Where your love story begins
Luxury weddings & bridal retreats
High above Oamaru, with sweeping 270° views of harbour, ocean and hills, Tirohanga Nui Lodge offers an exclusive and intimate setting for life’s most meaningful moments.
A place of calm, beauty and refined luxury — designed for brides, couples and those who celebrate with them.
The perfect place to get ready
Begin your wedding day in quiet luxury. Our elegant suites provide a serene, light-filled space for hair, make-up and unforgettable pre-ceremony photographs.
• Accommodation for the bride and two bridesmaids the night before
• Groom welcome to join on the wedding night
• Thoughtfully designed interiors for a calm, luxurious start to your day.
Arrive in style - stay for the magic
From timeless arrival to honeymoon bliss, every detail, effortlessly arranged.
1965 Mustang Notchback available for wedding photography and transport
• 7-Seater Mercedes for refined group travel
• Champagne and curated platters available on request
• Stay on for your honeymoon - picnic baskets, scenic day trips and optional luxury transfers to River T Winery.
A proposal to remember
Propose in privacy and beauty - on a secluded terrace overlooking the harbour, or beside the firepit under open skies. An unforgettable setting for a once in a lifetime question.
A breathtaking start to forever. www.tirohanganuilodge.co.nz
BESPOKE WEDDING & ENGAGEMENT
Our manufacturing jewellers take pride in custom making quality jewellery, working with you from an initial obligation-free consultation right through the design and manufacturing process to ensure the perfect outcome. The entire process is completed on site, so you can be involved every step of the way.
Auckland’s Premier Bridal Studio for Designer Gowns, Custom Wedding Dresses & Alterations www.alterme.co.nz
An affordable touch of class
Established in 2011, we provide for brides on a budget. Purchase prices of all wedding gowns ranging between $395 and $995. Most available for hire too.
Visit us in store for stress-free personal service and advice.
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WELCOME TO THE LATEST EDITION OF MY WEDDING – YOUR GUIDE TO ALL THINGS BREATHTAKING, PERSONAL, AND UNFORGETTABLE IN THE WORLD OF WEDDINGS.
In this issue, we dive deep into the stories, trends, and professionals shaping modern celebrations. From couture gowns that redefine elegance to venue inspiration that will sweep you off your feet, every page has been lovingly curated to help you plan with purpose and joy.
We explore the rise of multi-moment bridal fashion, unforgettable florals, and destination weddings that blend luxury with local heart. Whether you're newly engaged or counting down the days, we hope this issue inspires not just your day — but your forever.
Thank you for letting us be part of your journey.
With love.
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10. DESIGNER SPOTLIGHT FROM
OF INSPIRATION TO THE FINAL STITCH BY SARAH STOUTE
16. BIGGER, BOLDER, BRIDAL
WHAT NEW YORK FASHION WEEK TAUGHT US ABOUT STATEMENT STYLE
24. SOFT GLAM SECRETS THE MAKEUP LOOK THAT’S DEFINED A BRIDAL GENERATION
31. MEMORABLE FAVOURS
THE GUEST GIFTS THAT PEOPLE ACTUALLY KEEP
43. WHEN THE WEATHER TURNS
RAIN-PROOF YOUR WEDDING WITHOUT LOSING THE MAGIC
50. THE 12-MONTH COUNTDOWN
YOUR ULTIMATE PLANNING TIMELINE FROM ‘YES’ TO ‘I DO’ 16.
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You can be assured of modern accommodation for your Wedding guests in a quiet position.
Lincoln Motel is in close proximity to Local Wedding venues in Tai Tapu, Templeton, Prebbleton and Lincoln.
For the Bride and Groom we also have a Honeymoon Suite.
Your Hosts Craig and Colleen welcome you to Lincoln Motel and are happy to go that extra distance to ensure a pleasant stay in Lincoln.
The bridal care experts
We pride ourselves on providing quality care to ensure that the attire for your whole wedding party is thoroughly looked after, receiving the attention it deserves.
Complementary packaging of your wedding dress is included with every clean to allow you and future generations to enjoy for years to come.
Perdita
Modern, structured, the juxtaposition of strong and feminine. This gown is here to make a statement. From a draped skirt to a boned corset, she has a bit of everything. The clean lines and sculpted silhouette make her feel effortlessly elevated, with just enough drama to turn heads from every angle.
Rosalind
She is here to dance the night away and bring all the sparkle! A long-sleeve, high-neckline mini with button detail at the neck and a mini slip. What more could you ask for from this after-party dress? It’s playful, polished, and made for the bride who wants to shine long after the formalities are done.
Miranda Cape
Cut from a lustrous, highshine fabric, it features an off-the-shoulder neckline with bold puff sleeves that frame the décolletage beautifully, balancing softness with sculptural structure. The skirt falls in effortless, sweeping folds for a clean, couture feel. Understated, elegant, and impossible to ignore.
Bow Veil
A custom, handmade veil finished with hand-tied ribbon bows for a playful yet elevated touch. Each bow is delicately positioned and individually hand-sewn onto the veil, creating the perfect balance of fun, fashion and timeless beauty. Ribbons are available in light blue (pictured), ivory, and white, with additional colours available on request. The veil is a double-tier 35-inch design, crafted in soft French tulle.
DRESS: BEATRICE
Bigger, bolder, bridal
WRITTEN BY PAIGE O’BRIEN
New York Bridal Fashion Week Fall 2026 presented a new chapter for modern bridal design, one defined by craftsmanship, innovation and unapologetic grandeur.
As reported by Vogue’s Shelby Wax, designers collectively turned toward “bigger and bolder” statements, reaffirming that individuality and emotion remain at the heart of contemporary bridal fashion.
