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A Fashion-Forward Fall
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IT’S THE ISSUE FASHIONISTAS LOOK FORWARD TO ALL YEAR: THE SEPTEMBER ISSUE! This month, we put a Tulsa spin on the much-anticipated fashion
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issue, which is dripping with on-trend jewelry and must-visit boutiques. Our fashion spread focuses on the owners from local boutiques like Black Sheep Boutique and Wooden Rose Boutique, so you can get to know them a little better. We were impressed with how much they support and care about each other. Take a look at all the beautiful new jewelry that Kendra Scott will be introducing and find out more about her giving spirit. As always, thanks for reading, and we’ll see you around town!
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FEATURES 14 Bountiful Boutiques Meet the inspiring entrepreneurs who followed their dream to become a business owner
24 First Americans Museum Celebrates Grand Opening in Oklahoma City The collective histories of 39 distinctive First American Nations in Oklahoma today
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26 Kendra Scott An iconic designer with a heart for giving
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Tulsa Hills Cigar Cellar & Market celebrated their 7th anniversary In a combined event with Tulsa Hills Wine Cellar, the Jenks Chamber of Commerce conducted a ribbon cutting ceremony to welcome both stores. In attendance were Cavalier Cigars, Red Fork Distillery and artist Josh Stout, Jenks Mayor Cory Box, State Representative Lonnie Sims, and County Commissioner Karen Keith, who exclaimed, “I had no idea you guys had so much cool stuff in here!”
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1. The Jenks Chamber of Commerce ribbon cutting ceremony | 2. Store Managers Jennifer Edgerton-McGraw and Andrew Cox, and Dana Hoey of Red Fork Distilling | 3. County Commissioner Karen Keith talks about the selection of Oklahoma products available at Tulsa Hills Cigar Cellar & Market | 4. Cavalier Cigars | 5. Red Fork Distillery’s new Cask Strength Reverence Bourbon | 6. Tasting for Red Fork Distillery’s new Cask Strength Reverence Bourbon
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21ST ANNUAL MAPLE RIDGE GARDEN TOUR This year seven beautifully landscaped lawns and gardens will be featured; several with outdoor kitchens, entertaining areas and children’s play areas. Immediately following the tour, a Family Party will be held from 5 - 7 p.m. Food trucks and refreshments will be available as well as children’s entertainment which will include a bounce house and an art project. Pansies will be available for preorder at the Family Party. All proceeds from the tour will benefit the Maple Ridge Neighborhood Association. Projects of the MRNA include beautification and maintenance of shared green spaces within the Neighborhood. The walking tour is scheduled for Sunday, September 26, 12:30 - 5 p.m. The Maple Ridge Neighborhood is between Peoria and Riverside and 15th Street to 31st Street. Advance and
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JURASSIC QUEST, NATION’S BIGGEST DINOSAUR EXPERIENCE, MIGRATES TO TULSA Fans can once again walk among the dinosaurs as North America’s most popular, can’t-miss dinosaur adventure stomps into Cox Business Convention Center September 10-12, 2021. The largest and most realistic dinosaur exhibit in North America is BACK, BIGGER and BETTER than EVER! Jurassic Quest will open indoors with its most beloved and unique experiences for the whole family including more than 100 life-like dinosaurs, dinosaur themed rides, live dinosaur shows, interactive science and art activities, a “Triceratots” soft play area for our littlest explorers, face painting, bounce houses and inflatable attractions (socks required), photo opportunities, and more. Walk through the Cretaceous, Jurassic and Triassic periods to see the dinos that ruled on land, and “deep dive” into the “Ancient Oceans” exhibit. The Jurassic Quest herd of animatronic dinos – from the largest predators to playful baby dinos – are displayed in realistic scenes with some that move and roar. 10
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Tickets start at $19 at jurassicquest. com or on-site. Tickets are for a timed arrival window, and advance ticket purchase is strongly encouraged. Children two and under are free.
