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MAY 2021 PUBLISHER

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Women are strong. THIS PAST YEAR HAS TAUGHT ME THAT WOMEN ARE CAPABLE OF HANDLING ANYTHING! While I’ve personally had some tough moments throughout my life, nothing could have prepared me for the challenges of 2020-2021. Balancing motherhood/family life, fear for my family’s health, fear for the future of my business, the disruption of normalcy; the pandemic has been one of the scariest roller coasters I’ve ever been

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on. I know you can relate. Each May, the Westport Lifestyle team and I work tirelessly to bring you the Women’s issue. This year, as so many of us women became home-school teachers, caregivers, and career women simultaneously, it’s more important than ever to highlight the extraordinary work of the women of Westport. The amazing women in this issue are all on different paths with varied experiences. But one common thread is evident in all. They all have passion. What I’ve learned throughout the process of bringing our annual women’s issue to life is that passion drives each one of our outstanding women to continue evolv-

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ing when confronted with challenge. I’ve learned life lessons from these women

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throughout this past year and am so grateful to be able to share their experiences

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Winter Lights Festival at MoCA MoCA Westport and Up | Next Teens organization created a winter-themed experience. Activities included a walk-through light path, a Makers and Crafts space, hot chocolate courtesy of Sheila Barton Events, The Melt food truck, and musicians from the Westport School of Music. They also recognized Award winners and Honorable Mentions in MoCA's Hindsight is 2020 high school exhibition.

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NEW MUSIC AT MOCA OUTDOOR CONCERT SERIES Building on the success of last summer’s outdoor concerts, MoCA Westport announces a new Music at MoCA Concert Series featuring a diverse line-up of thirteen Jazz, Pop, and Classical performances. The concerts will be held outdoors at the Museum from April – October 2021. A variety of Concert Series ticket packages are available for purchase, including the Music at MoCA Season Pass (all 13 concerts), a Jazz package (4 concerts), a Pop package (5 concerts) and a Classical package (4 concerts). Tickets for each concert can also be purchased on an individual basis. Tickets are available on MoCA Westport’s website (mocawestport.org) or by calling the Museum at 203/222-7070. Three of the Jazz concerts will once again feature performers from the Jazz at Lincoln Center Emerging Artist Spotlight series, including the Alexa Tarantino Quartet, whose performance was a highlight of MoCA Westport’s 2020 Concert Series.

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“BUY LOCAL” IS GOOD. It helps. It ensures

“Buy Local” contributes to our town, so

that our small businesses stay alive and behe-

please continue to shop the community. But

moths like Amazon and Walmart can’t trundle

many businesses are still struggling. As we

in and stuff themselves into the quaint store-

scramble for a Covid vaccine they’re scram-

fronts dotting Main Street.

bling for a financial antidote. Now, there may

At least we imagine it does.

be a solution. Not an easy solution, because

Realistically, though, “Buy Local” isn’t

Covid is a poisonous, multi-tentacled monster

churning out the miracles we hoped it might…

that wraps its oily appendages around every-

sorry to destroy any dreams you may have of

thing that’s good and fair in this world. Still,

shopping your way into sainthood. Buying a

it’s a start:

pair of socks isn’t going to pay off someone’s

“Save Local”

back-rent even if you consider them really

“Save Local” is the initiative of Lori Dodd,

expensive socks. Purchasing a six-pack of foot

owner of Dream Spa in Westport. It takes

massages isn’t catapulting anyone into the

“Buy Local” one step further by asking peo-

black. And because you’re not wearing suits

ple, quite simply, for donations to support and

and whatnot, your friendly neighborhood dry

potentially save vicinal businesses.

cleaner is delighted you’re saving a fortune on dry cleaning. Oh, wait - no. They’re not.

