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June 2022 PUBLISHER

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June is busting out all over! Yes, readers, you may have recognized the lyric to the musical “Carousel.” Musical theatre is top of mind because we’re featuring two great guys who founded Music Theater of Connecticut 35 years ago. Last month, we brought you our women's issue and this month we are focused on some of our favorite men in town. They’re the philanthropists, educators, creatives, entrepreneurs and all-around smart guys that make Westport wonderful. To show how much we care about you guys, we’ve included a go-to gift guide for Father’s Day and details on a barber shop/mens’ club where you can hang with the dudes. Then you can use our Dude Drinks feature on where to grab some drinks afterwards. It’s also our 4th anniversary and our Westport Lifestyle team gives you the low-down on the what’s-up among favorite things to do in town. Speaking of our town, you probably know we have a homeless shelter called Homes With Hope. A former resident of this shelter, Antwayn, is now employed by them and he shared with us his incredible story. No mention of men would be complete without mentioning the most well-known man in Westport - the Minute Man. We have some fascinating information on him and his sculptor on our back page. So raise a beer to all of the great men in Westport. You rock! Hope to see you around town soon!

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inside the issue The Gentlemen’s Issue

F E ATU R E D

D E PA RTM E NTS

30 Men of Westport

Lifestyle Letter

City Scene

Business Monthly

Local Limelight

Our Town

Open House

B EAU T Y

Happy Hour

FO O D + B EV ER AG E

Gift Guide

Local’s Choice

Hot Spot

Events

Hometown Hero

Incredible Men in Our Community

42 From Homeless to Hopeful A Homes With Hope Success Story

48 Kennedy’s Hair club

A Grooming Mecca Takes a Cue from the Ladies

72 The Music Men

Kevin and Jim Built the Best Little Musical Theatre in Westport

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1: Spongebob, The Musical at Coleytown Middle School - “BFF”: SpongeBob (Ari Sklar) and Patrick (Joey Vazquez) 2: “No Control”: Seher Adalja, Ram Gupta, Sandy (Haley Forman), Old Man Jenkins (Dylan Johnson), Chanze Freemon 3: “When the Going Gets Tough”: Christian Dolgetta, Ava Lewis, Olivia Murphy,(Teddy Brooks, Kaila Patel, Sutton Bulkeley, Charlotte Brookbanks, Aubrey Benmosche 4: (I Guess I) Miss You”: Joey Vazquez, Charlotte Brookbanks, Olivia Murphy, Ava Lewis, Kaila Patel, Sutton Bulkeley 5: “I’m Not a Loser”: Olivia Flinn, Charlotte Brookbanks, CC Herbet, Sofia Donroe, Kaila Patel, Olivia Murphy 6-7: Finale: Bikini Bottom Day Photography by Julie Taubner

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1: 2nd Annual Taste of Wishes supporting Make A Wish CT, Chef Matt Storch with wish kid Ziva. 2: Bill Taibe with wish kid Nazear and a guest appearance by wish kid Hunter. 3: Chef Christian Petroni and wish kid Henry. 4: Stephanie Webster, Raeneh Farina, wish kid Penelope, Chef Jes Bengtson, and Marysol Castro. 5: Chefs Dan Kardos, Matt Storch, Bill Taibe, Christian Petroni, Robin Selden, Jessica Bengtson with wish kids Julia, Henry, Aaron, Ziva, Penelope, Nazear and host Tony Aitoro 6: Jeffrey Selden of Marcia Selden Catering and Make-A-Wish Board Member Robyn Whittingham 7: Cindi Goldberg, Make-A-Wish Board Member Michelle Wilson, Make-A-Wish CEO Pam Keough, Maryann Coyle and Jenn Jubert. Photography by Kvon Photography

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1: 2nd Annual Fashionably Westport at the Westport Library. 2: Emcee Jenn Falik and Homes with Hope Director Helen McAlinden. 3: Virignia Schaefer, Kelli Walsh, Allison Dembo, Karen Spheeris. 4: Benjamin Lagasse, Marly March, Ginny McGovern, Caroline Barney, Erica Winkler, Steven Gemignani 5: Backstage models Amy Hochhauser, Robin Moyer Chung, Rhodie Lorenz 6: Westport Chief of Police Foti Koskinas, First Selectwoman/model Jen Tooker, State Senator Will Haskel. 7: Plastic Surgeon/model Flora Levin. Photography by John Videler