A RETURN TO WINE AND ROSES AT WOODWARD PARK The Tulsa Garden Center invites you to an exclusive fundraising gala, A Return to Wine and Roses. Discover upscale cuisine, lavish wines, and fine craft beer in this elegant, garden-party styled affair. Enjoy a romantic evening in the Linnaeus Teaching Garden and dance the night away to live music. Come be a part of A Return to Wine and Roses and be sure to take home your commemorative wine glass. This event benefits Woodward Park educational programming and beautification, including restoration of the Tulsa Arboretum. A Return to Wine and Roses at Woodward Park is September 24th from 7:00-9:30 p.m. Tickets include Tulsa Garden Center member discounts and are limited to the first 500 guests. Event Chairs are Mr. and Mrs. Andy Zanovich. Andrea Gardner with Tulsa Hills Wine Cellar is the Wine Chair. You must be 21 or older to attend. For more information, email sfreeman@tulsagardencenter.org or phone 918-5765160. TulsaGardenCenter.org
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STYLE FALL IS GIVING US ALL THE FEELS FOR FASHION, FAMILY, AND A LITTLE RELAXATION. Whether you are looking to refresh your closet with some local boutique finds, gather the family for a unique photo shoot, or unplug for a pamper-friendly experience, we have you covered.
RELAX AND UNWIND + Stop by one of Berkshire's two locations for some pampering. They do hair, makeup, skincare, massages, and nails! 1601 S Eucalyptus Ave # 100 Broken Arrow, OK + Salt Earth isn't your run-of-the-mill spa. They do salt therapy, massage therapy, reflexology, and more. 11081 South Memorial Drive Tulsa, OK + Hello.Salon is a charming local salon in the Utica area. With their friendly stylists, you're in for a relaxing treat! 1724 E 15th St Tulsa, OK + Located in downtown Tulsa, Poppi's provides unique specialty facials and massages. 302 South Frankfort Avenue Tulsa, OK + Ihloff Salon and Day Spa is a great place for a self-care day. They offer hair, nail, and massage services. 8343 South Memorial Drive Tulsa, OK
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GREAT FAMILY PHOTO SHOOT LOCATIONS
Philbrook Museum of Art
+ Coal Creek Farm Jenks makes for a great family photoshoot setting with 15 acres of beautiful land, a creek, and a barn. 2224 West 111th Street South Jenks, OK + The Philbrook Museum of Art's gardens are a staple for photography in Tulsa. The landscaping is stunning! 2727 S Rockford Rd Tulsa, OK + The family-owned Dream Point Ranch offers both outdoor and indoor photography. Its wooded areas would be perfect for fall family photos. 17400 East 167th Street South Bixby, OK + Downtown Tulsa's art deco buildings and character-filled facades will give you a family photo that stands apart! 175 East 2nd Street Tulsa, OK + You can't go wrong with family photos at Woodward Park. It has a variety
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of backdrops, with trees, open spaces, rocky areas, and vivid flowers. 2435 S Peoria Ave Tulsa, OK
LOCAL FASHION FINDS + Black Sheep Boutique at The Farm Shopping Center offers fun, trendy women's styles. 5129 S Sheridan Rd Tulsa, OK + The Haley Boutique is a great option for younger women and teens looking to shop local! 3515 S Peoria Ave Tulsa, OK + Dainty Hooligan is a great fashion find, and can outfit you in anything from fitness-wear to date-night dresses. 10032 S Sheridan Rd Tulsa, OK + Check out Ella + Orchid when it opens on October 1st at Kingspointe for clothing, candles, jewelry, and more. 6010 South Yale Avenue Tulsa , OK + Slade Boutique sells women's clothing, accessories, and gifts on 15th
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Street and online. 1506 E 15TH ST Tulsa, OK
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B O U NTI FU L B O U TI Q U E S
MEET THE INSPIRING ENTREPRENEURS WHO FOLLOWED THEIR DREAM TO BECOME A BUSINESS OWNER ARTICLE KACIE BROWN | PHOTOGRAPHY CINDY ALVAREZ 14
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PLAYING DRESS-UP BEGINS AT AGE FIVE
AND NEVER TRULY ENDS.” — KATE SPADE
“Why be like someone else when you can be you?”
We talked to Tulsa-area boutique owners to give you a glimpse at the person behind the store
HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE
along with sneak-peeks at what’s trending this fall.
YOUR BUSINESS? Black Sheep embraces individuality and encourages women to show off their unique personalities with the way they style themselves.
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WHAT MAKES BLACK SHEEP DIFFERENT? We want everyone that walks in our door to leave with more confidence than they came in with. We are welcoming to everybody and want to be Tulsa’s go-to, one-stop shop for all of their fashion needs. BEST-SELLING PRODUCTS? Party dresses & statement pieces! MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR JOB? Getting to know the people that walk through our door and help them find the perfect outfits for everyday life and their special occasions. WHAT WILL SHOPPERS SEE THIS FALL? Trending this fall: two-piece sweater sets, fun statement cardigans, chunky combat boots, 90’s everything! PETS: 2 Pomeranians named Bowie and Bentley. FAVORITE FOOD: Doritos, I even have a tattoo of a Dorito on my arm. FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT: Italy or anywhere with a cheese board and wine. HOW DO YOU SELL YOUR PRODUCT? In-store, online, and through social media. We also have a location in OKC.