“I know it’s a touchy subject, asking for support from the community,” she admits. CONTINUED >

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But with fewer sales and the additional costs of PPE, cleaning supplies, and air filters, options are limited. Everyone was hit hard, but businesses selling services - massages, facials, dry-cleaning - were especially slapped down during quarantine. From these businesses, people purchase “time.” If no one buys the hour, then the hour is gone forever and it’s impossible to recoup the cost. Gift certificates bring in money and may help bridge a deficit, but at some point the business must pay staff to deliver the service when no additional revenue is forthcoming. Obviously, it’s a polarizing initiative. None of us are anxious to donate our money to, say… well, I won’t name anything specific but you get the idea. For many us, charity means something larger than keeping a boutique gym afloat. However, it’s not meant to replace philanthropic initiatives. It’s meant to offer aid to businesses you love, that may otherwise be unable to survive. Her idea sprang from an unexpected visit from an attorney last May. “He handed me a check for $5,000 and told me his clients were giving money to their favorite local businesses. It was wonderful!” The DMA liked the message and is partnering with her in the initiative. Businesses can log onto SaveLocalWestport. com to sign up. For a small fee, they’ll be included in the signage and marketing and be granted a part of “Save Local” donations. “If you love a local business,” Lori explains, ”help save it!” It’s a challenging ask but these are challenging times. As Lori concedes, “It was hard for me to open up and say this, to ask for money, but if you can’t ask your community that relies on your business services, who can you ask?”

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SEPTEMBER SIRICO OWNER AND FOUNDER, BLOW DRY SOUTHPORT + WESTPORT “I’m the first in my family to go to college. My dad didn’t finish high school but he’s talented, a hard worker, and has a beautiful mindset. His first job was sweeping hair at a salon so he could learn from the hairdressers. He worked for free, showed up early, stayed late, did whatever he had to do to learn. In 1977 he opened Greg & Tony in the location where it still is today.” “I wasn’t allowed to work at Greg & Tony growing up; my parents wanted me to get experience outside the family business. I worked for Westport Pizzeria, Joey’s by the Shore, and Mitchells in customer service. I love working for family businesses and having the owners work side by side with you.” “I still have all my best friends from Staples - we refer to ourselves as Wreckers quite often. As an athlete, I never saw the Wreckers as a gender, it just made me feel strong.” “A blow-dry bar is an old idea. Back in the 1950’s women never washed their hair on their own. They came into the salon weekly for a blow dry and set.” “We didn’t expect blow dry to be so busy from the start; we were caught off guard.” “We talk about health, fitness, and nutrition just as much as cut, style, and color. I thought ‘If i’m going to talk about this all day I should have some accreditation.’ So I became a certified nutrition coach.” “Our comeback from Covid has been slow but steady thanks to our loyal clients. Our team stuck together and put in the work. We just want to know we’re doing everything we can do. “ https://www.blowdrysouthport.com

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GILLIAN ISAACS FOUNDER OF SHERATON CAREGIVERS: SENIOR AND IN-HOME CARE “In 1997 I became a caregiver for a rabbi’s wife who had Alzheimer’s. We didn’t really understand the disease at the time.” “She couldn’t articulate anything but she always knew how to say ‘thank you.’ I put her to bed like a baby, I made sure she looked good and smelled good, I’d wake her up with a song; she loved the music.” “On weekends I met families who had loved ones like the rabbi’s wife. They asked how I knew what she wanted, I said, ‘It’s the unspoken word,’ the touch I shared with her, the smile on my face.“ “She was a schoolteacher and loved educating children. He couldn’t understand why his celebrated wife of so many years couldn’t have a conversation with him.” “Why can’t she understand me? ‘Rabbi,’ I said, ‘she does by your expressions.’” “I wanted to go into finance. This changed all of that.” “Sheraton [in Westport] is the fourth senior caregiving agency I’ve opened in Fairfield County.” “[In art therapy] we had a simple project of tracing the hand. Our client, a father, was to do this with his wife and his daughter. He was reluctant and his daughter talked him into doing it, so he finally agreed. A week later the dad passed. The picture is framed in his wife’s home. It’s a happy memory and the last thing they did together.” “Everybody is somebody, we shouldn’t forget who they were.” https://www.sheraton.care

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LOCAL LIMELIGHT (CONTINUED)