The reinvention of lace
Lace re-emerged as a leading material this season, though in more architectural and experimental forms than ever before. Designers such as Francesca Miranda, Kyha, Markarian, and House of Gillies approached the fabric with structural layering, bold patterning, and intricate appliqué techniques. Rather than relying on traditional motifs, collections embraced openwork lace, crochet detailing, and textural combinations that balanced delicacy with dimension.
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Photographer: Leo Farrell Photography @leofarrellphoto www.leofarrell.com
Wedding: Geena and Aleck
Embellishment as illumination
This season also confirmed the return of high embellishment. Gowns across multiple collections featured sequins, pearls, crystal appliqués, and fine beadwork. Designers such as Elie Saab, Marmar Halim, and Floure leaned into extravagance, creating gowns that transformed movement into spectacle.
The bow becomes a statement
The traditional bridal bow experienced a deliberate reimagining. No longer confined to the back of gowns, bows appeared prominently at the front, whether structured across the bodice or draped in soft satin at the waist. As Vogue observed, at least a dozen gowns featured this motif, signalling its rise as one of the season’s most recognisable details.
Outwear recognised
Capes, coats, and layered wraps emerged as defining features of this season’s bridal collections. Designers, including One/Of, Sept, and Monique Lhuillier, showcased outerwear not as a practical layer, but as an integral component of the gown’s overall design. Textured fabrics, such as feathered trims, lace overlays, and minimalist structured coats, added both function and character. This trend is giving brides who are marrying in the cooler months greater adaptability, as well as the opportunity for a visual transformation throughout their day. The result is a trend that harmonises practicality with haute couture composition.
Experimental textiles
Material innovation played a massive role at NYBFW Fall 2026. Traditional satins and tulles were contrasted with unconventional fabrics, such as laser-cut feathers, chain-mail-like textiles, and organza with fluid, metallic finishes. These experimental materials demonstrated that bridal fashion is increasingly a site of both technical exploration and beauty. By blending advanced fabrication with precision, these designers have expanded on what a wedding dress can be: expressive, tactile, and unbound by convention.
The return of volume
After several years of restraint, volume has returned to the bridal silhouette. Ballgowns with sweeping skirts and layered underskirts dominated the collections, reflecting a resurgence of grandeur. Designers balance this with more structured bodices, creating sculptural proportions that feel modern rather than nostalgic.
Multi-moment dressing
A final key trend was the introduction of second-day and reception-ready looks. Bridal design is increasingly accommodating of multi-event celebrations, with gowns, mini dresses, and tailored suits for rehearsal dinners, after-parties, and post-wedding brunches. This evolution shows how weddings have changed. The modern bride now moves gracefully through a number of environments, with fashion designed to transition between them. The emphasis is on versatility without compromise.
A season of expression
Overall, the trends unveiled at New York Bridal Fashion Week Fall 2026 point to a season defined by creative freedom. Lace is no longer restrained, embellishment is no longer considered excessive, and outerwear is no longer an afterthought. This new direction in bridal design shows brides and brides-to-be around the world that drama and detail, comfort and couture, can coexist beautifully.
Size matters
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Crafted elegance
Handcrafted platinum wedding band featuring 1.65cts of round brilliant cut diamonds www.kentmorgan.co.nz
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Timeless treasures
The Rosetta Ring
A modern interpretation of a traditional bezel setting www.roccabella.co.nz
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Endless envy
Crafted in platinum, marquise diamond complimented with pear shaped emeralds www.rings.co.nz
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diamond ring captures the elegance of the art deco era www.jfj.co.nz
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From petal to plate
Your wedding cake is more than a dessert — it’s a centrepiece, a photo moment, and a reflection of your celebration’s style.
While baking your own cake may seem personal or cost-effective, it often brings unnecessary stress at a time when calm is priceless.
Professional cake designers combine years of technical skill with specialised equipment, precise timing, and food-safety knowledge to ensure a flawless result. From structural stability and flawless finishes to flavour balance and dietary considerations, every detail is carefully planned and tested in advance.
Wedding cakes must also travel, stand for hours, and be cut and served seamlessly — all while looking perfect. Temperature control, storage, and last-minute handling are critical and difficult to manage at home.
In the days leading up to your wedding, your time is better spent resting, celebrating, and enjoying the moment. Leaving your cake to a professional ensures it tastes as good as it looks — and lets you savour your day, stress-free.
First taste of forever
Canterbury wedding cake specialist crafting bespoke designs for unforgettable moments. www.merakicakes.co.nz
Photo kindly supplied by Meraki Cake Design
Moments made sweeter
Baked from scratch using quality ingredients. Cupcakes and cakes for all occasions. cake-collective.mystorbie.com
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Your wedding flowers are far more than décor — they shape the atmosphere, appear in nearly every photograph, and help tell the visual story of your day.
While DIY florals may seem like a budget-friendly option, they often compromise continuity, quality, and peace of mind. Professional florists bring years of experience, a refined artistic eye, and access to premium, seasonal blooms sourced from trusted growers. Every arrangement is intentionally designed to flow seamlessly across bouquets, ceremony spaces, and tables, ensuring a cohesive look that enhances both the venue and the bridal style.
Floristry is a skilled craft, requiring technical knowledge, structural expertise, and careful flower conditioning well before the wedding day. It also demands time, space, and temperature-controlled storage — not last-minute kitchen bench styling. Most importantly, outsourcing your flowers frees you to focus on what truly matters: enjoying the lead-up, feeling relaxed, and being fully present on one of the most important days of your life.