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Bestselling Author Releases 4th Book in Super Fun Day Series Just in time for Autism Acceptance Month, local Westport author Sivan Hong is releasing her 4th book in the best-selling Super Fun Day Books Series – Avery G. and the Scary End of School. This book is a social story created to help children express their worries about the end of school. It's perfect for neurodiverse (autism, ADHD, dyslexia, etc.) and neurotypical kids who struggle with change and are working on being flexible. Photography John Videler

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This prestigious recognition credits 10 chefs who “are bringing a new level of artistry and creativity to the table” and “found clever ways to incorporate interesting new flavors to offer a delicious and memorable experience for event goers.” Congratulations, Robin! MarciaSelden.com Photography Dennis Kwan Photography

Two Westporters Introduce Wanderfull Bottle Bags Are you drinking enough water? Westporters Lisa Watkins and Katie Hill have a solution for you! Wanderfull, a stylish crossbody water bottle bag that fits your water bottle and other essentials like your phone, keys, credit cards, and air pods. It's perfect for staying hydrated, traveling light, and being hands free on the go. WanderfullBrand.com and on Amazon.com

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Dr. Tanya Futoryan is a Board-Certified Dermatologist with 20 years of experience in minimally invasive facial aesthetic procedures. She is an expert at using a variety of injectables and technologies to make your face look younger while keeping it natural. She will provide you with the best anti-aging treatment options to suit your personal needs, designed to achieve and maintain healthy and beautiful skin for life.

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“I have been seeing Dr. Futoryan for about two years now, and have been so pleased with my experience at Westport Dermatology. She is professional, has deep experience and knowledge in the field, and is warm and kind …the office is clean and pleasant, the nurses and staff are friendly and helpful. I would highly recommend her and Westport Dermatology … they are the best!” - Megan

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SOME OF OUR FAVORITE GUYS

Where we live, a good man isn’t hard to find. You can find them in offices, stores, theaters heck, you could even be living with one. Each June we task ourselves with narrowing down the pack and focusing on a few who impress us with their creativity and commitment, who bring a certain panache to our community, and who have diverse and unique interests. At the risk of sounding immodest, we have a lot of terrific men this year!

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Men of Westport

Enrique Alarcon FOUNDER/DIRECTOR, DANCE COLLECTIVE OF WESTPORT

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WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT DANCING? “When I first started dancing I loved the sense of freedom and empowerment. Now it goes far beyond that. For me, dancing is a way of communicating with others, a shared love to make friends with, a passion to build a business with, and a canvas to create moving art with.”

YOU ATTENDED LAW SCHOOL IN PERU BEFORE YOU DECIDED TO PURSUE DANCE IN AMERICA. HAS YOUR LAW EDUCATION EVER PROVED VALUABLE SINCE THEN? “Yes, although not through practicing law. The hard work and discipline I learned in law school proved invaluable when starting my business and continue to help me today.”

WHEN WILL YOU LAUNCH YOUR MASTER CLASS? “Hopefully in the near future. So much changed when COVID hit – I had to pivot from running a studio in-person to creating a completely online presence. My personal projects were shelved but I am eager to start working on them again and reigniting the creativity they inspire.”

IF YOU COULD DANCE THE ROLE OF YOUR DREAMS, OR DANCE IN ANY VENUE IN THE WORLD, WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY? “More than dancing myself, I would love to choreograph an opening number for the Oscar’s. The Dolby Theater is such an iconic venue, and to present one of my choreographies to such a creative audience (not to mention millions around the world) would be phenomenal. On another note, I would love Rihanna to sing a tango-inspired pop song, and for me to be the principal dancer in her video!” EnriqueAlarconMethod.com TheDanceCollectiveCT.com

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Bill Taibe CHEF/OWNER, THE WHELK, KAWA NI, AND DON MEMO

SO, WHAT’S YOUR NEXT PROJECT? “After many years in CT, we are excited to expand Kawa Ni and Don Memo out west to Denver, Colorado, while still working on new projects in and around Westport. The future looks fun!”

HAVE YOU ALWAYS KNOWN YOU WANTED TO BE A CHEF? “I didn’t. I had no idea what I wanted to do. I thought I was going to be a police officer like my uncles, or a US Marshall like Tommy Lee Jones in The Fugitive. Once I found food, I didn’t want to do anything else.”

WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE APPETIZER AND ENTRÉE OF ALL TIME, IN ANY OF YOUR RESTAURANTS? “Appetizer would be our Tuna Crudo from Relish in South Norwalk - paper thin slices of raw tuna, rolled around perfectly diced cucumber and avocado and some other really complicated stuff. So simple and so delicious. Entree is definitely the OG roast chicken from LeFarm. Still no better chicken exists in my mind.”

WHAT DO YOU COOK AT HOME WHEN YOU REALLY, REALLY DON’T FEEL LIKE COOKING? OR YOUR FAVORITE SUPER EASY DINNER. “In the winter, especially when skiing and don’t want the hassle, I will make Trader Joe’s cauliflower gnocchi tossed with their roasted red pepper and tomato pomodoro sauce. It’s simply perfect. “As the weather warms, I like to grab some vegetables from Westport Farmers Market, toss them on the grill, and serve with a good salad. We tend to eat lighter in the summer.” DonMemoWestport.com KawaniWestport.com TheWhelkWestport.com TheNorwalkArtSpace.org

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Injae Cho FOUNDER AND PRINCIPAL, SUGI ACCUPRESSURE

YOU’RE WELL-EDUCATED, AN ACCOMPLISHED MUSICIAN, AND A WINNING GOLFER. HOW DO THESE TRAITS TIE INTO YOUR PROFICIENCY WITH TRADITIONAL CHINESES MEDICINE? “To me, traditional Chinese medicine is all about discerning predictable patterns in nature and then drawing analogies to how our bodies and our minds function. And by incorporating concepts like Yin-Yang (duality of opposites) and Chi (life force energy) into our lifestyles, we’re essentially acknowledging that to lead a healthy life means to be in harmony with our ever-evolving surrounding environment, and with the people in our lives. “I feel that that’s exactly the kind of holistic perspective I take whether I’m giving someone a treatment, or when I’m sharing something musical and beautiful with a fellow musician or an audience, or when I’m taking windy conditions and moisture on the greens into account in a round of golf. It took me a while to convince my wife that playing music and golf actually enhances my work. I think she finally sees my point.”

IF YOU DIDN’T PRACTICE ACUPRESSURE, WHAT WOULD BE YOUR CAREER? “A sound engineer or a golf club pro, naturally.”

YOUR DAD IS A WELL KNOWN HEALER IN ASIA. I’M SURE HE’S DELIGHTED YOU’RE FOLLOWING HIS CAREER PATH, BUT HOW DOES HE FEEL ABOUT YOUR BEING IN A GRATEFUL DEAD TRIBUTE BAND? I ASSUME HE WAS NEVER A DEADHEAD…. “My dad and I have very different musical tastes and he unfortunately doesn’t play golf either. But we jibe on most other things and have always been transparent and candid with each other. Most of all, I appreciate all the life wisdom he’s imparted on me over the years.” SUGIAcupressure.com

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Adam Vengrow MANAGING DIRECTOR, STIFEL BOARD MEMBER, CATCH A LIFT

YOU’RE A BOARD MEMBER OF CATCH-A-LIFT. HOW DID YOU BECOME INTERESTED IN HELPING VETERANS AND IN CAL? “I lost a lot of friends in 9-11. I was at UBS. Cantor Fitzgerald and other bond brokers were in the Trade Center Buildings. We were on the phones with them when the planes hit. I’ve always been patriotic and thankful for the opportunities that I’ve had in this life, in this country, with an immeasurable blanket of freedom. I feel it’s an obligation to help those that preserve and protect our way of life. “The spirit behind CAL is physical fitness to mental fitness, pain to purpose. We have helped nearly 8,000 combat wounded Veterans find their way.”

HOW ABOUT MYTEAM TRIUMPH? “I had the pleasure of getting involved [through friend and board member Andy Berman] a little bit and love it. I live for the ability to lift people up and help them pursue their very best. One of my favorite quotes, ‘You make a living by what you get, you make a life by what you give.’”