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CHRISTY CHARISE FOUNDER AND PRINCIPAL, STRATEGIC ADVISOR “I grew up in upstate New York. My dad’s a master mechanic and my mom was a surgical nurse. As the first to go to college in my family, I only applied to Cornell. I didn’t realize how competitive it was or that I probably should have also applied somewhere else.” “In 2021 inclusivity and diversity are increasingly spotlighted in the workplace: LBGTQ, race, women. Professionally, I’m cognizant of the balance between being a leader who sets the tone and being a supportive ally that allows each community to drive its own discussion and experience.” “My mom’s an incredible role model. I want my kids to see the value of hard work and the fulfillment that comes from achievement and also from service to others.” “At 16 I wanted to be a motivational speaker. Do you know Dr. Rick Rigsby? He has an incredible laugh! As a high school student, I heard him speak about a gas station cashier who gave him too much change. Though the line was long, he waited to give her the extra change back. She started crying as she told him the money would have been taken out of her paycheck. This story changed how I thought about my own ethical litmus test.” “You write your own moral code. In a lot of your decisions in life, no one else is looking.” strategicadvisor.co

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DR. JESSICA MELMAN BESPOKE VETERINARY SERVICES “I moved to Weston because I wanted to have a farm. I’d love to have an animal sanctuary.” “Four cavaliers, a Bernese Mountain dog, a rabbit, two geckos, three cats, a fish, and two rescue pigs. The chicken count is hard because I’m constantly taking in chickens. 17? One is a rooster. Eight ducks, three goats, and three sheep who are huge troublemakers. They break into the barn office and everyone follows.” “When you have a farm you find so many people who want to help with animals. A young boy with special needs comes once a week to feed and interact with the animals.” “Major silver lining in the pandemic - a lot of people got dogs; the shelters are empty. I’ve had people cry, telling me it’s the best thing they ever did.” “One of my biggest fears? I’m afraid a lot of these puppies won’t be socialized and won’t know how to live on their own when their owners go back to work. Their owners may not be able to manage them and their jobs.” “My sheep are sheared twice a year. I bought the clippers because it looked so easy but it’s so hard to flip the sheep. It didn’t happen. Then I found a nice young girl an hour away to shear them. I learned if you grab them in the area behind their teeth you can flip them pretty easily.” “Uh oh. The goats just broke into the barn.” bespokevetservice.com

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VA L E R I A B A I K O F F CO-OWNER OF NOVA DESIGN BUILD WITH HER HUSBAND. VALERIA EMIGRATED TO THE U.S. 30 YEARS AGO.

“In Russia, we didn’t know much about America. We had a famous Russian journalist [Vladimir Pozner] who did a public interactive show about American people. I remember a show, Space Bridges, which he hosted with Phil Donohue - and now we live in the area he lived in!” “I remember Michael Bolton from Russia, I remember his different hair - who could have thought we’d be in the same town?” “It’s the immigrant mentality - you see something you like, you work hard to get it.” “I was in sales at Prada, my husband was in construction. We bought an apartment across from the Brooklyn Museum. There was an exhibition there, SENSATION. It was a scandal! The artist was Damien Hirst - before he was ‘Damien Hirst!’” “We renovated this apartment - we got it from an estate sale, it was dilapidated and we fixed it up. The people who bought it from us loved it and bought everything in it.” “[My husband] and I wanted to spend more time together, so we opened a business renovating homes.” “Time is the most precious thing any of us have.” http://nova-design.us/

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RIA RUEDA CHIEF CULTURE OFFICER AND INSTAGRAM BFF “I started @BuzzCT to promote small businesses - food, beverage, wellness, style, art, design, travel - things that create a ‘buzz’. If I love it, I want to share the experience with others.” “Small businesses need as much PR as possible now. If I can support them through the power of social media and word of mouth, that’s my way of giving back.” “[@BuzzCT] has gotten good reception. As for demographics, I run the gamut from 20’s to people in their 60’s. It’s a nice range that can afford some high-end things and some more budget-friendly. I try to speak in my real voice so I’m approachable; I want to be that friend that people can ask, ‘Hey what about this?’” “I don’t like to pretend that life is always rosy. I suffer from anxiety and depression, so sharing my mental struggles with others is important to me.” “I was diagnosed with fibroids and uterine cancer. I didn’t even know that existed. Cancer aside, I realized there’s so much women don’t know about women’s health and when they should go to the doctor. So I launched @KnowYourLadyParts where women can tell their stories, ask questions, and learn from experts.” “My pet peeves? Entitlement and intolerance at any level does not jive with me.” “I like people. They can bug the h*ll out of me, too, but I think I’m a good judge of character.” CONTINUED >

