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The holidays are here and as the spirit of the season is among us, we often try to replicate what made the season feel so magical to us in our youth. The traditions we set for our own families often mirror some of what we experienced as a child whether it is the smells, the sounds, the lights, the holiday activities or a combination of it all that reflect that best. Looking for fun events and holiday lights to keep you busy during the month of December? Visit citylifestyle.com/tulsa-ok/experiences/winter -celebrations, your local chamber or tourism website, and travelok.com. While this season can be beautiful for some, it can be painful and lonely for others, especially those who have recently lost a loved one. In the true spirit of the season, let’s take care of those in our community that need assistance or who are alone. My hope for you this season is that you feel love and peace and that we all remember to take care of each other extending grace, empathy and love. Happy Holidays!

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Tulsa Rotary Club and Police Officers Spread Holiday Cheer to At-risk Children and

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Giving Back LI FE + C U LT U R E

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Happy Hour FO O D + B EV ER AG E

16 C’est Magnifique!

Exploring the Rich Tapestry of France

24 Holiday Lights and Activities in Muskogee Two dazzling drive-through holiday displays

30 Recommended Gifts for Kids and Pets and the young at heart too

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SHOP WITH A COP Tulsa Rotary Club and Police Officers Spread Holiday Cheer to At-risk Children and Their Families ARTICLE BY DEBRA LAIZURE PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARCIE BRANNON

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Christmas is a magical time of year. Sipping hot cocoa, trimming the tree, and writing letters to Santa are holiday traditions we all enjoy. But getting the latest Barbie, Hot Wheels, or Squishmallows can be out of reach for many families. Fortunately, on a frosty Saturday morning in December, Tulsa police officers will fill a local Walmart store with dozens of excited children from Celia Clinton Elementary to shop for their parents and siblings, all thanks to the Shop with a Cop program sponsored by the Rotary Club of Tulsa. Tulsa Police Officer Joshua Metcalf has participated in the program every year since becoming a police officer. Being a father himself, the program holds a special place in his heart.

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Officer Joshua Metcalf shops with kids to help choose Christmas gifts for their families.

“Christmas Day is extremely important to me because it’s also my son’s birthday! Shop with a Cop is an amazing experience where volunteer Rotarians and members of the Tulsa Fraternal Order of Police meet with underserved children at a store to shop for their parents and siblings,” he says. “While the police officer and child shop for the child’s family members, a Rotarian is secretly shopping for the child. The Rotarian sneaks away to pick up a couple of special items for the child and then wraps all the presents and puts everything in a big bag, just in time for Christmas morning.” In 2002, the Rotary Club of Tulsa introduced the annual outreach program for at-risk Tulsa children who may only have negative impressions of police officers. The organization reached out to Tulsa Police Officer Marcie Brannon of the Tulsa Fraternal Order of Police to help develop Shop with a Cop. Officer Brannon

is now retired after 35 years of service but continues to coordinate the program. She says, “Our hope is to brighten the holidays for children and their families by showing them a softer side of law enforcement that they may not have had a chance to see.” The purpose of the program is to reach out to members of the community who may hesitate to engage with police officers on a regular basis. It allows children to gain positive experiences and create trust with law enforcement officials. It teaches children that police officers are regular people and are here to help. Metcalf says, “This is an event I see myself doing for the rest of my career, and then hopefully when I retire, I will become the Rotarian that shops with a cop!” For more information or to donate to Shop with a Cop, visit TulsaRotary.com.

