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NOVEMBER 2021 PUBLISHER

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PARKER, WHAT ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR THIS YEAR? When we look around,

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If you’re coming up short, hopefully this issue will remind you of the thoughtful, kind and generous people we have living among us as our neighbors and friends. Read all about the ways our community comes together to help others. It always warms our hearts to see the myriad of ways in which Parker celebrates the holidays–as we reflect on our heritage and family traditions, enjoy bountiful feasts and give back to the community we call home.

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INSIDE THE ISSUE NOVEMBER 2021

FEATURES 18 Healing Hooves Operation Equine heals veterans, active service members, emergency responders, healthcare workers and their families one horse at a time.

26 Sammie’s Sunshine Offering a Raye of Hope Seat Belt Awareness and Beyond

30 Bringing Peace

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34 Living a Purposeful Life Ben Higgins of The Bachelor talks coffee, hope and humanity.

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Around Town

Local Experience

Giving Back

26 Hometown Hero 30 Locally Owned 34 Inspired By 40 Lifestyle Calendar

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OPERATION EQUINE HEALS VETERANS, ACTIVE DUTY SERVICE MEMBERS, EMERGENCY RESPONDERS, HEALTHCARE WORKERS AND THEIR FAMILIES ONE HORSE AT A TIME.

BRIGHT ORANGE RAYS FALL INTO THE BARN AS HORSES CHASE EACH OTHER IN A NEIGHBORING CORRAL. A devious, charcoal cat struts her way around the pasture, making sure visitors know who’s in charge. Some goats bleat in the background as chickens run around the yard. The sounds of a farm are relaxing and often help people let their guard down. At least, that’s according to Michelle Kaye, MA and LPC, Founder, Executive director and Lead Therapist for Operation Equine, an organization dedicated to serving those who serve through equine therapy. Michelle is the type of person that greets you with an enthusiastic wave and wide smile, even when meeting for the first time. Her passion is contagious and her dedication admirable. After years working as a Licensed Professional

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Counselor

with

kids,

Michelle

felt burnt out. It was during this stage of fatigue around 2008, that Michelle heard of a friend who had returned from being stationed in the Middle East. Like many other service members returning from overseas, her friend was hurting. Horses saved him. Because of her friend’s experience, Michelle knew her next project would be to return to the countryside and begin practicing equine therapy. With years of arduous work and persistence, Michelle founded

Operation

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January 2019 and earned a 501(c) (3),

non-profit classification

August 2019. Her mission through Operation Equine is to provide equine therapy for active military, veterans, emergency responders and healthcare workers. But why horses? In Michelle’s experience, the groups she helps are uncomfortable being vulnerable and are unlikely to share their thoughts with a therapist in an office. Service members and horses even have a lot in common. Horses are herd animals. Service members work in units, in teams. Let’s just say, they get each other. “Horses come from a place of zero judgment,” says Marie Hancock, owner and director of Colorado Equine Specialists. “They take you as you are. [Horses] are expert communicators and masters of nonverbal communication and relationships. They are intuitive and read non-verbal language.” Don Timmons, Gloria Timmons, and Michelle Kaye at Allegiance Ranch

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Marie says it like this: horses are 1,200 lb. lie detectors. About five years ago, Michelle met

about a potential partnership, we were ready for the opportunity.”

Marie during a military breakout session at an

Michelle also enlisted the help of Dave

EAGALA conference. They exchanged informa-

Fingers, a 10-year active duty, Army veteran.

tion and went on their way. It wasn’t until 2019

Dave is the co-founder of another veteran-fo-

when Michelle reached out to Marie for help,

cused organization, Veteran’s Passport to Hope.

hoping to use the Colorado Equine Specialist’s

He was also honored as Denver 7’s Everyday

farm as a stomping ground for Operation

Hero for his work at Operation Equine.