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LOCAL LIMELIGHT (CONTINUED)

RUTH MANNES EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF MOCA WESTPORT “I was an executive managing editor at Harper Collins… then we moved out here and I was PTA president at CMS, in Ways & Means at CES, then on the executive board at Staples and ran the Staples Players fundraising for a few years.” “I came to MoCA on February 10 and it closed midMarch. I could take a breath and learn what needed to be fixed, repaired, and strengthened. MoCA needed a good spinal cord to run well and the skeleton was really fractured.” “Appreciating and loving art has nothing to do with snobbery or existing in an Ivory tower; that’s the biggest misconception, everyone can and should participate in this endeavor.” “My husband and I started collecting in 1991. For our wedding we asked everyone to send money for a Paul Bloodgood painting.” “We lived in a 400-square foot apartment in the West Village. We’d wake up on Saturday, get a coffee, walk to Chelsea and spend the entire day walking into galleries and talking to people. It was like an intellectual endeavor: we’d research what we liked.” “We had luck in the market and developed a good eye. Christie’s and Sotheby’s started asking us to sell our work at auction.” “So this job is perfect because I have a 25-year history with the art world and I know how to curate. I know what a good show looks like and who are the important artists. I have the managerial side from all my years in publishing. I care about Westport and our community from all of my years volunteering. And I work with six amazing women.” (Photo: Kerry Long)

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We packed up all the things -- work essentials, some good cookware, our best pillows, etc. -- and took off. The trip started off by heading down to Florida, where it was warm, and then west through the southern route to California. There were stops along the way, of course, including Charleston, Savannah, West Palm Beach, New Orleans, Austin, Tucson, Palm Springs, Santa Barbara, Zion National Park, Boulder, Santa Fe, and more. It was cool to escape the cold and a thrill to wake up to new scenery each week. The most notable challenge wasn’t finding a good wireless signal, as you might think, but finding campsites at the last minute -- it seems this kind of journey has become more popular since the pandemic. Something we’ve treasured most about this experience is arriving in California to be with our family while having everything we need right there with us, including our dogs.

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WE’VE LEARNED WE DON’T NEED MUCH TO B E H A P P Y, A N D T H AT T H E R E ’ S S O M E T H I N G M E S M E R I Z I N G A B O U T T H AT O P E N R O A D … CONTINUED >

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Buying your first RV or travel trailer? Here are a few quick tips:

community wasn’t delighted to lend a helping hand.

1. Do your research! Visit at least a few dealers and

4. Be prepared for some dirt. Though an RV feels

explore your options -- walk through different rigs

like a hotel on wheels, you’re still camping! You’ll most

to get an idea of what’ll work best for you and your

likely be outside a lot more than usual and with that

family. For instance, we wanted big windows. Once

comes a dusty camper. The good news is it’s a small

you’ve settled on one, ask for an in-depth tour of the

space and easy to clean!

rig and what are (and are not!) its capabilities.

5. Bring only the necessities. I’m personally still

2. The internet is your friend. The number of

working on this one as I love to pack all my favor-

YouTube videos we’ve had to watch to under-

ite outfits! But I rarely wear all that I pack. The

stand “how-to” seems endless. We’re constantly

best advice I can give is to be prepared for a little

figuring things out as we go and mostly through

of everything. Bring a rain jacket (I don’t know why

trial-and-error. A great example of this was learn-

but it always seems to rain at least once!), some

ing how to get the rig off-grid ready for working in

weatherproof shoes, and of course, sunscreen and

the middle of the desert. We pulled it off while not

bug repellant!

having much of a clue going into it. Trust us - if we can do it, anyone can. 3. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Everyone remembers their first trip and learning to set up the rig is

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Being outdoors is good for the soul and is a positive experience for our family. We’ve learned we don’t need much to be happy, and that there’s something mesmerizing about that open road…

Mornings with my puppy, Kai.

White Sands, New Mexico. Cameron with our puppy Kai.

Savannah, Georgia

St. Augustine, Florida

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FEMALE EMPOWER BANKWELL GIVES WOMEN WHAT THEY NEED TO GIVE BACK.