Love in full bloom
Crafting bespoke, heartfelt wedding florals that beautifully tell your unique story. www.thefloristnz.nz
All For Love
Bespoke wedding florals, thoughtfully crafted to complement your big day.
www.allforloveflowers.co.nz
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Untamed beauty
We design and create abundant, dreamy flora for the hearts of all individuals. www.magdalenhill.co.nz
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LOGO
Photo kindly supplied by Geoff Salisbury Photography
Photographer: Honey Lens Co @honeylens.weddings www.honeylensco.com
Makeup Artist: Ashleigh Jane Skin & Beauty @ashleighjaneskinandbeauty www.ashleigh-jane.com
Wedding: Melanie and Liam
Soft glam
BEAUTY TIPS FOR THE BIG DAY
WRITTEN BY PAIGE O’BRIEN
Brides are moving away from dramatic, heavily contoured looks and instead embracing a more refined version of natural beauty.
Soft glam makeup enhances your features without overpowering them, striking a perfect balance between effortless elegance and long-lasting camera-ready glam.
What is soft glam bridal makeup?
It is focused on a seamless blend of subtle definition and glowing skin. It includes softly sculpted cheeks, neutral-toned eyeshadows, natural or fluttery lashes, and lips in glossy nudes or muted pinks. The finish is polished, but without harsh lines or intense pigments that could dominate your look. Wedding days are all about capturing once-in-a-lifetime moments, so this style is designed to look stunning from every angle, whether in natural light, candlelight, or under the flash of a camera. It feels modern yet timeless, meaning you’ll still love your wedding photos decades from now.
A look that can be personalised
Soft glam is more of a beauty philosophy than a single style, making it easy to customise. Want a little more definition in the eyes? Prefer a glossy nude lip to a matte one? Your makeup artist can adjust tones, finishes, and products to create a look that feels just right for your personality and wedding palette.
Schedule a bridal makeup and hair trial
A trial is one of the most important parts of creating your perfect soft glam moment. It gives you the chance to try different lashes, lip colours, foundation finishes, and hairstyles before the big day. Arrive with photos of looks you love and, if applicable, some you want to avoid, so your artist can clearly understand your tastes.
Soft glam is here to stay
Classic, flattering, and effortlessly chic, soft glam is more than a trend; it has become a beloved bridal beauty signature. With its focus on gentle enhancement, romantic hair, and a finish that stays flawless from morning prep to the last goodbye, it’s a style that truly stands the test of time.
The Boat House
WHERE THE RIVER MEETS ROMANCE
For couples dreaming of a wedding that feels both beautifully secluded and effortlessly accessible, The Boat House at The Riverhead offers a truly special setting.
Located in Riverhead near Kumeu, just 25 minutes from Auckland City, this award-winning waterfront wedding venue pairs peaceful rural charm with sweeping river views, creating a celebration space that feels like a destination, without being far from home.
Set on the banks of the river, The Boat House is designed for weddings that flow naturally from one moment to the next. The venue features exceptional indoor-outdoor flow, with a beautiful indoor space that opens to expansive decks and a sweeping lawn, giving couples flexibility in shaping their day. Whether you’re planning a smaller gathering or a larger celebration, the layout is made to support both intimate ceremonies and grand receptions with ease.
One of the standout features of The Boat House is its ceremony setting. Couples can say their vows beneath a 100-year-old oak tree on the extensive lawn, surrounded by natural scenery and water views. The space also includes a permanent marquee, offering an outdoor wedding atmosphere with the confidence of built-in cover, helping to keep the experience stress-free for both couples and guests.
33 YORK TERRACE, RIVERHEAD 0820
COUPLES CAN SAY THEIR VOWS BENEATH A 100-YEAR-OLD OAK TREE ON THE EXTENSIVE LAWN, SURROUNDED BY NATURAL SCENERY AND WATER VIEWS.
Beyond the ceremony, The Boat House continues to deliver on atmosphere. With its riverside location and flexible event spaces, it’s a venue that invites guests to settle in and celebrate properly, whether that means mingling out on the decks, enjoying the open-air feel of the lawn, or moving inside as the reception unfolds.
Planning is also made smoother with practical inclusions and clear structure. Wedding venue hire provides access from 10am for decorating and set-up, with exclusive hire running through until late, giving couples time to personalise the space and enjoy a full wedding experience without feeling rushed.
Food and drink are a key part of the offering, with venue pricing structures around a minimum spend that includes venue hire, food and beverages. Couples can choose from a range of catering styles, including canapés, buffet options, and plated menus, making it easy to match the dining experience to the style of the celebration.
From the water’s edge to the open lawn and decks, The Boat House at The Riverhead is the kind of venue that doesn’t need overcomplicating, the setting speaks for itself. For couples wanting a wedding that feels scenic, relaxed and undeniably special, it’s a standout choice just outside of the city.
The Boat House at The Riverhead 09 412 8902 functions@theriverhead.co.nz www.theriverhead.co.nz
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Laura Kelly
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SUIT
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RINGS
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HAIR STYLIST
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FLORIST
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CAKE
Whipped Cakery @whipped_cakerynz
CATERING
The Riverhead @theriverheadnz
ENTERTAINMENT
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Where industrial heritage meets timeless romance
Set on 15 acres of Canterbury countryside, this beautifully restored 1940s flax-processing mill offers an unforgettable wedding experience full of character and charm. Featuring a range of elegant indoor and outdoor spaces perfect for intimate gatherings to larger celebrations. Unique touches like a moody whisky lounge hidden in a former steaming vault, and the option for luxurious on-site glamping, The Flaxmill offers a truly one-of-a-kind setting for couples seeking something extraordinary.
Memorable favours
WRITTEN BY PAIGE O’BRIEN
Wedding favours have come a long way from the days of sugared almonds and one-size-fits-all trinkets. These days, couples are choosing keepsake wedding gifts that feel more personal, more practical, and more meaningful, something guests will genuinely want to take home, use, or hold onto long after the last song plays.