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A Home Away from Home

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Hospitality House of Tulsa celebrated its 18th year of providing a home away from home for families in medical crisis with Hospitality Under the Stars on Thursday, Sept. 21 at The University of Tulsa’s Lorton Performance Center. Jennifer Potts was Event Chair and The University of Tulsa and Eric Schick, CFO at The University of Tulsa, hosted the event. Guests enjoyed a catered dinner from Ludger’s, a silent auction, inspiring family stories, and a performance from Dueling Pianos International on the big stage in the theatre. “We had a night to remember at The University of Tulsa’s Lorton Performance Center,” said Toni Moore, Hospitality House of Tulsa President and CEO. “Since we opened our doors in 2006, more than 8,200 families have benefited from Hospitality House of Tulsa’s services, including lodging, meals, transportation assistance, laundry and prayer support. Because of this event, we were able to bring in $154,658 to support our families traveling in medical crisis. Thank you to all of our sponsors and to everyone who generously supported our mission on that evening!” Event sponsors included C&G Emanuel Foundation, Joe and Jean Holliman Family Foundation, Jennifer and Joe Potts, Master’s Plan Church Design & Construction, Ascension St. John, Cate Chiropractic Center, First Bank of Owasso, Don and Barbara Thornton Family Foundation, TTCU Cares Foundation, Health Care Service Corporation (BCBS), ONEOK, Dr. Adel Barkat, Ron and Lynn Gibson, Luxe Furniture & Design, Preston Smith PLLC Certified Public Accountants, Tom’s Outdoor Living, Tulsa Marriott Southern Hills, Maria and Caleb Brown, Tulsa Ballet, Imperial, Tedford Insurance and Brookshire Grocery Company. To learn more about Hospitality House of Tulsa’s mission visit hhtulsa.org or call 918.794.0088 to schedule a tour of the facilities.

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Exploring the Rich Tapestry of France

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As I was browsing a postcard rack one August afternoon in Bayeux, France, a shopkeeper started to chat. Most Americans, she told me, arrive in Paris for a few days, take a trip north to see the Normandy beaches, and then return home. “There’s a lot more to France,” she proposed, and wouldn’t I agree? “Yes,” I answered. It was my sixth time in her country, I offered, and still, there was much to see.

Bayeux in Normandy is the perfect base for exploring the beaches of Normandy.

On this particular trip, my husband and I were visiting my daughter-in-law’s family in Brittany — northwest France. One should remember that this part of the country took the brunt of D-Day. The war is evident in areas where a few blocky, modern buildings are reminders of the carnage. Yet, there are many lovely cities that appear untouched, like the medieval Breton town of Dinan on the River Rance. Nearby, the picturesque port city of Saint-Malo is

largely restored to its pre-war splendor. It is currently having its moment due to the book All the Light We Cannot See. We learned a little about the rivalry between Brittany and Normandy during our stay. One issue is a general dispute about which region should claim the 1,000-year-old UNESCO World Heritage site Mont-Saint-Michel. Another is what kind of butter should be the staple in a household: salted or unsalted. Bretons CONTINUED > D ECEMB ER 2 0 2 3 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C O M / T UL SA

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prefer the former. The over-arching rivalry originated with the 1064-65 war between the Duchy of Brittany and the Duchy of Normandy. Before journeying on, we visited the tidal island MontSaint-Michel at dusk, when the ancient town on the hill was etched by colored lights. The tide came in and temporarily swamped our exit. Fortunately, to leave we didn’t have to wade into the quicksand that surrounds the island. Very near the north coast of Normandy is the well-preserved town of Bayeux. Among its many assets is a Romanesque/Gothic cathedral, consecrated in the year 1077. We spent part of a morning there, and then in the museum dedicated to one of France’s greatest treasures — the Bayeux Tapestry. This 231-foot-long piece recounts the story of William the Conqueror’s successful invasion of England in 1066. The 954-year-old “tapestry” is presented in a long, glass enclosure housed in a darkened room. It consists of 58 scenes embroidered in colored yarn on linen. Astonishing. A bus or cab can take travelers without a car or a pre-arranged tour to the D-Day attractions from Bayeux. In addition to the beaches where the Allies landed, you can visit the moving Military Cemetery, the Omaha Beach Museum, German fortifications, and a myriad of battle sites. The Les Braves sculpture on Omaha Beach is best appreciated by walking around it. As you view it from different angles, its shapes change in the most dramatic ways. Having studied Monet’s many paintings of the Rouen Cathedral, I’ve yearned to visit Rouen, the capital of Normandy. The Cathedral itself is a marvel. Its carved stone façade is almost lace-like with intricate detail. The building’s 15th-century “Staircase of the Booksellers” is an unexpected feature in a sacred setting. You can view the very spot where Joan of Arc was burned at the stake in Rouen’s main square. The modernist church built on the site seems out of place in the old city, but its interior is glorious. Reims and Amiens in Northern France also have exemplary cathedrals. And on the border with Germany, there’s Strasbourg Cathedral, one of many magnificent Gothic cathedrals scattered across France. I harbor a quest to explore them all. Sainte-Chapelle (1113 AD) in Paris is a must-see. Be sure to spend time listening with a headset to commentary explaining the exquisite stained glass. The Basilica Cathedral of Saint-Denis, in a northern suburb of Paris, contains the tombs of the Kings of France and the resting place of MarieAntoinette. For more burial sites, visit the 110-acre Père Lachaise in the heart of Paris. The graves of Chopin and The Doors singer Jim Morrison are big draws. CONTINUED >

