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The final weeks are upon us here in Oklahoma City. The leaves have changed and have fallen or are about to. Personally, autumn is my favorite time of year, as I tend to be reflective about the past year, with goals either accomplished or not achieved. Either way, it’s healthy to look back on one’s life as a new year creeps ever closer, and 2022 is soon in the history books. It’s also a time of being thankful – of thanking God for all of the many blessings we all have been given. Sure, there are rough times for all of us, but being thankful is so very important to living a balanced life. And in these pages, we are looking at giving and being thankful. Justin Nicholas, co-owner of the two Nic's Place locations in OKC, is thankful for all of the support he has received from the community each year and gives back with a meal at Thanksgiving. And talking to OU Sooners legend Dewey Selmon, days after a statue to him and his two brothers was unveiled at the university, "giving back" is what it is all about - you give love out to the world and love comes back to you. It's a simple concept, really. Something we should all try a little more in this uncertain world of ours.

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Back in 2015, Scotty and Ashley Jackson took a chance on crafting a new business – one that would be a sensory treat for those with a sweet tooth and a deep appreciation for genuine chocolate, caramel and assorted confections that are sought after the world over. Starting out on Campus Corner in Norman, the Jacksons saw continued interest and growth in their sticky, sweet and sugary delights. They have placed first in the annual Norman Chocolate Festival four times so far. The word is getting out about Apple Tree. The Oklahoma City store, at 1332 W. Memorial Road in the mixed-use, Chisholm Creek shopping center, opened in June 2020, as the pandemic was in full swing. But Ashley said she and her husband and Apple Tree crew buckled down and got through the worst of it. And now they are busy enough that this month they will be sending out catalogs for folks looking for holiday shopping ideas. “The caramel apples are what we are known for,” Ashley said. In the glass display case, the autumn-oriented treats were exceedingly enticing from Pumpkin Vanilla Swirl bars to Pumpkin Spice-flavored caramel apples, always a fall favorite. Ashley smiled as she explained that fall is her favorite season and her busiest. “We are gearing up for a lot of gift orders … and a lot of corporate orders. We get them early so we can make sure they get them in time.” And while 2021 was difficult in terms of supply chain issues, this year has been a lot better for both the Oklahoma City and Norman stores. It’s a relief that supply issues are returning to normal as the holiday season rapidly approaches. “There was a chocolate shortage in 2021 and that is difficult when your business is chocolate. But the chocolate is well represented, along with truffles, fudge, bark, and delicious strawberries dipped in, well, chocolate, of course!

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TO THE COAST AND BACK HILDEBRAND HOME DESIGNS COMES THROUGH FOR A BROTHER

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EDMOND — Being a home designer in the Oklahoma City area for 48 years Don Hildebrand has always liked the challenge of designing on a difficult lot or remodeling an existing home. One particular remodel for was his brother and sister-in-law, Dean and Jacque, in Pasadena, Maryland, a small town just outside of Annapolis. The house was a small summer home built in 1913 for people that lived in Baltimore. The home had amazing potential with a view of Grey's Creek, which flows into Chesapeake Bay.

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A view of the house's kitchen.

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The original home had a living room, three bedrooms, a bath, and an enclosed porch on the main level. The basement level included the kitchen which provided one of the coolest spots in the house. This also provides for easy access to the water. Don's remodel plan moved the kitchen to the main floor where an original bedroom was located. The enclosed porch became the dining area with views to the water. A wrap-around stair was added to the side of the house to provide access to the basement and a new master suite on an added upper level. Both Dean and Jacque noted how amazed they were when Don flew out and his design was seamlessly incorporated into the existing house. After all, Don Hildebrand has become known for his love of Frank Lloyd Wright's Prairie Style of architecture. Hildebrand even channeled Wright in the design of his own home located in Edmond's Autumn Ridge neighborhood. Dean and Jacque spent over a decade in Maryland before moving back to Oklahoma. Their new home is currently under construction with Don doing the design/build for them. Talking to Dean and Jacque Hildebrand, OKC City Lifestyle learned that over the dozen years that they lived in Maryland, they loved the environment near Chesapeake Bay. And buying and remodeling this house was a wonderful experience. But since moving back, Dean admits to having second thoughts about having sold it, as it is simply gorgeous inside and out, thanks to his brother Don's designs. "I know there's a thing called buyer's remorse," Dean said. "But in the case of this particular house, I have seller's remorse." Visit donhildebrandhomedesigns.com.