The best keepsake wedding gifts usually fall into two categories: sentimental or usable. Sentimental keepsakes are all about memory. Think a small framed photo, a custom postcard, or a handwritten note placed at each table setting. Even something simple, like a thank-you message printed with your wedding date, can become a little moment guests keep tucked away.
Usable keepsakes are the ones people love because they don’t feel like clutter. Candles are a favourite for a good reason, they suit almost every wedding theme, feel luxurious without being too expensive, and can be personalised with a label, scent name, or even a line from your vows. Another popular option is a small keepsake jar, like locally made honey, jam, or gourmet salt blends. These gifts feel thoughtful and often come with a sense of place, especially if they are sourced from your local region.
For couples who want something playful, personalised drink gifts can still be a hit, whether that’s mini bottles of wine, custom cocktail kits, or yes, personalised beer. The trick is thinking about presentation. A personalised label can look stylilsh and intentional, and it’s a fun nod to your personalities as a couple. But if you want it to feel more like a true keepsake, you can pair it with something lasting, like a custom bottle opener, a glass charm, or a small tag guests can keep.
If you are after something more symbolic, seed packets are a sweet choice, especially with a line like “Let love grow.” Mini potted plants or succulents also work beautifully, particularly for garden weddings or outdoor venues, and guests often love taking something living home. The best keepsake wedding gift isn’t about following trends. It’s about choosing something that reflects the day, your style and your gratitude in a form your guests will appreciate and remember.
Photographer: Eilish Burt Photography
@eilishburtphotography www.eilishburtphotography.com Wedding: Bre and Clarke
Muri Beach Club Hotel
ESCAPE WITH ELEGANCE
Imagine soft white sand beneath your feet, a warm Pacific breeze around you, and a turquoise lagoon shimmering just beyond. The Muri Beach Club Hotel, an intimate adults-only hotel in Rarotonga, offers the romance, privacy, and polish that destination weddings deserve.
Muri Beach is Rarotonga’s crown jewel, a serene spot surrounded by offshore islets, where the water is so clear it sparkles under the sun. The hotel sits at the heart of this paradise, with uninterrupted views, beachfront dining, and direct lagoon access.
Whether you picture a barefoot beach ceremony, a floral archway framed by coconut palms, or a starlit reception beside the island’s largest saltwater pool, the scenery alone guarantees unforgettable memories.
MURI BEACH POINT, 5100, NUKUPURE DR, RAROTONGA, COOK ISLANDS
While the hotel is adults-only, children may attend the wedding ceremony and reception, allowing couples to include family in their celebration while preserving the hotel’s intimate atmosphere.
Crafted around your vision, a full-time wedding coordinator works exclusively with couples to ensure every moment unfolds seamlessly. Couples can choose from flexible wedding packages such as the Club Classic or All-Inclusive, which cover everything from archway décor and signing tables to full venue hire with fairy lights, tableware, and glassware.
The hotel partners with local florists, bakers, and celebrants who understand island weddings inside and out, ensuring each event is effortless, authentic, and breathtaking.
If you’re looking to keep things simple, the in-house team can also arrange extras like hen and stag parties, whether that’s a pampering spa day, a fishing charter, or an adventurous buggy tour.
The on-site restaurant, SilverSands, serves fresh island-inspired cuisine made with locally sourced, sustainably produced ingredients. By day, guests can kayak or snorkel in the lagoon; by night, they can enjoy cocktails under the stars.
For couples looking for something smaller or more symbolic, the hotel also offers intimate Renew Your Vows packages.
The celebration doesn’t have to end there. Muri Beach Club Hotel’s Honeymoon Packages add an indulgent touch for newlyweds staying on. Couples who stay for five or more nights enjoy special honeymoon bonuses, such as sparkling wine on arrival, breakfast in bed, and room upgrades, where available.
Unlike many overseas destinations, getting married in the Cook Islands is refreshingly straightforward and legally recognised worldwide. Couples need only arrive three working days before the ceremony (or apply for a waiver if time is tight). Your wedding coordinator handles the details, from celebrant bookings to arranging your visit to the registry office.
Perhaps what makes Muri Beach Club Hotel most special is its heart. Founded by local farmer John Scott more than a decade ago, the hotel remains proudly family-run under his daughter, Liana. Her passion for Cook Islands culture, connection to the land, and commitment to genuine hospitality shine through in every aspect of the property. Guests are treated not as clients, but as extended family.
As Muri Beach Club Hotel approaches its 20th anniversary, it continues to embody what destination weddings should be: elegant, effortless, and deeply personal.
Muri Beach Club Hotel
+682 23 000 operations@muribeachclubhotel.com www.muribeachclubhotel.com
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Noir Photography @niorphotography
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George Williams
DRESS
Bridal House @bridalhouse_hamilton
RINGS
Michael Hill Jeweller @michaelhillj
John Franich Jewellers @johnfranichnz
MAKEUP ARTIST
Kate Solley @katesolleymakeup
HAIR STYLIST
Bianca Whittaker @whittaker_bianca
FLORIST
Kinit Bunch @kinitbunch
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Muri Beach Club Hotel @muribeachclubhotel
ENTERTAINMENT
DJ Wizzpa @djwizzpa_685
STYLIST
Leila Sisiwa
Dreamy destinations
A tropical honeymoon is the ultimate post-wedding indulgence for couples dreaming of sun-soaked beaches, vibrant cultures, and unforgettable sunsets.
As the first adventure of married life, it promises intimate moments, shared discovery, and lasting memories. Tropical destinations are also increasingly popular for destination weddings, offering breathtaking backdrops to exchange vows and celebrate love.