Black Sheep Boutique - Tulsa ShopBlackSheepBoutique.com
5219 S. Sheridan Road, Tulsa, OK FB: Black Sheep Boutique Instagram: @shopblacksheepboutique @blacksheeptulsa CONTINUED >
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E M I LY A DA I R & CO R I PA R R I S H
Bourbon & Belles Boutique - Tulsa ShopBourbonAndBelles.com HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR BUSINESS? Clothing and confidence. Bourbon & Belles is all about embracing your body type and loving the skin you are in! We all are so different, which is a beautiful thing! If we were all the same how boring would that be? WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT? Bourbon & Belles is a boutique with a twist! We believe in community of competition. We like to have affordable fashion that doesn’t compromise quality. We have the consumer in mind always! We believe that customer service is the most important when owning a boutique. After all, our customers make all this possible. BEST-SELLING PRODUCTS? Our shapely tops and all our comfy items! MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR JOB? Seeing women of all body types embracing their bodies and feeling confident in our clothes! FAVORITE FOOD: Mexican. FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT: Velvet taco in Dallas Texas or IKEA in Kansas or Texas! HOW DO YOU SELL YOUR PRODUCT? In-store and online. 1560 E. 21st street Suite 100, Tulsa, OK FB and Instagram: @Shopbourbonandbelles
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HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR BUSINESS? Minimalistic design, clean crafted scents
WHAT WILL SHOPPERS SEE THIS FALL? We have six amazing fall scents being released in September.
for your home. I create products that consumers can trust using American grown soybeans and cotton wicks making it safer
FAVORITE FOOD: Cookies but queso is a close second.
to breathe in. Our oils are free of the 5 main hazard groups and certified clean.
FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT:
WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT?
new things.
I love traveling to new places and trying
“A balanced diet is a cookie in each hand.”
When smelling products from Charley Jean Candle Co, you are actually smelling real ingredients from the world around you.
HOW DO YOU SELL YOUR PRODUCT? Wholesale, on-line, farmer’s markets and pop-ups. Charley Jean Candle Co products
BEST-SELLING PRODUCTS? Our coffee scent, “morning brew.”
are carried in numerous stores in Oklahoma. Stores have their own signature scents and private label allowing them to have their own
MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR JOB? The businesses, people and customers
brand of candles, room sprays, and wax melts. We also do event/party favors and gifts.
I’ve gotten to know. When you support a small business you are actually supporting a
FB: Charley Jean Candle Co
family. I’m overwhelmingly thankful.
Instagram: @charleyjeancandleco
FA I T H WI S E
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M A R I R A IN S HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR BUSINESS? WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO OPEN IT? We are an upscale women’s boutique that also sells beautiful home décor. After spending a year working from home, I was inspired by women all over the world that had to reimagine themselves after COVID. My store is named after my granddaughters, who are growing up to be joyful little risk takers. WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT? I am in my 40’s so shopping can be challenging. In the last few years, I feel like I have aged out of some of my favorite clothing stores. I wanted to open a store that dresses women in their late 20’s and up – beautiful, quality pieces over trendy items. BEST-SELLING PRODUCTS? We carry a line of purses out of L.A. that are hand-beaded and just gorgeous. MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR JOB? Recreating myself in my 40’s and meeting new people that are really amazing human beings. WHAT WILL SHOPPERS SEE THIS FALL? Bodysuits, patterned sweaters, suede, blazers, and always denim. PETS: A Dachshund named Gordon. FAVORITE FOOD: Tacos.
