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LIFESTYLE LETTER

MARCH 2021 PUBLISHER

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Home Sweet Home/Classroom/ Office/Gym/Restaurant THIS PAST YEAR THE WORD “HOME” HAS TAKEN ON MANY OTHER MEANINGS IN OUR LIVES. Our homes have become our offices, our kids’ classrooms, our gyms, our restaurants, our haven and sanctuary.

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They’ve also become walls that we stare at endlessly, in which we’ve spotted every flaw and need for an upgrade. Almost all of our friends and neighbors have fallen victim to the Covid-19 remodel trend. Over the past year, they’ve resurfaced fireplaces, switched out lighting fixtures, changed their home's exterior color, hung up new artwork, repainted rooms and much, much more. It was a lot of fun but also created anxiety. Home projects can feel overwhelming. It’s important to take it one step at a time. Think simple: small steps, little bits of advice, maybe even down-sizing your home. Find happiness in repurposing old furniture or inventing new ways to use a family

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INSIDE THE ISSUE MARCH 2021

FEATURES 22 Design by Committee How Social Media is Helping Homeowners Problem Solve

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DEPARTMENTS

Lifestyle Letter

Good Times

Around Town

28 Renovate & Refine 32 Open House 38 Artist’s Palette 44 Trend Setter 50 Food & Wine 56 DIY 62 Inspired By 66 Parting Thoughts

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of 2020 by Westport mom, design obsessive, and one of

gives you inspiration and useful tips for smaller projects. If

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B at h i n g B e au t i e s

Karen Berkemeyer

(Photograph: Tim Lenz)

TRENDS IN BATHROOMS Navy feature wall. (Photograph: Tim Lenz)

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ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

Simple hardware, peaceful colors. (Photograph: Jane Beiles)

I’M NO EXPERT, BUT IT SEEMS THE NATURAL

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BUBBLE YOUR BATHWATER:

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RE-DOING THE ENTIRE HOUSE BECAUSE THE

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about scrubbing so much grout.

EVERYTHING ELSE.

+ Tone down flooring then punch it up in the shower

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with a mosaic. You can even pull the mosaic into

Berkemeyer Home (KBH), where they source everything

the niche where you store shampoos and soap.

from plumbing to porcelain. Conveniently, they’re also

+ Make waves with a feature wall of colored tile

kitchen renovators which you’ll want after you unwit-

or glass, either the entire wall or just behind the vanity.

tingly begin your home-improvement journey.

+ Use neutrals and tranquil colors: white, taupe,

According to KBH, trends are shifting away from

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unfussy hardware.

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with a pop of interest to kick it up and keep it interesting.

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RENOVATE & REFINE (CONTINUED)

Mosaic in the shower and shower floor. (Photograph: Tim Lenz)

Shower mosaic. (Photograph: Jaime Martorano)

(Photograph: Tim Lenz)

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The Skinny House

Main house living room and stairs. Photo by: Barry A. Hyman Photography

“A sma l l house,” Peter sm i les, “ is a n a ma zi ng ly compl icated pu zzle.”

WE SPEND THE FIRST HALF OF OUR LIVES ACQUIRING

completed a sliver of a home - all of 20 feet wide - and guest

THINGS, THE SECOND HALF TRYING TO GIVE THEM AWAY.

cottage on a coveted lot between Sherwood Millpond and

At first it’s fun: we buy adult stuff like power tools and porcelain

Compo Cove.

collectibles. Then one day we’re staring at four rechargeable drills and a collection of tacky knick-knacks.

According to Peter, the biggest secret to a small home is a thoughtful floor plan. “We start with the land. Where are the sun

As we log years and gain wisdom, our affinity for material goods

angles? How is the property situated? Then we consider the peo-

ebbs as our longing for a new beginning flows. Our yearning for

ple. How will they entertain? How will they get downstairs? Are

simplicity increases in proportion to our disinterest in housework

they public or private people?”

and yard care. And once we rid ourselves of these earthly posses-

Now, the best part of this particular lot is the two views (ocean

sions we no longer need, or want, the square footage that housed

and pond), not the simple thrill of a skinny home. For Peter,

them. Suddenly smaller is superior.

however, the size was a dream challenge. “A small house,” Peter

WLM caught up with Peter Cadoux, one of our favorite archi-

smiles, “is an amazingly complicated puzzle.” They wanted to

tects and expert in designing small(er) homes. He recently

emphasize the waterscapes while making the “small spaces seem CONTINUED >

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OPEN HOUSE (CONTINUED)

“ T he big gest a rgu ment i n th is house is wh ich v iew do we l i ke bet ter? ” Guest cottage living room and view. Photo by: Barry A. Hyman Photography

Gorgeous Compo view from the master bedroom.

big.” To do this, no inch could be wasted and no fussy bits

biggest argument in this house is which view do we like

could interrupt the lines. Plus, it had to survive the salt,

better?” admits Peter.

sun, hurricanes, and floods while looking like a beach house, not a bunker.