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“It’s just business; it’s not personal.” Running multiple companies over the years, I have heard this said more times than I could count. From people, I’ve had the pleasure of leading to those telling me of a perceived wrong by another person in their life. About a month ago, I began to ponder this phrase: is it just business, or is it personal? I have concluded that in many cases, it’s a business decision that one knows will affect someone else personally. Someone justifies it by adding the phrase, “It’s just business; it’s not personal.” Following down this rabbit hole of thought, I was led to the words, “The love of money is the root of all evil.” Who would say they love money? No one I know. They may say they like money. They may say they like what money can do. But “I love money.” No, I have never heard someone actually say they love money (outside of joking). Maybe because it’s almost taboo to say I love money and mean it. Yet, does “its business, not personal” show and say just that? Follow me on this thought. If you make a financial decision that affects someone close to you personally, did you choose money over that relationship? I’m speaking directly to instances where the business decision ends or deeply hurts the personal relationship. In such cases, I wonder, was it worth it in the long run? Did the financial rewards of the business decision outweigh the loss on a personal level? In cases where I made the decision, I can say no; it was not worth it. Looking back at friendships lost, definitely not worth the financial gain weighed against the personal loss. On one such occasion where I made a business decision that affected a personal relationship, I had the opportunity to make amends and learn a lesson in friendship. My friend called me and said, “I understand why you made that decision, but that decision hurt me.”. We discussed it for a time, and by the end of the conversation, I asked my friend for forgiveness and later undid that business decision as best I could. Thankfully we remain good friends still to this day. So I leave you with this if you find yourself needing to say, “It’s business, not personal,” ask yourself first, “Am I choosing to love money over the love for another person?”

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A few years ago, Jesse and Katy Wells visited a Christmas tree farm to pick out a beautiful specimen that would take center stage in their home through the holiday season. While there, a seed was planted in both of their minds. After loading the tree and heading toward home, the couple discovered the visit had sparked the same idea for both: why not start up their own Christmas tree farm?

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Jesse and Katy Wells are owners of Wells Christmas Tree Farm.

Jesse confesses neither had any real idea what all is involved in establishing a business and specifically a tree-growing business. But once decided, they never wavered. The couple, who in 2014 had bought a home on 12 acres of land off Franklin Road, located in the northeast part of Norman, already had the “where”; now they needed to answer the “when” and “how”. By February 2015, Jesse and Katy began planning in earnest. They conducted research on types of trees that will grow in Oklahoma and starting a business, and they joined the Oklahoma Christmas Tree Association, where they found like-minded individuals who generously shared information and supported and mentored the couple. (Jesse rotated off as president of the organization last year.) They started by planting two kinds of trees, but only one, the Virginia pine, flourished. “We really didn’t have a clue, even with all the reading and research,” Jesse said. “We found you have to experience everything firsthand to really understand it. There’s a five-year crop rotation, and each of those years was a new learning experience.” The couple launched their first Christmas tree sale in 2017, before their own trees had reached maturity, offering pre-cut trees from other northern states. They sold some 400 trees that first year. Along the way, Jesse and Katy discussed ways they could grow their business and begin building a new holiday tradition in their community. In 2018, Jesse and Katy started what was to become an annual event: an “under the stars” viewing of National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation. Despite the cold, some 125 people showed up. This year’s movie weekend is set for Nov. 12 and 13 at 4:30 p.m.; Christmas Vacation will be shown on the 12th, Elf on the 13th. In 2019 they launched Christmas Market at the Farm; the event, held in October, was a hit and is now an annual offering. This year’s market has grown like everything else they do. The farm was abuzz with over 60 vendors selling everything from holiday decor and apparel to sugar cookies and cocoa bombs, food trucks, two music acts, a magician and pet adoptions. With around 2,000 visitors during their one-day market, it just proves they are well on the way to establishing that new holiday tradition in their community. This year, the Wells have amped up their offerings. The farm opens the day after Thanksgiving at 10 a.m. This year, they will have some 300 of their own trees for sale, along with different varieties of pre-cut trees for a total of 1,600 trees. CONTINUED >

