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Prioritizing Health and Wellness As we move through the seasons, it’s a good time to pause and reflect on one of the most important aspects of our lives: our health and well-being. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it can be easy to overlook the small habits that contribute to a healthier, more balanced lifestyle. But each small step we take toward wellness can make a big difference. Health is not just about physical fitness—it’s about mental and emotional well-being too. It’s about finding balance, nourishing your body, and taking time to care for your mind. Whether it’s going for a walk in the fresh air, cooking a wholesome meal, practicing mindfulness, or simply getting enough rest, each action you take is a step toward a healthier, happier you. We live in a wonderful community where support and encouragement are all around us. Now, more than ever, it’s important to prioritize self-care and share our health journeys with one another. Let’s inspire each other to make healthier choices, whether it's by setting new fitness goals, participating in local wellness activities, or simply offering words of encouragement to those on their wellness journey. Together, we can build a culture of health and wellness where we all thrive. Let’s celebrate the small victories, support one another through challenges, and continue to invest in our collective well-being. Wishing you a season of health, happiness, and vitality.

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How a Scotch Plains resident was inspired by his son to create a place for all kids to be their best

Nurturing Care in Playful Spaces

Creating Supportive Environments for Children’s Health and Growth

Necessary Roughness

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ONE It’s okay to get anxious, and a lot of times it's about expectations - I expect this to happen, or I feel like I'm expected to do this. Evaluate how many things you feel obligated to do versus how many things you actually want to do. If you find yourself doing more obligations than wants, a lot of anxiety is going to come from that.

TWO Understand the difference between chronic anxiety versus acute anxiety. With chronic, you may be anxious all day whereas acute is having an anxious moment. For chronic anxiety, going for a walk is almost always the best move.

THREE For acute anxiety, a favorite coping skill is known as the amphibious response. Let cold water run on your wrist for about 20 seconds. It decreases your heart rate and regulates breathing. Another way to cut down on anxiety is to not give it time, because the more time you give it, the bigger it’s going to get which leads to those spiraling or intrusive thoughts. So, don’t put off getting things done. ArborCounselingCenters.com

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How a Scotch Plains resident was inspired by his son to create a place for all kids to be their best

Wolves Basketball Academy Saturday mornings are Jeff Mayerson’s favorite time of the week. Arriving extra early to the gymnasium at The Newmark School, Mayerson, a 27-year resident of Scotch Plains, begins setting up stations for that morning’s clinic of Wolves Basketball Academy. Before the joyous sounds of children, volunteers, and basketballs fill the gym, Mayerson finds that solitude almost meditative. “And then the first kid comes running in and it gets loud, and that process just brings me so much energy.”

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Wolves Basketball Academy, a fun and friendly environment for children with special needs to learn the fundamentals of basketball, has an origin story befitting a humble superhero. Mayerson’s son, Brett, was 15 years old and shadowing a younger boy with special needs in a local league. Brett wanted to help this boy have the best experience on the team possible but was finding himself frustrated. “My son came to me and said ‘Dad, he’s just running in circles. He’s not engaged with the team and never even touches the ball! How can I help him?’“ Mayerson explained. Mayerson, who played and coached basketball, baseball, and golf throughout high school and college, went to observe what Brett was saying. To Mayerson it seemed simple – get this young boy in a gym with other kids with special needs and teach them the fundamentals. Brett and his brother Adam (12 at the time) were ready to make that happen, along with their mom. “My wife, Karen, is a pre-school teacher and pointed me towards the Newmark School. The directors there loved the idea, but I didn’t have any special education experience. So, they put me through training with their physical education teachers to learn how to communicate best with the kids.” When the clinics began at the school’s gym, the directors were right there observing and supporting Mayerson. “But by the third Saturday, they told me ‘You’re good, you’ve got this.’” Mike Freeman, Mayerson’s best friend, also of Scotch Plains, has been with Mayerson since the inception of Wolves Academy and rarely misses a clinic. Along with the volunteer peer mentors and coaches are paid occupational therapists helping. The kids go through five stations focusing on different skills including agility, dribbling, passing, and shooting. “I run it very structured as if it were just a standard clinic. And parents often come to me pleasantly surprised to see how well their child is doing with that structure as opposed to just running around which sometimes other special needs programs become.”