Ella + Orchid – Tulsa EllaAndOrchid.com
FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT: Paris, France. HOW DO YOU SELL YOUR PRODUCT? In-store and online. Opening Soon at 6010 South Yale Avenue, Tulsa, OK 74136 FB, Instagram, and TikTok: @EllaandOrchid 18
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“Never tell me the odds.” - Han Solo
“Praise God from whom all blessings flow.” Emerson Charles – Bixby EmersonCharles.com WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO OPEN EMERSON CHARLES? As well as owning Emerson Charles, I’m also a Style Blogger at LindseyMeek.com. It’s through my blog that I’ve made connections with women all over the country by sharing relatable, easy to maintain style. We’ve created a space where my readers feel like the best of friends and trust my reviews, opinions, and, most importantly, my style. These relationships gave me the confidence to launch Emerson Charles. WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT? We study the latest trends in high fashion and street style then curate a collection of pieces that make those trends more obtainable for the everyday girl! New arrivals launch every Thursday at 8 p.m. CST. WHAT IS THE MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR JOB? Providing customers with pieces that can play a part in their story whether it’s for a big event or for every day. Seeing pictures of customers making memories with their friends and families, while wearing their Emerson Charles, is the best reward. WHAT WILL SHOPPERS SEE THIS FALL? Elevated knits, Monochromatic layering, bold color, sweater vests, lilac, and quilted textures.
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FAVORITE FOOD: Mexican Food! Chips & salsa paired with a margarita. FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT: The beaches on 30a in Florida. HOW DO YOU SELL YOUR PRODUCT? Online and at pop-ups. FB and Instagram: shopemersoncharles
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JENNA SL ADE
slade - apparel + home SladeBoutique.com HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR BUSINESS? AND WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO OPEN IT? Modern + trendy women’s clothing boutique. I studied fashion merchandising in college and I always had a vision for a place for women to feel comfortable and stylish in a fun, upbeat atmosphere. WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT? I work the floor at slade and also help style and put together outfits. The cool thing about Tulsa is that the boutique community is very inclusive and we are all friends and promote each other’s businesses. BEST-SELLING PRODUCTS? Just Black Denim is one of our most popular brands. We also have water resistant jewelry lines that our clients love. Graphic tees are a slade staple and we love finding new tee brands! MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR JOB? Meeting new people and making lifelong friendships with clients and employees. WHAT WILL SHOPPERS SEE THIS FALL? Neutral colored combat boots and jackets of all types including puffy, leather and oversized shackets. FAVORITE FOOD: I love to cook Thai food. FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT: Anywhere with a beach! HOW DO YOU SELL YOUR PRODUCT? In-store, online, and pop-ups like Tulsa Boutique Collective. 1506 E. 15th St. Tulsa, OK FB and Instagram: @shopslade
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“It’s never too late to follow your dreams.”
HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE
WHAT WILL SHOPPERS SEE THIS FALL?
YOUR BUSINESS? An upscale and unique boutique that makes being trendy effortless.
Chartreuse is a unique color that is showing
HOW DO YOU SELL YOUR PRODUCT? Online and at events
itself quite a bit in the fall trends. Wide, flat brim hats will continue on. A lot of different textures
FB and Instagram: @woodenroseboutique
being used rather than just typical fall textures WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT?
like wool, chenille and heavy knits.
I try very hard to source and find unique and quality items that you won’t find just
PETS:
anywhere, along with focusing on items that
A lab named Nugget and a cat named
fit true to size.
Baby Cat
BEST-SELLING PRODUCTS?
FAVORITE FOOD:
Hollis Travel Bags, dresses MOST REWARDING PART OF YOUR JOB?
Mexican FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT:
Being able to connect with women and help them find something they feel confident in.
“Normality is a paved road; comfortable to walk but no flowers grow.” - Vincent van Gogh
I regularly visit Broken Bow, OK but the Florida Panhandle is a favorite also.
CHELSIE TAYLO R
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Does It Matter How Property is Titled in Divorce? Many individuals wonder whether it matters how property is titled in a divorce. In other words, some theorize that if an asset is in their individual name, it might mean that they will receive this asset in a divorce. It could be a variety of property or assets. Some might try to title a bank account in their own name. Others might purchase a vehicle and put it in their own name. In other cases, an individual might set up an investment account that only has their name on it, but not their spouse. The possibilities can be infinite. When a divorce takes place, many think the asset will be given to them by the court because it is not jointly titled with their spouse. A common question for many is whether this is accurate or not. The reality is that how property is titled in a divorce is normally not that important. Instead, in states where equitable jurisdiction is controlling, courts look to when the property or asset was acquired. If the property is acquired during the marriage, it is normally labeled marital property. However, if the property was acquired before marriage, it is presumed to be separate property. Courts then have to divide marital property in a just matter when consider-
ing all the factors. The factors can vary by state, but they can include different criteria. This includes contribution of each party, the length of the marriage, the education and work history of the parties, the conduct of the parties in some states, and a litany of other factors. In terms of the titling of the assets, it is truly not that important. If the asset is in one spouse’s name, it does not matter if the asset was acquired during the marriage. A party cannot purchase property or buy an asset with marital funds and assume that the asset will be allocated to them in a divorce. A prenuptial agreement is something to consider for those who have substantial property or assets prior to marriage. To ensure they receive it in the divorce, they must agree to it beforehand. Through a prenuptial agreement, the parties can agree to have property or assets set aside to them in the future. It is vital to draft the prenuptial agreement appropriately and that both parties have independent counsel. Other important criteria are that there needs to be full and fair disclosure and that there be no duress or undue influence. Even after the marriage, parties could enter into a postnuptial agreement to denote who would get what property or assets in the case of divorce. That said, parties sometimes have little incentive to do this after the marriage.
