complete with a massive Death Star piñata over the guests.
IF YOU COULD DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN: We would build in one more day for recovery afterwards!
PIECE OF ADVICE: Build in some alone time for just the two of you. We did this by taking a drive in a vintage Mustang through the woods to Lake Chocorua while our guests enjoyed cocktail hour.
PHOTOGRAPHY BY Chris Bennett Photography • cbennettweddings.com
KRISTA PALMER & COLIN ROBB
FEBRUARY
10, 2024
The Details
THE WEDDING DAY IN A WORD: Ethereal
WEDDING THEME: Taylor Swift’s Evermore-meets-Noah Kahan’s Stick Season
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR KRISTA: I loved the tender moment of sharing our private vows in one of my favorite nature spots.
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR COLIN: Our friends and family creating a circle around us to sing the last song of the night, “Lover.”
BIGGEST SURPRISE: Mother Nature gave us warm spring-like weather in the middle of winter.
PIECE OF ADVICE: Put time for just the two of you in your schedule for the day.
HONEYMOON LOCATION: Washington (Seattle and National Parks)
FAVORITE HONEYMOON MOMENT: Quiet moments in our cabin with mountain views.
PHOTOGRAPHY BY Robin Easler Photography • robineaslerphotography.com
LUCY KLEMARCZYK & JOSEPH MCDONALD
SEPTEMBER 23, 2023
The Details
THE WEDDING DAY IN A WORD: Bliss
WEDDING THEME:
Jewel Tone Enchanted Forest
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR LUCY: Private first-look and our post-ceremony toast around my family’s kitchen island with closest friends and family.
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR JOSEPH: Private first-look and seeing our families together on the dance floor.
BIGGEST SURPRISE: Installing rain coverings over the ceremony space 24 hours before the wedding! Thankfully, a rainy day creates the most magical wedding photos.
IF YOU COULD DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN: Create a comprehensive rain plan, even if you don’t want to!
PIECE OF ADVICE: Attend cocktail hour if you can.
HONEYMOON LOCATION: Kauai and Oahu, Hawaii
CEREMONY & RECEPTION Klemarczyk Family Home (Private Residence)
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR HAVEN: Dancing! Being in the wedding industry myself, I’ve always loved the energy shift that happens from dinner into dancing.
FAVORITE MOMENT FOR KYLE: Seeing Haven on stage having the time of her life.
BIGGEST SURPRISE: It goes by so fast and the little things really don’t matter! It’s so important to savor every single moment while in the moment.
IF YOU COULD DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN: I don’t think I would change anything, but I definitely didn’t eat any of our late-night pizza we had served, and I’m bummed I missed out on that.
PIECE OF ADVICE: Limit how much you use TikTok and Pinterest for inspiration. Some of the weddings on there have insane budgets and it’s just not practical inspiration for the average couple.
HONEYMOON LOCATION: We are planning a delayed honey moon for our one-year anniversary and are bopping around Europe for 10 days.
RECEPTION, CEREMONY & CATERING Jimmy’s Jazz & Blues Club jimmysoncongress.com
FLORIST York Flower Shop yorkflowershopmaine.com
HAIR & MAKEUP LE Glam Team leglamteam.com
DRESS SALON
Madeleine’s Daughter madeleinesdaughter.com
WEDDING PLANNER
Garrison Anne Weddings & Events garrisonanne.com
MUSIC
DJ Jaz Music and Entertainment mainediscjockey.com
Breathtaking Moments Await in the White Mountains
Photo credits: left column – Megan Kannan, Alisha Norden, The Gowans; middle column – June & Louise, Sydney Kerbyson, The Gowans; right column – Maine Memories, The Gowans, Alisha Norden
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Worth EVERY Penny
A complete guide to creating your wedding budget
Weddings are rich in detail, yet every detail—from a beautifully designed floral bouquet to an intentionally crafted tablescape—comes at a cost.
We know budgeting isn’t the most glamorous or highly anticipated part of the planning process, but it’s easier with a little help and advice from some local New Hampshire wedding pros.
Written
and compiled by:
Emily Heidt
We get it. Wedding budgets can be daunting, sticker shock is real and talking about money gives everyone the “ick.” But having a clearer picture of your nuptial finances will help you get back to what you love: envisioning your dream day. We invited a few New Hampshire wedding pros to pull back the curtain on costs while uncovering the truth behind vendor details like food and floral pricing. From setting aside gratuity tips to proactively planning for unseen expenses, this in-depth guide will help you better set your expectations, and therefore, your budget.
What are a few unexpected expenses that couples don’t always anticipate?