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s’ Sainte-Capelle (1113 AD) is famous for its marvelous stained-glass.

Tourist destinations adopt a special character in the evening.

“Tourist towns and their sites adopt a different, special character in the evening.”

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Paris, the City of Light," retains its romantic appeal.

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Vincent Van Gogh spent his last 70 days in the quaint town of Auvers-sur-Oise. It’s a quick train trip from Paris. We visited the room where Van Gogh lived and died, and we lunched on cheese and crème brûlée downstairs in the Auberge Ravoux, where Van Gogh took his meals. While making our way to the town cemetery, we witnessed black crows swooping low over the nearby wheat fields, recalling a scene from the artist’s most iconic painting. Not far from the church of Notre Dame-de-l’Assumption, commemorated by Van Gogh in a painting of cobalt blue, the artist and his brother Theo rest side by side in modest graves. Our only excursion south of Paris on this trip was 50 miles via train to Chartres. The Gothic flying buttress was invented

there in 1180. In Our Lady of Chartres, the choir screen of carved figures took 200 years to complete. Astonishing! We spent the afternoon viewing the church, enjoyed a particularly excellent trout dinner at nearby Café Bleu, and returned afterward to explore Our Lady in the soft candlelight that sets a church aglow after dark. Tourist towns and their sites adopt a different, special character in the evening. Major sites around the country will be crowded next summer during the Olympics. Travelers would be wise to buy train and attractions tickets in advance. Whenever you go on your voyage magnifique, take time to wander streets, people-watch from a café, and reflect on the rich tapestry of history and culture that is France. CONTINUED >

Van Gogh boarded at Auberge Ravoux and had his meals here, now a café.

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Access to Mont-Sainte-Michel depends on the tide.

The abbey at Mont-SainteMichel celebrated its 1,000 anniversary in 2023.

Notre Dame Cathedral in Bayeux was consecrated in 1077 AD.

The Les Braves sculpture is a focal point on Omaha Beach where many lives were lost on D-Day. The “Staircase of the Booksellers” in the Rouen Cathedral.

Vincent Van Gogh and his brother Theo are buried in Auvers-sur-Oise.