One potential exception is where a party receives inheritance or gifts during the marriage. Inheritance or gifts are generally viewed as separate property in a divorce. Thus, if parties place inheritance or gifts in a separate account away from other marital property or debt, doing so makes sense. Otherwise, there can be a risk that the separate property is commingled with other marital funds or property. When this happens, it can convert separate property into marital property. For this reason, parties who receive inheritance or gifts should speak to an attorney if they want to ensure that it remains their separate property. It often makes sense before they receive the inheritance or gift to ensure it is handled appropriately. A separate account in this instance may make sense for liquid assets. Stange Law Firm, PC limits their practice to family law matters including divorce, child custody, child support, paternity, guardianship, adoption, mediation, collaborative law and other domestic relation matters. Stange Law Firm, PC gives clients 24/7 access to their case through a secured online case tracker found on the website. They also give their clients their cell phone numbers. Call for a consultation today at 855-805-0595.
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First A mericans Museum Celebrates Grand Opening in Ok la homa Cit y
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THE COLLECTIVE HISTORIES OF 39 DISTINCTIVE FIRST AMERICAN NATIONS IN OKLAHOMA TODAY
THE FIRST AMERICANS MUSEUM (FAM) THE PUBLIC SEPT. 18-19 FOR A GRAND OPENING WEEKEND CELEBRATION FULL OF ENTERTAINMENT, CULTURAL DEMONSTRATIONS AND ACTIVITIES FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY TO ENJOY. First Americans Museum celebrates our shared American history through the collective stories of 39 distinct tribal nations in Oklahoma
The museum will open at 8 a.m. Saturday, Sept.
today. The museum promotes awareness and
18, with a tribal procession of 39 distinct tribal
educates the broader public about the unique
nations taking place at 10:30 a.m., followed by
cultures, diversity, history, contributions, and
remarks from tribal, city and museum leaders. To
resilience of the First American nations. The
view a complete list of Grand Opening Weekend
175,000 sqft museum is located at 659 First
entertainment, activities, shopping and dining
Americans Boulevard in Oklahoma City.
options, visit famok.org.
Tickets are $5 per person, per day and can
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Weekend
only,
be purchased exclusively through the museum’s
no onsite parking will be available, except for
website at famok.org. Admission for FAM mem-
parking provided for visitors with disability park-
bers and children under 3 is free. Due to expected
ing placard credentials. FAM is finalizing details
large crowds, all tickets must be purchased in
for offsite paid parking and will provide updates
advance of opening weekend.
on the museum’s website as more information
“We are thrilled to share with the public
becomes available. Free parking shuttle services
a premier venue dedicated to the history, art
will be available to transport visitors all weekend
and cultural lifeways of First Americans in
to and from designated parking sites, starting at
Oklahoma. We invite everyone to the long-
8 a.m. Saturday, Sept. 18, and running throughout
awaited opening of FAM in September,” said
the weekend’s scheduled events. The use of ride-
James Pepper Henry, FAM director and CEO.
share services is strongly encouraged.
“Those who attend the Grand Opening will be
FAM is following CDC COVID-19 guidelines
among the first to experience a national trea-
for large group events. The museum’s campus
sure that will be enjoyed for decades to come.”
will operate with timed entry tickets to ensure visitors have ample space to observe social distancing. Due to observance of health and safety protocols regarding capacity in enclosed spaces, access to FAM exhibition galleries may be limited on opening weekend. FAM encourages visitors to return on a future date to explore the extensive exhibit galleries. For more information, visit famok.org.
OPENING
WILL OFFICIALLY OPEN ITS DOORS TO
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“We have
th ree pi l la rs i n Kend ra
Scot t: Fa m i ly, Fash ion a nd
Ph i la nth ropy.”