“Decor. While some couples will hire vendors for rentals, candles, signage, etc., others attempt to DIY these items and supply them on their own. Don’t forget, even if you’re making or sourcing it yourself, there’s almost always a cost associated. Candles are a big one. So many couples come to me and say, ‘We plan to use candles instead of florals to save money.’ A few minutes of Google searching and some quick math will tell you that purchasing enough candles for every table can quickly add up to be a hefty expense.”
—Samantha Sheehy, owner and lead planner, The Perfect Match Weddings
“Guest count. If you’re inviting 150, don’t budget for 130–135, unless you feel confident that you’re going to get that RSVP return. I’ve recently had couples whose number of ‘yes’ RSVPs were much higher than they anticipated. That not only adds on extra food and drink, but extra rental items and flowers. These extra costs can add up quick, so if you’re on a tight budget, I’d recommend estimating high so you’re not scrambling after the RSVP deadline. If you end up with a lower number, then great! That extra-unexpected money could go to additional late-night bites or to beef up your floral proposal a tad (or it can go back into your wallet and be put towards your honeymoon)!” —Lindsey Mckitterick, owner and lead planner, Lindsey M. Events
PHOTO BY Alexis the Greek Photography
“Hidden fees associated with vendors i.e., cake-cutting fees through catering if the couple sources a cake through a different baker, labor charges, etc. There are multiple delivery fees when using multiple delivery companies. Many couples don’t also realize how much the catering and bar will actually cost. A lot of couples see the ‘food and beverage minimum’ when booking and think they’ll fall around the minimum. However, this number isn’t telling you at all what your actual guest count and selections will come in at. It’s important to ask for an estimate based on your guest count and desires! When booking a band, don’t forget you need to add ceremony and cocktail hour music. Band pricing is usually an estimate for the reception only.”
—Nicole Mower, owner and lead planner, Nicole Mower Events
Funding Your Food
with The White Apron co-owner
Liz Curcio
Food is often one of the biggest areas of a wedding budget—how can couples best be prepared for it?
Remember that catering is a luxury item. There’s a lot involved with serving highquality food with high-end service in the comfort of your home or at a venue that doesn’t already have a catering facility. Costs will always be higher with an off-premise caterer vs. choosing to be at a hotel or restaurant that has everything needed on-site. A client must consider that we’re purchasing, preparing, packing and transporting the food to a specific location, and then unloading and finishing preparing and serving from, sometimes, a remote setting. The saying “you get what you pay for” is also very true. Choosing to serve roasted chicken vs. beef tenderloin will make a difference in price, but the more food requested with high-end ingredients, the more expensive a menu will be.
What are ways you recommend saving money in your catering budget?
Any budgetary tips in this area?
Menu variations perhaps?
Consider different cuts of meat. A perfectly braised short rib will taste delicious and not cost as much as a ribeye or filet mignon. Create a menu that offers enough food with good variety, but don’t overdo it. Serve a hearty entree with sides and skip the late-night snacks.
Are there any hidden expenses in catering/food that couples don’t know about?
Work with a caterer that is completely transparent about what they offer and do not offer. For example, not all caterers include rentals. The client would be responsible for renting everything needed (china, glassware, silverware, tables, linen, etc.) with the guidance of the caterer. Because caterers will work in different venues and different locations, a kitchen tent may need to be rented for the caterer as well as ovens and other kitchen equipment, if the venue doesn’t already have these items.
thewhiteapron.com, @thewhiteapron
PHOTO BY Mark Spooner Photography
PHOTO BY Kate Preftakes Photography
How do you recommend couples best set their budget? What budgeting factors are good to keep in mind?
“Couples generally come to us with a total spend in mind. However, after we have a discussion with them about their expectations and priorities, we create a budget prediction for each category of vendor (catering, florals, stationery, music, etc.) to give them a more realistic picture of what their ideal wedding will cost. From there, we either decide to increase the budget to accommodate their expectations, or we have a conversation about reprioritizing to align with their original budget. When searching online, you may see percentage-based guidance when creating a wedding budget. For example, you may see that you should set aside a certain percent of your budget for food and beverage. While that can be a general guideline to follow, many things you read online about costs in the wedding industry are outdated. We believe in a priorities-based approach to your budget. For example, if an online article says to allocate 10% of your budget to florals, but you hate florals, you shouldn’t be spending 10% of your budget on that. Instead, maybe you allocate 5% of your budget on florals and put that remaining 5% toward increasing your catering budget (or something else that is more important to you).”
—Samantha Sheehy
PHOTOS BY Mark Spooner Photography
“I always recommend that couples make a list of the top three most important aspects of their wedding day. What do you want your guests saying when they walk away from the weekend? If it’s that the food was delicious, that the dance floor was packed and that you end up with stunning photos, then you should build your budget around those three things. Hire an amazing caterer, a killer band and a talented photographer. Pick what’s most important to you and agree to dedicate a larger portion of your budget towards those items. It’s all about tailoring a budget based on what’s important to you.”