AT WLM, WE CELEBRATE THE PEOPLE WHO HELP

Volunteers working within these constructs are helping people suc-

THE UNDERSERVED IN OUR COMMUNITY. While it’s

ceed and encouraging philanthropy to elevate the community at large.

easy for us to accept the authenticity of individuals on their

We thank Bankwell for helping residents in Fairfield County, for

own behalf in acts of kindness and charity, we can’t ignore

going beyond the photo ops and publicity to quietly cheer for the

that there are businesses and companies that have created

achievements of its employees while stealthily contributing to the

exceptional cultures of care and giving back.

society in which they live. MyBankWell.com

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Laura Waitz,

Chief Operating Officer WLM: HOW DID BANKWELL ACCOMMODATE YOUR DUAL ROLE AS PARENT AND EMPLOYEE? LAURA: I am the proud mom of two sons (30 & 28). As a single mom, my personal and professional experiences over the years through other challenging events (e.g. 9/11, Hurricane Sandy and the Nuclear Disaster & Tsunami in Japan) shaped how I wanted to treat our employees during the pandemic. WLM: HOW HAS BANKWELL CHANGED YOUR FOCUS OR ENGAGEMENT IN CHARITY WORK? LW: Bankwell has provided me more opportunity to become involved in local organizations. Dear to my heart is Filling in the Blanks which tackles food insecurity in children in our communities. I also serve on the Executive Committee and Board of Goodwill of Western & Northern Connecticut. Goodwill strengthens communities by helping people with disabilities and other disadvantages maximize independence through job training and other support services. WLM: WHAT TYPE OF CHARITY WORK DO YOU FIND MOST PERSONALLY FULFILLING? LW: Giving money is important, but investing time and expertise is much more valuable to these organizations and the people that they support; it truly is where one can add value and feel valued. WLM: WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE PART OF VOLUNTEER/CHARITABLE WORK? LW: Building sustainable relationships and networking with people. WLM: WHAT IS YOUR LEAST FAVORITE PART? LW: Wishing I had the ability to do more.

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Shawn Gelin,

Senior Vice President, Director of Community Banking Operations WLM: HOW LONG HAVE YOU WORKED AT BANKWELL? SHAWN: I was one of the first employees hired and am so grateful to have been part of the journey that brought Bankwell where it is today. WLM: HOW DID BANKWELL ACCOMMODATE YOUR DUAL ROLE AS PARENT AND EMPLOYEE? SG: Bankwell has always been flexible and supportive of parents and families. I’ve chaperoned class trips, gone to concerts and sports events, and am fully supported in times of illness, emergency or childcare issues. WLM: HOW DOES BANKWELL SUPPORT AND MAINTAIN ITS LONG-TENURED EMPLOYEES? SG: Bankwell creates a supportive and rewarding environment. Employees are encouraged to explore opportunities across departments and to grow within the company. Almost all of the people that work for me came from other parts of the bank. I’m so proud to say that many of them have also been promoted! Prior to the pandemic, Bankwell regularly held outstanding quarterly events for the entire bank to be together, have fun and celebrate our collective success. I can’t wait for the day when we can all be together again.

Courtney Biernesser,

Senior Vice President, Director of Human Resources WLM: WHAT IS YOU FAVORITE PART OF VOLUNTEER/CHARITABLE WORK? COURTNEY: My favorite part of volunteering/charitable work is gaining new perspectives, which helps me focus on what’s truly important in life. WLM: WHAT IS YOUR LEAST FAVORITE PART? CB: I think it’s sometimes hard on the person/people we may be trying to help or assist. We all have a sense of pride and it’s important to be mindful of that in others when volunteering. WLM: IF YOU COULD DO ANYTHING FOR ANYONE, WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY? CB: My grandmother, Anna Gilly, is 97 years old and moved to New York City from Austria when she was in her late 20s, shortly after WWII. Given the pandemic, it’s a hard time to be at the end of one’s life. Even with the rollout of the vaccine, my grandmother has only recently been allowed in-person visits with family and they’re limited to 30 minute visits, six feet apart. She’s had no hugs or kisses or touching family members in close to a year. She feels isolated and alone. While we try to connect on Zoom calls, many failed due to technology issues. It would be so meaningful to create a program to help the elderly have a more positive experience to connect with family and friends while getting the physical care they need. 48