ARTICLE HEIDE BRANDES PHOTOGRAPHY MICHELLE CHAN
AN ICONIC DESIGNER WITH A HEART FOR GIVING
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Kendra Scott
“ T hat ‘wonderlust ’ ref lects ever yone hav i ng ch i ld l i ke wonder a bout the world a ga i n because we feel l i ke we’ve been robbed of it for a wh i le.”
THIS FALL, KENDRA SCOTT RELEASES HER FALL LINEUP
“That ‘wonderlust’ reflects everyone having childlike won-
OF JEWELRY WITH A THEME THAT ENCAPSULATES THE
der about the world again because we feel like we’ve been
DESIRE FOR FREEDOM AND EXPLORATION THE WORLD
robbed of it for a while.”
IS FEELING TODAY. With the theme of “Wonderlust,” the Kendra Scott fall line
August’s release featured more transitional pieces in metals that are fit and perfect for layering.
takes on an edgier feel with darker stones like gold mauve aba-
“Layering is a thing, and much like you do in any transitional
lone, Plum Kyocera Opal and black Diamonds, but with new
season, you layer. You can layer your jewelry too,” said Davenport.
styles that hint at mysterious and exotic locales with the Shiva line and the Baroque styles. Kendra Scott stores in Tulsa are located at 7021 S. Memorial Dr. in Woodland Hills Mall and at 1842 Utica Square. While the transitional fall release dropped in August, the Fall Collection officially hits Kendra Scott stores in Tulsa on September 8 with the final fall selection dropping on October 6. “Wonderlust is the theme, for obvious reasons. After this past year, everyone’s been taking so many vacations and going every-
“We have one that we’re really excited about called the Britt Beaded Suite, which is made from small stones that are handwired together. It plays on that Western theme.” In September, fall colors come to play with stones like the Gray Banded Agate and the Baroque detailings on the classic styles of Kendra Scott. “The Elisa pendant is a popular necklace we’ve had, but we like to give her a facelift every once in a while and reimagine our champion,” said Davenport.
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where that they possibly can,” said Annie Davenport, Regional Marketing and Philanthropic Manager - Oklahoma. CityLifestyle.com/Tulsa
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OUR MODELS: Whitney and Lindsay are the creators of TheDoubleTakeGirls.com fashion and lifestyle blog. These OKC-based twin sisters, moms and best friends created their website nearly 10 years ago as a way to share their “double take” on all things style, beauty, home decor and more! They love sharing affordable daily fashion finds along with styling items from their favorite brands like Kendra Scott, Anthropologie, LOFT and more! They strive to make their website and social media accounts a place where women of all ages can find style inspiration and encouragement. You can find out more about this twin sister duo by following them on Instagram at @thedoubletakegirls!
“The same with the Ella Drop Earrings. They also have more
Kendra Scott also released a masculine line earlier this year
edgy detail around it. We also have the gold mauve abalone,
- “Scott Brothers by Kendra Scott” with her sons. Crafted with
and abalone is the inside shell of a mollusk. We use those nat-
sterling silver, the masculine bracelets are designed to be hardy
ural markings and we alter it to whatever color we like.”
and low-maintenance. The bracelets feature stones like brown
The Fall Collection also features more sparkle in the final fall
“Matthew McConaughey and Payton Manning have pieces,”
and big gold chain links make their appearance as does the
said Davenport. “What’s more, 20 percent of each sale of the
“Oklahoma” Gemma collections.
Cade bracelet goes to Payton Manning’s Children’s Hospital
“The Shiva statement line is just gorgeous,” Davenport added.
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tiger’s eye, blue Lapis, banded agate and turquoise jasper.
release, hinting at the holiday season to come. Little crystals
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Foundation throughout the rest of the year.”
However, October isn’t just the month for the fall collection -
“Kendra lost her best friend five years ago to metastatic
it’s also the month that is dear to Kendra Scott’s heart - Breast
breast cancer. When that happened, she really flipped a switch
Cancer Awareness Month.
and made sure that every single store that we have supports breast cancer in some way,” said Davenport. “Locally, we do this
KENDRA SCOTT GIVE BACK To Kendra Scott, jewelry is also a way to make a difference, and one of the company’s top priorities is philanthropic giving. The iconic designer introduced a separate line dedicated to breast cancer awareness, and Scott herself was just inducted into the Breast Cancer Research Fund in 2019.