—Lindsey Mckitterick
“Work with a planner, ask questions to vendors before booking and ask friends who’ve been married what their vendors cost, but take into consid-
eration when they were married. If it was a few years ago, don’t expect the rates to be the same. Vendors often increase their rates due to becoming more experienced in their craft, raises for themselves and their team, etc. Also take guest count into consideration. A 150-person wedding will be more expensive than a 100-person wedding, and a 150-person wedding is 1.5 times larger than the size of a 100-person wedding. This matters because of staffing, food and bar, rentals, etc.!”
—Nicole Mower
What do you recommend couples make room for in their budget?
“Couples should make room in their budget for the things that matter most to them. If food is really important to you, but you hate dessert, then your
catering budget is likely going to be higher than your dessert budget. The wedding is about the couple and should reflect their preferences. Not what is considered ‘typical.’ Couples should also make room for necessary expenses in their budget. Take a close look at your venue and see what is required for your guests to have a safe and comfortable experience from a logistics standpoint. Do you have trash cans? Bathrooms? Enough lighting for guests to safely move about the space? Does your venue have enough parking or do they require transportation for your guests? These things should be non-negotiables.”
—Samantha Sheehy
“An amazing and professional venue with a killer staff. If you’re hosting a wedding that requires a catering company, put the money into hiring an
Allocating for Your Arrangements with EH Floral owner Emily Herzig
Why are flowers so expensive?
Flowers don’t necessarily need to be expensive to be beautiful, but you may need to look away from the traditional Pinterest search bar to get inspired if you are on a shoestring budget. While a single stem may only cost a few dollars at the wholesale or retail level, wedding decorations require A LOT of stems, many different supplies to create the perfect mechanics, lots of people and lots time to get them in the perfect condition for a wedding.
Flowers are also ordered in large quantities, not by the individual stem. Each flower variety has its own special way of being properly cared for from refrigeration requirements to the transportation, from the farm or wholesale house to the florist—it’s a commodity that requires a huge commitment, long term investment, and lots of people power beyond just the hands of the farmers and florists who create them.
From large warehouses to small garage studios, the overhead from one floral design company to another can vary a lot, which is one reason the same wedding can result in very different quotes from one florist to another. More importantly, you’re also paying for expertise and experience, and also labor.
How do couples save money in their floral budget?
Instead of looking at lots of different types of flowers, consider streamlining your décor by focusing on mass blooms and less mixed varieties. In-season flowers that are grown locally or in the United States have a smaller carbon footprint and can make an impact toward cutting costs. Work with a florist that is within an hour of the venue to eliminate high travel fees for design teams. Consider also incorporating plants! Potted plants can be another great way to bring the outdoors to your wedding décor. People love plants—if you can allow guests to take the flower décor home after the wedding, you may also save on strike and clean-up costs. ehfloral.com, @ehfloral
PHOTO BY Paper Antler Photography
experienced company. I promise you that it will be worth it! Additionally, make sure that taxes, service charges and any gratuities are included in your budget from the jump.”
—Lindsey Mckitterick
“Transportation is a very important consideration for overall guest experience and it’s something you need to budget for. There are economical options like school buses, yes, but if you’re looking to use a motorcoach or trolley, then you will need to plan ahead. Don’t forget to book enough shuttles for your guest count. Don’t plan on doing trips, as that means a group of guests will arrive very early and be standing around with nothing to do and watching vendors set up while the trolley loops back around to pick up other guests. If your wedding design and the energy of the day is important to you, we also highly recommend budgeting for lighting. Lighting can completely shift the mood of your event from casual dinner mingling to dance party, and it can also drastically uplevel your design by helping highlight (literally) the important details of the day.”
—Nicole Mower
What is your top budgeting tip for engaged couples?
“There are two things that engaged couples need to consider when setting their budget—guest count and expectations. These items impact budget more than anything else. For example, hosting a 50-person wedding is going to cost way less than hosting a 200person wedding. Your expectations also matter. A lot of couples will ask me, ‘Is it possible to host a wedding for $xxk?’ It’s possible to host a wedding at any price range, BUT what are your expectations of that wedding? What does the decor look like? What kind of food do you want to serve? Is there an open bar? Is there a band or a DJ? Ensuring all three of these points (budget, guest count and expectations) are balanced will be the key to pulling off a successful wedding.”
—Samantha Sheehy
PHOTO BY Jackie Fox Photography
“Start saving early (if you can). Set a detailed budget from the beginning that includes any taxes, service charges and gratuities so you’re prepared. Stick with your budget as you embark on the planning process!”