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Christine Chivily,

Executive Vice President, Chief Risk & Credit Officer WLM: WHAT ARE SOME WAYS IN WHICH BANKWELL HELPED NAVIGATE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THROUGH THE PANDEMIC? CHRISTINE: The Bank was extremely concerned for the welfare, both physical and psychological, of its employees. A week prior to working remotely, our IT team made sure most employees were equipped with laptop computers. We had an all-employee test of our remote capabilities so when we had to go remote we knew we could function effectively. Our CEO hosted multiple all-staff calls during which he updated everyone on how we were moving forward through the pandemic and basically gave everyone a pep talk. We assisted employees with young and school-aged children by paying for childcare either in their homes or at day care centers. There were several ‘feel good’ deliveries to employees’ homes: packets of cloth masks, antibacterial wipes, hand sanitizer, chargers and cords to ensure connectivity prior to one of the big storms, delivery of soup and cookies – just ways to let everyone know the management was thinking of them and grateful for the efforts being made to keep the business going smoothly.

Trish Fontes,

Senior Vice President, Director of Treasury Management and Retail Sales Management

(Photo: Regina Madwed)

WLM: DID BANKWELL’S INVOLVEMENT IN PHILANTHROPY SWAY YOUR DECISION TO WORK THERE? TRISH: Yes, absolutely. My team and I have had countless opportunities to give our time and energy to wonderful charities and organizations that are doing tremendous work benefiting groups ranging from children in need to women in the workforce to the hungry. WLM: BEFORE YOU STARTED AT BANKWELL, HOW/WHERE DID YOU DO VOLUNTEER WORK? TF: I volunteered my time at the United Way and local food banks. One of the places most near and dear to me is our Portuguese school in Bridgeport. I love to volunteer my time ensuring that the next generation of Portuguese-American children learn the language and the history of where their families immigrated from, the traditions and the culture. WLM: HOW HAS BANKWELL CHANGED YOUR ENGAGEMENT IN CHARITY WORK? TF: Bankwell has helped me expand my opportunities to get involved in charitable work. In fact, it has helped me get my daughters involved and help them see how important it is to give back to the community and those less fortunate when necessary. Bankwell has provided a terrific mechanism for us to show the next generation how important it is to get involved and to share their time and resources. CityLifestyle.com/Westport

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WLM: MANY YEARS HAVE PASSED SINCE

SEINFELD’S

FAMOUS

“DR.

PIMPLE POPPER” EPISODE. WHAT DOES TODAY’S DERMATOLOGIST DO? DR. TANYA FUTORYAN: Dermatology has always been multifaceted. First, there’s the medical side of it, dealing with skin cancer detection and treatment. We also treat rashes, acne and rosacea -the adult form of acne - and we still “pop” or inject pimples with anti-inflammatory medicine to quickly shrink them. Then

there’s

LASER

dermatology.

Lasers use light to treat a specific target molecule, such as oxyhemoglobin in redness and broken capillaries, melanin in brown spots, or water in dermal collagen. Laser light will produce heat and improvement of target tissue. I believe in treating specific issues in the skin with lasers because of their specificity and precision with little to no collateral damage. In addition, there’s the aesthetic anti-aging field of dermatology which addresses

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CAUSES AND PREVENTION OF AGING SKIN

HEALTHY LIFESTYLE Dr. Tanya Futoryan (Photo: Mindy Briar)

the three dimensional changes that occur in our faces over time.

we start to notice aging. After about age 35, you

Those changes occur in bone, fat or soft tissue, and in the skin. Skin

see collagen degradation bone loss and fat/

is only a few millimeters deep and can be treated with lasers. The

soft tissue loss, and shifts (some due to gravity).

fat, muscle, and bone must also be considered and treated when

Much of what we see as wrinkles in the skin is

addressing the aging face.

a result of these changes. In addition, skin will

To reach the soft tissue and bone, one can do surgery or use inject-

show aging due to UV light. UV damage leads

ables. Cutting should be reserved for people with excess fat and/or

to loss of elasticity and decreased collagen pro-

skin. For others, the aging process is gradual and can be treated by

duction. Think of skin as sheets on the bed, the

restructuring with injectables.

mattress as the soft tissue beneath, and bone as the frame holding both up.