by supporting organizations like Susan G. Komen and Project 31, which is an amazing breast cancer support group here.” Nationally in honor of Kendra’s friend Holley Rothell Kitchen, the company promotes “Holley Day” on October 13. “Before Holly passed away, she went to a retreat that is run by a group called Inheritance of Hope. Inheritance of Hope puts
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on retreats for families who have a member with a terminal illness,” said Davenport. “They have therapists there and the family goes to Disney World, and do all sorts of really fun things.” The philanthropy doesn’t end there. Kendra Scott has donated over $30 million to philanthropic causes. While the Breast Cancer Collection donates 20 percent of all proceeds to
breast
cancer
research,
the
company
also donates 20% of sales at a Kendra Gives Back Party. These happen all the time and are typically structured as a two-hour fundraising event. “We have three pillars in Kendra Scott: Family, Fashion and Philanthropy,” said Davenport. “Locally, we give back where it makes sense to. Mental health is a big priority now, and what we do makes a difference in our communities.” The OU Children’s Hospital, for instance, is part of the Kendra Cares, in which employees bring the customizable “color bar” to the hospital to work with the kids to make jewelry for themselves and one other person who helps them, whether that be nurse or mom. “Our team helps the kids go through each step of the design and appreciation process. Kendra Scott as a company is 95 percent female, and it’s an incredible company to be a part of and to help raise money for others,” Davenport said. For more information about the fall line or Kendra Scott gives back, visit KendraScott.com.
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TRAVEL DESTINATION
Stylish Hotels to Experience Across the Country
ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENTS FOR A
Our contributors from across the country have rounded
GOOD TRIP IS WHERE YOU’RE GOING TO STAY. Sure,
up the insider knowledge you need to ensure the next time
you can always go with a highly rated corporate hotel, and it
you travel you can rest easy at some of the most stylish
would be fine. But do you just want it to be fine? Or do you,
boutique hotels there are.
dear stylish traveler, want more from your hotel?
1.
The Graduate Nashville L o c at i o n : N a s h v i l l e , T n S u b m i t t e d B y M a r i a D i n o i a , Fran kli n Li festyle The millennial pink interior design at The Graduate Nashville is screaming for you to come take a picture with your friends. There is so much of Nashville’s history to take in and so many amenities to enjoy. This hotel is definitely a tourist attraction, not just a place to stay. Try the full Dolly Parton experience and book a ride around Midtown in a 1990 stretch white Cadillac limousine that has been decked out and restored for maximum fun!
The Graduate Nashville
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2.
The Inn at the Mission
The Inn at the Mission San Juan Capistrano L o c at i o n : S a n J u a n C a p i s t r a n o , C A S u b m i t t e d b y M i c h a e l G e r a r d , Lag u na N i g u el Li festyle “High ceilings, mission-style grand armoires, chandeliers and thick corbel ceiling beams add a timeless authenticity to our hacienda-style guest rooms, suites and luxury villas.”
3.
—The Inn at the Mission San Juan Capistrano You’ll love the traditional Spanish food at the hotel restaurant and the charming historical architecture of The Inn at the Mission San Juan Capistrano. This is the perfect hotel to hold a wedding, get away on your honeymoon, or just take a spa trip because you deserve it.
The Arrabelle at Vail Square L o c at i o n : Va i l , C O S u b m i t t e d b y J a h n a E i c h e l , Fo rt Co lli ns Li festyle
No Vacancy
You can never go wrong with a romantic ski resort. Your beautiful lodging awaits you with in-room iPads, canopy beds, and ice skating at the square. “Visit
the
onsite
RockResorts
Spa
for
alpine
inspired
treatments that incorporate natural ingredients. Or grab a bite to eat at Tavern on the Square, where comfort food meets casual mountain elegance.” —The Arrabelle at Vail Square The Arrabelle at Vail Square
4.
No Vacancy L o c at i o n : K a n s a s C i t y, M O S u b m i t t e d b y A n g e l a B r o o c k e r d , J o h ns o n Co u nty & Leawo o d Li festyle Another fantastic wedding venue, No Vacancy has a uniquely modern and cozy atmosphere that will enchant guests. It is also a great space to host a retreat or just take a trip on your own. “Book one or ALL of the 8 unique guest rooms and find solitude in the lounge or discover an oasis on the 2nd story courtyard.” —No Vacancy
Head over to CityLifestyle.com to see the rest and start planning your next stylish vacation!