—Lindsey Mckitterick
“What you see on social media and Pinterest is the best of the best. Vendors are putting out their best work. It’s absolutely possible to have a beautiful and fun wedding on a lower budget; however, it’s important to manage your expectations if looking online for inspiration. I’d also argue that your guest experience is more important than your wedding design. Your guests’ experience is how you will re-live your wedding memories, so ensuring they have a great experience means that you will hear lovely stories for years on end.” —Nicole Mower
What are some ways to save money in a couples’ budget? What are the first areas to cut, workarounds or DIY options that you recommend?
“I’ll always come back to their priorities. Is there something in the budget that’s taking up space that isn’t that important to the couple? That would be an area to cut back. The fastest way to cut costs is to reduce your guest count. It can be helpful to calculate what your per guest cost is. For example, try to think beyond just the meal. What is the cost of the open bar, the napkin and chair rental, the water glass upgrade, the dessert, the stationery, the favors, etc.? Knowing the cost per guest can help you understand what the impact of adding (or reducing) the guest count by even a few people equals. It adds up quickly!”
—Samantha Sheehy
“Cut your guest count. I know that sounds harsh, but extra guests add up really quick and fewer guests means less food, drink, rentals, flowers, invites…the list goes on. While I absolutely love creating unique and new event décor items, if you’re on a budget, utilizing online resources (such as Facebook Marketplace) is an amazing way to purchase beautiful décor items for less and, in most cases, in mint condition!” —Lindsey Mckitterick
“Pre-wedding paper goods like save the dates and invitations can be done in a very low-cost manner (i.e. Minted) to then focus that money into what guests will be experiencing on the wedding day. You can also cut costs with beauty services and not covering the full bridal party and with florals by repurposing ceremony florals to the reception space.” —Nicole Mower
Above: PHOTO BY Mark Spooner Photography
Right: PHOTO BY Kate Preftakes Photography
PHOTO BY Meghan Kannan Photography
PHOTO BY Alexis the Greek Photography
NICOLE MOWER
PHOTO BY Lindsay Hackney Photography
PHOTO BY Lindsay Hackney Photography
Tipping Your Team
with Events by Sorrell owner Sorrell Downing
“Follow the standards of everyday life when deciding who should receive gratuity at your wedding. If you would tip them at a salon or restaurant, you’ll tip them at a wedding. Take into consideration how hard and long your vendors worked to make your dream day happen. Otherwise, tipping is optional.”
Extra Tips:
• It’s the thought that counts—these are mere suggestions.
• Cash is usually the preferred method of tipping. Please place each vendor’s tip in separate and sealed envelopes.
• Don’t forget to write a review or handwritten thank you note. Your words of affirmation mean the world to your vendors and reviews allow for business growth!
PHOTO BY Kate Preftakes Photography
VENDOR CATEGORY
Bartending Staff
AMOUNTSTANDARD/ OPTIONAL
NOTES
$100–$300Standard If there’s a tip jar, there’s not usually an additional tip given
Catering Service Staff 18–20% of food cost (not including service costs)
Hair and Makeup Artists
Planner
Floral
Photographer(s) and Videographer(s)
Ceremony Musicians
DJ
Band
Transportation
Bakery
Rental Delivery Personnel
Venue Personnel
Hired Officiant
Lighting
18–20% of service cost
$200–$1,000 or 10% of planning package
Standard Goes directly to day-of staff
StandardOften included—check your contract
Standard Contingent on level of service you booked
$100–$300OptionalContingent on the level of installation
$100–$500StandardIf you have multiple photographers, it is standard that the main photographer will receive more than the second photographer
$100 per musician
StandardSmaller bills make it easier to distribute
$200–$500Standard Larger tip if they provide additional services
$100–$200 per member
Standard Don’t forget there are crew members involved
$50–$100 per driver OptionalMultiple shuttles? Use envelopes and hand directly to driver
$50–$100Optional This goes to whoever delivers your cake to the venue
$25–$50 per person OptionalGoes to who delivers your rentals
$100–$200StandardIf you’ve worked closely with someone or would like to tip the manager
$50–$100OptionalConsider tipping to thank them
$50–$100OptionalGoes to who installs your lighting
EUROPEAN Elegance
Destination style without the passport
European weddings are often known for their effortless styling and elevated guest experiences. From multiple-course desserts served on a dry ice tablescape to a live artist painting the bridal bouquet, wedding planner Rachel Dover of Odyssey Event Designs and her thoughtfully assembled team of vendors sought to create a series of awe-inspiring guest experiences against the stunning backdrop of the historic Aldworth Manor in Harrisville.