Equine. Michelle also partnered with Allegiance

“This is my way of giving back to the military

Ranch and Rescue, founded and operated by

community,” Dave states. On his harder days,

Gloria and Dan Timmons in Erie, Colorado.

even he makes sure to spend time with his

“Connecting with our veteran community

horse, Beau.

is our number one priority here at Allegiance

Dave and the rest of the Operation Equine

Ranch,” Gloria explains. “We strive to provide

team anticipate an increased need for therapy

a safe and welcoming place for veterans,

in the coming months with the 20th anniversary

active-duty military, first responders and their

of 9/11 and the U.S.’s exit from Afghanistan.

families.” to find release from everyday chal-

During a session, Michelle and other certi-

lenges. We intimately understand the power of

fied therapists to allow their clients to dictate

horses to heal... When Michelle approached us

where a session takes them. Some walk around CONTINUED >

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with the horses while the others are given challenges to complete. One challenge is setting up jumps for the horse. The client must assign difficulties they are having to each jump and lead the horse over them. Serving as a metaphor, the client is allowed to lower the jumps so that the horse can scale them easier—much like how life’s difficulties might not be as large as they seem. Those at Operation Equine have seen their fair share of the connection between horse and service member. Michelle remembers one Vietnam veteran who hadn’t told anyone about his experiences while deployed. It wasn’t until he had time alone with a horse that he felt safe enough to shed his emotions that had been bottled up for decades. “This is why we do what we do,” Marie describes. “When a person interacts with a horse for the first time, you see his or her head is held higher, the heart opens and the face softens. It is the goosebumps moment... It literally leaves you weeping.” The

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Fund

keeps

Operation Equine running. Clients are asked to donate if they can, but it’s not required. Michelle understands that therapy is expensive and wants to make it accessible to all income levels. Part of this accessibility is also providing equine therapy for family members of service members. “We serve the entire family because the entire family serves,” Michelle

says. “If you call them family, we call

she’d call someone the wrong rank or say

them family.” No proof of relatedness

the wrong thing. Now, she teaches military

is necessary.

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In the beginning of Operation Equine,

Through the team she’s built and work she’s

Michelle worried she didn’t have a right

done at Operation Equine, it’s safe to say

to be in the military space. She feared

she’s earned her place.

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school students. This is age when kids think they

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are invincible. We have been at the carnival at

day after her 15th birthday in July of 2020. Christy

Sagewood Middle School and spoken during health

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classes school too. High school tailgates are a great

looked back. Christy provides more insight on their

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mission and vision.

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SO FAR?

ones had been in car accidents in February of 2021

We have partnered with the Kailee Mills

and started the process of becoming a nonprofit

Foundation in Texas. Five families of accident victims

organization. We received our 501(c)(3) in August

have been helped. Four out of the five are still alive,

and three are still in the hospital. The first memorial

tremendous support from the Ponderosa Cheer

fundraiser in Parker where classmates, friends and

family, but also notes and gifts from Texas and

family remembered Sammie raised over $40,000.

all over the world. When I go to football games to

An adult gala will be held in November in Kansas

spread our message, I think, “My kid should be

City where we have family and Sammie’s cousins

cheering with those girls.”

live. Her cousin, AJ, organized a meeting with 15 kids, and the students are doing everything for the event, including serving, decorating, etc. Both events have silent and live auctions and will be held each year. I also did a video segment for CDOT on the importance of wearing seatbelts.

WHAT ARE THE GOALS FOR THE FUTURE? Our ultimate goal is to never turn a family away. Eventually we want to offer scholarships to students. We want to get more involved with schools on an ongoing basis and keep spreading seat belt aware-

HOW ARE PARTNERSHIPS IMPORTANT? We have partnered with schools, the Parker Police Department and the Donor Alliance.

ness by training student ambassadors. Our goal for our two major fundraisers each year is to raise over $100,000.

Sammie’s organs went to five different people. Honestly, all of the stories from kids who say, “I didn’t wear my seat belt before, but now I do,” are so rewarding to hear.

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girl that has been in the hospital for over 40 days.

want another family to through what we went through.

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FAMILIES OF CAR ACCIDENT VICTIMS?

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Working directly with the families. We had

and know that Sammie should be a junior too.

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won the contest.

loyal customer base.