Imagine saying “I do” with sand beneath your feet, an ocean breeze in your hair, and loved ones gathered on a pristine beachfront. The magic continues seamlessly into your honeymoon, eliminating extra travel and allowing more time to savour newlywed bliss.
From Samoa’s turquoise waters and white sands to the relaxed charm of Fiji and Rarotonga, these islands blend romance, relaxation, and adventure. Stay in an overwater bungalow, enjoy fresh seafood by the sea, explore coral reefs, or immerse yourselves in local culture. With options for adventure seekers, food lovers, and wellness enthusiasts alike, a tropical honeymoon offers the perfect setting for every love story.
The lagoon of love
When Skye Karpathy and Riley Collinson exchanged vows on the sun-kissed shores of Aroa Beach, they weren’t just beginning their marriage—they were honouring a love story that began when they were just 14 years old.
“If you had told me at 14 that I’d be standing here today, marrying my soulmate and best friend, I honestly would have laughed,” Skye shared in her vows. But there they stood, with their closest loved ones, at the very same resort where Riley’s parents had wed years before. The intimate ceremony, framed by soft island pastels and the endless Pacific horizon, felt like destiny. As Skye so beautifully put it: “Despite an ocean between us, and a million reasons we shouldn’t have crossed paths… we were meant to be.”
The celebration was everything a Cook Islands wedding should be—joyful, carefree and utterly unforgettable. After saying “I do”, the newlyweds and their guests enjoyed pre-dinner drinks on Captain Andy’s Lagoon Deck before an Island BBQ reception at Treetops Verandah Room, complete with a spectacular fire show at sunset. “What could be such a stressful and busy day was really relaxing,” Skye recalls. “The resort’s wedding planners took care of everything—I hardly needed to bring anything from overseas.”
The couple’s personalized vows brought tears and laughter in equal measure, with Riley promising to “always fake tan your back, untangle your jewellery and fill up your water bottle,” while Skye spoke of a love so profound that “even eternity won’t be enough.”
For Skye and Riley, the days following their wedding were just as magical as the ceremony itself. They spent their first days as newlyweds in the hammocks outside their Beachfront Suite, recapping the joy of their special day under the Pacific sun. “The most special part was being able to just be together as newlyweds with the beautiful sea in the background,” Skye reflects. Her advice for couples considering a Rarotongan wedding? “Absolutely do it! Go with the flow and let the experts take you on the journey. It was the best stress-free time.” And with plans already underway for their return visit, it’s clear this island paradise will forever hold a piece of their hearts.
Photographer: Island Photo
Venue: The Rarotongan Beach Resort & Lagoonarium and Sanctuary Rarotonga-on the beach Adults Only Wedding: Skye & Riley
Plan your dream wedding in Samoa
At Return to Paradise Resort, we excel in creating unforgettable weddings. Our exclusive Samoan wedding packages offer exceptional value, tailored to fit any budget. Choose from a variety of stunning locations and let our dedicated events team tailor every detail to bring your vision to life.
Whether you prefer an intimate beachside ceremony, a grand celebration in our lush tropical gardens, or imagine saying “I do” in our unique seaside chapel, we ensure your special day is seamless and memorable with personalised service and comprehensive planning.
When the weather turns
YOUR RAIN PLAN FOR A PERFECT WEDDING
WRITTEN BY PAIGE O’BRIEN
Every couple hopes for sunshine, but the truth is that rain on your wedding day doesn’t have to dampen your celebration. Some of the most cinematic, heartfelt, and memorable weddings unfold under drizzly skies.
Rain brings atmosphere, softens the light, deepens colours, and creates a kind of intimacy that clear skies can’t compete with. With preparation and a flexible mindset, wet weather can become part of the beauty rather than a source of stress.
Even if your dream ceremony is outdoors, it’s so important to have a Plan B that still feels special. Talk to your venue early about wet-weather alternatives, whether that’s a covered veranda, clear marquee, rustic barn, or an elegant indoor space that can be transformed without losing the romance. Ask practical questions too: how quickly can the venue switch setups, can chairs and décor be moved easily, and when does the final call need to be made? Knowing there’s a seamless backup plan in place can take the pressure off and help you stay calm.
If rain is in the forecast, prepare your outfit and accessories so you can move throughout the day with confidence. Some fabrics absorb moisture more easily, so it’s worth considering how your dress will behave in damp air. A reception dress or second outfit can also help you feel fresh later in the night. Waterproofing sprays for shoes, especially heels or delicate materials, are a quiet lifesaver.
And then there are umbrellas. Clear styles are classic because they protect you without darkening photos, and matching umbrellas for the bridal party look cohesive while keeping everyone comfortable. A stylish shawl, wrap, or cape can also add warmth without competing with your gown.
Rain doesn’t mean your glam needs to fall flat either. Most hair and makeup artists can create humidity-proof looks with the right products and styling choices, especially when you raise concerns during your trial. Keep a small touch-up kit nearby, and let your photographer guide you through the magic of rainy-day portraits. Soft, moody light, reflections in puddles, and cosy moments under cover can look beautifully romantic. End of the day, the weather is only the backdrop. The joy is still yours.
Do I need bridesmaids?
HOW TO DECIDE AND WHO TO CHOOSE
WRITTEN BY PAIGE O’BRIEN
Bridesmaids have long been part of the wedding picture - matching dresses, shared memories, and someone to lean on along the journey to marriage.
But, as modern couples create weddings that feel more authentic and personal, one big question looms: Do I actually need bridesmaids?
The heart behind the tradition
Once upon a time, bridesmaids played a more practical role, helping prepare for the ceremony and symbolically protecting the bride from bad luck. Over time, that meaning has softened into something far more heartfelt.