By: Kayla Hollatz Mitchell
Creative direction and design: Odyssey Event Designs
Photography: Sierra Archer Photography
In the hushed moments as the couple gets ready, all of the intricate details come into full focus. The character and charm already built into the space—the ornate mirror framed in gold, the patinaed brass candlesticks, the antique clock and the marble-tiled fireplace—all create a memorable setting for a storybook wedding.
“We wanted to create a romantic design for couples who want to stay in the moment,” says Dover. “They appreciate experiences… and want a slower, carefree timeline for their wedding.”
Before the flurry of highlyanticipated activities begins, the couple can take a deep breath as they walk hand in hand into the celebratory day they’ve been dreaming of.
A historic estate resting on 170 rolling acres in southern New Hampshire, Aldworth Manor evokes a sense of old-world charm. Originally built in Massachusetts in the early 1800s and later moved to New Hampshire in the early 1900s, the venue features stunning views of Mount Monadnock and wild sprawling meadows—all of which can be seen from its elaborate terraced garden.
Its Italian-style architecture was the initial inspiration behind this classically romantic wedding design. With its swooping archways, tall narrow windows, neutral stucco finish and carefully trimmed hedges, Aldworth Manor embodies all of the historic elegance of an Italian villa nestled in the countryside.
“It gives you the feeling of a destination wedding without needing to leave the state,” says cinematic photographer Sierra Archer of Sierra Archer Photography.
Tasked with creating a vibrant floral design late in the autumnal season, florist Allyson Rand of Clementina Floral Co. set out to sustainably forage moss, beech and maple branches to pair with many locally sourced blooms. “We try as often as possible to work within the seasons,” says Rand. “Late autumn usually requires some importing, but sourcing locally grown flowers is always our goal.”
When arranging the bridal bouquet, Rand selected yellow and Ariadne butterfly ranunculus flowers to blend with Star of Bethlehem florals and imported oncidium orchids. Hot biscuit amaranthus florals were added to look as if the bouquet was plucked from a nearby wild garden.
Rand’s favorite vignette from the day was the climbing foliage she added to the tall exterior archway, intentionally curling the branches inward to draw attention to the loggia. In Italy, the loggia is commonly used as an outdoor gallery meant to provide shade while allowing for gorgeous views, natural light and airflow—making it an ideal spot for the reception table.
Across the tablescape, Rand intentionally arranged a wild array of dahlias, roses and ranunculus florals in hues of golden mustard, toffee, yellow and bronze. Placed alongside tall white candles, the organic floral design made a bold visual statement, as did the textured beauty of the teal velvet tablecloth and mustard-yellow frayed-edge linens.
A minimal flat charger plate with tall glassware allowed other elements of the tablescape to shine. The golden flatware with crystal handles added a luxe touch to the design while pairing well with the dry ice experience.
To further delight guests as they arrive at their seats, Dover decided to incorporate dry ice into the teal-accented tablescape. Cascading across the table, the delicate swirls of dry ice created a dramatic smokey effect sure to impress guests before the first course is served.
“European weddings are all about sharing a multiplecourse dinner with your loved ones,” says Dover. “Their weddings don’t end quickly, so it’s all about creating a memorable experience from start to finish.”
For added whimsy, artist Paige Lindsey of Paige Lindsey Designs created a live painting—a growing trend among modern brides. While live painters traditionally paint a scene from the day, Lindsey takes a unique approach by painting the bridal bouquet as a keepsake for the couple. What better way to captivate guests as they enter the reception room than a live painter?
Mirroring the watercolor effect of the live painting, baker Laura Marie of Eatxactly Sweet Cafe created a true work of art with her three-tiered wedding cake. With a non-traditional flair, Marie hand-painted an intricate illustration of Aldworth Manor in varying hues of blue, accenting the low-pitched roof, windows and columns in the venue’s design.
Drawing the eye with a tangerine, ink-spill-inspired illustration on its top tier, the cake also featured wrapping greenery which blended seamlessly into the foraged branches and flowers surrounding the cake table.
With more sweets for guests to enjoy, Dover envisioned guests being served individual European desserts upon their arrival. Marie opted for a delicious lemon whipped meringue dessert topped with seasonal fruit and an edible flower.
Incorporating the rich teal from the table linens into the envelope design and accompanying ribbon, stationery artist Meghan Carey of Meghan Carey Design assembled a beautiful invitation suite for the ages. The whimsical vintage stamps and romantic handwritten calligraphy give the invitation suite a curated look.
With the allure of a vintage Victorian gown, the Clara Wedding Gown from Watters was a natural selection for Lindsay Feeney of Madeleine’s Daughter Bridal Boutique, with its volumed long sleeves and luxurious Vellan Charmeuse material. The gown looked timelessly elegant with a plunging V-neckline and a similar V-shaped back. For an hourglass shape effect, the refined dress could be cinched at the waist with an adjustable tie.