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They have also become the experts on delivering large trees to local businesses. This year, they have secured a 52’ White Fir for Selah’s Christmas celebration, along with several trees over 20’ tall. In addition to the Christmas trees, tree stands and lights, the farm has many beautiful live fresh wreaths and garlands. The farm also operates a gift shop during the holidays, where visitors can buy Wells Christmas Tree Farm merchandise as well as other items, many suitable for holiday giving, and Christmas decorations. You will find everything you need to start off your holiday season. In addition, people may book the farm for small special events throughout the year. Noting that the farm is truly a husbandand-wife effort, Jesse said they just continue “to follow our hearts and trust God will get us through—whether we get it right or wrong! “We had to learn everything, from growing trees to supply chain issues, to marketing and special events, and more. But we are blessed with a huge community of supporters who we see more as an extended family rather than just customers.” Jesse and Katy keep an eye out for other ways they can help their extended family. For example, when a friend of theirs from church mentioned they had a car to give away and was looking for someone in need of one, the couple contacted Food & Shelter to help identify someone. They then invited the woman out to the farm on the pretext of letting her select a tree for free. When she arrived, she was presented with the free tree—and the car.

In another instance, when another woman called asking about the price of a tree for her and her nine adopted and foster children, they gave her the tree for free and even had other friends donate cash to help them with their Christmas expenses. The couple, who both have other “day” jobs—he’s in Devon Energy’s IT department she’s an instructor at Stoic Strength and Fitness in Norman—also give of their time and money to their church (Victory Family Church), their son Luke’s school (Community Christian) and various philanthropic causes, including Bridges in Norman and Possibilities in Oklahoma City, as well as several organizations that help addicts and alcoholics in recovery. Jesse additionally serves on the Robin Hill School board. Looking to the future, Jesse remarked: “We always go back to our start, and as we mentioned our ‘where’, ‘when’ and ‘how,’ our most important question is always our ‘why’ we do what we do. Our purpose and desire is to continue to honor God and try to live a life of service, to give back to our community, and to stay focused on that and not get too tied up in the future. Our immediate business goal is to make the farm the best experience that it can be every time you visit. We want it to be a true “Hallmark” experience, complete with live Christmas music, Santa, hot chocolate, apple cider and pumpkin cookies. Ultimately, our audacious goal is to do for our community what someone like the Gaines have done with Magnolia in Waco.”

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THE SELMON BROTHERS Legendary Sooners Defensive Linemen Sculptures Unveiled

ARTICLE BY ANDREW GRIFFIN The Selmon Brothers statue unveiled at University of Oklahoma in September.

The anticipation was palpable when the University of Oklahoma unveiled the three statues of legendary Sooners defensive linemen Lucious, Dewey and Lee Roy Selmon. “We are moved by your presence and your commitment and your love,” said Dewey Selmon prior to the unveiling, which took place outside the Gaylord Family–Oklahoma Memorial Stadium on the OU Norman campus Sept. 24 prior to OU’s game against the Kansas State Wildcats. Complete with confetti and cheers from Sooner Nation, Dewey and Lucious were there; their third brother—Lee Roy— was there only in spirit; he died in 2011. Lucious, who was an OU All-American in 1973, recalled growing up in Eufaula, Oklahoma, playing football in the yard and then going to OU and playing for the Sooners. “To say I’m happy to be here is an understatement,” Lucious said, adding that he hopes the statues will inspire the next generation of athletes. Ending on an inspirational note, Lucious said, “Just be willing to be consistent and give it your best, and who knows what can happen.” Lee Roy’s son, Lee Roy Jr., was present on the stage with his legendary uncles, whose towering likenesses are cast in 7,000 pounds of bronze. “They were hard-hitting, powerful defense,” said Lee Roy Jr. “The opposition never knew what hit them, didn’t have a way to prepare for them.” Cheers erupted as he shared these words. “This statue here means so much to me. It means so much to my uncles. I’m so proud of them and the accomplishments that they have made, not only on the field—the blood, sweat and tears—but in the classroom as well, and excelled,” Lee Roy Jr. said. Present at the event were former Oklahoma Sooners coaches Bob Stoops and Barry Switzer, along with Heisman Trophy winner Steve Owens and many other Sooner legends. Switzer, who coached the Selmon brothers in the early-tomid 1970s, took the lectern, proudly wearing a T-shirt featuring