Why you might not need bridesmaids
Not every wedding needs a bridal party, and that’s perfectly okay. Some couples choose to keep their ceremony small and personal, focusing solely on their connection. Others prefer not to add the extra planning, expense, or pressure that can come with managing a bridal party.
If you do want bridesmaids, how many?
There is no perfect number when it comes to bridesmaids. Some brides have one person they couldn’t imagine the day without; others have a circle of five or six who’ve been by their side for years. Think about the scale of your wedding, the atmosphere you’re creating, and who genuinely means the most to you. The right bridal party isn’t about numbers, it’s about connection.
Choosing
the people who feel right
Choosing your bridesmaids can be emotional, especially if you are close with many people. Start with how you feel about them. Who brings calm to the chaos? Who makes you laugh when things get stressful? Who’s genuinely happy for you, no matter what?
Setting gentle expectations
If you do have bridesmaids, it helps to have an open conversation early on. Talk about what you might need help with, and be mindful of what they can give. Not everyone will have the same time, energy, or budget, and that is more than okay.
A wedding that feels like you
Whether you have a bridal party of six, one, or none, what matters most is that your day feels genuine. Choose what makes your heart full. Whether that’s a small, peaceful morning getting ready with your mum and best friend, or a lively day surrounded by your entire crew, your wedding will be perfect because it’s yours.
Photographer: Honey Lens Co @honeylens.weddings www.honeylensco.com
Wedding: Melanie and Liam
Fantastic venues
Akaroa’s magical hideaway
A magical hideaway in the heart of Akaroa is Mt Vernon Lodge, where you can have an unforgettable ceremony, with stunning views over Akaroa Harbour. The view provides the ideal backdrop for your photographs with a custom-designed reception space, and stylish accommodation for you and your guests. We offer flexibility and experience to ensure that your special day is just that.
Maximum guests available for seated
Maximum guests available for cocktail Catering options
Alcohol services
Accommodation available
Mt Vernon Lodge
33 Purple Peak Road, Akaroa 7542
03 304 7180
www.mtvernon.co.nz
Your complete wedding day venue
Set amongst beautiful native bush, on a serene rural property beneath the stunning Kapiti Coast Hills, Matai Huka Garden Weddings offers all the trimmings to bring your wedding vision to life. A beautiful venue for your ceremony and reception, a wedding celebrant, a photographer, a florist, a caterer, a marquee and a boutique honeymoon cottage.
Matai Huka
264 Valley Road, Paraparaumu 5032
021 620 070
www.mataihuka.co.nz
Historic charm, modern romance
Caccia Birch House is a restored heritage wedding venue in Palmerston North, set on elegant gardens with lagoon views. Its historic homestead charm, manicured lawns, and flexible indoor–outdoor spaces create a romantic setting for ceremonies, receptions, and photos. Ideal for intimate weddings, it offers tailored packages and a picturesque, timeless atmosphere.
Fine wines and scenic dining
Caccia Birch House
130 Te Awe Awe Street, Hokowhitu 4410 06 357 5363
www.caccia-birch.co.nz
Linden Estate Winery is home to Valley D’Vine. Enjoy award-winning wines paired with fresh, vibrant food using the finest local produce while overlooking the beautiful Esk Valley. Our modern dining area and newly landscaped grounds provide the perfect setting for a memorable experience on your special day.
Valley D’Vine
347 State Highway 5, Esk Valley, Napier 4182 06 650 3463
www.valleydvine.co.nz
Where elegance meets the coast
From a show-stopping sperry tent by the sea to our elegant dining room spilling out to potager gardens, The Farmers Daughter offers Omaha Beach weddings with style, seamless planning, and an outstanding food and beverage offering. Whatever your choice, your celebration will be effortlessly elegant, intimate, and unforgettable.
The Farmers Daughter
329 Omaha Flats Road, Omaha, Matakana 021 190 8220
www.thefarmersdaughteromaha.co.nz
A private garden wedding estate
Celebrate your love in unrivalled privacy at Songbird Retreat — a lush 4.5-acre estate of terraced lawns, rose-lined paths, lily ponds and native bush. Your day moves from a serene garden ceremony to the cocktail lawn, then into the clear-roof marquee under fairy lights, with furniture provided and two days exclusively yours.
Songbird Retreat
Frost Road, Matheson Bay, Matakana, Auckland 0985 021 193 6888
www.songbirdretreat.co.nz
A country lodge made for celebrations
Historic charm, sweeping views, and a welcoming country house. Connemara Country Lodge is perfect for intimate weddings, micro weddings, and Hens weekends. With Grainne and Kevin’s personal touches and over fifty five-star reviews, your celebration is in expert hands.
Charming riverside retreat
Connemara Country Lodge
78 Cemetery Road, Waiuku, Auckland 2684 027 438 0320
www.connemaracountrylodge.co.nz
Omatua
Tucked away in the picturesque surroundings of Rissington, Omatua is the ideal wedding venue for those who would like a private country retreat. Comfortably set in the peaceful countryside, the lodge and property sprawl over five acres of land overlooking the Mangaone River. It’s the perfect spot for a fun weekend of celebration with family and friends.
1866 Puketitiri Road, Rissington, Napier 4184 021 277 3332
www.omatua.co.nz
Your 12-month planning timeline
WRITTEN BY JAMIE QUINN
We’ve created this simple yet practical wedding planner to help guide you through the key milestones leading up to your special day.
Whether you’re hosting a large celebration or planning something more intimate, this timeline provides an overview of what to do and when, so you can stay organised.
The timeline is based on a 12-month lead-up to your wedding, but it can easily be adjusted to suit shorter or longer engagements. Every couple’s plans are unique—feel free to tailor these steps to match your personal priorities, style, and pace.