“The entire process was such a special

“We create community,” Sarah attests.

thing to be involved with,” Stacey says. “We

“They see how we put things together and

fell in love with Lacretia and Dustin and their

they want to be a part of it.”

story. It was an honor to be part of their

“Customers often bring in photos of their kitchen or living space and ask us to create a centerpiece,” Stacey says.

journey. Destiny was such a precious part of their lives and heart.” Sarah and Stacey loaded up the van and

They suggest paint colors, furniture, lighting

drove to Alabama to create a memorial room,

and décor based on the homeowners’ prefer-

relaxing guest room and inviting deck. The

ences. Customers can decide what they want

crew from Todalen Marketing and Media

to keep after living with it for 24 hours.

joined the ID team to capture the emotion

The $10K Big Haul Giveaway was announced on ID Gathers and participants

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LOCALLY OWNED (CONTINUED) behind this story and transformation through videography. The angel wings and butterflies in the memorial room provide a soothing backdrop for healing. “This is going to bring us so much peace,” Lacretia says. The black and gold chairs in the guest room were inspired by the earrings Lacretia was wearing in her Big Haul Giveaway submission video. “The main reward for us as a team were the relationships that were made and for Lacretia and Dustin to feel blessed with beautiful new spaces that will bring comfort, healing and joy. It was a sweet time full of shared tears laughter and honoring a very special little girl’s life,” Stacey reflects. The ID Gathers Facebook page is a great way to get involved and learn more about next year’s giveaway and to enter. “Celebrating life, family and friends in an encouraging and beautiful way is what Interior Delights is all about and the first Big Haul Giveaway certainly delivered. “It’s quite remarkable that a space in your home can The guest room offers a tranquil retreat.

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have the power to do that. That was what our hope was for Lacretia and Dustin. It was certainly a delight to be a part of.”

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INSPIRED BY BEN HIGGINS TALKS COFFEE, HOPE & HUMANITY, AND WHAT IT MEANS TO BE THANKFUL

Living a Purposeful Life

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PROBABLY BEST KNOWN FOR BEING LEAD #20 IN THE

CL: ARE THERE THINGS YOU DO, OR MAN-

BACHELOR, THERE IS SO MUCH MORE TO BEN HIGGINS

TRAS YOU LIVE BY ON A DAILY BASIS?

THAN BEING ONE OF AMERICA’S REALITY TV SWEET-

BH: I don’t wake up going “today is going to be

HEARTS, SUCH AS HIS DEEP PASSION FOR MAKING

a good day.” I’ve found that some of the worst

MOVES TO “MULTIPLY GOOD IN THE WORLD.”

days have taught me the most. They’ve built

Since his time on The Bachelor, Ben has taken the opportu-

grit, character, resolve, and a story that will not

nity to use his fame to create not one, but two inspiring pod-

only help me, but allow me to be more empa-

casts, publish a successful autobiography, while also elevating

thetic and loving.

awareness of his “for-purpose” Generous Coffee brand. We sat

I did a speaking tour 4 years ago for high school

down with him (virtually) to reflect on all that he has accom-

students. At one moment during the speech I got

plished in this season of “thankfulness.”

emotional speaking about purpose; all of a sudden it was like this reeI of my life went through my

CL: WHAT DOES THE TERM ‘THANKFUL’ OR ‘GRATEFUL’

head where these little, small moments led me to

MEAN TO YOU?

that point in time to speak with this group.

BH: It may sound corny and cliche, but when I think of gratitude,

I try to sit in those moments daily and remem-

it’s an every day break to look at where my life sits and to be

ber the things that got me here, what I’ve learned

thankful for the friends and family around me and the things that

along the way that I can celebrate, and what

I am able to be a part of.

keeps me thankful.

We believe that people enjoy drinking life-changing coffee that has a story behind it over their regular cup of coffee.

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INSPIRED BY (CONTINUED) CL: TELL US ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE

When the show [The Bachelor] hap-

MOST PROUD OF OR INSPIRED BY?

pened, our fundraising increased 500%

BH: I’m proud that my podcast Hope Still

within a year and that was awesome, but

Wins and my book Alone in Plain Sight both

we also knew that it probably wasn’t going

play a part in getting resources for help to

to last. We asked ourselves how we can

those who need it. One of the ways I love to

make funding this non-profit more sustain-

connect with others is to connect them with

able, and we came up with the idea that we

stories of other people that I’ve been able to

could start a for-profit business and call

be a part of. For example, in my book I high-

ourselves “for-purpose.” The founders were

lighted a girl named Annie who was 23 and

financially-able enough to donate 100% of

had two weeks to live — she was dying from

our profits to nonprofits now that we had

cystic fibrosis when I interviewed her. I got

the platform to do it.