WHO IS YOUR HERO? “Ron Burton grew up in Ohio, very poor, and lost his parents at a young age. He overcame adversity his entire life, whether racism, extreme poverty or the lack of athletic talent, then became a college football star and a first round draft pick for the New England Patriots in 1960. “After 6 years in the NFL, and a very successful career for John Hancock in Boston, Ron Burton took his savings and built the Ron Burton Training Village. The goal [is] to find as many kids from terrible economic situations, where hope rarely exists and opportunity is not present, and turn their lives around to overcome the present and find the impossible.” RonBurtonTrainingVillage.org CatchALiftFund.org myTeamTriumph-CT.org

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Ryan Soto PROGRAM DIRECTOR, GILLESPIE CENTER & HOSKINS PLACE

WHAT MADE YOU INTERESTED IN WORKING FOR A HOMELESS SHELTER? “I grew up impoverished, rough and tough, but I always tried to see the brighter things. The selfish reason is that I like helping people and I’m good at it. I can empathize - sympathy can only get you so far. “I’ve been working with the homeless since I earned my undergraduate degree. I have had family and friends endure this situation and I know how it must feel going through homelessness.”

WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR PROUDEST MOMENT AT GILLESPIE? “My proudest moment was actually becoming the Program Director of the Gillespie Center and Hoskins Place.”

HOW DO YOU DE-STRESS FROM THIS DEMANDING JOB? “I have a nice scenic drive to and from work and spending time with my children.

DURING THE COURSE OF YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE, HAVE YOU EVER RUN INTO SOMEONE WHO YOU HELPED AT GILLESPIE? “I’ve seen former guests of the shelter and most tell me they’re doing great and let me know how much they appreciate all I did. The others unfortunately either return to the shelter or need some type of help. I help them as best as I can.” HwHCT.org

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Ryan Ambrifi DEALER AND PRINCIPAL, JAGUAR LAND ROVER FAIRFIELD

WHY (AND WHEN) DID YOU BECOME INTERESTED IN BRITISH CARS? AND ALL THINGS BRITISH? “My love affair with British cars started with Ian Fleming’s James Bond books and movies. There was always something so cool about his Aston Martins, Lotuses and Jaguars. The design of the Jaguar E-Type is one of the most captivating in the world.”

TELL ME ABOUT THE FIRST CAR YOU EVER OWNED. “My first car was a Pontiac Trans Am (think Smokey and the bandit), which my mother suggested that I trade for a BMW 320i. This started my journey to buying and selling many different cars over the years.”

YOU’RE ACTIVE IN PUSH FOR CANCER AND, I BELIEVE, NEAR AND FAR. ARE THERE ANY OTHER PHILANTHROPIES AND WHY DID YOU CHOOSE THESE? “We have a long relationship with Near & Far Aid and support the incredible impact that this all-woman organization has in the community. In addition, we have aligned with Push For Cancer and Andy Berman, the Pequot Library, Rooms With a View, the Southport Congregational Church, as well as The Conservative Synagogue. Most recently, we got involved with the Old Mill Grocery and saving this local treasure for future generations. “My wife, Nikki, and I choose organizations that can effect change locally and have a direct impact in helping change lives. We are very fortunate to give back to our community and tie into the strong relationships with our customers.” LandRoverFairfield.com

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WHAT DREW YOU TO PLASTIC SURGERY? “Much to my parents displeasure I turned down an art scholarship to college in order to pursue a career in science. While in medical school I realized that plastic surgery is really the only specialty that combines art with science, as we try to do everything in the most “aesthetic” way possible. We actually have drawing and sculpture courses as part of our ongoing training.”

YOU WERE THE CHIEF OF PLASTIC SURGERY AT BRIDGEPORT HOSPITAL FROM 1995-2002, WHEN IT WAS CONSIDERED THE “GROUND-BREAKING CENTER OF EXCELLENCE IN PLASTIC SURGERY.” WHY WAS IT “GROUND-BREAKING” AND HOW DID YOU CONTRIBUTE TO THIS? “This was one of the first centers of excellence in any specialty in the US. I wanted our patients to be able to find what they needed in terms of plastic surgical care in one easy location with talented surgeons - we had a central phone number where our patients could call in and we’d send them information by mail in those days. “An important part of this was the entire concept of ‘self-pay’ where our patients could get the care they needed with the safety of the hospital at reasonable cost where there was no insurance coverage available.”