12 months before
• Set a budget: Determine your overall spending limit and allocate funds to different aspects of the wedding.
• Draft a guest list: Create an initial list to estimate the number of attendees.
• Choose a wedding date: Select a date that works for you and key participants.
• Book your venue: Secure your desired locations early to ensure availability.
• Find a celebrant.
11 months before
• Select your wedding party: Decide who will stand by your side on the big day.
• Research vendors: Start looking into photographers, videographers, caterers, and entertainment options.
• Start wedding dress shopping: Explore styles and schedule fittings.
10 months before
• Book key vendors: Secure your photographer, videographer, caterer, and entertainment.
• Order your wedding dress: Place your order to allow time for alterations.
• Create a wedding website: Share details and updates with guests.
9 months before
• Start beauty treatments: Begin a consistent skincare routine; consult a dermatologist if needed.
• Hair care: Schedule regular trims and discuss goals with your stylist.
• Nail care: Begin regular manicures.
8 months before
• Shop for bridesmaids' dresses: Choose styles and schedule fittings.
• Meet with florists: Discuss floral arrangements and themes.
• Arrange transportation: Book vehicles for the wedding day.
7 months before
• Plan menu tasting: Finalise catering choices.
• Book rentals: Reserve necessary items like tables, chairs, and linens.
6 months before
• Schedule dress fittings: Plan for alterations and final fittings.
• Organise accommodations: Reserve hotel blocks for out-of-town guests.
• Finalise guest list: Confirm attendees for accurate headcounts.
• Send save-the-dates: Inform guests of your wedding date.
5 months before
• Order invitations: Design and order your wedding invitations.
• Plan ceremony details: Outline the order of events and any readings or performances.
• Order wedding cake: Select flavours and design.
• Purchase wedding rings: Allow time for sizing and engraving.
4 months before
• Send invitations: Mail out to guests.
• Hair and makeup trials: Test styles to finalise your look.
• Confirm vendor details: Finalise timelines and requirements.
• Create day-of timeline: Outline the schedule for the wedding day.
3 months before
• Apply for marriage license: Check legal requirements and deadlines.
• Plan seating chart: Organise guest placements for the reception.
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2 months before
• Final dress fitting: Ensure a perfect fit.
• Confirm RSVPs: Reach out to unresponsive guests.
• Prepare your vows or speeches: Write and practice them.
4 weeks before
• Final beauty treatments:
• Facials: Opt for gentle treatments to avoid irritation.
• Hair colour: Touch up any colour treatments.
• Confirm final headcount: Provide numbers to caterers and venues.
• Create a wedding day emergency kit: Include essentials like safety pins, stain remover, and pain relievers.
1 week before
• Final confirmations: Reconfirm details with all vendors.
• Pack for the day: Gather items needed for the ceremony and reception.
• Relax and rest: Ensure you're well-rested and stress-free.
Pro bridal shower tips 5
WRITTEN BY PAIGE O’BRIEN
Rules every host should follow
Marriage celebrations often begin long before the wedding day, and the bridal shower is one of those first milestones. It’s a time for laughter, creating memories, and celebrating the bride with those closest to her, but the guest list can make or break the mood.
1 Only invite people who are invited to the wedding
This is the golden rule. No one should receive a bridal shower invitation unless they are also invited to the wedding. The shower is an intimate event that celebrates the upcoming marriage, so it would feel awkward, or even hurtful, to include anyone who won’t be part of the big day.
2 Let the bride have the final say
Even if you are hosting, the bride should have input. Some brides want a small, low-key gathering; others love the idea of a full house. Ask her to approve the list before you start planning.
3 Think about the type of shower
A bridal shower can take many forms: an elegant afternoon tea, a casual brunch, or a themed celebration. The tone of the event helps determine the size and mix of guests. A family-focused shower might include close relatives and lifelong family friends, while a friends-only shower could focus on the bridal party and mutual mates.
4 Keep it intimate
Unlike the wedding, which can include extended circles, the bridal shower is meant to feel personal. The sweet spot is usually between 10 and 30 guests, enough for lively conversation but small enough that everyone feels connected to the bride.
5 Don’t forget practical details
Think about the space and budget before finalising your list. A home-based shower might comfortably fit 20 guests, but a venue brunch can host more. Matching the guest count to the setting ensures the event feels relaxed rather than overcrowded.
Bring it all together
The best bridal showers feel thoughtful and cohesive, where everyone in the room genuinely matters to the bride. When in doubt, focus on connection over numbers. After all, the heat of the bridal shower isn’t the guest list itself; it’s the love and excitement that fill the room.
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Bourbon Rose
FLORAL STUDIO, CHRISTCHURCH NEW ZEALAND
Chic, fresh, and effortlessly elegant – our floral designs blend contemporary style with romantic details. We craft statement blooms that elevate your wedding vibe and leave a lasting impression.
@bourbonrose.weddings
Insphire
EVENT RENTAL, ROSEDALE AUCKLAND
Insphire creates unforgettable weddings with elegant, high-quality event rentals. Our stunning décor brings every couple’s vision to life with style, reliability, and exceptional service. www.insphire.co.nz
Prestige Marquees & Events
MARQUEE HIRE, QUEENSTOWN, WANAKA, CROMWELL & OTAGO
Delivering quality, dependable marquee hire to bring your dream celebration to life. With a wide range of marquee sizes and styles, we provide a seamless onestop solution for creating your perfect event setting.
www.prestigemarquees.co.nz
Unique and Classic Cars
CLASSIC CAR CHAUFFEUR, CHRISTCHURCH CANTERBURY
Make your wedding unforgettable with our chauffeured classic and vintage cars. From timeless elegance to retro flair, find the perfect ride to match your unique celebration and personal style.