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Mayerson really feels that the program has positively impacted the town with some unexpected benefits. “For the 11 years we’ve been running the program, it has opened the eyes of so many kids in town that have come to volunteer. It changes their perspective on life’s difficulties, and they end up feeling so good about themselves as well as helping the kids in the program feel like they are part of a team.” Mayerson estimates 80% of his high school peer mentors and coaches continue volunteering throughout college breaks and beyond. Mayerson offers an annual scholarship awarded to the most dedicated volunteer and supports the volunteer with all the knowledge they need to make the most of those rewarding Saturday mornings. Mayerson started to realize early on that basketball was just a vehicle for socialization for many of these kids. The academy has changed his perspective - and his family’s as well – about the impact we can have on others. “In my third year of Wolves Academy, there was a boy, and he was so excited to tell me it was his birthday. So, we sang happy birthday to him. After the clinic that morning, the mom came up to me saying thank you. I’m thinking she really doesn’t need to thank me for singing happy birthday,” Mayerson explained. “This mom told me that every year, her son would invite his classmates to a birthday party, but no one ever showed up. This year, because of the friends he’s made through the program, we have twelve kids coming to our house for a party this afternoon!”

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That little boy is still at Wolves Academy eight years later and is now shadowing the younger kids new to the program. As kids started asking to play actual games with the skills they were mastering, Mayerson created an inclusion league that is played at IHM church in Scotch Plains. Word of mouth has made Wolves Academy rich in volunteers. “The kids bring their friends and just have the best time playing and coaching the kids. And I’m able to act more as a host to the clinic, bouncing around to stations and talking with parents about any concerns.” Mayerson and Freeman were also trained through the NBA early on with an NBA clinician certification as well as USA basketball certification. Wolves Basketball Academy offers scholarships and is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization. Please visit www.wolvesbasketballacademy.com for more information about how you can join.

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NURTURING CARE IN PLAYFUL SPACES ARTICLE BY DR. BLAIR ROLNICK

CREATING SUPPORTIVE ENVIRONMENTS FOR CHILDREN’S HEALTH AND GROWTH Bee Kind Pediatrics’ new developmental patient rooms, designed by Dr. Rolnick herself, create age-appropriate environments that cater to the unique needs of children and adolescents. These thoughtfully crafted spaces foster a sense of safety and comfort, significantly reducing anxiety associated with medical visits. By incorporating engaging themes and interactive elements, these rooms encourage active participation in care. They also support key developmental milestones, enhancing physical, cognitive, and social-emotional growth. For example, toddler rooms feature play areas to promote motor skills, while those for older children stimulate imagination and critical thinking. Ultimately, these developmental rooms facilitate healing and contribute to positive health outcomes for young patients.

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ROOM 1 Room 1 is for children aged 0-24 months, themed with beach/ocean fun. Equipped with Lovevery toy kits, it supports the evaluation of key developmental milestones, including physical growth like rolling over and walking, cognitive exploration through sensory experiences, and social-emotional bonding with caregivers. By the end of this stage, infants engage in parallel play, fostering a nurturing environment for their critical early development.