to talk to her about the end of life and what messages she would share. I’m often asked, ‘what is this whole thing about for you, what is your mission in all of

Plus, we believe that people enjoy drinking life-changing coffee that has a story behind it over their regular cup of coffee.

this?’ Selfishly, I just want to be a part of really cool stories that I believe are good and

CL: WHAT ARE YOUR

healing. And my filter on whether they are

RECOMMENDATIONS

good or not comes from my faith. I just want

FOR PEOPLE TO

to be a part of stories of loving others and

GIVE BACK IN THEIR

loving God well.

COMMUNITY? BH: At Generous we

CL: DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE LEGACY

have

YOU WANT TO LEAVE BEHIND?

investing

BH: I want to be known as someone who

human-facing injustice,

gave more than I took, as someone who

and we do that because

cared deeply for those around me and that

that was the thing that

loved others and God well. If I could choose

angered us the most.

always in

enjoyed fighting

the memories of my kids, grandkids, friends

I think everybody can

and family, it would be to remember that Ben

figure out what they can

People matter and have value. There’s a purpose for the life we are living and when people get out and care for others well the world is a better place. Stay curious; look left and right at the needs around you and use your impact to be a community maker. That’s the message I’d like to share.

lived a life where he loved others really, really

do in their local commu-

well and he sacrificed a lot to do that.

nities by asking the same question: What is it around me that makes me the angriest?

CL: HOW DID GENEROUS

Maybe it’s people without homes, maybe it’s

COFFEE BEGIN?

animals or the environment. What emotional

BH: The idea came in July of 2017 and we

pull is it? Go after that.

launched in January of 2018. When I was

There’s a purpose for the life we are living

15 years old I went to Central America; our

and when people get out and care for others

hearts were broken and eyes were opened

well the world is a better place. Stay curious;

to the lack of strategy behind mission and

look at the needs around you and use your

non-profit work.

impact to be a community maker. That’s the

My buddy who was also on that trip started a non-profit called Humanity & Hope United Foundation. The idea is that we can

message I’d like to share. Plus, you can do that sitting on your couch drinking a great cup of Generous Coffee.

ask people within these communities, how can we help? The goal was a partnership

With over 1.2mm Instagram followers, Ben Hig-

for perpetuity — to help them increase their

gins is co-founder of @generous_coffee_, au-

education programs, their healthcare, but be

thor of #AloneinPlainSight, host of @hopestill-

led by them.

wins, and co-host of @almost_famouspodcast.

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CLUE: THE MUSICAL

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You’re in for a night of laughs

dinners that families can prepare at

to life and invites the audience

when beloved Saturday Night Live

home, packaged in baskets/tubs/

to help solve the mystery: who

alums Jon Lovitz, Chris Kattan

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MOUNTAIN PINE YULETIDE BAZAAR

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WOMEN'S FORUM Closet Factory

Government Affairs Committee is proud

Enjoy a wide selection of hand

This monthly networking event is

to provide this Economic Update

crafted

foods,

for women of the Parker Chamber

Breakfast to help our members and

home decor, texture crafts, ceram-

of Commerce to learn about and

community prepare for 2022. The

ics and much more from over 100

support each other's businesses.

theme

Colorado artists and specialty ven-

Attendees are encouraged to bring

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business cards and marketing bro-

"Navigating

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jewelry,

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the County, and the State will share

chures. You are welcome to bring an

data and observations that will impact

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Parker's businesses in the coming year.

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not timed. Registered participants will receive commemorative fleece

mittens, race bib and hot cocoa, cider or coffee. $30 registration fee.

25 WINTER WINE WALK Downtown Parker

Start the holiday shopping season

with a special Winter Wine Walk, featuring wines and special holiday concoctions from more than two dozen

Downtown Parker merchants. Wrap yourself up, grab a special commemorative mug and enjoy friends the Friday before Thanksgiving.

26 MAYOR'S HOLIDAY LIGHTING

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