The owner, Mary Morant, is a local artist who grew up on the Southeast coastline. Her goals for her new home

In the main house, he installed floor-to-ceiling glass

were “simplicity and authenticity.” Peter used materials

doors in the living room overlooking Compo Cove. These

indigenous to the East Coast, or manmade materials that

can be easily opened should one wish to inhale the

look indigenous but can withstand New England’s tem-

rarefied air of this locale. He did the same in the guest

perature tantrums. For instance, in a nod to Mary’s south-

cottage, to gaze at the happy ducks in Millpond. “The

ern heritage, he coated the outside first floor and pillars

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Pop-out bunk beds in the office. Photo by: Barry A. Hyman Photography

with tabby, a mixture of oyster (an homage to Hummock

According to Peter, smaller homes like this are increas-

Island) and mussel shells mixed with a lime slurry from

ingly popular. Perhaps it’s a response to the noise in our

North Carolina, where the stucco originated.

lives and our interest in doing something other than home

Most everything is built-in, such as the outside shower

repair on weekends. Perhaps our parents unloaded their

whose base stone doubles as a drain and the kitchen

life of detritus upon us so we’re trying to limit the hoard

island into which everything from trash bin to dishwasher

we’ll try to pawn off on our own kids. Most likely, we sim-

is tucked. In the office, two perfectly appointed bunk beds

ply want a fabulous home with enviable views and the

pop out of the wall to create a guest room, then are easily

coolest bunk beds in town.

pushed up and secured into the wall.

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We decided to jump down the rabbit hole of this peel and stick stuff

AND GENERAL RESTLESSNESS WITHIN OUR HOUSES, HOME

to see what it looks like and where it can be purchased. What we found

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were designs from the delightfully whimsical to the borderline disturbing.

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ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

TREND SETTER

HOME COURT ADVANTAGES 44

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THE NEWEST IN CUSTOM COURTS

THERE ARE, ESSENTIALLY, THREE TYPES OF TENNIS COURTS AROUND WESTPORT. Public courts, in which derelict weeds add an interesting and dangerous element to one’s game. Country clubs, which come with a dining minimum and pesky expectations of propriety. And personal courts, which allow limitless playing time along with sartorial and behavioral liberties. With such options, and mandatory mask rules, the increasing demand for home courts is as surprising as a seagull stealing french fries. Today’s courts are different than the bituminous concrete slabs of the ‘80s and ‘90s. So, too, are their functionality. Tom Hinding of Hinding Tennis (HT), who has been creating courts since 1994, filled us in on what to consider in a home courtship.

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Custom pickleball court..

First, not everyone in the family wants to play tennis. One can either ignore that individual or create a multi-purpose “sports court” to accommodate him/her. Says Tom, “People want courts they can also use for basketball, skating and pickleball. Pickleball is growing faster than any other sport I’ve seen in the past 25 years.” HT courts have even included shuffleboard courts and painted games such as Four Square, hopscotch, and kickball. It’s much easier to push a pack of screaming children outside when there are a number of options to occupy them. Second, most public and club courts are hard. Of these courts, Medium.com writes, “It is one of the toughest surfaces that affects the body and many elderly people are not able to play on this surface anymore due to the strain it can cause on their body.” In response, HT specializes in “all-weather cushioned courts” to help prevent joint pain. The HT courts, “have not only improved the quality of the game but… our players feel less fatigue, have less injuries and can play longer when they play on one of our cushioned systems.” Lastly, owning a tennis court should be a diversion from one’s busy life, not a labor-intensive, deteriorating plot of time consumption. Tom explains, “Because of the freeze and climate change we experience, ‘All-Weather Courts’ are the easiest to maintain and can be played on year round.” Unfortunately, tennis court cracks are

inevitable.

Routine

maintenance

and crack repair will always be a part of court ownership. In 2007, Tom invented “Riteway Crack Repair (RCR)” which is,

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Multi-purpose court.

arguably, one of the best in the country. “We’re

Fixing court cracks is actually how Tom got into

known globally for curing the cracking of asphalt

the tennis racket. Truthfully, he’s never been much

courts,” Tom grins. He sells RCR to over 175 con-

of a player. “Actually,” he shrugs, “I don’t even know

tractors and has installed it in six countries.