YOU’RE AN AVID CAR COLLECTOR. WHICH CAR IS YOUR FAVORITE? “Last year I purchased a Shelby 350R - this is the last one that will ever be made and it drives more like a true race car than any other car I’ve ever owned.” PlasticSurgeryCT.com

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Foti Koskinas CHIEF OF POLICE

HOW HAS CRIME CHANGED SINCE YOU BEGAN IN 1996? “The 1990s was a much simpler time. People respected the police, and the job got done to the best of an officer’s ability. Officers did not really worry about citizen complaints as, very few ever complained. Today’s officer is supposed to be robotic in their use of proper language, perfect in all split-second decisions and totally unfeeling to the vital things that are directed at them by many of today’s younger people.”

WHAT IS YOUR PROUDEST MOMENT AS A MEMBER OF WESTPORT’S POLICE FORCE? WHAT WAS THE LOWEST? “As far as the proudest moment relating to the Westport Police force there have certainly been many but the one moment that is at the forefront was in the spring of 2020. In the early stages of the Covid-19 Pandemic, the nation was also dealing with the aftermath of the George Floyd tragedy in Minneapolis. Immediately following the incident, the entire country was demanding changes in policing, specifically asking for 8 specific reforms. I am proud to say that the Westport Police Department met and exceeded those expectations that day.”

IN DAN WOOG’S PODCAST YOU APPLAUD THE OFFICERS WHO DO THE RIGHT THING WHEN NO ONE IS LOOKING. HOW DO YOU INSTILL THIS IN THEM? “I believe most people who jump into public service have a desire to help others. I think where my role and the role of my entire management team makes a difference is that they are supported by the police administration and the town administration. My goal is for the police officers to do things because they want to rather than because of penalties and consequences if they fail to.”

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Antwayn places a box of Honey Nut Cheerios on the metal shelf. “Everyone wants these,” he exclaims. Against the wall are 23 bags he’s filled with groceries for food insecure people who will pick them up later. “We’re renovating, you know,” he waves his hand toward the back of the food pantry in the second level of Gillespie, a Homes With Hope homeless shelter. “This place has to get cleaned up.” He knows Westport’s shelter well, having lived here twice as a client. Like every other Gillespie client, he never thought he’d be homeless. Four years ago, in 2018, he had a full-time job, a home in Bridgeport with his girlfriend, a newborn and a toddler. Then, one evening in March, he lost everything. Please take a moment to consider that we live in the town in which Antwayn briefly lived, but in an alternate universe. We enjoy advantages, trust, and liberties that he did not. Still, he re-assembled his life and his dignity and WLM is honored to tell his story which continues up to the writing of this article. (And certainly beyond.) Antwayn's parents divorced when he was young. His mom raised him in Stamford. At 12 years old “I thought I knew everything,” he admits. His friend, Pookie, was in a gang - the Ebony Kings - and persuaded him to join. For initiation four older members jumped him and he fought back. He walked away with a “busted lip” and an indoctrination into the Ebony Kings family. Though he never abused alcohol or drugs, he willingly assumed the life of a gang member. If a brother said “Jump that guy” he did. He fought with rival gang members and ignored his curfew (“when the streetlights go on, 7:00 p.m.”). One winter day he packed snowballs

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around eggs, instead of rocks, to hurt other kids his own age. His mother wondered what happened to the dozen eggs she had just bought. When he turned 13 his mom sent him to live with his dad in Georgia. “I was furious,” he recalls. “But she knew I’d end up getting shot or shooting someone. At 13 you don’t understand the consequences.” Today, he concedes that his mother saved his life by shipping him South. He graduated from Jenkins High School in Savannah. At 19 he had two kids with two different women. “No one was teaching me anything,” Antwayn says. “My dad let me do anything.” Georgia was different than Brooklyn. It was about manners, “Yes, please, no thank you”; an entirely new world for him. After graduating high school he earned a certificate and worked as a daycare assistant at the YMCA. Then he worked as an assistant camp counselor. “I love kids,” he says. In 2003 he moved back to Connecticut and lived with his mother. He worked at Party City, then got a gig at Costco in 2007. He worked these two jobs for ten years. “I was earning $21.95 at Costco,” he proudly states. He later moved in with his girlfriend and together they had two kids, a boy, Antwayn (now 7), and a girl, Aalyah (now 4). Then the day in March, after he returned from work, his girlfriend kicked him out of their home and the police arrested him for violating a restraining order. Antwayn couldn’t pay the $25,000 bond so they locked him in a cell for 28 days. “You don’t want to go jail,” he cautions, shaking his head.