Inspired by the classic romantic design, hair and makeup artist Lauren Shidler of Brides by Lauren kept it simple by following the low bun trend, complete with curled layered bangs to beautifully frame the bride’s face. For a similar aesthetic, Shidler chose to highlight the bride’s eyes with bronze eyeshadow and bold lashes while keeping her lip color neutral.
To complete the look, jeweler Denise Graves of Natalie T. Designs handcrafted each piece from the minimalist dropdown necklace and earrings to the one-of-a-kind diamond engagement ring. Embracing the unique beauty of an irregularly cut diamond, the engagement ring was made from 18k rose gold featuring a 3-carat raw diamond that’s surrounded by a halo of brilliant-cut 2mm diamonds.
As guests savor every experience with awe and wonder, the couple can finally sneak away for a quiet moment together. Delighting in how the day unfolded, the bride can stash away her floor-length embroidered veil and trade her heels for casual flats, ready to run off into the sunset—the storybook ending she had always pictured.
The historic Lucknow Estate is the perfect location for the wedding of your dreams. Our team works with you to design a unique experience for your special day. Featuring a one-of-a-kind ceremony location on the lawns of the Lucknow Mansion, as well as indoor, outdoor, and tented reception options, Castle in the Clouds is the perfect location to say “I do” for a lifetime.
Email for more information: info@oscarbarnweddingvenue.com www.oscarbarnweddingvenue.com
Overlooking picturesque Hip Peas Farm and the scenic Merrimack River, our intimate venue is the ideal destination for couples seeking that rustic, yet elegant style wedding full of relaxation, inspiration and bliss.
Oscar Barn Wedding Venue located on Hip Peas Farm with it’s historic farmhouse is family owned and offers wedding packages with accommodations for up to 16 guests.
Outdoor receptions and events can be held in the flower fields, greenhouses or crop landscape, with a picturesque view of the Merrimack River.
Centrally located, just a few minutes off I 93, and a short drive from the Manchester/Boston Airport.
| Vendor List
Manchester Country Club | $$
180 South River Road, Bedford 603-624-4096; manchestercountryclub.com
Capacity: 300
Nashua Country Club | $$ 25 Fairway St., Nashua 603-888-0121; nashuacountryclub.com
Capacity: 200
Oscar Wedding Barn Venue | contact for pricing
191 West River Road, Hooksett 603-340-8361; oscarbarnweddingvenue.com
Capacity: Varies with tent package
Palace Theatre | $$ 80 Hanover St., Manchester 603-668-5588; palacetheatre.org
Purity Spring Resort | $$ 1251 Eaton Rd., Madison 603-367-8896; purityspring.com
Capacity: 200
Rek-Lis Brewing Company | Contact for pricing | $$ 2085 Main St., Bethlehem 603-991-2357; reklisbrewing.com
Capacity: 100
Snowy Owl Inn | $$
41 Village Rd., Waterville Valley 603-236-8383; snowyowlinn.com
Capacity: 90
Stonehurst Manor | $$
3351 White Mountain Hwy., North Conway 603-356-3113; stonehurstmanor.com Capacity: 150
The Toad Hill Farm | $$$ 260 Fobes Rd., Franconia 603-616-7150; thetoadhillfarm.com
Capacity: Contact for details
The Wentworth; A White Mountain Inn | $$ 1 Carter Notch Rd., Jackson 603-383-9700; thewentworth.com Capacity: 200
Waterville Valley Resort | $$ 1 Ski Area Rd., Waterville Valley 603-236-8311; waterville.com Capacity: 410 indoors; 440 outdoors
White Mountain Hotel & Resort | $$ 87 Fairway Dr., North Conway 800-533-6301; whitemountainhotel.com Capacity: 120 indoors; 200 outdoors
The Barn at Whitney’s Inn | $$ 357 Black Mountain Rd.; Jackson 603-383-8916, thebarnatwhitneys.com Capacity: 200
The Woodstock Inn Brewery | $$ 135 Main St, North Woodstock 603-745-3951; woodstockinnbrewery.com Capacity: 200
A RESOURCE LIST OF VENUES, VENDORS AND MORE TO HELP YOU PLAN YOUR SPECIAL DAY
MORE DETAILS FROM “EUROPEAN ELEGANCE” AT ALDWORTH MANOR ON PAGE 54 PHOTOGRAPHY BY SIERRA ARCHER PHOTOGRAPHY
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Averill House Vineyard
There’s no better location to celebrate a special occasion than our rustic and charming venue. Whether enjoying our outside or indoor venue, the Averill House team can help make your event one of a kind throughout our picturesqe vineyard and 1830s building. We hope we have the opportunity to provide you with a lifetime of memories. Make an inquiry to book an appointment to start planning today!