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the best little bagel in w w ee ss tt pp oo rr tt POP UP BAGEL STORY ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

IT’S THE TYPICAL SUCCESS STORY: THE MANAGING DIRECTOR

Adam Goldberg spent his days directing and dazzling

OF A DEPLOYABLE FLOOD BARRIER COMPANY IS FORCED TO

global clientele with a flood mitigation company, AquaFence.

QUARANTINE DURING A PANDEMIC AND THEN CREATES A

In his off-time he enjoyed cooking and entertaining family and

BAGEL THAT TAKES THE WORLD BY STORM. The end.

friends. Then quarantine slammed down in Westport, leaving

“But wait,” you ask. “How does a flood barrier company prepare an executive for success in the boiled bread goods industry?” The answer is: it doesn’t. Let’s start from the beginning.

him high and dry save for management of his offspring and nights of Catan with his wife, photographer Jen Goldberg. One day shortly thereafter, Boredom knocked on Adam’s door, tendering its request for a long, uninvited residence.

Pile o' Pop Ups (Photo: Jen Goldberg)

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Now the next part is pure conjecture, but I imagine Adam looked Boredom square in the eye and huskily swore, “Nice try, Boredom. Take a hike and - hey - leave that bag of high quality flour on the door step when you leave.”

In November, Adam celebrated his birthday with a bagel fund-

Which is exactly what Boredom did.

raiser for Filling In the Blanks. The event raised a lot of dough -

Adam took that bag of high quality flour and mixed it with other

around $1,000.

excellent ingredients until he had perfected the recipe for a pudgy

Which made Adam wonder something to the effect of, “Have I…

little bagel of such texture and deliciousness that all around were

(pause full of wonderment and awe) Have I created the rock star of

eager to partake. He opened a “Bagel Window” in his home from

all breadstuffs?”

which friends could gather at certain times and collect bagels, offer-

Jen brought his bagels to Bill Taibe and his wife, Rachel, of Don

ing Adam a modicum of socialization in his otherwise long days of

Memo. “Yes!” Husband and wife declared. Adam moved his bur-

self-isolation, save for his beloved wife and family.

geoning bagel empire and Bagel Window from his home to Bill’s

Word of his bagels spread throughout the County. First friends. Then friends of friends. Soon his iPhone was blowing up at all hours with requests for his carb creations.

venerated kitchen. After all, dear reader, if a flood expert should make bagels then why shouldn’t a Mexican cantina produce them? CONTINUED >

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FOOD & WINE (CONTINUED)

Making bagels at Don Memo. (Photo: Tony Greenberg)

“I use high quality flour and a great mix of spices. My bagels are cooked to order but at a bagel shop they may have been sitting there for hours.” 52

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As logic would dictate, another Bagel Buying Day ensued, this time from Don Memo. They flew from the window with such celerity, Adam decided to design a website, PopUpBagels.com, in which bagel buffs could pre-purchase their beloved carbs. He opened said site to sell 50 dozen bagels at 1:00 on a Thursday afternoon. By 1:02 they had sold out. People drive for miles to claim this remarkable starch. One family requested he ship them to the site in which they were vacationing for five weeks. His iPhone bleats night and day from eager eaters. He now has 600 names on his waitlist. “I’m honored,” he says of the madness. It can’t be ignored that precious few, if any, in his Pop Up Bagel purview are limited in their procurement of whatever make, type, and quantity bagel they desire. So why Pop Ups? “I use high quality flour and a great mix of spices. My bagels are cooked to order but at a bagel shop they may have been sitting there for hours.” Indeed, he wakes around 3:30 AM to begin.

Several

benevolent

bleary-eyed

friends arrive at 6:00 AM to knead, boil, and bake 144 on weekdays, 500+ on weekends - however many roundabout rolls the populace requires. And what of the future? There’s no slowing down for Adam “Best Bagel” Goldberg. He’ll expand locally at first, find commercial kitchens, hire talented and responsible high school kids to help. “There aren’t many high school jobs available,” he explains, knowingly. But I imagine you’ve one last, lingering query: what flavors are available? Well, at differing times: Maldon salt bagel, salt and poppy, sesame, cinnamon raisin, everything, honey whole wheat. Adam’s favorite? The salt and poppy. And a 2020 bonus: “You don’t have to worry about seeds in your teeth because of Covid masks.” Well, not every story has a fairy tale ending.