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Costco fired him for work abandonment. He had no home, no access to his money. His car was towed shortly after his arrest, his mother had no room for him in her home, and no business would hire a man fresh from the slammer. And he was not allowed to see his kids. The only thing he had on the 29th day, finally out of prison, was his innocence. Not that it mattered. “I was confused. Lost. I lost it all in the snap of a finger.” Devastated and shell-shocked, he dialed 211, the hotline for essential community services. They guided him toward a shelter in Bridgeport and for 15 days he lined up at 5:00 p.m. to get a bed for the night. Then he was granted room in Gillespie. After six months in Gillespie, the program manager, Ryan Soto, located and contacted Antwayn’s father in Oregon. He agreed to share his home with his son. So Antwayn relocated across the country. 33 days later he returned, shaken by his father’s violent mental health issues and veiled threats. Again, he found himself with nowhere to turn. By miracle, Ryan discovered he was back in the system. He got a room for Antwayn in Gillespie. During the long months of his second residency he was pessimistic and untethered. Then slowly, with Ryan’s help, he took the difficult, unnerving steps to overcome fear and submit to the power of hope. Ryan says, “He says ‘Ryan, you give great advice so I’m going to listen to you.’” Then Antwayn became one of Gillespie’s favorite success stories. Gillespie found him affordable housing and hired him part-time in the food pantry. He serves meals, cleans up, assists with food and clothing donations. Every morning he comes an hour early - a free hour, no one pays him - to make coffee, clean the refrigerator, whatever needs to be done. His gratitude is intoxicating; if he can be thankful for what he has, can't we all? “I want to stay working here,” he enthuses. “Miss Pat’s worked here for 17 years. I want to beat her record.” He’s strong, good, and happy. His eyes light up when speaking of his manager, Ryan, “Man he’s the best boss I ever had in my life. He knows how to talk to people with good respect.” Then adds, “I love this job.” Helen McAlinden, director of Homes with Hope, nominated Antwayn for the prestigious Carol E. Walter award, for persons who were once in a shelter and who now provide service for the same population. Antwayn won the award and received the plaque last June. Receiving this award is one of his proudest moments. I scheduled an interview with Antwayn in late March for this feature. Ryan emailed me twice to cancel this interview because of a “family emergency.” Always a concerning thing to hear, especially in this case - he had to be in court and with little advance notice. The emergencies concerned his children. But not for negative reasons. On April 5, he won sole custody of his son and daughter. He beams, “I’m so happy! I take it day by day - everything’s fresh. It hasn’t been a week yet!” When he has a moment to talk to Gillespie residents he tells them to look on the bright side, to pick themselves up and start over. He tells his story to help others like him find the smallest toehold in the crag of hope, so they can, one day, follow him to the summit.

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When Kennedy’s All-American Barber Clubs first started popping up in the tri-state region in 2009, they were steeped in an old-school, clubby vibe of pool tables, whiskey, and cigars. A lot has changed in 12 years, says Jarrod Manfro, President & CEO of Dark Horse Development, which owns the Westport Kennedy’s. “Men now? Post-pandemic? They’re all about looking good and feeling good,” says Jarrod, who joined the company after leaving the hustle and bustle of Wall Street to do something “more Main Street America.” It turns out, the best bet was taking a cue from the ladies. “Women have always had great options,” says Jarrod. “They are treated as individuals, have consultations with stylists. We want to have that for the men, too, so they can have that kind of confidence.”

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Gone is the pool table early members might remember. In its place, you’ll find a menu addressing all facets of men’s grooming, making sure each member feels clean, confident, and composed as he heads out to a busy workday or an evening out with his special someone. While both he and his clients were moving towards a fitter lifestyle pre-2020, Jarrod says the pandemic made many more conscious of their responsibility to adopt healthy habits. In addition to signature haircuts and precision straight-razor shaves, Kennedy’s offers shampoos and relaxing neck massage, as well as decidedly masculine skin refresh sessions. Appointments include personal consultation with skincare and grooming specialists and access to a range of grooming products in a shared sanctuary steeped in an air of relaxation and contentment.