Perched high on a mountaintop, Castle in the Clouds is the perfect enchanted storybook setting for your wedding. Join us as we transport your guests via vintage trolley from garden ceremony to terrace cocktails followed by a reception with grand views of Lake Winnipesaukee.
455 Old Mountain Rd., Moultonborough 603-476-5900 • castleintheclouds.org • See our ad on page 64
Bellman’s Jewelers
At Bellman’s Jewelers, we specialize in custom wedding bands and engagement rings. These bands are just an example of the pieces we have helped customers create! If you dream it, we will create it! Using our Cad software and 3D printing capabilities, we will make sure the ring is perfect for you.
1650 Elm St. • Manchester, NH • 603-625-4653 bellmans.com • See our ad on page 67
The Inn at Thorn Hill & Spa
Experience the height of luxury and romance amidst the stunning Mount Washington Valley at The Inn at Thorn Hill. Our elopement package invites you, your partner and up to 30 of your closest guests to exchange vows in an intimate ceremony on our picturesque property, followed by a stay in our lavish guest rooms. Say “I Do” to luxury—book your dream wedding today.
40 Thorn Hill Rd., Jackson • 603-383-4242 • innatthornhill.com
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Nashua Country Club
From the moment you step onto the property, you will be welcomed by our professional team of experts that are eager to ensure your every desire is met. Only one event per day is held in our Grand Ballroom to ensure that you receive the first-class service that you deserve. Remember, you don’t have to be a member of the Nashua Country Club to be treated like one.
Pleased to host events up to 220, 180 with a dance floor. Wedding showers and rehearsal dinners, too!
25 Fairway St., Nashua • 603-888-0121
nashuacountryclub.com
• See our ad on page 69
The Margate Resort
The Margate Resort is a premier resort located on the shores of Lake Winnipesaukee. All of your wedding needs at one location: ceremony, reception and guest rooms. Many options are available for your special day. Inside: Grand Ballroom, Mariah Room overlooking the lake. Outside: Our new venue The Lakeside Pavilion, West Lawn, or directly on the beach. Consider an after-hours pool party, fireworks or a campfire on the beach! You will receive the best personalized service from start to finish. The Margate, where beautiful memories begin.
76 Lake St., Laconia 1-800-MARGATE • themargate.com
Manchester Country Club
The perfect backdrop for your special day, we invite you to learn how our modern Great Room and outdoor space can be your unique wedding destination. Love is for everyone; membership is not required to host your wedding with us.
180 South River Rd., Bedford • 603-624-4096 manchestercountryclub.com
See our ad on the inside back cover
Newfound Lake Inn
Newfound Lake Inn has been welcoming travelers since 1840 as an overnight stop on the stage-coach route from Boston to Montreal. A perfect venue for destination weddings, outside in our extensive gardens or inside the newly renovated barn accommodating up to 200 guests. Only two hours from the Boston airport, the Newfound area is one of the premier, fourseason vacation spots in New Hampshire.
1030 Mayhew Tpke., Bridgewater • 603-744-3894
newfoundlake.com
• See our ad on page 75
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Omni Mount Washington Resort
Dreaming of the perfect fairy-tale wedding? At the Omni Mount Washington Resort, you’ll find everything you need to make it so. Breathtaking scenery. Stunning ballrooms. Inspiring outdoor settings. Say “I do” at the stunning Crystal Hills event venue, high atop the slopes of Bretton Woods and serviced by the state’s only eight-passenger gondola. Whether you envision an elegant outdoor ceremony, framed by the beautiful White Mountain National Forest, or a formal indoor affair, we’ll help you find the ideal setting to fit your unique style.
310 Mt. Washington Hotel Rd., Bretton Woods • 603-278-8813 omnihotels.com/mountwashington
Showcase Events Rentals
Your event, masterfully executed. Full service and month-of coordination services. I’ve been in the wedding industry for more than 20 years (venue owner, caterer, rentals) always a planner. My goal is to use my experience to your advantage. Let me help navigate the details and organize the day, maximizing your enjoyment. You should be reveling in the love of family, friends and glowing with happiness (not stress!), because you’ve surrounded yourself with professionals who care as much about the outcome of your event as you do!
Moultonborough• 603-986-5525
showcasenh.com
• See our ad on page 4
The Artisan Hotel
Experience the best in elegance and artistry as The Artisan Hotel becomes the blank canvas for your New England wedding masterpiece. Our upscale weddings are meticulously handcrafted and customized to realize the vision of brides and grooms alike. With the guidance of our dedicated wedding planner and the expertise of our on-site catering team, every detail of your celebration is crafted to perfection. Visit our website to begin planning your bespoke wedding experience in Salem from venues to menus to all the little moments that make your celebration an affair to remember.