www.uniqueandclassiccars.nz
Ocean Groove Cruises
CHARTER PARTY BOAT, AUCKLAND HARBOUR
Create your perfect wedding on a private Auckland Harbour cruise with stunning views, elegant décor, premium catering, and TripAdvisor award-winning service — so you can relax and enjoy every moment. www.oceangroovecruises.co.nz
Social Nature Movement
IMMERSIVE EXPERIENCES, AUCKLAND NEW ZEALAND
Imagine saying “I do” beneath the open sky surrounded by breathtaking scenery. Our glamping setups bring comfort, style, and a touch of magic to your wedding for an unforgettable experience. www.socialnaturemovement.nz
Silver Fern Marquees
WEDDING & EVENT HIRE, PUKEKOHE AUCKLAND
Award-winning bespoke weddings. Providing full service from site design, equipment hire, signage, visual and audio, event management, pack-up and storage. Mention this advert for 10% off. www.silverfernmarquees.co.nz
The Vintage Party
BOUTIQUE EVENT HIRE, WELLINGTON
Bring your style visions to life with our boutique range of vintage and boho furniture, lighting,tableware and decor for hire. We’ve sourced them so you don’t have to! www.thevintageparty.co.nz
The Flower Bomb
WEDDING & EVENT FLORALS, BAY OF ISLANDS NORTHLAND
The Flower Bomb brings bespoke floral designs to life — from stunning bouquets to dramatic hanging installations, serving the Bay of Islands and Northland with glorious florals. www.theflowerbomb.co.nz
Love Club Hire
EVENT HIRE, WAIKATO NORTH ISLAND
We’re a husband-and-wife team delivering beautifully designed event hire, creating magical celebrations and memorable experiences through quality, care, passion, and hands-on service from start to finish. www.loveclubhire.co.nz
Daisy Days
MOBILE GELATO CART, WELLINGTON
Daisy Days is ready to roll up to your wedding and serve your guests with the ultimate crowd-pleaser: delicious, award-winning gelato and sorbet!
www.daisydays.co.nz
Wanaka Marquee & Party Hire
EVENT HIRE, WANAKA
We provide marquees, furniture, lighting, décor, and glassware, offering years of experience and personal support to help create unforgettable, beautifully styled celebrations for your special day.
www.wanakapartyhire.co.nz
Johnson & Couzins Hire
MARQUEE & EVENT HIRE, CHRISTCHURCH NEW ZEALAND
Make your venue special with an elegant wedding marquee, with options for clear or white walls, silk lining and flooring. Our attention to detail allows us to stand out in a field of our own.
www.jnchire.co.nz
Andys Marquee & Party Hire
EVENT HIRE, MANGAKAKAHI ROTORUA
Planning a wedding or special occasion can be daunting. Our team has been organising special events like yours for decades. Whether an intimate gathering or grand affair, we can ensure your dream becomes a reality.
www.andyshire.co.nz
Get Set Event Hire
EVENT HIRE, TAUPO
From concept to completion, we help create weddings that are effortless, memorable and uniquely yours. We pride ourselves on friendly, professional service and offer a compete set-up and pack-down service.
www.getseteventhire.co.nz
Marquee Hire City
MARQUEE HIRE, AUCKLAND
As Auckland’s marquee hire experts we are experienced with all in tents and purposes! Traditional or untraditional, we can supply the marquee, furniture, flooring line and lighting.
www.marqueehirecity.co.nz
LUXURY TRANSFERS & TOURS, AUCKLAND NEW ZEALAND
Premium wedding transport service, designed to make your special day truly unforgettable. Choose from a fleet of luxury-class sedans, vans, and mini-buses with a well-suited chauffeur. www.brightlane.co.nz
Smooch Dental Spa
DENTAL SPA, WOODEND CANTERBURY
At Smooch Dental Spa, we help brides, grooms and bridal parties feel confident with radiant smiles. Whitening, hygiene, gentle cosmetic dentistry and calming spa-style care for your wedding journey.
www.smooch.co.nz
Phoenix Weddings
PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY, AUCKLAND NEW ZEALAND
Amazing photos are just the beginning. For couples who want a relaxed wedding experience, honest moments, and images that take you straight back to the day.
www.phoenixweddings-nz.com
Aliena Seitz Photography
PHOTOGRAPHER, NEW ZEALAND
Capturing your unique love story as it naturally unfolds with colourful, candid, romantic photos, focusing on real emotions and and genuine connections. From the quiet, intimate glances to the wild dance floor celebrations.
www.alienaseitzphotography.com
Anna Schimmel
WEDDING DRESSES, AUCKLAND
Crafting elegant, timeless wedding dresses with thoughtful design and impeccable fit, offering ready-towear and bespoke styles within a relaxed studio setting that celebrates individuality and modern romance.
www.annaschimmel.co.nz
Floral Poet
FLORIST, WAIHEKE
Where romance and nature entwine, we craft artful, heartfelt wedding florals that capture your unique vision. From first consultation to final petal, our Full Bloom Service creates unforgettable moments.
www.floralpoet.co.nz
Kiwi Moments Media
PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY, CHRISTCHURCH
Blending refined wedding photography with cinematic videography and natural emotion, creating timeless imagery nationwide without travel costs, celebrating your love, your story, and every meaningful moment. www.kiwimomentsmedia.co.nz
Polished Diamonds – Jewellery Design, provides a unique experience allowing you to design the Wedding or Engagement ring of your dreams. Advanced technology ensures accuracy using architectural software so you can view the actual ring in perfect proportion, allowing for design adjustments. Clients can have any ring style and matched to any budget. Virtual CAD modelling, MRI laser scanning for wedding ring matching, 3D printing with traditional hand craftsmanship ensures the highest quality at an excellent price.
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