WLM: WHAT INJECTABLES DO YOU RECOMMEND? TF: I work with all of them to get the right match for the area of

WLM: WHAT ARE THE THREE MAIN THINGS

the face I’m trying to improve. When working over bone, I use thicker

WE CAN DO TO MAINTAIN THE HEALTH OF

sturdier fillers, while when working in the fat, I prefer fillers with good

OUR SKIN?

volume and lift, and the thin/gentle tissues around the eyes and lips

TF:

require a thinner or softer product.

1. Use sunscreen to protect the skin. 2. Regular checks for skin cancer are import-

WLM: WHEN SHOULD A PATIENT START WITH INJECTABLES?

ant at any age.

TF: I recommend patients start when there are early signs of

3. Get Skincare education / advice from your

aging, usually in their mid to late 30’s or early 40’s. When patients

dermatologist who knows the most about active

start to notice deeper folds and flat or hollow areas on and around

ingredients and products which will benefit the

the face or when the proportion of bone to soft tissue/ fat changes,

health of your skin.

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WLM: THERE ARE SPFS UP TO 100 AND MORE. WHAT’S THE MOST EFFECTIVE SPF AND HOW OFTEN SHOULD ONE APPLY IT? TF: Apply the highest SPF your skin will tolerate. I advise patients to use physical sunscreens such as zinc oxide or titanium oxide. These reflect all UV light off the surface of the skin much like a mirror does. They don’t absorb any of the light. For that reason, physical sunscreens are safer for kids and adults and provide better UV protection because they reflect/ screen out all rays. WLM: DON’T THEY MAKE YOUR FACE WHITE? TF: Zinc oxide and titanium dioxide are naturally chalky white and can appear white on the skin. However, sunscreen manufacturers have made the particle size smaller and therefore less noticeable on the skin. Some of the formulations also come tinted. You’ll need to try out a few sunblocks to see which one looks best and is easiest to use. WLM: HOW OFTEN DO WE APPLY THE SUNSCREEN? TF: If you’re going to work for the day, apply sunscreen in the morning. If you’re outdoors doing activities and sweating, you’ll have to reapply every 4 hours or as indicated on sunscreen packaging. The rule of thumb is, if you’re not tanning, then your sunscreen is working well. If you’re tanning or turning red, it’s not. CityLifestyle.com/Westport

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FINANCIAL BUZZ

and health

money, law,

WOMAN'S COMPASS FORUM TEACHES PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

INDEPENDENT

FINANCIAL

MANAGER

GALIA

GICHON,

ATTORNEY MARGIE JACOBSON, AND CLINICAL NUTRITIONIST MS AND REGISTERED YOGA TEACHER MICHELLE DIDNER WERE VACATIONING TOGETHER IN PUERTO RICO. They are accomplished professionals, all practiced in women’s education, and all divorced.

planting, and harvesting the rewards from finance, law, and health perspectives. Why female-focused? (Men are welcome to join.) “Women tend to defer legal issues to a spouse or to an attorney. While

While lolling on a sun-soaked spot of sand, they discussed how

they’re great advocates for others, they

they were navigating a life on their own and realizing how much they

often neglect or delegate their own legal

didn’t know and how much they could learn from each other.

well-being.” says Margie.

And if they could learn from one another, weren’t their other women who could learn from them?

According to Galia, “Women make less money and take time off to care for kids and

Which brings us to a fun-filled riddle: Three women, all friends,

parents, but they live longer. So they live

all single, vacation on a tropical island. What do you they come

longer with less money. There’s a sense of

home with?

‘Oh, your husband or your parent will take

Hangovers? Who knows. Matching tattoos? Doubt it. Ticket stubs from a local cockfight? Definitely no.

care of you.’” Michelle adds, “Women’s health issues dif-

Give up?

fer from men’s. They suffer from anxiety and

An idea for Woman’s Compass Forum (WCF)! A course designed

depression more than men. Women are more

to “holistically and structurally help women in the most important

likely than men to die after a heart attack and

facets of their lives,” describes Michelle.

have higher rates of stroke, hormone-driven

WCF began as a live three-hour class for 40 women in 2018 and

diseases, and different sleep issues.”