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skill set comes from growing up on a

VEYOR OF THE GLAM AND COZY.

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This busy wife and mother of four styles

her hands-on skills from her dad, Ward

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fort, and family. Tamara’s sense of style

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expertise, furniture and décor .Tamara

One home in particular made Tamara

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While rescuing a home from foreclosure

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INSPIRED BY

Spreading Kindness with Kindli The Kindli bus

CURE FOR THE SOCIAL DILEMMA Developer/Founder: Martin Diamond and Chief Kindness Officer: Darlene Santori

IT WAS 2017 AND MARTIN DIAMOND, FOUNDER AND CEO OF DIGITAL MEDIA FIRM VURIA, LLC, WAS BRAINSTORMING. The father of three saw something he realized he wanted to change - the negativity of social media. So he created Kindli, a platform that focuses on the good and eliminates the negative. There’s no bullying or hateful language and there are no depressing conversations about news or politics. Instead, the narrative is on kindness and positivity. “I was trying to fix what I saw as major flaws in those platforms, allowing abuse and hate; creating a toxic environment.” Martin explains. During development, Kindli attracted a number of outstanding personalities; football star Tim Tebow, threetime Olympic gold medalist Kerri Walsh Jennings, and WWE star Thaddeus Ballard (also known as Titus O’Neil). Darleen Santore, also known as Coach Dar and for her work with professional athletes, also signed on as the CKO—Chief Kindness Officer. So, what exactly is Kindli? It looks and acts similarly to social media apps with which most of us are familiar, but everything on the site is positive and kind acts are celebrated. It’s a safe space for people to connect and where they can be inspired or inspire others. ARTICLE MICHELLE GLICKSMAN PHOTOGRAPHY TRACY ANN BATTAGLIA/FULLY ALIVE PHOTOGRAPHY 62

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“I hope th is platform helps the wel l-bei ng of people and l i fts up thei r spi rits to i nspi re them to serve. Th is is goi ng to change the word for better.”

Kindli cards

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INSPIRED BY (CONTINUED) The Kindli app

KINDLI CARDS In addition to the platform, Kindli provides a home for the “Pay It Forward” movement with real-world Kindli Cards™, a method of tracking kind acts worldwide. Diamond describes them in a Starbucks drive-thru “pay it forward” experience. A Kindli user would leave a Kindli Card with the barista and ask them to give it to the car behind them when they tell them their order was paid for. The card has no details on it that would personally identify the card’s giver, just a QR code. If the person who was on the receiving end wanted to say thank you, they could scan the card with their phone and send an anonymous thank you message, photo, or video to the Kindli member. That member could then share that message to their Kindli profile to inspire others to perform their own acts of kindness. They may reveal their identity and connect on the platform if they choose. The cards are intended to inspire kindness and to track the number of acts they inspired. Kindli’s goal is to inspire one billion acts of kindness around the world. MAKING IT A POSITIVE PLACE Creating an account on Kindle is free. The first time a member comments or posts content, they are must make a one-time $1 payment which Kindli donates in full to a charity, including United Way Worldwide, Boys & Girls Clubs of America, ASPCA, GLAAD, Special Olympics, Disabled Veterans, Susan G. Komen, Tim Tebow Foundation, and Bullard Family Foundation. The proceeds help with another of Kindli’s goals—to donate one billion dollars to nonprofit organizations. Diamond agrees that inspiring one billion acts of kindness across the globe and donating one billion dollars to charity are big goals, but says confidently, “Yes, they are lofty goals, but I think with this platform we can reach them.

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Tim Tebow gives out shoes to those in need.

REDEFINING THE INFLUENCER Kindli also aims to change the current perception of what it means to be an influencer on social media. Martin says, “On Kindli, rather than putting the focus on just likes and popularity, our emphasis is more on what have you done to make a difference, and how much of an impact are you making?” Everyone from companies to celebrities to individuals can show the world how much they are an influencer by the number of Kindli cards they’ve given out, based on the number that will be linked to their profile. SPOT THE BUS Kindli has a dedicated bus with their “Street Team,” making stops to do random acts of kindness. Tebow and the Street Team took the bus to a gas station and surprised customers by paying for their gas. Tebow actually pumped their gas and cleaned their windshields! They also stopped by a teen football practice, where Tebow gave the team an inspiring speech, and one more stop at a grocery store to pay for customers’ groceries. “I hope this platform helps the well-being of people and lifts up their spirits to inspire them to serve. This is going to change the word for better,” says CKO Darleen.

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Beautiful details.

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