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SEPTEMBER
LIFESTYLE CALENDAR
WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS
17-18 & 24-25
30 W!LD TURKEY
CRAFT CLASSES AND STORY TIME
TULSA GREEK FESTIVAL CELEBRATES 60 YEARS
Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church
A casual evening under the stars bene-
Tulsa Toy Depot, 10114 S Sheridan Rd., Tulsa
1222 S. Guthrie Ave. Tulsa,
fiting River Parks and Turkey Mountain
Craft classes are free every Wednesday
The Tulsa Greek Festival is combining the
Urban Wilderness. Unwind in your most
at 11 a.m., and storytime is held on
popular drive-thru model with the exciting
comfortable outdoor wear, visiting with
Thursday at 11 a.m. when Miss Carol
entertainment of their traditional festival.
friends, sharing BBQ and enjoying bon-
Meyer leads the kids in music and story-
Experience authentic Greek food plus
fires. With your beverage of choice in
telling for 30 minutes of great active fun.
entertainment from the safety and comfort
hand, stroll the moonlit trails, relax to the
Visit TulsaToyDepot.com for more info
of your own vehicle! Enjoy dancing, cooking
sounds of bluegrass, and marvel at the
or call 918.938.0555.
demonstrations and more while sipping on
majestic birds of prey and their handlers.
a Frappe as you drive-thru to pick up your
RiverParks.org/events/wild-turkey
2, 16, 30
order. Open for two weekends - September
MOVIES IN THE PARK ARE BACK AT GUTHRIE GREEN
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Movies in the Park are back at Guthrie
CARNIVALE RISING – “THE BEST PARTY IN TOWN”
Courage leads the way for Disney’s most
Cox Business Convention Center,
presents Dream Big comes to Opening
movies playing in the heart of the Tulsa
100 Civic Center, Tulsa
Weekend of the Tulsa State Fair.
Arts District. September 2: Minari.
Mental Health Association Oklahoma
Dream Big features Disney friends
September 16: SOUL. September 30:
presents Carnivale Rising – “The Best Party
such as Mickey, Minnie, Miguel, Elsa,
Cruella. For additional events & activi-
in Town.” The work of the Association con-
Belle and more highlighting all the magic
ties visit GuthrieGreen.com.
tinues to make strides to provide housing,
and adventure of Disney’s tales through
educate the public and remove the stig-
world-class figure skating. Tickets and
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mas of mental illness. All proceeds benefit
additional information at DisneyOnIce.
Mental Health Association Oklahoma’s
com or TulsaStateFair.com.
INTRODUCTORY STAINED GLASS WORKSHOPS
Fine dining, lively dancing, and unmatched
Guthrie Green, 111 E Brady St., Tulsa
Green! Bring lawn chairs, blankets, and friendly pets to The Green for FREE
Tulsa Stained Glass,
17-18 & 24-25! TulsaGreekFestival.com
Five suncatcher classes to choose from: Ladies Night Out, Pets, Flowers, Date Night and Butterflies. Make a beautiful, authentic stained glass hanging ring project in a fun 3-hour class. This is a fun activity that any skill level can
30 - OCT 3 DISNEY ON ICE PRESENTS DREAM BIG
Expo Square Pavillion, 4145 East 21st St., Tulsa
adventurous heroes when Disney On Ice
housing programs, among other services. surprises. 1920s Flapper Black-Tie Attire. 6:30 p.m. BestPartyinTown.org.
4131 S Sheridan Rd., Tulsa
23 HOME BUILDERS ASSOCIATION OF GREATER TULSA HOSTS EVENING OF GIVING
OCT 8 TULSA TOWN HALL PRESENTS KEVIN KALLAUGHER – DAGGERS DRAWN Tulsa Performing Arts Center
“Kal” Kallaugher has been the man behind The Economist's satirical cartoons since 1979. During his interactive and highly entertaining talks, Kallaugher
Home Builders Association of Greater Tulsa,
illustrates
will be held September 24 - 26. Visit
11545 East 43rd St., Tulsa
observations on current events, poli-
TulsaStainedGlass.com for informa-
A fundraising gala presented by the HBA
tics and the economy. With hilarious
tion and tickets.
Remodelers Council to benefit local char-
spot-on caricatures of leaders such as
ities. This year's beneficiary is the HBA
Margaret Thatcher, George W. Bush
Charitable Foundation whose mission is
and Barack Obama, Kallaugher has
to advance education and housing-related
delighted audiences the world over.
needs in the Tulsa metro area. 6 p.m. Call
10:30 a.m. TulsaTownHall.com
enjoy. A Beginners Stained Glass Class
918.663.5820 to register. TulsaHBA.com 34
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