17 Via Toscana, Salem • 603-912-8450
theartisanhotelattuscanvillage.com
See our ad on page 1
Pines Country Club
Gorgeous setting. Brand new facility. Amazing service. Your big day will be absolutely perfect. Special features at this beautiful venue include a private bridal suite, groom’s room, indoor and outdoor bar, outdoor cocktail space overlooking the golf course and ceremony location, outdoor fireplace, and indoor fireplace in the banquet room. Call today to discuss your event with our attentive staff, and we will create your dream wedding down to the very last detail.
45 Whittemore Road, Pembroke • 603-210-1365
pembrokepinescc.com
• See our ad on the inside front cover
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Glen Lake Dental
Located on the rocky coast in Odiorne Point State Park, Seacoast Science Center’s extensive oceanfront views include lighthouses, the Piscataqua River and the Isles of Shoals, providing a beautiful setting for your celebration and perfect backdrop for amazing photographs. The 40′ x 90′ tent is ideal for your reception—from a formal banquet to a fun lobster bake. Guests can also enjoy indoor exhibits. Your rental supports SSC’s mission to inspire conservation of our Blue Planet.
In Odiorne Point State Park Rte. 1A, 570 Ocean Blvd., Rye • 603-436-8043 seacoastsciencecenter.org • rentals-events@sscnh.org
Owl’s Nest Resort
Nestled in the White Mountains of New Hampshire, you will find Owl’s Nest Resort. Owl’s Nest is surrounded by breathtaking mountain range views, luxurious accommodations, a WellNest Spa, 18-hole golf course, 3-sport racquet complex, Lake Harold with lake activities and much more. Choose from either the Sunset Pavilion or Lakehouse venues. Both locations boast outdoor ceremony spaces, gourmet cuisine, attentive staff and a bevy of photo opportunities. Owl’s Nest Resort is the perfect location for your White Mountain destination wedding.
40 Clubhouse Ln., Thornton • owlsnestresort.com @owlsnestresortevents • See our ad on page 41
Make a lasting impression with your smile! Are you getting ready to celebrate your big day? Or the special wedding of your precious child? Whether you want to protect your healthy teeth, address oral health problems, or enhance the appearance of your smile, Glen Lake Dental can help! Contact us today to create a custom treatment plan the gives you the results you’ve been looking for.
553 Mast Rd, Unit 11, Goffstown • 603-668-5307 glenlakedentalnh.com • See our ad on page 87
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To inquire about Wedding Gallery advertising in the next issue, or for other advertising information, contact Josh Auger at 603-661-9410, jauger@nhmagazine.com.
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A Look Back
We got in touch with the couples featured in Real Weddings in previous years and asked them to tell us about the biggest thing that's happened since their wedding day ...
September 10, 2022
Aquene Kenerson & Brian Carlson
“We bought a house in Denver, Colorado and have been traveling a lot starting with our honeymoon to Patagonia and Uruguay, and most recently to Switzerland and Paris for the Olympics.”
January 11, 2023
Emily Isbell & David Kenneally
“We welcomed our baby girl Penelope into our family in December.”
January 21, 2023
Hilary Sheppard & Peter Gill
“We honeymooned in Iceland, celebrated our one-year anniversary by moving into what we hope will be our ‘forever home,’ and welcomed our first baby, Brian, in February.”
September 24, 2022
Emma Mercier & Peter (PJ) Hamill
“We finished renovating/ adding on to our log cabin and also welcomed our son Peter 10 months ago.”
Your Wedding, Our Venue
Ma nch este r Coun t ry Clu b
We’ve been celebrating the greatest love stories since we opened our doors in 1923. It’s easy to say we care about your wedding being the most special day of your life.
With space to accommodate up to 260 guests, we host only one wedding at a time so we can focus entirely on you. Our place is yours, and you decide when you’d like your six-hour reception to begin.
Introducing our new Pavilion! This covered outdoor event space, with full panoramic views of our golf course, is the perfect backdrop for saying your ‘I Do’s’. Now booking 2025/2026 weddings!
Reach new heights together with your wedding at Omni Mount Washington Resort. Share your vows atop the open-air Jewell Terrace amid New England’s most dramatic mountain peaks or ascend to the summit of Bretton Woods for a celebration at the stunning Crystal Hills venue, with guest transport via the Bretton Woods Skyway Gondola. Elegant event spaces, exquisite menus and expert planning further elevate your perfect day in New Hampshire’s White Mountains.