While Dark Horse owns a few Kennedy’s locations, he’s concentrating on the Westport space in Playhouse Square. His staff here has introduced facials and manicures to an appreciative crowd that wants to look its best as the country moves out of the stay-at-home years and back to the office. For an introductory $99 a month, members gain exclusive access to Dark Horse Wellness lifestyle, exercise, attitude, and nutrition coaching. Grooming services include hair color treatments and gent’s waxes and the website, WestportMen. com, is just as likely to include a recipe for healthy black bean brownies as it is for beard-trimming tips. “The industry is definitely evolving,” Jarrod says, “and we’re at the forefront of that.” KennedysBarberClub.com

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WALRUS ALLEY’S MEZCAL OLD FASHIONED INGREDIENTS 2 oz Mezcal Verde 3/4 oz Agave Syrup 1/4 oz Bittermen’s Citron Sauvage 4 dashes Peychauds Bitters Grapefruit Twist

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John Videler, Photographer Favorite indulgence: Golf at Longshore on Friday afternoon. Favorite place for a drink: Walrus Alley. There’s something about those lights, the welcoming patio, and live music. Favorite clothing store: Patagonia. I love the outdoors. Hidden gem: As a native Westporter, I know so many hidden gems. Too many to list. You’ll have to wait for my book to come out.

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Sophia Andersen, Writer My favorite hidden (but maybe not-so-hidden) gem is Middlemarch. Their jewelry selection is out of this world and the energy of the space is amazing. Whether purchasing a gift for someone else or a pick-me-up for myself, I always leave feeling inspired and smiling ear to ear. (Photo: Mindy Briar)

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Favorite indulgence: Walking through Terrain after brunch on a Saturday morning. Favorite place to grab a drink: Inn at Longshore in the summer, Spotted Horse in the winter Favorite clothing store: Anthropologie - could that building be any more beautiful? (Photo: Brooke Allison Photo)

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My favorite place to buy books: Goodwill on Post Road. At $1 each, they’re cheaper than the late fines at the library. My favorite indulgence: A vodka tonic at Compo on a summer evening (Note to police: I’m kidding. I never bring alcohol to the beach.) My favorite feature from WLM: They’re all my babies, so I’ll never admit which I love best. (Photo: Mindy Briar)

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Favorite place to grab a drink: Anywhere someone is buying, but a shot of Limoncello chilled at Tarantino’s is always lovely. Favorite clothing store: Marshall’s. I like to buy my clothing, chips, shoes, and dog treats in the same location. Favorite feature from WLM: All of them. Every month I discover new people who make up the area I live in and why I stay.

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KEVIN AND JIM BUILT THE BEST LITTLE MUSICAL THEATRE IN WESTPORT

The Music Men

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“I think, right now, people need to laugh,” muses Kevin Connors. I and Jim Schilling, Kevin’s partner in life and business, nod energetically in agreement. Yes! Please! Entertain me! And they will - Lend Me a Tenor, Rocky Horror Show, I Hate Hamlet, and Sunset Boulevard. They’re going to delight and entertain us next season, because we’re all desperate for a chuckle. Kevin and Jim are co-founders of the professional award-winning non-profit Music Theatre of CT (MTC). (Kevin is the Executive Artistic Director, Jim is the Managing Director.) For 35 years they’ve produced and directed (and starred in) a never-ending swirl of plays and musicals for every conceivable audience, while running a popular conservatory for kids and adults on the side. MTC began in Fairfield’s Andrew Warde High School in 1987. Their first play in the defunct school, Ebenezer!, was “…a twist on the Christmas Carol,” Kevin explains. “It has an Ivan Boesky character.” Is Boesky still alive? I wondered aloud. We all looked at each other and shrugged. CONTINUED >

"Ragtime" (Photo: Joe Landry): Jim Schilling and Kevin Connors in 1980

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Shortly after a year they built the perfect sliver of a theatre in Westport’s Colonial Green with seating for 45. The space invited intimacy and immediacy of performers to playgoers. On this tiny stage they re-imagined all shows of all sizes, even large shows, reducing the casts to 14 at most. They produced shows like Evita and Ragtime with dexterity and confidence. Audience members were invited to purchase beer or wine and drink during the performances (which they still do). This was thrilling - well, thrilling to those of us who enjoy wine with their shows - at this time, Broadway shows prohibited pretty much everything but inhalers and Epi-pens into their inner sanctums. Kevin and Jim plucked talent from New York and surrounding summer stock theaters. Discerning theatergoers and drama students dotted the audience, loving the palpable energy from each cast. Kids and adults attended classes and performed in shows. Soon they were “exploding” out of their beloved theatre and began exploring larger spaces. After 13 years they found