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JALIYAH RICHARDS IS CALLING AN AUDIBLE ON PEOPLE’S EXPECTATIONS OF WHO BELONGS ON THE GRIDIRON

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Roughness ARTICLE BY CARLY OKYLE | PHOTOGRAPHY BY CRAIG SMITH

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Jaliyah “Jelly” Richards, a 15-year-old sophomore at Scotch Plains-Fanwood High School, is not one to sit on the sidelines, but for a while, she had no choice. On TV, she watched the Pittsburgh Steelers. In life, she watched her older brothers -- Mekhi, 18, and Jayden, 17. It made her interested in the game, but she wasn’t content to be a spectator. She wanted to play. When she was 7, she got her chance. “I've been playing running back really since I started football… in a peewee football league,” Richards said. While a female football player is rare, it’s not unheard of. Even all those years ago, Richards remembers other girls on the field. “My first year of playing football, my brothers had a girl playing with them too, and the year before, too, I think,” she said. After the peewee league, Richards joined a youth football team and won the 2022 national championship. The physicality of the game is an incentive rather than a drawback for the 5-foot, 125-pound Richards, who has always enjoyed roughhousing with her brothers at home. “Playing football was a way I could roughhouse with people my own size and hopefully win. When I was younger, the mindset was, if I can roughhouse with my brothers then someone my own age can't really hurt me,” she explained, “and by now I trust my line to block for me and not let me get hit by someone that big.” CONTINUED >

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Now, she’s a running back on the Scotch PlainsFanwood High School varsity football team who made headlines for her 70-yard run into the end zone for a touchdown in a game against Cranford High School. She’s the second female football player to score a touchdown in a boys’ varsity game in the history of New Jersey. Next season, her goal is to score more than one touchdown and to earn a starting spot on the varsity team. Richards’s athletic prowess extends beyond football, however. In the off-season, she stays in shape by playing flag football and being on the wrestling team, as well as working out when she can. During the season, she works out with the team and in the summer, she participates in summer conditioning, even if she’d rather be at the beach. No specific exercises are mentioned, but regular physical activity means diets are unnecessary. “I just eat what my heart desires,” she said, mentioning her mom’s alfredo pasta as a particular favorite. Richards says that the camaraderie of the sport is one of her favorite aspects. “It's really just the friendships and relationships you make from it. That's a really big part for me,” she said. The extra attention she’s gotten recently, while exciting, is unfamiliar and has somewhat affected her approach to games. “I'm not really an outgoing person so a lot more people talking to me is a little overwhelming. I feel like now that I kind of have more of a spotlight on me, I feel that I… have to play good, or play better than usual,” she said. “I kind of think about my performance before games now. Listening to music helps to decompress. It's really just a way for me to relax.” A bit of ritual and superstition help, as well. Richards says that every game she wears socks she received as a Christmas present from Jayden with a graphic of a $100 bill split between the pair. For those who hope to follow in Richards’s cleated footsteps, her advice is simple: “I would just say go for it because…I feel like if you really want to do something then there should be nothing to stop you.”

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RECLAIMING YOUR HEALTH AFTER 40 HOW TO COMBAT AGING THROUGH STRENGTH TRAINING AND HEALTHY LIVING Writer and fitness expert, Tony Bianchino, is the owner of Out Run Your Fork Personal Training in Westfield, NJ. For over 37 years he and his wife, Melissa, have been helping people over 40 lose weight, get strong, and increase energy without risking injury. Together they have taken a responsible, human-centered approach to designing fitness and nutrition programs that continue to win awards year after year while helping people live their most healthy, vibrant lives.

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For every decade we age, we lose about 5 lbs of muscle mass if we aren’t doing strength training.

Ever notice how it takes longer for your body to bounce back these days? From workout recovery to next-day hangovers, it seems to take longer to recover from everyday activities once you’re over 40. But why? Researchers refer to this as “biological resilience,” which declines with age, largely due to the natural aging process and life’s stressors— work, busy schedules, parental duties, and yes, menopause! A Stanford study found that biological resilience takes a hit at two crucial points: age 44 and age 60. “When I hit my mid-forties, it felt like I got hit by a ton of bricks,” says Melissa Bianchino. “Suddenly, my joints started to hurt, I felt tired all the time, and I began gaining weight faster than ever.” Menopause is often blamed for these symptoms, but it’s only part of the story. Muscle loss significantly contributes to a declining metabolism. For every decade we age, we lose about 5 lbs of muscle mass if we aren’t doing strength training. Muscle is biologically active and helps keep your resting metabolism high. By our mid-forties, we may have lost almost 10 lbs of muscle, and the loss only accelerates from there. CONTINUED >