2019. A few short months later, it exploded into a three-month webi-

“It’s what we don’t know what we don’t

nar which includes 12 hours of presentations and Q&A. Aided by

know that blindsides us,” stresses Margie.

a gardening theme, the webinars guide women through planning,

“WCF lets them know.”

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Galia, Margie, and Michelle (Photo: Sophie Clemens)

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FINANCIAL BUZZ (CONTINUED) Michelle Didner (Photo: SMO Photo)

There’s so much to know, in fact, many women take the course twice. One woman insisted her son and husband watch the legal presentations. Another used her newfound knowledge of finance to discover $10,000 in a pension. Most are simply grateful to learn about stuff they didn’t know, but should, in a safe, supportive environment. Finance and legal tend to be intrinsically entwined, one tipping off the point of another. While many woman may be money or law experts, their familial responsibilities tend to supersede their professional ones. “I’m amazed that women can do multimillion dollar deals for clients but put their own needs last,” says Galia. Which is where Michelle fits in. “One of the biggest questions I get is ‘How do I manage anxiety while discussing and managing finances?’” I imagine the answer could be “knock back a few margs and buy aspirational jewelry online while enjoying a roaring fire made of absconded Duraflame logs and unpaid bills.” But, heck, I haven’t taken the course yet.

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100 YEARS OF FASHION

5 Coffee Ta b l e Books for F a s h i o n i s ta s

“This book documents in pictures the most exciting and diverse period in fashion: from 1900 to today, covering high society, uniforms, sportswear, streetwear, and couture. It will appeal to everyone with an interest in fashion as well as students Over 400 photographs and illustrations, many published for the first time, tell the stylish story of a fashion revolution.” –Amazon

ARTICLE KATE BAXENDALE PHOTOGRAPHY AMAZON “Chanel’s combination of tradition, originality and style has always made it the most seductive of brands. Here the House of Chanel opens its private archives, revealing a galaxy of brilliant designs created by Coco Chanel from the 1920s onwards, and now reinterpreted to FASHION IS AN EXPRESSION OF ONESELF.

become the motifs for brand new garments, accessories

It is a visual statement to the world about who

and beauty products.

we are and how we want to be portrayed. For fashionistas, clothing is more than just fabric

CHANEL: COLLECTIONS AND CREATIONS

that covers our bodies; it’s a representation of a person’s identity. If you live and breathe all things fashion, then these five books about the history of top fashion magazines like Vogue, iconic brands like Chanel and world-famous designers like Valentino will both excite and entertain you.

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VALENTINO: THEMES AND VARIATIONS

VOGUE: THE COVERS

“In this stunning updated edition of the successful Vogue:

“The name Valentino has been synonymous with high

The Covers, Vogue continues to pay tribute to its tradition

fashion for almost 50 years. Based in Rome, Valentino is

of beauty and excellence with a compilation of even more

only one of two couture houses recognized by the French

spectacular cover art. In addition to featuring classic covers

government outside of Paris. His exquisite designs are

from the magazine’s 125-year history, this updated edition

coveted and worn by young Hollywood and high society

features every cover since 2010, with each cover display-

the world over. On the occasion of his last couture collec-

ing the magazine’s cutting-edge takes on style, fashion,

tion, presented in Paris in the spring of 2008, this land-

and culture. Unforgettable new covers feature such cele-

mark book celebrates 45 years of Valentino’s remarkable

brated subjects as Michelle Obama, Kim and Kanye, Lena

career. Published in association with a prestigious exhibi-

Dunham, and more. This lavish, beautifully illustrated book

tion at the Museé des Arts Decoratifs’s famed costume

even includes five new frameable Vogue cover prints that

department in Paris, this volume focuses on Valentino’s

can be removed from the back of the book. Vogue: The

haute couture creations, highlighting the most important

Covers (Updated Edition) is a must-have for every fashion

and iconic creations of his half-century in fashion through

lover and collector.” –Amazon

recurring themes in Valentino’s work—variations on the

ideas of volume, line, and texture as well as motifs such as geometry, pleats, and flowers—through new photography, sketches, fabric samples, and commentary on the dresses by Valentino himself. ...” –Amazon

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