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ARTICLE BY JOE HARWELL Celebrate holiday traditions at The Castle of Muskogee and The Garden of Lights at Honor Heights Park with dazzling, lighted, drive-through displays, 5:30 pm to 10 pm every night from Thanksgiving Day through New Year’s Eve. Take a leisurely drive through Castleton Village filled with thousands of holiday lights and displays. The Castle drivethrough is free and donations are gratefully accepted. Honor Heights Park displays over a million shimmering lights. The event is free on Mondays and Tuesdays and $10 per car Wednesday – Sunday. Holiday activities outside in The Castle’s village, weather permitting, are Friday through Sunday from 5:30 pm to 10 pm. Tractor-drawn Hayrides, $5 per person, depart every half hour. Rides on the cutest Christmas ponies are a holiday favorite for $10 per child. Live like a Wiseman on a Camel Ride for $8. Enjoy the lights with a tour from the conductor himself on the Castle Train for $10 per passenger. The train and hay rides are free for children under one year. To book the train throughout the week, call 918.687.3625 or email info@okcastle.com to reserve. Group rates are available. Holiday activities inside The Castle are Friday through Sunday from 5:30 pm to 10 pm, November 24th through December 10th and open nightly December 15th through December 31st. Explore gift shops with a wide assortment of holiday merchandise, inflatables, unique keepsakes and handcrafted items from a variety of craftspeople. Treat yourself to soups, sandwiches, cookies, and hot chocolate at Rudolph’s Cafe. Enjoy holiday movies or warm up by the fire in Chalice Hall. You can stock up on fireworks for New Year’s in the Christmas Shoppe from December 15th through December 31st. Visitors may also enjoy a variety of holiday activities: Crafting ornaments in Santa’s workshop, Wax Hands and Make Your Own Candle, Stuff it Up – Plush Adoptions ... and so much more!

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The annual City Lifestyle Giving Campaign is in its 4th year. Last holiday season we gave away over $300,000 to help 116 individuals and families in need, but we need your help to make it happen again this year. With nominations flooding in from community members and leaders such as judges, police officers, teachers, nurses, social workers, mentors and readers like you, we were able to reach people who might otherwise go unnoticed. Perhaps you know of a single parent struggling to provide for their family, an elderly person who has experienced loss, someone enduring a health issue, a co-worker suffering a sudden, unexpected tragedy or a neighbor with a financial hardship who has fallen between the cracks of getting assistance. Chances are you know someone with a specific need, even if no one else does. “We believe in giving back and serving the communities where we live in a real and tangible way,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “This Giving Campaign is about personally impacting the lives of people we know with an unexpected check in the mail just to say that someone thought of them during this holiday season.” “We believe God has blessed our company with continued success, so we in turn want to be a blessing to others,” Matthew Perry, President of City Lifestyle adds. City Lifestyle has also enacted an internal giving program whereby every employee in the company receives $100 to give away to someone in the community. “The idea is to encourage our employees to keep giving on their own,” Steven says. “Taking care of one another and blessing others is truly rewarding and it perpetuates a cycle of giving. It’s extremely important to me as a person and as a company to foster a culture of generosity.”

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Helping Your Child Develop a Game Plan to Raise Their Grades Before the End of the School Year ARTICLE BY HUNTINGTON LEARNING CENTER OF BROKEN ARROW

By February, the end of the school year is in sight—and for many students, that means a stark reality check about their grades. Christopher Appel, Executive Director of the Broken Arrow Huntington Learning Center, says that if your child isn't where they should be by now, it's time to develop a game plan to raise their grades before the last school bell of the year rings. "Over the past three school years, many children have suffered a big learning loss, which is especially problematic if they were struggling in school before the disruptions of the pandemic," says Appel. "It's not too late to get back on track, but we advise students to do so with a specific plan in place. Too often, students say they want to raise their grades but don't know where to start.” So, what can you do to help your child use the rest of this school year wisely and start moving those grades in the right direction?

MR. APPEL OFFERS SEVERAL TIPS: 1. Assess the study skills. 2. Get organized. 3. Meet with teachers. 4. Get the help of a tutor. 5. Set goals and milestones for each. He also reminds parents that setting goals to address specific school challenges makes sense only when you know what’s wrong and how to help. “Figuring out first steps is the hard part,” he says. “We help children all the time in situations where they want to raise their grades in the final few months of the school year and have fallen significantly behind but feel overwhelmed about how to do so. An academic evaluation is where we begin. We’ll figure out where your child is having the most trouble and develop a precise plan of action to raise those grades one by one.” Call 1-800 CAN LEARN today to learn more about Huntington’s individualized learning programs.

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