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the Selmons in their Sooner football glory, noting how amazing they were: “When they played, we won 54 games, only lost three and tied one.” Under Switzer, the Selmon brothers made history when all three were named as starters on the Sooner defensive line. Dewey, speaking about his late brother, who succumbed to the effects of a stroke 11 years ago, said that Lee Roy always made eye contact and was quick with a hug. He added that if Lee Roy was there today, he would say the statue unveiling “was not about him, it was about you.”

GIVING BACK Days later, I spoke with Dewey Selmon, who lives in Norman with his wife, Kathryn. The couple met when he was graduating in 1977 and she was a sophomore journalism major. The statue unveiling ceremony was “great,” he said. “Just a lot of love from a lot of people.” Dewey, now approaching the age of 69, often talks of this love and support which he and his family have received over the years from so many. It is only natural for it to be reciprocal—to give back, after having received so much. “When it comes to giving back, it goes back to our farm days in Eufaula—myself, Lucious and Lee Roy,” Dewey said. “We started playing football there, and the people there, in town, supported us. Coach Paul Bell taught us. “[We’re] coming into the Thanksgiving season, surrounded by people and their generosity … and people who have a love for God. It’s a reminder that we were three country boys who, through a sport, were given the opportunity to come to Oklahoma University. And a whole new world explodes …” It’s clear in talking to Dewey Selmon that he is overwhelmed by the love and generosity he and his brothers and family have received since those glory days on the OU football field, so many years ago. [Andrew Griffin is editorial coordinator for OKC Lifestyle.]

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• Build a menu around the season. “In November, people crave turkey, sage stuffing and cranberry sauce,” Chef Kyle says. “Autumn dinners mean bigger-course meals with varied proteins, like turkey, duck and sirloin, hearty starches, and good fall produce, especially root vegetables such as butternut squash and pumpkin.” • Always greet guests with a beverage and appetizers. “Offer champagne for wine-lovers or a sparkling drink or signature cocktail. It’s all about serving guests to the highest caliber,” Kyle says. • Draw inspiration from the season’s changing colors, cooler temps and lower humidity to move back outdoors. “Think flannel blankets, wooden tables, fire pits, open grills, string lights and candles to create a really cool environment you haven’t been able to do all summer.” • “You can’t go wrong with fresh flowers,” Hannah says, “but keep bouquets low to not interfere with conversation flowing. For fall, I like richer, jewel-toned florals to mix and match and keep whimsical. I vary glass vases with burnished brass for warm fall vibes.” • An easy but thoughtful detail is to put a simple menu at each place setting, so guests know what to expect. “Add a pen, so guests can jot tasting notes, especially for wine pairings or multiple courses,” Hannah says. “Guests can share comments, then take the menu home as a sweet reminder of the event.” • Follow the French principle of mise en place or everything in place before your event. “This is actually our company’s name,” Kyle says. “It’s that important to us. Make sure the wines are all open, cocktails are pre-made, place settings are out, candles are lit and music is playing. When guests arrive, it gives that wow-factor and shows you intentionally made them feel special.” • To build confidence as a host, start small and practice. “Keep the menu and guest list small,” Kyle says. “Choose recipes you already have confidence in. If you make a great Beef Stroganoff, then go with that. People will love it!” • As fun as it is to dine outside, always have an indoors back-up plan. “We’ve had to bring it indoors before,” Hannah says. “It’s still fun.”