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Muscle loss is a major reason we feel weaker, gain weight, and experience fatigue. The good news is that you can reverse this through a proper diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and complex carbohydrates, along with strength training. According to the National Library of Medicine, strength training can also improve insulin sensitivity and help lower blood sugar and A1C levels. Strength training includes weight training, bodyweight exercises, and adequate recovery time between workouts. The National Health Service recommends 75–150 minutes of moderate to vigorous exercise over 4-5 days, with rest days between rigorous sessions for people over 40. Feeling better and more youthful starts with regular activity and a nutritious diet. Begin with a visit to your physician for a blood panel to establish baseline levels of cholesterol, A1C, blood pressure, and any additional profiles your doctor recommends. A hormone profile— including estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone levels—isn’t part of a routine blood panel, so be sure to request it! A healthier, more active lifestyle can have major positive impacts on these key health indicators. If you’re over 40 and have either never participated in strength training or haven’t exercised in a while, consider working with a local expert. Hiring a personal trainer and a nutritionist could be an excellent start to getting stronger, losing weight, increasing energy, and avoiding injury. We all age, but getting older doesn’t have to mean deterioration. The good news is that you can take back your health at any age and stave off some effects of aging by engaging in a healthier lifestyle.

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Nutrient-Rich Dessert To The Rescue ARTICLE BY MEL BOBAN

SWEETS The beginning of the year is packed with inspiration and motivation to get back on track after a sweet-filled holiday season. It can feel extreme, and it also can be depleting to cut oneself off from everything indulgent after weeks of eating favorite sweet and savory recipes. For sugar lovers who believe going cold-turkey feels intimidating or overwhelming, nutrition-packed desserts are a great way to stick to healthy food goals without the guilt.

This recipe is a classic favorite. If you cut the bars into 16 pieces, they are around 270 calories each. They are very filling, packed with healthy goodies and taste oh so delicious. If you can’t finish them yourself (it makes a lot!), bring samples along to your next workout class to share the love. Your accountability group will be asking you for the recipe! These come in handy for a quick breakfast on-the-go or an afternoon snack. You’ll want to taste these out of the oven once they cool a bit... simply scrumptious. Combine: • 1 cup wheat flour • 2 cups cooked quinoa, cooled • 2 cups oats • 2/3 cup of your choice of chopped nuts

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UC PAC Cabaret Performances UC Auditorium 1600 Martine Ave, Scotch Plains | 7:00 PM Come enjoy an evening of song, dance and entertainment featuring the talented students and alumni of Union Catholic Performing Arts Company on Saturday, January 11th and Sunday, January 12th! This production is created and produced by the student Executive Board of the UC Performing Arts Company. JA NUA RY 1 3T H

Union Catholic HS Athletic Prospects Open House UC Gymnasium 1600 Martine Ave, Scotch Plains | 6:00 PM Join Union Catholic HS as they host their Athletic Prospect Open House for middle-schoolers! This event offers prospective student-athletes an in-depth look at our sports programs, facilities, and team opportunities for all seasons. Meet coaches, learn about training, and discover how our community supports athletic and academic success. https://unioncatholic.fsenrollment.com/ portal/public_calendars/athletic_open_house JA NUA RY 1 8T H

Out Run Your Fork Grand Opening 500 Central Ave, Westfield | 10:00 AM — 2:00 PM Join Out Run Your Fork for the grand opening of their new space on Central Ave in Westfield. Enjoy snacks, drinks and giveaways and be the first to see the new facility. JA NUA RY 2 0 T H

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