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their current spot, a former kitchen cabinet warehouse at 509 Westport Avenue in Norwalk and built a black box theatre. In this black box they nurture talent like composer Justin Paul (“he could never walk by a piano without playing it.”), cast Broadway veterans such as Adam Pascal and Joanna Gleason, and develop new shows as well as standard favorites. They expanded seating to 110 seats, due to growing demand but still maintaining intimacy. They work with ABC students in Westport and developmentally challenged adults through STAR in Norwalk. Children from the Norwalk Housing Authority are invited to attend an annual workshop to put together a show for their parents, an ongoing partnership that’s fully funded by corporations and the State of CT. “Theater teaches life skills,” Kevin explains. “An opportunity to express themselves, to work as a team, to learn problem solving, in a way that’s fun.” Though life will allow for drama later, right now MTC is all about fun. And figuring out what Boesky’s up to.

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JUNE 2022

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Taste of Westport

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T H E I NN AT LO NG S H O RE , WE ST P O RT | 6 :0 0 P M After a two year hiatus, CLASP is delighted to once again serve the area's most delectable and diverse menus during this one-night extravaganza! Enjoy all you can eat & drink from an impressive list of your favorite local establishments. Dance to the music of Bar Car Band, one of Westport's most popular bands! Bid on fantastic prizes in the silent auction. And toast to CLASP's 40th anniversary! ClaspHomes.org JUNE 15TH

Fuzz: When Nature Breaks the Law, Book Discussion

E A RT H P L AC E | 7 :0 0 P M What’s to be done about a jaywalking moose? A bear caught breaking and entering? Three hundred years ago, animals that broke the law would be assigned legal representation and put on trial. These days, as New York Times best-selling author Mary Roach discovers, the answers are best found in science: human-wildlife conflict, a discipline at the crossroads of human behavior and wildlife biology. Earthplace.org JUNE 18TH

Summer Shopping Days

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DOWNTOWN WE ST P O RT | 1 0 :0 0 A M Enjoy spacious and safe shopping outdoors throughout Downtown Westport! Closed streets and accessible parking will allow you to roam freely and enjoy special offerings from many local merchants!

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Backyard Chicken Keeping

WAKEM AN TOWN FARM | 7 : 0 0 PM Want to start a chicken flock but don’t know where to start? We’ll walk you through the process in three informative hands-on workshops. Take one, two, or all three! At the end of the series, you can “adopt” two of our WTF chicks, and bring home your own handy starter pack, including feeder, waterer, wood shavings and 5-lb bag of organic feed! WakemanTownFarm.org

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Music at MoCA: Broadway Through The Ages

MO CA WEST PORT | 7:00 PM Join us for an evening of your favorite Broadway tunes, from Golden Age to Contemporary! Dan Hoy and Michelle Pauker will take you on a dazzling journey through the ages of musical theatre. MoCAWestport.org JUNE 30TH

First Ladies of Disco

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The Original Man of Westport 112 Years Old, Still Going Strong

Everyone knows this handsome guy at the intersection of Compo Road South and Compo Beach Road, ostensibly the spot of the fiercest battle between the British (who cruised into Compo a bit earlier) and the Continental militias on the evening of April 25, 1777. He’s the Minute Man, the everyman who leapt to his feet, threw on his clothes, and prepared himself to fight for our town in one minute flat. Our beloved Minute Man, who looks in the direction of Westport’s last battle and greatest victory, was sculpted by artist H. Daniel Webster, 29, in 1909. Daniel designed him

after the likenesses of several minute men descendants and, purportedly, used selectman Lewis P. Wakeman as a model. Daniel created the sculpture in his workroom at his home on 56 Sylvan Road North. He had it cast by Tiffany & Co., shortly before Tiffany “discovered” morganite and named it after John Peirpoint Morgan, a renown banker and gemstone donor. The statue was presented on June 17, 1910 to mild hysteria and a clambake. Two years later, Daniel died. Today, this statue remains one of Daniel’s finest works and one of our country’s finest tributes to the American Revolution.

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