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Oklahoma City Go Red For Women

MEIN DER S HALL OF MIRROR S / C I V I C C E NT E R MUS I C H A L L / 20 1 N. WA L K E R AV E . | 1 :0 0 P M The American Heart Association’s signature women’s initiative, Go Red for Women, is a comprehensive platform designed to increase women’s heart health awareness and serve as a catalyst for change to improve the lives of women globally. It’s no longer just about wearing red; it’s no longer just about sharing heart health facts. And it's happening here in Oklahoma City. NOV E M BE R 5T H

OKC Renaissance and Scottish Festival

O KC FAIRG ROUN DS | 10:00 AM Aye, there'll be jousts and jests, fairies and pirates, Vikings and vagabonds, minstrels and magicians, fire breathers and falconry, kings and queens, dancers and daredevils, turkey legs and always great family fun. This will be an International Highland Games Federation-sanctioned event featuring some of the best athletes in the country. The OKC Renaissance and Scottish Festival is always fun. NOV E M BE R 1 1 T H

Bourbon and Blues

T HE N ATION AL, AUTOG RAPH C O L L E C T I O N / 1 20 N. R O B I NS O N AV E . | 5 :0 0 P M The Folds of Honor Oklahoma Chapter cordially invites you to join us for a special night of music and bourbon tasting in Oklahoma City on Friday, November 11th, at the newly renovated First National Building. It is Bourbon and Blues and will feature music from Drake White; 5 Buffalo Trace bourbons for tasting and a full meal to pair with.

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Turnpike Troubadours at the Paycom Center

PAYCOM CEN TER / 100 W. R E NO AV E . | 7 :0 0 P M Oklahoma's very own Red Dirt music superstars - The Turnpike Troubadours - straight out of Tahlequah, will be playing to home state fans at the Paycom Center where you'll hear everything from "Bossier City" to their cover of Ozark Mountain Daredevils' song "Black Sky," featured on the Oklahoma-set series "Reservation Dogs." This is a show you don't want to miss! NOV E M BE R 1 9 T H

Oddities and Curiosities Expo

OKLAHOMA CITY CON VENT I O N C E NT E R / 1 0 0 MI C K C O R NE T T DR . | 1 0 :0 0 A M The traveling Oddities and Curiosities Expo Show showcases hand-selected vendors, dealers, artists and small businesses from all over the country with all things weird. Folks will find items such as: taxidermy, preserved specimens, original artwork, horror/ Halloween-inspired pieces, antiques, handcrafted oddities, quack medical devices, creepy clothing, odd jewelry, animal skulls/bones, funeral collectibles & much more. NOV E M BE R 2 0 T H

Oklahoma Bridal and Wedding Expo

OKC FAIRG ROUN DS , THE PAV I L L I O N/ 321 2 WI C H I TA WA L K | 1 :0 0 P M Congratulations on your engagement! Now the whirlwind of wedding planning begins. It's okay to feel a little overwhelmed. All brides-to-be dream about "The Big Day," but many don't know where, when and how to start. That is where the Oklahoma Bridal and Wedding Expo comes in, helping couples with bridal gowns, bridal showers, florists and so much more!

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GIVING BACK TO THE COMMUNITY Top Burger Joint Dishes Out Turkey and Stuffing, Too

Nic's Place Diner & Lounge is at 1116 N. Robinson Avenue in downtown OKC.

The Thanksgiving dinner at Nic's has become popular over the years.

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OKLAHOMA CITY – When it comes to a tasty hamburger, there are few places better than Nic’s Grill in Oklahoma City’s Ten-Penn District and at Nic’s Place Diner and Lounge located downtown at 1116 N. Robinson Avenue. But owner Justin Nicholas has embraced a tradition of giving back to the community during the Thanksgiving holiday. “I’ve always looked out for others,” he said, noting that giving back to the community that has supported him for so long Nicholas, known to most as “Nic,” opened his small grill back in 1997, when that area of town had seen better days. But his free Thanksgiving dinner attracted a large following. Now, he has to charge for his holiday meal. And with help from his mother, Dena Dellinger, along with co-owner Jovon Bunkley, and the staff at Nic’s, folks can get a traditional Thanksgiving meal. “Oh, it’s traditional with the turkey, green beans, stuffing and a roll,” Nicholas said. “I think it’s pretty good every year.”

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